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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a cheater. Only on the Jubile Show,

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Speaker 1: Billy is on the phone today for to catch a

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Speaker 1: might be messing around, so we'll see if we can

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Speaker 1: help him out. Billy, Sorry, you have to come on

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Speaker 1: the show this way, man, what's going on?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you said, we've been married for four years,

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Speaker 2: and honestly, things have really been awesome the whole four

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Speaker 2: years and all mine that we've been together up until

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Speaker 2: super recently, like the past year. I started my own

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Speaker 2: flooring business. She got a promotion at her job. It's

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Speaker 2: been going good. We bought a house. We don't have kids,

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Speaker 2: so we've been really you know, enjoying each other and

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Speaker 2: like the fruits of our labor, so to speak. It's

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Speaker 2: just been really really good. And you know, now every

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Speaker 2: year we go to visit my folks for Thanksgiving, so

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Speaker 2: like right around now we would be buying the ticket

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Speaker 2: and getting all that stuff together. Her parents have passed away,

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Speaker 2: it's dead. By trying to do everything really in my

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Speaker 2: power to make her feel like she is a part

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Speaker 2: their way too to make her you know, part of

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Speaker 2: our family too, So that's kind of the deal, is

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Speaker 2: like we kind of fly out there and go see

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Speaker 2: them on Thanksgiving and then we do Christmas just her

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Speaker 2: and Eye together. That's usually been the ordeal. There's just

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Speaker 2: been a hold up this year that's been kind of

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Speaker 2: like keeping everything weird. I guess okay, Like I said,

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Speaker 2: I usually have the tickets by now, but my wife

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Speaker 2: has just been like stalling the whole thing.

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Speaker 1: What do you mean.

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Speaker 2: It's just been a lot of little things that have

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Speaker 2: just been starting to add up, Like everything was so

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Speaker 2: good and then just like recently, like she keeps making

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Speaker 2: like excuses about like you know, not to talk about

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Speaker 2: like when we're flying. You know, I kind of just

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Speaker 2: like we'll talk about it later, and just keep pushing

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Speaker 2: it off. And then last week this is where I

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Speaker 2: saying like, oh, it's just a hassle every year, and

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. She's not wrong about that. It

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Speaker 2: is really really hard. You know, airports are packed, people

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Speaker 1: Tough, So then could that just be what it is?

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Speaker 1: Like what do you think is there some other underlying

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Speaker 2: I mean like I've tried like reasoning with her, but

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Speaker 2: like literally every time I even like bring it up,

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Speaker 2: just it starts a huge fight. And I tried to

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Speaker 2: doing this, and she's at first she was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: I want to start maybe our own Thanksgiving thing, but

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Speaker 2: I'm like, we do Christmas together. That's just the way

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Speaker 2: And it's just completely unlike her, Like she's just been

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Speaker 2: I can't even crack jokes. I feel like without it

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Speaker 2: mess up with all this other stuff happening because all

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Speaker 2: on their own, it's like, okay, this happens. But like

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Speaker 2: she's never been protective of her phone ever, but all

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Speaker 2: of a sudden, I walk in the room, she puts

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Speaker 2: I don't even want to say anything about that because

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's going to start like an even

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Speaker 2: bigger fight. Yeah, And I just don't understand where all

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Speaker 1: Well, when someone starts to change the way the act

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't necessarily mean she's cheating on you, but

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Speaker 2: And with all the other things, like the fighting, the

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Speaker 1: All right, Well, you already told us what a grocery

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Speaker 1: store she's a rewards card member at. So we'll play

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Speaker 1: a song come Back, and then pretend to be from

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Speaker 1: the grocery store and say that she's this month's lucky

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Speaker 1: winner of free flowers delivered from our floral department, and

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, I'm just you know, I'm trying to

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Speaker 1: Okay, I know we're here with you. Yeah, here we go.

