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Speaker 3: My mother resented me because I picked my dad during

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Speaker 3: the divorce.

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Speaker 1: Did she sounds like a pick me?

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Speaker 3: I know it sounds bad. I have a lot of regrets.

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Speaker 3: But everything was really hard after my nineteen female parents

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Speaker 2: Oh no, that sucks. I hate that for you, Dakota.

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Speaker 2: Can you tell me how much you hate that and

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Speaker 1: I hate that as much as a rat hates an

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Speaker 3: I had a happy childhood before then and was closest

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Speaker 3: with my mother. The divorce was harder on me than

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Speaker 3: my older sister, Penny twenty one female, who kind of

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Speaker 3: took it in stride. My mom moved out and into

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Speaker 3: an apartment and was just generally incredibly depressed. She drank

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Speaker 3: a lot, and it was just a mess. By the way,

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Speaker 3: comes from Tame Armadilla five six oh seven, and if

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Speaker 3: r slash Okay Storytime Separate It.

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Speaker 1: I'm Sophia, I'm Dakota, I'm Riley, and we're here to.

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Speaker 3: Give good advice Kofley, but we don't have all the answers.

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Speaker 3: We lely know what we'd do, so let us know

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Speaker 3: what you would do in the comments, and Op says

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Speaker 3: we were fifty to fifty. But the schedule they came

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Speaker 3: up with was annoying because I'd have to switch houses

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Speaker 3: like every two to three days. And I went to

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Speaker 3: always getting in trouble for leaving them at the other

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Speaker 3: I played sports and she didn't, and she didn't want

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Speaker 3: with Dad on weekdays and Mom on weekends. My dad

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Speaker 3: I was with him one weekend and her the other three.

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Speaker 3: I thought it was awesome, but I could tell my

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Speaker 3: mom seem less, I don't know, fond of me. Honestly,

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Speaker 3: that is so unfair of the mom to, I think,

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Speaker 1: It just sounds like, yeah, mom's not handling it.

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Speaker 3: No, And you know, like people know, people don't always

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Speaker 3: And I understand she.

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Speaker 1: Has at home slap in the bag.

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Speaker 3: And uh, hopefully she works through that, but that's not

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Speaker 3: your fault. That is an unfair burden for her to

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Speaker 2: She's getting out of a job she can't get out of,

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Speaker 2: she's trying to get out of a job the mom

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Speaker 2: as a mom. Yeah, pretty smart for the mom to

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Speaker 3: My sister was supposed to drive me, but again with sports,

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Speaker 3: some weekends I'd call my mom to pick me up

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Speaker 3: and she wouldn't be able to, and I was spending

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Speaker 3: much closer. Penny only came over to my dad's every

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Speaker 3: and she didn't go because she was taking Penny prom

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Speaker 2: I don't know. That's deals only last for so long.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, She's like, no, you don't understand the big deals,

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Speaker 3: I was dating a junior and going too, so I

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Speaker 3: asked if we could all go another day, and she

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Speaker 3: mom is salty.

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Speaker 1: Mm. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: She had gotten me into sports and always went to

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Speaker 3: It's just not.

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Speaker 2: Often conspiracy theory. What Penny's dad is different from Op's.

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Speaker 3: Dad, Penny's older. Oh so you're saying.

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Speaker 2: So I'm thinking that the mom had Op doesn't like

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Speaker 3: Hmmm, that is a pretty big conspiracy theory. Say more

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did they is? It's not confirmed though, Yeah, that's.

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Speaker 3: Lately I've been feeling really down. I lost a friend

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Speaker 3: and my dad's new girlfriend moved in, and I'm pretty

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Speaker 3: sure she wants me to move out. Oh he can't

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Speaker 1: You should steal your dad's girlfriend or.

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah legal, yeah, go for yeah.

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Speaker 3: Which is whatever. I'll figure it out. But it's more

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Speaker 3: like she'll get mad if I don't clean, but when

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Speaker 3: I do, she gets snippy and it's like, you're not

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Speaker 1: She's like, I'm your dad's wife, not you, dude? This

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Speaker 1: classic enemy to lovers. That's so weird, classic you're not

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Speaker 2: There we go.

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Speaker 1: It's gonna be enemies to lovers. Stepmom not a step girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: My mom and dad are divorced and she likes box wine.

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Speaker 3: Now Mom is doing good. She got remarried about a

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Speaker 3: ten and twelve, Jake and Emma. They're all nice, but

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Speaker 3: I obviously don't know them well. But anyways, before Christmas,

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Speaker 3: I texted her that day and asked when I could

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Speaker 3: out after the holidays. Your mom sucks, Hey, literally sucks. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's like been year, like five five or six years?

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Speaker 1: What this? Yeah, how old are you now? Nineteen?

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Speaker 3: Now she was thirteen years okay, so like six years

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Speaker 3: since she divorced her husband. And she's seemingly putting all

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Speaker 1: Which is crazy because you were just like if this

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Speaker 1: all started by just being like you, I would like

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Speaker 3: I think it just sometimes happens where one parent has

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Speaker 3: to move and stuff. But you cannot ever put that

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Speaker 3: but you can't put any of that blame on your

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Speaker 3: You can't you can put the blame on the child.

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Speaker 1: What did the dad do?

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Speaker 1: I'm thinking no, no, I think the.

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Speaker 3: Kid needs this needs to be blamed. Yeah, say more

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Speaker 3: on that. Where is your rage bit?

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Speaker 1: There?

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Speaker 2: You going?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 2: No, whenever you get to adulthood, you're gonna be getting

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Speaker 3: Yeah, just started off early.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna have rats in your room.

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Speaker 3: I don't have mice in my room.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna think like, oh, this, this person's going to

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Speaker 2: unnecessary pressure, but it also builds character. It builds character,

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Speaker 2: and it shows you to grow some resentment.

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Speaker 3: To some healthy resentment.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, was that time you built some healthy resentment?

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Speaker 1: Dakota right now?

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Speaker 2: And how's it going for you?

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Speaker 1: Full of resentment?

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Speaker 1: I can make you mad whenever I want. We've already

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Speaker 3: That hurt in a way I can't explain because she

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Speaker 3: guessed It was probably about the stupid doll and probably

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Speaker 3: should have given her space, but I still texted her

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Speaker 3: Happy New Year. Penny got super mad and drove out

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Speaker 3: stop bothering mom when I broke her heart by picking dad.

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Speaker 3: Oh these people suck. And now you know that either

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Speaker 3: her Penny is just like, really good at picking up

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Speaker 3: her mom's moods, which could be true, or her mom

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Speaker 3: is complaining about OPE to her other daughter, which is.

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Speaker 1: I would put all my money on that one right there.

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Speaker 3: I told her that wasn't true, and she told me

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Speaker 3: they got divorced because Dad had an affair, and that

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Speaker 3: I was an idiot if I hadn't figured that out.

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Speaker 3: Nobody had ever told me that, and Dad hadn't dated

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Speaker 3: anyone that I knew about until recently. I got upset

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Speaker 3: and told her to leave and didn't even give her

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's so tough.

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Speaker 3: Do you guys watch Parks and rec I've seen, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I've seen episodes.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you know the part when they're getting dirt on

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Speaker 2: one another and they get some dirt on Jerry. No,

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Speaker 2: they're like, so they play a game. Oh, hey, Sophia,

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Speaker 2: I found out that you have like five unpaid parking

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Speaker 2: tickets and you come up with me and you're like,

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Speaker 2: I found out you were adopted and your parents are

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Speaker 2: methadicts and like they're horrible people, and I go, I'm adopted.

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Speaker 2: It feels like this is what's happening. They're just shattering

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Speaker 2: Are you free? Did you not get it any?

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Speaker 1: Got it once?

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Speaker 3: Trick donut sixteen nine to five, says Hun, I don't

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Speaker 3: I think it's absolutely ridiculous to expect your child to

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Speaker 2: I like that.

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Speaker 3: What was I going to say?

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Speaker 1: Probably something freaking lady, like I just.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, none of these are your fault, and there is

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Speaker 3: Picking her and the divorce isn't a reasonable ask, even

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Speaker 3: Because she's an adult. You're saying that your mom is

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Speaker 1: You scared me.

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Speaker 3: You should not take responsibility for the actions of an adult.

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Speaker 1: The heck is olymbic.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, can we test how develop our brain? News?

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Speaker 1: My Olympic system is really good at hurdles.

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Speaker 2: That's my joke. I get to say those you used,

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Speaker 3: It up and I brought it home Mariyl and con

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Speaker 3: I honestly think that's a good thing to do. Because

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Speaker 2: What kind of dad and daughter activity are redoing?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Ice cream?

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Speaker 2: Like shopping, like a mall, Yeah, like a mall.

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Speaker 2: That's good. Yeah, yeah, do you have one Dakota?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, go to the swings like that scene from Jumper,

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Speaker 1: I don't even want to do it.

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Speaker 3: Do it?

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Speaker 2: Do it? No?

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Speaker 1: Do it? Yeah? But I just realized I messed up

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Speaker 2: Reverse.

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Speaker 1: My whole premise doesn't make any sense.

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Speaker 2: Okay, reversa do it.

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Speaker 1: Put my fang down, reverse it. No, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I was just gonna be like, well, you know, there's

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Speaker 3: So this is the dad's response when his daughter.

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Speaker 1: Comes to Yeah, that's that's where the dad. While they

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Speaker 3: This comnor continues, but it's something to work on learning.

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Speaker 3: Op He says, I haven't talked to my dad about

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Speaker 3: then I don't know what to do. My dad has

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Speaker 3: Humble Merkat says, you know, even if he did have

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Speaker 3: Dang, that would be pretty covering.

446
00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:56,119
Speaker 1: You immediately cut me out of your life as a

447
00:17:56,359 --> 00:17:59,919
Speaker 1: child because I chose to stay with the person closer

448
00:18:00,080 --> 00:18:02,280
Speaker 1: to my school, and I did not know they had

449
00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:02,880
Speaker 1: an affair.

450
00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:05,720
Speaker 3: And also it wasn't even like, oh I don't want

451
00:18:05,720 --> 00:18:08,760
Speaker 3: to see you ever again. It was literally just during

452
00:18:08,920 --> 00:18:11,719
Speaker 3: week days. Yeah, I'm staying at Dat's.

453
00:18:11,960 --> 00:18:14,200
Speaker 2: I was thinking about the economy, Yeah.

454
00:18:14,040 --> 00:18:16,200
Speaker 3: You're welcome. Think about gas prices.

455
00:18:16,400 --> 00:18:19,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, my carbon footprint is half the size it could have.

456
00:18:19,480 --> 00:18:21,400
Speaker 1: Been my carbone footprint.

457
00:18:21,480 --> 00:18:24,240
Speaker 2: She doesn't have those though, that one. She doesn't have bones,

458
00:18:24,359 --> 00:18:26,280
Speaker 2: that other bone, that big bone.

459
00:18:26,000 --> 00:18:28,440
Speaker 1: No, I was saying the restaurant carbone.

460
00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:29,960
Speaker 3: She doesn't have the femur.

461
00:18:30,200 --> 00:18:34,520
Speaker 1: Dang, bro, what are you talking about restaurant carbone? I

462
00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:39,520
Speaker 1: just said an Italian carbone footprint. Yeah, what are they served?

463
00:18:39,680 --> 00:18:42,640
Speaker 1: Whatever Drake eats, Drake goes to carbone? Oh.

464
00:18:42,640 --> 00:18:45,359
Speaker 3: P Tigg says, your mom moved away from your school

465
00:18:45,359 --> 00:18:49,399
Speaker 3: and didn't offer you reliable transportation or taking her failures

466
00:18:49,440 --> 00:18:52,320
Speaker 3: out on you must be heartbreaking. Op says, they bought

467
00:18:52,359 --> 00:18:54,280
Speaker 3: Penny a car. We went to a K through twelve

468
00:18:54,320 --> 00:18:57,320
Speaker 3: school and she was supposed to Obviously, she didn't want

469
00:18:57,320 --> 00:18:59,960
Speaker 3: to stick around for over an hour while I had practice.

470
00:19:00,160 --> 00:19:02,360
Speaker 3: I don't blame her or anything, but I could walk

471
00:19:02,400 --> 00:19:04,840
Speaker 3: to my dad's instead of waiting for almost an hour

472
00:19:04,920 --> 00:19:07,080
Speaker 3: for her to pick me up after she got off work.

473
00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:09,679
Speaker 3: And Opie Tik says, waiting an hour for pickup is

474
00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:14,240
Speaker 3: not reliable transportation. This is really and truly not your fault.

475
00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,720
Speaker 1: What do you even have to do though you're a kid,

476
00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:18,640
Speaker 1: you're in high school, what are you doing? You got

477
00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,200
Speaker 1: an hour to journal, you got an hour to daydream,

478
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,359
Speaker 1: you got an hour to doodle. You got an hour

479
00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,080
Speaker 1: to do whatever you want. But in the outside world.

480
00:19:26,119 --> 00:19:27,320
Speaker 1: You got hour to run around.

481
00:19:27,359 --> 00:19:29,399
Speaker 2: That is true because I was early college and I

482
00:19:29,440 --> 00:19:31,359
Speaker 2: still had time to do that kind of stuff depending

483
00:19:31,359 --> 00:19:32,160
Speaker 2: on my class load.

