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Speaker 1: I liked. So I'm feeling like a little nostalgia because

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Speaker 1: you know, we're two years almost in like what a

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Speaker 2: It feels just yesterday we were doing more one year

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Speaker 2: anniversary with cupcakes with our face on it and everything.

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Speaker 2: I can't believe it's been two years.

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Speaker 1: I know we have to decide, we have to figure

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Speaker 1: out what we're gonna do. But I know one thing

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Speaker 1: we're gonna do. We're going to be you guys will

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Speaker 1: see some different visuals soon, and we're gonna be switching days.

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Speaker 1: So typically the podcast comes out on Tuesday morning.

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Speaker 2: Right, get correct, And so.

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Speaker 1: We're going to be switching to Wednesday morning.

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Speaker 2: Brian Ambition Wednesday. Hashtag Broan Ambition Wednesday. We are telling

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Speaker 2: you guys now, so you can't tell us you didn't

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Speaker 2: know what's happening in the world. This is going to

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Speaker 2: be taking place the week of September thirteenth, I believe

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Speaker 2: so in a couple with two three more weeks. Officially

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Speaker 2: Brian Ambition, hitting your podcast, hitting your iPhone, your smartphone

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Speaker 2: in the morning on Wednesday, just one just one day later,

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Speaker 2: day later. Why, because we're the bosses and we decide.

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Speaker 1: A little things up. I feel like we haven't had

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Speaker 1: like a regular show in so long.

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Speaker 2: It's been two weeks.

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Speaker 1: It's been so long.

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Speaker 2: It's always nice to get back in the groove.

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Speaker 1: Yes, especially so do you You know you said you

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Speaker 1: don't watch Game of Thrones? Right?

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Speaker 2: Excuse me? You do dust fish, swim and water.

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Speaker 1: It's my life something crazy, But I mean, I don't watch.

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Speaker 2: You see the same thing last episode. It's such a

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Speaker 1: Because I'm like everybody was like, oh my god, game

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Speaker 1: what throws? I can't believe that happened. So I kind

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Speaker 1: I don't know what the words mean.

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Speaker 2: Well, you need to do the work. Do you have

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Speaker 2: seventy five hours of life? Because you need to go

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was a season. It was a season finale,

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Speaker 2: and it was a pretty It wasn't as stressful, I'll

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Speaker 2: say as a penultimate episode. I would would not be

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Speaker 2: surprised if I had a noise complaint from my neighbors,

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Speaker 2: It's highly stressful. It's so stressful that because they're like,

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Speaker 2: at this point in the season, this isn't spoiling anything

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Speaker 2: for you if you ever decide to watch it, but

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Speaker 2: like everybody dies, and so by the end of it,

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Speaker 2: like we are really down to the final fhaves, like

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Speaker 2: these are the people you really care about, and at

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Speaker 2: any minute one of them could die, and it is

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Speaker 2: just ridiculous how much of a like, how much stress

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Speaker 1: Well, I was like what because I just heard so

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Speaker 2: Snacks, no you made your. Choice oh my.

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Speaker 1: Gosh, ooh so have you ever been to a dinner

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Speaker 1: That it's one of those. DINNERS i think it started In,

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Speaker 1: Everybody wears all. White but, Anyway newark. Had it's not

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Speaker 1: newark under The stars and we get to wear all

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Speaker 1: THE dj was, awesome after, Beats caribbean, music just all

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Speaker 1: you have to like sign. Up the waiting listens like two.

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Speaker 2: the early, afternoon my, cousin my new, Cousin, michelle had

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Speaker 2: a bridal shower THAT i had to go, to had

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Speaker 2: SO i was, LIKE i needed her Minde granger's time

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Speaker 2: turn or if you watch, her like, SERIOUSLY i MEAN

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Speaker 2: i really wanted to give everyone one hundred percent of

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Speaker 2: AND i had my last, life you, know thirty minutes

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Speaker 1: Place people, know it's not THAT i.

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Speaker 2: Can't you can't miss these, things like BUT i, mean

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Speaker 2: so IT'S i don't, KNOW i can want to be.

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Speaker 2: EVERYWHERE i don't regret, it BUT i also FELT i

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Speaker 2: someone and you see their eyes shifting and you see

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Speaker 2: their attention being pulled somewhere. Else AND i always feel

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Speaker 2: it because YESTERDAY i was that. PERSON i was, like, yeah,

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Speaker 2: yeah what's what's happening with your? Life you have four

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Speaker 1: Have to do the. PROOF i was. Here hey how are? You?

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Speaker 1: what is this impromptu party you're? Forcing?

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Speaker 1: I'm, like. Uh so we fought a awkward like do

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Speaker 1: yeah she's always been even as. KIDS i just, Like,

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Speaker 1: give you money to give to. Me oh my. Goodness i'm,

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Speaker 1: like what that? Is my mom through and through, like

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Speaker 1: oh that's so. Nice did your daddy give you anything

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Speaker 1: No but it was a good weekend, though and just

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Speaker 2: Weekend, YEAH i can't complain. Honestly at, least it's better

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Speaker 1: Dude i'm trying to think how many friends THAT i, like,

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Speaker 1: Then i'm, Like, okay let me look at my weekly. Friends,

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Speaker 2: DAY i really look forward to when the kids grow

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Speaker 2: just call a sitter or. Whatever i'm excited for that.

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Speaker 1: Thirties, yeah you know, what it's weird because, honestly only

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Speaker 1: like you, know he's part of the. Pack we're all

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Speaker 2: Bring him near. Me it's.

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Speaker 1: Catching i'm, like, OH i don't mind catching a, kid

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Speaker 1: maybe sort of kind of this. Week every Week i'm.

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Speaker 1: Then then and THEN i have like a, busy crazy, week

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Speaker 1: i mean such as. Life so update on my vegan.

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Speaker 1: Diet oh, yeah it's been going actually really. Well LIKE

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Speaker 1: i was, like, wait this thing is. Working so it's

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Speaker 1: week two AND i lost ten whole, pounds like real.

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Speaker 1: IT i was, LIKE i haven't lost ten pounds on

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Speaker 1: LIKE i don't know ten, Years LIKE i Mean i've

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Speaker 2: Wow so have you been working out on top of,

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Speaker 1: DIET i, Said i'm going to start working, out maybe

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Speaker 1: Weight it's really all about like, toning because LIKE i

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Speaker 1: first but, honestly now it's not really BECAUSE i REALIZED

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Speaker 1: INTOLERANT a lot of the dairy STUFF i was already not.

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Speaker 1: Eating and then the meat Stuff i'm not a huge meat,

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Speaker 1: eater was mostly chicken and, Fish so of COURSE i

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Speaker 1: missed chicken the. Most you, know WHEN i smell, It i'm,

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Speaker 2: GOOD i had the best chicken, Today and.

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Speaker 1: Especially WHEN i cook it For supergirl And, Superman i'm.

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Speaker 2: Like really that? Bad what is it about? It it's

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Speaker 2: too much? Protein, HONESTLY i don't.

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Speaker 1: Know i'm, LIKE i can honestly tell YOU i don't

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Speaker 1: have no, idea why like me not eating meat and

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Speaker 1: dairy has such a huge. Impact does that?

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Speaker 2: Fish?

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Speaker 1: YUP i don't eat fish. EITHER i, Mean i'm not

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Speaker 1: gonna Say i'm not gonna bring THOSE i don't know

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Speaker 1: That i'll be vegan for, life but AND i might

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Speaker 1: use them back in BUT i kind of want to like, Reset, Like, Okay,

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Speaker 1: tiffany let's get back to your regular weight that you

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Speaker 1: Know i'm used to me being. At. Yeah, yeah BUT

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Speaker 1: from When i'm not exhausting myself actually pretty. High LIKE

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Speaker 1: i don't, KNOW i guess it's the. VEGGIE i don't,

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Speaker 1: know but my energy levels are like through the. Roof

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Speaker 1: as a, result my skin is like on. Fleak, Honestly i'm,

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Speaker 2: I would co. SIGN i, mean if the only thing

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Speaker 2: for the acne and like still had it in my,

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Speaker 2: my skin just just got. Better it was, Crazy and

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Speaker 2: that's that's WHAT i keep reminding myself up WHEN i

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Speaker 1: Me too every, Time LIKE, i who WAS i think

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Speaker 1: my mom's birthday and somebody else's. Birthday somebody made. Cake oh,

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Speaker 1: oh one of my friends made a frum scratch scratch pound.

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Speaker 1: bad BUT i was, Like, tiffany when's the last time

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Speaker 1: you lost ten? Pounds it was, like it's the thing

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Speaker 1: Am But i'm, like just keep, going you have a

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Speaker 2: Going but take up before. Picture those always inspire, me.

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Speaker 1: You, know AND i should, have But i'm not gonna.

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Speaker 1: Lie didn't think it was gonna, Work SO i was like.

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Speaker 2: See BUT i was just looking at this old YouTube facebook.

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Speaker 2: i can't do. This, Yeah and So i'm GLAD i

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Speaker 2: that it takes me half an hour to d tangle

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Speaker 1: Look back at my LOCK i forget how long they've,

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Speaker 1: me Missus. Jackson if you're, nasty so well now. Right

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Speaker 1: and it's so crazy because, honestly a few years, ago

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Speaker 2: Did, Oh and decisions were so. SIMPLE i fell out

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Speaker 1: LIFE i was, like what my laughs or You i'll

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Speaker 1: take my last thanks.

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Speaker 2: Listening we got. IT i have TO i have to

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Speaker 2: In houston right.

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 1: YEAH i have.

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Speaker 2: A really good friend down there who's like getting married

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Speaker 1: Is? She?

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Speaker 5: Okay So i've seen some of the pictures And i'm, like,

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Speaker 5: what like someone told, me And i'm not sure if

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Speaker 5: this is, true that that they got half the rain

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Speaker 1: Like that's, CRAZY i thought for a.

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Speaker 2: Minute because you, KNOW i THOUGHT i was looking at

430
00:19:06,080 --> 00:19:07,720
Speaker 2: a map Of houston AND i was, like where is?

431
00:19:07,760 --> 00:19:09,600
Speaker 2: It what? Flooded like was there's this like a little

432
00:19:09,680 --> 00:19:11,440
Speaker 2: river that goes through like a little creek or something

433
00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,760
Speaker 2: going through. It but it was the RAINFALL i. Heard

434
00:19:13,800 --> 00:19:16,560
Speaker 2: that's what's so that just like this torrential rain and

435
00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,520
Speaker 2: it hasn't stopped, yet and they're saying it's going to

436
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,280
Speaker 2: last a couple more. Days.

437
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Speaker 1: Good that is, so has like has forty five declared

438
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Speaker 1: a state of.

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Speaker 2: EMERGENCY i don't know what he's, declared BUT i did

440
00:19:28,359 --> 00:19:30,080
Speaker 2: read before we got on that he's doing some kind

441
00:19:30,080 --> 00:19:33,160
Speaker 2: of press conference right, now like three days, later after

442
00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:38,080
Speaker 2: after he pardoned a racist sheriff From arizona for defying The,

443
00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:39,960
Speaker 2: constitution he decided to talk About.

444
00:19:40,000 --> 00:19:44,080
Speaker 1: Houston, wow the. Usual did you hear about?

445
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Speaker 2: That judge our our? Rap what is it Our? PAYOH

446
00:19:46,640 --> 00:19:48,879
Speaker 2: i think that's how you pronounced. It this not judged,

447
00:19:49,440 --> 00:19:53,520
Speaker 2: sheriff our. Payo it's a sheriff From Maricopa. County that's

448
00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:57,879
Speaker 2: where In. Arizona that's Where, Tucson arizona is in that.

449
00:19:57,920 --> 00:20:01,960
Speaker 2: County so it's a big. County And trump used his presidential, pardon,

450
00:20:02,200 --> 00:20:05,119
Speaker 2: which if you, recall is typically used you know at

451
00:20:05,520 --> 00:20:09,040
Speaker 2: the end to pardon criminals who have done time in,

452
00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:13,199
Speaker 2: jail have admitted their, crimes have said they're, sorry like

453
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:18,480
Speaker 2: have proven that they're. Remorseful. This the sheriff was just

454
00:20:18,560 --> 00:20:21,400
Speaker 2: convicted earlier this year and was due to be sentenced

455
00:20:21,640 --> 00:20:23,359
Speaker 2: or sorry the TRIAL i think The, yeah it was

456
00:20:23,440 --> 00:20:25,560
Speaker 2: due to be sentenced In. October SO i hadn't even

457
00:20:25,600 --> 00:20:27,679
Speaker 2: spent any time in jail yet OR i don't know

458
00:20:27,680 --> 00:20:29,360
Speaker 2: how much time he spent in, jail but not very.

459
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Speaker 2: Long and he's pardoned, him and AND i Just i'll

460
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Speaker 2: do my best to like do a quick recap BECAUSE

461
00:20:35,760 --> 00:20:38,200
Speaker 2: i just listened to this on The The New York

462
00:20:38,240 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 2: times Podcast The. Daily if you don't if you need

463
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:43,240
Speaker 2: like a quick twelve minute fifteen minute recap of the,

464
00:20:43,280 --> 00:20:46,720
Speaker 2: news it's a good, podcast listen to. Plug but they

465
00:20:46,920 --> 00:20:49,320
Speaker 2: had said that basically what he did is he was

466
00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:54,879
Speaker 2: found guilty of defying a court. Order so basically he

467
00:20:54,920 --> 00:20:58,320
Speaker 2: created these tense cities in his in his, county tense

468
00:20:58,320 --> 00:21:00,480
Speaker 2: cities where he would put immigrants who were found to

469
00:21:00,480 --> 00:21:03,119
Speaker 2: be in the area, illegally and they would wear like

470
00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:07,240
Speaker 2: striped jumpsuits and they, wow they'd be in chain, gangs

471
00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 2: women and men like actually tied like chained together on

472
00:21:11,119 --> 00:21:13,880
Speaker 2: the side of the, road cleaning, highways which he said

473
00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:18,440
Speaker 2: helped to defer to to deter crime because, Quote johnny's

474
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Speaker 2: in the back seat and his mom and dad can

475
00:21:20,080 --> 00:21:22,760
Speaker 2: tell him that it's bad or that's what happens to

476
00:21:22,800 --> 00:21:25,760
Speaker 2: bad people Who and he put them in these tents In,

477
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Speaker 2: arizona mind, You arizona in the summer it gets like

478
00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:30,840
Speaker 2: one hundred and thirty degayes or. Hotter and they were

479
00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 2: in these, tents women. Men he forced the men to

480
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,400
Speaker 2: wear pink. Underwear what just to further de humanize, them

481
00:21:37,560 --> 00:21:40,440
Speaker 2: he made them Watch Food network ON tv and The Weather.

