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Speaker 4: Look, come on, come on, you'll think.

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Speaker 10: Uh huh, I said, will good morning everybody. You all

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Speaker 10: listening to the voice, come on dig me now, one

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Speaker 10: and only Steve Harvey got a radio show. Man, old man,

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Speaker 10: oh Man symbolizes just one thing to me. Man, It's

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Speaker 10: just a constant remind of exactly how good God has.

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Speaker 2: Been to me over the years.

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Speaker 10: And I'm thanking for it too, because I realize every

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Speaker 10: day that I wake up that I would be nothing

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Speaker 10: without Him. That everything I am, that's any good in me,

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Speaker 10: I owe to him.

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Speaker 2: Now.

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Speaker 10: Have I made some mistakes along the way? Yep, bunches,

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Speaker 10: bunches and bunches. And will I continue to make mistakes

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Speaker 10: Not as many, hopefully as I have in the past,

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Speaker 10: because a lot of stuff I know better now. But

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Speaker 10: you're still going to make mistakes now, you know, hopefully

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Speaker 10: I've limited the amount of intentional error in my life.

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Speaker 10: I've wiped quite a few of those out. But from

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Speaker 10: time to time, because we're human, we're going to make

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Speaker 10: a mistake every now and then.

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Speaker 2: The trick, what it is, y'all, is.

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Speaker 10: Not to let the devil deceive you into thinking that

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Speaker 10: once you make that mistake that that's it. You can't

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Speaker 10: do it. You're falling off the wagon. You can't reboard it.

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Speaker 10: That's the biggest trick that he uses. He makes you

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Speaker 10: think that if you keep stumbling, that you can't run

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Speaker 10: the race. It kind of reminds me of a marathon runner.

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Speaker 10: From time to time, I watch them on TV, and

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Speaker 10: you'll see some people who finish the race, you know,

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Speaker 10: in a nice pace. You see people finish the race

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Speaker 10: sprinting towards the finished line. But every now and then

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Speaker 10: you'll watch a marathon and you'll see a runner and

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Speaker 10: the runner is in really, really a bad shape. The

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Speaker 10: key is they finish the race. See, you don't get

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Speaker 10: disqualified in the marathon because you stumble.

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Speaker 2: You don't. They don't.

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Speaker 10: They don't take your opportunity to finish the race because

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Speaker 10: you keep falling.

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Speaker 2: That's not the key. The key is finishing.

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Speaker 10: And a lot of times what the devil does is

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Speaker 10: he makes you think that because you keep stumbling, because

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Speaker 10: you're swaying from side to side, that you know you

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Speaker 10: out the race. Well, that's not the case. And see

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Speaker 10: and then this thing called life. Let me help you

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Speaker 10: understand something. Everybody falls, Nobody sprints to the tape in

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Speaker 10: this one. Nobody just runs free and clear. That has

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Speaker 10: some people running faster than you and all like this,

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Speaker 10: and some people gonna get to the end before you

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Speaker 10: let them go ahead. And when the end come, the

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Speaker 10: end come. I ain't in the rust. You get to

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Speaker 10: the end. But in this race, though, when you're stumbling

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Speaker 10: gets through this race without stumbling and falling, swaying from

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Speaker 10: in the thinking that it's over. I try to be

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Speaker 10: very different from a lot of people's walks. And then

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Speaker 10: I know a lot of people who walking in faith

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Speaker 10: the way I'm walking in faith. But my thing in

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Speaker 10: the morning is just to remind those that is not

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Speaker 10: a perfect walk man, that it's not something that's set

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Speaker 10: up where you're gonna be skipping through life scott free

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Speaker 10: without any pitfalls. You know, I keep saying it over

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Speaker 10: the road to construct, the road to success is always

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Speaker 10: under construction. Have to figure and count on the setbacks

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Speaker 10: that are that fight through will be the victors in

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Speaker 10: the end. You cannot give up, man, Stop going somewhere

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Speaker 10: there's a setback, that's not how this works.

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Speaker 2: It is designed that way.

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Speaker 10: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. But success

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Speaker 10: is just reserved for those who are willing to fight through,

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Speaker 10: who refuse to settle for mediocrity, who wants something more. Now,

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Speaker 10: don't get me wrong. Success is defined by each individual

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Speaker 10: so what I may consider to be successful, you may

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Speaker 10: not consider that. You know what Bill Gates considered successful.

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Speaker 10: I might not consider what Michael Jordan considered successful. I

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Speaker 10: might not consider what you consider successful. Your boss might

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Speaker 10: not consider. You have to define what that is for yourself.

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Speaker 10: It may not be monetary at all. You know, your

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Speaker 10: level of success could be tied up in community service.

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Speaker 10: It could be tied up in family. It could be

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Speaker 10: tied up in the church. Your level of success could

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Speaker 10: be tied up into boys clubs. It could be any

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Speaker 10: number of things. Whatever your level of success is, you

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Speaker 10: have to determine what that is you and the best

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Speaker 10: way to determine that is to get in touch with

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Speaker 10: your maker, who created you, to find out what your

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Speaker 10: mission and your purpose is so he can put you

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Speaker 10: on track. I just had this conversation with my son

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Speaker 2: Path that God has set up for you.

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Speaker 10: Many times we find ourselves fighting through life because of

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Speaker 10: so much uncertainty, because we have no idea where we're headed.

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Speaker 10: It's like one of my sayings that I have at

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Speaker 10: my mentoring camp for boys is is that a boy

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Speaker 10: without a male role model is like an explorer without

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Speaker 10: a map. See if you don't have a map laid

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Speaker 10: out in front of you of where you're going when

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Speaker 10: you wake up every day, that pretty much explains the

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Speaker 10: feeling of confusion, the laxadaisical attitude, the lack of purpose,

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Speaker 10: to not understanding your mission because you don't have not

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Speaker 10: gotten in touch with your creator to find out exactly

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Speaker 10: what your path in life is. What are you supposed

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Speaker 10: to be doing? The moment you can identify that is

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Speaker 10: the moment that you get started waking up with purpose,

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Speaker 10: with the sense of direction. When you kill the sense

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Speaker 10: of I don't know what's next or what to do. Now,

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Speaker 10: there's going to be some confusing moments no matter what happened,

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Speaker 10: it's going to be some uncertainty, but at least you'll

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Speaker 10: know where you're going. So if you tied awaking up

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Speaker 10: feeling loss, abandon confuse, don't know what to do, don't

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Speaker 10: know what you're supposed to be doing, refer back to

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Speaker 10: your makeup. Because when He created you, he had a

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Speaker 10: plan for you. When he created you, he had a

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Speaker 10: path for you. Now we've made some decisions to get

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Speaker 10: off of both of those, the mission and the path.

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Speaker 2: But God can get you right back on track.

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Speaker 10: Do that today, ask him what you're supposed to be doing,

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Speaker 10: and listen. God has all the answers if you form

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Speaker 10: the relationship. Okay, show, ladies and gentlemen, here we are

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Speaker 10: another day, another opportunity. This is the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

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Speaker 10: You are with some of our favorite people.

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Speaker 2: You are a dedicated listening audience. Even if you ain't dedicated,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna call you that. I don't give you damn.

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Speaker 10: If you listen there and now and then long as

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Speaker 2: I know you ain't here every morning. Some of you are. Hell.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to be here every morning.

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Speaker 10: Sometimes I want to rake up and just you know,

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Speaker 2: But I have an obligation. My team has an obligation.

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Speaker 10: To wake the world up and put you in a

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Speaker 10: good frame of mind so you can go out here

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Speaker 10: and deal with this world youre in today. That's how

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Speaker 10: we do it on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Ain't

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Speaker 10: nobody bad like we. You can believe that there's other

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Speaker 10: to you. Nothing, Ladies and gentlemen, Shirley Strawberry and calling

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Speaker 10: for Real, the Mouth of the South, Mississippi Money.

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Speaker 2: Who is Monica who is a radio and TV producer.

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Speaker 10: Today we discovered Ladies and Gentlemen, Junior Boy better known

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Speaker 10: as Killed Space, and the legend that his nephew Tommy,

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Speaker 10: who's had several ailments this year, but God is in

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Speaker 10: the blessed business, has overcome their all. He's doing shoulder

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Speaker 10: exercises right now. The five pound dumb bell. Lady and Gentlemen,

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Speaker 10: Steve Harvey, Marny Showton, Junior, what's going on?

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Speaker 11: Let me tell you something. I think the euphoria at

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Speaker 11: his house in Woof already. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I know

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Speaker 11: any more, just got it.

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Speaker 2: It's a brand new house. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I'm in trouble though, That's all I know.

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Speaker 11: I didn't know because you know, when you hear your

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Speaker 11: name early in the morning, it ain't never good. I

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Speaker 11: know that she yelling across the house early in the morning.

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Speaker 11: It ain't never good all because are we moving? Because

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Speaker 11: I've packed up all the coffee in here.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know.

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Speaker 2: I thought we was leaving.

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Speaker 11: So now I'm in trouble because I ain't no coffee

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Speaker 11: making here, Ain't no coffee in here, ain't no pots

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Speaker 11: in here. Ain't nothing all this stuff here, I can't cook.

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Speaker 11: She made rice and gravy on the microwave yesterday. Very talented, though,

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Speaker 11: I must tell you, very talented. I don't know how

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Speaker 11: she did it, but she made rice and gravy in

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Speaker 11: the microwave yesterday. But I just know that right now,

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Speaker 11: she's not really happy with me because.

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Speaker 1: I'm move it. I thought that was the goal.

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Speaker 11: We can't keep it here, we have to move it.

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Speaker 11: So I'm in trouble for that. I can't understand. I

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Speaker 11: thought the house would be enough. Give me at least

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Speaker 11: two months. Please give me two months of happening. Now

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Speaker 11: I'm back in trouble again. You for your gone, That's

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Speaker 11: what's wrong on What is the problem that we're doing

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Speaker 11: what they asked us to do and we still get

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Speaker 11: in trouble?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, because you could never do enough? Yeah, yeah it is?

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Speaker 10: Is it?

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Speaker 2: Because I was.

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Speaker 4: Not all knowing?

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Speaker 1: But we're not insatiable.

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Speaker 2: We willn't even know what that means.

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Speaker 12: But damn that.

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Speaker 4: With that because she out this morning.

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Speaker 1: She went out this morning where out of town.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's right. It ain't have enough, But there weren't all.

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Speaker 13: The ways appreciative of what you do. We're just looking.

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Speaker 2: But it ain't enough though we got we're not saying it. Tommy.

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Speaker 2: You know they're gonna.

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Speaker 12: Get cussed out in this new house though. You do

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Speaker 12: know that you're gonna get you. Yeah, right after you

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Speaker 12: move in, coming up mony.

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Speaker 14: Day, gift together to come yes, coming up at thirty

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Speaker 14: two minutes after the ain't the house. We'll hear from

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Speaker 14: the nephew. Is he runs that prank back? Right after

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Speaker 14: this you're.

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Speaker 13: Listening hard Morning Show.

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Speaker 14: It is time now for the nephew and run that

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Speaker 12: Know what, Shirley, You always got to celebrate people's birthdays.

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Speaker 2: You know you want to celebrate.

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Speaker 12: You want to show us love and care that you

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Speaker 12: So I wanted to reach out and say, you know,

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Speaker 13: Birthday, your wife's birthday.

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Speaker 12: Not mine, not mine, my wife ain't any pranks. Let's

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Speaker 14: So you're celebrating someone else's wife.

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Speaker 12: Oh yeah, And I want to make sure that I

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 13: You know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Couldn't what's her size is? You know?

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Speaker 12: I want to get us some sex that you understand

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Speaker 12: You know what I'm saying that doesn't make no sense

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Speaker 3: Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach there.

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Speaker 15: Yeah, what's up, hey, Darren Man?

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Speaker 3: What's going on? Brother?

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Speaker 13: Uh?

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Speaker 3: My name is Chris Man. I worked with I worked

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Speaker 15: Now I don't remember you.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, okay, cool, Hey listen man, I know sharing

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Speaker 15: You know what I'm saying, kind of like something like

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Speaker 3: Uh oh, I wasn't gonna hear it with no grab man.

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Speaker 3: I was just you know, like I said, we was

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Speaker 3: to see what you was getting that way. We don't know,

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Speaker 15: Well, she likes money, man, you can you know, uh

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Speaker 15: it don't have to be too big. She she don't

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Speaker 15: uh you don't have to you know, she she's not

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Speaker 3: Me let me let me ask you.

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Speaker 2: This is so deep?

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Speaker 3: Uh do you uh you know what a size is?

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Speaker 15: Do I know what her size is?

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Speaker 3: Still like clothing?

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: Do you know what side she will?

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Speaker 15: Uh? Yeah, I know what size she's not? She's one

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Speaker 15: white man. I think this is kind of like I'm

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Speaker 7: Man.

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Speaker 3: What do you do you think? You know? I don't

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Speaker 2: Let me ask you this.

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Speaker 3: Do you think she would like?

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Speaker 7: Uh?

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Speaker 3: Do she like stuff from Victoria's Secret?

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Speaker 15: WHOA hold up? Man? Stop right there? You talking about what?

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Speaker 3: No? I, like I said, I wanted what what you hey?

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Speaker 15: What's your name again?

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Speaker 10: Man?

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Speaker 7: My name Chris?

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Speaker 3: Like like I said earlier, my name How long you

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Speaker 2: You know?

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Speaker 3: But like I said, I think I saw you at

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Speaker 3: don't remember who I am.

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Speaker 15: Though, No, no, no, man, but you way out of

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Speaker 15: this at all. Man. You know, okay, okay, your way out,

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Speaker 15: your way out of line, right, But what what?

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Speaker 3: What's what? You didn't answer? My question was, what do

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Speaker 15: You want to answer your question? Keep talking about.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, what's what's what?

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Speaker 9: What?

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Speaker 3: What's the language? Brother? What's what's her? We brothers?

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Speaker 15: You know we ain't we ain't we ain't no brothers?

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Speaker 15: You fool? What do you get off asking me about

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Speaker 15: my wife's clothes?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, all right, talk with her.

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Speaker 12: Okay.

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Speaker 3: What all I'm saying is is do you think she

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Speaker 2: I will give her?

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Speaker 15: Hey, man, just to stup with that? Do you know

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Speaker 15: how long we've been together? I know this woman since

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Speaker 15: high school. Don't come to me with that.

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Speaker 3: Okay. So so I was just trying to get up

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Speaker 3: what what?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 15: What time do you guys get off? I'm coming.

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Speaker 3: I lead off at five thirty, but I was gonna

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Speaker 15: I mean, right, hey, we can talk about this faith

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Speaker 3: Say, hey, listen, I'm trying to.

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Speaker 15: Get listen what I ain't gotta listen to me?

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Speaker 3: I'm trying to get shared of panty. And Bra said, pat, okay, hey.

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Speaker 15: You ain't buying my wife and she wouldn't even accept

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Speaker 15: it anyway.

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Speaker 3: Okay, hey man, how.

