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Speaker 1: This is Teddy tea pod with Teddy Mill and Cabin.

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Speaker 1: Hi guys, welcome to this week's Teddy Teapot. I am

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Speaker 1: so happy to have you here. We are going to

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Speaker 1: talk about so many things this week. We are going

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Speaker 1: to mom so hard. But first we're gonna talk a

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Speaker 1: little thing called periods. I'm going to bring on Lauren

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Speaker 1: Shelti Wong, who launched the Flex Company in two thousand

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Speaker 1: make this transition. Hi, Lauren, how are you doing great?

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Speaker 1: How are you good? So welcome. Lauren. She started Flex

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Speaker 1: what inspired you to start this company and exactly kind

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Speaker 1: of what it is. Yeah. I started Flex because I

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Speaker 1: was getting infections from traditional period products, so I have

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Speaker 1: And I went on this multi year quest to try

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Speaker 1: different period products from all over the world and I

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Speaker 1: really couldn't find anything that met my need. So our

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Speaker 1: first product that we came out with is the Flex Disc,

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Speaker 1: which is the only single use period product that can

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Speaker 1: be worn for up to twelve hours. So is there

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Speaker 1: any kind of how to that people can learn how

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Speaker 1: to use it? Because I have to be honest. I

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Speaker 1: when I was younger, I actually got toxic shock from tampons,

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Speaker 1: I'm worried about how to teach my daughter how to

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Speaker 1: use products. But I don't know how to how I

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Speaker 1: would explain to her how to use the flag, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean? So how do you explain? Yeah? Well,

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Speaker 1: first of all, I'm so glad to hear that you're okay.

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Speaker 1: Toxic shock is super scary and very serious. Um. The

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Speaker 1: flex disc is the only period product that has not

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Speaker 1: been linked to TSS, and we've made millions of products

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Speaker 1: to date, so rest assured. You can wear it for

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Speaker 1: up to twelve hours. UM. We have directions on YouTube

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Speaker 1: on our website flex fits dot com. It's very simple.

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Speaker 1: It's as easy to insert and remove as a tampon.

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Speaker 1: But like anything new, I think it takes a little

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Speaker 1: bit of practice. Um. It's shaped like a disk and

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Speaker 1: it fits around your service, so it actually leaves your

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Speaker 1: vaginal canal clear during our period, which means that you

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Speaker 1: can't feel the product while you're wearing it. And one

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Speaker 1: of the most common things that people say to us

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Speaker 1: is they forget that they're on their period when they're

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Speaker 1: using it. Because you put in at the beginning of

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Speaker 1: the day, you go about your day. It empties itself

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Speaker 1: pull it out and rinse it out. UM and it

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Speaker 1: holds the capacity of up to three super tampons. That

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Speaker 1: is incredible. So how did you come up with this? So?

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Speaker 1: I came up with this UM with working with a

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Speaker 1: team of people, Like we are not the original creators

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Speaker 1: of the disk design, but we iterated on this design.

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Speaker 1: UM that's been around for the last twenty years and

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Speaker 1: it's really similar to a diaphragm, but the difference is

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Speaker 1: UM it is not used for contraception periods, so so

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Speaker 1: don't use it for contraception UM and it is disposable,

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Speaker 1: not reusable. Well, I think this is an incredible you

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Speaker 1: many girls, and I appreciate you coming on to educate us.

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Speaker 1: Where can people learn more purchase flex Please? Give us

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Speaker 1: all the information and find you to ask you more questions. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: You can also find us at Target, CVS, Walgreens, bright Aid, Um,

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Speaker 1: pretty much most retailers in the US, but flex fits

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much for joining us. Yeah, thanks so

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Speaker 1: much for having me. Oh my gosh, no worries. I

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Speaker 1: and such a game changer. Oh, I appreciate that. I

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Speaker 1: complete lifesaver to me. Well, you're about to change a

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Speaker 1: lot of other people's lives. Thank you so much for

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Speaker 1: find you at all of the places that you mentioned before. Awesome,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Sudding, Thanks so much, Mouren. Let me tell

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Speaker 1: is innovating period care with products that are body say,

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Speaker 1: There's the flex disc, which is a one time use

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Speaker 1: menstrul disk that fits perfectly inside your body. Who doesn't

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Speaker 1: want that? One? Flex disc can be worn for up

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Speaker 1: He's a great human. He also has really great teeth,

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Speaker 1: like all of it upset. He's just a wonderful Yeah.

427
00:22:35,160 --> 00:22:37,840
Speaker 1: But I think he would say, like we have like

428
00:22:37,960 --> 00:22:41,359
Speaker 1: different kinds of smart, you know. But I mean, I

429
00:22:41,440 --> 00:22:45,040
Speaker 1: honestly did not finish my college entrance exam because I

430
00:22:45,119 --> 00:22:48,399
Speaker 1: was getting dance team photos right afterwards, and I was

431
00:22:48,480 --> 00:22:52,560
Speaker 1: so worried about my the rollers in my hair that

432
00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:55,879
Speaker 1: like I barely made it to college even so, Like,

433
00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:59,400
Speaker 1: but I think he would say that I'm smart too. Well.

434
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,600
Speaker 1: I also say people smart is very important in being

435
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,199
Speaker 1: able to read people and having empathy. And you know,

436
00:23:05,800 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: let's just say we're raising good humans, all right, let's

437
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,600
Speaker 1: just let off that. But how do you guys deal with,

438
00:23:10,720 --> 00:23:13,120
Speaker 1: especially you know, having a big following on social media

439
00:23:13,200 --> 00:23:17,520
Speaker 1: media with like mom shaming and just all the you know,

440
00:23:17,560 --> 00:23:19,359
Speaker 1: whatever is going on with them, How they you know,

441
00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:24,240
Speaker 1: will put that on you. Um, we've it's it's a thing,

442
00:23:24,560 --> 00:23:28,240
Speaker 1: and we just talked about this yesterday too. I here's

443
00:23:28,720 --> 00:23:32,439
Speaker 1: here's what I think about that is you can be

444
00:23:32,520 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: having a really crappy day and then you can take

445
00:23:35,160 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: it out on someone on social media and you think

446
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,920
Speaker 1: there's no fallout because you sort of think of yourself.

