WEBVTT - I Hate My Job! What Do I Do Now?

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, we came to slay get into that

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<v Speaker 1>I liked. So I'm feeling like a little nostalgia because

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<v Speaker 1>you know, we're two years almost in like what a

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<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks, right.

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<v Speaker 2>It feels just yesterday we were doing more one year

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<v Speaker 2>anniversary with cupcakes with our face on it and everything.

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<v Speaker 2>I can't believe it's been two years.

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<v Speaker 1>I know we have to decide, we have to figure

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<v Speaker 1>out what we're gonna do. But I know one thing

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<v Speaker 1>we're gonna do. We're going to be you guys will

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<v Speaker 1>see some different visuals soon, and we're gonna be switching days.

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<v Speaker 1>So typically the podcast comes out on Tuesday morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Right, get correct, And so.

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<v Speaker 1>We're going to be switching to Wednesday morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Brian Ambition Wednesday. Hashtag Broan Ambition Wednesday. We are telling

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<v Speaker 2>you guys now, so you can't tell us you didn't

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<v Speaker 2>know what's happening in the world. This is going to

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<v Speaker 2>be taking place the week of September thirteenth, I believe

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<v Speaker 2>so in a couple with two three more weeks. Officially

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<v Speaker 2>Brian Ambition, hitting your podcast, hitting your iPhone, your smartphone

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<v Speaker 2>in the morning on Wednesday, just one just one day later,

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<v Speaker 2>day later. Why, because we're the bosses and we decide.

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<v Speaker 1>A little things up. I feel like we haven't had

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<v Speaker 1>like a regular show in so long.

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<v Speaker 2>It's been two weeks.

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<v Speaker 1>It's been so long.

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<v Speaker 2>It's always nice to get back in the groove.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, especially so do you You know you said you

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<v Speaker 1>don't watch Game of Thrones? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Excuse me? You do dust fish, swim and water.

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<v Speaker 1>It's my life something crazy, But I mean, I don't watch.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not gonna know what any is.

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<v Speaker 2>You see the same thing last episode. It's such a

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<v Speaker 2>tease because I was like, wait, she asked me the

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<v Speaker 2>same thing, and I was like, yes, I do, and

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<v Speaker 2>You're like, well, I don't watch it.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm like everybody was like, oh my god, game

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<v Speaker 1>what throws? I can't believe that happened. So I kind

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<v Speaker 1>of want to know what the thing was, even though

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know what the words mean.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, you need to do the work. Do you have

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<v Speaker 2>seventy five hours of life? Because you need to go

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<v Speaker 2>back from the beginning and watch every episode and catch up. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, it was a season. It was a season finale,

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<v Speaker 2>and it was a pretty It wasn't as stressful, I'll

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<v Speaker 2>say as a penultimate episode. I would would not be

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<v Speaker 2>surprised if I had a noise complaint from my neighbors,

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<v Speaker 2>because I was like that squealing and like screaming and stuff.

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<v Speaker 2>It's highly stressful. It's so stressful that because they're like,

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<v Speaker 2>at this point in the season, this isn't spoiling anything

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<v Speaker 2>for you if you ever decide to watch it, but

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<v Speaker 2>like everybody dies, and so by the end of it,

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<v Speaker 2>like we are really down to the final fhaves, like

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<v Speaker 2>these are the people you really care about, and at

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<v Speaker 2>any minute one of them could die, and it is

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<v Speaker 2>just ridiculous how much of a like, how much stress

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<v Speaker 2>and how much anxiety you get from it. I'm actually

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<v Speaker 2>kind of I'm relieved that it's over for the season

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<v Speaker 2>because I can't take it anymore. I really can't. It

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<v Speaker 2>messes me all up.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I was like what because I just heard so

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<v Speaker 1>many people say, oh my god, I gave my throat

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm like, what, what what? My best friend Ranna

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<v Speaker 1>was like, girl, you don't even watch. I'm like, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but it seems like everybody's ribs up and I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to see.

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<v Speaker 2>You're just peeking over the fence. You're like, I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>sit at the cool table. But what ch'all got going

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<v Speaker 2>on over there? I heard' got good? Snacks?

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<v Speaker 1>EXACTLY i want some.

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<v Speaker 2>Snacks, no you made your. Choice oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>Gosh, ooh so have you ever been to a dinner

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<v Speaker 1>dinner En.

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<v Speaker 2>BLANC i don't know what is.

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<v Speaker 1>That it's one of those. DINNERS i think it started In,

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<v Speaker 1>paris but now it's all around the world where LIKE

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<v Speaker 1>i gut racist a white. Dinner, well everybody wears all.

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<v Speaker 2>White thanksgiving up my mom's, house she makes you wear all.

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<v Speaker 2>White notice everyone is. White oh, well.

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<v Speaker 1>Everybody wears all. White but, Anyway newark. Had it's not

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<v Speaker 1>a dinner on block because you have to LIKE i,

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<v Speaker 1>guess it's almost Like ted And TED x and we were, like,

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<v Speaker 1>no we're just gonna Have. Newark so this is the

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<v Speaker 1>second year and it was so much fun this. Weekend

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<v Speaker 1>oh my. Gosh, oh so you were all.

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<v Speaker 2>White but then it's, like WHEN i think of, THAT

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<v Speaker 2>i think About Puff daddy's.

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<v Speaker 1>Party, well, NO i, mean, well the En bloc one

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<v Speaker 1>is very. Flency from What i've. Heard you have to

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<v Speaker 1>bring even your own tables and, chairs and they tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what size your tables and. Chairs have to. Be

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<v Speaker 1>it's not.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy, wait how is that? Fancy when you got to

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<v Speaker 2>bring your own tables and? Chairs my dad's, NO i

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<v Speaker 2>don't look.

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<v Speaker 1>OUT i know, Right, NO i don't. Know, HONESTLY i

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<v Speaker 1>don't get. It BUT i heard they're really like. Dope

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<v Speaker 1>BUT i was, like, Whatever So newark hosts its Own

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<v Speaker 1>newark under The stars and we get to wear all

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<v Speaker 1>oh sounds of the. City you hear the, sirens and

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<v Speaker 1>so we get to wear all. White and it was

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<v Speaker 1>their second year and it was just so much. Fun

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<v Speaker 1>THE dj was, awesome after, Beats caribbean, music just all

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<v Speaker 1>kinds of. Music very little millennial, music WHICH i was, like, yes.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait wait what millennial music as a?

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<v Speaker 1>Genre well that's WHAT i just, call, like you, know

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<v Speaker 1>the new rap Where i'm, LIKE i don't really understand

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<v Speaker 1>any of these words or why this music is. Popping

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<v Speaker 1>so a new, Rap i'm, like give me my, old

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<v Speaker 1>my old school GENERATION x. Music it was just such

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<v Speaker 1>a good time and it WAS i would say a

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<v Speaker 1>few Hundred it seemed like a few hundred. People it was.

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<v Speaker 1>Huge if you guys want to take a look at

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<v Speaker 1>some of the, pics if you go to Hashtag newark

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<v Speaker 1>under the. Stars but it was such a good time

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<v Speaker 1>and it was just nice to See newark in a different.

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<v Speaker 1>Light you. Know it was like no, trouble no, fiday no,

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<v Speaker 1>fussing no, nothing just good food because so you bar,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah well you bring your own. Food they do sell like,

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<v Speaker 1>liquor so you can buy like wine by the, bottle

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<v Speaker 1>and then you bring your own table, settings so everyone

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<v Speaker 1>like kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like like a picnic.

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<v Speaker 1>Style, Yeah and, honestly it's really a lot of fun

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<v Speaker 1>because you get to really express yourself through your table.

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<v Speaker 1>Settings so some people go all out and then people

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<v Speaker 1>like had simple table settings and some people just it's just,

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<v Speaker 1>honestly was just a really good.

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<v Speaker 2>Time oh, Here i'm looking On. Facebook there was one

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<v Speaker 2>on uh In New YORK. Dc so it seems like

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<v Speaker 2>every city has like a DINNER i didn't. HEAR i

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know about. This is it like supposed to Be

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<v Speaker 2>is it like secret not?

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<v Speaker 1>Secret, yeah so you're supposed to like the way you

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<v Speaker 1>have the way dinner On blanc, Works so it's like

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<v Speaker 1>not just everybody could, come like IT'S i don't, know

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<v Speaker 1>you have to like sign. Up the waiting listens like two.

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<v Speaker 1>Years did you get a secret email about the secret

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<v Speaker 1>email about another secret, email And i'm, like or you

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<v Speaker 1>can just buy tickets To NewYork under The.

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<v Speaker 2>Stars oh So New york under The stars is like it's, like.

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<v Speaker 3>Uh it was like, hey right link and oh.

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<v Speaker 2>AND i see you at.

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<v Speaker 1>EXACTLY i, mean what was cute about it is that

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<v Speaker 1>like like half an hour hour, Beforehand i'll let you

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<v Speaker 1>know what the location. Is so the location is secret

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<v Speaker 1>until like the last.

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<v Speaker 2>Minute oh hm hmmmterest. Thing that's, Fun yeah it. IS

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<v Speaker 2>i had the craziest this is thirty day. Yesterday what

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<v Speaker 2>happened was it's like everybody and their mother decided to

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<v Speaker 2>plan all their events on the last weekend Of august

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<v Speaker 2>because they're, like, Oh Labor day is coming. Up you,

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<v Speaker 2>KNOW i just got SO i had three things yesterday

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<v Speaker 2>and they were all, like don't you hate it when

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<v Speaker 2>it's all a list of, Things, like you really. Can't

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<v Speaker 2>this doesn't happen to me all that. Often but in

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<v Speaker 2>the early, afternoon my, cousin my new, Cousin, michelle had

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<v Speaker 2>a bridal shower THAT i had to go, to had

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<v Speaker 2>to go to love. Her and immediately after, that my

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<v Speaker 2>husband was becoming a godfather at his cousin's daughter's, baptism

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<v Speaker 2>so obviously had to go to. That but that was

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<v Speaker 2>like happening in the middle of the bridal. Shower and

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<v Speaker 2>then my best, friend one of my best, friends had

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<v Speaker 2>a baby shower in the middle of the bridal. Shower

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<v Speaker 2>SO i was, LIKE i needed her Minde granger's time

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<v Speaker 2>turn or if you watch, her like, SERIOUSLY i MEAN

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<v Speaker 2>I i and like we were talking a little bit

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<v Speaker 2>earlier about what it's like when you when you have

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<v Speaker 2>to like stack events and you have to divide your

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<v Speaker 2>attention between all this stuff and you're running around like

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<v Speaker 2>a mad, person like and you want to give LIKE

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<v Speaker 2>i really wanted to give everyone one hundred percent of

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<v Speaker 2>my attention and like my time on my. Focus BUT

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<v Speaker 2>i was sitting there AND i was, Like, okay it's two.

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<v Speaker 2>Fifteen IF i leave, NOW i have fifteen. MINUTES i

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<v Speaker 2>can get, THERE i can find. Parking that's. Cool, okay

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<v Speaker 2>baby was, baptized she got the water on the. Head

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<v Speaker 2>CAN i leave now as a? Priest? Done, okay there's

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<v Speaker 2>four more, kids But i'm just gonna sneak out the,

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<v Speaker 2>back like and by the TIME i got AND i

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<v Speaker 2>was doing pretty good until because all the two first

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<v Speaker 2>events for one was in the Was Washington. Heights the

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<v Speaker 2>second one was an upper west, side so that wasn't so.

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<v Speaker 2>Bad but THEN i had to go To jersey ough

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<v Speaker 2>like get back across the, bridge go To North, jersey

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<v Speaker 2>and of, course of course ways let me down and

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<v Speaker 2>sent me completely like seventeen miles in the wrong, direction and,

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<v Speaker 2>ah AND i slid into home plate like at the

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<v Speaker 2>baby shower at four fifty nine and it ended at

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<v Speaker 2>five and they but you, know thankfully they were running

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<v Speaker 2>a little. Over BUT i just like got in there

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<v Speaker 2>AND i had my last, life you, know thirty minutes

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<v Speaker 2>of the, events and it was it was, exhausting. EXHAUSTING

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<v Speaker 2>i can don't go any.

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<v Speaker 1>Place people, know it's not THAT i.

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<v Speaker 2>Can't you can't miss these, things like BUT i, mean

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<v Speaker 2>and this is partially like two of those, events and

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<v Speaker 2>wouldn't even it's just from having NOW i have two

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<v Speaker 2>families suit AND i love my husband's family a, Lot

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<v Speaker 2>so IT'S i don't, KNOW i can want to be.

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<v Speaker 2>EVERYWHERE i don't regret, it BUT i also FELT i

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<v Speaker 2>been that person where you're, at LIKE i don't know

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<v Speaker 2>whether it's a happy hour like a networking, event or

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<v Speaker 2>even just like a work event or a friend like

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<v Speaker 2>a friend's birthday party or, something and you're talking to

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<v Speaker 2>someone and you see their eyes shifting and you see

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<v Speaker 2>their attention being pulled somewhere. Else AND i always feel

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<v Speaker 2>so shitty when that happens to. Me AND i hated

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<v Speaker 2>it because YESTERDAY i was that. PERSON i was, like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>yeah what's what's happening with your? Life you have four

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<v Speaker 2>seconds to tell me BECAUSE i have to. Run AND

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<v Speaker 2>i ran to the baby shower and it was like

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<v Speaker 2>it was the very, end like they were just revealing

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<v Speaker 2>the winters of the baby food guessing game or, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>AND i was just, like threw my stuff, down got,

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<v Speaker 2>it get a, picture get the, snampcheck get The instagram

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<v Speaker 2>PROVE i was. Here let's take a group. Photo and

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<v Speaker 2>yet a peek so. BAD i did not build any pea.

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<v Speaker 2>Breaks and in my, DAY i was so. Thirsty it

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<v Speaker 2>was it was, noo you.

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<v Speaker 1>Have to do the. PROOF i was. Here hey how are? You?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh like you look so? Pretty you're like she saw,

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<v Speaker 1>me she saw? Me, okay, yeah that's WHERE i have

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<v Speaker 1>like two friends Because I'M i can't there's too many,

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<v Speaker 1>events like my mom was like her birthday was? On

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<v Speaker 1>was It? Friday and she, said, so what day will

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<v Speaker 1>you guys be coming to the. House i'm, like for?

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<v Speaker 1>What because we don't do like birthday parties. Anymore she

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<v Speaker 1>says for my. Birthday i'm, like, mommy what are you like?

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<v Speaker 1>Fifteen you? KNOW i was, LIKE i MEAN i. Can't we'll,

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<v Speaker 1>come but like we haven't done like when we were,

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<v Speaker 1>kids we would have these little faux birthday. PARTIES i

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<v Speaker 1>guess she's feeling. Sentimental so we came to the house

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<v Speaker 1>On sunday and she was, Like i've been waiting For i'm.

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<v Speaker 1>Starving i'm, like you didn't. Eat she's, LIKE i just

0:10:54.760 --> 0:10:56.160
<v Speaker 1>figured you guys were going to do. Something i'm, like

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<v Speaker 1>what is this impromptu party you're? Forcing?

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<v Speaker 2>OH i hate when parents do. That they're, like, WELL

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<v Speaker 2>i thought you would do it like you should know

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<v Speaker 2>you're my, daughter And.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm, like. Uh so we fought a awkward like do

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<v Speaker 1>you want me to wear To chinese food or? Something

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, No and that was, LIKE i MEAN i

0:11:11.480 --> 0:11:14.199
<v Speaker 1>brought her flowers and she wanted some purse that we got,

0:11:14.200 --> 0:11:15.960
<v Speaker 1>her and of course money because my mom was always

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<v Speaker 1>like save the. Gifts i'll take the cash. Over so,

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<v Speaker 1>yeah she's always been even as. KIDS i just, Like,

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<v Speaker 1>mommy LOOK i made, you, like you, know a porcupine

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<v Speaker 1>from a. Rock she's, like, yeah ask your dad to

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<v Speaker 1>give you money to give to. Me oh my. Goodness i'm,

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<v Speaker 1>like what that? Is my mom through and through, like

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<v Speaker 1>oh that's so. Nice did your daddy give you anything

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<v Speaker 1>to give to? Me something to? Fold? PERHAPS i was,

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<v Speaker 1>LIKE i don't, KNOW i can.

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<v Speaker 2>Ask she's like kind of tapping the card before she opens.

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<v Speaker 2>It mm.

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<v Speaker 1>No but it was a good weekend, though and just

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<v Speaker 1>the hectic, one but it was definitely a good.

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<v Speaker 2>Weekend, YEAH i can't complain. Honestly at, least it's better

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<v Speaker 2>to have great family and friends than to. Not BUT

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<v Speaker 2>i was but, YEAH i JUST i don't. KNOW i

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<v Speaker 2>Guess i'll have to. Said this is in my life moving.

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<v Speaker 2>Forward i'm already stressed out about the, holidays LIKE i.