482
00:21:40,520 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 2: Channel those are only two things allowed while feeding them vegetarian.

483
00:21:45,560 --> 00:21:50,000
Speaker 2: Slop and obviously they were one hundred and thirty degree.

484
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,120
Speaker 2: Heat and he was quoted like they had a recording

485
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Speaker 2: of him talking about how, WELL i hope when they

486
00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:57,040
Speaker 2: Watched Weather channel and they see it's cold In canada

487
00:21:57,119 --> 00:21:58,800
Speaker 2: that they might decide to go To canada next.

488
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Speaker 1: Time slavery like concentration camps on The United states.

489
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Speaker 2: Soil, Again, well that's funny you mentioned that because the

490
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:11,520
Speaker 2: tents they were in were Recommissioned Korean War wow TENTS

491
00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:16,480
Speaker 2: i think were used for prisoners of war or something like. That, yeah, yeah, yeah,

492
00:22:16,520 --> 00:22:19,159
Speaker 2: yeah bring it all the way. Back but he was

493
00:22:19,160 --> 00:22:22,119
Speaker 2: in Little trumpito's pocket because he was one of the

494
00:22:22,119 --> 00:22:25,720
Speaker 2: first public figures to come Support trump the candidate over

495
00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:28,679
Speaker 2: a year ago during the, election and so of course

496
00:22:29,000 --> 00:22:31,000
Speaker 2: he came to the. Rescue but basically with, this the

497
00:22:31,040 --> 00:22:34,560
Speaker 2: sheriff was found to be in. Violation basically a, COURT

498
00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:38,320
Speaker 2: i think a court in his area ruled that he

499
00:22:38,680 --> 00:22:43,280
Speaker 2: couldn't Target latinos with his immigration, policies and he defied

500
00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,600
Speaker 2: that court, order and somehow they were ruled that what

501
00:22:46,680 --> 00:22:49,359
Speaker 2: he was doing was unconstitutional and that's why he was.

502
00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,080
Speaker 2: Convicted that's why he's going to or was going to

503
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,719
Speaker 2: be sentenced to. Whatever and so by using his presidential

504
00:22:55,800 --> 00:23:00,840
Speaker 2: pardon to pardon the, sheriff it's sort of like legalquts are, saying,

505
00:23:00,920 --> 00:23:03,520
Speaker 2: well it seems like What trump is doing with his

506
00:23:03,600 --> 00:23:08,919
Speaker 2: constitutional power is affirming the denial of some of constitutional

507
00:23:09,000 --> 00:23:14,159
Speaker 2: rights by a person in place of, power which sounds

508
00:23:14,280 --> 00:23:18,679
Speaker 2: just about right for given who he. Is but, uh

509
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:20,240
Speaker 2: that's your headline of the.

510
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Speaker 1: Day SO i wonder for all the folks that voted for,

511
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Speaker 1: him are they like so or are they LIKE i,

512
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Speaker 1: MEAN i know there's some hardcore people who are, LIKE

513
00:23:29,280 --> 00:23:32,879
Speaker 1: i don't care what he. Does it's. FINE, ok this.

514
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Speaker 2: IS i, mean this whole immigration stance like. HIS i

515
00:23:36,200 --> 00:23:38,200
Speaker 2: know why HE'S i, mean it's clear that he's doing.

516
00:23:38,240 --> 00:23:40,520
Speaker 2: This it not only does he get to help a friend,

517
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:42,880
Speaker 2: out but he's also pandering to his. Base they love.

518
00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:43,120
Speaker 1: This.

519
00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 2: Yeah the, policies, yeah the policies that were ruled unconstitutional

520
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:51,920
Speaker 2: or the actions deemed unconstitutional by the sheriff are. Too

521
00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:56,520
Speaker 2: we're all put in, place he, said to thwart illegal.

522
00:23:56,520 --> 00:24:01,119
Speaker 2: Immigration but of course the tense cities and the making

523
00:24:01,160 --> 00:24:05,439
Speaker 2: them eat shitty food and chainings showed no signs of

524
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,400
Speaker 2: impacting recidivism, rates which is the rate of people returning

525
00:24:09,400 --> 00:24:12,159
Speaker 2: to prison or jail after they've been. Released like it

526
00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:13,560
Speaker 2: had no impact on that at.

527
00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,320
Speaker 1: All of course that's not what it's.

528
00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:19,160
Speaker 2: About, well so he, Said, SO.

529
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Speaker 1: I don't. Know i'm not gonna. LIE i really am

530
00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:25,760
Speaker 1: like LIKE i poked my head out And i'm, like Oh,

531
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Speaker 1: god the. News and Then i'm LIKE i can't do.

532
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,359
Speaker 1: IT i can't do. IT i poke my head out,

533
00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,960
Speaker 1: again And i'm, like what is? HAPPENING i feel like

534
00:24:32,000 --> 00:24:33,720
Speaker 1: people are just like you, know LIKE i feel like

535
00:24:33,840 --> 00:24:37,560
Speaker 1: literally this president could like you, know be seen like

536
00:24:37,640 --> 00:24:39,760
Speaker 1: slapping his wife in public and people would be, like,

537
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 1: oh she had a fly on her. Face you guys are.

538
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,320
Speaker 1: Wilent he already.

539
00:24:43,359 --> 00:24:46,240
Speaker 2: Did remember when those legal documents came off from his divorce,

540
00:24:46,280 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 2: hearing when like his wife had accused him of raping. Her,

541
00:24:49,440 --> 00:24:53,520
Speaker 2: yeah and, Nuts yeah WHAT i.

542
00:24:53,520 --> 00:24:56,639
Speaker 1: Didn't, NO i did. Not oh my, god can you

543
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:01,480
Speaker 1: imagine If President obama? Had? Oh? RIGHT i just can't.

544
00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,520
Speaker 2: Even, YEAH i Mean trump's been accused of sexual, assault,

545
00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:08,480
Speaker 2: harassment all kinds of. STUFF i, mean he said he

546
00:25:08,480 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 2: grabs someone's you, know, Vagina like it's not.

547
00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,359
Speaker 1: Whether they like it or, not because they have to

548
00:25:12,400 --> 00:25:14,080
Speaker 1: let you do it because you're. Famous he's made it very.

549
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:16,159
Speaker 2: Clear that he said, self he can go out And

550
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,400
Speaker 2: Fifth avenue and shoot somebody and they Wouldn't they still

551
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,919
Speaker 2: vote for, Him and he's. Right it's. Sad, sad it, Is,

552
00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:24,560
Speaker 2: yeah this Is it's not at this point in my,

553
00:25:24,600 --> 00:25:26,960
Speaker 2: mind it's less about convincing people who voted for him

554
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:29,959
Speaker 2: that they made the wrong choice and just more about you,

555
00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:32,920
Speaker 2: know what can we do TO i feel like we're

556
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:35,119
Speaker 2: never going to have the next election is going to be.

557
00:25:35,160 --> 00:25:37,399
Speaker 2: LIT i feel like everyone like we're not going to

558
00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 2: let this. Out BUT i wish it didn't have to

559
00:25:38,800 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 2: get this way for us to for the, people BECAUSE

560
00:25:41,200 --> 00:25:43,040
Speaker 2: i feel like people will get complacent and they're, like,

561
00:25:43,080 --> 00:25:45,720
Speaker 2: oh you know, Whatever trump's not going to, win obviously It's.

562
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: Hillary i'll just stay. HOME i wish it didn't. Happen

563
00:25:48,880 --> 00:25:52,680
Speaker 2: BUT i you, know this kind of stuff is. CYCLICAL

564
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:53,240
Speaker 2: i feel, like.

565
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,200
Speaker 1: YEAH i know you're right, though something goes really like

566
00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,120
Speaker 1: it's one of the reasons why we Had President Barack

567
00:25:59,119 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: obama because the president before people were, like oh hell, no,

568
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 1: yep and they came out in full. Force and then you,

569
00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:10,080
Speaker 1: know people got complacent with with For President obama and

570
00:26:10,119 --> 00:26:13,239
Speaker 1: then now here we. Are. Yeah but you, know it's

571
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:17,320
Speaker 1: been kind of funny about some forty five. Supporters they've

572
00:26:17,320 --> 00:26:19,320
Speaker 1: been taking those you know how right now what's really

573
00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:21,479
Speaker 1: lit is the THE dna.

574
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:26,840
Speaker 2: Tests oh, yeah like trying To, yeah Like caucasian people

575
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:30,320
Speaker 2: finding out that they got some some Uh africa some

576
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:31,240
Speaker 2: extra spices in.

577
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Speaker 1: There, yeah and, like, honestly what's so. Crazy it's, like you,

578
00:26:35,359 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: know so they're taking these sounds reading in an ARTICLE

579
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Speaker 1: i forget what platform it was maybe a week or so,

580
00:26:39,800 --> 00:26:42,879
Speaker 1: ago and finding out that like what a fourteen percent

581
00:26:42,920 --> 00:26:45,840
Speaker 1: Of Sharan african and then then being like, whatever it

582
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,400
Speaker 1: doesn't even. Matter it's not about what it says, there

583
00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:50,719
Speaker 1: it's about if you look. White i'm, like, yes it's

584
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: not really how that, works. Dude AND i was just like,

585
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:57,840
Speaker 1: really just like, wow so you have proven well that

586
00:26:57,960 --> 00:27:02,399
Speaker 1: you're in your history read there Is african. Blood and

587
00:27:02,480 --> 00:27:05,679
Speaker 1: still that's how you. Said it's not about convincing folks

588
00:27:05,680 --> 00:27:08,640
Speaker 1: that forty five is so bad or whatever that it's.

589
00:27:08,680 --> 00:27:11,159
Speaker 1: Not he literally could kill someone and it would not

590
00:27:11,200 --> 00:27:13,360
Speaker 1: matter to certain. People so you have to leave those

591
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: people for dead and move.

592
00:27:14,440 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 2: Forward just wait for them till thet die. OUT i, guess,

593
00:27:19,240 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 2: yeah like a.

594
00:27:21,119 --> 00:27:24,879
Speaker 1: Disease but so the problem IS i used to, say, like,

595
00:27:24,880 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 1: oh when these old folks die, out but it's not

596
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 1: old folks, anymore you, know it's a lot of young

597
00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: DISGRUNTLED i, mean you saw the pictures From, charlottesville you,

598
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,440
Speaker 1: know and then when they were called out and found

599
00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:40,320
Speaker 1: out where they worked and where they lived and everything,

600
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:43,439
Speaker 1: else it was big crocodile. Tires If i'm not this angry.

601
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:46,320
Speaker 1: Person meanwhile in the video your face is.

602
00:27:47,040 --> 00:27:49,159
Speaker 2: Yeah that. GUY i, Mean i'll say it again like

603
00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:52,119
Speaker 2: it's a small, pocket but they, have they've gotten the

604
00:27:52,160 --> 00:27:55,520
Speaker 2: platform that they've been waiting. For and, yeah because.

605
00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:57,199
Speaker 1: It's start pocket with the president as your.

606
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,679
Speaker 2: Leader, yeah it's a very but that's all it, takes you,

607
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 2: know it's all it. Takes it's just the The and

608
00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:04,000
Speaker 2: as a member of the, media it's REALLY i MEAN

609
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:09,240
Speaker 2: i don't cover, politics, obviously but to the vitriol that

610
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 2: he reserves for the media and the way that he

611
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 2: talks about the, media forget me being a journalist for a,

612
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 2: second being completely, biased but, like this is exactly what dictators.

613
00:28:17,920 --> 00:28:20,800
Speaker 2: Do they convince you that what the media is telling

614
00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:24,080
Speaker 2: you was a. LIE i, mean look At, china like

615
00:28:24,240 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 2: so much is blocked from people there because the government

616
00:28:27,280 --> 00:28:29,840
Speaker 2: wants to control the perception and control what they. See

617
00:28:29,880 --> 00:28:33,000
Speaker 2: and it's just it's, just you know. It that's WHAT

618
00:28:33,040 --> 00:28:35,240
Speaker 2: i keep kind of going back, to is how In, america?

619
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Speaker 4: How?

620
00:28:35,720 --> 00:28:38,520
Speaker 2: How? How but it's LIKE i said When Trevor noah

621
00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:39,840
Speaker 2: gave that talk on it THAT i went to In

622
00:28:39,920 --> 00:28:42,440
Speaker 2: montreal last, month where he's like everyone In america, Shocked

623
00:28:42,440 --> 00:28:44,280
Speaker 2: but the rest of us and the rest of the

624
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:48,080
Speaker 2: world who've dealt with dictators and dealt with corrupt politicians are, like,

625
00:28:48,120 --> 00:28:49,040
Speaker 2: well you.

626
00:28:49,040 --> 00:28:52,680
Speaker 1: Know, welcome here's the. Handbook you can sit right in

627
00:28:52,720 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: the back with. Them. Yeah, yeah that's a.

628
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Speaker 2: Lot oh, YEAH i wanted. To did you see The

629
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Speaker 2: Whole Foods Amazon?

630
00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:09,320
Speaker 1: News, Yes i'm like geeking out because you, know there's

631
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Speaker 1: a New Whole foods In New Arc.

632
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Speaker 2: That's, right you've been talking about. That is it? Open?

633
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Speaker 1: Yes it. Is, honestly it's one of my favorite. Places

634
00:29:16,040 --> 00:29:18,760
Speaker 1: and because what they've built it inside this historic building

635
00:29:18,800 --> 00:29:21,560
Speaker 1: called The Haines. Building they used to be like Like

636
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: macy's back in the, day or LIKE i don't, know

637
00:29:24,120 --> 00:29:24,840
Speaker 1: like you, know like one of.

638
00:29:24,840 --> 00:29:26,320
Speaker 2: These usual department store.

