WEBVTT - Ep33: She Get It From Her Mama feat Mandii's Mom 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.239 Let you guys know that we are coming to you live. 0:00:02.560 --> 0:00:04.680 We are trying to see all of you horse. Um, 0:00:05.000 --> 0:00:07.000 we are coming to you live here in New York City. 0:00:07.240 --> 0:00:11.280 We have a live show December first. It's a Friday, 0:00:11.360 --> 0:00:13.720 so you know, come after work, try to wear something 0:00:13.720 --> 0:00:17.079 a little bit skanky and um. Yeah, we are really 0:00:17.079 --> 0:00:18.400 excited to see you guys. It's going to be in 0:00:18.400 --> 0:00:20.840 the Lower East Side of New York City, seventy two 0:00:20.880 --> 0:00:24.720 Allen Street. It's a place called Projective Space. Doors open 0:00:24.760 --> 0:00:28.040 at seven. The show starts promptly at eight for you CPT. 0:00:28.360 --> 0:00:32.200 It's not gonna be late y'all by uh Sam white 0:00:32.240 --> 0:00:35.720 out who you bit to live. We're excited about it. 0:00:35.720 --> 0:00:37.839 I think it's gonna be great. You guys can meet us. 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.080 We're gonna do drinks afterwards. We just got a whole 0:00:40.080 --> 0:00:41.640 lot of tricks. It's gonna be a lot of fun. 0:00:41.800 --> 0:00:44.240 Um for you guys. To stay updated on that, of course, 0:00:44.280 --> 0:00:48.239 follow our Instagram at Horrible Underscore Decisions and click the 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:51.240 links in our bios because Yaka part just tickets stuff, 0:00:51.479 --> 0:00:53.080 you know what. And I'm gonna just say this because 0:00:53.080 --> 0:00:55.480 I'm gonna move today. Yakabody's mother fucking tickets. We can 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:58.480 do all this free content. I have a really expensive 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:02.680 fucking rent. I'm fucking right now. New York sucks. I 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:04.720 spent a hundred dollars on drinks last night. It was 0:01:04.760 --> 0:01:07.760 only four of them, only four fucking drinks. Okay, that 0:01:07.920 --> 0:01:09.639 is New York. So if you want to buy this ticket, 0:01:09.640 --> 0:01:11.520 you should. Did you listen to all this ship and 0:01:11.560 --> 0:01:14.080 we come here? We buy mt A cars there a 0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:17.080 hundred dollars a month or unlimited to come this fucking 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:21.040 studio and pay for this ship. I can't wait to 0:01:21.040 --> 0:01:24.160 see you. I'm sorry, see you guys there. Okay, so 0:01:24.200 --> 0:01:26.360 we're gonna start off the show, y'all with this song. 0:01:26.440 --> 0:01:31.679 Let's see if you know this song? Um, probably you should. 0:01:32.120 --> 0:01:36.880 So we're gonna do this thing along. Are you ready? Okay? Whoa? 0:01:39.160 --> 0:01:42.760 Sorry man? Sorry? So you know I have to play 0:01:42.760 --> 0:01:50.040 it on YouTube because this song is not okay, I'll 0:01:50.040 --> 0:02:01.720 try to find it. Here we go, yeah, hello, wait? Wait? 0:02:01.760 --> 0:02:05.040 Who do you love? Fish? Essential? Essentially? Here we go. 0:02:07.680 --> 0:02:15.960 I don't notice though trying to I'm gonna love to 0:02:15.960 --> 0:02:24.160 play one Louis you know what can you sing? Singing book? No? Wait, 0:02:24.760 --> 0:02:28.400 it's just not your song yes, that is you're a guy. 0:02:28.560 --> 0:02:33.160 They're a lot. Oh it's not, it's like her. Okay, Yeah, anyways, 0:02:33.160 --> 0:02:35.360 I'll try to play Hoody and the Blowfish for my mama, 0:02:35.639 --> 0:02:42.160 but they ain't work. So how hard is that? Yeah? 0:02:44.200 --> 0:02:46.080 You see, and that's what the funk I thought it was, 0:02:46.160 --> 0:02:48.880 but it was because you know, when you try to 0:02:48.919 --> 0:02:50.600 do all this ship at once, it just doesn't work 0:02:50.639 --> 0:02:53.160 the right way. So anyways, hi guys, welcome to yeah, 0:02:53.160 --> 0:02:57.200 another episode of horrible Decisions. Clearly, I was trying to 0:02:57.240 --> 0:02:59.920 be good for my mama because we got my mama 0:03:00.000 --> 0:03:04.440 in the studio. You may's wearing tonight. What's wrong with it? 0:03:05.440 --> 0:03:07.079 