1 00:00:01,040 --> 00:00:06,360 Speaker 1: Conversations on life, style, beauty and relationships. It's The Velvet's 2 00:00:06,440 --> 00:00:10,119 Speaker 1: Edge podcast with Kelly Henderson Marv. We are back for 3 00:00:10,160 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 1: the Libra New Moon. It's coming up on the sixth, 4 00:00:13,960 --> 00:00:16,239 Speaker 1: which is actually the day this podcast will come out. 5 00:00:16,320 --> 00:00:18,400 Speaker 1: So I wanted to talk to you about what is 6 00:00:18,440 --> 00:00:20,880 Speaker 1: going on. We were just talking and there is so 7 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:26,079 Speaker 1: much coming out about relationships with this new moon and 8 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,200 Speaker 1: kind of the purpose that they are serving in all 9 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:30,920 Speaker 1: of our lives. So let's just dive in talk to 10 00:00:31,000 --> 00:00:32,240 Speaker 1: us a little bit about what's going on with the 11 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,920 Speaker 1: Liebra new Moon. Well, you know is we talked about 12 00:00:35,640 --> 00:00:40,239 Speaker 1: last month at Virgo we were leaving um Leo of 13 00:00:40,320 --> 00:00:45,080 Speaker 1: the individual individual and then we were moving out into 14 00:00:45,120 --> 00:00:51,319 Speaker 1: the work world where we become the Virgo interacting with 15 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:55,560 Speaker 1: people on an unequal basis of the words people above us, 16 00:00:55,680 --> 00:01:00,760 Speaker 1: people below us, and building those relationships. Well, we have 17 00:01:00,880 --> 00:01:08,200 Speaker 1: now built the uh uh, the personality structure of a 18 00:01:08,280 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 1: human being on a human level. Now we move into 19 00:01:13,080 --> 00:01:17,360 Speaker 1: Libra and for the next six sides, we're going to 20 00:01:17,480 --> 00:01:25,040 Speaker 1: build the social person individuality. Okay, explain that. What do 21 00:01:25,040 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: you mean social? Well, in other words, we're going to 22 00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:34,720 Speaker 1: start dealing socially, uh much much with all the um 23 00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:41,080 Speaker 1: um the necessities of having relationships on a partnership basis, 24 00:01:41,440 --> 00:01:45,400 Speaker 1: which that means a commitment and contracts. When you you know, 25 00:01:45,440 --> 00:01:48,520 Speaker 1: it's a lot of difference between having a friend and 26 00:01:48,560 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 1: then somebody that you work with that you've got a 27 00:01:50,720 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 1: contract with because now it's a commitment. So we're working today. 28 00:01:56,200 --> 00:02:03,040 Speaker 1: Libra represents those committed relationships, whether it be a marriage, 29 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:08,919 Speaker 1: whether it be a business partner. Um Libra represents the law. 30 00:02:09,800 --> 00:02:15,840 Speaker 1: So um libra is where we're now turning into the 31 00:02:15,880 --> 00:02:23,640 Speaker 1: evolutionary process to find balance and harmony within ourselves and 32 00:02:23,760 --> 00:02:30,399 Speaker 1: within our interactions with other people relationships. And so what 33 00:02:30,400 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 1: we're what we're ultimately doing is it's uh, we are 34 00:02:35,880 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: bringing in the um the cooperation between the between other 35 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:48,880 Speaker 1: people and of course within ourselves. We mean, we can't 36 00:02:48,960 --> 00:02:53,240 Speaker 1: hardly be an island and no know ourselves. We have 37 00:02:53,320 --> 00:02:57,639 Speaker 1: to have some sort of reflection back to us to 38 00:02:57,880 --> 00:03:01,280 Speaker 1: understand who we are. Yeah, you and I a couple 39 00:03:01,280 --> 00:03:05,560 Speaker 1: of weeks ago brought up the mirroring piece of relationships, 40 00:03:05,560 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: and I've had a hard time fully understanding that. Like 41 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:10,639 Speaker 1: I think I said this on the last podcast when 42 00:03:10,639 --> 00:03:15,760 Speaker 1: we talked about it, But when I associated relationships with mirroring, 43 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:18,680 Speaker 1: I thought, well, I'm not anything like the people that 44 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,919 Speaker 1: I'm bringing in, or there'd be qualities in them that 45 00:03:20,960 --> 00:03:23,360 Speaker 1: I'll be like, Oh, I'm not like that. You know. 46 00:03:23,600 --> 00:03:27,160 Speaker 1: It's it was kind of confusing to me. But I 47 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: had this epiphany, um a couple of weeks ago or 48 00:03:30,080 --> 00:03:31,920 Speaker 1: something about a relationship that I was in that I 49 00:03:31,960 --> 00:03:34,680 Speaker 1: was not feeling valued, and you and I were having 50 00:03:34,720 --> 00:03:38,160 Speaker 1: a conversation and you said that it wasn't it wasn't 51 00:03:38,200 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 1: that that person even needed to value me. But I 52 00:03:40,440 --> 00:03:44,800 Speaker 1: had drawn them in to show myself how to value 53 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:47,680 Speaker 1: myself in the ways that I was so seeking from them. 54 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:50,680 Speaker 1: And so that is what mirroring means, or that is 55 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:53,280 Speaker 1: what we continue to do until we learned lessons of 56 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,760 Speaker 1: how to give ourselves the kind of validation or things 57 00:03:56,760 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: that we need to grow in our human form. Kelly, 58 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 1: I couldn't have said that, thanks, Oh my gosh, we're 59 00:04:08,640 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 1: learning something here people. So Libra is really highlighting this, right, 60 00:04:14,640 --> 00:04:18,120 Speaker 1: What were you going to say? That's exactly right. So 61 00:04:18,720 --> 00:04:25,480 Speaker 1: in Libra, we're balancing the self, the ego personality versus 62 00:04:25,560 --> 00:04:36,520 Speaker 1: the soul and our personality versus others, Our personality versus others. Okay, 63 00:04:36,680 --> 00:04:40,960 Speaker 1: and tell me we've got to interact with people, Okay, Yeah, 64 00:04:41,160 --> 00:04:47,040 Speaker 1: But in that interaction, Libra is constantly it's it's represented 65 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:50,960 Speaker 1: by this. It's the scales in the zodiac. It's the 66 00:04:51,040 --> 00:04:57,880 Speaker 1: scales in the heavens. In other words, the um the 67 00:04:58,000 --> 00:05:01,960 Speaker 1: side of the scales is between burbos on one side, 68 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:06,440 Speaker 1: scorpios on the other side. So she's always measuring and 69 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:15,440 Speaker 1: balancing how we are um with others and so um 70 00:05:15,480 --> 00:05:22,240 Speaker 1: it's talks about spiritually when uh, she measures when when 71 00:05:22,279 --> 00:05:24,760 Speaker 1: you put a feather on one end of the scale 72 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:28,400 Speaker 1: and the personality on the other end of the scale. 73 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:34,320 Speaker 1: Until it's balanced, we must go through the process of 74 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: finding balance and harmony and joy in our life. And 75 00:05:39,760 --> 00:05:45,320 Speaker 1: so uh, we're always libres are always measuring the quality, 76 00:05:45,440 --> 00:05:51,640 Speaker 1: the fairness and and the justness of our ongoing relationships, 77 00:05:52,640 --> 00:05:56,840 Speaker 1: the justice of our ongoing relationships, meaning like if it's 78 00:05:56,880 --> 00:06:00,719 Speaker 1: like you're in a one sided relationship or that kind 79 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:04,160 Speaker 1: of thing, or if you're a codependent and you're depending 80 00:06:04,200 --> 00:06:09,159 Speaker 1: on that relationship to provide something that you're missing. I 81 00:06:09,160 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: don't know anything about that, And so libras. Uh, they're 82 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,440 Speaker 1: one of their biggest issues is peace at any price. 83 00:06:22,000 --> 00:06:28,400 Speaker 1: And you'll you um. For libras, the peace at any 84 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:32,080 Speaker 1: price means that you will do They will do almost 85 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:38,120 Speaker 1: anything to keep things in harmony and peaceful, which includes 86 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:45,080 Speaker 1: abandoning their own individuality, their own spiritual consciousness. And that's 87 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 1: a big problem for libras. And so when we look 88 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:53,840 Speaker 1: at when we look at libras, sometimes at price is 89 00:06:53,880 --> 00:06:57,360 Speaker 1: too high trying to be all things to all people, 90 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 1: which libre risk can obviously do. They have a very 91 00:07:03,400 --> 00:07:09,560 Speaker 1: legal executive mind. Uh. Their diplomacy, their diplomats far excellence. 