484
00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:34,520
Speaker 3: But I feel like this is such a non issue

485
00:19:34,520 --> 00:19:36,600
Speaker 3: to me. I mean, obviously we can't go back in time.

486
00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 3: If you could just walk to your dad's, why couldn't

487
00:19:39,040 --> 00:19:40,919
Speaker 3: you have just waited at your dad's for them to

488
00:19:40,920 --> 00:19:41,560
Speaker 3: pick you up. Oh.

489
00:19:41,720 --> 00:19:44,560
Speaker 1: I loved having to wait around because it was like

490
00:19:44,720 --> 00:19:46,840
Speaker 1: you got to just like figure out what to do.

491
00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:49,040
Speaker 3: I hated waiting around and I had to do it

492
00:19:49,080 --> 00:19:51,520
Speaker 3: a lot. But did you just like sit forgot?

493
00:19:51,760 --> 00:19:52,480
Speaker 1: Did you just sit?

494
00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:53,160
Speaker 3: No?

495
00:19:53,400 --> 00:19:54,679
Speaker 1: What did you do? I don't know.

496
00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,280
Speaker 3: It's just like an after school daycare.

497
00:19:56,320 --> 00:19:58,920
Speaker 1: Didn't you didn't or you didn't adventure, You didn't get

498
00:19:58,960 --> 00:20:01,000
Speaker 1: come up quick invent a game.

499
00:20:01,240 --> 00:20:03,639
Speaker 3: This is a thing You couldn't explore any stay with

500
00:20:03,720 --> 00:20:04,639
Speaker 3: the teachers.

501
00:20:04,800 --> 00:20:06,440
Speaker 1: You couldn't just run away from them.

502
00:20:06,560 --> 00:20:07,679
Speaker 3: No, No, there was.

503
00:20:07,840 --> 00:20:09,480
Speaker 2: It was a strict Catholic ladies.

504
00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:10,200
Speaker 1: They would have won.

505
00:20:10,280 --> 00:20:11,360
Speaker 3: They would have killed me.

506
00:20:11,440 --> 00:20:14,399
Speaker 1: Yeah, and then you can do that back, dude. I

507
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,200
Speaker 1: swear if I went to Catholic school, I beat in

508
00:20:16,280 --> 00:20:18,280
Speaker 1: jail because they would have it would have because I

509
00:20:18,320 --> 00:20:21,280
Speaker 1: would have gotten into I would have had a problem

510
00:20:21,359 --> 00:20:21,880
Speaker 1: with that.

511
00:20:22,080 --> 00:20:24,640
Speaker 3: There's an update. What do you have any thoughts about

512
00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:25,520
Speaker 3: the actual story?

513
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:25,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

514
00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:27,640
Speaker 2: I do, she's saying them.

515
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:31,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, if I went to Catholic school, I would be

516
00:20:31,040 --> 00:20:31,639
Speaker 3: in jail.

517
00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:34,760
Speaker 2: Confines of the story.

518
00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:40,439
Speaker 1: Your mom your sucks, your dad rocks is so cool?

519
00:20:40,680 --> 00:20:42,719
Speaker 1: I don't know about that. You know how cool you

520
00:20:42,800 --> 00:20:45,880
Speaker 1: have to be to cheat on your wife? What you've

521
00:20:45,920 --> 00:20:47,240
Speaker 1: got to be so cool?

522
00:20:48,040 --> 00:20:48,280
Speaker 3: Time?

523
00:20:48,480 --> 00:20:52,080
Speaker 1: I'm kidding. Both your parents are annoying in different ways,

524
00:20:52,160 --> 00:20:55,280
Speaker 1: and so were you, but not in a just because

525
00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:59,320
Speaker 1: you need to wait. But talk about five minutes isn't

526
00:20:59,320 --> 00:21:00,200
Speaker 1: a long time.

527
00:21:00,400 --> 00:21:01,679
Speaker 2: She's a long time.

528
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:04,399
Speaker 1: In high school. She's sick. No, And that's not about that.

529
00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:08,080
Speaker 1: It's more just about the just generally personally, learn how

530
00:21:08,119 --> 00:21:11,040
Speaker 1: to entertain yourself. I'm an only child. That's all I had.

531
00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,920
Speaker 1: It's all I had to do my whole life.

532
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 2: It's a guy. We have different thoughts.

533
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:17,080
Speaker 3: If I had the option to go to a school

534
00:21:17,359 --> 00:21:20,520
Speaker 3: that was forty five minutes or ten minutes away, I

535
00:21:20,560 --> 00:21:23,040
Speaker 3: would pick the ten And you know what I did.

536
00:21:23,200 --> 00:21:26,000
Speaker 3: I did that. I sam picked the forty five minute

537
00:21:26,040 --> 00:21:28,040
Speaker 3: away school and I picked the ten minute school.

538
00:21:28,080 --> 00:21:29,360
Speaker 1: You guys get to pick your schools.

539
00:21:29,400 --> 00:21:31,040
Speaker 3: We applied to a bunch of different high schools.

540
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:32,520
Speaker 1: Went to the local high school.

541
00:21:32,600 --> 00:21:34,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, we didn't go to public school. We went to Catholic.

542
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,320
Speaker 2: I had to apply to the school I wanted to

543
00:21:36,320 --> 00:21:36,560
Speaker 2: go to.

544
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Speaker 3: Dude, I wonder what you said.

545
00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:40,119
Speaker 2: No, no, no, you said you got to choose.

546
00:21:40,280 --> 00:21:44,560
Speaker 3: I had to apply. What would public school Sophia be like,

547
00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:45,800
Speaker 3: I don't know, Probably the same.

548
00:21:45,880 --> 00:21:47,240
Speaker 2: She'd probably do so many drugs.

549
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:48,719
Speaker 1: What you would be different?

550
00:21:48,960 --> 00:21:49,080
Speaker 4: One?

551
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,000
Speaker 1: You know what, you'd be the same.

552
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,879
Speaker 3: We applied to a bunch of different schools and Sam

553
00:21:53,920 --> 00:21:56,560
Speaker 3: got into Loyola, which is about a forty five to

554
00:21:56,640 --> 00:22:00,000
Speaker 3: an hour away minute drive because it's within like downtown.

555
00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,520
Speaker 3: And he had to wake up at like five in

556
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:05,400
Speaker 3: the morning because he was doing a swim practice, and

557
00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:09,360
Speaker 3: I woke up at seven thirty to get to school

558
00:22:09,400 --> 00:22:10,119
Speaker 3: at eight.

559
00:22:10,440 --> 00:22:11,840
Speaker 1: We all know who likes to sleep in.

560
00:22:11,960 --> 00:22:15,440
Speaker 3: Now update thirteen days later, I talked to my parents.

561
00:22:15,680 --> 00:22:18,359
Speaker 3: It wasn't fun. I confronted my dad about what my

562
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,160
Speaker 3: sister told me, and he admitted it was true.

563
00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:23,720
Speaker 2: The girlfriend he's with now, the woman he cheated on, I.

564
00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:26,560
Speaker 3: Don't think so. I think Opiece specifically said she doesn't

565
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:29,399
Speaker 3: remember him being with anyone in those years after and

566
00:22:29,480 --> 00:22:32,000
Speaker 3: this is a new girlfriend, like six years later. It

567
00:22:32,080 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 3: was hard for me to hear because I had a

568
00:22:33,760 --> 00:22:35,840
Speaker 3: boyfriend cheat on me a few months back, and my

569
00:22:35,960 --> 00:22:38,000
Speaker 3: dad had been there for me. I also told him

570
00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:40,320
Speaker 3: about what his girlfriend had been saying. He was upset

571
00:22:40,320 --> 00:22:42,119
Speaker 3: about it and said he'd take care of it and

572
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,280
Speaker 3: talk to her. It seems like she's been nicer, but

573
00:22:44,400 --> 00:22:46,360
Speaker 3: I don't know. I don't really trust her. My dad

574
00:22:46,400 --> 00:22:48,520
Speaker 3: and I are okay, though I'm still upset about what

575
00:22:48,560 --> 00:22:50,400
Speaker 3: he did, but he could still be a good dad

576
00:22:50,400 --> 00:22:52,840
Speaker 3: and not a good husband. Right. It's kind of complicated,

577
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:56,600
Speaker 3: like maybe his girlfriend deserves to be with him. That's mean. Unfortunately,

578
00:22:56,720 --> 00:22:58,200
Speaker 3: stuff with my mom has been bad.

579
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,639
Speaker 2: Waita wait, his girlfriend is with you?

580
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, like op is saying, she's mean, I don't like her.

581
00:23:04,320 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 3: Oh he deserves that type of person. Oh that she's

582
00:23:07,920 --> 00:23:10,639
Speaker 3: feeling a lot of complicated feelings. We used to always

583
00:23:10,680 --> 00:23:13,040
Speaker 3: go to the ballet at Christmas. It was our thing together,

584
00:23:13,160 --> 00:23:15,200
Speaker 3: but a few years ago, after the divorce, she said

585
00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 3: she didn't want to that year and just never asked

586
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:20,119
Speaker 3: me to go again. I asked a few times, but

587
00:23:20,200 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 3: she always said she couldn't do it. Well, last week

588
00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,639
Speaker 3: she made a post with her penny and Emma, her stepdaughter,

589
00:23:25,760 --> 00:23:28,320
Speaker 3: and she wanted me to give the doll and obviously

590
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:32,120
Speaker 3: they were at the ballet. Your mom sucks. Your mom

591
00:23:32,160 --> 00:23:35,040
Speaker 3: has a beef with a nineteen year old, but like

592
00:23:35,400 --> 00:23:39,320
Speaker 3: started it at thirteen because she was jealous, started it

593
00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 3: at fifteen. That's messed up.

594
00:23:40,840 --> 00:23:41,760
Speaker 1: This is all your fault is.

595
00:23:41,880 --> 00:23:44,280
Speaker 3: Like she could have she could have actively tried and

596
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,360
Speaker 3: you know, worked on that bond with you.

597
00:23:46,520 --> 00:23:48,159
Speaker 1: She could have and it's not your fault. I was

598
00:23:48,240 --> 00:23:51,080
Speaker 1: just joke. However, Oh no, there's nothing stopping you from

599
00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:53,520
Speaker 1: buying your own ticket to the ballet. Yeah, go to

600
00:23:53,520 --> 00:23:56,440
Speaker 1: the ballet with your and you could crash the ballet,

601
00:23:56,880 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: be in the ballet, crash your mom's ballet.

602
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,639
Speaker 3: Audition for the ballet, and then your mom has to

603
00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:04,960
Speaker 3: watch you in the ballet. When I saw a penny

604
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:07,080
Speaker 3: the next day, I feel like she wanted me to

605
00:24:07,119 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 3: ask about it, but I didn't.

606
00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:11,119
Speaker 1: Nice. That's of course not don't ask.

607
00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:13,760
Speaker 3: Don't fall for her trap. She asked me if I

608
00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:16,159
Speaker 3: wanted to go in on mom's birthday present it's in

609
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 3: a few weeks. I asked if I was going to

610
00:24:18,160 --> 00:24:21,160
Speaker 3: be invited to her party and dinner, and she said

611
00:24:21,200 --> 00:24:23,720
Speaker 3: that shouldn't matter. Well, then you're not getting a birthday.

612
00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:26,560
Speaker 3: That's how presents work. You throw a party, you get

613
00:24:26,600 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 3: a present.

614
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:30,240
Speaker 1: To some level, it's like I should be invited, but

615
00:24:30,359 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 1: also it's like it's your mom, so you shouldn't really

616
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:35,440
Speaker 1: need to be invited. But given the context, I'd say

617
00:24:35,480 --> 00:24:37,080
Speaker 1: it would make sense to get one.

618
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:39,600
Speaker 3: She said that shouldn't matter. So I told her, I'm

619
00:24:39,600 --> 00:24:42,480
Speaker 3: not getting mom anything for stuff I'm not invited to.

620
00:24:42,760 --> 00:24:45,160
Speaker 3: I got her a Christmas present and she didn't even

621
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:47,480
Speaker 3: invite me over. And I had gotten her a wedding

622
00:24:47,480 --> 00:24:51,320
Speaker 3: present and I wasn't invited to our wedding. You weren't

623
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:53,560
Speaker 3: invited to your mom's wedding because.

624
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Speaker 1: You're a bad apple.

625
00:24:54,240 --> 00:24:55,119
Speaker 3: That's what she picks it.

626
00:24:55,160 --> 00:24:57,000
Speaker 1: And you picked your dad. You picked your dad or

627
00:24:57,119 --> 00:25:01,360
Speaker 1: old because you don't love me enough to wait hours

628
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:03,520
Speaker 1: and hours every day. To be fair, I don't know.

629
00:25:03,720 --> 00:25:07,920
Speaker 1: I don't actually think Ope is wrong at all, but also.

630
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 3: I don't think Opie's wrong at all. Penny told me

631
00:25:10,920 --> 00:25:13,080
Speaker 3: they didn't want to invite me to the wedding because

632
00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,639
Speaker 3: Mom didn't want me reporting anything back to my dad

633
00:25:15,800 --> 00:25:18,920
Speaker 3: so she could enjoy the wedding. She eloped in the Caribbean.