639
00:29:26,320 --> 00:29:29,560
Speaker 1: Building oh my goodness WHEN i, say, beautiful, wandy but.

640
00:29:29,720 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: Beautiful and so they took this beautiful building and they've

641
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Speaker 1: now made it like downtown like loft spaces and. Apartments

642
00:29:37,360 --> 00:29:42,200
Speaker 1: they have other like there's restaurants in, there there's all

643
00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 1: these other just. Businesses and then The Whole foods has

644
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: like THOUGH i think the largest space outside of the.

645
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,600
Speaker 1: Apartment so the building itself is just dropped deat. GORGEOUS

646
00:29:49,640 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: i remember when the first TIME i walked, IN i was, like,

647
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:54,440
Speaker 1: wow look at all they've, done and the old folks

648
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:56,040
Speaker 1: At newark are, like, no this is what it looked.

649
00:29:56,080 --> 00:29:59,120
Speaker 1: Like they just restored. It it's so. Gorgeous and The

650
00:29:59,120 --> 00:30:02,240
Speaker 1: Whole foods there is, awesome and so it's been helpful

651
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 1: with my vegan diet BECAUSE i don't have to go

652
00:30:04,440 --> 00:30:06,760
Speaker 1: far now BECAUSE i only, live LIKE i live walking

653
00:30:06,800 --> 00:30:09,600
Speaker 1: distance from. Downtown so it's just a great meeting. Spot

654
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,200
Speaker 1: And Whole foods has like tables and chairs inside and,

655
00:30:12,280 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 1: out so people go and hang.

656
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,640
Speaker 2: OUT i love their food. Cords it's just something so. Satisfying,

657
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:20,320
Speaker 2: yeah are you're An Amazon prime? Member? RIGHT i am

658
00:30:20,640 --> 00:30:23,360
Speaker 2: so now That amazon's Bought Whole. Foods if you guys

659
00:30:23,360 --> 00:30:25,920
Speaker 2: didn't know that news. Alert so the deal went official

660
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:30,880
Speaker 2: Today monday when we're, Recording and so today Immediately amazon's

661
00:30:30,880 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 2: swooped in and reduced prices on you know how they

662
00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:37,120
Speaker 2: Call Whole foods whole. PAYCHECK a lot of their main

663
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:39,480
Speaker 2: products are getting, immediately got like up to forty three

664
00:30:39,480 --> 00:30:44,080
Speaker 2: percent price. Reduction so, yeah they slice prices on avocados

665
00:30:43,760 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 2: bad online or like in person in person in, person

666
00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:48,719
Speaker 2: so you CAN i think they reduced. You So i'm,

667
00:30:48,720 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 2: Listening i'm looking at the. List now we have a

668
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: we have like a we have a list up On Magnified.

669
00:30:53,400 --> 00:30:55,240
Speaker 2: Money we just saw a story on. It everything you

670
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:59,959
Speaker 2: can expect from the changes That amazon's, bringing but banana's, avocados,

671
00:31:00,200 --> 00:31:05,240
Speaker 2: eggs responsibly farmed, salmon and, silapio organic baby cal and baby,

672
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 2: lettuce animal, warfare animal welfare, rated lean, beef creamy and

673
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,680
Speaker 2: crunchy Almond oh that's my. Jam creamy and country almond.

674
00:31:14,720 --> 00:31:19,280
Speaker 2: Butter that stuff's not. Cheap, apples rotisserie. Chicken people were

675
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 2: losing their minds over the chicken prices and. Butter so

676
00:31:23,680 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 2: this is Like amazon's promise is to help reduce to

677
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 2: prices At Whole, foods but not just. That they're also

678
00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:32,400
Speaker 2: gonna make apparently they're gonna Make Amazon prime the new

679
00:31:32,440 --> 00:31:37,120
Speaker 2: loyalty program At Whole. Foods so they didn't say exactly

680
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,320
Speaker 2: what that, means BUT i imagine there's gonna be a

681
00:31:39,360 --> 00:31:40,880
Speaker 2: way you like put in your email address and they

682
00:31:40,880 --> 00:31:43,800
Speaker 2: give you discounts if you're A prime. Member but before

683
00:31:43,840 --> 00:31:45,280
Speaker 2: there really wasn't a good way TO i, mean you

684
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 2: could like get the circular At Whole, foods but there

685
00:31:47,600 --> 00:31:50,320
Speaker 2: really Wasn't LIKE i don't think a super easy way

686
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 2: to get a, discount like a like a on all

687
00:31:53,200 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 2: your purchase. System that could be cool if they have

688
00:31:55,080 --> 00:31:58,160
Speaker 2: Like Amazon Prime Shopping days or something like, That like

689
00:31:58,200 --> 00:31:59,200
Speaker 2: if you're a, member.

690
00:31:59,320 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: That would be out of. Awesome because My prime membership

691
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:04,520
Speaker 1: just renewed AND i was, like, yes we're AND i

692
00:32:04,520 --> 00:32:07,120
Speaker 1: didn't realize, this but you can have if you if

693
00:32:07,160 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: you and your boo live in the same house or

694
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:11,800
Speaker 1: who you and. WHOEVER i didn't realize you could Share

695
00:32:11,840 --> 00:32:12,920
Speaker 1: prime membership with one other.

696
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:15,880
Speaker 2: Person, yeah up to? Four right is it up to?

697
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 2: FOUR i used to share with my college. Roommates, YEAH

698
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:19,880
Speaker 2: i think it's up to four in a. Household they

699
00:32:19,960 --> 00:32:23,280
Speaker 2: might have gotten, stricter like you have to prove OR i.

700
00:32:23,360 --> 00:32:25,600
Speaker 2: FORGET i think you. Can, yeah you can definitely share

701
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:27,720
Speaker 2: with like one, spouse and then if you have kids

702
00:32:28,000 --> 00:32:30,080
Speaker 2: you can Add LIKE i, forget how many kids to

703
00:32:30,120 --> 00:32:33,000
Speaker 2: your to Your prime? Membership SO i was like.

704
00:32:33,000 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Yeah BECAUSE i used to always like a, superman would

705
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 1: always be, like, wait what's Your amazon? Logging what's Your Amazon?

706
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:40,480
Speaker 1: Now i'm, like you have your own, now, sir you

707
00:32:40,520 --> 00:32:42,480
Speaker 1: can purchase the things you'd, like and now you Have

708
00:32:42,560 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: prime as. Well he was, like yes. Me he was so.

709
00:32:45,480 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 1: Excited he was, Like i'm so HAPPY i D. J

710
00:32:48,200 --> 00:32:52,280
Speaker 1: i was like, REALLY i mean he was irrationally.

711
00:32:52,320 --> 00:32:56,440
Speaker 3: Excited we won't tell. HIM i was, like, sir, OKAY

712
00:32:56,800 --> 00:33:01,680
Speaker 3: i was, Like i'll take the. Credit, like oh, WELL

713
00:33:01,760 --> 00:33:02,680
Speaker 3: i mean that's all it.

714
00:33:02,720 --> 00:33:06,880
Speaker 2: Takes, actually you can buy their you, know the three sixty,

715
00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:09,120
Speaker 2: five The Whole foods. Brand you can buy it On

716
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,840
Speaker 2: amazon dot. Com, now, okay that's WHY i and Then

717
00:33:12,880 --> 00:33:14,960
Speaker 2: i've never used Their amazon, lockers but they have those

718
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 2: that some they're gonna add those to Some Whole foods.

719
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:18,880
Speaker 2: Too so but what's hilarious is like.

720
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:20,240
Speaker 1: They had them. There is that what that? Is?

721
00:33:20,320 --> 00:33:20,600
Speaker 2: Oh they?

722
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:20,680
Speaker 1: Do?

723
00:33:20,960 --> 00:33:23,280
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah SO i think if you like order, stuff

724
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:24,200
Speaker 2: you can pick it up. There.

725
00:33:24,880 --> 00:33:28,479
Speaker 1: Ah SO i want to before we close out kind

726
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:31,360
Speaker 1: of our buzz buzz for LIKE i, so for those

727
00:33:31,360 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 1: of you who are listening who Are, Dreamcatchers, hey SORRY

728
00:33:33,880 --> 00:33:35,280
Speaker 1: i had to go off on you the other. Day

729
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 1: Actually i'm not, sorry but not you, personally but the

730
00:33:39,400 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: folks that were being a little bit sassy in The DreamCatcher.

731
00:33:42,760 --> 00:33:44,320
Speaker 1: Group if you're A, DreamCatcher you know that we have

732
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: Our facebook group and it's really. Awesome it's like if

733
00:33:47,440 --> 00:33:50,800
Speaker 1: we just crossed over to two hundred and fifty thousand

734
00:33:51,160 --> 00:33:54,960
Speaker 1: whole women and a couple of, men and as a,

735
00:33:55,000 --> 00:33:59,600
Speaker 1: result it's you, know it's it's not easy navigating and

736
00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,000
Speaker 1: managing a group of that size because you always have different.

737
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:05,360
Speaker 1: Personalities AND i will say ninety nine, percent maybe ninety

738
00:34:05,400 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: eight percent it's all. Positive but every once in a

739
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: while you get folks who you, know want to be super,

740
00:34:10,440 --> 00:34:12,840
Speaker 1: sassy AND i don't know WHY i take it so.

741
00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:15,800
Speaker 1: PERSONALLY i GUESS i have four, sisters AND i just feel,

742
00:34:15,840 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 1: like come, on, now that's not how you treat your,

743
00:34:17,680 --> 00:34:21,120
Speaker 1: sisters like when we're all trying to do, better like you,

744
00:34:21,160 --> 00:34:23,880
Speaker 1: know being disparaging in the comments or making fun of.

745
00:34:23,920 --> 00:34:26,359
Speaker 1: People SO i take that really, seriously and, Honestly i'm

746
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:27,839
Speaker 1: not gonna. LIE i kind of take a sick little

747
00:34:27,840 --> 00:34:30,440
Speaker 1: pleasure of booting folks who are mean Because i'm, like,

748
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:34,160
Speaker 1: yes And hank can't come back here. AGAIN i don't,

749
00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,480
Speaker 1: KNOW i feel LIKE i just bullying just seems so

750
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: crazy when you're, grown you, KNOW.

751
00:34:39,600 --> 00:34:42,279
Speaker 2: I don't think, This, yeah it seems, insane AND i

752
00:34:42,320 --> 00:34:44,359
Speaker 2: THINK i think part of it the reason you get

753
00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:46,520
Speaker 2: so like hurt by it is because you could probably

754
00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:47,959
Speaker 2: never imagine yourself doing, that.

755
00:34:48,960 --> 00:34:51,239
Speaker 1: Yes And i'm, LIKE i Just i'm not going to say.

756
00:34:51,280 --> 00:34:52,799
Speaker 1: That like you know how you read something and you're,

757
00:34:52,800 --> 00:34:54,840
Speaker 1: like oh my, gosh this is, crazy this is foolish or.

758
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,600
Speaker 1: Whatever but to actually type out to someone that you

759
00:34:58,640 --> 00:35:03,200
Speaker 1: don't know to say you're so, stupid you're a da da,

760
00:35:03,239 --> 00:35:05,600
Speaker 1: da you're a liar or. WHATEVER i JUST i just

761
00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:09,680
Speaker 1: literally cannot imagine like doing, that just because it's LIKE

762
00:35:09,719 --> 00:35:11,920
Speaker 1: i don't know. HER i might be, like, what this

763
00:35:12,000 --> 00:35:13,960
Speaker 1: is crazy if that was a, mistake BUT i just

764
00:35:14,000 --> 00:35:18,200
Speaker 1: can't imagine like chastising a grown woman WHO i don't, know,

765
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:21,239
Speaker 1: like especially in like an environment where you, know, hey

766
00:35:21,320 --> 00:35:23,440
Speaker 1: this is where we help. Folks and SO i just,

767
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:27,120
Speaker 1: LIKE i don't know what that mindset feels. Like AND

768
00:35:27,719 --> 00:35:30,360
Speaker 1: i know that sometimes hurt people hurt, people but, HONESTLY

769
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:32,719
Speaker 1: i don't. Care it's one of those things where it's, like,

770
00:35:32,760 --> 00:35:35,560
Speaker 1: well if it's you or, them it's gotta be. You you

771
00:35:35,520 --> 00:35:38,279
Speaker 1: gotta go because it's a. POISON i really feel like

772
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 1: negativity is a, poison and once you allow it, in

773
00:35:42,480 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: it continues to seep and grow like. Cancer and if

774
00:35:45,120 --> 00:35:47,279
Speaker 1: you don't cut it. Out so we're real. STRICT i

775
00:35:47,320 --> 00:35:49,120
Speaker 1: was just having a talk with the team. TODAY i

776
00:35:49,160 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 1: said zero tolerance. Policy they're, like, well what about, no, no,

777
00:35:53,000 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: no zero. Time because WHAT i found is THAT i

778
00:35:56,640 --> 00:35:59,160
Speaker 1: started doing a little digging WHERE i would research someone's

779
00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,920
Speaker 1: name that was being mean in a comment, here and

780
00:36:01,960 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 1: THEN i would look because you can do A facebook

781
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:05,919
Speaker 1: a search in Your facebook, groups AND i would look

782
00:36:05,960 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: and see that this was a. Pattern so we. DON'T

783
00:36:09,000 --> 00:36:10,799
Speaker 1: i just can't allow somebody to do. That, like if

784
00:36:10,840 --> 00:36:13,160
Speaker 1: you do it, once you'll going to do it. Again

785
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,719
Speaker 1: you have to. Go we're just too big now to

786
00:36:16,800 --> 00:36:19,400
Speaker 1: allow that to. Be and everyone knows the. Rule we

787
00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:22,520
Speaker 1: post the rules, literally it's on automate at least three

788
00:36:22,560 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: or four times a. Day we post the rules as

789
00:36:24,440 --> 00:36:26,200
Speaker 1: soon as you come. In, Now facebook is really. Cool

790
00:36:26,200 --> 00:36:29,200
Speaker 1: you have This facebook group like survey thing that when

791
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:31,360
Speaker 1: you click join the, group it has these three. Questions

792
00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: do you promise to be? Positive do you promise not to?

