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Speaker 1: Hi, everyone, thanks for listening to another episode of Horrible Decisions. Today,

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Speaker 1: our guest is Passport Cutty. You guys have to check

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Speaker 1: out her amazing book, The m and Man is from Monday,

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Speaker 1: had a geety using and make it Work for jew

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Speaker 1: five stars, a hundred reviews. It's on Amazon and Kindle

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Speaker 1: for only ten bucks by now with one fucking click,

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Speaker 1: class chick bomb. I literally am about to like start

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Speaker 1: rethinking the man I talked. I'm just like what I

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Speaker 1: took you out on the page. Um, It's it's an

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Speaker 1: awesome book. You guys will really enjoy it. Um. It's

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Speaker 1: segues into lessons learned by Cutty. Um funk up. She's

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Speaker 1: made and like lessons to learn. It's it's awesome to

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Speaker 1: learn from her lessons. Yeah, it's amazing stories. We love stories. Honestly,

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Speaker 1: I was reading one story and I was like, did

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Speaker 1: I talk? Yeah? So welcome back, Welcome back to Horrible

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Speaker 1: Decisions guys. Um, this is your girl Mandy Be and

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Speaker 1: I Wheezy Debt and today we have again Passport Cutting

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Speaker 1: And I feel it's so weird because I feel like

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Speaker 1: she doesn't even an introduction, like I kind of want

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Speaker 1: to do like do you want to tell her listeners about?

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Speaker 1: She was like, who doesn't know about somebody today? And

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Speaker 1: let me just say it's a black girl. And I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh girl, I'm haven't passport cutting on. She

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Speaker 1: was like who is that? Like who is? Like? How

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Speaker 1: are you not saying where have you been under rocks

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Speaker 1: in two thousand nine? Um, so I guess you want

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Speaker 1: to go ahead and give us your little intro on

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Speaker 1: who you are. Uh well, I just came out with

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Speaker 1: the books. When nomen with anything, UM, I blogged. I

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Speaker 1: do a lot of video blogging also, UM, I kind

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Speaker 1: of put the snatchet thing down for a second. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: And I never thought you could watch nine minutes of

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Speaker 1: something and be interested. Like every ship I took for

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Speaker 1: like two thousand and sixteen was watching watching the toilet.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, well, you know, this is just a great

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Speaker 1: way to like and that was will sit after the

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Speaker 1: ship was done. I think about it and what happened

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Speaker 1: and it's not last nine minutes. No, but um, definitely

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Speaker 1: a social media personality and just a blog and make

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Speaker 1: everybody thinking laughing right, thank you and get mad and

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Speaker 1: um for you guys. I mean I hate to use

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Speaker 1: the term, but I was once a part of it.

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Speaker 1: So I'm gonna say she is like the black Twitter queen.

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Speaker 1: And it's literally, Um, I've been on Twitter since two

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Speaker 1: thousand nine and that's when I first started following Cutting,

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Speaker 1: and it's so it's literally it's funny because the book

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Speaker 1: is about is about your growth, and it's literally since

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Speaker 1: I started Twitter in two thousand nine to now and

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Speaker 1: even watching you, I feel like I've gotten to see

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Speaker 1: your growth. And even just seeing what you were saying

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Speaker 1: back in the day to what you're saying now is

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Speaker 1: completely different. I think the book does not completely different.

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Speaker 1: Let's say you may have been a little more ratchet

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Speaker 1: with something back in the days. When I read the book,

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Speaker 1: it was just like, no, my my views have changed, dramatic, dractically.

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Speaker 1: We're bringing it up. We show we had Cutting fans. Actually,

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Speaker 1: Mandy and I I don't even know if you can't

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Speaker 1: remember with this, but you had a phone line and

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Speaker 1: I was on So what we used to do is

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Speaker 1: I was spend the night at her house find you.

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Speaker 1: We were in high school doing this really, yeah, yes,

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Speaker 1: we had my own a private so we were like

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Speaker 1: we were like nineteen absolutely, so four years difference. Yeah, OK. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and so this was probably two thousand ten. We will listen. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so um yeah, we were like nineteen twenty and so

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Speaker 1: we would literally be at her house. Yeah, we went,

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Speaker 1: and so we were we would be on her bed

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Speaker 1: with our popcorn rabbit and dying like put it on speaker,

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Speaker 1: you know that did It was like, you know, it's

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Speaker 1: fan of someone for the Internet. And so I went

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Speaker 1: to Angelie's barbecue and I walked in and it's funny

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Speaker 1: because people are staring at Angelie and I'm like, it's wait,

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Speaker 1: holy ship, and you know how like you talk to

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Speaker 1: people online and you know what they look like. So

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Speaker 1: it's but then it's like like do we know that?

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Speaker 1: I know you do? You don't do? Do I know

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Speaker 1: that you don't? Be like hey girl, don't like it's

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Speaker 1: everything is expectedly liked, purse whatever. You know. She came

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Speaker 1: in like nice first, so laid hair, got the finger

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Speaker 1: away do that. So what we want to do actually,

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Speaker 1: um and what we like to do when we do

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Speaker 1: have guests on UM, We're gonna do a segment called

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Speaker 1: have you ever, okay, and do you want to go ahead?

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Speaker 1: And I asked one of the I got three because

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Speaker 1: after reading your book, I need to know. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: this is the have you ever? Segment of horrible Decisions?

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Speaker 1: And this takes up our King of the Week, So

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Speaker 1: go ahead. And in the book, I was reading a

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Speaker 1: part that said, which which I really enjoyed you saying

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Speaker 1: you're like, I'm not into submissive b dm SM ship

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Speaker 1: threesomes in this and that, which I totally am looking

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Speaker 1: the goddamn correct. So I just want to know have

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Speaker 1: you had a threesome and if you have, was it

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Speaker 1: something you just felt like, I'm just doing this to

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Speaker 1: I don't have anything against threesomes. Okay, I would do

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Speaker 1: I don't necessarily want to do a threesome with my guy.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense, so but then, but then I don't

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Speaker 1: want to be in a threesome with somebody who else

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Speaker 1: is in a relationship that she does only because I

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Speaker 1: can't handle the emotion, right like I'm like, oh, are

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Speaker 1: they talking? But then on the I not aggressive, so

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Speaker 1: I don't know how to bag another girl. Are you

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Speaker 1: attracted to him? I was about to say, have you

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Speaker 1: ever been with another girl? Oh? Did you enjoy it?

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Speaker 1: I feel like they're in your face, like what the

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Speaker 1: fund did? I say, like, can I take please that?

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Speaker 1: I don't want to listen to everybody else in the world.

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Speaker 1: like I didn't know if I liked it because I

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Speaker 1: was like, oh, I'm like, oh ship because the first

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Speaker 1: time I was we were drinking alone, but not recently. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 1: or like just doing videos. Did you see this one

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Speaker 1: that she was and we were like, so it was recently. No, no,

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Speaker 1: it probably wasn't snapchat, um, but it was some sort

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Speaker 1: the video. It's funny because this goes into my next

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Speaker 1: question real quick so if any of you guys follow Cutty,

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Speaker 1: you guys know she fucking hates sucking dick, so because

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Speaker 1: you hate sucking dick, and that's clearly oral. Is it

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Speaker 1: just dick? Or did you eat the pussy? No? I

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Speaker 1: did do it back? Did you enjoy eating pussy more

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Speaker 1: than you enjoy eating sucking dick? I didn't remember. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: it was like real quick, like it didn't no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 1: That's when my first time was. It was like ten minutes. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: she said, oh, she was in And then the next thing,

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Speaker 1: you know, she was, no, I don't I don't remember you.

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Speaker 1: I don't think so. I don't think so you would

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Speaker 1: I didn't because I was just so nervous. So then

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Speaker 1: the next time I was talking to this other girl

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Speaker 1: so you didn't really enjoy it the first time? Did

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Speaker 1: she try to take advantage of you? Like you? She

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Speaker 1: was like, I bet you I could do that. That's

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Speaker 1: exactly how we went. We were at a bar and

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Speaker 1: this is cutty. We know she paid the other girl paid. No, no, no,

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Speaker 1: Well it's women. It was okay, dad, So I date

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Speaker 1: women and there It's funny because when I was reading

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Speaker 1: was like, wow, well, now what you only date women?

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Speaker 1: She dates both generally, but I am the breadwinner a

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Speaker 1: wonder like, does it change. No, you see like you

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Speaker 1: don't like you're taking it and taking advantage of so

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Speaker 1: you don't really okay because I don't have a Twitter

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Speaker 1: and ship like that. So just to give you a

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Speaker 1: like them going on dates, on dates, all being together.

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Speaker 1: So when this is happening, generally the man pays the

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Speaker 1: court you're getting, but alone one, I don't know what

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Speaker 1: to do. And it came across my mind a lot

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Speaker 1: while reading your book, like I feel like it's a chant.

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Speaker 1: here and I'm not fine. I've got turned on by it, Listene,

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Speaker 1: But if it's a girl, it's like she about to

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Speaker 1: Not to Jude say like, I don't. I don't think

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Speaker 1: gonna look at you. It's just the way that we're conditioned.

