Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 2: Only on the Jubil Show.
Speaker 3: Evan is on the phone today for to Catch a
Speaker 3: Cheater and he's been dating his girlfriend Marcy for about
Speaker 3: six months and now he thinks she might be cheating.
Speaker 3: So let's see if we can figure it out for you. Evan, Sorry, man,
Speaker 3: but what's going on.
Speaker 4: Yeah, we've been to.
Speaker 5: There about six months.
Speaker 4: Like we met at a bar one night. I thought
Speaker 4: it was just a one night stand, but it just
Speaker 4: kind of progressed from there. Okay, we kind of weren't
Speaker 4: looking for a relationship, per say, we just got out
Speaker 4: of a long relationship both of us and are like, yeah,
Speaker 4: our mindset wasn't in that direction, but.
Speaker 5: It's just, uh, you know, I got to have a
Speaker 5: long relationship.
Speaker 4: She was seeing a married guy that she would hoped
Speaker 4: would leave his wife or her, and we were just
Speaker 4: talking to bonding about like how screwed up our lives were,
Speaker 4: and we just started expressing our connection in other ways,
Speaker 4: like you know, basically bedroom.
Speaker 2: One.
Speaker 1: Yeah, one one night stand.
Speaker 4: Led to another one night stand and then it just
Speaker 4: turned into this thing, you know, and then I just
Speaker 4: started to kind of care for her. You know, I
Speaker 4: don't know it. We've always tried to level up with
Speaker 4: one another. I always try to be honest.
Speaker 1: You know, We've had enough.
Speaker 4: Drama to last a lifetime. And I was like, well,
Speaker 4: if we're gonna do a relationship type of thing, then
Speaker 4: we need to be upfront about things nobs, and she
Speaker 4: said she wanted the same thing. I don't know. It's
Speaker 4: like we kind of saved each other from like losching
Speaker 4: ourselves off a bridge or losing our mind.
Speaker 6: So you definitely play a very key role in both
Speaker 6: of each other's lives. And she feels the same way
Speaker 6: you do.
Speaker 4: Yeah, well, I guess, I guess.
Speaker 6: Sorry, I thought, So, what's been going on that makes
Speaker 6: you feel like things are changing?
Speaker 4: So probably within the last month or so. I don't know,
Speaker 4: she's like like a different woman. Like she's always been busy,
Speaker 4: you know, she's need to go get her you know,
Speaker 4: but she's becoming like more scarce than normal. Like we
Speaker 4: don't live together, but we always made some type of
Speaker 4: effort kind of see each other, And like lately she
Speaker 4: would do this thing where she said she would call
Speaker 4: and then we can meet up, but then she never calls.
Speaker 4: Then she'll just start fights for no reason and like
Speaker 4: to make them bigger than like they need to be.
Speaker 4: And then then there was a there was a client party.
Speaker 2: Okay, what happened that? With that?
Speaker 4: She had a client party thing and she she mentioned like, hey,
Speaker 4: do you want to come? And then she decided to downplay,
Speaker 4: like it's not really that big a deal. You can
Speaker 4: stay home if you want to, And I was like, no,
Speaker 4: I want to. I want to go, like, you know,
Speaker 4: almost stress my legs out.
Speaker 5: What's that open bar?
Speaker 1: It's free?
Speaker 4: I was like, yeah, that sounds like a fun night,
Speaker 4: you know, So I tagged along. That's when I noticed
Speaker 4: the Mary guy. Oh he was there. I was across
Speaker 4: the room talking to someone and I noticed them. I
Speaker 4: knew they worked together, but like she seemed really really
Speaker 4: really really comfortable talking to him, and you could pick
Speaker 4: up on body language like when do you want to
Speaker 4: go home with somebody? And that's kind of the vibe
Speaker 4: I was getting. And then later I made a comment
Speaker 4: about it, and then she kind of shut it down.
Speaker 4: And then she made the comment of like, jealousy isn't
Speaker 4: a good color on you?
Speaker 2: Okay?
Speaker 5: You know, yeah, I mean you know, she got a.
Speaker 4: Point a little bit, like we never really put strong
Speaker 4: parameters on our relationship. But I don't know, Man, Marcie's
Speaker 4: smarter than this man, Like, yeah, she could be over
Speaker 4: being strong along with someone that's like fake promises that
Speaker 4: he's going to leave his wife and he's not. I
Speaker 4: don't know. I just wanted to do what she needs
Speaker 4: to do, you know.
Speaker 2: I hope it's not that.
Speaker 6: But those types of relationships kind of turn into a drug,
Speaker 6: you know, and you have so many high highs and
Speaker 6: low lows that you get on these crazy rides. So
Speaker 6: you probably served as a wonderful distraction and showed her
Speaker 6: that life could be wonderful. But if this guy started
Speaker 6: popping back up, I mean there's a chance that she
Speaker 6: could she could be kind of playing around in that
Speaker 6: area again, or she's using the opportunity to have you
Speaker 6: to make him jealous. So either way, there's still going
Speaker 6: to be some type of poking at that.