793
00:36:33,760 --> 00:36:36,640
Speaker 1: Sell do you promise DA D and so you're like, yes, yes,

794
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:38,759
Speaker 1: Yes and then as soon as you come, in so you're,

795
00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:41,359
Speaker 1: like there's no excuse to SAY i didn't, know because,

796
00:36:41,400 --> 00:36:42,839
Speaker 1: well first of, all don't should have to tell. You

797
00:36:42,880 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: it's like SAYING i didn't KNOW i could slap, Her like,

798
00:36:45,320 --> 00:36:48,880
Speaker 1: girl you know you can't do. That so, yeah SO

799
00:36:48,960 --> 00:36:52,720
Speaker 1: i had to like go live and in rare, form

800
00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: and BECAUSE i was already exhausted AND i just didn't

801
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:56,759
Speaker 1: feel like being my peppy, self and SO i really

802
00:36:56,800 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 1: had to snatch the measures and be, like what we're

803
00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: not gonna do Is and SO i, MEAN i guess that's.

804
00:37:01,680 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 1: Something you, know it's so. Crazy did you know the

805
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,680
Speaker 1: happy black? Woman, nope you never have the happy black?

806
00:37:08,719 --> 00:37:11,719
Speaker 1: Woman like the she's got a huge. Following her name is,

807
00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:15,000
Speaker 1: OH i forget her, name but a huge. Following like

808
00:37:15,080 --> 00:37:18,759
Speaker 1: she was one of the original kind of LIKE i don't,

809
00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:23,640
Speaker 1: know like just folks who were like really speaking to black.

810
00:37:23,640 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: Women and so she has a huge youtooe. Following she

811
00:37:26,719 --> 00:37:29,640
Speaker 1: just closed her free, group And i'm seeing it's becoming

812
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,200
Speaker 1: a trend with like some of these really large movements

813
00:37:33,239 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: and brands they're closing their free. Groups AND i found

814
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:38,279
Speaker 1: out later after doing a little digging that she was

815
00:37:38,320 --> 00:37:41,640
Speaker 1: just like it just got to be like babysitting AND

816
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,560
Speaker 1: i might as well focus on people who were paying

817
00:37:44,200 --> 00:37:47,360
Speaker 1: and that's heartbreaking because a lot of people are needing

818
00:37:47,400 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 1: help and it's like a few handful of negative nancies

819
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,440
Speaker 1: are taking away opportunities for people who are really trying

820
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 1: to do and be. Better And i'm gonna try to

821
00:37:57,160 --> 00:37:58,640
Speaker 1: hold out as long as i, can But i'm not gonna.

822
00:37:58,640 --> 00:38:00,640
Speaker 1: Lie there some days Where i'm, Like i'm shutting this,

823
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:02,239
Speaker 1: down but then i think of like how many women

824
00:38:02,360 --> 00:38:04,799
Speaker 1: hit me up and they're Like, Tiffany, HONESTLY i didn't

825
00:38:04,800 --> 00:38:09,280
Speaker 1: even know where to, start like you, know you, know SO.

826
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,319
Speaker 2: I see so many like usually WHEN i get The

827
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,040
Speaker 2: liverat or the Dream catchers updates on my, feed like

828
00:38:14,080 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 2: they're usually really, positive and, LIKE i, MEAN i hope

829
00:38:17,360 --> 00:38:19,000
Speaker 2: you don't shut it down because it seems like people

830
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:21,640
Speaker 2: it's like The, reddit but for black women of color

831
00:38:21,719 --> 00:38:29,000
Speaker 2: or black women of color women of color Where, REDDIT

832
00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:30,759
Speaker 2: i feel, like because you know that you can go

833
00:38:30,800 --> 00:38:34,000
Speaker 2: On reddit and do their personal Finance, subreddit which is

834
00:38:34,080 --> 00:38:35,839
Speaker 2: actually has a lot of great, advice AND i find

835
00:38:35,880 --> 00:38:38,760
Speaker 2: people are there are really generally, respectful but they also

836
00:38:38,800 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 2: have like millions of admins constantly. Policing but you, KNOW

837
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 2: i feel there's a value in having like peers to

838
00:38:47,400 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 2: bounce ideas off of and like celebrate your. Wins AND i,

839
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 2: MEAN i hope you don't shut it. Down that would be,

840
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 2: sad but it's The. Internet like at the same, Time

841
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 2: i'm also, like you're never going to get them.

842
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:58,719
Speaker 1: All, yeah AND i know, that AND i GUESS i

843
00:38:58,719 --> 00:39:00,239
Speaker 1: said that said that you know what to, ME i

844
00:39:00,239 --> 00:39:02,400
Speaker 1: think it's JUST i need to like maybe hire some

845
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: more admins or get some more like volunteer, admins because

846
00:39:05,640 --> 00:39:07,080
Speaker 1: YOU'RE i don't want to shut it down BECAUSE i

847
00:39:07,080 --> 00:39:09,239
Speaker 1: see how much it. HELPS i can just imagine WHEN

848
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:11,520
Speaker 1: i was teaching preschool and or WHEN i lost my

849
00:39:11,600 --> 00:39:13,520
Speaker 1: job AND i was. STRUGGLING i WISH i could have

850
00:39:13,560 --> 00:39:15,080
Speaker 1: had a place to be, like oh my, GOSH i

851
00:39:15,080 --> 00:39:16,840
Speaker 1: don't know what to do, because LIKE i, said not

852
00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,160
Speaker 1: even if sent of women are so. Helpful LIKE i

853
00:39:20,160 --> 00:39:21,759
Speaker 1: love WHEN i see a woman post Like i'm a

854
00:39:21,760 --> 00:39:23,920
Speaker 1: single mom And i'm not sure about what to do

855
00:39:23,920 --> 00:39:25,879
Speaker 1: about back to school and all these other single moms

856
00:39:25,960 --> 00:39:28,480
Speaker 1: kind of like get together and they're, like, girl so

857
00:39:28,600 --> 00:39:30,160
Speaker 1: this is WHERE i went shopping and this is WHAT i,

858
00:39:30,200 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: did and this is what you can. Use, honestly it's

859
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 1: just SO i don't plan on shutting it down anytime,

860
00:39:34,719 --> 00:39:36,960
Speaker 1: soon BUT i, just you, know the frustration is.

861
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 2: REAL i want to watch would you say they're all

862
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:40,320
Speaker 2: on a?

863
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,040
Speaker 1: WATCH i, know LIKE i just turn off the ability to.

864
00:39:43,080 --> 00:39:45,400
Speaker 1: COMMENT i felt, like you, know like a a, mom,

865
00:39:45,840 --> 00:40:02,239
Speaker 1: like what you're not gonna do is. Punishment. Punishment so

866
00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 1: now it's time to break and.

867
00:40:04,520 --> 00:40:10,080
Speaker 2: Boost breaking booze breaking, brings boost and. BREAK i got

868
00:40:10,080 --> 00:40:15,960
Speaker 2: a good break. TODAY i am turning and stabbing one

869
00:40:15,960 --> 00:40:19,560
Speaker 2: of my old boosts in the. Back i'm taking a

870
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:23,760
Speaker 2: break from a former. Boost. Yeah true. Story so remember

871
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,000
Speaker 2: HOW i was, like, hey, Y'ALL i love these meal delivery.

872
00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 2: Services they're the. Best they're so. Awesome you get food

873
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:31,520
Speaker 2: delivered to your door and you just make your meals

874
00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:33,640
Speaker 2: and they're amazing and you never have to worry about

875
00:40:33,640 --> 00:40:36,960
Speaker 2: what to cook. It i'm done With Green. Chef i'm

876
00:40:36,960 --> 00:40:39,640
Speaker 2: done with not Just Green, chef But i'm, LIKE i

877
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:42,920
Speaker 2: need a break from meal kit delivery. Services why because

878
00:40:42,960 --> 00:40:46,919
Speaker 2: it becomes like the really annoying, mother like shoving food

879
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,439
Speaker 2: in your, face being like you better cook that food

880
00:40:48,480 --> 00:40:51,480
Speaker 2: in the, fridge don't, don't don't go to happy hour

881
00:40:51,480 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 2: because you got food at. Home like go home and.

882
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: Cook it's gonna go. Bad it's gonna go bad in

883
00:40:55,160 --> 00:40:57,880
Speaker 2: two days if you don't cook that. Cauliflower, yeah that.

884
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,000
Speaker 2: Meal so we literally last week we were, like can

885
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 2: we just end? This like it was one more week

886
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:04,880
Speaker 2: WHEN i had to go in the fridge and like

887
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 2: put stuff in the freezer because it was gonna go

888
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 2: bad or like it didn't look, good and so we

889
00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:11,759
Speaker 2: didn't want to make the. Meals SO i JUST i

890
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:13,759
Speaker 2: usually take it And i'll try and make something else

891
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 2: out of. It it's JUST i don't waste any of the.

892
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:18,239
Speaker 2: Ingredients But i'm. Done i'm taking a. BREAK i might

893
00:41:18,280 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 2: come back, later but you need a.

894
00:41:20,200 --> 00:41:22,879
Speaker 1: BREAK i, did like, HONESTLY i only lasted like two,

895
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:25,680
Speaker 1: weeks AND i was, LIKE i can't do. THIS i

896
00:41:25,719 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: can't do this because you're, right it's so much, pressure

897
00:41:29,840 --> 00:41:31,480
Speaker 1: like did you cook like your? Mom did you? Cook

898
00:41:31,520 --> 00:41:33,040
Speaker 1: are you cook? It are you gotta eat out? Again

899
00:41:33,040 --> 00:41:36,320
Speaker 1: when you have food at? Home it is a. Lot

900
00:41:36,400 --> 00:41:36,680
Speaker 1: AND i.

901
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: THINK i saved more BECAUSE i mean we went to

902
00:41:38,800 --> 00:41:41,680
Speaker 2: we did a Big Trader joe's trip and this is

903
00:41:42,200 --> 00:41:43,839
Speaker 2: And i'm all excited because we have a car now

904
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:46,040
Speaker 2: AND i can like actually get a proper buggy to

905
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:48,320
Speaker 2: fill up at The Trader joe's and get like bags

906
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:50,520
Speaker 2: and all this kind of. STUFF i got canned, FOOD

907
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,320
Speaker 2: i got canned coconut. MILK i got a box of chicken,

908
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:55,479
Speaker 2: broth just because like this is the kind of stuff

909
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:56,840
Speaker 2: you'd never get if you live In New york or

910
00:41:56,880 --> 00:41:58,160
Speaker 2: live in a city where you have to carry your

911
00:41:58,160 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 2: own groceries. Home you don't get the heavy. Stuff so

912
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:02,280
Speaker 2: it's fun for. Me BUT i feel LIKE i stocked

913
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:04,000
Speaker 2: up on all that. Stuff so now we can actually

914
00:42:04,320 --> 00:42:06,080
Speaker 2: come home and just look and see what's. There we

915
00:42:06,120 --> 00:42:08,240
Speaker 2: have like frozen stuff we can cook in five, minutes

916
00:42:08,280 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 2: and it's just it's just a Nice it's been like

917
00:42:10,680 --> 00:42:14,080
Speaker 2: vacation at dinner, time you. Know it's just. Relaxing so

918
00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:15,080
Speaker 2: that's my that's my.

919
00:42:15,160 --> 00:42:18,560
Speaker 1: Break, Well i'm gonna Boost i'm gonna actually gonna boost

920
00:42:18,600 --> 00:42:21,799
Speaker 1: my team, because as y'all, KNOW i THINK i said it,

921
00:42:21,840 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 1: before my friends do not listen to my. Podcast they're,

922
00:42:23,800 --> 00:42:25,440
Speaker 1: like you got a, podcast. Girl i'm, like now you,

923
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:26,120
Speaker 1: Know i've got a.

924
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:31,319
Speaker 2: Podcast but but my, TEAM i didn't, realize like we

925
00:42:31,360 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 2: had a team.

926
00:42:32,000 --> 00:42:35,040
Speaker 1: Meeting what's the last week one of these weeks AND

927
00:42:35,040 --> 00:42:36,920
Speaker 1: i would say something About brown And bishan or somebody

928
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: Mentioned they're like, yeah like And Brona. Bishin i'm, like,

929
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:41,359
Speaker 1: wait you guys listen and they were like, Yes i'm

930
00:42:41,400 --> 00:42:46,040
Speaker 1: like what boop? Boop so Hey yataie's Hey. Tamera don't

931
00:42:46,120 --> 00:42:48,800
Speaker 1: think who else did they? LISTEN i Think Leah, Malia,

932
00:42:49,120 --> 00:42:50,839
Speaker 1: Sylvia i'm not sure if you, listen but what? Up

933
00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 1: hey girl And logan so like there's a bunch of,

934
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: team but, LIKE i think these are the core people that,

935
00:42:55,200 --> 00:42:59,040
Speaker 1: listen AND i couldn't. Believe i'm, like they, listen so you,

936
00:42:59,080 --> 00:43:01,800
Speaker 1: know they, know you, know little insight about my. Life

937
00:43:01,840 --> 00:43:04,560
Speaker 1: sometimes it's, weird like when like we'll have a chat

938
00:43:04,560 --> 00:43:07,160
Speaker 1: BECAUSE i chat with my team individually On mondays and

939
00:43:07,200 --> 00:43:10,279
Speaker 1: sometimes like somebody will mention something From Brian ambishing And i'm, like,

940
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:14,000
Speaker 1: what how do you know That i'm a little? Man,

941
00:43:15,840 --> 00:43:18,840
Speaker 1: no because my friends are, like, yeah that's. Cute my

942
00:43:18,920 --> 00:43:22,560
Speaker 1: family nobody. Listened, HONESTLY i have the most the least

943
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:25,880
Speaker 1: techye friends and, Family like no one's on social, media

944
00:43:26,920 --> 00:43:30,320
Speaker 1: no one even knows what a podcast is like, honestly

945
00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 1: like even my, sisters which is, Weird like they're barely On,

946
00:43:32,719 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: facebook not On. Instagram my boo is like just knows

947
00:43:36,440 --> 00:43:37,920
Speaker 1: how to Use. Facebook the other day he was, like

948
00:43:37,960 --> 00:43:40,280
Speaker 1: how do you do an? ATTACHMENT i, said just, please

949
00:43:40,520 --> 00:43:42,840
Speaker 1: just get out of my, feet like no one is,

950
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,719
Speaker 1: like not even moderately. Techy my mom will show. Me

951
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:47,279
Speaker 1: the other day she was, like how DO i make

952
00:43:47,280 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 1: my screen bigger on my on my? COMPUTER i just was, like,

953
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,800
Speaker 1: mommy who are? You did you get your master you

954
00:43:52,920 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 1: like graduated like super cume. Loude how do you not

955
00:43:55,040 --> 00:43:56,560
Speaker 1: know how to make your screen? Bigger and this is

956
00:43:56,560 --> 00:44:00,279
Speaker 1: WHY i have to drive thirty five. Minutes he was,

957
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:01,799
Speaker 1: like come to the. HOUSE i need. YOU i was,

958
00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: like oh, okay oh so this is why my dad

959
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,920
Speaker 1: once did that when he was like the letters on

960
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:09,719
Speaker 1: my screen are too. Small i'm, Like, DADDY i could

961
00:44:09,719 --> 00:44:12,080
Speaker 1: have walked you through over the. Phone he's, like.

