WEBVTT - K1 Visa Test: How Well Do You Know Your Partner? 0:00:01.360 --> 0:00:05.239 Hey, there are folks in this episode, Candy, your relationship 0:00:05.360 --> 0:00:09.320 survived the immigration test. Welcome to this episode of Amy 0:00:09.400 --> 0:00:12.080 and TJ. When we're talking about here robes. It's something 0:00:12.080 --> 0:00:15.200 that got our attention because we are huge ninety Day 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:18.000 Fiance fans, and a lot of people should know what 0:00:18.200 --> 0:00:21.160 that means. That show's everywhere and it's been spawned how many, 0:00:21.280 --> 0:00:22.680 like twenty spinoffs. 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:25.840 We still have been discovering new spinoffs that we didn't 0:00:25.840 --> 0:00:29.200 know existed, Like there's one in Paradise, there's one in 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:32.320 the Caribbean. Yeah, we've been watching the one in the Caribbean. 0:00:32.560 --> 0:00:35.200 There's ninety day the other way, there's ninety day UK, 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:38.640 there's ninety day before the ninety day, there's ninety day. 0:00:38.560 --> 0:00:41.640 After ever after where this question mark, there was another one? 0:00:41.960 --> 0:00:44.760 Okay anyway on. The show has been wildly successful, but 0:00:44.800 --> 0:00:49.040 it all stemmed from originally the original one was about, Yes, 0:00:49.120 --> 0:00:52.640 Americans find people they want to marry in other lands, 0:00:52.720 --> 0:00:54.560 in other countries, and then they bring them here to 0:00:54.600 --> 0:00:56.920 the US and you have this K one visa that 0:00:57.000 --> 0:00:59.080 gives you ninety days. Once they get here, you have 0:00:59.240 --> 0:01:02.680 ninety days to get married. Part of the process. Sometimes 0:01:02.720 --> 0:01:04.800 you have to get this K one visa, and you 0:01:04.920 --> 0:01:08.080 have to pass a test to prove that your relationship 0:01:08.560 --> 0:01:11.240 is real. Could you pass the tests right? 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:14.160 And so we were watching actually just this week, and 0:01:14.480 --> 0:01:17.560 we saw one couple who legitimately was in love as 0:01:17.600 --> 0:01:19.399 far as we could tell. In fact, I think this 0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:22.400 couple we googled and found out they actually are expecting 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:26.440 a child, so it was successful. But they were studying 0:01:26.520 --> 0:01:31.080 together to try and pass this immigration exam. I think 0:01:31.080 --> 0:01:33.440 at one point she said, Okay, what high school did 0:01:33.480 --> 0:01:33.800 I go to? 0:01:33.920 --> 0:01:34.120 Yes? 0:01:34.160 --> 0:01:36.319 What high school did you go to? So they're trying 0:01:36.360 --> 0:01:38.959 to remember all these things about each other's lives and 0:01:39.040 --> 0:01:41.520 catch up so to speak, to prove to the immigration 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.720 officer that they are in fact a couple. It got 0:01:43.800 --> 0:01:47.360 us thinking would we be able or and I thought 0:01:47.360 --> 0:01:50.640 a lot of people would be interested. Would your relationship 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.200 be able to pass the immigration test? 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:54.200 If you had to go in there answer questions about 0:01:54.240 --> 0:01:57.960 your significant other, would you pass it in front of 0:01:58.000 --> 0:02:00.440 an immigration officer? I would like to think we would 0:02:00.600 --> 0:02:02.440 think about this. That made me nervous. And we're about 0:02:02.440 --> 0:02:04.240 to take this test. We have not seen the questions, 0:02:04.360 --> 0:02:06.760 and again they're simple questions. I don't put the exact ones, 0:02:06.880 --> 0:02:09.320 but we get an idea of it, and our producer 0:02:09.400 --> 0:02:11.040 is going to ask us the questions here in a second. 