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Speaker 15: You get this number? How you get this number? I

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Speaker 3: Let me tell you hot there. I got it from

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Speaker 3: your wife Sharon, because guess who I am? I am

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Speaker 3: nephew Tommy from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Sharon got

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Speaker 3: me to prank phone call you?

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Speaker 15: What there there?

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Speaker 7: This happened?

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Speaker 3: Man, This nephew Tommy brother.

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Speaker 15: Man, this is some boys, This is some real books.

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Speaker 15: This is some straight up bully. Hey man, you ain't right. Man.

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Speaker 15: You know you need to stop with people, you know,

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Speaker 15: because you might get you might somebody might be waiting

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Speaker 15: for you have to work one day. Man, that's totally wrong.

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Speaker 15: You ever heard of karma? I heard somebody gonna play

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Speaker 15: a prank on you one day? Your uncle is right,

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Speaker 15: somebody's gonna what's yours? A matter of time?

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Speaker 3: Oh man? All right, all right, darn Before I get

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Speaker 3: my mad, will you please tell the people what is

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Speaker 3: the baddest radio show in the land.

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Speaker 15: Steve Harvey Show.

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Speaker 2: Now you see how stupid that he is on Friday?

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Speaker 12: Can you imagine how ignority is gonna be tomorrow night

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Speaker 12: at the Cat's Wick Feel Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. It sound like

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Speaker 12: feeling to me, Yes, it does. Cat's Wick theater, me

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Speaker 12: and lou Nell to Touay McLaren. Oh my god, did

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Speaker 12: I not tell y'all that? Okay, surely take us out

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Speaker 14: Next, it is asked the CEO. With our Chief Love Officer,

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Speaker 14: the hour. In entertainment, news producer Lee Daniels thinks that

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Speaker 14: Don Lemon and Tucker Carlson would smash the ratings if

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Speaker 14: they teamed up. Would Kim Kardashian Yeah, Leevet Reality Teamy

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Speaker 13: She might just do that. And LSU basketball.

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Speaker 14: Champion Angel Reese says that Drake and Future slid into

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Speaker 13: We'll talk about all of these stories abobb of the hour.

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Speaker 14: Yeah, but right now it is time to ask the CLO.

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Speaker 14: This runs from Dedre in Fort Myers. Dija writes, my

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Speaker 14: and I are married now, and my husband still spends

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Speaker 14: time with the boy, who's eight years old. My husband

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Speaker 14: asked if the boy can spend the summer with us

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Speaker 14: is it wrong for me to say no to this?

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Speaker 2: See that's a touching.

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Speaker 10: Yes, you want to have complete, complete separation from his past,

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Speaker 10: but the child knows him as his dad, that's true.

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Speaker 2: And to remove the boy's.

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Speaker 10: Male role model from his life so you can be comfortable. See,

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Speaker 10: you don't want to reminder that his him and his

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Speaker 10: I think I heard you right. It's not his biological son, right, right.

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Speaker 2: Excess son is soul.

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Speaker 10: But yeah, I understand your concern about that, your hesitation,

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Speaker 10: if you could just consider for a moment the welfare

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Speaker 2: It's her, you know.

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Speaker 10: But lady, if you wanted to just be about you did,

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Speaker 10: of course you're absolutely correct, But if you would consider

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Speaker 10: that me and get enough credit oftentimes, especially fought men

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Speaker 10: who step up and.

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Speaker 2: Take care of kids that aren't they own.

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Speaker 10: That's a special dude, man, because he's taking the responsibility

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Speaker 10: that's a special dude. And now you're telling him not

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Speaker 13: Yeah, you're right, Steve, all right?

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Speaker 14: Moving on to Frank in Atlanta, I was dealing with

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Speaker 14: a wild and crazy woman and the sex was top shelf,

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Speaker 14: but she liked to bite and pinch, and she tried

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Speaker 14: leave her alone before she killed me. But I can't

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Speaker 14: get her off my mind. Should I talk to her

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Speaker 14: about being less aggressive in bed or leave her alone

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Speaker 14: for good?

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Speaker 2: You need to live alone now? Is good? Though, Steve?

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Speaker 2: That was good. She gonna kill him.

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Speaker 13: Though, That's what he's afraid of. That's what That's what

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Speaker 13: he's afraid of.

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Speaker 15: Yeah.

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Speaker 12: Can he put on one of them oxygen man's and

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Speaker 12: going there with that? I mean, I mean something, Yeah, breathe, you.

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Speaker 2: Gotta do all that I showed him.

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Speaker 10: Suggest dog, you just go get your girl that do

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Speaker 10: regular stuff and going bad down, you know, make that

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Speaker 10: works for you, all that excitement coming at the price

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Speaker 10: for you. She didn't try to kill you. She'd a

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Speaker 10: bit you.

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Speaker 2: Or you be stabbed. That's what I see.

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Speaker 10: That You're gonna get stabbed, don't they pitching and tracking

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Speaker 10: and bting and smothering. Ain't nothing left but gunshots and stabbing. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 10: you're gonna be in there playing Russian Roulette with him.

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Speaker 2: You can't get it mind, I know, Yeah, I know.

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Speaker 2: So you ain't been bit before. That's what you're saying.

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Speaker 10: You ain't didn't like it, You ain't don't like fighting, Tommy,

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Speaker 10: I don't like or smothered with a pillow or No,

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Speaker 10: you're not smothering me without getting knocked in the float.

453
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Speaker 10: You other than me, My reaction to smothering is not good.

454
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Speaker 10: Johnny Waller chilseed me one time in the ninth grade.

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Speaker 2: That's all I needed.

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Speaker 10: Right there after that, I knew that wasn't gonna be

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Speaker 10: gratifying for me. Evil and here, oh yeah, all right.

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Speaker 14: Moving on to Penny and Harlem, Penny says, my boyfriend

459
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Speaker 14: tells his friends too much of our personal business.

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Speaker 13: We did some role playing in bed.

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Speaker 14: For the first time, and I overheard him telling his

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Speaker 14: friend about it. How could he do that? Does it

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Speaker 14: mean he doesn't take our relationship seriously?

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Speaker 10: Yeah, he's very immature. Most men men that's got somebody

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Speaker 10: they care about. We're not discussing our bedroom life with

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Speaker 10: our boys. We're not doing it because we got too

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Speaker 10: much respect for it.

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Speaker 2: She off Livings. Lady. You know, if you just in't

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Speaker 2: here tricking, you know, Oh, that's how much discussion.

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Speaker 14: So she thinks it's something and you just something entirely

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Speaker 14: different from his perspective.

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Speaker 2: Well, what's their relationship though, ship?

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Speaker 13: She said, he's her boyfriend.

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Speaker 2: That's all you is. He don't care about you. If

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Speaker 2: you talked about you, yeah, I don't. That's not a

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Speaker 2: good sign.

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Speaker 1: And you're hearing that from men.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because I don't talk about nobody I

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Speaker 10: care about. You're not getting that car by.

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Speaker 2: She put a leg up on that ceiling. Fan. Let

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Speaker 2: me tell you, let me tell you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, watching the game.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, how long are her legs?

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Speaker 2: Yep? No, Well you know she wasn't in the bed.

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Speaker 2: She was hanging from us.

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Speaker 14: Well, all right, so there you have it, Penny in Harlem.

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Speaker 14: Let's have it at home. Last one, Harlow shake, last one, Steve.

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Speaker 14: This is from Willett's in Charlotte. Okay. Willett said, I

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Speaker 14: had a three so with my husband and he is

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Speaker 14: still sleeping with the woman. I feel guilty for inviting

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Speaker 14: her into my marriage, so I never questioned him about

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Speaker 14: the affair. I want my husband back all to myself.

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Speaker 14: How do I reverse what I've done?

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Speaker 10: You a going okay, okay, be good, you said, cool,

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Speaker 10: let's do it, he said, she in yeah you Yeah,

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Speaker 10: you gave the hall pass, right she did. Now you

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Speaker 10: can ask for the pass back, but you're still going

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Speaker 10: to be in the hall though.

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Speaker 13: Not happening. Yeah, you're right, he's.

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Speaker 10: I the hall pass back in the classroom, and I

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Speaker 10: will stay out here in this hall though.

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Speaker 16: Yeah, so it's going good over there.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 13: How can she get her husband back all to herself?

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Speaker 13: That's what you want?

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Speaker 2: No, I'm just told you that's not gonna have No,

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Speaker 2: he don't.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, he got there's nothing he goes.

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Speaker 2: You can't for miss.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, but she changed. She changed because he's still sleeping then.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, but see you can't. You can't tell a man

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Speaker 10: it's okay to sleep around. And then now he done

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Speaker 10: get used to it. Now you're gonna tell him y'all

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Speaker 10: don't want you to sleeping around no more. So then

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Speaker 10: he's thinking in hisself. So now you just want be

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Speaker 10: back over here?

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Speaker 2: Yes, with you.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, yourself, just doing regular stuff.

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Speaker 2: That's what we're doing with you.

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Speaker 13: Right Wait what he's so selfish.

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Speaker 2: Just with you. That's it from now. You know what,

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Speaker 2: that's not gonna work. He ain't got the life by

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Speaker 2: where he at.

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Speaker 1: No, I ain't got the lie.

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Speaker 13: Your marriage is open. Yeah, she opened it up. All right,

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Speaker 13: thank you, CLO.

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Speaker 14: Moving on now to the top of the hour and

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Speaker 14: Entertainment News right after this you're.

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Speaker 13: Listening morning show.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 14: So this week started out with drama after two journalists

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Speaker 14: from competing organizations left their long standing jobs.

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Speaker 13: On Monday.

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Speaker 14: Don Lemon was reportedly terminated from his position at CNN,

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Speaker 14: and Fox News announced that Tucker Carlson won't be returning

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Speaker 14: to that network. The news sent shockwaves through social media,

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Speaker 14: and director Lee Daniels had an idea. He was one

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Speaker 14: of many that shared his thoughts about Lemon and Carlson.

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Speaker 14: Daniels did an Instagram live video encouraging Lemon and Carlson

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Speaker 14: to join forces. Daniels said, Don Lemon, Tucker Carlson, If

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Speaker 14: I were a smart executive, I put them both on

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Speaker 14: the same TV show. How bananas would the ratings be?

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Speaker 14: I think it could possibly unite the country. Now that's

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Speaker 14: from Lee Daniels.

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Speaker 2: What do you think, Steve, Yeah, you like the country.

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Speaker 13: Well, now there's news.

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Speaker 2: Now, mister Daniels, you do.

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Speaker 13: Great moves, excellent.

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Speaker 10: Your work is epic out as you don't. Now, I'll

550
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:06,560
Speaker 10: tell you what. I'll produce the show with you, cause

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Speaker 10: it'll be a hell of hit.

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Speaker 13: It's about you.

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Speaker 2: Matter of fact, I'm finish. Text Don right.

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Speaker 13: Now to tell him you got to deal for him.

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Speaker 12: Boy, please, and mister Daniels, since be talking about movies,

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Speaker 12: I'm here if you need.

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Speaker 13: It, And how is this about you?

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Speaker 12: This is a great time to tell me. It's to Daniels,

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Speaker 12: I'd like to work. I'm just saying.

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Speaker 14: The question is with Don Lemon and Tucker Carlson be

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Speaker 14: good on TV together?

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Speaker 2: Oh see, it would be it would be question.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, it would be tough man, but it would be

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Speaker 10: musty TV because that's never been done before.

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Speaker 2: You know.

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Speaker 10: Okay, look like like CNN does it. CNN does it.

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Speaker 10: They'll have a republican right wing like Scott on every

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Speaker 10: now and then to add at the right perspective. But

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Speaker 10: never have you had two stars sit there and debate

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Speaker 10: certain subjects and topics. And I think we'll be interesting,

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Speaker 10: but those two egos in the same room, he's gonna

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Speaker 10: be wrong.

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Speaker 13: Yeah, but it's like you said, must see.

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Speaker 2: For the right check, you better deal with it.

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Speaker 13: So there you go, all right.

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Speaker 14: In an interview at Time one hundred summit earlier this week,

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Speaker 14: Kim Kardashian talked about her criminal justice reform efforts and

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Speaker 14: said she would consider giving up reality TV to be

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Speaker 14: an attorney full time. Kim's passion for law and justice

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Speaker 14: has been well documented over the past several years. Just

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Speaker 14: last week, camera sister Chloe and rapper Little Baby visited

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Speaker 14: at California State Prison to learn about inmates experiences on

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Speaker 14: the inside. When asked if she would ever leave reality

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Speaker 14: television to focus solely on being a lawyer, Kim said, quote,

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Speaker 14: I would be just as happy being an attorney full

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Speaker 14: time and doing that. The journey just really opened up

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Speaker 14: my eyes to so much. It gets overwhelming because there's

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Speaker 14: so much to be done. I would totally spend more

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Speaker 14: time doing that cameras or no cameras, So there, you know.

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Speaker 10: I mean, I think everybody has to get to a

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Speaker 10: point in a life where you discover your purpose, and

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Speaker 10: I think that's when life becomes very fulfilling when you

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Speaker 10: find the reason why the two most important days in

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Speaker 10: your life are the day you're born and the day

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Speaker 10: you discover why those two days are absolutely critical. The

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Speaker 10: sad part of it is a lot of people go

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Speaker 10: through life never really attaching themselves to a purpose. And

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Speaker 10: Kim Kardashian could very well find that, because you know,

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Speaker 10: it's if you thinking, if anybody is thinking out there,

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Speaker 10: there's got to be more to life than this, that's

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Speaker 10: because it is. And the moment you stop thinking there's

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Speaker 10: got to be more to life than this, you in

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Speaker 10: some trouble because the Bible clearly says a man without

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Speaker 10: a dream or a vision shall perish. It does not

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Speaker 10: say a man without an education will pass. It says

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Speaker 10: when you stop dreaming and having visions, you will die

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Speaker 10: because there is nothing to shoot for. And once you

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Speaker 10: lose the aiming ability, you've lost one of the major

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Speaker 10: components to waken up every day. And that's what I

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Speaker 10: thank God for a great deal, my ability to have

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Speaker 10: dreams and visions. And everybody has them, everybody on the

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Speaker 10: show has them, everybody listening has them. You just can't

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Speaker 10: let the devil rob you of that because The devil's

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Speaker 10: main goal in life is to rob you of your destiny.

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Speaker 10: That's he wants that more than anything. He don't care

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Speaker 10: if you get a big house. He don't care if

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Speaker 10: you make a lot of money. He just wants to

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Speaker 10: rob you of your destinies. What God has put you

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Speaker 10: on this world to do. And if he can make

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Speaker 10: you think there's nothing for you to do, if he

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Speaker 10: can make you think you've already arrived, if he can

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Speaker 10: get you to thinking, this is it in Lord, have mercy.

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Speaker 10: He wins the battles fight. People fight. I'm sorry you

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Speaker 10: didn't ask me all that.

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Speaker 2: No, that was good though.

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Speaker 14: People need to hear that. That's that's greatness, all right.

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Speaker 14: Moving on to Angel Reese. You know her exposure has

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Speaker 14: increased drastically since she led the LSU Tigers women's basketball

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Speaker 14: team to the twenty twenty three NCAA National championship earlier

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Speaker 14: this month. She's so popular now that during a recent

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Speaker 14: radio interview, she revealed that rappers Drake and Future were

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Speaker 14: among the many celebrities that have slid into her DMS.