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Speaker 1: I lose it a lot. Like I'll be on dates

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Speaker 1: sometimes and we're both like like we don't know who

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Speaker 1: to pay, Like it's I open the doors, like I

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Speaker 1: don't know what is going on. I think it's the

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Speaker 1: half sleeve. Yeah, that makes you look like it is

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Speaker 1: very And that's that's why I'm not really so the

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Speaker 1: book girls, Like I was about to say, the book

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Speaker 1: It's called The m and Man is for money. But honestly,

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Speaker 1: it's not like she's saying men women a lot. I

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Speaker 1: mean she's saying in the relationship, right, I don't know

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Speaker 1: if you can agree with a lot of gay guys

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Speaker 1: and girls. More gay men have connected with the book

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Speaker 1: than gay me. Like gay guys will DM me and

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Speaker 1: be like yea, and then the girls would be like, well,

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Speaker 1: although I'm you know, I'm a lesbian, So I mean

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Speaker 1: a lot of the stuff didn't didn't come for me, right,

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Speaker 1: And I'm I mean, I mean, you bought a book

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Speaker 1: that's called The emin Man, right, Okay, so do you

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Speaker 1: those if these were still your thoughts as being in

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00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,640
Speaker 1: a relationship and with your man. UM. So I'll just

425
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,399
Speaker 1: read off the numbers. So number one, you said, do

426
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: not talk shit about me and throw dirt on my

427
00:24:58,960 --> 00:25:02,080
Speaker 1: name to her. Um So by saying that, are you

428
00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:05,320
Speaker 1: okay with your man or when you're in a relationship

429
00:25:05,359 --> 00:25:09,000
Speaker 1: for there to be another girl, whether you now no, no, no,

430
00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm not okay with it, but I should have it,

431
00:25:11,840 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: it depends on So you wouldn't leave your man no,

432
00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:17,840
Speaker 1: knowing that he's probably messing with someone else. And as

433
00:25:17,880 --> 00:25:22,920
Speaker 1: long as I mean cheating several times like I'm and

434
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,000
Speaker 1: even on Twitter, I've made it very clear, like we

435
00:25:26,240 --> 00:25:29,119
Speaker 1: when people people get the wrong idea when you tweet

436
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:32,000
Speaker 1: something in like general, you know you're like you better

437
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 1: leave him in and so yeah, that's good advice. Just

438
00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: because I didn't take the advice don't mean that's not

439
00:25:38,359 --> 00:25:41,840
Speaker 1: good advice. I get that. So it's kind of like

440
00:25:41,840 --> 00:25:43,240
Speaker 1: because i'd be like a girl, don't let him treat

441
00:25:43,280 --> 00:25:45,920
Speaker 1: you like that, like he came back over tonight and

442
00:25:45,920 --> 00:25:49,679
Speaker 1: maybe he's walking to other right, no, And and you'll

443
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:53,280
Speaker 1: say what you say even if it doesn't Even if

444
00:25:53,320 --> 00:25:55,080
Speaker 1: you don't follow your own advice, it doesn't make the

445
00:25:55,119 --> 00:26:00,199
Speaker 1: advice bad advice or invalid or anything like that. So

446
00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:04,080
Speaker 1: people they'll they love to discredit you based on your

447
00:26:04,080 --> 00:26:06,920
Speaker 1: own life. So they'll be like, oh, you know, she's

448
00:26:06,920 --> 00:26:11,720
Speaker 1: talking all the ship, but I know that ponka, no no.

449
00:26:11,880 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 1: Someone said to me the other day, how are you

450
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:15,800
Speaker 1: a woman in the corporate world that's talking about sucking

451
00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 1: dick because they Sunday okay? And so I have another one.

452
00:26:20,720 --> 00:26:22,119
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna go through the whole list, but like

453
00:26:22,119 --> 00:26:25,080
Speaker 1: another one was, um, do not tell her or give

454
00:26:25,119 --> 00:26:27,439
Speaker 1: her the impression that she is your girlfriend. Do not

455
00:26:27,480 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: funk her raw, which we talked about on here as

456
00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,680
Speaker 1: well with the whole mellow situation. Um, do not give

457
00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,280
Speaker 1: her access to me. This next one knows actually what

458
00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,119
Speaker 1: I want to ask because you actually mentioned in the

459
00:26:36,480 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: book you weren't married. But number five is do not

460
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:48,919
Speaker 1: give her money, which which I'm not sure but I

461
00:26:48,920 --> 00:26:52,119
Speaker 1: think it's I think it's so ironically because in the

462
00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:55,280
Speaker 1: book that m man is for money, you mentioned that

463
00:26:55,600 --> 00:26:57,680
Speaker 1: married men are the easiest ones to get money from.

464
00:26:57,720 --> 00:27:00,320
Speaker 1: So if you're another if you're if you're the other girl,

465
00:27:01,080 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: you need to be getting money for him. You do know,

466
00:27:05,320 --> 00:27:09,840
Speaker 1: it's definitely contradiction, but it depends on what side of

467
00:27:09,840 --> 00:27:13,240
Speaker 1: the viel. I mean you know, I mean you even

468
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: said like I hate writing this, or you said something

469
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:17,920
Speaker 1: like that, like I hate yeah, yeah, I don't want

470
00:27:17,920 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 1: to would I hate to say this, but you know, um,

471
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,920
Speaker 1: and I tell people all the time. Life is a contradiction,

472
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:31,679
Speaker 1: you know, absolutely. You know, even on the podcast Taho

473
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,879
Speaker 1: Love trying to be like but you just say the

474
00:27:35,040 --> 00:27:37,560
Speaker 1: stays trying to say you contradict yourself on what you

475
00:27:37,560 --> 00:27:40,520
Speaker 1: say do I do all the time. But there's rules

476
00:27:40,560 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 1: for again, like you said, depending what role you're playing.

477
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,960
Speaker 1: If you the side chick bit, you better be getting money.

478
00:27:46,000 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 1: If you the main bit, you niggai, which is recently

479
00:27:49,800 --> 00:27:52,560
Speaker 1: told Mandy, I'm dating somebody and he's away and I'm like, yeah,

480
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:54,480
Speaker 1: like going some girls, which is this is one of

481
00:27:54,560 --> 00:27:56,760
Speaker 1: her rules, by the way, what she did, she broke

482
00:27:56,800 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: a role. I'm like, I know, it's just sex, no

483
00:27:58,960 --> 00:28:00,760
Speaker 1: big deal. And he's like, right, like, I'm a meteor

484
00:28:00,800 --> 00:28:02,240
Speaker 1: out of his bar, I're gonna go out for drinks

485
00:28:02,320 --> 00:28:06,080
Speaker 1: and I'm look. She writes, why I got jealous? But

486
00:28:06,119 --> 00:28:07,879
Speaker 1: then I said to me and he said, you got jealous?

487
00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:09,280
Speaker 1: I did, But you're not told Mandy like at the

488
00:28:09,320 --> 00:28:11,560
Speaker 1: same time, like, look, either he's gonna do it or

489
00:28:11,560 --> 00:28:13,000
Speaker 1: to my face, he sent me a picture of him.

490
00:28:14,600 --> 00:28:17,400
Speaker 1: So I want you. I want because I told her,

491
00:28:17,640 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: if you're gonna let him other girls, let her other girls.

492
00:28:19,960 --> 00:28:24,560
Speaker 1: One of the things that you say on here specifically, no,

493
00:28:25,119 --> 00:28:27,040
Speaker 1: I think it is well, don't make her feel like

494
00:28:27,119 --> 00:28:31,159
Speaker 1: she's a girlfriend or don't give her anything. Mlyn, I

495
00:28:31,200 --> 00:28:34,600
Speaker 1: don't know. Let me feel like you're really stupid and

496
00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:37,399
Speaker 1: think of course, but let me ask you this question.

497
00:28:37,560 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: If you're would you as having a boyfriend be okay

498
00:28:42,360 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 1: knowing that your boyfriend took another girl to a bar,

499
00:28:46,640 --> 00:28:50,160
Speaker 1: whether they had drenks, but relationship, but you have an

500
00:28:50,160 --> 00:28:52,560
Speaker 1: open relationship, it's like kind of there. It's not like, well,

501
00:28:52,600 --> 00:28:55,000
Speaker 1: this is the Thing's not like we didn't ask. I'm

502
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:58,880
Speaker 1: gonna be one honest okay, That's that's how we wanted

503
00:28:58,960 --> 00:29:05,719
Speaker 1: to be. Even in an quote unquote relationship and relationships

504
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: that I've been in the past, I've always known that

505
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: something was not right, you know what I mean, like, oh,

506
00:29:12,360 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: they could be cheating, they could be doing this, they

507
00:29:14,880 --> 00:29:18,320
Speaker 1: you know whatever. So you could say that you're not

508
00:29:18,440 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 1: comfortable with it, but technically you kind of are because

509
00:29:22,960 --> 00:29:27,840
Speaker 1: I still fun with them. The thing and I told her,

510
00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:29,520
Speaker 1: like the way it went about, I could say that

511
00:29:29,560 --> 00:29:31,440
Speaker 1: I'm mad that they wouldn't have drinks before. But look,

512
00:29:31,680 --> 00:29:33,760
Speaker 1: he's of course gonna say, baby, I'm just sucking his girl.