So when were you trying to be good? I got 0:03:07.080 --> 0:03:12.320 these tidies from my mom? The hell? Anyways, guys, welcome 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:16.760 to yet another episode. I'm your girl Mandy b And 0:03:16.760 --> 0:03:19.960 and we got wheezy and we're just gonna call you um. 0:03:20.000 --> 0:03:24.680 I guess dammy, I like karma. We are not using 0:03:24.680 --> 0:03:30.800 your you want to be called Karma? Can I ask you? 0:03:30.919 --> 0:03:32.679 Is that the profile? Maybe you give up fenty of 0:03:33.560 --> 0:03:40.640 what everything? Karma? Karma is a bit like okay, you women, 0:03:43.880 --> 0:03:46.400 Oh my god, we're not calling my mom Karma on 0:03:46.400 --> 0:03:49.080 this show. They really said, you got hoops onto it 0:03:49.160 --> 0:03:53.560 sounds I put smaller ones in tonight because she ragged 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:59.680 me on my big ones. Yes, bracelets, yeah, no, so 0:03:59.760 --> 0:04:02.400 let's night. She had on hoop earrings. I was like, Mama, 0:04:02.400 --> 0:04:07.840 why you got these big old ghetto assop No, it 0:04:07.920 --> 0:04:10.600 was fun, it was she couldn't hang. She was like 0:04:10.760 --> 0:04:13.320 with my friends and she was like, listen, I cannot 0:04:13.400 --> 0:04:16.040 mix liquor. You guys just want to drink all this ship. 0:04:17.080 --> 0:04:19.719 She's like, we already did whiskey and vodka. I'm sticking 0:04:19.720 --> 0:04:21.719 the vodka. Goddamn it. Don't give me nothing else. Is 0:04:21.720 --> 0:04:26.320 that what you normally drink? Drink anything it tastes good 0:04:26.360 --> 0:04:29.800 to it. Well, there we got. So I wanted to 0:04:29.839 --> 0:04:32.240 start this episode off. I wanted to give you guys 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:36.800 an introduction slightly to my mammy, so unlike Wheezy, and 0:04:36.839 --> 0:04:41.160 we discussed this. Wheezy is biracial with a black mom 0:04:41.200 --> 0:04:44.520 and a white dad. I am biracial with a white 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:48.360 mom and a black dad. Um And I kind of 0:04:48.400 --> 0:04:51.400 wanted to discuss this because I don't know when this 0:04:51.440 --> 0:04:54.240 episode is gonna air. I wanted to talk about interracial 0:04:54.320 --> 0:04:58.480 dating again. Um And coming from clearly, uh, the white 0:04:58.520 --> 0:05:01.680 woman who dates black men who has biracial kids. Um, clearly, 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:06.000 we had Marcus Black from UM Love and hip Hop 0:05:06.120 --> 0:05:08.680 who kind of didn't even like the fact that you 0:05:08.839 --> 0:05:12.119 dated white guys even though you're I got really upset 0:05:12.160 --> 0:05:14.839 about that, and I wanted to touch back on that. 0:05:14.880 --> 0:05:17.040 But I wanted to bring up into racial dating because 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.279 it's something where as much as we kind of preach 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:22.919 unity and like everyone to just love is love, there's 0:05:22.920 --> 0:05:28.040 still this this little thing when you see two different races. 0:05:28.440 --> 0:05:31.680 I don't really know if we preach unity is do 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:35.840 we not know? I think that we want equality. I 0:05:35.839 --> 0:05:38.240 don't know if there's a lot of unity. I think that, 0:05:38.279 --> 0:05:41.880 like we're you, you're misconstruing. The people that are preaching 0:05:42.000 --> 0:05:44.839 unity are for this, but most of us aren't. There's 0:05:44.839 --> 0:05:46.920 a lot of bitterness and feeling like we're not equal. 0:05:47.000 --> 0:05:48.960 So you know what, the media also plays a big 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:51.720 part of that, because the only negative I've ever received 0:05:51.960 --> 0:05:54.520 being and having interracial kids and being in a black 0:05:54.600 --> 0:05:59.520 environment was when O J and Nicole really got into 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:01.719 the club and all the black guys are yelling Nicole 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:06.560 Nicole like that. That was like probably the most negative experience. 