0:02:11.160 --> 0:02:14.079 The only part I'm nervous about in answering is that 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.240 we know each other so well, but so much of 0:02:16.280 --> 0:02:20.520 it is behavioral versus your resume, Like I don't know 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.440 a lot of little details about you went to this 0:02:22.520 --> 0:02:25.800 elementary school and you went here, and high school mascot 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:27.720 was this, and I don't know that kind of stuff. 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:30.959 The thing that worries me is we've known each other 0:02:31.000 --> 0:02:34.240 now for ten years. We've been in a relationship for 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.040 more than two, but we've been friends for a long time, 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.040 and so we like, you know, when I tell a story, 0:02:40.320 --> 0:02:43.160 you sapes. I've heard that five times. So we've got 0:02:43.200 --> 0:02:45.960 that kind of a relationship going. But right, I mean 0:02:46.120 --> 0:02:49.480 up until I don't know facts twenty fourteen, I know 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:51.160 I don't know all the details. 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:53.280 It's not gonna be good. So we don't know if 0:02:53.280 --> 0:02:56.840 we can pass a relationship test. Take this along with 0:02:56.919 --> 0:02:59.040 us again, But we are hearing these questions for the 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:01.760 first time. We were very with our producer. Don't tell 0:03:01.840 --> 0:03:04.680 us anything. We didn't google anything because we wanted to 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.280 do this fresh, So let's give it a shot. That's 0:03:08.680 --> 0:03:11.120 Andy's gonna help us out here, super producer. Andy that 0:03:11.160 --> 0:03:12.520 you all, if you listen to the show, you're very 0:03:12.520 --> 0:03:14.560 familiar with Andy. But he is gonna fire away. We're 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:15.440 gonna go back and forth. 0:03:16.040 --> 0:03:18.239 Agree, yes, right, yes, And Andy has taken this job 0:03:18.360 --> 0:03:20.200 very seriously. He has friends who have gone through the 0:03:20.240 --> 0:03:22.600 K one visa process. He did a lot of research 0:03:22.639 --> 0:03:24.560 online because it's not like they give you the list 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:27.360 of questions, because then everybody would just study the list. 0:03:27.880 --> 0:03:31.359 So he has gone to great pains actually to make 0:03:31.400 --> 0:03:34.240 this as legit as possible. So again, yeah, we encourage 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:37.080 you if you're listening, play along with us with your partner. 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.440 All right, Andy, the floor is yours saying the first one? 0:03:39.560 --> 0:03:40.920 Sure, all right, go ahead Andy. 0:03:40.720 --> 0:03:44.920 All right, Amy, What is something small but meaningful your 0:03:44.920 --> 0:03:45.920 fiance does for you? 0:03:46.200 --> 0:03:46.280 Oh? 0:03:46.360 --> 0:03:48.920 Sorry, your partner in this case does for you every day. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:52.520 Something small and meaningful that my partner does for me 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:57.560 each and every day. Well, he gets up an hour 0:03:57.640 --> 0:04:00.880 ahead of me to get ahead on the world for 0:04:01.040 --> 0:04:05.440 our podcast morning run because he's more of a really 0:04:05.480 --> 0:04:08.400 early morning person. So I appreciate that that's something it's 0:04:08.400 --> 0:04:10.960 maybe it's not even that small, but I notice it 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:13.000 and I appreciate it. 0:04:13.160 --> 0:04:16.320 Okay. The only issue I take with that, Andy, she said, 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:17.880 I get up an hour is like an hour and 0:04:17.880 --> 0:04:19.800 a half. That's the only issue I take with this. 