1 00:00:03,920 --> 00:00:09,639 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know, y'all a 2 00:00:10,240 --> 00:00:14,800 Speaker 1: so long looking back to back down, giving them just 3 00:00:15,320 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 1: like the milking buck bus things and it's cub y'all. 4 00:00:19,200 --> 00:00:26,200 Speaker 1: Do me true good to the hearty guy listening to 5 00:00:24,880 --> 00:00:40,240 Speaker 1: move to other stood clean hobby. Don't you join yeah 6 00:00:43,159 --> 00:01:08,000 Speaker 1: by joint be you go with me? Honey, do turn yeah, 7 00:01:10,240 --> 00:01:41,880 Speaker 1: don't go to you. You gotta turn to turn out, 8 00:01:42,440 --> 00:01:45,120 Speaker 1: turn to you love. You got to turn out to 9 00:01:45,280 --> 00:02:01,280 Speaker 1: turn water water go. Come come on your back, uh, 10 00:02:02,040 --> 00:02:05,960 Speaker 1: I sure will. Good morning everybody you're listening to the voice, 11 00:02:06,040 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: come on dig me now, one and only Steve Harvey 12 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:15,639 Speaker 1: got a radio show. Man, oh man, oh man. You 13 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,280 Speaker 1: know what y'all? I mean, Really, the goodness of God 14 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 1: is overwhelming if you think about it, I mean, really 15 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:29,079 Speaker 1: really think about it, even even when your circumstance doesn't 16 00:02:29,120 --> 00:02:32,880 Speaker 1: look so bright, even when you're going through something that's 17 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 1: causing you discomfort, pain, even even in that, God's goodness 18 00:02:41,639 --> 00:02:46,919 Speaker 1: is actually overwhelming, because don't forget why you're going through 19 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:51,400 Speaker 1: this moment this first of all, this too shall pass. 20 00:02:52,000 --> 00:02:56,400 Speaker 1: But also secondly, remember man, ain't everything else that you've 21 00:02:56,520 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: gone through that seems so insurmountable at the time. Didn't 22 00:03:01,320 --> 00:03:05,800 Speaker 1: you get past that too? I mean, it's amazing if 23 00:03:05,840 --> 00:03:09,160 Speaker 1: you really think about it, if you really be you don't. 24 00:03:09,240 --> 00:03:12,840 Speaker 1: You don't get stuck on any one issue your whole life. 25 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:16,480 Speaker 1: The only people that get stuck on an issue they 26 00:03:16,600 --> 00:03:20,959 Speaker 1: whole life is people who won't let it go. That's 27 00:03:21,000 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: really all it is. There are people who exist, and 28 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,079 Speaker 1: you may be one of them. Oh please, No, I've 29 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: been guilty of it myself before. But I learned something. 30 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:35,080 Speaker 1: There are things in my past that I just would 31 00:03:35,120 --> 00:03:38,400 Speaker 1: not let go of. It was done, it was over with, 32 00:03:38,680 --> 00:03:43,000 Speaker 1: I was past it, but I I would not let 33 00:03:43,080 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: go of it. It was over. The dude that did 34 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,040 Speaker 1: it to me didn't exist no more. The problem that 35 00:03:49,160 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 1: it created didn't exist no more. The only problem that 36 00:03:52,240 --> 00:03:55,920 Speaker 1: kept hanging on was I would not let it go. 37 00:03:58,120 --> 00:04:02,080 Speaker 1: And man, you can't go forward if you're gonna keep 38 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 1: looking in the past. It's an impossible thing. It's like 39 00:04:06,200 --> 00:04:10,440 Speaker 1: driving a car. If you keep looking only in the 40 00:04:10,560 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: rear view mirror while you're driving, you're going to crash 41 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:17,960 Speaker 1: pretty soon. And a lot of people just keep crashing 42 00:04:18,200 --> 00:04:22,440 Speaker 1: over and over and over and over because you won't 43 00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:25,200 Speaker 1: drive your car. You keep looking in the rear view 44 00:04:25,279 --> 00:04:29,400 Speaker 1: mirror at the pass. Oh woe is me? Oh? You 45 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: know they did me like that? You know, I ain't 46 00:04:31,680 --> 00:04:34,520 Speaker 1: been the same since he cheated on me. Oh man, 47 00:04:34,600 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: ever since she stole my money, I ain't been the 48 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,120 Speaker 1: same man. She played me and ever since that out 49 00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: and treated women differently. My father used to beat me. Okay, 50 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:47,880 Speaker 1: you know now, Look, you may have some deeper stuff 51 00:04:47,920 --> 00:04:50,799 Speaker 1: going on, like you're abused or molested as a child, 52 00:04:51,720 --> 00:04:54,880 Speaker 1: but eventually, guess what, do you understand that when you 53 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:58,360 Speaker 1: have relationship God with God, you can take that to 54 00:04:58,560 --> 00:05:01,719 Speaker 1: him too and drop it off and leave it there. 