0:06:07.560 --> 0:06:10.719 Now it is actually a little fearful because knowing what 0:06:10.839 --> 0:06:16.240 happened with all that, you know not you must you're 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:19.159 saying like, I don't know, I didn't read your questions yet, 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:23.039 but you're saying like with you, you've got three beautiful 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:25.240 mixed girls, right, and you live in a a black neighborhood. 0:06:25.279 --> 0:06:28.160 You never had black women treat you aren't no, because 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:31.120 there's never really a true friendship. They're they're kind of snide. 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.720 It seems like I accept you, I love your kids, 0:06:34.880 --> 0:06:38.839 but like everybody gets the birthday barbecues, but the white 0:06:38.839 --> 0:06:41.680 girl never gets one. You know what I mean. You're 0:06:41.720 --> 0:06:45.360 not really that important. You're just there. You're you never 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:48.560 really feel like you belong anywhere because you're like, don't 0:06:48.600 --> 0:06:51.040 belong with the white families, you don't belong with black families. 0:06:51.680 --> 0:06:53.479 And even in your own family, you have people that 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:55.440 are shunning you. So you just kind of take it 0:06:55.480 --> 0:06:58.400 as it is and your family becomes your kids. And 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:00.520 I want so and I wanted to bring that because 0:07:00.960 --> 0:07:04.920 her side of the family, UM didn't really accept us 0:07:04.960 --> 0:07:07.039 because we were black. So I know a lot of 0:07:07.040 --> 0:07:09.000 our families in California, like we don't know a lot 0:07:09.040 --> 0:07:12.559 of them. Grandma father's mother never accepted y'all either because 0:07:12.560 --> 0:07:16.800 we were Yeah, yeah, did he have did he have 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:21.760 other fully black children? One my brother, and yeah, we 0:07:22.000 --> 0:07:24.400 didn't know. Was it because she didn't like you or 0:07:25.200 --> 0:07:28.000 met her? I never ever met that. I met his 0:07:28.080 --> 0:07:32.560 sisters and they love everybody. They're just open and never 0:07:32.640 --> 0:07:36.440 ever And you think it's because we're white. I just 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:38.680 think she just as an evil person. I just don't 0:07:38.680 --> 0:07:46.560 think birthday cards, Wow, yeah, she's so. I got that 0:07:46.640 --> 0:07:50.320 from my father's family. Um. My mom told me that 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.440 the day I was born, that some Jewish woman came 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:54.440 in so my father's in Israel for those you don't know, 0:07:54.560 --> 0:07:57.480 and she says that they were like looking inside of 0:07:57.480 --> 0:07:59.960 the glass or like trying to go come in the cradle. 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:01.720 And my mom says, she was in the bed, was 0:08:01.760 --> 0:08:07.080 like she's light. She came out light because she said that, 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.680 you know, she just was waiting for that. Um. Now, 0:08:09.760 --> 0:08:11.440 my mom, as much as I wouldn't like her to 0:08:11.480 --> 0:08:13.920 hear me say this, I think my mom has a 0:08:13.920 --> 0:08:18.320 little bit of a complex about her blackness and um, 0:08:18.360 --> 0:08:21.280 which is why sometimes I think her family sees it 0:08:21.360 --> 0:08:23.640 like they've never really been that way with my dad. 0:08:23.680 --> 0:08:26.360 But I think she's sometimes uncomfortable about her own blackness 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:28.920 and and things like that, and maybe doesn't vocalize it. 0:08:28.960 --> 0:08:30.840 But I have absolutely seen it. Like when I went 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:32.520 to Israel, Oh my god, they were like, is she 0:08:32.640 --> 0:08:40.559 the nurse? Oh yeah? So I wanted to ask you, um, 0:08:40.600 --> 0:08:43.880 if having us besides you know how people treated you, 0:08:44.240 --> 0:08:47.960 if having biracial kids ever affected you dating white men, Like, okay, 0:08:48.000 --> 0:08:50.040 you date black men, clearly, I know that. I don't 0:08:50.080 --> 0:08:52.000 think I haven't seen anything else come through the white 0:08:52.000 --> 0:08:54.720 men at all. There's nothing attractive. They're not sexually attractive. 