634
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,480
Speaker 3: That made me really upset, so I called my mom

635
00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:24,000
Speaker 3: later and asked if it was true. She was annoyed

636
00:25:24,119 --> 00:25:25,960
Speaker 3: I could tell, and told me she'd meet me at

637
00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 3: a talk, but I had to promise i'd listen. So

638
00:25:28,200 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 3: I drove all the way out to talk to her,

639
00:25:30,040 --> 00:25:32,360
Speaker 3: and she was going on about boundaries and now if

640
00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 3: I wanted her in my life, I had to respect them,

641
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:37,280
Speaker 3: and her boundaries are like I need to give her

642
00:25:37,359 --> 00:25:40,240
Speaker 3: three days notice before seeing her and not asking the

643
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 3: day of or before, and I'd have to invite Emma

644
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,760
Speaker 3: to anything we did and put effort into being a

645
00:25:45,760 --> 00:25:47,679
Speaker 3: big sister to her, and I was so over it.

646
00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:49,800
Speaker 3: I'm sorry she has to be a big sister to

647
00:25:49,880 --> 00:25:51,960
Speaker 3: a girl she's never really hung out with at all,

648
00:25:52,200 --> 00:25:54,719
Speaker 3: because you had already kind of iced her out at

649
00:25:54,720 --> 00:25:55,160
Speaker 3: that point.

650
00:25:55,400 --> 00:25:58,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, it's crazy for her to be like,

651
00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 1: my boundary is you have to give me three days

652
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:02,560
Speaker 1: notice before I even see you.

653
00:26:02,880 --> 00:26:04,520
Speaker 3: I don't even want to hear from you, dude.

654
00:26:04,520 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 1: You my mom yeah, what I'm triggering, I'm your trauma response.

655
00:26:08,840 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 1: I'm your trauma trigger. Get out of here, your daughter.

656
00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,399
Speaker 1: If i'm op, I'm like, you know what, have a

657
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:17,080
Speaker 1: great life. Yeah, I don't want anything to do with

658
00:26:17,119 --> 00:26:21,199
Speaker 1: you either. Same and then once you want to reopen this,

659
00:26:21,600 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: let's do that.

660
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 3: Asked her again if the wedding thing was true, and

661
00:26:24,640 --> 00:26:26,880
Speaker 3: she said that she just wanted to enjoy her wedding

662
00:26:26,960 --> 00:26:30,520
Speaker 3: after everything. I never have ever gossiped with my parents

663
00:26:30,520 --> 00:26:32,679
Speaker 3: about the other, even when I knew that they wanted to,

664
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 3: I never did, And even if I did, my own

665
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 3: mom cared more about her ex finding out about her

666
00:26:37,600 --> 00:26:39,960
Speaker 3: wedding than having me there. I kind of lost it

667
00:26:39,960 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 3: at that. I know it was wrong, but I couldn't

668
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:44,080
Speaker 3: help it. I've just been keeping things inside for so

669
00:26:44,320 --> 00:26:46,720
Speaker 3: long and trying to get her to love me again,

670
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 3: and it's pointless. She doesn't want me around, and I

671
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:51,400
Speaker 3: don't want to be around anymore, and I don't want

672
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 3: to be around anyone that doesn't want me there. So

673
00:26:53,960 --> 00:26:55,639
Speaker 3: I told her that, and I told her that I

674
00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:59,080
Speaker 3: had no idea that dad had an affair until Penny

675
00:26:59,119 --> 00:27:01,560
Speaker 3: told me. But at this point I didn't blame him.

676
00:27:01,640 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 3: She could have fun with my replacement, but it won't

677
00:27:04,080 --> 00:27:06,720
Speaker 3: ever be the same because she's not her mom. She

678
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 3: had a mom and it's not her, and she'll always

679
00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:12,360
Speaker 3: pick her mom over her. My friend's moms go out

680
00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 3: of their way to see their daughters, and I have

681
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,240
Speaker 3: to beg mine for scraps. I wish I had told

682
00:27:17,280 --> 00:27:20,119
Speaker 3: her where to shove her boundaries, but I'm not the

683
00:27:20,200 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 3: deuce to do that. Huh. But I did tell her

684
00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,480
Speaker 3: to forget that she ever had me and left. She

685
00:27:24,520 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 3: called me a bunch, but I googled it, and since

686
00:27:26,600 --> 00:27:29,919
Speaker 3: I'm nineteen, I'm allowed to block her number. So Penny

687
00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:32,199
Speaker 3: and her husband have been calling and texting me, so

688
00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:35,200
Speaker 3: I told them she needs to respect my boundaries.

689
00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: Burn bad.

690
00:27:38,359 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 3: I think I'll be okay, but it's been hard. I

691
00:27:40,480 --> 00:27:42,920
Speaker 3: have a therapist who helps me sometimes, but I think

692
00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:45,959
Speaker 3: cutting my mom out will be good long term. I

693
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:48,240
Speaker 3: don't want to end up like her, and if Penny

694
00:27:48,280 --> 00:27:50,320
Speaker 3: wants to cut me off for that, that's fine. My

695
00:27:50,359 --> 00:27:53,080
Speaker 3: friends and I decided to get an apartment starting this summer.

696
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:55,080
Speaker 3: I think it'll be good for everyone. My dad was

697
00:27:55,119 --> 00:27:57,119
Speaker 3: sad when I told him, but I need to start

698
00:27:57,200 --> 00:28:00,000
Speaker 3: my life Like. I know it's kind of bs cause

699
00:28:00,119 --> 00:28:02,600
Speaker 3: he'll be paying my rent, but we promised we'd get

700
00:28:02,600 --> 00:28:04,680
Speaker 3: dinner at least twice a week. I know he did

701
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 3: something bad, but I kind of meant what I said

702
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,959
Speaker 3: about not blaming him, and at least he's always been

703
00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 3: there for me and like her and comment one bornet sixtixt'' eight,

704
00:28:13,760 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 3: your mother is acting like you need to earn her

705
00:28:15,800 --> 00:28:18,400
Speaker 3: time and love, and that's just Yes, she's the mom,

706
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:19,560
Speaker 3: you are the child.

707
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:20,520
Speaker 1: End of story.

708
00:28:20,760 --> 00:28:23,679
Speaker 3: Proud of you for making the hard choice. Fruit Bat says,

709
00:28:23,840 --> 00:28:27,399
Speaker 3: this isn't about your mom's boundaries. She's been trying to

710
00:28:27,520 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 3: deliberately hurt you as some fed up punishment. She's been

711
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 3: getting some kind of enjoyment from haffing with you. She's

712
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:36,080
Speaker 3: a crappy mom and a crappy person. You made the

713
00:28:36,119 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 3: right choice. Ali and dou Alice says, time to punish

714
00:28:40,600 --> 00:28:43,960
Speaker 3: a thirteen year old child for checks notes, wanting to

715
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 3: be close to school on school days, and.

716
00:28:47,560 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: Let's be real, also probably just not liking the general

717
00:28:51,560 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 1: vibe around at mom's place. Yeah, mom was probably doing

718
00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:59,040
Speaker 1: a little sad, sad, depressing, drinky pooing.

719
00:28:58,840 --> 00:29:00,840
Speaker 3: And we I mean she already said that. She already said,

720
00:29:00,840 --> 00:29:02,720
Speaker 3: my mom like started to drink more.

721
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 1: Little deterioration there, slapping the bag on a Tuesday afternoon.

722
00:29:06,640 --> 00:29:09,840
Speaker 3: So like, no, wonder, Ope, you know had a reasons

723
00:29:09,840 --> 00:29:11,120
Speaker 3: for wanting to stay with her dad.

724
00:29:11,240 --> 00:29:14,440
Speaker 1: Yet not only am I choosing my dad just because

725
00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:18,680
Speaker 1: he's closer, but also it's not as emotionally difficult because

726
00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:20,320
Speaker 1: I didn't know we had a freaking affair.

727
00:29:20,680 --> 00:29:23,520
Speaker 2: See I was right earlier. What healthy resentment?

728
00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,320
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729
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,240
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Speaker 3: Potential ad says, your mother has issues and that has

731
00:29:31,760 --> 00:29:34,080
Speaker 3: nothing to do with you. I can understand why she

732
00:29:34,120 --> 00:29:35,960
Speaker 3: would hate your father and why she would want to

733
00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:38,680
Speaker 3: put up clear boundaries between him and her. However, she

734
00:29:38,800 --> 00:29:41,520
Speaker 3: crosses a line when she starts to resent you for

735
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:44,800
Speaker 3: wanting to still have a relationship with your dad, especially

736
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:47,640
Speaker 3: when you didn't know she needed to love you more

737
00:29:47,720 --> 00:29:50,200
Speaker 3: than hating your dad. She allowed the affair to turn

738
00:29:50,240 --> 00:29:52,840
Speaker 3: her into a nasty person who lost sight of what

739
00:29:52,920 --> 00:29:56,719
Speaker 3: really matters. Please be kind to yourself. Exhartsov says, I

740
00:29:56,760 --> 00:29:59,400
Speaker 3: agree her pain is real, but taking it out on

741
00:29:59,440 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 3: you isn't fair. You didn't deserve that. Please be gentle

742
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:08,000
Speaker 3: with yourself. Amber likes Op said, mam Um, we haven't

743
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:08,960
Speaker 3: reached that point yet.

744
00:30:09,080 --> 00:30:11,920
Speaker 1: Dang' wait, I'm getting a vision from the future.

745
00:30:12,120 --> 00:30:14,480
Speaker 3: Amber likes Al says, how did your sister find out

746
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:21,320
Speaker 3: about the affair? Op says my moum eyelids Chip says, Lol,

747
00:30:21,480 --> 00:30:26,040
Speaker 3: Yet your sister ridiculed you for not knowing God, she sucks.

748
00:30:26,480 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 2: You could have been like you could suck. Don't test me,

749
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:30,320
Speaker 2: you would have.

750
00:30:30,560 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 1: I already have a somewhat pathological rejection of authority. If

751
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,760
Speaker 1: I would have gone to Catholic school, I would have. True,

752
00:30:35,840 --> 00:30:38,680
Speaker 1: it's not even that I outright reject authority, it's just

753
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,000
Speaker 1: when the authority doesn't agree with me, then I'm like,

754
00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:41,760
Speaker 1: what are we doing?

755
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:43,000
Speaker 2: We'll be vocal about it.

756
00:30:43,080 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 1: Hey, I got great ideas sometimes you do a lot

757
00:30:45,680 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 1: of times every time. Actually, my school is kind of chill,

758
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:48,720
Speaker 1: which is why.

759
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:49,920
Speaker 2: I don't have great ideas every time.

760
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 3: And Strang says, I think your mom misdirected a lot

761
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:56,840
Speaker 3: of anger and resentment on you that she should never have.

762
00:30:57,040 --> 00:30:59,440
Speaker 3: To me, it sounds like she desperately needed some therapy.

763
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 3: Kind of made her own bed when she shut you

764
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:03,760
Speaker 3: out of Christmas and her wedding, And it seems like

765
00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,160
Speaker 3: a lot of the things she did prompt a shopping,

766
00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 3: not going to your semifinal, moving forty five minutes away

767
00:31:09,560 --> 00:31:12,640
Speaker 3: in the early years after the divorce were spiteful things

768
00:31:12,880 --> 00:31:15,240
Speaker 3: aimed at you when she was mad at your dad.

769
00:31:15,480 --> 00:31:17,560
Speaker 3: How are you supposed to know he cheated? I think

770
00:31:17,600 --> 00:31:19,880
Speaker 3: if your dad's girlfriend is now at least respectful and

771
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:22,080
Speaker 3: not weirdly snippy with you, that's pretty good.

772
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: Oh, conspiracy. What Penny was supposed to tell? Op what's

773
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: earlier too? Well? Mom told older sister Yeah.

774
00:31:30,040 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 2: She was twenty one at the time.

775
00:31:31,120 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 1: And then maybe older sister conveyed to mom, Yeah no,

776
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: I told her, And she's still hanging out with dad

777
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:40,080
Speaker 1: all day cause maybe I don't know. Maybe older sisters

778
00:31:40,200 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 1: like ah, like this, there's too many stability, there's divorce,

779
00:31:44,160 --> 00:31:47,160
Speaker 1: Like I need to vie for the love and respect

780
00:31:47,240 --> 00:31:49,840
Speaker 1: of the good parent that's our mom. And and I'm

781
00:31:49,880 --> 00:31:52,560
Speaker 1: so yeah, I'm gonna play the power move and I'm

782
00:31:52,600 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 1: gonna get my mom to dislike my younger sister.

783
00:31:55,280 --> 00:31:56,040
Speaker 2: That's a good one.

784
00:31:56,160 --> 00:31:57,680
Speaker 3: That is a conspiracy.

785
00:31:57,880 --> 00:32:00,280
Speaker 2: You could get more money from mom and then also

786
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:01,600
Speaker 2: get the child support from dad.

787
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:03,520
Speaker 1: Because then that makes also sense, because why would the

788
00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,560
Speaker 1: mom really be upset if you didn't know, Like that

789
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,040
Speaker 1: doesn't make any sense. Yeah, you've got to be drinking

790
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: a lot a lot to be thinking like that.

791
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 3: I think he does really love and care about you.