447
00:23:40,240 --> 00:23:42,480
Speaker 1: It's so small in the big equation that no one

448
00:23:42,520 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: will sort of see it. So it's kind of like

449
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:46,560
Speaker 1: you get to punch this thing and there's no recourse.

450
00:23:46,640 --> 00:23:50,639
Speaker 1: But that's just not true. When you say something and

451
00:23:50,920 --> 00:23:54,760
Speaker 1: it isn't nice and it is harsh and it's sort

452
00:23:54,760 --> 00:23:59,359
Speaker 1: of unnecessary. You put that energy out there and also

453
00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:02,280
Speaker 1: they you see it, and so do other people around you.

454
00:24:02,359 --> 00:24:04,440
Speaker 1: And if you wouldn't say that's the next step. Person,

455
00:24:04,560 --> 00:24:07,200
Speaker 1: don't say it at all. Like I just think that,

456
00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: like we're not being careful with each other, and that's

457
00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:12,919
Speaker 1: not that's not okay, man. We can do better than that.

458
00:24:13,080 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: There's no reason there's no reason to like troll someone

459
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:19,280
Speaker 1: and there's no reason to like say something if it

460
00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:21,600
Speaker 1: doesn't impact you directly. Do you know what I mean?

461
00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:24,119
Speaker 1: I just say, like, don't say it, like don't like

462
00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,560
Speaker 1: I don't know. That's just my camp and I think

463
00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:30,400
Speaker 1: that we try to we practice like we play because

464
00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: we want our kids to be like that. You know,

465
00:24:32,119 --> 00:24:35,720
Speaker 1: we don't want there is fallout on social media if

466
00:24:35,720 --> 00:24:38,440
Speaker 1: you say stuff that isn't kind. I mean I actually

467
00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: even have gotten to the point where if people give

468
00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:44,840
Speaker 1: me unwarranted advice that like makes me nervous or uncomfortable,

469
00:24:44,960 --> 00:24:47,520
Speaker 1: I just have to block it. Like you, you can

470
00:24:47,560 --> 00:24:49,840
Speaker 1: come at me all you want, like you call me man, hands,

471
00:24:49,880 --> 00:24:53,479
Speaker 1: monotone voice, all the things like I've heard it, Oh god,

472
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:56,560
Speaker 1: come at me, Oh God. This is one of those

473
00:24:56,560 --> 00:24:59,080
Speaker 1: things where you're like so gorgeous that like they say

474
00:24:59,119 --> 00:25:02,760
Speaker 1: things to you, but us so like so reritable. It's

475
00:25:02,840 --> 00:25:05,439
Speaker 1: all the things. I'm like, yes, I talked with my hands,

476
00:25:05,520 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: Yes I have a monotone voice. Just keep it coming,

477
00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:10,679
Speaker 1: bring it. But then it's like people send me a

478
00:25:10,680 --> 00:25:13,679
Speaker 1: message that like something about like that can happen to

479
00:25:13,720 --> 00:25:17,679
Speaker 1: your kids in this hypothetical situation, and I'm like I

480
00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 1: don't need my mind to go there because then you

481
00:25:20,080 --> 00:25:22,679
Speaker 1: like manifest it and like like so then I just

482
00:25:22,720 --> 00:25:24,680
Speaker 1: like block it. I'm like I don't. I don't want

483
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:26,199
Speaker 1: to think about that. I don't want to hear it.

484
00:25:26,200 --> 00:25:28,119
Speaker 1: I don't want to see it and like the fact

485
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 1: that like we all are doing the best that we can,

486
00:25:30,880 --> 00:25:34,960
Speaker 1: don't even put it out there. Yeah. Yeah, well I

487
00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:38,359
Speaker 1: always try to really get the we call our fans

488
00:25:38,400 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 1: the moms. There's like this is it's statistically impossible that

489
00:25:43,240 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: out of like two million, two point five million people,

490
00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:47,919
Speaker 1: you're not going to have a couple of like super

491
00:25:47,960 --> 00:25:51,320
Speaker 1: crazy people like sending you messages. But for the usually

492
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:55,440
Speaker 1: my family, yeah, it's one of my cousins, of my

493
00:25:55,720 --> 00:26:00,560
Speaker 1: cousins sometimes my mom criticizing me. You're going to have

494
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,719
Speaker 1: a few of those that we just like hide it

495
00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,679
Speaker 1: and don't get the ball started, because so many of

496
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,160
Speaker 1: our moms will like come to our defense or they'll

497
00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: say it to another mom like hey, that wasn't really cool,

498
00:26:11,359 --> 00:26:14,080
Speaker 1: and she responds like, you know what, You're right, I'm

499
00:26:14,119 --> 00:26:16,280
Speaker 1: having a really bad day, like in the most like

500
00:26:16,440 --> 00:26:20,840
Speaker 1: human non defensive. Yeah. So sometimes it's just really what's

501
00:26:20,840 --> 00:26:24,080
Speaker 1: going on in their day. Yeah, and you're allowed to

502
00:26:24,080 --> 00:26:26,600
Speaker 1: have a bad day. I just think sometimes people think,

503
00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 1: like I wonder if sometimes people think I'm like I'm

504
00:26:31,359 --> 00:26:34,120
Speaker 1: one human in the in this person like yourself. It's

505
00:26:34,160 --> 00:26:37,080
Speaker 1: so popular and has so many followers, She's not gonna

506
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:39,920
Speaker 1: see my one snarky comment about this thing I'm gonna

507
00:26:39,920 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 1: put out there, and it's gonna make me feel better

508
00:26:41,359 --> 00:26:43,640
Speaker 1: because I'm kind of having a crappy day, but you

509
00:26:43,680 --> 00:26:46,639
Speaker 1: do see it, and or you're putting that energy out

510
00:26:46,680 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: there of doing something that isn't very nice, like I

511
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:50,800
Speaker 1: sort of flipped the script, and I'm like, I don't know,

512
00:26:51,200 --> 00:26:53,840
Speaker 1: like maybe like say a nice thing, does that like

513
00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:56,000
Speaker 1: drag you out of your bad day a little easier?