92 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: There's a sweetness to them. But beneath that sweetness and 93 00:07:14,160 --> 00:07:20,400 Speaker 1: that velvet glove is an iron fist because Libra is 94 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: very dominating and self willed underneath. And so when we 95 00:07:27,960 --> 00:07:34,120 Speaker 1: think of Libra rules the kidneys, this is the purification 96 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 1: of the body. Well, in the psychology, the psychological body 97 00:07:41,080 --> 00:07:47,560 Speaker 1: relationships are the purifiers of the consciousness. I loved that 98 00:07:47,640 --> 00:07:49,680 Speaker 1: line when I was reading this outline when you sent 99 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 1: it to me, I think that is so brilliant. So 100 00:07:52,920 --> 00:07:57,320 Speaker 1: this is why we need people to learn who we are, 101 00:07:57,960 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 1: because when we interact and inter face with others. No 102 00:08:02,280 --> 00:08:07,480 Speaker 1: relationship is not playing a role in your life. Every 103 00:08:07,520 --> 00:08:12,720 Speaker 1: relationship you have is showing you, teaching you something. You know. 104 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:18,760 Speaker 1: We I always talk about, especially in the hypotherapy, Um, 105 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: if you recognize something in somebody, well it's in you. 106 00:08:24,040 --> 00:08:27,280 Speaker 1: You spot it, you got it, you spot it, you 107 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:34,320 Speaker 1: own it. Yeah, uh that's a That's how libra helps 108 00:08:34,480 --> 00:08:42,520 Speaker 1: purify our own selves, is purifying that, um, the relationships 109 00:08:42,559 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 1: so that we can ultimately get to our higher consciousness. Yeah. 110 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,320 Speaker 1: It hit me so strongly because I can be in 111 00:08:49,360 --> 00:08:52,200 Speaker 1: my life and specifically if I'm single, like not in 112 00:08:52,200 --> 00:08:55,679 Speaker 1: a romantic relationship and I'm just like feeling like I'm 113 00:08:55,760 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: killing it, you know, I'm like, oh yeah, just in 114 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:02,040 Speaker 1: the flow. I abot this. I've grown so much over 115 00:09:02,080 --> 00:09:04,040 Speaker 1: the past couple of years, you know, just got it 116 00:09:04,040 --> 00:09:06,480 Speaker 1: all figured out kind of mentality, and then I can 117 00:09:06,520 --> 00:09:09,400 Speaker 1: get into a dating relationship or this can happen in 118 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: other types of relationships like work relationships, kind of the 119 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:17,760 Speaker 1: contractual situations that you're talking about. But um, it's when 120 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:20,240 Speaker 1: I bump up against myself the most and I become 121 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:23,520 Speaker 1: aware of things within myself that I did not even 122 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: know existed because they're just not in the flow of 123 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 1: my natural consciousness. And so that is what relationships do. 124 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,400 Speaker 1: They make us see ourselves and we bump up against 125 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:37,080 Speaker 1: ourselves to be able to move to the next realm. 126 00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,560 Speaker 1: But you can't until you know, Until you have an awareness, 127 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:43,560 Speaker 1: you're not going to grow well. And the problem with 128 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,400 Speaker 1: that is as you want to I mean, when you're 129 00:09:46,440 --> 00:09:48,679 Speaker 1: in pain, you want to you want to push the 130 00:09:48,760 --> 00:09:51,720 Speaker 1: pain out on somebody else. You want to think of 131 00:09:51,800 --> 00:09:56,880 Speaker 1: yourself causing your pain. That actually pisces me off every 132 00:09:56,920 --> 00:10:03,679 Speaker 1: time I'm not doing this, you're doing the well, I understand, 133 00:10:03,720 --> 00:10:08,880 Speaker 1: and that's why it's so difficult. So venus venus um 134 00:10:09,480 --> 00:10:14,480 Speaker 1: rules uh the side of Taurus as well as Libra. 135 00:10:15,080 --> 00:10:18,080 Speaker 1: So when taurs, we learned that this is where we 136 00:10:18,160 --> 00:10:25,560 Speaker 1: had self reliance, survival, self love, the values of ourselves um, 137 00:10:25,600 --> 00:10:29,240 Speaker 1: the values that we can bring to others uh, and 138 00:10:29,400 --> 00:10:33,800 Speaker 1: the instinct to procreate. Now on the Libra side, this 139 00:10:33,880 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 1: is how to relate to self and others. You compare 140 00:10:38,240 --> 00:10:42,920 Speaker 1: your values to another, your personal and your social values 141 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:51,080 Speaker 1: while giving to another what they need. In other words, 142 00:10:51,120 --> 00:10:55,560 Speaker 1: we interact with I have this, I'm going to bring 143 00:10:55,640 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 1: this to the table You're gonna bring your part to 144 00:10:58,520 --> 00:11:02,200 Speaker 1: the table, and then and the two the twain do meet. 145 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:08,880 Speaker 1: So we come together with with different values in different assets. 146 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:13,720 Speaker 1: Think of what we have to offer in a relationship. 147 00:11:14,120 --> 00:11:16,960 Speaker 1: So we bring what we have to offer, they bring 148 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:20,319 Speaker 1: what they have to offer. And this makes a relationship 149 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:26,199 Speaker 1: of two people coming together for values or our personality 150 00:11:26,320 --> 00:11:33,439 Speaker 1: ego has to submit to the soul, to our intuition, 151 00:11:33,600 --> 00:11:39,800 Speaker 1: to our feelings versus our head. See you get you know, 152 00:11:40,080 --> 00:11:42,560 Speaker 1: liber is trying to balance your head and your heart. 153 00:11:44,040 --> 00:11:49,160 Speaker 1: You know, some of the most um uh difficult people 154 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 1: that I work with, um are the people that are 155 00:11:53,280 --> 00:11:58,440 Speaker 1: all in their head. Me. Well, no, you're not all 156 00:11:58,520 --> 00:12:01,120 Speaker 1: in your head, Kelly, You're very much in your heart. 157 00:12:02,160 --> 00:12:05,560 Speaker 1: Um But I mean people that just try to figure 158 00:12:05,640 --> 00:12:10,520 Speaker 1: things out. They don't allow feelings to come in, so 159 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:15,280 Speaker 1: they reject the feelings. Well can you, because I actually 160 00:12:15,360 --> 00:12:17,920 Speaker 1: I think you're that's right. I can't control my feelings. 161 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:21,040 Speaker 1: They're just going to come out anyway. But when I 162 00:12:21,080 --> 00:12:23,320 Speaker 1: get into a bad place in my life, it is 163 00:12:23,400 --> 00:12:27,640 Speaker 1: because I'm overthinking and I'm in my mind. So can 164 00:12:27,679 --> 00:12:32,319 Speaker 1: you kind of evascalate between the two. Well, no, you're 165 00:12:32,360 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: not supposed to vacalate, you're supposed to use, they're supposed 166 00:12:36,360 --> 00:12:39,640 Speaker 1: to line up. Yeah. Balance. So, in other words, if 167 00:12:39,720 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 1: whatever you think thinking is a conditioning patterning of the 168 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:49,080 Speaker 1: ego personality, this comes from past lives as well as 169 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: what we've been conditioned in this life by the people 170 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: since we've since birth. And so when we're talking about 171 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:02,160 Speaker 1: the Angel of order and harmony, well we're talking about 172 00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:04,760 Speaker 1: is the perfect balance between the head and the heart, 173 00:13:05,480 --> 00:13:09,720 Speaker 1: the will and love, work and play still this inaction, 174 00:13:09,960 --> 00:13:15,560 Speaker 1: listening and speaking so forth. So we're trying to find 175 00:13:15,800 --> 00:13:22,400 Speaker 1: balance within ourselves and we're using the relationships to do that. 176 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:27,520 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. It's so interesting because I've done so much 177 00:13:27,600 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 1: therapy work where they say feelings aren't facts, like to 178 00:13:31,440 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: not react to your feelings all the time, because you know, 179 00:13:33,920 --> 00:13:36,000 Speaker 1: feelings can kind of come and go and like wash 180 00:13:36,120 --> 00:13:38,560 Speaker 1: over us. And then in my work with you, you've 181 00:13:38,559 --> 00:13:41,560 Speaker 1: tried to get me to focus more on trusting my 182 00:13:41,640 --> 00:13:44,800 Speaker 1: feelings and not necessarily having to have the logical answer 183 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,240 Speaker 1: or reason to have it figured out, but to know 184 00:13:47,440 --> 00:13:50,080 Speaker 1: that like my body knows, I can trust my gut, 185 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,840 Speaker 1: I can trust my intuition. Um. So it's an unlearning 186 00:13:53,960 --> 00:13:57,920 Speaker 1: for me in a way. Well, yeah, because it's a 187 00:13:58,000 --> 00:14:01,480 Speaker 1: deconditioning and this and this is the point. This is 188 00:14:01,480 --> 00:14:05,880 Speaker 1: how you, This is how um you have to work 189 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,720 Speaker 1: with between the head and the heart. You see, the 190 00:14:08,760 --> 00:14:13,959 Speaker 1: heart is feelings and feelings come from your physical senses, 191 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:22,080 Speaker 1: their moment to moment. Feelings are always present. Okay, they 192 00:14:22,120 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: are absolutely true. Because if something doesn't make you feel good, 193 00:14:27,320 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: what do you emit? What what's your immediate response? Something 194 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:35,320 Speaker 1: is a threat, something don't feel right. This don't make 195 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:39,360 Speaker 1: me feel good, This don't make me feel you know, comfortable. 