1 00:00:00,200 --> 00:00:01,560 Speaker 1: Paulina sent me this. Let's do it. 2 00:00:01,440 --> 00:00:06,480 Speaker 2: It's morality Monday on a Wednesday. Yeah, my morality Monday 3 00:00:06,480 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 2: on a Wednesday. We haven't done morality Monday in any 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:11,520 Speaker 2: day in a while. But this comes to us from 5 00:00:11,560 --> 00:00:16,520 Speaker 2: the am. I the a whole section of subreddit and 6 00:00:16,800 --> 00:00:19,280 Speaker 2: here it goes. I try and paraphrase. This one's kind 7 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:23,079 Speaker 2: of long. But I lost my job four months ago, 8 00:00:23,120 --> 00:00:27,120 Speaker 2: says this guy, and unemployment doesn't cover my full living expenses. 9 00:00:27,160 --> 00:00:28,560 Speaker 2: I had to buy a car since my I had 10 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 2: a lot of miles on it and the engine wasn't 11 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:32,960 Speaker 2: worth fixing. After that, I had a couple thousand saved 12 00:00:33,000 --> 00:00:35,080 Speaker 2: and that's been completely wiped out. And now I'm not 13 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:36,880 Speaker 2: able to cover all of my expenses. So I asked 14 00:00:36,920 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 2: my girlfriend to help cover my expenses, and she has 15 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:44,360 Speaker 2: refused because I didn't propose to her before this. We've 16 00:00:44,360 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 2: been dating for three years and lived together for two. 17 00:00:47,240 --> 00:00:49,560 Speaker 2: She told me three days him that she expected to 18 00:00:49,600 --> 00:00:51,919 Speaker 2: be engaged after about two years of dating. And she's 19 00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:55,600 Speaker 2: very unhappy with me because I didn't propose. And she 20 00:00:55,720 --> 00:00:59,640 Speaker 2: says that I'm sure she's the one. I guess, he said, 21 00:00:59,640 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 2: I'm sure she's the only one. He says, I'm just 22 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:05,040 Speaker 2: still hesitant about marriage, and she's told me that she's 23 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 2: trying to get over the fact that she wasted three 24 00:01:07,440 --> 00:01:09,680 Speaker 2: years with me. I told her to give me some time, 25 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,920 Speaker 2: and she's thankfully not pushed it. That was shortly before 26 00:01:12,959 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: my work announced that they were cutting people and I 27 00:01:14,640 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 2: was let go. Now, she says, I'm expecting too much 28 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,560 Speaker 2: from her since I'm not ready for marriage, but expecting 29 00:01:19,600 --> 00:01:21,840 Speaker 2: her to help me with the rent. We have been 30 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:24,360 Speaker 2: dating for three years. Doesn't that count for something if 31 00:01:24,360 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 2: it was a year and I understand if it was 32 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 2: too early, but we've been together it for a long time. 33 00:01:29,120 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 2: But she says it was meaningless because I haven't proposed that. 34 00:01:31,760 --> 00:01:33,639 Speaker 2: She refuses to help me as I could just decide 35 00:01:33,640 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 2: I don't want marriage and bail at any time. I 36 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,760 Speaker 2: could have bailed at any time while dating, and still 37 00:01:38,760 --> 00:01:41,120 Speaker 2: can bail if we get engaged, but I didn't and 38 00:01:41,240 --> 00:01:43,920 Speaker 2: I won't. We've been serious for a long time. Why 39 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:47,120 Speaker 2: are the ring and the marriage all the matter? Is 40 00:01:47,120 --> 00:01:50,080 Speaker 2: the question? So is she the a whole morality? Monday? Guys, 41 00:01:50,080 --> 00:01:52,720 Speaker 2: who's in the wrong here? I mean, the reality is 42 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:56,520 Speaker 2: he can't afford a ring. Now he's really down. It's God, 43 00:01:56,640 --> 00:01:58,560 Speaker 2: all the things to worry about in life. He just 44 00:01:58,600 --> 00:02:03,320 Speaker 2: lost his job and needs help the bail he needs 45 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:04,840 Speaker 2: to go. Whatever, where's she going to live? 46 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:07,920 Speaker 3: Whatever, I'll live in my car, that car he do 47 00:02:07,960 --> 00:02:09,919 Speaker 3: just bought, but then live with that lady. 48 00:02:11,000 --> 00:02:15,800 Speaker 2: What I will say, like if they live together, then 49 00:02:15,800 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 2: I don't know that it necessarily benefits her not to 50 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 2: pay his I mean, she's gonna have to pay his 51 00:02:19,720 --> 00:02:21,720 Speaker 2: side of the expenses because if they live together, then 52 00:02:21,960 --> 00:02:25,320 Speaker 2: I mean, how else is she that's gonna affect her. 53 00:02:25,120 --> 00:02:26,520 Speaker 4: Because she just gets her own place. 54 00:02:27,480 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: So just break it. So basically, you haven't proposed to 55 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,920 Speaker 2: me in three years. Now you're unemployed, so it's almost 56 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: like the unemployment has nothing to do with this. It's 57 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,640 Speaker 2: like you didn't I don't even know why she's bringing 58 00:02:35,680 --> 00:02:37,760 Speaker 2: that into it, Like you didn't propose to me in 59 00:02:37,800 --> 00:02:39,239 Speaker 2: the period of time that I told you I wanted 60 00:02:39,280 --> 00:02:41,320 Speaker 2: to be proposed to you in. So I'm so I'm 61 00:02:41,320 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 2: breaking up with you, and I'm and I'm sorry the 62 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:46,160 Speaker 2: timing sucks, but like now you can't pay your bills. 63 00:02:46,520 --> 00:02:48,160 Speaker 2: On the flip side, you could say, all right, look, 64 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,400 Speaker 2: the guy's not ready. You probably don't want someone to 65 00:02:50,440 --> 00:02:54,080 Speaker 2: propose until they're ready, And I understand that you might 66 00:02:54,120 --> 00:02:56,360 Speaker 2: get to a point where, like you're ready and he's ready, 67 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:00,639 Speaker 2: just don't align. But like if you unless, unless you're 68 00:03:00,680 --> 00:03:03,200 Speaker 2: really done with this dude, I think you kind of 69 00:03:03,240 --> 00:03:06,079 Speaker 2: have to pay the expenses until he's ready to propose 70 00:03:06,120 --> 00:03:07,560 Speaker 2: to you unless you want to break up with him. 71 00:03:07,680 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: You have two choices. 72 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: I think you either pay the expense until he gets 73 00:03:10,560 --> 00:03:13,360 Speaker 2: another job or break up with him, because there is 74 00:03:13,440 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 2: what's the middle ground? We stay together, but I'm not 75 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 2: going to help you, and I still expect you to 76 00:03:17,280 --> 00:03:17,840 Speaker 2: propose to me. 77 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 4: Yes, huh, because we. 78 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:22,920 Speaker 5: Say that we're staying together and you haven't proposed to me, 79 00:03:23,400 --> 00:03:26,720 Speaker 5: So what's the difference. You expect her to step up 80 00:03:26,760 --> 00:03:28,919 Speaker 5: as a partner and help him in this situation. 