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Speaker 1: you know what. And I'm gonna just say this because
Speaker 1: I'm gonna move today. Yakabody's mother fucking tickets. We can
Speaker 1: do all this free content. I have a really expensive
Speaker 1: fucking rent. I'm fucking right now. New York sucks. I
Speaker 1: spent a hundred dollars on drinks last night. It was
Speaker 1: only four of them, only four fucking drinks. Okay, that
Speaker 1: is New York. So if you want to buy this ticket,
Speaker 1: you should. Did you listen to all this ship and
Speaker 1: we come here? We buy mt A cars there a
Speaker 1: hundred dollars a month or unlimited to come this fucking
Speaker 1: studio and pay for this ship. I can't wait to
Speaker 1: see you. I'm sorry, see you guys there. Okay, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna start off the show, y'all with this song.
Speaker 1: Let's see if you know this song? Um, probably you should.
Speaker 1: So we're gonna do this thing along. Are you ready? Okay? Whoa?
Speaker 1: Sorry man? Sorry? So you know I have to play
Speaker 1: it on YouTube because this song is not okay, I'll
Speaker 1: try to find it. Here we go, yeah, hello, wait? Wait?
Speaker 1: Who do you love? Fish? Essential? Essentially? Here we go.
Speaker 1: I don't notice though trying to I'm gonna love to
Speaker 1: play one Louis you know what can you sing? Singing book? No? Wait,
Speaker 1: it's just not your song yes, that is you're a guy.
Speaker 1: They're a lot. Oh it's not, it's like her. Okay, Yeah, anyways,
Speaker 1: I'll try to play Hoody and the Blowfish for my mama,
Speaker 1: but they ain't work. So how hard is that? Yeah?
Speaker 1: You see, and that's what the funk I thought it was,
Speaker 1: but it was because you know, when you try to
Speaker 1: do all this ship at once, it just doesn't work
Speaker 1: the right way. So anyways, hi guys, welcome to yeah,
Speaker 1: another episode of horrible Decisions. Clearly, I was trying to
Speaker 1: be good for my mama because we got my mama
Speaker 1: in the studio. You may's wearing tonight. What's wrong with it?
Speaker 1: So when were you trying to be good? I got
Speaker 1: these tidies from my mom? The hell? Anyways, guys, welcome
Speaker 1: to yet another episode. I'm your girl Mandy b And
Speaker 1: and we got wheezy and we're just gonna call you um.
Speaker 1: I guess dammy, I like karma. We are not using
Speaker 1: your you want to be called Karma? Can I ask you?
Speaker 1: Is that the profile? Maybe you give up fenty of
Speaker 1: what everything? Karma? Karma is a bit like okay, you women,
Speaker 1: Oh my god, we're not calling my mom Karma on
Speaker 1: this show. They really said, you got hoops onto it
Speaker 1: sounds I put smaller ones in tonight because she ragged
Speaker 1: me on my big ones. Yes, bracelets, yeah, no, so
Speaker 1: let's night. She had on hoop earrings. I was like, Mama,
Speaker 1: why you got these big old ghetto assop No, it
Speaker 1: was fun, it was she couldn't hang. She was like
Speaker 1: with my friends and she was like, listen, I cannot
Speaker 1: mix liquor. You guys just want to drink all this ship.
Speaker 1: She's like, we already did whiskey and vodka. I'm sticking
Speaker 1: the vodka. Goddamn it. Don't give me nothing else. Is
Speaker 1: that what you normally drink? Drink anything it tastes good
Speaker 1: to it. Well, there we got. So I wanted to
Speaker 1: start this episode off. I wanted to give you guys
Speaker 1: an introduction slightly to my mammy, so unlike Wheezy, and
Speaker 1: we discussed this. Wheezy is biracial with a black mom
Speaker 1: and a white dad. I am biracial with a white
Speaker 1: mom and a black dad. Um And I kind of
Speaker 1: wanted to discuss this because I don't know when this
Speaker 1: episode is gonna air. I wanted to talk about interracial
Speaker 1: dating again. Um And coming from clearly, uh, the white
Speaker 1: woman who dates black men who has biracial kids. Um, clearly,
Speaker 1: we had Marcus Black from UM Love and hip Hop
Speaker 1: who kind of didn't even like the fact that you
Speaker 1: dated white guys even though you're I got really upset
Speaker 1: about that, and I wanted to touch back on that.
Speaker 1: But I wanted to bring up into racial dating because
Speaker 1: it's something where as much as we kind of preach
Speaker 1: unity and like everyone to just love is love, there's
Speaker 1: still this this little thing when you see two different races.
Speaker 1: I don't really know if we preach unity is do
Speaker 1: we not know? I think that we want equality. I
Speaker 1: don't know if there's a lot of unity. I think that,
Speaker 1: like we're you, you're misconstruing. The people that are preaching
Speaker 1: unity are for this, but most of us aren't. There's
Speaker 1: a lot of bitterness and feeling like we're not equal.
Speaker 1: So you know what, the media also plays a big
Speaker 1: part of that, because the only negative I've ever received
Speaker 1: being and having interracial kids and being in a black
Speaker 1: environment was when O J and Nicole really got into
Speaker 1: the club and all the black guys are yelling Nicole
Speaker 1: Nicole like that. That was like probably the most negative experience.
Speaker 1: Now it is actually a little fearful because knowing what
Speaker 1: happened with all that, you know not you must you're
Speaker 1: saying like, I don't know, I didn't read your questions yet,
Speaker 1: but you're saying like with you, you've got three beautiful
Speaker 1: mixed girls, right, and you live in a a black neighborhood.
Speaker 1: You never had black women treat you aren't no, because
Speaker 1: there's never really a true friendship. They're they're kind of snide.
Speaker 1: It seems like I accept you, I love your kids,
Speaker 1: but like everybody gets the birthday barbecues, but the white
Speaker 1: girl never gets one. You know what I mean. You're
Speaker 1: not really that important. You're just there. You're you never
Speaker 1: really feel like you belong anywhere because you're like, don't
Speaker 1: belong with the white families, you don't belong with black families.
Speaker 1: And even in your own family, you have people that
Speaker 1: are shunning you. So you just kind of take it
Speaker 1: as it is and your family becomes your kids. And
Speaker 1: I want so and I wanted to bring that because
Speaker 1: her side of the family, UM didn't really accept us
Speaker 1: because we were black. So I know a lot of
Speaker 1: our families in California, like we don't know a lot
Speaker 1: of them. Grandma father's mother never accepted y'all either because
Speaker 1: we were Yeah, yeah, did he have did he have
Speaker 1: other fully black children? One my brother, and yeah, we
Speaker 1: didn't know. Was it because she didn't like you or
Speaker 1: met her? I never ever met that. I met his
Speaker 1: sisters and they love everybody. They're just open and never
Speaker 1: ever And you think it's because we're white. I just
Speaker 1: think she just as an evil person. I just don't
Speaker 1: think birthday cards, Wow, yeah, she's so. I got that
Speaker 1: from my father's family. Um. My mom told me that
Speaker 1: the day I was born, that some Jewish woman came
Speaker 1: in so my father's in Israel for those you don't know,
Speaker 1: and she says that they were like looking inside of
Speaker 1: the glass or like trying to go come in the cradle.
Speaker 1: And my mom says, she was in the bed, was
Speaker 1: like she's light. She came out light because she said that,
Speaker 1: you know, she just was waiting for that. Um. Now,
Speaker 1: my mom, as much as I wouldn't like her to
Speaker 1: hear me say this, I think my mom has a
Speaker 1: little bit of a complex about her blackness and um,
Speaker 1: which is why sometimes I think her family sees it
Speaker 1: like they've never really been that way with my dad.
Speaker 1: But I think she's sometimes uncomfortable about her own blackness
Speaker 1: and and things like that, and maybe doesn't vocalize it.