Speaker 2: Man. I feel, Oh, I hate this for you and
Speaker 2: I hate this for her. That sucks. Well, let's see
Speaker 2: if we can figure it out.
Speaker 3: You already told us a grocery store she's a rewards
Speaker 3: card member at. So we'll play a song, come back,
Speaker 3: and then call her and pretend to be from the
Speaker 3: grocery store and say that she's this month's lucky winner
Speaker 3: of free flowers delivered to whoever she wants to send
Speaker 3: them to, and we'll see if she sends them to
Speaker 3: you or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, we'll.
Speaker 3: Play a song come back, get your to Catch a
Speaker 3: Cheeter next. Right in the middle of to Catch a Cheater,
Speaker 3: if you're just joining us, Evan is on the phone
Speaker 3: and he thinks that his girlfriend of six months named
Speaker 3: Marcy might be cheating. So in a second, we're gonna
Speaker 3: call her and pretend to be from the grocery store
Speaker 3: that she's a rewards member at and say that she's
Speaker 3: this month's a big winner of free flowers delivered from
Speaker 3: our floral department. We'll see if she sends those to
Speaker 3: her boyfriend or to somebody else.
Speaker 2: All right, Evan.
Speaker 3: Before we do that, though, why don't you remind us
Speaker 3: of your situation?
Speaker 4: Okay, me and Marcy met one night's stan turned to
Speaker 4: a relationship thing.
Speaker 1: Always very honest.
Speaker 4: Lately she's been kind of sneaky and then it looks
Speaker 4: like she at a work function and kind of awfully
Speaker 4: reconnected with a guy that she was interested in before
Speaker 4: me who was married? Yeah, married, stringer along. She deserves
Speaker 4: better than this.
Speaker 2: You know what's mary guy's name?
Speaker 4: It's Charlie.
Speaker 2: Charlie. Are you ready for us to call her?
Speaker 6: Oh?
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, let's get let's pull that band aid up.
Speaker 3: Hello, Hi, this is horrible calling from grocers. I was
Speaker 3: looking for a rewards card member named Marcy.
Speaker 1: Oh hey, this is she.
Speaker 3: Hi Marcy, Please don't hang up. This is not a
Speaker 3: marketing phone call. I'm actually calling to say congratulations. Here
Speaker 3: this most big winner. Thank you for shopping with us.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, well, thank you so much. That's awesome.
Speaker 1: Where did I win?
Speaker 4: Oh?
Speaker 3: You, I've just won thirty six long stem red Roses,
Speaker 3: box of candy or chocolates and a card to be
Speaker 3: delivered to anybody that you want within the fift the
Speaker 3: United States. It's a three hundred and sixteen dollars value. Actually,
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, congratulations.
Speaker 1: Thank you. That's insane. What do I need to do?
Speaker 4: Well?
Speaker 3: How it works is I can take down the information
Speaker 3: in just a matter of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 1: And yeah, we could definitely do it over the phone.
Speaker 3: Then great, Do you want me to set up a
Speaker 3: time to call you back or do you know who
Speaker 3: you'd like to send him to.
Speaker 1: I definitely have somebody i'd want to send it to.
Speaker 1: It's a guy, though, Is there anything else like it?
Speaker 1: Maybe send him?
Speaker 3: Yes, we can send a bottle of it, like alcohol, whatever, wine?
Speaker 2: We have some whiskeys.
Speaker 1: Perfect, Yeah, I know he definitely like whiskey, so that
Speaker 1: would be perfect.
Speaker 2: Okay, how does that Woodford reserve sound?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she loves that. That'll do just fine.
Speaker 3: Okay, we'll do a bottle of that and it will
Speaker 3: still come with flowers and then a card.
Speaker 1: Awesome. Well, thank you so much. What do I need
Speaker 1: to do?
Speaker 3: Well, I'm prepared to take the information right now. If
Speaker 3: you just you for give me the first and last
Speaker 3: name of the person you want to send them to,
Speaker 3: we can start there.
Speaker 1: Sure, his name is Charlie.
Speaker 2: Is there anything you want to put on a card?
Speaker 1: Yeah? Actually, could we put just wanted to send something
Speaker 1: small to celebrate. I'm so excited to see what the
Speaker 1: future holds.
Speaker 2: Great AKA married guy.
Speaker 3: Hello, Mary, that's Evan your boyfriend on the phone.
Speaker 2: This is actually the Jubil Show. My name's Jubal. Yeah,
Speaker 2: I'm Nina.
Speaker 3: Hi, I'm Victoria, and we do a segment called to
Speaker 3: Catch a Teeter, and Evan thought, you might be messing
Speaker 3: around with a guy named Charlie, so the married guy.
Speaker 7: Okay, Hi, Evan, I'm so sorry you heard that.
