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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to US Air on Air with

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Speaker 2: a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: One A two point seven kiss FM Seacrest. Maya, She's

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Speaker 3: just gonna get right into Maya. My has been holding

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Speaker 3: that's why, thanks Maya, Oh Seacrest, Maya. Maya's on the line.

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Speaker 4: Eight.

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Speaker 3: Take a look at your screen, guys, eight to see

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Speaker 3: you seacrets you want to see out of the back room, Maya?

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Speaker 3: Or did you already? Hello? You probably did already because

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Speaker 3: they put you on hold. Who did you speak with

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Speaker 3: to put you on hold?

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Speaker 5: Maya?

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Speaker 1: Oh god?

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Speaker 6: I what about her name? Why would you do this?

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Speaker 3: Because I want to make sure that our guest services

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Speaker 3: are up to par Okay, it was up to pr

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Speaker 3: my How was your experience.

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Speaker 1: With the back room?

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Speaker 6: I'd say six and a half.

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Speaker 3: A little quality control here? What could we do better?

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Speaker 3: What could we do to make the first few seconds

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Speaker 3: of your call better?

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Speaker 7: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 8: How was your day?

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Speaker 9: How was your day going?

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Speaker 3: Constructive criticism back? You guys are rushy ruy.

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Speaker 6: She didn't give a damn Oh.

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Speaker 3: Fire guys, quality controls second?

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Speaker 10: But for the back room right now?

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Speaker 3: Well, Maya, maybe you'll get called that next time. Okay,

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Speaker 3: let's go. So what can we do to help?

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Speaker 6: Okay, So one of my friends from the East Coast,

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Speaker 6: she was recently, came to visit me. The visit was

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Speaker 6: totally unprompted. I had no idea she was coming, but

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Speaker 6: I was super excited, you know, I've been working. Kind

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Speaker 6: of happy to see an old friend. But I didn't

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Speaker 6: know she was coming. So she came on Friday morning,

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Speaker 6: and then she left Monday morning. That Friday, I didn't

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Speaker 6: take off of work. You know, she didn't give me

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Speaker 6: and I had, honestly the biggest meeting with this client.

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Speaker 6: They've been super picky, so I could not not do

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Speaker 6: the meeting, you know what I mean. So I worked

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Speaker 6: from home on Friday, so I figured it wasn't that

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Speaker 6: big of a deal. Anyway, I was able to welcome

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Speaker 6: her when she came. But as soon as she came,

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Speaker 6: like you know, I had cinnamon rolls and stuff like that,

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Speaker 6: But as soon as she came, I had to go

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Speaker 6: into my home office and work. But this is the

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Speaker 6: weird part. So now that a few weeks have gone by,

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Speaker 6: she she kind of let me know that she was

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Speaker 6: upset that I didn't take off work that first day,

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Speaker 6: and she thinks it was rude, and you know, she

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Speaker 6: came to visit me and she had to stay in

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Speaker 6: the house. So I just wanted to get your guys'

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Speaker 6: opinion on the situation, right, Like I'm already stressed out

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Speaker 6: with work and stuff like that. And it wasn't like

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Speaker 6: I didn't tell her where to go, like this is

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Speaker 3: I mean, put this in your terms, because we heard

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Speaker 3: that your experience with Ruby was a six and a

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Speaker 3: half on a scale of one to ten. I did

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Speaker 3: not answer the phone. Who answered the phone? It was me?

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Speaker 3: I heard Ruby, she said, thought somebody said Ruby, So

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Speaker 3: Michayla was a six point five. I stand corrected. Anyway,

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Speaker 3: The point is, on a scale of one to ten,

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Speaker 3: how would you rank your friendship closeness with this friend

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Speaker 3: because she sounds like a lot of work.

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Speaker 7: Good question.

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Speaker 6: You know, our friendship has been pretty good, I say,

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Speaker 6: I mean I don't it's it's been pretty good, like honestly,

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Speaker 3: Is it five?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 3: What is pretty good? On a one to ten?

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Speaker 6: It's like an eight point five?

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's pretty good.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, considering, you.

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Speaker 3: Know, but okay, where's your friend now? Is she gone?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, she's back in New York.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So I think that, I mean, we're we're kind

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Speaker 3: of past it. But I just think that that's a

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Speaker 3: You got to get your stuff done, and you had cinnamon.

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Speaker 10: Butts and you had no notice.

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Speaker 3: Thank you. I guess our point, Maya, is it has passed,

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Speaker 3: like life goes on. Let's not carry guilt on this one.

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Speaker 3: There's enough things in the world that cause pressure, stress, anxiety, cortisol.

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Speaker 3: Let's not cause guilt on this one. I don't think so.

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Speaker 10: And she is one hundred percent in the wrong.

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Speaker 3: There you go. That's our ruling. I had a gavel

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Speaker 3: to hit it.

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Speaker 7: Well, nobody's one hundred percent the wrong.

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Speaker 3: Thank you very much, by good luck, Thank you honestly, Maya. So, Michaela,

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Speaker 3: what happened when you're the phone doers?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know, said hi, is as Maya?

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Speaker 4: She said yes.

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Speaker 11: I was like, I'm putting on hold for a second

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Speaker 11: and Ryan will be with you shortly.

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Speaker 12: She wanted to ask her, how are you?

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Speaker 7: I was just trying to get her down as quick

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Speaker 3: I thought it was a good call. You know, No,

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Speaker 3: this show moves at lightning speed, and you were just

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Speaker 3: doing your job of getting it getting up there, because

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Speaker 3: you know, if you didn't have it on hold, Mark

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Speaker 3: would be waving his wrists around.

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Speaker 11: The planes over here and jumping up and down hot Pepper.

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Speaker 2: Literal like jumping jacks that he does at the beginning

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Speaker 3: Now, then you put yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly, he's gonna

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Speaker 3: pull an arm socket.

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Speaker 7: Yea, honestly, haven't hurt me, all right, I.

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Speaker 3: Know it's dangerous, So just doing your work.

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Speaker 7: Next time, I'll just ask how she is, Mark, and

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Speaker 7: you have to wait.

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Speaker 3: I need I need that ten.

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Speaker 7: I need that ten, not a six point five.

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Speaker 3: Thanks, that's a little real for us. We can't take

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Speaker 3: six five even it is. Give us an eight kiss right,

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Speaker 3: it's one o two point seven kiss FM. I let

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Speaker 3: me grab Liz real fast here, Liz, good.

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Speaker 12: Morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 8: How are you?

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Speaker 3: I'm good? And Liz, what's happening?

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Speaker 8: I just need some advice. My brother in law, my

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Speaker 8: husband's younger brother, he basically took my baby's name for

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Speaker 8: his dog, and like he asked me permission, but he

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Speaker 8: did it in the family chat, so it was like, really,

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Speaker 8: put me on the spot.

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Speaker 3: And stole your baby's name that has not arrived yet

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Speaker 3: for his dog.

