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Speaker 1: you know what. And I'm gonna just say this because

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Speaker 1: Let's see if you know this song? Um, probably you should.

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Speaker 1: So we're gonna do this thing along. Are you ready? Okay? Whoa?

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Speaker 1: Sorry man? Sorry? So you know I have to play

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Speaker 1: to yet another episode. I'm your girl Mandy b And

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Speaker 1: and we got wheezy and we're just gonna call you um.

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Speaker 1: like the forcing the bitches to do it. They like

423
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:06,760
Speaker 1: talk ship to you while they do it, but they

424
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:09,119
Speaker 1: want you to throw up. Um. I don't know if

425
00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:11,639
Speaker 1: he had to throw up fetish, but I remember when

426
00:24:11,680 --> 00:24:13,359
Speaker 1: I woke up in the morning, almost in tears. I

427
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:15,920
Speaker 1: was like, I feel like I fucked a rapist, Like

428
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:18,840
Speaker 1: I honestly like you felt like you were a little

429
00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: too drunk for him to even still want to sleep

430
00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:22,560
Speaker 1: with him before. It's not like an ask for it.

431
00:24:22,640 --> 00:24:24,399
Speaker 1: It's not like I didn't want to, but like I

432
00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:28,960
Speaker 1: just was shocked and still right culture and to show

433
00:24:29,000 --> 00:24:31,280
Speaker 1: you as kings you didn't know about maybe he did

434
00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,440
Speaker 1: get turned on by you throwing. I never stopped him again.

435
00:24:33,440 --> 00:24:36,080
Speaker 1: I was terrified with him after that. I was terrified. So,

436
00:24:36,200 --> 00:24:41,359
Speaker 1: speaking of being terrified, my mom ter private Benjamin. You've

437
00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 1: seen that movie, right, Goldiehn. Yeah, the same thing happened

438
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,160
Speaker 1: to her. That's why she ended up going to the army.

439
00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:48,720
Speaker 1: It was on their wedding night. Oh, I don't even

440
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:52,480
Speaker 1: I'll talk about We'll talk about the story, remember that.

441
00:24:52,760 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: So anyways, um, so again, I guess today's horrible decision

442
00:24:56,600 --> 00:24:59,560
Speaker 1: is embarrassing ship, But in my mama's case, it's almost

443
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:05,960
Speaker 1: she caught a body. Almost friends, we're still friends. So

444
00:25:06,240 --> 00:25:11,440
Speaker 1: explain what happened and kind of the embarrassing moment during So,

445
00:25:11,560 --> 00:25:13,880
Speaker 1: I knew the guy for a few months and then

446
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,280
Speaker 1: we went out to dinners and stuff like that and chilling,

447
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: and you know, I got through different phases and it

448
00:25:18,840 --> 00:25:20,560
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna try a guy that's a little

449
00:25:20,600 --> 00:25:24,720
Speaker 1: older than me. How old was he he was? I

450
00:25:24,880 --> 00:25:29,320
Speaker 1: was like, was a few years? Are you dining younger?

451
00:25:29,400 --> 00:25:32,600
Speaker 1: Guys are? Really? I'm usually it's my age or younger.

452
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: She's like older, but I'm like, okay, I need somebody.

453
00:25:35,880 --> 00:25:39,320
Speaker 1: It's a little more sor God, I'm just like, what else?

454
00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 1: What else you have to say? Actually he's about six

455
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 1: ft three, he's and he was built. However, he did

456
00:25:48,720 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: have a heart condition and a penis pump, so needless

457
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:57,000
Speaker 1: to say, I've never tried a penis pumps. Said, well,

458
00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,840
Speaker 1: let me see what this is about. So I what

459
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:05,720
Speaker 1: a two months. It's uh device that's implanted into the

460
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,840
Speaker 1: penis and it's almost like a like we're pump. Yeah,

461
00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,320
Speaker 1: the in the balls they have the little squeezer and

462
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,359
Speaker 1: you squeeze it and it pumps it up and then

463
00:26:15,400 --> 00:26:17,480
Speaker 1: when you want to release it, you just put squeezer

464
00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:20,159
Speaker 1: and hold it down. So I'm sorry, I thought you

465
00:26:20,200 --> 00:26:22,040
Speaker 1: were going to talk about like what strippers do, like

466
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:24,159
Speaker 1: that glass thing they put over there. No, this is

467
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 1: like a true penis pump. It's like ja, it's internal,

468
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:31,480
Speaker 1: it's inside the penis. He's really old. No, he wasn't

469
00:26:31,520 --> 00:26:33,639
Speaker 1: really old. No, he had a heart condition because I

470
00:26:33,720 --> 00:26:36,399
Speaker 1: got a pacemaker, my mom. That's what I'm saying. I

471
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:39,640
Speaker 1: find out all this stuff like, well, I have never

472
00:26:39,720 --> 00:26:41,800
Speaker 1: heard of this penis, So I want to know you

473
00:26:41,840 --> 00:26:43,440
Speaker 1: to google the penis so I want you to see

474
00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,000
Speaker 1: what a penis pump does because I want you to go.

475
00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:49,760
Speaker 1: So it lasts the balls, right, it's it's got the

476
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,480
Speaker 1: pumper in there. And then did you watch him do

477
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: it or did you do it? I've seen it, I've

478
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,320
Speaker 1: didn't watch him, so anyway, so then we were we

479
00:26:59,440 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: had entered into the intercourse and I'm like, okay, let

480
00:27:02,320 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 1: me try to first time for everything you can say.

481
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:12,240
Speaker 1: We started sucking. We've entered into the ill. He started

482
00:27:12,280 --> 00:27:19,920
Speaker 1: to the floor in front of me and making me squirt. Okay.

483
00:27:20,240 --> 00:27:22,720
Speaker 1: All of a sudden he kicks back and I'm like,

484
00:27:22,840 --> 00:27:26,440
Speaker 1: what the fuck? And his pacemaker went off. What do

485
00:27:26,480 --> 00:27:28,760
Speaker 1: you mean it went off? It shocked him. He had

486
00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,080
Speaker 1: a pacemaker the food later, and it shocked him while

487
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: he was oh my god, look who's clothing. Speaking of pacemakers, mom,

488
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:40,359
Speaker 1: we're on air with Mandy's mom and she's telling us

489
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:42,440
Speaker 1: about the man she funk that at a pacemaker that

490
00:27:42,520 --> 00:27:50,200
Speaker 1: had a heart. It's act real, smile with the paramedics,

491
00:27:51,240 --> 00:27:54,280
Speaker 1: all right, love you buy. So it shocked like three

492
00:27:54,320 --> 00:27:57,200
Speaker 1: more times, and I'm like, what am I supposed to

493
00:27:57,280 --> 00:27:59,800
Speaker 1: do because we're both buttass naked. So he and he's

494
00:28:00,040 --> 00:28:04,120
Speaker 1: call so one gets there and they're like, what's your

495
00:28:04,840 --> 00:28:06,280
Speaker 1: I call him, They're like, what's the address. I'm like,

496
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: I don't fucking know. How do I know the address?

497
00:28:09,680 --> 00:28:11,280
Speaker 1: So I have to find a piece of mail and

498
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:14,040
Speaker 1: I'm like read the address off and they're like, what's

499
00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,719
Speaker 1: his Uh yeah, that's the full name right there there.

