WEBVTT - Dating on a Budget 0:00:00.560 --> 0:00:02.000 From Hollywood to you. 0:00:02.279 --> 0:00:06.440 Thank you for listening to US Air on Air with 0:00:06.559 --> 0:00:08.160 a Ryan Seacrest. 0:00:09.360 --> 0:00:15.560 One A two point seven kiss FM Seacrest. Maya, She's 0:00:15.560 --> 0:00:17.320 just gonna get right into Maya. My has been holding 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:22.520 that's why, thanks Maya, Oh Seacrest, Maya. Maya's on the line. 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:23.080 Eight. 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:25.200 Take a look at your screen, guys, eight to see 0:00:25.360 --> 0:00:27.520 you seacrets you want to see out of the back room, Maya? 0:00:28.000 --> 0:00:31.560 Or did you already? Hello? You probably did already because 0:00:31.560 --> 0:00:33.239 they put you on hold. Who did you speak with 0:00:33.280 --> 0:00:34.040 to put you on hold? 0:00:34.080 --> 0:00:34.320 Maya? 0:00:35.960 --> 0:00:36.400 Oh god? 0:00:36.440 --> 0:00:38.239 I what about her name? Why would you do this? 0:00:38.960 --> 0:00:40.920 Because I want to make sure that our guest services 0:00:40.960 --> 0:00:45.120 are up to par Okay, it was up to pr 0:00:45.600 --> 0:00:47.160 my How was your experience. 0:00:48.320 --> 0:00:48.959 With the back room? 0:00:51.280 --> 0:00:52.480 I'd say six and a half. 0:00:52.960 --> 0:00:55.160 A little quality control here? What could we do better? 0:00:55.560 --> 0:00:57.560 What could we do to make the first few seconds 0:00:57.600 --> 0:00:58.480 of your call better? 0:00:59.560 --> 0:00:59.760 Oh? 0:01:00.000 --> 0:01:00.320 Okay? 0:01:00.440 --> 0:01:01.240 How was your day? 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:02.440 How was your day going? 0:01:03.280 --> 0:01:08.360 Constructive criticism back? You guys are rushy ruy. 0:01:08.440 --> 0:01:10.279 She didn't give a damn Oh. 0:01:15.440 --> 0:01:20.919 Fire guys, quality controls second? 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:22.240 But for the back room right now? 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.240 Well, Maya, maybe you'll get called that next time. Okay, 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:30.320 let's go. So what can we do to help? 0:01:31.280 --> 0:01:34.160 Okay, So one of my friends from the East Coast, 0:01:34.319 --> 0:01:38.360 she was recently, came to visit me. The visit was 0:01:38.600 --> 0:01:41.080 totally unprompted. I had no idea she was coming, but 0:01:41.160 --> 0:01:44.120 I was super excited, you know, I've been working. Kind 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:46.800 of happy to see an old friend. But I didn't 0:01:46.800 --> 0:01:49.320 know she was coming. So she came on Friday morning, 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:54.080 and then she left Monday morning. That Friday, I didn't 0:01:54.080 --> 0:01:56.400 take off of work. You know, she didn't give me 0:01:56.480 --> 0:01:58.600 notice she was coming, so I didn't take off of work, 0:01:58.640 --> 0:02:02.720 and I had, honestly the biggest meeting with this client. 0:02:02.880 --> 0:02:07.080 They've been super picky, so I could not not do 0:02:07.160 --> 0:02:10.280 the meeting, you know what I mean. So I worked 0:02:10.280 --> 0:02:12.440 from home on Friday, so I figured it wasn't that 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:15.440 big of a deal. Anyway, I was able to welcome 0:02:15.480 --> 0:02:17.880 her when she came. But as soon as she came, 0:02:18.600 --> 0:02:20.520 like you know, I had cinnamon rolls and stuff like that, 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.360 But as soon as she came, I had to go 0:02:22.440 --> 0:02:26.360 into my home office and work. But this is the 0:02:26.400 --> 0:02:30.079 weird part. So now that a few weeks have