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Speaker 8: Right, So like, I'm not pregnant yet, I do have

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Speaker 8: like I want it. The name's Piper, Piper Palmer. And

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Speaker 8: he's like, can we name our dog Piper? And I

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Speaker 8: was just, uh, like it got super award.

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Speaker 3: You know, Piper's gonna pick pickles, pick pickles, Liz, did

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Speaker 3: did your brother in law know that Piper was on

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Speaker 3: your baby reserve list?

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Speaker 8: Yes, like he asked permission in the chat.

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Speaker 3: This is a foul. Yeah, this is a foul.

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Speaker 10: This is you can't share the names with anybody.

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Speaker 3: You got to use a little bit of common sense

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Speaker 3: judgment here, brother in law, Like when someone picks it

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Speaker 3: for their baby, you can't make it a pet name.

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Speaker 2: And what is his reasoning that you haven't had the

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Speaker 8: Right, He's like, you know, it's all hypotheticals, so you know,

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Speaker 8: we might as well have the name in the family

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Speaker 2: Just like, I mean, for all you know, yeah, he

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Speaker 2: may have a point, like what if your next baby

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Speaker 2: is a boy, would you name him Piper?

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Speaker 8: No, I see it definitely as a girl name.

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Speaker 3: Okay, I don't know.

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Speaker 12: So I'm like, how do we do that?

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Speaker 3: Now we need to get back.

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Speaker 7: There's no tip for tat here.

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Speaker 3: Well, I'd like for there to be one. I just look,

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Speaker 3: that's a bit rude, and I think it's not so thoughtful.

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Speaker 3: And I like it's like when someone tells me their

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Speaker 3: child's name is Georgia. Everything about me wants to scream

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Speaker 3: with excitement to say my dog's name is Georgia. But

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Speaker 3: I bite my tongue. Yeah, I don't talk, like, how

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Speaker 3: many sonnies have you met as kids, Tony, Right.

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Speaker 11: Honestly, not somebody, not somebody.

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Speaker 10: I've met a few Dakota's, so I know what you mean.

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Speaker 3: And you want to go, oh my god, my dog

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Speaker 3: is named Dakota and then and then they're like, oh thanks, Yeah, First,

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Speaker 3: this is a strike. This is strike for your brother

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Speaker 3: you gonna do it? What are you going to? What's

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Speaker 8: Well, I'm just wondering, like, am I a monster if

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Speaker 8: I ask him not to use it?

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Speaker 12: Now?

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Speaker 3: No? No, please? Okay the dog can relearn?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, I know. It's kind of like it's they've

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Speaker 8: I'm just like, okay, maybe I just dogs don't.

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Speaker 3: Know Piper from diaper, so call the dog diaper.

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Speaker 10: I mean, one name is dog diaper. But Liz, what

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Speaker 10: is your's?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 7: We could call Sonny like funny funny and she will

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's it's about the inflection.

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Speaker 4: Huh.

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Speaker 3: So why did you come up with an alternative? Lace stuff?

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Speaker 4: Names it?

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Speaker 3: Ryme with Piper?

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Speaker 10: I mean, the dog's not going to be around forever.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, dark dark. But it's true.

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Speaker 2: This happened in my family. So that's why I have

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Speaker 2: a frame of reference. Who was it was Riley? And

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Speaker 2: my my sister adopted this dog from a family in Boston,

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Speaker 2: and so the dog's name was already Riley.

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Speaker 10: But we have a nephew named Riley.

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Speaker 2: And so when we when she got the dog, I

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Speaker 2: was like, were you going to keep the name Riley?

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Speaker 2: And she kept it and then now the dog's not

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Speaker 2: with us anymore. Anyways, and we still have my nephew obviously.

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Speaker 3: But it happens. Well again, this went for a turn. Listen,

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Speaker 3: thank you for calling into the world.

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Speaker 2: Let him name the dog Piper, and then maybe in

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Speaker 2: five years you have your Piper and it's gonna be

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Speaker 2: all be fine.

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Speaker 8: Gosh, Okay, what's the pickle thing?

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Speaker 11: What is Peter Piper picked a pair of pickle peppers?

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Speaker 11: If Peter Piper picked a pair of pickle peppers, howney

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Speaker 11: pickle peppers and Peter pepper.

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Speaker 3: Pips who never, like no one's ever been able to

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Speaker 3: do that? You do that?

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Speaker 10: Like Mantra.

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Speaker 3: This is vision Board Mantra. She loves pickles this year.

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Speaker 3: Kiss if you just got here, thanks for coming along.

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Speaker 3: Got a lot more show to go and sistany yes, Tanya, yes,

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Speaker 3: Meet Alison?

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Speaker 7: Hi Alison, Hi Alison?

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Speaker 10: What's going on?

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Speaker 4: I'm pretty good? How are y'all? Well?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it says see, I just know what it says

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm basically the last single person. In my friend group,

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Speaker 4: Like whenever we're together, they love pulling out my phones

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Speaker 3: And like, so's funny and just so funny because if

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Speaker 10: Through you don't even have a dating app for one.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so what is it that you thought they were

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Speaker 4: What happened, Well, I think that it just it kind

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Speaker 3: That's messed up jokes, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: And like sliping through them and clearly making sure that

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Speaker 3: Me your friends.

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Speaker 10: It's just immature.

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Speaker 4: I guess maybe they're bored because they're they're bored in

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Speaker 3: Now. The other way you could look at it is

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Speaker 7: You are the gatekeeper.

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Speaker 11: I know how this feels because I feel like when

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Speaker 2: I didn't go through your dating app. Would you still

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 11: I don't really want to do that today, or like

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Speaker 2: They're not going to your person grab phoney except that

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Speaker 11: Yeah, I mean I enjoyed the meddling, but I could

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Speaker 3: But also just to you know, relate Alison. There comes

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Speaker 3: comes to can I ask you why you're not married?

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Speaker 3: Can I ask you why you don't have kids? Especially

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Speaker 3: this happens to me all the time, and you do

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Speaker 10: Your real friends shouldn't be asking you.

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Speaker 2: That your real friends should love you for who you are,

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Speaker 2: who you're dating, who you're not dating, like it doesn't matter, or.

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Speaker 11: They just want you to be happy and find someone

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Speaker 3: That, don't pretend to know what Alison and I are

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Speaker 11: Oh my god, I know exactly what Alison's dealing with because.

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Speaker 3: I lived it, okay, and then you found it's awful.

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Speaker 3: So I think have you expressed to them that you're

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Speaker 4: Not really, That's kind of why I'm calling, because I

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Speaker 2: Know, be honest with yourself and with them. Okay, what's

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Speaker 4: That's this is true?

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Speaker 3: And tell them to lay off a little bit, like

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Speaker 3: the pressure is not cool.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you know what.

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Speaker 6: I agree.

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Speaker 4: I agree.