792
00:32:13,280 --> 00:32:15,200
Speaker 3: I hope you enjoy and learn a lot of stuff

793
00:32:15,200 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 3: getting into the independent life, sharing an apartment with your friends.

794
00:32:18,560 --> 00:32:20,440
Speaker 3: It will be exciting to figure out where you want

795
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 3: to go from here. And Opie says, honestly, at this point,

796
00:32:23,320 --> 00:32:25,840
Speaker 3: I'm glad I didn't know he cheated. It definitely would

797
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 3: have affected how I treated him, But at this point

798
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 3: I don't care, And like I said, I don't blame

799
00:32:30,440 --> 00:32:33,200
Speaker 3: him for it. I would hate being married to my mom.

800
00:32:33,520 --> 00:32:37,120
Speaker 3: Witlcka says, what happened between your parents is between them

801
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:40,040
Speaker 3: and should not impact your relationship with your dad. He

802
00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:42,440
Speaker 3: has proved time and time again that he is a

803
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 3: good parent. Your mother has proved time and time again

804
00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 3: that she is a crap mom. Ice her out and

805
00:32:47,520 --> 00:32:49,560
Speaker 3: match your energy, which is to treat you like you

806
00:32:49,640 --> 00:32:52,239
Speaker 3: don't exist. I can't believe she did not invite you

807
00:32:52,280 --> 00:32:55,240
Speaker 3: to her wedding. That is ridiculous. Opie says, it was

808
00:32:55,320 --> 00:32:57,960
Speaker 3: so hurtful. I knew they went on vacations without me,

809
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,160
Speaker 3: and I'd gotten over that, But when I saw the

810
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:03,920
Speaker 3: pictures and realized they got married, I cried for like

811
00:33:03,960 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 3: two days straight. I couldn't believe she had some girl

812
00:33:06,640 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 3: who has a mom of her own there and not me.

813
00:33:09,200 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 3: She definitely won't be invited to my wedding and will

814
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 3: never meet my children when I have them. I don't

815
00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:16,960
Speaker 3: care if she gets sick and asks to see me.

816
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 3: She'll never see or talk to me again for the

817
00:33:19,480 --> 00:33:21,600
Speaker 3: rest of my life. And it's her own fault and

818
00:33:21,680 --> 00:33:23,400
Speaker 3: I can't feel bad about it, and that's the end

819
00:33:23,400 --> 00:33:23,880
Speaker 3: of story.

820
00:33:24,000 --> 00:33:26,920
Speaker 1: It's true, it would be her own fault. It really

821
00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,240
Speaker 1: is no part of your doing.

822
00:33:28,400 --> 00:33:31,000
Speaker 3: Bunny Cake says, you'd be surprised what adults will hold

823
00:33:31,040 --> 00:33:34,280
Speaker 3: the child responsible for. I grew up being held, oh

824
00:33:34,600 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 3: for an unliving I both wasn't born for and almost

825
00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:40,280
Speaker 3: passed away in because my father was the purp. That

826
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:43,840
Speaker 3: is awful reading it.

827
00:33:43,840 --> 00:33:48,360
Speaker 1: It was this unborn baby, unborn child used its psionic

828
00:33:48,480 --> 00:33:52,080
Speaker 1: powers to control a person into doing the homicide.

829
00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:55,440
Speaker 3: Christina Steiko says Mom didn't want second kid and he cheated. Well,

830
00:33:55,560 --> 00:33:56,280
Speaker 3: she was pregnant.

831
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 2: My guess that's a good guest.

832
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, it was always during the pregnant uh.

833
00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 3: Nina Nelson says if Penny was supposed to was parentified

834
00:34:05,320 --> 00:34:07,240
Speaker 3: and Mom was still the one the wrong. Oh yeah,

835
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:09,720
Speaker 3: Mom is definitely the wrong. She's like pitted the daughters

836
00:34:09,760 --> 00:34:13,760
Speaker 3: against each other because she probably praised Penny when Penny

837
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:14,879
Speaker 3: like sided with her.

838
00:34:14,960 --> 00:34:16,800
Speaker 1: I don't know. I low key think it was Penny.

839
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:18,919
Speaker 1: I don't think she pitted them against each I think

840
00:34:18,960 --> 00:34:24,000
Speaker 1: Penny saw the opportunity to become Numero uno undisputed Numero

841
00:34:24,160 --> 00:34:27,919
Speaker 1: unoon Penny and was like, I've got this be like yeah,

842
00:34:28,040 --> 00:34:29,560
Speaker 1: it's like I told her about it and she just

843
00:34:29,560 --> 00:34:31,839
Speaker 1: like doesn't even care. She's still over there every day.

844
00:34:32,000 --> 00:34:34,000
Speaker 1: She's over at dad's every day and she knows. So

845
00:34:34,120 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't like her because mom's unstable

846
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:38,000
Speaker 1: at that point.

847
00:34:38,120 --> 00:34:40,600
Speaker 3: Sean o'pe says, I think o p sister was the

848
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,680
Speaker 3: golden child for mom, so only she got told about

849
00:34:43,680 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 3: the affair.

850
00:34:44,440 --> 00:34:46,080
Speaker 1: She was also the one that was over and she

851
00:34:46,160 --> 00:34:47,080
Speaker 1: was also older.

852
00:34:47,320 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 3: Raven Run says, holding a child responsible for something their

853
00:34:50,160 --> 00:34:52,280
Speaker 3: parent did will never be okay, agreed.

854
00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:55,200
Speaker 1: I think me personally, I think I'm gonna blame my

855
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:56,880
Speaker 1: kids for everything that ever happens.

856
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, they get a spine of back or a

857
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 2: back of fine.

858
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:01,839
Speaker 1: Yeah, why do you think I'm gonna have kids? It's

859
00:35:01,880 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: so I can blame them for all the things that

860
00:35:03,760 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: I do and then they go to jail.

861
00:35:05,800 --> 00:35:09,120
Speaker 3: You're like, you cause the two thousand and eight housing crisis.

862
00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:12,600
Speaker 1: I know it. Yeah, you did insider trading. You did that.

863
00:35:12,800 --> 00:35:17,600
Speaker 3: All of those freaking triple A barbs your fault. You

864
00:35:17,640 --> 00:35:18,760
Speaker 3: know they were bad.

865
00:35:19,080 --> 00:35:24,040
Speaker 2: If enough babies are born, it could crash the housing prices.

866
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:26,880
Speaker 3: It could crash the housing crisis. Imagine like, is it

867
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:28,840
Speaker 3: the opposite where Imagine.

868
00:35:28,400 --> 00:35:32,480
Speaker 2: If every woman, if every woman ever, just immediately, all

869
00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,160
Speaker 2: of a sudden, got pregnant with three kids each I

870
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,600
Speaker 2: cast spontaneous global birth.

871
00:35:37,800 --> 00:35:39,799
Speaker 3: That sounds awful. I don't want to be pregnant with that.

872
00:35:39,680 --> 00:35:41,239
Speaker 1: That would that would and then we send them all

873
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:46,960
Speaker 1: to South Korea. That would solve the population. Every woman ever, Yeah,

874
00:35:47,160 --> 00:35:50,440
Speaker 1: so every woman in every woman on earth, nop, not

875
00:35:50,640 --> 00:35:52,640
Speaker 1: every woman in South Korea, every woman on earth.

876
00:35:52,480 --> 00:35:55,319
Speaker 2: And even if your uterus has been removed, you'd grow

877
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:56,879
Speaker 2: a new one in this case scenario, and.

878
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:01,760
Speaker 1: It's like it's like a just a thirty second whoop. Yeah,

879
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: and don't worry. It's also baked into the global to

880
00:36:05,120 --> 00:36:07,760
Speaker 1: the spell. Yep, it's baked in. There's an epidural baked

881
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 1: in there.

882
00:36:08,200 --> 00:36:09,800
Speaker 3: It sounds like like a nightmare.

883
00:36:09,920 --> 00:36:12,560
Speaker 2: And then dudes have to work overnight just so they

884
00:36:12,600 --> 00:36:13,960
Speaker 2: could add to the helping.

885
00:36:14,080 --> 00:36:16,799
Speaker 1: Honestly, for me, it was actually part of the rule

886
00:36:16,880 --> 00:36:19,800
Speaker 1: that guys never have to work again, and that actually

887
00:36:19,840 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: every woman on earth takes all of the jobs and

888
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,200
Speaker 1: the men never have to work, and then that is

889
00:36:24,239 --> 00:36:27,720
Speaker 1: how we close the wage gap. So because if women

890
00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: get working for doing everything and the men get paid

891
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:34,320
Speaker 1: seventy percent of that for being home, wage gap crisis.

892
00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 3: So it's like a nightmare.

893
00:36:36,360 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 1: Also, population crisis in South Korea solved. What all I

894
00:36:40,719 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: need is great and terrible magical power.

895
00:36:43,920 --> 00:36:47,800
Speaker 3: Anyway, we've got another story and we're gonna get to that. Yay.

896
00:36:48,320 --> 00:36:51,879
Speaker 2: This one's about a hijacking from a okay s three

897
00:36:51,920 --> 00:36:52,840
Speaker 2: time family member.

898
00:36:53,239 --> 00:36:56,440
Speaker 1: Hijacking. Yeah, not like a real one, Yeah, like a

899
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:57,759
Speaker 1: real one. Hijinks.

900
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,719
Speaker 2: I hate it. When people hijack my conversation. I'll be

901
00:37:00,719 --> 00:37:04,840
Speaker 2: having a conversation with someone and then boom, they this

902
00:37:04,960 --> 00:37:05,520
Speaker 2: is fine to.

903
00:37:06,520 --> 00:37:09,720
Speaker 1: What Yeah, I'm totally locked in on what you're saying.

904
00:37:09,960 --> 00:37:12,239
Speaker 2: I actually hate that so much because it makes me poop.

905
00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,279
Speaker 1: I think cheetos are pretty good. The best ones are

906
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: the ones that are the halopeno cheetos that make you poop,

907
00:37:17,640 --> 00:37:19,480
Speaker 1: the little halopeno cheetos that make you.

908
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 2: Poop really big. What are you saying that makes you

909
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 2: poop really big?

910
00:37:22,680 --> 00:37:26,560
Speaker 1: Oh? Yeah, poopy doodoo. Yeah anyway, yeah.

911
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:28,080
Speaker 2: Sometimes hash Browns make me poop.

912
00:37:28,160 --> 00:37:28,759
Speaker 1: Are you what?

913
00:37:29,400 --> 00:37:32,319
Speaker 2: An avocado toast where I put a tomato on it?

914
00:37:32,480 --> 00:37:33,719
Speaker 3: Ew? What?

915
00:37:34,000 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 1: Why?

916
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,759
Speaker 2: What do you mean this makes me poop?

917
00:37:36,840 --> 00:37:38,120
Speaker 3: Can we get to the next story?

918
00:37:38,239 --> 00:37:41,960
Speaker 1: Wait? Random topic? Go Ficus? What is up with the

919
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 1: name of that plant?

920
00:37:43,120 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 3: Billy MICUs?

921
00:37:44,120 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: If you took heavily? Wait Seinfeld, Julia Luis Ficus.

922
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:53,160
Speaker 3: Billy MICUs, head of the head of the Bills, Billy Micas,

923
00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:54,200
Speaker 3: head of the Ficus.

924
00:37:54,360 --> 00:37:57,280
Speaker 1: No, head of the head of the Lettuce.

925
00:37:57,440 --> 00:38:01,080
Speaker 3: No a drug ring in la Oh whoa, my dad

926
00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 3: knew him.

927
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:04,560
Speaker 1: No, I do know this. They called him the whatever,

928
00:38:04,560 --> 00:38:06,960
Speaker 1: the monkey boy, and the Monkey Boy, Billy MICUs and

929
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:09,080
Speaker 1: the monkey Boy, MICUs and the monkey Boy. My dad

930
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,960
Speaker 1: went to school with Billy MICUs named and he's the

931
00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: one who named Julia Louise Ficus.

932
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:16,759
Speaker 2: Yeah wow, Yeah, that's a good one. That's a good

933
00:38:16,800 --> 00:38:17,359
Speaker 2: random topic.

934
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:19,719
Speaker 1: Okay, And if anyone sends us a ficus, we will

935
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:22,359
Speaker 1: name it Julia Luise Ficus and we will put her

936
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:25,399
Speaker 1: face on the plant. That is a promise. Yay, So

937
00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: send us your fight guy fighty.

938
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:29,400
Speaker 2: Let's read this next story.

939
00:38:29,440 --> 00:38:33,319
Speaker 1: My friends, my family hijacked my graduation party and I

940
00:38:33,440 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 1: feel like they ruined it.

941
00:38:35,080 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 3: That's my party and I could do what I want to.

942
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:38,439
Speaker 2: Poo poo.

943
00:38:38,640 --> 00:38:43,560
Speaker 1: Your party sucks. Yeah, thanks, Riley, Riley coming in hot, that's.

944
00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:43,879
Speaker 2: How I come.

945
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:45,160
Speaker 3: That's going on today.