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:21.400 I thought, you bet up at two forty five and 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:22.640 I get up at three forty five. 0:04:23.279 --> 0:04:24.440 I'm up at two thirty. 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:27.719 Easy, ok, the hour and fifteen minutes. 0:04:27.800 --> 0:04:29.840 This is what we're gonna go. This is our problem. 0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:32.400 The relationships feels real. You know the times you're waking up. 0:04:32.560 --> 0:04:35.240 You know what that I bet? The immigration officer said, yeah, 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:38.159 y'all are good. Y'all, y'all are bickering and bitching over 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:41.960 time on my first question. Yeah, that's the relationship. 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:45.920 All right, TEJ? Who is more of a morning person? 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:47.440 You were me? 0:04:47.680 --> 0:04:51.039 Easy? Not a problem, done deal. 0:04:51.200 --> 0:04:54.560 That's not even You'll get zero disagreement for me on that. 0:04:54.680 --> 0:04:56.640 Oh it's interesting they would ask these kinds, but yeah, 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:58.800 you would have to know someone and be in bed 0:04:58.800 --> 0:05:01.159 with someone or be talking to someone every single morning 0:05:01.200 --> 0:05:03.440 to know what kind of morning person if they are not, 0:05:03.520 --> 0:05:05.160 that's a good question, all right. 0:05:05.240 --> 0:05:09.000 Next question, Amy, what was TJ's first job? 0:05:10.160 --> 0:05:13.600 TJ's first job was at Red Lobster. He was a host. 0:05:13.960 --> 0:05:15.400 I don't know if he was a server, but he 0:05:15.520 --> 0:05:16.560 was Red Lobster. 0:05:18.080 --> 0:05:23.120 My first job was as a painter when I was 0:05:23.120 --> 0:05:23.760 in high school. 0:05:24.760 --> 0:05:26.880 I did know that, yep, I did know that. 0:05:27.120 --> 0:05:30.280 There was a group of us who are the sons 0:05:30.279 --> 0:05:32.560 of the administrators in the school district, and they we 0:05:32.680 --> 0:05:34.600 put together a paint crew and we would go around 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:37.600 and paints do touch up work at all the schools 0:05:37.880 --> 0:05:40.479 around the school district. So that was my first job. 0:05:40.600 --> 0:05:42.279 You heard that story, but you don't remember that. 0:05:42.320 --> 0:05:44.480 I don't think I necessarily assigned that as your first job. 0:05:44.520 --> 0:05:46.240 I guess I was thinking more in a professional setting, 0:05:46.240 --> 0:05:48.479 but painting is a professional's. 0:05:48.040 --> 0:05:50.160 Professional setting Red Lobster. 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:52.920 Okay, you know what I mean? 0:05:54.920 --> 0:05:55.320 All right? 0:05:55.440 --> 0:06:00.440 Tej? Your question, if you could describe your partner in 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:01.560 one word, what would it be? 0:06:02.400 --> 0:06:03.080 Enthusiastic? 0:06:04.040 --> 0:06:05.719 I think that's very true. 0:06:05.960 --> 0:06:08.200 Wow, I didn't even hesitate. I am Wow, you. 0:06:08.240 --> 0:06:11.360 Nailed that's good. 0:06:11.839 --> 0:06:16.400 Amy. If you sorry, who's the better dancer you or TJ? 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:18.520 TJ is the better dancer? 0:06:19.040 --> 0:06:21.760 Well, I mean, I mean there's so many things we 0:06:21.760 --> 0:06:26.159 could say there, but yeah, that's a yes. I have rhythm. 0:06:26.440 --> 0:06:28.800 Yes he can. He can dance on the threes and 0:06:28.839 --> 0:06:30.320 fives and I'm stuck on the twos and four. 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:33.040 You hear that threes and fives, there's there's only ones, twos, 0:06:33.040 --> 0:06:37.000 threes and fours. See clearly, clearly. 