81 00:03:29,280 --> 00:03:32,800 Speaker 4: Well, that made to her. She's like, I want you. 82 00:03:32,720 --> 00:03:35,360 Speaker 1: To propose to me, but he didn't have a money. 83 00:03:35,520 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 4: Well I understand that proposed with. 84 00:03:37,000 --> 00:03:39,080 Speaker 5: What but now but my money is not your money 85 00:03:39,200 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 5: because we're not there's no real commitment there. 86 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:42,840 Speaker 4: We're just together. 87 00:03:42,920 --> 00:03:45,040 Speaker 3: But it sounds like he was paying all the bills 88 00:03:45,080 --> 00:03:45,960 Speaker 3: until he lost his job. 89 00:03:46,000 --> 00:03:47,040 Speaker 4: Now he's just looking for help. 90 00:03:47,120 --> 00:03:49,240 Speaker 2: Well, his half. He does reference his part of the 91 00:03:49,240 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: bills exactly. But let me ask you this, Kiki. Then 92 00:03:51,560 --> 00:03:53,000 Speaker 2: you live with Big Tim. You're not engaged. 93 00:03:53,120 --> 00:03:53,640 Speaker 4: He lived with me. 94 00:03:53,720 --> 00:03:56,800 Speaker 2: Yes, that's fine, You're right, Big That's a big difference, 95 00:03:57,040 --> 00:03:58,480 Speaker 2: and I'm not rubbing it in. But what I am 96 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 2: saying is God forbid Big Tim loses his job and 97 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 2: is not able to contribute to the bills. He hasn't 98 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,920 Speaker 2: proposed to you. Yes, so what you You kick him 99 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:09,160 Speaker 2: out of the house and then just pay all the 100 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 2: bills yourself. 101 00:04:09,960 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 4: No, I wouldn't do that. 102 00:04:11,400 --> 00:04:13,760 Speaker 5: But if I had this this situation, like how if 103 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:14,840 Speaker 5: I felt how she feels. 104 00:04:15,200 --> 00:04:17,400 Speaker 1: Absolutely, don't you feel how she feels? 105 00:04:17,440 --> 00:04:19,680 Speaker 5: No, I don't. I love my man. He has taken 106 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:21,479 Speaker 5: care of me and done things for me. Then you 107 00:04:21,480 --> 00:04:23,760 Speaker 5: want to ring it. He ain't given it to you, absolutely, 108 00:04:23,800 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 5: But that doesn't that But my stance is not if 109 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,520 Speaker 5: you don't give me a ring, then I'm not helping you. 110 00:04:28,560 --> 00:04:30,760 Speaker 5: That's not my stance, But that's her stance, and she 111 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 5: she has that right to have that stance because you 112 00:04:32,680 --> 00:04:36,400 Speaker 5: can't require wife duties from somebody when you haven't given them. 113 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:38,120 Speaker 4: The title of wife or fiance. 114 00:04:39,120 --> 00:04:41,919 Speaker 5: Like a video game, you gotta unlike, unlocked different levels 115 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:44,200 Speaker 5: of a package, and if you want a wife package, 116 00:04:44,240 --> 00:04:45,160 Speaker 5: you gotta unlock it. 117 00:04:45,360 --> 00:04:47,600 Speaker 4: Now, that's her stance, that's not mine. 118 00:04:47,640 --> 00:04:49,280 Speaker 3: So you have to be married to get that, Like 119 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:53,440 Speaker 3: it's I mean, that's so it's like looking into the future, 120 00:04:53,520 --> 00:04:55,920 Speaker 3: like if you don't if you only have to be. 121 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:57,200 Speaker 4: Married to get help. 122 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:01,600 Speaker 5: If that's her stance, which yeah, her boundary is that 123 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:04,320 Speaker 5: I'm not helping you if you haven't given me the 124 00:05:04,320 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 5: commitment of engagement or a. 125 00:05:05,640 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: Wedding, which is not helping you. 126 00:05:07,080 --> 00:05:09,760 Speaker 2: The problem here, though, is that this I mean, I 127 00:05:09,800 --> 00:05:11,920 Speaker 2: realize you can't plan it like this, but this these 128 00:05:11,960 --> 00:05:15,279 Speaker 2: are two separate things, like the fact that she's putting 129 00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,080 Speaker 2: it all into one I'm not helping you because there's 130 00:05:17,080 --> 00:05:19,240 Speaker 2: no ring, but he's already surpassed the time where she 131 00:05:19,279 --> 00:05:21,799 Speaker 2: wanted to ring, So she's making them the same issue. 132 00:05:21,839 --> 00:05:23,440 Speaker 1: But they're two separate issues, you know. 133 00:05:23,440 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 2: What I'm saying. Like, it's it's not I'm not going 134 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:27,400 Speaker 2: to pay because you haven't given me a ring. It's 135 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:28,960 Speaker 2: I shouldn't be with you because you haven't given me. 136 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:30,080 Speaker 2: I don't even know why they're still together. 137 00:05:30,440 --> 00:05:31,160 Speaker 1: Well you know what I mean. 138 00:05:31,640 --> 00:05:32,040 Speaker 4: Good point. 139 00:05:32,160 --> 00:05:33,560 Speaker 5: She loves them, and it seems like they have a 140 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:36,400 Speaker 5: roommate situation going on. So it's like, if my roommate 141 00:05:36,440 --> 00:05:38,240 Speaker 5: loses their job, am I now supposed to take care 142 00:05:38,279 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 5: of the bills until my roommate gets back on his feet. No, 143 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,880 Speaker 5: you're just my roommate. You're just my boyfriend. Now, if 144 00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,360 Speaker 5: my fiance lost his job, but my husband lost his job, 145 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:49,000 Speaker 5: then I feel obligated to step up and help. But 146 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,120 Speaker 5: if I'm just a girl friend, I don't have that requirement. 147 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:55,680 Speaker 2: You say to somebody kiki like, and you haven't in 148 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,360 Speaker 2: your case in point, because you haven't done this. How 149 00:05:57,360 --> 00:05:59,480 Speaker 2: long have you been a big tim Six years? Okay, 150 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 2: so you didn't say I need a ring in two 151 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:02,800 Speaker 2: years or three or whatever. 152 00:06:02,839 --> 00:06:06,760 Speaker 1: She's saying. Okay, well but you guess what you did. 153 00:06:07,160 --> 00:06:10,239 Speaker 2: Okay, Fine, but you didn't get it and you're still 154 00:06:10,279 --> 00:06:12,600 Speaker 2: happy and you're still okay, and for whatever reason, he's 155 00:06:12,640 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 2: not ready and you're still in a supportive, loving relationship 156 00:06:15,480 --> 00:06:16,080 Speaker 2: and whatever. 