962
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,239
Speaker 2: Now you always say that it's actually quicker to get

963
00:44:14,239 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 2: in the. Car i've, learned don't even try, It.

964
00:44:18,520 --> 00:44:20,719
Speaker 1: Like what's the? Body you're, like oh my, God i'll

965
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:23,719
Speaker 1: just be. There. Yeah so, Yeah SO i just want

966
00:44:23,719 --> 00:44:26,040
Speaker 1: to say shout out and brown boost to my team because,

967
00:44:26,040 --> 00:44:29,960
Speaker 1: honestly like someone, stated they are a bunch of. Unicorns

968
00:44:30,000 --> 00:44:35,280
Speaker 1: it's these amazing brown women helping other amazing brown. Women

969
00:44:35,440 --> 00:44:38,879
Speaker 1: it could not be more. Ideal and everyone is so

970
00:44:39,000 --> 00:44:42,719
Speaker 1: invested in the, mission you, know everyone is. Like SO

971
00:44:42,800 --> 00:44:44,840
Speaker 1: i had to tell them the other day the truth of.

972
00:44:44,880 --> 00:44:46,440
Speaker 1: This i'm, LIKE i know, that you guys because we

973
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 1: have this online punching, sheet like it's called t sheets

974
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,480
Speaker 1: where you can punch it online and you're supposed To

975
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,319
Speaker 1: like they have a set amount of hours that they

976
00:44:53,360 --> 00:44:56,000
Speaker 1: do every, week like arrange that they can. Do AND i,

977
00:44:56,080 --> 00:44:58,400
Speaker 1: SAID i can tell by how much work it is getting.

978
00:44:58,440 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: Done y'all are not always. Punched SO i had to

979
00:45:01,440 --> 00:45:04,239
Speaker 1: literally tell, them like stop working for, free because what

980
00:45:04,280 --> 00:45:05,719
Speaker 1: they'll do is be, like oh you know, what, ooh

981
00:45:05,760 --> 00:45:07,080
Speaker 1: this needs to be. Done i'm just Gonna i'm just

982
00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:09,239
Speaker 1: gonna do ten minutes two hours later and they're, like,

983
00:45:09,239 --> 00:45:11,160
Speaker 1: WELL i didn't Punch it's all, Right And i'm like,

984
00:45:11,239 --> 00:45:14,560
Speaker 1: stop you, know BECAUSE i want. One, one they're so.

985
00:45:14,719 --> 00:45:16,560
Speaker 1: VALUABLE i don't want anyone to get burned out like.

986
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:18,759
Speaker 1: Me and, two you, know to, me it's fair is.

987
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:20,239
Speaker 1: Fair if you do the, work you should be paid for.

988
00:45:20,280 --> 00:45:22,600
Speaker 1: It but, like who else has that, complaint like my

989
00:45:22,640 --> 00:45:26,000
Speaker 1: team is not punching in and being fully. Paid So

990
00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:29,399
Speaker 1: i'm just really grateful for Y'all Brown Boost Hay. TEAM

991
00:45:29,760 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: i Think i'm gonna call y' all THE b TEAM

992
00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:33,279
Speaker 1: b team who should GET t? SHIRTS B.

993
00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:38,239
Speaker 2: Team it's still left down on my own. Team don't

994
00:45:38,280 --> 00:45:44,959
Speaker 2: worry about. It but, yeah so that's my boost good

995
00:45:45,520 --> 00:45:51,759
Speaker 2: from negative Dream cultures to POSITIVE B. Team, yes, Sorry Green. Chef,

996
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:57,879
Speaker 2: WOW i just need some me. Time husby is really into.

997
00:45:57,880 --> 00:45:59,560
Speaker 2: It he's, LIKE i can need all the frozen PIECES i.

998
00:45:59,600 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 2: Want i'm, like, yeah there's three ninety, nine go for,

999
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 2: it Right.

1000
00:46:04,080 --> 00:46:05,719
Speaker 1: Ah this is so easy to please when it comes to.

1001
00:46:05,719 --> 00:46:07,840
Speaker 1: Food i'm always Like i'm gonna have some sate this and.

1002
00:46:07,880 --> 00:46:10,600
Speaker 2: That the sooner you realize, that the happier you will

1003
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,319
Speaker 2: be in your. Relationship what all they want is a girl,

1004
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,040
Speaker 2: Cheese just do the least.

1005
00:46:15,200 --> 00:46:16,960
Speaker 1: Right or like every once in a, while like fancy

1006
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:19,359
Speaker 1: food is like you made. Chili WHEN i make, chili

1007
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:21,400
Speaker 1: he like calls his friends, like, Yo tiffany made, Chili

1008
00:46:21,719 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 1: and then all of a, sudden there's like five men

1009
00:46:23,080 --> 00:46:25,360
Speaker 1: at my door like, Hey, Tiffany i'm, like why are you?

1010
00:46:25,400 --> 00:46:28,719
Speaker 1: HERE i heard you makee. Chili i'm, like, really you

1011
00:46:28,719 --> 00:46:30,279
Speaker 1: should have seen. TODAY i THINK i was telling my

1012
00:46:30,320 --> 00:46:32,399
Speaker 1: best friend on the phone. Chili he looked, up like, chili,

1013
00:46:32,480 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: chill chili is happening When i'm, like, tomorrow, Tomorrow.

1014
00:46:36,280 --> 00:46:38,000
Speaker 2: I'm gonna need to. COME i love some good. Chili you.

1015
00:46:38,000 --> 00:46:40,200
Speaker 2: Know it's there's A christmas in the. Air this past.

1016
00:46:40,239 --> 00:46:43,600
Speaker 2: Weekend it feels like almost like, fall like feels Like

1017
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:44,680
Speaker 2: autumnate is on the.

1018
00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 1: Brink he does feel like.

1019
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 2: That OH i can't.

1020
00:46:47,000 --> 00:46:48,360
Speaker 1: WAIT i do like.

1021
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:51,520
Speaker 2: Fall sorry for anyone In houston or anywhere, else it's

1022
00:46:51,560 --> 00:46:54,680
Speaker 2: not like. THIS i. Apologize, yeah but you have to be.

1023
00:46:54,840 --> 00:46:57,000
Speaker 1: Sensitive fall is definitely a fun.

1024
00:46:57,040 --> 00:47:03,000
Speaker 2: MONTH i mean fits on the, train.

1025
00:47:03,280 --> 00:47:06,960
Speaker 1: Right so do we have any? Questions we, do.

1026
00:47:07,120 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 2: As, ever have questions you, guys please go To brown

1027
00:47:09,880 --> 00:47:12,799
Speaker 2: ambitionpodcast dot com drop us a. Note just click the

1028
00:47:12,920 --> 00:47:16,319
Speaker 2: ask us anything tab at the top and you can

1029
00:47:16,360 --> 00:47:19,400
Speaker 2: send us a note, directly or you can send us

1030
00:47:19,400 --> 00:47:25,000
Speaker 2: an email At Brown Ambition podcast at gmail dot. Com

1031
00:47:24,120 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 2: i'm GLAD i read her second email because she, said

1032
00:47:27,680 --> 00:47:31,480
Speaker 2: don't don't name my. Name oh, yeah so here's a

1033
00:47:31,480 --> 00:47:35,560
Speaker 2: good career. Question so she this is this anonymous. Podcaster

1034
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:41,960
Speaker 2: we'll call Her. Jana, yeah we'll go With. Diana. Okay

1035
00:47:42,239 --> 00:47:44,120
Speaker 2: So i'm a big fan of the. PODCAST i will

1036
00:47:44,160 --> 00:47:46,960
Speaker 2: be turning twenty five in just ten, days And i'm

1037
00:47:47,000 --> 00:47:49,480
Speaker 2: reflecting quite a bit on WHERE i am in. Life oh,

1038
00:47:49,560 --> 00:47:50,920
Speaker 2: god twenty.

1039
00:47:50,960 --> 00:47:53,800
Speaker 1: FIVE i remember those when you just be, like, oh

1040
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,120
Speaker 1: my live. Meal you're, like, Oh i've got literally the

1041
00:47:56,160 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 1: whole life to. Live go, ahead ask, Me.

1042
00:47:58,480 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 2: Okay i'm writing this on A, sunday AND i received

1043
00:48:01,000 --> 00:48:04,440
Speaker 2: a job offer On friday for a local nonprofit dedicated

1044
00:48:04,480 --> 00:48:07,440
Speaker 2: to mentoring at risk youth in local high. Schools i'm

1045
00:48:07,480 --> 00:48:09,960
Speaker 2: excited for the, job BUT i do have some feelings

1046
00:48:09,960 --> 00:48:12,799
Speaker 2: about WHERE i am currently in terms of. STATUS i

1047
00:48:12,840 --> 00:48:15,160
Speaker 2: would be taking a pay cup for this position about

1048
00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:19,120
Speaker 2: five thousand. Dollars my previous POSITION i left abruptly after

1049
00:48:19,160 --> 00:48:22,040
Speaker 2: trying to stick it. Through the job in the field

1050
00:48:22,040 --> 00:48:24,120
Speaker 2: was an experiment of sorts and just wasn't a right.

1051
00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:26,440
Speaker 2: FIT i Know i'm on the right track, now BUT

1052
00:48:26,520 --> 00:48:29,799
Speaker 2: i can't shake the feeling Like i'm excuse, me Like

1053
00:48:29,840 --> 00:48:32,719
Speaker 2: i'm regressing by starting an entry level position at only

1054
00:48:32,800 --> 00:48:36,080
Speaker 2: twenty five years old WHEN i graduated in twenty fourteen

1055
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:38,960
Speaker 2: and have been through one entry level position already in

1056
00:48:39,000 --> 00:48:41,879
Speaker 2: addition to. TEACHING i feel LIKE i wasted the past

1057
00:48:41,920 --> 00:48:44,680
Speaker 2: three years AND i should have been mid level by.

1058
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,799
Speaker 2: Now so, GENERALLY i thinking her question is this a

1059
00:48:48,800 --> 00:48:51,360
Speaker 2: step backward or SHOULD i just take the job and be?

1060
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 2: Happy good, question excellent. Question, actually yes it.

1061
00:48:56,560 --> 00:48:59,160
Speaker 1: IS i you, know it's so funny Because i'm, like,

1062
00:48:59,160 --> 00:49:01,760
Speaker 1: ooh twenty, FIVE i remember being so serious about. MYSELF

1063
00:49:03,160 --> 00:49:04,919
Speaker 1: i think like a twenty five bought a house BECAUSE

1064
00:49:04,920 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 1: i was, Like i'm an, ADULT i really need a.

1065
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:11,240
Speaker 1: HOME i need a, home and to, me five thousand,

1066
00:49:11,280 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 1: dollars especially at twenty, five it's not super. SIGNIFICANT i

1067
00:49:15,400 --> 00:49:18,680
Speaker 1: think at twenty five That i'd like to see you

1068
00:49:18,760 --> 00:49:23,520
Speaker 1: just really focus on strategically taking positions that are going

1069
00:49:23,520 --> 00:49:26,239
Speaker 1: to get you to the ultimate, goals like regardless of

1070
00:49:26,360 --> 00:49:28,439
Speaker 1: what the income, is because the income not to say

1071
00:49:28,440 --> 00:49:30,920
Speaker 1: regardless of what the income, is but BECAUSE i do know,

1072
00:49:30,960 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: that like you, know taking less now means that you

1073
00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:35,920
Speaker 1: might have less. Later but being really strategic about the

1074
00:49:35,960 --> 00:49:41,000
Speaker 1: skill sets that you're. Collecting AND i don't, know nonprofit

1075
00:49:41,040 --> 00:49:43,600
Speaker 1: work is hard because it's not like Corporate america where

1076
00:49:43,600 --> 00:49:46,360
Speaker 1: it's like, ooh you made, less oh, girl because, nonprofit

1077
00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:49,319
Speaker 1: that's that's not that's, typical, honestly because they just don't

1078
00:49:49,360 --> 00:49:50,080
Speaker 1: have the, funds you know.

1079
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,560
Speaker 2: What so you, WELL i was just going to read

1080
00:49:53,600 --> 00:49:55,440
Speaker 2: the extra. Detail she said she was going from forty

1081
00:49:55,480 --> 00:49:58,799
Speaker 2: thousand a year to thirty five thousand a. Year well, one,

1082
00:49:59,239 --> 00:50:01,480
Speaker 2: YEAH i, Mean i'll tell you a. Story SO i

1083
00:50:01,560 --> 00:50:03,160
Speaker 2: was just at this baby shower AND i was talking

1084
00:50:03,200 --> 00:50:05,560
Speaker 2: to a good friend and in MY i was, like

1085
00:50:05,560 --> 00:50:08,440
Speaker 2: you got five. Minutes i'm just. Kidding, no she was

1086
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,040
Speaker 2: updating me on where she's at in her, life and

1087
00:50:10,080 --> 00:50:12,239
Speaker 2: she she threw me a blind like a curve, ball

1088
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:14,680
Speaker 2: Because i've known her to work at this great nonprofit

1089
00:50:14,719 --> 00:50:17,680
Speaker 2: with Full Bright scholars full as part of the Full

1090
00:50:17,800 --> 00:50:22,120
Speaker 2: Bright scholar whatever fund or organization that manages that whole.