Speaker 2: So you are with the married guy, So.
Speaker 1: It's it's kind of complicated, he'd you know, i'd been
Speaker 1: with Evan for several months and i'd kind of given
Speaker 1: up on Charlie. You guys are calling Mary guy. That's
Speaker 1: that's actually kind of funny. And he was still seeing
Speaker 1: his wife and I that's why i'd kind of stepped
Speaker 1: away for a while.
Speaker 7: And then I had kind of.
Speaker 1: Heard through the great line at work that things maybe
Speaker 1: weren't going so well with the wife. And I spoke
Speaker 1: to him at this work party that I did have
Speaker 1: Evan with me at. I'd kind of discouraged Evan for coming,
Speaker 1: but he'd wanted to come, and I felt like I
Speaker 1: kind of needed to say yes, and he came, and
Speaker 1: I spoke to Charlie for a while. Turns out him
Speaker 1: and his wife path completely separated. He has left, and
Speaker 1: at one point I stepped away and I did see
Speaker 1: Evan actually approach him and tell him, you know, he
Speaker 1: better not hurt her. You better not mess with her.
Speaker 2: Why does this seem so nonchalant and funny to you?
Speaker 4: Like you're just like it's like, oh yeah, and then
Speaker 4: you know, I've been dating Evan, but whatever the dude
Speaker 4: was seeing is white, Like that's that's crazy to me.
Speaker 5: I mean it's I mean, I understand the situation.
Speaker 4: Is kind of weird, but it does sound very assay
Speaker 4: about it, like, you know, like you kind of don't
Speaker 4: care like I care about you. I just want you happy.
Speaker 4: I don't want to be strung along yet either, And
Speaker 4: so this is I don't know, this is this is
Speaker 4: proof that I kind of have been strong along and
Speaker 4: I thought we were more honest than that. You are.
Speaker 1: You're totally right, and I am. I'm sorry. I know
Speaker 1: we never really labeled things in the relationship, and sometimes
Speaker 1: I felt like maybe you were still hung up on
Speaker 1: your ex. But that's that's not an excuse. So I
Speaker 1: genuinely am very sorry, Evan. I didn't think this was
Speaker 1: going to happen. So, yes, Evan, I can confirm I
Speaker 1: was cheating on you.
Speaker 2: Oh wow, at least you're honest.
Speaker 5: I mean, yeah, I mean that's the type.
Speaker 4: Of honesty I'm used to. I just wish you were
Speaker 4: more honest in the lead up.
Speaker 2: You know, like sound very upset of it.
Speaker 4: I am. It's weird because I'm upset and in a
Speaker 4: lot of ways that can't be you know, because I
Speaker 4: still have feelings for my ex, but like that's not
Speaker 4: a thing, and we were dating and I started caring about.
Speaker 1: Marcon, So wait, you still have feelings for your ex? Really?
Speaker 4: I mean yeah, we weren't. I mean that's how we
Speaker 4: met was we were pining over people that at the
Speaker 4: particular moment didn't want us. So yeah, I still have feelings,
Speaker 4: but like that's not a thing that's gonna happen because
Speaker 4: she doesn't want to be with me.
Speaker 5: I started caring about you. I thought we were more
Speaker 5: honest than this.
Speaker 4: That's why I'm upset, but I feel like I can't
Speaker 4: be but.
Speaker 1: Now I know wait what, Oh my gosh, do it?
Speaker 4: I'm baffled all right, Like, wait, you've been geting on me?
Speaker 4: Why is this getting turned about on me? I? Uh,
Speaker 4: this is this is ridiculous. This is the most like
Speaker 4: mental gymnastics I've ever heard from somebody that try to
Speaker 4: turn around on me like this.
Speaker 1: This is everything I needed to hear. I am so done.
Speaker 2: Oh my god, Evan, she hung up.
Speaker 3: I think you just got broken up with by the
Speaker 3: person who cheated on you, but you didn't cheat.
Speaker 4: Yeah.
Speaker 1: Uh, I think I didn't.
Speaker 4: Do anything wrong.
Speaker 5: That's that's the I don't know what's happening.
Speaker 6: You know what, Now you know that you guys both
Speaker 6: served a purpose. You helped each other get past or
Speaker 6: at least she helped you get past a little bit
Speaker 6: somebody else that you could open up to. Now, the
Speaker 6: key is going to be, don't take her back when
Speaker 6: married man decides to go to stay married.
Speaker 4: I mean, yeah, I don't.
Speaker 8: I don't think she bolted it anyway. So after I
Speaker 8: told her I saw feelings for my act, I'm so
Speaker 8: right now. But now I know, now that I know,
Speaker 8: I have a clear answer, that was not.
Speaker 4: Where I needed to put my energy at.
Speaker 3: Sorry that happened, but yeah, I bet there's somewhere elsewhere
Speaker 3: here your energy is gonna be better.
Speaker 2: To start fresh.
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