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Speaker 3: Thank you and nephew. Subject, why did he really leave me? Here?

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I've been married seven years and we have

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Speaker 1: two children. I was basically taking care of the children

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Speaker 1: because my husband worked long hours and he liked to

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Speaker 1: hang out and drink after work. I was in school too,

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Speaker 1: but I was determined to take care of my family.

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Speaker 1: I overlooked a lot because I believe in my husband,

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Speaker 1: and I had hopes that he would get himself together

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Speaker 1: one day. I was completely blindsided when he moved out,

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Speaker 1: and I want to know why he really left me.

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Speaker 1: When I started working from home, that's when he started

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Speaker 1: staying out late. He also stayed out all night a

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Speaker 1: couple of times. One time he went to get his

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Speaker 1: hair braided, and he said he fell asleep in his

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Speaker 1: car outside his hair braider's house because he was drunk.

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Speaker 1: The other time was because he was out late with

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Speaker 1: friends at the club, so he slept outside his dad's

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Speaker 1: I got on his case really bad, and he left

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Speaker 1: the house and went to stay with his daddy.

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Speaker 3: I called his daddy.

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Speaker 1: To see if he would talk to my husband about drinking,

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Speaker 1: and he said that my husband has not had a

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Speaker 1: drink since he'd been there. I talked to my husband's

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Speaker 1: best friend and he said, my husband might have one

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Speaker 1: or two drinks when they're at a club. It seems

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Speaker 1: like he used alcohol as an excuse to stay out.

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Speaker 1: He found out that I called his dad and his

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Speaker 1: else and I will never find him. After two weeks,

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Speaker 1: the street started talking and I heard that he was

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Speaker 1: him and he said that he is a sleeping with

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Speaker 1: her at all. If that's true, then why did he

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Speaker 1: leave me to go stay at her house? This is

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Speaker 1: the cold heart truth right here. He does not want

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Speaker 1: to be there, he does not want to be in

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Speaker 3: I mean, this is pretty obvious. He just walked out.

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Speaker 1: I'm really sorry, I really am from my heart that

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Speaker 1: this has happened to you, but you got to face it.

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Speaker 1: At this point, it is over. He has abandoned you

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Speaker 1: and your children. He's been lying to you this entire

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Speaker 1: time about his drinking and all of that, and staying

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Speaker 1: put it. He's been lying. Plus he told you you

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Speaker 1: would never find him. You need to file for child

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Speaker 1: support and try to pick up the pieces and move on.

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Speaker 1: Any man that can walk away from his kids and

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Speaker 1: Don't believe what he tells you. After all his life,

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Speaker 1: how could you believe him anyway. Now is the time

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Speaker 1: to collect yourself. You got to be strong for those kids.

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Speaker 1: So let him go and move on. He left his

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Speaker 1: family and has not looked back. He did that. Forget

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Speaker 1: about closure, forget.

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Speaker 3: All of that.

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Speaker 1: Just deal with what is. He's gone. He left you

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Speaker 1: and the kids. There's no reason for that, nephew.

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Speaker 2: He does not like you at all. He's closed. He

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Speaker 2: does not like you. It is something about you that

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Speaker 2: you don't know what he don't like. You ain't figured

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Speaker 2: out what it is about yourself that he don't like.

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Speaker 2: There's something about you that he just don't like. I

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Speaker 2: don't know if it's your If it's thanks could be terrible.

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Speaker 2: But that might be the case. Wait, it might be

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Speaker 2: on nerves. I don't know what it is. But there's

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Speaker 2: something about you he don't like. Let's go down line.

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Speaker 2: When you start working from home, he was out. He

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Speaker 2: wanted to get away from you. That's that's the first thing.

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Speaker 2: What's the second one? He lined by drinking. He lined

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Speaker 2: by drinking to stay out. Okay, I slept in my

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Speaker 2: to say it. He does not like you. Now you

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Speaker 2: find out, And this is what people always kill me

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Speaker 2: with the streets. That's talking? Who is the streets? Where

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Speaker 2: did you getting this information from? Who told you this?