1091
00:50:22,120 --> 00:50:26,959
Speaker 2: Thing and she's, like, OH I i'm actually starting school

1092
00:50:27,080 --> 00:50:28,839
Speaker 2: in a week And i'm going to go. Back i'm

1093
00:50:28,960 --> 00:50:30,440
Speaker 2: to get my pre recks And i'm going to go

1094
00:50:30,480 --> 00:50:33,400
Speaker 2: to nursing. School AND i was, like, what she has her,

1095
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 2: master she has her. Undergrad she's been working here for several,

1096
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,960
Speaker 2: years she's, established she's doing, great and she's pivoting in

1097
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 2: like a, major, major major way AND i was, LIKE

1098
00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,080
Speaker 2: i think that takes such, guts and she's. Not she's

1099
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:48,319
Speaker 2: the second PERSON i know who's done something similar to.

1100
00:50:48,400 --> 00:50:52,160
Speaker 2: That another good friend of mine who's actually was the

1101
00:50:52,440 --> 00:50:54,640
Speaker 2: she it was her baby. Shower she worked for The

1102
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,040
Speaker 2: Food bank Of New York city FOR i don't know

1103
00:50:57,080 --> 00:50:59,880
Speaker 2: a few years and had gone to this undergrad and

1104
00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:02,360
Speaker 2: all that kind of, stuff and then pivoted Quit and

1105
00:51:02,400 --> 00:51:05,799
Speaker 2: now she's a nurse and she's loving her. Career AND

1106
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 2: i feel like these both of them were in their

1107
00:51:08,320 --> 00:51:10,440
Speaker 2: mid twenties when they made this, decision AND i or

1108
00:51:11,000 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 2: mid twenties and, this AND i think the ONE i

1109
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 2: talked to you, YESTERDAY i think she's twenty nine or

1110
00:51:14,640 --> 00:51:17,680
Speaker 2: thirty or something like. That it's never too. Late AND

1111
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,080
Speaker 2: i also feel, like if you're going to do, it

1112
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:22,400
Speaker 2: you might as well do it. Now and if pivoting

1113
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,399
Speaker 2: and going a little bit under what you were making

1114
00:51:24,480 --> 00:51:27,040
Speaker 2: before in the grand scheme of, things five thousand, dollars

1115
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:30,040
Speaker 2: when you spread it out, over, however twenty four paychecks

1116
00:51:30,040 --> 00:51:33,160
Speaker 2: over a, year it's not like gonna shatter your. WORLD

1117
00:51:33,200 --> 00:51:36,680
Speaker 2: i don't think you take that pay. CUT i understand

1118
00:51:36,680 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: how it can feel LIKE i took a step back

1119
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:41,920
Speaker 2: WHEN I i lost my job at my first magazine

1120
00:51:41,960 --> 00:51:44,520
Speaker 2: job At New York, city AND i went from earning

1121
00:51:44,520 --> 00:51:47,160
Speaker 2: forty five thousand to thirty five, thousand like that ten

1122
00:51:47,239 --> 00:51:50,400
Speaker 2: thousand dollars pay. Cut but IF i hadn't, PIVOTED i

1123
00:51:50,440 --> 00:51:53,200
Speaker 2: never would have been WHERE i am. Now AND i

1124
00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:55,040
Speaker 2: don't regret it for a. Minute you. KNOW i had

1125
00:51:55,040 --> 00:51:57,359
Speaker 2: to do WHAT i had to, do AND i made

1126
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:00,239
Speaker 2: it work for. Me AND i think that you can

1127
00:52:00,239 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 2: make it work for you, too and just, DON'T i,

1128
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:05,040
Speaker 2: mean be a little bit easier on. YOURSELF i guess

1129
00:52:05,080 --> 00:52:06,920
Speaker 2: you tried, something it didn't work, out at least you.

1130
00:52:07,000 --> 00:52:11,360
Speaker 1: Left, yeah, yeah, Yeah and it's good to, like to,

1131
00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:14,200
Speaker 1: me your twenties are really about, like, well really every

1132
00:52:14,239 --> 00:52:16,359
Speaker 1: age is really about to go for, it you, know

1133
00:52:16,440 --> 00:52:20,200
Speaker 1: but especially in your, twenties because the fall is not so.

1134
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:24,400
Speaker 1: FAR i WISH i would have known that WHEN i

1135
00:52:24,440 --> 00:52:27,400
Speaker 1: was in my, twenties, because like, YOU i was kind of, like, oh,

1136
00:52:27,400 --> 00:52:29,120
Speaker 1: WELL i did go for it as far as become

1137
00:52:29,120 --> 00:52:30,839
Speaker 1: a school, teacher even though that doesn't seem like such

1138
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 1: a big leap for, me it was huge Because i'd

1139
00:52:33,600 --> 00:52:36,640
Speaker 1: gone to school for business and like what a AND.

1140
00:52:36,680 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 1: I you know, WHAT i did take a huge pay

1141
00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:41,040
Speaker 1: cut BECAUSE i got right out of. COLLEGE i got

1142
00:52:41,080 --> 00:52:44,040
Speaker 1: offered a job for fifty thousand dollars a year and my,

1143
00:52:44,160 --> 00:52:46,960
Speaker 1: internship AND i hated the. Internship you. Know the, money of,

1144
00:52:47,000 --> 00:52:48,800
Speaker 1: course was like WHAT i could have moved, OUT i

1145
00:52:48,840 --> 00:52:51,480
Speaker 1: could have bought a. Car and THEN i had the

1146
00:52:51,560 --> 00:52:55,000
Speaker 1: choice to work at a day care, center and, honestly

1147
00:52:55,040 --> 00:52:57,520
Speaker 1: they were paying, ME i think like twelve or fourteen

1148
00:52:57,600 --> 00:53:00,880
Speaker 1: thousan an, hour which was like nothing the fifty, thousand

1149
00:53:01,719 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 1: AND i took that, job the daycare shunner, job BECAUSE

1150
00:53:04,280 --> 00:53:06,600
Speaker 1: i KNEW i wanted to, shift AND i my fear

1151
00:53:06,760 --> 00:53:08,759
Speaker 1: was IF i took the fifty, THOUSAND i would be

1152
00:53:08,800 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: stuck on that path toward, yes more, money but also

1153
00:53:12,920 --> 00:53:15,000
Speaker 1: LIKE i didn't want to do, that and SO i

1154
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:19,600
Speaker 1: ended up taking that twelve or fourteen fourteen dollars an hour,

1155
00:53:19,719 --> 00:53:22,840
Speaker 1: job and that led to a job offer which was,

1156
00:53:22,840 --> 00:53:25,920
Speaker 1: LIKE i think thirty two, thousand and then a competing

1157
00:53:26,080 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: childcare center offered me thirty nine, Thousand so instead of

1158
00:53:28,800 --> 00:53:31,120
Speaker 1: making fifty, YEAR i was making thirty nine within a

1159
00:53:31,160 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 1: few months after. Graduating but it was the best THING

1160
00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:36,720
Speaker 1: i could have done because working in WHAT i wanted

1161
00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,759
Speaker 1: to work, in which was being a. Teacher it set

1162
00:53:39,800 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 1: me up for What i'm doing, now which is ultimately

1163
00:53:42,080 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: teaching and everything THAT i know about teaching as a.

1164
00:53:44,600 --> 00:53:47,960
Speaker 1: BUDGET i learned at that daycare center every single, thing you.

1165
00:53:48,000 --> 00:53:50,520
Speaker 1: KNOW i learned how to be, engaging how to actually

1166
00:53:50,800 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 1: take someone from a place of no knowledge to, knowledge

1167
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:56,920
Speaker 1: how to explain things, thoroughly how you, know like every single.

1168
00:53:56,960 --> 00:53:59,400
Speaker 1: THING i even learned how to run a business honestly

1169
00:53:59,440 --> 00:54:01,879
Speaker 1: at the daycare center BECAUSE i Was it was only

1170
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:06,400
Speaker 1: like a two classroom, center SO i was like the

1171
00:54:06,600 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 1: like THE ceo of the, center BECAUSE i was like

1172
00:54:08,680 --> 00:54:12,000
Speaker 1: the lead. Teacher SO i was ordering, SUPPLIES i was managing.

1173
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,120
Speaker 1: Staff we had like two other people who work, there

1174
00:54:14,440 --> 00:54:16,399
Speaker 1: and SO i was managing like you know, What, hey

1175
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:19,040
Speaker 1: something's wrong with the. Toilet you, know somebody go find

1176
00:54:19,040 --> 00:54:24,280
Speaker 1: a maintenance. Man so BECAUSE i chose experience over income

1177
00:54:24,520 --> 00:54:28,080
Speaker 1: in the, beginning it allowed me to learn and then

1178
00:54:28,120 --> 00:54:31,560
Speaker 1: to eventually go for WHERE i am. Now i'm making way,

1179
00:54:31,719 --> 00:54:35,160
Speaker 1: more got making way more now THAN i would have

1180
00:54:35,200 --> 00:54:37,759
Speaker 1: HAD i started off at the job that was going

1181
00:54:37,840 --> 00:54:40,440
Speaker 1: to start me off as way more because the skill

1182
00:54:40,480 --> 00:54:42,719
Speaker 1: sets THAT i learned at like WHERE i really wanted

1183
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: to be allowed me to basically build the life THAT i. Wanted,

1184
00:54:46,120 --> 00:54:49,960
Speaker 1: so you, know, money although it is, important it is

1185
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:53,000
Speaker 1: not the only decider for what you want to do

1186
00:54:53,040 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: with your. Life and THAT i really tend to lean

1187
00:54:55,360 --> 00:55:00,399
Speaker 1: toward really collecting experiences and skills so you can live

1188
00:55:00,440 --> 00:55:01,840
Speaker 1: the life that you desire at the end of the,

1189
00:55:01,880 --> 00:55:02,200
Speaker 1: day you.

1190
00:55:02,239 --> 00:55:05,000
Speaker 2: Know and she didn't mention whether or not she's asked for.

1191
00:55:05,080 --> 00:55:08,279
Speaker 2: More and if you, haven't at least, Ask, yeah you never,

1192
00:55:08,360 --> 00:55:13,000
Speaker 2: know you never. Know it's, uh it's it's it's. NOT i,

1193
00:55:13,000 --> 00:55:14,560
Speaker 2: mean the worst they can do is say. No and

1194
00:55:14,600 --> 00:55:16,600
Speaker 2: you should ask for you should ask for more if

1195
00:55:16,640 --> 00:55:20,640
Speaker 2: you haven't. Yet good? Luck what DID i call? Her?

1196
00:55:20,719 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 2: Diana good Luck. Diana don't be so. HARD i mean twenty. Five,

1197
00:55:24,280 --> 00:55:28,520
Speaker 2: man WHEN i think about twenty, Five, yeah who? Knew you,

1198
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 2: know you never know where you're going. To five years

1199
00:55:30,239 --> 00:55:32,600
Speaker 2: is a long, time, honestly and you can you could

1200
00:55:32,640 --> 00:55:35,680
Speaker 2: do a lot in five. Years you never, know you never,

1201
00:55:35,719 --> 00:55:36,160
Speaker 2: know you never.

1202
00:55:36,239 --> 00:55:38,480
Speaker 1: Know, yeah, okay we.

1203
00:55:38,480 --> 00:55:42,000
Speaker 2: HAVEN'T i want to do another quick career. Question this

1204
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:45,640
Speaker 2: is from a listener Called. ALEXANDRA i don't think she's

1205
00:55:45,680 --> 00:55:48,440
Speaker 2: okay with me using her? Name, Okay, So alexandra, Says

1206
00:55:49,239 --> 00:55:50,759
Speaker 2: i'm so's the Podcast thank.

1207
00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:50,920
Speaker 1: You.

1208
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 2: So i'm twenty three years old AND i graduated from

1209
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:56,439
Speaker 2: college Last. August right, NOW i work at an entry

1210
00:55:56,520 --> 00:55:59,200
Speaker 2: level job at A pr. Firm just last, WEEK i

1211
00:55:59,239 --> 00:56:01,080
Speaker 2: had a one on one meeting with my boss that

1212
00:56:01,160 --> 00:56:04,080
Speaker 2: left me in. Tears while in that, MEETING i realized

1213
00:56:04,080 --> 00:56:06,640
Speaker 2: THAT i wasn't passionate about WHAT i did and started

1214
00:56:06,640 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 2: to panic THAT i was never going to figure out

1215
00:56:08,840 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 2: what exactly it is THAT i wanted to do twenty,

1216
00:56:11,600 --> 00:56:14,240
Speaker 2: THREE i would love to have a job that allowed

1217
00:56:14,280 --> 00:56:16,920
Speaker 2: me to express my creativity through writing and social media

1218
00:56:16,960 --> 00:56:19,239
Speaker 2: and also inspire and help. Others BUT i feel like

1219
00:56:19,280 --> 00:56:22,560
Speaker 2: in today's, WORLD i have to be quote realistic and

1220
00:56:22,600 --> 00:56:25,200
Speaker 2: have a job that's more. Stable i'm not going to

1221
00:56:25,280 --> 00:56:27,440
Speaker 2: quit my job because it's my only source of. Income good.

1222
00:56:27,480 --> 00:56:30,239
Speaker 2: Idea so my question is how are you guys able

1223
00:56:30,280 --> 00:56:32,600
Speaker 2: to navigate the career world and do you have any

1224
00:56:32,600 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 2: tips for young person like?

1225
00:56:33,880 --> 00:56:33,960
Speaker 4: Me?

1226
00:56:35,320 --> 00:56:36,960
Speaker 1: So what does she? Say she was like? Her her

1227
00:56:37,000 --> 00:56:40,000
Speaker 1: passion is what she what's something? Creative were she she's

1228
00:56:40,000 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 1: allowed to do what she?

1229
00:56:40,880 --> 00:56:42,600
Speaker 2: Says i'd love to have a job that allowed me

1230
00:56:42,640 --> 00:56:45,440
Speaker 2: to express my creativity through writing and social media and

1231
00:56:45,480 --> 00:56:48,799
Speaker 2: also inspire help. Others and right now she's working entry

1232
00:56:48,880 --> 00:56:49,680
Speaker 2: level at A pr.

