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Speaker 1: Misspelling with tory spelling and iHeartRadio podcast Tory spellings come out.

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Speaker 1: She's sexual with the capital s missspelling.

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Speaker 2: We cannot be physically attracted to be It's so easy

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Speaker 2: to be physically attracted or unattracted to someone. It's just

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Speaker 2: so hard to be mentally stimulated. It's so hard to

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Speaker 2: have your mind tickled, your soul tickled.

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Speaker 3: You know, it's just so hard.

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Speaker 2: To find these things. And it does exist, and I

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Speaker 2: see it every day more and more that people are

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Speaker 2: really longing for that they are so I hope it

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Speaker 2: happens for both of us, girls, for both the us,

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Speaker 2: because I just I mean, the rubber toys are great

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Speaker 2: and all, but I'd rather have a rubber cons I'm

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Speaker 2: around the real thing.

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Speaker 1: Oh we should create that next doable arguments. You can

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Speaker 1: do anything like oh my.

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Speaker 3: God, my marketing staff.

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Speaker 1: I really am Yeah, put me on the payroll. I

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Speaker 1: need a job. But uh yeah. I think from my perspective,

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Speaker 1: I was all into my kids and I was just

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Speaker 1: wanting to be a mom, mom, mom mom. And you know,

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Speaker 1: he well he was a dad and great and it

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Speaker 1: was like where was the attention from from his partner

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Speaker 1: his life sexual partner, so that one connection was okay sexually,

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Speaker 1: and then we never throughout our relationship use protection or

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Speaker 1: did anything like. They all came when they wanted to come.

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Speaker 3: Is no pun intended?

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Speaker 1: No pun intended? But OK, my brain thinks like that.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, So are you a Gemini?

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Speaker 1: I'm a Taurus?

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, my son's a Taurus.

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Speaker 1: When's his birthday?

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Speaker 3: April twenty seventh?

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Speaker 1: Oh you may may my sixteenth.

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Speaker 3: Laila's my third. You guys are all tourist.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's right, chie, I forgot, she's a tourist.

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Speaker 2: Tell you guys are so business See, you guys are

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Speaker 2: very business savvy. My son's been negotiating since he was

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Speaker 2: two years old. I don't understand it.

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Speaker 1: Am I business savvy? I'm creative. I can't execute things

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Speaker 1: to save my life lately getting it done not tech savvy.

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Speaker 1: So I give you ideas eight days.

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Speaker 3: You're always doing something. As long as I have ever known.

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Speaker 2: You, and as far as an actress on TV to

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Speaker 2: reality to books, to this, to this to.

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Speaker 3: This, you were always staying busy.

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Speaker 2: And that's a lot. That is very business savvy. However

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Speaker 2: you want to put it. It is business savvy.

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Speaker 1: When were you defining that.

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Speaker 3: I wish I could work safety. It's sexual. All that

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Speaker 3: in one conversation.

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Speaker 1: What's the third There must be another s there?

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I'm sure there could be. We can create anything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well it is. You're the snake, so you're going

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Speaker 1: to make it happen. Okay, Wait, I gotta go back

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Speaker 1: to sex toys. So can I tell you why I

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Speaker 1: have your toy here?

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Speaker 3: Why? Okay?

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Speaker 1: So what am I supposed to call Dennis your business partner?

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Speaker 3: Yes? Yeah, here it goes. Yes, So.

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Speaker 1: Dennis and I are parents at the same school, right,

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Speaker 1: and I had never met him. But when I was

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Speaker 1: getting a divorce, my friend who works at the school

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Speaker 1: and is good friends with him, she said, Uh, you

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Speaker 1: need a nice guy, and you need someone that is

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Speaker 1: successful and someone that's going to take care of you.

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Speaker 1: And uh, there's a dad here I'm good friends with

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Speaker 1: and he's single right now, and he's a really good

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Speaker 1: guy and a really good dad. Oh my god, hide

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Speaker 1: your eyes, your eyes say it all. It's okay, No,

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Speaker 1: this is a podcast. People don't know how you're looking

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Speaker 1: at me. And he makes sex toys. Well, I didn't

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Speaker 1: give a fuck about everything else, she said, but I

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Speaker 1: heard sex toys and I was like, tell me more.

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Speaker 3: Now.

