Speaker 1: Second day. I feel like modern dating has gotten so
Speaker 1: crazy lately. Sometimes you just have to take a page
Speaker 1: out of the old nineteen fifties dating books. Yeah, I'm saying,
Speaker 1: just go back to the basics. Keep it simple, Take
Speaker 1: your best gal to a movie, split a cherry coke,
Speaker 1: do a little neck and in the back row. Before
Speaker 1: you know what, you're going steady, oh wow, say yeah,
Speaker 1: and you've got yourself a little housewife there, easy, you know.
Speaker 1: And that's what one of our listeners, Josh did for
Speaker 1: his first date. He went old fashioned, took his girl
Speaker 1: to a simple movie. Isn't that right? Josh? Yeah? Kinda?
Speaker 1: How is that a kind of like you either went
Speaker 1: to the movies or you didn't. We went together, but
Speaker 1: didn't go together? Not being clear here? Right together? Yeah?
Speaker 1: What do you what? What's this girl's name? First of all,
Speaker 1: this girl's name is Renee. Okay, okay, And what do
Speaker 1: you mean? You and Renee kinda went together, but not
Speaker 1: really well like long story short, we sat on opposite
Speaker 1: sides of the theater. Why wait, where you on a
Speaker 1: date with her? Or is this we're calling somebody you
Speaker 1: stalked for a couple hours and so I wore her
Speaker 1: skin the next day. No, I'm joking, but this was
Speaker 1: like the weirdest date I've ever been on. Okay, so
Speaker 1: where did you meet Renee? Sorry before the movie theater?
Speaker 1: I met her on a dating app. Okay, yeah, blah
Speaker 1: blah blah. But she was like so hot, right, you know.
Speaker 1: I don't want to sound shallow or whatever, but she
Speaker 1: was like out of my league. Congrats, we're all proud
Speaker 1: of you. Bro. Yeah, that's awesome, thanks, my dude. So
Speaker 1: what happened with the movies? Well, when we matched, she
Speaker 1: messaged me, she was like, Okay, we can hang out
Speaker 1: or whatever. I can get to know you. I have
Speaker 1: really specific rules. Oh, because they can. I never had
Speaker 1: any rules, and for some reason women in their conditions.
Speaker 1: What were the rules? Well, the first one she was like,
Speaker 1: I don't get physical on the first date, and that
Speaker 1: has to be okay with you. Of course, I mean
Speaker 1: that's a that's an understandable rule. I thought there was
Speaker 1: going to be something crazy like you have to buy
Speaker 1: me steak dinner at a certain restaurant. Actually, I think
Speaker 1: the girls that don't want to get physical in the
Speaker 1: first day are the most quality women out of here.
Speaker 1: I'm just lab boring. It shows that they know their
Speaker 1: own value and they're not going to give it up.
Speaker 1: On the fust day, we were back to her rules.
Speaker 1: What were her other rules? Yeah, okay, so she only
Speaker 1: had one other rule, okay, and that was that we
Speaker 1: should see a movie, but we're not going to watch
Speaker 1: it in a traditional way. She was like, I'll meet
Speaker 1: you in the lobby. We'll share a snack for like
Speaker 1: fifteen minutes or whatever and talk, okay, and then when
Speaker 1: we go into the movie, we will sit on opposite
Speaker 1: sides of the theater. Why she said, at the end
Speaker 1: of the movie, if you feel a connection before when
Speaker 1: we were talking, you walk to the center of the
Speaker 1: theater and we'll meet up and get a drink. And
Speaker 1: if not, then you just turn and go down the
Speaker 1: aisle and we don't have to see each other ever again.
Speaker 1: But I don't like, why even do the movie? Why
Speaker 1: not just go get coffee and spend fifteen minutes together
Speaker 1: and then decide if you want to date? Then? Like what? No?
Speaker 1: I thought it was crazy, but I went through with
Speaker 1: it because I think it could have been worth it. Okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: so was it was it worth it? No? What happened? Well,
Speaker 1: I met her. We like shared popcorn in the lobby,
Speaker 1: and uh, I thought we had a connection. We were
Speaker 1: like laughing and we had a lot of the same
Speaker 1: interests and stuff. All right, it was great. And then
Speaker 1: like at one point, she looks down at her phone
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, the previous are about to start.
Speaker 1: I guess we should go in. Okay, you don't want
Speaker 1: to miss those previews. And like before I could even
Speaker 1: say like, oh, yeah, that sounds good, she was already
Speaker 1: up and walking away. That's not a good sign, did you.