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Speaker 3: Do you call my friends as well while you're after

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Speaker 3: you finish with yours?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly. We'll set that boundary together.

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Speaker 3: Thank you Alison for calling. I appreciate you. Good luck.

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Speaker 3: It's a quote. A quote or seven o'clock gets you

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Speaker 3: You're having dinner at someone's house, maybe even spending the

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Speaker 7: Want to waste Why.

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Speaker 3: Walk in there, Turn on the water, run it cold.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna mask any sound that might happen. Can be

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Speaker 3: You you don't want that, No, I'll read for you

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Speaker 7: You know what.

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Speaker 2: One day I'm gonna need to use that, and I

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Speaker 3: Although we have those sinks where you gotta hold I

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Speaker 7: Yeah, not enough.

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Speaker 3: I can't even wash my hands. Today's squall, Tanya Ciciny.

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Speaker 3: Even if it takes time, you're gonna get exactly where

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Speaker 7: Find joy in the journey.

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Speaker 3: Find in the journey. About two point seven, it's kiss FM,

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Speaker 3: Los Angeles. So I have to say, you know, I'm

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Speaker 3: are you're glowing? You know, you're you're, you're you're What

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Speaker 3: does Kevin Hart saying that iPhone commercial? You got your

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Speaker 7: Okay? Wow?

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Speaker 3: Kevin Art says, Kevin Art doesn't every commercial he's in.

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Speaker 3: I actually really like he's in a new iPhone commercial

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Speaker 10: I know exactly what you're talking.

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Speaker 3: He thinks, he thinks he's got the new iPhone, and

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Speaker 3: It turns out they're really looking at the iPhone, right,

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Speaker 11: The I don't have a treadmill, so everything I do

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Speaker 3: So I see people do this at the gym. Yeah,

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Speaker 10: Does your dog walk backwards?

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Speaker 11: So I've only brought Sunny once because she will not.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. You know, we have been walking

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Speaker 3: with a weight. Vest Have you seen these things? Yes?

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Speaker 7: Now for my right, I'm going to get one.

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Speaker 10: Oh, if you get it, Ryan, she's.

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Speaker 3: Gonna get it. Well Rot so sooner her husband will

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Speaker 11: Before you even said this, one of Robby's best friends

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Speaker 3: Just a few pounds on your body. How he can

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Speaker 10: No, just bear walking the dog.

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Speaker 3: Well that's good enough. Kiss FM. It's time for a

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Speaker 3: you're not dating. So so Joscelyn in Long Beach says,

447
00:20:17,000 --> 00:20:19,639
Speaker 3: we have known each other for a long time. He

448
00:20:19,680 --> 00:20:21,320
Speaker 3: asked me out a lot, and I always said no

449
00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:24,080
Speaker 3: because I thought he was a player. Is that a

450
00:20:24,280 --> 00:20:24,800
Speaker 3: turn off?

451
00:20:25,520 --> 00:20:25,760
Speaker 7: Yes?

452
00:20:25,920 --> 00:20:26,280
Speaker 10: I don't know.

453
00:20:26,359 --> 00:20:29,000
Speaker 2: Sometimes some people might fight it hot.

454
00:20:30,640 --> 00:20:32,000
Speaker 3: It's true. Money clearly does not.

455
00:20:32,080 --> 00:20:34,240
Speaker 10: But back in the day I always went.

456
00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:34,639
Speaker 7: For the players.

457
00:20:35,400 --> 00:20:38,600
Speaker 3: Anyway. They work together, and he keeps asking and asking

458
00:20:38,720 --> 00:20:41,880
Speaker 3: They finally went out and it was a great first date.

459
00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:47,080
Speaker 3: And now he's avoiding her, so he chipped away for years.

460
00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:50,199
Speaker 3: They went out, and now he's kind of like not around.

461
00:20:51,000 --> 00:20:52,920
Speaker 10: Yeah, it's got a proved your point.

462
00:20:53,520 --> 00:20:55,440
Speaker 3: Hi is this Joscelyn.

463
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:57,160
Speaker 8: Hi?

464
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:58,240
Speaker 12: Yeah, it's Jocelyn.

465
00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:01,520
Speaker 3: Well Jocelyn. We are all here to help out second

466
00:21:01,720 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 3: date updates. So what made you say yes to this

467
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:08,880
Speaker 3: guy after all these years of pursuing you for a date?

468
00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,520
Speaker 12: Yeah, you know, like we grew up in the same area.

469
00:21:13,840 --> 00:21:16,359
Speaker 12: We just knew each other well from being in the

470
00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:20,160
Speaker 12: same church youth group, and but enough, like he had

471
00:21:20,240 --> 00:21:24,800
Speaker 12: dated half the girls in that group, and I always

472
00:21:24,880 --> 00:21:27,480
Speaker 12: thought I would never say yes to him.

473
00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:29,960
Speaker 6: But we just kept crossing.

474
00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,000
Speaker 12: Baths over the years. I mean I would see him

475
00:21:32,000 --> 00:21:34,680
Speaker 12: at the mall or at Target or whatever. And then

476
00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,480
Speaker 12: we actually, at this point now work for the same company,

477
00:21:39,080 --> 00:21:42,800
Speaker 12: and uh, well technically he's an independent contractor, so we're

478
00:21:42,840 --> 00:21:44,720
Speaker 12: not really coworkers.

479
00:21:45,359 --> 00:21:47,840
Speaker 8: But I, you know, I just keep running into.

480
00:21:47,640 --> 00:21:51,040
Speaker 12: Him, and he's asked me out again and again, and

481
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:53,719
Speaker 12: I thought, you know what, why not, I'm just going

482
00:21:53,800 --> 00:21:55,520
Speaker 12: to go for it. So I finally said yes.

483
00:21:56,320 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 3: So does it being like an independent contractor make it

484
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:03,639
Speaker 3: less of an issue in terms of dating people you

485
00:22:03,760 --> 00:22:06,320
Speaker 3: work with. I think it might, right.

486
00:22:07,920 --> 00:22:11,800
Speaker 12: Yeah, definitely, Like he's kind of just in and out, yeah,

487
00:22:11,920 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 12: the office, so I don't see him that often.

488
00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:17,240
Speaker 3: So I don't know him, but I like his persistence.

489
00:22:17,400 --> 00:22:20,120
Speaker 3: So finally he gets you to say, okay, let's go.

490
00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:23,680
Speaker 3: Then you go on the date after all this time.

491
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:25,000
Speaker 3: What went wrong?

492
00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:28,680
Speaker 1: I don't know.

493
00:22:28,800 --> 00:22:32,240
Speaker 12: I mean, we definitely had a good night kiss.

494
00:22:32,400 --> 00:22:33,120
Speaker 1: It was like a.

495
00:22:33,119 --> 00:22:36,000
Speaker 12: Dancing kiss with the music and the sun said that

496
00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:39,600
Speaker 12: was happening by the ocean, and it was great. I

497
00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:41,480
Speaker 12: thought the whole night was awesome.