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<v Speaker 1>Know honestly for, real LIKE i probably. Have let me, see,

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<v Speaker 1>Dude i'm trying to think how many friends THAT i, like,

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<v Speaker 1>like speak to you on a daily. Basis three, yeah

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<v Speaker 1>three daily basis, friends and then of COURSE i have

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<v Speaker 1>like friends outside of, that and then friends and in,

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<v Speaker 1>friends you, know like weekly friends and monthly friends and you,

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<v Speaker 1>know but sometimes like the daily basis, friends it sucks

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<v Speaker 1>BECAUSE i only have. Three then when they're, busy like

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like everyone wants to talk at the same

0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:34.960
<v Speaker 1>time or no one can talk at the same. Time

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<v Speaker 1>So i'm just, LIKE i have something to. Say and

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<v Speaker 1>Then i'm, Like, okay let me look at my weekly. Friends,

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<v Speaker 1>hmmm who's. Available really none of you guys are available.

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<v Speaker 1>Either Then i'm, like, OH i could call my monthly,

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<v Speaker 1>friends BUT i THINK i gotta really. Care we're not that.

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<v Speaker 1>Invested And i'm just waiting at, home like leaving, message

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<v Speaker 1>just texting, everybody where are? You where are you have

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<v Speaker 1>something to? Say it's, good it's. Juicy it could be

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<v Speaker 1>just something ABOUT tv OR i had an. Idea, yeah but,

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<v Speaker 1>still you, know your daily flights are supposed to be

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<v Speaker 1>there every.

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<v Speaker 2>DAY i really look forward to when the kids grow

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<v Speaker 2>up and like might get my friends back one hundred,

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<v Speaker 2>percent you know WHAT i, Mean like when they have

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<v Speaker 2>like when they don't really care about the kids not

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<v Speaker 2>surviving if they leave for a night and they're, like

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<v Speaker 2>just call a sitter or. Whatever i'm excited for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Phase of my.

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<v Speaker 1>Thirties, yeah you know, what it's weird because, honestly only

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<v Speaker 1>one of my my daily friends has a, kid and,

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<v Speaker 1>like you, know he's part of the. Pack we're all

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<v Speaker 1>like where we are, going don't.

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<v Speaker 2>Bring him near. Me it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Catching i'm, like, OH i don't mind catching a, kid

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<v Speaker 1>maybe sort of kind of this. Week every Week i'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Always LIKE i don't mind catching a, kid and.

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<v Speaker 1>Then then and THEN i have like a, busy crazy, week

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<v Speaker 1>and Then i'm LIKE i don't need a, kid and

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<v Speaker 1>Then i'm LIKE i want a, kid and then, YEAH

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<v Speaker 1>i mean such as. Life so update on my vegan.

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<v Speaker 1>Diet oh, yeah it's been going actually really. Well LIKE

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<v Speaker 1>i was, like, wait this thing is. Working so it's

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<v Speaker 1>week two AND i lost ten whole, pounds like real.

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<v Speaker 2>Pounds so that's, big isn't.

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<v Speaker 1>IT i was, LIKE i haven't lost ten pounds on

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<v Speaker 1>LIKE i don't know ten, Years LIKE i Mean i've

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<v Speaker 1>worked out like crazy and not lost ten pounds and

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<v Speaker 1>so and, not like you know how sometimes you lose

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<v Speaker 1>like the water right and the next day it's like

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<v Speaker 1>up and down or, no this has been like ten.

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<v Speaker 1>Solid oh it's still off and so.

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<v Speaker 2>Wow so have you been working out on top of,

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<v Speaker 2>it or just changing your diet just to.

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<v Speaker 1>DIET i, Said i'm going to start working, out maybe

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<v Speaker 1>like another week or, two like BECAUSE i realize now

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<v Speaker 1>that the working out has nothing to do with my.

0:14:30.120 --> 0:14:32.960
<v Speaker 1>Weight it's really all about like, toning because LIKE i

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<v Speaker 1>worked out for like two months, straight five days a,

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<v Speaker 1>week blah blah, blah and no shift in.

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<v Speaker 2>Weight and so weight loss happens in the.

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<v Speaker 1>Kitchen it really, does, Honestly and it was hard at,

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<v Speaker 1>first but, honestly now it's not really BECAUSE i REALIZED

0:14:48.600 --> 0:14:50.920
<v Speaker 1>i was kind of halfway there SINCE i was like lactose.

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<v Speaker 1>INTOLERANT a lot of the dairy STUFF i was already not.

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<v Speaker 1>Eating and then the meat Stuff i'm not a huge meat,

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<v Speaker 1>eater was mostly chicken and, Fish so of COURSE i

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<v Speaker 1>missed chicken the. Most you, know WHEN i smell, It i'm,

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<v Speaker 1>like oh my, gosh that's not so.

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<v Speaker 2>GOOD i had the best chicken, Today and.

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<v Speaker 1>Especially WHEN i cook it For supergirl And, Superman i'm.

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<v Speaker 2>Like really that? Bad what is it about? It it's

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<v Speaker 2>too much? Protein, HONESTLY i don't.

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<v Speaker 1>Know i'm, LIKE i can honestly tell YOU i don't

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<v Speaker 1>have no, idea why like me not eating meat and

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<v Speaker 1>dairy has such a huge. Impact does that?

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<v Speaker 2>Fish?

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<v Speaker 1>YUP i don't eat fish. EITHER i, Mean i'm not

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<v Speaker 1>gonna Say i'm not gonna bring THOSE i don't know

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<v Speaker 1>That i'll be vegan for, life but AND i might

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<v Speaker 1>use them back in BUT i kind of want to like, Reset, Like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>tiffany let's get back to your regular weight that you

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<v Speaker 1>Know i'm used to me being. At. Yeah, yeah BUT

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<v Speaker 1>i feel good, Though and and my energy levels outside

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<v Speaker 1>from When i'm not exhausting myself actually pretty. High LIKE

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<v Speaker 1>i don't, KNOW i guess it's the. VEGGIE i don't,

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<v Speaker 1>know but my energy levels are like through the. Roof

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<v Speaker 1>as a, result my skin is like on. Fleak, Honestly i'm,

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<v Speaker 1>like what the heck is in this stuff That i'm,

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<v Speaker 1>Like i'm, REGENERATING.

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<v Speaker 2>I would co. SIGN i, mean if the only thing

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<v Speaker 2>that gets me through the hard moments WHEN i want

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<v Speaker 2>cheese so bad is my, Skin because FOR i was

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<v Speaker 2>that kid in school who got bullied to no end

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<v Speaker 2>for the acne and like still had it in my,

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<v Speaker 2>twenties and it wasn't UNTIL i cut out dairy that

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<v Speaker 2>my skin just just got. Better it was, Crazy and

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<v Speaker 2>that's that's WHAT i keep reminding myself up WHEN i

0:16:22.080 --> 0:16:23.720
<v Speaker 2>go back to.

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<v Speaker 1>Me too every, Time LIKE, i who WAS i think

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<v Speaker 1>my mom's birthday and somebody else's. Birthday somebody made. Cake oh,

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<v Speaker 1>oh one of my friends made a frum scratch scratch pound.

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<v Speaker 1>Cake it looked so good AND i wanted something so,

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<v Speaker 1>bad BUT i was, Like, tiffany when's the last time

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<v Speaker 1>you lost ten? Pounds it was, like it's the thing

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<v Speaker 1>that keeps me going That i'm, like, ugh Like i'm

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<v Speaker 1>almost to where i'd like to, be where THAT i

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<v Speaker 1>can just moderate and just you, know be moderate with

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<v Speaker 1>my diet and like work out and maintain WHERE i.

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<v Speaker 1>Am But i'm, like just keep, going you have a

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<v Speaker 1>little while to, Go just keep.

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<v Speaker 2>Going but take up before. Picture those always inspire, me.

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<v Speaker 1>You, know AND i should, have But i'm not gonna.

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<v Speaker 1>Lie didn't think it was gonna, Work SO i was like.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever Now i'm, like, DANG i SHOULD i should thinking

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<v Speaker 1>of before picture and like my sports braw and like

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<v Speaker 1>tight SO i can really.

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<v Speaker 2>See BUT i was just looking at this old YouTube facebook.

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<v Speaker 2>Memories they reminded THEY i had posted this picture like

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<v Speaker 2>a year. Ago of my of my. Hair at the

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<v Speaker 2>TIME i had FINALLY i was cutting off my own.

0:17:20.000 --> 0:17:21.800
<v Speaker 2>HAIR i was, like let my natural hair grow. In

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<v Speaker 2>and my little baby outfro was so, LITTLE i can't

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<v Speaker 2>notice how much it's grown in a. Year, YEAH i

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<v Speaker 2>had a little, baby curly scab hair thing on my.

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<v Speaker 2>Head but that's like BECAUSE i remember there was a

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<v Speaker 2>time WHEN i was sitting there like ready to just

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<v Speaker 2>cry and be, like give me about the creamy. CRACK

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<v Speaker 2>i can't do. This, Yeah and So i'm GLAD i

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<v Speaker 2>took that picture because now it makes me feel better

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<v Speaker 2>that it takes me half an hour to d tangle

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<v Speaker 2>my hair, now, RIGHT i.

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<v Speaker 1>Look back at my LOCK i forget how long they've,

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<v Speaker 1>gotten like WHAT i remember WHEN i first had my.

0:17:52.880 --> 0:17:55.159
<v Speaker 1>Locks it's, like you, know these little baby twigs hanging

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<v Speaker 1>from your, head and now you're, like, oh look at,

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<v Speaker 1>me Missus. Jackson if you're, nasty so well now. Right

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<v Speaker 1>and it's so crazy because, honestly a few years, ago

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<v Speaker 1>because of some stinking ex boyfriend at the, time he was,

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<v Speaker 1>LIKE i don't know IF i liked the, LAX i

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<v Speaker 1>think you, Should AND i was really considering cutting, them

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<v Speaker 1>and somebody was like, Tifty are you? Crazy who? Is

0:18:14.640 --> 0:18:15.920
<v Speaker 1>he cut him AND i.

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<v Speaker 2>Did, Oh and decisions were so. SIMPLE i fell out

0:18:20.880 --> 0:18:21.040
<v Speaker 2>of my.

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<v Speaker 1>LIFE i was, like what my laughs or You i'll

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<v Speaker 1>take my last thanks.

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<v Speaker 2>Listening we got. IT i have TO i have to

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<v Speaker 2>take a, moment brief moment of silence for what's happening

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<v Speaker 2>In houston right.

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<v Speaker 4>Now.

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<v Speaker 1>YEAH i have.

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<v Speaker 2>A really good friend down there who's like getting married

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<v Speaker 2>in two weeks and she and her fiance are kind

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<v Speaker 2>of trapped in their. APARTMENT i. DID i had no

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<v Speaker 2>idea because this weekend was so crazy and THAT i

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<v Speaker 2>got in bed last night AND i was reading the

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<v Speaker 2>news for the first time AND i was, like holy,

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<v Speaker 2>crap let me text her real? Quick is she?

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<v Speaker 1>Is? She?

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<v Speaker 5>Okay So i've seen some of the pictures And i'm, like,

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<v Speaker 5>what like someone told, me And i'm not sure if

0:18:55.160 --> 0:18:57.960
<v Speaker 5>this is, true that that they got half the rain

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<v Speaker 5>that they would get for a year within a few.

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<v Speaker 2>Hours that's what it seemed.

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<v Speaker 1>Like that's, CRAZY i thought for a.

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<v Speaker 2>Minute because you, KNOW i THOUGHT i was looking at

0:19:06.080 --> 0:19:07.720
<v Speaker 2>a map Of houston AND i was, like where is?

0:19:07.760 --> 0:19:09.600
<v Speaker 2>It what? Flooded like was there's this like a little

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<v Speaker 2>river that goes through like a little creek or something

0:19:11.480 --> 0:19:13.760
<v Speaker 2>going through. It but it was the RAINFALL i. Heard

0:19:13.800 --> 0:19:16.560
<v Speaker 2>that's what's so that just like this torrential rain and

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<v Speaker 2>it hasn't stopped, yet and they're saying it's going to

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<v Speaker 2>last a couple more. Days.

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<v Speaker 1>Good that is, so has like has forty five declared

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<v Speaker 1>a state of.

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<v Speaker 2>EMERGENCY i don't know what he's, declared BUT i did

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<v Speaker 2>read before we got on that he's doing some kind

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<v Speaker 2>of press conference right, now like three days, later after

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<v Speaker 2>after he pardoned a racist sheriff From arizona for defying The,

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<v Speaker 2>constitution he decided to talk About.

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<v Speaker 1>Houston, wow the. Usual did you hear about?

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<v Speaker 2>That judge our our? Rap what is it Our? PAYOH

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<v Speaker 2>i think that's how you pronounced. It this not judged,

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<v Speaker 2>sheriff our. Payo it's a sheriff From Maricopa. County that's

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<v Speaker 2>where In. Arizona that's Where, Tucson arizona is in that.

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<v Speaker 2>County so it's a big. County And trump used his presidential, pardon,

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<v Speaker 2>which if you, recall is typically used you know at

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<v Speaker 2>the end to pardon criminals who have done time in,

0:20:09.119 --> 0:20:13.199
<v Speaker 2>jail have admitted their, crimes have said they're, sorry like

0:20:13.280 --> 0:20:18.480
<v Speaker 2>have proven that they're. Remorseful. This the sheriff was just

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<v Speaker 2>convicted earlier this year and was due to be sentenced

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<v Speaker 2>or sorry the TRIAL i think The, yeah it was

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<v Speaker 2>due to be sentenced In. October SO i hadn't even

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<v Speaker 2>spent any time in jail yet OR i don't know

0:20:27.680 --> 0:20:29.360
<v Speaker 2>how much time he spent in, jail but not very.

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<v Speaker 2>Long and he's pardoned, him and AND i Just i'll

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<v Speaker 2>do my best to like do a quick recap BECAUSE

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<v Speaker 2>i just listened to this on The The New York

0:20:38.240 --> 0:20:40.520
<v Speaker 2>times Podcast The. Daily if you don't if you need

0:20:40.560 --> 0:20:43.240
<v Speaker 2>like a quick twelve minute fifteen minute recap of the,

0:20:43.280 --> 0:20:46.720
<v Speaker 2>news it's a good, podcast listen to. Plug but they

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<v Speaker 2>had said that basically what he did is he was

0:20:49.920 --> 0:20:54.879
<v Speaker 2>found guilty of defying a court. Order so basically he

0:20:54.920 --> 0:20:58.320
<v Speaker 2>created these tense cities in his in his, county tense

0:20:58.320 --> 0:21:00.480
<v Speaker 2>cities where he would put immigrants who were found to

0:21:00.480 --> 0:21:03.119
<v Speaker 2>be in the area, illegally and they would wear like

0:21:03.280 --> 0:21:07.240
<v Speaker 2>striped jumpsuits and they, wow they'd be in chain, gangs

0:21:07.320 --> 0:21:11.040
<v Speaker 2>women and men like actually tied like chained together on

0:21:11.119 --> 0:21:13.880
<v Speaker 2>the side of the, road cleaning, highways which he said

0:21:13.920 --> 0:21:18.440
<v Speaker 2>helped to defer to to deter crime because, Quote johnny's

0:21:18.440 --> 0:21:20.040
<v Speaker 2>in the back seat and his mom and dad can

0:21:20.080 --> 0:21:22.760
<v Speaker 2>tell him that it's bad or that's what happens to

0:21:22.800 --> 0:21:25.760
<v Speaker 2>bad people Who and he put them in these tents In,

0:21:25.800 --> 0:21:27.720
<v Speaker 2>arizona mind, You arizona in the summer it gets like

0:21:27.720 --> 0:21:30.840
<v Speaker 2>one hundred and thirty degayes or. Hotter and they were

0:21:30.840 --> 0:21:33.600
<v Speaker 2>in these, tents women. Men he forced the men to

0:21:33.600 --> 0:21:37.400
<v Speaker 2>wear pink. Underwear what just to further de humanize, them

0:21:37.560 --> 0:21:40.440
<v Speaker 2>he made them Watch Food network ON tv and The Weather.

0:21:40.520 --> 0:21:45.440
<v Speaker 2>Channel those are only two things allowed while feeding them vegetarian.

0:21:45.560 --> 0:21:50.000
<v Speaker 2>Slop and obviously they were one hundred and thirty degree.

0:21:50.000 --> 0:21:52.120
<v Speaker 2>Heat and he was quoted like they had a recording

0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:54.439
<v Speaker 2>of him talking about how, WELL i hope when they

0:21:54.480 --> 0:21:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Watched Weather channel and they see it's cold In canada

0:21:57.119 --> 0:21:58.800
<v Speaker 2>that they might decide to go To canada next.

0:21:58.800 --> 0:22:03.720
<v Speaker 1>Time slavery like concentration camps on The United states.

0:22:03.760 --> 0:22:06.600
<v Speaker 2>Soil, Again, well that's funny you mentioned that because the

0:22:06.640 --> 0:22:11.520
<v Speaker 2>tents they were in were Recommissioned Korean War wow TENTS

0:22:11.680 --> 0:22:16.480
<v Speaker 2>i think were used for prisoners of war or something like. That, yeah, yeah, yeah,

0:22:16.520 --> 0:22:19.159
<v Speaker 2>yeah bring it all the way. Back but he was

0:22:19.160 --> 0:22:22.119
<v Speaker 2>in Little trumpito's pocket because he was one of the

0:22:22.119 --> 0:22:25.720
<v Speaker 2>first public figures to come Support trump the candidate over

0:22:25.720 --> 0:22:28.679
<v Speaker 2>a year ago during the, election and so of course

0:22:29.000 --> 0:22:31.000
<v Speaker 2>he came to the. Rescue but basically with, this the

0:22:31.040 --> 0:22:34.560
<v Speaker 2>sheriff was found to be in. Violation basically a, COURT

0:22:35.640 --> 0:22:38.320
<v Speaker 2>i think a court in his area ruled that he

0:22:38.680 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 2>couldn't Target latinos with his immigration, policies and he defied

0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:46.600
<v Speaker 2>that court, order and somehow they were ruled that what

0:22:46.680 --> 0:22:49.359
<v Speaker 2>he was doing was unconstitutional and that's why he was.