946
00:38:45,280 --> 00:38:49,480
Speaker 1: You're gonna make me start fight cussing. Yeah, I am eighteen,

947
00:38:49,880 --> 00:38:51,879
Speaker 1: and I want to know if I'm the a hole

948
00:38:51,960 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: for feeling upset about my graduation party. For context, all

949
00:38:55,280 --> 00:38:57,160
Speaker 1: this took place towards the last week of May and

950
00:38:57,200 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: into the first week of June. Thank god we had

951
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,840
Speaker 1: that content. For me personally, I wanted a small party

952
00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,440
Speaker 1: to celebrate that I graduated, not a big one.

953
00:39:05,520 --> 00:39:07,040
Speaker 2: This is one of our own Dakota.

954
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:09,279
Speaker 1: No, I'm just saying, thank god we knew that it

955
00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: was late May early June. By the way, this comes

956
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 1: from users Sleepy Sheeps on the r slash Okay storytime

957
00:39:15,560 --> 00:39:17,080
Speaker 1: sub Bretta and if you want us to meet your

958
00:39:17,080 --> 00:39:20,279
Speaker 1: own stories, go there and submit them. And we're here

959
00:39:20,280 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: to give a good advice googly. But we don't have

960
00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:23,080
Speaker 1: all the answers to lave questions. We want to know

961
00:39:23,120 --> 00:39:24,600
Speaker 1: what we know, so let us know down and in

962
00:39:24,680 --> 00:39:27,279
Speaker 1: the comments what you know as well. And Opie says

963
00:39:27,719 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 1: to keep this post from becoming sup super depressing. Ultimately,

964
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:34,440
Speaker 1: I didn't believe I would make it this far in life,

965
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,600
Speaker 1: let alone see graduation day happen. Due to that reasoning alone,

966
00:39:37,640 --> 00:39:39,920
Speaker 1: I wanted to make sure my graduation party was filled

967
00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:42,400
Speaker 1: with my supporters, just the people that were there for

968
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,280
Speaker 1: me throughout the years. Ultimately that would be my grandma

969
00:39:45,360 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: on my mom's side, my aunts, my grandma's kids on

970
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:50,480
Speaker 1: my mom's side, my aunt's kids just cause why not,

971
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,160
Speaker 1: even if they have been a pain in my butt,

972
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 1: and my friends, which there's only two of them.

973
00:39:55,000 --> 00:39:59,640
Speaker 3: Aunts stopped working again. Uh Okay, Billy Times says this

974
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 3: stri he has a three to one ratio of sheep

975
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 3: to people. So if you need a sheep, I don't.

976
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:07,720
Speaker 2: Like that statistic because people do weird things.

977
00:40:08,080 --> 00:40:12,960
Speaker 1: What. I don't think the statistical population spread has anything

978
00:40:13,000 --> 00:40:15,360
Speaker 1: to do. They're just like, Wow, these sheep are available.

979
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:18,680
Speaker 1: These sheep are so available.

980
00:40:19,800 --> 00:40:21,680
Speaker 3: Do you know how many cows there are in the US?

981
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:25,759
Speaker 2: JRHNBR what I'm going to GUS three point three million.

982
00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:28,359
Speaker 3: In the US more or less. I don't know.

983
00:40:28,719 --> 00:40:30,439
Speaker 2: Twenty eight hundred calories per day?

984
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:34,200
Speaker 1: What the twenty eight hundred calories? Three thousand mothers? All right?

985
00:40:34,239 --> 00:40:35,399
Speaker 2: Here we go overall a.

986
00:40:35,360 --> 00:40:37,640
Speaker 1: Small group of people, no more than ten, and I

987
00:40:37,680 --> 00:40:41,360
Speaker 1: would assume they apartners as well, so a maximum of

988
00:40:41,400 --> 00:40:43,919
Speaker 1: fifteen people. My plan was to have them over order

989
00:40:43,960 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: some pizza and have pizza with pasta while doing a

990
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: swim party. Yes, sounds like a textbook recipe for cramps.

991
00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, you should never go in the pool after eating pasta, pasta,

992
00:40:55,640 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 2: pizza pool pizza makes sense. Pasta PPP. Pasta doesn't make

993
00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:03,000
Speaker 2: sense in a setting. I'm sorry, post Poston pool. That's

994
00:41:03,040 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 2: a thing.

995
00:41:03,600 --> 00:41:04,600
Speaker 3: Pasta and pool?

996
00:41:04,680 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: Who did that? Who started through?

997
00:41:06,280 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever had.

998
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,719
Speaker 2: Unless you talk about the Italians, I can't say that.

999
00:41:10,880 --> 00:41:12,000
Speaker 3: Who invented pool?

1000
00:41:12,160 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 1: Do we have any pizza related sponsorships right now? You know,

1001
00:41:15,760 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: the like the baked pastas from Pizza Hut and Dominoes

1002
00:41:19,200 --> 00:41:23,120
Speaker 1: back in the day. Oh my great googlely googly, they

1003
00:41:23,120 --> 00:41:25,600
Speaker 1: were so good. What was do you remember though?

1004
00:41:26,360 --> 00:41:26,960
Speaker 3: In this story?

1005
00:41:27,000 --> 00:41:30,160
Speaker 2: Though, I don't know, we're talking about literally this said

1006
00:41:30,520 --> 00:41:33,279
Speaker 2: pasta exactly what we're talking about. Yeah, we are on

1007
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 2: top of the pasta pool? Were you even talking about

1008
00:41:36,040 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 2: I don't know.

1009
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 3: I'm waiting to find out.

1010
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:41,560
Speaker 1: Never mind, Later on, we would have my dream cake,

1011
00:41:41,760 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: a vintage heart cake in red velvet flavoring. Kind of

1012
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 1: lost me there. Overall, a small party with my favorite

1013
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,839
Speaker 1: foods and favorite cake. Well, unfortunately for me, I didn't

1014
00:41:52,840 --> 00:41:56,440
Speaker 1: get that at all. For starters, my grandpa came but

1015
00:41:56,600 --> 00:42:00,920
Speaker 1: left my step ma, my mom's step mom stand sixty

1016
00:42:00,960 --> 00:42:04,320
Speaker 1: eight years old. Oh it's not even the right ones, Dakota.

1017
00:42:04,360 --> 00:42:05,399
Speaker 2: I think her age is wrong.

1018
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,120
Speaker 1: I was just trying to figure out what this meant.

1019
00:42:07,160 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: I think Grandpa divorced step Ma. I thought she left

1020
00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 1: at the party, right, That's what I was thinking. It

1021
00:42:12,600 --> 00:42:16,279
Speaker 1: says for starters. Gran, my grandpa came but left my

1022
00:42:16,440 --> 00:42:21,040
Speaker 1: stepm my mom's step mom. I understand they're sixty seven

1023
00:42:21,239 --> 00:42:24,680
Speaker 1: years old. I ended up giving up my room for

1024
00:42:24,760 --> 00:42:28,000
Speaker 1: nearly two weeks, so my grandpa has a place to

1025
00:42:28,080 --> 00:42:28,680
Speaker 1: sleep at.

1026
00:42:28,760 --> 00:42:29,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, so he left.

1027
00:42:30,080 --> 00:42:33,520
Speaker 1: Dang, that makes sense since we moved to a house

1028
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 1: with less bedrooms but more space. Ultimately we have a

1029
00:42:36,360 --> 00:42:38,480
Speaker 1: guest bedroom in a basement, which he would not be

1030
00:42:38,560 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: sleeping down there. It was nice seeing my grandpa again,

1031
00:42:41,760 --> 00:42:44,000
Speaker 1: since I've seen him probably no more than seven or

1032
00:42:44,040 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 1: eight times throughout my life. Then a few days later,

1033
00:42:46,440 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: my aunt from my dad's side of the family arrived

1034
00:42:48,600 --> 00:42:51,680
Speaker 1: at midnight to my house. She brought both her daughters

1035
00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:54,960
Speaker 1: and one of her daughter's fiance and their children. This

1036
00:42:55,040 --> 00:42:57,799
Speaker 1: led to the basement being flooded with people and the

1037
00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:01,760
Speaker 1: guest bedroom being crowded as well. Lept Polly during that time,

1038
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,400
Speaker 1: being that I was sleeping on an old bean bag,

1039
00:43:04,520 --> 00:43:06,279
Speaker 1: So my family has a place to stay.

1040
00:43:06,440 --> 00:43:09,759
Speaker 3: Your parents gave you an old bean bag to sleep on.

1041
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 2: Better than nothing, is it?

1042
00:43:11,640 --> 00:43:14,839
Speaker 3: Though? Honestly I think you might get better sleep on

1043
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:15,360
Speaker 3: the floor.

1044
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:21,240
Speaker 1: Clearly, you've never you've never optimized your sleeping for bean bag,

1045
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:22,520
Speaker 1: I have not.

1046
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 2: It's pretty fun.

1047
00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 1: You make it a nest. It's like a it's like

1048
00:43:25,480 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: a den slash nest combo. You're like both a dog

1049
00:43:30,040 --> 00:43:30,760
Speaker 1: and a bird.

1050
00:43:31,080 --> 00:43:36,480
Speaker 2: Yes, yes, interesting. Yeah, it really depends on tips. Dakota, Dakota.

1051
00:43:36,520 --> 00:43:38,879
Speaker 2: It's cold and you got a nice blanket on top

1052
00:43:38,880 --> 00:43:39,000
Speaker 2: of you.

1053
00:43:39,280 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: It really does, though, depend on the beanbag.

1054
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:42,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, and you just went hiking all day and you

1055
00:43:42,800 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 2: had a nice shower beforehand too.

1056
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:46,560
Speaker 3: If it's a if, it's a really bad bean bag. Though,

1057
00:43:46,600 --> 00:43:48,240
Speaker 3: this sounds like a really bad bean bag.

1058
00:43:48,320 --> 00:43:50,319
Speaker 1: I think that the old. That's the thing is the

1059
00:43:50,360 --> 00:43:52,000
Speaker 1: old bean bags are usually the best ones.

1060
00:43:52,040 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: It's like vintage clothes.

1061
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:54,200
Speaker 3: I'll take you like.

1062
00:43:54,239 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 1: The new ones are too firm.

1063
00:43:56,120 --> 00:43:59,000
Speaker 2: Wait type one for being bag, Type two for no being.

1064
00:43:58,880 --> 00:44:01,520
Speaker 1: Bag bag if I can fit in it, because I'm

1065
00:44:01,520 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: a big guy, so sometimes the bean bag would be

1066
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:06,319
Speaker 1: too small. But if you can actually, if you can

1067
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:10,120
Speaker 1: actually curl like curl up and be like a little

1068
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:12,480
Speaker 1: like like how a dog sleeps in the snow, I know,

1069
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: I get it, you know. I don't think you do, though,

1070
00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: why is the.

1071
00:44:15,120 --> 00:44:16,480
Speaker 3: Dog sleeping in the snow?

1072
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:22,240
Speaker 1: Okay, so it's Balto. What Baltore's looping back? Balto that's clipped,

1073
00:44:22,280 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: by the way. You did not know what Balto was doing,

1074
00:44:25,680 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 1: and then you tried to play it off really casual

1075
00:44:27,760 --> 00:44:29,800
Speaker 1: like you did the whole time. I did know the

1076
00:44:29,840 --> 00:44:30,359
Speaker 1: whole time.

1077
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:31,720
Speaker 3: You said magic juice.

1078
00:44:31,800 --> 00:44:33,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, magic medicine juice.

1079
00:44:33,320 --> 00:44:36,080
Speaker 3: You didn't say medicine. You said magic juice. Yeah, good

1080
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:37,080
Speaker 3: for the little boy.

1081
00:44:37,160 --> 00:44:37,400
Speaker 1: It was.

1082
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I wanted to make you look stupid.

1083
00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,759
Speaker 1: Keep in mind, I'm not close with this aunt. The

1084
00:44:44,840 --> 00:44:46,680
Speaker 1: last time I spoke to her was over the phone

1085
00:44:46,680 --> 00:44:49,160
Speaker 1: sometime in twenty twenty or twenty twenty one. Even when

1086
00:44:49,160 --> 00:44:51,839
Speaker 1: she was here with her daughters and son in law

1087
00:44:51,880 --> 00:44:54,759
Speaker 1: and grandchildren, I barely interacted with them. On the day

1088
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:57,080
Speaker 1: of my graduation, I needed to be dressed and ready

1089
00:44:57,120 --> 00:44:59,400
Speaker 1: to go by full thirty PM since my school is

1090
00:44:59,400 --> 00:45:01,759
Speaker 1: thirty to forty and it's away from my house, and

1091
00:45:01,920 --> 00:45:05,320
Speaker 1: my parents had assigned seating for my family. They needed

1092
00:45:05,360 --> 00:45:07,720
Speaker 1: to be at their seats no later than five thirty,

1093
00:45:07,880 --> 00:45:10,000
Speaker 1: but I was told ahead of time since the seats

1094
00:45:10,000 --> 00:45:12,319
Speaker 1: get filled up quickly, we needed the parents to get

1095
00:45:12,320 --> 00:45:15,080
Speaker 1: there at five PM and from their family and friends

1096
00:45:15,120 --> 00:45:17,440
Speaker 1: can figure it out. Instead of my family listening. They

1097
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: went swimming from one pm to four thirty pm.

1098
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:22,320
Speaker 3: That sounds pretty fun, though, I want to go swimming today.

1099
00:45:22,400 --> 00:45:23,760
Speaker 3: It's like super hot here today.

1100
00:45:23,880 --> 00:45:25,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, it is actually super hot.