196 00:14:40,040 --> 00:14:48,920 Speaker 1: So feelings are true. Emotions are true, and emotions and 197 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:55,000 Speaker 1: feelings are two different things. Emotions always come from the 198 00:14:55,080 --> 00:15:02,120 Speaker 1: external stimuli of out of the past that now become 199 00:15:02,760 --> 00:15:08,320 Speaker 1: a stimulus that you feel some sort of threat, so 200 00:15:08,400 --> 00:15:13,280 Speaker 1: it becomes emotional. So it's a feeling that's been energized 201 00:15:14,520 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 1: because it reminds you of something out of the past 202 00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:21,800 Speaker 1: that you were very uncomfortable. So what you're saying, emotions 203 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 1: are true, absolutely Okay, but it's not necessarily because do 204 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 1: you mean they're right? That's what I was about to say. Yeah, 205 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 1: but they are true, and you're you're reacting honest right, 206 00:15:35,560 --> 00:15:39,440 Speaker 1: Like you're reacting to something that triggered something from the past, 207 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:42,680 Speaker 1: probably a fear, or maybe it was a trauma, betrayal, 208 00:15:42,720 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: anything like that. It's it's not necessarily happening exactly again, 209 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: because your emotion is activated, but it's triggering something within 210 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:56,120 Speaker 1: you that feels the same as that scenario did, and 211 00:15:56,200 --> 00:16:01,480 Speaker 1: the body responds to it, and it's done so quickly. 212 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:05,680 Speaker 1: It's done out of the subconscious, which it takes two 213 00:16:05,720 --> 00:16:11,120 Speaker 1: milliseconds to respond. So in other words, so you have 214 00:16:11,200 --> 00:16:14,800 Speaker 1: to look at your emotions and you say, well, wait 215 00:16:14,800 --> 00:16:18,440 Speaker 1: a minute, this really isn't a threat at this moment. 216 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:24,280 Speaker 1: And that's how the to the mind and the heart 217 00:16:24,760 --> 00:16:29,000 Speaker 1: or feelings work, So the mind can come up with anything. 218 00:16:29,440 --> 00:16:34,480 Speaker 1: All fear is made up in the mind. Our fear, guilty, doubt, shame, 219 00:16:34,520 --> 00:16:39,880 Speaker 1: and judgment is a mental process. And so when a 220 00:16:40,000 --> 00:16:43,320 Speaker 1: fear comes up, you have to run it down or 221 00:16:43,400 --> 00:16:46,040 Speaker 1: you have to look around and say is this a threat? 222 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:51,120 Speaker 1: And if there is no threat, then you reject the thought. 223 00:16:51,640 --> 00:16:54,120 Speaker 1: Then you move to the art this makes me feel 224 00:16:54,160 --> 00:16:57,680 Speaker 1: good or that feels right. So, in other words, the 225 00:16:57,720 --> 00:17:02,720 Speaker 1: correct communication within a then a person is if they 226 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,159 Speaker 1: come up with the thought, they run it down to 227 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:09,400 Speaker 1: the gut. If the gut feels okay with it, well, 228 00:17:09,400 --> 00:17:15,040 Speaker 1: then it's acceptable. If the gut doesn't feel okay with it, well, 229 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:19,760 Speaker 1: then obviously it needs to be rejected because that's a 230 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:25,200 Speaker 1: conditioning pattern. That's the ego personality getting way too involved 231 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:31,440 Speaker 1: in your life. So you when you move to feelings, feelings, 232 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 1: the intuition comes to feeling doesn't come through then doesn't 233 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 1: come through the conditioned rational mind. And so this is 234 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:45,720 Speaker 1: why the it takes so much energy to try to 235 00:17:45,800 --> 00:17:51,280 Speaker 1: teach the process of two minds, the critical, analytical, evaluating, 236 00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 1: judgmental mind versus feelings which are really benign. I mean, 237 00:17:58,680 --> 00:18:01,120 Speaker 1: what did La Zoo mean when he said let reality 238 00:18:01,200 --> 00:18:05,000 Speaker 1: be reality? I don't know. Well he meant just it 239 00:18:05,080 --> 00:18:08,560 Speaker 1: is what it is. That doesn't mean you necessarily have 240 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,800 Speaker 1: to respond to it, but if you, I mean, you 241 00:18:11,840 --> 00:18:14,080 Speaker 1: can set it a stoplight in the car waiting for 242 00:18:14,160 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 1: a red light or a green light. You can be 243 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:21,719 Speaker 1: having an emotional feeling over something. You can have a 244 00:18:21,720 --> 00:18:26,320 Speaker 1: phobia created in that moment and you have to look 245 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:29,040 Speaker 1: around you and say, well, what is that coming up for? 246 00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:34,800 Speaker 1: There's no freck and so you have to. You have 247 00:18:34,880 --> 00:18:39,600 Speaker 1: to override that, and that's a big piece of what 248 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:47,119 Speaker 1: Libra does. It learns how to override the conscious, analytical, opinionated, perspective, 249 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:53,800 Speaker 1: judgmental mind. So we're just the scale you see in verbo. 250 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:59,359 Speaker 1: Didn't we learn how to utilize that critical analysis. Yes, 251 00:19:00,119 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 1: so we learned how to evaluate our experiences in virgo. 252 00:19:06,040 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 1: And now we've got to purify that critical analysis by 253 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:18,320 Speaker 1: creating order and harmony, and of course that has to 254 00:19:18,400 --> 00:19:25,000 Speaker 1: come through joy, and joy only comes from the soul, 255 00:19:25,480 --> 00:19:30,320 Speaker 1: the master self. So we are to learn how to 256 00:19:30,560 --> 00:19:34,359 Speaker 1: fit in this world like a hand in a glove. 257 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:39,200 Speaker 1: And of course, when you understand the Angel of abundance, 258 00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:46,600 Speaker 1: we attract beauty, harmony, material prosperity, but we also attract 259 00:19:46,800 --> 00:19:53,959 Speaker 1: people and things that we want and desire. And of 260 00:19:54,000 --> 00:20:00,480 Speaker 1: course the Angel of abundance is diffused by ego because 261 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:08,160 Speaker 1: ego brings in limitations and security, conflicts, problems. So this 262 00:20:08,280 --> 00:20:13,360 Speaker 1: is why it's helping those to purify our physical reactions 263 00:20:13,720 --> 00:20:25,960 Speaker 1: to living in the physical world. Wait, it's here to 264 00:20:26,080 --> 00:20:30,359 Speaker 1: purify our physical reactions to living in the physical world. 265 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:34,480 Speaker 1: So by getting more in touch with the feelings, getting 266 00:20:34,520 --> 00:20:37,200 Speaker 1: out of the ego out of the mind, those kind 267 00:20:37,200 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 1: of things. Well, when you're getting in touch with feelings, 268 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: I'm hoping you're meaning by getting in touch with the 269 00:20:42,560 --> 00:20:49,879 Speaker 1: heart and you're intuitive soul, the soul is always trying 270 00:20:49,920 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 1: to guide you and it's overridden by the ego personality 271 00:20:57,359 --> 00:21:03,199 Speaker 1: because the soul uh uh sends very low wattage. And 272 00:21:03,280 --> 00:21:07,800 Speaker 1: when you run a big lot of emotions, well it's 273 00:21:08,320 --> 00:21:13,399 Speaker 1: the information is not coming through. I mean, think about it. 274 00:21:13,400 --> 00:21:18,400 Speaker 1: When you get really emotional, how logical you are rational? 275 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 1: Completely illogical exactly. Okay, So we attract relationships as the 276 00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:34,320 Speaker 1: mirror of who we are internally to correct the belief 277 00:21:34,680 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 1: of lack and this harmony in ourselves. That is a 278 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:45,720 Speaker 1: good definition right there. The relationship that we have with 279 00:21:45,800 --> 00:21:51,760 Speaker 1: ourselves will mirror the relationships we have with others. This 280 00:21:51,840 --> 00:21:54,600 Speaker 1: is why it's like the most cliche thing that people 281 00:21:54,640 --> 00:21:57,800 Speaker 1: say about romantic relationships, right but that you can't love 282 00:21:57,840 --> 00:22:01,240 Speaker 1: another person until you love yourself. Well, I mean you can, 283 00:22:01,440 --> 00:22:05,000 Speaker 1: and I think you can get in relationships. But what 284 00:22:05,080 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: this says to me is kind of the same thing. 285 00:22:08,080 --> 00:22:11,480 Speaker 1: I think that's trying to say that we're only going 286 00:22:11,520 --> 00:22:15,719 Speaker 1: to draw in what's actually happening within us eternally internally. 