498
00:22:42,720 --> 00:22:45,000
Speaker 3: And now he's avoiding you.

499
00:22:47,000 --> 00:22:51,120
Speaker 12: Yeah, like I said, hey, i'll see my network, and

500
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 12: I was thinking, you know that aside from that, we

501
00:22:55,080 --> 00:22:59,160
Speaker 12: would definitely be on another date. He pursued me for so.

502
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 3: Many years, so he's a player, which, by the way,

503
00:23:02,920 --> 00:23:08,200
Speaker 3: if he pursues and then he gets then maybe that's

504
00:23:08,359 --> 00:23:11,800
Speaker 3: the way the players operate, right, It's about the chase,

505
00:23:11,880 --> 00:23:16,399
Speaker 3: and right he got you. Now he's lazy complace it.

506
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,879
Speaker 12: Yeah, I don't know, but he's definitely avoiding me.

507
00:23:23,160 --> 00:23:26,560
Speaker 6: So because he's just playing be do you so?

508
00:23:26,920 --> 00:23:29,639
Speaker 3: Sistney thinks players are is so attractive.

509
00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,800
Speaker 10: No, I don't attractive.

510
00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:36,080
Speaker 2: There is a swag to them that makes you that

511
00:23:36,240 --> 00:23:39,000
Speaker 2: is attractive sometimes and it almost is like a game

512
00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:41,560
Speaker 2: in your head, thinking like I will be the one

513
00:23:41,600 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 2: to change his behavior. I will be he's going to

514
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 2: not be a player because he's gonna date me, And

515
00:23:47,000 --> 00:23:47,840
Speaker 2: there's a kanya.

516
00:23:47,880 --> 00:23:50,560
Speaker 3: It totally disagrees. So what do you what's your view

517
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:52,760
Speaker 3: on players?

518
00:23:54,040 --> 00:23:57,600
Speaker 12: I don't want to be played by one, so I'm

519
00:23:57,640 --> 00:23:58,680
Speaker 12: not really into.

520
00:23:58,480 --> 00:23:59,960
Speaker 1: Them, got it?

521
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,360
Speaker 3: Okay, So we are going to call him next try

522
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,159
Speaker 3: and find out what happened. Like to me, it's so

523
00:24:06,359 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 3: strange that you would be as persistent as possible to

524
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:14,160
Speaker 3: get a date with you and then finally it's disrespectful

525
00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,200
Speaker 3: by the way, like finally you say yes and then

526
00:24:16,200 --> 00:24:19,520
Speaker 3: he vanishes. So let's find out what's going down. Hang

527
00:24:19,560 --> 00:24:23,199
Speaker 3: on one second, Okay, we'll come back and make that

528
00:24:23,280 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 3: call to him. The player one of two point seven KISSFM.

529
00:24:26,800 --> 00:24:30,040
Speaker 3: One of two point seven Kiss FM. We've got a

530
00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,399
Speaker 3: second date update. We're in the middle of that right now.

531
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:35,600
Speaker 3: So let's bring up Joscelyn here who wrote in and said,

532
00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 3: so this guy, he's a third party. They don't really

533
00:24:38,040 --> 00:24:40,959
Speaker 3: work for the same company. He's third party, but they

534
00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:45,040
Speaker 3: work together. This guy, his name is Ricky, been pursuing

535
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 3: her for a long time, right, years, Yes, he's been

536
00:24:49,840 --> 00:24:52,040
Speaker 3: trying everything. Finally she says, Okay, I'm gonna go out

537
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: with you. They go out, and then he blows her off. So, Joscelyn,

538
00:24:56,680 --> 00:25:00,000
Speaker 3: be very quiet. We're gonna talk to him on the air.

539
00:25:00,400 --> 00:25:04,400
Speaker 3: You'll listen. We're gonna try and find out what's up,

540
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 3: like why the pursuit for years and then the blow off?

541
00:25:08,520 --> 00:25:13,440
Speaker 9: Okay, Ricky, are you there, Yes, I'm here.

542
00:25:13,960 --> 00:25:17,440
Speaker 3: Hi, Ricky, Ryan Seacrest, Systaney, Tanya, you are on the air.

543
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:21,040
Speaker 1: Welcome, Yeah, Hi, Hi, thank you guys.

544
00:25:21,480 --> 00:25:24,520
Speaker 3: So we happen to know about this woman named Jocelyn,

545
00:25:24,720 --> 00:25:27,000
Speaker 3: whom you I think pursued for quite a while.

546
00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:31,240
Speaker 1: Uh okay, yeah, yeah definitely.

547
00:25:32,520 --> 00:25:35,400
Speaker 3: And why did you pursue her for sof Like that's persistence,

548
00:25:35,480 --> 00:25:39,040
Speaker 3: Like you know, if she says not into it, not interested,

549
00:25:39,119 --> 00:25:41,360
Speaker 3: and then you kept going, what made you keep pursuing?

550
00:25:43,359 --> 00:25:48,320
Speaker 9: She's gorgeous, definitely the prettiest girl I've ever seen. Every

551
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:50,440
Speaker 9: box that I'm looking for she checks off.

552
00:25:50,760 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 1: So yeah, she's gorgeous.

553
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:58,160
Speaker 3: And tell me so Finally she said yes, after all this, right,

554
00:25:58,240 --> 00:25:59,320
Speaker 3: you guys went out?

555
00:26:01,160 --> 00:26:03,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, we did go out.

556
00:26:04,640 --> 00:26:05,520
Speaker 3: Tell me about the day.

557
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:10,320
Speaker 1: Wow, I mean it was. To be honest with its

558
00:26:10,400 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: probably the best night of my life.

559
00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:16,439
Speaker 3: Wow. Okay, and then now what so you have a

560
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:17,479
Speaker 3: great date and then went out?

561
00:26:17,640 --> 00:26:18,520
Speaker 10: Yeah, are you dating?

562
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:22,440
Speaker 9: I don't.

563
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:25,760
Speaker 1: I don't think we're dating. No, I don't know. To

564
00:26:25,840 --> 00:26:27,239
Speaker 1: be honest, I really don't know.

565
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,000
Speaker 3: Would you like to date her?

566
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:35,879
Speaker 9: I mean yes, but I feel like she deserves someone

567
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,560
Speaker 9: maybe a little bit better than me.

568
00:26:38,600 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 7: That's cute.

569
00:26:39,280 --> 00:26:41,240
Speaker 3: Well that's actually quite sweet.

570
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,560
Speaker 10: Well why do you think that?

571
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:46,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, it's probably right.

572
00:26:49,280 --> 00:26:51,600
Speaker 1: I would. I'm gonna be straight up with you, guys.

573
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:53,200
Speaker 1: I'm broke.