513
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,080
Speaker 1: She's coming over and blah blah. No. He texts me

514
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: that day, he's like, listen, I might suck a girl tonight.

515
00:29:38,440 --> 00:29:39,960
Speaker 1: Like whatever, dude, You're like all the way on the

516
00:29:39,960 --> 00:29:41,640
Speaker 1: other side of the world. I'm like, she cute. I

517
00:29:41,640 --> 00:29:44,480
Speaker 1: don't want to ugly bitch. So he sends me a

518
00:29:44,480 --> 00:29:46,800
Speaker 1: picture She's cute and whatever. He's like, we grabbed a

519
00:29:46,880 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: drinking and I'm sucking her at a hotel in Balison.

520
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: So he texts me like, we're talking about you. What

521
00:29:51,320 --> 00:29:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm talking about you back, and it sends me a

522
00:29:53,680 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 1: picture of them and she's hot and she's hot, but

523
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:02,560
Speaker 1: you men, well the other girl being hotter or not

524
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,000
Speaker 1: as hot or maybe I've seen you tweet about it

525
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:08,480
Speaker 1: before it like sweating. Definitely, that's the contradiction. You know.

526
00:30:08,560 --> 00:30:10,400
Speaker 1: I was sitting here saying like, yeah, yeah, I do this,

527
00:30:10,520 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: and then they're like but not good at like me

528
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: or down? Yeah, so you agree with that, so you

529
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:25,680
Speaker 1: would you would be okay, well not okay, clearly we're

530
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 1: not okay with cheating. I don't care. Um, but would

531
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:30,680
Speaker 1: you feel a different way if the girl is uglier

532
00:30:30,720 --> 00:30:34,840
Speaker 1: than you or better looking? Trash? Like what if I

533
00:30:34,840 --> 00:30:37,160
Speaker 1: would definitely be like, nigg this is what you want

534
00:30:37,160 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 1: to go, right, and you're actually spending time with somebody

535
00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:42,760
Speaker 1: that's wager than me, Like so what if she's like

536
00:30:42,840 --> 00:30:45,120
Speaker 1: super hot? Then you get it? You know, you'd be

537
00:30:45,240 --> 00:30:50,200
Speaker 1: like I really like I really appreciate that that that Yeah,

538
00:30:50,320 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 1: but you're like okay because if it's trash, you're like, wait,

539
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:54,600
Speaker 1: this is what you want to step out on me?

540
00:30:56,760 --> 00:31:03,640
Speaker 1: Ugly girl? Thing is when you I I have totally

541
00:31:04,720 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: um damn, I lost my train of thought. What you

542
00:31:07,080 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: were gonna? Ugly girl? Oh? Umu ugly girls girls? You

543
00:31:12,560 --> 00:31:19,920
Speaker 1: know anyone? Um? Yeah, it's happened to me either way. Um,

544
00:31:19,960 --> 00:31:23,840
Speaker 1: if she would you feel worse? I think the trash

545
00:31:23,920 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: as whole NA jealous it comes from and then you're

546
00:31:31,160 --> 00:31:35,240
Speaker 1: just like damn, like what is what's like? You start

547
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 1: comparing all right, see like the other one you don't

548
00:31:37,680 --> 00:31:39,640
Speaker 1: even go pay because you like this business trash. But

549
00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:44,440
Speaker 1: then you right, yeah, but then also you start to think, like, what,

550
00:31:44,840 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 1: he must really like her because she's whack right, you know,

551
00:31:47,960 --> 00:31:51,480
Speaker 1: And that's the thing. Looks can only go so far. Absolutely,

552
00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:53,280
Speaker 1: As I was dating someone recently that was telling me

553
00:31:53,360 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 1: like the last three girls before me were Victoria's secret

554
00:31:56,080 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: bottles and I used to feel so insecure and one

555
00:31:58,480 --> 00:31:59,959
Speaker 1: of them, like two of them I follow out of three,

556
00:32:00,000 --> 00:32:02,920
Speaker 1: I'm like, oh, you know, but then he was like, look,

557
00:32:03,080 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: one of them didn't know who Hitler was, you know,

558
00:32:07,440 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 1: like you know, and that's the thing. How much Jeff

559
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,520
Speaker 1: comes after how fine you are? Absolutely? I mean that's

560
00:32:12,560 --> 00:32:14,640
Speaker 1: where you know that it is kind of like just

561
00:32:14,680 --> 00:32:17,640
Speaker 1: sex and stuff like that, so you don't really sounds

562
00:32:17,680 --> 00:32:21,160
Speaker 1: bother you that much. How has um your lifestyle? Because

563
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 1: in the book, like you know, you talk about a

564
00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:26,360
Speaker 1: feeling like a lot of emptiness or whatever emotionless or

565
00:32:26,520 --> 00:32:29,320
Speaker 1: I don't want to quote, but you said, you know

566
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,720
Speaker 1: you were like living this past space byself. How has

567
00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:33,880
Speaker 1: it kept you from finding How did you find it now?

568
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:39,080
Speaker 1: I'm not, um, Well, I'm dating someone right now. I'm

569
00:32:39,200 --> 00:32:42,080
Speaker 1: dating someone right now. The person that I was with

570
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:46,920
Speaker 1: before it was it was horrible, like it was it

571
00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: was good and bad, but it was like really crazy,

572
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: like how do you meet? Like are you are you

573
00:32:51,800 --> 00:32:55,880
Speaker 1: on dating side because we're active side. No, No, actually

574
00:32:56,440 --> 00:33:02,160
Speaker 1: I've been on sugar Daddy sites before, but I'm still

575
00:33:02,200 --> 00:33:06,240
Speaker 1: on that actively. But I wasn't um In the last

576
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:10,080
Speaker 1: couple of like the last two years, I've been trying

577
00:33:10,480 --> 00:33:12,520
Speaker 1: to kind of I don't want to say find myself,

578
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:16,680
Speaker 1: but I did kind of put down because I knew

579
00:33:16,720 --> 00:33:19,080
Speaker 1: that I finally got to a point where I realized

580
00:33:19,120 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 1: that the dating and the hopping around, the serial dating

581
00:33:22,040 --> 00:33:23,760
Speaker 1: and hopping around from dude to do two dude was

582
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,840
Speaker 1: distracting me from what I needed to find out about myself.

583
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,480
Speaker 1: So once I got that, I'm there right now. So

584
00:33:31,600 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: once I got that epiphany and realized, this is why

585
00:33:34,960 --> 00:33:37,960
Speaker 1: you thought having a hundred boyfriends was cool because you

586
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: wanted to distract yourself from having, you know, emotional problems

587
00:33:42,680 --> 00:33:45,720
Speaker 1: and how when you find love? Right, Like are you meeting?

588
00:33:46,240 --> 00:33:48,080
Speaker 1: Because the thing is like you have a caliber that

589
00:33:48,120 --> 00:33:50,240
Speaker 1: you want to amend that you're seeking money from. What

590
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 1: about the dudes that you end up with? Yeah, the

591
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:56,800
Speaker 1: guy the well, because I was chasing money for so long.

592
00:33:56,880 --> 00:34:00,520
Speaker 1: You don't end up with a high quality guy, you know,

593
00:34:00,680 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 1: because it doesn't matter what type of quality he is

594
00:34:03,560 --> 00:34:06,160
Speaker 1: as long he got some money. So if he got

595
00:34:06,200 --> 00:34:07,680
Speaker 1: some money and he ready to spend it on you,

596
00:34:07,680 --> 00:34:09,799
Speaker 1: you sometimes don't even get that intimate with them. As

597
00:34:09,800 --> 00:34:11,400
Speaker 1: long as they putting off the money. You don't care

598
00:34:11,440 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 1: what he's doing when he's not doing whatever. And then

599
00:34:13,520 --> 00:34:16,799
Speaker 1: even when you do get really intimate with somebody, as

600
00:34:16,840 --> 00:34:18,279
Speaker 1: long as he got the money, if he keep on

601
00:34:18,320 --> 00:34:20,239
Speaker 1: sucking up, as long as he turning around and giving

602
00:34:20,239 --> 00:34:29,920
Speaker 1: you money, buying satisfied exactly questions forever us, Oh, God,

603
00:34:30,440 --> 00:34:32,799
Speaker 1: richest guy you've dated? What did he do? What did

604
00:34:32,800 --> 00:34:36,640
Speaker 1: he have that was like most people with drug dealers,

605
00:34:36,680 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: like most people would dealers in the streets. Um, I

606
00:34:40,719 --> 00:34:46,160
Speaker 1: had a guy who was um an exact at um

607
00:34:46,400 --> 00:34:51,320
Speaker 1: like for a motor group. I had UM. What was

608
00:34:51,400 --> 00:34:53,000
Speaker 1: something that was like, oh my god, this is richest?