1101
00:45:25,360 --> 00:45:26,560
Speaker 3: I'm busy today.

1102
00:45:26,560 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: Sam here og host. We're going to get back to

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Speaker 1: these stories. But here's three minutes fads from our sponsors. First,

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Speaker 1: I was dressed and ready, and nobody else was ready.

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Speaker 1: They stressed me out on one of the most important days.

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Speaker 1: We didn't get to the school until five forty five pm. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I don't care if this might upset did you Your

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Speaker 1: high school graduation is not going to end up being

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Speaker 1: that important.

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Speaker 3: Sure, But also in the moment, I disagree because in

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Speaker 3: the moment, yeah, in the moment, it's one of the

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Speaker 3: most important things.

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Speaker 1: This moment.

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Speaker 3: In the moment, you're like, I want my parents to

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Speaker 3: be there on time, and I don't want to have

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Speaker 3: to worry about them. Struck me out day of when

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to have fun and uh, you know, enjoy

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Speaker 3: the fruits of my labors. So I think it's very

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Speaker 3: important in that moment. It's like saying, like, oh, when

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Speaker 3: you're eighteen, whoever you were dating like, oh, you're you'll

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Speaker 3: forget about them, and it's like, yeah, will you will

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Speaker 3: probably maybe. But also, when you're eighteen, you think that

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Speaker 3: person's like the most important person in the world.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's why I'm telling you as someone who

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Speaker 1: is twelve years removed from that. It's okay. Though I

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Speaker 1: was extremely late and it messed up the lineup. My

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Speaker 1: parents took somebody else's assign seating, so I couldn't find

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Speaker 1: them until after graduation. After graduating, my aunt and older cousins,

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Speaker 1: plus my mom and dad insulted the whole graduation. Once

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Speaker 1: we got home, I was feeling pretty sad because the

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Speaker 1: biggest event that happened to me felt like it didn't

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Speaker 1: matter to anybody else. By the next day, I was

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Speaker 1: ready to start setting up my graduation party for the

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Speaker 1: day after by making the pasta and pre ordering pizza.

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Speaker 1: I was also hoping to make my own cake since

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Speaker 1: I love baking. It would have been my first time

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Speaker 1: making a vintage heartcake, but I was excited. Instead, my

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Speaker 1: mom told me to get ready since we're going three

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Speaker 1: to four hours out for brunch. Three to four hours

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Speaker 1: away brunch.

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00:47:15,480 --> 00:47:17,520
Speaker 2: No, no, no, that's just how long The brunch event is

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Speaker 2: gonna take.

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Speaker 1: Oh, okay, cool, I was about to say, driving three

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Speaker 1: hours for brunch.

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Speaker 3: Is it's really good?

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Speaker 1: You're crazy?

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Speaker 3: Really good runch. You just said you want to spend

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Speaker 3: more time board.

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Speaker 1: Getting By the time you get to brunch, it's over.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna leave for brunch. It's not brunch anymore.

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Speaker 3: You leave at seven too early?

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Speaker 2: Real quick? Who's in your dream brunch lineup?

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Speaker 1: My dream brunch rip, dream brunch, dream dream brunch lineup?

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Speaker 1: Definitely grilled cheese, people, people, people, people. I thought you

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Speaker 1: just meant the food at a brunch.

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Speaker 2: Now, who are you going to brunch with? Kevin James?

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Speaker 3: I have to think on this.

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Speaker 1: Who am I going to?

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Speaker 3: I want like someone like funny and who's got good goss.

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Speaker 3: I feel like Sabrina Carpenter would be fun.

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Speaker 2: Oh she's a Siegert, she has no class. What you

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Speaker 2: said you wanted someone funny? She's just a singer.

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Speaker 3: She's funny though she's singer?

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Speaker 1: Is she funny? People can only be one thing?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, dude, which one is it?

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Speaker 1: I'm confused.

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Speaker 2: My male brain hurts. You can't do bo is it?

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Speaker 3: Kevin James like a basketball player? No, he's a comedian.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I want to get brunch with actually going to

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Speaker 2: Brunst for comedians slame because like they're not funny outside

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Speaker 2: of the comedian said, they're really not funny. I was

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Speaker 2: like friends with the guy because he's a comedian and

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Speaker 2: he was not funny at all.

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Speaker 3: Maybe he was just as.

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Speaker 1: He was a guy.

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Speaker 2: We went to go see that one.

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Speaker 1: I know who you're telling about. That's brutal that you

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Speaker 1: just said that like that.

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Speaker 3: That's up.

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Speaker 1: Dang, that makes Yeah, that was an absolute violation.

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Speaker 2: Am I not wrong?

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Speaker 1: Me means says Jack Black.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I would invite Jack Black.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, just a good Jack Black one. And also I

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Speaker 1: think Tonny Robbins Sam Richardson.

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Speaker 2: Sam Richardson is definitely there, Oh my gosh. And Chris Bratt,

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I invite Prole Okay, I love her.

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Speaker 1: I'll take you know who I would take to brunch.

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Speaker 1: Pooh yee, pooh yee, the last Emperor, Yeah, the little

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Speaker 1: Emperor pooh yee.

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Speaker 3: Oh. We can invite dead people.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm bringing pooh yee to brunch. Little baby pooh yee.

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Speaker 3: Wait is a baby?

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Speaker 1: Receive he's little, He's the little oh he's like an

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Speaker 1: eight year old poo year old. I would take eight

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Speaker 1: year old pooh get it, and I'd be like, tell

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Speaker 1: me the secrets Kevin Dynasty.

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Speaker 3: Paul Bart, Paul Blart, Mallcock. Why do you say so,

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Speaker 3: claub Bart, marsh Art. I don't think we're gonna Gettart.

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Speaker 1: I would invite my friends to actually know on a

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Speaker 1: real level, time with the creator.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go.

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Speaker 1: Bob Ross Brunch was a nightmare, nightmare brunch rotation go.

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Speaker 1: My parents took us to a fancy place that may

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Speaker 1: have possibly been discriminatory. Yikes, what does that even mean?

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Speaker 1: Possibly been? I don't get it. From there, I got

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Speaker 1: placed on babysitting duty with my little cousins, who were

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Speaker 1: four and seven years old. By nighttime, I was begging

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Speaker 1: my mom to leave since we have a party to

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Speaker 1: set up for by the next day. Instead, my mom

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Speaker 1: I wanted to go to another restaurant and sit down

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Speaker 1: to eat at I ended up staying outside of the

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Speaker 1: restaurant talking to a friend on the phone while crying

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Speaker 1: because I ultimately wasn't happy with the situation and I

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Speaker 1: had no control over it. I also couldn't enter the

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Speaker 1: restaurant due to the strong smell of pork, which makes

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Speaker 1: me extremely sick. My mom came and checked up on

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Speaker 1: me and tried to get me to enter the restaurant since,

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Speaker 1: in her own words, we're here to celebrate you and

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Speaker 1: you're ruining the mood.

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Speaker 3: That is honestly so frustrating when when people are like,

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Speaker 3: quote unquote celebrating you, but you don't even get to

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Speaker 3: pick where you're going. Yeah, it's not even a place

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Speaker 3: that you like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, come on, that's the worst. If we were really

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Speaker 1: celebrating me, we'd beat down at Chuck Chuckler Chiegler's, Chuckler Cheesers. Okay,

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Speaker 1: we'd be at Chuckler Cheesers, laughing and playing Tower of Power.

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Speaker 3: If we were really celebrating me, we'd be at that

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Speaker 3: little playground in McDonald's.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we'd. If you really wanted to celebrate me, you

1232
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Speaker 1: would have built me a midplay place in my mic

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Speaker 1: backyard to have some mcfun in.

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Speaker 3: If you really want to celebrate me, you'd beat at

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Speaker 3: Sky's a jumping around into the ball pits.

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Speaker 2: Dude. You can't go to sky Zone, it'd break you.

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Speaker 1: I mean to sky Zone, dude. I literally just relived

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Speaker 1: it right now of like what you'd come back. I

1239
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Speaker 1: hit a kid in the face so hard with the

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Speaker 1: dodgeball at sky Zone when I was like, dude at

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Speaker 1: the peak of sky Zone, like I was like thirteen,

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Speaker 1: and I made this kid do a backflip. I hit

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Speaker 1: him so hard.

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Speaker 3: Last time I was at sky Zone, we were with

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Speaker 3: my AX and his friends, and he like pushed over

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Speaker 3: a kid. He didn't even notice, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm so to the I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 1: Okay, honestly, that might be the coolest thing I've heard

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Speaker 1: of me. First of all, you got to teach kids

1250
00:51:39,520 --> 00:51:41,160
Speaker 1: the laws of the jungle. I was like, kids don't

1251
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:43,440
Speaker 1: understand the laws of jungle. Now that kid understands. Ooh,

1252
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Speaker 1: that guy was way bigger than me. I cannot I

1253
00:51:46,440 --> 00:51:49,400
Speaker 1: cannot win in a contest. The kid was just like

1254
00:51:49,480 --> 00:51:51,799
Speaker 1: sitting there, gotta watch Mike, got to watch out, dude,

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Speaker 1: eyes up, tactical awareness. We didn't make it back to

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Speaker 1: the house until one am. Keep in mind, guess we're

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Speaker 1: arriving between one pm and two for my party. Oh

1258
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Speaker 1: oh the day before.

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Speaker 3: So you made it back at one am and people

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Speaker 3: were coming next day one one pm.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you had twelve hours. You're fine, Honestly, you are.

1262
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Speaker 1: You're fine, especially for the party you were describing. You're fine.

1263
00:52:13,000 --> 00:52:14,640
Speaker 1: Sat taking very long time to set that up.

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Speaker 3: You can sleep in.

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Speaker 1: You could get this ready in two hours probably. Lest

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Speaker 1: I ended up eating leftovers from the day prior as

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Speaker 1: a late dinner early breakfast. We had enough food to

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Speaker 1: feed everybody in the house. My parents chose to go

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Speaker 1: to another restaurant to eat.

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Speaker 3: Why are they going all these restaurants one restaurant after

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Speaker 3: another starring Leonardo DiCaprio.

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Speaker 1: I woke up pretty late in the day, about nine am,

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Speaker 1: since I was tired from caring for the littles then

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Speaker 1: not getting home for several hours.

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Speaker 3: That's actually crazy, And okay, I get that, but like

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Speaker 3: saying nine am is pretty late in the day, it's

1277
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Speaker 3: pretty funny.

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Speaker 1: Well, you gotta think this is a student, so they're

1279
00:52:52,080 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: probably used to getting up at like six in the morning.

1280
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Speaker 3: Yeah, but that is pretty funny.

1281
00:52:56,200 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 1: It's crazy to think I just got up at six

1282
00:52:58,000 --> 00:52:59,719
Speaker 1: am for like eight years in a row, I know,

1283
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 1: and then just immediately stopped doing that.

1284
00:53:02,120 --> 00:53:05,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, in college, I was like, whoa, I can't ever

1285
00:53:05,160 --> 00:53:05,759
Speaker 3: go back to that.

1286
00:53:06,040 --> 00:53:08,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was terrible what they did to us. Now

1287
00:53:08,480 --> 00:53:10,000
Speaker 1: they don't do that anymore. Now all the kids go

1288
00:53:10,040 --> 00:53:10,959
Speaker 1: to school at like nine.

1289
00:53:12,080 --> 00:53:14,799
Speaker 3: It's so frustrating. Come on, dude, some of my like

1290
00:53:14,880 --> 00:53:18,160
Speaker 3: some of my friends like siblings, go to school at

1291
00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:21,160
Speaker 3: like ten or something, and then they get out like twelve.

1292
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Speaker 3: I'm like, they go to school for like two hours

1293
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Speaker 3: on Fridays. It's messed up.

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Speaker 1: I was excited to start making my pasta and baking. Sadly,

1295
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Speaker 1: since we were running out of time, I couldn't make

1296
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Speaker 1: the pasta homemade, which was understandable. I was just excited

1297
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Speaker 1: to make my cake since I've dreamed of this cake

1298
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Speaker 1: for years now years. My mom was mad at me

1299
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Speaker 1: for waking up late, since, also in her own words,

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00:53:43,080 --> 00:53:45,640
Speaker 1: you didn't do anything yesterday. You rode in the car

1301
00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:48,360
Speaker 1: and talked while spending time with your cousins.

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Speaker 3: You woke up at nine. You woke up at nine.

1303
00:53:51,600 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 3: She's mining you for waking up at nine.

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Speaker 1: Keep in mind that these kids are well behaved, so

1305
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:58,759
Speaker 1: it was easier to be present for my cousins. But

1306
00:53:58,800 --> 00:54:01,720
Speaker 1: they're still kids, out and energetic and all over the place.

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Speaker 1: I was able to ignore her comments, but before I

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00:54:04,400 --> 00:54:06,840
Speaker 1: could start prepping my ingredients for the cake. I was

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00:54:06,840 --> 00:54:09,120
Speaker 1: told by my aunt that I'm not getting my dream cake.

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Speaker 1: According to her, it takes too much time and we're

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Speaker 1: just gonna go grab a cake at store. We also

1312
00:54:13,520 --> 00:54:16,640
Speaker 1: weren't having pasta bar and pizza anymore since my mom

1313
00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:19,759
Speaker 1: thinks pasta in the summertime is gross and everyone wants

1314
00:54:19,760 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 1: to have a barbecue instead. Summertime pasta's gross.