287 00:22:15,800 --> 00:22:18,919 Speaker 1: So if you have a bad relationship with yourself, you 288 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,320 Speaker 1: don't have self love, you're not aware of the things 289 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:25,960 Speaker 1: that you're even y're just you're not aware of yourself 290 00:22:26,000 --> 00:22:27,960 Speaker 1: at all, then you are going to draw in the 291 00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:31,919 Speaker 1: person to bring all of that out well exactly, I 292 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:35,280 Speaker 1: mean you're going to draw in what you need so 293 00:22:35,520 --> 00:22:40,080 Speaker 1: that it can hopefully prove to you that you're not 294 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:43,760 Speaker 1: guilty of anything, that you don't have fears that you 295 00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:47,439 Speaker 1: I see, these were on the lower rung of the 296 00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:56,119 Speaker 1: UH map of consciousness. Uh, you know, guilt, doubt, shame, fear, 297 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:04,119 Speaker 1: all those things, anxieties, all those things are very low 298 00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:12,080 Speaker 1: um vibration that we operate in. And when we're in 299 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:16,080 Speaker 1: that lower vibration, I mean, you can't get much lower 300 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:20,280 Speaker 1: than shame. So how are you what are you going 301 00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:23,600 Speaker 1: to track in when you're when you have shame, when 302 00:23:23,640 --> 00:23:27,880 Speaker 1: you're humiliated, when you when you blame yourself for causing 303 00:23:28,480 --> 00:23:30,960 Speaker 1: all the bad things in your life, what kind of 304 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:35,480 Speaker 1: relationship you're going to trap the Probably someone operating in 305 00:23:35,520 --> 00:23:39,320 Speaker 1: that same vibration, Probably somebody that's going to utilize you 306 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:49,400 Speaker 1: as a doorback. Also sounds familiar, okay, And so when 307 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:54,800 Speaker 1: we look at the labor archetype UM, we're looking at 308 00:23:55,680 --> 00:24:04,600 Speaker 1: understanding that UM. When initiate all kinds of relationships, this 309 00:24:04,640 --> 00:24:12,280 Speaker 1: is a diversity of relationships. These are intimate relationships, partner relationships, friends, 310 00:24:12,800 --> 00:24:18,520 Speaker 1: all relationships are teaching us something and it requires an 311 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:26,280 Speaker 1: understanding of your beliefs, values and needs, and what is 312 00:24:26,359 --> 00:24:31,560 Speaker 1: their beliefs, values and needs. You know, typically we'll learn 313 00:24:31,960 --> 00:24:37,600 Speaker 1: on a friendship basis, like attracts like friends think like 314 00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 1: you do. This is true, okay, Well they wouldn't be 315 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:45,560 Speaker 1: a friend. You don't waste your time with that. Why 316 00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: would you? Why would you do that? And so Libra 317 00:24:49,640 --> 00:24:55,919 Speaker 1: is about contrasting comparison. You see, in Jim and I 318 00:24:56,080 --> 00:25:02,359 Speaker 1: we have individual thought. In Aquarius we have consciousness. We 319 00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:07,399 Speaker 1: have to understand the group. In Pisces, we have the 320 00:25:07,600 --> 00:25:14,679 Speaker 1: ideal that's the god of consciousness. This is the uh uh, 321 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:22,199 Speaker 1: the idealism which we talked about the primordial pain is 322 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:28,840 Speaker 1: leaving the womb, leaving God our maker. So we're always 323 00:25:28,920 --> 00:25:35,440 Speaker 1: trying to establish in taurists our values and what we're missing, 324 00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:42,639 Speaker 1: and then we go find a relationship to fulfill that 325 00:25:42,920 --> 00:25:47,960 Speaker 1: part of us that is missing. And you know how 326 00:25:48,040 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 1: you you know, you find relationships They look at their 327 00:25:51,720 --> 00:25:55,239 Speaker 1: partner as a god or a goddess. Oh, she's so 328 00:25:55,359 --> 00:26:00,840 Speaker 1: great on nothing, you see. So we it, we put 329 00:26:00,880 --> 00:26:08,520 Speaker 1: people up on a pedestal, and this ultimately moves into codependency. Yes, okay, 330 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:13,399 Speaker 1: And so we need to become aware of our needs 331 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:17,359 Speaker 1: and realities. And this is how we do it through libra, 332 00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:23,159 Speaker 1: through finding balance and ourselves and in our relationships. We 333 00:26:23,240 --> 00:26:27,199 Speaker 1: have to live and living and of course this means 334 00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 1: living in the rhythm of extremes versus living in balance. 335 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,840 Speaker 1: So in other words, if I have guilt and shame, 336 00:26:38,000 --> 00:26:40,919 Speaker 1: why wouldn't I attract the polar opposite of guilt and 337 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:45,560 Speaker 1: shame and egotists and narcissist What is that going to 338 00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: teach me? Well, they're going to treat you like you 339 00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:53,920 Speaker 1: treat yourself internally, that's right, And eventually you're going to 340 00:26:54,000 --> 00:26:59,639 Speaker 1: get sick and tired of being sick and tired. And 341 00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,879 Speaker 1: so we have to live in the extremes to find 342 00:27:04,960 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: balance in our life, okay. And that's what relationships are about. 343 00:27:10,920 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 1: They're showing us who we are. And sometimes it's a uh, 344 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:23,680 Speaker 1: it's not a pretty picture. So we have to learn 345 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:30,560 Speaker 1: to listen. Libra's biggest number one need is to listen. 346 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:35,560 Speaker 1: What are we listening for to listening to what other 347 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:42,800 Speaker 1: people are saying and you're listening to your own inner voice, 348 00:27:44,600 --> 00:27:52,920 Speaker 1: so you're always listening. And so uh, libra is where 349 00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:58,040 Speaker 1: we uh we find multiple personality disorders. That's the archetype 350 00:27:58,720 --> 00:28:02,920 Speaker 1: of multiple personnel of the disorders because we're not trying 351 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:08,159 Speaker 1: to live by who we are told we are or 352 00:28:08,280 --> 00:28:15,080 Speaker 1: who how should we get approval from others? So that 353 00:28:15,160 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: means we abandon our own self. So when we've abandoning ourselves, 354 00:28:31,480 --> 00:28:35,960 Speaker 1: we're we're we are abandoning our own true, authentic self 355 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:45,160 Speaker 1: and we are trying to um get balanced and another 356 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:53,520 Speaker 1: person's reality, because everybody is living their own reality. So 357 00:28:54,280 --> 00:28:57,760 Speaker 1: if you beat a hundred people, that's a hundred different realities. 358 00:29:00,120 --> 00:29:06,080 Speaker 1: So there. Uh, if you live trying to please others, 359 00:29:07,120 --> 00:29:11,920 Speaker 1: not being authentic peace at any price, well then you're 360 00:29:11,960 --> 00:29:18,680 Speaker 1: abandoning you. And then so what you're really doing is 361 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:23,720 Speaker 1: now you're really you are holding on to your inhibitions 362 00:29:23,840 --> 00:29:30,240 Speaker 1: or doubts, your fears, guilt, shame, judgments, and you have 363 00:29:30,360 --> 00:29:35,920 Speaker 1: to release all of those to achieve universal consciousness, which 364 00:29:35,960 --> 00:29:41,920 Speaker 1: allows healing in oneness. See this only happens on the 365 00:29:42,040 --> 00:29:49,480 Speaker 1: level of joy, and joy can only be achieved through 366 00:29:49,560 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: higher consciousness. Cannot be achieved you See, happiness can be 367 00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,240 Speaker 1: achieved from an ego personality. Oh I'm happy, happy, happy, 368 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:06,880 Speaker 1: I got my paycheck today. Um, somebody's coming to my life. 369 00:30:08,200 --> 00:30:11,719 Speaker 1: You know, any number of things can make you happy, 370 00:30:12,080 --> 00:30:17,560 Speaker 1: but true joy, it's just being here, being in consciousness, 371 00:30:19,680 --> 00:30:24,840 Speaker 1: and that has to come from the soul. So only 372 00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:31,080 Speaker 1: the soul produces joy, and it's a joy where we 373 00:30:31,200 --> 00:30:35,400 Speaker 1: look at the map of consciousness is the first level 374 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:43,760 Speaker 1: of healing. Say that again. I'm trying to process that one. 375 00:30:45,120 --> 00:30:52,840 Speaker 1: Joy is the first level of healing because we create imbalances, 376 00:30:52,960 --> 00:31:00,160 Speaker 1: we create disharmony, dis ease in our conscious mind. And 377 00:31:00,280 --> 00:31:03,960 Speaker 1: the only way to heal the conscious mind is to 378 00:31:04,080 --> 00:31:11,680 Speaker 1: heal the judgments, perceptions, opinions, and perspectives of the conscious mind. 379 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:17,160 Speaker 1: Mm hmmm, so we have to move. I mean, how 380 00:31:17,200 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: many times do you hear of people whether it's alcohols. 