0:22:49.359 --> 0:22:52.080
<v Speaker 2>Convicted that's why he's going to or was going to

0:22:52.119 --> 0:22:55.719
<v Speaker 2>be sentenced to. Whatever and so by using his presidential

0:22:55.800 --> 0:23:00.840
<v Speaker 2>pardon to pardon the, sheriff it's sort of like legalquts are, saying,

0:23:00.920 --> 0:23:03.520
<v Speaker 2>well it seems like What trump is doing with his

0:23:03.600 --> 0:23:08.919
<v Speaker 2>constitutional power is affirming the denial of some of constitutional

0:23:09.000 --> 0:23:14.159
<v Speaker 2>rights by a person in place of, power which sounds

0:23:14.280 --> 0:23:18.679
<v Speaker 2>just about right for given who he. Is but, uh

0:23:18.960 --> 0:23:20.240
<v Speaker 2>that's your headline of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Day SO i wonder for all the folks that voted for,

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<v Speaker 1>him are they like so or are they LIKE i,

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<v Speaker 1>MEAN i know there's some hardcore people who are, LIKE

0:23:29.280 --> 0:23:32.879
<v Speaker 1>i don't care what he. Does it's. FINE, ok this.

0:23:32.760 --> 0:23:36.120
<v Speaker 2>IS i, mean this whole immigration stance like. HIS i

0:23:36.200 --> 0:23:38.200
<v Speaker 2>know why HE'S i, mean it's clear that he's doing.

0:23:38.240 --> 0:23:40.520
<v Speaker 2>This it not only does he get to help a friend,

0:23:40.520 --> 0:23:42.880
<v Speaker 2>out but he's also pandering to his. Base they love.

0:23:42.960 --> 0:23:43.120
<v Speaker 1>This.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah the, policies, yeah the policies that were ruled unconstitutional

0:23:47.880 --> 0:23:51.920
<v Speaker 2>or the actions deemed unconstitutional by the sheriff are. Too

0:23:52.600 --> 0:23:56.520
<v Speaker 2>we're all put in, place he, said to thwart illegal.

0:23:56.520 --> 0:24:01.119
<v Speaker 2>Immigration but of course the tense cities and the making

0:24:01.160 --> 0:24:05.439
<v Speaker 2>them eat shitty food and chainings showed no signs of

0:24:05.480 --> 0:24:09.400
<v Speaker 2>impacting recidivism, rates which is the rate of people returning

0:24:09.400 --> 0:24:12.159
<v Speaker 2>to prison or jail after they've been. Released like it

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:13.560
<v Speaker 2>had no impact on that at.

0:24:13.600 --> 0:24:15.320
<v Speaker 1>All of course that's not what it's.

0:24:15.359 --> 0:24:19.160
<v Speaker 2>About, well so he, Said, SO.

0:24:21.119 --> 0:24:22.920
<v Speaker 1>I don't. Know i'm not gonna. LIE i really am

0:24:23.000 --> 0:24:25.760
<v Speaker 1>like LIKE i poked my head out And i'm, like Oh,

0:24:25.920 --> 0:24:27.639
<v Speaker 1>god the. News and Then i'm LIKE i can't do.

0:24:27.680 --> 0:24:29.359
<v Speaker 1>IT i can't do. IT i poke my head out,

0:24:29.400 --> 0:24:31.960
<v Speaker 1>again And i'm, like what is? HAPPENING i feel like

0:24:32.000 --> 0:24:33.720
<v Speaker 1>people are just like you, know LIKE i feel like

0:24:33.840 --> 0:24:37.560
<v Speaker 1>literally this president could like you, know be seen like

0:24:37.640 --> 0:24:39.760
<v Speaker 1>slapping his wife in public and people would be, like,

0:24:39.800 --> 0:24:42.040
<v Speaker 1>oh she had a fly on her. Face you guys are.

0:24:42.119 --> 0:24:43.320
<v Speaker 1>Wilent he already.

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<v Speaker 2>Did remember when those legal documents came off from his divorce,

0:24:46.280 --> 0:24:49.040
<v Speaker 2>hearing when like his wife had accused him of raping. Her,

0:24:49.440 --> 0:24:53.520
<v Speaker 2>yeah and, Nuts yeah WHAT i.

0:24:53.520 --> 0:24:56.639
<v Speaker 1>Didn't, NO i did. Not oh my, god can you

0:24:56.680 --> 0:25:01.480
<v Speaker 1>imagine If President obama? Had? Oh? RIGHT i just can't.

0:25:01.520 --> 0:25:05.520
<v Speaker 2>Even, YEAH i Mean trump's been accused of sexual, assault,

0:25:06.359 --> 0:25:08.480
<v Speaker 2>harassment all kinds of. STUFF i, mean he said he

0:25:08.480 --> 0:25:10.840
<v Speaker 2>grabs someone's you, know, Vagina like it's not.

0:25:11.000 --> 0:25:12.359
<v Speaker 1>Whether they like it or, not because they have to

0:25:12.400 --> 0:25:14.080
<v Speaker 1>let you do it because you're. Famous he's made it very.

0:25:13.960 --> 0:25:16.159
<v Speaker 2>Clear that he said, self he can go out And

0:25:16.240 --> 0:25:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Fifth avenue and shoot somebody and they Wouldn't they still

0:25:18.440 --> 0:25:20.919
<v Speaker 2>vote for, Him and he's. Right it's. Sad, sad it, Is,

0:25:21.040 --> 0:25:24.560
<v Speaker 2>yeah this Is it's not at this point in my,

0:25:24.600 --> 0:25:26.960
<v Speaker 2>mind it's less about convincing people who voted for him

0:25:27.400 --> 0:25:29.959
<v Speaker 2>that they made the wrong choice and just more about you,

0:25:29.960 --> 0:25:32.920
<v Speaker 2>know what can we do TO i feel like we're

0:25:33.000 --> 0:25:35.119
<v Speaker 2>never going to have the next election is going to be.

0:25:35.160 --> 0:25:37.399
<v Speaker 2>LIT i feel like everyone like we're not going to

0:25:37.520 --> 0:25:38.760
<v Speaker 2>let this. Out BUT i wish it didn't have to

0:25:38.800 --> 0:25:41.200
<v Speaker 2>get this way for us to for the, people BECAUSE

0:25:41.200 --> 0:25:43.040
<v Speaker 2>i feel like people will get complacent and they're, like,

0:25:43.080 --> 0:25:45.720
<v Speaker 2>oh you know, Whatever trump's not going to, win obviously It's.

0:25:45.760 --> 0:25:48.800
<v Speaker 2>Hillary i'll just stay. HOME i wish it didn't. Happen

0:25:48.880 --> 0:25:52.680
<v Speaker 2>BUT i you, know this kind of stuff is. CYCLICAL

0:25:52.720 --> 0:25:53.240
<v Speaker 2>i feel, like.

0:25:53.680 --> 0:25:56.200
<v Speaker 1>YEAH i know you're right, though something goes really like

0:25:56.359 --> 0:25:59.120
<v Speaker 1>it's one of the reasons why we Had President Barack

0:25:59.119 --> 0:26:02.359
<v Speaker 1>obama because the president before people were, like oh hell, no,

0:26:02.960 --> 0:26:05.679
<v Speaker 1>yep and they came out in full. Force and then you,

0:26:05.720 --> 0:26:10.080
<v Speaker 1>know people got complacent with with For President obama and

0:26:10.119 --> 0:26:13.239
<v Speaker 1>then now here we. Are. Yeah but you, know it's

0:26:13.240 --> 0:26:17.320
<v Speaker 1>been kind of funny about some forty five. Supporters they've

0:26:17.320 --> 0:26:19.320
<v Speaker 1>been taking those you know how right now what's really

0:26:19.400 --> 0:26:21.479
<v Speaker 1>lit is the THE dna.

0:26:21.600 --> 0:26:26.840
<v Speaker 2>Tests oh, yeah like trying To, yeah Like caucasian people

0:26:26.920 --> 0:26:30.320
<v Speaker 2>finding out that they got some some Uh africa some

0:26:30.359 --> 0:26:31.240
<v Speaker 2>extra spices in.

0:26:31.280 --> 0:26:35.359
<v Speaker 1>There, yeah and, like, honestly what's so. Crazy it's, like you,

0:26:35.359 --> 0:26:37.280
<v Speaker 1>know so they're taking these sounds reading in an ARTICLE

0:26:37.359 --> 0:26:39.760
<v Speaker 1>i forget what platform it was maybe a week or so,

0:26:39.800 --> 0:26:42.879
<v Speaker 1>ago and finding out that like what a fourteen percent

0:26:42.920 --> 0:26:45.840
<v Speaker 1>Of Sharan african and then then being like, whatever it

0:26:45.840 --> 0:26:48.400
<v Speaker 1>doesn't even. Matter it's not about what it says, there

0:26:48.400 --> 0:26:50.719
<v Speaker 1>it's about if you look. White i'm, like, yes it's

0:26:50.800 --> 0:26:53.960
<v Speaker 1>not really how that, works. Dude AND i was just like,

0:26:54.040 --> 0:26:57.840
<v Speaker 1>really just like, wow so you have proven well that

0:26:57.960 --> 0:27:02.399
<v Speaker 1>you're in your history read there Is african. Blood and

0:27:02.480 --> 0:27:05.679
<v Speaker 1>still that's how you. Said it's not about convincing folks

0:27:05.680 --> 0:27:08.640
<v Speaker 1>that forty five is so bad or whatever that it's.

0:27:08.680 --> 0:27:11.159
<v Speaker 1>Not he literally could kill someone and it would not

0:27:11.200 --> 0:27:13.360
<v Speaker 1>matter to certain. People so you have to leave those

0:27:13.359 --> 0:27:14.600
<v Speaker 1>people for dead and move.

0:27:14.440 --> 0:27:17.840
<v Speaker 2>Forward just wait for them till thet die. OUT i, guess,

0:27:19.240 --> 0:27:21.080
<v Speaker 2>yeah like a.

0:27:21.119 --> 0:27:24.879
<v Speaker 1>Disease but so the problem IS i used to, say, like,

0:27:24.880 --> 0:27:26.879
<v Speaker 1>oh when these old folks die, out but it's not

0:27:26.960 --> 0:27:30.000
<v Speaker 1>old folks, anymore you, know it's a lot of young

0:27:31.359 --> 0:27:36.480
<v Speaker 1>DISGRUNTLED i, mean you saw the pictures From, charlottesville you,

0:27:36.520 --> 0:27:38.440
<v Speaker 1>know and then when they were called out and found

0:27:38.480 --> 0:27:40.320
<v Speaker 1>out where they worked and where they lived and everything,

0:27:40.359 --> 0:27:43.439
<v Speaker 1>else it was big crocodile. Tires If i'm not this angry.

0:27:43.880 --> 0:27:46.320
<v Speaker 1>Person meanwhile in the video your face is.

0:27:47.040 --> 0:27:49.159
<v Speaker 2>Yeah that. GUY i, Mean i'll say it again like

0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:52.119
<v Speaker 2>it's a small, pocket but they, have they've gotten the

0:27:52.160 --> 0:27:55.520
<v Speaker 2>platform that they've been waiting. For and, yeah because.

0:27:55.280 --> 0:27:57.199
<v Speaker 1>It's start pocket with the president as your.

0:27:57.280 --> 0:27:59.679
<v Speaker 2>Leader, yeah it's a very but that's all it, takes you,

0:27:59.680 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 2>know it's all it. Takes it's just the The and

0:28:02.240 --> 0:28:04.000
<v Speaker 2>as a member of the, media it's REALLY i MEAN

0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:09.240
<v Speaker 2>i don't cover, politics, obviously but to the vitriol that

0:28:09.320 --> 0:28:11.080
<v Speaker 2>he reserves for the media and the way that he

0:28:11.119 --> 0:28:13.560
<v Speaker 2>talks about the, media forget me being a journalist for a,

0:28:13.600 --> 0:28:17.879
<v Speaker 2>second being completely, biased but, like this is exactly what dictators.

0:28:17.920 --> 0:28:20.800
<v Speaker 2>Do they convince you that what the media is telling

0:28:20.840 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 2>you was a. LIE i, mean look At, china like

0:28:24.240 --> 0:28:27.200
<v Speaker 2>so much is blocked from people there because the government

0:28:27.280 --> 0:28:29.840
<v Speaker 2>wants to control the perception and control what they. See

0:28:29.880 --> 0:28:33.000
<v Speaker 2>and it's just it's, just you know. It that's WHAT

0:28:33.040 --> 0:28:35.240
<v Speaker 2>i keep kind of going back, to is how In, america?

0:28:35.400 --> 0:28:35.520
<v Speaker 4>How?

0:28:35.720 --> 0:28:38.520
<v Speaker 2>How? How but it's LIKE i said When Trevor noah

0:28:38.520 --> 0:28:39.840
<v Speaker 2>gave that talk on it THAT i went to In

0:28:39.920 --> 0:28:42.440
<v Speaker 2>montreal last, month where he's like everyone In america, Shocked

0:28:42.440 --> 0:28:44.280
<v Speaker 2>but the rest of us and the rest of the

0:28:44.320 --> 0:28:48.080
<v Speaker 2>world who've dealt with dictators and dealt with corrupt politicians are, like,

0:28:48.120 --> 0:28:49.040
<v Speaker 2>well you.

0:28:49.040 --> 0:28:52.680
<v Speaker 1>Know, welcome here's the. Handbook you can sit right in

0:28:52.720 --> 0:28:58.280
<v Speaker 1>the back with. Them. Yeah, yeah that's a.

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<v Speaker 2>Lot oh, YEAH i wanted. To did you see The

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<v Speaker 2>Whole Foods Amazon?

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<v Speaker 1>News, Yes i'm like geeking out because you, know there's

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:10.920
<v Speaker 1>a New Whole foods In New Arc.

0:29:11.200 --> 0:29:12.920
<v Speaker 2>That's, right you've been talking about. That is it? Open?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes it. Is, honestly it's one of my favorite. Places

0:29:16.040 --> 0:29:18.760
<v Speaker 1>and because what they've built it inside this historic building

0:29:18.800 --> 0:29:21.560
<v Speaker 1>called The Haines. Building they used to be like Like

0:29:21.760 --> 0:29:24.000
<v Speaker 1>macy's back in the, day or LIKE i don't, know

0:29:24.120 --> 0:29:24.840
<v Speaker 1>like you, know like one of.

0:29:24.840 --> 0:29:26.320
<v Speaker 2>These usual department store.

0:29:26.320 --> 0:29:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Building oh my goodness WHEN i, say, beautiful, wandy but.

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<v Speaker 1>Beautiful and so they took this beautiful building and they've

0:29:33.640 --> 0:29:36.840
<v Speaker 1>now made it like downtown like loft spaces and. Apartments

0:29:37.360 --> 0:29:42.200
<v Speaker 1>they have other like there's restaurants in, there there's all

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:44.520
<v Speaker 1>these other just. Businesses and then The Whole foods has

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<v Speaker 1>like THOUGH i think the largest space outside of the.

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<v Speaker 1>Apartment so the building itself is just dropped deat. GORGEOUS

0:29:49.640 --> 0:29:52.200
<v Speaker 1>i remember when the first TIME i walked, IN i was, like,

0:29:52.240 --> 0:29:54.440
<v Speaker 1>wow look at all they've, done and the old folks

0:29:54.440 --> 0:29:56.040
<v Speaker 1>At newark are, like, no this is what it looked.

0:29:56.080 --> 0:29:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Like they just restored. It it's so. Gorgeous and The

0:29:59.120 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 1>Whole foods there is, awesome and so it's been helpful

0:30:02.240 --> 0:30:04.360
<v Speaker 1>with my vegan diet BECAUSE i don't have to go

0:30:04.440 --> 0:30:06.760
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0:30:06.800 --> 0:30:09.600
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<v Speaker 1>And Whole foods has like tables and chairs inside and,

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<v Speaker 1>out so people go and hang.

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<v Speaker 2>OUT i love their food. Cords it's just something so. Satisfying,

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<v Speaker 2>eggs responsibly farmed, salmon and, silapio organic baby cal and baby,

0:31:05.280 --> 0:31:12.080
<v Speaker 2>lettuce animal, warfare animal welfare, rated lean, beef creamy and

0:31:12.120 --> 0:31:14.680
<v Speaker 2>crunchy Almond oh that's my. Jam creamy and country almond.