157 00:06:16,200 --> 00:06:17,719 Speaker 1: My point is, is it. 158 00:06:19,240 --> 00:06:21,080 Speaker 2: Really fair for somebody, I mean they You can say 159 00:06:21,120 --> 00:06:23,560 Speaker 2: whatever you want, but is it fair to say if 160 00:06:23,600 --> 00:06:25,640 Speaker 2: I don't get a ring in two years, I'm dumping you, 161 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 2: regardless of what the natural pace of the relationship is, 162 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,279 Speaker 2: because the truth is, I don't want someone to propose 163 00:06:30,320 --> 00:06:33,279 Speaker 2: to me if two years is not what makes them comfortable, 164 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:35,520 Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So if this relationship were 165 00:06:35,560 --> 00:06:38,920 Speaker 2: healthy and fine, and she's drawing the line, well, you're 166 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:42,359 Speaker 2: a year past my fake expiration date for proposing to me, 167 00:06:42,560 --> 00:06:44,840 Speaker 2: then I think she's probably in the wrong here because 168 00:06:44,839 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 2: that's not how this works now. It has nothing to 169 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,120 Speaker 2: do with the money part of it. But that's why 170 00:06:49,160 --> 00:06:50,839 Speaker 2: I'm saying these are two separate issues. The fact that 171 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 2: he lost his job. I mean, if she really loved 172 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:54,760 Speaker 2: this man and wanted to be with him, then she 173 00:06:54,800 --> 00:06:58,920 Speaker 2: wouldn't put this fake, arbitrary two year deadline, three year 174 00:06:58,960 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 2: deadline on being proposed to. She would let it happen 175 00:07:01,240 --> 00:07:03,240 Speaker 2: organically the way that it's supposed to, and she would 176 00:07:03,240 --> 00:07:05,559 Speaker 2: support him right now because she's gonna be with him forever, 177 00:07:05,880 --> 00:07:08,279 Speaker 2: the same way that you would support Big Tim without 178 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:10,520 Speaker 2: a ring because you love him and you're not gonna 179 00:07:10,520 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 2: make him do something that he's not ready to do, 180 00:07:12,720 --> 00:07:15,520 Speaker 2: because you see the greater value in the relationship. 181 00:07:15,040 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 4: Yes, but that's me. 182 00:07:16,160 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 5: But her boundary is she has a timeline and she 183 00:07:19,360 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 5: told him her timeline. So now you can't require more 184 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:24,800 Speaker 5: from her after you've already disrespected her timeline. 185 00:07:24,840 --> 00:07:27,320 Speaker 3: If you're not gonna support me in my darkest days, 186 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,840 Speaker 3: like if I'm at the bottom of the loads and loads, Yes, 187 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:31,840 Speaker 3: and you think you still deserve a ring, that's. 188 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 5: Why you need a wife. You know what wife you do? 189 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:36,960 Speaker 5: And girlfriend and fiance do they support you? At sho loansbody? 190 00:07:37,000 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 3: You can't put a timeline if your timeline is I'm 191 00:07:38,920 --> 00:07:40,600 Speaker 3: gonna I want to be married in three years, what 192 00:07:40,640 --> 00:07:42,280 Speaker 3: if that person's not ready? You know what I'm saying. 193 00:07:42,400 --> 00:07:44,640 Speaker 5: You can't just just said and the thing he just says, 194 00:07:44,680 --> 00:07:46,960 Speaker 5: she's the one. I love her, I want to be 195 00:07:47,080 --> 00:07:50,600 Speaker 5: with her. Why haven't you made any type of moves 196 00:07:50,600 --> 00:07:53,200 Speaker 5: to make that happen. Obviously he's not financially ready to 197 00:07:53,240 --> 00:07:53,520 Speaker 5: do that. 198 00:07:53,560 --> 00:07:55,800 Speaker 3: He just lost his job, right, but you had a 199 00:07:55,880 --> 00:07:57,200 Speaker 3: job before, right, Okay? 200 00:07:57,200 --> 00:07:58,840 Speaker 4: But who knows how much that man's making. 201 00:07:59,320 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 1: Who knows how old they are? 202 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying. 203 00:08:01,360 --> 00:08:02,680 Speaker 1: All these factors play into it. 204 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:04,960 Speaker 4: You can't just say I want to I want to ring. 205 00:08:04,840 --> 00:08:05,320 Speaker 1: In three years. 206 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 3: Okay, I'll give you a ring in three years, but 207 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:08,400 Speaker 3: we ain't getting married for another eight years. 208 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:08,920 Speaker 1: Do you know what I'm saying. 209 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:10,360 Speaker 2: But I'm not gonna put this on her, but I 210 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 2: am gonna say that I don't. I don't think anybody 211 00:08:13,400 --> 00:08:16,480 Speaker 2: should ever put just a random date on this is 212 00:08:16,520 --> 00:08:18,440 Speaker 2: what I you know, And I understand people want to 213 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 2: have kids in there, and I understand all that, but like, 214 00:08:20,720 --> 00:08:21,440 Speaker 2: I don't think she. 215 00:08:21,360 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: Wants to be with this guy anyway. Like I don't. 216 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:24,840 Speaker 2: I think she doesn't want to support him because she's 217 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 2: been down with them, you know what I mean? 218 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:27,240 Speaker 1: You know what I mean? 219 00:08:27,240 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 2: Because if again, if if she loved him and she 220 00:08:30,320 --> 00:08:32,040 Speaker 2: were willing to be patient and he were the one 221 00:08:32,120 --> 00:08:34,360 Speaker 2: and she's just you know, waiting for him to be ready, 222 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,520 Speaker 2: then she's gonna support him because this is there is 223 00:08:37,559 --> 00:08:40,959 Speaker 2: no expiration date. Like I support you now, someday you'll 224 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:43,800 Speaker 2: support me because we're together forever, so it doesn't really matter. 225 00:08:43,880 --> 00:08:46,040 Speaker 2: But the fact that she's drawn the line right, you 226 00:08:46,080 --> 00:08:47,920 Speaker 2: can be homeless for all I care. Yeah, that means 227 00:08:47,960 --> 00:08:54,280 Speaker 2: she's out anyway, ring ring, Like you should be supporting 228 00:08:54,320 --> 00:08:56,960 Speaker 2: the man that you love. You know what I'm saying, Ashley, Hi, Ashley, 229 00:08:56,960 --> 00:08:59,320 Speaker 2: good morning, Hi, good morning. 230 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: Hey, what you want to say? 231 00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:05,640 Speaker 6: So, I think it all depends on what the previous 232 00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:09,760 Speaker 6: conversations they had entailed. Because I actually dated a guy. 233 00:09:09,920 --> 00:09:12,160 Speaker 6: I was with him for three years at the time. 234 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:15,560 Speaker 6: He lost his job and we lived together, so I 235 00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:18,400 Speaker 6: paid all of his bills, not just his half of 236 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 6: our rents, but like his phone, his car, everything, with 237 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 6: the intention that both of us were going to plan 238 00:09:25,640 --> 00:09:29,400 Speaker 6: on getting engaged married in the next one to two years. 239 00:09:29,880 --> 00:09:32,720 Speaker 6: So it took him about six months to find a job, 240 00:09:33,679 --> 00:09:36,959 Speaker 6: and then once he got back on his feet shortly after, 241 00:09:37,200 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 6: he was like, actually, I don't know if I want 242 00:09:39,200 --> 00:09:42,599 Speaker 6: to get married at all, and we broke up a 243 00:09:42,679 --> 00:09:43,760 Speaker 6: waste of my time. 244 00:09:44,160 --> 00:09:47,440 Speaker 2: Yep, I see. So basically you felt like he used 245 00:09:47,440 --> 00:09:49,199 Speaker 2: you to get through his dark. 246 00:09:51,320 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 7: Exactly exactly. 