0:08:54.760 --> 0:08:56.840 They're not I don't even like to look at their 0:08:57.280 --> 0:09:02.280 nude porns, at the porns with the white guys. Don't 0:09:02.280 --> 0:09:07.040 want to look. So let me ask you what got 0:09:07.120 --> 0:09:09.880 you into liking black guys? Because you grew up in 0:09:09.920 --> 0:09:13.280 an area where there weren't many black people from California, 0:09:13.840 --> 0:09:18.319 San Diego. Okay, oh yeah, okay, But the only relationship 0:09:18.360 --> 0:09:20.839 I remember prior to because my mother and my my 0:09:20.920 --> 0:09:23.520 real father, who I've never seen, don't know, and there 0:09:23.520 --> 0:09:27.080 may be some hidden, you know, resentment that way, but 0:09:27.240 --> 0:09:30.480 she was in a relationship with a black man and 0:09:30.520 --> 0:09:33.400 so he I remember him treating me well, and as 0:09:33.440 --> 0:09:36.360 I grew up, I got mistreated by more white men 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:39.200 and white men and for different situations. So I just 0:09:40.520 --> 0:09:46.000 your mom and then your family is still weird about it. 0:09:47.040 --> 0:09:50.120 But when it came to like the girls, when when 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:52.360 it was the Christmas and I sent him a video 0:09:52.480 --> 0:09:54.440 and they saw my boyfriend at the time was black, 0:09:55.080 --> 0:09:58.720 and they asked my grandmother, who was loving love my 0:09:58.800 --> 0:10:01.560 girls took them for the I mean like the summers 0:10:01.600 --> 0:10:04.040 and stuff like that, and they talked to her and 0:10:04.040 --> 0:10:05.800 they said, how do you take those girls on public? 0:10:06.559 --> 0:10:09.800 Like they were that ignorant right now that he's on 0:10:09.920 --> 0:10:12.520 my mom's Facebook and never requested me, never said ship. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:15.760 So I'm like, you know what, I ain't got time 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:18.080 for that ship. Do you matter what? You'll never respect 0:10:18.080 --> 0:10:21.280 my disrespect my kids. And I never allowed the N 0:10:21.320 --> 0:10:24.959 word anywhere people, And that's what I have white friends 0:10:25.000 --> 0:10:27.920 that had biracial kids and they would make comments about 0:10:27.960 --> 0:10:29.840 in this and no, no, no, no, no, I'm sorry. 0:10:29.840 --> 0:10:31.760 We gotta go because I'm not going to have my 0:10:31.880 --> 0:10:34.520 child around that because I want them to be proud 0:10:34.520 --> 0:10:38.520 of every culture that they have in them. Jamaican Haitian white, 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.560 whatever I want them to be yea, yeah, I'm jamake 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:46.120 it right. So do you feel like it's changed since 0:10:47.200 --> 0:10:53.560 raising us in the nineties to and I think it's 0:10:53.559 --> 0:10:56.720 taking now a really negative turn, and I think people 0:10:56.720 --> 0:11:00.600 are becoming really you still look at an interetcial couple, 0:11:01.200 --> 0:11:03.600 but you still get the look, and the look is 0:11:03.679 --> 0:11:07.520 like getting the look. Yeah, but look at the racial 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.840 tension that's building in America now period. It doesn't matter 0:11:11.000 --> 0:11:16.719 we started. We got to put up her fast with thee. 0:11:17.320 --> 0:11:21.160 It's crazy. It's funny because I feel really hypocritical sometimes 0:11:21.280 --> 0:11:24.360 because the truth is, like, as much as I'm a 0:11:24.400 --> 0:11:29.000 product of biracial you know, dating and whatever, sometimes I 0:11:29.080 --> 0:11:31.679 do see black men with white girls and I'm like, 0:11:31.880 --> 0:11:33.679 and I feel, I don't know if I feel jealous. 