0:06:36.600 --> 0:06:38.560 He dances on the ones and threes. 0:06:38.279 --> 0:06:40.600 And fours and four. 0:06:42.480 --> 0:06:45.360 I just proved my own point that TJ has better 0:06:45.440 --> 0:06:46.039 rhythm than I do. 0:06:46.200 --> 0:06:48.280 This is fun fun We okay, we don't need to 0:06:48.279 --> 0:06:50.279 get to washing into this, but it's always funny, and 0:06:50.360 --> 0:06:53.359 pointed out that you naturally when songs are all you 0:06:53.400 --> 0:06:56.080 clap on the ones and the threes, and I'm on 0:06:56.120 --> 0:06:59.720 the twos and fours. It's just the snare that's the key. 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:02.279 Listen to the snare and that'll be your twos and fours. 0:07:02.560 --> 0:07:05.080 It's not really that helpful, know what a snare sounds like. 0:07:05.440 --> 0:07:07.480 It's the drum that just But. 0:07:07.440 --> 0:07:09.160 Isn't there a drum that goes on the ones and 0:07:09.200 --> 0:07:10.040 threes too. 0:07:10.480 --> 0:07:12.480 Not the one that's keeping the beat for the song? 0:07:13.200 --> 0:07:15.160 I hear, the one that goes on the ones and threes? 0:07:15.200 --> 0:07:17.200 What's the I wish We can't play any music right now? 0:07:17.240 --> 0:07:20.200 Right we can't. We don't have the rights much money. 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:22.880 But it's so funny to hear that you were keeping 0:07:22.880 --> 0:07:27.160 a beat. M that'll be mine and yours will be. 0:07:33.320 --> 0:07:35.600 Okay, so it's been decided. You're definitely the better dance. Yes, 0:07:35.640 --> 0:07:39.480 the rhythm is there? Got it? Okay, Uh, let's see 0:07:39.960 --> 0:07:40.360 t J. 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:40.920 Yes. 0:07:41.400 --> 0:07:43.280 What are some of the things you have in common 0:07:43.400 --> 0:07:44.200 with your partner? 0:07:45.080 --> 0:07:50.080 We both love horror movies, we both love skinny Margarita's, 0:07:50.280 --> 0:07:56.800 we both we both love college football, specifically SEC. We 0:07:56.840 --> 0:08:01.960 both love travel, we both love beaches. Man, what am I? 0:08:02.480 --> 0:08:03.040 How am I doing? 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:08.520 Uh? You're doing? Well? There was there was something. There's 0:08:08.560 --> 0:08:09.360 a million things. 0:08:09.640 --> 0:08:13.960 Yeah, but that's uh you said. In common? Are our 0:08:14.040 --> 0:08:19.880 upbringing our trajectory through journalism, our careers? We have? Yeah, 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:20.760 we got a lot of comments. 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:26.600 Okay, we both have daughters. Wow, well this is your question, 0:08:26.640 --> 0:08:27.920 not mine. Why am I trying to jump in? 0:08:28.280 --> 0:08:29.680 You know, I think I would have passed. It's not 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:30.680 just yes or no. 0:08:30.800 --> 0:08:32.679 That would have been a good I feel like I'm 0:08:32.679 --> 0:08:33.640 getting some intimate details. 0:08:33.640 --> 0:08:34.160 Okay, there we go. 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.680 Yes, Yes, two daughters thing, that's what the horror movies, 0:08:36.720 --> 0:08:38.920 the skinny Margaritas. I didn't know you both like skinny margarita. 0:08:39.440 --> 0:08:42.560 That's fun. What's your favorite place to go get them? 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:43.840 That's not one of the questions, but you know, I 0:08:43.840 --> 0:08:44.600 am an interviewer. 0:08:45.280 --> 0:08:51.200 Okay, you're gonna say one of two places, Cali. Okay, 0:08:51.280 --> 0:08:55.640 ye oh yeah, we can. This is an interviews done. 0:08:55.640 --> 0:08:56.360 We nailed it. 0:08:56.440 --> 0:09:03.440 We're again, Please leave the office. Amy, What is the 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:05.679 longest time you've been apart and how did you handle it? 