514
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: I know that's so Pollyanna, but and sometimes when I

515
00:26:58,800 --> 00:27:01,720
Speaker 1: have responded, I've been like, you know what, please like?

516
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:04,080
Speaker 1: That really makes me feel uncomfortable. And then I'm like,

517
00:27:04,119 --> 00:27:08,240
Speaker 1: oh my gosh, you responded. I actually don't even think that.

518
00:27:08,280 --> 00:27:10,000
Speaker 1: I just wanted to see if you'd responded, And then

519
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:13,359
Speaker 1: I'm like, please, like, now I feel even worse. But

520
00:27:13,600 --> 00:27:15,840
Speaker 1: you know, I think it's it's all the highs and

521
00:27:15,880 --> 00:27:19,159
Speaker 1: lows of social media. But something that my girlfriends and

522
00:27:19,200 --> 00:27:20,960
Speaker 1: I were talking about the other day that we were

523
00:27:21,000 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: completely divided on that I have to ask you all

524
00:27:23,280 --> 00:27:27,600
Speaker 1: about how do you guys feel about parenting each other's kids.

525
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:29,359
Speaker 1: So I'm one of those like if you're at my

526
00:27:29,440 --> 00:27:33,320
Speaker 1: house and you see my kids slipping doing something wrong.

527
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:35,760
Speaker 1: You you can go ahead and parent them all you want,

528
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 1: like you could step in. I don't mind you, like

529
00:27:39,080 --> 00:27:41,040
Speaker 1: you go ahead and discipline and you do what you

530
00:27:41,040 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 1: need to do. Um where some are like you just

531
00:27:43,359 --> 00:27:46,159
Speaker 1: mind your own business. I'll step in one night and

532
00:27:46,320 --> 00:27:52,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna then I'm gonna parent her. I would be

533
00:27:53,080 --> 00:27:55,960
Speaker 1: so offended if a friend of mine said, mind your

534
00:27:56,000 --> 00:27:58,880
Speaker 1: own business with my kids, because I mean, obviously you're

535
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:00,639
Speaker 1: not gonna pick them up in spane come or something

536
00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 1: like that. Kristen and I have this agreement like you

537
00:28:04,400 --> 00:28:07,120
Speaker 1: look like you see my kid doing something wrong, please

538
00:28:07,280 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: like immediately get to it, because I'm gonna miss it.

539
00:28:10,760 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: I call it the mom stance where you have your

540
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: hands on your hips and like I know that Jen

541
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,119
Speaker 1: is saying something like disciplinary and to my kids if

542
00:28:19,119 --> 00:28:21,120
Speaker 1: her hands are in her hands, and then the other

543
00:28:21,200 --> 00:28:23,359
Speaker 1: one of us will come out and also stand with

544
00:28:23,400 --> 00:28:25,520
Speaker 1: our hands and our hips. So like the kids are

545
00:28:25,520 --> 00:28:29,200
Speaker 1: like book ended by these two like pterodactyls that are

546
00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:32,879
Speaker 1: like I saw you don't throw that. Don't throw rocks.

547
00:28:32,920 --> 00:28:36,840
Speaker 1: There's you know, like at Jen's birthday party for Delilah Um,

548
00:28:37,000 --> 00:28:39,120
Speaker 1: they had this they had this really neat guest house

549
00:28:39,120 --> 00:28:41,640
Speaker 1: and I and the kids were like trying to climb

550
00:28:41,640 --> 00:28:43,240
Speaker 1: through a window and I caught him and I was

551
00:28:43,320 --> 00:28:47,360
Speaker 1: over there and I was like, I was like, absolutely not,

552
00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: all of you need to get down. This is not okay.

553
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:52,000
Speaker 1: This is like and I was like, man, I'm like

554
00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:56,200
Speaker 1: a security guard at this, but I go, She'll do

555
00:28:56,240 --> 00:28:59,120
Speaker 1: the same thing, Like, there's no I think that's a

556
00:28:59,120 --> 00:29:02,480
Speaker 1: sign of love. Like if I'm willing to, it's an

557
00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: effort to keep everybody safe in a little bit, you know. Well,

558
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: managed I'll bark at anybody's kids. I'll be at a park.

559
00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 1: You better. It's a free for all. And I expect

560
00:29:10,840 --> 00:29:14,960
Speaker 1: the same me too. And I think that, you know.

561
00:29:15,360 --> 00:29:17,000
Speaker 1: And the one thing that the only thing that I

562
00:29:17,040 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 1: don't like is when other kids parents the kids. Oh yeah,

563
00:29:20,800 --> 00:29:25,320
Speaker 1: that's why I'm like, no, yeah, I'll I'm in charge here.

564
00:29:25,840 --> 00:29:29,720
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, just put my kid in time out or

565
00:29:29,760 --> 00:29:32,200
Speaker 1: anything like that. But I definitely want them to remind

566
00:29:32,200 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 1: them to be nice and not to like poke another

567
00:29:34,360 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: kid with a stick, you know, Like who can debate that.