381 00:31:23,400 --> 00:31:25,560 Speaker 1: How about people that get on drugs and they go 382 00:31:25,640 --> 00:31:29,360 Speaker 1: to alcohol anonymous and they become very religious or very 383 00:31:29,440 --> 00:31:34,440 Speaker 1: spiritual because that's the bye product. When you put your 384 00:31:34,480 --> 00:31:40,200 Speaker 1: faith in the higher consciousness, that's where you find joy, 385 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 1: peace and harmony. That's where the body can heal itself. 386 00:31:45,800 --> 00:31:49,680 Speaker 1: When you were saying that joy is comes from our 387 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:52,120 Speaker 1: higher conscious I was a twelve step programs popped in 388 00:31:52,160 --> 00:31:53,800 Speaker 1: my mind because one of the gifts of a twelve 389 00:31:53,840 --> 00:31:57,000 Speaker 1: step program they always say, is that you will recover 390 00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:59,920 Speaker 1: the feeling of joy. Because you know, any nobody goes 391 00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,440 Speaker 1: a twelve step in a good spot in their life. 392 00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:04,800 Speaker 1: Here you go because you want to get out of 393 00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:09,320 Speaker 1: pain and um. Then you work the process of the 394 00:32:09,360 --> 00:32:12,200 Speaker 1: twelve steps, and that's one of the gifts of working 395 00:32:12,240 --> 00:32:14,719 Speaker 1: the program is you will recover the feelings of joy. 396 00:32:14,800 --> 00:32:17,840 Speaker 1: But it's because of the soul healing that comes from 397 00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:20,920 Speaker 1: getting out of your mind and operating within your addiction 398 00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:25,640 Speaker 1: and then operating from a place of trusting a higher power, 399 00:32:26,400 --> 00:32:29,160 Speaker 1: and then that does create joy. I get it. I 400 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:33,840 Speaker 1: got it. A person that's, you know, an alcoholic, people 401 00:32:33,920 --> 00:32:37,880 Speaker 1: look down on them as being, you know, kind of 402 00:32:38,000 --> 00:32:41,960 Speaker 1: low level, But the truth is because they are very 403 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:47,800 Speaker 1: very close to a spiritual level. Because what are they 404 00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:52,960 Speaker 1: drinking away? A person that's an alcoholic, what are you 405 00:32:53,040 --> 00:32:57,840 Speaker 1: drinking away. You're drinking away your pain, your fears, your 406 00:32:58,320 --> 00:33:04,840 Speaker 1: your anxieties. Because you're drinking away, you're in amissions because 407 00:33:04,840 --> 00:33:07,160 Speaker 1: that's the only way you know how to release them. 408 00:33:07,200 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 1: And the twelve step program is going to teach you 409 00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:14,640 Speaker 1: how to move into your heart energy, joy and and 410 00:33:14,800 --> 00:33:19,080 Speaker 1: know that what did Jesus say, ye are all God's 411 00:33:20,520 --> 00:33:25,120 Speaker 1: and you're going to move into that intuitive feeling of oneness. 412 00:33:25,480 --> 00:33:28,280 Speaker 1: And when you talk to them, they say, oh, I'm 413 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:30,720 Speaker 1: I've been free for three years or ten years or 414 00:33:30,760 --> 00:33:33,920 Speaker 1: twenty years. I got my twenty year chip or or whatever. 415 00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,320 Speaker 1: It's because they're moving it. They they've come into a 416 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:44,640 Speaker 1: whole new level of energy and a higher consciousness. And 417 00:33:44,800 --> 00:33:49,240 Speaker 1: so Libra is also teaching us about left brain right brain, 418 00:33:50,000 --> 00:33:56,000 Speaker 1: and it's doing that by way of um the right 419 00:33:56,040 --> 00:33:59,880 Speaker 1: brain is the creative mind. So you let's look at 420 00:33:59,880 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 1: the musician. He gets a song during the middle of 421 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:08,439 Speaker 1: the night, it plays in his head. Well, then it's 422 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,880 Speaker 1: in the right brain. It's not it's not in the 423 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:15,359 Speaker 1: physical form yet, So when he wakes up, he's got 424 00:34:15,360 --> 00:34:17,319 Speaker 1: to go play it or reach for a piece of 425 00:34:18,000 --> 00:34:23,160 Speaker 1: paper to write that, to write that music down. Now, 426 00:34:23,640 --> 00:34:29,080 Speaker 1: that's a left brain process. Now you're bringing it into form. 427 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:38,919 Speaker 1: And so that's how Libra teaches balance. So we're balancing 428 00:34:40,480 --> 00:34:48,040 Speaker 1: our intuitive and are physical realm. I mean that could 429 00:34:48,080 --> 00:34:51,120 Speaker 1: go for anything though, right, like balancing and masculine and 430 00:34:51,160 --> 00:34:58,920 Speaker 1: feminine energy balancing, okay, balancing head and heart, will and 431 00:34:58,960 --> 00:35:07,680 Speaker 1: love and are now work and play, stillness, action, impression, expression, listening, speaking, receiving, giving, radiation, 432 00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:16,680 Speaker 1: and attraction. It's totally equilibrium, total balance. So libra is 433 00:35:16,800 --> 00:35:23,120 Speaker 1: form building energy of all manifestation. Form building energy of 434 00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:28,960 Speaker 1: all manifestation. You you were given the song or you 435 00:35:29,000 --> 00:35:33,799 Speaker 1: were given the artistic ability, and then you had to 436 00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:39,399 Speaker 1: create it and form. Okay, you see. This is why 437 00:35:39,560 --> 00:35:42,839 Speaker 1: vision is so powerful because if you see it in 438 00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:47,759 Speaker 1: your mind, well then your your greater mind, which is 439 00:35:47,800 --> 00:35:52,879 Speaker 1: part of the subconscious brain, creates it because it becomes 440 00:35:53,120 --> 00:36:02,320 Speaker 1: the attraction, repulsion, adhesion, cohesion, adhesive point in your life. 441 00:36:02,880 --> 00:36:05,440 Speaker 1: Mm hmm. This is why you keep getting me or 442 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:08,839 Speaker 1: keep telling me to dream, because whatever you dream you 443 00:36:08,840 --> 00:36:14,360 Speaker 1: can attract. Whatever you can visualize, you can what the 444 00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:19,439 Speaker 1: mind can conceive, the mind can achieve. It's all done 445 00:36:19,440 --> 00:36:24,799 Speaker 1: in the mind. Yeah, all is mind that comes from 446 00:36:25,160 --> 00:36:32,600 Speaker 1: Plato Socrates. Think of that for a moment. All is mine, 447 00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:39,840 Speaker 1: all of this is it's just mental experience. But you 448 00:36:39,920 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 1: just said we're trying to live in balance with our 449 00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:52,920 Speaker 1: head in our hearts. That's right. How is it all 450 00:36:53,000 --> 00:36:58,040 Speaker 1: mental experience? Well, did he not say live in the world, 451 00:36:58,120 --> 00:37:02,680 Speaker 1: not of it. We've got a physical realm to deal with. 452 00:37:02,920 --> 00:37:07,280 Speaker 1: We enjoy the physical things this dimension has to offer. 453 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:15,640 Speaker 1: So we enjoy life, the abundance, and we can attract 454 00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:23,520 Speaker 1: all that we desire because we're creators. Ye are all gods. Yeah, 455 00:37:23,800 --> 00:37:26,359 Speaker 1: you might as well just say ye are all creators. 456 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:34,080 Speaker 1: You're a co creator of all reality. And so that's Libra. 457 00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:40,080 Speaker 1: I mean, I love this part where it says, uh, 458 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:44,960 Speaker 1: this angel is the where's is a warrior? You know? 459 00:37:45,120 --> 00:37:55,400 Speaker 1: Libra also teaches death, you know, in in the and 460 00:37:55,719 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: in Greek, this was a theme of the goddess of arts. 461 00:38:01,160 --> 00:38:05,840 Speaker 1: In in Rome, this was the Nerva, the goddess of war. 462 00:38:07,200 --> 00:38:12,960 Speaker 1: So we're going to war on duality and the first 463 00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:19,760 Speaker 1: order of the universe is destruction of disorder. That's why 464 00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:25,200 Speaker 1: he said I come not to bring peace but a sword. 465 00:38:27,920 --> 00:38:30,279 Speaker 1: But is that because I think people would hear that, 466 00:38:30,520 --> 00:38:34,919 Speaker 1: and I mean, when I initially hear that, I hear 467 00:38:34,960 --> 00:38:38,600 Speaker 1: it as um. I'm trying to veriabalize what I'm thinking 468 00:38:38,680 --> 00:38:41,960 Speaker 1: right now, Like let me let me start over the 469 00:38:42,040 --> 00:38:46,120 Speaker 1: part of us that can grow and change. Usually we 470 00:38:46,160 --> 00:38:48,160 Speaker 1: have to lose something first, right, we have to d 471 00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 1: deconstruct all of the bad things, or you know they 472 00:38:52,719 --> 00:38:54,719 Speaker 1: talk about like in demolition with the house and you 473 00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:56,840 Speaker 1: have to break down the tear down the old house 474 00:38:56,880 --> 00:38:59,400 Speaker 1: before you can rebuild a new one. So do you 475 00:38:59,440 --> 00:39:02,720 Speaker 1: feel like that is sort of maybe even what's happening 476 00:39:02,719 --> 00:39:04,799 Speaker 1: in our world right now, Like there's a lot of 477 00:39:04,840 --> 00:39:09,279 Speaker 1: things that are in disorder, and so we're kind of 478 00:39:09,320 --> 00:39:12,000 Speaker 1: losing all these old systems to build up new ones 479 00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:17,839 Speaker 1: that are more in harmony with both imbalance. Yes, it's 480 00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:23,719 Speaker 1: bringing birthing in a whole new reality. So it's we 481 00:39:23,840 --> 00:39:29,680 Speaker 1: have to destroy what is in discord. When we healed disease, 482 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:35,279 Speaker 1: what do we have to destroy the disease, the disease, 483 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:44,799 Speaker 1: the germ. Yeah, yeah, so you see there has to 484 00:39:44,840 --> 00:39:52,680 Speaker 1: be something that teaches us about the polar opposites. That's libra. 