0:31:14.720 --> 0:31:19.280
<v Speaker 2>Butter that stuff's not. Cheap, apples rotisserie. Chicken people were

0:31:19.280 --> 0:31:23.600
<v Speaker 2>losing their minds over the chicken prices and. Butter so

0:31:23.680 --> 0:31:26.440
<v Speaker 2>this is Like amazon's promise is to help reduce to

0:31:26.520 --> 0:31:28.840
<v Speaker 2>prices At Whole, foods but not just. That they're also

0:31:29.360 --> 0:31:32.400
<v Speaker 2>gonna make apparently they're gonna Make Amazon prime the new

0:31:32.440 --> 0:31:37.120
<v Speaker 2>loyalty program At Whole. Foods so they didn't say exactly

0:31:37.120 --> 0:31:39.320
<v Speaker 2>what that, means BUT i imagine there's gonna be a

0:31:39.360 --> 0:31:40.880
<v Speaker 2>way you like put in your email address and they

0:31:40.880 --> 0:31:43.800
<v Speaker 2>give you discounts if you're A prime. Member but before

0:31:43.840 --> 0:31:45.280
<v Speaker 2>there really wasn't a good way TO i, mean you

0:31:45.320 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 2>could like get the circular At Whole, foods but there

0:31:47.600 --> 0:31:50.320
<v Speaker 2>really Wasn't LIKE i don't think a super easy way

0:31:50.360 --> 0:31:53.160
<v Speaker 2>to get a, discount like a like a on all

0:31:53.200 --> 0:31:54.920
<v Speaker 2>your purchase. System that could be cool if they have

0:31:55.080 --> 0:31:58.160
<v Speaker 2>Like Amazon Prime Shopping days or something like, That like

0:31:58.200 --> 0:31:59.200
<v Speaker 2>if you're a, member.

0:31:59.320 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 1>That would be out of. Awesome because My prime membership

0:32:02.400 --> 0:32:04.520
<v Speaker 1>just renewed AND i was, like, yes we're AND i

0:32:04.520 --> 0:32:07.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't realize, this but you can have if you if

0:32:07.160 --> 0:32:09.880
<v Speaker 1>you and your boo live in the same house or

0:32:09.920 --> 0:32:11.800
<v Speaker 1>who you and. WHOEVER i didn't realize you could Share

0:32:11.840 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>prime membership with one other.

0:32:12.960 --> 0:32:15.880
<v Speaker 2>Person, yeah up to? Four right is it up to?

0:32:15.920 --> 0:32:18.160
<v Speaker 2>FOUR i used to share with my college. Roommates, YEAH

0:32:18.160 --> 0:32:19.880
<v Speaker 2>i think it's up to four in a. Household they

0:32:19.960 --> 0:32:23.280
<v Speaker 2>might have gotten, stricter like you have to prove OR i.

0:32:23.360 --> 0:32:25.600
<v Speaker 2>FORGET i think you. Can, yeah you can definitely share

0:32:25.760 --> 0:32:27.720
<v Speaker 2>with like one, spouse and then if you have kids

0:32:28.000 --> 0:32:30.080
<v Speaker 2>you can Add LIKE i, forget how many kids to

0:32:30.120 --> 0:32:33.000
<v Speaker 2>your to Your prime? Membership SO i was like.

0:32:33.000 --> 0:32:35.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah BECAUSE i used to always like a, superman would

0:32:35.200 --> 0:32:37.360
<v Speaker 1>always be, like, wait what's Your amazon? Logging what's Your Amazon?

0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:40.480
<v Speaker 1>Now i'm, like you have your own, now, sir you

0:32:40.520 --> 0:32:42.480
<v Speaker 1>can purchase the things you'd, like and now you Have

0:32:42.560 --> 0:32:45.480
<v Speaker 1>prime as. Well he was, like yes. Me he was so.

0:32:45.480 --> 0:32:47.800
<v Speaker 1>Excited he was, Like i'm so HAPPY i D. J

0:32:48.200 --> 0:32:52.280
<v Speaker 1>i was like, REALLY i mean he was irrationally.

0:32:52.320 --> 0:32:56.440
<v Speaker 3>Excited we won't tell. HIM i was, like, sir, OKAY

0:32:56.800 --> 0:33:01.680
<v Speaker 3>i was, Like i'll take the. Credit, like oh, WELL

0:33:01.760 --> 0:33:02.680
<v Speaker 3>i mean that's all it.

0:33:02.720 --> 0:33:06.880
<v Speaker 2>Takes, actually you can buy their you, know the three sixty,

0:33:06.960 --> 0:33:09.120
<v Speaker 2>five The Whole foods. Brand you can buy it On

0:33:09.200 --> 0:33:12.840
<v Speaker 2>amazon dot. Com, now, okay that's WHY i and Then

0:33:12.880 --> 0:33:14.960
<v Speaker 2>i've never used Their amazon, lockers but they have those

0:33:14.960 --> 0:33:16.720
<v Speaker 2>that some they're gonna add those to Some Whole foods.

0:33:16.720 --> 0:33:18.880
<v Speaker 2>Too so but what's hilarious is like.

0:33:18.880 --> 0:33:20.240
<v Speaker 1>They had them. There is that what that? Is?

0:33:20.320 --> 0:33:20.600
<v Speaker 2>Oh they?

0:33:20.640 --> 0:33:20.680
<v Speaker 1>Do?

0:33:20.960 --> 0:33:23.280
<v Speaker 2>Okay, yeah SO i think if you like order, stuff

0:33:23.320 --> 0:33:24.200
<v Speaker 2>you can pick it up. There.

0:33:24.880 --> 0:33:28.479
<v Speaker 1>Ah SO i want to before we close out kind

0:33:28.520 --> 0:33:31.360
<v Speaker 1>of our buzz buzz for LIKE i, so for those

0:33:31.360 --> 0:33:33.840
<v Speaker 1>of you who are listening who Are, Dreamcatchers, hey SORRY

0:33:33.880 --> 0:33:35.280
<v Speaker 1>i had to go off on you the other. Day

0:33:35.320 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 1>Actually i'm not, sorry but not you, personally but the

0:33:39.400 --> 0:33:42.720
<v Speaker 1>folks that were being a little bit sassy in The DreamCatcher.

0:33:42.760 --> 0:33:44.320
<v Speaker 1>Group if you're A, DreamCatcher you know that we have

0:33:44.400 --> 0:33:47.400
<v Speaker 1>Our facebook group and it's really. Awesome it's like if

0:33:47.440 --> 0:33:50.800
<v Speaker 1>we just crossed over to two hundred and fifty thousand

0:33:51.160 --> 0:33:54.960
<v Speaker 1>whole women and a couple of, men and as a,

0:33:55.000 --> 0:33:59.600
<v Speaker 1>result it's you, know it's it's not easy navigating and

0:33:59.640 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 1>managing a group of that size because you always have different.

0:34:02.000 --> 0:34:05.360
<v Speaker 1>Personalities AND i will say ninety nine, percent maybe ninety

0:34:05.400 --> 0:34:07.680
<v Speaker 1>eight percent it's all. Positive but every once in a

0:34:07.680 --> 0:34:10.400
<v Speaker 1>while you get folks who you, know want to be super,

0:34:10.440 --> 0:34:12.840
<v Speaker 1>sassy AND i don't know WHY i take it so.

0:34:12.920 --> 0:34:15.800
<v Speaker 1>PERSONALLY i GUESS i have four, sisters AND i just feel,

0:34:15.840 --> 0:34:17.600
<v Speaker 1>like come, on, now that's not how you treat your,

0:34:17.680 --> 0:34:21.120
<v Speaker 1>sisters like when we're all trying to do, better like you,

0:34:21.160 --> 0:34:23.880
<v Speaker 1>know being disparaging in the comments or making fun of.

0:34:23.920 --> 0:34:26.359
<v Speaker 1>People SO i take that really, seriously and, Honestly i'm

0:34:26.400 --> 0:34:27.839
<v Speaker 1>not gonna. LIE i kind of take a sick little

0:34:27.840 --> 0:34:30.440
<v Speaker 1>pleasure of booting folks who are mean Because i'm, like,

0:34:30.520 --> 0:34:34.160
<v Speaker 1>yes And hank can't come back here. AGAIN i don't,

0:34:34.200 --> 0:34:37.480
<v Speaker 1>KNOW i feel LIKE i just bullying just seems so

0:34:37.600 --> 0:34:39.120
<v Speaker 1>crazy when you're, grown you, KNOW.

0:34:39.600 --> 0:34:42.279
<v Speaker 2>I don't think, This, yeah it seems, insane AND i

0:34:42.320 --> 0:34:44.359
<v Speaker 2>THINK i think part of it the reason you get

0:34:44.400 --> 0:34:46.520
<v Speaker 2>so like hurt by it is because you could probably

0:34:46.560 --> 0:34:47.959
<v Speaker 2>never imagine yourself doing, that.

0:34:48.960 --> 0:34:51.239
<v Speaker 1>Yes And i'm, LIKE i Just i'm not going to say.

0:34:51.280 --> 0:34:52.799
<v Speaker 1>That like you know how you read something and you're,

0:34:52.800 --> 0:34:54.840
<v Speaker 1>like oh my, gosh this is, crazy this is foolish or.

0:34:54.840 --> 0:34:58.600
<v Speaker 1>Whatever but to actually type out to someone that you

0:34:58.640 --> 0:35:03.200
<v Speaker 1>don't know to say you're so, stupid you're a da da,

0:35:03.239 --> 0:35:05.600
<v Speaker 1>da you're a liar or. WHATEVER i JUST i just

0:35:05.719 --> 0:35:09.680
<v Speaker 1>literally cannot imagine like doing, that just because it's LIKE

0:35:09.719 --> 0:35:11.920
<v Speaker 1>i don't know. HER i might be, like, what this

0:35:12.000 --> 0:35:13.960
<v Speaker 1>is crazy if that was a, mistake BUT i just

0:35:14.000 --> 0:35:18.200
<v Speaker 1>can't imagine like chastising a grown woman WHO i don't, know,

0:35:19.000 --> 0:35:21.239
<v Speaker 1>like especially in like an environment where you, know, hey

0:35:21.320 --> 0:35:23.440
<v Speaker 1>this is where we help. Folks and SO i just,

0:35:24.040 --> 0:35:27.120
<v Speaker 1>LIKE i don't know what that mindset feels. Like AND

0:35:27.719 --> 0:35:30.360
<v Speaker 1>i know that sometimes hurt people hurt, people but, HONESTLY

0:35:30.960 --> 0:35:32.719
<v Speaker 1>i don't. Care it's one of those things where it's, like,

0:35:32.760 --> 0:35:35.560
<v Speaker 1>well if it's you or, them it's gotta be. You you

0:35:35.520 --> 0:35:38.279
<v Speaker 1>gotta go because it's a. POISON i really feel like

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:41.799
<v Speaker 1>negativity is a, poison and once you allow it, in

0:35:42.480 --> 0:35:45.120
<v Speaker 1>it continues to seep and grow like. Cancer and if

0:35:45.120 --> 0:35:47.279
<v Speaker 1>you don't cut it. Out so we're real. STRICT i

0:35:47.320 --> 0:35:49.120
<v Speaker 1>was just having a talk with the team. TODAY i

0:35:49.160 --> 0:35:53.000
<v Speaker 1>said zero tolerance. Policy they're, like, well what about, no, no,

0:35:53.000 --> 0:35:56.560
<v Speaker 1>no zero. Time because WHAT i found is THAT i

0:35:56.640 --> 0:35:59.160
<v Speaker 1>started doing a little digging WHERE i would research someone's

0:35:59.200 --> 0:36:01.920
<v Speaker 1>name that was being mean in a comment, here and

0:36:01.960 --> 0:36:04.000
<v Speaker 1>THEN i would look because you can do A facebook

0:36:04.040 --> 0:36:05.919
<v Speaker 1>a search in Your facebook, groups AND i would look

0:36:05.960 --> 0:36:08.799
<v Speaker 1>and see that this was a. Pattern so we. DON'T

0:36:09.000 --> 0:36:10.799
<v Speaker 1>i just can't allow somebody to do. That, like if

0:36:10.840 --> 0:36:13.160
<v Speaker 1>you do it, once you'll going to do it. Again

0:36:13.239 --> 0:36:15.719
<v Speaker 1>you have to. Go we're just too big now to

0:36:16.800 --> 0:36:19.400
<v Speaker 1>allow that to. Be and everyone knows the. Rule we

0:36:19.440 --> 0:36:22.520
<v Speaker 1>post the rules, literally it's on automate at least three

0:36:22.560 --> 0:36:24.440
<v Speaker 1>or four times a. Day we post the rules as

0:36:24.440 --> 0:36:26.200
<v Speaker 1>soon as you come. In, Now facebook is really. Cool

0:36:26.200 --> 0:36:29.200
<v Speaker 1>you have This facebook group like survey thing that when

0:36:29.239 --> 0:36:31.360
<v Speaker 1>you click join the, group it has these three. Questions

0:36:31.400 --> 0:36:33.759
<v Speaker 1>do you promise to be? Positive do you promise not to?

0:36:33.760 --> 0:36:36.640
<v Speaker 1>Sell do you promise DA D and so you're like, yes, yes,

0:36:36.760 --> 0:36:38.759
<v Speaker 1>Yes and then as soon as you come, in so you're,

0:36:38.800 --> 0:36:41.359
<v Speaker 1>like there's no excuse to SAY i didn't, know because,

0:36:41.400 --> 0:36:42.839
<v Speaker 1>well first of, all don't should have to tell. You

0:36:42.880 --> 0:36:45.200
<v Speaker 1>it's like SAYING i didn't KNOW i could slap, Her like,

0:36:45.320 --> 0:36:48.880
<v Speaker 1>girl you know you can't do. That so, yeah SO

0:36:48.960 --> 0:36:52.720
<v Speaker 1>i had to like go live and in rare, form

0:36:52.840 --> 0:36:54.680
<v Speaker 1>and BECAUSE i was already exhausted AND i just didn't

0:36:54.680 --> 0:36:56.759
<v Speaker 1>feel like being my peppy, self and SO i really

0:36:56.800 --> 0:36:58.399
<v Speaker 1>had to snatch the measures and be, like what we're

0:36:58.400 --> 0:37:01.680
<v Speaker 1>not gonna do Is and SO i, MEAN i guess that's.

0:37:01.680 --> 0:37:04.840
<v Speaker 1>Something you, know it's so. Crazy did you know the

0:37:04.880 --> 0:37:08.680
<v Speaker 1>happy black? Woman, nope you never have the happy black?

0:37:08.719 --> 0:37:11.719
<v Speaker 1>Woman like the she's got a huge. Following her name is,

0:37:11.800 --> 0:37:15.000
<v Speaker 1>OH i forget her, name but a huge. Following like

0:37:15.080 --> 0:37:18.759
<v Speaker 1>she was one of the original kind of LIKE i don't,

0:37:18.840 --> 0:37:23.640
<v Speaker 1>know like just folks who were like really speaking to black.

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:26.480
<v Speaker 1>Women and so she has a huge youtooe. Following she

0:37:26.719 --> 0:37:29.640
<v Speaker 1>just closed her free, group And i'm seeing it's becoming

0:37:29.719 --> 0:37:33.200
<v Speaker 1>a trend with like some of these really large movements

0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:36.640
<v Speaker 1>and brands they're closing their free. Groups AND i found

0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:38.279
<v Speaker 1>out later after doing a little digging that she was

0:37:38.320 --> 0:37:41.640
<v Speaker 1>just like it just got to be like babysitting AND

0:37:41.680 --> 0:37:43.560
<v Speaker 1>i might as well focus on people who were paying

0:37:44.200 --> 0:37:47.360
<v Speaker 1>and that's heartbreaking because a lot of people are needing

0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:51.160
<v Speaker 1>help and it's like a few handful of negative nancies

0:37:51.600 --> 0:37:54.440
<v Speaker 1>are taking away opportunities for people who are really trying

0:37:54.480 --> 0:37:57.160
<v Speaker 1>to do and be. Better And i'm gonna try to

0:37:57.160 --> 0:37:58.640
<v Speaker 1>hold out as long as i, can But i'm not gonna.

0:37:58.640 --> 0:38:00.640
<v Speaker 1>Lie there some days Where i'm, Like i'm shutting this,

0:38:00.680 --> 0:38:02.239
<v Speaker 1>down but then i think of like how many women

0:38:02.360 --> 0:38:04.799
<v Speaker 1>hit me up and they're Like, Tiffany, HONESTLY i didn't

0:38:04.800 --> 0:38:09.280
<v Speaker 1>even know where to, start like you, know you, know SO.

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:11.319
<v Speaker 2>I see so many like usually WHEN i get The

0:38:11.480 --> 0:38:14.040
<v Speaker 2>liverat or the Dream catchers updates on my, feed like

0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:17.359
<v Speaker 2>they're usually really, positive and, LIKE i, MEAN i hope

0:38:17.360 --> 0:38:19.000
<v Speaker 2>you don't shut it down because it seems like people

0:38:19.000 --> 0:38:21.640
<v Speaker 2>it's like The, reddit but for black women of color

0:38:21.719 --> 0:38:29.000
<v Speaker 2>or black women of color women of color Where, REDDIT

0:38:29.040 --> 0:38:30.759
<v Speaker 2>i feel, like because you know that you can go

0:38:30.800 --> 0:38:34.000
<v Speaker 2>On reddit and do their personal Finance, subreddit which is

0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:35.839
<v Speaker 2>actually has a lot of great, advice AND i find

0:38:35.880 --> 0:38:38.760
<v Speaker 2>people are there are really generally, respectful but they also

0:38:38.800 --> 0:38:43.759
<v Speaker 2>have like millions of admins constantly. Policing but you, KNOW

0:38:44.200 --> 0:38:47.360
<v Speaker 2>i feel there's a value in having like peers to

0:38:47.400 --> 0:38:50.520
<v Speaker 2>bounce ideas off of and like celebrate your. Wins AND i,

0:38:50.560 --> 0:38:52.600
<v Speaker 2>MEAN i hope you don't shut it. Down that would be,

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:54.960
<v Speaker 2>sad but it's The. Internet like at the same, Time

0:38:55.000 --> 0:38:56.400
<v Speaker 2>i'm also, like you're never going to get them.