609
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:54,799
Speaker 1: Felt like how's car? Like? What was something that like

610
00:34:54,880 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 1: this was like money to you? Or like do you

611
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,440
Speaker 1: know like how much they were bringing in? Like what

612
00:34:58,480 --> 00:35:02,279
Speaker 1: was there your I never cared. I never even till

613
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:04,279
Speaker 1: this day people tell me like, oh, I googled him,

614
00:35:04,280 --> 00:35:08,880
Speaker 1: and I'm like him like I don't care. One of

615
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:12,319
Speaker 1: the guys that I was talking to very briefly, but

616
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:14,440
Speaker 1: he did something like things for me, but it wasn't

617
00:35:14,640 --> 00:35:17,799
Speaker 1: it didn't go that far because he was just we

618
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:23,160
Speaker 1: were just too totally different. He was a Russian um

619
00:35:23,200 --> 00:35:31,280
Speaker 1: scientists who who um came out with the drug for Alzheimer's.

620
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:37,560
Speaker 1: He had like that, huh had to meet him on

621
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:40,840
Speaker 1: the airplane coming from That's right. So it's funny you

622
00:35:40,880 --> 00:35:43,399
Speaker 1: say that because like the richest person I ever met,

623
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,919
Speaker 1: Everybody's like, where did I him? I'm like, dude, at

624
00:35:45,960 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: my job, literally like crazy, he paid for something that

625
00:35:50,840 --> 00:35:53,080
Speaker 1: was really expensive. I was like, wow, I want anything

626
00:35:53,120 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: by me. Then he was like, oh, yeah, you know what,

627
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:58,000
Speaker 1: I'll take care of my plane. Yeah, And that's pretty

628
00:35:58,040 --> 00:36:02,439
Speaker 1: much the way is scary. Like when you meet someone

629
00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,040
Speaker 1: that's that rich. Have you ever made someone? Have you ever?

630
00:36:05,080 --> 00:36:07,200
Speaker 1: I mean I'm kind of assuming no, but to women

631
00:36:07,200 --> 00:36:10,600
Speaker 1: that might or have you ever felt intimidated by someone's money?

632
00:36:11,040 --> 00:36:14,680
Speaker 1: M what about in situations like whether it be restaurants,

633
00:36:14,680 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 1: like to anything that made you feel like because I

634
00:36:17,960 --> 00:36:21,319
Speaker 1: always wanted it, because I always wanted There's a lot

635
00:36:21,360 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: of women that will know some people because they have

636
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 1: this insecurity about them, like, oh, they're gonna know that

637
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 1: I don't have it. That's the point is you don't

638
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:33,759
Speaker 1: have enough your money. But I see that you even say,

639
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:36,200
Speaker 1: and you're like how to come about asking? And in

640
00:36:36,280 --> 00:36:38,799
Speaker 1: terms of the richest guy, like my best friend has

641
00:36:38,840 --> 00:36:41,440
Speaker 1: a hundred and twenty million dollar contract like with the Pelicans,

642
00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:44,359
Speaker 1: like everyone knows, like he's my best friend. Um, and

643
00:36:44,520 --> 00:36:47,520
Speaker 1: I've dealt with guys with a million dollar contracts often.

644
00:36:47,800 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 1: But the way, what's the richest non celeb athlete? My African?

645
00:36:52,239 --> 00:36:55,160
Speaker 1: And he's the one. He's my African and he um.

646
00:36:55,200 --> 00:36:57,520
Speaker 1: I saw him twice in the total time I was

647
00:36:57,560 --> 00:36:59,200
Speaker 1: dealing with each other before his business and he had

648
00:36:59,200 --> 00:37:01,400
Speaker 1: a legit business. Um he did most of his business

649
00:37:01,440 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 1: in China and he um, I mean ships seen him

650
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: twice and I've got about thirty thousand dollars out of him,

651
00:37:08,160 --> 00:37:11,040
Speaker 1: so he pretty much was he helped me get back

652
00:37:11,040 --> 00:37:13,840
Speaker 1: into school. Way it was comfortable. Yeah, well it's a

653
00:37:13,880 --> 00:37:16,640
Speaker 1: salary for some people, but literally having to see him twice,

654
00:37:16,680 --> 00:37:19,120
Speaker 1: I don't know who a lot of people's salary. Bitch,

655
00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:20,880
Speaker 1: what are you in New York? No? Not here? But

656
00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:26,280
Speaker 1: thirty thousands of girl that's starting salary the average five girls,

657
00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:34,799
Speaker 1: the average household in African American is like yeah, like

658
00:37:35,760 --> 00:37:37,600
Speaker 1: I'd be looking at the subway things like a wages

659
00:37:37,640 --> 00:37:44,600
Speaker 1: fourteen Yeah. No bro, like no, still thirty yeah, And

660
00:37:44,600 --> 00:37:46,120
Speaker 1: then you have to realize then there's you know, I

661
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:47,920
Speaker 1: do tax, so then you have to look at the

662
00:37:47,960 --> 00:37:50,680
Speaker 1: tax factor associated with that. They're not even bringing home

663
00:37:50,719 --> 00:37:54,240
Speaker 1: thirty thousand. So I got yeah. So he was probably

664
00:37:54,400 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 1: my most wealthiest and generous non athlete or celebrity, and

665
00:37:59,760 --> 00:38:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm at him through a friend. My friend was like,

666
00:38:02,440 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 1: oh my god, I know this guy who would love you. Um. Yeah,

667
00:38:06,800 --> 00:38:10,520
Speaker 1: my friend was and um and yeah, and pretty much

668
00:38:10,520 --> 00:38:13,239
Speaker 1: in our first conversation, he wanted me to know he

669
00:38:13,280 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 1: was legit, so he was like, semi your information. I

670
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:18,600
Speaker 1: got a thousand dollars within twenty four hours talking to him,

671
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,640
Speaker 1: and then saw him maybe like a couple of weeks later.

672
00:38:21,040 --> 00:38:23,799
Speaker 1: So I got another one. Is there any advice you

673
00:38:23,840 --> 00:38:26,520
Speaker 1: gave in your book that you're like, why did I

674
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:29,880
Speaker 1: say that? Well, wish you said it different. Even at

675
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,120
Speaker 1: the ending, she says, I know, while I was writing this,

676
00:38:32,200 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: I don't even want to put this, but you know what,

677
00:38:34,560 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: I wanted it to be real. And I know that

678
00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,080
Speaker 1: a lot of the things you said you were like,

679
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: but let me be really a lot of times like

680
00:38:41,200 --> 00:38:43,680
Speaker 1: I know that this is blah blah blah, but but

681
00:38:43,960 --> 00:38:48,759
Speaker 1: I prefaced a lot of things saying like because you

682
00:38:48,880 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: just gotta add the disclaimer, and for everybody who wants

683
00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:55,520
Speaker 1: to criticize, and because they will and points out all

684
00:38:55,520 --> 00:38:57,879
Speaker 1: the contradictions and be like, oh, what are you trying

685
00:38:57,920 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 1: to What are you trying to say here? What are

686
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:00,880
Speaker 1: you trying to tell? Cheer? What are you trying to

687
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,760
Speaker 1: do here? You know? And I wanted to be fair

688
00:39:04,920 --> 00:39:07,719
Speaker 1: to everybody who wanted to read the book and what

689
00:39:07,760 --> 00:39:09,440
Speaker 1: they wanted to read it for. So I wanted to

690
00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:10,800
Speaker 1: be fair for the people who wanted to read it

691
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,080
Speaker 1: because they wanted to know how to get money out

692
00:39:12,080 --> 00:39:14,120
Speaker 1: of a guy. And then I wanted to you know,

693
00:39:14,239 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 1: just in dating situation whatever. And then I wanted to

694
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:18,400
Speaker 1: be fair to the people who are like, Okay, but

695
00:39:18,480 --> 00:39:20,480
Speaker 1: I got a boyfriend and he's cheap as fun, So

696
00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,040
Speaker 1: what do I do? What? You know? And we actually

697
00:39:23,040 --> 00:39:26,200
Speaker 1: had the discussion to about who your audience was, because

698
00:39:26,239 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: here we go like one of the beginning, it felt

699
00:39:29,840 --> 00:39:32,520
Speaker 1: some of the things I was reading were like but

700
00:39:32,719 --> 00:39:35,520
Speaker 1: even like the one thing of asking, and you feel

701
00:39:35,560 --> 00:39:37,560
Speaker 1: like things you should know. That's what we mean by saying, well,

702
00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: not only that you have something that you do often

703
00:39:39,600 --> 00:39:42,200
Speaker 1: and we literally probably me heard my other friend had

704
00:39:42,200 --> 00:39:44,600
Speaker 1: like our discussion about this last night or two nights

705
00:39:44,600 --> 00:39:48,000
Speaker 1: to go. And you have a challenge, the cutting challenge

706
00:39:48,280 --> 00:39:50,680
Speaker 1: that you do often. And so for you guys who

707
00:39:50,680 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 1: do not follow Cutty her cutty challenge is that whoever

708
00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,400
Speaker 1: you're currently fucking or whoever you're currently with, asked them

709
00:39:57,440 --> 00:39:59,560
Speaker 1: for a hundred dollars. Well, that's one of the well

710
00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:02,400
Speaker 1: that's differ one. This is this is the famous one.