574
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:57,760
Speaker 9: So that's that's a bit a big problem for me,

575
00:26:57,800 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 9: because I feel like she deserves someone that can take

576
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:02,440
Speaker 9: care of her fire, whatever she wants, And.

577
00:27:03,680 --> 00:27:05,480
Speaker 1: To me, that's that's that's not me right now.

578
00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,480
Speaker 2: Oh, but that's just so temporary. When I met my husband,

579
00:27:08,520 --> 00:27:09,240
Speaker 2: he was broke too.

580
00:27:11,280 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 3: I was broke when I moved to La Everyone's broke

581
00:27:13,760 --> 00:27:15,960
Speaker 3: some time, and no one went out with me.

582
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, I find that hard.

583
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,160
Speaker 10: The connection is there? Money is money comes and goes.

584
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:28,480
Speaker 3: About that. Then she's not maybe right. So you went out,

585
00:27:28,520 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 3: you liked her, you pursued her, she said yes, but

586
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:34,240
Speaker 3: you backed off because you don't think you have funding

587
00:27:34,280 --> 00:27:34,720
Speaker 3: to date her.

588
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:38,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, I got I got a little intimidated to be.

589
00:27:38,640 --> 00:27:40,440
Speaker 1: I don't know. I just I don't think that I can.

590
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 9: I'm at that place where I can afford all that

591
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:45,280
Speaker 9: type of lifestyle.

592
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,600
Speaker 3: If you could, well life lifestime. What a first date?

593
00:27:48,640 --> 00:27:50,159
Speaker 3: Where would you take her on a first date? What

594
00:27:50,200 --> 00:27:50,760
Speaker 3: would you do?

595
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:57,520
Speaker 9: I mean endless amounts of funds? I man, I'd love

596
00:27:57,520 --> 00:28:00,800
Speaker 9: to take her to a Charters game. I'd love to

597
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:04,840
Speaker 9: take her out to a nice dinner maybe or launch,

598
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:06,000
Speaker 9: depending on the time of day.

599
00:28:06,520 --> 00:28:08,720
Speaker 1: And yeah, I mean take.

600
00:28:08,560 --> 00:28:11,359
Speaker 9: Her shopping, just shower her and whatever she wants.

601
00:28:11,680 --> 00:28:18,240
Speaker 3: Okay, let me, do you mind if I just impose

602
00:28:18,440 --> 00:28:18,920
Speaker 3: a little bit.

603
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 5: Okay, aren't we already?

604
00:28:22,359 --> 00:28:22,520
Speaker 4: Well?

605
00:28:22,560 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 3: No, I mean, because you know, dating well in my

606
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:30,399
Speaker 3: real life doesn't go great. But in giving advice, I

607
00:28:30,440 --> 00:28:35,920
Speaker 3: think I'm okay at it. So what if I told

608
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 3: you that she wants to go out with you again,

609
00:28:40,320 --> 00:28:44,320
Speaker 3: and we will give you some Chargers tickets and then

610
00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:48,040
Speaker 3: we will send you to a place to eat that

611
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:51,360
Speaker 3: is convenient to where you live or after the game

612
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 3: on us. Would that be appealing?

613
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:58,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, that would be absolutely more than appealing. That that

614
00:28:58,440 --> 00:28:59,160
Speaker 1: sounds amazing.

615
00:29:00,640 --> 00:29:03,440
Speaker 3: Okay, could you bring back in Johnson?

616
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:03,800
Speaker 11: Yeah?

617
00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:05,320
Speaker 10: I mean she's been here the whole time.

618
00:29:06,000 --> 00:29:06,920
Speaker 3: Jocelyn, are you there?

619
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:08,600
Speaker 1: Yeah?

620
00:29:08,720 --> 00:29:08,840
Speaker 12: Hi?

621
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:10,800
Speaker 10: Guys, how do you feel.

622
00:29:10,600 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 7: About all this?

623
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 3: This is good news? I feel great.

624
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:22,240
Speaker 12: Honestly, I don't care that you're broke. I really don't, Yeah, Reggie, like,

625
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:28,120
Speaker 12: I mean, I promise you, I just I don't mind

626
00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 12: at all. I don't think about that kind of thing.

627
00:29:32,280 --> 00:29:34,360
Speaker 1: I know you don't, but I do.

628
00:29:34,680 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 3: And bro bro broke. Forget about it, Ricky, you're putting

629
00:29:40,120 --> 00:29:44,520
Speaker 3: up walls. She doesn't care about the funding. I think

630
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:47,440
Speaker 3: you guys should go out, get to know each other

631
00:29:48,720 --> 00:29:51,240
Speaker 3: and have a good time. I mean, where should we

632
00:29:51,280 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 3: see them for dinner?

633
00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:52,160
Speaker 4: Like?

634
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:54,040
Speaker 3: Where do you live?

635
00:29:55,360 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: I live in near Korea Town right now?

636
00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 3: Perfect, there's some great restaurants.

637
00:30:00,040 --> 00:30:03,520
Speaker 2: It's there, amazing, And I love your chargers. Man, this

638
00:30:03,560 --> 00:30:04,360
Speaker 2: looks like a match.

639
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,280
Speaker 9: You guys are making me feel a lot better about

640
00:30:07,320 --> 00:30:08,680
Speaker 9: this than I have been feeling.

641
00:30:09,040 --> 00:30:10,080
Speaker 1: I just want to say thank.

642
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 3: You for that.

643
00:30:11,160 --> 00:30:15,920
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'd love to take you out again. Absolutely great.

644
00:30:16,560 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 3: The only issues I don't I have to find these

645
00:30:18,800 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 3: charge your tickets. We'll figure that okay, fine, a back room,

646
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:27,200
Speaker 3: charge your tickets, Yeah, we'll figure it out. Okay, good,

647
00:30:27,320 --> 00:30:31,360
Speaker 3: thanks guys. I want to say it's very difficult to

648
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:34,000
Speaker 3: meet someone in this town, and when you have a click,

649
00:30:34,400 --> 00:30:37,000
Speaker 3: you can't let these little things that are in your head,

650
00:30:37,320 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 3: your head, Ricky, not hers, your head stop you from

651
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 3: finding the one am. So we'll set you off the

652
00:30:45,800 --> 00:30:49,080
Speaker 3: first one and then it's on you. I mean, you

653
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:50,520
Speaker 3: can call me back if you want something else, but

654
00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:55,719
Speaker 3: it's on you, and I like it. I'm going to

655
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:57,600
Speaker 3: get out of this call because it all worked.

656
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:58,400
Speaker 10: It really did.

657
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 9: Thank you guys so much. I can't thank you enough.

658
00:31:03,640 --> 00:31:06,440
Speaker 9: That's that's incredible, and especially the kind words. And I

659
00:31:06,520 --> 00:31:08,280
Speaker 9: think it's just I just have to be honest from

660
00:31:08,320 --> 00:31:10,960
Speaker 9: here on out and communicate exactly.