gone by, 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:32.680 she she kind of let me know that she was 0:02:32.760 --> 0:02:36.720 upset that I didn't take off work that first day, 0:02:36.760 --> 0:02:39.720 and she thinks it was rude, and you know, she 0:02:39.760 --> 0:02:42.000 came to visit me and she had to stay in 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:45.720 the house. So I just wanted to get your guys' 0:02:45.760 --> 0:02:52.239 opinion on the situation, right, Like I'm already stressed out 0:02:52.240 --> 0:02:54.200 with work and stuff like that. And it wasn't like 0:02:54.240 --> 0:02:57.760 I didn't tell her where to go, like this is 0:02:57.800 --> 0:02:59.160 a good place to go for lunch. 0:03:01.040 --> 0:03:03.280 I mean, put this in your terms, because we heard 0:03:03.320 --> 0:03:05.079 that your experience with Ruby was a six and a 0:03:05.120 --> 0:03:08.160 half on a scale of one to ten. I did 0:03:08.200 --> 0:03:11.720 not answer the phone. Who answered the phone? It was me? 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:17.680 I heard Ruby, she said, thought somebody said Ruby, So 0:03:17.800 --> 0:03:20.680 Michayla was a six point five. I stand corrected. Anyway, 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:22.840 The point is, on a scale of one to ten, 0:03:22.840 --> 0:03:25.160 how would you rank your friendship closeness with this friend 0:03:25.200 --> 0:03:26.560 because she sounds like a lot of work. 0:03:26.800 --> 0:03:27.400 Good question. 0:03:30.120 --> 0:03:33.679 You know, our friendship has been pretty good, I say, 0:03:34.080 --> 0:03:37.240 I mean I don't it's it's been pretty good, like honestly, 0:03:37.440 --> 0:03:38.040 but pretty good? 0:03:38.120 --> 0:03:38.840 Is it five? 0:03:39.000 --> 0:03:39.080 Like? 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:40.839 What is pretty good? On a one to ten? 0:03:41.480 --> 0:03:42.720 It's like an eight point five? 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:44.760 Okay, that's pretty good. 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:47.960 Yeah, considering, you. 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:52.080 Know, but okay, where's your friend now? Is she gone? 0:03:53.240 --> 0:03:54.400 Yeah, she's back in New York. 0:03:54.640 --> 0:03:57.880 Okay, So I think that, I mean, we're we're kind 0:03:57.880 --> 0:03:59.720 of past it. But I just think that that's a 0:03:59.720 --> 0:04:01.440 lot for your friend to ask you to be off work. 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:03.600 You got to get your stuff done, and you had cinnamon. 0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.600 Butts and you had no notice. 0:04:05.880 --> 0:04:10.120 Thank you. I guess our point, Maya, is it has passed, 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:12.320 like life goes on. Let's not carry guilt on this one. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:15.360 There's enough things in the world that cause pressure, stress, anxiety, cortisol. 0:04:15.760 --> 0:04:17.599 Let's not cause guilt on this one. I don't think so. 0:04:17.720 --> 0:04:19.120 And she is one hundred percent in the wrong. 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.839 There you go. That's our ruling. I had a gavel 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:23.360 to hit it. 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.120 Well, nobody's one hundred percent the wrong. 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:30.200 Thank you very much, by good luck, Thank you honestly, Maya. So, Michaela, 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:31.640 what happened when you're the phone doers? 0:04:31.760 --> 0:04:34.440 Yeah, I don't know, said hi, is as Maya? 