247 00:09:54,520 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 6: So I think it all depends on what those previous 248 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:01,760 Speaker 6: conversations were. And because we don't know, you know, he 249 00:10:01,840 --> 00:10:04,600 Speaker 6: could be saying that he's not ready or that he 250 00:10:04,760 --> 00:10:07,040 Speaker 6: told her something, but we don't know what's going on 251 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 6: behind closed stores. 252 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:09,680 Speaker 7: So I think it just depends. 253 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 2: I guess he said this in his lerb or whatever 254 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,520 Speaker 2: on Reddit. But like there's always risk. I mean, whether 255 00:10:15,559 --> 00:10:19,880 Speaker 2: it's money or emotional investment or whatever. If you're banking 256 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:23,120 Speaker 2: on someone to do something in the future and you're 257 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,760 Speaker 2: and that's the only reason that you're either providing money 258 00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:30,520 Speaker 2: or emotional support or whatever, I think you're asking to 259 00:10:30,559 --> 00:10:32,920 Speaker 2: be disappointed, you know what I'm saying, Like, it doesn't 260 00:10:33,040 --> 00:10:35,319 Speaker 2: have to be money. Let's say I'm standing by somebody 261 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:37,640 Speaker 2: during a rough time, expecting it in the end they're 262 00:10:37,679 --> 00:10:40,200 Speaker 2: going to be with me. It's like, yeah, I mean, 263 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:42,400 Speaker 2: you're a bad person if you're using somebody for money 264 00:10:42,480 --> 00:10:46,320 Speaker 2: or for emotional resources. But on the flip side, I'm 265 00:10:46,360 --> 00:10:48,200 Speaker 2: also I need to be giving that because it's what 266 00:10:48,240 --> 00:10:50,320 Speaker 2: I want to do, and this woman's not willing to 267 00:10:50,360 --> 00:10:52,920 Speaker 2: do it, so that means it's over. There is no 268 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:55,839 Speaker 2: relationship any longer. You can't you can't do one thing 269 00:10:55,880 --> 00:10:58,440 Speaker 2: in trade for another. And actually I think you got screwed. 270 00:10:58,440 --> 00:11:01,480 Speaker 2: And it's very disappointing. But like there's risk. There was 271 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:04,400 Speaker 2: risk before, there's risk after, you know what I mean, 272 00:11:04,400 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 2: there's always risk. Somebody, you know, he could walk at 273 00:11:06,880 --> 00:11:09,040 Speaker 2: any point, so could she. I think at this point, 274 00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,600 Speaker 2: she's just like forget about it. It just sucks because 275 00:11:11,920 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 2: if she actually, if they cared about each other the 276 00:11:14,200 --> 00:11:15,839 Speaker 2: way that she she wants. She want to be married 277 00:11:15,840 --> 00:11:17,520 Speaker 2: to this guy, right, but she doesn't care enough to 278 00:11:17,520 --> 00:11:18,840 Speaker 2: make sure that he has a place to live. 279 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:22,000 Speaker 1: But that's why I'm saying this relationship is over. 280 00:11:22,240 --> 00:11:24,920 Speaker 5: Yes, but he cares so much about her and she's 281 00:11:24,960 --> 00:11:27,280 Speaker 5: the one. But he hasn't taken a simple step of 282 00:11:27,400 --> 00:11:28,200 Speaker 5: just buying her a ring. 283 00:11:28,320 --> 00:11:30,160 Speaker 1: But how's the wrong time to say, buy me a ring? 284 00:11:30,160 --> 00:11:30,960 Speaker 1: He doesn't have that right. 285 00:11:32,040 --> 00:11:33,880 Speaker 5: He waited until the wrong time. He should have invested 286 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,679 Speaker 5: in hisself and his relationship. 287 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,920 Speaker 3: Should have gone cutco and shold him that yank. 288 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:41,520 Speaker 1: Hey, I hope everything works out for you. Have a 289 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:41,960 Speaker 1: great day. 290 00:11:42,080 --> 00:11:46,360 Speaker 2: Yes, I guess he is right about that, though either 291 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:47,880 Speaker 2: one of them can leave it any time. My point 292 00:11:47,920 --> 00:11:49,560 Speaker 2: here is, I don't even know why they're debating about it. 293 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 2: She's out, she doesn't she's not gonna support him now, 294 00:11:52,040 --> 00:11:52,719 Speaker 2: she's over him. 295 00:11:52,760 --> 00:11:53,240 Speaker 4: Good for her. 296 00:11:53,640 --> 00:11:57,640 Speaker 2: Fine, Yeah, Hey Natalie, Hi, Hi, good morning. 297 00:11:57,640 --> 00:11:59,640 Speaker 1: Welcome. So you're living this situation right now? 298 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:02,240 Speaker 4: Yeah? Kind of. 299 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:03,679 Speaker 7: First of all, I love you guys, listening to guys 300 00:12:03,720 --> 00:12:04,199 Speaker 7: every morning. 301 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:06,440 Speaker 1: By the way, for saying that. 302 00:12:08,400 --> 00:12:10,480 Speaker 7: So, yeah, I've been with my biffriend for about two 303 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,000 Speaker 7: and a half years, and I mean kind of like 304 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 7: the other person's. I mean, our stance is kind of 305 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 7: you know, we're expecting to get married, maybe just kind 306 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,280 Speaker 7: of saving money right now. But I think at the 307 00:12:20,360 --> 00:12:22,079 Speaker 7: end of the day, you know, this girl seems a 308 00:12:22,120 --> 00:12:25,160 Speaker 7: little bit demanding, And what it comes down to is 309 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:26,360 Speaker 7: do you love each other? 310 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:26,760 Speaker 5: Right? 311 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:30,040 Speaker 7: And so if she wants this ring and she you know, 312 00:12:30,120 --> 00:12:32,040 Speaker 7: doesn't want to help him out, I mean, does she 313 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,280 Speaker 7: really truly love him? So I feel like in a partnership, 314 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:37,520 Speaker 7: you know, it all comes down to like loving each other, 315 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:39,760 Speaker 7: and you should kind of I don't know, I feel 316 00:12:39,800 --> 00:12:41,240 Speaker 7: like she should be a little more patient and a 317 00:12:41,240 --> 00:12:44,440 Speaker 7: little more understanding. Like sure, you know she wants what 318 00:12:44,440 --> 00:12:46,600 Speaker 7: she wants, but at the end of the day, like 319 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:49,959 Speaker 7: her love for him should kind of surpass that. And 320 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,520 Speaker 7: I don't know, if I were the guy, like I 321 00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:53,679 Speaker 7: might think about ending it. 322 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 8: I don't know, if a whole. 