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:09.840 This is hilarious. Since we've been together, the longest we've 0:09:09.880 --> 0:09:14.960 been apart was perhaps it's either when I took my 0:09:15.120 --> 0:09:24.280 daughter's to Oslo, which was four or five nights, perhaps, 0:09:25.240 --> 0:09:28.760 and you know, it's just been a night here and 0:09:28.760 --> 0:09:31.360 a night there other than that, so perhaps it's maybe 0:09:31.440 --> 0:09:37.760 only been four nights and I missed him every second. 0:09:38.640 --> 0:09:41.079 That's probably right, four or five. I'm trying to think 0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:43.840 that Sabine and I went to Dominican Dominican. I don't 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:45.240 know how long. That was, probably four or five, but 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:45.720 that's the most. 0:09:45.720 --> 0:09:48.400 It's Yeah, I think I think five nights might be 0:09:48.400 --> 0:09:50.880 the most. And it's very rare. We're talking once a year. 0:09:51.800 --> 0:09:52.360 Yeah, if that? 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:57.640 Yeah, all right, Tej. What's a funny story you both 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.360 like to tell about your relationship. 0:10:00.840 --> 0:10:03.880 Oh, most of our stories are very serious. Have you 0:10:03.920 --> 0:10:08.720 not heard about our relationship? Does nothing funny? 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:09.319 Uh? 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:11.760 You said, funny story? Okay, we need. 0:10:11.640 --> 0:10:13.200 Some more funny stories we have. 0:10:14.480 --> 0:10:16.160 Wait a second, we have a lot of We have 0:10:16.200 --> 0:10:19.240 a ton of funny stories. I love the story about 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:22.520 the wonderful lunch we had at Industry Kitchen. We will 0:10:22.559 --> 0:10:23.520 never forget that lunch. 0:10:23.840 --> 0:10:24.520 A funny story. 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:25.560 That's a great story. 0:10:25.640 --> 0:10:26.920 It was jet lagged from Mexico. 0:10:27.040 --> 0:10:29.320 Do they need us to tell it? So we have 0:10:29.360 --> 0:10:30.720 to tell this to Damn, I just set it up. 0:10:30.800 --> 0:10:31.400 Can I tell it? 0:10:33.280 --> 0:10:35.160 Sure? Maybe not fully? 0:10:35.280 --> 0:10:38.640 Okay, then never mind find the story. 0:10:38.679 --> 0:10:42.120 Never mind too funny and it's too good to tell. 0:10:43.040 --> 0:10:45.480 There's a lot of there's a stuff out of Las Vegas, 0:10:46.880 --> 0:10:49.240 your roulette issues in Vegas. 0:10:49.280 --> 0:10:54.319 How about how people fall around us? Okay, there's a 0:10:55.000 --> 0:10:56.000 that is a funny story. 0:10:56.120 --> 0:11:00.000 Okay, that's a weird thing that we have. I think 0:11:00.000 --> 0:11:02.120 I think you consider me to have the superpower. 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:04.360 I think you have the superpower. I think you have 0:11:04.520 --> 0:11:05.280 what did you call it? 0:11:05.679 --> 0:11:08.880 There's a radius around me, and if people getting a 0:11:08.920 --> 0:11:12.400 certain radius around me, people just fall. You all will 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:15.320 not believe the number of people who have literally taken 0:11:15.520 --> 0:11:19.080 spills right at our feet, who like the most the 0:11:19.160 --> 0:11:26.560 hilarious America's funniest home video type falls you have ever seen, men, women, children, 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:27.520 children bounce. 0:11:27.559 --> 0:11:30.160 I don't feel as bad because they don't really get 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:34.160 to hurt anybody. If anybody gets hurt, it's not funny. 0:11:34.480 --> 0:11:37.800 But I am somebody. I have fully admitted this. I'm 0:11:37.840 --> 0:11:40.280 not proud of it. Some of my other friends who 0:11:40.280 --> 0:11:42.760 share this, including TJ, and I believe, my mother and 0:11:42.800 --> 0:11:46.600 both of my daughters, we all think falling is funny, 0:11:46.640 --> 0:11:49.240 like physical comedy is funny, Like it just is. I 0:11:49.280 --> 0:11:51.800 don't want anyone to be hurt, but it's just funny. 