485 00:39:53,560 --> 00:39:57,120 Speaker 1: We have to have a war on disorder. We have 486 00:39:57,280 --> 00:40:02,520 Speaker 1: to be at war against the disease. We have to 487 00:40:02,560 --> 00:40:06,880 Speaker 1: find out where have I been in balance in my 488 00:40:07,000 --> 00:40:12,040 Speaker 1: life and disharmony to have attracted this disease and the 489 00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:21,160 Speaker 1: body because the body mirrors the consciousness, mirrors conscious thought, ego, personality, 490 00:40:22,960 --> 00:40:25,960 Speaker 1: and when you're out of balance, the body is going 491 00:40:26,040 --> 00:40:31,759 Speaker 1: to play it out every time. And so we have 492 00:40:31,960 --> 00:40:36,120 Speaker 1: to break down what it is that got us where 493 00:40:36,160 --> 00:40:39,239 Speaker 1: we are and then build it back up. Now, if 494 00:40:39,280 --> 00:40:43,560 Speaker 1: it was a relationship, we have to break down how 495 00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:47,280 Speaker 1: we got in the relationship, how we stayed in the relationship, 496 00:40:47,719 --> 00:40:49,839 Speaker 1: and then what we needed to do to get out 497 00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:55,040 Speaker 1: of that type of relationship and what was our participation, 498 00:40:57,280 --> 00:41:01,360 Speaker 1: how did we attract that in better, why did we 499 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:05,680 Speaker 1: attract that in? What did it teach me about me? 500 00:41:06,360 --> 00:41:11,279 Speaker 1: And when you bring it down to that level, well, 501 00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:16,280 Speaker 1: then everybody's a teacher. That makes it a lot easier 502 00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:19,319 Speaker 1: if you're going through a bad relationships situation because you 503 00:41:19,320 --> 00:41:21,680 Speaker 1: can just say what am I learning? Versus like get 504 00:41:21,760 --> 00:41:24,680 Speaker 1: stuck in the oh, why didn't this work? Or why 505 00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 1: would the blame game that we all do with relationships, right, So, 506 00:41:28,400 --> 00:41:30,280 Speaker 1: if you're like, what am I supposed to be learning? 507 00:41:30,280 --> 00:41:32,719 Speaker 1: Why did I bring that in for me? It gives 508 00:41:32,760 --> 00:41:35,120 Speaker 1: me a lot more peace when things aren't going exactly 509 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:41,279 Speaker 1: as that feel like they should exactly, because you see, 510 00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:45,799 Speaker 1: the personality in the ego is only going to cause compromise. 511 00:41:47,640 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: And when you compromise your spiritual integrity, what does that 512 00:41:52,480 --> 00:42:00,279 Speaker 1: leave you with? When you compromise your spiritual integrity? Yeah, well, 513 00:42:00,280 --> 00:42:02,600 Speaker 1: I mean it's definitely something. How many time if you 514 00:42:02,719 --> 00:42:06,439 Speaker 1: told spiritual people, hey, walk to talk or shut up? Yeah, 515 00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:14,000 Speaker 1: that's spiritual integrity. I don't care what you believe, but 516 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:18,600 Speaker 1: live it. Yeah. I don't have to believe what you believe, 517 00:42:19,440 --> 00:42:21,920 Speaker 1: but I do have to believe that you honestly are 518 00:42:22,000 --> 00:42:26,640 Speaker 1: committed to living within what you believe is the right 519 00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,479 Speaker 1: way for you. Because there is a thousand paths to God. 520 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:37,000 Speaker 1: No one way is right, nor is any one way wrong. 521 00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,239 Speaker 1: So you see how the duality keeps coming into these 522 00:42:42,320 --> 00:42:47,560 Speaker 1: con this conversation, Yes I do, okay. So Libre deals 523 00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 1: with choices. It's always choosing, weighing, always looking at the opposites, 524 00:42:54,160 --> 00:43:00,239 Speaker 1: trying to find harmony. And sometimes we and try trying 525 00:43:00,280 --> 00:43:05,239 Speaker 1: to find harmony, we have to go through the conflict 526 00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:08,520 Speaker 1: to find it. M hmm. Because the harmony is with 527 00:43:08,760 --> 00:43:12,400 Speaker 1: the conflict is within us. I always just wish that. 528 00:43:12,440 --> 00:43:14,000 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, why don't we have to go through 529 00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:17,040 Speaker 1: so much pain to get to you know, the piece 530 00:43:17,080 --> 00:43:20,000 Speaker 1: that you're talking about are the joy even But I 531 00:43:20,200 --> 00:43:24,640 Speaker 1: just don't think as humans we would learn any other 532 00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:28,280 Speaker 1: way because also your awareness wouldn't be there. You wouldn't 533 00:43:28,280 --> 00:43:33,319 Speaker 1: be looking at it right. Why would you examine and 534 00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: evaluate yourself if you were on an island, right, You 535 00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:48,719 Speaker 1: wouldn't right. So there that's the point. So this new 536 00:43:48,760 --> 00:43:56,480 Speaker 1: moon represents knowing how to unwind, compose oneself emotionally okay, 537 00:43:57,960 --> 00:44:02,960 Speaker 1: and refusing to deal with reality on any term other 538 00:44:03,120 --> 00:44:11,080 Speaker 1: than one zone. Oh I like that exactly. You you don't, 539 00:44:11,239 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 1: I mean, it's not peace at any price. Oh, he's 540 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:20,960 Speaker 1: a very peaceful person. He don't upset the apple cart. Well, 541 00:44:21,120 --> 00:44:23,919 Speaker 1: he's upset internally. I was going to say that doesn't. 542 00:44:23,920 --> 00:44:28,160 Speaker 1: I would not trust a person like that exactly. So 543 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:33,680 Speaker 1: this month is about really learning how to deal authentically 544 00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:41,080 Speaker 1: and honestly with what we feel because there should be 545 00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:44,520 Speaker 1: no judgment. How can I tell you what you don't feel? 546 00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,880 Speaker 1: If you if you if you got up from a 547 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:53,960 Speaker 1: nap and say, oh, Marvin, I'm still tired, and I said, oh, 548 00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:57,839 Speaker 1: you can't be tired. You just got up from a knap? 549 00:44:58,040 --> 00:45:01,160 Speaker 1: Can you be tired getting up from? And app I'm 550 00:45:01,200 --> 00:45:05,000 Speaker 1: always tired getting up, okay. And the same way with 551 00:45:05,200 --> 00:45:08,000 Speaker 1: being cold, and you put on a jacket and you're cold, 552 00:45:08,080 --> 00:45:12,120 Speaker 1: how can you be You see, we're always forming opinions, 553 00:45:12,160 --> 00:45:17,520 Speaker 1: perceptions and judgments, and as long as we're doing that 554 00:45:17,719 --> 00:45:21,680 Speaker 1: is just one pointing at them, one finger pointing at them, 555 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: and three fingers pointing at our selves. So we've got 556 00:45:26,320 --> 00:45:30,040 Speaker 1: to come to honest truth. What do we feel? And 557 00:45:30,080 --> 00:45:33,359 Speaker 1: if you speak of what you feel, well then that 558 00:45:33,440 --> 00:45:37,319 Speaker 1: has to be honored, wouldn't it. And if I tell 559 00:45:37,360 --> 00:45:39,560 Speaker 1: you what I think, well then you can argue with 560 00:45:39,600 --> 00:45:43,759 Speaker 1: me because this is what you think. So thinking creates duality, 561 00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:47,160 Speaker 1: but there is no duality when you tell me how 562 00:45:47,200 --> 00:45:51,680 Speaker 1: you feel, I can't. How can I deny how you feel? 563 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:57,279 Speaker 1: I would try to. I would want to understand why 564 00:45:57,320 --> 00:46:03,759 Speaker 1: you feel like that. And when you can talk out feelings, well, 565 00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:07,680 Speaker 1: now you can come into harmony and balance because you 566 00:46:07,760 --> 00:46:10,719 Speaker 1: come into truth. We'll see. Okay, Now what you just 567 00:46:10,800 --> 00:46:14,360 Speaker 1: said is actually really fascinating to me. Um In regards 568 00:46:14,400 --> 00:46:17,799 Speaker 1: to relationships, because I think that that's right, and I 569 00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:20,279 Speaker 1: think that two people can be coming at a situation 570 00:46:20,320 --> 00:46:25,560 Speaker 1: and see completely different realities based off of their feelings. Um. 571 00:46:25,640 --> 00:46:29,000 Speaker 1: But what's interesting is there's either there's two types of 572 00:46:29,040 --> 00:46:31,799 Speaker 1: people I think, and what you just said would be, well, 573 00:46:31,840 --> 00:46:34,080 Speaker 1: I want to understand why you feel that way, but 574 00:46:34,160 --> 00:46:38,200 Speaker 1: that also takes another person being willing to look at 575 00:46:38,280 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, why do I feel that way? Like what 576 00:46:40,280 --> 00:46:42,760 Speaker 1: is going on? And what is that bumping up against? 