1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:06,760 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Smantha. 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:08,480 Speaker 2: I'm one theme stuff I've never told you production of 3 00:00:08,480 --> 00:00:23,120 Speaker 2: iHeartRadio and welcome it to another Monday, Mini and Happy 4 00:00:23,160 --> 00:00:29,640 Speaker 2: Pride Be Pride. Yes as this comes out as we 5 00:00:29,720 --> 00:00:33,720 Speaker 2: record it. It is Pride Month twenty twenty five. Today 6 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:38,400 Speaker 2: is June twelfth, twenty twenty five. And I put this 7 00:00:38,479 --> 00:00:43,159 Speaker 2: in here because this is one where I feel like 8 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:45,800 Speaker 2: some things are going to happen in the next few 9 00:00:45,840 --> 00:00:51,480 Speaker 2: weeks around this conversation, and we'll see how it plays out. 10 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 2: But I just wanted to talk about a conversation I 11 00:00:56,440 --> 00:01:00,560 Speaker 2: have seen playing out online that didn't really supprise me, 12 00:01:01,840 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: but I was still like, oh, yeah, that makes sense. 13 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: That makes sense that we're having this conversation. So basically, 14 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:18,679 Speaker 2: as part of Trump's anti DEI initiatives and growing anti 15 00:01:18,920 --> 00:01:23,360 Speaker 2: LGBTQ plus sentiments, a lot of big companies are pulling 16 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: their support from Pride. According to a Slate article by 17 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:35,160 Speaker 2: Christina Kaderucci called the End of the Rainbow Quote. This year, 18 00:01:35,200 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 2: the exodus ramped up. In one survey of forty nine 19 00:01:38,680 --> 00:01:42,479 Speaker 2: executives at Fortune one thousand companies, nearly forty percent said 20 00:01:42,520 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 2: their businesses planned to dial back their engagement with Pride 21 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 2: month this year, either internally or externally. Only nine percent 22 00:01:51,640 --> 00:01:55,800 Speaker 2: said the same last year. It is a huge slump 23 00:01:55,800 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 2: and funding and frankly pretty disheartening. Pride organizations are reporting 24 00:02:00,880 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 2: a massive loss of funding in some places, up to 25 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 2: seventy to ninety percent for some smaller organizations. And this 26 00:02:10,919 --> 00:02:15,680 Speaker 2: includes posting any kind of support for Pride themed events, 27 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 2: selling Pride themed products, sponsoring Pride themed events. It also 28 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 2: involves tariffs and companies trying to shore up their business 29 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:32,040 Speaker 2: in any way that they can against them, right or wrong. 30 00:02:32,080 --> 00:02:35,000 Speaker 2: So being like, well there are tarriffs, so no Pride 31 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:39,000 Speaker 2: this year, that sort of thing. I mean, it's not surprising. 32 00:02:39,040 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 2: We always say companies are not allies. They go wherever 33 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:45,880 Speaker 2: the politics and money tell them to go, largely, so 34 00:02:46,040 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 2: it's not a surprise it does suck. But also Pride 35 00:02:52,280 --> 00:02:56,919 Speaker 2: parades were never meant to be these places where companies 36 00:02:57,919 --> 00:03:03,600 Speaker 2: kind of infiltrated, especially when they're not true allies. They've 37 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:08,840 Speaker 2: clearly demonstrated several times. This is not news. So some 38 00:03:08,880 --> 00:03:12,440 Speaker 2: people are sort of glad at this. That was not 39 00:03:12,520 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 2: a pun I meant to make, but this sort of like, yeah, 40 00:03:16,639 --> 00:03:19,639 Speaker 2: get out, we didn't want you here in the first place, 41 00:03:20,160 --> 00:03:23,680 Speaker 2: especially if you're not supporting us as a community in 42 00:03:23,760 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 2: any real way other than just kind of showing up 43 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:32,960 Speaker 2: and taking up space from actual queer people. And the 44 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 2: people who are in that kind of feeling think they 45 00:03:38,120 --> 00:03:40,720 Speaker 2: are hoping that the parades and events become more local 46 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:46,000 Speaker 2: and more actually pride based instead of this big corporate event. 47 00:03:47,320 --> 00:03:52,080 Speaker 2: And this is a long standing debate in the queer community. 48 00:03:52,200 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 2: We've talked about it before. As early as the nineteen seventies, 49 00:03:56,320 --> 00:04:02,360 Speaker 2: activists were trying to reclaim pride from businesses. Others think 50 00:04:02,440 --> 00:04:06,600 Speaker 2: that there is potential to make queer sponsorships with mainstream 51 00:04:06,680 --> 00:04:11,040 Speaker 2: brands and just in general feel more accepted. So, you know, 52 00:04:11,080 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 2: seeing these big companies at these events, some people argue 53 00:04:16,160 --> 00:04:20,600 Speaker 2: is pretty big. These big companies are paying for this 54 00:04:21,520 --> 00:04:25,640 Speaker 2: generally big party after all, and some people feel like 55 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 2: it's nice having this kind of mainstream support, even if 56 00:04:30,800 --> 00:04:34,239 Speaker 2: it's flimsy, or even being able to get pride themed 57 00:04:34,279 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 2: products in mainstream stores because some people don't have ready 58 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:43,280 Speaker 2: access to those things. Depending on where they are, it 59 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:48,680 Speaker 2: can feel like progress. It really isn't, and obviously it 60 00:04:48,720 --> 00:04:52,400 Speaker 2: can change at any moment. But there are a lot 61 00:04:52,520 --> 00:04:56,360 Speaker 2: of different viewpoints about this. Also, a lot of these 62 00:04:56,440 --> 00:05:01,240 Speaker 2: companies Pride initiatives are led by straight pa people, and 63 00:05:01,279 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 2: a lot of the participants on the floats of these 64 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:09,680 Speaker 2: companies in Pride parades are straight, which takes away from 65 00:05:09,720 --> 00:05:12,919 Speaker 2: actual queer people. I mean, I'm not saying I personally 66 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:19,839 Speaker 2: don't think, you know, having true allyship is bad, but 67 00:05:19,920 --> 00:05:22,880 Speaker 2: if it's like all straight people, that is a little right. 