Speaker 1: I mean like I would have been like, oh man,
Speaker 1: I blew it. Yeah, well, part of me thought that,
Speaker 1: and then part of me was like, is this just
Speaker 1: part of the rules that I don't understand. Were already
Speaker 1: hitting it off, she could feel if she wanted to
Speaker 1: kiss you, and it does feel like some weird initiation
Speaker 1: into a club. Yeah yeah, yeah, well it creates it
Speaker 1: definitely creates a mystique around her, like she obviously doesn't
Speaker 1: just date any guy and let anything happen. So how
Speaker 1: did the movie part go? Well? I couldn't even focus
Speaker 1: on the movie because where we ended up sitting I
Speaker 1: could kind of see where she was at. Okay, but
Speaker 1: I just was like kept looking at her the whole time.
Speaker 1: I was like wondering, what's going to happen at the
Speaker 1: end of this movie. I couldn't even have fun and
Speaker 1: like enjoy the movie. Oh, I could totally see that.
Speaker 1: I mean that'd be weird. Yeah, what about her though,
Speaker 1: Like what was she doing? She didn't even look over once?
Speaker 1: Oh she did really well? No, not a single tie
Speaker 1: your eyes burning into the back of her skull. Probably
Speaker 1: so by the end of the movie, what happened? So
Speaker 1: movie ends, credits start rolling kind of, you know, the
Speaker 1: lights kind of come up in the theater like halfway.
Speaker 1: Everybody else is getting up and walking out, and I'm
Speaker 1: looking over her and she hasn't even gotten up yet.
Speaker 1: The credit star She's like reading the credits. What were
Speaker 1: you doing? Was your heart just beating out of your chest? Oh?
Speaker 1: It was going like one hundred miles an hour? And
Speaker 1: then finally the final credits roll and then she just
Speaker 1: walks right down the aisle and out of the theater. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, are you still interested in this? Check? Because
Speaker 1: I think that I think it's kind of messed up. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean, my ego is not too big. I would
Speaker 1: definitely meet up with her again. Okay, you'll take the abuse.
Speaker 1: What do you think you did wrong during the movie.
Speaker 1: I mean, honestly, that's one of the reasons why I called,
Speaker 1: because I don't know what I did. He couldn't have
Speaker 1: done anything wrong. I mean, it sounds like this, who
Speaker 1: knows with her? Right? It could just because she was
Speaker 1: just saying if there's a connection. I mean, what a
Speaker 1: vague thing to say. But maybe it was a test
Speaker 1: where she wanted you to come up and break the rules.
Speaker 1: Bad boy. I'm going to tell you right now stay
Speaker 1: away from women with tests. You definitely make sure that
Speaker 1: your women get tested before you go. I do not
Speaker 1: agree with that. But you know what, We're going to
Speaker 1: play a song, we'll come back, we'll call Renee for you,
Speaker 1: and we'll try and get your second date update. All right, man,
Speaker 1: thank you guys. All right, hold on, Is it possible
Speaker 1: to have a long distance relationship while being in the
Speaker 1: same room as someone. That's a really funny way to
Speaker 1: put what happened. I mean, i'd say, Brooks about six
Speaker 1: feet away from me right now, brook are you feeling
Speaker 1: what I'm feeling? I'm not. You don't even know what
Speaker 1: I'm feeling. I just know that I'm feeling a little
Speaker 1: bit weird, maybe a little bit drunk. Took am All right,
Speaker 1: there's something. But one of our listeners, Josh, told us
Speaker 1: he went to the movies with a woman named Renee,
Speaker 1: and she had some of the most extreme rules and
Speaker 1: conditions anyone could possibly put forward for a first date,
Speaker 1: because she said they were going to meet in the
Speaker 1: lobby talk for a few minutes while eating snacks, and
Speaker 1: then they could go into the movie, but they had
Speaker 1: to sit on opposite ends of the theater so that
Speaker 1: they wouldn't have any physical contact because we all know
Speaker 1: kissing out of wedlock is a sin and if you
Speaker 1: do it, you go to h double bendy straws. And
Speaker 1: she never said that that was why. She just said
Speaker 1: that they was part of her rules. She said she
Speaker 1: wanted no physical contact. Could have been something else. It
Speaker 1: could have been I don't know, I think it's a game,
Speaker 1: or she really doesn't like well. After the film was over,
Speaker 1: she said if they felt a connection, they could meet
Speaker 1: up again in the middle of the seats and then
Speaker 1: go out for a drink. That was the agreement, and
Speaker 1: Josh was okay with that. The movie happened. Lights came
Speaker 1: on and Renee walked out, no explanation for why, and
Speaker 1: sitting waiting for her to decide through all the credits,
Speaker 1: even Josh, you guys barely hung out before, right, Like,
Speaker 1: how long are you together in the lobby? Couldn't have
Speaker 1: been longer than fifteen minutes? Would have you tried to
Speaker 1: call Renee? Yeah? I've texted her and tried to call
Speaker 1: her and I haven't gotten any responses. Oh my god,
Speaker 1: I really impressed it. Like as she's walking out, you
Speaker 1: didn't just scream why, Well, you have that opportunity now
Speaker 1: after you hear what she says, because we're about to
Speaker 1: call her. Ready to do this? Man? Yeah, okay, I'm nervous.