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:35.080 She said yes. 0:04:35.200 --> 0:04:37.880 I was like, I'm putting on hold for a second 0:04:37.880 --> 0:04:39.080 and Ryan will be with you shortly. 0:04:39.440 --> 0:04:42.000 She wanted to ask her, how are you? 0:04:43.440 --> 0:04:44.720 I was just trying to get her down as quick 0:04:44.720 --> 0:04:45.120 as possible. 0:04:45.120 --> 0:04:46.520 I thought it was a good call. You know, No, 0:04:46.880 --> 0:04:49.880 this show moves at lightning speed, and you were just 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:52.080 doing your job of getting it getting up there, because 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:53.719 you know, if you didn't have it on hold, Mark 0:04:53.760 --> 0:04:55.440 would be waving his wrists around. 0:04:55.160 --> 0:05:00.960 The planes over here and jumping up and down hot Pepper. 0:05:02.360 --> 0:05:04.880 Literal like jumping jacks that he does at the beginning 0:05:04.960 --> 0:05:05.400 of the show. 0:05:05.560 --> 0:05:16.040 Now, then you put yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, he's gonna 0:05:16.080 --> 0:05:17.280 pull an arm socket. 0:05:17.080 --> 0:05:19.480 Yea, honestly, haven't hurt me, all right, I. 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:21.839 Know it's dangerous, So just doing your work. 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.120 Next time, I'll just ask how she is, Mark, and 0:05:25.120 --> 0:05:25.680 you have to wait. 0:05:26.040 --> 0:05:27.200 I need I need that ten. 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:29.000 I need that ten, not a six point five. 0:05:29.480 --> 0:05:36.120 Thanks, that's a little real for us. We can't take 0:05:36.160 --> 0:05:39.400 six five even it is. Give us an eight kiss right, 0:05:39.400 --> 0:05:42.520 it's one o two point seven kiss FM. I let 0:05:42.600 --> 0:05:44.760 me grab Liz real fast here, Liz, good. 0:05:44.680 --> 0:05:46.640 Morning, Good morning. 0:05:46.760 --> 0:05:47.520 How are you? 0:05:47.680 --> 0:05:49.120 I'm good? And Liz, what's happening? 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:55.560 I just need some advice. My brother in law, my 0:05:55.680 --> 0:06:00.120 husband's younger brother, he basically took my baby's name for 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:04.320 his dog, and like he asked me permission, but he 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:07.160 did it in the family chat, so it was like, really, 0:06:07.160 --> 0:06:08.320 put me on the spot. 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:11.960 And stole your baby's name that has not arrived yet 0:06:12.120 --> 0:06:12.799 for his dog. 0:06:13.960 --> 0:06:16.560 Right, So like, I'm not pregnant yet, I do have 0:06:16.760 --> 0:06:19.000 a little boy, but you know we are thinking of 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:21.159 expanding our family and if I have a little girl someday, 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:25.200 like I want it. The name's Piper, Piper Palmer. And 0:06:25.240 --> 0:06:27.479 he's like, can we name our dog Piper? And I 0:06:27.680 --> 0:06:31.880 was just, uh, like it got super award. 0:06:33.480 --> 0:06:40.240 You know, Piper's gonna pick pickles, pick pickles, Liz, did 0:06:40.440 --> 0:06:43.200 did your brother in law know that Piper was on 0:06:43.240 --> 0:06:44.440 your baby reserve list? 0:06:45.480 --> 0:06:48.360 Yes, like he asked permission in the chat. 0:06:48.920 --> 0:06:51.360 This is a foul. Yeah, this is a foul. 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:57.120 This is you can't share the names with anybody. 