568
00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 1: We're also in the age of like everybody tattling on everybody,

569
00:29:42,280 --> 00:29:45,560
Speaker 1: like because our four kids are well, actually Eleanor in

570
00:29:46,280 --> 00:29:51,080
Speaker 1: in Delilah get they've been so close their whole time together.

571
00:29:51,440 --> 00:29:55,320
Speaker 1: But we've got a ten, two eights, and a six

572
00:29:55,560 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: right now. And so my ten year old has given

573
00:29:58,000 --> 00:29:59,719
Speaker 1: me a run for my money, and jens six year

574
00:29:59,760 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 1: old is given her run for money. And then we

575
00:30:01,400 --> 00:30:04,520
Speaker 1: have Dashell and Eleanor in the middle. And so everybody's

576
00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:07,040
Speaker 1: got these different age brackets and they're all trained to

577
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 1: tattle except the girls. So everybody's kind of got something

578
00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:12,560
Speaker 1: on somebody. So at one point or another, Jen and

579
00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,520
Speaker 1: I are always like trying to take a sip of

580
00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,080
Speaker 1: our coffee or whatever, and they're coming in. We're like,

581
00:30:17,080 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: figure it out, figuring it out. Go give somebody create

582
00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:24,640
Speaker 1: parliamentary procedure and start voting this out. Like we're done.

583
00:30:24,800 --> 00:30:27,240
Speaker 1: Like you guys are got You've got to figure this out.

584
00:30:27,480 --> 00:30:31,320
Speaker 1: So like sometimes we let them manage themselves. Do get out, guys.

585
00:30:31,360 --> 00:30:35,920
Speaker 1: We can we cannot be bothered. Yeah, I want to

586
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Speaker 1: hear all about Jen's day. I don't want to hear

587
00:30:38,200 --> 00:30:41,600
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588
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Speaker 1: your husband's who is more of the disciplinary and you

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Speaker 1: guys or your husband's And then how do you deal

605
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,800
Speaker 1: if you're like having different parenting? That's a good question.

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00:31:51,560 --> 00:31:56,320
Speaker 1: I think I'm I think I create rules, make sure

607
00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,400
Speaker 1: he's in agreement with them, and then on the like

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00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,600
Speaker 1: in four or so. Usually, but if I lose my life,

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00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:10,600
Speaker 1: oh sorry, it's usually sorry if I lose it, which

610
00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: is usually like that six to seven o'clock hour where

611
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,040
Speaker 1: you're just like spent so tired. I do this thing

612
00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:19,280
Speaker 1: where I like, we'll walk out to my husband's office

613
00:32:19,280 --> 00:32:21,440
Speaker 1: and go, you need to go check your kids. You

614
00:32:21,480 --> 00:32:24,280
Speaker 1: need to go to spare your kids there, they're his

615
00:32:24,440 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: kids in that moment. Yeah makes sense. I think that

616
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 1: my husband and I are pretty aligned on um on discipline.

617
00:32:34,840 --> 00:32:37,840
Speaker 1: I think that we both step in at different things.

618
00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:41,720
Speaker 1: But it really comes down to like who has been

619
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: with them the longest, because we always say like I'm like,

620
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:46,200
Speaker 1: you don't get to lose it right now. You don't

621
00:32:46,240 --> 00:32:47,880
Speaker 1: get to lose it in fifteen minutes. I've been with

622
00:32:47,920 --> 00:32:50,479
Speaker 1: them for four hours. Like you better come in and

623
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:53,400
Speaker 1: be like cool guy, because I'm gonna go rage across

624
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:58,120
Speaker 1: the neighborhood. You know, qually fast the neighborhood streets. Talk

625
00:32:58,240 --> 00:33:02,040
Speaker 1: to myself, well, yeah, we're pretty even, but we are disciplinarians.

626
00:33:02,080 --> 00:33:06,600
Speaker 1: We we definitely I think, uh, draw some boundaries and

627
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,760
Speaker 1: believe that like there needs to be some some strict

628
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:12,600
Speaker 1: rules because our kids will push every boundary that you

629
00:33:12,640 --> 00:33:14,760
Speaker 1: give them. I know, I mean what kids won't. But

630
00:33:14,840 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 1: like I am very structured, like in general, that's just

631
00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:20,960
Speaker 1: who I am, very type. And my husband's like very

632
00:33:21,040 --> 00:33:23,120
Speaker 1: like beats at like the beat of his own drum

633
00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:24,960
Speaker 1: and it's like on his own time schedule. And we

634
00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:28,960
Speaker 1: got in our biggest argument we have in years over

635
00:33:29,000 --> 00:33:31,640
Speaker 1: the first day of school. You guys had to tell

636
00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:34,120
Speaker 1: me if you if you think that I'm right or

637
00:33:34,160 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: he's right. I realized you mad guy supposed to have

638
00:33:36,200 --> 00:33:40,120
Speaker 1: right and wrong. I did a pull on Instagram and

639
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 1: it said he was right. But I just I'm not.

640
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:44,840
Speaker 1: I'm not not there yet. So it's the first day

641
00:33:44,840 --> 00:33:48,000
Speaker 1: of school. They have to be we have to leave

642
00:33:48,080 --> 00:33:51,320
Speaker 1: first school at seven. He just sides, he's going to

643
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:56,920
Speaker 1: go to a pilates class. No, he's wrong, he's wrong, wrong, right, Okay,

644
00:33:57,440 --> 00:34:01,160
Speaker 1: So I have like we have a little like track

645
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:02,840
Speaker 1: or you know, like little thing on our phone. So

646
00:34:02,960 --> 00:34:05,760
Speaker 1: I see he's still at pilates at seven forty So

647
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:07,640
Speaker 1: don't you worry. I've already done the first day of

648
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:11,240
Speaker 1: school pictures, everything, we have breakfast together as a family.