Speaker 1: But I have absolutely seen it. Like when I went
Speaker 1: to Israel, Oh my god, they were like, is she
Speaker 1: the nurse? Oh yeah? So I wanted to ask you, um,
Speaker 1: if having us besides you know how people treated you,
Speaker 1: if having biracial kids ever affected you dating white men, Like, okay,
Speaker 1: you date black men, clearly, I know that. I don't
Speaker 1: think I haven't seen anything else come through the white
Speaker 1: men at all. There's nothing attractive. They're not sexually attractive.
Speaker 1: They're not I don't even like to look at their
Speaker 1: nude porns, at the porns with the white guys. Don't
Speaker 1: want to look. So let me ask you what got
Speaker 1: you into liking black guys? Because you grew up in
Speaker 1: an area where there weren't many black people from California,
Speaker 1: San Diego. Okay, oh yeah, okay, But the only relationship
Speaker 1: I remember prior to because my mother and my my
Speaker 1: real father, who I've never seen, don't know, and there
Speaker 1: may be some hidden, you know, resentment that way, but
Speaker 1: she was in a relationship with a black man and
Speaker 1: so he I remember him treating me well, and as
Speaker 1: I grew up, I got mistreated by more white men
Speaker 1: and white men and for different situations. So I just
Speaker 1: your mom and then your family is still weird about it.
Speaker 1: But when it came to like the girls, when when
Speaker 1: it was the Christmas and I sent him a video
Speaker 1: and they saw my boyfriend at the time was black,
Speaker 1: and they asked my grandmother, who was loving love my
Speaker 1: girls took them for the I mean like the summers
Speaker 1: and stuff like that, and they talked to her and
Speaker 1: they said, how do you take those girls on public?
Speaker 1: Like they were that ignorant right now that he's on
Speaker 1: my mom's Facebook and never requested me, never said ship.
Speaker 1: So I'm like, you know what, I ain't got time
Speaker 1: for that ship. Do you matter what? You'll never respect
Speaker 1: my disrespect my kids. And I never allowed the N
Speaker 1: word anywhere people, And that's what I have white friends
Speaker 1: that had biracial kids and they would make comments about
Speaker 1: in this and no, no, no, no, no, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: We gotta go because I'm not going to have my
Speaker 1: child around that because I want them to be proud
Speaker 1: of every culture that they have in them. Jamaican Haitian white,
Speaker 1: whatever I want them to be yea, yeah, I'm jamake
Speaker 1: it right. So do you feel like it's changed since
Speaker 1: raising us in the nineties to and I think it's
Speaker 1: taking now a really negative turn, and I think people
Speaker 1: are becoming really you still look at an interetcial couple,
Speaker 1: but you still get the look, and the look is
Speaker 1: like getting the look. Yeah, but look at the racial
Speaker 1: tension that's building in America now period. It doesn't matter
Speaker 1: we started. We got to put up her fast with thee.
Speaker 1: It's crazy. It's funny because I feel really hypocritical sometimes
Speaker 1: because the truth is, like, as much as I'm a
Speaker 1: product of biracial you know, dating and whatever, sometimes I
Speaker 1: do see black men with white girls and I'm like,
Speaker 1: and I feel, I don't know if I feel jealous.
Speaker 1: So why why? Yeah, why do you, as someone who's
Speaker 1: into biracial because someone who's biracial, why do you feel
Speaker 1: any type of thing when you see a black and
Speaker 1: a white man? I mean a black not black and
Speaker 1: white man. I don't be honest with you. I was
Speaker 1: trying to gather my feelings about it on the train,
Speaker 1: right because I knew we were gonna talk with you
Speaker 1: about business, Tammy, But I don't know. I think that
Speaker 1: I I feel like successful black men want white women.
Speaker 1: I feel like they just ship on black women so much,
Speaker 1: and it just feels like the prize. You know, you've
Speaker 1: made it, so you've got a white girl. I mean, like,
Speaker 1: you know what, I'm going to totally say that I
Speaker 1: kind of disagree with that because I've dated different kinds
Speaker 1: of ben and I probably put up with a lot
Speaker 1: more ship than a black woman would. So maybe I'm
Speaker 1: following them to do things, but in the same turn,
Speaker 1: it's gonna be on my terms, it's not gonna be
Speaker 1: on your turn. It's funny you say that because that's
Speaker 1: something that black women throw a lot of times at
Speaker 1: black men for d anyway, Oh, because they're gonna do
Speaker 1: it and we won't andla lot a lot of black men.
Speaker 1: I know black girls don't like to suck the there
Speaker 1: you go, there you go. You do a great job
Speaker 1: at it, mom ship felicio. Anyway, anyway, they're gonna be
Speaker 1: like I actually worked with with a nurse that her
Speaker 1: husband was a police officer, and we were talking about
Speaker 1: it one day and she said, like, I'm not sucking
Speaker 1: that thing. You crazy and I looked outside of myself.
Speaker 1: Somebody sucking it, somebody's doing it. But yeah, of sexual
Speaker 1: I don't think there is. But we talk about that
Speaker 1: with why she's now dating white men because black men
Speaker 1: are very cookie cutter. I feel like I feel like
Speaker 1: everybody's they're gonna go through my house take off all
Speaker 1: my black lives matter. Ship from me for saying this,
Speaker 1: but yes I do. I did start dating white guys
Speaker 1: that I want to explore more sexual days. And I
Speaker 1: will tell you what I think. We have a few
Speaker 1: issues here, Like in the black community, you've got to
Speaker 1: be masculine. You can't do like some homemotion it. Let
Speaker 1: me say, I'm gonna pull that one back. In poorer communities,
Speaker 1: you have to be more masculine. So we are just
Speaker 1: a product of that, right. It's like, I mean Black
Speaker 1: and Latinos and minorities and these communities are going to
Speaker 1: go through ship like this, so like they just have
Speaker 1: this idea about it. Black women, I are totally way
Speaker 1: more conservative of sex. I mean the conversations that I
Speaker 1: have with my black girlfriends besides the actually even umally different,
Speaker 1: totally different conversations. They may feel like I'm disrespecting myself
Speaker 1: by having this podcast. Even I don't I don't know
Speaker 1: why black women feel this way. It makes me really sad,
Speaker 1: but I do see that they are totally like you
Speaker 1: got Kylie Jenner, acid titties and lips out there, We're like,
Speaker 1: oh my god, she's super hot. But then if Nicki
Speaker 1: Minaj does is she's the hope? Yeah? Yeah. And being
Speaker 1: that most of my friends growing up were black women
Speaker 1: and now that I'm pretty much single without kids, we
Speaker 1: raised the kids and we were friends, but the things
Speaker 1: that I'm introducing myself to now are so much more.
Speaker 1: We're not to go no, but I'm just saying, I mean,
Speaker 1: there's things out there that you never got your mouth
Speaker 1: to kick her out, that I've never experienced that I'm
Speaker 1: starting to experience with black men with a yes, with
Speaker 1: a right, she ain't dealing with man, don't pat my mama.