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Speaker 1: I'm intrigued because I just want to know. I just

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Speaker 1: like a story. I like hearing people's stories. And she said,

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Speaker 1: oh yeah, and then she mentioned his So wait, so

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Speaker 1: you guys dated originally or were just friends for years?

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Speaker 3: No, we dated about twelve thirteen years ago. We dated,

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Speaker 3: I broke up with him after three months, and then

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Speaker 3: we were just friends forever.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So it's so weird. When it's people you know,

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Speaker 1: you feel safer and I don't even know why. But

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Speaker 1: when she mentioned your name, I was like, oh, I

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Speaker 1: know her. I like her. Okay, we can proceed. And

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Speaker 1: she's like she's like, well, if nothing else, and this

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Speaker 1: I have no interest in dating anybody, but cool, I

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Speaker 1: He came to school and delivered a box I maybe

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Speaker 1: fifty fucking sex toys in it. Yeah, the biggest box

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Speaker 1: I have ever seen. And I was like, I was like,

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Speaker 1: this is so funny, Like our kids go to this

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Speaker 1: elementary school and I'm like this nice mom at school

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Speaker 1: bringing me these like naughty sex toys. But anyway, I

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Speaker 1: Because I was like, oh my god, I forgot I

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Speaker 1: got the box. I thank him. She's like, just st

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Speaker 1: a picture. So I set a picture on our group

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Speaker 1: text Chane with him and my friend saying I got

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Speaker 1: the box. Like look, anyway, he and I have gone

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Speaker 1: on to be friends. Nothing else never went any further

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Speaker 1: than that, but yeah, the box, the box. I started

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Speaker 1: So first I see one of your sex toys. Then

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Speaker 1: another friend of mine I'm known forever shanea Moechler, her

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Speaker 1: crossed my mind. First, I was like, okay, does this

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Speaker 1: feel weird to me? Like I want to like try

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Speaker 3: Clip I'm flattered? Sorry and it I.

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Speaker 1: Had a moment where I was like Okay, like I

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Speaker 1: I just recently told a story about the one and

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Speaker 1: only time I had any interaction sexually with a woman.

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Speaker 1: It was it was a threesome with a boy. And

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Speaker 1: this is years ago, like twenty plus years ago, and

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Speaker 1: that I was like, no, I mean, I'm into boys,

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Speaker 1: not girls, but this one felt like I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I had a girl between my legs that I know

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean I think that's a great thing because

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Speaker 2: women know how to what they're doing usually down there.

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Speaker 2: But I have not been with a woman, so I

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Speaker 2: don't know. I have always been strictly Dickley.

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Speaker 3: I never even had.

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Speaker 2: I've never even had to wanting to experiment type of phase.

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Speaker 2: I love women, and I well, most people think I'm

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Speaker 3: So great, your your butt is so great, and I'm

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Speaker 3: doing all that. But I'm like, no, no, no, I'm straight.

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Speaker 3: The toys are great. The toys are great. Dennis was

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Speaker 3: this was.

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Speaker 2: Like, she's like four or five, four years ago, I

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Speaker 2: think Sasha, I had my son. Yeah, so four years ago,

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Speaker 2: he said, you know, why don't we make this toy

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Speaker 3: I just put the you know, other people's faces on it.

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Speaker 2: And at that time, they had just ended Shaws of

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Speaker 3: At that time, it was a really cheesy concept, but

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Speaker 3: we were like, we would use this show to you know,

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Speaker 3: Fortunately that show was just it was it wasn't It

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Speaker 2: Of Dennis's connections and my previous TV, a lot of

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Speaker 2: you know, the quality is great, the boxing is great.

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Speaker 2: Everything was great.

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Speaker 3: Now it's just it's blowing up. But my relationship with

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Speaker 3: him was great. We're like best friend. We've always gone

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Speaker 3: love them. Like it was just we were best friends.

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Speaker 1: That's definitely more of a friend vibe than yeah.

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Speaker 3: It felt like that for me. I thought we were

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Speaker 3: but unfortunately, but you married him. I did in order to.

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Speaker 2: I was in a relationship with someone else, and he yeah,

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Speaker 2: And the reasoning was that was his only time.

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Speaker 2: A few went into it, and nothing's changing, and I'm

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Speaker 3: They break up.