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Speaker 14: Reese made sure she explained the nature of their conversations,

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Speaker 14: though Angel said they just congratulated her. It was just congratulations. Okay,

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Speaker 14: that's all it was.

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Speaker 13: Before you start thinking other things. Just congratulations And what

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Speaker 13: have we learned from this?

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Speaker 2: Fella? Say out to young girls, do.

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Speaker 14: You yeah, stay out, But imagine that Drake.

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Speaker 13: You look at your your your d MS and Drake

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Speaker 13: is in there. Wow.

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Speaker 2: I don't even know how to do, you know what, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know why to get in there?

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Speaker 13: You? Oh, all right?

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Speaker 14: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, Steve has

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Speaker 14: a special announcement.

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Speaker 13: I wonder what that could be. We'll find out right

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Speaker 13: after this. You're listening morning show, all right.

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Speaker 10: Steve, So you're Charley. I have an announcement to me.

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Speaker 10: Oh okay, sorry to interrupt.

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Speaker 2: It's okay.

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Speaker 10: This is major news, everybody. I need your divided attention.

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Speaker 10: You know, for the first time in all of American

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Speaker 10: broadcast history, this is the first time you all women

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Speaker 10: of color, are going to be recognized on the national

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Speaker 10: platform for all of their hard work and contributions to

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Speaker 10: the radio industry. Now, as a part of the Black

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Speaker 10: Women in Radio's Oral History Project, they have selected thirty

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Speaker 10: nine African American female radio veterans from all over the

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Speaker 10: country who will be celebrated in Washington, d C. At

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Speaker 10: the Library of Congress this afternoon.

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Speaker 2: Folks that would.

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Speaker 10: Include our very own miss Sherli Strawberry and Colin for real.

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Speaker 11: Over here want to do it when Jun hit it.

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Speaker 10: They will be two of the thirty nine African American

666
00:36:58,880 --> 00:37:02,080
Speaker 10: female radio veteran. They are part of the Black Women

667
00:37:02,160 --> 00:37:05,759
Speaker 10: in Radios in Augrie thirtieth and for the first time

668
00:37:05,800 --> 00:37:10,520
Speaker 10: in history, have been invited to attend the Radio Preservation

669
00:37:11,160 --> 00:37:15,879
Speaker 10: Task Force Conference in our nation's capital. So they will

670
00:37:15,920 --> 00:37:19,680
Speaker 10: be going up there to represent Black women in radio,

671
00:37:20,000 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 10: to represent the Steve Harvey Morning Show, to hold it

672
00:37:24,160 --> 00:37:27,920
Speaker 10: down for all of our markets, all of our listeners.

673
00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:28,520
Speaker 2: Two.

674
00:37:28,880 --> 00:37:33,240
Speaker 10: We got two. Ain't nobody else got too. We got

675
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:39,680
Speaker 10: two of the veterans of radio representing women of color.

676
00:37:40,120 --> 00:37:44,080
Speaker 10: We want to congratulate Shirley and Color. They're gonna also

677
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 10: get a tour in the White House and will be

678
00:37:47,440 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 10: greeted by the White House Press Secretary Corriem Joan pl Yes,

679
00:37:55,760 --> 00:37:57,799
Speaker 10: all her name could be.

680
00:37:57,920 --> 00:38:03,880
Speaker 16: Karen, it's not, she's a sister joe yell or you

681
00:38:04,040 --> 00:38:10,040
Speaker 16: could be Carrie May, Jean Pierre, whoever that is. Thank

682
00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:14,279
Speaker 16: you for recognizing our sisters for congratulations to our very

683
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:19,160
Speaker 16: own Shirley Strawberry and call her for real, because we

684
00:38:19,360 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 16: are pretty show are the only ones that's sending two bad,

685
00:38:24,360 --> 00:38:26,600
Speaker 16: bad women own up there to DC.

686
00:38:27,560 --> 00:38:28,600
Speaker 2: You better show out.

687
00:38:29,080 --> 00:38:29,440
Speaker 13: Thank you.

688
00:38:30,640 --> 00:38:32,760
Speaker 2: I'm gonna have Ellie dress y'all.

689
00:38:33,320 --> 00:38:37,799
Speaker 10: Oh, Shirley, a lotta have y'all up there and just

690
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:43,360
Speaker 10: straight for Steve.

691
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,640
Speaker 14: Congratulations Carla and to all the other women. This is

692
00:38:46,880 --> 00:38:49,479
Speaker 14: quite an honor. We appreciate this very much.

693
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:56,360
Speaker 13: Yes, thank coming. Congratulations Shanley, thank you, Thanks Carla.

694
00:38:56,400 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 14: All right, coming up more of the Steve Harby Morning Show.

695
00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,040
Speaker 14: I think Ross the Wallace is stopping by right after

696
00:39:02,080 --> 00:39:03,200
Speaker 14: this is this Friday.

697
00:39:03,360 --> 00:39:04,200
Speaker 13: Yeah, he'll be here.

698
00:39:04,360 --> 00:39:10,880
Speaker 14: Yeah you're listening morning show. You see he's here and

699
00:39:11,040 --> 00:39:14,320
Speaker 14: ready to God, welcome to Roscoe Wallace.

700
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:20,560
Speaker 10: I'm already say all here. You ain't gonna recall me.

701
00:39:20,680 --> 00:39:21,600
Speaker 10: I'm already here.

702
00:39:21,960 --> 00:39:28,080
Speaker 2: I see, I ain't, I ain't been labeled nothing. I'm one.

703
00:39:29,200 --> 00:39:33,719
Speaker 2: Lets you ready where I.

704
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 17: Want to little Bobby woman, if you think you're lonely now, if.

705
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:43,160
Speaker 2: You think you lonely, no, you're about now open.

706
00:39:43,000 --> 00:39:46,000
Speaker 10: Here waiting till tonight.

707
00:39:46,880 --> 00:39:47,400
Speaker 2: Girl.

708
00:39:49,360 --> 00:39:57,040
Speaker 10: If you think you lonely, Oh, lonely, lonely, lonely waiting

709
00:39:57,480 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 10: till tonight? Girl, Hay hippie.

710
00:40:05,880 --> 00:40:06,920
Speaker 2: Or you know you met with.

711
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:15,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, let's go up to Chicago, Chicago the show.

712
00:40:15,680 --> 00:40:17,080
Speaker 4: It was a cold.

713
00:40:19,560 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 10: This day, Oh my life.

714
00:40:25,719 --> 00:40:27,200
Speaker 2: But I want to break it down like that. Man.

715
00:40:27,560 --> 00:40:33,399
Speaker 10: Yes, I see her face and where I go on

716
00:40:33,440 --> 00:40:36,920
Speaker 10: the street and even at the picture.

717
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:37,080
Speaker 2: Of her show.

718
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:45,719
Speaker 10: Have your seena till they have your seena. I hear

719
00:40:46,040 --> 00:40:53,280
Speaker 10: her voice to be holy, she can set me free.

720
00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:59,600
Speaker 2: Have your seena? Tell me? Have you seen up?

721
00:41:02,320 --> 00:41:02,920
Speaker 4: Why?

722
00:41:04,480 --> 00:41:12,719
Speaker 2: Oh why teach? You have to leave me and go away?

723
00:41:12,960 --> 00:41:13,320
Speaker 4: Oh?

724
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:24,959
Speaker 2: Yeah, whoa been? You said? Having some one to leave?

725
00:41:25,040 --> 00:41:25,360
Speaker 10: You know?

726
00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:33,319
Speaker 2: And I'm lost? What baby, I'm lost?

727
00:41:33,880 --> 00:41:38,080
Speaker 4: Whoa girl?

728
00:41:39,840 --> 00:41:45,040
Speaker 10: I probably if you left me now, I'm I don't know.

729
00:41:46,320 --> 00:41:50,239
Speaker 10: I don't know where to look for love and I

730
00:41:50,440 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 10: don't I don't know how how you there?

731
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:06,359
Speaker 2: Hey you baby? That was a rebate you mix it? Yeah,

732
00:42:06,400 --> 00:42:10,759
Speaker 2: it was nice. It was nice you see how on? Yeah?

733
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:11,400
Speaker 1: I loved it.

734
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,720
Speaker 2: Girl, that keel, that's what you got. That woman.

735
00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 11: The dramatics, what you're seeing go outside.

736
00:42:24,320 --> 00:42:24,760
Speaker 4: That one.

737
00:42:26,120 --> 00:42:27,200
Speaker 2: Yen thew race.

738
00:42:31,120 --> 00:42:41,040
Speaker 10: It may sound crazy, Bud, I want to go outside, plain, squirrel, squirrel,

739
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:44,359
Speaker 10: the end rain.

740
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:50,400
Speaker 2: I could do so many I could do that. What

741
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 2: you what you get? What you get?

742
00:42:56,800 --> 00:43:02,760
Speaker 10: I said, what you see is what you getting, my baby?

743
00:43:03,400 --> 00:43:07,359
Speaker 10: And real is the best is the best thing you had?

744
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:08,879
Speaker 10: The best thing yet?

745
00:43:09,160 --> 00:43:14,840
Speaker 2: Oh? Digit tive like who weave?

746
00:43:16,360 --> 00:43:27,040
Speaker 10: Whirling round and round, roping down here spinning on the ground.

747
00:43:28,120 --> 00:43:31,960
Speaker 10: You kisses make me de is it.

748
00:43:33,840 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 13: In the head?

749
00:43:37,760 --> 00:43:43,400
Speaker 2: Now falling? Yea falling?

750
00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:44,680
Speaker 7: Ah?

751
00:43:45,440 --> 00:43:50,080
Speaker 2: Here I go down and down I go.

752
00:43:52,000 --> 00:43:55,080
Speaker 10: I can't help myself one more time?

753
00:43:55,400 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 13: Coming up next? Where you throw my mind?

754
00:44:00,040 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 14: Oh you're listening morning show coming up at about four

755
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:10,240
Speaker 14: minutes after the hour. It's my strawberry letter for today

756
00:44:10,239 --> 00:44:13,680
Speaker 14: and the subject is I just met my play sister

757
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,000
Speaker 14: in law. We'll get into that in just a few

758
00:44:17,080 --> 00:44:19,680
Speaker 14: because right now it is time for the nephew and

759
00:44:19,760 --> 00:44:22,080
Speaker 14: today's prank phone call. What you got for his neph

760
00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:23,000
Speaker 14: This right here?

761
00:44:23,120 --> 00:44:24,520
Speaker 2: Don't you hate child support?

762
00:44:25,480 --> 00:44:25,640
Speaker 4: Hey?

763
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:28,400
Speaker 2: What I do?

764
00:44:28,600 --> 00:44:28,680
Speaker 13: What?

765
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:31,320
Speaker 2: Fine? Why whine? Let's go cat?

766
00:44:32,400 --> 00:44:32,680
Speaker 7: Hello?

767
00:44:33,160 --> 00:44:36,240
Speaker 2: Hello, I am trying to reach a Melvin Colbert.

768
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 15: Please, Yeah, this is me.

769
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:39,120
Speaker 2: Mister Melvin. How are you?

770
00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:43,000
Speaker 12: My name is Timson with the Child Support Services, and.

771
00:44:42,920 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 2: I wanted to give you a call.

772
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:46,160
Speaker 12: Going through the records that we have, I wanted to

773
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:50,040
Speaker 12: follow up on some things. We're noticing here that your son,

774
00:44:50,239 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 12: Melvin Junior, is going to be turning eighteen here pretty soon.

775
00:44:54,800 --> 00:44:58,359
Speaker 12: But looking at our records, it indicates that you were

776
00:44:58,360 --> 00:45:02,560
Speaker 12: doing pretty well with child support for seventeen maybe well sixteen,

777
00:45:02,680 --> 00:45:06,120
Speaker 12: sixteen years. It just seems like we're here within the

778
00:45:06,160 --> 00:45:08,000
Speaker 12: last year you seem to have fallen off. Seem like

779
00:45:08,000 --> 00:45:11,359
Speaker 12: we haven't gotten a payment from you within the last year.

780
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:14,000
Speaker 2: I'm looking, I'm dating it back. Now looks like wait a.

781
00:45:13,920 --> 00:45:16,239
Speaker 15: Man, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on, hold on.

782
00:45:16,560 --> 00:45:19,920
Speaker 7: Now, you said it for sixteen years. My son be

783
00:45:19,960 --> 00:45:22,200
Speaker 7: eighteen in three months, right, I.

784
00:45:22,160 --> 00:45:23,080
Speaker 2: Know that's what we're saying.

785
00:45:23,120 --> 00:45:25,719
Speaker 12: It seems like he's approaching eighteen, sir. But within the

786
00:45:25,800 --> 00:45:29,200
Speaker 12: last twelve months, twelve thirteen months, sir, we haven't really

787
00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:31,879
Speaker 12: we haven't really gotten a payment here from you as

788
00:45:31,880 --> 00:45:33,560
Speaker 12: far as child supports concern by.

789
00:45:33,600 --> 00:45:36,280
Speaker 7: Man, hold on, what you mean? You ain't got no permit?

790
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:37,520
Speaker 15: They take it out my check.

791
00:45:37,560 --> 00:45:40,080
Speaker 7: They take money out of my check every week, every

792
00:45:40,120 --> 00:45:42,480
Speaker 7: pay check twice and that's twice a month. They take

793
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:44,399
Speaker 7: money out of my check. And they've been taking money

794
00:45:44,440 --> 00:45:46,799
Speaker 7: out of my check. So you need wait, you need

795
00:45:46,880 --> 00:45:49,560
Speaker 7: look at that computer again. Looking there again, sir.

796
00:45:49,800 --> 00:45:53,440
Speaker 2: I've gone through the records over and over. I actually

797
00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:55,520
Speaker 2: thoroughly checked before I give people a phone call.

798
00:45:55,960 --> 00:45:58,800
Speaker 12: I'm ninety nine point nine percent sure this is dated

799
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:02,320
Speaker 12: back thirteen months. You've been paying right at seven hundred

800
00:46:02,320 --> 00:46:04,160
Speaker 12: and fifty dollars a month, am I right?

801
00:46:04,480 --> 00:46:05,600
Speaker 15: Yes, that's right, and.

802
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 12: They break it up over over a four week period

803
00:46:07,800 --> 00:46:09,040
Speaker 12: and you get paid weekly.

804
00:46:09,080 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 2: So they've been taking it out.

805
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:13,080
Speaker 7: Three hundred every two weeks. They've been taking three hundred

806
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:16,760
Speaker 7: seventy five dollars out of my chick. So something wrong

807
00:46:17,280 --> 00:46:19,080
Speaker 7: now they've been taking that. I know they've been taking

808
00:46:19,120 --> 00:46:19,640
Speaker 7: out my chick.

809
00:46:19,719 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 12: Well, sir, I don't want to be the bearer of

810
00:46:22,239 --> 00:46:25,479
Speaker 12: bad news, but what's happens when situations get to this point.