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:53.960 And I feel like no matter where we go, especially 0:11:54.000 --> 0:11:56.520 when we travel, and especially if it's been a little stressful, 0:11:56.880 --> 0:11:59.400 we're kind of the tensions are building up, and then whammo, 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:03.640 someone falls right in front of TJ in a very hilarious, 0:12:03.679 --> 0:12:05.680 dramatic fashion, to the point where we actually have to 0:12:05.720 --> 0:12:08.640 separate and walk away because we're laughing so hard tears 0:12:08.640 --> 0:12:09.640 are coming out of our eyes. 0:12:09.840 --> 0:12:13.480 Nobody's ever gonna believe, but it's hard to explain people 0:12:13.679 --> 0:12:16.520 fall in front of us in a way Babies have 0:12:16.559 --> 0:12:20.480 gone flying out of strollers. There have been what was 0:12:20.480 --> 0:12:23.920 the woman just in Venice dropped their baby and. 0:12:23.960 --> 0:12:25.880 Oh my god. And then and then how about when 0:12:25.920 --> 0:12:29.880 we were in France and one man took down his wife, Yes, 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:31.880 and they were like we could have touched them and 0:12:32.040 --> 0:12:35.880 they fell completely and we had to separate. That one 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:37.360 was really really funny. 0:12:37.360 --> 0:12:38.960 It seem like we've referred We should clear this up. 0:12:38.960 --> 0:12:40.720 It seems like we referred to a couple of babies 0:12:40.720 --> 0:12:43.000 flying out of stroke. We're not just laughing at babies falling. 0:12:43.000 --> 0:12:44.600 And it's not majority babies. 0:12:44.800 --> 0:12:48.040 Majority people like runners when you're out running, like just bite. 0:12:48.080 --> 0:12:49.839 Oh man, that girl fell at my feet when we 0:12:49.920 --> 0:12:50.600 left the restaurant. 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:53.360 Okay, So how about when we were in Las Vegas. Yeah, 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:55.000 you mentioned this, you said roulette, But how about the 0:12:55.000 --> 0:13:01.320 guy who walked into okay, walk into the entrance of 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:05.000 the restaurant we were at and fell on his face 0:13:05.080 --> 0:13:08.160 in front of everything, Like right, that would be maybe 0:13:08.240 --> 0:13:10.160 a once and every five year thing. You'd see. We 0:13:10.320 --> 0:13:12.040 see this. I don't know why. 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.480 Weekly, Yeah, it's once a week weekly, real fall. Okay, So, 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:20.640 mister immigration officer, obviously we've spent time together, No for sure. 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:22.280 I don't want to be around in triple full in 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:22.599 front of you. 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:26.199 Wat we will laugh as long as you're okay. 0:13:26.440 --> 0:13:28.640 Amy, where was your first date? 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:33.679 Okay? I have that answer, and I assume it's going 0:13:33.720 --> 0:13:34.560 to be your answer as well. 0:13:34.679 --> 0:13:39.959 Our first date. I am struggling with this, our first date. 0:13:40.200 --> 0:13:41.360 It's almost a trick question. 0:13:42.840 --> 0:13:47.520 I mean, would it be o'donna use our first date? 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:53.400 I I don't know what it was because we were 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:56.360 friends for so long, went out for so long. Everything 0:13:56.400 --> 0:14:01.720 happened so organically. I don't remember actually saying this is 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:02.160 a date. 