500
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:21,600
Speaker 1: You listen. I don't remember ship like that when I've

501
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:25,920
Speaker 1: just been shots with the defibrillator in my pussy. I mean, okay,

502
00:28:27,160 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 1: So I just keep going. So they show up all

503
00:28:29,560 --> 00:28:31,400
Speaker 1: of a sudden, they're like, so what were you doing

504
00:28:31,520 --> 00:28:33,359
Speaker 1: prior to this? And I just looked and I was

505
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 1: waiting on him to redress him, put his shorts on

506
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:40,840
Speaker 1: and make him presentable. And then when they got there,

507
00:28:40,840 --> 00:28:42,560
Speaker 1: they gave him like a shot in the arm of

508
00:28:42,680 --> 00:28:47,200
Speaker 1: like uh whatever to stop the because his heart rate

509
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,520
Speaker 1: was like a d. So then they get ready to

510
00:28:50,600 --> 00:28:54,960
Speaker 1: take him downstairs and he's get the get the wheed. Yeah,

511
00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,400
Speaker 1: He's like, take the weed and put it in the car.

512
00:28:58,160 --> 00:29:01,880
Speaker 1: I'm like, dude, So then they put him in the ambulance.

513
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:06,040
Speaker 1: Did you tell them what y'all were doing? I didn't

514
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:11,560
Speaker 1: say a ship. I said nothing. So when he said nothing,

515
00:29:11,680 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: you just think he responded with like watching TV, and

516
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:16,840
Speaker 1: they both kind of looked at us, like all the

517
00:29:16,920 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 1: whole group of them, because they literally had him hooked

518
00:29:19,440 --> 00:29:22,760
Speaker 1: up to the machine like ready to shock him. They

519
00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,640
Speaker 1: shocked him twice and it was terrible. It was terrible.

520
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:28,840
Speaker 1: So then we get to the hospital and he's a

521
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: little narcissistic. So once he gets in there, not only

522
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:33,600
Speaker 1: have you almost died, now you want to start talking ship.

523
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:36,240
Speaker 1: So they give him a shot at doon to shut

524
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:39,240
Speaker 1: him up. It's like an anti psychotics. So then they

525
00:29:39,280 --> 00:29:40,720
Speaker 1: give him not to shut him up because he's just

526
00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:44,479
Speaker 1: like I want this, I'm shut the funk up, lucky

527
00:29:44,680 --> 00:29:49,640
Speaker 1: or a lie asked right there in the house and

528
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:51,920
Speaker 1: not called No, why is it safe to say that

529
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: your pussy is deadly? You got that listen, I don't

530
00:29:58,400 --> 00:30:03,200
Speaker 1: know how I would fill with like a heart attack

531
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:06,240
Speaker 1: during sex. The must to say anytime after that, we

532
00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,520
Speaker 1: like hung out because we stayed friends. I mean that's

533
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: kind of something you know, every want to sleep with

534
00:30:10,560 --> 00:30:15,880
Speaker 1: them again. You said no, no, but no we did

535
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:20,920
Speaker 1: lunches and drives. But no, that's what I let him

536
00:30:20,960 --> 00:30:31,720
Speaker 1: do it. But they had to watch the TV and

537
00:30:31,840 --> 00:30:35,360
Speaker 1: being Mary Jane you watch Being Mary Jane Union, Oh

538
00:30:35,480 --> 00:30:37,280
Speaker 1: I love it. There was a guy that had a

539
00:30:37,360 --> 00:30:40,560
Speaker 1: seizure right after sex, and that's scary. You know, the

540
00:30:40,640 --> 00:30:42,280
Speaker 1: best show in the world is Sex Sent Me to

541
00:30:42,360 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: the e Er. Oh no, it's terrible. So there's so

542
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: there's a show like people with different fetishes and stuff too,

543
00:30:51,240 --> 00:30:54,640
Speaker 1: like vampires and all these different they like freaking get

544
00:30:54,680 --> 00:30:56,960
Speaker 1: their dick stuck in stuff and the females get there

545
00:30:57,200 --> 00:30:59,600
Speaker 1: and they have to go to I was like, I

546
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:03,160
Speaker 1: could have been on that show, but it's a really

547
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:11,360
Speaker 1: good shot and it's all I hate. Okay, So what

548
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: we're gonna do right now is we're gonna hop into homemail. UM. So,

549
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:19,200
Speaker 1: if you guys want to send us your homemail, you

550
00:31:19,280 --> 00:31:21,480
Speaker 1: guys can d d M it to us apparently because

551
00:31:21,520 --> 00:31:24,560
Speaker 1: y'all motherfucker's don't like emailing, or you can email us

552
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: UM at Horrible Decisions at gmail dot com. So this

553
00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:32,280
Speaker 1: one we're gonna get straight back straight into it. And

554
00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 1: I kind of picked this one because it kind of

555
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:36,840
Speaker 1: deals with into racial um. And then we have another

556
00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:41,160
Speaker 1: one and we're gonna get into fine leavaniltle ship I had. Okay,

557
00:31:41,600 --> 00:31:45,160
Speaker 1: So here's the letter. Hi, Mandy and Wheezy. I am

558
00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,760
Speaker 1: a thirties something straight woman, and I'm a professional dancer

559
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 1: and go go dancer. I think my job is pretty

560
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:53,160
Speaker 1: cool being that I dance alongside some of the biggest

561
00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 1: names and pop and hip hop in some of the

562
00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:59,000
Speaker 1: biggest nightclubs in my city. Now that things are slowing down,

563
00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:01,200
Speaker 1: I took a side aunts gig at a gay club.

564
00:32:02,360 --> 00:32:04,480
Speaker 1: The music is super fun, the tips are incredible, we

565
00:32:04,560 --> 00:32:06,480
Speaker 1: can drink for free, and because I'm in the gay

566
00:32:06,520 --> 00:32:08,320
Speaker 1: club I can really twork and sunk it up without

567
00:32:08,320 --> 00:32:12,080
Speaker 1: feeling some creep making me feel uncomfortable. Here's where we

568
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: get the good ship, y'all. So last night at work,

569
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 1: everything was pretty normal. As the only black woman there

570
00:32:19,320 --> 00:32:21,960
Speaker 1: and and the only woman with a big booty, my

571
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:25,520
Speaker 1: tips come only second to the seriously in shape celebrity

572
00:32:25,560 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 1: look like gays that dance their little booties off while

573
00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,680
Speaker 1: being tipped by this gay couple, two white men. Both

574
00:32:32,760 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: of them are basically making out with each other while

575
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: putting fifties in my thong. I pay it no mind

576
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,560
Speaker 1: because it's pretty normal to me. Lots of gay couples

577
00:32:40,840 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: club together here. But after I get down from my set,

578
00:32:44,760 --> 00:32:48,560
Speaker 1: they practically they practically chased me down to introduce themselves

579
00:32:48,600 --> 00:32:50,920
Speaker 1: to me, which led them to telling me how beautiful

580
00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:53,640
Speaker 1: they thought I was and how they're jealous of my curves.