811
00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:26,520
Speaker 2: This is what takes place.

812
00:46:27,160 --> 00:46:29,960
Speaker 12: Even though the child is turning eighteen, what they're going

813
00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:33,719
Speaker 12: to do, sir, is now extend child support until the

814
00:46:33,800 --> 00:46:37,120
Speaker 12: child reaches twenty one, which is another three years now.

815
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:42,879
Speaker 7: Oh no, no, hell no, hell now, Now they've been

816
00:46:42,880 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 7: taking three hundred and seventy five dollars by my chicks

817
00:46:46,080 --> 00:46:49,759
Speaker 7: twice a month. So now, ain't no extending nothing. My

818
00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:52,920
Speaker 7: coat ought to say when my son turned eighteen and

819
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:57,320
Speaker 7: three months, three months from tomorrow, that damn child support

820
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 7: gonna get cut out. Ain't no extendsion no twenty one,

821
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:04,400
Speaker 7: No take care of my son now now, now you

822
00:47:04,480 --> 00:47:08,080
Speaker 7: listen to me some y'all. Y'all got deep dump. I

823
00:47:08,200 --> 00:47:10,000
Speaker 7: take care of my son and they take it out

824
00:47:10,000 --> 00:47:10,640
Speaker 7: of my chicks.

825
00:47:10,680 --> 00:47:10,799
Speaker 2: Sir.

826
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:13,120
Speaker 12: Wait a minute, sir, what I'm saying is it's not

827
00:47:13,200 --> 00:47:15,880
Speaker 12: in the computer. We don't have any listings of it.

828
00:47:15,880 --> 00:47:18,959
Speaker 12: It hasn't been done within the last thirteen months. That's

829
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:21,440
Speaker 12: when when it comes to a situation like this we

830
00:47:21,520 --> 00:47:26,000
Speaker 12: extend it to three to the childe, twenty three to

831
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:27,600
Speaker 12: the childe twenty No.

832
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:34,360
Speaker 7: Sure, ain't extended nothing on me eighteen y'all ain't got baby.

833
00:47:34,440 --> 00:47:36,680
Speaker 7: They talking about it. I ain't paid. I got the

834
00:47:36,920 --> 00:47:39,680
Speaker 7: chick stubs where they've been taken out of my check. Now,

835
00:47:39,719 --> 00:47:41,560
Speaker 7: how come y'all don't have a representation.

836
00:47:42,360 --> 00:47:45,360
Speaker 15: Certainly you have a not chext What is check stubs?

837
00:47:45,400 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 10: That?

838
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 2: Yeah?

839
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:49,880
Speaker 7: I got a box while I keep the chick stubs there?

840
00:47:49,880 --> 00:47:52,680
Speaker 2: Do you have every check stuff you damn.

841
00:47:52,520 --> 00:47:55,040
Speaker 7: Right, I got every chick stuff and I got the

842
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:58,640
Speaker 7: other damn receipts everything I fought for them. Well, excuse me,

843
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:01,200
Speaker 7: I don't mean talking about my son like this. But

844
00:48:00,960 --> 00:48:01,440
Speaker 7: but but what.

845
00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 12: Super I'm the I'm the actual manager here. I'm the

846
00:48:06,440 --> 00:48:07,480
Speaker 12: one that makes the phone call.

847
00:48:07,520 --> 00:48:07,680
Speaker 2: Sir.

848
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 12: We've gone through these records over and over, trying to

849
00:48:10,360 --> 00:48:12,760
Speaker 12: make sure that we were definitely clear on it before

850
00:48:12,800 --> 00:48:16,719
Speaker 12: we give a personal call about a situation like this.

851
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:20,640
Speaker 7: Oh no, that's bush man, that's but now now you

852
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:23,200
Speaker 7: know that's that's a sir, Sir.

853
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:26,400
Speaker 12: I don't want to be a bearer of bad news now.

854
00:48:27,120 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 7: With doubt, but don't call me what you don't want

855
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:30,200
Speaker 7: me to be.

856
00:48:30,280 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 3: No bad sir.

857
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:35,120
Speaker 12: You will be paying this until the child is twenty one.

858
00:48:35,480 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 7: Oh I bet you you wait to my son turned eighteen.

859
00:48:39,600 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 7: I bet you want a thing, y'all. Ain't take it

860
00:48:42,239 --> 00:48:44,920
Speaker 7: out of my take one mind, sir.

861
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:48,439
Speaker 12: Let me, sir. What I'm not gonna do is have you.

862
00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:51,399
Speaker 12: I'm not gonna go back and forth with you. Okay, Now,

863
00:48:51,640 --> 00:48:54,880
Speaker 12: you're gonna pay twenty one until he's twenty one, or

864
00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:56,200
Speaker 12: you're going to jail.

865
00:48:56,600 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 7: Well, miss, let me tell you one thing, now, I

866
00:48:59,000 --> 00:49:01,080
Speaker 7: know what the hell they've been taken out of my

867
00:49:01,160 --> 00:49:04,319
Speaker 7: chick twice a month. Do you don't hear me? I

868
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,319
Speaker 7: know what they've been taking out because I know what

869
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:07,319
Speaker 7: I've been bringing home.

870
00:49:07,760 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 12: Well, sir, is there a possibility?

871
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:13,120
Speaker 7: Right? And look at let me take any hell I be.

872
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:15,600
Speaker 7: I'll tell you what. When my son at eighteen, ain't

873
00:49:15,640 --> 00:49:18,120
Speaker 7: no moretion coming out of my check, y'all can pay

874
00:49:18,560 --> 00:49:20,520
Speaker 7: to twenty one if you want to. Y'all can care.

875
00:49:20,560 --> 00:49:22,720
Speaker 7: I've been taking care of it. Y'all can pay the

876
00:49:22,800 --> 00:49:24,000
Speaker 7: twenty one that hell.

877
00:49:24,120 --> 00:49:26,520
Speaker 12: Now, are you having problems giving money to your son

878
00:49:26,560 --> 00:49:27,319
Speaker 12: to support him?

879
00:49:27,360 --> 00:49:27,560
Speaker 2: Sir?

880
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:30,720
Speaker 7: What you're talking about? I ain't. Y'all have no problem

881
00:49:30,760 --> 00:49:33,520
Speaker 7: taking this out of my I take care of my son.

882
00:49:34,000 --> 00:49:36,520
Speaker 7: I take care of good, getting my hair cut every week,

883
00:49:36,880 --> 00:49:39,920
Speaker 7: buying them damn tennis shoes still get acting, no problem

884
00:49:39,920 --> 00:49:42,000
Speaker 7: paying with my son. I take care of my son.

885
00:49:42,200 --> 00:49:44,920
Speaker 7: I take care of what's mine. And that's what I've

886
00:49:44,960 --> 00:49:48,080
Speaker 7: been doing for the path down there eighteen years come

887
00:49:48,200 --> 00:49:51,359
Speaker 7: three months from tomorrow, That's what I've been doing. So

888
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,200
Speaker 7: I tell you what, I'm gona still take care of

889
00:49:53,280 --> 00:49:55,799
Speaker 7: my damn son. After words, but it ain't coming out

890
00:49:55,840 --> 00:49:57,880
Speaker 7: of my check. To y'all, I'm gonna take care of

891
00:49:57,920 --> 00:50:00,359
Speaker 7: my own but our needs. Y'all in my little folks,

892
00:50:00,360 --> 00:50:03,080
Speaker 7: and give me take care of my damn son. So

893
00:50:03,880 --> 00:50:07,280
Speaker 7: eighteen comes, I bet you one thing in three months

894
00:50:07,360 --> 00:50:10,160
Speaker 7: on that four months, nothing be not come out of

895
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:11,239
Speaker 7: my check.

896
00:50:11,560 --> 00:50:14,919
Speaker 12: I bet you that we're gonna it's gonna go until

897
00:50:14,920 --> 00:50:16,120
Speaker 12: the child is twenty one.

898
00:50:16,160 --> 00:50:18,160
Speaker 7: But don't tell me. Calm down now these I'm gonna

899
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,920
Speaker 7: get these straight. Call you and we're gonna.

900
00:50:21,680 --> 00:50:22,520
Speaker 3: Get you straight.

901
00:50:22,760 --> 00:50:25,919
Speaker 12: We're gonna get you straight. You're gonna pay until he's

902
00:50:25,920 --> 00:50:28,440
Speaker 12: twenty one because you were negligent.

903
00:50:28,080 --> 00:50:29,760
Speaker 2: For the last thirteen months.

904
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:30,399
Speaker 10: You were.

905
00:50:31,239 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 7: Come who you think you talking to? Your sign problem?

906
00:50:35,440 --> 00:50:35,520
Speaker 2: You?

907
00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:37,359
Speaker 7: What's your name?

908
00:50:38,120 --> 00:50:38,319
Speaker 6: Now?

909
00:50:39,520 --> 00:50:42,720
Speaker 7: Come telling me you don't lost your mind.

910
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:45,319
Speaker 12: My name is Tim Hillers, and I'm with the Child

911
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:48,880
Speaker 12: Support Services. You have been negligent for thirteen months, and

912
00:50:49,000 --> 00:50:49,839
Speaker 12: you're gonna pay.

913
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,000
Speaker 2: You're gonna pay until all right.

914
00:50:53,320 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 7: Put me on my phone talking about I ain't got damper. Now,

915
00:50:58,560 --> 00:51:01,160
Speaker 7: let me tell you something. Let me tell you one thing.

916
00:51:01,520 --> 00:51:04,200
Speaker 7: Come three months, I'm gonna pay it. I'm gonna pay

917
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,120
Speaker 7: for three months, but after three months old. A WK.

918
00:51:06,560 --> 00:51:11,480
Speaker 7: I ain't giving y'all or his mama another thing, but

919
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:13,680
Speaker 7: I give it to my son. But that's better than

920
00:51:13,760 --> 00:51:16,880
Speaker 7: Field is ain't getting another plenty out of me.

921
00:51:17,160 --> 00:51:18,839
Speaker 3: So now not a time?

922
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 7: And you you gotta.

923
00:51:20,480 --> 00:51:22,680
Speaker 1: Say who is who is that?

924
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:23,000
Speaker 2: Back?

925
00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:27,440
Speaker 7: Then that's my gas. But but you heard what I said,

926
00:51:27,520 --> 00:51:32,200
Speaker 7: right Yo, I'm telling you what I said. You got that,

927
00:51:32,239 --> 00:51:34,480
Speaker 7: So you go and tell her that. You go and

928
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 7: tell whoever. Then turn the general here over the US.

929
00:51:38,040 --> 00:51:41,200
Speaker 7: You tell if the ass that and not come out

930
00:51:41,239 --> 00:51:45,040
Speaker 7: my check. I'm looking for you. You want to know

931
00:51:45,160 --> 00:51:47,279
Speaker 7: what I've been doing, so you know what? You can

932
00:51:47,440 --> 00:51:52,760
Speaker 7: kiss my black come three months and I take you.

933
00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 2: Well, let me say something to your face.

934
00:51:54,880 --> 00:51:57,279
Speaker 7: Is you listening what you got to say?

935
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Speaker 10: Man?

936
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Speaker 2: This is left you time? It from the Steave Harvey

937
00:52:00,640 --> 00:52:01,400
Speaker 2: Morning Show.

938
00:52:01,800 --> 00:52:23,360
Speaker 12: You just got prank by your boy stand.

939
00:52:16,600 --> 00:52:20,279
Speaker 2: Melvin you all right? Man?

940
00:52:24,200 --> 00:52:26,640
Speaker 3: Put you up to this man your boy staying.

941
00:52:27,719 --> 00:52:31,399
Speaker 12: I guess he would you staying work with you?

942
00:52:31,440 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 15: Work for me?

943
00:52:34,719 --> 00:52:39,520
Speaker 7: Driving Summer said you want to go, I'm gonna take

944
00:52:39,560 --> 00:52:47,360
Speaker 7: the break something then he's gonna want.

945
00:52:42,680 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 3: It, okay, saying y'all.

946
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947
00:52:51,960 --> 00:52:55,280
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948
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Speaker 7: Man, y'all have some crazest man and the Steve Harvey

949
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950
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 2: I'll take care of my son now. I'm take care of.

951
00:53:07,880 --> 00:53:11,759
Speaker 13: My son, all right. Thank you, nephew. We needed that.

952
00:53:11,960 --> 00:53:15,279
Speaker 14: Coming up next. Strawberry Letter. Subject, I just met my

953
00:53:15,320 --> 00:53:17,880
Speaker 14: play sister in law. We'll talk about it right after this.

954
00:53:18,520 --> 00:53:23,399
Speaker 14: You're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. It is time now

955
00:53:23,480 --> 00:53:29,000
Speaker 14: for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, work, sex, parenting,

956
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957
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958
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,359
Speaker 14: reading your letter live on the air, just like we're

959
00:53:38,360 --> 00:53:40,640
Speaker 14: going to read this one right here, right now, and

960
00:53:40,680 --> 00:53:43,600
Speaker 14: you never know, it could be yours.

961
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962
00:53:46,239 --> 00:53:48,640
Speaker 12: for you. Here it is Strawberry Letter.

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00:53:48,800 --> 00:53:50,360
Speaker 13: Thank you, Tommy. Subject.

964
00:53:51,320 --> 00:53:56,200
Speaker 14: I just met my place sister in law. Okay, Stephen Shirley.

965
00:53:56,480 --> 00:53:59,760
Speaker 14: I met my husband online and we dated briefly before

966
00:53:59,760 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 14: we got married. We figured out that we knew a

967
00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 14: lot of the same people and all my friends that

968
00:54:04,800 --> 00:54:06,719
Speaker 14: knew him vouched for him and.

969
00:54:06,680 --> 00:54:07,920
Speaker 13: Said he's a great man.

970
00:54:08,320 --> 00:54:11,960
Speaker 14: His mother always acted strangely, but he said that's just

971
00:54:12,040 --> 00:54:14,560
Speaker 14: how she is, and she would come around and be

972
00:54:14,719 --> 00:54:18,640
Speaker 14: sweet Eventually. A couple of weeks after our wedding, I

973
00:54:18,719 --> 00:54:21,000
Speaker 14: asked his mother to meet for lunch, and she asked

974
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:24,880
Speaker 14: if she could bring her play daughter. I wanted to

975
00:54:24,920 --> 00:54:28,239
Speaker 14: meet anyone close to my husband, so I was excited

976
00:54:28,920 --> 00:54:32,280
Speaker 14: That lunch date with his mom has sent my marriage

977
00:54:32,320 --> 00:54:37,000
Speaker 14: into a downward spiral. The play daughter knew everything about

978
00:54:37,000 --> 00:54:40,399
Speaker 14: my husband, even more than his mom. She said they've

979
00:54:40,400 --> 00:54:44,440
Speaker 14: been the best of friends, but never romantically involved. She

980
00:54:44,560 --> 00:54:49,160
Speaker 14: said they've sat up many nights crying together over bad relationships.

981
00:54:49,400 --> 00:54:51,640
Speaker 13: I have never seen my husband cry.