0:38:56.400 --> 0:38:58.719
<v Speaker 1>All, yeah AND i know, that AND i GUESS i

0:38:58.719 --> 0:39:00.239
<v Speaker 1>said that said that you know what to, ME i

0:39:00.239 --> 0:39:02.400
<v Speaker 1>think it's JUST i need to like maybe hire some

0:39:02.440 --> 0:39:05.640
<v Speaker 1>more admins or get some more like volunteer, admins because

0:39:05.640 --> 0:39:07.080
<v Speaker 1>YOU'RE i don't want to shut it down BECAUSE i

0:39:07.080 --> 0:39:09.239
<v Speaker 1>see how much it. HELPS i can just imagine WHEN

0:39:09.239 --> 0:39:11.520
<v Speaker 1>i was teaching preschool and or WHEN i lost my

0:39:11.600 --> 0:39:13.520
<v Speaker 1>job AND i was. STRUGGLING i WISH i could have

0:39:13.560 --> 0:39:15.080
<v Speaker 1>had a place to be, like oh my, GOSH i

0:39:15.080 --> 0:39:16.840
<v Speaker 1>don't know what to do, because LIKE i, said not

0:39:16.880 --> 0:39:20.160
<v Speaker 1>even if sent of women are so. Helpful LIKE i

0:39:20.160 --> 0:39:21.759
<v Speaker 1>love WHEN i see a woman post Like i'm a

0:39:21.760 --> 0:39:23.920
<v Speaker 1>single mom And i'm not sure about what to do

0:39:23.920 --> 0:39:25.879
<v Speaker 1>about back to school and all these other single moms

0:39:25.960 --> 0:39:28.480
<v Speaker 1>kind of like get together and they're, like, girl so

0:39:28.600 --> 0:39:30.160
<v Speaker 1>this is WHERE i went shopping and this is WHAT i,

0:39:30.200 --> 0:39:32.520
<v Speaker 1>did and this is what you can. Use, honestly it's

0:39:32.640 --> 0:39:34.680
<v Speaker 1>just SO i don't plan on shutting it down anytime,

0:39:34.719 --> 0:39:36.960
<v Speaker 1>soon BUT i, just you, know the frustration is.

0:39:37.000 --> 0:39:40.120
<v Speaker 2>REAL i want to watch would you say they're all

0:39:40.160 --> 0:39:40.320
<v Speaker 2>on a?

0:39:40.400 --> 0:39:43.040
<v Speaker 1>WATCH i, know LIKE i just turn off the ability to.

0:39:43.080 --> 0:39:45.400
<v Speaker 1>COMMENT i felt, like you, know like a a, mom,

0:39:45.840 --> 0:40:02.239
<v Speaker 1>like what you're not gonna do is. Punishment. Punishment so

0:40:02.560 --> 0:40:04.480
<v Speaker 1>now it's time to break and.

0:40:04.520 --> 0:40:10.080
<v Speaker 2>Boost breaking booze breaking, brings boost and. BREAK i got

0:40:10.080 --> 0:40:15.960
<v Speaker 2>a good break. TODAY i am turning and stabbing one

0:40:15.960 --> 0:40:19.560
<v Speaker 2>of my old boosts in the. Back i'm taking a

0:40:19.560 --> 0:40:23.760
<v Speaker 2>break from a former. Boost. Yeah true. Story so remember

0:40:23.800 --> 0:40:27.000
<v Speaker 2>HOW i was, like, hey, Y'ALL i love these meal delivery.

0:40:27.040 --> 0:40:29.680
<v Speaker 2>Services they're the. Best they're so. Awesome you get food

0:40:29.680 --> 0:40:31.520
<v Speaker 2>delivered to your door and you just make your meals

0:40:31.600 --> 0:40:33.640
<v Speaker 2>and they're amazing and you never have to worry about

0:40:33.640 --> 0:40:36.960
<v Speaker 2>what to cook. It i'm done With Green. Chef i'm

0:40:36.960 --> 0:40:39.640
<v Speaker 2>done with not Just Green, chef But i'm, LIKE i

0:40:39.680 --> 0:40:42.920
<v Speaker 2>need a break from meal kit delivery. Services why because

0:40:42.960 --> 0:40:46.919
<v Speaker 2>it becomes like the really annoying, mother like shoving food

0:40:46.920 --> 0:40:48.439
<v Speaker 2>in your, face being like you better cook that food

0:40:48.480 --> 0:40:51.480
<v Speaker 2>in the, fridge don't, don't don't go to happy hour

0:40:51.480 --> 0:40:53.160
<v Speaker 2>because you got food at. Home like go home and.

0:40:53.160 --> 0:40:55.160
<v Speaker 2>Cook it's gonna go. Bad it's gonna go bad in

0:40:55.160 --> 0:40:57.880
<v Speaker 2>two days if you don't cook that. Cauliflower, yeah that.

0:40:58.000 --> 0:41:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Meal so we literally last week we were, like can

0:41:01.040 --> 0:41:03.200
<v Speaker 2>we just end? This like it was one more week

0:41:03.239 --> 0:41:04.880
<v Speaker 2>WHEN i had to go in the fridge and like

0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:07.080
<v Speaker 2>put stuff in the freezer because it was gonna go

0:41:07.200 --> 0:41:10.000
<v Speaker 2>bad or like it didn't look, good and so we

0:41:10.000 --> 0:41:11.759
<v Speaker 2>didn't want to make the. Meals SO i JUST i

0:41:11.840 --> 0:41:13.759
<v Speaker 2>usually take it And i'll try and make something else

0:41:13.800 --> 0:41:15.759
<v Speaker 2>out of. It it's JUST i don't waste any of the.

0:41:15.920 --> 0:41:18.239
<v Speaker 2>Ingredients But i'm. Done i'm taking a. BREAK i might

0:41:18.280 --> 0:41:20.200
<v Speaker 2>come back, later but you need a.

0:41:20.200 --> 0:41:22.879
<v Speaker 1>BREAK i, did like, HONESTLY i only lasted like two,

0:41:22.880 --> 0:41:25.680
<v Speaker 1>weeks AND i was, LIKE i can't do. THIS i

0:41:25.719 --> 0:41:29.640
<v Speaker 1>can't do this because you're, right it's so much, pressure

0:41:29.840 --> 0:41:31.480
<v Speaker 1>like did you cook like your? Mom did you? Cook

0:41:31.520 --> 0:41:33.040
<v Speaker 1>are you cook? It are you gotta eat out? Again

0:41:33.040 --> 0:41:36.320
<v Speaker 1>when you have food at? Home it is a. Lot

0:41:36.400 --> 0:41:36.680
<v Speaker 1>AND i.

0:41:36.600 --> 0:41:38.560
<v Speaker 2>THINK i saved more BECAUSE i mean we went to

0:41:38.800 --> 0:41:41.680
<v Speaker 2>we did a Big Trader joe's trip and this is

0:41:42.200 --> 0:41:43.839
<v Speaker 2>And i'm all excited because we have a car now

0:41:43.880 --> 0:41:46.040
<v Speaker 2>AND i can like actually get a proper buggy to

0:41:46.120 --> 0:41:48.320
<v Speaker 2>fill up at The Trader joe's and get like bags

0:41:48.360 --> 0:41:50.520
<v Speaker 2>and all this kind of. STUFF i got canned, FOOD

0:41:50.880 --> 0:41:53.320
<v Speaker 2>i got canned coconut. MILK i got a box of chicken,

0:41:53.320 --> 0:41:55.479
<v Speaker 2>broth just because like this is the kind of stuff

0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:56.840
<v Speaker 2>you'd never get if you live In New york or

0:41:56.880 --> 0:41:58.160
<v Speaker 2>live in a city where you have to carry your

0:41:58.160 --> 0:42:00.520
<v Speaker 2>own groceries. Home you don't get the heavy. Stuff so

0:42:00.600 --> 0:42:02.280
<v Speaker 2>it's fun for. Me BUT i feel LIKE i stocked

0:42:02.320 --> 0:42:04.000
<v Speaker 2>up on all that. Stuff so now we can actually

0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:06.080
<v Speaker 2>come home and just look and see what's. There we

0:42:06.120 --> 0:42:08.240
<v Speaker 2>have like frozen stuff we can cook in five, minutes

0:42:08.280 --> 0:42:10.600
<v Speaker 2>and it's just it's just a Nice it's been like

0:42:10.680 --> 0:42:14.080
<v Speaker 2>vacation at dinner, time you. Know it's just. Relaxing so

0:42:14.320 --> 0:42:15.080
<v Speaker 2>that's my that's my.

0:42:15.160 --> 0:42:18.560
<v Speaker 1>Break, Well i'm gonna Boost i'm gonna actually gonna boost

0:42:18.600 --> 0:42:21.799
<v Speaker 1>my team, because as y'all, KNOW i THINK i said it,

0:42:21.840 --> 0:42:23.799
<v Speaker 1>before my friends do not listen to my. Podcast they're,

0:42:23.800 --> 0:42:25.440
<v Speaker 1>like you got a, podcast. Girl i'm, like now you,

0:42:25.560 --> 0:42:26.120
<v Speaker 1>Know i've got a.

0:42:26.120 --> 0:42:31.319
<v Speaker 2>Podcast but but my, TEAM i didn't, realize like we

0:42:31.360 --> 0:42:31.920
<v Speaker 2>had a team.

0:42:32.000 --> 0:42:35.040
<v Speaker 1>Meeting what's the last week one of these weeks AND

0:42:35.040 --> 0:42:36.920
<v Speaker 1>i would say something About brown And bishan or somebody

0:42:36.920 --> 0:42:38.880
<v Speaker 1>Mentioned they're like, yeah like And Brona. Bishin i'm, like,

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:41.359
<v Speaker 1>wait you guys listen and they were like, Yes i'm

0:42:41.400 --> 0:42:46.040
<v Speaker 1>like what boop? Boop so Hey yataie's Hey. Tamera don't

0:42:46.120 --> 0:42:48.800
<v Speaker 1>think who else did they? LISTEN i Think Leah, Malia,

0:42:49.120 --> 0:42:50.839
<v Speaker 1>Sylvia i'm not sure if you, listen but what? Up

0:42:50.840 --> 0:42:53.520
<v Speaker 1>hey girl And logan so like there's a bunch of,

0:42:53.520 --> 0:42:55.080
<v Speaker 1>team but, LIKE i think these are the core people that,

0:42:55.200 --> 0:42:59.040
<v Speaker 1>listen AND i couldn't. Believe i'm, like they, listen so you,

0:42:59.080 --> 0:43:01.800
<v Speaker 1>know they, know you, know little insight about my. Life

0:43:01.840 --> 0:43:04.560
<v Speaker 1>sometimes it's, weird like when like we'll have a chat

0:43:04.560 --> 0:43:07.160
<v Speaker 1>BECAUSE i chat with my team individually On mondays and

0:43:07.200 --> 0:43:10.279
<v Speaker 1>sometimes like somebody will mention something From Brian ambishing And i'm, like,

0:43:10.440 --> 0:43:14.000
<v Speaker 1>what how do you know That i'm a little? Man,

0:43:15.840 --> 0:43:18.840
<v Speaker 1>no because my friends are, like, yeah that's. Cute my

0:43:18.920 --> 0:43:22.560
<v Speaker 1>family nobody. Listened, HONESTLY i have the most the least

0:43:22.760 --> 0:43:25.880
<v Speaker 1>techye friends and, Family like no one's on social, media

0:43:26.920 --> 0:43:30.320
<v Speaker 1>no one even knows what a podcast is like, honestly

0:43:30.400 --> 0:43:32.680
<v Speaker 1>like even my, sisters which is, Weird like they're barely On,

0:43:32.719 --> 0:43:36.440
<v Speaker 1>facebook not On. Instagram my boo is like just knows

0:43:36.440 --> 0:43:37.920
<v Speaker 1>how to Use. Facebook the other day he was, like

0:43:37.960 --> 0:43:40.280
<v Speaker 1>how do you do an? ATTACHMENT i, said just, please

0:43:40.520 --> 0:43:42.840
<v Speaker 1>just get out of my, feet like no one is,

0:43:43.120 --> 0:43:45.719
<v Speaker 1>like not even moderately. Techy my mom will show. Me

0:43:45.760 --> 0:43:47.279
<v Speaker 1>the other day she was, like how DO i make

0:43:47.280 --> 0:43:49.920
<v Speaker 1>my screen bigger on my on my? COMPUTER i just was, like,

0:43:49.960 --> 0:43:52.800
<v Speaker 1>mommy who are? You did you get your master you

0:43:52.920 --> 0:43:55.000
<v Speaker 1>like graduated like super cume. Loude how do you not

0:43:55.040 --> 0:43:56.560
<v Speaker 1>know how to make your screen? Bigger and this is

0:43:56.560 --> 0:44:00.279
<v Speaker 1>WHY i have to drive thirty five. Minutes he was,

0:44:00.320 --> 0:44:01.799
<v Speaker 1>like come to the. HOUSE i need. YOU i was,

0:44:01.800 --> 0:44:05.040
<v Speaker 1>like oh, okay oh so this is why my dad

0:44:05.080 --> 0:44:07.920
<v Speaker 1>once did that when he was like the letters on

0:44:07.960 --> 0:44:09.719
<v Speaker 1>my screen are too. Small i'm, Like, DADDY i could

0:44:09.719 --> 0:44:12.080
<v Speaker 1>have walked you through over the. Phone he's, like.

0:44:12.080 --> 0:44:14.239
<v Speaker 2>Now you always say that it's actually quicker to get

0:44:14.239 --> 0:44:17.000
<v Speaker 2>in the. Car i've, learned don't even try, It.

0:44:18.520 --> 0:44:20.719
<v Speaker 1>Like what's the? Body you're, like oh my, God i'll

0:44:20.719 --> 0:44:23.719
<v Speaker 1>just be. There. Yeah so, Yeah SO i just want

0:44:23.719 --> 0:44:26.040
<v Speaker 1>to say shout out and brown boost to my team because,

0:44:26.040 --> 0:44:29.960
<v Speaker 1>honestly like someone, stated they are a bunch of. Unicorns

0:44:30.000 --> 0:44:35.280
<v Speaker 1>it's these amazing brown women helping other amazing brown. Women

0:44:35.440 --> 0:44:38.879
<v Speaker 1>it could not be more. Ideal and everyone is so

0:44:39.000 --> 0:44:42.719
<v Speaker 1>invested in the, mission you, know everyone is. Like SO

0:44:42.800 --> 0:44:44.840
<v Speaker 1>i had to tell them the other day the truth of.

0:44:44.880 --> 0:44:46.440
<v Speaker 1>This i'm, LIKE i know, that you guys because we

0:44:46.480 --> 0:44:49.520
<v Speaker 1>have this online punching, sheet like it's called t sheets

0:44:49.520 --> 0:44:51.480
<v Speaker 1>where you can punch it online and you're supposed To

0:44:51.600 --> 0:44:53.319
<v Speaker 1>like they have a set amount of hours that they

0:44:53.360 --> 0:44:56.000
<v Speaker 1>do every, week like arrange that they can. Do AND i,

0:44:56.080 --> 0:44:58.400
<v Speaker 1>SAID i can tell by how much work it is getting.

0:44:58.440 --> 0:45:01.400
<v Speaker 1>Done y'all are not always. Punched SO i had to

0:45:01.440 --> 0:45:04.239
<v Speaker 1>literally tell, them like stop working for, free because what

0:45:04.280 --> 0:45:05.719
<v Speaker 1>they'll do is be, like oh you know, what, ooh

0:45:05.760 --> 0:45:07.080
<v Speaker 1>this needs to be. Done i'm just Gonna i'm just

0:45:07.120 --> 0:45:09.239
<v Speaker 1>gonna do ten minutes two hours later and they're, like,

0:45:09.239 --> 0:45:11.160
<v Speaker 1>WELL i didn't Punch it's all, Right And i'm like,

0:45:11.239 --> 0:45:14.560
<v Speaker 1>stop you, know BECAUSE i want. One, one they're so.

0:45:14.719 --> 0:45:16.560
<v Speaker 1>VALUABLE i don't want anyone to get burned out like.

0:45:16.600 --> 0:45:18.759
<v Speaker 1>Me and, two you, know to, me it's fair is.

0:45:18.760 --> 0:45:20.239
<v Speaker 1>Fair if you do the, work you should be paid for.