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Speaker 3: Summertime summertime, summertime pasta.

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Speaker 1: Why is summertime pasta gross? Riley?

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00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:31,680
Speaker 3: Some of her pasta is so good, like a pasta salad.

1318
00:54:31,960 --> 00:54:35,520
Speaker 2: M I don't want to eat spaghetti and meatballs in this.

1319
00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:37,640
Speaker 3: I doubt she's making spaghetti.

1320
00:54:37,680 --> 00:54:39,759
Speaker 1: No to be spaghetti and meatballs.

1321
00:54:39,280 --> 00:54:42,720
Speaker 3: If she was pregnic, if she was prepping the pasta

1322
00:54:42,760 --> 00:54:45,520
Speaker 3: before the party, I'm assuming that she's making pasta salad.

1323
00:54:45,520 --> 00:54:50,399
Speaker 2: Okay, fall time mazing, winter mazing spring alrighty, let's get

1324
00:54:50,440 --> 00:54:51,880
Speaker 2: downy pasta salad.

1325
00:54:51,920 --> 00:54:55,360
Speaker 3: Though it's cold, pasta cold. Yeah, you've never had pasta

1326
00:54:55,400 --> 00:54:58,720
Speaker 3: salas cold? You've never had pasta sala before?

1327
00:54:59,200 --> 00:55:00,479
Speaker 2: No no, no, no no no no no.

1328
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:02,360
Speaker 3: Passa sounds so yummy.

1329
00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:03,360
Speaker 2: I'm not done.

1330
00:55:03,400 --> 00:55:05,680
Speaker 1: While I was asleep. The family also voted on what's

1331
00:55:05,719 --> 00:55:09,080
Speaker 1: going to be served. It's food that I can tolerate,

1332
00:55:09,120 --> 00:55:11,160
Speaker 1: but it's not food that I really wanted. There was

1333
00:55:11,200 --> 00:55:15,120
Speaker 1: mac and cheese, hot dogs, sausage, links, greens, meat bowls, koslaw,

1334
00:55:15,200 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: and a few other foods that were pretty good, but

1335
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:19,640
Speaker 1: I didn't really want. My aunt and mom, mainly my aunt.

1336
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:22,000
Speaker 1: My mom didn't care what I wanted. Wanted me to

1337
00:55:22,080 --> 00:55:24,640
Speaker 1: point out my cake. When I got to Walmart, I

1338
00:55:24,680 --> 00:55:26,720
Speaker 1: got a call from my best friend and she asked

1339
00:55:26,760 --> 00:55:28,600
Speaker 1: if I could give her and her boyfriend a ride

1340
00:55:28,640 --> 00:55:31,000
Speaker 1: to my house for the party. I asked my mom

1341
00:55:31,239 --> 00:55:33,839
Speaker 1: and she said no. She also said, you don't need

1342
00:55:33,880 --> 00:55:36,240
Speaker 1: her at the party and her boyfriend. Besides, your family

1343
00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:38,200
Speaker 1: is going to be there. That should be enough.

1344
00:55:38,320 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 2: That's my friend.

1345
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:43,200
Speaker 3: This is so frustrating, Oh Pie's. This is literally Opie's

1346
00:55:43,280 --> 00:55:45,480
Speaker 3: graduation party. And she said, I just want to eat

1347
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:48,600
Speaker 3: pasta and my friends to be there and to make

1348
00:55:48,680 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 3: my own cake. And they're like, you don't have enough

1349
00:55:50,440 --> 00:55:51,399
Speaker 3: time to make your own cake.

1350
00:55:51,560 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, you don't have enough time to make your own cake.

1351
00:55:53,840 --> 00:55:56,799
Speaker 1: What you want is disgusting, and your friends are irrelevant

1352
00:55:56,840 --> 00:55:58,600
Speaker 1: and pointless, like she's not even.

1353
00:55:58,400 --> 00:56:00,920
Speaker 3: Asking someone else to make her cake. Opie wants to

1354
00:56:00,960 --> 00:56:01,760
Speaker 3: make her own cake.

1355
00:56:02,000 --> 00:56:04,960
Speaker 1: Nah, take too long. Who do you think you are,

1356
00:56:05,320 --> 00:56:06,440
Speaker 1: paula cake maker?

1357
00:56:06,800 --> 00:56:09,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, the Queen, Paula cake Maker.

1358
00:56:09,200 --> 00:56:12,400
Speaker 1: Yeah, the queen, the big Queen, Paula cake Maker.

1359
00:56:12,600 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 2: Proudly, let's just get rid of all of this cold

1360
00:56:15,920 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 2: pasta talk and just have a barbecue.

1361
00:56:18,239 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 1: Opie really is the mom. I'm pretty sure she said more,

1362
00:56:21,640 --> 00:56:24,200
Speaker 1: but ultimately she refused to get my friends and her

1363
00:56:24,239 --> 00:56:26,560
Speaker 1: boyfriend since my mom and aunt believed they should both

1364
00:56:26,600 --> 00:56:29,400
Speaker 1: have their drivers license and their own cars. Sadly, she

1365
00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:31,880
Speaker 1: couldn't make it, but my other bestie could and offered

1366
00:56:31,880 --> 00:56:34,399
Speaker 1: to pick up my best friend. Some stuff happened, and

1367
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:36,840
Speaker 1: pretty much best friend and her boyfriend got into a

1368
00:56:36,920 --> 00:56:38,799
Speaker 1: huge fight and there was a lot of drama, so

1369
00:56:38,840 --> 00:56:40,840
Speaker 1: best friend had to decline the ride so as to

1370
00:56:40,960 --> 00:56:43,759
Speaker 1: not bring the drama to the party. That's crazy. My

1371
00:56:43,840 --> 00:56:46,360
Speaker 1: mom and aunt tried to turn me against best friend.

1372
00:56:46,600 --> 00:56:49,520
Speaker 1: I'm not giving anyone names because they're not super important

1373
00:56:49,560 --> 00:56:52,640
Speaker 1: to this post, but they were unsuccessful at that. Then

1374
00:56:52,680 --> 00:56:55,120
Speaker 1: they both tried to pick at my best friend's relationship

1375
00:56:55,120 --> 00:56:57,600
Speaker 1: with their boyfriend and think she should leave him since

1376
00:56:57,600 --> 00:57:00,360
Speaker 1: he can't drive over afford a car. He's up with

1377
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:01,320
Speaker 1: these car people.

1378
00:57:01,520 --> 00:57:02,400
Speaker 3: He's eighteen.

1379
00:57:03,400 --> 00:57:05,280
Speaker 1: I you broke bye.

1380
00:57:05,320 --> 00:57:07,440
Speaker 3: He can't can't afford a car at eighteen.

1381
00:57:07,760 --> 00:57:11,600
Speaker 1: No broke boys, no new friends or old friends or

1382
00:57:11,640 --> 00:57:15,880
Speaker 1: anybody besides again friends. No brooke boys, no new friends

1383
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 1: or friends, or pasta in the summer or pizza. You'll

1384
00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:22,960
Speaker 1: eat the barbecue and you'll like it. I stopped engaging

1385
00:57:23,000 --> 00:57:26,280
Speaker 1: in the conversation at this point. I don't tolerate disrespect

1386
00:57:26,320 --> 00:57:29,320
Speaker 1: towards my own relationships or my friends relationships. We ended

1387
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:31,439
Speaker 1: up not getting the cake I wanted because my mom

1388
00:57:31,600 --> 00:57:34,440
Speaker 1: liked tyle the Walmart cupcakes looked instead. I knew she

1389
00:57:34,480 --> 00:57:37,200
Speaker 1: didn't get enough since my nightmare cousins from my mom's

1390
00:57:37,200 --> 00:57:39,760
Speaker 1: cybe were coming. My mom and aunt claimed I'm overreacting

1391
00:57:39,760 --> 00:57:41,600
Speaker 1: to cupcakes and I need to get over it. We

1392
00:57:41,640 --> 00:57:45,240
Speaker 1: got red velvet cupcakes and strawberry cheesecake cupcakes since they

1393
00:57:45,240 --> 00:57:48,760
Speaker 1: looked nice. I was actually right, yet wrong. There wasn't

1394
00:57:48,840 --> 00:57:51,360
Speaker 1: enough cupcakes, but it wasn't my cousins who ate most

1395
00:57:51,360 --> 00:57:53,440
Speaker 1: of them. It was the random kids that came with

1396
00:57:53,520 --> 00:57:55,680
Speaker 1: my parents' friends. By the time I got back to

1397
00:57:55,720 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: the house. I wasn't happy with the party that people

1398
00:57:58,040 --> 00:57:59,680
Speaker 1: were showing up and I had no clue who most

1399
00:57:59,680 --> 00:58:01,760
Speaker 1: of these people were. Yeah, that's insane to have a

1400
00:58:01,800 --> 00:58:06,480
Speaker 1: graduation party and it's just strangers and children of your parents' friends.

1401
00:58:06,640 --> 00:58:09,080
Speaker 3: I really hope that they gave you a bunch of money,

1402
00:58:09,160 --> 00:58:11,880
Speaker 3: because that's like the ninety percent of the reason to

1403
00:58:11,880 --> 00:58:13,520
Speaker 3: have a graduation party, and I.

1404
00:58:13,520 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: Doubt that that happened. Yeah, you're fully justified in being

1405
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,600
Speaker 1: upset and frustrated about the way that your graduation party

1406
00:58:19,600 --> 00:58:22,360
Speaker 1: happened because your mom blew it entirely.

1407
00:58:22,640 --> 00:58:25,120
Speaker 3: She didn't even make it fun. Like, she didn't even

1408
00:58:25,160 --> 00:58:26,920
Speaker 3: take over and make it fun. She took over a

1409
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:27,480
Speaker 3: minute bad.

1410
00:58:27,640 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: She made it bad. She didn't even get cakes. She

1411
00:58:29,160 --> 00:58:31,400
Speaker 1: was like, I'll get cupcakes. And also, all of the

1412
00:58:31,560 --> 00:58:35,760
Speaker 1: snot nosed baby boys that my friends are raising are

1413
00:58:35,760 --> 00:58:37,760
Speaker 1: gonna come over and they don't know you, and you

1414
00:58:37,760 --> 00:58:38,320
Speaker 1: don't know them.

1415
00:58:38,400 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, and deal with it.

1416
00:58:39,480 --> 00:58:42,280
Speaker 1: Some of these people were cousins, and others were random

1417
00:58:42,320 --> 00:58:46,160
Speaker 1: people my parents are friends with and they're coworkers, and honestly,

1418
00:58:46,560 --> 00:58:48,320
Speaker 1: I don't know for the rest of them. There were

1419
00:58:48,360 --> 00:58:50,920
Speaker 1: over fifty people at the house most of them. I

1420
00:58:50,960 --> 00:58:53,200
Speaker 1: didn't even know. The family members that I did know,

1421
00:58:53,400 --> 00:58:55,760
Speaker 1: I wasn't close with or I didn't get along with.

1422
00:58:55,880 --> 00:58:58,600
Speaker 1: My mom started yelling at me since I wasn't helping,

1423
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:00,400
Speaker 1: but when I would try to help, it made her

1424
00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:02,480
Speaker 1: mad as well. My cousin yelled at me for messing

1425
00:59:02,480 --> 00:59:04,320
Speaker 1: with one of the balloons, so I left. I went

1426
00:59:04,360 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: to the garage and sat at my mom's hot car

1427
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:09,240
Speaker 1: and cried. Keep in mind, it was the only place

1428
00:59:09,320 --> 00:59:11,480
Speaker 1: I knew I wouldn't be bothered in. I sat in

1429
00:59:11,520 --> 00:59:13,800
Speaker 1: that ninety degree cough for a good thirty to forty minutes.

1430
00:59:13,960 --> 00:59:16,600
Speaker 1: Nobody even realized I was gone. My dad only realized

1431
00:59:16,640 --> 00:59:18,360
Speaker 1: when he was taking out the trash and found me

1432
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,640
Speaker 1: in the garage. My dad yelled at me for being

1433
00:59:20,800 --> 00:59:23,640
Speaker 1: useless and was tired of the dramatic behavior. I got

1434
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: out of the car to help out again, but by

1435
00:59:25,520 --> 00:59:28,040
Speaker 1: then my bestie arrived. I was super stressed out that

1436
00:59:28,120 --> 00:59:29,800
Speaker 1: I ended up holding hands with her most of the

1437
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:32,240
Speaker 1: day just to stay calm. My grandma and aunts plus

1438
00:59:32,280 --> 00:59:34,360
Speaker 1: their kids arrived towards the end of the party and

1439
00:59:34,440 --> 00:59:37,240
Speaker 1: were there for only an hour. Did they ruined your party?

1440
00:59:37,280 --> 00:59:40,560
Speaker 1: And they're yelling at you that you're useless. They're yelling

1441
00:59:40,600 --> 00:59:41,920
Speaker 1: at you that you're helping wrong.