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Speaker 1: This is the day you were dating.

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Speaker 3: This is the guy I was dating.

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Speaker 1: So everyone know this guy. Is he anybody or no?

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Speaker 2: I did not know he was seeing anyone. I didn't

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Speaker 2: So after that I was understanding of it. I was like, listen,

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Speaker 2: move out and it was just for the kid's sake,

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Speaker 2: No problem, I have a kid.

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Speaker 3: I can understand. H It kept happening.

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Speaker 2: I kept hearing about it, so I reached out to her.

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Speaker 2: I found her. I reached out to her.

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Speaker 3: And she did not deny a thing. She did not

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Speaker 3: been seated on her so many times.

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Speaker 1: We we we you were still with him, and you

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Speaker 1: reached out to her and said, hey, here's what's happening.

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Speaker 3: I said, I know, you know who I am, and

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Speaker 3: oh knew.

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Speaker 2: Well that's what I was being told through the friends

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Speaker 2: that she was losing extreme amounts of weight and that's

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Speaker 2: what happens every time he cheats on her. So now

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Speaker 2: he's telling me that he has told her that he's

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Speaker 3: This is what he's saying to me.

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Speaker 2: He's like, I told her she doesn't want me to

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Speaker 2: be with you, she doesn't want my kids to ever

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Speaker 3: I have nothing to do with you. I'm like, what

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Speaker 3: the fuck? Like how is this? Like why, like you

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Speaker 3: did you see an episode or something that was she

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Speaker 3: to hate her, Like what's the deal. So when I

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Speaker 3: reached out and she didn't deny thing, and I was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm really sorry, Like I didn't know that this relationship

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Speaker 3: being told that it wasn't but I'm completely backing away.

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Speaker 3: I was like, I'm so sorry.

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Speaker 2: You know, I know you keep losing weight because he's

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Speaker 2: And I knew that he already knew Dennis. He had

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Speaker 3: I'll get to that. I'll get to that. So I

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Speaker 2: I knew Dennis still had feelings for me. Everyone knew,

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Speaker 3: So we would go to know.

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Speaker 1: This was the plan.

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Speaker 3: No, he didn't okay.

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Speaker 1: So this is this is why it all blew up.

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Speaker 3: I'm like, don't today, but get people will say He's like,

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Speaker 1: Do you think because you had such a long friendship

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Speaker 3: Never. I will.

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Speaker 2: Never, especially because it was happening behind my back. Because

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Speaker 3: It's the principal. He's still my ex. He's still back,

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Speaker 3: you know what I mean. It's just awkward.

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Speaker 1: Come talk to me married him.

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Speaker 2: Never told me anything. She just went she went mia,

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, I'm not talking about polic I'm talking about Dennis.

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Speaker 1: I want you guys to be best friends again.

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Speaker 3: It will never happen. I would rather I'm not even

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Speaker 2: I am a part of some new projects right now,

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Speaker 2: It becomes a liability for me to be connected to

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Speaker 2: If someone is capable of doing that, they don't change

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Speaker 2: that capacity is there.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, people won't change.

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Speaker 3: Not those type of things.

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Speaker 1: True.

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Speaker 3: To go with one of your friends the week after

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Speaker 3: you just got married, that's weird, that's sociopathic. And everyone's like.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, keep that fucking gut away from us.

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Speaker 1: But you married your friend.

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Speaker 3: Yes. And when I got back, I immediately text.

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Speaker 2: I immediately text the guy I was trying to hurt

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Speaker 1: What happened then?

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Speaker 3: Like? Did he see that you are together?

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Speaker 2: Is Yeah, it worked. We ended up going to therapy together.

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Speaker 3: It's me. I'm kind of it's been the last week

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Speaker 2: We've pumped the brakes a little bit for me because

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Speaker 3: I have so much going on right now. I just

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I understand, but okay, I know this is something

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Speaker 1: is this like, did you go somewhere to explore sperm donor?

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Speaker 1: Was it someone you knew already?

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Speaker 2: Now, I actually hired a company called Donor Concierge, and

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Speaker 2: Donor Concierge is amazing.

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Speaker 3: I love them.

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Speaker 2: They literally work scan the entire nation, all the sperm banks.