982
00:54:51,880 --> 00:54:54,960
Speaker 14: She told us that my husband almost died after a

983
00:54:55,320 --> 00:54:59,280
Speaker 14: watched liposuction. As the mom didn't know he had surgery,

984
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:02,399
Speaker 14: she thought he lost weight naturally. I asked her why

985
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:04,880
Speaker 14: she didn't come to the wedding if they were so close,

986
00:55:05,160 --> 00:55:08,200
Speaker 14: and she said she wasn't invited. My mother in law

987
00:55:08,320 --> 00:55:10,799
Speaker 14: said she insisted that she come, but the play daughter

988
00:55:10,920 --> 00:55:14,040
Speaker 14: said she felt like my husband was moving shady since

989
00:55:14,120 --> 00:55:14,600
Speaker 14: he met me.

990
00:55:15,320 --> 00:55:17,560
Speaker 13: Now, if this doesn't sound like a whole side piece

991
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:18,960
Speaker 13: relationship with my husband?

992
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:19,759
Speaker 2: Then what is it?

993
00:55:20,200 --> 00:55:21,960
Speaker 13: Why is his mother not seeing this?

994
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:25,640
Speaker 14: My husband swears he's never been intimate with his play sister,

995
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,880
Speaker 14: but couldn't explain why he has never introduced me to

996
00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:32,960
Speaker 14: her and none of its friends know of her. If

997
00:55:33,040 --> 00:55:36,640
Speaker 14: I asked this play sister more questions, will I look insecure?

998
00:55:37,000 --> 00:55:39,280
Speaker 14: And should I keep my head high as the WiFi?

999
00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:42,719
Speaker 14: Or should I do more research on her? Yes, you

1000
00:55:42,800 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 14: should keep your head high as the WiFi. And you

1001
00:55:45,239 --> 00:55:47,840
Speaker 14: don't need any more research. I mean, how much research

1002
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 14: do you need? The research you want to know that

1003
00:55:51,280 --> 00:55:53,239
Speaker 14: you want to do now that should have been done

1004
00:55:53,360 --> 00:55:57,520
Speaker 14: before the marriage? Okay, that should have been done then anyway,

1005
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:00,279
Speaker 14: you pretty much laid it all out the closer, with

1006
00:56:00,400 --> 00:56:03,000
Speaker 14: the first one being her saying, your husband's moving shady

1007
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:03,800
Speaker 14: since he met you.

1008
00:56:04,200 --> 00:56:06,799
Speaker 13: And what does that mean? What does moving shady mean?

1009
00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 13: Does it mean he.

1010
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:10,480
Speaker 14: Didn't invite her to the wedding because he didn't want

1011
00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:14,239
Speaker 14: any drama, or he didn't introduce her to any of

1012
00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:16,839
Speaker 14: his friends because he didn't want any drama or didn't

1013
00:56:16,840 --> 00:56:17,960
Speaker 14: want them to know about her?

1014
00:56:18,280 --> 00:56:19,160
Speaker 13: What did that mean?

1015
00:56:19,480 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 14: I mean, there is a reason for him, not telling

1016
00:56:22,040 --> 00:56:25,040
Speaker 14: could be a side piece situation, like you said, But

1017
00:56:25,239 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 14: his mom sure knows a lot about her, and she

1018
00:56:28,760 --> 00:56:30,759
Speaker 14: knows her well enough to invite her to lunch with

1019
00:56:30,880 --> 00:56:34,400
Speaker 14: you guys. So this woman has definitely been around for

1020
00:56:34,600 --> 00:56:37,399
Speaker 14: a while. But I don't think you need to ask

1021
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:38,840
Speaker 14: her any more questions.

1022
00:56:39,080 --> 00:56:39,560
Speaker 2: Let this go.

1023
00:56:39,719 --> 00:56:42,520
Speaker 14: If you want to ask questions, ask your husband. This

1024
00:56:42,680 --> 00:56:46,640
Speaker 14: all happened before you and him got together, and this

1025
00:56:46,800 --> 00:56:47,719
Speaker 14: is a chance you take.

1026
00:56:47,840 --> 00:56:48,759
Speaker 7: You know how it goes.

1027
00:56:48,840 --> 00:56:51,320
Speaker 14: When you meet someone online and you married them quickly,

1028
00:56:52,640 --> 00:56:55,280
Speaker 14: you don't get to know the person. So please remember

1029
00:56:55,520 --> 00:56:57,040
Speaker 14: everyone has the past.

1030
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:01,480
Speaker 10: Steve, Well, this is gonna be a good one for

1031
00:57:01,640 --> 00:57:05,200
Speaker 10: me because I can answer all these questions.

1032
00:57:05,280 --> 00:57:09,839
Speaker 2: You have all of them with rather a certainty and assuredness.

1033
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:13,800
Speaker 10: You met your husband online, We dated briefly before we

1034
00:57:13,920 --> 00:57:15,320
Speaker 10: got married, Well there it is.

1035
00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:16,840
Speaker 2: There, it is.

1036
00:57:17,440 --> 00:57:20,880
Speaker 10: You dated briefly before you got married. Now I don't

1037
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:23,280
Speaker 10: know how you are, how old you all are. You

1038
00:57:23,360 --> 00:57:29,000
Speaker 10: haven't mentioned any kids anything, But you have to understand,

1039
00:57:29,120 --> 00:57:33,640
Speaker 10: like Shirley said, everybody comes with the history. So when

1040
00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:37,560
Speaker 10: you date briefly, you don't get to learn the history

1041
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,240
Speaker 10: because you haven't been put in enough situations where things

1042
00:57:41,360 --> 00:57:42,080
Speaker 10: can crop up.

1043
00:57:42,160 --> 00:57:45,880
Speaker 2: You all got along and everything.

1044
00:57:45,960 --> 00:57:49,440
Speaker 10: Now, his mother has always acted strangely strangely, but he

1045
00:57:49,520 --> 00:57:51,720
Speaker 10: said that's just how she is, and she would come

1046
00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,400
Speaker 10: around and be sweet eventually. Well, a couple of weeks

1047
00:57:54,440 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 10: after you got married, you asked your mother in law

1048
00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:01,960
Speaker 10: to meat for lunch. That was a great idea. Your

1049
00:58:02,040 --> 00:58:05,560
Speaker 10: mom in law asked if she could bring her play daughter.

1050
00:58:07,480 --> 00:58:08,080
Speaker 2: Hell fault.

1051
00:58:09,440 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 10: Now, please don't let this boy's mama act like she

1052
00:58:13,360 --> 00:58:15,560
Speaker 10: don't know, because she is a grown ass woman though,

1053
00:58:16,720 --> 00:58:19,880
Speaker 10: and women know, women know what they're doing.

1054
00:58:19,920 --> 00:58:21,600
Speaker 2: They're very smart women.

1055
00:58:22,800 --> 00:58:26,280
Speaker 10: I ain't hardly ever met no stupid women until they

1056
00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:30,280
Speaker 10: start listening to their heart instead of their intuition. Other

1057
00:58:30,440 --> 00:58:33,400
Speaker 10: than that, they are on top of the food tor

1058
00:58:33,520 --> 00:58:35,400
Speaker 10: chain when it comes to brains and smart.

1059
00:58:36,200 --> 00:58:37,960
Speaker 2: Don't you misunderstand that for a moment.

1060
00:58:38,240 --> 00:58:40,000
Speaker 10: So the boy and mama know what he's doing, gonna

1061
00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:42,800
Speaker 10: bring the play daughter, And you said yeah, because you

1062
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:45,080
Speaker 10: want to meet anybody close to your husband, because now

1063
00:58:45,120 --> 00:58:48,120
Speaker 10: you're trying to learn your husband after you've married him,

1064
00:58:48,160 --> 00:58:51,120
Speaker 10: instead of dating him longer to learning before you got married.

1065
00:58:51,440 --> 00:58:53,840
Speaker 10: So now here we go. So I was excited that

1066
00:58:54,000 --> 00:58:56,960
Speaker 10: lunch day with his mom. But that dunch date sent

1067
00:58:57,040 --> 00:59:00,000
Speaker 10: your marriage into a downward spiral. The play daughter knew

1068
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:06,040
Speaker 10: everything about my husband, see right there. Why did the

1069
00:59:06,120 --> 00:59:10,520
Speaker 10: mama bring her even more than his mom? She said,

1070
00:59:10,600 --> 00:59:13,680
Speaker 10: they've been the best of friends, were never romantically involved.

1071
00:59:14,040 --> 00:59:17,760
Speaker 10: Why is she talking to you? You know why I

1072
00:59:17,840 --> 00:59:20,160
Speaker 10: think she talking to you because she trying to play

1073
00:59:20,200 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 10: the spoiler. She trying to be the spoiler. It's always

1074
00:59:24,520 --> 00:59:28,160
Speaker 10: some some woman getting left by the wayside at the

1075
00:59:28,320 --> 00:59:32,080
Speaker 10: altar and then all of a sudden, Wanner, I know more.

1076
00:59:32,600 --> 00:59:35,480
Speaker 2: Me and him talk, We everything. They they've been the

1077
00:59:35,600 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 2: best of friends. She said.

1078
00:59:37,400 --> 00:59:41,640
Speaker 10: They've set up many nights crying together over bad relationships.

1079
00:59:41,680 --> 00:59:46,200
Speaker 10: That I've never seen my husband cry. That's because you

1080
00:59:46,240 --> 00:59:47,480
Speaker 10: ain't known him long enough.

1081
00:59:49,680 --> 00:59:50,280
Speaker 2: But I'll tell you what.

1082
00:59:50,440 --> 00:59:52,200
Speaker 10: After he found out you and the mama and the

1083
00:59:52,360 --> 00:59:55,600
Speaker 10: plate sister was at lunch, he was I better ask

1084
00:59:55,640 --> 00:59:56,920
Speaker 10: for someone crying then.

1085
00:59:58,240 --> 01:00:01,840
Speaker 14: All right, hang on, stee, We'll have part two of

1086
01:00:01,960 --> 01:00:05,080
Speaker 14: your response to this Strawberry letter at twenty three minutes

1087
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:09,520
Speaker 14: after the hour. Today's subject, I just met my play

1088
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:13,200
Speaker 14: sister in law. We'll get back into it right after this.

1089
01:00:14,080 --> 01:00:16,760
Speaker 13: You're listening Hardy Morning Show.

1090
01:00:17,600 --> 01:00:20,760
Speaker 14: All right, Steve, come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter.

1091
01:00:20,840 --> 01:00:24,320
Speaker 13: The subject is I just met my play sister in law.

1092
01:00:25,200 --> 01:00:28,640
Speaker 10: Well, this woman met this man online, dated briefly, and

1093
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:29,640
Speaker 10: then got married.

1094
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,320
Speaker 2: Dating briefly doesn't allow you.

1095
01:00:32,400 --> 01:00:35,880
Speaker 10: To learn the person's history, so now you're learning his

1096
01:00:36,080 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 10: history while you're married. You've always thought that mama was

1097
01:00:39,560 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 10: actually sort of funny to you, so you wanted to

1098
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:44,000
Speaker 10: invite her to lunch after you all got married. A

1099
01:00:44,080 --> 01:00:46,440
Speaker 10: couple of weeks she asked you could she bring her

1100
01:00:46,560 --> 01:00:50,200
Speaker 10: a plate daughter? Okay, so then you said yeah, because

1101
01:00:50,200 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 10: you want to meet everybody close to the family. Well,

1102
01:00:52,680 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 10: that date then sent your marriage into a down wid

1103
01:00:54,800 --> 01:00:58,560
Speaker 10: spiral because little miss play daughter then set up here

1104
01:00:58,640 --> 01:01:02,000
Speaker 10: and knew everything about your husband and molding his mama.

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Speaker 10: She said, they've been the best of friends, but never

1106
01:01:05,800 --> 01:01:09,360
Speaker 10: romantically involved. She said, they've set up many nights crying

1107
01:01:09,400 --> 01:01:11,040
Speaker 10: together over a bad relationship.

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01:01:11,600 --> 01:01:14,040
Speaker 2: I have never seen my husband cry. Well, you ain't

1109
01:01:14,080 --> 01:01:14,960
Speaker 2: been with him long enough.

1110
01:01:15,480 --> 01:01:17,920
Speaker 10: But I tell you what though, after he found out

1111
01:01:17,960 --> 01:01:20,120
Speaker 10: you was with his mama and his play sister, his

1112
01:01:20,320 --> 01:01:22,360
Speaker 10: ass was somewhere crying in that's for them.

1113
01:01:23,040 --> 01:01:25,440
Speaker 2: I can promise you his ass was.

1114
01:01:29,640 --> 01:01:33,440
Speaker 10: She told us that my husband almost died after a

1115
01:01:33,560 --> 01:01:37,000
Speaker 10: batch LIPOSUCTIONET and his mom didn't even know he had

1116
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:37,600
Speaker 10: the subject.

1117
01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:41,640
Speaker 2: Okay, well, did you know he had lifebo such?

1118
01:01:42,640 --> 01:01:43,680
Speaker 13: No, she didn't know.

1119
01:01:43,960 --> 01:01:45,800
Speaker 2: Did you know it was botched?

1120
01:01:46,320 --> 01:01:46,360
Speaker 14: No?

1121
01:01:47,560 --> 01:01:50,200
Speaker 2: How do you know that he almost died?

1122
01:01:51,440 --> 01:01:54,080
Speaker 10: I'm listening to this story that this woman is weaving

1123
01:01:54,160 --> 01:01:57,560
Speaker 10: for you. We've cried together. Yea, all this is stuff

1124
01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:03,160
Speaker 10: you can't check on. We cried together, set up many nights.

1125
01:02:04,080 --> 01:02:06,560
Speaker 10: So okay, So if y'all been crying together all of

1126
01:02:06,680 --> 01:02:09,040
Speaker 10: all the bad relationships you had pretty much? Why I

1127
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,280
Speaker 10: explain why a little play sister and play sistant law

1128
01:02:12,520 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 10: ain't got no damn body. See I know this, now,

1129
01:02:16,120 --> 01:02:20,840
Speaker 10: know who you're talking to. She thought the mother thought

1130
01:02:20,880 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 10: he lost weight naturally. I asked her why she didn't

1131
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,800
Speaker 10: come to the wedding if they were so close, and

1132
01:02:25,920 --> 01:02:29,120
Speaker 10: she said she wasn't invited. Now, the mother in law

1133
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,960
Speaker 10: jumped in and said she insisted that she come, but

1134
01:02:32,080 --> 01:02:35,080
Speaker 10: the play daughter said she felt like my husband was

1135
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:39,440
Speaker 10: moving shady since he met me. Hm, well that's a

1136
01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:45,200
Speaker 10: good son. See, he didn't invite her because he didn't

1137
01:02:45,200 --> 01:02:50,040
Speaker 10: want her round, want the drama right, you know, because

1138
01:02:50,080 --> 01:02:52,840
Speaker 10: you already know his mama and the girl close.

1139
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:56,000
Speaker 2: Now why would he do that? And listen to me.

1140
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:58,000
Speaker 10: The key to this, I want your takeaway to be

1141
01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,960
Speaker 10: is he felt like she didn't want to come to

1142
01:03:02,080 --> 01:03:05,400
Speaker 10: the wedding and she felt like my husband was moving shady.