323 00:12:55,120 --> 00:13:00,480 Speaker 2: Conversation, but he goes stay there Like that's like like 324 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:02,720 Speaker 2: Jason gon lose every argument because he has no place 325 00:13:02,720 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 2: to live in and his parents downsize their homes, so 326 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,319 Speaker 2: like he really has no place to no options. But Natalie, 327 00:13:07,360 --> 00:13:08,600 Speaker 2: let me ask you this and then we got to go. 328 00:13:08,640 --> 00:13:10,400 Speaker 2: But you know, you and Keik you're kind of in 329 00:13:10,440 --> 00:13:13,560 Speaker 2: the same boat, like you love this guy, You're you know, 330 00:13:13,640 --> 00:13:15,600 Speaker 2: you're you're you're being patient and you want it to 331 00:13:15,640 --> 00:13:18,440 Speaker 2: happen on you know, his terms and in the organic 332 00:13:18,440 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 2: way where everyone's comfortable. My thing about about ultimatums when 333 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:25,800 Speaker 2: people say like I need to know by this date 334 00:13:25,920 --> 00:13:27,440 Speaker 2: or you have to do by it, Like aren't you 335 00:13:27,480 --> 00:13:29,840 Speaker 2: wouldn't you, Natalie if you said to your boyfriend, I 336 00:13:29,880 --> 00:13:31,320 Speaker 2: want to be engaged by the end of the year, 337 00:13:31,400 --> 00:13:33,040 Speaker 2: and let's say he does it because he doesn't want 338 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:34,800 Speaker 2: to lose you, but he wasn't ready. I mean to 339 00:13:34,880 --> 00:13:38,080 Speaker 2: a certain point, do you won't you live the rest 340 00:13:38,120 --> 00:13:40,040 Speaker 2: of your life being like I told him he had 341 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,560 Speaker 2: to do it, Like wouldn't you almost rather just cut 342 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,199 Speaker 2: it off. If it gets to the point where you're 343 00:13:44,240 --> 00:13:47,200 Speaker 2: no longer comfortable, then tell someone in order not to 344 00:13:47,240 --> 00:13:49,160 Speaker 2: lose me, you have to do X y Z like 345 00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:49,560 Speaker 2: I would. 346 00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,040 Speaker 1: I would always live with that, I think. 347 00:13:51,040 --> 00:13:52,800 Speaker 2: I Like if it were the other way around and 348 00:13:52,840 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 2: I was dating somebody, I'm like, you better propose to 349 00:13:54,559 --> 00:13:56,679 Speaker 2: me by the end of this year or I'm out, Well, 350 00:13:56,720 --> 00:13:58,600 Speaker 2: I might get the ring. Yeah, but then I'm gonna 351 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:00,640 Speaker 2: always wonder, like, did you really want to do that? 352 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:02,360 Speaker 2: And so then there comes a point where it's like, 353 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:04,199 Speaker 2: if I don't get it in my time, and I'm 354 00:14:04,200 --> 00:14:06,760 Speaker 2: being fair and reasonable, I think it's better just to 355 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,040 Speaker 2: leave than it is to tell someone what they have 356 00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,199 Speaker 2: to do and then they do it, and then you always. 357 00:14:10,880 --> 00:14:13,240 Speaker 4: Wonder I agree with it, but some of y'all just don't. 358 00:14:13,360 --> 00:14:13,800 Speaker 5: I agree. 359 00:14:13,880 --> 00:14:15,040 Speaker 7: It doesn't feeld special. 360 00:14:15,320 --> 00:14:16,240 Speaker 4: I just need a little push. 361 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: But Natalie, I hope it works out for you. And 362 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:19,000 Speaker 1: thanks for listening. 363 00:14:19,160 --> 00:14:19,600 Speaker 5: Thank you. 364 00:14:19,920 --> 00:14:20,440 Speaker 1: Have a good day. 365 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,080 Speaker 2: Everything's going to work out great with Natalie, just like 366 00:14:23,360 --> 00:14:26,280 Speaker 2: Natalie is a good room. Yeah, ten years you've been waiting. 367 00:14:26,520 --> 00:14:29,640 Speaker 2: You just shut up and keep it rolling. Yeah, if 368 00:14:29,640 --> 00:14:30,920 Speaker 2: you want to have a place to live. 369 00:14:32,720 --> 00:14:36,480 Speaker 1: More Fread Show next, okay, t. 370 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, they talk better than the excite tell me. 371 00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,880 Speaker 4: These are the radio blogs on the Fread Show. 372 00:14:42,920 --> 00:14:44,760 Speaker 2: So it's like we're writing in our diaries, except we 373 00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 2: say them aloud. 374 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:49,000 Speaker 1: We call them blogs. Paulina, Yes, I do you read it? 375 00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:51,680 Speaker 4: Got something for you? Thank you so much. Dear blog. 376 00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,760 Speaker 8: I would like to take this opportunity really quick to 377 00:14:54,880 --> 00:15:00,320 Speaker 8: publicly apologize to my lovely friend, coworker sister in fighting 378 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:05,480 Speaker 8: together to work, Kaylin kill Kay, I did something that 379 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:07,800 Speaker 8: I think it was. It was not a good move 380 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 8: on my end because like a lot of current, a 381 00:15:10,000 --> 00:15:12,640 Speaker 8: lot of us here, we all suffer from anxiety. Right, 382 00:15:12,760 --> 00:15:14,400 Speaker 8: there's certain things that we don't say to each other. 383 00:15:15,800 --> 00:15:20,600 Speaker 8: They're not allowed in our vocabulary. I texted her saying, hey, can. 384 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:21,360 Speaker 4: I ask you a question? 385 00:15:21,640 --> 00:15:21,880 Speaker 1: Okay? 386 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:24,000 Speaker 2: Well that's that's sam as Paulina. So that's that in 387 00:15:24,040 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 2: itself wouldn't concern me. 388 00:15:25,520 --> 00:15:27,960 Speaker 9: Oh, but it was you were a question for you? 389 00:15:27,960 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 9: You didn't say so. She normally says that you said, hey, 390 00:15:31,240 --> 00:15:32,000 Speaker 9: question for you? 391 00:15:32,040 --> 00:15:34,120 Speaker 2: I think is because we've tried to break you of 392 00:15:34,160 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: the thing where you say, can I ask you a question? 393 00:15:36,040 --> 00:15:36,640 Speaker 4: How am I doing? 394 00:15:36,680 --> 00:15:38,560 Speaker 1: I feel like I think better? I think better? 395 00:15:38,760 --> 00:15:40,560 Speaker 2: Okay, But I want you just to ask the question 396 00:15:40,960 --> 00:15:43,120 Speaker 2: because I think I know where that's coming from. Yeah, 397 00:15:43,200 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 2: I think it's like you know that for whatever reason, 398 00:15:45,120 --> 00:15:47,040 Speaker 2: maybe you don't think your question's worthy of being. 399 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:48,480 Speaker 1: You should ask a question. 400 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:52,000 Speaker 8: You're not wrong, but yeah, it came from somewhere. So 401 00:15:52,000 --> 00:15:53,800 Speaker 8: so I did say that. I said question for you 402 00:15:53,840 --> 00:15:56,480 Speaker 8: a question mark and she's like, yeah, what's up? And 403 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:58,240 Speaker 8: I was like, I want to text about this. So 404 00:15:58,320 --> 00:16:00,880 Speaker 8: I texted her back and I said, can I call you? 405 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:05,080 Speaker 8: Oh boy, yes, And she's probably over there shaking in 406 00:16:05,080 --> 00:16:05,640 Speaker 8: her boots. 