55 00:05:03,160 --> 00:05:05,360 Speaker 1: Do you know that he can fix and heal that. 56 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:09,280 Speaker 1: Maybe it's something serious like that that you need fixing 57 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:12,800 Speaker 1: on healing from a relationship with God can fix and 58 00:05:12,960 --> 00:05:18,720 Speaker 1: heal that. But man, come on, y'all, whatever it is, 59 00:05:19,440 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 1: and I'm not trying to downplay it or make it 60 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,000 Speaker 1: act like it wasn't traumatic in your life, because oh God, 61 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:27,039 Speaker 1: you don't want to you know, you don't want nobody 62 00:05:27,120 --> 00:05:28,920 Speaker 1: do that to you because you want to be the 63 00:05:29,520 --> 00:05:33,200 Speaker 1: you know, the post to child for misery. So please 64 00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:36,000 Speaker 1: don't let me take that from you. You know, if 65 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:39,480 Speaker 1: if that's your position, that's your that's your you know, 66 00:05:40,160 --> 00:05:42,720 Speaker 1: hall of Fame card. You're hanging on too. I'm the 67 00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:46,640 Speaker 1: post to child for misery. Oh, no, one is more 68 00:05:46,800 --> 00:05:50,160 Speaker 1: woe than me. Then please don't let Steve try to 69 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:52,920 Speaker 1: take that from you. Go ahead and hang on to that. 70 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:55,600 Speaker 1: But let me tell you something though. If that's what 71 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:58,359 Speaker 1: you're gonna hang on to, that's what you're gonna always 72 00:05:58,480 --> 00:06:01,640 Speaker 1: be the post to child mystery. At one point time, 73 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:03,400 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get on the move past it. 74 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 1: And you can. Sometimes, Man, it's merely a simple thing 75 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:09,800 Speaker 1: of taking it to God and leaving it there. You know, 76 00:06:10,360 --> 00:06:14,000 Speaker 1: some people don't have money for therapy. Some people don't 77 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,880 Speaker 1: even know who to call for therapy. God is the 78 00:06:18,000 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: best psychologist in the world. He he can fix it 79 00:06:22,480 --> 00:06:26,120 Speaker 1: for you. There is nothing too hard for God. You know, 80 00:06:26,200 --> 00:06:30,600 Speaker 1: when something seems impossible, y'all, God does the impossible all 81 00:06:30,680 --> 00:06:34,320 Speaker 1: the time every day. You don't know how I know. 82 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:37,480 Speaker 1: I just look at a couple of basic things. Do 83 00:06:37,600 --> 00:06:39,600 Speaker 1: you know that that sun comes up every day in 84 00:06:39,680 --> 00:06:41,960 Speaker 1: the morning, It comes up in the east and it 85 00:06:42,080 --> 00:06:44,560 Speaker 1: sets in the west. You can't do nothing about that. 86 00:06:45,880 --> 00:06:48,640 Speaker 1: All you can you can wish because you plant your 87 00:06:48,680 --> 00:06:50,960 Speaker 1: flowers on a certain side of your house, you can 88 00:06:51,040 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: wish you all you want that maybe one day he 89 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: would bring it up out the northwest. So those flowers were. 90 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:59,039 Speaker 1: Now now it's gonna come up about these. It's gonna 91 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:01,160 Speaker 1: come about these, and it's gonna set in the west. 92 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:06,280 Speaker 1: And once the sun hits the horizon when you look 93 00:07:06,320 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 1: in the water, like if you are out in l 94 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:11,160 Speaker 1: a and you see the sun going down. Once the sun, 95 00:07:11,320 --> 00:07:14,440 Speaker 1: once you can visually see the sun touching the horizon, 96 00:07:15,160 --> 00:07:18,520 Speaker 1: you have three minutes. You have exactly three minutes. You 97 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:20,600 Speaker 1: can sit there with you watch. You can time you're 98 00:07:20,680 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: three minutes and it's gone. Three minutes, it's gone. It's man. 99 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 1: I read that somewhere and then I went and tried it. 100 00:07:29,920 --> 00:07:34,200 Speaker 1: It's gone every day if if it's clear enough, not cloudy, 101 00:07:34,680 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 1: once the sun touches the horizon on water, you've got 102 00:07:38,160 --> 00:07:41,840 Speaker 1: three minutes. I don't care