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Speaker 2: They also work with a couple of neighboring countries and

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Speaker 2: you basically sit with them and it feels like a

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Speaker 2: PsychEval and you go into genetics, you go into psychology

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Speaker 2: specifics of what you want, what you're.

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Speaker 3: Looking for who you are, your this, your.

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Speaker 3: Because I had a very strict thing, I was like,

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Speaker 3: So I needed a photo, whether it was childhood or not.

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Speaker 2: I just needed to see that my own reassurance. And

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Speaker 2: then the rest is just completely anonymous. I mean those

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Speaker 2: know if like the donor's great grandparents has attached ear

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Speaker 1: Have you ever met the father?

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Speaker 3: No? No, no, no, it's very anonymous. He's anonymous.

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Speaker 1: Let's say.

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Speaker 2: You know, I feel like, unless my God forbid, if

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Speaker 2: him down probably and use his body parts for a chance.

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Speaker 1: But no, what will you do one day when he says,

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Speaker 3: That's something I think about too often. I think about

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Speaker 2: I think the most important thing I can do right

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Speaker 2: now is shaping him into being loved and loving. Therefore,

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Speaker 2: So I really really focus on that. He when he

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Speaker 2: they are besties, so always don't FaceTime together. And his

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Speaker 2: but you know you don't have one, but you have

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Speaker 2: your cousins and grandma's And he never asked again, but

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Speaker 2: I prepare myself every time, like what if that question comes?

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Speaker 3: What do. I say, each age is a different response level. Right.

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Speaker 2: At one point I will hand him the file and

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Speaker 2: he can do whatever he wants. You know the picture

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Speaker 2: the donor left adult photos of himself and childhood. He

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Speaker 1: Google reverse image of that photo mine.

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Speaker 2: None of the donors did that, but he wrote a

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Speaker 2: You know, outside of all these filled out forms, I

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Speaker 3: It was really nice. I'll had him that hour to

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Speaker 1: Well. I also, as your new bestie, need to inform

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Speaker 1: you I'm a very good detective.

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Speaker 3: I found him. I found him.

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Speaker 1: You found him.

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Speaker 2: I found him the day before I put the embryo in.

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Speaker 2: I went into like panic mode and I was like,

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Speaker 2: what if what if he's like it's like a killer.

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Speaker 3: What if he's this? What if he's not this? You

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Speaker 3: know filebook? I found him and he was more than

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Speaker 3: the file.

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Speaker 2: He was so perfect, so perfect, and I shut it

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Speaker 2: and I said I'm no, we're going to look at

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Speaker 3: And that was it.

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I'd like to create movies and TV shows

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Speaker 1: we I want you to find that, like what if?

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Speaker 1: Though I know he's the one.

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Speaker 3: That's what my girlfriend said. Especially thought I saw his picture.

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Speaker 2: He's very good looking, good, he's very liking, same age

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Speaker 2: is me.

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Speaker 3: His mom was a lawyer, Our dad was a lawyer.

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Speaker 3: Grandparent's judges.

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Speaker 2: Like his mother quit loss so she could teach underprivileged children.

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Speaker 2: I mean, it was just like this guy sounded too perfect.

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Speaker 2: I was like, no, this can't be real.

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Speaker 3: It's real. I found his instagram, I found how social,

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Speaker 3: I found everything. I found everything.

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Speaker 1: You have to slide into his DM I cannot.

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Speaker 3: I always the company will get sued, everyone.

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Speaker 1: Will give the reason. Ever, no one ever has to

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Speaker 1: know about this well.

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Speaker 3: I know why he works now too. I found out

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Speaker 3: where he works. I was I could just show up.

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Speaker 1: But as it's so, he lives in California, no fire away.

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Speaker 1: Are we flying east coast to find him more? I'm

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Speaker 1: just asking.

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Speaker 3: More. So I'm not saying anything.

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Speaker 1: I'm bad with geography.

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Speaker 2: I will show you the picture. I will show you

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Speaker 2: this picture the next time I see you.

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Speaker 3: He's hot.

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Speaker 1: This is fascinating. He's not married.

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Speaker 2: I did love when I checked five years ago, he

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Speaker 2: was not married.

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00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:34,280
Speaker 3: He was not married five years ago.