577 00:46:43,160 --> 00:46:46,960 Speaker 1: Because if that that curiosity piece isn't there, or that 578 00:46:47,040 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 1: empathy piece from the other person, you kind of can't 579 00:46:51,120 --> 00:46:54,440 Speaker 1: you can't communicate, you know, you're gonna bump up against Well, 580 00:46:54,480 --> 00:46:58,200 Speaker 1: that's not the reality that I'm living, and that's not 581 00:46:58,239 --> 00:47:01,719 Speaker 1: the reality that I'm living. And there's there's nowhere that 582 00:47:01,719 --> 00:47:04,680 Speaker 1: it can go further than that, which is just the 583 00:47:04,800 --> 00:47:06,799 Speaker 1: discord I guess that we were talking about earlier. So 584 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:12,439 Speaker 1: the proper relationship would have compassion, have understanding of your 585 00:47:12,560 --> 00:47:15,640 Speaker 1: values and your needs and do the very best they 586 00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:20,560 Speaker 1: can to help you meet those needs, help write that 587 00:47:20,600 --> 00:47:28,680 Speaker 1: down and so that's what you call coming from a 588 00:47:28,719 --> 00:47:33,640 Speaker 1: compassionate heart. And so the full moon we have to understand, 589 00:47:34,840 --> 00:47:37,960 Speaker 1: we have to do our best to influence the beliefs 590 00:47:37,960 --> 00:47:43,080 Speaker 1: of others through humor and serious discussion. The full moon 591 00:47:43,800 --> 00:47:49,400 Speaker 1: is about having that compassion and understanding about feelings. And 592 00:47:49,480 --> 00:47:53,680 Speaker 1: sometimes we have to use humor to demonstrate the absurdity, 593 00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:58,759 Speaker 1: absurdity of just common ways of thinking. We have to look, 594 00:47:59,200 --> 00:48:01,480 Speaker 1: we have to look behind the veil and see and 595 00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:05,520 Speaker 1: try to figure out what's people's agenda. What's their intention? 596 00:48:06,760 --> 00:48:12,040 Speaker 1: You know, because intention is ultimately how we're all measured 597 00:48:12,080 --> 00:48:17,120 Speaker 1: by spirit. What is your intention? God? God only wants 598 00:48:17,120 --> 00:48:19,640 Speaker 1: to know what's in your heart. If the heart is pure, 599 00:48:20,560 --> 00:48:26,000 Speaker 1: you're in God. If it's not, well, then there's karma defect. 600 00:48:27,640 --> 00:48:30,360 Speaker 1: You don't want that karma. You don't want that karma, 601 00:48:31,000 --> 00:48:40,800 Speaker 1: and nobody got for that karma. Some of the energies 602 00:48:40,880 --> 00:48:43,960 Speaker 1: we got is healing and releasing old patterns of dealing 603 00:48:44,000 --> 00:48:49,880 Speaker 1: with relationships to protect ourselves m M and so as 604 00:48:49,920 --> 00:48:55,319 Speaker 1: to express our honest feelings and truth. It's very, very 605 00:48:55,440 --> 00:48:59,480 Speaker 1: vitally needed and we and it's part of the quest 606 00:48:59,560 --> 00:49:06,120 Speaker 1: and the journey to spiritualist spiritualizing and self realization. And 607 00:49:06,200 --> 00:49:10,640 Speaker 1: it helps us to discover our own intentions in all 608 00:49:10,760 --> 00:49:18,000 Speaker 1: relationships and in all situations. Mercury's retrograde, so everybody knows 609 00:49:18,040 --> 00:49:21,960 Speaker 1: that that's uh, you're gonna cause all kinds of problems 610 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:28,080 Speaker 1: today miscommunications also like technology. I was telling you earlier 611 00:49:28,120 --> 00:49:31,200 Speaker 1: that social media is basically shut down today, which is 612 00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:36,319 Speaker 1: hilarious to communications. Uh. So what I like to do 613 00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:42,000 Speaker 1: is expect clarity and change when it goes direct and 614 00:49:42,080 --> 00:49:45,800 Speaker 1: new information presents itself, when is it going direct again? 615 00:49:46,400 --> 00:49:52,800 Speaker 1: It'll go direct onay. And of course we've got a 616 00:49:52,880 --> 00:49:55,640 Speaker 1: nice little Pluto squares Mercury, so there's going to be 617 00:49:55,680 --> 00:50:01,160 Speaker 1: all kinds of communication, attempts at manipulation and controlling others. 618 00:50:01,880 --> 00:50:03,719 Speaker 1: I love that you just phrase that as a nice 619 00:50:03,760 --> 00:50:12,440 Speaker 1: little Pluto square Mercury. It sounds terrible. Well, Pluto Pluto 620 00:50:12,600 --> 00:50:16,520 Speaker 1: is uh exposing our all of our fears and doubts 621 00:50:16,560 --> 00:50:27,680 Speaker 1: and guilt and shames everything we want to hide. Uh awkward. Uh. 622 00:50:27,760 --> 00:50:32,719 Speaker 1: And of course uh, we've got a uh, we got 623 00:50:32,760 --> 00:50:36,000 Speaker 1: a uronius incojunct venus, which means we need to balance 624 00:50:36,040 --> 00:50:42,799 Speaker 1: the needs or values of ourselves and others. And this 625 00:50:42,880 --> 00:50:46,040 Speaker 1: is kind of like you don't know how it's living 626 00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:50,080 Speaker 1: in the paradox. We have to live in a paradox. 627 00:50:50,880 --> 00:50:53,760 Speaker 1: We have to find a way to create wind wind 628 00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:58,680 Speaker 1: situations when it doesn't seem like things can come together 629 00:50:58,719 --> 00:51:04,160 Speaker 1: and fit. And we have to be very careful about 630 00:51:04,239 --> 00:51:08,040 Speaker 1: wanting others to meet our demands, wanting others to be 631 00:51:08,200 --> 00:51:15,120 Speaker 1: part of our reality. So we have to listen, listen 632 00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:23,080 Speaker 1: to other people's thoughts and ideas and incorporate them or 633 00:51:23,239 --> 00:51:25,560 Speaker 1: just let them be. But you don't have to form 634 00:51:25,600 --> 00:51:30,600 Speaker 1: an opinion perspective on them because it's their reality and 635 00:51:30,640 --> 00:51:33,239 Speaker 1: you don't have to try to change theirs. And why 636 00:51:33,280 --> 00:51:36,040 Speaker 1: would you have to? Who are you to change somebody 637 00:51:36,040 --> 00:51:41,600 Speaker 1: else's reality. I think it's hard though, sometimes because you know, 638 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:45,960 Speaker 1: only in relationships specifically, since we're talking about that, when 639 00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:48,799 Speaker 1: you're living in completely different realities you know, or this 640 00:51:48,840 --> 00:51:50,799 Speaker 1: is something I've done in the past, I want the 641 00:51:50,840 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 1: person to become with me because I'm like, I know, 642 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:57,000 Speaker 1: I can't stay unless you do, like, because our realities 643 00:51:57,040 --> 00:51:59,400 Speaker 1: are so different, you know, And so I think there 644 00:51:59,440 --> 00:52:03,600 Speaker 1: can be a lot of emotion tied to that incentive, 645 00:52:04,360 --> 00:52:07,640 Speaker 1: like to where where we're going in we're like no, no no, no, no, no, 646 00:52:08,080 --> 00:52:09,600 Speaker 1: you need to change, And you always say to me, 647 00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:12,000 Speaker 1: You're like, you have to accept people as they are. 648 00:52:12,760 --> 00:52:16,000 Speaker 1: This is their journey. You're not in charge of their journey. 649 00:52:16,040 --> 00:52:19,040 Speaker 1: That's like my ego mindset to be like at thinking 650 00:52:19,040 --> 00:52:22,080 Speaker 1: that I'm God or something. Well, you're that, you're thinking 651 00:52:22,120 --> 00:52:24,680 Speaker 1: you're smarter than their soul. But what if I am 652 00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:30,160 Speaker 1: I'm just kidding, I'm totally joking complete I don't even 653 00:52:30,160 --> 00:52:35,439 Speaker 1: know what to do with my own life. So we're 654 00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,080 Speaker 1: now in a full phase, and of course what does 655 00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,120 Speaker 1: it stand for? And now other words, we are now 656 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: observing like the full moon. You must assimilate the experiences 657 00:52:48,040 --> 00:52:53,080 Speaker 1: of all without emotions or physical senses to be able 658 00:52:53,120 --> 00:53:02,280 Speaker 1: to experience all creative expression without judgment. I mean, that's 659 00:53:03,080 --> 00:53:07,680 Speaker 1: that's just so important, m h. Because at full phase 660 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:13,480 Speaker 1: we're seeing polarity, we're seeing the paradox. It's a natural 661 00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:16,440 Speaker 1: place of polarity, and we must come to the place 662 00:53:16,480 --> 00:53:23,200 Speaker 1: of lack or judgment, opinion and polarizing beliefs. We have 663 00:53:23,360 --> 00:53:30,920 Speaker 1: to reject the shoulds um perspectives, opinions, perceptions, because we 664 00:53:31,080 --> 00:53:35,600 Speaker 1: do not see but a very small part of reality, 665 00:53:37,120 --> 00:53:45,239 Speaker 1: so we have no business judging anything. So Libra is 666 00:53:45,320 --> 00:53:53,360 Speaker 1: really about coming into a powerful self and understanding others. 667 00:53:54,000 --> 00:53:58,360 Speaker 1: Theirselves and people. Libres, it's it's it was kind of 668 00:53:58,440 --> 00:54:02,279 Speaker 1: humorous to learn that Libres may the best generals. Why 669 00:54:03,160 --> 00:54:12,840 Speaker 1: because they understand people, They understand their warriors, they understand 670 00:54:12,880 --> 00:54:22,000 Speaker 1: the battle. So as we get into this new moon, yes, Libra, 671 00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:29,040 Speaker 1: you got to be authentic and be yourself and be honest. 672 00:54:30,120 --> 00:54:37,800 Speaker 1: Oh I know some libresho need to hear that. And Virgos, 673 00:54:38,560 --> 00:54:44,319 Speaker 1: stay in balance with your finances. Don't overspend. Don't be 674 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:48,840 Speaker 1: a tight WoT either. Let your don't let your poverty 675 00:54:48,920 --> 00:54:55,440 Speaker 1: consciousness get the better of you. And Leo, you're thinking 676 00:54:56,640 --> 00:55:02,239 Speaker 1: and creativity comes through feelings. So you're thinking needs to 677 00:55:02,280 --> 00:55:07,520 Speaker 1: align with your feelings because that's the correct communication. And 678 00:55:07,560 --> 00:55:14,759 Speaker 1: communications are certainly augmented this month. For cancers, bring a 679 00:55:14,840 --> 00:55:20,319 Speaker 1: more peaceful presence to your home where you live, your environment. 