581
00:32:54,200 --> 00:32:57,080
Speaker 1: One then asked if they could play out a fantasy

582
00:32:57,200 --> 00:32:59,920
Speaker 1: with me. They want to have a threesome with a

583
00:33:00,120 --> 00:33:02,959
Speaker 1: black woman with a big ass, and they would love

584
00:33:03,040 --> 00:33:05,800
Speaker 1: to pay me for the experience. The whole side of

585
00:33:05,880 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: me is like being much, how much? But the other

586
00:33:09,880 --> 00:33:12,560
Speaker 1: side of me feels weird about these white men wanting

587
00:33:12,680 --> 00:33:16,920
Speaker 1: my black ass. Literally, they say neither of neither one

588
00:33:17,000 --> 00:33:19,320
Speaker 1: of them have ever been with a woman, but if

589
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:22,400
Speaker 1: they were, they both want a black woman. What would

590
00:33:22,400 --> 00:33:24,360
Speaker 1: you do in this situation? Or has this ever been

591
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,320
Speaker 1: presented to you? And what did you do? Signed? Not

592
00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:32,480
Speaker 1: strapped for cash, but that that well, I want to

593
00:33:32,560 --> 00:33:34,920
Speaker 1: have a three two gay dude. So I'm the wrong

594
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: one time, me too, But I think the problem is

595
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:39,760
Speaker 1: not that they're two gay guys. It's the fact that

596
00:33:39,880 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: she feels like she's being fetishized because she's a black woman.

597
00:33:43,360 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: They keep emphasizing that they want to do this because

598
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,240
Speaker 1: she's a black Woman's gonna sound kind of cold, but

599
00:33:49,480 --> 00:33:52,040
Speaker 1: being um a sec and well, I mean a sex worker, right,

600
00:33:52,080 --> 00:33:54,280
Speaker 1: It's like a stripper stripping is a sex worker. I

601
00:33:54,280 --> 00:33:58,960
Speaker 1: think we'll go go dancing, isn't go dancing for money

602
00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:01,760
Speaker 1: or whatever? Like, you have to understand that you are

603
00:34:01,840 --> 00:34:05,160
Speaker 1: already being criticized, right, I mean you're telling me that,

604
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:08,560
Speaker 1: like certain men aren't choosing lap dances, are choosing to

605
00:34:08,680 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 1: dance with you because you're black. Like you gotta be

606
00:34:10,680 --> 00:34:12,040
Speaker 1: a fool. I know. I know that men go on

607
00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:14,719
Speaker 1: dates with me because they think I'm exotic, I've never

608
00:34:14,760 --> 00:34:16,600
Speaker 1: been with this kind of girl, or you have tattoos,

609
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:19,239
Speaker 1: like we all understand that. So I mean, if you're

610
00:34:19,320 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 1: already doing that for money and a part of you

611
00:34:21,600 --> 00:34:24,160
Speaker 1: would get turned on by this, then I kind of would.

612
00:34:24,640 --> 00:34:26,880
Speaker 1: I mean, I think it's interesting. However, I told you

613
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:29,800
Speaker 1: about Um, I don't remember what episode this was, but

614
00:34:30,120 --> 00:34:33,040
Speaker 1: the white guy who came to me and pretty much

615
00:34:33,080 --> 00:34:36,759
Speaker 1: wanted me to talk about how much I love black

616
00:34:36,800 --> 00:34:39,839
Speaker 1: dick over his white dick and to kind of make

617
00:34:39,960 --> 00:34:44,080
Speaker 1: him feel, you know, and humiliate him for being a

618
00:34:44,200 --> 00:34:46,800
Speaker 1: white man and me being this black woman sucking his

619
00:34:47,239 --> 00:34:49,640
Speaker 1: you know, And he just made it so racial to

620
00:34:49,760 --> 00:34:52,440
Speaker 1: me that it made me feel uncomfortable. I I think

621
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:55,600
Speaker 1: I'm also another thing too, Like if you're considering doing it,

622
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,360
Speaker 1: just set boundaries. Be like, I don't like, I'm not

623
00:34:58,400 --> 00:35:01,200
Speaker 1: into race play, like Vinean talks a lot about So

624
00:35:01,239 --> 00:35:02,480
Speaker 1: it's one of my gay friends. You've put him on.

625
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,840
Speaker 1: He's on grinder and he says that a lot of

626
00:35:04,920 --> 00:35:07,080
Speaker 1: dudes write him and say BBC and he hates using

627
00:35:07,160 --> 00:35:08,560
Speaker 1: that word. And he's like, I hate what he's like

628
00:35:08,560 --> 00:35:10,560
Speaker 1: when I say BABYC, you hate him be saying there

629
00:35:11,360 --> 00:35:16,399
Speaker 1: I did only and I like it black and big.

630
00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:19,399
Speaker 1: I mean, it's only because I think in my mind

631
00:35:19,480 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: he made me feel bad about He was like, you

632
00:35:20,800 --> 00:35:22,799
Speaker 1: don't know how often like when you sleep with someone

633
00:35:22,880 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 1: else from another race, like and you're a black man,

634
00:35:25,000 --> 00:35:26,239
Speaker 1: Like that's all we're talking about one of your big

635
00:35:26,280 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: black cock. Like it's annoying. He said, don't races have

636
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: different sizes? Know what I'm saying, have bish? We know there,

637
00:35:35,160 --> 00:35:39,120
Speaker 1: we already know. Now, I don't care. I don't know. Okay,

638
00:35:39,160 --> 00:35:42,880
Speaker 1: this sidetrack, like do you ever say that? Yeah, because

639
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:46,280
Speaker 1: when I watch a lot of interracial porn, the white

640
00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:50,239
Speaker 1: women either say, oh my god, your black dick is

641
00:35:50,360 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: so or your clock. Sorry you say cock, mom, I

642
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:56,640
Speaker 1: do say big black cocks sometimes put that big black cock. Yeah,

643
00:35:57,160 --> 00:36:03,319
Speaker 1: I don't, and so do they And do they ever

644
00:36:03,480 --> 00:36:08,880
Speaker 1: talk about honestly, does he he ever talked about you

645
00:36:09,200 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: your white ass or your pink nipples or dogs lips

646
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,719
Speaker 1: swelling of the lips when you eat it? Right, I've

647
00:36:21,800 --> 00:36:24,520
Speaker 1: never heard of hot dog pussy and we are too young.

648
00:36:26,640 --> 00:36:30,000
Speaker 1: So so you don't have a problem with um race

649
00:36:30,120 --> 00:36:32,080
Speaker 1: being mentioned in the bedroom, like it's something that doesn't

650
00:36:32,120 --> 00:36:35,760
Speaker 1: bother you, and what about you? It's kind of hot sometimes,

651
00:36:36,760 --> 00:36:39,080
Speaker 1: so it's like you can turn around and talk ship

652
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 1: to be like you think that big black cock is good?

653
00:36:41,719 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: Hell no, you know, excuse me. You can take it anyway, okay. So,

654
00:36:47,840 --> 00:36:51,560
Speaker 1: so mentioning that it's black, or even in her case,

655
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: them saying that I want you because you're a black woman,

656
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: maybe you feel like she shouldn't take that as a fetishism.

657
00:36:58,760 --> 00:37:00,960
Speaker 1: It is a fetish but like, are you okay with it?

658
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:03,000
Speaker 1: But where both of them come from? Where are they

659
00:37:03,040 --> 00:37:05,480
Speaker 1: coming from with that? Is it? I mean, they ever

660
00:37:05,560 --> 00:37:08,400
Speaker 1: been with a woman period, that's what she said, that

661
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:12,759
Speaker 1: they haven't been with a woman. But then it's a

662
00:37:12,840 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: fantasy for them. I guess they both want to a

663
00:37:14,960 --> 00:37:18,960
Speaker 1: black woman. I mean, I don't be honest. I like,

664
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: it's already a fantasy in itself. Like they're gay, they

665
00:37:22,360 --> 00:37:24,080
Speaker 1: want to fuck you. They want to because you got

666
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:25,800
Speaker 1: a big gas the race play to me, like, I

667
00:37:25,920 --> 00:37:28,560
Speaker 1: get it. If you can't do without feeling just stereotyping,

668
00:37:28,719 --> 00:37:31,439
Speaker 1: maybe it's just stereotyping that turns them on in a sense,

669
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:33,279
Speaker 1: because yeah, it's a big gass, right, you know what

670
00:37:33,320 --> 00:37:35,560
Speaker 1: I mean. I don't want to be like, hey, I

671
00:37:35,640 --> 00:37:38,320
Speaker 1: want to suck you with your with your flat white ass.