443
00:22:34,359 --> 00:22:36,680
Speaker 1: When I checked down that rabbit. I'm so sorry. I'd

444
00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:39,920
Speaker 1: be checking that instagram like, oh, it would be a problem.

445
00:22:40,680 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 3: Yeah, it was a rabbit hole.

446
00:22:42,800 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: I would check again that instagram of that rabbit hole

447
00:22:46,040 --> 00:22:47,879
Speaker 1: to see what he was going on about as often

448
00:22:47,920 --> 00:22:52,879
Speaker 1: as I use the rabbit that's yours, like it's life changing.

449
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,640
Speaker 1: I love your Sorry by the way, okay, sorry, I'm

450
00:22:56,640 --> 00:22:58,159
Speaker 1: gonna get off that topic because I know it's not

451
00:22:58,520 --> 00:23:02,639
Speaker 1: a hot topic. By the way, I gotta tell you, like,

452
00:23:03,800 --> 00:23:08,680
Speaker 1: you know, the remember the og like rocket pocket rocket

453
00:23:08,880 --> 00:23:12,399
Speaker 1: back in the day, the og one, and then everyone

454
00:23:12,440 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: was like, it's the rabbit, it's the dolphin, and like

455
00:23:15,600 --> 00:23:18,320
Speaker 1: people I used to have like a Hello Kitty vibrator

456
00:23:18,440 --> 00:23:20,879
Speaker 1: and I was just like, I got the need for speed.

457
00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:23,239
Speaker 1: I don't give a fuck what it looks like. I

458
00:23:23,280 --> 00:23:24,040
Speaker 1: want the speed.

459
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:25,520
Speaker 3: He'll sit on it, okay.

460
00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:29,359
Speaker 1: And uh then I got married and had kids and

461
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:31,879
Speaker 1: like that, like whole piece of my life went out

462
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:36,560
Speaker 1: the window. So now single again. You know, I was

463
00:23:36,600 --> 00:23:40,160
Speaker 1: like this fell into my lap, literally a box presented

464
00:23:40,160 --> 00:23:43,119
Speaker 1: to me at school, and of course I had to

465
00:23:43,160 --> 00:23:45,080
Speaker 1: try like this one's still intact, but I have your

466
00:23:45,119 --> 00:23:46,680
Speaker 1: other products that I've opened.

467
00:23:47,480 --> 00:23:48,320
Speaker 3: I gotta tell.

468
00:23:48,200 --> 00:23:51,280
Speaker 1: You, just like dating has changed since I was last single.

469
00:23:52,240 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 1: Sex choice of change because it's not just like you

470
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:58,280
Speaker 1: put a battery in and you turn it on, like

471
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: there's a ucy U see bees it there's a detarger there.

472
00:24:05,240 --> 00:24:08,920
Speaker 1: I'm not tech savvy and I just wanted to get

473
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,919
Speaker 1: down to it. And I got to tell you, it

474
00:24:10,920 --> 00:24:12,600
Speaker 1: took me a moment to work it. I worked it out.

475
00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:17,960
Speaker 1: I worked it out. But wow, there's so many opportunities.

476
00:24:17,119 --> 00:24:20,040
Speaker 2: Now, opportunities, yeah, you know, And it's just I love

477
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:23,520
Speaker 2: that because I didn't realize that. I thought just a

478
00:24:23,520 --> 00:24:26,600
Speaker 2: basic vibration is what everyone sort of wants.

479
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but I.

480
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:32,119
Speaker 2: Mean every vagina nerve ending is a little different, you know.

481
00:24:32,280 --> 00:24:34,840
Speaker 3: So I feel like some people need the pulsation, they

482
00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:40,080
Speaker 3: need a wave, they needed to increase. I love the

483
00:24:40,119 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 3: attention that is being brought on the women's anatomy in

484
00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,959
Speaker 3: order to cater to our needs better. They're making the robes.

485
00:24:47,119 --> 00:24:50,480
Speaker 3: The rose is almost where there's like a tongue. It's

486
00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:52,320
Speaker 3: just it's like a section with a little flicker, and

487
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:55,840
Speaker 3: it just feels like someone's literally going down on you.

488
00:24:57,640 --> 00:24:59,680
Speaker 1: Do you think it's because women are finally making sex

489
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:01,600
Speaker 1: toys and not just men like women are.