711
00:40:02,400 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: And tell us, well, there's been saving challenges, the saving

712
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:08,960
Speaker 1: challenge right for the twenty dollars that you listening clearly

713
00:40:08,960 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 1: now the want your challenge about, Oh, asked the dude

714
00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:16,560
Speaker 1: that you fun with if you got sick and couldn't wipe,

715
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,400
Speaker 1: you asked, what do you do it for you? Just

716
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: so in regards that's a good one. The hundred dollar

717
00:40:22,200 --> 00:40:24,400
Speaker 1: one you mentioned it in the book as well. Um,

718
00:40:24,520 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 1: and and not in the same sense, but more so

719
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:29,120
Speaker 1: asking they're gonna pay your phone bill, which you know,

720
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:32,400
Speaker 1: my phone bill is one dollars. So we literally we

721
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:34,400
Speaker 1: got so we literally got into it because I was

722
00:40:34,440 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: just like, so my pussy worth hundreds, I'm supposed to

723
00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:39,880
Speaker 1: be sucking a nigga for a hundred thirty four dollars,

724
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:41,680
Speaker 1: And so we're literally talking about it, and we're like,

725
00:40:42,200 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 1: I'm not asking no guy for less than five hundred

726
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,920
Speaker 1: dollars because to me, I'm gonna seem like a basic bitch.

727
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,960
Speaker 1: I'm not asking no guy for a hundred and thirty

728
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,120
Speaker 1: four dollars. I'm just not. And I think you actually

729
00:40:51,360 --> 00:40:53,040
Speaker 1: get into that and kind of what we were talking

730
00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:57,080
Speaker 1: to the end, not until the end, when you're thirty.

731
00:40:58,040 --> 00:41:01,800
Speaker 1: There's a pride issue. And so I was also telling her, however,

732
00:41:01,920 --> 00:41:05,279
Speaker 1: because what some of us don't realize. Me and a

733
00:41:05,320 --> 00:41:08,160
Speaker 1: lot of my friends deal with millionaires. We've had millionaires.

734
00:41:08,239 --> 00:41:09,759
Speaker 1: And I was like, girl, you gotta realize some of

735
00:41:09,760 --> 00:41:11,279
Speaker 1: these girls work at call centers and talk to the

736
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,600
Speaker 1: guy in FedEx a hundred and thirty four dollars. There's

737
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:17,000
Speaker 1: a lot that someone maybe making thirty thou so in

738
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 1: terms in terms of this hasn't been brought to you,

739
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:22,120
Speaker 1: and I think it has, but I want to know

740
00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,480
Speaker 1: what your response is at this point, and you say,

741
00:41:25,360 --> 00:41:28,640
Speaker 1: I don't want to don't put it but dollars, By

742
00:41:28,680 --> 00:41:32,120
Speaker 1: my god, Not only that, but you're essentially putting a price,

743
00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:33,520
Speaker 1: like so, do you not suck a guy if he

744
00:41:33,560 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 1: doesn't give you this hundred and thirty four dollars? And

745
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:39,000
Speaker 1: if so, like so, are you some Well this is

746
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:42,080
Speaker 1: the thing, this is right? Okay, let's use your hundred

747
00:41:42,600 --> 00:41:47,440
Speaker 1: dollars as an example. All right, you don't want to

748
00:41:47,480 --> 00:41:49,960
Speaker 1: ask somebody for a hundred and thirty four dollars because

749
00:41:50,200 --> 00:41:51,960
Speaker 1: it's gonna make it look like I don't have a

750
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: hundred or damn it only hundred ft dollars. But now

751
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 1: you're spending a hundred thirty dollars of your own money

752
00:42:02,320 --> 00:42:06,800
Speaker 1: that you didn't have to because it's like he's gonna

753
00:42:06,960 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: say yes if he has that much money. But you

754
00:42:09,680 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: don't ask for a hundred thirty foot dollars. You can say,

755
00:42:12,480 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: can you pay my phone bill? Then he's gonna ask

756
00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:18,960
Speaker 1: how much does it call? And then you know, so

757
00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 1: you're not necessarily asking four hundreds. You are, but it's

758
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,279
Speaker 1: more about the this bill? Can you take care of

759
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:28,759
Speaker 1: it if you may not want to ask for the

760
00:42:28,840 --> 00:42:31,360
Speaker 1: hundred dollars, so you may say, can you pay my

761
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: car insurance? Because I'm not gonna lie. I was even

762
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:35,759
Speaker 1: telling my friends. I was like, I be asking for tuitions.

763
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:43,600
Speaker 1: You a question personal. Um, I haven't really dated a

764
00:42:43,600 --> 00:42:45,920
Speaker 1: man that made less than me or even equal in

765
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 1: the last few years. Especially in New York. It's kind

766
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 1: of almost hard, you know, like you mean finance whatever,

767
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:53,560
Speaker 1: especially where I live. I live in the city. The

768
00:42:53,600 --> 00:42:55,719
Speaker 1: guy I'm doing right now, I mean, he's got me

769
00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:59,000
Speaker 1: some expensive stuff before. But I get I like to

770
00:42:59,040 --> 00:43:01,080
Speaker 1: give a lot of gifts, especially because I come to

771
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:04,160
Speaker 1: somebody's house. I'm talking to the natural gift giving right here,

772
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,000
Speaker 1: until like, do I lessen the power shog of there

773
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,640
Speaker 1: by giving gifts? Like let's say, maybe on the third

774
00:43:11,719 --> 00:43:13,800
Speaker 1: or fourth day, I brought him back to guards from Cuba.

775
00:43:13,840 --> 00:43:16,920
Speaker 1: That was one. Then the second thing was he was

776
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,560
Speaker 1: going on a plane, so I got him a book

777
00:43:18,719 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 1: and then the inside the book was born, but the

778
00:43:20,160 --> 00:43:24,279
Speaker 1: outside was like, these are creative gifts. That's fun. But

779
00:43:24,360 --> 00:43:26,920
Speaker 1: do the gift giving is the gift giving thirsty? No,

780
00:43:27,760 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: the gift giving is like, um, like bait kind of

781
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:36,920
Speaker 1: because it's like I'm giving you something small because in return,

782
00:43:37,640 --> 00:43:42,080
Speaker 1: my this thoughtful thing is probably gonna get me something bigger,

783
00:43:42,600 --> 00:43:47,319
Speaker 1: you know, like the right the cigars in Cuba are

784
00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,640
Speaker 1: not gonna cause you two thousand dollars, you know. So

785
00:43:49,680 --> 00:43:54,120
Speaker 1: it's like you wasul, I thought of you. I brought

786
00:43:54,120 --> 00:43:57,000
Speaker 1: you back something. You know, next time he might just

787
00:43:57,000 --> 00:44:00,319
Speaker 1: take you want to try, you know, or hello, she's

788
00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:02,440
Speaker 1: actually going to Venice in a couple of weeks. But

789
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:07,480
Speaker 1: this period on check and I was like, you know,

790
00:44:07,520 --> 00:44:09,000
Speaker 1: I'm crying a lot lately. She was like, let's put

791
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:14,120
Speaker 1: you outside. I'm like, Katherine, I cannot leave from the

792
00:44:14,200 --> 00:44:16,080
Speaker 1: first to the fit. So whatever. Then you got to

793
00:44:16,120 --> 00:44:19,360
Speaker 1: shoot it up. Do not make my vagina start? She's like,

794
00:44:19,360 --> 00:44:21,160
Speaker 1: got it? And and do you have an event? No, bitch,

795
00:44:21,160 --> 00:44:24,440
Speaker 1: I have fun. I have dick to get to. So

796
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:27,280
Speaker 1: I have a question, UM again, and this is pertaining

797
00:44:27,320 --> 00:44:29,279
Speaker 1: to not only the title, but maybe feedback you would

798
00:44:29,280 --> 00:44:31,560
Speaker 1: have received from men about this. And I think Tahoe

799
00:44:31,600 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 1: brought it up on your UM interview with lip service

800
00:44:34,880 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 1: or whatever. So the M and man is for money

801
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:40,759
Speaker 1: At any point in time has any of the male

802
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 1: followers or even some of the women questioned this crossing

803
00:44:44,000 --> 00:44:48,200
Speaker 1: the line or meeting the line of prostitution um because

804
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:50,719
Speaker 1: essentially it's getting money from men. A lot of times

805
00:44:50,719 --> 00:44:53,080
Speaker 1: there are sexual favors. Although for the married men you

806
00:44:53,120 --> 00:44:54,799
Speaker 1: did say, bitch, hold out on the pussy as long

807
00:44:54,880 --> 00:44:56,640
Speaker 1: as you can just get what you can from him.

808
00:44:56,680 --> 00:44:59,640
Speaker 1: But like the people who knew who I was, they

809
00:44:59,680 --> 00:45:03,719
Speaker 1: were surprised, right, but real people people like when I

810
00:45:03,719 --> 00:45:05,400
Speaker 1: went on blit Service, some of the comments and it

811
00:45:05,560 --> 00:45:09,680
Speaker 1: was like this bitch is a bride trash. Even again,

812
00:45:09,800 --> 00:45:11,840
Speaker 1: there was responses, And that's why I asked, like for

813
00:45:11,840 --> 00:45:13,680
Speaker 1: people who don't know, because even people who listen to

814
00:45:13,719 --> 00:45:15,720
Speaker 1: our show, I don't know how you guys don't know, cutty.