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Speaker 2: You're putting your into the street. Now, how you find

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Speaker 2: out now he's staying at some woman house. And what

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Speaker 2: he say to you, we ain't doing that, We ain't

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Speaker 2: doing that. He's trying to make you feel a little better.

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Speaker 2: He's trying. Now, you don't want to hurt your feeling

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Speaker 2: too bad. But guess what he's done with you For

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Speaker 2: some reason, he does not want to have anything to

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Speaker 2: I even see this on on on my TV show

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Speaker 2: some of these A lot of ladies gotta know why

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Speaker 2: they want that type of clothes. They they can't go

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Speaker 2: on until they find till they know what what what

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Speaker 2: when we're wrong because you want to you want to

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Speaker 2: make sure maybe it doesn't happen again. But yeah, you

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Speaker 2: want to try and fix it. Sometimes it's not fixable.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's not even you. Sometimes it's just, hey, he

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Speaker 2: just don't want this relationship no more. So I'm not

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Speaker 2: you know, I don't like it when men do this,

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Speaker 2: too much of that in our in the African American community.

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Speaker 2: We hate that part. But I just I'm just telling

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Speaker 2: like and he's done. He's just done. And sometimes when

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Speaker 2: may not ever find out why, and then you're gonna

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Speaker 2: go to the next relationship and the problem is going

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Speaker 2: to be now you're gonna take that baggage over there,

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Speaker 2: and you think that the next man gonna do the

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Speaker 2: same thing, and that's where the problem comes. Boy that

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Speaker 2: boy ready to love today? Hain't that boy that boy

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Speaker 2: talking to But.

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Speaker 1: We're not And we're not trying to say that it's

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Speaker 3: People are just.

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Speaker 2: Done and it's not your fault. I get that part.

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Speaker 2: The problem is you're trying to figure it all out

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Speaker 2: when there's nothing to figure out.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, we have another we have part two

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Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour. We're

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Speaker 1: gonna hear from Junior today's Strawberry letter subject why did

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Speaker 1: he really leave me? We'll get back into it right after.

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Speaker 2: This Ready to Love Philadelphia coming in January. Boughy that we're.

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Speaker 1: Good, you're listening Harvey Morning Show. All right, we're gonna

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Speaker 1: recap today's Strubberry letter. Subject that it is, why did

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Speaker 1: he really leave me?

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: This young lady wrote in she's been married for seven years.

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Speaker 1: They have two children. She's been basically taking care of

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Speaker 1: the children. Her husband worked long hours. He liked to

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Speaker 1: hang out and drink after work. She was in school,

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Speaker 1: but her family was her priority. As she said, she

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Speaker 1: would get it together one day. Well, she started working

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Speaker 1: from home. Evidently he didn't like that, and he just

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Speaker 1: issue is she wants to know why he really left her.

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Speaker 1: That's when things started getting bad. He started staying out late.

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Speaker 1: He stayed out all night. He said he was outside

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Speaker 1: in state. His daddy said that he didn't really drink

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Speaker 1: like that. His friend said it too, So she still

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Speaker 1: wants to know why did he really leave her? Now

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Speaker 1: he's living with a woman that he works with, he claimed,

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Speaker 1: and he told his wife that she will never find him.

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Speaker 1: So he left her, and he left the kids, and

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Speaker 1: he's done. She wants closure, and she says, I if

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Speaker 1: it's really true that he's staying with this woman, why

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Speaker 1: did he leave her? Why did he leave her? That's

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Speaker 1: what she wants to know, Tommy, and I said, Uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, he's just done. He's really done with this,

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Speaker 3: Junior, you say.

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Speaker 4: What I'm telling you right now, I'm gonna leave her too.

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Speaker 4: I'm tired of her too.

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Speaker 2: What all this.

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Speaker 4: Complaining you're doing? I know this way he leaves, he

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Speaker 4: got to be leave. He's tired of your mouth. Well,

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Speaker 4: he just said he gonna fake, drink it and fall

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Speaker 4: asleep anywhere. He'll sleep anywhere. He don't care.

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Speaker 2: I have braid his house, his daddy, He find a

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Speaker 4: He gone every time he see you. It's just where

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Speaker 4: the hell is my car keep? I'm going today, I'm leaving.