490
00:25:02,520 --> 00:25:02,680
Speaker 3: No.

491
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,800
Speaker 2: I think we're in just women are raising in power

492
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,159
Speaker 2: and it's about you know, women are standing up and saying,

493
00:25:09,240 --> 00:25:11,040
Speaker 2: this is what we want, this is what we're gonna do.

494
00:25:11,600 --> 00:25:13,680
Speaker 2: And the more and more of those type of women

495
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 2: have sex toy companies, the more it'll happen.

496
00:25:16,640 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 3: But I cater to my audience. I'm not catering to

497
00:25:19,680 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 3: my own knees. For me, I'm very similar to you.

498
00:25:22,760 --> 00:25:26,679
Speaker 3: I don't mind a rose like one of those, but

499
00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:29,960
Speaker 3: I'm okay, just a basic little vibrator will do the

500
00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:33,639
Speaker 3: deal for me. I have tried other stuff and I'm like, Wow,

501
00:25:34,400 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 3: there's a whole fucking world out here and a dick

502
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,280
Speaker 3: doesn't do it. And I started getting scared. I'm like,

503
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,280
Speaker 3: does this mean sex is never going to be as

504
00:25:44,280 --> 00:25:49,399
Speaker 3: satisfying because it doesn't shape and move the vibrate the

505
00:25:49,440 --> 00:25:50,240
Speaker 3: way I need it to.

506
00:25:51,480 --> 00:25:52,199
Speaker 1: This is true?

507
00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 3: Like this is true? I asked my extics, I can

508
00:25:55,560 --> 00:25:57,600
Speaker 3: bring the sex toy into the mix. A lot of

509
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:58,920
Speaker 3: guys are not okay with it.

510
00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,359
Speaker 1: Well, well, that goes back to like, you know, the

511
00:26:02,359 --> 00:26:06,200
Speaker 1: penis and the vagina were invented like Adam and Eve

512
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:10,199
Speaker 1: just so for pro creation, like pro creation and.

513
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 3: Adam and Eve.

514
00:26:10,840 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, unlucky men it keeps working for them,

515
00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,399
Speaker 1: but women it's like, no, we are more complicated and

516
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:19,879
Speaker 1: more like we need something else as well.

517
00:26:19,880 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 3: Typically it needs something else.

518
00:26:22,280 --> 00:26:27,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, boy, I miss watching you on TV though, thank you.

519
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,840
Speaker 1: Shots of Sunset was on ninth was it nine seasons?

520
00:26:31,000 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 2: Nine seasons? And we did not get cut for bad ratings.

521
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:36,920
Speaker 2: We got cut because they just couldn't afford us. We

522
00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,000
Speaker 2: were a unionized show.

523
00:26:39,359 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 3: We became union. We were the only show unionized and

524
00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:46,000
Speaker 3: wowing that happened with Brian's seacrest many years ago, and

525
00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:49,639
Speaker 3: so we were rather expensive. We were rather expensive to create,

526
00:26:49,800 --> 00:26:52,480
Speaker 3: and so it sucked.

527
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:55,399
Speaker 2: But the people really want us back, and I think

528
00:26:56,359 --> 00:26:59,520
Speaker 2: we're trying to do something. We're trying to do something

529
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:01,840
Speaker 2: that we can make people happy about.

530
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:03,520
Speaker 3: You know. Well, I'm not going to say.

531
00:27:03,320 --> 00:27:05,560
Speaker 2: Details about what we're doing. It could be a show.

532
00:27:05,720 --> 00:27:07,639
Speaker 2: It could it could be sky writing.

533
00:27:07,680 --> 00:27:09,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm not going to do that.

534
00:27:09,080 --> 00:27:13,560
Speaker 2: Actually that's come Trails, Chemtrails. But it could be something's coming.

535
00:27:14,359 --> 00:27:17,119
Speaker 1: Oh, it could be shaw as the musical. We don't know.

536
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:20,360
Speaker 2: It could be anything. It could be anything. I could

537
00:27:20,359 --> 00:27:21,920
Speaker 2: be Housewives of Beverly House tomorrow.

538
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:24,280
Speaker 3: You don't know, would you?

539
00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:26,880
Speaker 1: Would you be on the Real Housewives?

540
00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:30,240
Speaker 3: Don't thank those women cannot make me?

