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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewels Second Date Update. Remember, if you want

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Speaker 1: a second date update, all you have to do is

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Speaker 1: email us Brook and Jewel at Moving nine two five

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Speaker 1: dot com. We will call the person that didn't call

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Speaker 1: you back. Right now, Neil is on the phone with us.

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Speaker 1: He wants to get in touch with a girl named Jamie.

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Speaker 1: What's up, Neil? Hey, guys, how are you pretty good now?

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Speaker 1: Your email that you sent to us said you can't

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Speaker 1: think of anything that went wrong on your date. It's

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Speaker 1: just confusing, man. I mean, it's like I've been in

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Speaker 1: use before that I've gone bad, but that was not

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Speaker 1: the case on this one. It really was not. You know,

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Speaker 1: there's something I like about when men do the second

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Speaker 1: date update because it says that they really connected with

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Speaker 1: this person and they're kind of putting it out there.

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Speaker 1: You know, how did you make it a chance? Why

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Speaker 1: did you like? Yeah? When women do it, they're desperate. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they're just desperate dummies. Neil, how did you meet Jamie?

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Speaker 1: I made it through my buddy Scott at a party

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Speaker 1: and automatically it was just right now. The constant lasted

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Speaker 1: ye context, I asked her out. There was no hesitation,

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Speaker 1: and she agreed. Yea. A couple of days later, we

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Speaker 1: go to dinner. She was on time, which for me

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Speaker 1: is kind of a you know, kind of a good start,

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Speaker 1: a good point. Um throughout dinner, we like everything. She

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Speaker 1: was a risk taker at one point. I mean I

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Speaker 1: wanted to kiss her at dinner, but I thought it

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Speaker 1: was too fast to just do it right when you

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Speaker 1: say hi, because then we have a good time. We

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Speaker 1: had dessert. She's laughing. She looked fantastic, I mean just incredible. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: we came back to my house. We did have a

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Speaker 1: very long, pretty awesome makeout sessions. How long would you

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Speaker 1: say a long make up session is? I would say

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Speaker 1: about an hour or so. Yeah, did you lose any clothing? No? No,

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Speaker 1: I was a complete gentleman. I did not want to

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Speaker 1: rush it because I was sort of looking forward to

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Speaker 1: a second date, so I didn't want to mess it up.

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Speaker 1: That's why I called you, guys. So how did it in? Then?

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Speaker 1: When she left after your hour makeout? Uh, she gave

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Speaker 1: me a kiss and we made plans for a couple

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Speaker 1: up and nothing. I've not heard of anything from her since.

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Speaker 1: And you've met her at a friend's party. Did you

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Speaker 1: find any information about her through other people or she

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Speaker 1: out of town or no, not really, She's just she's

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Speaker 1: an acquaintance of my friend. And I met her at

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Speaker 1: the party and took a chance and answer out and

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Speaker 1: she said yes. All I'm saying she didn't want to

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Speaker 1: go out with me, she just said no in the

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Speaker 1: first place. Okay, Yeah, it's kind of it's kind of

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Speaker 1: weird that she would make out with you for an

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Speaker 1: hour and then kiss, you, would make plans and then

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Speaker 1: not answer your call. Yeah, you're sure she's single As

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Speaker 1: far as I know she was. She told me she

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Speaker 1: was single, okay, And usually if someone tells you that,

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Speaker 1: they're always yea. Nobody ever lies about it. I know

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Speaker 1: she never assume, but I figured her being a day

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Speaker 1: with me was a going to be king she was single. Yeah, probably, Yeah. Okay,

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Speaker 1: Well we're gonna play a song, come back call her

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Speaker 1: and get your second day update. All right, all right,

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Speaker 1: but thank you? All right, man, hang on Frockingubil in

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Speaker 1: the morning. It is really weird when you're hanging out

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Speaker 1: with somebody, especially like Neil, who's on the phone with

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Speaker 1: us right now for a second date update. He made

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Speaker 1: out with a girl for an hour at his place,

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Speaker 1: she left, They kissed when they left and made plans

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Speaker 1: for later on, and then she just doesn't call him

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Speaker 1: back at all. Nothing that would drive me absolutely insane.

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Speaker 1: And I don't even really care that much, but it

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Speaker 1: would bug the hell out of me. Neil, how long

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Speaker 1: has it been since the last time you try to

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Speaker 1: get a hold of her? It's been about a week

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Speaker 1: or so. And what are you going to say to

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Speaker 1: her when you talk to her? Like, what do you

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Speaker 1: want to come of this? Like you want a second

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Speaker 1: date or you just want to know why? I'm just

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, I mean, at least you know you're probably

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Speaker 1: not a bad kisser. I mean, it would just bug

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Speaker 1: I think you're an idiot than just like disappear, especially

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Speaker 1: after we had a time and there was nothing wrong.

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Speaker 1: As a girl who's had quite a few makeout sessions,

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Speaker 1: I'll say the only reason I haven't ever called one

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Speaker 1: that cuts my mind. Yeah, all right, we're gonna give

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Speaker 1: you a call right now. Man, you're ready? All right? Good? Hello?

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Speaker 1: Can I speak to Jamie please? This is Jamie. Hey, Jamie,

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Speaker 1: how are you? This is Jewel from Brook and Jewel

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. I'm Moving ninety two point five. I'm sorry?