1233
00:56:49,760 --> 00:56:53,040
Speaker 1: Firm i'm, like, girl you want TO i need somebody

1234
00:56:53,040 --> 00:56:56,320
Speaker 1: to help navigate this DreamCatcher group that social media helping

1235
00:56:56,360 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 1: others a.

1236
00:56:57,280 --> 00:56:58,359
Speaker 2: Real long wanting it for her.

1237
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,759
Speaker 1: Email, yeah you're looking for a. JOB i, mean like

1238
00:57:01,760 --> 00:57:04,400
Speaker 1: it wouldn't be full, time But i'll say this that

1239
00:57:04,560 --> 00:57:06,840
Speaker 1: working and so this is just a good for everyone

1240
00:57:06,920 --> 00:57:09,520
Speaker 1: kind of listening. That one of the things That i'm

1241
00:57:09,600 --> 00:57:12,920
Speaker 1: noticing is from so many of my friends are, entrepreneurs

1242
00:57:13,320 --> 00:57:16,600
Speaker 1: and What i'm noticing is their their businesses are growing

1243
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: and they're starting to really, hire you, know not enough

1244
00:57:20,120 --> 00:57:22,240
Speaker 1: for you to like quit your job, higher but enough

1245
00:57:22,240 --> 00:57:25,360
Speaker 1: for you to have side income. Higher and What i've

1246
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:28,760
Speaker 1: seen was my business is that because we're growing so,

1247
00:57:28,920 --> 00:57:32,400
Speaker 1: quickly that someone will have started off as an intern

1248
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:34,720
Speaker 1: and then six months later not even like one of the,

1249
00:57:34,760 --> 00:57:37,400
Speaker 1: interns NOW i just offered, her you, know part time.

1250
00:57:37,440 --> 00:57:41,360
Speaker 1: Work and in the woman that she's taken the place

1251
00:57:41,400 --> 00:57:43,120
Speaker 1: off is because she's been bumped up and she's only

1252
00:57:43,120 --> 00:57:45,720
Speaker 1: been here six. Months and so What i'm seeing just

1253
00:57:45,760 --> 00:57:49,680
Speaker 1: like here at The budgetista is that people come in

1254
00:57:50,040 --> 00:57:51,959
Speaker 1: if they do a good, job within a few, months

1255
00:57:51,960 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: they're bumped up and they're bumped up and they're bumped.

1256
00:57:54,200 --> 00:57:56,960
Speaker 1: Up and you, know, NOW i mean there are people

1257
00:57:56,960 --> 00:58:02,200
Speaker 1: who started like my my executive assistant. Admin she was

1258
00:58:02,280 --> 00:58:04,160
Speaker 1: awesome as AN, admin but THEN i found out she

1259
00:58:04,240 --> 00:58:07,600
Speaker 1: had her master HER mba in. Accounting so now she's

1260
00:58:07,680 --> 00:58:11,800
Speaker 1: like OUR, cfo she's killing. It and NOW i just.

1261
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,480
Speaker 1: Hired she was only here for a month BEFORE i

1262
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,000
Speaker 1: realized she was, amazing And i'm, like why did you say?

1263
00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,120
Speaker 1: That so now she's been bumped up THE cfo AND

1264
00:58:18,160 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 1: i brought on a new executive admin and she's been

1265
00:58:21,000 --> 00:58:23,480
Speaker 1: with us with me for like three, weeks and so,

1266
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,680
Speaker 1: looking you, KNOW i would look to join some of

1267
00:58:26,720 --> 00:58:30,840
Speaker 1: these like entrepreneur groups On facebook because you, know a

1268
00:58:30,880 --> 00:58:33,640
Speaker 1: lot of people's businesses are starting to do better and

1269
00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:37,040
Speaker 1: they're able to offer at least something on the. Side

1270
00:58:37,120 --> 00:58:39,360
Speaker 1: and you get to learn in a safe environment because

1271
00:58:39,360 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 1: when you work for a really small, company you get

1272
00:58:41,560 --> 00:58:46,720
Speaker 1: to see, everything you, Know so like the intern Yatals,

1273
00:58:46,760 --> 00:58:49,600
Speaker 1: hager all, right so when she first came, on she

1274
00:58:49,840 --> 00:58:54,040
Speaker 1: just got to shadow different people in our, company AND

1275
00:58:54,080 --> 00:58:55,680
Speaker 1: i was kind of, like, well when you're done, shadowing

1276
00:58:55,960 --> 00:58:58,320
Speaker 1: tell me what you like the. Most and you, Know

1277
00:58:58,400 --> 00:59:00,280
Speaker 1: i'm always looking for more help than we can just

1278
00:59:00,280 --> 00:59:02,840
Speaker 1: put you there and begin to pay, you and so

1279
00:59:03,240 --> 00:59:05,840
Speaker 1: it JUST i would really look to see if there

1280
00:59:05,840 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 1: were entrepreneurs who were just looking for people to help. Out,

1281
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,720
Speaker 1: like LIKE i, SAID i, KNOW i, AM i know

1282
00:59:09,760 --> 00:59:12,440
Speaker 1: my inbox is gonna be. Flooded i'm, like, geez you know,

1283
00:59:12,480 --> 00:59:15,800
Speaker 1: what don't email me directly email me at budget meast

1284
00:59:15,840 --> 00:59:19,320
Speaker 1: the jobs at gmail dot, com Budget mesta jobs at

1285
00:59:19,400 --> 00:59:21,840
Speaker 1: gmail dot, com because that's WHERE i take, on like you,

1286
00:59:21,840 --> 00:59:26,200
Speaker 1: know and flush through people's resumes and. Stuff but, yeah

1287
00:59:26,840 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 1: that would be my. Suggestion Because i'm seeing so many

1288
00:59:29,040 --> 00:59:31,160
Speaker 1: of my. Friends you know what, happens we're all sharing

1289
00:59:31,160 --> 00:59:33,840
Speaker 1: the same. People like MY, Cfo i've shared her with

1290
00:59:33,840 --> 00:59:35,560
Speaker 1: two minch she's like THE cfo of three of my

1291
00:59:35,640 --> 00:59:39,600
Speaker 1: other friends. Businesses because it's so hard when you're an

1292
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:42,160
Speaker 1: entrepreneur to find good. Help so when someone finds good,

1293
00:59:42,200 --> 00:59:43,880
Speaker 1: help they're, like who do you use to design your?

1294
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: Book my Friend hector designs somef for like all my. Friends,

1295
00:59:46,880 --> 00:59:49,320
Speaker 1: now because you run into so many people who are

1296
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:52,160
Speaker 1: not a great fit or who don't. Produce so when

1297
00:59:52,200 --> 00:59:54,360
Speaker 1: you find, someone you pass them, around like you Want,

1298
00:59:54,400 --> 00:59:57,080
Speaker 1: hector who wants Some hector who wants Some rachel who

1299
00:59:57,080 --> 01:00:00,440
Speaker 1: wants for, real like and so it there's a lot

1300
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: of money in, it because SO i might, pay you,

1301
01:00:03,160 --> 01:00:05,880
Speaker 1: know Like, rachel but now she gets income from my

1302
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:07,880
Speaker 1: Friend cabrale and my Friend, drina and my other Friend

1303
01:00:07,960 --> 01:00:10,840
Speaker 1: lovey and my friend you. Know so it's there's just

1304
01:00:10,880 --> 01:00:15,080
Speaker 1: a lot of money in helping entrepreneurs and that way

1305
01:00:15,120 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 1: you can get you get to also learn and be

1306
01:00:16,760 --> 01:00:19,040
Speaker 1: free and decide what it is that you really truly.

1307
01:00:19,120 --> 01:00:20,120
Speaker 1: Enjoy so that would be my.

1308
01:00:20,160 --> 01:00:23,240
Speaker 2: SUGGESTION i feel like What alexandria really needs is just

1309
01:00:23,280 --> 01:00:25,920
Speaker 2: a hug and like a glass of wine and just

1310
01:00:26,040 --> 01:00:29,160
Speaker 2: a reminder that you're only twenty. THREE i you, know

1311
01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:31,680
Speaker 2: you're NEVER i don't know if anyone wakes up one

1312
01:00:31,720 --> 01:00:33,320
Speaker 2: day and they're, LIKE i, MAN i really figured it,

1313
01:00:33,360 --> 01:00:35,240
Speaker 2: Out like this life thing IS i got a, lockdown

1314
01:00:35,360 --> 01:00:37,120
Speaker 2: because like you think you got your career figured, out

1315
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,320
Speaker 2: and then your personal life falls at a, part or

1316
01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,760
Speaker 2: like your family life falls if something, happens LIKE i,

1317
01:00:42,800 --> 01:00:44,960
Speaker 2: think if you're expecting to have everything figured out this.

1318
01:00:45,080 --> 01:00:48,040
Speaker 2: Soon it's just you're just gonna end up. Disappointed but

1319
01:00:48,120 --> 01:00:50,520
Speaker 2: you're working before you're finding out what you don't. LIKE i,

1320
01:00:50,560 --> 01:00:52,600
Speaker 2: mean your first, job you're supposed to hate, it right

1321
01:00:52,600 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 2: like you're supposed. TO i, mean you're lucky if you

1322
01:00:54,640 --> 01:00:56,480
Speaker 2: love your first. Job AND i think you KNOW i

1323
01:00:56,520 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 2: was lucky to love my first, job although it lasted

1324
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:02,320
Speaker 2: like two. Months but take this, time like learn what

1325
01:01:02,400 --> 01:01:04,240
Speaker 2: you can. Learn you're at A pr. FIRM i, MEAN

1326
01:01:04,240 --> 01:01:06,640
Speaker 2: i know you're probably just cranking out press, releases but

1327
01:01:06,680 --> 01:01:09,760
Speaker 2: you're getting experience and you're building up the resume that's

1328
01:01:09,760 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 2: going to get your next job that you're going to.

1329
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:14,320
Speaker 2: Love just. HAVE i think you just got to adjust

1330
01:01:14,320 --> 01:01:16,840
Speaker 2: your mentality about what you're doing right. Now i'm really

1331
01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 2: sorry that whatever meeting you have with your boss left

1332
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:23,720
Speaker 2: you so, Upset but there's only so much you can

1333
01:01:23,800 --> 01:01:26,880
Speaker 2: do at this, Point like there's only. There it's just

1334
01:01:26,880 --> 01:01:28,640
Speaker 2: like the last question we, have where you're kind of

1335
01:01:28,680 --> 01:01:34,200
Speaker 2: putting this like unrealistic expectation on yourself to have everything

1336
01:01:34,280 --> 01:01:35,960
Speaker 2: to be exactly where you need to be and to

1337
01:01:36,000 --> 01:01:39,600
Speaker 2: see your whole career mapped. Out it's not careers aren't.

1338
01:01:39,640 --> 01:01:42,240
Speaker 2: Linear they don't have to be. Linear, yeah have to

1339
01:01:42,320 --> 01:01:45,400
Speaker 2: step from this one little this one little pebble, here

1340
01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:47,320
Speaker 2: and the go the next little. PEBBLE i, mean you

1341
01:01:47,360 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 2: can be jumping on you got to go jump back

1342
01:01:48,880 --> 01:01:51,400
Speaker 2: one step, left, right one, step two steps, forward one step,

1343
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:53,720
Speaker 2: back like you never, know and you kind of have

1344
01:01:53,840 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 2: to be prepared and be resilient when you hit a

1345
01:01:57,880 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 2: wall like you're hitting right, now and just know that

1346
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:03,840
Speaker 2: something will come. Along but you, know be looking for,

1347
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:07,640
Speaker 2: opportunities Like tiffany, said join some, groups see if there's

1348
01:02:07,680 --> 01:02:10,680
Speaker 2: work with entrepreneurs, maybe or just see what other job

1349
01:02:10,680 --> 01:02:13,240
Speaker 2: listens are out. There start talking to other. People let

1350
01:02:13,280 --> 01:02:15,360
Speaker 2: them know that you're interested in doing what you just

1351
01:02:15,400 --> 01:02:18,240
Speaker 2: like you told us you want to do social, media creative.

1352
01:02:18,240 --> 01:02:21,920
Speaker 2: Writing start talking to, people let them. Know don't make

1353
01:02:21,960 --> 01:02:25,040
Speaker 2: it silent something only in your own, head because only

1354
01:02:25,080 --> 01:02:29,920
Speaker 2: then can people possibly help. You and when you, said she,

1355
01:02:29,960 --> 01:02:31,720
Speaker 2: SAID i feel LIKE i have to be realistic and

1356
01:02:31,760 --> 01:02:33,560
Speaker 2: have a job that's more. STABLE i know a lot

1357
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 2: of people who get paid to do social media and. Writing, like,

1358
01:02:36,080 --> 01:02:38,360
Speaker 2: Yeah i'm a, Writer LIKE i was a writer Now

1359
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,920
Speaker 2: i'm an. Editor it's, Possible like you don't have to downplay.

1360
01:02:41,920 --> 01:02:45,080
Speaker 2: It it's not. Unrealistic it's not just because it sounds like.

1361
01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,360
Speaker 2: Fun some jobs can be fun.

1362
01:02:48,200 --> 01:02:50,280
Speaker 1: If that's all. Crazy BUT i can remember thinking that

1363
01:02:50,320 --> 01:02:53,440
Speaker 1: WHEN i was probably in my, twenties like, ooh like you,

1364
01:02:53,480 --> 01:02:56,360
Speaker 1: know if you're, right if it doesn't sound, serious then

1365
01:02:56,400 --> 01:02:58,840
Speaker 1: it might not must not, be like you don't have

1366
01:02:58,880 --> 01:03:01,600
Speaker 1: to relinquish fun as much as you, know LIKE i,

1367
01:03:01,640 --> 01:03:04,040
Speaker 1: stress you know sometimes about stuff THAT i do for The,

1368
01:03:04,040 --> 01:03:07,120
Speaker 1: BUDGETIZIA i would honestly say eighty five percent of the,

1369
01:03:07,160 --> 01:03:09,920
Speaker 1: time it's. Fun i'm having a good. TIME i work

1370
01:03:09,960 --> 01:03:12,160
Speaker 1: with a great, TEAM i get to help great. People you,

1371
01:03:12,200 --> 01:03:16,280
Speaker 1: know there's nothing is ever, perfect but you know it's.