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:06.880 And that is the answer. Mister officers. We have no 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:10.400 idea when we had a first date, because we have 0:14:10.520 --> 0:14:13.200 for ten years and going out. Let's go grab a drink, 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:16.079 go have lunch, go do We have been doing that 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:20.920 from the jump, So at one point we didn't go 0:14:21.120 --> 0:14:24.000 out to eat and say, hey we're dating now, this 0:14:24.080 --> 0:14:26.640 is our first date. No, we just kept it flowing 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.680 and it was just such an organic thing. Yes, we 0:14:28.760 --> 0:14:31.320 are a couple who has zero clue and cannot name 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:35.400 a single restaurant, day or time that we had a first. 0:14:35.240 --> 0:14:38.520 Dictum, we don't even have an anniversary. 0:14:38.680 --> 0:14:40.000 I know, say it ain't it. 0:14:40.400 --> 0:14:40.720 Wow. 0:14:40.840 --> 0:14:43.400 We've talked about it, like what day should we celebrate us? 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:48.120 I don't know. We could just pick one, pick them all, all. 0:14:48.080 --> 0:14:51.960 Right, TJ. This is the question number ten. If you 0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.400 could both live anywhere in the world, where would it 0:14:54.440 --> 0:14:54.880 be and why. 0:14:58.680 --> 0:15:01.200 There's a practical answer to this, and there is a 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:05.440 different ant. The practical answer is New York because Sabine 0:15:05.520 --> 0:15:08.320 is here. I have to stay here. She's in school here, 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:11.400 my twelve year old daughter. So that is the practical answer. 0:15:11.440 --> 0:15:15.840 Now you throw that out. I think possibly saw you 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:21.040 lead in Mexico because of the place we have robots, 0:15:21.040 --> 0:15:22.640 certainly spent a lot of time. But we were down 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:27.000 in that area together and it's just a wonderful, sleepy, 0:15:27.200 --> 0:15:31.480 cool little beach town that we could possibly be looking 0:15:31.520 --> 0:15:32.920 at property as we speak. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:37.280 I actually last night said this to TJ. Why do 0:15:37.400 --> 0:15:39.800 we not as soon as we can figure out how 0:15:39.800 --> 0:15:44.600 to buy something in Mexico and just live there. I 0:15:44.680 --> 0:15:46.840 literally said that last night. So you nailed it. 0:15:47.640 --> 0:15:51.320 Wow, that was how we only got one wrong? I 0:15:51.360 --> 0:15:54.040 say we, I mean you, we only got one wrong 0:15:54.080 --> 0:15:55.120 out of the tent so far. 0:15:55.240 --> 0:15:58.280 Your first job, right, Yeah, but that was just. 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:00.920 A brain fart on your bar. You knew the story, 0:16:00.960 --> 0:16:02.520 but coming Okay, we're doing all and it. 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:04.800 Did work at Red Lobster. It just wasn't your first job. 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:08.040 Oh man, those shirts with the I don't know what 0:16:08.040 --> 0:16:10.320 they wear now, but it was the fish all over 0:16:10.360 --> 0:16:12.960 the shirts. It was a button up short sleeve and 0:16:13.040 --> 0:16:17.000 khaki shorts. Attractive, I swear, Oh no, no, I had. 0:16:17.160 --> 0:16:19.080 There was an apron thing that went around here too. 0:16:19.800 --> 0:16:21.440 Somehow you probably made it look cool. 0:16:21.520 --> 0:16:24.120 I did well annoying you staying with us here, folks, 0:16:24.120 --> 0:16:25.880 we got ten more questions to go. 0:16:35.120 --> 0:16:39.280 Welcome back everyone. We are halfway through our immigration test 0:16:39.320 --> 0:16:43.600 to see if our relationship in fact is real, is legit, 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:46.240 and we were curious not to see just how well 0:16:46.280 --> 0:16:48.480 we knew each other if it would pass the test. 0:16:48.760 --> 0:16:51.120 Hopefully some of you are playing along with us with 0:16:51.160 --> 0:16:54.840 your significant partner. If anything, it sparks fun conversations about 0:16:54.880 --> 0:16:57.240 getting to know each other even better and perhaps realizing 0:16:57.280 --> 0:17:00.520 there are maybe some room, there is some room for improvement. 