68 00:05:25,880 --> 00:05:31,000 Speaker 2: Some companies are still supporting Pride, but apparently don't want 69 00:05:31,040 --> 00:05:42,000 Speaker 2: their logo shown, which is not I don't okay. I mean, 70 00:05:42,040 --> 00:05:44,520 Speaker 2: I hope that means it's honest support, but it also 71 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:48,560 Speaker 2: sounds like you just don't want the backlash of being 72 00:05:48,800 --> 00:05:54,000 Speaker 2: actually someone who cares about this, our company that cares 73 00:05:54,040 --> 00:06:01,440 Speaker 2: about this. So that's a conversation that's happening. And we have, 74 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 2: as I said, discussed before how antithetical this is to 75 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 2: the core of what Pride was historically, and how there 76 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 2: has been pushed back against it, especially as we've gotten 77 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:17,840 Speaker 2: more like you know, I don't know, police involvement in 78 00:06:17,880 --> 00:06:22,080 Speaker 2: the parade or even military involvement in the parade. Some 79 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:28,479 Speaker 2: organizations are rejecting any funding from any companies that they 80 00:06:28,640 --> 00:06:32,440 Speaker 2: themselves reject DEI funding, So some are doing it that way. 81 00:06:33,080 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: But this is complicated for a lot of reasons because 82 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:41,479 Speaker 2: it is nice to get rid of corporate influence. I 83 00:06:41,520 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 2: spoke about my when I went to a Pride parade 84 00:06:44,320 --> 00:06:47,880 Speaker 2: in October, and it was so many companies that I 85 00:06:47,920 --> 00:06:50,920 Speaker 2: was like, I know for a fact, you actually really 86 00:06:51,680 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: don't support the LGBTQ plus community, and not only that, 87 00:06:57,279 --> 00:07:02,880 Speaker 2: you actively campaign against us. So it would be nice 88 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 2: to see less of that and get back to the 89 00:07:09,880 --> 00:07:12,440 Speaker 2: heart of what it was and what it was meant 90 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:18,040 Speaker 2: to be. But also LGBTQ plus businesses that rely on 91 00:07:18,080 --> 00:07:21,000 Speaker 2: these companies are sounding the alarm, as we discussed in 92 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:24,760 Speaker 2: our episode with Bridget about the Target boycott. So it's complicated. 93 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,400 Speaker 2: I'm glad we're having the conversation, and I don't come 94 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:37,440 Speaker 2: here with any answer because ultimately, in my ideal world, 95 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:44,800 Speaker 2: the companies would just be good companies and support causes. 96 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,240 Speaker 2: But they don't do that, and I know that they won't. 97 00:07:47,840 --> 00:07:51,720 Speaker 2: And let like they would support the cause and put 98 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:54,800 Speaker 2: their logo on, but not take up the parade space, 99 00:07:54,880 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 2: you know what I mean, Like do more than Hey, 100 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:02,920 Speaker 2: we checked off this box, right, So we're good, right, 101 00:08:03,000 --> 00:08:07,000 Speaker 2: But that is interesting that that is happening right now 102 00:08:08,440 --> 00:08:12,840 Speaker 2: because of all this backlash and DEI stuff. So I 103 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:18,080 Speaker 2: want to see what happens with Pride this year with 104 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:20,720 Speaker 2: that I haven't seen. I personally haven't been to any 105 00:08:20,760 --> 00:08:23,080 Speaker 2: events yet, so I can't speak to it, but I'll 106 00:08:23,160 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 2: report back right. 107 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:27,760 Speaker 1: Well, people were confused because Georgia, We've talked about this 108 00:08:27,800 --> 00:08:29,680 Speaker 1: in Atlanta, the fact that a lot of the times 109 00:08:29,920 --> 00:08:33,520 Speaker 1: the big Pride event happens in October. Yeah for Atlanta, 110 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,000 Speaker 1: so people are like, what's happening And you already talked 111 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:39,080 Speaker 1: about that with some of the backlash and the reasoning 112 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:42,360 Speaker 1: behind that. But yeah, I've already seen like in Florida 113 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:44,160 Speaker 1: where they're trying to ban it, that people are like, 114 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:45,959 Speaker 1: now we're going to do things, watch us. So it's 115 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:51,920 Speaker 1: been nice to see that. That feels comforting, sad, but comforting. 116 00:08:52,600 --> 00:08:56,320 Speaker 2: Yeah. I mean that's another aspect that we're not gonna 117 00:08:56,400 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: talk about today, but that is Yeah, that's another thing, 118 00:08:59,800 --> 00:09:02,280 Speaker 2: is just banning it all right and people being like, Nope, 119 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:08,240 Speaker 2: we're gonna do it anyway. 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