661
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:16,600
Speaker 3: And Jocelyn's into you. Joscelyn, Ricky invite us to the wedding.

662
00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:20,240
Speaker 3: You know, I have my degree in officiating, So my degree,

663
00:31:20,720 --> 00:31:22,000
Speaker 3: it is a degree and what to school.

664
00:31:22,040 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 2: Okay, We're gonna let you guys go, Joly if you

665
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:26,440
Speaker 2: have a great life.

666
00:31:25,480 --> 00:31:28,400
Speaker 3: Good luck bye. By the way, it is a degree

667
00:31:28,480 --> 00:31:29,320
Speaker 3: in officiation.

668
00:31:29,840 --> 00:31:31,520
Speaker 7: It's not a degree, it's just certificate.

669
00:31:31,520 --> 00:31:34,120
Speaker 10: It's like a website. You click, click, and then you're ordained.

670
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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not a great student. It felt like a degree. Okay, fine,

671
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 3: that's the way she work though. I love that communication.

672
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Speaker 7: Yea, love me not kiss up there with Lions Crest.

673
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Speaker 3: Why don't two point seven kiss FM? Good morning, Elijah?

674
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:55,080
Speaker 3: How are you?

675
00:31:56,880 --> 00:31:57,479
Speaker 1: Good morning?

676
00:31:57,680 --> 00:31:58,240
Speaker 5: How you doing?

677
00:31:58,560 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 3: What's going on?

678
00:31:59,200 --> 00:31:59,520
Speaker 1: Buddy?

679
00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 3: Can I help you?

680
00:32:01,440 --> 00:32:01,920
Speaker 1: Yeah?

681
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:07,720
Speaker 13: So my girlfriend made a vision board and it's kind

682
00:32:07,720 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 13: of freaking me out.

683
00:32:09,080 --> 00:32:13,520
Speaker 2: I'd run fast, excuse and why wait a minute?

684
00:32:14,240 --> 00:32:17,320
Speaker 13: So well, look, I don't even think I was supposed

685
00:32:17,320 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 13: to see it in the first place. She and her

686
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:21,800
Speaker 13: friends got together and did it right after the New Year.

687
00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 13: But I was looking for a post it in a

688
00:32:24,320 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 13: drawer and I found it and it had like a

689
00:32:29,280 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 13: bride and there was like this enormous diamond engagement range, all.

690
00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 2: Normal things that women usually put on their vision boards.

691
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Speaker 13: Right, like an expensive car and these island vacations.

692
00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 3: Like yeah, I mean the vision board is aspirational too, right,

693
00:32:45,160 --> 00:32:48,120
Speaker 3: It's supposed to be just that, you know, maybe beyond

694
00:32:48,240 --> 00:32:50,600
Speaker 3: what your goals are. But it's a nice thing to

695
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,160
Speaker 3: aspire to be. What's the issue?

696
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:54,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you don't.

697
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:56,040
Speaker 3: Want to get married? Is that the deal?

698
00:32:56,920 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: Here's the thing, here's the thing.

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Speaker 13: I get all that we've only been dating for only

700
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:01,920
Speaker 13: five months.

701
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Speaker 11: Well, bro, just because she has this vision board doesn't

702
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:13,040
Speaker 11: mean it's you.

703
00:33:09,480 --> 00:33:12,200
Speaker 1: Know, it's a vision board for this year.

704
00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 13: And I'm not that rich or anything like, I don't

705
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:17,600
Speaker 13: make that much money.

706
00:33:18,320 --> 00:33:20,800
Speaker 3: But what were you? I guess what we're hearing you

707
00:33:20,880 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 3: say is that you're feeling some pressure because of her

708
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,239
Speaker 3: vision board, and that pressure has to do with the

709
00:33:27,280 --> 00:33:30,000
Speaker 3: future of your commitment to and with her. Yeah, is

710
00:33:30,000 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 3: that what I'm hearing that?

711
00:33:31,920 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 13: And the finances?

712
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Speaker 5: I mean, look, am I line of work.

713
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:36,480
Speaker 13: I'm telling to be an EMC people like me don't

714
00:33:36,520 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 13: usually get rich.

715
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Speaker 2: Maybe you should make a vision board and then you'll

716
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:42,440
Speaker 2: be rich, you know what I mean?

717
00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:44,400
Speaker 4: Right?

718
00:33:45,120 --> 00:33:45,280
Speaker 5: No?

719
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Speaker 11: But I think also to like, maybe that's worth a

720
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 11: discussion that you can have with her, because if you know,

721
00:33:50,560 --> 00:33:53,720
Speaker 11: if she has like these fancy cars and these fancy vacations,

722
00:33:53,720 --> 00:33:54,440
Speaker 11: maybe there.

723
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Speaker 3: Is important to her, right right, Maybe that's a good

724
00:33:57,800 --> 00:34:01,080
Speaker 3: jumping off point to have a real conversation Elijah about

725
00:34:01,120 --> 00:34:01,880
Speaker 3: who you guys are.

726
00:34:02,000 --> 00:34:03,719
Speaker 10: It's a great idea, Tonya, and it might not be

727
00:34:03,720 --> 00:34:04,400
Speaker 10: that big of a deal.

728
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Speaker 2: She might be like, oh, this is just the stuff

729
00:34:06,000 --> 00:34:08,720
Speaker 2: that I just cut out of magazine, like it's vacation.

730
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Speaker 3: It's just like I mean, it's like the screensaver on

731
00:34:11,280 --> 00:34:13,680
Speaker 3: your phone, exactly, like you're going to live on that beach,

732
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:15,920
Speaker 3: but you like to look at it exactly. I use

733
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 3: this as a point to talk about what you're really

734
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:20,839
Speaker 3: thinking and feeling here in your relationship, and you'll get

735
00:34:20,880 --> 00:34:23,160
Speaker 3: to know each other better. Great idea, and thank you

736
00:34:23,200 --> 00:34:23,600
Speaker 3: for listening.

737
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Speaker 1: Very good point.

738
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Speaker 13: So I shouldn't be freaked out at all.

739
00:34:26,239 --> 00:34:26,840
Speaker 10: I think you should.

740
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,680
Speaker 7: It's beautiful that she wants to to marry you.

741
00:34:29,960 --> 00:34:32,000
Speaker 3: It's a healthy exercise to to do a vision board.

742
00:34:32,040 --> 00:34:33,600
Speaker 3: Tanya does it here all the time in life.

743
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 11: I used to put rings and brides since twenty fifteen

744
00:34:36,920 --> 00:34:37,600
Speaker 11: on my vision board.

745
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:39,640
Speaker 3: And yeah, it took a little while, but she got there.

746
00:34:39,880 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 7: I got there.

747
00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:43,799
Speaker 3: Thank you, and good luck with the mt BRO. Thanks

748
00:34:43,800 --> 00:34:46,200
Speaker 3: for saving lives.