Speaker 1: The things that I've never known, and it's like I
Speaker 1: never heard of and now I'm like really like, like
Speaker 1: I never watched more. Do you think it's because it
Speaker 1: was with like black men don't like to do these
Speaker 1: certain types of things that you're now and you're almost fifty.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but you're getting up there and you're just
Speaker 1: now finding someone to experience that. I feel like it's
Speaker 1: because you've only dealt with black men and they are
Speaker 1: so yeah, because that's very I just want to screw
Speaker 1: and you leave. I never ever, really, Yes, I've never
Speaker 1: been one that's been like and that's because I don't
Speaker 1: want to keep somebody around because I'm very opinionated and
Speaker 1: if you don't do it my way, you can get
Speaker 1: the funk out, period. It's my way. So with this one,
Speaker 1: I wonder where you get that from. Like normally I do,
Speaker 1: but this guy, now, he's like, I can experiment, I
Speaker 1: can do different things. But it's definitely open a whole
Speaker 1: new world to me that I'm just like what you said,
Speaker 1: even things that the name of that you like, you said,
Speaker 1: I've never heard of this, Like what's one? I mean
Speaker 1: like when we're watching porn, we watched the Peggane, we
Speaker 1: watched the The Bisexual Parties. You know, we're watching all
Speaker 1: this and I'm like, you know, I mean, it's it's
Speaker 1: picking my curiosity because it's something that I knew was
Speaker 1: out there. But I know that it's more of a
Speaker 1: world because I've talked to more people now and I'm
Speaker 1: meeting different types of people that are more introducing me
Speaker 1: to it, and it's like, hell yeah, I'm down what
Speaker 1: I'm saying, which is why explore yourself. I mean, I've
Speaker 1: seen thirty years raising the kids. I never even had
Speaker 1: a porn in my house with the kids that I
Speaker 1: did have dildos that they found, we definitely felt no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: what no. Remember the time that the bobby was baby sitting,
Speaker 1: y'all and they went upstairs into the into the bedroom
Speaker 1: that was upstairs, and they came back down with the
Speaker 1: dildo wana plate and ask him did he want to dog?
Speaker 1: You should have a man and shelby my sister. I
Speaker 1: felt like, so, well, what we like to do, mom,
Speaker 1: we like to have kinks of the week, So we're
Speaker 1: going to get into one. And I chose this because
Speaker 1: me and my mom were on the train coming here,
Speaker 1: like what we're gonna talk about with you? Because I
Speaker 1: didn't want you to say something she has a story
Speaker 1: about it. Um the oh, I'm sorry the one today.
Speaker 1: It's not a weird word. Actually it's b clity. And
Speaker 1: I wanted to talk about this because so bright it's
Speaker 1: not her story? Is that why b C. Reality for
Speaker 1: those who do not know, is sexual intercourse involving a
Speaker 1: human and an animal. So this is actually something if
Speaker 1: you go onto porn hub, any of your porn sites
Speaker 1: that you go onto, you can actually find this. I
Speaker 1: know there's I mean, I like porn hubb. Which one
Speaker 1: do you use? Why did I just get totally uncomfortable
Speaker 1: you watch I've never even heard that said, porn hup?
Speaker 1: Why it's pornhup? Like so many categories, what's see? Don't
Speaker 1: be debate me. I'm so sorry. It's so good. Okay,
Speaker 1: So for you guys who whatever porn site you do,
Speaker 1: watch if you type in what city? Right, are you
Speaker 1: seeing what comes up? Right now? And actually I was
Speaker 1: just going to try to take a picture mom, but whatever,
Speaker 1: so you can look up. I know that they do horses, dogs,
Speaker 1: like there's different dog, sheep, chicken, cows. They're like whole
Speaker 1: videos you can watch. My mom said in Mexico and
Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, yeah, that's like the big thing everybody
Speaker 1: goes over. I don't know how to wait because when
Speaker 1: I was in New York City yesterday at the at
Speaker 1: Central Park, there was a horse and his slung was
Speaker 1: hanging about that you've never noticed. Like I remember we
Speaker 1: used to have dogs growing up, and when the little
Speaker 1: pink thing came out, like, oh my god, get him away.
Speaker 1: Never liked animals, period, everything. No, they just I go
Speaker 1: away on trips and come back and they're just not
Speaker 1: alive anymore. Isn't that what happened to Karmelo Anthony? It
Speaker 1: was Durant and Duran I do okay, So she said that,
Speaker 1: not literally Carmelo Anthony. I didn't kill Carmelo. But I
Speaker 1: have a thing with naming all of my pets after
Speaker 1: athletes since I was like in middle school, so we
Speaker 1: had pets. Story tell I was, I can't remember where
Speaker 1: I was at. I ran into mental healthcare field. So
Speaker 1: I ran into a fellow paramedic who told me about
Speaker 1: a story where he had He was in his orientation
Speaker 1: and they went to this retirement community and the lady
Speaker 1: had called nine on one, so they had to break
Speaker 1: down the door to get in, and when they got there,
Speaker 1: they saw her on her hands and knees, and she
Speaker 1: went to move and the dog went so they couldn't
Speaker 1: figure out how to separate them, so the dog was
Speaker 1: stuck inside of her. They had to put the two
Speaker 1: of them on the stretcher and push them out in
Speaker 1: front of all her little retiree friends who as she
Speaker 1: had the dogs still stuck in her because he was
Speaker 1: they couldn't get him out. Every time they tried to
Speaker 1: move the dogs or move her do that wine. And
Speaker 1: that's what why was he he was stuck because when
Speaker 1: that's how dogs have babies, Like when the dogs go together,
Speaker 1: the dog male dog swells inside the female and that's
Speaker 1: why they get stuck there. That's literally do you see what?
Speaker 1: Literally the dogs get stuck. That's what That's what happens. Now.
Speaker 1: I want to ask you because so my mom was
Speaker 1: like a crazy house. Is there a psychological things but
Speaker 1: not you? No, no, no, just crazy as people like
Speaker 1: the stories I hear. So for someone who has a
Speaker 1: bcality fetish, is this a mental thing you think? Or
Speaker 1: is there one ideal in actions? So, I mean I
Speaker 1: deal with like bipolar, borderline personality addictions and things like that.
Speaker 1: Mostly they don't come out with their sexual fetishes and
Speaker 1: anywhere in that arena. I mean, you have your true psychosis,
Speaker 1: but even psychosis doesn't become sexual. Okay, honestly, I don't.
Speaker 1: I think it's just a kink I think it is, Like,
Speaker 1: I don't think it's a fucking weird thing in your
Speaker 1: head like I mean, I mean, I think everybody has
Speaker 1: a tendency to try something new and again. It just
Speaker 1: becomes the fear, not new weird, you know what? Like
Speaker 1: that saying says everything the best things in life lie
Speaker 1: on the other side of fear. So you have to
Speaker 1: remember that everything. Yeah, everything that's over there is something
Speaker 1: that you're afraid to get to, but it'll be rewarding
Speaker 1: when you do. I'm not a text disnay you're talking
Speaker 1: about don't want to go out? Like everything right? Okay?
Speaker 1: So I guess, well you want to happen to the
Speaker 1: horriblest we we got you talking a whole lot tamnit um.
Speaker 1: So what we're gonna do is happened to the horrible decision?
Speaker 1: Before we get into it, I wanted to ask if
Speaker 1: this has ever happened. I'm gonna ask if this happened
Speaker 1: a wheezy before though, Has anything ever happened embarrassing in
Speaker 1: the middle of um sex to you? So we talked
Speaker 1: about the girl who piss on ourselves, Like, has anything
Speaker 1: embarrassing happened to you? So? Do you remember or where
Speaker 1: were you friends when I that dude from No I no, wait, no,
Speaker 1: I don't think I was. What happened there was like
Speaker 1: a popular rap group but they still another not but
Speaker 1: what eight years ago or so, they had Me Goes
Speaker 1: before Me Goes Yes, And I let him fly me
Speaker 1: to Atlanta and we had a great time, and then
Speaker 1: they came back for a show in Tampa and I
Speaker 1: went and got wasted and smoked weed and I'm not
Speaker 1: a weed smoker, and the weed had my head going
Speaker 1: to heavy, feeling dizzy. So in the middle of sex
Speaker 1: he was sucking me from behind, I was throwing up.