407 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:06,280 Speaker 1: Yeah. 408 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,200 Speaker 8: Like I'm about to lose it because I know if 409 00:16:08,280 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 8: I got that message from anybody, let alone you guys, 410 00:16:11,160 --> 00:16:13,160 Speaker 8: I would be like, oh, like, I'm just gonna walk 411 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:15,160 Speaker 8: into oncoming traffic. In the words of Kaylin, like, I'm like, 412 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:17,560 Speaker 8: this is not a good feeling when somebody texts you, 413 00:16:17,600 --> 00:16:18,360 Speaker 8: it's not a good feeling. 414 00:16:18,440 --> 00:16:20,640 Speaker 9: No, I didn't know if I did something to hurt 415 00:16:20,680 --> 00:16:22,360 Speaker 9: you or I'm like, oh my god, she's pregnant. 416 00:16:22,400 --> 00:16:25,440 Speaker 4: Like my brain was like going everywhere. I'm like, yeah, 417 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 4: I mean I don't know you like, can I call you? 418 00:16:27,440 --> 00:16:29,720 Speaker 4: And I'm like, yeah, right, you can't. 419 00:16:29,800 --> 00:16:31,720 Speaker 2: You can't do this. Somebody with anxiety like, hey, can 420 00:16:31,720 --> 00:16:33,200 Speaker 2: we talk? Can we talk later? 421 00:16:33,520 --> 00:16:34,080 Speaker 4: No? 422 00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:34,360 Speaker 5: No? 423 00:16:34,360 --> 00:16:37,600 Speaker 1: No, be a text, No we can't. We're talking right now. 424 00:16:37,880 --> 00:16:38,320 Speaker 3: Yeah. 425 00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: I need to know right now? Yeah, yeah, like. 426 00:16:40,600 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 8: This second, Like there's nothing more important than this, so 427 00:16:43,000 --> 00:16:45,400 Speaker 8: tell me. So then I called her. We talked really quick. 428 00:16:45,480 --> 00:16:47,800 Speaker 8: It was like maybe like a four minute conversation. It 429 00:16:47,880 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 8: was so simple. I just wanted to ask in person 430 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:51,800 Speaker 8: because I was like, I don't really get this thing. 431 00:16:51,840 --> 00:16:54,040 Speaker 4: It's a work related question, and that was it. 432 00:16:54,120 --> 00:16:56,760 Speaker 8: And I'm thinking, like this whole time, I like cooked 433 00:16:56,760 --> 00:16:58,720 Speaker 8: it up and she has anxiety just like I do, 434 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:00,760 Speaker 8: and I'm like, this is probably not the best way 435 00:17:00,800 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 8: to approach it. This wasn't the best way. So I 436 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,720 Speaker 8: wanted to say I'm sorry. And that's a great point, though, Fred. 437 00:17:05,720 --> 00:17:07,320 Speaker 8: I feel like I've cooled it down with the can 438 00:17:07,320 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 8: ask you questions just as I want you to have 439 00:17:09,440 --> 00:17:11,840 Speaker 8: the confidence ask the question. Yeah, And if I think 440 00:17:11,840 --> 00:17:13,840 Speaker 8: it's a dumb question, I'll just say that was a dumb. 441 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:15,600 Speaker 4: One much question I ever heard, which I have a lot. 442 00:17:15,640 --> 00:17:17,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't say that to you. I would just say 443 00:17:17,040 --> 00:17:17,920 Speaker 1: it behind your back. I would. 444 00:17:18,880 --> 00:17:20,399 Speaker 4: I know, I got a lot of questions. 445 00:17:20,720 --> 00:17:22,439 Speaker 1: My sister and I were talking about this yesterday. 446 00:17:22,480 --> 00:17:24,200 Speaker 2: My dad's famous for this because he called us both 447 00:17:24,280 --> 00:17:27,600 Speaker 2: yesterday about something and we've had to teach him because 448 00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,600 Speaker 2: he's so dramatic, like he'll call like one day he 449 00:17:30,640 --> 00:17:33,320 Speaker 2: called my sister was in town, and we're all eating breakfast, 450 00:17:33,359 --> 00:17:37,159 Speaker 2: a bunch of us, and he calls and he says no. 451 00:17:37,200 --> 00:17:39,239 Speaker 2: He calls and he says, I need to talk to you. 452 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:41,880 Speaker 2: Is your is Amanda with you? And I'm like yeah, 453 00:17:42,040 --> 00:17:43,760 Speaker 2: And I was like, but eating breakfast. He goes, I 454 00:17:43,760 --> 00:17:46,280 Speaker 2: need you to leave the restaurant. Why I go, Amanda, 455 00:17:46,400 --> 00:17:50,080 Speaker 2: Mom's dead, Like, I mean, he needs to leave the 456 00:17:50,119 --> 00:17:52,960 Speaker 2: middle of our French toast right now to go. And 457 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:55,040 Speaker 2: I'm like, well, if someone's dead dead, can I at 458 00:17:55,080 --> 00:17:56,560 Speaker 2: least eat the French toast because they're still going to 459 00:17:56,640 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 2: be dead like in you know, fifteen minutes or whatever. 460 00:17:58,680 --> 00:17:59,800 Speaker 2: He's like, no, I need you to walk out of 461 00:17:59,800 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 2: the red well. Our twenty one year old cat died. 462 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:05,320 Speaker 1: It was very sad. It was very sad. 463 00:18:05,359 --> 00:18:09,359 Speaker 2: But I'm like, okay, Like I don't think that. The 464 00:18:10,040 --> 00:18:12,040 Speaker 2: man is like nearly in tears. We're running out in 465 00:18:12,040 --> 00:18:14,760 Speaker 2: front of this restaurant thinking something very terrible happen, right. 466 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:17,280 Speaker 2: And he does this all the time, like cause if 467 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 2: the phone, Dad doesn't call us that often, and usually 468 00:18:19,600 --> 00:18:22,679 Speaker 2: it's because Mom's pissed about something or someone's mad and 469 00:18:22,720 --> 00:18:24,440 Speaker 2: he has to be the you know, the mean cop 470 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:26,520 Speaker 2: or whatever. Bad coup, right, But so now when he 471 00:18:26,560 --> 00:18:30,400 Speaker 2: does this, like yesterday he lefts me a voicemail, I'm okay, 472 00:18:30,680 --> 00:18:33,439 Speaker 2: Mom's okay, the doult you're okay, the cats are okay, 473 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:34,440 Speaker 2: Paul is okay. 474 00:18:34,720 --> 00:18:36,320 Speaker 1: I need to talk to you about something, call me back. 475 00:18:36,800 --> 00:18:39,719 Speaker 2: So that that's what he has to do now, because otherwise, 476 00:18:39,720 --> 00:18:41,760 Speaker 2: when I see the caller idea, I'm like, oh my god, 477 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:42,560 Speaker 2: here we go. 478 00:18:42,800 --> 00:18:44,280 Speaker 1: It's something bad happened. 479 00:18:44,320 --> 00:18:46,359 Speaker 9: Can't we just call people and then if they don't answer, 480 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 9: they'll see the mi ass call and then call us back, 481 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 9: Like does there need to be any other communication, like 482 00:18:51,400 --> 00:18:51,960 Speaker 9: other than. 483 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,879 Speaker 2: Or if you leave it, if you leave a voicemail 484 00:18:53,960 --> 00:18:56,720 Speaker 2: unless you're my mom or my dad, who don't seem 485 00:18:56,720 --> 00:18:59,399 Speaker 2: to really understand this, I love them both. I assumed 486 00:18:59,440 --> 00:19:01,320 Speaker 2: that there were so you really needed me to hear. 487 00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,760 Speaker 9: My god, my friend Allie leaves me a voicemail every time, 488 00:19:03,760 --> 00:19:06,200 Speaker 9: and every time I'm like, please, don't do like it's 489 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:09,080 Speaker 9: not worth It's like, hey, just call. I'm like, girl, no, 490 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:11,800 Speaker 9: don't you dare leave me a voicemail. I can't stand it. 491 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:14,439 Speaker 9: So I purposely leave my voicemail full. But then if 492 00:19:14,440 --> 00:19:17,080 Speaker 9: I delete some hey, She'll catch that it's open and 493 00:19:17,160 --> 00:19:17,479 Speaker 9: leave it. 494 00:19:17,560 --> 00:19:19,800 Speaker 4: I'm like, girl, come on, we're best friends, Like, I 495 00:19:19,800 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 4: don't need it. 496 00:19:20,720 --> 00:19:23,159 Speaker 2: Call me more than once consecutively, then I'm going to 497 00:19:23,200 --> 00:19:24,320 Speaker 2: assume it's an emergency. 