0:06:57.839 --> 0:06:59.920 You got to use a little bit of common sense 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:02.680 judgment here, brother in law, Like when someone picks it 0:07:02.760 --> 0:07:05.200 for their baby, you can't make it a pet name. 0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:09.359 And what is his reasoning that you haven't had the 0:07:09.440 --> 0:07:14.800 baby yet and you're not even pregnant that it's okay. 0:07:13.440 --> 0:07:16.280 Right, He's like, you know, it's all hypotheticals, so you know, 0:07:16.360 --> 0:07:17.880 we might as well have the name in the family 0:07:18.000 --> 0:07:18.520 and I'm. 0:07:18.400 --> 0:07:23.200 Just like, I mean, for all you know, yeah, he 0:07:23.760 --> 0:07:25.640 may have a point, like what if your next baby 0:07:25.720 --> 0:07:27.160 is a boy, would you name him Piper? 0:07:28.640 --> 0:07:30.440 No, I see it definitely as a girl name. 0:07:31.000 --> 0:07:32.120 Okay, I don't know. 0:07:32.480 --> 0:07:33.760 So I'm like, how do we do that? 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:35.360 Now we need to get back. 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.320 There's no tip for tat here. 0:07:38.840 --> 0:07:41.040 Well, I'd like for there to be one. I just look, 0:07:41.120 --> 0:07:43.760 that's a bit rude, and I think it's not so thoughtful. 0:07:44.120 --> 0:07:45.960 And I like it's like when someone tells me their 0:07:46.000 --> 0:07:48.760 child's name is Georgia. Everything about me wants to scream 0:07:48.800 --> 0:07:50.840 with excitement to say my dog's name is Georgia. But 0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:55.000 I bite my tongue. Yeah, I don't talk, like, how 0:07:55.000 --> 0:07:57.240 many sonnies have you met as kids, Tony, Right. 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.880 Honestly, not somebody, not somebody. 0:08:02.120 --> 0:08:04.000 I've met a few Dakota's, so I know what you mean. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:05.520 And you want to go, oh my god, my dog 0:08:05.560 --> 0:08:11.520 is named Dakota and then and then they're like, oh thanks, Yeah, First, 0:08:11.760 --> 0:08:13.840 this is a strike. This is strike for your brother 0:08:13.880 --> 0:08:16.040 in law. Are you going to change the name or 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:17.520 you gonna do it? What are you going to? What's 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:17.880 your move? 0:08:19.120 --> 0:08:21.440 Well, I'm just wondering, like, am I a monster if 0:08:21.440 --> 0:08:22.720 I ask him not to use it? 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:22.920 Now? 0:08:23.120 --> 0:08:27.200 No? No, please? Okay the dog can relearn? 0:08:27.320 --> 0:08:32.120 Yeah, yeah, I know. It's kind of like it's they've 0:08:32.120 --> 0:08:33.720 only had it for a couple of weeks now, so 0:08:33.720 --> 0:08:36.880 I'm just like, okay, maybe I just dogs don't. 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:39.160 Know Piper from diaper, so call the dog diaper. 0:08:39.559 --> 0:08:43.959 I mean, one name is dog diaper. But Liz, what 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:45.520 is your's? 0:08:45.600 --> 0:08:45.760 Right? 0:08:45.880 --> 0:08:48.920 We could call Sonny like funny funny and she will 0:08:49.000 --> 0:08:49.520 just come. 0:08:50.360 --> 0:08:52.360 Yeah, it's it's about the inflection. 0:08:52.720 --> 0:08:52.840 Huh. 0:08:53.240 --> 0:08:55.040 So why did you come up with an alternative? Lace stuff? 0:08:55.120 --> 0:08:55.319 Names it? 0:08:55.400 --> 0:08:55.920 Ryme with Piper? 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:57.600 I mean, the dog's not going to be around forever. 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:04.559 Oh my gosh, dark dark. But it's true. 0:09:05.280 --> 0:09:07.760 This happened in my family. So that's why I have 0:09:08.080 --> 0:09:12.160 a frame of reference. Who was it was Riley? And 0:09:12.320 --> 0:09:15.840 my my sister adopted this dog from a family in Boston, 0:09:15.880 --> 0:09:17.560 and so the dog's name was already Riley. 