Speaker 1: You roll up in the middle of sex. Let me
Speaker 1: tell you on the pillow. Um, yeah, it was on
Speaker 1: the bed. I don't really remember, but I remember throwing up,
Speaker 1: like harling throwing up. And so I don't know if
Speaker 1: he couldn't he didn't see it or what was going on,
Speaker 1: but he didn't notice it until the smell. He's like,
Speaker 1: what is that? And then yeah, it was really bad.
Speaker 1: What really bothered me though, is that like he was
Speaker 1: a hud okay with like he was okay, it was
Speaker 1: still fucking you and throw up. It was disgusting. There's
Speaker 1: a kick because you know what, one time I did that,
Speaker 1: but it was really bad because I now drinking with
Speaker 1: with a friend of mine and met somebody and then
Speaker 1: changed me and just keep all over him. He wanted
Speaker 1: to know and he wasn't. He wasn't. He was like,
Speaker 1: I gotta go. But about it. There's ghetto gaggers like
Speaker 1: that was a really popular um like forced blow job.
Speaker 1: It was like a very popular thing to do a
Speaker 1: forced blow jobs Latina of use. Ghetto grossies are like
Speaker 1: really demeaning asks and not only are is it just
Speaker 1: like the forcing the bitches to do it. They like
Speaker 1: talk ship to you while they do it, but they
Speaker 1: want you to throw up. Um. I don't know if
Speaker 1: he had to throw up fetish, but I remember when
Speaker 1: I woke up in the morning, almost in tears. I
Speaker 1: was like, I feel like I fucked a rapist, Like
Speaker 1: I honestly like you felt like you were a little
Speaker 1: too drunk for him to even still want to sleep
Speaker 1: with him before. It's not like an ask for it.
Speaker 1: It's not like I didn't want to, but like I
Speaker 1: just was shocked and still right culture and to show
Speaker 1: you as kings you didn't know about maybe he did
Speaker 1: get turned on by you throwing. I never stopped him again.
Speaker 1: I was terrified with him after that. I was terrified. So,
Speaker 1: speaking of being terrified, my mom ter private Benjamin. You've
Speaker 1: seen that movie, right, Goldiehn. Yeah, the same thing happened
Speaker 1: to her. That's why she ended up going to the army.
Speaker 1: It was on their wedding night. Oh, I don't even
Speaker 1: I'll talk about We'll talk about the story, remember that.
Speaker 1: So anyways, um, so again, I guess today's horrible decision
Speaker 1: is embarrassing ship, But in my mama's case, it's almost
Speaker 1: she caught a body. Almost friends, we're still friends. So
Speaker 1: explain what happened and kind of the embarrassing moment during So,
Speaker 1: I knew the guy for a few months and then
Speaker 1: we went out to dinners and stuff like that and chilling,
Speaker 1: and you know, I got through different phases and it
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna try a guy that's a little
Speaker 1: older than me. How old was he he was? I
Speaker 1: was like, was a few years? Are you dining younger?
Speaker 1: Guys are? Really? I'm usually it's my age or younger.
Speaker 1: She's like older, but I'm like, okay, I need somebody.
Speaker 1: It's a little more sor God, I'm just like, what else?
Speaker 1: What else you have to say? Actually he's about six
Speaker 1: ft three, he's and he was built. However, he did
Speaker 1: have a heart condition and a penis pump, so needless
Speaker 1: to say, I've never tried a penis pumps. Said, well,
Speaker 1: let me see what this is about. So I what
Speaker 1: a two months. It's uh device that's implanted into the
Speaker 1: penis and it's almost like a like we're pump. Yeah,
Speaker 1: the in the balls they have the little squeezer and
Speaker 1: you squeeze it and it pumps it up and then
Speaker 1: when you want to release it, you just put squeezer
Speaker 1: and hold it down. So I'm sorry, I thought you
Speaker 1: were going to talk about like what strippers do, like
Speaker 1: that glass thing they put over there. No, this is
Speaker 1: like a true penis pump. It's like ja, it's internal,
Speaker 1: it's inside the penis. He's really old. No, he wasn't
Speaker 1: really old. No, he had a heart condition because I
Speaker 1: got a pacemaker, my mom. That's what I'm saying. I
Speaker 1: find out all this stuff like, well, I have never
Speaker 1: heard of this penis, So I want to know you
Speaker 1: to google the penis so I want you to see
Speaker 1: what a penis pump does because I want you to go.
Speaker 1: So it lasts the balls, right, it's it's got the
Speaker 1: pumper in there. And then did you watch him do
Speaker 1: it or did you do it? I've seen it, I've
Speaker 1: didn't watch him, so anyway, so then we were we
Speaker 1: had entered into the intercourse and I'm like, okay, let
Speaker 1: me try to first time for everything you can say.
Speaker 1: We started sucking. We've entered into the ill. He started
Speaker 1: to the floor in front of me and making me squirt. Okay.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden he kicks back and I'm like,
Speaker 1: what the fuck? And his pacemaker went off. What do
Speaker 1: you mean it went off? It shocked him. He had
Speaker 1: a pacemaker the food later, and it shocked him while
Speaker 1: he was oh my god, look who's clothing. Speaking of pacemakers, mom,
Speaker 1: we're on air with Mandy's mom and she's telling us
Speaker 1: about the man she funk that at a pacemaker that
Speaker 1: had a heart. It's act real, smile with the paramedics,
Speaker 1: all right, love you buy. So it shocked like three
Speaker 1: more times, and I'm like, what am I supposed to
Speaker 1: do because we're both buttass naked. So he and he's
Speaker 1: call so one gets there and they're like, what's your
Speaker 1: I call him, They're like, what's the address. I'm like,
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know. How do I know the address?
Speaker 1: So I have to find a piece of mail and
Speaker 1: I'm like read the address off and they're like, what's
Speaker 1: his Uh yeah, that's the full name right there there.
Speaker 1: You listen. I don't remember ship like that when I've
Speaker 1: just been shots with the defibrillator in my pussy. I mean, okay,
Speaker 1: So I just keep going. So they show up all
Speaker 1: of a sudden, they're like, so what were you doing
Speaker 1: prior to this? And I just looked and I was
Speaker 1: waiting on him to redress him, put his shorts on
Speaker 1: and make him presentable. And then when they got there,
Speaker 1: they gave him like a shot in the arm of
Speaker 1: like uh whatever to stop the because his heart rate
Speaker 1: was like a d. So then they get ready to
Speaker 1: take him downstairs and he's get the get the wheed. Yeah,
Speaker 1: He's like, take the weed and put it in the car.
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, So then they put him in the ambulance.
Speaker 1: Did you tell them what y'all were doing? I didn't
Speaker 1: say a ship. I said nothing. So when he said nothing,
Speaker 1: you just think he responded with like watching TV, and
Speaker 1: they both kind of looked at us, like all the
Speaker 1: whole group of them, because they literally had him hooked
Speaker 1: up to the machine like ready to shock him. They
Speaker 1: shocked him twice and it was terrible. It was terrible.
Speaker 1: So then we get to the hospital and he's a
Speaker 1: little narcissistic. So once he gets in there, not only
Speaker 1: have you almost died, now you want to start talking ship.