0:11:33.720 --> 0:11:36.679 So why why? Yeah, why do you, as someone who's 0:11:36.760 --> 0:11:41.880 into biracial because someone who's biracial, why do you feel 0:11:41.960 --> 0:11:43.559 any type of thing when you see a black and 0:11:43.600 --> 0:11:47.880 a white man? I mean a black not black and 0:11:47.960 --> 0:11:52.800 white man. I don't be honest with you. I was 0:11:52.800 --> 0:11:54.440 trying to gather my feelings about it on the train, 0:11:54.480 --> 0:11:56.200 right because I knew we were gonna talk with you 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:59.800 about business, Tammy, But I don't know. I think that 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.160 I I feel like successful black men want white women. 0:12:03.200 --> 0:12:07.240 I feel like they just ship on black women so much, 0:12:07.240 --> 0:12:09.839 and it just feels like the prize. You know, you've 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:11.520 made it, so you've got a white girl. I mean, like, 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:13.240 you know what, I'm going to totally say that I 0:12:13.320 --> 0:12:16.000 kind of disagree with that because I've dated different kinds 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:19.559 of ben and I probably put up with a lot 0:12:19.559 --> 0:12:23.440 more ship than a black woman would. So maybe I'm 0:12:23.559 --> 0:12:26.160 following them to do things, but in the same turn, 0:12:26.200 --> 0:12:29.040 it's gonna be on my terms, it's not gonna be 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:31.040 on your turn. It's funny you say that because that's 0:12:31.080 --> 0:12:33.760 something that black women throw a lot of times at 0:12:33.800 --> 0:12:35.920 black men for d anyway, Oh, because they're gonna do 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:38.559 it and we won't andla lot a lot of black men. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:41.400 I know black girls don't like to suck the there 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:44.920 you go, there you go. You do a great job 0:12:44.960 --> 0:12:50.040 at it, mom ship felicio. Anyway, anyway, they're gonna be 0:12:50.080 --> 0:12:56.760 like I actually worked with with a nurse that her 0:12:56.800 --> 0:12:59.200 husband was a police officer, and we were talking about 0:12:59.200 --> 0:13:00.680 it one day and she said, like, I'm not sucking 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:02.959 that thing. You crazy and I looked outside of myself. 0:13:03.480 --> 0:13:12.400 Somebody sucking it, somebody's doing it. But yeah, of sexual 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:16.280 I don't think there is. But we talk about that 0:13:16.320 --> 0:13:19.360 with why she's now dating white men because black men 0:13:19.440 --> 0:13:24.320 are very cookie cutter. I feel like I feel like 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.880 everybody's they're gonna go through my house take off all 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:28.720 my black lives matter. Ship from me for saying this, 0:13:28.800 --> 0:13:31.640 but yes I do. I did start dating white guys 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.080 that I want to explore more sexual days. And I 0:13:34.080 --> 0:13:35.880 will tell you what I think. We have a few 0:13:35.880 --> 0:13:38.959 issues here, Like in the black community, you've got to 0:13:39.000 --> 0:13:42.199 be masculine. You can't do like some homemotion it. Let 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:44.959 me say, I'm gonna pull that one back. In poorer communities, 0:13:45.120 --> 0:13:47.320 you have to be more masculine. So we are just 0:13:47.559 --> 0:13:50.400 a product of that, right. It's like, I mean Black 0:13:50.400 --> 0:13:52.520 and Latinos and minorities and these communities are going to 0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:54.400 go through ship like this, so like they just have 0:13:54.559 --> 0:13:58.680 this idea about it. Black women, I are totally way 0:13:58.679 --> 0:14:00.760 more conservative of sex. I mean the conversations that I 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:07.200 have with my black girlfriends besides the actually even umally different, 0:14:07.480 --> 0:14:11.280 totally different conversations. They may feel like I'm disrespecting myself 0:14:11.280 --> 0:14:14.240 by having this podcast. Even I don't I don't know 0:14:14.280 --> 0:14:16.360 why black women feel this way. It makes me really sad, 0:14:16.520 --> 0:14:20.360 but I do see that they are totally like you 0:14:20.440 --> 0:14:23.120 got Kylie Jenner, acid titties and lips out there, We're like, 0:14:23.120 --> 0:14:24.960 oh my god, she's super hot. But then if Nicki 0:14:25.000 --> 0:14:28.080 Minaj does is she's the hope? Yeah? Yeah. And being 0:14:28.120 --> 0:14:30.520 that most of my friends growing up were black women 0:14:31.200 --> 0:14:34.360 and now that I'm pretty much single without kids, we 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:37.640 raised the kids and we were friends, but the things 0:14:37.640 --> 0:14:43.680 that I'm introducing myself to now are so much more. 0:14:42.600 --> 0:14:48.920 We're not to go no, but I'm just saying, I mean, 0:14:48.920 --> 0:14:51.120 there's things out there that you never got your mouth 0:14:52.160 --> 0:14:55.080 to kick her out, that I've never experienced that I'm 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:59.880 starting to experience with black men with a yes, with 0:14:59.440 --> 0:15:05.840 a right, she ain't dealing with man, don't pat my mama. 0:15:06.040 --> 0:15:08.600 The things that I've never known, and it's like I 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:11.240 never heard of and now I'm like really like, like 0:15:11.280 --> 0:15:13.320 I never watched more. Do you think it's because it 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:15.280 was with like black men don't like to do these 0:15:15.280 --> 0:15:18.040 certain types of things that you're now and you're almost fifty. 0:15:18.080 --> 0:15:20.880 I'm sorry, but you're getting up there and you're just 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:24.160 now finding someone to experience that. I feel like it's 0:15:24.200 --> 0:15:26.400 because you've only dealt with black men and they are 0:15:26.520 --> 0:15:29.480 so yeah, because that's very I just want to screw 0:15:29.520 --> 0:15:33.440 and you leave. I never ever, really, Yes, I've never 0:15:33.480 --> 0:15:35.800 been one that's been like and that's because I don't 0:15:35.840 --> 0:15:39.000 want to keep somebody around because I'm very opinionated and 0:15:39.040 --> 0:15:40.280 if you don't do it my way, you can get 0:15:40.280 --> 0:15:44.080 the funk out, period. It's my way. So with this one, 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:49.360 I wonder where you get that from. Like normally I do, 0:15:50.960 --> 0:15:54.160 but this guy, now, he's like, I can experiment, I 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:57.520 can do different things. But it's definitely open a whole 0:15:57.520 --> 0:16:01.240 new world to me that I'm just like what you said, 0:16:01.480 --> 0:16:03.800 even things that the name of that you like, you said, 0:16:03.800 --> 0:16:05.320 I've never heard of this, Like what's one? I mean 0:16:05.360 --> 0:16:07.520 like when we're watching porn, we watched the Peggane, we 0:16:07.600 --> 0:16:11.040 watched the The Bisexual Parties. You know, we're watching all 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:14.000 this and I'm like, you know, I mean, it's it's 0:16:14.000 --> 0:16:16.400 picking my curiosity because it's something that I knew was 0:16:16.440 --> 0:16:19.040 out there. But I know that it's more of a 0:16:19.080 --> 0:16:21.600 world because I've talked to more people now and I'm 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:24.480 meeting different types of people that are more introducing me 0:16:24.560 --> 0:16:26.720 to it, and it's like, hell yeah, I'm down what 0:16:26.760 --> 0:16:29.520 I'm saying, which is why explore yourself. I mean, I've 0:16:29.760 --> 0:16:32.800 seen thirty years raising the kids. I never even had 0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:34.160 a porn in my house with the kids that I 0:16:34.240 --> 0:16:39.160 did have dildos that they found, we definitely felt no, no, no, no, 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:42.600 what no. Remember the time that the bobby was baby sitting, 0:16:42.680 --> 0:16:46.040 y'all and they went upstairs into the into the bedroom 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:48.160 