749
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Speaker 13: Well absolutely yeah, and thank you guys for hearing me

750
00:34:48,239 --> 00:34:50,080
Speaker 13: out and giving me some advice I needed to.

751
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:52,520
Speaker 10: Hear that got call anytime.

752
00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:56,080
Speaker 3: It is interesting that like, okay, where he thought her

753
00:34:56,120 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 3: putting those things up is just bad news. Actually it's

754
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:00,200
Speaker 3: great news because he can now have a convers station

755
00:35:00,280 --> 00:35:02,360
Speaker 3: about who they really are, like who he is, or

756
00:35:02,400 --> 00:35:04,880
Speaker 3: who he's looking for, or what in what she really

757
00:35:05,480 --> 00:35:06,680
Speaker 3: wants or means by all that.

758
00:35:06,960 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 2: Yes, and maybe it's just like she wants it. Eventually

759
00:35:09,360 --> 00:35:11,640
Speaker 2: she just doesn't. You know, it doesn't need to happen

760
00:35:11,680 --> 00:35:12,120
Speaker 2: this year.

761
00:35:12,440 --> 00:35:15,040
Speaker 11: But I've probably scared off so many men because I

762
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:18,600
Speaker 11: would keep my vision board in like on my bathroom window,

763
00:35:18,800 --> 00:35:20,359
Speaker 11: or I'd keep it in the kitchen so I saw

764
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,040
Speaker 11: it every morning I was making my coffee.

765
00:35:22,200 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 10: So when they'd come over to your house, it would

766
00:35:23,680 --> 00:35:24,960
Speaker 10: just be out yep.

767
00:35:25,120 --> 00:35:29,440
Speaker 11: With bridle rings and bridled and uh song lyrics.

768
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Speaker 3: Years ago, we could have helped just move the vision

769
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:35,799
Speaker 3: board and this would have happens one a two point

770
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:38,759
Speaker 3: seven Kiss FM. Now let me explain this to you

771
00:35:38,840 --> 00:35:40,399
Speaker 3: before I put Devin on. Last week, we were talking

772
00:35:40,440 --> 00:35:42,560
Speaker 3: about a couple who posted a sign at their wedding

773
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 3: and the sign said, pay to play one of the

774
00:35:46,160 --> 00:35:48,279
Speaker 3: following songs you'd like to hear. And there's a list

775
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:51,720
Speaker 3: of these songs like, Uh, Don't Stop Believing by Journey

776
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 3: was up there. Some Garth Brooks was up there. Uh,

777
00:35:55,280 --> 00:35:58,760
Speaker 3: some Queen was up there, some classic sings, songs. There's

778
00:35:58,760 --> 00:36:02,200
Speaker 3: a menu and ps the songs that were listed. The

779
00:36:02,239 --> 00:36:05,480
Speaker 3: couple does not really like proceeds We're gonna go to

780
00:36:05,480 --> 00:36:07,840
Speaker 3: their honeymoon fund, so think about that concept. These are

781
00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:09,399
Speaker 3: songs that we think you like, we don't really love,

782
00:36:09,400 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: but you're gonna pay for a honeymoon, so hey, we'll

783
00:36:12,120 --> 00:36:16,120
Speaker 3: give up the time. People were divided, and then Devin

784
00:36:16,160 --> 00:36:20,560
Speaker 3: heard that he's a wedding DJ from Huntington Beach. He says,

785
00:36:21,680 --> 00:36:23,840
Speaker 3: never let your guests choose the songs. Devin, thanks for

786
00:36:23,880 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 3: coming on with us. Now why do you say never? Surely, well,

787
00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,239
Speaker 3: he definitely sounds like one, So Devin tell me why

788
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 3: is it that the guest should never choose the songs?

789
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:36,600
Speaker 5: A lot of times the bride is worked really hard

790
00:36:36,640 --> 00:36:40,200
Speaker 5: on a list that we love because it opens up

791
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 5: floodgates into what it is that they like and what's

792
00:36:43,400 --> 00:36:45,400
Speaker 5: going to motivate them to get on the dance floor,

793
00:36:45,840 --> 00:36:48,440
Speaker 5: and then to incorporate some of the bride'smaids and some

794
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:52,240
Speaker 5: of the guests requests. But if you had fifty people

795
00:36:52,280 --> 00:36:57,040
Speaker 5: doing a pay to play, they ultimately become your DJ.

796
00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:00,759
Speaker 5: And the biggest part of our job is to look

797
00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:02,600
Speaker 5: at it like a video game and we're shooting for

798
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,479
Speaker 5: a high score, and we're looking at Grandma, and we're

799
00:37:05,520 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 5: looking at the bride's maids and the bride and wanting

800
00:37:08,080 --> 00:37:09,080
Speaker 5: to get them to dance.

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00:37:09,840 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 3: Yeahs, I like what you're saying because you're trying to

802
00:37:14,880 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 3: You're aiming to please, right, and you're reading the room

803
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,719
Speaker 3: and you're reacting off of the read of the room,

804
00:37:19,760 --> 00:37:22,080
Speaker 3: and when you see some reaction, you build on that reaction.

805
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,279
Speaker 3: I mean, you're a purist and I love that about you.

806
00:37:24,280 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 3: You've got to really you got to throw something out there,

807
00:37:27,080 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 3: read your response, and then try and build on that,

808
00:37:29,440 --> 00:37:32,440
Speaker 3: and that that fluidity is what it's all about.

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00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:36,880
Speaker 5: So you explained it perfect because you know, I mean,

810
00:37:36,920 --> 00:37:38,759
Speaker 5: there was a thing once upon a time where they

811
00:37:38,800 --> 00:37:41,920
Speaker 5: had every gaps on an invitation to put one song request.

812
00:37:41,960 --> 00:37:44,319
Speaker 5: But you're already setting up half of the room to

813
00:37:44,360 --> 00:37:48,400
Speaker 5: not even hear their request. And my priority is that journey.

814
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,400
Speaker 5: I mean, here's one thing like even your ladies written,

815
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:52,920
Speaker 5: you know, there now we'll say yes to this.

816
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,279
Speaker 1: How many times have you.

817
00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:55,839
Speaker 5: Ever been at a party, been in a wedding, been

818
00:37:55,880 --> 00:37:58,920
Speaker 5: an event, Here a great song, you start dancing and

819
00:37:58,960 --> 00:37:59,920
Speaker 5: the next song sucks.

820
00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:03,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, everybody clearly answer. But for you DJ, that's sad,

821
00:38:04,880 --> 00:38:07,520
Speaker 3: like I feel bad for the DJ might go back out.

822
00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,600
Speaker 5: Yeah, even if it was you, mom, dad, grandma and grandpa.

823
00:38:11,719 --> 00:38:14,400
Speaker 5: I'm looking even at the table in the musical at tourney,

824
00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:16,440
Speaker 5: I'm looking from them to bother.

825
00:38:16,239 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: Their heads, tap their feet, tap their.