Speaker 1: So they give him a shot at doon to shut
Speaker 1: him up. It's like an anti psychotics. So then they
Speaker 1: give him not to shut him up because he's just
Speaker 1: like I want this, I'm shut the funk up, lucky
Speaker 1: or a lie asked right there in the house and
Speaker 1: not called No, why is it safe to say that
Speaker 1: your pussy is deadly? You got that listen, I don't
Speaker 1: know how I would fill with like a heart attack
Speaker 1: during sex. The must to say anytime after that, we
Speaker 1: like hung out because we stayed friends. I mean that's
Speaker 1: kind of something you know, every want to sleep with
Speaker 1: them again. You said no, no, but no we did
Speaker 1: lunches and drives. But no, that's what I let him
Speaker 1: do it. But they had to watch the TV and
Speaker 1: being Mary Jane you watch Being Mary Jane Union, Oh
Speaker 1: I love it. There was a guy that had a
Speaker 1: seizure right after sex, and that's scary. You know, the
Speaker 1: best show in the world is Sex Sent Me to
Speaker 1: the e Er. Oh no, it's terrible. So there's so
Speaker 1: there's a show like people with different fetishes and stuff too,
Speaker 1: like vampires and all these different they like freaking get
Speaker 1: their dick stuck in stuff and the females get there
Speaker 1: and they have to go to I was like, I
Speaker 1: could have been on that show, but it's a really
Speaker 1: good shot and it's all I hate. Okay, So what
Speaker 1: we're gonna do right now is we're gonna hop into homemail. UM. So,
Speaker 1: if you guys want to send us your homemail, you
Speaker 1: guys can d d M it to us apparently because
Speaker 1: y'all motherfucker's don't like emailing, or you can email us
Speaker 1: UM at Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. So this
Speaker 1: one we're gonna get straight back straight into it. And
Speaker 1: I kind of picked this one because it kind of
Speaker 1: deals with into racial um. And then we have another
Speaker 1: one and we're gonna get into fine leavaniltle ship I had. Okay,
Speaker 1: So here's the letter. Hi, Mandy and Wheezy. I am
Speaker 1: a thirties something straight woman, and I'm a professional dancer
Speaker 1: and go go dancer. I think my job is pretty
Speaker 1: cool being that I dance alongside some of the biggest
Speaker 1: names and pop and hip hop in some of the
Speaker 1: biggest nightclubs in my city. Now that things are slowing down,
Speaker 1: I took a side aunts gig at a gay club.
Speaker 1: The music is super fun, the tips are incredible, we
Speaker 1: can drink for free, and because I'm in the gay
Speaker 1: club I can really twork and sunk it up without
Speaker 1: feeling some creep making me feel uncomfortable. Here's where we
Speaker 1: get the good ship, y'all. So last night at work,
Speaker 1: everything was pretty normal. As the only black woman there
Speaker 1: and and the only woman with a big booty, my
Speaker 1: tips come only second to the seriously in shape celebrity
Speaker 1: look like gays that dance their little booties off while
Speaker 1: being tipped by this gay couple, two white men. Both
Speaker 1: of them are basically making out with each other while
Speaker 1: putting fifties in my thong. I pay it no mind
Speaker 1: because it's pretty normal to me. Lots of gay couples
Speaker 1: club together here. But after I get down from my set,
Speaker 1: they practically they practically chased me down to introduce themselves
Speaker 1: to me, which led them to telling me how beautiful
Speaker 1: they thought I was and how they're jealous of my curves.
Speaker 1: One then asked if they could play out a fantasy
Speaker 1: with me. They want to have a threesome with a
Speaker 1: black woman with a big ass, and they would love
Speaker 1: to pay me for the experience. The whole side of
Speaker 1: me is like being much, how much? But the other
Speaker 1: side of me feels weird about these white men wanting
Speaker 1: my black ass. Literally, they say neither of neither one
Speaker 1: of them have ever been with a woman, but if
Speaker 1: they were, they both want a black woman. What would
Speaker 1: you do in this situation? Or has this ever been
Speaker 1: presented to you? And what did you do? Signed? Not
Speaker 1: strapped for cash, but that that well, I want to
Speaker 1: have a three two gay dude. So I'm the wrong
Speaker 1: one time, me too, But I think the problem is
Speaker 1: not that they're two gay guys. It's the fact that
Speaker 1: she feels like she's being fetishized because she's a black woman.
Speaker 1: They keep emphasizing that they want to do this because
Speaker 1: she's a black Woman's gonna sound kind of cold, but
Speaker 1: being um a sec and well, I mean a sex worker, right,
Speaker 1: It's like a stripper stripping is a sex worker. I
Speaker 1: think we'll go go dancing, isn't go dancing for money
Speaker 1: or whatever? Like, you have to understand that you are
Speaker 1: already being criticized, right, I mean you're telling me that,
Speaker 1: like certain men aren't choosing lap dances, are choosing to
Speaker 1: dance with you because you're black. Like you gotta be
Speaker 1: a fool. I know. I know that men go on
Speaker 1: dates with me because they think I'm exotic, I've never
Speaker 1: been with this kind of girl, or you have tattoos,
Speaker 1: like we all understand that. So I mean, if you're
Speaker 1: already doing that for money and a part of you
Speaker 1: would get turned on by this, then I kind of would.
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's interesting. However, I told you
Speaker 1: about Um, I don't remember what episode this was, but
Speaker 1: the white guy who came to me and pretty much
Speaker 1: wanted me to talk about how much I love black
Speaker 1: dick over his white dick and to kind of make
Speaker 1: him feel, you know, and humiliate him for being a
Speaker 1: white man and me being this black woman sucking his
Speaker 1: you know, And he just made it so racial to
Speaker 1: me that it made me feel uncomfortable. I I think
Speaker 1: I'm also another thing too, Like if you're considering doing it,
Speaker 1: just set boundaries. Be like, I don't like, I'm not
Speaker 1: into race play, like Vinean talks a lot about So
Speaker 1: it's one of my gay friends. You've put him on.
Speaker 1: He's on grinder and he says that a lot of
Speaker 1: dudes write him and say BBC and he hates using
Speaker 1: that word. And he's like, I hate what he's like
Speaker 1: when I say BABYC, you hate him be saying there
Speaker 1: I did only and I like it black and big.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's only because I think in my mind
Speaker 1: he made me feel bad about He was like, you
Speaker 1: don't know how often like when you sleep with someone
Speaker 1: else from another race, like and you're a black man,
Speaker 1: Like that's all we're talking about one of your big
Speaker 1: black cock. Like it's annoying. He said, don't races have
Speaker 1: different sizes? Know what I'm saying, have bish? We know there,
Speaker 1: we already know. Now, I don't care. I don't know. Okay,
Speaker 1: this sidetrack, like do you ever say that? Yeah, because
Speaker 1: when I watch a lot of interracial porn, the white
Speaker 1: women either say, oh my god, your black dick is
Speaker 1: so or your clock. Sorry you say cock, mom, I
Speaker 1: do say big black cocks sometimes put that big black cock. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't, and so do they And do they ever
Speaker 1: talk about honestly, does he he ever talked about you
Speaker 1: your white ass or your pink nipples or dogs lips
Speaker 1: swelling of the lips when you eat it? Right, I've
Speaker 1: never heard of hot dog pussy and we are too young.
Speaker 1: So so you don't have a problem with um race
Speaker 1: being mentioned in the bedroom, like it's something that doesn't
Speaker 1: bother you, and what about you? It's kind of hot sometimes,
Speaker 1: so it's like you can turn around and talk ship
Speaker 1: to be like you think that big black cock is good?
Speaker 1: Hell no, you know, excuse me. You can take it anyway, okay. So,
Speaker 1: so mentioning that it's black, or even in her case,
Speaker 1: them saying that I want you because you're a black woman,
Speaker 1: maybe you feel like she shouldn't take that as a fetishism.
Speaker 1: It is a fetish but like, are you okay with it?
Speaker 1: But where both of them come from? Where are they
Speaker 1: coming from with that? Is it? I mean, they ever
Speaker 1: been with a woman period, that's what she said, that
Speaker 1: they haven't been with a woman. But then it's a
Speaker 1: fantasy for them. I guess they both want to a
Speaker 1: black woman. I mean, I don't be honest. I like,
Speaker 1: it's already a fantasy in itself. Like they're gay, they
Speaker 1: want to fuck you. They want to because you got
Speaker 1: a big gas the race play to me, like, I
Speaker 1: get it. If you can't do without feeling just stereotyping,
Speaker 1: maybe it's just stereotyping that turns them on in a sense,
Speaker 1: because yeah, it's a big gass, right, you know what
Speaker 1: I mean. I don't want to be like, hey, I
Speaker 1: want to suck you with your with your flat white ass.