672
00:37:40,400 --> 00:37:45,640
Speaker 1: You know, if you're going to feel sexy about getting

673
00:37:45,640 --> 00:37:48,160
Speaker 1: paid for it and about like letting get to these

674
00:37:48,160 --> 00:37:50,600
Speaker 1: two gay guys explore you, then do it, but don't

675
00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:54,000
Speaker 1: resent it. But if you absolutely don't want them mentioning

676
00:37:54,040 --> 00:37:56,200
Speaker 1: you being black during sex, just say that's your boundary.

677
00:37:56,719 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: I agree. I had to tell you a guy to

678
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:01,840
Speaker 1: stop saying it. So it was. It was the second

679
00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:03,440
Speaker 1: we had sex. The first time he said like this

680
00:38:03,640 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: whole like, I don't know what I said if I

681
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:08,080
Speaker 1: used the word dick instead of cock, and he was

682
00:38:08,120 --> 00:38:12,320
Speaker 1: like to Murray Hill, I'm serious, it's super white neighborhood

683
00:38:12,760 --> 00:38:15,040
Speaker 1: and yeah. Then he was like, oh yeah, you're just

684
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: like a tough ass black bitch, aren't you. And I

685
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:20,080
Speaker 1: just kind of let it go. And then the next

686
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,880
Speaker 1: time he said it again and I said, you know what, Brian,

687
00:38:23,120 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: it's just it's just too much. It's something about this.

688
00:38:26,320 --> 00:38:28,480
Speaker 1: It's not comfortable for me, you know what I mean.

689
00:38:28,560 --> 00:38:31,520
Speaker 1: You already think all lives matter, and I just this

690
00:38:31,719 --> 00:38:34,480
Speaker 1: is too this is too much. And he told me,

691
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:36,319
Speaker 1: like I thought you were into it, Like I thought

692
00:38:36,360 --> 00:38:38,480
Speaker 1: that was the reason you were walking with me. So

693
00:38:38,840 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: I guess it can kind of go both ways. It can,

694
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:43,920
Speaker 1: but if it makes you uncomfortable, absolutely set the President

695
00:38:44,239 --> 00:38:47,120
Speaker 1: and I have UM one more and with this one,

696
00:38:47,160 --> 00:38:50,240
Speaker 1: the soule go ahead and wrap up the show for us. Guys.

697
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:54,120
Speaker 1: Well it's a good note. This is actually intertwined in

698
00:38:54,200 --> 00:38:57,600
Speaker 1: Valil Ship. I specifically chose this letter specifically because of

699
00:38:57,600 --> 00:38:59,759
Speaker 1: the Vanilla Ship. By the way, guys, if you don't

700
00:38:59,760 --> 00:39:01,680
Speaker 1: know if and nella ship is we um On our

701
00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:03,319
Speaker 1: first show we did it. We wanted to have certain

702
00:39:03,560 --> 00:39:05,640
Speaker 1: um like segments and Vanilla shi it was supposed to

703
00:39:05,680 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: be our news segment that was sex. But we talked

704
00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: we never get we never get to it. Um. So

705
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: this one says, girls, let me start with praise. I

706
00:39:15,120 --> 00:39:17,320
Speaker 1: really enjoy your podcast, didn't miss an episode, and I

707
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:20,319
Speaker 1: spread the word about it about the last episode. She's

708
00:39:20,320 --> 00:39:23,440
Speaker 1: actually referring to the episode with lethal lips, when your

709
00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:26,080
Speaker 1: guests started to talk about creepies and how people important

710
00:39:26,120 --> 00:39:29,040
Speaker 1: industry protect themselves from STDs. I was ready to hear

711
00:39:29,080 --> 00:39:31,319
Speaker 1: all about it, but then Mandy cut her off. Can

712
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:34,359
Speaker 1: you please revisit it? I had a guy who wanted

713
00:39:34,400 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 1: to fund me raw claiming that you have the highest

714
00:39:37,000 --> 00:39:40,560
Speaker 1: chance contracting STDs when a guy comes inside of you.

715
00:39:41,040 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 1: I was trying to find scientific papers about it, but

716
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:46,680
Speaker 1: with little success. I understand there are s t I

717
00:39:46,760 --> 00:39:48,840
Speaker 1: s that you can contact my skin to skin contact,

718
00:39:49,080 --> 00:39:51,319
Speaker 1: but let's face it, one can live with her p's,

719
00:39:51,600 --> 00:39:54,400
Speaker 1: but HIV or HEP is a different thing. I have

720
00:39:54,800 --> 00:39:57,800
Speaker 1: good hotation of guys and I don't know what is

721
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:00,960
Speaker 1: wrong with my pussy, But it just pulls out the condoms.

722
00:40:01,200 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 1: It pulls the condoms off the dicks. The first time

723
00:40:04,040 --> 00:40:08,160
Speaker 1: it happened, I thought the guy got soft. The first

724
00:40:08,200 --> 00:40:10,239
Speaker 1: time it happened, I thought the guy got soft. But no,

725
00:40:10,680 --> 00:40:13,560
Speaker 1: they are hardest buck and deal with, and I deal

726
00:40:13,640 --> 00:40:17,000
Speaker 1: with well endowed guys, so it's not the condom size. Anyways,

727
00:40:17,239 --> 00:40:20,279
Speaker 1: you can see why I'm being curious about the STDs. UM,

728
00:40:20,520 --> 00:40:24,759
Speaker 1: I wanted to actually start this off real quick and

729
00:40:24,800 --> 00:40:27,680
Speaker 1: a little spiel for our listeners. Um, I feel like

730
00:40:27,760 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: she wanted that advice specifically coming from a porn star,

731
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:35,960
Speaker 1: as though lethal Lips was unhuman. I want to let

732
00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:40,560
Speaker 1: you guys know that if you're having unprotected sex with someone,

733
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:44,719
Speaker 1: if you're having sex with anyone, the only way that

734
00:40:44,920 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 1: you can keep from getting an STD is a knowing

735
00:40:49,000 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: the the um, the status of your partner, or be

736
00:40:54,040 --> 00:40:57,200
Speaker 1: being absinent. There are still STDs that you can get

737
00:40:57,239 --> 00:41:01,440
Speaker 1: from condoms. Know if Mandy told you she reached out

738
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:03,480
Speaker 1: to this girl who did a TED talks about having herpes,

739
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,359
Speaker 1: who never had unprotected sex in her life and had

740
00:41:07,600 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 1: absolutely because well, right, so that skin the skin. So

741
00:41:11,320 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: when she's sitting here saying, you know, you know that

742
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:17,400
Speaker 1: this guy um is, you know, I want him to

743
00:41:17,440 --> 00:41:19,000
Speaker 1: come into me, but how can I stay clear of

744
00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:21,520
Speaker 1: getting STD? It's like you're you're not going to get

745
00:41:21,560 --> 00:41:23,440
Speaker 1: this advice for a porgn star. You can get this

746
00:41:23,520 --> 00:41:27,200
Speaker 1: advice from anyone. And the simple fact of the matter

747
00:41:27,280 --> 00:41:29,000
Speaker 1: is you need to know the status of who you're fucking.