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Speaker 1: Who says Jebil from the morning show on Moving ninety

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Speaker 1: two point five the radio station? Okay? Are you familiar

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Speaker 1: with us at all? I am? Okay, let me ask

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Speaker 1: you a question. Have you ever heard the segment that

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Speaker 1: we do called the Second Date Update? Yeah? Interesting? What

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Speaker 1: if I told you that somebody emailed us about you?

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Speaker 1: I think that's weird. Could you venture a guess as

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Speaker 1: to who it was? Do you want to tell me

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Speaker 1: who it is? Yeah? His name's Neil. Hmm. You don't

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Speaker 1: sound like you're a fan of Neils. I'm not a

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Speaker 1: huge fan of Neils. Okay, Neil is a head. Wo

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Speaker 1: What did Neil do, Jamie? Well, what did Neil tell you?

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Speaker 1: He did? Honestly, you said you couldn't think of anything

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Speaker 1: that went wrong. He said you had a good time.

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Speaker 1: Went back to this place, made out for about an hour,

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Speaker 1: and then you left, that's all he said. Well, he

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Speaker 1: left out a really important note to both you guys

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Speaker 1: and me that I had to find out the next day.

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Speaker 1: Who'd you find out from? I loved the restaurant so

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Speaker 1: much that he had taken me too. So the next

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Speaker 1: day my co workers and I decided to have lunch there,

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Speaker 1: and they wouldn't seat us. What they wouldn't seat us

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Speaker 1: because the manager recognized me from the date the night

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Speaker 1: before and asked me to leave because apparently my date

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Speaker 1: had dined and died. He never paid the bill. Are

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Speaker 1: you serious? Yeah? A little embarrassing in front of my coworkers.

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Speaker 1: So not only did I have to pay that bill,

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Speaker 1: but then I also had to pay for lunch that day.

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Speaker 1: It was humiliated. Jamie Neil is obviously on the phone

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Speaker 1: with us right now. Is that true? Oh my god?

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Speaker 1: First of all, yes, yes, that's true. But it's what happened.

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Speaker 1: That's the bill. I had a feeling that my account

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Speaker 1: was overdrawn. I didn't want to risk getting my card declined,

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Speaker 1: so I did the shameful thing of taking the check

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Speaker 1: and putting in the bathroom. Madebili that we paid it

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Speaker 1: with this left. Everything was going so well, and I

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Speaker 1: just figured, go for broke, No pun intended, but I

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Speaker 1: did it, and I apologize. Okay, Well, a real man

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Speaker 1: would have just let me known and I would have

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Speaker 1: paid for dinner. You don't wire out on a bill.

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Speaker 1: I can't even begin to tell you how incredibly immature

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Speaker 1: and like disgusting and scumbag move that is. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: going so well, and I figured, hey, man, you know,

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Speaker 1: screw it, and no disrespects to you, Jamie. I mean,

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Speaker 1: I just I know I did a terrible thing and

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. God, how much was it? Oh? Man? Embarrassing?

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Speaker 1: Have you ever done anything like that before? Neil, I

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Speaker 1: swear no, never for eighty nine dollars in the way,

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Speaker 1: you should be flattered that I would take that chance

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Speaker 1: for you. Oh my god, I'm worried that every time

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Speaker 1: I go into a restaurant now your face is going

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Speaker 1: to be plastered look out for this. That's that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: I am like disgusted that I made out with you,

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Speaker 1: Like I feel dirty because of it. Oh oh, that's

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Speaker 1: a big much. I You know, if I was the dude,

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Speaker 1: I would have gone back and washed dishes. I would

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Speaker 1: go make restitution and apologize for shipping that waiter who

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Speaker 1: was awesome. You were in my shoes as I never

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Speaker 1: will be in your apartment, in your car ever ever. Personally,

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Speaker 1: I think Neil's getting beat up here. It proves to

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Speaker 1: me that he's a problem solver. Why are you talking

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Speaker 1: about it? And he saw an issue, he took it

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Speaker 1: thought possible. I think it's a problem being a little

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Speaker 1: Judgie Jamie. Thanks man, Well, I prefer to me judge

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Speaker 1: then today to loser. Thank you, Hey, Neil, Neil. Normally,

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Speaker 1: at the end of these I ask if the couple

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Speaker 1: wants to go out on another date and we'll pay

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Speaker 1: for it. It sounds to me like you you're in

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Speaker 1: some hot water right now. I don't think that Jamie

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Speaker 1: I'll give you twenty seconds to plead your case and

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Speaker 1: ask her out if you'd like to try to take

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Speaker 1: her out again. Jamie, please don't judge me on this

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Speaker 1: one simple stupid act. I did it for you. I

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Speaker 1: did it to impress you. In trying to look good

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Speaker 1: New front of you. Please give me another chance. No,

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Speaker 1: but I think you should give him the money so

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Speaker 1: he can go pay restitution. Thank you, Jamie, Jamie, he

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Speaker 1: broke laws for you, all right. Oh thanks for your time, Jamie.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate it. Thank you. Yeah, and Neil, thanks you

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Speaker 1: for giving me a great new idea on dates