Speaker 1: You know, if you're going to feel sexy about getting
Speaker 1: paid for it and about like letting get to these
Speaker 1: two gay guys explore you, then do it, but don't
Speaker 1: resent it. But if you absolutely don't want them mentioning
Speaker 1: you being black during sex, just say that's your boundary.
Speaker 1: I agree. I had to tell you a guy to
Speaker 1: stop saying it. So it was. It was the second
Speaker 1: we had sex. The first time he said like this
Speaker 1: whole like, I don't know what I said if I
Speaker 1: used the word dick instead of cock, and he was
Speaker 1: like to Murray Hill, I'm serious, it's super white neighborhood
Speaker 1: and yeah. Then he was like, oh yeah, you're just
Speaker 1: like a tough ass black bitch, aren't you. And I
Speaker 1: just kind of let it go. And then the next
Speaker 1: time he said it again and I said, you know what, Brian,
Speaker 1: it's just it's just too much. It's something about this.
Speaker 1: It's not comfortable for me, you know what I mean.
Speaker 1: You already think all lives matter, and I just this
Speaker 1: is too this is too much. And he told me,
Speaker 1: like I thought you were into it, Like I thought
Speaker 1: that was the reason you were walking with me. So
Speaker 1: I guess it can kind of go both ways. It can,
Speaker 1: but if it makes you uncomfortable, absolutely set the President
Speaker 1: and I have UM one more and with this one,
Speaker 1: the soule go ahead and wrap up the show for us. Guys.
Speaker 1: Well it's a good note. This is actually intertwined in
Speaker 1: Valil Ship. I specifically chose this letter specifically because of
Speaker 1: the Vanilla Ship. By the way, guys, if you don't
Speaker 1: know if and nella ship is we um On our
Speaker 1: first show we did it. We wanted to have certain
Speaker 1: um like segments and Vanilla shi it was supposed to
Speaker 1: be our news segment that was sex. But we talked
Speaker 1: we never get we never get to it. Um. So
Speaker 1: this one says, girls, let me start with praise. I
Speaker 1: really enjoy your podcast, didn't miss an episode, and I
Speaker 1: spread the word about it about the last episode. She's
Speaker 1: actually referring to the episode with lethal lips, when your
Speaker 1: guests started to talk about creepies and how people important
Speaker 1: industry protect themselves from STDs. I was ready to hear
Speaker 1: all about it, but then Mandy cut her off. Can
Speaker 1: you please revisit it? I had a guy who wanted
Speaker 1: to fund me raw claiming that you have the highest
Speaker 1: chance contracting STDs when a guy comes inside of you.
Speaker 1: I was trying to find scientific papers about it, but
Speaker 1: with little success. I understand there are s t I
Speaker 1: s that you can contact my skin to skin contact,
Speaker 1: but let's face it, one can live with her p's,
Speaker 1: but HIV or HEP is a different thing. I have
Speaker 1: good hotation of guys and I don't know what is
Speaker 1: wrong with my pussy, But it just pulls out the condoms.
Speaker 1: It pulls the condoms off the dicks. The first time
Speaker 1: it happened, I thought the guy got soft. The first
Speaker 1: time it happened, I thought the guy got soft. But no,
Speaker 1: they are hardest buck and deal with, and I deal
Speaker 1: with well endowed guys, so it's not the condom size. Anyways,
Speaker 1: you can see why I'm being curious about the STDs. UM,
Speaker 1: I wanted to actually start this off real quick and
Speaker 1: a little spiel for our listeners. Um, I feel like
Speaker 1: she wanted that advice specifically coming from a porn star,
Speaker 1: as though lethal Lips was unhuman. I want to let
Speaker 1: you guys know that if you're having unprotected sex with someone,
Speaker 1: if you're having sex with anyone, the only way that
Speaker 1: you can keep from getting an STD is a knowing
Speaker 1: the the um, the status of your partner, or be
Speaker 1: being absinent. There are still STDs that you can get
Speaker 1: from condoms. Know if Mandy told you she reached out
Speaker 1: to this girl who did a TED talks about having herpes,
Speaker 1: who never had unprotected sex in her life and had
Speaker 1: absolutely because well, right, so that skin the skin. So
Speaker 1: when she's sitting here saying, you know, you know that
Speaker 1: this guy um is, you know, I want him to
Speaker 1: come into me, but how can I stay clear of
Speaker 1: getting STD? It's like you're you're not going to get
Speaker 1: this advice for a porgn star. You can get this
Speaker 1: advice from anyone. And the simple fact of the matter
Speaker 1: is you need to know the status of who you're fucking.
Speaker 1: You also need to get tested every three months because
Speaker 1: there's like this little period of time where even a test, Yeah,
Speaker 1: there's incubation, incubation time frames and ship where's the what's
Speaker 1: what did you have to do with the vanilla ship?
Speaker 1: But something will show up within a few weeks. But
Speaker 1: if you don't do the full check, because like, lamdia
Speaker 1: is something that's rampant in the United States right now,
Speaker 1: which damn don't be talking about what I'm about to
Speaker 1: talk about. So this actually leads us to the Vanilla ship.
Speaker 1: And I wanted to let um to read this for
Speaker 1: you guys. Two thousand sixteen was the year of gonna Is,
Speaker 1: syphilis and chlamydia. Over two million cases were reported by
Speaker 1: the CDC. This is a record high. Guys. The CDC
Speaker 1: is sexually the CDCs sexually transmitted reports. So the CDCs
Speaker 1: sexually transmitted report demonstrates that more than eight of the
Speaker 1: cases reported, we're chlamydia four hundred and seventy thousand. We're
Speaker 1: gonna rha with syphilis only having twenty eight thousand cases.
Speaker 1: Um dr Gail Bowland, director of CDC's Division of s
Speaker 1: CD stated, clearly, we need to reverse this disturbing trend.
Speaker 1: The CDC cannot do this alone, and we need every
Speaker 1: community in America to be aware that the risk is
Speaker 1: out there and help educate that their citizens and how
Speaker 1: to avoid it. There's also a note that these are
Speaker 1: only reported cases, guys. So there's a lot of people
Speaker 1: that go untreated, don't go to the doctor. And as
Speaker 1: long as you have ten daddies being checked about, are
Speaker 1: more on more a thing? Are you the father? No?
Speaker 1: Ship You're basically saying that this isn't okay, and this
Speaker 1: is a normal behavior. You know, a lot of people
Speaker 1: are not going to the doctor or not they feel
Speaker 1: like it's scared. I'm saying, I'll tell you, m lever
Speaker 1: Way gets CBC's complete blood checkouts. But I went to
Speaker 1: the doctor and is that what that's called? Is that
Speaker 1: your world? That's what that's called. What's it called a
Speaker 1: complete blod count? All right? I like that. I like
Speaker 1: that though, because we blood check out. Yeah, I mean,
Speaker 1: what is it really called? My CBC is a complete
Speaker 1: blood count? But that normally just does your BBCs and
Speaker 1: things like that. So unless you said again, slipped it in.
Speaker 1: So so are you saying that you can't just say
Speaker 1: it's sex because, like I was telling you want to train,
Speaker 1: hepatitis C, which is a blood borne disease, and you
Speaker 1: probably won't get it sexually. It's more among the needle
Speaker 1: needle users and things like that, unless you're doing anal
Speaker 1: sex and you have actually there's blood. Their blood is
Speaker 1: going to come in contact with your blood, am or
Speaker 1: whatever let's say. But it stays alive outside the body
Speaker 1: for four days. So so you're talking four days. So
Speaker 1: when everything that you touch on that train, anytime you
Speaker 1: have a sword in your hand, paranoid, No, no, but
Speaker 1: you just have to be careful. As long as your
Speaker 1: skin is intact, you're good. But you can catch if
Speaker 1: you if you go to the wrong nail salon and
Speaker 1: they're not cleaning their tools properly. You have to be
Speaker 1: not gonna like the one I go to kind of
Speaker 1: staff infection. The prices are really low and not all
Speaker 1: of that. But but that's just like the tattoo artists.