748
00:41:29,280 --> 00:41:31,720
Speaker 1: You also need to get tested every three months because

749
00:41:31,760 --> 00:41:35,160
Speaker 1: there's like this little period of time where even a test, Yeah,

750
00:41:35,200 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 1: there's incubation, incubation time frames and ship where's the what's

751
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:40,520
Speaker 1: what did you have to do with the vanilla ship?

752
00:41:40,600 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 1: But something will show up within a few weeks. But

753
00:41:43,040 --> 00:41:44,960
Speaker 1: if you don't do the full check, because like, lamdia

754
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:47,920
Speaker 1: is something that's rampant in the United States right now,

755
00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:50,400
Speaker 1: which damn don't be talking about what I'm about to

756
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:55,080
Speaker 1: talk about. So this actually leads us to the Vanilla ship.

757
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,960
Speaker 1: And I wanted to let um to read this for

758
00:41:57,040 --> 00:42:00,080
Speaker 1: you guys. Two thousand sixteen was the year of gonna Is,

759
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:04,480
Speaker 1: syphilis and chlamydia. Over two million cases were reported by

760
00:42:04,600 --> 00:42:07,720
Speaker 1: the CDC. This is a record high. Guys. The CDC

761
00:42:07,920 --> 00:42:15,160
Speaker 1: is sexually the CDCs sexually transmitted reports. So the CDCs

762
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:18,440
Speaker 1: sexually transmitted report demonstrates that more than eight of the

763
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:22,200
Speaker 1: cases reported, we're chlamydia four hundred and seventy thousand. We're

764
00:42:22,239 --> 00:42:26,280
Speaker 1: gonna rha with syphilis only having twenty eight thousand cases.

765
00:42:26,840 --> 00:42:29,640
Speaker 1: Um dr Gail Bowland, director of CDC's Division of s

766
00:42:29,719 --> 00:42:33,000
Speaker 1: CD stated, clearly, we need to reverse this disturbing trend.

767
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 1: The CDC cannot do this alone, and we need every

768
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:38,560
Speaker 1: community in America to be aware that the risk is

769
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:41,640
Speaker 1: out there and help educate that their citizens and how

770
00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:44,560
Speaker 1: to avoid it. There's also a note that these are

771
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:47,479
Speaker 1: only reported cases, guys. So there's a lot of people

772
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 1: that go untreated, don't go to the doctor. And as

773
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:53,279
Speaker 1: long as you have ten daddies being checked about, are

774
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,000
Speaker 1: more on more a thing? Are you the father? No?

775
00:42:56,200 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 1: Ship You're basically saying that this isn't okay, and this

776
00:42:59,400 --> 00:43:01,880
Speaker 1: is a normal behavior. You know, a lot of people

777
00:43:02,080 --> 00:43:04,279
Speaker 1: are not going to the doctor or not they feel

778
00:43:04,320 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 1: like it's scared. I'm saying, I'll tell you, m lever

779
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:10,640
Speaker 1: Way gets CBC's complete blood checkouts. But I went to

780
00:43:10,680 --> 00:43:12,520
Speaker 1: the doctor and is that what that's called? Is that

781
00:43:12,680 --> 00:43:14,759
Speaker 1: your world? That's what that's called. What's it called a

782
00:43:15,200 --> 00:43:20,320
Speaker 1: complete blod count? All right? I like that. I like

783
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:22,719
Speaker 1: that though, because we blood check out. Yeah, I mean,

784
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:25,160
Speaker 1: what is it really called? My CBC is a complete

785
00:43:25,400 --> 00:43:27,880
Speaker 1: blood count? But that normally just does your BBCs and

786
00:43:27,960 --> 00:43:33,279
Speaker 1: things like that. So unless you said again, slipped it in.

787
00:43:33,600 --> 00:43:37,080
Speaker 1: So so are you saying that you can't just say

788
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:39,200
Speaker 1: it's sex because, like I was telling you want to train,

789
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,200
Speaker 1: hepatitis C, which is a blood borne disease, and you

790
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:45,720
Speaker 1: probably won't get it sexually. It's more among the needle

791
00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:48,400
Speaker 1: needle users and things like that, unless you're doing anal

792
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:52,520
Speaker 1: sex and you have actually there's blood. Their blood is

793
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 1: going to come in contact with your blood, am or

794
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:58,959
Speaker 1: whatever let's say. But it stays alive outside the body

795
00:43:59,000 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 1: for four days. So so you're talking four days. So

796
00:44:03,160 --> 00:44:05,960
Speaker 1: when everything that you touch on that train, anytime you

797
00:44:06,080 --> 00:44:10,600
Speaker 1: have a sword in your hand, paranoid, No, no, but

798
00:44:10,719 --> 00:44:12,359
Speaker 1: you just have to be careful. As long as your

799
00:44:12,440 --> 00:44:15,200
Speaker 1: skin is intact, you're good. But you can catch if

800
00:44:15,280 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: you if you go to the wrong nail salon and

801
00:44:16,920 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 1: they're not cleaning their tools properly. You have to be

802
00:44:19,840 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: not gonna like the one I go to kind of

803
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: staff infection. The prices are really low and not all

804
00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,360
Speaker 1: of that. But but that's just like the tattoo artists.

805
00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:28,440
Speaker 1: If you go, you get what you pay for. In

806
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:32,920
Speaker 1: that sense, hepatitis B is sexually transmitted and then hepatitis

807
00:44:33,000 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 1: A is for food, A is for a is actually

808
00:44:36,080 --> 00:44:39,880
Speaker 1: or I'm trying to think of hepatitis A is you

809
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:43,440
Speaker 1: can say asshole because it's no, it's fecal. Well if

810
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:47,080
Speaker 1: you person's ass and they have fecal matter there yet

811
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:54,600
Speaker 1: because because it but the doctor so he gets CBCS right,

812
00:44:54,640 --> 00:44:57,280
Speaker 1: So I got checked recently. I told him my results

813
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:58,640
Speaker 1: are fine, and he's like, all right, well, then I

814
00:44:58,719 --> 00:45:02,640
Speaker 1: know I'm good. And I was just thinking to myself, like, nigga,

815
00:45:03,200 --> 00:45:05,840
Speaker 1: that's really how men thinks. I mean, just because you,

816
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:07,960
Speaker 1: you know, got your ship checked out to make sure

817
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:10,719
Speaker 1: you're fucking glucose or whatever. Dude, whatever she is, I

818
00:45:10,800 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 1: don't know, but you can't like it just blew my mind.

819
00:45:14,440 --> 00:45:17,239
Speaker 1: It's grown man, and I'm not shipping on them for it,

820
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,879
Speaker 1: but it's just really like, Okay, you're good. I'm good.

821
00:45:19,880 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: And I wanted to let you guys know that while

822
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:24,880
Speaker 1: going to the doctor is very scary, and we were

823
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:28,440
Speaker 1: also talking about this. So if you go um so

824
00:45:28,600 --> 00:45:31,240
Speaker 1: like clamidia, gonna read some of them don't have symptoms

825
00:45:31,560 --> 00:45:33,440
Speaker 1: and some people won't know that they have these things

826
00:45:33,480 --> 00:45:35,240
Speaker 1: and you're not gonna know unless you go to the doctor.