that was upstairs, and they came back down with the 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:50.120 dildo wana plate and ask him did he want to dog? 0:16:56.760 --> 0:17:01.400 You should have a man and shelby my sister. I 0:17:01.520 --> 0:17:05.080 felt like, so, well, what we like to do, mom, 0:17:05.119 --> 0:17:07.800 we like to have kinks of the week, So we're 0:17:07.800 --> 0:17:10.000 going to get into one. And I chose this because 0:17:10.000 --> 0:17:11.719 me and my mom were on the train coming here, 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:13.760 like what we're gonna talk about with you? Because I 0:17:13.800 --> 0:17:15.560 didn't want you to say something she has a story 0:17:15.600 --> 0:17:22.439 about it. Um the oh, I'm sorry the one today. 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:26.080 It's not a weird word. Actually it's b clity. And 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:30.440 I wanted to talk about this because so bright it's 0:17:30.440 --> 0:17:35.399 not her story? Is that why b C. Reality for 0:17:35.480 --> 0:17:38.600 those who do not know, is sexual intercourse involving a 0:17:38.720 --> 0:17:44.720 human and an animal. So this is actually something if 0:17:44.760 --> 0:17:47.440 you go onto porn hub, any of your porn sites 0:17:47.520 --> 0:17:49.760 that you go onto, you can actually find this. I 0:17:49.760 --> 0:17:53.159 know there's I mean, I like porn hubb. Which one 0:17:53.160 --> 0:17:59.200 do you use? Why did I just get totally uncomfortable 0:18:00.040 --> 0:18:02.680 you watch I've never even heard that said, porn hup? 0:18:04.000 --> 0:18:12.040 Why it's pornhup? Like so many categories, what's see? Don't 0:18:12.040 --> 0:18:17.240 be debate me. I'm so sorry. It's so good. Okay, 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:20.439 So for you guys who whatever porn site you do, 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:23.679 watch if you type in what city? Right, are you 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:26.080 seeing what comes up? Right now? And actually I was 0:18:26.080 --> 0:18:27.760 just going to try to take a picture mom, but whatever, 0:18:28.480 --> 0:18:31.960 so you can look up. I know that they do horses, dogs, 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:36.320 like there's different dog, sheep, chicken, cows. They're like whole 0:18:36.400 --> 0:18:39.399 videos you can watch. My mom said in Mexico and 0:18:39.440 --> 0:18:42.760 she's like, yeah, yeah, that's like the big thing everybody 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:44.879 goes over. I don't know how to wait because when 0:18:44.920 --> 0:18:47.000 I was in New York City yesterday at the at 0:18:47.040 --> 0:18:49.919 Central Park, there was a horse and his slung was 0:18:49.960 --> 0:18:56.960 hanging about that you've never noticed. Like I remember we 0:18:57.000 --> 0:18:58.639 used to have dogs growing up, and when the little 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:02.560 pink thing came out, like, oh my god, get him away. 0:19:02.560 --> 0:19:06.520 Never liked animals, period, everything. No, they just I go 0:19:06.600 --> 0:19:08.560 away on trips and come back and they're just not 0:19:08.640 --> 0:19:11.159 alive anymore. Isn't that what happened to Karmelo Anthony? It 0:19:11.200 --> 0:19:15.639 was Durant and Duran I do okay, So she said that, 0:19:15.720 --> 0:19:19.160 not literally Carmelo Anthony. I didn't kill Carmelo. But I 0:19:19.200 --> 0:19:21.600 have a thing with naming all of my pets after 0:19:22.240 --> 0:19:24.760 athletes since I was like in middle school, so we 0:19:24.800 --> 0:19:33.000 had pets. Story tell I was, I can't remember where 0:19:33.000 --> 0:19:35.320 I was at. I ran into mental healthcare field. So 0:19:35.359 --> 0:19:38.200 I ran into a fellow paramedic who told me about 0:19:38.280 --> 0:19:41.080 a story where he had He was in his orientation 0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:45.160 and they went to this retirement community and the lady 0:19:45.320 --> 0:19:47.480 had called nine on one, so they had to break 0:19:47.520 --> 0:19:49.760 down the door to get in, and when they got there, 0:19:49.880 --> 0:19:53.600 they saw her on her hands and knees, and