1143
01:03:05,560 --> 01:03:08,400
Speaker 10: Since it will the husband were trying to distance himself.

1144
01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:12,480
Speaker 10: That's a good thing, that's what moving shady. Men. Now,

1145
01:03:12,520 --> 01:03:15,640
Speaker 10: if this doesn't sound like a whole side piece relationship

1146
01:03:15,720 --> 01:03:17,600
Speaker 10: with my husband, then what is it?

1147
01:03:18,280 --> 01:03:22,760
Speaker 2: But see, if it was a side piece situation, it

1148
01:03:22,920 --> 01:03:23,680
Speaker 2: ain't no more.

1149
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,760
Speaker 10: But you're meeting a man that had a background, as

1150
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:32,640
Speaker 10: do all men. He had a background, So now where

1151
01:03:32,720 --> 01:03:36,680
Speaker 10: we at. If it was a side piece, he didn't

1152
01:03:36,760 --> 01:03:37,680
Speaker 10: tell you about.

1153
01:03:37,440 --> 01:03:38,640
Speaker 2: It, cause who do that?

1154
01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,440
Speaker 10: What man meets a woman and go, hey, let me

1155
01:03:41,440 --> 01:03:43,000
Speaker 10: tell you about these chicks I got out here on

1156
01:03:43,120 --> 01:03:47,840
Speaker 10: this that nobody find to do that. And I don't

1157
01:03:47,880 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 10: know what you think a man supposed to do that for.

1158
01:03:49,640 --> 01:03:52,920
Speaker 10: But you can lose him expectation. You can take that

1159
01:03:53,040 --> 01:03:56,440
Speaker 10: off the plate because we're not finna do that. And

1160
01:03:56,680 --> 01:04:00,080
Speaker 10: then if my husband swears he's never been intimate with

1161
01:04:00,160 --> 01:04:02,360
Speaker 10: his place system, but couldn't explain to me why he

1162
01:04:02,480 --> 01:04:05,080
Speaker 10: never introduced me to her, and none of his friends

1163
01:04:05,240 --> 01:04:05,760
Speaker 10: know of her.

1164
01:04:06,840 --> 01:04:08,200
Speaker 2: Okay, so.

1165
01:04:09,720 --> 01:04:11,920
Speaker 10: You the play sister over there when we buy ourself,

1166
01:04:12,880 --> 01:04:15,919
Speaker 10: you ain't coming up around my friend because you ain't gonna.

1167
01:04:15,960 --> 01:04:18,800
Speaker 10: I ain't got no future with you that could be it.

1168
01:04:19,560 --> 01:04:21,400
Speaker 10: But now you trying to make something out of his

1169
01:04:21,680 --> 01:04:24,640
Speaker 10: past and turn it into his right now. And there

1170
01:04:24,720 --> 01:04:27,480
Speaker 10: are no signs of him messing with this girl right now.

1171
01:04:28,200 --> 01:04:31,360
Speaker 10: So even if she was a side piece, please lose

1172
01:04:31,440 --> 01:04:34,120
Speaker 10: your desire for him to tell you that he had

1173
01:04:34,160 --> 01:04:36,840
Speaker 10: a side piece, because he didnet have a side piece,

1174
01:04:37,560 --> 01:04:41,800
Speaker 10: and it's been several it ain't just hum. So if

1175
01:04:41,880 --> 01:04:45,160
Speaker 10: I asked this play sistem more questions, will I look secure?

1176
01:04:45,440 --> 01:04:47,160
Speaker 2: Why would you ask her anything?

1177
01:04:48,440 --> 01:04:50,760
Speaker 10: This girl ain't nothing in here but to place fall,

1178
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:53,360
Speaker 10: and she gonna tell you all kinds of stuff because

1179
01:04:53,440 --> 01:04:57,240
Speaker 10: she's been crying with your husband over a bad relationship,

1180
01:04:57,640 --> 01:05:01,600
Speaker 10: which means she can't get it a good relationship now

1181
01:05:01,800 --> 01:05:05,480
Speaker 10: another relationship. He done found you, and he'd have picked

1182
01:05:05,520 --> 01:05:10,439
Speaker 10: you over her. Why would you ask her anything? Cause

1183
01:05:10,480 --> 01:05:12,880
Speaker 10: she ain't got but one mission right now is to

1184
01:05:13,000 --> 01:05:15,000
Speaker 10: try to make you think she got more of a

1185
01:05:15,080 --> 01:05:17,680
Speaker 10: relationship with him than you do, and she don't.

1186
01:05:18,280 --> 01:05:20,160
Speaker 2: Should I keep my head high as a wife?

1187
01:05:20,240 --> 01:05:20,360
Speaker 17: You know?

1188
01:05:20,440 --> 01:05:23,200
Speaker 10: Should I do more research on her? Stop researching her.

1189
01:05:23,600 --> 01:05:25,960
Speaker 10: Stop digging up in this man's past, because you're gonna

1190
01:05:26,000 --> 01:05:28,680
Speaker 10: find something you don't want to know now. But now

1191
01:05:28,760 --> 01:05:31,960
Speaker 10: suppose he dug up your past, you don't think he

1192
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:35,240
Speaker 10: finds a couple of things too that look a little shady.

1193
01:05:36,040 --> 01:05:39,000
Speaker 10: Get out the man's past. Build your future with this man.

1194
01:05:39,240 --> 01:05:42,360
Speaker 10: Stop looking in the rear view mirror. You are the wife,

1195
01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:44,880
Speaker 10: not her. Hold your head high.

1196
01:05:45,160 --> 01:05:45,760
Speaker 2: You the wife.

1197
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:48,840
Speaker 10: Have a talk with him and say, hey, look, lose

1198
01:05:48,920 --> 01:05:51,880
Speaker 10: her number, lose her information. I ain't gonna beat you

1199
01:05:52,000 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 10: up about this, but make sure that that hell for

1200
01:05:54,560 --> 01:05:58,360
Speaker 10: stay gone. If I see her again, you won't see

1201
01:05:58,440 --> 01:06:01,640
Speaker 10: me again. You make your choice, that's all to it.

1202
01:06:02,280 --> 01:06:04,560
Speaker 10: But I ain't gonna deal with her and your mama.

1203
01:06:05,120 --> 01:06:07,800
Speaker 10: You don't have no defferent play sister in law quick

1204
01:06:07,880 --> 01:06:08,479
Speaker 10: calling her.

1205
01:06:08,480 --> 01:06:12,400
Speaker 13: That I'm surprised you didn't say we cried together like

1206
01:06:12,520 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 13: the oh jays.

1207
01:06:15,400 --> 01:06:17,320
Speaker 2: I try to show more versatility.

1208
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:22,040
Speaker 13: Yeah, you are a very talented man.

1209
01:06:22,200 --> 01:06:23,360
Speaker 2: Yes you are all right.

1210
01:06:23,440 --> 01:06:26,520
Speaker 14: Leave it your comments on Today's Strawberry Letter on Instagram

1211
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:29,040
Speaker 14: at Steve Harb FM and check out the Strawberry Letter

1212
01:06:29,160 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 14: podcast on demand. Coming up next, it is Junior and

1213
01:06:33,000 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 14: Sports Talk right after this.

1214
01:06:35,080 --> 01:06:39,680
Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for

1215
01:06:39,840 --> 01:06:42,200
Speaker 13: Junior and Sports Talk, which you got Junior?

1216
01:06:42,600 --> 01:06:44,560
Speaker 11: Okay, Sureley, Well, let's just go ahead and get it

1217
01:06:44,560 --> 01:06:45,760
Speaker 11: out of recap NBA.

1218
01:06:45,640 --> 01:06:48,040
Speaker 1: Playoffs this week. Look, I know it's tough on you, man.

1219
01:06:48,080 --> 01:06:53,120
Speaker 11: I know Nick's knockout the Cavalien's man one six the other.

1220
01:06:53,080 --> 01:06:55,640
Speaker 1: Night man they out. I know it's tough, funk man.

1221
01:06:55,680 --> 01:06:57,720
Speaker 2: I know, Steve and they already text me.

1222
01:06:58,040 --> 01:07:01,760
Speaker 10: He said the CALV was almost as bad as the

1223
01:07:01,920 --> 01:07:07,360
Speaker 10: Smiths was on Celebrity Family. I texted him back and said, no,

1224
01:07:08,320 --> 01:07:12,360
Speaker 10: the Calvs was worse for another Cleveland tragedy.

1225
01:07:13,720 --> 01:07:17,480
Speaker 2: So come so close, said so far?

1226
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:20,760
Speaker 11: Well up, well look at this man they throwing the

1227
01:07:20,800 --> 01:07:23,479
Speaker 11: ones man, because let's talk about this man. These heat

1228
01:07:23,560 --> 01:07:24,720
Speaker 11: man knocked the bucks out.

1229
01:07:25,000 --> 01:07:27,240
Speaker 2: They gone. The Greek is gone.

1230
01:07:27,640 --> 01:07:28,600
Speaker 1: The Greek is gone.

1231
01:07:28,680 --> 01:07:28,840
Speaker 9: Man.

1232
01:07:29,600 --> 01:07:34,160
Speaker 12: Job Jimmy who Jimmy blanketed blank?

1233
01:07:34,280 --> 01:07:36,680
Speaker 11: Butler put up forty two man, Now you come back

1234
01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:42,000
Speaker 11: forty two man. It was one, twenty eight, one twenty

1235
01:07:42,040 --> 01:07:46,080
Speaker 11: six in overtime, Jimmy but getting buckets and the Greek

1236
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:47,600
Speaker 11: freak did the press. Coffee said, you know what, man,

1237
01:07:47,600 --> 01:07:49,200
Speaker 11: it's steps as he says. So he said, he's coming

1238
01:07:49,240 --> 01:07:49,880
Speaker 11: back next season.

1239
01:07:49,920 --> 01:07:51,720
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to because your answers out right now.

1240
01:07:53,200 --> 01:07:55,320
Speaker 11: Also, man, you know what, they ain't going away up

1241
01:07:55,360 --> 01:07:56,640
Speaker 11: the Kings and the Warriors.

1242
01:07:56,720 --> 01:07:57,680
Speaker 1: Man, let me tell you something.

1243
01:07:57,680 --> 01:07:58,840
Speaker 11: The Warriors is not going away.

1244
01:07:58,920 --> 01:07:59,000
Speaker 10: Man.

1245
01:07:59,040 --> 01:08:01,400
Speaker 11: They knocked off the Kings twenty three to one sixteen, the.

1246
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:04,560
Speaker 2: Warriors taking all the team. They beat the Kings again. Yeah,

1247
01:08:04,680 --> 01:08:06,880
Speaker 2: they take bye bye Kings.

1248
01:08:08,160 --> 01:08:09,400
Speaker 1: They take a three two lead.

1249
01:08:09,560 --> 01:08:12,800
Speaker 10: Man, you are not gonna catch them. Light skinned boys.

1250
01:08:13,600 --> 01:08:15,960
Speaker 10: Y'all play the Night Las.

1251
01:08:16,600 --> 01:08:18,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, they played the night I mean on the time. Yeah,

1252
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:19,280
Speaker 1: they play the Knight.

1253
01:08:19,360 --> 01:08:19,519
Speaker 2: Yeah.

1254
01:08:19,520 --> 01:08:23,320
Speaker 11: The Kings and the Warriors played Game six tonight. Also,

1255
01:08:23,640 --> 01:08:26,559
Speaker 11: you know Phoenix sent the Clippers home. Yeah, gonna take

1256
01:08:26,600 --> 01:08:30,439
Speaker 11: on Devi you know, no Kawhi Leonard, no, Paul George. Yeah,

1257
01:08:30,479 --> 01:08:32,920
Speaker 11: they can't win with them on the on the on

1258
01:08:33,080 --> 01:08:35,160
Speaker 11: the Westbrook was out there swinging, he was fighting, he

1259
01:08:35,240 --> 01:08:37,439
Speaker 11: was swinging on people, he was rebounding. If the swing

1260
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:42,559
Speaker 11: come behind he's rebound. They got the way he playing, Yeah,

1261
01:08:42,960 --> 01:08:45,400
Speaker 11: he's not playing man. So also the night man, Like

1262
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 11: I said, we got the Kings and the Wars and

1263
01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:50,120
Speaker 11: then we got the Grizzlies and the Lakers. Man, can

1264
01:08:50,200 --> 01:08:53,280
Speaker 11: the Lakers close it out tonight? The Grizzlies, That boy

1265
01:08:53,439 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 11: John Morunt is a special talent. But this light skinned boy,

1266
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:59,360
Speaker 11: Dylan Brooks, that were his hair platted.

1267
01:08:59,840 --> 01:09:02,160
Speaker 10: You need to shit your young ass down and learn

1268
01:09:02,280 --> 01:09:05,920
Speaker 10: yourself something because Lebron been handing it to your ass.

1269
01:09:06,840 --> 01:09:09,040
Speaker 2: You should have you should have had more respect about

1270
01:09:09,080 --> 01:09:11,120
Speaker 2: that talking about this man. Oh he did.

1271
01:09:11,200 --> 01:09:14,040
Speaker 10: He did twenty rebounds and then I saw him blow

1272
01:09:14,080 --> 01:09:16,160
Speaker 10: by your ass like he was me standing on the

1273
01:09:16,240 --> 01:09:18,400
Speaker 10: quarter of this. I mean, the light skinned people need

1274
01:09:18,479 --> 01:09:21,240
Speaker 10: to be very careful, especially when you wear pig tails.

1275
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:27,360
Speaker 10: You can't clap your hand talk trash dealing brook Thank you, Junior,

1276
01:09:27,800 --> 01:09:29,639
Speaker 10: coming out in white framed glass.

1277
01:09:30,320 --> 01:09:33,400
Speaker 2: You don't look like a killer in white.

1278
01:09:33,240 --> 01:09:38,840
Speaker 10: Sun bron blown man, Now watch him out.

1279
01:09:39,160 --> 01:09:40,720
Speaker 13: Thank you Junior for sports talk.

1280
01:09:41,120 --> 01:09:43,160
Speaker 14: Coming up at the top of the hour, is the

1281
01:09:43,240 --> 01:09:45,560
Speaker 14: modern generation more rude and disrespectful?

1282
01:09:45,920 --> 01:09:47,479
Speaker 13: We'll talk about it right after this.

1283
01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:54,439
Speaker 14: You're listening hard morning show. All right, guys, he's a question.

1284
01:09:54,520 --> 01:09:57,280
Speaker 14: I think we touched on this earlier this week. But

1285
01:09:58,360 --> 01:10:02,040
Speaker 14: the question is, is the modern generation more rude and

1286
01:10:02,120 --> 01:10:05,200
Speaker 14: disrespectful you think or is it the same as it's

1287
01:10:05,360 --> 01:10:06,120
Speaker 14: always been.

1288
01:10:06,479 --> 01:10:07,439
Speaker 13: What's your take on that.

1289
01:10:08,640 --> 01:10:09,639
Speaker 2: We weren't this rude.