649
00:34:11,560 --> 00:34:13,640
Speaker 1: So yes, we're in the car at seven forty three,

650
00:34:13,719 --> 00:34:17,640
Speaker 1: seven forty five. I'm out of the house. I don't call,

651
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: I don't whatever. Like, this is your punishment, dude, Like

652
00:34:20,520 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 1: I shouldn't have gone to pilates today. You should have

653
00:34:22,640 --> 00:34:24,680
Speaker 1: been home. You knew were like leaving at seven forty five.

654
00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:27,560
Speaker 1: He pulls in the house at seven forty six and

655
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 1: calls and he's like, where are you? And maybe it

656
00:34:29,880 --> 00:34:31,600
Speaker 1: was seven forty seven. He's like where are you? And

657
00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:34,040
Speaker 1: I'm like, I just left the house and he's like,

658
00:34:35,000 --> 00:34:38,879
Speaker 1: I cannot believe you couldn't wait two minutes or call

659
00:34:38,960 --> 00:34:41,400
Speaker 1: me and see how far away I was. And I

660
00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:43,200
Speaker 1: was like, I'm sorry. You know I should have gone

661
00:34:43,200 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 1: to pilates. I told you this is important. This is

662
00:34:45,960 --> 00:34:48,320
Speaker 1: the difference between forty five minutes and carpool. It's the

663
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:51,240
Speaker 1: first day I'm not doing it. How spends are late

664
00:34:51,320 --> 00:34:54,719
Speaker 1: all the time and they don't drives me quick, Like

665
00:34:54,840 --> 00:34:58,320
Speaker 1: it honestly gives me rage. And then now all of

666
00:34:58,360 --> 00:35:01,440
Speaker 1: a sudden, I am furious in to school when we

667
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,680
Speaker 1: were in a happy, fine mood. We didn't meet him

668
00:35:03,719 --> 00:35:06,719
Speaker 1: in that moment because he already chose pilates for us.

669
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:10,160
Speaker 1: This is literally what we go to counseling over. It's

670
00:35:10,200 --> 00:35:12,080
Speaker 1: literally I'm like, I don't want to talk about feelings.

671
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:15,319
Speaker 1: I want to talk about the schedule. The schedule. I

672
00:35:15,360 --> 00:35:17,520
Speaker 1: can tell you my husband would not go to pilates

673
00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:21,760
Speaker 1: at seven in the jump in the shower at seven.

674
00:35:22,560 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 1: I think that would be enough time for him to

675
00:35:24,840 --> 00:35:27,200
Speaker 1: like be out the door at seven five. And I'm like, no,

676
00:35:27,560 --> 00:35:29,960
Speaker 1: What I'm trying to teach my kids is like it's

677
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:32,320
Speaker 1: important to be on time, and like if something matters

678
00:35:32,360 --> 00:35:36,319
Speaker 1: to you, like yes, but this is my favorite thing.

679
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,960
Speaker 1: My husband we have this fight all the time because

680
00:35:39,080 --> 00:35:42,359
Speaker 1: I am very um punctual and so is Jen and

681
00:35:42,400 --> 00:35:45,000
Speaker 1: we are, if not literally on time, we're a little

682
00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:47,640
Speaker 1: bit early, just to give like a buffer. So that's

683
00:35:47,640 --> 00:35:51,400
Speaker 1: how we work as businesswomen, as moms, as like whatever.

684
00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:54,120
Speaker 1: And my husband's like, you know what, if it takes

685
00:35:54,200 --> 00:35:56,920
Speaker 1: eight minutes to get there, then it takes eight minutes

686
00:35:56,960 --> 00:36:00,160
Speaker 1: to leave, seven minutes still all speed, and then I'll

687
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:04,080
Speaker 1: get there. But I'm like, I know I have the shortcut. Yeah,

688
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:06,279
Speaker 1: he's sweating through his shirt trying to get up the

689
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 1: hill to school, and like, could you have done five

690
00:36:08,600 --> 00:36:11,239
Speaker 1: minutes earlier so you don't you don't have to be

691
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: so high strung, Like this is a constant argument with us,

692
00:36:14,719 --> 00:36:16,920
Speaker 1: And I'm like, this is making me insane, and it's

693
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 1: teaching the wrong thing to our kids. There is a

694
00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:21,160
Speaker 1: there's a grace period that you should have so you

695
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:24,080
Speaker 1: can relax and enjoy your experience instead of being like,

696
00:36:24,280 --> 00:36:29,000
Speaker 1: look at us, we're thirty scuds before the belt. But honestly,

697
00:36:29,280 --> 00:36:32,880
Speaker 1: and then I don't know what he must have gotten

698
00:36:32,920 --> 00:36:37,000
Speaker 1: ready at like mock speed to leave for work, because

699
00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,200
Speaker 1: I then I told him, I'm like, listen, just make

700
00:36:39,239 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: sure that you leave because we're working from home a lot.