827
00:45:35,520 --> 00:45:37,840
Speaker 1: So I'm saying this to say, don't wait for symptoms,

828
00:45:38,200 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 1: but also what are some of the things that can

829
00:45:40,160 --> 00:45:43,839
Speaker 1: happen if chlamidia or gonna goes untreated for a certain

830
00:45:43,880 --> 00:45:48,120
Speaker 1: amount of it's really bad. I mean if the clamidia

831
00:45:48,120 --> 00:45:50,719
Speaker 1: and gotta reclad to public inflammatory disease called p I

832
00:45:50,840 --> 00:45:54,160
Speaker 1: D and all of it can lead to infertility. Untreated

833
00:45:54,200 --> 00:45:57,880
Speaker 1: cephilis can cause brain damage eventually. Yeah, it can actually

834
00:45:57,960 --> 00:46:04,759
Speaker 1: affect your brain. And it's similar to the end, right, yeah,

835
00:46:05,040 --> 00:46:07,880
Speaker 1: so and and everything is causing internal damage. I mean,

836
00:46:07,920 --> 00:46:10,200
Speaker 1: like the hepatitis is your liber will be gone, you

837
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: know it just you'll end up with cirrhosis, you'll be

838
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,520
Speaker 1: yellow and I mean sometimes you see the people with

839
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: a lot of yellowing in their eyes could have some

840
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:22,000
Speaker 1: liver damage from getting fucked. And what's and what's crazy

841
00:46:22,080 --> 00:46:24,920
Speaker 1: is and what's crazy is we talked about oh my god, herpies,

842
00:46:24,960 --> 00:46:27,960
Speaker 1: Oh my god. But and everyone wants to play down

843
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:31,239
Speaker 1: the gunnery acclamity of syphilis because there's cure for it

844
00:46:31,640 --> 00:46:35,239
Speaker 1: and antibiotic But it's like if these little thing, you know,

845
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:37,600
Speaker 1: y'all want to refer to them as you know they're curable,

846
00:46:37,680 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: Syphilis is huge. Syphilis is huge. Syphilis will basically rob

847
00:46:40,719 --> 00:46:42,080
Speaker 1: your life from you because it's something you won't get

848
00:46:42,160 --> 00:46:45,359
Speaker 1: rid of. You'll always test positive where you go for life,

849
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:47,920
Speaker 1: It'll they'll know that you either were treated for syphilis

850
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:53,080
Speaker 1: or you have syphilis. Yes, oh wow, we now are

851
00:46:53,200 --> 00:46:56,040
Speaker 1: We are getting more in my field. We're seeing more

852
00:46:56,120 --> 00:46:59,160
Speaker 1: people that are testing positive with an RPR, which is

853
00:46:59,200 --> 00:47:01,600
Speaker 1: the test force of list. I'm the worst party tonight

854
00:47:01,640 --> 00:47:06,359
Speaker 1: and you're ruining it. I'm serious. I'm scared. I don't

855
00:47:06,400 --> 00:47:08,960
Speaker 1: want to kiss nobody. If people would just take more

856
00:47:09,000 --> 00:47:11,799
Speaker 1: responsibility for their freakiness, I mean, just if you're gonna

857
00:47:11,800 --> 00:47:14,239
Speaker 1: be freaking and do crazy ship, just be safe about it.

858
00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:16,680
Speaker 1: You know. It's funny because like I was saying to someone, so,

859
00:47:16,760 --> 00:47:18,879
Speaker 1: I'm going to this sex party. It's called Chemistry. It's

860
00:47:18,920 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: in Brooklyn. I got invited, um by the guy I

861
00:47:22,480 --> 00:47:24,040
Speaker 1: used to date, and he's like, look, my girlfriend's out

862
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: of town. I'm like, my man's out of town. He's like,

863
00:47:25,480 --> 00:47:26,800
Speaker 1: I just need to see other people fun. I'm like,

864
00:47:26,840 --> 00:47:29,480
Speaker 1: this is gonna be fun. So we're gonna go tonight.

865
00:47:29,800 --> 00:47:32,759
Speaker 1: Um very classy. Like Maxim magazine wrote about it, and

866
00:47:32,840 --> 00:47:34,160
Speaker 1: I wrote to him. I told him I was like,

867
00:47:34,160 --> 00:47:35,839
Speaker 1: I really don't want have sex with anyone, like it's

868
00:47:35,880 --> 00:47:38,600
Speaker 1: like me neither, I can't. And he said like, I'm

869
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: also really worried about diseases, and he goes. The crazy

870
00:47:40,960 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 1: thing is people that seem to be in this lifestyle

871
00:47:43,280 --> 00:47:48,120
Speaker 1: are almost more clean than anyone else. Feel like Craigslist,

872
00:47:48,200 --> 00:47:50,360
Speaker 1: all those ads that are there like it must be

873
00:47:50,440 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 1: d D free blah blah blah blah, because they are

874
00:47:53,600 --> 00:47:55,800
Speaker 1: and they get tested for them, and a lot of

875
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,560
Speaker 1: them are like no drugs, no drinking. We want this,

876
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:00,200
Speaker 1: you want. They want you to be so were in

877
00:48:00,239 --> 00:48:02,959
Speaker 1: the experience because they don't want you to turn around

878
00:48:02,960 --> 00:48:05,359
Speaker 1: and be like the hell did I just do when

879
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,440
Speaker 1: you sober up? Which is something in there. I sent

880
00:48:08,520 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: you the rules, send me the rules, and one of

881
00:48:10,440 --> 00:48:13,799
Speaker 1: it says that they don't want you to be completely inebriated.

882
00:48:14,440 --> 00:48:16,239
Speaker 1: They don't because you might turn around and be like, oh,

883
00:48:16,440 --> 00:48:19,800
Speaker 1: I didn't say right exactly. It's funny you said that

884
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:23,600
Speaker 1: the consent thing was huge, very huge, and sex with

885
00:48:23,960 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: the sex party thing. I'm trying to find it um

886
00:48:26,640 --> 00:48:28,759
Speaker 1: but basically, I mean it talked a lot about like

887
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,440
Speaker 1: even if it's a if it's a maybe, even if

888
00:48:31,440 --> 00:48:33,719
Speaker 1: you're going to think about it, still say no. Don't

889
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:36,880
Speaker 1: let anybody hold onto the idea. Another rule that this

890
00:48:36,920 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 1: ship had that I liked was if men are in

891
00:48:40,040 --> 00:48:43,239
Speaker 1: the play spaces or whatever, they have to be accompanied

892
00:48:43,239 --> 00:48:44,800
Speaker 1: by a woman. And if that woman that there was

893
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:47,520
Speaker 1: their date leaves, they've got to leave to like, there's

894
00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:50,400
Speaker 1: no men a copy of that. I'm just I just

895
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:57,120
Speaker 1: like to look it over. You're not going to go

896
00:48:57,239 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 1: back on Monday hunting. One of them is do not

897
00:49:01,400 --> 00:49:04,799
Speaker 1: touch or physically do anything without a clear vote verbal yes, now,

898
00:49:04,880 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 1: even if the person is sexual in your vicinity. So

899
00:49:07,400 --> 00:49:09,920
Speaker 1: what made me think about that? Um? Actually, my friends

900
00:49:10,239 --> 00:49:12,160
Speaker 1: said it something to me. They're like, you're always touching

901
00:49:12,239 --> 00:49:14,840
Speaker 1: up on girls, like and being party with them, and