826
00:38:18,360 --> 00:38:21,799
Speaker 5: Finger and totally p And if it's one song, I mean,

827
00:38:21,840 --> 00:38:24,680
Speaker 5: if it's a Michael Jackson that got Grandma even coming

828
00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:27,120
Speaker 5: out to dance, and my next song's not Jerry Lee Lewis,

829
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 5: you know it's got to be two three of one

830
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 5: type two three of another.

831
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:32,640
Speaker 3: I appreciate you sending some light on this because you're

832
00:38:32,640 --> 00:38:34,879
Speaker 3: in the trenches on this and that is Devin. Thank

833
00:38:34,920 --> 00:38:36,480
Speaker 3: you very much for being on with this. Devin, take

834
00:38:36,480 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 3: good care.

835
00:38:37,280 --> 00:38:40,160
Speaker 2: He's not wrong, no, and the video game analogy really

836
00:38:40,200 --> 00:38:40,719
Speaker 2: makes sense.

837
00:38:40,960 --> 00:38:45,960
Speaker 3: One or two point seven Kiss FM. Jasmine Sandimus, Good morning,

838
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 3: How are you?

839
00:38:47,760 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 14: Good morning?

840
00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:49,960
Speaker 3: How can I help you?

841
00:38:50,880 --> 00:38:54,080
Speaker 14: Well, Okay, I have a little bit of an issue

842
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,040
Speaker 14: my brother is getting married and you're next summer, and

843
00:38:58,440 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 14: you know, I really want to be there, and my

844
00:39:02,440 --> 00:39:04,560
Speaker 14: husband and I were actually going to have a four

845
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 14: month old baby by then, so we have like this

846
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,759
Speaker 14: plan that we've worked out well where he'll stay at

847
00:39:09,760 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 14: home with the baby while I go to the wedding.

848
00:39:12,800 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 14: But we have an older child's with four and my

849
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,040
Speaker 14: brother wants him to be the ring bearer, which I'm

850
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:21,920
Speaker 14: ecstatic about and I think is really special, but my

851
00:39:22,080 --> 00:39:24,840
Speaker 14: husband doesn't feel comfortable with our son going to Europe

852
00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:26,960
Speaker 14: without them.

853
00:39:27,360 --> 00:39:28,919
Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, yeah.

854
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,759
Speaker 14: So I'm just like literally stuck because I think it's

855
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,080
Speaker 14: like unfair. You know, I don't want to be unfair

856
00:39:34,600 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 14: to my brother, who you know, really wants his nephew

857
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:39,640
Speaker 14: be potter of the big moment. But at the same time,

858
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:43,719
Speaker 14: you know, I understand my husband's concerns, and I just

859
00:39:43,760 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 14: don't know how to like balance being there for my

860
00:39:45,840 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 14: family but like respecting my husband's wishes.

861
00:39:49,280 --> 00:39:50,839
Speaker 3: I don't know. If I don't know what to do.

862
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 3: You all have to go. Yeah, kids, weddings, This is

863
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:59,680
Speaker 3: not my Bailey Wick, So siy, why can't you Anyway.

864
00:39:59,040 --> 00:40:01,080
Speaker 14: He works from home and needs to stay home with

865
00:40:01,120 --> 00:40:02,920
Speaker 14: the baby, but bring the baby.

866
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Speaker 2: You know, four months old is like the easiest time

867
00:40:05,400 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 2: to travel with the baby that age.

868
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:13,400
Speaker 14: Yeah, we're just not comfortable with like traveling with Europe.

869
00:40:13,400 --> 00:40:15,440
Speaker 6: It's going to be so far, it's a lot happening.

870
00:40:15,880 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 14: Plus, I don't want, like to leave the baby with

871
00:40:18,160 --> 00:40:20,800
Speaker 14: a babysitter like that age.

872
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:23,839
Speaker 3: You know, I've just discovered an easy out. Oh, I mean,

873
00:40:24,040 --> 00:40:26,720
Speaker 3: this is all about the baby. This is all about

874
00:40:26,760 --> 00:40:30,759
Speaker 3: the baby's safety, well being and health. And there's as

875
00:40:30,840 --> 00:40:33,839
Speaker 3: badly as you want to make everybody happy, there's only

876
00:40:33,960 --> 00:40:35,799
Speaker 3: one lens you look through, and that is through the

877
00:40:35,800 --> 00:40:39,080
Speaker 3: eyes of the baby. And then you're you're gonna total out.

878
00:40:39,400 --> 00:40:41,359
Speaker 3: No one can No one can tellya you don't know.

879
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 7: Yeah, first of all, you're the mom.

880
00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 11: If you want to take your four year old son

881
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,279
Speaker 11: to your brother's wedding, you should be able to do that.

882
00:40:47,640 --> 00:40:51,080
Speaker 2: You should And I think your husband needs Are you

883
00:40:51,120 --> 00:40:54,160
Speaker 2: saying you're totally comfortable with it, jsmine?

884
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:56,720
Speaker 14: Well, if I'm comfortable.

885
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,200
Speaker 3: With breeding, yeah, yeah.

886
00:40:58,280 --> 00:41:00,920
Speaker 14: Absolutely my four year old, Yeah, I want him to

887
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:02,160
Speaker 14: be the ring bearer.

888
00:41:02,080 --> 00:41:03,560
Speaker 6: But like you know, I don't want to.

889
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:08,719
Speaker 14: I understand that my husband doesn't want you know me

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Speaker 14: there with him and without him being there.

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Speaker 10: Not to make this more of a fight.

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Speaker 2: But you can come at your husband, well, you can

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Speaker 2: come out your husband like do you not trust me?

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Speaker 10: Is this a trust issue? Like I am his mom?

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Speaker 3: Like you're now, you're now, you're pivoting it to be

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Speaker 3: this is not about the baby. This is about you

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Speaker 3: not trusting me, this relationship. We don't think I can

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Speaker 3: handle this, then we got a bigger problem. That's nice,

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Speaker 3: I mean love it. Change the headline. Okay, so good,

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Speaker 3: so manipulative and goodtivetive.

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Speaker 2: It's giving, manipulative, it's giving, like my feelings are hurt.

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Speaker 3: This solves the problem, Jasmine, she knows what she's talking about.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear how it goes. Calls back.

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Speaker 3: We're here.

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Speaker 2: I mean, can you imagine Michael said I could and

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Speaker 2: bring my kids and were like, yeah, it's so weird.

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Speaker 3: It's great. It's really a good solution. You got this, Jasmine,

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Speaker 3: Thank you so much, good luck. I can't wait for

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Speaker 3: you to go do this. He calls back after it happens.

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Speaker 14: Okay, I sure, well, thank you so much.

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Speaker 3: Yes, no, you know how you operate.

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Speaker 10: That's why I gonna call us NAX and be like,

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Speaker 10: what did you.

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Speaker 3: Tell my wife? It was called on air with one

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