Speaker 1: If you go, you get what you pay for. In
Speaker 1: that sense, hepatitis B is sexually transmitted and then hepatitis
Speaker 1: A is for food, A is for a is actually
Speaker 1: or I'm trying to think of hepatitis A is you
Speaker 1: can say asshole because it's no, it's fecal. Well if
Speaker 1: you person's ass and they have fecal matter there yet
Speaker 1: because because it but the doctor so he gets CBCS right,
Speaker 1: So I got checked recently. I told him my results
Speaker 1: are fine, and he's like, all right, well, then I
Speaker 1: know I'm good. And I was just thinking to myself, like, nigga,
Speaker 1: that's really how men thinks. I mean, just because you,
Speaker 1: you know, got your ship checked out to make sure
Speaker 1: you're fucking glucose or whatever. Dude, whatever she is, I
Speaker 1: don't know, but you can't like it just blew my mind.
Speaker 1: It's grown man, and I'm not shipping on them for it,
Speaker 1: but it's just really like, Okay, you're good. I'm good.
Speaker 1: And I wanted to let you guys know that while
Speaker 1: going to the doctor is very scary, and we were
Speaker 1: also talking about this. So if you go um so
Speaker 1: like clamidia, gonna read some of them don't have symptoms
Speaker 1: and some people won't know that they have these things
Speaker 1: and you're not gonna know unless you go to the doctor.
Speaker 1: So I'm saying this to say, don't wait for symptoms,
Speaker 1: but also what are some of the things that can
Speaker 1: happen if chlamidia or gonna goes untreated for a certain
Speaker 1: amount of it's really bad. I mean if the clamidia
Speaker 1: and gotta reclad to public inflammatory disease called p I
Speaker 1: D and all of it can lead to infertility. Untreated
Speaker 1: cephilis can cause brain damage eventually. Yeah, it can actually
Speaker 1: affect your brain. And it's similar to the end, right, yeah,
Speaker 1: so and and everything is causing internal damage. I mean,
Speaker 1: like the hepatitis is your liber will be gone, you
Speaker 1: know it just you'll end up with cirrhosis, you'll be
Speaker 1: yellow and I mean sometimes you see the people with
Speaker 1: a lot of yellowing in their eyes could have some
Speaker 1: liver damage from getting fucked. And what's and what's crazy
Speaker 1: is and what's crazy is we talked about oh my god, herpies,
Speaker 1: Oh my god. But and everyone wants to play down
Speaker 1: the gunnery acclamity of syphilis because there's cure for it
Speaker 1: and antibiotic But it's like if these little thing, you know,
Speaker 1: y'all want to refer to them as you know they're curable,
Speaker 1: Syphilis is huge. Syphilis is huge. Syphilis will basically rob
Speaker 1: your life from you because it's something you won't get
Speaker 1: rid of. You'll always test positive where you go for life,
Speaker 1: It'll they'll know that you either were treated for syphilis
Speaker 1: or you have syphilis. Yes, oh wow, we now are
Speaker 1: We are getting more in my field. We're seeing more
Speaker 1: people that are testing positive with an RPR, which is
Speaker 1: the test force of list. I'm the worst party tonight
Speaker 1: and you're ruining it. I'm serious. I'm scared. I don't
Speaker 1: want to kiss nobody. If people would just take more
Speaker 1: responsibility for their freakiness, I mean, just if you're gonna
Speaker 1: be freaking and do crazy ship, just be safe about it.
Speaker 1: You know. It's funny because like I was saying to someone, so,
Speaker 1: I'm going to this sex party. It's called Chemistry. It's
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. I got invited, um by the guy I
Speaker 1: used to date, and he's like, look, my girlfriend's out
Speaker 1: of town. I'm like, my man's out of town. He's like,
Speaker 1: I just need to see other people fun. I'm like,
Speaker 1: this is gonna be fun. So we're gonna go tonight.
Speaker 1: Um very classy. Like Maxim magazine wrote about it, and
Speaker 1: I wrote to him. I told him I was like,
Speaker 1: I really don't want have sex with anyone, like it's
Speaker 1: like me neither, I can't. And he said like, I'm
Speaker 1: also really worried about diseases, and he goes. The crazy
Speaker 1: thing is people that seem to be in this lifestyle
Speaker 1: are almost more clean than anyone else. Feel like Craigslist,
Speaker 1: all those ads that are there like it must be
Speaker 1: d D free blah blah blah blah, because they are
Speaker 1: and they get tested for them, and a lot of
Speaker 1: them are like no drugs, no drinking. We want this,
Speaker 1: you want. They want you to be so were in
Speaker 1: the experience because they don't want you to turn around
Speaker 1: and be like the hell did I just do when
Speaker 1: you sober up? Which is something in there. I sent
Speaker 1: you the rules, send me the rules, and one of
Speaker 1: it says that they don't want you to be completely inebriated.
Speaker 1: They don't because you might turn around and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: I didn't say right exactly. It's funny you said that
Speaker 1: the consent thing was huge, very huge, and sex with
Speaker 1: the sex party thing. I'm trying to find it um
Speaker 1: but basically, I mean it talked a lot about like
Speaker 1: even if it's a if it's a maybe, even if
Speaker 1: you're going to think about it, still say no. Don't
Speaker 1: let anybody hold onto the idea. Another rule that this
Speaker 1: ship had that I liked was if men are in
Speaker 1: the play spaces or whatever, they have to be accompanied
Speaker 1: by a woman. And if that woman that there was
Speaker 1: their date leaves, they've got to leave to like, there's
Speaker 1: no men a copy of that. I'm just I just
Speaker 1: like to look it over. You're not going to go
Speaker 1: back on Monday hunting. One of them is do not
Speaker 1: touch or physically do anything without a clear vote verbal yes, now,
Speaker 1: even if the person is sexual in your vicinity. So
Speaker 1: what made me think about that? Um? Actually, my friends
Speaker 1: said it something to me. They're like, you're always touching
Speaker 1: up on girls, like and being party with them, and
Speaker 1: they're like, you have to make sure you don't do
Speaker 1: that tonight. And I was like, you know what, I think,
Speaker 1: I just assume everything is girls like girls all the time,
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's not right. And at this party, like
Speaker 1: if they're looking and you'd be like hey, and I
Speaker 1: want to make sure like I'm following the rules, but yeah,
Speaker 1: there's a coach check for all your stuff. So I
Speaker 1: brought my whole years and they actually also um advertised
Speaker 1: for protected sex there. So um again, for you listeners
Speaker 1: who keep wanting us to talk about std S, t
Speaker 1: i S and all of this stuff, I just think
Speaker 1: that it's important, um for you to know your status
Speaker 1: and know your partners status if you're gonna have unprotected sex,
Speaker 1: because there's nothing if you're making if you're letting a
Speaker 1: negafuck you wrong, there's really nothing that's gonna keep you
Speaker 1: from getting STDs aside from him hopefully being STD free.