Speaker 1: It's like I'm back in the movie theater all over again.
Speaker 1: This won't be that brutal. It won't be that brutal. Okay, Well,
Speaker 1: let's help. Let's dim the lights down like it's in
Speaker 1: the movies, and we're going to call her right now.
Speaker 1: Here we go, Hello, Hi, can I speak to Renee? Please? Mask?
Speaker 1: Who's calling? Yeah, my name's Jeffrey from the radio show
Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Uh, who are you?
Speaker 1: You really know? How to. But my name is Jeffrey.
Speaker 1: I work on a morning radio show called Brooke and
Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the Morning. The whole crew is here, Brooke, Jose,
Speaker 1: Alexis Yep. Okay, okay, I'm calling you today because we're
Speaker 1: doing something called a second date update. Have you ever
Speaker 1: heard of that before? No? Okay, Well, it's a segment
Speaker 1: that we do on our show, and basically the idea is,
Speaker 1: if you go out on a date with someone and afterwards,
Speaker 1: if they're not calling you back, you can email us
Speaker 1: and we'll reach out to that person for you to
Speaker 1: try and help you figure out the reason why. Okay,
Speaker 1: I guess I don't know why you're calling me. Well,
Speaker 1: we're calling you because a guy reached out to us.
Speaker 1: His name is Josh. Oh. That's not a positive response
Speaker 1: when we said Josh, I take it you remember him? Yeah,
Speaker 1: I went on a date with him. It didn't lead anything.
Speaker 1: That's pretty much well along and short of it. Josh
Speaker 1: told us all about your date, and I have to
Speaker 1: be honest, it's one of the weirdest first dates we've
Speaker 1: ever heard on our show before. I mean, that's your opinion.
Speaker 1: I just got out of like a really tough relationship,
Speaker 1: and I do have like conditions now because yeah, there's
Speaker 1: a lot of thirsty guys out there and I'm not
Speaker 1: about that life. So I think that's fine. But can
Speaker 1: I ask, like, what's the point of sitting on opposite
Speaker 1: sides of the movie theater? Because he told us about that, Like,
Speaker 1: how do you ever get to know anyone if you
Speaker 1: don't spend any time with them on a date? I mean,
Speaker 1: we spend that fifteen minutes together, like, you know, he
Speaker 1: was a gentleman, he bought popcorn, Like okay, so before
Speaker 1: the movie, you had a good interaction with him. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean like I really wasn't sure if there was
Speaker 1: a connection. I you know, we talked, it was fine,
Speaker 1: and then you agree to my conditions, which I thought
Speaker 1: was like a good sign, but then I don't know,
Speaker 1: like it's didn't really work out, and like, you guys
Speaker 1: don't have to agree with me on my conditions. That's
Speaker 1: just like how I feel, Like, that's just how I
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. And he agreed to it, so there shouldn't
Speaker 1: be an issue. That's fine, Like I'm not judging you
Speaker 1: in your condition. It was just unusual. We've never heard
Speaker 1: of it before. It's just why after he went through
Speaker 1: with all of it. I don't think a lot of
Speaker 1: guys would have gone through that. Why would you walk
Speaker 1: out without even saying anything to him? Well, I mean
Speaker 1: I wasn't exactly alone in the movie theater. Um, what
Speaker 1: do you mean, like other people were watching the movie
Speaker 1: with you, yacause it's a public playing theater. I mean,
Speaker 1: obviously Josh was in the theater too, so it couldn't
Speaker 1: have just been you. That's not what I mean. My
Speaker 1: brother was there at the movie too, actually, spy, you know,
Speaker 1: just because, like I said, I was in a really
Speaker 1: rough relationship and just like don't want to get hurt
Speaker 1: like that again. And my brother that right behind Josh
Speaker 1: and saw Josh X being and flirting with another woman
Speaker 1: during our gage. Yeah, okay, wait, hold on hold how
Speaker 1: one how did your brother see that? And two, you
Speaker 1: guys are an exclusive You've gone on one date and
Speaker 1: you spent fifteen minutes with the man. What do you
Speaker 1: want him to stop talking to all other women during
Speaker 1: the movie? Like, I mean, I just think that's super
Speaker 1: disrespectful and classless, Like you don't text another woman like
Speaker 1: mid date. I mean, the thing is really really fairly.