498 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,960 Speaker 4: Oh I have to do that with all my gens. 499 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:29,080 Speaker 9: As Paulina says, people in my life because they have 500 00:19:29,119 --> 00:19:31,920 Speaker 9: it on do not deserve So Tatiana, she's not a gens, 501 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:33,760 Speaker 9: but she does this. I have to call her twice 502 00:19:33,760 --> 00:19:34,720 Speaker 9: to make the call go through. 503 00:19:35,000 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: Oh, it's very annoying. 504 00:19:36,680 --> 00:19:37,199 Speaker 4: Yes, it is. 505 00:19:37,359 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 2: If you say, if any form of we need to 506 00:19:39,240 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 2: talk now, leave me a voicemail, or call me more 507 00:19:42,560 --> 00:19:44,880 Speaker 2: than once consecutively, you can assume I'm going to freak out. 508 00:19:44,960 --> 00:19:45,400 Speaker 4: Oh my god. 509 00:19:45,600 --> 00:19:46,680 Speaker 1: And you can assume that if. 510 00:19:46,560 --> 00:19:49,080 Speaker 2: Whatever you had to say was not of an extreme value, 511 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:51,080 Speaker 2: I'm going to freak out on you. 512 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:51,040 Speaker 3: Yeah. 513 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:53,080 Speaker 4: Texts like hey, can you call me? It's like, no, 514 00:19:53,200 --> 00:19:53,919 Speaker 4: you just call me? 515 00:19:54,840 --> 00:19:55,040 Speaker 6: Yes? 516 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:57,639 Speaker 4: Why I have to call you? That one gets me? 517 00:19:57,720 --> 00:19:58,199 Speaker 7: You know what I mean? 518 00:19:59,080 --> 00:20:00,240 Speaker 4: Hey, can you call me? 519 00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:00,760 Speaker 3: No? 520 00:20:01,320 --> 00:20:02,920 Speaker 4: You call me? Fan? 521 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 6: Right? 522 00:20:04,040 --> 00:20:05,040 Speaker 4: You want me? You call me? 523 00:20:05,240 --> 00:20:05,440 Speaker 2: Yeah? 524 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:08,159 Speaker 1: Someone said, ask Paulina what the plural of text is? 525 00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:15,399 Speaker 10: Texas is a state love Texas Texas. That's exactly what 526 00:20:15,440 --> 00:20:17,920 Speaker 10: it is. Waiting Metaphone's new and next it's the Fred Show. 527 00:20:19,359 --> 00:20:21,199 Speaker 10: Do you have what it takes to battle? 528 00:20:21,920 --> 00:20:28,760 Speaker 8: You're definitely gonna be callinat not today, It's. 529 00:20:28,880 --> 00:20:32,800 Speaker 1: Time to play the game, Pauline, I was game, sang 530 00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 1: your song. 531 00:20:33,760 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 8: Now let's go what I'm sorry if I sound out 532 00:20:38,160 --> 00:20:42,600 Speaker 8: of breath. This little girl is pushing everywhere. I can 533 00:20:42,840 --> 00:20:45,959 Speaker 8: feel her moving though, but then I wonder if it's 534 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,480 Speaker 8: gas or is it really her? 535 00:20:47,680 --> 00:20:48,280 Speaker 4: I don't know. 536 00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:54,200 Speaker 8: Hey, yeah, yeah, we're in that phase where she's moving 537 00:20:54,320 --> 00:20:56,439 Speaker 8: and like they say that you can feel it in 538 00:20:56,480 --> 00:20:57,000 Speaker 8: which I do. 539 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,520 Speaker 4: But then I'm like, mom is a castle. 540 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:00,919 Speaker 1: And I never know? 541 00:21:01,280 --> 00:21:05,000 Speaker 2: Oh wow, okay, I know science? No science, Yeah, a 542 00:21:05,040 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 2: lot of information. Yeah, absolutely loving loving it. He says, 543 00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:10,919 Speaker 2: how you doing well? 544 00:21:11,080 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 4: I'm good. 545 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:12,000 Speaker 7: How are you? 546 00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,240 Speaker 1: Stephanie? Welcome? Tell us about you? Thanks for listening. 547 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:16,639 Speaker 9: By the way, thank you, thank you. 548 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:18,520 Speaker 7: I'm a mom to a beautiful ten and a half 549 00:21:18,600 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 7: year although I just dropped off at school. I am 550 00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:24,440 Speaker 7: a supply Chaine director for a major retailer and I'm 551 00:21:24,480 --> 00:21:25,280 Speaker 7: excited to play. 552 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 1: Okay, I love it. What a great description. 553 00:21:28,760 --> 00:21:28,920 Speaker 6: You know. 554 00:21:29,080 --> 00:21:33,880 Speaker 2: She just succinct. I loved it. Yeah, and you didn't. 555 00:21:33,920 --> 00:21:35,720 Speaker 2: I don't think you said your name, because that's a 556 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 2: lot of people do that. I can tell us about you. Well, 557 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:39,399 Speaker 2: my name is Stephanie. I already said that, but you 558 00:21:39,400 --> 00:21:43,840 Speaker 2: didn't do that. No, it's great. Five questions general knowledge 559 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:48,280 Speaker 2: questions against our beautiful sunflower a medipulsa Paulina. 560 00:21:48,320 --> 00:21:50,560 Speaker 1: We never know what she's going to say. We never know. 561 00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,440 Speaker 2: Sometimes she gets a five, sometimes she gets a zero. 562 00:21:53,640 --> 00:21:55,720 Speaker 2: I just this game, it really, it really gets you. 563 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:58,760 Speaker 2: Always surprised, always surprised. Sixty three and seventy two is 564 00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 2: her record. But she is on a two game wind streak. 565 00:22:00,520 --> 00:22:02,960 Speaker 2: So let's see how this tigers. By the way, that's 566 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,440 Speaker 2: that's the rule, you guys. Ready, Yes, good luck, okay, luck, 567 00:22:06,760 --> 00:22:10,800 Speaker 2: with all due respect, adios me and miga. After the 568 00:22:10,800 --> 00:22:13,400 Speaker 2: sound boo poof, she goes enter within. Okay, good, here 569 00:22:13,400 --> 00:22:17,680 Speaker 2: we go, Stephanie. Question number one, which two colors make 570 00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:19,520 Speaker 2: up the home depot logo? 571 00:22:22,080 --> 00:22:22,800 Speaker 4: Yellow and red? 572 00:22:23,720 --> 00:22:31,719 Speaker 2: To which country does the island of Mikanos belong. Cider 573 00:22:31,840 --> 00:22:37,200 Speaker 2: is traditionally made from the fermented juice of which fruit apple. 574 00:22:37,720 --> 00:22:40,719 Speaker 2: What is the name for an educated guess? About the 575 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:45,679 Speaker 2: outcome of an experiment? Oh boy, hypotheses? 576 00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:48,199 Speaker 1: And in which city would you find the rock and 577 00:22:48,280 --> 00:22:49,080 Speaker 1: Roll Hall of Fame? 578 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,120 Speaker 5: Oh? 579 00:22:52,640 --> 00:22:54,480 Speaker 4: Three? Two? 580 00:22:55,880 --> 00:22:58,840 Speaker 1: Please rock and roll? What'd you say? Is the buzzer? 