902
00:49:14,880 --> 00:49:16,480
Speaker 1: they're like, you have to make sure you don't do

903
00:49:16,560 --> 00:49:18,359
Speaker 1: that tonight. And I was like, you know what, I think,

904
00:49:18,680 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 1: I just assume everything is girls like girls all the time,

905
00:49:22,160 --> 00:49:24,080
Speaker 1: and sometimes it's not right. And at this party, like

906
00:49:24,160 --> 00:49:25,880
Speaker 1: if they're looking and you'd be like hey, and I

907
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:28,560
Speaker 1: want to make sure like I'm following the rules, but yeah,

908
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:30,120
Speaker 1: there's a coach check for all your stuff. So I

909
00:49:30,160 --> 00:49:33,920
Speaker 1: brought my whole years and they actually also um advertised

910
00:49:33,960 --> 00:49:38,360
Speaker 1: for protected sex there. So um again, for you listeners

911
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,800
Speaker 1: who keep wanting us to talk about std S, t

912
00:49:40,960 --> 00:49:42,640
Speaker 1: i S and all of this stuff, I just think

913
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:45,440
Speaker 1: that it's important, um for you to know your status

914
00:49:45,800 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: and know your partners status if you're gonna have unprotected sex,

915
00:49:48,560 --> 00:49:51,120
Speaker 1: because there's nothing if you're making if you're letting a

916
00:49:51,200 --> 00:49:53,480
Speaker 1: negafuck you wrong, there's really nothing that's gonna keep you

917
00:49:53,480 --> 00:49:57,080
Speaker 1: from getting STDs aside from him hopefully being STD free.

918
00:49:57,480 --> 00:49:59,600
Speaker 1: And if you don't know his status and you're not

919
00:49:59,719 --> 00:50:02,000
Speaker 1: using condoms, you may as well just be playing Russian

920
00:50:02,040 --> 00:50:04,880
Speaker 1: Roulette with your pussy. Um. And that's pretty much that,

921
00:50:05,160 --> 00:50:07,919
Speaker 1: Like you're pretty much taking a gamble and a chance,

922
00:50:08,000 --> 00:50:10,279
Speaker 1: and a lot of y'all don't trust the niggas y'all

923
00:50:10,320 --> 00:50:13,040
Speaker 1: sucking anyway because clearly you think they're all cheaters, or

924
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,959
Speaker 1: you're having casual sex with someone who's sleeping with other women,

925
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 1: so it's just all clean pussy. It's just something that

926
00:50:19,480 --> 00:50:21,680
Speaker 1: you guys definitely need to talk about with your partners

927
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:26,800
Speaker 1: and be responsible for what. I'm gonna try to, um go,

928
00:50:27,160 --> 00:50:28,799
Speaker 1: I go to plan parenthood because I like to put

929
00:50:28,800 --> 00:50:32,040
Speaker 1: money back into um you know you already know, especially

930
00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,000
Speaker 1: since Trump has taken all the money out of it. No,

931
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:36,719
Speaker 1: that's I mean, I don't even want to go to

932
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,279
Speaker 1: a regular guy know anymore. I had when I was

933
00:50:38,320 --> 00:50:40,200
Speaker 1: going to introduced panty tube, but like now I'm just

934
00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: making sure it's only plant parents to put that money back.

935
00:50:42,760 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: A long story short. They get free condoms. I'm going

936
00:50:44,520 --> 00:50:45,799
Speaker 1: to try to give some out of our lives. They

937
00:50:45,800 --> 00:50:49,359
Speaker 1: give NYC condoms, no one uses no plant parenthood gives

938
00:50:49,400 --> 00:50:51,320
Speaker 1: some lifestyle. They give the somethings. I'm gonna try to

939
00:50:51,360 --> 00:50:53,120
Speaker 1: ask them for some for our lives show if you

940
00:50:53,160 --> 00:50:56,640
Speaker 1: guys come. We also used to do, uh something we

941
00:50:56,680 --> 00:50:58,400
Speaker 1: don't do anymore, which is say something nice. And it's

942
00:50:58,440 --> 00:51:00,319
Speaker 1: really because me and maybe fight so much on nothing

943
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,239
Speaker 1: to say, but I want to say something nice because

944
00:51:02,239 --> 00:51:07,000
Speaker 1: your mom is here. I am so proud. I don't

945
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,000
Speaker 1: even know if like as a friend or how I feel.

946
00:51:09,040 --> 00:51:10,960
Speaker 1: But like even when we weren't talking of Mandy, I

947
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:15,560
Speaker 1: just can't believe, Like you know, she's accomplished a lot.

948
00:51:15,719 --> 00:51:18,719
Speaker 1: You don't believe what you've just accomplished so much, Like

949
00:51:18,800 --> 00:51:20,640
Speaker 1: there were you know, days on the phone where we

950
00:51:20,680 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 1: would talk and you wouldn't have ship or you were

951
00:51:22,920 --> 00:51:25,040
Speaker 1: going through ship and you were done and you want

952
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: the bartend and you I gotta get flown out and

953
00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:28,520
Speaker 1: get paid them up. And it's like you could take

954
00:51:28,560 --> 00:51:30,640
Speaker 1: care of yourself. And I think it's amazing. And I

955
00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: mean especially with three kids my mom. You know, I

956
00:51:33,719 --> 00:51:36,200
Speaker 1: had my father and I was the only child. But

957
00:51:36,360 --> 00:51:39,400
Speaker 1: like I mean still, I mean, all three girls have

958
00:51:39,560 --> 00:51:43,920
Speaker 1: really like they've reached their dreams. I appreciate all of

959
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:51,319
Speaker 1: their uh um an individual I know I've got I've

960
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:53,480
Speaker 1: got two of them that are just like out there

961
00:51:53,640 --> 00:51:59,640
Speaker 1: and just feeling themselves and understanding and learning their was

962
00:51:59,719 --> 00:52:05,239
Speaker 1: doing thing. Alex is a virgin. She's not. She's not.

963
00:52:05,440 --> 00:52:07,640
Speaker 1: She's not. I don't face that. She doesn't want to.

964
00:52:07,760 --> 00:52:09,839
Speaker 1: She don't want to know that my younger sister has

965
00:52:09,880 --> 00:52:18,160
Speaker 1: had sex. Well, we'll sit um and then something nice

966
00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:21,280
Speaker 1: that I want to say about you. Um, I actually

967
00:52:21,360 --> 00:52:23,640
Speaker 1: want to sit here and say, this is something that's

968
00:52:23,680 --> 00:52:25,680
Speaker 1: new for Wheezy, for a lot of people that that

969
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,080
Speaker 1: follow me. Now, I've I've done the website, I've done

970
00:52:28,120 --> 00:52:30,800
Speaker 1: like all these entrepreneurs things, and this is something that

971
00:52:30,920 --> 00:52:32,680
Speaker 1: you just kind of hopped in and you've kind of

972
00:52:34,040 --> 00:52:37,879
Speaker 1: learned you you're glass being here and and it's something

973
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,480
Speaker 1: to where although we fight and banterer on a lot

974
00:52:40,520 --> 00:52:42,840
Speaker 1: of different things, I feel like you're really just taking

975
00:52:43,239 --> 00:52:45,080
Speaker 1: the brand and knowing that this is you and you

976
00:52:45,200 --> 00:52:47,279
Speaker 1: really pushing to see it grow. I'm not gonna lie

977
00:52:47,280 --> 00:52:49,000
Speaker 1: to you guys. Like when we first started this show,

978
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:52,000
Speaker 1: Wheezy's first thing was like, Mitch, we're gonna do this show,

979
00:52:52,040 --> 00:52:54,239
Speaker 1: but listen, I got a job and literally two weeks

980
00:52:54,280 --> 00:52:56,040
Speaker 1: ago we hopped on the phone and she was like,

981
00:52:56,360 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 1: I can't wait till we're making enough money for me

982
00:52:58,000 --> 00:53:02,920
Speaker 1: to quit my job. So inspired, UM, I would love

983
00:53:02,960 --> 00:53:04,439
Speaker 1: you guys to give some feedback on this. I didn't

984
00:53:04,480 --> 00:53:06,160
Speaker 1: expect to talk about this, but I'm really curious. So

985
00:53:06,520 --> 00:53:08,640
Speaker 1: sitting with James, I'm sure you guys loved his episode.