1442
00:59:42,520 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 3: Just graduated, You just graduated. You said all I want

1443
00:59:46,440 --> 00:59:50,000
Speaker 3: is a pizza pasta party for us to swim in

1444
00:59:50,040 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 3: the pool. And your parents said, no, what if we

1445
00:59:53,520 --> 00:59:56,400
Speaker 3: didn't have pizza or pasta? And you also couldn't make

1446
00:59:56,400 --> 00:59:59,080
Speaker 3: your own cake, and also we invited a bunch of strangers,

1447
00:59:59,120 --> 01:00:01,200
Speaker 3: and also we told you how stupid you are.

1448
01:00:01,320 --> 01:00:03,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, and I basically just turned it into a party

1449
01:00:03,640 --> 01:00:06,400
Speaker 1: for my office because it's just co workers. It's a

1450
01:00:06,400 --> 01:00:08,760
Speaker 1: coworker party, because we can't bring your friends. And also

1451
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:11,280
Speaker 1: your friends can't come over because they're having drama. And

1452
01:00:11,320 --> 01:00:13,920
Speaker 1: because they're having drama, they don't bring the drama.

1453
01:00:14,160 --> 01:00:18,120
Speaker 3: Yeah. No, you're very justified and being upset. But you

1454
01:00:18,160 --> 01:00:21,280
Speaker 3: can have a new party for your college graduation.

1455
01:00:21,480 --> 01:00:22,120
Speaker 1: You can have a party.

1456
01:00:22,200 --> 01:00:24,040
Speaker 3: You don't have to invite any of your family.

1457
01:00:23,760 --> 01:00:25,760
Speaker 1: You can invite your friends. You can just have a party.

1458
01:00:25,840 --> 01:00:28,480
Speaker 3: I threw a little I threw a little barbecue grad

1459
01:00:28,520 --> 01:00:32,120
Speaker 3: party at my apartment complex my senior year, and then

1460
01:00:32,120 --> 01:00:33,840
Speaker 3: I also had I also had one at my house.

1461
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,120
Speaker 1: Cool. I once threw a baseball eighty two miles an hour.

1462
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:37,479
Speaker 1: We're talking about things that we threw.

1463
01:00:37,560 --> 01:00:39,960
Speaker 3: I'm gonna throw a fit if you don't finish the story.

1464
01:00:39,840 --> 01:00:40,880
Speaker 1: Fitted quite normally.

1465
01:00:41,160 --> 01:00:42,680
Speaker 3: Oh but did you see these?

1466
01:00:43,320 --> 01:00:47,040
Speaker 1: Oh dang ah the kei kys I will say crazy

1467
01:00:47,080 --> 01:00:48,720
Speaker 1: that your dad found you in the hot car and

1468
01:00:48,840 --> 01:00:50,800
Speaker 1: was it like, are you okay? You were just he

1469
01:00:50,920 --> 01:00:54,440
Speaker 1: was like, you useless jerk. You're just sitting here in

1470
01:00:54,480 --> 01:00:58,480
Speaker 1: a hot car for an hour. This is why we're yelling. Yeah,

1471
01:00:58,560 --> 01:01:01,160
Speaker 1: you pull these hot cars stuff. By the time the

1472
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:05,000
Speaker 1: party ended, it was already two am. What your graduation

1473
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:06,520
Speaker 1: party went un till two am?

1474
01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:09,240
Speaker 3: From one pm to two am?

1475
01:01:09,360 --> 01:01:11,760
Speaker 1: This was fully just a kickback for your mom's friends.

1476
01:01:11,840 --> 01:01:14,120
Speaker 1: That's the same My best you got dropped off earlier

1477
01:01:14,240 --> 01:01:16,640
Speaker 1: sometime between eight and nine, and she was the only

1478
01:01:16,680 --> 01:01:18,800
Speaker 1: good part of the party. So when she left, I

1479
01:01:18,880 --> 01:01:21,040
Speaker 1: was ready to go to sleep, yet my parents didn't

1480
01:01:21,080 --> 01:01:23,160
Speaker 1: want me to go to sleep. I decided to do

1481
01:01:23,200 --> 01:01:26,080
Speaker 1: something pretty stupid, but I went to sleep inside the

1482
01:01:26,080 --> 01:01:28,800
Speaker 1: hot tub, where I was then forgotten for several hours.

1483
01:01:29,240 --> 01:01:31,560
Speaker 4: Did you do that on purpose or did you do that?

1484
01:01:31,960 --> 01:01:34,040
Speaker 3: Did you like actually were like, I'm gonna go sleep

1485
01:01:34,040 --> 01:01:34,680
Speaker 3: in the hot tub.

1486
01:01:34,760 --> 01:01:36,120
Speaker 1: How did you sleep in the hot tub?

1487
01:01:36,160 --> 01:01:37,200
Speaker 4: Did you do that? For like attention?

1488
01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 1: That's too hard?

1489
01:01:38,760 --> 01:01:39,520
Speaker 4: How do yeah?

1490
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,040
Speaker 1: How do you fall asleep in the hot tub?

1491
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:42,880
Speaker 3: It's like pretty easy to fall asleep in like a bath.

1492
01:01:43,000 --> 01:01:45,000
Speaker 1: You gotta have like maybe it's like a hot tub

1493
01:01:45,000 --> 01:01:46,600
Speaker 1: with one of those seats in it where you can

1494
01:01:46,640 --> 01:01:49,479
Speaker 1: kind of lay down and then that because I can't

1495
01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 1: imagine I was falling asleep like this.

1496
01:01:51,520 --> 01:01:53,600
Speaker 4: It's like the jets are on and like, yeah, the sea.

1497
01:01:53,480 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 3: You're just floating.

1498
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:56,120
Speaker 2: You're like boom boom.

1499
01:01:56,200 --> 01:01:57,200
Speaker 3: Well, anyway, that sucks.

1500
01:01:57,280 --> 01:02:00,280
Speaker 1: As a matter of fact, the only reason anyone remember

1501
01:02:00,280 --> 01:02:01,760
Speaker 1: that I was in the hot tub was because my

1502
01:02:01,800 --> 01:02:04,880
Speaker 1: brother heard me snoring with my face close to going underwater,

1503
01:02:05,000 --> 01:02:07,000
Speaker 1: which you would wake up from. Right. I got to

1504
01:02:07,040 --> 01:02:09,320
Speaker 1: go to bed after that, but it took hours to

1505
01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:11,800
Speaker 1: finally be allowed to go to sleep. What do you mean, Like,

1506
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:13,960
Speaker 1: I know you were eighteen, so we haven't learned this yet.

1507
01:02:14,000 --> 01:02:16,360
Speaker 1: But you could just go upstairs and go to sleep.

1508
01:02:16,440 --> 01:02:18,560
Speaker 3: But if they keep coming up and being like help,

1509
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:19,920
Speaker 3: IPI wake up back up.

1510
01:02:19,920 --> 01:02:22,600
Speaker 1: And you can just go on not do that because

1511
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:25,000
Speaker 1: guess what, they'll give up at some point.

1512
01:02:25,120 --> 01:02:27,520
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just I mean, it seems like it took

1513
01:02:28,280 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 3: to give up.

1514
01:02:29,200 --> 01:02:31,000
Speaker 1: I don't know, you were left unattended in a hot

1515
01:02:31,080 --> 01:02:33,400
Speaker 1: tub for hours, so I don't think that your presence

1516
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:36,200
Speaker 1: was really that needed. Sounds like it's just we learned

1517
01:02:36,200 --> 01:02:38,520
Speaker 1: that lesson that when people just tell us to do stuff,

1518
01:02:38,560 --> 01:02:41,080
Speaker 1: even if they're like, where are your mom? Your mom?

1519
01:02:41,200 --> 01:02:43,880
Speaker 1: You go, well, I'm still going to bed can I Ultimately,

1520
01:02:44,240 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: I just wanted a small party to celebrate with people

1521
01:02:46,440 --> 01:02:48,600
Speaker 1: who actually love and care about me. Instead, I had

1522
01:02:48,600 --> 01:02:51,160
Speaker 1: a giant party thrown that felt like it was for

1523
01:02:51,320 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 1: my parents and not me. I feel like I'm being

1524
01:02:53,360 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: ungrateful since my friends didn't have a party. As a

1525
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:58,400
Speaker 1: matter of fact, I don't think they were even celebrated

1526
01:02:58,440 --> 01:03:00,280
Speaker 1: at all. My parents put a whole lot of effort

1527
01:03:00,320 --> 01:03:03,080
Speaker 1: into planning this for me and buying the materials. I

1528
01:03:03,120 --> 01:03:04,400
Speaker 1: just want to know if I'm the a hole for

1529
01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 1: being ungrateful about my graduation party.

1530
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 3: No, you're not the a hole. Your parents are the

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Speaker 3: a hole for throwing a party for themselves.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you know what you should do is bring

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Speaker 1: that feeling to your parents and be like, hey, so

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Speaker 1: I actually didn't appreciate that I felt like for my graduation,

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Speaker 1: like any of the things I wanted were not taking

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Speaker 1: any consideration. That feels a little, i don't know, dismissive.

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Speaker 3: But also, you're about to go to college and be independent,

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Speaker 3: so that's good too. But we got some comments from

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Speaker 3: the video. My boyfriend got wasted and accused me of cheating,

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Speaker 3: so I dumped him, as one does. And this was

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01:03:38,560 --> 01:03:43,680
Speaker 3: posted January sixteenth, twenty twenty six. TLDR from story two,

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Speaker 3: OHP moved into her own apartment after saving for years,

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Speaker 3: and her boyfriend Nate begged to move in with her,

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01:03:49,600 --> 01:03:51,680
Speaker 3: but she said no because she needed to learn to

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Speaker 3: live independently first. Nate then got a Rottwiler puppy without

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Speaker 3: asking his parents, and when they said no, he begged

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Speaker 3: Opet let him and the dog move in. Finally gave

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Speaker 3: in after he promised to do all the work, but

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Speaker 3: he broke every promise. He ended up taking care of

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Speaker 3: the dog while working full time and caring for four cats.

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Speaker 3: So she told them the dog I had to go.

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Speaker 3: Now she's telling people she made him get rid of

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Speaker 3: his dog without explaining the full story. If you're curious

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Speaker 3: to know the full story, you can go watch the

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Speaker 3: full video. I do remember it, but we got some

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Speaker 3: comments from this video.

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Speaker 4: First comment here by Lori Dorry, saying I have a

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Speaker 4: large dog. She's part Rottweiler, and I got her as

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Speaker 4: a puppy. They are a lot of work. There are

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Speaker 4: also a responsibility for large dog owners to make sure

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Speaker 4: their dogs are decent members of society. If a little

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Speaker 4: dog bites people, excuse it. If my dog pushes someone

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Speaker 4: a little too hard, she's mean or scary to a

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Speaker 4: lot of people. She's a great dog, and even people

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Speaker 4: who are terrified of dogs have liked her, Like this guy.

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Speaker 1: I'm not terrified of dogs.

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Speaker 4: Okay, that has been because of all the work I

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Speaker 4: put into her, not because she's naturally polite. I'm buried

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Speaker 4: against people getting large dog breeds and not putting in

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Speaker 4: any work to train them. If you want a dog,

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Speaker 4: you don't have to train as much, because all animals

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Speaker 4: need some training on how to get along with the household.

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Speaker 4: Get a small dog or an old one from the shelter.

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Speaker 4: For the record, I haven't had a little dog, but

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Speaker 4: I would hold them too, just as high standard as

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Speaker 4: my large dog. Society, however, won't.

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Speaker 3: Regardless of breed. If you have a dog, you need

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Speaker 3: to train it, especially if you have a dog that

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Speaker 3: is known for being more aggressive or anything. Train it.

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Speaker 3: It's not on the dog for being aggressive, it's on

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Speaker 3: the owner for not knowing how to train their own dog.

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Speaker 4: Mm hmm.

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Speaker 1: I couldn't have said that better myself.

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Speaker 4: And we have another comment here by Amy's Happy Hobbies saying,

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Speaker 4: the first time my partner tried to put a dog

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Speaker 4: in a crate, I would break up immediately. You will

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Speaker 4: not move in with me. Dogs do not belong in crates,

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Speaker 4: especially all day long. That's disgusting and mean.

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Speaker 3: Partly disperience all day long, definitely not only long. But

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Speaker 3: craig training is like a pretty good way to teach dogs. YEA,

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Speaker 3: so partially disagree. Shouldn't leave a dog at a crate.

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Speaker 1: All day unless they tell you hi, I like this,

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Speaker 1: I like this, unless they speak to you in a

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Speaker 1: language long forgotten.

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Speaker 4: Crystal Sullivan ninety eight ninety six says I went to

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Speaker 4: Scout Cosmology while in high school. It's not just half day,

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Speaker 4: it's literally three years. I would go to school for

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Speaker 4: am classes and then after lunch we went to botech

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Speaker 4: school for three hours for tenth, eleventh, and twelfth grade

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Speaker 4: was that pertinent to that?

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Speaker 1: So I don't know, doesn't feel like it.

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Speaker 3: Oh that, but that's the end of those comments.

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Speaker 1: How cosmetic school works.

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Speaker 3: And that's how cosmetic school works. And also the end

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Speaker 3: of the episode.

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Speaker 4: I have to say that Common got twenty nine like likes,

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Speaker 4: so it's clearly relevant.

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Speaker 3: But if you love us, make sure to subscribe. We

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Speaker 3: love you and see you tomorrow.