1372
01:03:16,320 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: Fun and you like WHEN i talk, preschool WHAT i

1373
01:03:18,840 --> 01:03:22,080
Speaker 1: mean like LITERALLY i swung on, swings swings and eight

1374
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:24,160
Speaker 1: snacks and took naps WHEN i wasn't supposed to for a.

1375
01:03:24,160 --> 01:03:27,880
Speaker 1: LIVING i used to be, like let me model for the.

1376
01:03:27,960 --> 01:03:30,120
Speaker 1: Children the best way to lay on this cot see

1377
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:33,160
Speaker 1: look at Miss. Tiffany this is how you. Sleep but

1378
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:37,800
Speaker 1: you can have fun and making. Money so don't think,

1379
01:03:37,840 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: that like take that word realistic out of your your.

1380
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:45,560
Speaker 1: Vocabulary my marketing, partner he doesn't even live in a specific.

1381
01:03:45,680 --> 01:03:49,120
Speaker 1: Space he just turned. Thirty for the last eight years

1382
01:03:49,320 --> 01:03:52,520
Speaker 1: he's been traveling the world and living in different. Countries

1383
01:03:53,440 --> 01:03:56,640
Speaker 1: and how he makes his money is that he does

1384
01:03:56,760 --> 01:04:00,840
Speaker 1: marketing for. Brands so he's one of the people that

1385
01:04:00,920 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 1: help to take my brand from thirty thousand Dream catchers

1386
01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,200
Speaker 1: to four hundred and fifty thousand Dream catchers and so

1387
01:04:06,320 --> 01:04:09,160
Speaker 1: that's what he. Does he Does, facebook, Marketing, instagram all

1388
01:04:09,160 --> 01:04:11,760
Speaker 1: that kind of. Stuff so he also teaches classes and

1389
01:04:11,800 --> 01:04:14,760
Speaker 1: teaches people how to how to market their own. Businesses

1390
01:04:15,600 --> 01:04:19,200
Speaker 1: and so the money is so good in teaching and

1391
01:04:19,200 --> 01:04:21,280
Speaker 1: showing people how to do it that he's been able

1392
01:04:21,360 --> 01:04:24,040
Speaker 1: to hop from country to. Country and LIKE i, said

1393
01:04:24,040 --> 01:04:26,800
Speaker 1: so that doesn't seem, realistic but that's the life that he.

1394
01:04:26,880 --> 01:04:29,440
Speaker 1: Lives so you want to step outside the box and

1395
01:04:29,520 --> 01:04:32,440
Speaker 1: realize that there's money to be made and whatever your passion,

1396
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:34,440
Speaker 1: is you just have to figure, out you, know what

1397
01:04:34,880 --> 01:04:36,920
Speaker 1: does that look. Like you, know that's WHY i just

1398
01:04:37,000 --> 01:04:39,439
Speaker 1: encourage you to like kind of hop around and help

1399
01:04:39,480 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 1: different people and see what you enjoy and you, know

1400
01:04:41,840 --> 01:04:44,400
Speaker 1: maybe take a little side internship or LIKE i, said

1401
01:04:44,440 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: reach out to different entrepreneurs and say, Hey i'd love

1402
01:04:46,280 --> 01:04:48,040
Speaker 1: to help you with, This like if you see an

1403
01:04:48,080 --> 01:04:51,160
Speaker 1: entrepreneur on social, media then you think is. Awesome you,

1404
01:04:51,200 --> 01:04:52,920
Speaker 1: know you might, say, hey you, Know i've got like

1405
01:04:52,960 --> 01:04:54,560
Speaker 1: three hours a, Week i'd love to help you with

1406
01:04:54,600 --> 01:04:57,080
Speaker 1: your social media BECAUSE i notice that this. Happens no

1407
01:04:57,080 --> 01:04:59,040
Speaker 1: one's going to say no to free labor for the most,

1408
01:04:59,040 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 1: part and you, know you might realize, like, WOW i

1409
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:03,960
Speaker 1: really love, this and then from, there move, up move

1410
01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:05,360
Speaker 1: on up in their. Company you just never.

1411
01:05:05,440 --> 01:05:08,960
Speaker 2: Know just go for it and you'll be. OKAY i

1412
01:05:08,960 --> 01:05:12,240
Speaker 2: MEAN i remember my being twenty, three twenty four years

1413
01:05:12,240 --> 01:05:15,480
Speaker 2: old at law three sixty No, shade, great great, company

1414
01:05:15,600 --> 01:05:18,919
Speaker 2: not for. Me hated every minute of. It fifteen MONTHS

1415
01:05:18,920 --> 01:05:21,280
Speaker 2: i was in, hell but it all worked. OUT i

1416
01:05:21,280 --> 01:05:23,080
Speaker 2: MEAN i took that experience AND i pivoted. It and

1417
01:05:23,080 --> 01:05:25,760
Speaker 2: you can do the exact same. Thing so and talk

1418
01:05:25,800 --> 01:05:27,920
Speaker 2: to OTHER i think we're asking this question and like

1419
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:31,440
Speaker 2: hopefully just hearing us share our experiences and talk to

1420
01:05:31,440 --> 01:05:33,080
Speaker 2: you about it hopefully makes you feel, Better like talk

1421
01:05:33,120 --> 01:05:35,480
Speaker 2: to your, girlfriends talk to other people because you're not

1422
01:05:35,560 --> 01:05:38,280
Speaker 2: alone and like being unhappy with where you're, At but

1423
01:05:38,320 --> 01:05:41,120
Speaker 2: you can either let it like bring you down to

1424
01:05:41,280 --> 01:05:44,680
Speaker 2: like a pit of negativity where you, know you're kind

1425
01:05:44,680 --> 01:05:47,000
Speaker 2: of just like you know those people who just like

1426
01:05:47,080 --> 01:05:49,240
Speaker 2: kind of get trapped in the negative spiral and they

1427
01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:53,400
Speaker 2: hate their, job hate their. Lives you're going to walk

1428
01:05:53,400 --> 01:05:55,400
Speaker 2: into an interview with that negative energy and they're going

1429
01:05:55,480 --> 01:05:57,320
Speaker 2: to feel it like you need. To you need, to

1430
01:05:57,360 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 2: LIKE i, said change the, mentality start thinking about it

1431
01:05:59,320 --> 01:06:02,440
Speaker 2: from a positive for, Like, okay try that didn't. Work

1432
01:06:02,480 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 2: we can learn something from, it And i'll find something

1433
01:06:04,320 --> 01:06:09,240
Speaker 2: better and move forward with that different. Mentality optimistic and

1434
01:06:09,280 --> 01:06:11,520
Speaker 2: hopeful because you have so much time and you'll be.

1435
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:25,280
Speaker 4: Fine yeah, right that questions.

1436
01:06:24,720 --> 01:06:27,800
Speaker 1: Question'all it's time for, win, win, win no matter. What

1437
01:06:30,240 --> 01:06:32,520
Speaker 1: so this is not so much a. Win remember we

1438
01:06:32,560 --> 01:06:36,160
Speaker 1: used to do like book. Suggestions, yeah so this is

1439
01:06:36,200 --> 01:06:38,720
Speaker 1: more like a. Suggestion so our podcast is. AWESOME i

1440
01:06:38,760 --> 01:06:41,600
Speaker 1: never was a big podcast listener other than, ours and

1441
01:06:41,640 --> 01:06:43,720
Speaker 1: like the read BECAUSE i like shading this sometimes on the.

1442
01:06:43,760 --> 01:06:46,240
Speaker 1: Side But i've been listening to this podcast That i'm

1443
01:06:46,280 --> 01:06:48,320
Speaker 1: like freaking in love with and it's Called HOW I Built?

1444
01:06:48,320 --> 01:06:48,920
Speaker 1: This have you?

1445
01:06:49,000 --> 01:06:53,680
Speaker 2: Listened do you listen to? Me WHEN i, Yo i'm,

1446
01:06:53,760 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 2: upty you cannot. Connect let that go. BY i literally

1447
01:07:01,280 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 2: have mentioned that, podcast like the last five. Episodes you

1448
01:07:05,560 --> 01:07:07,919
Speaker 2: know what's so crazy is? That like you heard that from?

1449
01:07:07,920 --> 01:07:10,520
Speaker 2: Me that's why you listen to? IT i probably, Did

1450
01:07:10,720 --> 01:07:13,800
Speaker 2: and why you downloaded? It, yeah BECAUSE i said, downloaded

1451
01:07:14,160 --> 01:07:16,400
Speaker 2: and then you and a bunch of our listeners downloaded.

1452
01:07:16,400 --> 01:07:19,800
Speaker 1: It can't you know what's so? Bad like literally TODAY

1453
01:07:19,800 --> 01:07:21,120
Speaker 1: i was like looking in the. MIRROR i was, like,

1454
01:07:21,120 --> 01:07:22,920
Speaker 1: tivioty do you have all type Erst like it's time

1455
01:07:22,960 --> 01:07:25,240
Speaker 1: to be honest with. Yourself. YO i have the worst, Memory.

1456
01:07:25,360 --> 01:07:28,680
Speaker 1: MAGGIE i can't remember. Anything But i'm honestly the only

1457
01:07:28,720 --> 01:07:30,200
Speaker 1: reason WHY i THINK i don't have all time meers

1458
01:07:30,320 --> 01:07:33,959
Speaker 1: is Because i've been like this literally since like fifth sixth.

1459
01:07:34,000 --> 01:07:35,880
Speaker 1: GRADE i could just you, know like remember my best

1460
01:07:35,920 --> 01:07:38,400
Speaker 1: friends say, It, tippy you don't remember, Anything So i'm

1461
01:07:38,400 --> 01:07:40,000
Speaker 1: pretty SURE i. Don't and my dad's the same, way

1462
01:07:40,080 --> 01:07:42,600
Speaker 1: and he's in his. Seventies So i'm, like, well maybe

1463
01:07:42,600 --> 01:07:45,280
Speaker 1: it's just LIKE i. Was AND i had a feeling.

1464
01:07:45,320 --> 01:07:47,480
Speaker 2: TOO i was, like tell me how much you love?

1465
01:07:47,480 --> 01:07:47,640
Speaker 1: It go?

1466
01:07:47,640 --> 01:07:50,400
Speaker 2: AHEAD i love HOW i got.

1467
01:07:50,440 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 1: This oh my, god so thank you. MAN i was,

1468
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:53,840
Speaker 1: like where DID i get?

1469
01:07:53,880 --> 01:07:59,400
Speaker 2: This crowd cannot if you don't listen to, me who Will.

1470
01:08:01,040 --> 01:08:04,080
Speaker 1: I've Been i've been known to retell a, story like

1471
01:08:04,120 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 1: a juicy story to the.

1472
01:08:05,120 --> 01:08:09,440
Speaker 2: SHOW i, KNOW i edit the. Show i'm, like gir.

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Speaker 1: not the nicest, guy but it was a really Good

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Speaker 2: Get the sense that a lot of the CEOs in

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Speaker 2: ceo And rent The runway had some bad press a while,

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Speaker 2: had some bad, press like they had the lift people on,

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Speaker 1: GOT i was, like, uh some of the sounds like

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Speaker 1: was just, great just to LIKE i always learned some

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Speaker 1: big aha moment Where i'm just, like, oh you know

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Speaker 1: that was genius and thinking about things in a different.

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Speaker 1: Edition but, yeah it's an awesome. Podcast it's my favorite

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Speaker 1: and it's my new Favorite Washington dishes.

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Speaker 2: Podcast, excellent well news news to all, us.

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Speaker 1: Love.

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Speaker 2: You so my win is. Original it is sorry that sounded,

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Speaker 2: on my, tone you, Guys i'm working on my. Tone

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Speaker 2: so my wind was just REALLY i didn't watch the

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Speaker 2: VMA's at, all BUT i did SEE i Love. Pink

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Speaker 2: i've Loved pink Since pink was like AN r AND b.

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Speaker 2: SINGER i Love. Pink she's like my guilty pleasure pop.

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Speaker 2: Singer but, anyway she won The Video Vanguard award at

1514
01:10:12,920 --> 01:10:14,960
Speaker 2: THE VMAs AND i just actually didn't even watch her,

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01:10:15,000 --> 01:10:17,559
Speaker 2: performance BUT i saw her speech was getting a lot of,

1516
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:19,479
Speaker 2: coverage SO i watched her speech and it was really

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Speaker 2: it was really. Beautiful it was about how her little,

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Speaker 2: girl she's a. Daughter she was, like, oh she looks

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Speaker 2: about six or seven years, old has like shorter, hair

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Speaker 2: and has like boyish, features and was telling her mom

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Speaker 2: that she was the ugliest girl that she. Knew And

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Speaker 2: pink had a really sweet story of how she told her.

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Speaker 2: That you, KNOW i, mean if you See, pink Like

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Speaker 2: pink has shaved head and, like you, know it has

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Speaker 2: always been like kind of against the, grain and SHE

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Speaker 2: i don't, Know so if you're feeling bad about yourself

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Speaker 2: or you have a little girl or little, DAUGHTER i

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Speaker 2: KNOW i have little nieces and cousins and, stuff AND

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Speaker 2: i just want to put them in a bubble and

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Speaker 2: protect them from the. World but it was a really,

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Speaker 2: sweet sweet mommy daughter's. Speech so go watch. It you

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Speaker 2: don't have to watch the VMA's as shared in, it

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Speaker 2: BECAUSE i don't know how ANYWAY i, know but that

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Speaker 2: speech was.

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Speaker 1: Good, yeah so w and you, KNOW i don't Know.

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Speaker 1: Alzheimer we could Have alzheimer moments.

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Speaker 2: Also we need to talk. About is it alzheimer Or.

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Speaker 2: Alzheimer's you're on The. Alzheimer's you're in The alzheimer's, club.

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Speaker 1: RIGHT i don't have, DIABETES i have sugar. ALZHEIMER i

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Speaker 1: got the.

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Speaker 2: Sugar oh my.

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Speaker 1: Goodness well that's, it, folks that's, all, folks