she 0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:58.600 went to move and the dog went so they couldn't 0:19:58.600 --> 0:20:01.639 figure out how to separate them, so the dog was 0:20:01.720 --> 0:20:04.320 stuck inside of her. They had to put the two 0:20:04.400 --> 0:20:07.320 of them on the stretcher and push them out in 0:20:07.440 --> 0:20:11.480 front of all her little retiree friends who as she 0:20:11.600 --> 0:20:13.440 had the dogs still stuck in her because he was 0:20:14.600 --> 0:20:16.520 they couldn't get him out. Every time they tried to 0:20:16.600 --> 0:20:21.200 move the dogs or move her do that wine. And 0:20:21.520 --> 0:20:25.160 that's what why was he he was stuck because when 0:20:25.600 --> 0:20:28.760 that's how dogs have babies, Like when the dogs go together, 0:20:29.359 --> 0:20:32.640 the dog male dog swells inside the female and that's 0:20:32.680 --> 0:20:35.879 why they get stuck there. That's literally do you see what? 0:20:37.800 --> 0:20:41.879 Literally the dogs get stuck. That's what That's what happens. Now. 0:20:41.920 --> 0:20:44.159 I want to ask you because so my mom was 0:20:44.560 --> 0:20:47.280 like a crazy house. Is there a psychological things but 0:20:48.480 --> 0:20:52.600 not you? No, no, no, just crazy as people like 0:20:52.680 --> 0:20:55.399 the stories I hear. So for someone who has a 0:20:55.560 --> 0:20:58.840 bcality fetish, is this a mental thing you think? Or 0:20:58.880 --> 0:21:02.240 is there one ideal in actions? So, I mean I 0:21:02.359 --> 0:21:07.080 deal with like bipolar, borderline personality addictions and things like that. 0:21:08.080 --> 0:21:10.840 Mostly they don't come out with their sexual fetishes and 0:21:11.000 --> 0:21:15.440 anywhere in that arena. I mean, you have your true psychosis, 0:21:15.640 --> 0:21:20.840 but even psychosis doesn't become sexual. Okay, honestly, I don't. 0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:24.639 I think it's just a kink I think it is, Like, 0:21:24.720 --> 0:21:26.679 I don't think it's a fucking weird thing in your 0:21:26.680 --> 0:21:28.640 head like I mean, I mean, I think everybody has 0:21:29.160 --> 0:21:31.639 a tendency to try something new and again. It just 0:21:31.760 --> 0:21:35.240 becomes the fear, not new weird, you know what? Like 0:21:35.400 --> 0:21:38.760 that saying says everything the best things in life lie 0:21:38.800 --> 0:21:41.320 on the other side of fear. So you have to 0:21:41.440 --> 0:21:45.440 remember that everything. Yeah, everything that's over there is something 0:21:45.520 --> 0:21:48.359 that you're afraid to get to, but it'll be rewarding 0:21:48.400 --> 0:21:50.280 when you do. I'm not a text disnay you're talking 0:21:50.280 --> 0:21:56.159 about don't want to go out? Like everything right? Okay? 0:21:56.240 --> 0:21:57.920 So I guess, well you want to happen to the 0:21:57.960 --> 0:22:01.760 horriblest we we got you talking a whole lot tamnit um. 0:22:02.160 --> 0:22:04.479 So what we're gonna do is happened to the horrible decision? 0:22:04.680 --> 0:22:06.600 Before we get into it, I wanted to ask if 0:22:06.680 --> 0:22:09.240 this has ever happened. I'm gonna ask if this happened 0:22:09.240 --> 0:22:13.119 a wheezy before though, Has anything ever happened embarrassing in 0:22:13.200 --> 0:22:16.119 the middle of um sex to you? So we talked 0:22:16.119 --> 0:22:19.679 about the girl who piss on ourselves, Like, has anything 0:22:19.760 --> 0:22:24.360 embarrassing happened to you? So? Do you remember or where 0:22:24.359 --> 0:22:29.800 were you friends when I that dude from No I no, wait, no, 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:31.800 I don't think I was. What happened there was like 0:22:31.840 --> 0:22:34.040 a popular rap group but they still another not but 0:22:34.640 --> 0:22:36.560 what eight years ago or so, they had Me Goes 0:22:36.640 --> 0:22:40.399 before Me Goes Yes, And I let him fly me 0:22:40.480 --> 0:22:43.479 to Atlanta and we had a great time, and then 0:22:43.560 --> 0:22:45.480 they came back for a show in Tampa and I 0:22:45.560 --> 0:22:49.240 went and got wasted and smoked weed and I'm not 0:22:49.280 --> 0:22:51.480 a weed smoker, and the weed had my head going 0:22:51.520 --> 0:22:53.720 to heavy, feeling dizzy. So in the middle of sex 0:22:53.840 --> 0:22:55.520