0:09:17.600 --> 0:09:19.280 But we have a nephew named Riley. 0:09:19.080 --> 0:09:20.760 And so when we when she got the dog, I 0:09:20.800 --> 0:09:22.800 was like, were you going to keep the name Riley? 0:09:23.200 --> 0:09:25.280 And she kept it and then now the dog's not 0:09:25.320 --> 0:09:28.640 with us anymore. Anyways, and we still have my nephew obviously. 0:09:28.240 --> 0:09:31.680 But it happens. Well again, this went for a turn. Listen, 0:09:31.880 --> 0:09:34.160 thank you for calling into the world. 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:36.320 Let him name the dog Piper, and then maybe in 0:09:36.400 --> 0:09:38.200 five years you have your Piper and it's gonna be 0:09:38.200 --> 0:09:38.680 all be fine. 0:09:39.679 --> 0:09:44.000 Gosh, Okay, what's the pickle thing? 0:09:44.360 --> 0:09:46.880 What is Peter Piper picked a pair of pickle peppers? 0:09:46.920 --> 0:09:48.600 If Peter Piper picked a pair of pickle peppers, howney 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:49.959 pickle peppers and Peter pepper. 0:09:49.679 --> 0:09:54.280 Pips who never, like no one's ever been able to 0:09:54.360 --> 0:09:57.240 do that? You do that? 0:09:57.320 --> 0:09:58.120 Like Mantra. 0:09:59.720 --> 0:10:02.520 This is vision Board Mantra. She loves pickles this year. 0:10:04.280 --> 0:10:07.920 Kiss if you just got here, thanks for coming along. 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:14.080 Got a lot more show to go and sistany yes, Tanya, yes, 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:15.200 Meet Alison? 0:10:15.720 --> 0:10:17.240 Hi Alison, Hi Alison? 0:10:17.720 --> 0:10:20.320 Hello? How are you Alison? 0:10:20.720 --> 0:10:20.920 Yeah? 0:10:20.960 --> 0:10:21.520 What's going on? 0:10:21.559 --> 0:10:24.040 I'm pretty good? How are y'all? Well? 0:10:25.600 --> 0:10:27.240 Yeah, it says see, I just know what it says 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:30.160 on the screen. I am single and I'm tired of 0:10:30.160 --> 0:10:33.920 being used as entertainment for my married friends. Oh my gosh, 0:10:34.160 --> 0:10:36.200 tell me what that means to the choir. 0:10:37.360 --> 0:10:41.520 Yeah, I'm basically the last single person. In my friend group, 0:10:41.640 --> 0:10:46.160 everyone's married or in long term relationships, And like you 0:10:46.200 --> 0:10:48.160 just said, I just feel like my friends are seeing 0:10:48.200 --> 0:10:50.920 me less as a friend more as a form of entertainment. 0:10:51.480 --> 0:10:54.000 Like whenever we're together, they love pulling out my phones 0:10:54.040 --> 0:10:56.200 going through the dating apps like it's a game. They'll 0:10:56.240 --> 0:10:59.200 swipe through people and make jokes and then ask me 0:10:59.280 --> 0:11:02.720 to tell them any my recent dating stories. At first, 0:11:02.800 --> 0:11:04.280 like I went along with it because I thought it 0:11:04.360 --> 0:11:06.160 was kind of funny too, and I thought they were 0:11:06.160 --> 0:11:09.280 helping me. But now I'm realizing that that's not really 0:11:09.280 --> 0:11:12.200 the case. I feel like my love life isn't really 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:15.520 being taken seriously, but it's just kind of like more 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.920 fun for them to swipe through the apps. But for me, 0:11:18.000 --> 0:11:20.240 it's like what I'm actually dealing with. It's my reality, 0:11:20.920 --> 0:11:22.360 and I feel like they don't even want to check 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:25.920 in on how I'm feeling about being single or anything 0:11:25.960 --> 0:11:27.800 I don't even really want to share with them. It 0:11:27.800 --> 0:11:29.520 makes me feel like I'm the odd one out. 