815
00:45:15,920 --> 00:45:17,439
Speaker 1: But I don't want it to be like so y'all

816
00:45:17,480 --> 00:45:20,080
Speaker 1: just asking for money, because y'all, like, what is the

817
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:23,960
Speaker 1: line that you draw to where it's not my idea

818
00:45:24,080 --> 00:45:26,719
Speaker 1: of it is just that they just need to be

819
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:28,719
Speaker 1: the one spending the money. I don't care what the

820
00:45:28,760 --> 00:45:30,440
Speaker 1: equation is. I don't care. If you make less of

821
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:32,960
Speaker 1: you make more of you if you don't have a job.

822
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:35,120
Speaker 1: If you do have a job, you get it from somewhere.

823
00:45:35,160 --> 00:45:36,759
Speaker 1: I don't care if you want to sk with me.

824
00:45:39,360 --> 00:45:44,200
Speaker 1: That's right. Um, you said something. It is like literally

825
00:45:44,239 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: how I feel about life, about life, so I am

826
00:45:49,760 --> 00:45:53,480
Speaker 1: very um submissive right in. But I do have a

827
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:56,879
Speaker 1: dominant role of work, and I feel like a lot

828
00:45:56,920 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 1: of times I've been in shitty relationships, so I think

829
00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,400
Speaker 1: that well, where men were just using that money to

830
00:46:04,440 --> 00:46:06,920
Speaker 1: control me. But you said this, and I want to

831
00:46:07,000 --> 00:46:09,920
Speaker 1: quote it. I loved this. I like the security. I

832
00:46:09,960 --> 00:46:12,560
Speaker 1: like him having a certain confidence and power that comes

833
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:15,120
Speaker 1: along with being the breadwinner. Even with him having more

834
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: money than me, I would not be able to be

835
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:20,759
Speaker 1: controlled by it. Um, how do women make sure that

836
00:46:20,800 --> 00:46:22,200
Speaker 1: they're not? I know you said in your book, but

837
00:46:22,200 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 1: I think they need to hear all more time. Well,

838
00:46:25,280 --> 00:46:28,360
Speaker 1: the key is to always have your ship together. Regard

839
00:46:28,560 --> 00:46:33,640
Speaker 1: it does not matter because that he will never be

840
00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:35,919
Speaker 1: able to control you as long as if he kicked

841
00:46:35,920 --> 00:46:38,120
Speaker 1: you to the curb. Okay, you're fine. If you decide

842
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:40,640
Speaker 1: to leave, you're fine. That is the number one thing.

843
00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:44,239
Speaker 1: If you don't have if if once he stops funding you,

844
00:46:44,239 --> 00:46:47,040
Speaker 1: you the rugg is pulled from under your feet and

845
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:53,719
Speaker 1: you fold to your knees. Then you've you haven't secured yourself.

846
00:46:53,800 --> 00:46:56,360
Speaker 1: So that's the thing for me. I'm always going to

847
00:46:56,440 --> 00:46:58,600
Speaker 1: make sure that i'm good. Like I'm never gonna be

848
00:46:58,719 --> 00:47:02,080
Speaker 1: If I have a guy paying my for eleven months

849
00:47:02,160 --> 00:47:03,960
Speaker 1: and he doesn't pay it for the twelfth month, I'm

850
00:47:03,960 --> 00:47:08,239
Speaker 1: not gonna get evicted. Right, It's like I'm gonna I know,

851
00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,520
Speaker 1: and I'm never gonna get anything more than I can afford.

852
00:47:11,560 --> 00:47:15,040
Speaker 1: So yeah, it's nice if a god wants I think.

853
00:47:15,080 --> 00:47:16,600
Speaker 1: I think all the time. And this is something that

854
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:18,799
Speaker 1: I even wrote in my book, and it was more

855
00:47:18,800 --> 00:47:21,439
Speaker 1: so about the flying out and dealing with athletes, of course,

856
00:47:21,680 --> 00:47:23,560
Speaker 1: and it was literally, if you're gonna go on a

857
00:47:23,640 --> 00:47:26,600
Speaker 1: date with anyone, even so, if you're sitting here with

858
00:47:26,719 --> 00:47:29,280
Speaker 1: your bag and you're looking at a stake and lobster,

859
00:47:29,640 --> 00:47:31,560
Speaker 1: and that ship is a hunt because when you do

860
00:47:31,600 --> 00:47:34,560
Speaker 1: market price, that ship gets expensive. So if you're looking

861
00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,520
Speaker 1: at something that might cost around a hundred and fifty

862
00:47:36,520 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: and you're sitting with eighty seven dollars in your account, honey,

863
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,880
Speaker 1: don't order like. And I literally say, if you're on

864
00:47:40,920 --> 00:47:42,520
Speaker 1: a date with anyone, this could be us going on

865
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 1: tender date. Anyone never ordered anything on the menu that

866
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,960
Speaker 1: is above what you have because at the end, right

867
00:47:49,000 --> 00:47:52,920
Speaker 1: at the end, he might be like, you know, you

868
00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 1: never know. I've never been in that situation, but people

869
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:00,680
Speaker 1: have told you because the needs a lot of money

870
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: doesn't mean what about He didn't even listen and said

871
00:48:09,520 --> 00:48:11,640
Speaker 1: I had one. I met a guy on Tinder, went well,

872
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:14,680
Speaker 1: it was okay, right, I just got busy. So one

873
00:48:14,680 --> 00:48:17,120
Speaker 1: of the date, UM, I offered to pay, always offer

874
00:48:17,160 --> 00:48:18,440
Speaker 1: to pay, or no, I excuse me, not pay. I

875
00:48:18,480 --> 00:48:20,359
Speaker 1: offered to split. I said, do I need to get

876
00:48:20,840 --> 00:48:22,440
Speaker 1: I don't know if I say do, I just say

877
00:48:22,640 --> 00:48:26,080
Speaker 1: like I'll just make the judge gesture, thank you and

878
00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,480
Speaker 1: uh so, anyway, we said goodbye, text me the night,

879
00:48:28,520 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 1: had a great time. I said, you have me to

880
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:32,160
Speaker 1: Let's get together soon. That morning he texted me and

881
00:48:32,200 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 1: said the next night, excuse me a nine pm, Hey,

882
00:48:35,400 --> 00:48:37,160
Speaker 1: I want to grab a drink again. I didn't write

883
00:48:37,160 --> 00:48:40,759
Speaker 1: back the first time. What happened? We just play? No, no,

884
00:48:40,800 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: we didn't offered and he paid um and then he

885
00:48:43,560 --> 00:48:45,040
Speaker 1: said love to see again and see me too. Next

886
00:48:45,120 --> 00:48:47,040
Speaker 1: night he wrote me around nine ish, I probably was

887
00:48:47,040 --> 00:48:49,640
Speaker 1: out with another dude, and he said, um, can I

888
00:48:49,640 --> 00:48:53,080
Speaker 1: see you again. So nine thirty or ten that morning,

889
00:48:53,080 --> 00:48:55,080
Speaker 1: I know, twelve hours didn't go by. I woke up

890
00:48:55,080 --> 00:48:57,040
Speaker 1: to a text that said, this is my square cash

891
00:48:57,400 --> 00:49:01,360
Speaker 1: and your portion was fifty Yeah, when that is right?

892
00:49:01,719 --> 00:49:04,360
Speaker 1: Because I didn't write back quick enough. He wanted a

893
00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:07,040
Speaker 1: refund basically for the day from for the first day,

894
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:13,400
Speaker 1: for the first day. Yeah. Yeah, it's like the funny

895
00:49:13,400 --> 00:49:18,520
Speaker 1: thing is everybody bumble. I just wanted to really reinforce

896
00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,640
Speaker 1: what you said. This dude is a real estate broker,

897
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:24,319
Speaker 1: not agent. Um lives in five die great apartment, Like

898
00:49:24,520 --> 00:49:26,760
Speaker 1: I only know because we were showing views and comparing

899
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:28,440
Speaker 1: and whatever. Did you say anything back or did you

900
00:49:28,480 --> 00:49:34,279
Speaker 1: just ignore I have fastpare cash that and I said,

901
00:49:34,280 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 1: I offered to pay you to check your It's so

902
00:49:37,000 --> 00:49:40,080
Speaker 1: it's going to refund the only time that I completely offer,

903
00:49:40,200 --> 00:49:42,399
Speaker 1: like or you know, what's the only way that I'll

904
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:45,200
Speaker 1: even pay half or pay my portion? And if I

905
00:49:45,239 --> 00:49:49,520
Speaker 1: completely hated the date, I don't want I got split

906
00:49:49,560 --> 00:49:51,920
Speaker 1: the check. Plase split the check, and I've done that

907
00:49:51,960 --> 00:49:53,919
Speaker 1: on at times if I really don't like the guy.

908
00:49:54,560 --> 00:49:57,120
Speaker 1: At this point, I just want to can I get

909
00:49:57,160 --> 00:50:02,200
Speaker 1: my never You've never that I've never had some bad days.