0:45:20.280 --> 0:45:22.600
<v Speaker 1>It but, like who else has that, complaint like my

0:45:22.640 --> 0:45:26.000
<v Speaker 1>team is not punching in and being fully. Paid So

0:45:26.160 --> 0:45:29.399
<v Speaker 1>i'm just really grateful for Y'all Brown Boost Hay. TEAM

0:45:29.760 --> 0:45:31.200
<v Speaker 1>i Think i'm gonna call y' all THE b TEAM

0:45:31.400 --> 0:45:33.279
<v Speaker 1>b team who should GET t? SHIRTS B.

0:45:33.520 --> 0:45:38.239
<v Speaker 2>Team it's still left down on my own. Team don't

0:45:38.280 --> 0:45:44.959
<v Speaker 2>worry about. It but, yeah so that's my boost good

0:45:45.520 --> 0:45:51.759
<v Speaker 2>from negative Dream cultures to POSITIVE B. Team, yes, Sorry Green. Chef,

0:45:53.760 --> 0:45:57.879
<v Speaker 2>WOW i just need some me. Time husby is really into.

0:45:57.880 --> 0:45:59.560
<v Speaker 2>It he's, LIKE i can need all the frozen PIECES i.

0:45:59.600 --> 0:46:01.560
<v Speaker 2>Want i'm, like, yeah there's three ninety, nine go for,

0:46:01.640 --> 0:46:03.080
<v Speaker 2>it Right.

0:46:04.080 --> 0:46:05.719
<v Speaker 1>Ah this is so easy to please when it comes to.

0:46:05.719 --> 0:46:07.840
<v Speaker 1>Food i'm always Like i'm gonna have some sate this and.

0:46:07.880 --> 0:46:10.600
<v Speaker 2>That the sooner you realize, that the happier you will

0:46:10.640 --> 0:46:13.319
<v Speaker 2>be in your. Relationship what all they want is a girl,

0:46:13.400 --> 0:46:15.040
<v Speaker 2>Cheese just do the least.

0:46:15.200 --> 0:46:16.960
<v Speaker 1>Right or like every once in a, while like fancy

0:46:16.960 --> 0:46:19.359
<v Speaker 1>food is like you made. Chili WHEN i make, chili

0:46:19.400 --> 0:46:21.400
<v Speaker 1>he like calls his friends, like, Yo tiffany made, Chili

0:46:21.719 --> 0:46:23.000
<v Speaker 1>and then all of a, sudden there's like five men

0:46:23.080 --> 0:46:25.360
<v Speaker 1>at my door like, Hey, Tiffany i'm, like why are you?

0:46:25.400 --> 0:46:28.719
<v Speaker 1>HERE i heard you makee. Chili i'm, like, really you

0:46:28.719 --> 0:46:30.279
<v Speaker 1>should have seen. TODAY i THINK i was telling my

0:46:30.320 --> 0:46:32.399
<v Speaker 1>best friend on the phone. Chili he looked, up like, chili,

0:46:32.480 --> 0:46:36.000
<v Speaker 1>chill chili is happening When i'm, like, tomorrow, Tomorrow.

0:46:36.280 --> 0:46:38.000
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna need to. COME i love some good. Chili you.

0:46:38.000 --> 0:46:40.200
<v Speaker 2>Know it's there's A christmas in the. Air this past.

0:46:40.239 --> 0:46:43.600
<v Speaker 2>Weekend it feels like almost like, fall like feels Like

0:46:43.640 --> 0:46:44.680
<v Speaker 2>autumnate is on the.

0:46:44.719 --> 0:46:46.080
<v Speaker 1>Brink he does feel like.

0:46:46.120 --> 0:46:46.960
<v Speaker 2>That OH i can't.

0:46:47.000 --> 0:46:48.360
<v Speaker 1>WAIT i do like.

0:46:48.400 --> 0:46:51.520
<v Speaker 2>Fall sorry for anyone In houston or anywhere, else it's

0:46:51.560 --> 0:46:54.680
<v Speaker 2>not like. THIS i. Apologize, yeah but you have to be.

0:46:54.840 --> 0:46:57.000
<v Speaker 1>Sensitive fall is definitely a fun.

0:46:57.040 --> 0:47:03.000
<v Speaker 2>MONTH i mean fits on the, train.

0:47:03.280 --> 0:47:06.960
<v Speaker 1>Right so do we have any? Questions we, do.

0:47:07.120 --> 0:47:09.839
<v Speaker 2>As, ever have questions you, guys please go To brown

0:47:09.880 --> 0:47:12.799
<v Speaker 2>ambitionpodcast dot com drop us a. Note just click the

0:47:12.920 --> 0:47:16.319
<v Speaker 2>ask us anything tab at the top and you can

0:47:16.360 --> 0:47:19.400
<v Speaker 2>send us a note, directly or you can send us

0:47:19.400 --> 0:47:25.000
<v Speaker 2>an email At Brown Ambition podcast at gmail dot. Com

0:47:24.120 --> 0:47:27.680
<v Speaker 2>i'm GLAD i read her second email because she, said

0:47:27.680 --> 0:47:31.480
<v Speaker 2>don't don't name my. Name oh, yeah so here's a

0:47:31.480 --> 0:47:35.560
<v Speaker 2>good career. Question so she this is this anonymous. Podcaster

0:47:35.719 --> 0:47:41.960
<v Speaker 2>we'll call Her. Jana, yeah we'll go With. Diana. Okay

0:47:42.239 --> 0:47:44.120
<v Speaker 2>So i'm a big fan of the. PODCAST i will

0:47:44.160 --> 0:47:46.960
<v Speaker 2>be turning twenty five in just ten, days And i'm

0:47:47.000 --> 0:47:49.480
<v Speaker 2>reflecting quite a bit on WHERE i am in. Life oh,

0:47:49.560 --> 0:47:50.920
<v Speaker 2>god twenty.

0:47:50.960 --> 0:47:53.800
<v Speaker 1>FIVE i remember those when you just be, like, oh

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:56.120
<v Speaker 1>my live. Meal you're, like, Oh i've got literally the

0:47:56.160 --> 0:47:58.080
<v Speaker 1>whole life to. Live go, ahead ask, Me.

0:47:58.480 --> 0:48:01.000
<v Speaker 2>Okay i'm writing this on A, sunday AND i received

0:48:01.000 --> 0:48:04.440
<v Speaker 2>a job offer On friday for a local nonprofit dedicated

0:48:04.480 --> 0:48:07.440
<v Speaker 2>to mentoring at risk youth in local high. Schools i'm

0:48:07.480 --> 0:48:09.960
<v Speaker 2>excited for the, job BUT i do have some feelings

0:48:09.960 --> 0:48:12.799
<v Speaker 2>about WHERE i am currently in terms of. STATUS i

0:48:12.840 --> 0:48:15.160
<v Speaker 2>would be taking a pay cup for this position about

0:48:15.239 --> 0:48:19.120
<v Speaker 2>five thousand. Dollars my previous POSITION i left abruptly after

0:48:19.160 --> 0:48:22.040
<v Speaker 2>trying to stick it. Through the job in the field

0:48:22.040 --> 0:48:24.120
<v Speaker 2>was an experiment of sorts and just wasn't a right.

0:48:24.160 --> 0:48:26.440
<v Speaker 2>FIT i Know i'm on the right track, now BUT

0:48:26.520 --> 0:48:29.799
<v Speaker 2>i can't shake the feeling Like i'm excuse, me Like

0:48:29.840 --> 0:48:32.719
<v Speaker 2>i'm regressing by starting an entry level position at only

0:48:32.800 --> 0:48:36.080
<v Speaker 2>twenty five years old WHEN i graduated in twenty fourteen

0:48:36.160 --> 0:48:38.960
<v Speaker 2>and have been through one entry level position already in

0:48:39.000 --> 0:48:41.879
<v Speaker 2>addition to. TEACHING i feel LIKE i wasted the past

0:48:41.920 --> 0:48:44.680
<v Speaker 2>three years AND i should have been mid level by.

0:48:44.800 --> 0:48:48.799
<v Speaker 2>Now so, GENERALLY i thinking her question is this a

0:48:48.800 --> 0:48:51.360
<v Speaker 2>step backward or SHOULD i just take the job and be?

0:48:51.600 --> 0:48:56.480
<v Speaker 2>Happy good, question excellent. Question, actually yes it.

0:48:56.560 --> 0:48:59.160
<v Speaker 1>IS i you, know it's so funny Because i'm, like,

0:48:59.160 --> 0:49:01.760
<v Speaker 1>ooh twenty, FIVE i remember being so serious about. MYSELF

0:49:03.160 --> 0:49:04.919
<v Speaker 1>i think like a twenty five bought a house BECAUSE

0:49:04.920 --> 0:49:06.319
<v Speaker 1>i was, Like i'm an, ADULT i really need a.

0:49:06.360 --> 0:49:11.240
<v Speaker 1>HOME i need a, home and to, me five thousand,

0:49:11.280 --> 0:49:15.359
<v Speaker 1>dollars especially at twenty, five it's not super. SIGNIFICANT i

0:49:15.400 --> 0:49:18.680
<v Speaker 1>think at twenty five That i'd like to see you

0:49:18.760 --> 0:49:23.520
<v Speaker 1>just really focus on strategically taking positions that are going

0:49:23.520 --> 0:49:26.239
<v Speaker 1>to get you to the ultimate, goals like regardless of

0:49:26.360 --> 0:49:28.439
<v Speaker 1>what the income, is because the income not to say

0:49:28.440 --> 0:49:30.920
<v Speaker 1>regardless of what the income, is but BECAUSE i do know,

0:49:30.960 --> 0:49:32.800
<v Speaker 1>that like you, know taking less now means that you

0:49:32.880 --> 0:49:35.920
<v Speaker 1>might have less. Later but being really strategic about the

0:49:35.960 --> 0:49:41.000
<v Speaker 1>skill sets that you're. Collecting AND i don't, know nonprofit

0:49:41.040 --> 0:49:43.600
<v Speaker 1>work is hard because it's not like Corporate america where

0:49:43.600 --> 0:49:46.360
<v Speaker 1>it's like, ooh you made, less oh, girl because, nonprofit

0:49:46.400 --> 0:49:49.319
<v Speaker 1>that's that's not that's, typical, honestly because they just don't

0:49:49.360 --> 0:49:50.080
<v Speaker 1>have the, funds you know.

0:49:51.280 --> 0:49:53.560
<v Speaker 2>What so you, WELL i was just going to read

0:49:53.600 --> 0:49:55.440
<v Speaker 2>the extra. Detail she said she was going from forty

0:49:55.480 --> 0:49:58.799
<v Speaker 2>thousand a year to thirty five thousand a. Year well, one,

0:49:59.239 --> 0:50:01.480
<v Speaker 2>YEAH i, Mean i'll tell you a. Story SO i

0:50:01.560 --> 0:50:03.160
<v Speaker 2>was just at this baby shower AND i was talking

0:50:03.200 --> 0:50:05.560
<v Speaker 2>to a good friend and in MY i was, like

0:50:05.560 --> 0:50:08.440
<v Speaker 2>you got five. Minutes i'm just. Kidding, no she was

0:50:08.520 --> 0:50:10.040
<v Speaker 2>updating me on where she's at in her, life and

0:50:10.080 --> 0:50:12.239
<v Speaker 2>she she threw me a blind like a curve, ball

0:50:12.360 --> 0:50:14.680
<v Speaker 2>Because i've known her to work at this great nonprofit

0:50:14.719 --> 0:50:17.680
<v Speaker 2>with Full Bright scholars full as part of the Full

0:50:17.800 --> 0:50:22.120
<v Speaker 2>Bright scholar whatever fund or organization that manages that whole.

0:50:22.120 --> 0:50:26.959
<v Speaker 2>Thing and she's, like, OH I i'm actually starting school

0:50:27.080 --> 0:50:28.839
<v Speaker 2>in a week And i'm going to go. Back i'm

0:50:28.960 --> 0:50:30.440
<v Speaker 2>to get my pre recks And i'm going to go

0:50:30.480 --> 0:50:33.400
<v Speaker 2>to nursing. School AND i was, like, what she has her,

0:50:33.480 --> 0:50:36.280
<v Speaker 2>master she has her. Undergrad she's been working here for several,

0:50:36.360 --> 0:50:39.960
<v Speaker 2>years she's, established she's doing, great and she's pivoting in

0:50:39.960 --> 0:50:43.600
<v Speaker 2>like a, major, major major way AND i was, LIKE

0:50:43.800 --> 0:50:46.080
<v Speaker 2>i think that takes such, guts and she's. Not she's

0:50:46.080 --> 0:50:48.319
<v Speaker 2>the second PERSON i know who's done something similar to.

0:50:48.400 --> 0:50:52.160
<v Speaker 2>That another good friend of mine who's actually was the

0:50:52.440 --> 0:50:54.640
<v Speaker 2>she it was her baby. Shower she worked for The

0:50:54.719 --> 0:50:57.040
<v Speaker 2>Food bank Of New York city FOR i don't know

0:50:57.080 --> 0:50:59.880
<v Speaker 2>a few years and had gone to this undergrad and

0:50:59.880 --> 0:51:02.360
<v Speaker 2>all that kind of, stuff and then pivoted Quit and

0:51:02.400 --> 0:51:05.799
<v Speaker 2>now she's a nurse and she's loving her. Career AND

0:51:05.880 --> 0:51:08.279
<v Speaker 2>i feel like these both of them were in their

0:51:08.320 --> 0:51:10.440
<v Speaker 2>mid twenties when they made this, decision AND i or

0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:12.719
<v Speaker 2>mid twenties and, this AND i think the ONE i

0:51:12.760 --> 0:51:14.600
<v Speaker 2>talked to you, YESTERDAY i think she's twenty nine or

0:51:14.640 --> 0:51:17.680
<v Speaker 2>thirty or something like. That it's never too. Late AND

0:51:17.719 --> 0:51:19.080
<v Speaker 2>i also feel, like if you're going to do, it

0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:22.400
<v Speaker 2>you might as well do it. Now and if pivoting

0:51:22.520 --> 0:51:24.399
<v Speaker 2>and going a little bit under what you were making

0:51:24.480 --> 0:51:27.040
<v Speaker 2>before in the grand scheme of, things five thousand, dollars

0:51:27.120 --> 0:51:30.040
<v Speaker 2>when you spread it out, over, however twenty four paychecks

0:51:30.040 --> 0:51:33.160
<v Speaker 2>over a, year it's not like gonna shatter your. WORLD

0:51:33.200 --> 0:51:36.680
<v Speaker 2>i don't think you take that pay. CUT i understand

0:51:36.680 --> 0:51:39.080
<v Speaker 2>how it can feel LIKE i took a step back

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:41.920
<v Speaker 2>WHEN I i lost my job at my first magazine

0:51:41.960 --> 0:51:44.520
<v Speaker 2>job At New York, city AND i went from earning

0:51:44.520 --> 0:51:47.160
<v Speaker 2>forty five thousand to thirty five, thousand like that ten

0:51:47.239 --> 0:51:50.400
<v Speaker 2>thousand dollars pay. Cut but IF i hadn't, PIVOTED i

0:51:50.440 --> 0:51:53.200
<v Speaker 2>never would have been WHERE i am. Now AND i

0:51:53.239 --> 0:51:55.040
<v Speaker 2>don't regret it for a. Minute you. KNOW i had

0:51:55.040 --> 0:51:57.359
<v Speaker 2>to do WHAT i had to, do AND i made

0:51:57.400 --> 0:52:00.239
<v Speaker 2>it work for. Me AND i think that you can

0:52:00.239 --> 0:52:02.960
<v Speaker 2>make it work for you, too and just, DON'T i,

0:52:02.960 --> 0:52:05.040
<v Speaker 2>mean be a little bit easier on. YOURSELF i guess

0:52:05.080 --> 0:52:06.920
<v Speaker 2>you tried, something it didn't work, out at least you.

0:52:07.000 --> 0:52:11.360
<v Speaker 1>Left, yeah, yeah, Yeah and it's good to, like to,

0:52:11.400 --> 0:52:14.200
<v Speaker 1>me your twenties are really about, like, well really every

0:52:14.239 --> 0:52:16.359
<v Speaker 1>age is really about to go for, it you, know

0:52:16.440 --> 0:52:20.200
<v Speaker 1>but especially in your, twenties because the fall is not so.

0:52:20.400 --> 0:52:24.400
<v Speaker 1>FAR i WISH i would have known that WHEN i

0:52:24.440 --> 0:52:27.400
<v Speaker 1>was in my, twenties, because like, YOU i was kind of, like, oh,

0:52:27.400 --> 0:52:29.120
<v Speaker 1>WELL i did go for it as far as become

0:52:29.120 --> 0:52:30.839
<v Speaker 1>a school, teacher even though that doesn't seem like such

0:52:30.840 --> 0:52:33.600
<v Speaker 1>a big leap for, me it was huge Because i'd

0:52:33.600 --> 0:52:36.640
<v Speaker 1>gone to school for business and like what a AND.