541
00:27:31,320 --> 00:27:33,920
Speaker 1: What do you mean you mean they don't stand a

542
00:27:33,960 --> 00:27:42,760
Speaker 1: fighting chance against you? Hmm we wait, wait, wait bravo,

543
00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:48,160
Speaker 1: Andy Cohen? Has they have never mentioned you being on Housewives?

544
00:27:49,080 --> 00:27:51,440
Speaker 3: I would have to be a wife, wouldn't I Just

545
00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 3: until recently they changed that. You don't have to be

546
00:27:54,200 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 3: a wife.

547
00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:56,720
Speaker 1: Let's get Dennis on the phone. We gotta we gotta

548
00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: marry you guys back when we're approaching Andy Cohen, listen.

549
00:28:00,920 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 3: Married the other bitch? Though I think they already got married.

550
00:28:04,280 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 3: Who I don't know? Someone send me a picture. They're

551
00:28:07,119 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 3: both wearing wedding bands.

552
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,480
Speaker 1: So who are we talking about right now? Dennis and

553
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:16,520
Speaker 1: Dealina are wearing wedding rings. Okay, okay, well.

554
00:28:16,640 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 3: Listen, you can't marry that one. But I mean I

555
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:19,879
Speaker 3: can pick anyone off off the street.

556
00:28:20,240 --> 00:28:22,879
Speaker 1: Okay, wait, okay, let's strategize this.

557
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:26,639
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just don't know.

558
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:29,800
Speaker 1: You can marry. You can marry someone then you have

559
00:28:29,920 --> 00:28:33,640
Speaker 1: someone there to open the jars when they're tight, fix

560
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:35,879
Speaker 1: the light bulbs, which we all want. We need a

561
00:28:35,960 --> 00:28:39,360
Speaker 1: man for strength. Amen, you could do everything else, and

562
00:28:39,480 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: then you could start on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills.

563
00:28:42,120 --> 00:28:46,200
Speaker 1: I you know what, just please help me to your team.

564
00:28:46,400 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 3: Just you know what.

565
00:28:48,000 --> 00:28:51,480
Speaker 1: I'm not even going to charge. I'm just I'm do

566
00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 1: you have a manager? Can I tell you that? I

567
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:58,560
Speaker 1: just I adore you. I love you and Resa together

568
00:28:58,720 --> 00:28:59,560
Speaker 1: that's like my jam.

569
00:29:00,520 --> 00:29:00,920
Speaker 3: Thank you.

570
00:29:01,160 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: That is together so much. It reminds you of me

571
00:29:04,640 --> 00:29:07,040
Speaker 1: and my gay best friend so much, whose name is

572
00:29:07,160 --> 00:29:08,200
Speaker 1: Maron who knows.

573
00:29:11,200 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: But then we should all go do something that would

574
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,800
Speaker 2: be fun yeah, at each other for years and years. Okay,

575
00:29:19,520 --> 00:29:23,200
Speaker 2: he's so much fun. A leo, so he's called Diva energy.

576
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,360
Speaker 3: He brings the life to the moment anywhere we are.

577
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 3: He's that guy. He's so much fun to be around,

578
00:29:29,640 --> 00:29:30,280
Speaker 3: so much fun.

579
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Okay, Well I want to create something

580
00:29:35,160 --> 00:29:35,320
Speaker 1: with you.

581
00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 3: Should I do a sex toy? I think you should.

582
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:39,040
Speaker 3: I think you should.

583
00:29:39,600 --> 00:29:42,440
Speaker 2: Really you seemed very much into it, so I think

584
00:29:42,480 --> 00:29:44,960
Speaker 2: it fits the bill, you know, come out with something

585
00:29:45,040 --> 00:29:46,360
Speaker 2: that's just very signature to you.

586
00:29:48,360 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 3: Oh, piece it all together, pocket racket pussy, pocket, pocket pussy.

587
00:29:54,200 --> 00:29:54,800
Speaker 3: What did you call it?

588
00:29:55,280 --> 00:29:58,440
Speaker 1: You have to come out with something like this, But

589
00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:00,920
Speaker 1: I didn't create that, Like that was something back in

590
00:30:00,960 --> 00:30:04,760
Speaker 1: the day. No, a pussy sleeve of pocket pocket pussy,

591
00:30:05,440 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: pocket pussy. It's a pocket pussy.