1290
01:10:09,720 --> 01:10:14,680
Speaker 12: We weren't rude at all, disrespect I was respectful at.

1291
01:10:14,640 --> 01:10:18,760
Speaker 14: All time to adult, especially to elderly people who were

1292
01:10:18,840 --> 01:10:20,000
Speaker 14: my elder Yeah, I.

1293
01:10:20,080 --> 01:10:28,240
Speaker 2: Cut somebody in my age you're peer. Yeah, people's parents, grandmother. No,

1294
01:10:28,400 --> 01:10:29,439
Speaker 2: that was unheard of. Man.

1295
01:10:29,760 --> 01:10:31,639
Speaker 13: You couldn't your parents found out?

1296
01:10:31,720 --> 01:10:32,120
Speaker 12: That was it?

1297
01:10:32,280 --> 01:10:37,479
Speaker 2: Your These kids now are robbing old people. These kids

1298
01:10:37,640 --> 01:10:40,960
Speaker 2: now they're they're violating old people.

1299
01:10:41,640 --> 01:10:45,440
Speaker 10: I mean they beating them up on elevators and stores,

1300
01:10:45,520 --> 01:10:48,920
Speaker 10: and walking in their house and and and just just

1301
01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:50,960
Speaker 10: that criminalizing the elderly.

1302
01:10:51,520 --> 01:10:54,400
Speaker 2: That's that was unheard of back in the day. Matter

1303
01:10:54,439 --> 01:10:55,920
Speaker 2: of fact, man, if.

1304
01:10:55,800 --> 01:10:59,080
Speaker 10: You did something to old people and we found out

1305
01:10:59,160 --> 01:11:02,280
Speaker 10: about it, we handled with your Yeah, dog you not.

1306
01:11:02,439 --> 01:11:03,559
Speaker 2: You can't do that, dog.

1307
01:11:04,520 --> 01:11:06,519
Speaker 17: You know what You're right, Steve, my husband said. Growing

1308
01:11:06,600 --> 01:11:08,479
Speaker 17: up in New Orleans, you know, if they was out

1309
01:11:08,560 --> 01:11:10,559
Speaker 17: on the street, you know, just being boys or whatever.

1310
01:11:10,840 --> 01:11:13,320
Speaker 17: If an elderly person walk by. They'd be like, chill, chill,

1311
01:11:13,600 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 17: chill chill, Yeah, such and such, chill out, chill out,

1312
01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:19,960
Speaker 17: chill out. Dogs are you doing, ma'am? You know it

1313
01:11:20,080 --> 01:11:22,439
Speaker 17: was a respect that I'm watching. I'm watching forty eight

1314
01:11:22,479 --> 01:11:26,200
Speaker 17: hours the other night. Ninety eight year old war veteran

1315
01:11:27,320 --> 01:11:30,519
Speaker 17: who had served the country. Ninety eight year old war

1316
01:11:30,680 --> 01:11:35,040
Speaker 17: veterans raised these boys in this neighborhood do the right thing.

1317
01:11:35,920 --> 01:11:38,040
Speaker 17: One of the kids really loved him and knew him

1318
01:11:38,080 --> 01:11:41,519
Speaker 17: and stayed next door. Three of the boys said, hey, man,

1319
01:11:41,600 --> 01:11:43,840
Speaker 17: we need some money. Let's rob the old guy. He

1320
01:11:44,040 --> 01:11:46,559
Speaker 17: went to the corner store. He was still driving the car.

1321
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Speaker 2: He got in the car.

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Speaker 10: The dude that knew him went up to him to say, hey,

1323
01:11:51,240 --> 01:11:54,320
Speaker 10: mister Jackson. And but then the other dude came up

1324
01:11:54,360 --> 01:11:56,880
Speaker 10: with a gun, and the young dude tried to stop

1325
01:11:57,000 --> 01:11:58,840
Speaker 10: him and say, hey, man, no, we ain't finna do that.

1326
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Speaker 10: That's mister Jackson. You know, he'll give us some money.

1327
01:12:02,760 --> 01:12:07,840
Speaker 10: Your dude shot the man twice. Oh. The old man

1328
01:12:08,040 --> 01:12:10,639
Speaker 10: pulls off, makes it to his house down the street,

1329
01:12:10,800 --> 01:12:14,559
Speaker 10: drives up on the curve, dies in the car. Well,

1330
01:12:14,600 --> 01:12:16,840
Speaker 10: he didn't die in the car. They came and got him,

1331
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:20,760
Speaker 10: but he died two days later in the hospital. Now

1332
01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:24,120
Speaker 10: they finally catch the folk guys because somebody saw him.

1333
01:12:24,720 --> 01:12:28,479
Speaker 10: The little dude that knew him has tried to stop it.

1334
01:12:28,960 --> 01:12:31,760
Speaker 10: He just broke down crying. He saibody ain't in ten

1335
01:12:31,840 --> 01:12:34,240
Speaker 10: for this to happen to missus Jackson. When he pulled

1336
01:12:34,240 --> 01:12:36,000
Speaker 10: the gun out, he tried to stop the dude, but

1337
01:12:36,080 --> 01:12:39,160
Speaker 10: he was that but he stopped him to rob mister Jackson.

1338
01:12:39,200 --> 01:12:41,479
Speaker 10: He was gonna ask you for money, and they said

1339
01:12:41,520 --> 01:12:43,640
Speaker 10: they were gonna take whatever money he had in the car.

1340
01:12:43,960 --> 01:12:46,519
Speaker 10: Dude came up with the gun and shot the lad Wow.

1341
01:12:47,280 --> 01:12:50,040
Speaker 10: See now, back in the day, they would have never

1342
01:12:50,160 --> 01:12:54,400
Speaker 10: got off that block. No, no, because dog you shot

1343
01:12:54,439 --> 01:12:58,320
Speaker 10: who man? Oh no, man, no don't.

1344
01:13:00,800 --> 01:13:04,720
Speaker 2: This generation is just beyond disrespectful.

1345
01:13:05,200 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 10: It is an ugly world we live in now because

1346
01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:12,439
Speaker 10: of lack of respect and consideration. And old people man

1347
01:13:12,920 --> 01:13:16,519
Speaker 10: have earned the right to live their life freely and

1348
01:13:16,680 --> 01:13:19,360
Speaker 10: in peace. And like Tommy said when we was going

1349
01:13:19,439 --> 01:13:21,960
Speaker 10: down the street being boys, if an old person walket

1350
01:13:22,000 --> 01:13:23,960
Speaker 10: hold of kill man, hic come, my.

1351
01:13:24,040 --> 01:13:28,080
Speaker 14: Husband said, if they came, if an old person came

1352
01:13:28,120 --> 01:13:30,439
Speaker 14: and needed a seat, we would have to get up

1353
01:13:30,920 --> 01:13:35,480
Speaker 14: and give the older persons stopped anywhere.

1354
01:13:35,960 --> 01:13:37,960
Speaker 13: Yes, you could stand up, you're young.

1355
01:13:39,120 --> 01:13:41,680
Speaker 10: Me and my mama was on the bus going downtown

1356
01:13:41,760 --> 01:13:45,080
Speaker 10: one time. He said, love, go downtown. My mama's old

1357
01:13:45,120 --> 01:13:48,240
Speaker 10: lady got on the bus. I stood right up. She

1358
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:51,120
Speaker 10: sat down in that seat. She said, you you raising

1359
01:13:51,200 --> 01:13:57,559
Speaker 10: that boy? She said, well, his daddy, his daddy got

1360
01:13:57,680 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 10: him like candy. She said, I got two boys just

1361
01:14:01,520 --> 01:14:01,720
Speaker 10: like that.

1362
01:14:04,120 --> 01:14:07,200
Speaker 13: Yeah. I mean, it's it's definitely different these days. And

1363
01:14:07,240 --> 01:14:10,240
Speaker 13: how blessed you were, you know, to have a father

1364
01:14:10,479 --> 01:14:13,439
Speaker 13: in the house to do that for you, Steve, you know,

1365
01:14:13,680 --> 01:14:14,800
Speaker 13: but why is it like that?

1366
01:14:15,120 --> 01:14:18,639
Speaker 17: Where is the disconnect between parenting these days the way

1367
01:14:18,720 --> 01:14:19,599
Speaker 17: we were parented.

1368
01:14:20,000 --> 01:14:24,679
Speaker 1: I don't I don't understand they got but being parent

1369
01:14:25,560 --> 01:14:26,360
Speaker 1: There you go, Tom.

1370
01:14:26,680 --> 01:14:31,000
Speaker 14: Yeah, all right, yep, all right, thanks guys. Coming up

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01:14:31,000 --> 01:14:33,200
Speaker 14: at twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have more of

1372
01:14:33,280 --> 01:14:36,719
Speaker 14: the Steve Harvey Morning Show right after this. You're listening

1373
01:14:37,880 --> 01:14:44,040
Speaker 14: Harvey Morning Show. All right, So this is an interesting story.

1374
01:14:45,120 --> 01:14:50,360
Speaker 14: Despite the surgery reportedly having a grueling recovery period, men

1375
01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:57,479
Speaker 14: have been flocking to surgeons to lengthen their legs.

1376
01:14:58,160 --> 01:15:00,240
Speaker 13: Okay, recording to wait.

1377
01:15:00,160 --> 01:15:01,880
Speaker 2: Wait, wait, you can get legged done.

1378
01:15:02,320 --> 01:15:04,360
Speaker 13: Yeah yeah, yeah, listen to me.

1379
01:15:05,240 --> 01:15:08,000
Speaker 2: Been Thailand for a long time. I'm gonna about it.

1380
01:15:09,720 --> 01:15:12,839
Speaker 13: Go ahead, holding out, Uncle Steve well.

1381
01:15:14,920 --> 01:15:16,519
Speaker 2: Tyler, Come on, go here, sir.

1382
01:15:16,840 --> 01:15:17,400
Speaker 13: So listen.

1383
01:15:17,479 --> 01:15:19,720
Speaker 14: According to the New York Post, a forty one year

1384
01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,879
Speaker 14: old Minnesota man spent seventy five thousand dollars to increase

1385
01:15:24,000 --> 01:15:28,799
Speaker 14: his five and a half foot frame by three inches.

1386
01:15:29,040 --> 01:15:33,920
Speaker 13: Okay five five? What three inches? So five eight?

1387
01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:35,720
Speaker 2: Don't act like you ain't been there.

1388
01:15:38,000 --> 01:15:40,120
Speaker 14: But he did it so he could get more dates,

1389
01:15:40,680 --> 01:15:45,759
Speaker 14: and after his first successful surgery, he spent another ninety

1390
01:15:45,840 --> 01:15:48,880
Speaker 14: eight thousand dollars to get us hied up to five ten.

1391
01:15:49,439 --> 01:15:51,479
Speaker 13: Okay, you got.

1392
01:15:51,560 --> 01:15:55,160
Speaker 10: Money, boy, you're gonna mess around. If you're boy, you

1393
01:15:55,160 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 10: won't your six forty.

1394
01:15:59,840 --> 01:16:03,760
Speaker 14: The live lengthening procedure is accomplished by inserting a magnetic

1395
01:16:03,920 --> 01:16:06,839
Speaker 14: lengthening rod and pins into the thigh bones.

1396
01:16:07,320 --> 01:16:09,360
Speaker 13: So there you got it.

1397
01:16:09,880 --> 01:16:10,200
Speaker 10: To do that.

1398
01:16:10,320 --> 01:16:14,479
Speaker 2: I don't know you didn't getting all that. I'm you're

1399
01:16:14,479 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 2: too old for this time. And look at the.

1400
01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:20,439
Speaker 14: Steam Harvey Morning Show coming up at thirty three minutes

1401
01:16:20,479 --> 01:16:23,120
Speaker 14: after we'll play around it, would you rather right after this.

1402
01:16:23,760 --> 01:16:28,120
Speaker 13: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. It is time now for

1403
01:16:28,240 --> 01:16:28,680
Speaker 13: a round it.

1404
01:16:28,760 --> 01:16:31,479
Speaker 14: Would you rather? Would you rather introduce your wife to

1405
01:16:31,560 --> 01:16:35,240
Speaker 14: your new female friend? Or would you rather shave your

1406
01:16:35,320 --> 01:16:37,800
Speaker 14: facial hair? That's all the hair I got enough?

1407
01:16:39,880 --> 01:16:42,160
Speaker 10: Okay, y'all know female friends. I don't know who I'm

1408
01:16:42,160 --> 01:16:49,519
Speaker 10: gonna introduced. Y'all want to come over and meet them? Yeah, so, y'all,

1409
01:16:49,800 --> 01:16:51,120
Speaker 10: I ain't got no new female friends.

1410
01:16:52,000 --> 01:16:52,519
Speaker 2: New friends.

1411
01:16:55,000 --> 01:16:57,439
Speaker 11: Well, I'm already be so don't matter. You know, I'm

1412
01:16:57,439 --> 01:17:00,719
Speaker 11: already facial hair. I don't keep nothing, so I'm already.

1413
01:17:00,800 --> 01:17:01,759
Speaker 11: I ain't got ten minutes.

1414
01:17:02,120 --> 01:17:04,640
Speaker 1: You don't have no I don't know.

1415
01:17:04,720 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 11: I don't have nothing, so I ain't got to tell

1416
01:17:06,320 --> 01:17:07,479
Speaker 11: her about Well.

1417
01:17:07,600 --> 01:17:16,599
Speaker 2: No, we're gonna take the my brow heavy over there

1418
01:17:16,640 --> 01:17:17,760
Speaker 2: looking like an emoji.

1419
01:17:21,400 --> 01:17:25,280
Speaker 14: Would you rather wear undies filled with whipped cream or

1420
01:17:25,280 --> 01:17:27,200
Speaker 14: would you rather wear wet sneakers?

1421
01:17:28,960 --> 01:17:30,680
Speaker 12: I didn't wove whed cream for you. Ain't never left

1422
01:17:30,720 --> 01:17:32,479
Speaker 12: somebody house with all?

1423
01:17:32,600 --> 01:17:33,120
Speaker 10: Right, a.

1424
01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:42,360
Speaker 2: Boring life for y'all. Y'all have a bunch of losers. Yeah,

1425
01:17:42,360 --> 01:17:45,240
Speaker 2: I'm gonna put the wet ass ten shoes on sneakers.

1426
01:17:45,920 --> 01:17:47,519
Speaker 13: You don't want to be like your nephew with the

1427
01:17:47,560 --> 01:17:49,360
Speaker 13: web cream in your You know.

1428
01:17:49,680 --> 01:17:53,519
Speaker 2: One time, man, I had got I had got this

1429
01:17:53,840 --> 01:17:57,400
Speaker 2: like I had foot uh.

1430
01:17:57,560 --> 01:18:00,160
Speaker 10: And I messed around, was messing with my feet, and

1431
01:18:00,280 --> 01:18:04,040
Speaker 10: I put it on my crop and next thing you know,

1432
01:18:04,200 --> 01:18:07,120
Speaker 10: I had an irritation down there. So to fix it,

1433
01:18:07,840 --> 01:18:11,400
Speaker 10: my mama told me to put corn starch on it.