0:52:36.680 --> 0:52:38.359
<v Speaker 1>I you know, WHAT i did take a huge pay

0:52:38.400 --> 0:52:41.040
<v Speaker 1>cut BECAUSE i got right out of. COLLEGE i got

0:52:41.080 --> 0:52:44.040
<v Speaker 1>offered a job for fifty thousand dollars a year and my,

0:52:44.160 --> 0:52:46.960
<v Speaker 1>internship AND i hated the. Internship you. Know the, money of,

0:52:47.000 --> 0:52:48.800
<v Speaker 1>course was like WHAT i could have moved, OUT i

0:52:48.840 --> 0:52:51.480
<v Speaker 1>could have bought a. Car and THEN i had the

0:52:51.560 --> 0:52:55.000
<v Speaker 1>choice to work at a day care, center and, honestly

0:52:55.040 --> 0:52:57.520
<v Speaker 1>they were paying, ME i think like twelve or fourteen

0:52:57.600 --> 0:53:00.880
<v Speaker 1>thousan an, hour which was like nothing the fifty, thousand

0:53:01.719 --> 0:53:04.200
<v Speaker 1>AND i took that, job the daycare shunner, job BECAUSE

0:53:04.280 --> 0:53:06.600
<v Speaker 1>i KNEW i wanted to, shift AND i my fear

0:53:06.760 --> 0:53:08.759
<v Speaker 1>was IF i took the fifty, THOUSAND i would be

0:53:08.800 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 1>stuck on that path toward, yes more, money but also

0:53:12.920 --> 0:53:15.000
<v Speaker 1>LIKE i didn't want to do, that and SO i

0:53:15.120 --> 0:53:19.600
<v Speaker 1>ended up taking that twelve or fourteen fourteen dollars an hour,

0:53:19.719 --> 0:53:22.840
<v Speaker 1>job and that led to a job offer which was,

0:53:22.840 --> 0:53:25.920
<v Speaker 1>LIKE i think thirty two, thousand and then a competing

0:53:26.080 --> 0:53:28.759
<v Speaker 1>childcare center offered me thirty nine, Thousand so instead of

0:53:28.800 --> 0:53:31.120
<v Speaker 1>making fifty, YEAR i was making thirty nine within a

0:53:31.160 --> 0:53:34.040
<v Speaker 1>few months after. Graduating but it was the best THING

0:53:34.080 --> 0:53:36.720
<v Speaker 1>i could have done because working in WHAT i wanted

0:53:36.760 --> 0:53:39.759
<v Speaker 1>to work, in which was being a. Teacher it set

0:53:39.800 --> 0:53:42.040
<v Speaker 1>me up for What i'm doing, now which is ultimately

0:53:42.080 --> 0:53:44.560
<v Speaker 1>teaching and everything THAT i know about teaching as a.

0:53:44.600 --> 0:53:47.960
<v Speaker 1>BUDGET i learned at that daycare center every single, thing you.

0:53:48.000 --> 0:53:50.520
<v Speaker 1>KNOW i learned how to be, engaging how to actually

0:53:50.800 --> 0:53:53.200
<v Speaker 1>take someone from a place of no knowledge to, knowledge

0:53:53.320 --> 0:53:56.920
<v Speaker 1>how to explain things, thoroughly how you, know like every single.

0:53:56.960 --> 0:53:59.400
<v Speaker 1>THING i even learned how to run a business honestly

0:53:59.440 --> 0:54:01.879
<v Speaker 1>at the daycare center BECAUSE i Was it was only

0:54:02.040 --> 0:54:06.400
<v Speaker 1>like a two classroom, center SO i was like the

0:54:06.600 --> 0:54:08.600
<v Speaker 1>like THE ceo of the, center BECAUSE i was like

0:54:08.680 --> 0:54:12.000
<v Speaker 1>the lead. Teacher SO i was ordering, SUPPLIES i was managing.

0:54:12.040 --> 0:54:14.120
<v Speaker 1>Staff we had like two other people who work, there

0:54:14.440 --> 0:54:16.399
<v Speaker 1>and SO i was managing like you know, What, hey

0:54:16.480 --> 0:54:19.040
<v Speaker 1>something's wrong with the. Toilet you, know somebody go find

0:54:19.040 --> 0:54:24.280
<v Speaker 1>a maintenance. Man so BECAUSE i chose experience over income

0:54:24.520 --> 0:54:28.080
<v Speaker 1>in the, beginning it allowed me to learn and then

0:54:28.120 --> 0:54:31.560
<v Speaker 1>to eventually go for WHERE i am. Now i'm making way,

0:54:31.719 --> 0:54:35.160
<v Speaker 1>more got making way more now THAN i would have

0:54:35.200 --> 0:54:37.759
<v Speaker 1>HAD i started off at the job that was going

0:54:37.840 --> 0:54:40.440
<v Speaker 1>to start me off as way more because the skill

0:54:40.480 --> 0:54:42.719
<v Speaker 1>sets THAT i learned at like WHERE i really wanted

0:54:42.760 --> 0:54:45.800
<v Speaker 1>to be allowed me to basically build the life THAT i. Wanted,

0:54:46.120 --> 0:54:49.960
<v Speaker 1>so you, know, money although it is, important it is

0:54:50.040 --> 0:54:53.000
<v Speaker 1>not the only decider for what you want to do

0:54:53.040 --> 0:54:55.319
<v Speaker 1>with your. Life and THAT i really tend to lean

0:54:55.360 --> 0:55:00.399
<v Speaker 1>toward really collecting experiences and skills so you can live

0:55:00.440 --> 0:55:01.840
<v Speaker 1>the life that you desire at the end of the,

0:55:01.880 --> 0:55:02.200
<v Speaker 1>day you.

0:55:02.239 --> 0:55:05.000
<v Speaker 2>Know and she didn't mention whether or not she's asked for.

0:55:05.080 --> 0:55:08.279
<v Speaker 2>More and if you, haven't at least, Ask, yeah you never,

0:55:08.360 --> 0:55:13.000
<v Speaker 2>know you never. Know it's, uh it's it's it's. NOT i,

0:55:13.000 --> 0:55:14.560
<v Speaker 2>mean the worst they can do is say. No and

0:55:14.600 --> 0:55:16.600
<v Speaker 2>you should ask for you should ask for more if

0:55:16.640 --> 0:55:20.640
<v Speaker 2>you haven't. Yet good? Luck what DID i call? Her?

0:55:20.719 --> 0:55:24.239
<v Speaker 2>Diana good Luck. Diana don't be so. HARD i mean twenty. Five,

0:55:24.280 --> 0:55:28.520
<v Speaker 2>man WHEN i think about twenty, Five, yeah who? Knew you,

0:55:28.560 --> 0:55:30.120
<v Speaker 2>know you never know where you're going. To five years

0:55:30.239 --> 0:55:32.600
<v Speaker 2>is a long, time, honestly and you can you could

0:55:32.640 --> 0:55:35.680
<v Speaker 2>do a lot in five. Years you never, know you never,

0:55:35.719 --> 0:55:36.160
<v Speaker 2>know you never.

0:55:36.239 --> 0:55:38.480
<v Speaker 1>Know, yeah, okay we.

0:55:38.480 --> 0:55:42.000
<v Speaker 2>HAVEN'T i want to do another quick career. Question this

0:55:42.080 --> 0:55:45.640
<v Speaker 2>is from a listener Called. ALEXANDRA i don't think she's

0:55:45.680 --> 0:55:48.440
<v Speaker 2>okay with me using her? Name, Okay, So alexandra, Says

0:55:49.239 --> 0:55:50.759
<v Speaker 2>i'm so's the Podcast thank.

0:55:50.760 --> 0:55:50.920
<v Speaker 1>You.

0:55:51.280 --> 0:55:53.680
<v Speaker 2>So i'm twenty three years old AND i graduated from

0:55:53.719 --> 0:55:56.439
<v Speaker 2>college Last. August right, NOW i work at an entry

0:55:56.520 --> 0:55:59.200
<v Speaker 2>level job at A pr. Firm just last, WEEK i

0:55:59.239 --> 0:56:01.080
<v Speaker 2>had a one on one meeting with my boss that

0:56:01.160 --> 0:56:04.080
<v Speaker 2>left me in. Tears while in that, MEETING i realized

0:56:04.080 --> 0:56:06.640
<v Speaker 2>THAT i wasn't passionate about WHAT i did and started

0:56:06.640 --> 0:56:08.759
<v Speaker 2>to panic THAT i was never going to figure out

0:56:08.840 --> 0:56:11.560
<v Speaker 2>what exactly it is THAT i wanted to do twenty,

0:56:11.600 --> 0:56:14.240
<v Speaker 2>THREE i would love to have a job that allowed

0:56:14.280 --> 0:56:16.920
<v Speaker 2>me to express my creativity through writing and social media

0:56:16.960 --> 0:56:19.239
<v Speaker 2>and also inspire and help. Others BUT i feel like

0:56:19.280 --> 0:56:22.560
<v Speaker 2>in today's, WORLD i have to be quote realistic and

0:56:22.600 --> 0:56:25.200
<v Speaker 2>have a job that's more. Stable i'm not going to

0:56:25.280 --> 0:56:27.440
<v Speaker 2>quit my job because it's my only source of. Income good.

0:56:27.480 --> 0:56:30.239
<v Speaker 2>Idea so my question is how are you guys able

0:56:30.280 --> 0:56:32.600
<v Speaker 2>to navigate the career world and do you have any

0:56:32.600 --> 0:56:33.799
<v Speaker 2>tips for young person like?

0:56:33.880 --> 0:56:33.960
<v Speaker 4>Me?

0:56:35.320 --> 0:56:36.960
<v Speaker 1>So what does she? Say she was like? Her her

0:56:37.000 --> 0:56:40.000
<v Speaker 1>passion is what she what's something? Creative were she she's

0:56:40.000 --> 0:56:40.840
<v Speaker 1>allowed to do what she?

0:56:40.880 --> 0:56:42.600
<v Speaker 2>Says i'd love to have a job that allowed me

0:56:42.640 --> 0:56:45.440
<v Speaker 2>to express my creativity through writing and social media and

0:56:45.480 --> 0:56:48.799
<v Speaker 2>also inspire help. Others and right now she's working entry

0:56:48.880 --> 0:56:49.680
<v Speaker 2>level at A pr.

0:56:49.760 --> 0:56:53.040
<v Speaker 1>Firm i'm, like, girl you want TO i need somebody

0:56:53.040 --> 0:56:56.320
<v Speaker 1>to help navigate this DreamCatcher group that social media helping

0:56:56.360 --> 0:56:57.040
<v Speaker 1>others a.

0:56:57.280 --> 0:56:58.359
<v Speaker 2>Real long wanting it for her.

0:56:58.400 --> 0:57:01.759
<v Speaker 1>Email, yeah you're looking for a. JOB i, mean like

0:57:01.760 --> 0:57:04.400
<v Speaker 1>it wouldn't be full, time But i'll say this that

0:57:04.560 --> 0:57:06.840
<v Speaker 1>working and so this is just a good for everyone

0:57:06.920 --> 0:57:09.520
<v Speaker 1>kind of listening. That one of the things That i'm

0:57:09.600 --> 0:57:12.920
<v Speaker 1>noticing is from so many of my friends are, entrepreneurs

0:57:13.320 --> 0:57:16.600
<v Speaker 1>and What i'm noticing is their their businesses are growing

0:57:17.000 --> 0:57:20.080
<v Speaker 1>and they're starting to really, hire you, know not enough

0:57:20.120 --> 0:57:22.240
<v Speaker 1>for you to like quit your job, higher but enough

0:57:22.240 --> 0:57:25.360
<v Speaker 1>for you to have side income. Higher and What i've

0:57:25.360 --> 0:57:28.760
<v Speaker 1>seen was my business is that because we're growing so,

0:57:28.920 --> 0:57:32.400
<v Speaker 1>quickly that someone will have started off as an intern

0:57:32.760 --> 0:57:34.720
<v Speaker 1>and then six months later not even like one of the,

0:57:34.760 --> 0:57:37.400
<v Speaker 1>interns NOW i just offered, her you, know part time.

0:57:37.440 --> 0:57:41.360
<v Speaker 1>Work and in the woman that she's taken the place

0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:43.120
<v Speaker 1>off is because she's been bumped up and she's only

0:57:43.120 --> 0:57:45.720
<v Speaker 1>been here six. Months and so What i'm seeing just

0:57:45.760 --> 0:57:49.680
<v Speaker 1>like here at The budgetista is that people come in

0:57:50.040 --> 0:57:51.959
<v Speaker 1>if they do a good, job within a few, months

0:57:51.960 --> 0:57:54.120
<v Speaker 1>they're bumped up and they're bumped up and they're bumped.

0:57:54.200 --> 0:57:56.960
<v Speaker 1>Up and you, know, NOW i mean there are people

0:57:56.960 --> 0:58:02.200
<v Speaker 1>who started like my my executive assistant. Admin she was

0:58:02.280 --> 0:58:04.160
<v Speaker 1>awesome as AN, admin but THEN i found out she

0:58:04.240 --> 0:58:07.600
<v Speaker 1>had her master HER mba in. Accounting so now she's

0:58:07.680 --> 0:58:11.800
<v Speaker 1>like OUR, cfo she's killing. It and NOW i just.

0:58:11.880 --> 0:58:13.480
<v Speaker 1>Hired she was only here for a month BEFORE i

0:58:13.520 --> 0:58:16.000
<v Speaker 1>realized she was, amazing And i'm, like why did you say?

0:58:16.040 --> 0:58:18.120
<v Speaker 1>That so now she's been bumped up THE cfo AND

0:58:18.160 --> 0:58:20.960
<v Speaker 1>i brought on a new executive admin and she's been

0:58:21.000 --> 0:58:23.480
<v Speaker 1>with us with me for like three, weeks and so,

0:58:24.200 --> 0:58:26.680
<v Speaker 1>looking you, KNOW i would look to join some of

0:58:26.720 --> 0:58:30.840
<v Speaker 1>these like entrepreneur groups On facebook because you, know a

0:58:30.880 --> 0:58:33.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of people's businesses are starting to do better and

0:58:33.760 --> 0:58:37.040
<v Speaker 1>they're able to offer at least something on the. Side

0:58:37.120 --> 0:58:39.360
<v Speaker 1>and you get to learn in a safe environment because

0:58:39.360 --> 0:58:41.560
<v Speaker 1>when you work for a really small, company you get

0:58:41.560 --> 0:58:46.720
<v Speaker 1>to see, everything you, Know so like the intern Yatals,

0:58:46.760 --> 0:58:49.600
<v Speaker 1>hager all, right so when she first came, on she

0:58:49.840 --> 0:58:54.040
<v Speaker 1>just got to shadow different people in our, company AND

0:58:54.080 --> 0:58:55.680
<v Speaker 1>i was kind of, like, well when you're done, shadowing

0:58:55.960 --> 0:58:58.320
<v Speaker 1>tell me what you like the. Most and you, Know

0:58:58.400 --> 0:59:00.280
<v Speaker 1>i'm always looking for more help than we can just

0:59:00.280 --> 0:59:02.840
<v Speaker 1>put you there and begin to pay, you and so

0:59:03.240 --> 0:59:05.840
<v Speaker 1>it JUST i would really look to see if there

0:59:05.840 --> 0:59:08.480
<v Speaker 1>were entrepreneurs who were just looking for people to help. Out,

0:59:08.480 --> 0:59:09.720
<v Speaker 1>like LIKE i, SAID i, KNOW i, AM i know

0:59:09.760 --> 0:59:12.440
<v Speaker 1>my inbox is gonna be. Flooded i'm, like, geez you know,

0:59:12.480 --> 0:59:15.800
<v Speaker 1>what don't email me directly email me at budget meast

0:59:15.840 --> 0:59:19.320
<v Speaker 1>the jobs at gmail dot, com Budget mesta jobs at

0:59:19.400 --> 0:59:21.840
<v Speaker 1>gmail dot, com because that's WHERE i take, on like you,

0:59:21.840 --> 0:59:26.200
<v Speaker 1>know and flush through people's resumes and. Stuff but, yeah

0:59:26.840 --> 0:59:29.040
<v Speaker 1>that would be my. Suggestion Because i'm seeing so many

0:59:29.040 --> 0:59:31.160
<v Speaker 1>of my. Friends you know what, happens we're all sharing

0:59:31.160 --> 0:59:33.840
<v Speaker 1>the same. People like MY, Cfo i've shared her with

0:59:33.840 --> 0:59:35.560
<v Speaker 1>two minch she's like THE cfo of three of my

0:59:35.640 --> 0:59:39.600
<v Speaker 1>other friends. Businesses because it's so hard when you're an

0:59:39.640 --> 0:59:42.160
<v Speaker 1>entrepreneur to find good. Help so when someone finds good,

0:59:42.200 --> 0:59:43.880
<v Speaker 1>help they're, like who do you use to design your?

0:59:43.880 --> 0:59:46.880
<v Speaker 1>Book my Friend hector designs somef for like all my. Friends,

0:59:46.880 --> 0:59:49.320
<v Speaker 1>now because you run into so many people who are

0:59:49.360 --> 0:59:52.160
<v Speaker 1>not a great fit or who don't. Produce so when

0:59:52.200 --> 0:59:54.360
<v Speaker 1>you find, someone you pass them, around like you Want,

0:59:54.400 --> 0:59:57.080
<v Speaker 1>hector who wants Some hector who wants Some rachel who

0:59:57.080 --> 1:00:00.440
<v Speaker 1>wants for, real like and so it there's a lot

1:00:00.440 --> 1:00:03.120
<v Speaker 1>of money in, it because SO i might, pay you,

1:00:03.160 --> 1:00:05.880
<v Speaker 1>know Like, rachel but now she gets income from my

1:00:05.880 --> 1:00:07.880
<v Speaker 1>Friend cabrale and my Friend, drina and my other Friend

1:00:07.960 --> 1:00:10.840
<v Speaker 1>lovey and my friend you. Know so it's there's just

1:00:10.880 --> 1:00:15.080
<v Speaker 1>a lot of money in helping entrepreneurs and that way

1:00:15.120 --> 1:00:16.680
<v Speaker 1>you can get you get to also learn and be

1:00:16.760 --> 1:00:19.040
<v Speaker 1>free and decide what it is that you really truly.