Speaker 1: And if you don't know his status and you're not
Speaker 1: using condoms, you may as well just be playing Russian
Speaker 1: Roulette with your pussy. Um. And that's pretty much that,
Speaker 1: Like you're pretty much taking a gamble and a chance,
Speaker 1: and a lot of y'all don't trust the niggas y'all
Speaker 1: sucking anyway because clearly you think they're all cheaters, or
Speaker 1: you're having casual sex with someone who's sleeping with other women,
Speaker 1: so it's just all clean pussy. It's just something that
Speaker 1: you guys definitely need to talk about with your partners
Speaker 1: and be responsible for what. I'm gonna try to, um go,
Speaker 1: I go to plan parenthood because I like to put
Speaker 1: money back into um you know you already know, especially
Speaker 1: since Trump has taken all the money out of it. No,
Speaker 1: that's I mean, I don't even want to go to
Speaker 1: a regular guy know anymore. I had when I was
Speaker 1: going to introduced panty tube, but like now I'm just
Speaker 1: making sure it's only plant parents to put that money back.
Speaker 1: A long story short. They get free condoms. I'm going
Speaker 1: to try to give some out of our lives. They
Speaker 1: give NYC condoms, no one uses no plant parenthood gives
Speaker 1: some lifestyle. They give the somethings. I'm gonna try to
Speaker 1: ask them for some for our lives show if you
Speaker 1: guys come. We also used to do, uh something we
Speaker 1: don't do anymore, which is say something nice. And it's
Speaker 1: really because me and maybe fight so much on nothing
Speaker 1: to say, but I want to say something nice because
Speaker 1: your mom is here. I am so proud. I don't
Speaker 1: even know if like as a friend or how I feel.
Speaker 1: But like even when we weren't talking of Mandy, I
Speaker 1: just can't believe, Like you know, she's accomplished a lot.
Speaker 1: You don't believe what you've just accomplished so much, Like
Speaker 1: there were you know, days on the phone where we
Speaker 1: would talk and you wouldn't have ship or you were
Speaker 1: going through ship and you were done and you want
Speaker 1: the bartend and you I gotta get flown out and
Speaker 1: get paid them up. And it's like you could take
Speaker 1: care of yourself. And I think it's amazing. And I
Speaker 1: mean especially with three kids my mom. You know, I
Speaker 1: had my father and I was the only child. But
Speaker 1: like I mean still, I mean, all three girls have
Speaker 1: really like they've reached their dreams. I appreciate all of
Speaker 1: their uh um an individual I know I've got I've
Speaker 1: got two of them that are just like out there
Speaker 1: and just feeling themselves and understanding and learning their was
Speaker 1: doing thing. Alex is a virgin. She's not. She's not.
Speaker 1: She's not. I don't face that. She doesn't want to.
Speaker 1: She don't want to know that my younger sister has
Speaker 1: had sex. Well, we'll sit um and then something nice
Speaker 1: that I want to say about you. Um, I actually
Speaker 1: want to sit here and say, this is something that's
Speaker 1: new for Wheezy, for a lot of people that that
Speaker 1: follow me. Now, I've I've done the website, I've done
Speaker 1: like all these entrepreneurs things, and this is something that
Speaker 1: you just kind of hopped in and you've kind of
Speaker 1: learned you you're glass being here and and it's something
Speaker 1: to where although we fight and banterer on a lot
Speaker 1: of different things, I feel like you're really just taking
Speaker 1: the brand and knowing that this is you and you
Speaker 1: really pushing to see it grow. I'm not gonna lie
Speaker 1: to you guys. Like when we first started this show,
Speaker 1: Wheezy's first thing was like, Mitch, we're gonna do this show,
Speaker 1: but listen, I got a job and literally two weeks
Speaker 1: ago we hopped on the phone and she was like,
Speaker 1: I can't wait till we're making enough money for me
Speaker 1: to quit my job. So inspired, UM, I would love
Speaker 1: you guys to give some feedback on this. I didn't
Speaker 1: expect to talk about this, but I'm really curious. So
Speaker 1: sitting with James, I'm sure you guys loved his episode.
Speaker 1: He was amazing. James was like, dude, you can make
Speaker 1: money on this, and I'm like, I don't know. Like
Speaker 1: ads they come, they go, even brilliant Idiots Who is
Speaker 1: my favorite podcast? Sometimes they don't have how you know
Speaker 1: they have hundreds of thousands of people. There's a podcast
Speaker 1: called Chapo Trap House that James listens to. He pays
Speaker 1: five dollars a month for their premium feature. So the
Speaker 1: podcast gives if I'm wrong, I don't know, but one
Speaker 1: a week like we do, and then they give another
Speaker 1: two or three episodes a week to their listeners to
Speaker 1: have because they want more. Now I know what I'm
Speaker 1: done listening to my favorite podcast. I'm like, damn, I
Speaker 1: wish it was longer, which I hope you'll feel like
Speaker 1: that about us. And so Mandy and I are eventually
Speaker 1: going to try to completely eliminate looking for ads maybe
Speaker 1: and do this five dollar premium now Chappo trap House UM.
Speaker 1: So it's called Patreon UM. You can look and see
Speaker 1: how much people make. They make eighty five thousand dollars
Speaker 1: a month from eighteen thousand people a month. They have
Speaker 1: a hundred and fifty thousand listeners, so that means less
Speaker 1: than ten a little bit more than ten percent listeners
Speaker 1: pay files a month. James has been paying five dollars
Speaker 1: a month for a year now and loves it and
Speaker 1: it's worth it. I'm gonna tell you something, I would
Speaker 1: pay five dollars a month for a billion idiots. I
Speaker 1: would pay five dollars a month for I would, um,
Speaker 1: absolutely would. Those are two that I love to listen to.
Speaker 1: And so we're definitely thinking about giving you guys more
Speaker 1: content weekly and we're gonna we're gonna drive out five dollars.
Speaker 1: But you know, I mean these dudes, I think they
Speaker 1: were able to quit their jobs just to do this,
Speaker 1: but I mean eighty five thousand dollars a month. When
Speaker 1: I tell you, I saw that, that was the day
Speaker 1: I called us, I'm done, So we were done, were
Speaker 1: being ready to contribute to my four oh on case separately,
Speaker 1: if that could happen, if this content is that good, well,
Speaker 1: not only that, I tell you our listeners be like, bitch,
Speaker 1: I'll pay for the studio time next time. Why the
Speaker 1: fun y'all only have fifty minutes, So if you guys
Speaker 1: don't have to pay for the studio time, but this
Speaker 1: essentially will, and you won't say we're trying to be
Speaker 1: super stingy by like you know, like we can't afford
Speaker 1: another hour, but we just have to be smart about
Speaker 1: we are paying essentially right now to give you content.
Speaker 1: You know, we are doing this on our own. You know,
Speaker 1: our our studio is you know, producing, producing, and shot
Speaker 1: using the show so you guys can see that, and
Speaker 1: it's like I want us to be able to do
Speaker 1: it on our own, so please come and support UM.
Speaker 1: It's sponsored by Cast Sound Lab and it's going to
Speaker 1: be December first, the summer first. Come check us out. Guys,
Speaker 1: we live we all the way laugh. Oh my mom
Speaker 1: is gonna come and do our listener advice. Yeah, so
Speaker 1: we're gonna have UM. And also if you guys loved
Speaker 1: any of our previous guests, we're gonna have them in
Speaker 1: the building to MoMA if you want to come back
Speaker 1: with that, be great. And mall confirmed from the Joe
Speaker 1: Buddon podcast, so he's gonna be in the building X
Speaker 1: and next d UM and then we just got all
Speaker 1: of our past guests who live in there. You're not
Speaker 1: going to drink on stage, They're just gonna be. They're
Speaker 1: gonna be in the build fort but all we are
Speaker 1: getting hosted by Sam white Out. He's super excited, So
Speaker 1: check us out again. You guys can find the ticket
Speaker 1: links UM in our bios and I'm sure all over
Speaker 1: my Twitter page by now, so go ahead and check
Speaker 1: it out. Come see us to Sember first, New York City. UM,
Speaker 1: we're actually signing out, so you wanna say bye to
Speaker 1: the folks, Mammy, Bye bye, y'all who