680 00:55:21,000 --> 00:55:26,720 Speaker 1: Spruce it up, get some water, fountains and flowers. Makes 681 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:30,120 Speaker 1: a man sense when you walk, when you walk through 682 00:55:30,160 --> 00:55:34,640 Speaker 1: your front door, said, oh my God, I'm home with God. 683 00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:42,319 Speaker 1: I'm home in peace. And for geminis, bring pleasures and 684 00:55:42,440 --> 00:55:49,480 Speaker 1: joys into your hobbies, into your reality. You know, people 685 00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:51,600 Speaker 1: sometimes used to ask me all the time on my 686 00:55:51,800 --> 00:55:54,759 Speaker 1: radio show, well, how do I make more money, say 687 00:55:54,840 --> 00:56:04,400 Speaker 1: we'll be more creative. Well, no pressure there. And for 688 00:56:04,640 --> 00:56:11,239 Speaker 1: Tauruses makes sense. You give equal time to yourself and 689 00:56:11,400 --> 00:56:14,760 Speaker 1: establish healthy routines. This is in their six house of health. 690 00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:19,720 Speaker 1: So Toruses need to really find make sure they stay 691 00:56:19,760 --> 00:56:26,160 Speaker 1: in balance in their life, their nutrition, what they eat, okay? 692 00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:34,560 Speaker 1: And and Aries stop for a moment and try to 693 00:56:34,680 --> 00:56:41,600 Speaker 1: realize other people's needs and how you can give to 694 00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:46,600 Speaker 1: them and serve them when you love them. Is that tough? 695 00:56:46,640 --> 00:56:55,359 Speaker 1: For an Aries, that's very tough. And Pisces, be truthful, 696 00:56:55,760 --> 00:57:03,120 Speaker 1: honest with others about what you're feeling. Don't do the 697 00:57:03,160 --> 00:57:07,920 Speaker 1: piece at any price thing. Pisces can get really caught 698 00:57:08,040 --> 00:57:14,719 Speaker 1: up in that. And for Aquarius, let reality be reality, 699 00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:29,680 Speaker 1: live in a multidimensional universe. And for Capricorn, follow feelings 700 00:57:30,840 --> 00:57:43,360 Speaker 1: to be authentic. Others are watching. Oh, and Sagittarius, it 701 00:57:43,560 --> 00:57:47,720 Speaker 1: isn't that hard to allow others ideas and opinions into 702 00:57:47,760 --> 00:58:00,520 Speaker 1: your life. And for Scorpio, where are you leading another's 703 00:58:00,600 --> 00:58:10,400 Speaker 1: for security? How is your vanity alert? Because you're worried 704 00:58:10,440 --> 00:58:15,480 Speaker 1: about how you're going to be seen. Oh, Scorpions are 705 00:58:15,520 --> 00:58:19,080 Speaker 1: so tricky because I don't feel like they put off 706 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:21,760 Speaker 1: this energy that they care about that. But that's a 707 00:58:21,800 --> 00:58:26,960 Speaker 1: big dynamic, isn't it. You better believe they care. Yeah, 708 00:58:27,280 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 1: at the deepest of levels, Marvin, I always giggle through 709 00:58:31,320 --> 00:58:33,760 Speaker 1: these because we're thinking of certain people with these signs. 710 00:58:36,840 --> 00:58:40,120 Speaker 1: But that'll say between us, I'm thinking, oh God, I 711 00:58:40,160 --> 00:58:43,720 Speaker 1: hope they're not listening. I'm like about to send all 712 00:58:43,720 --> 00:58:51,200 Speaker 1: of them this podcast. They'll be hating on me. Probably. Well, 713 00:58:51,240 --> 00:58:54,120 Speaker 1: I'm actually feeling good about this New Moon. I feel 714 00:58:54,120 --> 00:58:58,760 Speaker 1: like this is a great, great time to move out 715 00:58:58,760 --> 00:59:04,160 Speaker 1: into the world, build the relationships, build the reality. Socialized 716 00:59:04,960 --> 00:59:10,360 Speaker 1: labors of social animals were now building our social persona well. 717 00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:12,919 Speaker 1: And I know there's so many other energies happening. We 718 00:59:13,040 --> 00:59:14,840 Speaker 1: mentioned just a little bit about the retrograde, but a 719 00:59:14,880 --> 00:59:17,720 Speaker 1: lot of those things are coming out this during this 720 00:59:17,760 --> 00:59:21,680 Speaker 1: New Moon. It's everybody's going to feel like they're shot 721 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,080 Speaker 1: out of a can in this month because we've been 722 00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,600 Speaker 1: feeling this like backtracking thing over and over and over 723 00:59:27,640 --> 00:59:30,800 Speaker 1: and over again. Yeah, we've been feeling like we've been 724 00:59:30,840 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 1: abandoned by the universe. We've been living on our own 725 00:59:35,880 --> 00:59:43,120 Speaker 1: own personality and ego structures, which aren't good at a 726 00:59:43,160 --> 00:59:46,920 Speaker 1: little bit too human. A lot of it start feeling 727 00:59:46,960 --> 00:59:50,960 Speaker 1: the universe building is up again. Yes, we have like 728 00:59:51,080 --> 00:59:54,280 Speaker 1: six retrogrades right now and they're all going to start 729 00:59:54,320 --> 01:00:00,440 Speaker 1: going direct over the next two weeks. Bring it on. 730 01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:04,000 Speaker 1: Feel really good. I cannot wait. It's been it's been 731 01:00:04,040 --> 01:00:05,840 Speaker 1: a tough go for a minute, so I think everybody 732 01:00:05,920 --> 01:00:08,960 Speaker 1: is probably ready for that. That and that'll be on 733 01:00:09,000 --> 01:00:12,200 Speaker 1: the micro and the macro. Yeah, a lot of things 734 01:00:12,200 --> 01:00:15,800 Speaker 1: are going to start unfolding very rapidly within this month. 735 01:00:15,960 --> 01:00:18,720 Speaker 1: So you're you're saying within people's personal lives, but then 736 01:00:18,760 --> 01:00:22,680 Speaker 1: also on the bigger scale as a whole. Yep. Yeah, 737 01:00:23,120 --> 01:00:25,240 Speaker 1: it'll be interesting to see what happens. You just never 738 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:30,240 Speaker 1: know us anything, You just never know. Well, you know 739 01:00:30,320 --> 01:00:34,800 Speaker 1: what your job is. Dream the dream, baby, say the reality. 740 01:00:35,080 --> 01:00:38,160 Speaker 1: Ye can't wait. I'm gonna do it all right, Marv. 741 01:00:38,280 --> 01:00:41,200 Speaker 1: Tell the people where they can find you. They can 742 01:00:41,240 --> 01:00:45,000 Speaker 1: find me at Marvin at astrobar dot com. They can 743 01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:49,240 Speaker 1: find me at Marvin at um Oh, well that's how 744 01:00:49,280 --> 01:00:52,760 Speaker 1: they can email me. They can find me at astrobar 745 01:00:53,120 --> 01:00:56,320 Speaker 1: dot com. That's my website. Uh, they need to go 746 01:00:56,400 --> 01:01:01,200 Speaker 1: on the website, onto my blog and download the outline 747 01:01:01,960 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: that of this podcast, which will teach them even a 748 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:11,680 Speaker 1: whole lot more information as well as uh the animals 749 01:01:11,720 --> 01:01:15,800 Speaker 1: that represent Libra on the Native American medicine wheel, which 750 01:01:15,840 --> 01:01:20,680 Speaker 1: is raven and well whil Okay, so people know stuff 751 01:01:20,680 --> 01:01:22,840 Speaker 1: about the medicine we all, I gotta start diving into 752 01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:29,400 Speaker 1: that and even lines up with Libra and teaches you 753 01:01:30,360 --> 01:01:38,000 Speaker 1: the values of balance from nature's perspective. That's pretty incredible, Okay. 754 01:01:38,040 --> 01:01:39,880 Speaker 1: And if you want to have a reading, a personal 755 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:43,040 Speaker 1: reading with Marv, he is a master astrologers who he 756 01:01:43,080 --> 01:01:46,520 Speaker 1: does personal readings also hypnosis. I have done both and 757 01:01:46,520 --> 01:01:49,440 Speaker 1: they're all very very helpful. I tell people. Now, I'm like, 758 01:01:49,480 --> 01:01:55,680 Speaker 1: he's like my life coach, Oh Kelly, I just strip 759 01:01:55,680 --> 01:01:59,640 Speaker 1: away the imbalances so that you can heal your own life. 760 01:02:00,040 --> 01:02:02,760 Speaker 1: And I like that. Well, I appreciate that you do 761 01:02:02,840 --> 01:02:05,960 Speaker 1: that for me, so thank you. Well, I appreciate what 762 01:02:06,040 --> 01:02:09,040 Speaker 1: you do for me because I look at you and 763 01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 1: see all that duty and say, oh my god, I 764 01:02:11,400 --> 01:02:19,280 Speaker 1: must be beautiful. You are see mirrors. Um. Well, Marvel'll 765 01:02:19,320 --> 01:02:22,200 Speaker 1: be back next month with what will be the scorpion 766 01:02:22,280 --> 01:02:30,000 Speaker 1: am in ready. That will be interesting. Thank you Marv 767 01:02:30,040 --> 01:02:32,320 Speaker 1: for telling us about Libra new Moon. It's happening on 768 01:02:32,440 --> 01:02:35,200 Speaker 1: October six, which is the day this podcast comes out. 769 01:02:35,360 --> 01:02:37,120 Speaker 1: If you guys have any questions, you can hit Marv 770 01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,000 Speaker 1: up on his email. I'll also put that in the 771 01:02:39,040 --> 01:02:41,919 Speaker 1: description of this podcast and go do a reading. They're 772 01:02:41,960 --> 01:02:44,520 Speaker 1: worth it. You also do virtuals right if people want 773 01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,600 Speaker 1: to do that instead of in person. Okay, if you're 774 01:02:46,640 --> 01:02:49,400 Speaker 1: not in Nashville, you can do a zoom meeting as well, 775 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:52,120 Speaker 1: So hit Marv up Mark. Thank you for being here, 776 01:02:53,080 --> 01:02:55,880 Speaker 1: thank you for having me, and we'll see you next month. 777 01:02:55,920 --> 01:02:58,240 Speaker 1: Thank you guys for listening. Thanks for listening to the 778 01:02:58,320 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 1: Velvet's Edge podcast with Kelly and Person, where we believe 779 01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 1: everyone has a little velvet and a little edge. Subscribe 780 01:03:04,440 --> 01:03:08,720 Speaker 1: for more conversations on life, style, beauty and relationships. 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