1:00:19.120 --> 1:00:20.120
<v Speaker 1>Enjoy so that would be my.

1:00:20.160 --> 1:00:23.240
<v Speaker 2>SUGGESTION i feel like What alexandria really needs is just

1:00:23.280 --> 1:00:25.920
<v Speaker 2>a hug and like a glass of wine and just

1:00:26.040 --> 1:00:29.160
<v Speaker 2>a reminder that you're only twenty. THREE i you, know

1:00:29.280 --> 1:00:31.680
<v Speaker 2>you're NEVER i don't know if anyone wakes up one

1:00:31.720 --> 1:00:33.320
<v Speaker 2>day and they're, LIKE i, MAN i really figured it,

1:00:33.360 --> 1:00:35.240
<v Speaker 2>Out like this life thing IS i got a, lockdown

1:00:35.360 --> 1:00:37.120
<v Speaker 2>because like you think you got your career figured, out

1:00:37.120 --> 1:00:39.320
<v Speaker 2>and then your personal life falls at a, part or

1:00:39.320 --> 1:00:42.760
<v Speaker 2>like your family life falls if something, happens LIKE i,

1:00:42.800 --> 1:00:44.960
<v Speaker 2>think if you're expecting to have everything figured out this.

1:00:45.080 --> 1:00:48.040
<v Speaker 2>Soon it's just you're just gonna end up. Disappointed but

1:00:48.120 --> 1:00:50.520
<v Speaker 2>you're working before you're finding out what you don't. LIKE i,

1:00:50.560 --> 1:00:52.600
<v Speaker 2>mean your first, job you're supposed to hate, it right

1:00:52.600 --> 1:00:54.600
<v Speaker 2>like you're supposed. TO i, mean you're lucky if you

1:00:54.640 --> 1:00:56.480
<v Speaker 2>love your first. Job AND i think you KNOW i

1:00:56.520 --> 1:00:58.480
<v Speaker 2>was lucky to love my first, job although it lasted

1:00:58.520 --> 1:01:02.320
<v Speaker 2>like two. Months but take this, time like learn what

1:01:02.400 --> 1:01:04.240
<v Speaker 2>you can. Learn you're at A pr. FIRM i, MEAN

1:01:04.240 --> 1:01:06.640
<v Speaker 2>i know you're probably just cranking out press, releases but

1:01:06.680 --> 1:01:09.760
<v Speaker 2>you're getting experience and you're building up the resume that's

1:01:09.760 --> 1:01:11.280
<v Speaker 2>going to get your next job that you're going to.

1:01:11.360 --> 1:01:14.320
<v Speaker 2>Love just. HAVE i think you just got to adjust

1:01:14.320 --> 1:01:16.840
<v Speaker 2>your mentality about what you're doing right. Now i'm really

1:01:16.880 --> 1:01:19.360
<v Speaker 2>sorry that whatever meeting you have with your boss left

1:01:19.400 --> 1:01:23.720
<v Speaker 2>you so, Upset but there's only so much you can

1:01:23.800 --> 1:01:26.880
<v Speaker 2>do at this, Point like there's only. There it's just

1:01:26.880 --> 1:01:28.640
<v Speaker 2>like the last question we, have where you're kind of

1:01:28.680 --> 1:01:34.200
<v Speaker 2>putting this like unrealistic expectation on yourself to have everything

1:01:34.280 --> 1:01:35.960
<v Speaker 2>to be exactly where you need to be and to

1:01:36.000 --> 1:01:39.600
<v Speaker 2>see your whole career mapped. Out it's not careers aren't.

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<v Speaker 2>Linear they don't have to be. Linear, yeah have to

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<v Speaker 2>step from this one little this one little pebble, here

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<v Speaker 2>and the go the next little. PEBBLE i, mean you

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<v Speaker 2>can be jumping on you got to go jump back

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<v Speaker 2>one step, left, right one, step two steps, forward one step,

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<v Speaker 2>back like you never, know and you kind of have

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<v Speaker 2>to be prepared and be resilient when you hit a

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<v Speaker 2>wall like you're hitting right, now and just know that

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<v Speaker 2>something will come. Along but you, know be looking for,

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<v Speaker 2>opportunities Like tiffany, said join some, groups see if there's

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<v Speaker 2>work with entrepreneurs, maybe or just see what other job

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<v Speaker 2>listens are out. There start talking to other. People let

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<v Speaker 2>them know that you're interested in doing what you just

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<v Speaker 2>like you told us you want to do social, media creative.

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<v Speaker 2>Writing start talking to, people let them. Know don't make

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<v Speaker 2>it silent something only in your own, head because only

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<v Speaker 2>then can people possibly help. You and when you, said she,

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<v Speaker 2>SAID i feel LIKE i have to be realistic and

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<v Speaker 2>have a job that's more. STABLE i know a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people who get paid to do social media and. Writing, like,

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah i'm a, Writer LIKE i was a writer Now

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<v Speaker 2>i'm an. Editor it's, Possible like you don't have to downplay.

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<v Speaker 2>It it's not. Unrealistic it's not just because it sounds like.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun some jobs can be fun.

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<v Speaker 1>If that's all. Crazy BUT i can remember thinking that

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<v Speaker 1>WHEN i was probably in my, twenties like, ooh like you,

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<v Speaker 1>know if you're, right if it doesn't sound, serious then

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<v Speaker 1>it might not must not, be like you don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to relinquish fun as much as you, know LIKE i,

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<v Speaker 1>stress you know sometimes about stuff THAT i do for The,

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<v Speaker 1>BUDGETIZIA i would honestly say eighty five percent of the,

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<v Speaker 1>time it's. Fun i'm having a good. TIME i work

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<v Speaker 1>with a great, TEAM i get to help great. People you,

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<v Speaker 1>know there's nothing is ever, perfect but you know it's.

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<v Speaker 1>Fun and you like WHEN i talk, preschool WHAT i

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<v Speaker 1>mean like LITERALLY i swung on, swings swings and eight

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<v Speaker 1>snacks and took naps WHEN i wasn't supposed to for a.

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<v Speaker 1>LIVING i used to be, like let me model for the.

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<v Speaker 1>Children the best way to lay on this cot see

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<v Speaker 1>look at Miss. Tiffany this is how you. Sleep but

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<v Speaker 1>you can have fun and making. Money so don't think,

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<v Speaker 1>that like take that word realistic out of your your.

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<v Speaker 1>Vocabulary my marketing, partner he doesn't even live in a specific.

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<v Speaker 1>Space he just turned. Thirty for the last eight years

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<v Speaker 1>he's been traveling the world and living in different. Countries

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<v Speaker 1>and how he makes his money is that he does

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<v Speaker 1>marketing for. Brands so he's one of the people that

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<v Speaker 1>help to take my brand from thirty thousand Dream catchers

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<v Speaker 1>to four hundred and fifty thousand Dream catchers and so

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<v Speaker 1>that's what he. Does he Does, facebook, Marketing, instagram all

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<v Speaker 1>that kind of. Stuff so he also teaches classes and

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<v Speaker 1>teaches people how to how to market their own. Businesses

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<v Speaker 1>and so the money is so good in teaching and

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<v Speaker 1>showing people how to do it that he's been able

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<v Speaker 1>to hop from country to. Country and LIKE i, said

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<v Speaker 1>so that doesn't seem, realistic but that's the life that he.

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<v Speaker 1>Lives so you want to step outside the box and

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<v Speaker 1>realize that there's money to be made and whatever your passion,

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<v Speaker 1>is you just have to figure, out you, know what

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<v Speaker 1>does that look. Like you, know that's WHY i just

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<v Speaker 1>encourage you to like kind of hop around and help

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<v Speaker 1>different people and see what you enjoy and you, know

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<v Speaker 1>maybe take a little side internship or LIKE i, said

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<v Speaker 1>reach out to different entrepreneurs and say, Hey i'd love

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<v Speaker 1>to help you with, This like if you see an

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<v Speaker 1>entrepreneur on social, media then you think is. Awesome you,

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<v Speaker 1>know you might, say, hey you, Know i've got like

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<v Speaker 1>three hours a, Week i'd love to help you with

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<v Speaker 1>your social media BECAUSE i notice that this. Happens no

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<v Speaker 1>one's going to say no to free labor for the most,

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<v Speaker 1>part and you, know you might realize, like, WOW i

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<v Speaker 1>really love, this and then from, there move, up move

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<v Speaker 1>on up in their. Company you just never.

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<v Speaker 2>Know just go for it and you'll be. OKAY i

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<v Speaker 2>MEAN i remember my being twenty, three twenty four years

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<v Speaker 2>old at law three sixty No, shade, great great, company

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<v Speaker 2>not for. Me hated every minute of. It fifteen MONTHS

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<v Speaker 2>i was in, hell but it all worked. OUT i

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<v Speaker 2>MEAN i took that experience AND i pivoted. It and

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<v Speaker 2>you can do the exact same. Thing so and talk

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<v Speaker 2>to OTHER i think we're asking this question and like

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<v Speaker 2>hopefully just hearing us share our experiences and talk to

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<v Speaker 2>you about it hopefully makes you feel, Better like talk

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<v Speaker 2>to your, girlfriends talk to other people because you're not

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<v Speaker 2>alone and like being unhappy with where you're, At but

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<v Speaker 2>you can either let it like bring you down to

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<v Speaker 2>like a pit of negativity where you, know you're kind

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<v Speaker 2>of just like you know those people who just like

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<v Speaker 2>kind of get trapped in the negative spiral and they

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<v Speaker 2>hate their, job hate their. Lives you're going to walk

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<v Speaker 2>into an interview with that negative energy and they're going

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<v Speaker 2>to feel it like you need. To you need, to

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<v Speaker 2>LIKE i, said change the, mentality start thinking about it

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<v Speaker 2>from a positive for, Like, okay try that didn't. Work

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<v Speaker 2>we can learn something from, it And i'll find something

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<v Speaker 2>better and move forward with that different. Mentality optimistic and

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<v Speaker 2>hopeful because you have so much time and you'll be.

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<v Speaker 4>Fine yeah, right that questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Question'all it's time for, win, win, win no matter. What

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<v Speaker 1>so this is not so much a. Win remember we

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<v Speaker 1>used to do like book. Suggestions, yeah so this is

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<v Speaker 1>more like a. Suggestion so our podcast is. AWESOME i

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<v Speaker 1>never was a big podcast listener other than, ours and

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<v Speaker 1>like the read BECAUSE i like shading this sometimes on the.

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<v Speaker 1>Side But i've been listening to this podcast That i'm

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<v Speaker 1>like freaking in love with and it's Called HOW I Built?

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<v Speaker 1>This have you?

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<v Speaker 2>Listened do you listen to? Me WHEN i, Yo i'm,

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<v Speaker 2>upty you cannot. Connect let that go. BY i literally

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<v Speaker 2>have mentioned that, podcast like the last five. Episodes you

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<v Speaker 2>know what's so crazy is? That like you heard that from?

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<v Speaker 2>Me that's why you listen to? IT i probably, Did

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<v Speaker 2>and why you downloaded? It, yeah BECAUSE i said, downloaded

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<v Speaker 2>and then you and a bunch of our listeners downloaded.

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<v Speaker 1>It can't you know what's so? Bad like literally TODAY

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<v Speaker 1>i was like looking in the. MIRROR i was, like,

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<v Speaker 1>tivioty do you have all type Erst like it's time

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<v Speaker 1>to be honest with. Yourself. YO i have the worst, Memory.

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<v Speaker 1>MAGGIE i can't remember. Anything But i'm honestly the only

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<v Speaker 1>reason WHY i THINK i don't have all time meers

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<v Speaker 1>is Because i've been like this literally since like fifth sixth.

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<v Speaker 1>GRADE i could just you, know like remember my best

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<v Speaker 1>friends say, It, tippy you don't remember, Anything So i'm

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<v Speaker 1>pretty SURE i. Don't and my dad's the same, way

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<v Speaker 1>and he's in his. Seventies So i'm, like, well maybe

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<v Speaker 1>it's just LIKE i. Was AND i had a feeling.

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<v Speaker 2>TOO i was, like tell me how much you love?

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<v Speaker 1>It go?

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<v Speaker 2>AHEAD i love HOW i got.

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<v Speaker 1>This oh my, god so thank you. MAN i was,

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<v Speaker 1>like where DID i get?

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<v Speaker 2>This crowd cannot if you don't listen to, me who Will.

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<v Speaker 1>I've Been i've been known to retell a, story like

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<v Speaker 1>a juicy story to the.

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<v Speaker 2>SHOW i, KNOW i edit the. Show i'm, like gir.

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<v Speaker 1>Got some, tea And andrina would be, like you, Know

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<v Speaker 1>i'm the one who told you, that ye, Story like

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<v Speaker 1>you're twisting. It i'm, like, oh well, fine they took.

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<v Speaker 1>ANYWAY i love. IT i just listened to the one

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<v Speaker 1>about the guy who Started Power. Rangers oh, yeah that

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<v Speaker 1>little bit more research about, him And i'm, Like yank's

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<v Speaker 1>not the nicest, guy but it was a really Good

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<v Speaker 1>really you kind of.

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<v Speaker 2>ceo And rent The runway had some bad press a while,

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<v Speaker 2>ago you, do and like The Whole FOOD ceo they

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<v Speaker 2>had some bad, press like they had the lift people on,

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<v Speaker 2>There LIKE i don't, KNOW i, Agree LIKE i think

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<v Speaker 2>a few of them are like.

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<v Speaker 1>that you were a little, Predatory BUT i mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was just, great just to LIKE i always learned some

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<v Speaker 1>big aha moment Where i'm just, like, oh you know

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<v Speaker 1>that was genius and thinking about things in a different.

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<v Speaker 1>Way and so, yeah SO i just wanted to give

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<v Speaker 1>like a not really a, win but more of A

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<v Speaker 1>is time number. Six HOW i built? This they, do

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<v Speaker 1>Because i'm just, like, Wait i'm, like one day we'll

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<v Speaker 1>be on, there like HOW i built This Brown Ambition.

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<v Speaker 1>Edition but, yeah it's an awesome. Podcast it's my favorite

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<v Speaker 1>and it's my new Favorite Washington dishes.

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<v Speaker 2>Podcast, excellent well news news to all, us.

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<v Speaker 1>Love.

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<v Speaker 2>You so my win is. Original it is sorry that sounded,

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<v Speaker 2>waste snattiest THING i wanted it. To And i'm working

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<v Speaker 2>on my, tone you, Guys i'm working on my. Tone

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<v Speaker 2>so my wind was just REALLY i didn't watch the

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<v Speaker 2>VMA's at, all BUT i did SEE i Love. Pink

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<v Speaker 2>i've Loved pink Since pink was like AN r AND b.

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<v Speaker 2>SINGER i Love. Pink she's like my guilty pleasure pop.

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<v Speaker 2>Singer but, anyway she won The Video Vanguard award at

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<v Speaker 2>THE VMAs AND i just actually didn't even watch her,

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<v Speaker 2>performance BUT i saw her speech was getting a lot of,

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<v Speaker 2>coverage SO i watched her speech and it was really

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<v Speaker 2>it was really. Beautiful it was about how her little,

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<v Speaker 2>girl she's a. Daughter she was, like, oh she looks

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<v Speaker 2>about six or seven years, old has like shorter, hair

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<v Speaker 2>and has like boyish, features and was telling her mom

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<v Speaker 2>that she was the ugliest girl that she. Knew And

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<v Speaker 2>pink had a really sweet story of how she told her.

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<v Speaker 2>That you, KNOW i, mean if you See, pink Like

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<v Speaker 2>pink has shaved head and, like you, know it has

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<v Speaker 2>always been like kind of against the, grain and SHE

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<v Speaker 2>i don't, Know so if you're feeling bad about yourself

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<v Speaker 2>or you have a little girl or little, DAUGHTER i

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<v Speaker 2>KNOW i have little nieces and cousins and, stuff AND

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<v Speaker 2>i just want to put them in a bubble and

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<v Speaker 2>protect them from the. World but it was a really,

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<v Speaker 2>sweet sweet mommy daughter's. Speech so go watch. It you

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<v Speaker 2>don't have to watch the VMA's as shared in, it

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<v Speaker 2>BECAUSE i don't know how ANYWAY i, know but that

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<v Speaker 2>speech was.

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<v Speaker 1>Good, yeah so w and you, KNOW i don't Know.

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<v Speaker 1>Alzheimer we could Have alzheimer moments.

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<v Speaker 2>Also we need to talk. About is it alzheimer Or.

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<v Speaker 2>Alzheimer's you're on The. Alzheimer's you're in The alzheimer's, club.

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<v Speaker 1>RIGHT i don't have, DIABETES i have sugar. ALZHEIMER i

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<v Speaker 1>got the.

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<v Speaker 2>Sugar oh my.

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<v Speaker 1>Goodness well that's, it, folks that's, all, folks