701
00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:44,319
Speaker 1: I'm like, I have so much press. Leave that like

702
00:36:44,440 --> 00:36:46,520
Speaker 1: camera thing that I don't have today. But I'm like,

703
00:36:46,600 --> 00:36:48,959
Speaker 1: leave it because I have a bunch of press, and

704
00:36:49,200 --> 00:36:52,279
Speaker 1: he must have honestly grabbed his computer the camera thing

705
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: mock speed out of there so we don't have to

706
00:36:54,360 --> 00:36:56,200
Speaker 1: have the conversation when we get home, and I say,

707
00:36:56,239 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 1: I'm like, now you're double whammy. Now you took the

708
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:02,160
Speaker 1: camera thing now but liked be like sloppy. I was

709
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:06,480
Speaker 1: so mad, And then I'm like do all couples go

710
00:37:06,560 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: through this? And why? And he's like, why can't you

711
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: just take your breath? Who cares if you're in carpool

712
00:37:12,040 --> 00:37:16,440
Speaker 1: for extra ten minutes? I do? I actually do? I do,

713
00:37:16,760 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 1: and it's the principle. And it's like, why the hell

714
00:37:19,360 --> 00:37:21,480
Speaker 1: would you have a watch if you don't care? Like

715
00:37:21,680 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: it's it's like it's time is there's a reason we

716
00:37:24,320 --> 00:37:27,120
Speaker 1: put a time code on like things like you want

717
00:37:27,120 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 1: to leave it seven forty five. Put that line in

718
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:32,200
Speaker 1: the sand. That's very clear. Don't be seven forty six

719
00:37:32,239 --> 00:37:34,320
Speaker 1: because that's not seven forty five. Like you've got to

720
00:37:34,400 --> 00:37:36,319
Speaker 1: run a tight ship. I'm so the same way. So

721
00:37:36,360 --> 00:37:37,840
Speaker 1: do you want to move in with me? I feel

722
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: like things are really working out for us. You and

723
00:37:40,960 --> 00:37:43,160
Speaker 1: I would be it would be like a well would

724
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,400
Speaker 1: the machine would be like we've got the kids, there

725
00:37:45,440 --> 00:37:48,799
Speaker 1: are already certain college courses, like it's happening. I mean,

726
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:52,520
Speaker 1: it's really all the things that I really feel a

727
00:37:52,560 --> 00:37:55,520
Speaker 1: lot better about myself after all of this. Okay, so

728
00:37:55,600 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: what advice would you not advice, but what would you

729
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 1: want to tell any that's planning to like start to

730
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:04,680
Speaker 1: have kids. Is there anything you do or what are

731
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:09,200
Speaker 1: you coming to like expect how your life change? Oh? God,

732
00:38:09,760 --> 00:38:16,480
Speaker 1: getting I U d as long as you can and

733
00:38:16,719 --> 00:38:23,320
Speaker 1: freeze your eggs and then I mean, first of all gents,

734
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: SI says it all that's that's where I'm at right now.

735
00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:29,160
Speaker 1: For first of all, you are never going to be

736
00:38:29,200 --> 00:38:32,160
Speaker 1: ready and it's never going to be a good time.

737
00:38:32,560 --> 00:38:35,080
Speaker 1: And if you are someone who has a very clean home,

738
00:38:36,640 --> 00:38:40,680
Speaker 1: just say goodbye, have a you know, lights some whatever

739
00:38:40,880 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: stage or whatever, and be like, hey, thanks for being

740
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:46,920
Speaker 1: awesome and clean house. I now we'll wipe boogers off

741
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,680
Speaker 1: the wall until they're like I don't know, seventeen. Like

742
00:38:49,760 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: it's just in such a shift in your life, but

743
00:38:52,120 --> 00:38:55,839
Speaker 1: also in all joking aside, it's so fun, like they're

744
00:38:56,040 --> 00:38:58,200
Speaker 1: all of a sudden. You know what's really awesome is

745
00:38:58,280 --> 00:39:00,000
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, these things that were very important

746
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:02,960
Speaker 1: to you no longer matter at all, So like you

747
00:39:03,080 --> 00:39:06,279
Speaker 1: just don't care about stuff. You're like, I'm actually kind

748
00:39:06,320 --> 00:39:09,760
Speaker 1: of happy, even though I forgot to put on pants.

749
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 1: I'm I'm happy. I'm kind of happy. Yeah, if I

750
00:39:14,960 --> 00:39:17,680
Speaker 1: were honest, the thing that I would say is when

751
00:39:17,719 --> 00:39:20,080
Speaker 1: you give birth to that first baby, you give birth

752
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: to two new humans because the you that you used

753
00:39:23,080 --> 00:39:26,000
Speaker 1: to be is like no longer. You have totally different priorities,

754
00:39:26,440 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: you have probably a totally different body, you have a

755
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,880
Speaker 1: different like way of looking at the world, sort of

756
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,319
Speaker 1: and you have to like give yourself a lot of

757
00:39:34,360 --> 00:39:36,920
Speaker 1: like leeway and grace and start to like get to

758
00:39:36,960 --> 00:39:41,440
Speaker 1: know this new person that you've become, and your vagina

759
00:39:41,560 --> 00:39:45,840
Speaker 1: is ruined. Yeah, st Yeah, I would say my biggest

760
00:39:45,880 --> 00:39:49,360
Speaker 1: thing is, like I've always said that, the first baby

761
00:39:49,640 --> 00:39:52,839
Speaker 1: is like a real eye opener, like that's and then

762
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,000
Speaker 1: once the more you have, it's just kind of like

763
00:39:55,040 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: there we go, We're already in it. But the first

764
00:39:57,480 --> 00:39:59,920
Speaker 1: one for me was like whoa, what just happened? By

765
00:40:00,680 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 1: enjoy your Saturday mornings while you have them, because you

766
00:40:03,600 --> 00:40:06,239
Speaker 1: will never sleep in and go to brunch again, right,

767
00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:09,080
Speaker 1: and you'll never ever watch any like all of a

768
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,520
Speaker 1: sudden your ball at commercials. They can never face you. Yeah,

769
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,480
Speaker 1: you're like family seen in a bud like commercial will

770
00:40:15,480 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 1: be like and and being you know, busy entrepreneur working moms.

771
00:40:24,200 --> 00:40:28,600
Speaker 1: Do you guys believe in balance? Like I I personally don't.

772
00:40:28,640 --> 00:40:31,000
Speaker 1: Like I'm like, listen, I have to kind of set

773
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: my family up to say, like listen, Tuesday is the

774
00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:37,799
Speaker 1: day that like mommy is working NonStop. It's busy, busy day.