581 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,639 Speaker 1: What'd you say? 582 00:23:02,400 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 2: But equally sort of equally kind of three is the score? 583 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:10,600 Speaker 1: Three? 584 00:23:10,800 --> 00:23:13,920 Speaker 2: Paulina as she comes back in from the sam booth, poo, 585 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,200 Speaker 2: gotta be tough. Yeah, I does go to Paulina. But 586 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:21,480 Speaker 2: let's see how this goes alright? Question number one, Paulina, 587 00:23:21,560 --> 00:23:24,120 Speaker 2: which two colors make up the home Depot logo? 588 00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:25,280 Speaker 6: Oh? 589 00:23:25,520 --> 00:23:27,760 Speaker 4: Oh boy? Is it yellow and orange? 590 00:23:27,760 --> 00:23:32,359 Speaker 1: That is not correct? Orange and white? 591 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 4: I love Home Depot. 592 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:38,199 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, they don't love you anymore. It's not too 593 00:23:38,320 --> 00:23:41,200 Speaker 2: a big al at home Depots? To Which country does 594 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:42,800 Speaker 2: the island of me Canos belong? 595 00:23:43,080 --> 00:23:43,439 Speaker 3: Grace? 596 00:23:44,840 --> 00:23:48,919 Speaker 2: Sighting is traditionally made from the fermented juice of which fruit. 597 00:23:49,119 --> 00:23:50,320 Speaker 4: A sight or is it apple? 598 00:23:52,320 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 2: What is the name for an educated guess about the 599 00:23:55,040 --> 00:23:56,720 Speaker 2: outcome of an experiment? 600 00:23:56,920 --> 00:23:57,520 Speaker 4: An estimate? 601 00:23:57,920 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 1: Nope, hypothesis? Yeah? 602 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:05,639 Speaker 2: And finally, in which city you have to get this? 603 00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:07,399 Speaker 2: By the way, in which city would you find the 604 00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:08,640 Speaker 2: Rock and Roll Hall of Fame? 605 00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 4: Rock and Roll Hall of fame. What city? 606 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:14,480 Speaker 8: Yeah, oh yeah, rock and Roll Hall of Fame. 607 00:24:14,880 --> 00:24:15,800 Speaker 4: Is it New York City? 608 00:24:15,920 --> 00:24:21,920 Speaker 1: It is not. It's Cleveland, Cleveland. So that's you win 609 00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:26,240 Speaker 1: for seven Stephite. A nice job. 610 00:24:27,200 --> 00:24:30,000 Speaker 2: That is lost number seventy three for Paulina, and she've 611 00:24:30,040 --> 00:24:32,879 Speaker 2: snapped her two game win streak. And you win some 612 00:24:32,960 --> 00:24:34,959 Speaker 2: kind of fabulous prize. I'm not sure what it is, 613 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:36,400 Speaker 2: but it will be fabulous. 614 00:24:36,480 --> 00:24:41,160 Speaker 4: Okay, well, awesome, great job, Paulina, great job. The Cleveland thing, 615 00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:42,320 Speaker 4: I mean, I don't believe any of you. 616 00:24:44,200 --> 00:24:47,159 Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm sure you're rushing off to Cleveland now 617 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:50,480 Speaker 2: to visit, so I know. Hang on one second, Okay, Stephanie, 618 00:24:50,480 --> 00:24:51,520 Speaker 2: you have a great day, Thanks for listening. 619 00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:54,320 Speaker 4: Thank you as well, by job, good job. 620 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,400 Speaker 2: All right, Game Show Wednesday, rolls on. This is very exciting. 621 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:01,840 Speaker 2: Next up, Kiki Karaoke. We have our song selected, we 622 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:06,120 Speaker 2: have a let's see here, we have a relatively new song. 623 00:25:06,359 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 1: We have a. 624 00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:13,720 Speaker 2: Timely song. Okay, it's sort of pop culture related. And 625 00:25:13,760 --> 00:25:16,280 Speaker 2: then we have a song as I often like to choose, 626 00:25:16,600 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 2: that was on a ranker of the top one hundred 627 00:25:19,400 --> 00:25:20,560 Speaker 2: karaoke songs of all time. 628 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:24,600 Speaker 4: Is it from Cleveland? Because I'm shook by that fact. 629 00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:25,920 Speaker 1: You really know that. 630 00:25:26,000 --> 00:25:31,920 Speaker 2: I thought maybe Memphis, that's where that's where Graceland is. 631 00:25:32,000 --> 00:25:34,800 Speaker 2: But I guess the Lebron James opening his own museum 632 00:25:34,880 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 2: right next to a rockerball Hall of Fame. Remember we 633 00:25:37,320 --> 00:25:39,240 Speaker 2: learned last week from Camyliner earlier this week. I can't 634 00:25:39,240 --> 00:25:42,080 Speaker 2: remember that Lebron James opening his own museum about himself. 635 00:25:42,160 --> 00:25:44,479 Speaker 4: Yeah, because that's going to bring that's going to bring 636 00:25:44,520 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 4: to people in Cleveland. Right. 637 00:25:46,320 --> 00:25:48,239 Speaker 2: You don't see a problem with the problem at all. 638 00:25:48,320 --> 00:25:49,960 Speaker 2: He doesn't even want to be in Cleveland anymore. 639 00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 4: Well, you're gonna put his museum there, Okay. 640 00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:55,879 Speaker 1: Michael Jordan never did that, That's what I'm saying. He 641 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: never opened his own musicum about himself. 642 00:25:58,200 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 4: Yeah, that's the goat. That's why. Yeah, he didn't pay 643 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:06,080 Speaker 4: his tolls. Michael Jordan didn't pay tolls. That's what hurt. 644 00:26:07,480 --> 00:26:10,959 Speaker 2: You know, takes one to know one, right, keep if 645 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:13,640 Speaker 2: you want to play eight five five three five will 646 00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:17,439 Speaker 2: play next in two minutes after dojakat the Entertainer Report, 647 00:26:17,440 --> 00:26:20,760 Speaker 2: Trending Stories and fun fact all coming up, Fred shows up. 648 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,679 Speaker 1: The frend Show is on. 649 00:26:25,320 --> 00:26:28,240 Speaker 2: Good Morning Everybody, Wednesday, November fifteenth, The French show is here. 650 00:26:28,320 --> 00:26:32,520 Speaker 1: Hiklin, good morning, Hi, Jason bro Hi, Rufia, Paulina, he 651 00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:33,720 Speaker 1: give good morning. 652 00:26:33,760 --> 00:26:36,440 Speaker 2: Sheby Shelley and turned Venomine, not Benjamin waiting by the phone. 653 00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:38,240 Speaker 2: You've got to hear this one. It's new, and next 654 00:26:38,320 --> 00:26:40,399 Speaker 2: the Entertainer Report after that, what's in there? 655 00:26:40,480 --> 00:26:40,840 Speaker 1: Kaylin? 656 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:43,200 Speaker 9: Well, I'm going to tell you about an alleged gay 657 00:26:43,240 --> 00:26:45,159 Speaker 9: love affair, and I'm going to need you guys to 658 00:26:45,200 --> 00:26:46,520 Speaker 9: all be very mature. 659 00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,520 Speaker 4: About the way that it's worded. 660 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:52,040 Speaker 1: Naturally of course, Yeah, you get going.