Speaker 1: I think texting in the movie theater is really rude period.
Speaker 1: But do you know what the what did the texts say?
Speaker 1: They were just like super flirty to some girl named Andrea,
Speaker 1: And I was like, you can't refrain from texting other
Speaker 1: women for like an hour and a half. Like that's
Speaker 1: just kind of really shady and gross to me. So
Speaker 1: I'm not going to deal with that. That's why I
Speaker 1: walked out. I mean it sounds like, yeah, it sounds
Speaker 1: like you got really hurt and this past dude, your
Speaker 1: ex really scarred you. But just because he's like texting
Speaker 1: with another person while you're in the same movie theater,
Speaker 1: I mean, it's not even really a date your guys
Speaker 1: are on at that point. Yeah, Brook supports cheating. It's okay,
Speaker 1: It's okay whoever you want, whenever you want, and you
Speaker 1: know who I want to know. I want to know
Speaker 1: what Josh thinks about all this, Josh, Oh, I need
Speaker 1: to tell you, Sorry, Renee, Josh has been on the
Speaker 1: other line listening. He wants to talk to you fired up. Well,
Speaker 1: I think it's rude, But Josh, what do you think?
Speaker 1: I do not know how to process this right? Is
Speaker 1: it true? Is it true, It's kind of true. Okay, sweet,
Speaker 1: I mean, did you notice some dude city behind you
Speaker 1: looking over your shoulder? No, I mean, to be honest,
Speaker 1: I was pretty suctated on you, Renee for most of
Speaker 1: that movie in between texts. He's not lying. He literally
Speaker 1: said you only termed maybe once. He almost never looked
Speaker 1: at him, and he knew the exact moment you laughed.
Speaker 1: His eyes were on you. Majority yeah, not on he
Speaker 1: was texting Andrea. So I just want to know who
Speaker 1: Andrea's like. Don't deny it because I have screenshot. Okay,
Speaker 1: what it was just one text to my friend Andrea,
Speaker 1: and I had been talking with her about this date
Speaker 1: before I went on it, and she asked me how
Speaker 1: the date was going halfway through and I told her
Speaker 1: I already know that's a lie because I have multiple
Speaker 1: screenshots of multiple texts. And do you send your friends
Speaker 1: to our girls diffy faces and linky faces and eggs
Speaker 1: plan emojis? No? I don't think so, though, Dude, that
Speaker 1: is so weird. No, not Josh Hers your brother is
Speaker 1: somebody else's so phone. You can't spy on people during
Speaker 1: a date. I mean, Josh, are you upset or not? Yeah.
Speaker 1: I mean that's super invasive. I think that are your
Speaker 1: brothers and you shouldn't be texting other women during a date.
Speaker 1: I think that's really crazy. Well you were, so I
Speaker 1: guess the greeded twiddle my thumbs and wait for you
Speaker 1: to come over and sweep me off my feet? What
Speaker 1: I mean, Josh to just honestly just be honest with me, Like,
Speaker 1: did you meet this Andrea on the same dating site
Speaker 1: you met me? Yes? Oh, but we went on like
Speaker 1: one date and we immediately were like, there's no connection,
Speaker 1: wasn't romantic, and then we went out a couple more
Speaker 1: times as friends. Yeah. I don't know. I just still
Speaker 1: think that's weird that you texted her during our date.
Speaker 1: Like that just makes me feel like if you're willing
Speaker 1: to do that, then you will, Like I mean, we're
Speaker 1: not concentrating on the spy brother, Okay, well, I'm focused
Speaker 1: on Renee and her feelings. Specifically Renee, if you feel
Speaker 1: like going out on one more day with Josh, because
Speaker 1: we'll pay for it, I have to ask that. I'm
Speaker 1: so sorry obligated to ask you if you'd like to
Speaker 1: see him again. Um, I think probably not. I already
Speaker 1: don't trust this person, so it's kind of a boot
Speaker 1: point to go out again. Oh Josh, what do you feel?
Speaker 1: I am glad that I don't have to be watched again.
Speaker 1: I don't think I could go out with Renee and
Speaker 1: feel comfortable. Yeah, okay, what about Andrew? Would you like
Speaker 1: to go out with Andrea one MONTI look how that
Speaker 1: everything's out in the open. I was going out with
Speaker 1: Andrea a couple of times. You're not joking doing me
Speaker 1: like that? Yeah, I could tell I knew this guy
Speaker 1: was shady and really so yeah, I don't know if
Speaker 1: this is a successful second date update or not. I
Speaker 1: don't think it. Dude, Renee is not fixing her trust
Speaker 1: issues right now. I'll tell you that it's broken. Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the morning.