910
00:50:03,520 --> 00:50:05,359
Speaker 1: You don't go on a lot of you don't date

911
00:50:05,400 --> 00:50:08,799
Speaker 1: a lot because you can't in all of them, and

912
00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:11,759
Speaker 1: so I have really great dates. But to pay your

913
00:50:11,760 --> 00:50:15,719
Speaker 1: half count half no, no, I wrote what you said.

914
00:50:15,719 --> 00:50:17,360
Speaker 1: I feel the same way. I think study is so tacky.

915
00:50:18,400 --> 00:50:19,960
Speaker 1: If I'm gonna pay, I'm gonna pay the whole thing.

916
00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,880
Speaker 1: Like there's even times when when you're like, if I

917
00:50:22,920 --> 00:50:25,439
Speaker 1: do pay the whole thing, I'm never I'm not really

918
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:27,399
Speaker 1: gonna sunk with you after that. Right, if I pay

919
00:50:27,480 --> 00:50:29,640
Speaker 1: the whole thing the first time, I'm probably not. It's

920
00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,520
Speaker 1: so funny because I think you've help. But we've even

921
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,600
Speaker 1: said that when it comes to spling and doing all that,

922
00:50:33,719 --> 00:50:35,239
Speaker 1: first of all, it's tacking. I think you've mentioned this

923
00:50:35,280 --> 00:50:38,759
Speaker 1: about birthday dinners, fucking Christ and so like you can

924
00:50:38,880 --> 00:50:41,920
Speaker 1: always bring cash, and you know, here you go and

925
00:50:41,960 --> 00:50:45,080
Speaker 1: I'm out and I'll figure it out, and I always

926
00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:49,200
Speaker 1: put more, though more than because right, a lot a

927
00:50:49,200 --> 00:50:51,239
Speaker 1: lot of people don't know because they're gonna just say

928
00:50:51,239 --> 00:50:54,680
Speaker 1: they're gonna they're gonna take. But wait, you forgot. When

929
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:57,120
Speaker 1: they do that, they take their meal and their drink,

930
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,560
Speaker 1: they don't account for it to ever, so even when

931
00:51:00,600 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 1: we go out, like she'll put it on her card

932
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 1: and we just square cash for everything because we just

933
00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: you know, I hate like to this with this. If

934
00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:11,640
Speaker 1: she gets to drinks and I get one, fine, and

935
00:51:11,719 --> 00:51:14,799
Speaker 1: I just don't care. But I am so conscious about

936
00:51:14,840 --> 00:51:17,400
Speaker 1: it with other people. If I get to drinks and

937
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:20,040
Speaker 1: she gets one drink, I'm not even gonna give her

938
00:51:20,080 --> 00:51:24,000
Speaker 1: the opportunity to feel like, damn, she got too and

939
00:51:24,000 --> 00:51:27,120
Speaker 1: I got one. So I always give more even if

940
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:30,239
Speaker 1: she doesn't care. I care. But it's a girl. If

941
00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:32,760
Speaker 1: it's a guy, then I'm like, keep paying for everything.

942
00:51:32,800 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 1: But but it's the cheap thing like people even with money,

943
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,000
Speaker 1: like just but you know what the problem is. We

944
00:51:38,080 --> 00:51:43,200
Speaker 1: gotta understand everybody don't have money. Everything I'm specifically talking

945
00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:45,520
Speaker 1: about when you said cheap and this dude had money, no, yeah,

946
00:51:45,560 --> 00:51:49,280
Speaker 1: and that that cheap when you're not generous, like yeah, see,

947
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:52,239
Speaker 1: this is the thing I had to say to myself.

948
00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:57,480
Speaker 1: These my ideologies come from the fact that the people

949
00:51:57,600 --> 00:52:05,520
Speaker 1: that I've encountered had money. It's from people who are listening,

950
00:52:05,560 --> 00:52:08,200
Speaker 1: like you said, who make thirty dollars and that they

951
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:14,000
Speaker 1: deal with different right, so they're not they're like, so,

952
00:52:14,040 --> 00:52:15,800
Speaker 1: how do I get his whole thirty thousand dollars? You

953
00:52:16,080 --> 00:52:18,719
Speaker 1: makes you know what I mean? So it's kind of

954
00:52:18,760 --> 00:52:21,640
Speaker 1: like you. That's why you have to understand that it's

955
00:52:21,640 --> 00:52:24,960
Speaker 1: not so much about the dollar amount. It's more the

956
00:52:25,160 --> 00:52:27,640
Speaker 1: idea of what it is. Like that, that's what I'm saying.

957
00:52:27,640 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: It's not a hundred and thirty four dollars? Can you

958
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,799
Speaker 1: pay my phone bill? Like some girl that I was

959
00:52:31,840 --> 00:52:33,800
Speaker 1: talking to the other day, she was saying something about

960
00:52:34,280 --> 00:52:37,520
Speaker 1: um something. I was like, girl, next week, you would

961
00:52:37,560 --> 00:52:39,239
Speaker 1: have just asked him to get your hair done. And

962
00:52:39,320 --> 00:52:43,480
Speaker 1: she was like, oh yeah, because that's coming out of

963
00:52:43,480 --> 00:52:46,879
Speaker 1: your chat. Coming every Friday you get Patty, You're like, okay,

964
00:52:46,880 --> 00:52:48,360
Speaker 1: I gotta go get my head that that's a hundred

965
00:52:48,360 --> 00:52:50,960
Speaker 1: dollars a hundred You know. I love what men just

966
00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:54,320
Speaker 1: notice before you even have to say the guy, there's

967
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:57,759
Speaker 1: something that it's always to be a very rare and

968
00:52:57,800 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: you last time when it happened, I was out with

969
00:53:01,360 --> 00:53:03,440
Speaker 1: the stude paid for everything all night and I was like,

970
00:53:03,440 --> 00:53:04,839
Speaker 1: oh my god, my brest, I gotta get some gun.

971
00:53:05,120 --> 00:53:07,640
Speaker 1: I ran into Dwayne reading. Do you know he ran

972
00:53:07,719 --> 00:53:12,120
Speaker 1: behind me to pay for that fucking guy that to me, Man,

973
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:14,400
Speaker 1: don't do that, okay, and so crazy. Well I had

974
00:53:14,440 --> 00:53:16,240
Speaker 1: to run and try. Didn't even go in my pocket

975
00:53:16,280 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 1: one time. And I was telling I was telling Crystal

976
00:53:18,960 --> 00:53:21,640
Speaker 1: this like unfortunately though, like like how she said, that's

977
00:53:21,719 --> 00:53:23,799
Speaker 1: rare because even the guys on my phone that do

978
00:53:24,120 --> 00:53:26,160
Speaker 1: give me money if I asked for it. Oh, but

979
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: they want a dollar, Well, how much do you want?

980
00:53:27,920 --> 00:53:30,040
Speaker 1: I'm not just gonna send X amounted out and tell

981
00:53:30,080 --> 00:53:33,879
Speaker 1: me a motherfuck come out and we'll literally go we don't.

982
00:53:33,960 --> 00:53:36,560
Speaker 1: You don't know what to ask for. So I was like, okay,

983
00:53:36,640 --> 00:53:40,600
Speaker 1: seven because it's literally like, hey, I'm the one who

984
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:42,640
Speaker 1: says and you're saying that I need some help, Well,

985
00:53:42,680 --> 00:53:47,200
Speaker 1: they want to help, and they will negotiate if you

986
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:50,120
Speaker 1: say that, be like, well I can give you exactly,

987
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,120
Speaker 1: go on, go on, you have to ask you to

988
00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,319
Speaker 1: do business. Everyone like, well you know what, We're gonna

989
00:53:56,320 --> 00:53:58,040
Speaker 1: start you off with a hundred of these and they're

990
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:02,279
Speaker 1: like no, no no, no, no, I don't. Okay, tell you so,

991
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:05,680
Speaker 1: absolutely so, And that's the negotiation is a good way

992
00:54:05,719 --> 00:54:08,040
Speaker 1: of looking at it. Like I said, don't think about

993
00:54:08,360 --> 00:54:11,160
Speaker 1: hundred thirty four dollars, think about a hundred thirty four

994
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:14,839
Speaker 1: dollars times twelve months. You're paying that hundred dollars. Old,

995
00:54:15,520 --> 00:54:17,560
Speaker 1: see what you did with the phone village right so

996
00:54:17,760 --> 00:54:20,800
Speaker 1: now exactly so that hundred dollars that you can go

997
00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:21,960
Speaker 1: get your head done, that you could go put some

998
00:54:22,040 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 1: gas right right, spending on a trip, because that's what

999
00:54:25,680 --> 00:54:27,600
Speaker 1: we all shouldn't like to do. I was really gonna

1000
00:54:27,600 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: buy you say. I really appreciate a lot of things

1001
00:54:30,080 --> 00:54:32,960
Speaker 1: you're talking about, because when I was younger, I ustill

1002
00:54:33,000 --> 00:54:35,720
Speaker 1: love expensive items sense of things, and as I get older,

1003
00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:38,640
Speaker 1: I spend them all. By the way, how do you

1004
00:54:38,680 --> 00:54:40,799
Speaker 1: afford to go to Japan? I'm going in September? I

1005
00:54:40,840 --> 00:54:43,960
Speaker 1: was like, dude, it's five By the way, I will

1006
00:54:43,960 --> 00:54:45,800
Speaker 1: tell you because I just listened again. I've been listening

1007
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,440
Speaker 1: to so shame with all day, just because I was

1008
00:54:47,480 --> 00:54:51,680
Speaker 1: like Katy coming out, um, get to Africa if you can't.