775
00:40:37,800 --> 00:40:40,520
Speaker 1: But like Wednesday, I've I've got you guys, I'm picking

776
00:40:40,600 --> 00:40:42,080
Speaker 1: up from school. We're doing this, this and this, and

777
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,640
Speaker 1: like I kind of set everybody's expectations up. We have

778
00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 1: the calendar, they know, and I'm kind of one way

779
00:40:47,480 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: versus the other. If not everybody's emotional, but there's some

780
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,799
Speaker 1: people that are like, we're just perfectly balanced throughout the day.

781
00:40:53,360 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 1: Everything that's not true. They're not telling you true. Yeah,

782
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:01,839
Speaker 1: you guys should definitely huck up, Chris, Christie really has

783
00:41:01,880 --> 00:41:08,200
Speaker 1: a calendar. It's like a it's crazy, it's hard to follow.

784
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:10,960
Speaker 1: It hurts my eyes and like, so you've got to

785
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:13,480
Speaker 1: tell you the part where I have you in you

786
00:41:13,640 --> 00:41:15,920
Speaker 1: and your husband. I can't figure out how to take

787
00:41:15,920 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 1: her out because I don't want her to see that

788
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 1: I'm because we've worked together all the time. So she

789
00:41:20,280 --> 00:41:24,600
Speaker 1: has like my husband goes like Christ's having a heavy

790
00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:30,440
Speaker 1: floatay today. He knows every single thing about her life

791
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: because she's in there too. Because how is that, Kristen,

792
00:41:34,239 --> 00:41:36,600
Speaker 1: did you ever fix that? I don't know what happened,

793
00:41:36,600 --> 00:41:39,440
Speaker 1: but Bert, somehows are my calendar. So my calendar is awesome,

794
00:41:39,640 --> 00:41:42,000
Speaker 1: but I can't not share it with people. So everybody

795
00:41:42,080 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 1: kind of knows, like that's her heavy day. Like it's

796
00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,160
Speaker 1: like two trains. Can I tell you guys earlier on

797
00:41:48,200 --> 00:41:50,960
Speaker 1: the podcast, I had somebody on from FLEX, which I

798
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:57,080
Speaker 1: had never really talked about, like there period disk but listen, yeah,

799
00:41:57,680 --> 00:42:00,520
Speaker 1: did you know that you can have sex on your period?

800
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: In this on them? What my FD was blown? Yeah? No,

801
00:42:05,160 --> 00:42:07,680
Speaker 1: you got to come over to our crowd because if

802
00:42:07,680 --> 00:42:10,719
Speaker 1: you tell women that you went on a weekend vacation

803
00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:13,839
Speaker 1: in Scottsdale and you started your period, they will give

804
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:17,400
Speaker 1: you all the information about those dists. I was like, hey, ladies,

805
00:42:18,000 --> 00:42:22,640
Speaker 1: what's up. Like it was, I learned a lot. I'm

806
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,520
Speaker 1: still shook. I'm gonna have to I'm doing all my research,

807
00:42:25,560 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: I'm doing all my testing. I'm wanting all the how twos.

808
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,240
Speaker 1: But okay, well you can also use them for white

809
00:42:31,239 --> 00:42:34,120
Speaker 1: trash I UI, which is something that I did. God,

810
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:39,200
Speaker 1: it's really I did a deep dive on the internet

811
00:42:39,200 --> 00:42:41,080
Speaker 1: when I was trying to get pregnant with my daughter

812
00:42:41,160 --> 00:42:45,160
Speaker 1: and so just Precy, no, you just to keep it

813
00:42:45,200 --> 00:42:48,080
Speaker 1: in there. Nice, she did a d I Y. I

814
00:42:48,200 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 1: just you know, I always it never worked for me,

815
00:42:50,280 --> 00:42:51,880
Speaker 1: but I would do the method where I would just

816
00:42:51,960 --> 00:42:56,279
Speaker 1: keep my legs up. Yes how it starts, but you know,

817
00:42:56,360 --> 00:42:58,240
Speaker 1: then I ended up having to go to a doctor

818
00:42:58,360 --> 00:43:02,279
Speaker 1: and you know, professionally, but I tried. I just sneezed.

819
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,040
Speaker 1: I sneezed, and I was like, oh my god. But

820
00:43:06,600 --> 00:43:09,880
Speaker 1: now I have like nightmares, like I don't know, dreams, nightmares,

821
00:43:09,920 --> 00:43:11,719
Speaker 1: whatever you wanna call it, that I'm pregnant all the time.

822
00:43:11,760 --> 00:43:15,400
Speaker 1: I now consistently have to take pregnancy tests because I'm like, guys,

823
00:43:15,400 --> 00:43:18,200
Speaker 1: I think I'm pregnant again, and they're like, you need

824
00:43:18,239 --> 00:43:21,000
Speaker 1: to stop. Because I was IVF and intimination with the

825
00:43:21,000 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 1: first two and then I got pregnant actually with Dove,

826
00:43:23,040 --> 00:43:27,000
Speaker 1: and now I have like PTSD about you better be careful. Yeah,

827
00:43:27,080 --> 00:43:29,560
Speaker 1: well I'm on, I have the copper I U D now,

828
00:43:29,640 --> 00:43:33,719
Speaker 1: so I'm do you like it? I don't know yet.

829
00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,880
Speaker 1: I'm really crampy and blowdy. It's so far, but my

830
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,080
Speaker 1: hormones were all messed up, so now we're trying to

831
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:43,759
Speaker 1: get me. Yeah, welcome to just constant a woman. Man.