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.959 And like, so's funny and just so funny because if 0:11:32.000 --> 0:11:33.760 if you were the host of this show, I'd be 0:11:33.800 --> 0:11:35.840 calling saying the same things about these things. 0:11:39.520 --> 0:11:41.600 Through you don't even have a dating app for one. 0:11:41.800 --> 0:11:46.079 Yeah, so what is it that you thought they were 0:11:46.120 --> 0:11:47.920 doing is sort of like to help And then it 0:11:48.000 --> 0:11:50.040 changed into a different tone. 0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.720 What happened, Well, I think that it just it kind 0:11:53.720 --> 0:11:57.400 of became too frequent, and it became like where they 0:11:57.440 --> 0:11:59.840 were kind of messed with the people on my dating app. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:02.400 That's messed up jokes, Yeah. 0:12:02.160 --> 0:12:05.680 And like sliping through them and clearly making sure that 0:12:05.760 --> 0:12:07.120 this person wouldn't match back with. 0:12:07.160 --> 0:12:09.640 Me your friends. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:10.439 It's just immature. 0:12:12.000 --> 0:12:12.280 Yeah. 0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:15.400 I guess maybe they're bored because they're they're bored in 0:12:15.400 --> 0:12:19.440 their healthy relationship, but it's not fun for me any longer. 0:12:20.120 --> 0:12:22.200 Now. The other way you could look at it is 0:12:23.360 --> 0:12:29.000 they're kind of bummed because they're stuck. You got But also. 0:12:28.960 --> 0:12:30.040 You are the gatekeeper. 0:12:30.120 --> 0:12:32.160 I know how this feels because I feel like when 0:12:32.160 --> 0:12:33.960 I was single, everybody would always just want to like 0:12:34.000 --> 0:12:35.920 go through my end dating app. 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:38.320 I didn't go through your dating app. Would you still 0:12:38.360 --> 0:12:39.840 be talking the same tune right now? 0:12:39.960 --> 0:12:40.240 No? 0:12:40.240 --> 0:12:43.400 No, no, But I you you are the gatekeeper, So 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.120 like you can also just say if they say we 0:12:45.160 --> 0:12:46.599 want to look through your date, you know, let's go 0:12:46.640 --> 0:12:47.760 through your dating app. You can be like you know, 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:49.880 I don't really want to do that today, or like 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:52.200 you know, I'd rather not. You know, you don't have 0:12:52.280 --> 0:12:54.800 to give it up just because you're single, and. 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:57.440 They're not going to your person grab phoney except that 0:12:57.480 --> 0:13:01.040 boundary unless they're going to be helpful like me and 0:13:01.120 --> 0:13:02.200 Sierra were for Tanya. 0:13:02.640 --> 0:13:05.319 Yeah, I mean I enjoyed the meddling, but I could 0:13:05.320 --> 0:13:06.640 see where it gets some knowing. 0:13:07.360 --> 0:13:11.560 But also just to you know, relate Alison. There comes 0:13:11.559 --> 0:13:15.240 a point where people almost look, I don't want to 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:18.640 say down, but they have a little judgy when it 0:13:18.679 --> 0:13:21.440 comes to can I ask you why you're not married? 0:13:21.480 --> 0:13:23.559 Can I ask you why you don't have kids? Especially 0:13:23.559 --> 0:13:25.880 this happens to me all the time, and you do 0:13:25.960 --> 0:13:28.640 feel a little defensive, a little left out, a little 0:13:28.640 --> 0:13:31.600 bummed about it, And you know they're coming from that 0:13:31.640 --> 0:13:34.440 place of like, oh, they have it all, so why 0:13:34.440 --> 0:13:37.720 don't you have it all? And I understand that. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:40.080 Your real friends shouldn't be asking you. 0:13:40.120 --> 0:13:42.319 That your real friends should love you for who you are, 0:13:42.400 --> 0:13:45.000 who you're dating, who you're not dating, like it doesn't matter, or. 0:13:44.960 --> 0:13:46.839 They just want you to be happy and find someone 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:49.360 that's like your perfect match and encourage. 0:13:48.880 --> 0:13:51.360 That, don't pretend to know what Alison and I are 0:13:51.400 --> 0:13:51.920 dealing with. 0:13:52.440 --> 0:13:57.880 Oh my god, I know exactly what Alison's dealing with because. 0:13:59.400 --> 0:14:02.640 I lived it, okay, and then you found it's awful. 0:14:03.559 --> 0:14:07.679 So I think have you expressed to them that you're 0:14:07.720 --> 0:14:09.439 finding this a bit intrusive? 0:14:10.640 --> 0:14:12.680 Not really, That's kind of why I'm calling, because I 0:14:12.720 --> 0:14:15.200 was trying to figure out how to set the boundary 0:14:15.200 --> 0:14:18.000 without making it awkward, or even if I should say 0:14:18.000 --> 0:14:19.640 anything in the first place, or should I just like 0:14:19.840 --> 0:14:21.040 keep laughing at all, you. 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:26.000 Know, be honest with yourself and with them. Okay, what's 0:14:26.000 --> 0:14:27.480 the point of having a friendship if you can't even 0:14:27.480 --> 0:14:27.960 be honest? 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:30.640 That's this is true? 0:14:31.440 --> 0:14:33.240 And tell them to lay off a little bit, like 0:14:33.280 --> 0:14:34.480 the pressure is not cool. 0:14:35.880 --> 0:14:38.120 Yeah, yeah, you know what. 0:14:38.160 --> 0:14:38.800 I agree. 0:14:39.000 --> 0:14:39.400 I agree. 0:14:39.440 --> 0:14:41.440 Do you call my friends as well while you're after 0:14:41.480 --> 0:14:42.280 you finish with yours? 0:14:43.120 --> 0:14:45.720 Yeah, exactly. We'll set that boundary together. 0:14:46.880 --> 0:14:49.160 Thank you Alison for calling. I appreciate you. Good luck. 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:53.720 It's a quote. A quote or seven o'clock gets you 0:14:53.760 --> 0:14:57.200 in the right headspace, all right. So there you go. 0:14:57.680 --> 0:15:00.960 You're having dinner at someone's house, maybe even spending the 0:15:01.040 --> 0:15:05.400 night and you gotta go to the bathroom. The key 0:15:06.200 --> 0:15:12.680 to being as stealthy as possible. Run cold water the 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:13.560 whole time. 0:15:14.160 --> 0:15:16.240 Want to waste Why. 0:15:16.560 --> 0:15:19.160 Walk in there, Turn on the water, run it cold. 0:15:19.960 --> 0:15:23.280 It's gonna mask any sound that might happen. Can be 0:15:23.280 --> 0:15:27.880 embarrassing because the toilet magnifies that sound. And make sure 0:15:27.880 --> 0:15:31.080 it's cold, because hot produces steam and that traps the odor. 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:36.360 You you don't want that, No, I'll read for you 0:15:36.360 --> 0:15:37.280 that I'm here today for that. 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:40.080 You know what. 0:15:40.360 --> 0:15:43.720 One day I'm gonna need to use that, and I 0:15:43.800 --> 0:15:45.480 will think about you. 0:15:47.280 --> 0:15:49.200 Although we have those sinks where you gotta hold I 0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.680 gotta lean over from the toilet and hold my hand 0:15:51.760 --> 0:15:53.280 over the thing to get it to run for more 0:15:53.320 --> 0:15:54.120 than four seconds. 0:15:54.920 --> 0:15:57.680 Yeah, not enough. 0:15:57.720 --> 0:16:03.160 I can't even wash my hands. Today's squall, Tanya Ciciny. 