1009
00:54:52,280 --> 00:54:54,200
Speaker 1: I heard that you haven't been yet, and I U

1010
00:54:54,360 --> 00:54:56,680
Speaker 1: In September I went to South Africa, one of the

1011
00:54:56,719 --> 00:54:58,600
Speaker 1: best trips I went to. And I'm going to Nigeria

1012
00:54:58,680 --> 00:55:03,399
Speaker 1: in June. So definitely Africa was amazingly going this year.

1013
00:55:03,760 --> 00:55:08,120
Speaker 1: It's just that prior to this. I had a family

1014
00:55:08,160 --> 00:55:09,719
Speaker 1: member that I was taken care of, and I just

1015
00:55:09,840 --> 00:55:12,719
Speaker 1: didn't want to go for that long because I knew

1016
00:55:12,719 --> 00:55:15,320
Speaker 1: that I wanted to stay for Africa for five days

1017
00:55:15,280 --> 00:55:18,440
Speaker 1: and I did. I did Johannesburg and Cape Town. Really yeah,

1018
00:55:18,640 --> 00:55:20,839
Speaker 1: but in my mind, it was just like, I want

1019
00:55:20,840 --> 00:55:23,200
Speaker 1: to be over there for a little while. It's beautiful.

1020
00:55:23,239 --> 00:55:27,040
Speaker 1: That's wucking white people suck from. I don't know how,

1021
00:55:27,120 --> 00:55:30,600
Speaker 1: my mom, you know what's crazy. I was in South Africa,

1022
00:55:30,680 --> 00:55:32,560
Speaker 1: so there was way more white people than black people

1023
00:55:32,560 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 1: in South Africa. Yeah, yeah, so it wasn't even so

1024
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:37,640
Speaker 1: Africa has a lot of Richmond Like, are you opposed

1025
00:55:37,680 --> 00:55:40,359
Speaker 1: to restarting the sugar daddy idea if you met some

1026
00:55:40,800 --> 00:55:45,160
Speaker 1: rich African prince? I mean, it doesn't matter, it doesn't

1027
00:55:45,360 --> 00:55:47,960
Speaker 1: It doesn't have to be a sugar daddy situation because

1028
00:55:48,040 --> 00:55:51,120
Speaker 1: it doesn't matter who I deal with, he better have money.

1029
00:55:51,719 --> 00:55:54,279
Speaker 1: And I'm always that's right. The person that I'm talking

1030
00:55:54,320 --> 00:55:57,400
Speaker 1: to right now, I'm already like, how many um X

1031
00:55:57,800 --> 00:56:01,399
Speaker 1: are you? Seriously? Like two days ago, I was like,

1032
00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:03,319
Speaker 1: He's like why, I'm like, because I don't want to

1033
00:56:03,320 --> 00:56:05,960
Speaker 1: see how many trips are you gonna go? On for free,

1034
00:56:06,000 --> 00:56:08,720
Speaker 1: like because I'm not even gonna I'm not even gonna

1035
00:56:08,760 --> 00:56:10,319
Speaker 1: look like I'm milk and you. I'm gonna trying to

1036
00:56:10,560 --> 00:56:12,319
Speaker 1: look like I'm saving you a little bit, like where

1037
00:56:12,320 --> 00:56:14,640
Speaker 1: are we going? No? No, no, baby, like for real

1038
00:56:15,600 --> 00:56:19,200
Speaker 1: a couple ri. I'm like, I'm trying to see if

1039
00:56:19,200 --> 00:56:21,920
Speaker 1: you got enough a supposed to go somewhere? Are you? Like?

1040
00:56:22,560 --> 00:56:24,279
Speaker 1: Did you look at our hotels? What do you like?

1041
00:56:24,760 --> 00:56:26,759
Speaker 1: I like a balcony? What about you? I can tuck

1042
00:56:26,800 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 1: your dick. You don't know, you don't always want to

1043
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:33,399
Speaker 1: put a dollar amount. You just want to Oh my god,

1044
00:56:33,400 --> 00:56:35,200
Speaker 1: I really want to go away with you so bad?

1045
00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:42,120
Speaker 1: You know? Yeah, because then you just like do all

1046
00:56:42,120 --> 00:56:45,279
Speaker 1: of these little things that what is your gift that

1047
00:56:45,320 --> 00:56:47,120
Speaker 1: you get back? By the way women give you things

1048
00:56:47,160 --> 00:56:49,960
Speaker 1: like sexually like what do you what do you? Girl?

1049
00:56:50,280 --> 00:56:56,560
Speaker 1: This pussy and that's all that I could cook? Good? Okay,

1050
00:56:56,960 --> 00:57:00,400
Speaker 1: I can't have good se do you go up on

1051
00:57:00,440 --> 00:57:03,200
Speaker 1: the radar depending how great the trip or gift is,

1052
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: Like damn this nick he just met three thousand dollars.

1053
00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:10,960
Speaker 1: I might give him anal tonight like you don't. And

1054
00:57:11,000 --> 00:57:14,720
Speaker 1: that's the thing I'm really into getting more for less.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna reward you for that because anymore because

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Speaker 1: a lot of women feel like that. Yeah, I'm not

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Speaker 1: rewarding you like you did it. We could continue to

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Speaker 1: funk with each other, thank you. Yeah, that's why I

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Speaker 1: loved my my African. Um. He didn't even like heads,

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Speaker 1: so it was I didn't have to suck your dick

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Speaker 1: like a lot of people. He didn't like girl, and

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Speaker 1: then he only liked the fun missionary. Yeah, it was

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Speaker 1: just like, oh my god, he wanted to look at

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Speaker 1: me the whole time. Literally, thank you for coming out, No,

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for coming So I want you

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Speaker 1: to go ahead and tell tell our listeners where they

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Speaker 1: can find you, like if they don't know already. Um,

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Speaker 1: and also where they can find your book. My book

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Speaker 1: is called The m and Manus Feel Money. The print

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Speaker 1: copy is only available at shop dot passport cutty dot com.

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Speaker 1: I signed every copy for now until it comes too much,

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Speaker 1: and then it's going on Amazon, so everybody's getting it

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Speaker 1: and you know, with their name autographed and everything. So

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Speaker 1: I mean it's taking about a hell of a lot

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Speaker 1: of I'm just really because a lot of orders and yeah,

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Speaker 1: so you get to see you get to see the

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Speaker 1: name of the people who put your order, like when

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Speaker 1: you do it and that, yeah and that, or you

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Speaker 1: could put some people have, um, a lot of people

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Speaker 1: want it for book clubs. Put in the special instructions.

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Speaker 1: If it's not your book club the other day like FaceTime,

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Speaker 1: then that is like you know what I think if

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Speaker 1: your book goes insane, I still think you would. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's super awesome. I'm good. I tried to be very

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Speaker 1: intimate with the follow and fans and everybody. And then

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Speaker 1: where can they find you? On? On Twitter and Instagram?

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Speaker 1: Um wait, the book is on Amazon, Nook and everywhere, iTunes,

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Speaker 1: everywhere that you can get. Yeah, the um, my Instagram

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Speaker 1: and my Twitter is passport underscorees what cutty? Sorry you

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Speaker 1: see U t t y the remember I tell you

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Speaker 1: is Passport Cutty one and the snap is lit but

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Speaker 1: something else if you guys loved her voice because I'm

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Speaker 1: listening to this mic and I love it, Like like

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Speaker 1: I've been telling everyone, I've also I've grown in love

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Speaker 1: with Tahoe is hilarious. Um, and I clearly found out

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Speaker 1: who he was through you. But where can they find

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Speaker 1: your podcast? And what is it called So Shameless? What

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Speaker 1: are you talking about? Everything? Relationships? Sex? And there's a

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Speaker 1: send me the minutes works for the sex. I really

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Speaker 1: hope to hear Abody Jack Secondale. It's me and my

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Speaker 1: co host holl We are So Shameless on iTunes, SoundCloud

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Speaker 1: and Google Play. Yes, okay, well this has been amazing.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate you coming in because yeah, we've been she

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Speaker 1: touched me. Anyways, guys, you guys know you can always

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Speaker 1: We are also available on SoundCloud, iTunes, and Google Play

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Speaker 1: if you haven't, depending what platform you're listening to, and

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Speaker 1: you're more than welcome to catch me on Twitter or

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Speaker 1: Instagram at full court pumps? Then where can they catch

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Speaker 1: your ass? At Instagram? Sliding my DM slide really hard.

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Speaker 1: We z wds UM and thank you guys so much.

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Speaker 1: This has been another episode of horrible decisions. Thank you,