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Speaker 1: We'll play a song come back and get you to

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Speaker 1: catch a cheater. Next. Right in the middle of to

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Speaker 1: catch a Cheater, And if you're just joining us, Billy

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Speaker 1: why don't you catch us up on your situation before

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Speaker 2: It's just been rough like this time around this time

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Speaker 2: every year we go fly out to see my folks

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Speaker 2: And this year she's been really apprehensive but even wanting

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Speaker 1: Well, are you ready for us to give her a call?

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Speaker 3: As ready as I'm ever gonna be?

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Speaker 1: All right, here we go. Hello, Hey, this is horrible

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Speaker 1: named Catherine. Yes, this is she. Hi, Catherine, Please don't

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Speaker 1: Who you seen the flowers too?

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Speaker 3: I won flower?

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Speaker 1: Yes? Maybe you didn't know. Every single month, we choose

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Speaker 1: very much for shopping with us. You've just won thirty

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Speaker 3: Oh that's very sweet.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I am the perfect person to send them to.

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Speaker 1: So great, and the first thing I will need it

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Speaker 1: you want to send them to. Lily and uh, would

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Speaker 3: Yes, Hi, omg, Okay, this is going to be great.

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Speaker 3: Exclamation point. I can't wait to see his face. Exclamation point.

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Speaker 1: Got that, and thank you very much. Now we'll just

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Speaker 3: What do you mean?

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Speaker 1: This is actually a radio show. It's called The Jewbill Show.

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Speaker 1: My name is Jubal Hi. I'm Nina Hi, and I'm

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Speaker 1: Victoria and Catherine. We do a segment on the show

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Speaker 1: called to Catch a Cheater, where if you think your

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Speaker 1: they send flowers to, and your husband, Brian is actually

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Speaker 1: So you know, Lily, Brian, who is seeing me?

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Speaker 2: You met my mom, You took me stulf to my mom.

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Speaker 3: Okay, so well, I gotta just I guess I'll just

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Speaker 3: But you know how things have been kind of not

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Speaker 1: What ried him?

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Speaker 3: I didn't mean for it to be like terrorizing, but

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Speaker 3: it's like it's exciting, it's going to be fun.

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Speaker 1: Are you upset that you thought you were cheating? You

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like you were being all weird with your phone.

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Speaker 3: I know that's you know. I'm sorry. I do know

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Speaker 3: this bit. I have heard your show before.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is done.

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Speaker 3: That is not are you kidding me? Wove a marriage

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Speaker 3: four years? Obviously obviously not babe.

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Speaker 2: But I mean this is this is evil, like so evil,

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Speaker 2: you stop for doing that. Why would you mess with

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Speaker 2: me like that? This is great news.

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Speaker 3: You should be grateful and happy and you should love

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Speaker 2: I mean, I love you too, but I just feel

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Speaker 2: But damn, you really got me.

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Speaker 3: This is actually very cute that you had no ideas.

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Speaker 3: But I mean, for me, I thought I was being

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Speaker 3: very obvious that I was playing with you. But damn,

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Speaker 3: maybe I should change your career. Babe.

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Speaker 2: Listen, I don't know what's going on. I mean, I'm believed.

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Speaker 2: I'm just kind of waiting for my heart need to

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Speaker 2: I mean, I love you, I love that you plan

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Speaker 2: But like, damn, just next time, tell me please.

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Speaker 3: And don't accuse me of cheating. Don't think that I'm cheating.

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Speaker 3: Why would you think worst case scenario? What that is?

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Speaker 3: Like so far out, not.

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Speaker 2: So far from the truth.

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Speaker 3: Okay, like you should know that, you know deep in

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Speaker 3: your heart that's not true.

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Speaker 2: I didn't know what was going on. I just guess

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Speaker 2: I've been so stressed about the whole situation. I just

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Speaker 2: immediately doomed today the whole situation.

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Speaker 1: This is all good news. Yeah, No, she's not cheating. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: how I was cheating? Well, you can fake it next

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Speaker 1: time that No, maybe, don't never mind, it's gonna help

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Speaker 1: you get it back but let's not do that.

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Speaker 3: I don't I don't want any more drama.

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Speaker 1: Fair, good luck with everything. You guys sound cute. The

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Speaker 1: Jewel shows a patch and cheater