0:17:00.520 --> 0:17:02.960 We'll find out we've done so well. I missed the 0:17:03.000 --> 0:17:06.000 first job. Let's see how we do in these last 0:17:06.119 --> 0:17:07.680 ten questions. Andy take it away. 0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:13.080 Okay, Amy, what is TJ's favorite hobby. 0:17:13.320 --> 0:17:17.679 TJ's favorite hobby is riding his motorcycle or taking care 0:17:17.720 --> 0:17:21.959 of his motorcycle. Just something about tinkering with his motorcycle. 0:17:21.960 --> 0:17:23.280 But it involves his motorcycle. 0:17:23.400 --> 0:17:25.960 Wow, that's that's fair. The other one I was going 0:17:26.000 --> 0:17:27.000 to say was running. 0:17:27.119 --> 0:17:30.000 Yes, that's an obvious one, and I was weighing that 0:17:30.080 --> 0:17:32.760 as well, But I feel like that's become more of 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:34.520 like it's less of a hobby. 0:17:34.680 --> 0:17:35.359 I love that bike. 0:17:35.560 --> 0:17:36.640 The bike is a hobby. 0:17:36.880 --> 0:17:37.639 I love that bike. 0:17:38.400 --> 0:17:41.200 TJ with Amy's favorite hobby, hobby. 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:48.199 Hobby she likes. She likes hiking. I don't know if 0:17:48.200 --> 0:17:53.680 that's an activity or that's a hobby. I don't know, Yeah, 0:17:53.440 --> 0:17:55.840 a hobby. It's different running, Like I said, that's not 0:17:55.920 --> 0:17:59.080 a hobby. Shopping isn't a hobby. 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:03.480 Wow. Right, So would you like me to tell you 0:18:03.480 --> 0:18:05.960 what I would say my hobbies are but your hobbies are? 0:18:06.400 --> 0:18:08.119 I have two that I haven't been able to do 0:18:08.200 --> 0:18:11.480 around you very often because of the circumstances. But I 0:18:11.480 --> 0:18:16.800 would say two of them are interior decorating and gardening. Okay, yeah, 0:18:16.840 --> 0:18:20.000 I love those are my two like favorite things to 0:18:20.040 --> 0:18:22.680 do that I haven't been able to do a lot 0:18:22.680 --> 0:18:25.520 of But yes, so you haven't. In fairness to you, 0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:26.240 you haven't seen me. 0:18:26.720 --> 0:18:29.679 I'm trying to think of it. There was something else 0:18:31.440 --> 0:18:34.439 you're saying, something else makes you happy. I can't remember 0:18:34.440 --> 0:18:36.800 what it was. But yes, that's fair. But yes, you 0:18:36.800 --> 0:18:39.439 don't do un Let's see you get excited. Yes, to 0:18:39.480 --> 0:18:40.560 do anything to paint a wall? 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:44.960 Yes, I love I love doing anything for like interior design. Yes, 0:18:45.040 --> 0:18:45.679 it's my favorite. 0:18:46.480 --> 0:18:48.120 So that qualifies is a myss for me? Then? 0:18:49.000 --> 0:18:51.200 Yeah, now we're even awesome. 0:18:51.440 --> 0:18:56.280 It's not a competition, baby, TJ. Do you have any 0:18:56.359 --> 0:18:58.560 shared future goals or dreams. 0:18:58.760 --> 0:19:02.800 Do the two of us? Yes? Uh? Shared future goals 0:19:02.880 --> 0:19:07.240 or dreams? Yes we do. Uh, future goals running this 0:19:07.359 --> 0:19:13.280 year's New York City Marathon, getting a property in Mexico. 0:19:16.680 --> 0:19:18.480 We'll skip all the wedding stuff. 0:19:21.200 --> 0:19:23.320 I'm the immigration officer, so I would actually like to 0:19:23.600 --> 0:19:24.760 after the K one process. 0:19:24.800 --> 0:19:27.920 You know, I just want to talk to my mom 0:19:27.920 --> 0:19:32.800