986
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:12,440
Speaker 1: He was amazing. James was like, dude, you can make

987
00:53:12,480 --> 00:53:14,279
Speaker 1: money on this, and I'm like, I don't know. Like

988
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,360
Speaker 1: ads they come, they go, even brilliant Idiots Who is

989
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:19,080
Speaker 1: my favorite podcast? Sometimes they don't have how you know

990
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,760
Speaker 1: they have hundreds of thousands of people. There's a podcast

991
00:53:21,840 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: called Chapo Trap House that James listens to. He pays

992
00:53:25,239 --> 00:53:27,360
Speaker 1: five dollars a month for their premium feature. So the

993
00:53:27,400 --> 00:53:30,440
Speaker 1: podcast gives if I'm wrong, I don't know, but one

994
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:33,120
Speaker 1: a week like we do, and then they give another

995
00:53:33,200 --> 00:53:36,360
Speaker 1: two or three episodes a week to their listeners to

996
00:53:36,520 --> 00:53:38,560
Speaker 1: have because they want more. Now I know what I'm

997
00:53:38,600 --> 00:53:40,480
Speaker 1: done listening to my favorite podcast. I'm like, damn, I

998
00:53:40,520 --> 00:53:42,680
Speaker 1: wish it was longer, which I hope you'll feel like

999
00:53:42,719 --> 00:53:44,560
Speaker 1: that about us. And so Mandy and I are eventually

1000
00:53:44,640 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: going to try to completely eliminate looking for ads maybe

1001
00:53:47,719 --> 00:53:51,279
Speaker 1: and do this five dollar premium now Chappo trap House UM.

1002
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:54,680
Speaker 1: So it's called Patreon UM. You can look and see

1003
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:56,960
Speaker 1: how much people make. They make eighty five thousand dollars

1004
00:53:57,200 --> 00:54:01,040
Speaker 1: a month from eighteen thousand people a month. They have

1005
00:54:01,120 --> 00:54:03,640
Speaker 1: a hundred and fifty thousand listeners, so that means less

1006
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:06,200
Speaker 1: than ten a little bit more than ten percent listeners

1007
00:54:06,200 --> 00:54:07,879
Speaker 1: pay files a month. James has been paying five dollars

1008
00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,560
Speaker 1: a month for a year now and loves it and

1009
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:11,479
Speaker 1: it's worth it. I'm gonna tell you something, I would

1010
00:54:11,480 --> 00:54:13,360
Speaker 1: pay five dollars a month for a billion idiots. I

1011
00:54:13,400 --> 00:54:16,680
Speaker 1: would pay five dollars a month for I would, um,

1012
00:54:17,160 --> 00:54:19,719
Speaker 1: absolutely would. Those are two that I love to listen to.

1013
00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:22,680
Speaker 1: And so we're definitely thinking about giving you guys more

1014
00:54:22,800 --> 00:54:26,760
Speaker 1: content weekly and we're gonna we're gonna drive out five dollars.

1015
00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:28,160
Speaker 1: But you know, I mean these dudes, I think they

1016
00:54:28,200 --> 00:54:30,719
Speaker 1: were able to quit their jobs just to do this,

1017
00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,359
Speaker 1: but I mean eighty five thousand dollars a month. When

1018
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:34,600
Speaker 1: I tell you, I saw that, that was the day

1019
00:54:34,600 --> 00:54:38,799
Speaker 1: I called us, I'm done, So we were done, were

1020
00:54:38,840 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: being ready to contribute to my four oh on case separately,

1021
00:54:41,600 --> 00:54:44,319
Speaker 1: if that could happen, if this content is that good, well,

1022
00:54:44,360 --> 00:54:46,520
Speaker 1: not only that, I tell you our listeners be like, bitch,

1023
00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:48,279
Speaker 1: I'll pay for the studio time next time. Why the

1024
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:51,960
Speaker 1: fun y'all only have fifty minutes, So if you guys

1025
00:54:52,000 --> 00:54:53,480
Speaker 1: don't have to pay for the studio time, but this

1026
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:56,600
Speaker 1: essentially will, and you won't say we're trying to be

1027
00:54:56,680 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 1: super stingy by like you know, like we can't afford

1028
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:00,879
Speaker 1: another hour, but we just have to be smart about

1029
00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:03,160
Speaker 1: we are paying essentially right now to give you content.

1030
00:55:03,640 --> 00:55:06,440
Speaker 1: You know, we are doing this on our own. You know,

1031
00:55:06,600 --> 00:55:11,200
Speaker 1: our our studio is you know, producing, producing, and shot

1032
00:55:11,280 --> 00:55:13,920
Speaker 1: using the show so you guys can see that, and

1033
00:55:14,040 --> 00:55:15,640
Speaker 1: it's like I want us to be able to do

1034
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:17,759
Speaker 1: it on our own, so please come and support UM.

1035
00:55:17,800 --> 00:55:20,279
Speaker 1: It's sponsored by Cast Sound Lab and it's going to

1036
00:55:20,360 --> 00:55:22,759
Speaker 1: be December first, the summer first. Come check us out. Guys,

1037
00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 1: we live we all the way laugh. Oh my mom

1038
00:55:25,400 --> 00:55:27,320
Speaker 1: is gonna come and do our listener advice. Yeah, so

1039
00:55:27,440 --> 00:55:29,920
Speaker 1: we're gonna have UM. And also if you guys loved

1040
00:55:29,920 --> 00:55:32,000
Speaker 1: any of our previous guests, we're gonna have them in

1041
00:55:32,040 --> 00:55:33,920
Speaker 1: the building to MoMA if you want to come back

1042
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:37,399
Speaker 1: with that, be great. And mall confirmed from the Joe

1043
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,320
Speaker 1: Buddon podcast, so he's gonna be in the building X

1044
00:55:39,520 --> 00:55:41,960
Speaker 1: and next d UM and then we just got all

1045
00:55:42,040 --> 00:55:43,920
Speaker 1: of our past guests who live in there. You're not

1046
00:55:43,960 --> 00:55:46,000
Speaker 1: going to drink on stage, They're just gonna be. They're

1047
00:55:46,000 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: gonna be in the build fort but all we are

1048
00:55:48,000 --> 00:55:50,480
Speaker 1: getting hosted by Sam white Out. He's super excited, So

1049
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Speaker 1: check us out again. You guys can find the ticket

1050
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Speaker 1: links UM in our bios and I'm sure all over

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Speaker 1: my Twitter page by now, so go ahead and check

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Speaker 1: it out. Come see us to Sember first, New York City. UM,

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Speaker 1: we're actually signing out, so you wanna say bye to

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Speaker 1: the folks, Mammy, Bye bye, y'all who