832
00:43:43,880 --> 00:43:45,759
Speaker 1: But you know what, I like that you talk about it,

833
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:48,399
Speaker 1: because it's got it. You know, Hormones are a real thing,

834
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,000
Speaker 1: and they're they're intense, and they make you feel like

835
00:43:51,040 --> 00:43:53,640
Speaker 1: you're crazy and you don't ever get a break from them,

836
00:43:53,680 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: like ever, I think we think we're gonna just like

837
00:43:56,200 --> 00:43:59,480
Speaker 1: always be now, you know, neutral, but it's like highs

838
00:43:59,520 --> 00:44:02,239
Speaker 1: and low and you know, my thing is like if

839
00:44:02,280 --> 00:44:05,720
Speaker 1: I'm having a real low, like I'm gonna seek ways

840
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,759
Speaker 1: to find out how to feel better. And so I

841
00:44:07,800 --> 00:44:10,200
Speaker 1: went and got my hormones checked and they're like, whoa,

842
00:44:10,560 --> 00:44:13,440
Speaker 1: this is no way, no situation. And I don't know

843
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:16,920
Speaker 1: if it's from having coronavirus, if it was from you know,

844
00:44:17,000 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: being on a certain type of birth control. But they

845
00:44:18,800 --> 00:44:21,319
Speaker 1: were like, you should go and get copper iu D

846
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:24,040
Speaker 1: get off the hormones. And then they just tested again,

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Speaker 1: so now I'll find out. But it's like, yeah, it's

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Speaker 1: a whole thing, isn't it. It's yeah, it's a whole thing.

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Speaker 1: And this is why your husband needs to be on time.

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Speaker 1: I know. Well I even told him, I mean, listen,

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Speaker 1: I Heart, I Heart. We're going We're doing the I

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Speaker 1: Heart Festival coming up, and I said, I'm I have

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Speaker 1: a plus one and I need to know can you

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Speaker 1: be on time for all of the events. If you can't,

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Speaker 1: it is my work and I'm bringing a friend there.

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Speaker 1: You go, I promise I can't. But speaking of self care,

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Speaker 1: What is your number one self care favorite thing to

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Speaker 1: do as mom with our kids or without? Because if

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Speaker 1: it's self care, it should be without. I would say

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Speaker 1: with out. Uh. I think mine is either like deep

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Speaker 1: diving a few episodes of Like Friends or ted Lasso,

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Speaker 1: or something that makes me just feel like totally like

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Speaker 1: I have nothing to think about, or music I think

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Speaker 1: is a good escape. That's how I work. I'm not

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Speaker 1: good at doing like facials and stuff. I forget how

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Speaker 1: to I don't know how to do it, and I

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Speaker 1: get overwhelmed. And I also don't like being sitting down

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Speaker 1: for a long period of time. I know I'm always

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Speaker 1: on that Joe. Yeah, well, I'm woulda throw a Christian

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Speaker 1: under the bus because she made me sign up for

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Speaker 1: the Peloton app. And I'm fully addicted to their yoga classes,

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Speaker 1: which I started them like when you couldn't go to

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Speaker 1: yoga class in Los Angeles, and I'm obsessed with it

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Speaker 1: and I now I'm like, I hate working out. I

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Speaker 1: don't like moving like I don't run unless somebody's chasing me.

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Speaker 1: It is not like who I am whatsoever. But now

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Speaker 1: I love to like I got my brother doing yoga

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Speaker 1: like I have so many people doing yoga because I'm like,

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Speaker 1: that's just you take care of yourself and getting better

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Speaker 1: mood and like have your body feel stronger, and then

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Speaker 1: then you're a better mom, you're a better like partner,

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Speaker 1: You're just like kind of a better human. And I

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Speaker 1: don't know who this is talking right now, because I

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Speaker 1: was gonna say, now, do you want to come work

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Speaker 1: it all in? Like you're really like giving me the pitch,

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Speaker 1: Like it's true. I don't know what happens. Christian's fault.

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Speaker 1: She got the bike. The outdoor walks and runs are

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Speaker 1: really good too, because they'll do them guided and they

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Speaker 1: give you that little boost. You can have a little sunshine,

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Speaker 1: so you can give those a try as well. I

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Speaker 1: know we're running out of time, but I know you

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Speaker 1: guys are going on tour. Do you take your families

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Speaker 1: with you? Or how do you do it? We did

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Speaker 1: one time and then we learned. But we we have

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Speaker 1: like a system in place where we go like four

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Speaker 1: days at a time is our max, and then we're

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Speaker 1: home for a bit and then we go for four

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Speaker 1: more days. But you can find all of our tour

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Speaker 1: and from my information on my mom so her dot

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Speaker 1: com but we're very excited. We have a new show.

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Speaker 1: We've worked really hard on it. We think it's it's

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00:46:55,600 --> 00:46:59,279
Speaker 1: uplifting and fun and it's a good stand up show.

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Speaker 1: But there's more to it than just that. So yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's our third tour and this one's called the Getaway

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Speaker 1: Tour because we think our moms definitely need to get

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Speaker 1: away after the last year and a half and we

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Speaker 1: specifically do. So there's no way we're taking our kids,

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Speaker 1: No way. No, We've all spent enough time together. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want to get away and go. Thank you guys

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Speaker 1: so much for joining me. I had so much fun

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Speaker 1: with y'all and I could talk to you for hours,

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Speaker 1: so I appreciate it. Thank you for having us. Bye bye. Well, guys,

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Speaker 1: that was such a fun show. Thank you so much

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Speaker 1: for joining. Make sure to send in any questions that

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Speaker 1: you have or any topics you want us to or

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Speaker 1: any topics you want us to discuss too. Teddy tea

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Speaker 1: pot at I heart radio dot com and thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Thanks for listening. Subscribe to Teddy Teapot on radio or

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Speaker 1: wherever you listen to podcasts.