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Speaker 4: He don't have time for you. This man wants to leave.

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Speaker 4: He don't care where he stay at. It just can't

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Speaker 2: We don't know why he left you.

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Speaker 4: But I think complaining got a lot to do with it.

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Speaker 4: I ain't never seen no man want to run for

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Speaker 3: He is on a run.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking about. He keep a full take a gass

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Speaker 2: and he got to go. He got to go.

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Speaker 3: He keep a full take a game. Every time he's

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Speaker 3: seeing you, he is out.

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Speaker 4: He don't even stay long. He just said, forget it,

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Speaker 4: I ain't coming back. He stay out all night everywhere.

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Speaker 1: And she said, Junior, she said that it seems like

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Speaker 1: he used alcohol as an excuse to stay out, right.

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Speaker 3: He drink like that? Yeah, he heard drink like that.

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Speaker 2: You know what? You know what.

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Speaker 4: I never knew why they had all them parking lasts

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Speaker 4: got them parking spots at the back of Walmart now, the.

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Speaker 3: One way back there. But that's what he at. He'll

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Speaker 2: I just got to go, Paul somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I'm very, very disappointed in this man, because not only.

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Speaker 3: Did you leave your wife, you left your kids.

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Speaker 1: And yeah you told you, Yeah, you told you she will,

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Speaker 1: she will never find you. And what about these kids?

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Speaker 1: What about these kids? You know that's terrible. You're not

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Speaker 4: You know. What he is is a He can he's

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Speaker 4: a driver. He can get in his car and drive

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Speaker 4: Who was that June sleeping? The power driving?

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Speaker 2: That is him.

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Speaker 4: He can't up your whole life. He don't care. I

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Speaker 3: And just park.

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Speaker 2: He just parking in the car wash. The car wash close.

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Speaker 3: He's just sitting in the middle of the car wash,

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Speaker 2: Just somewhere.

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Speaker 3: He doesn't want to go home.

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Speaker 2: He ain't going home.

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Speaker 4: He don't one that he would You put up to

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Speaker 4: the car dealership, and late at night he was still

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Speaker 3: He can't wait. He can't get out till morning.

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Speaker 4: Doug's barking, playing that though, he playing, Yeah, he better

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Speaker 4: notw to get a parking ticket a parking garage.

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Speaker 3: He parking in there.

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Speaker 4: He going a parking garage, turning him man, the boy

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Speaker 4: just sitting outside of Dennis.

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Speaker 3: Who is that? He don't want to go?

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Speaker 1: How can he even stand in his dan's house? He

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Speaker 1: went over there, she called, She called over there, friend.

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Speaker 2: I think she's sleeping with the hair braider, That's what

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, because he made up that he fell

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Speaker 1: outside of her house. Boy, yeah, yeah, you're with children,

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Speaker 1: you know, that's what they say the street, in the streets.

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Speaker 2: But I tell you one thing.

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Speaker 3: If he's see the emerging room and it's red, he

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Speaker 3: turned it in there. He's parking.

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Speaker 2: He going to that merchant room, He's gonna park right

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Speaker 3: He's not even sick.

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Speaker 1: He wanted her anything. Who was that of that Chick

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Speaker 1: fil A line on Sunday? Knowing that's him Clark? Wait wait,

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Speaker 1: they be open on Monday. But I'm sitting here all day.

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Speaker 1: I don't be customer number one. My ticket number gonna

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Speaker 1: say one. I don't want to watch the football games

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Speaker 1: on my phone. I got YouTube.

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Speaker 3: He's not doing he's not doing. I don't care what

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Speaker 3: you're not doing it.

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Speaker 4: He just put up a little league football games at park.

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Speaker 3: You don't care this kid, don't even play play.

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to police or him.

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Speaker 3: He's not he got doing it.

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Speaker 1: She needs to rid herself of him because he's bad news.

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Speaker 1: And anytime you can do this, leave your children. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you know, coming yourself girl.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Park outside the high school. Who is that.

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Speaker 3: Sitting there doing Thanksgiving break?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Thanksgiving?

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