592
00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:13,000
Speaker 3: Did it fit in the pocket or it was like

593
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:16,360
Speaker 3: a pocket for the dick, like a pussy at pussy?

594
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,200
Speaker 1: Because I had five c sections.

595
00:30:17,840 --> 00:30:22,160
Speaker 3: They call them strokers. Now they call it what they're

596
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,000
Speaker 3: called strokers.

597
00:30:23,040 --> 00:30:25,760
Speaker 2: They're called their vagina malls that goes and they pour

598
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 2: it all the way in so the inside it is

599
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:30,360
Speaker 2: all ridge like your jean.

600
00:30:31,240 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 3: And they're called strokers because you're you know, stroke ink.

601
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,200
Speaker 1: I I believe it was called a pocket pussy back

602
00:30:39,240 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: in the day, which I'm not mad at because I

603
00:30:41,080 --> 00:30:42,920
Speaker 1: think it's adorable. That's adorable.

604
00:30:43,120 --> 00:30:43,800
Speaker 3: I like the name.

605
00:30:44,000 --> 00:30:46,560
Speaker 1: I like put your woman's like thing, like carry it

606
00:30:46,640 --> 00:30:54,840
Speaker 1: with you on your pocket pussy, pocket pussy, Yeah whatever, yeah, okay, yeah,

607
00:30:54,880 --> 00:30:57,640
Speaker 1: but I think I mean, I've always wanted because it

608
00:30:57,760 --> 00:30:59,880
Speaker 1: was always like my big tagline with nine on two

609
00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: was Donna Martin graduates. Yeah, and this is like a

610
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:08,000
Speaker 1: famous story from nine on too and zero that the

611
00:31:08,120 --> 00:31:10,880
Speaker 1: scene outside when they're all chanting, they all walk out

612
00:31:10,920 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: of school. Donna Martin graduates. And I wasn't even in

613
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 1: the scene, even though fans Daily Weekly or like say it.

614
00:31:19,240 --> 00:31:22,240
Speaker 1: I'm like, Donna Martin graduates, even though I never actually

615
00:31:22,280 --> 00:31:22,520
Speaker 1: said it.

616
00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 3: You weren't in it. You were inside.

617
00:31:24,320 --> 00:31:28,680
Speaker 1: I was inside, Yes, exactly, you were in school.

618
00:31:29,600 --> 00:31:29,800
Speaker 3: Yeah.

619
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:34,160
Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna graduate. You learned one little instance with

620
00:31:34,280 --> 00:31:38,360
Speaker 1: some champagne. It prom give me a break. But the boys,

621
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:40,000
Speaker 1: they had been doing it for so long. I think

622
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: Jason Priestley instigated this. That off camera he said to everyone, Hey,

623
00:31:44,960 --> 00:31:48,840
Speaker 1: everyone's just chanting it. In the background, everyone chanced Donna

624
00:31:48,960 --> 00:31:50,240
Speaker 1: Martin master beats.

625
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:54,120
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, that's amazing. That's so yeah.

626
00:31:54,680 --> 00:31:56,920
Speaker 1: So everyone did it, and that's a fun story we

627
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 1: all tell and fans are like, no way, It's like, yeah,

628
00:32:00,280 --> 00:32:04,400
Speaker 1: so this is how our brains think. Donna Martin masturbates

629
00:32:04,920 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: and then there's a sex toy, a tory spellings.

630
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:09,320
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it makes sense because you were a

631
00:32:09,440 --> 00:32:13,760
Speaker 2: virgin in the showy you graduated and masturbated, or you

632
00:32:13,920 --> 00:32:15,160
Speaker 2: do masturbate then graduate.

633
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:17,360
Speaker 1: I don't know, but even virgin's got to get off.

634
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 1: So On that note, this was so much fun. This

635
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,320
Speaker 1: was so much fun. Wait I want to get together

636
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: with you. I love you and I'm going.

637
00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:30,960
Speaker 2: To text you later.

638
00:32:31,320 --> 00:32:32,640
Speaker 3: Thank you. I will talk to you soon.

639
00:32:32,720 --> 00:32:35,200
Speaker 1: Toy okay, bye bye