1434
01:18:12,320 --> 01:18:15,360
Speaker 10: And so I had put corn starch all inside my underwear.

1435
01:18:15,520 --> 01:18:16,479
Speaker 13: Old school remedy.

1436
01:18:17,000 --> 01:18:20,880
Speaker 10: Well, I went over this girl's house and pulled my

1437
01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:23,240
Speaker 10: pants down and forgot I had that corn start.

1438
01:18:25,479 --> 01:18:29,400
Speaker 2: I pulled my drawers down, and that corn starch had.

1439
01:18:29,320 --> 01:18:32,759
Speaker 10: Dead it up on me. It looked like cottage cheese.

1440
01:18:34,439 --> 01:18:36,120
Speaker 10: I looked down there, she squeezed.

1441
01:18:36,280 --> 01:18:41,400
Speaker 2: I scream. I looked down with wet in.

1442
01:18:41,439 --> 01:18:42,240
Speaker 4: There, hollw.

1443
01:18:43,479 --> 01:18:44,040
Speaker 13: Igorous.

1444
01:18:45,360 --> 01:18:47,280
Speaker 10: I tried to go in the bathroom and wash it

1445
01:18:47,400 --> 01:18:51,160
Speaker 10: all off and explain it. It was just as crazy,

1446
01:18:51,439 --> 01:18:54,639
Speaker 10: Oh that that didn't go good? Boy, boy, it looked

1447
01:18:54,800 --> 01:18:56,680
Speaker 10: because it looked like I was standing up there with

1448
01:18:56,760 --> 01:19:00,120
Speaker 10: a yeasting fishing and I just could not explain that.

1449
01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:03,599
Speaker 13: Okay, we're moving on. You're crazy.

1450
01:19:07,680 --> 01:19:10,759
Speaker 2: The visual will right now. Boy, get the tennis shoes.

1451
01:19:12,240 --> 01:19:17,880
Speaker 14: Would you rather have a perfect body? But an ugly face?

1452
01:19:18,160 --> 01:19:20,479
Speaker 14: Or would you rather be handsome with a big gut?

1453
01:19:20,680 --> 01:19:23,880
Speaker 12: I'm gonna take that gut. Hell I got the gut now, Hell,

1454
01:19:24,040 --> 01:19:31,920
Speaker 12: I'm good. You ain't handsome handsome? You know, it's just

1455
01:19:32,080 --> 01:19:34,920
Speaker 12: for you, y'all to glasses. That's this for y'all, that's this.

1456
01:19:35,080 --> 01:19:36,200
Speaker 12: That question ain't even for me.

1457
01:19:36,320 --> 01:19:39,760
Speaker 2: Go you're pretty pretty far. Tell them, I'm trying to

1458
01:19:39,840 --> 01:19:40,200
Speaker 2: tell them.

1459
01:19:41,479 --> 01:19:43,080
Speaker 13: All right, that's today's roundup?

1460
01:19:43,080 --> 01:19:45,519
Speaker 14: Would you rather coming up next to it is our

1461
01:19:45,640 --> 01:19:48,080
Speaker 14: last break of the day of the week on this Friday,

1462
01:19:48,160 --> 01:19:50,519
Speaker 14: and we'll have some closing remarks from the one and

1463
01:19:50,600 --> 01:19:52,439
Speaker 14: only Steve Harvey right after this.

1464
01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:57,519
Speaker 13: You're listening Morning show, all right, Steve.

1465
01:19:57,600 --> 01:19:59,640
Speaker 14: Here we are the last break of the day on

1466
01:19:59,800 --> 01:20:02,360
Speaker 14: this last day of the week for us this Friday.

1467
01:20:03,280 --> 01:20:05,080
Speaker 13: Leave us with some closing remarks.

1468
01:20:05,120 --> 01:20:13,639
Speaker 10: You know, I think that what I want to share

1469
01:20:13,680 --> 01:20:18,320
Speaker 10: with you is something that prevents so many people from

1470
01:20:18,360 --> 01:20:24,960
Speaker 10: becoming successful. And that thing is called excuses. You know,

1471
01:20:25,160 --> 01:20:30,599
Speaker 10: it's it's it's amazing how when we want to justify

1472
01:20:31,040 --> 01:20:36,120
Speaker 10: a lack of effort, or we want to justify our procrastination,

1473
01:20:38,560 --> 01:20:41,599
Speaker 10: or we want to justify not doing something we said

1474
01:20:41,680 --> 01:20:46,160
Speaker 10: we were going to do. We want to justify just

1475
01:20:46,320 --> 01:20:49,839
Speaker 10: not getting started. We can come up with some pretty

1476
01:20:50,520 --> 01:20:56,639
Speaker 10: pretty impressive excuses. But you know the thing about an excuse, though,

1477
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 10: it serves no one except the person that's providing the excuse.

1478
01:21:05,040 --> 01:21:08,599
Speaker 10: The person you're giving the excuse too. It does nothing

1479
01:21:08,800 --> 01:21:13,080
Speaker 10: from them because that level of expectation for you was

1480
01:21:13,240 --> 01:21:16,360
Speaker 10: in place and the fact that you didn't come through.

1481
01:21:18,200 --> 01:21:20,639
Speaker 10: I mean, how can you possibly think that this person

1482
01:21:20,760 --> 01:21:23,840
Speaker 10: is sitting there going, wow, that's great. You didn't come through.

1483
01:21:24,800 --> 01:21:27,679
Speaker 10: Now you were here, Okay, well I'm sorry that happened.

1484
01:21:28,479 --> 01:21:31,639
Speaker 10: So when will you get to it? Or you hear

1485
01:21:31,760 --> 01:21:35,080
Speaker 10: something like oh wow, man, I didn't know that. And

1486
01:21:35,200 --> 01:21:37,599
Speaker 10: when you walk a guy and when you walk away,

1487
01:21:37,960 --> 01:21:41,519
Speaker 10: that person goes, wow, I can't count on it. Or

1488
01:21:41,520 --> 01:21:44,680
Speaker 10: if you keep giving excuses, then after a while a

1489
01:21:44,800 --> 01:21:49,240
Speaker 10: person just goes, I don't believe nothing, he says. And

1490
01:21:49,400 --> 01:21:52,120
Speaker 10: either way, man, the person that you gave the excuse to,

1491
01:21:52,760 --> 01:21:55,320
Speaker 10: I can promise you they don't think as much of

1492
01:21:55,400 --> 01:21:57,320
Speaker 10: you as they did when they first thought you were

1493
01:21:57,400 --> 01:22:03,280
Speaker 10: coming through. Folks, if you could learn to eliminate excuses.

1494
01:22:04,680 --> 01:22:07,519
Speaker 10: You know who taught me not to have excuses? My father,

1495
01:22:09,280 --> 01:22:14,400
Speaker 10: my fallow strong man man studs powerful to me, it's

1496
01:22:14,439 --> 01:22:18,640
Speaker 10: the greatest dude have new. But he taught me about excuses,

1497
01:22:18,720 --> 01:22:21,840
Speaker 10: he says, son, don't ever give me an excuse, because

1498
01:22:21,920 --> 01:22:22,839
Speaker 10: what that ain't gonna.

1499
01:22:22,640 --> 01:22:26,040
Speaker 2: Do me no good. He said, we ain't got nothing.

1500
01:22:27,439 --> 01:22:30,599
Speaker 10: At least you could give me your word, he said,

1501
01:22:30,640 --> 01:22:33,920
Speaker 10: we ain't got nothing else, we ain't got too much

1502
01:22:33,960 --> 01:22:36,599
Speaker 10: more than pot to piss in. But if you gonna

1503
01:22:36,600 --> 01:22:38,400
Speaker 10: give me your word, tell me you're gonna do something.

1504
01:22:38,479 --> 01:22:41,360
Speaker 10: Don't give me no excuse instead, because now we ain't

1505
01:22:41,360 --> 01:22:45,439
Speaker 10: got nothing, y'all. If you could eliminate excuses, if you

1506
01:22:45,520 --> 01:22:51,639
Speaker 10: could stop the allowing yourself off the hook, because that's

1507
01:22:51,800 --> 01:22:52,360
Speaker 10: all it is.

1508
01:22:53,120 --> 01:22:56,040
Speaker 2: The only person you're hurting with these excuses is you.

1509
01:22:57,600 --> 01:23:00,400
Speaker 10: I'll give you an example of how you hear other

1510
01:23:00,439 --> 01:23:03,439
Speaker 10: people with your excuses. That if you have a child

1511
01:23:04,439 --> 01:23:06,960
Speaker 10: and you keep promising your child that you're gonna do so.

1512
01:23:08,400 --> 01:23:10,800
Speaker 10: If you a dad and you don't live with your child,

1513
01:23:10,920 --> 01:23:12,800
Speaker 10: your boy, your girl, and you tell them you're gonna

1514
01:23:12,840 --> 01:23:15,120
Speaker 10: come by, that child is at the window and at

1515
01:23:15,160 --> 01:23:17,559
Speaker 10: the door waiting. They got their little bag pack, they

1516
01:23:17,640 --> 01:23:20,679
Speaker 10: got their lunch Packause I'm going with my daddy and man,

1517
01:23:20,760 --> 01:23:23,840
Speaker 10: oh man, oh man, the disappointment that had that child

1518
01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:25,920
Speaker 10: had with you. But and then you call in and

1519
01:23:25,960 --> 01:23:28,639
Speaker 10: guess what you say, I had to work, Sorry man,

1520
01:23:28,720 --> 01:23:31,680
Speaker 10: but I had to work. Well, I got you had

1521
01:23:31,720 --> 01:23:34,000
Speaker 10: to work. But guess what, and does nothing for that

1522
01:23:34,200 --> 01:23:35,639
Speaker 10: child that was waiting on their dad.

1523
01:23:36,720 --> 01:23:38,439
Speaker 2: I got, you got to work. But what they got

1524
01:23:38,520 --> 01:23:38,640
Speaker 2: to do?

1525
01:23:38,800 --> 01:23:43,679
Speaker 10: That don't stop the disappointment in the child. See excuses, man.

1526
01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:44,960
Speaker 2: They go a long wait.

1527
01:23:45,080 --> 01:23:48,680
Speaker 10: Man, they do far more damage than you can imagine.

1528
01:23:49,080 --> 01:23:50,800
Speaker 10: So after a while, if you keep doing that to

1529
01:23:50,920 --> 01:23:54,160
Speaker 10: that child, and you keep promising your child you're gonna

1530
01:23:54,160 --> 01:23:55,200
Speaker 10: do something and you never do it.

1531
01:23:56,320 --> 01:24:01,519
Speaker 2: Ah, think about that, man, what that does to that child.

1532
01:24:02,800 --> 01:24:05,680
Speaker 10: If you're in a relationship and you keep promising the

1533
01:24:05,720 --> 01:24:07,400
Speaker 10: person you're in a relationship with you you're gonna do

1534
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Speaker 10: something for him, you never do it. How long you

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01:24:09,600 --> 01:24:13,120
Speaker 10: think this racist relationship gonna laugh? You gotta do what

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01:24:13,200 --> 01:24:14,000
Speaker 10: you say you're gonna do.

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Speaker 2: You can't create excuses. But then the person who.

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Speaker 10: Really gets damaged to you, because when that child grows

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01:24:21,560 --> 01:24:25,040
Speaker 10: up and he can now stand on his own and

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01:24:25,120 --> 01:24:27,960
Speaker 10: he can take his own self somewhere, he can buy

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01:24:28,040 --> 01:24:31,880
Speaker 10: his own clothes, and now you wanna come around and hey,

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Speaker 10: that's my son. And then he's old enough to ask

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01:24:35,439 --> 01:24:38,599
Speaker 10: you questions. Yeah, I'm your somble. Where were you when

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Speaker 10: I needed you?

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Speaker 2: Man? Where were you when I was standing in the window?

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Speaker 10: Where were you when I was sitting on the porch, man,

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01:24:44,400 --> 01:24:46,880
Speaker 10: with my lunch box, just looking at every card that

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01:24:46,960 --> 01:24:49,720
Speaker 10: went by, hoping that my daddy would finally come through,

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01:24:49,800 --> 01:24:52,120
Speaker 10: till my mama finally tell me coming there off the porch.

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Speaker 10: You see, man, Now you got to deal with that

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01:24:58,120 --> 01:25:00,600
Speaker 10: and all them excuses you was giving that boy or

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01:25:00,640 --> 01:25:03,400
Speaker 10: that little girl back then. It don't mean damn thing

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01:25:03,520 --> 01:25:08,400
Speaker 10: to them, you know, man, And it stops you so much. See,

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01:25:08,439 --> 01:25:11,400
Speaker 10: once you become a person that provides excuses, it ain't

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01:25:11,479 --> 01:25:13,800
Speaker 10: just to your children, It ain't just to your love

1556
01:25:13,920 --> 01:25:16,560
Speaker 10: and your love on. It's to your job, it's to

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01:25:16,680 --> 01:25:19,760
Speaker 10: your career. And pretty soon you start giving excuses to

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01:25:19,880 --> 01:25:24,280
Speaker 10: yourself because it's a pattern of behavior. And you've got

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01:25:24,360 --> 01:25:26,600
Speaker 10: to break that pattern of behavior because it's a no

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01:25:26,760 --> 01:25:31,679
Speaker 10: win situation for you. Stop making excuses, man, Why don't

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01:25:31,720 --> 01:25:34,479
Speaker 10: you just simply do what you say you gonna do.

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01:25:36,160 --> 01:25:40,040
Speaker 10: It's much easier to do that if you say you're

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01:25:40,040 --> 01:25:42,320
Speaker 10: gonna do it, be a man of your word, a

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Speaker 10: woman of your word, and go do it.

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Speaker 2: Period. Now, if you're not gonna do it, say that,

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01:25:49,080 --> 01:25:51,680
Speaker 2: be a man of your word on that. See, that's

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Speaker 2: what I do.

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Speaker 10: When somebody asks me to do something, I distinctly tell them, Hey, man,

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Speaker 10: I'm not gonna do that. I'm sorry, but I won't

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01:25:59,840 --> 01:26:03,120
Speaker 10: be that way. Ain't no hope of you looking for me. Well,

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01:26:03,200 --> 01:26:04,880
Speaker 10: he said he wasn't coming, but I'm gonna see if

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01:26:04,880 --> 01:26:06,680
Speaker 10: he come anyway. No, no, no. If I tell you

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01:26:06,760 --> 01:26:09,160
Speaker 10: I'm not coming, you pretty much bank I ain't coming.

1574
01:26:09,520 --> 01:26:12,200
Speaker 10: But if I tell you I'm coming, you can look

1575
01:26:12,280 --> 01:26:18,120
Speaker 10: for me, and chances are I'll be there. It would

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01:26:18,160 --> 01:26:19,960
Speaker 10: take a lot for me not to do what I

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01:26:20,040 --> 01:26:22,080
Speaker 10: say I'm going to do, because I just ain't made

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01:26:22,080 --> 01:26:24,880
Speaker 10: it that way. I don't like excuses. You can't get

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Speaker 10: to where you're going with a bunch of excuses, all right.

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