0:16:03.200 --> 0:16:06.680 Even if it takes time, you're gonna get exactly where 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:10.800 you want to be in the meantime. Find joy in 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:11.440 the journey. 0:16:12.440 --> 0:16:13.920 Find joy in the journey. 0:16:14.200 --> 0:16:19.440 Find in the journey. About two point seven, it's kiss FM, 0:16:19.640 --> 0:16:22.880 Los Angeles. So I have to say, you know, I'm 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:25.440 looking at some best ofs right now. I'm likek at 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:28.600 some best of siciny some best of Tanya. You guys 0:16:28.600 --> 0:16:33.760 are you're glowing? You know, you're you're, you're you're What 0:16:33.800 --> 0:16:36.080 does Kevin Hart saying that iPhone commercial? You got your 0:16:36.160 --> 0:16:36.520 drip on? 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:38.240 Okay? Wow? 0:16:39.120 --> 0:16:41.760 Kevin Art says, Kevin Art doesn't every commercial he's in. 0:16:41.840 --> 0:16:44.920 I actually really like he's in a new iPhone commercial 0:16:46.040 --> 0:16:48.520 and it's great. Actually laughed out loud. 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:50.200 I know exactly what you're talking. 0:16:50.240 --> 0:16:53.000 He thinks, he thinks he's got the new iPhone, and 0:16:53.040 --> 0:16:55.880 everywhere he goes in the quick commercial, people are like, 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:58.480 oh my gosh, look and he's like, I know, I'm 0:16:58.520 --> 0:17:01.160 finer in person. I know, I know what's up. 0:17:01.200 --> 0:17:01.560 It's me. 0:17:02.320 --> 0:17:04.199 It turns out they're really looking at the iPhone, right, 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:06.239 because he had the orange one in the commercial. But 0:17:06.280 --> 0:17:08.040 he's I think he says at the top, I'm dripping 0:17:08.040 --> 0:17:11.760 in it or got my drip ones? Anyway, you two 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:14.919 have your drip on. And so a lot of people 0:17:15.119 --> 0:17:16.520 may have asked you what are you doing? What's your 0:17:16.520 --> 0:17:18.240 worker because I got asked that question, not that I 0:17:18.359 --> 0:17:21.320 might drip on, but shows me what what's your workout? 0:17:21.320 --> 0:17:24.440 And I said, underwater? It's my thing these days. Underwater, 0:17:24.880 --> 0:17:29.159 underwater I'm doing underwater workout right the weights. So, uh, 0:17:29.680 --> 0:17:31.679 Tania is working on a new and duces, have you 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:33.320 heard about this she's walking backwards? 0:17:33.400 --> 0:17:33.560 I have. 0:17:33.720 --> 0:17:35.359 I am told her that this prize is not the 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:37.160 safest thing for her to do, especially. 0:17:36.840 --> 0:17:39.720 Because she loves like on the street that's like very slanted. 0:17:40.880 --> 0:17:42.680 Are you doing this on a treadmill or outside on. 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:45.679 The I don't have a treadmill, so everything I do 0:17:45.840 --> 0:17:48.920 is out in the wild. But I've gotten very into 0:17:49.000 --> 0:17:52.120 walking over the last like six months, and even concept 0:17:52.440 --> 0:17:53.920 well I know, but I feel like. 0:17:53.920 --> 0:17:56.520 Walking is really of the moment, by. 0:17:56.440 --> 0:17:59.800 The way, people don't walk in and walk since we've 0:17:59.800 --> 0:18:00.720 been on this planet. 0:18:00.800 --> 0:18:04.119 Okay, no, no, no, but I feel like walking your 0:18:04.160 --> 0:18:06.960 ten thousand steps, I feel like now people are really 0:18:07.000 --> 0:18:07.840 paying attention to it more. 0:18:08.800 --> 0:18:11.280 You see, it's not ten thousand that was a whole market, seven. 0:18:11.280 --> 0:18:11.960 Seven, whatever. 0:18:12.440 --> 0:18:16.920