who you are, you can 103 00:07:41,920 --> 00:07:44,440 Speaker 1: want it to be different. That's what he does. When 104 00:07:44,520 --> 00:07:48,720 Speaker 1: the wind blows, you can't do nothing about it. He 105 00:07:48,840 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 1: can bring it from the northeast, he can bring it 106 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:52,520 Speaker 1: from the west, he can bring from the south He 107 00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:54,600 Speaker 1: can bring it hard, he can bring it cool, he 108 00:07:54,640 --> 00:07:58,440 Speaker 1: can bring it high. It's certain things that God, God 109 00:07:58,560 --> 00:08:02,360 Speaker 1: does the impossible all the hi. You can't explain him. 110 00:08:03,080 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: You know how those stars sitting up there? How how 111 00:08:06,600 --> 00:08:09,000 Speaker 1: can you find these constellations the big dip of a 112 00:08:09,080 --> 00:08:12,320 Speaker 1: little dipper? Ryan the Hunter, Oh that's God. That's got 113 00:08:12,520 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: nothing you can do by it. You can't reach them stars, 114 00:08:15,240 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 1: you can't shoot at them, you can't move them out 115 00:08:17,280 --> 00:08:20,880 Speaker 1: the way you know, or Ryan the Hunter's belt is 116 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:22,920 Speaker 1: gonna beat them three stars out of angle. You can, 117 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:24,480 Speaker 1: you can, you can call it what you wanna call. 118 00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:27,360 Speaker 1: It's still that's what it is. See, He does the 119 00:08:27,440 --> 00:08:31,760 Speaker 1: impossible all the time. He created heaven and Earth. You're 120 00:08:31,800 --> 00:08:35,640 Speaker 1: saying that God can't get you through your past. Somebody 121 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:38,839 Speaker 1: did this to me. It's the worst thing I had, 122 00:08:38,920 --> 00:08:42,079 Speaker 1: the worst childhood of anybody. God can't get you past that. 123 00:08:44,400 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: He can move Heaven mountains Earth, he can form the 124 00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:51,320 Speaker 1: Grand Canyon, he can make the water come over Niagara 125 00:08:51,440 --> 00:08:56,679 Speaker 1: Falls twenty four seven. He can't fix your little bit 126 00:08:56,760 --> 00:09:01,360 Speaker 1: of past yours you you instant, nificant being as we are. 127 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 1: It's amazing how people make their problems bigger than God. 128 00:09:06,440 --> 00:09:11,240 Speaker 1: Somebody told me one time, stop telling God how big 129 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,880 Speaker 1: your problems are, and start telling your problems how big 130 00:09:16,040 --> 00:09:21,200 Speaker 1: God is, and go on with your life. Quit driving 131 00:09:21,320 --> 00:09:24,600 Speaker 1: your car looking in the rear view mirror. Ain't nothing 132 00:09:24,679 --> 00:09:27,439 Speaker 1: back there but your past. And if it was hurtful 133 00:09:27,559 --> 00:09:30,760 Speaker 1: or painful, or something you just felt like you can't 134 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:33,719 Speaker 1: get over, take your problems to God and leave them there. 135 00:09:34,000 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 1: You hear the old spiritual all you've heard it. Take 136 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,160 Speaker 1: your problems to the Lord, Take your burdens to the Lord, 137 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:43,360 Speaker 1: leave them ye at all time. But you think that 138 00:09:43,440 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: applies to everyone. But you come on, man, and a 139 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:52,199 Speaker 1: lot of people out there going through much worse than 140 00:09:52,280 --> 00:09:55,319 Speaker 1: you have and have overcome it all. Why won't you 141 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:58,240 Speaker 1: take the step to overcome your past so you can 142 00:09:58,320 --> 00:10:00,680 Speaker 1: get on with driving your con see a God trying 143 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:03,360 Speaker 1: to take you, But it's the trick of the enemy. 144 00:10:03,640 --> 00:10:07,120 Speaker 1: The enemy tricks you from seeing your future by having 145 00:10:07,160 --> 00:10:10,960 Speaker 1: you constantly looking in your past. Man, it's a trick 146 00:10:11,000 --> 00:10:13,520 Speaker 1: of the devil. If the man, If the devil just 147 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,839 Speaker 1: lets you quit, if he would just let you get 148 00:10:16,920 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: to drive in your car and look out into your future, 149 00:10:19,480 --> 00:10:24,240 Speaker 1: your future shows hopefulness. You have hope when you see 150 00:10:24,320 --> 00:10:27,520 Speaker 1: the future. But he can keep you in misery if 151 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:32,719 Speaker 1: he keep you looking at your miserable pass He created you, 152 00:10:33,320 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 1: He got a plan for you. God looking for you. Man. 153 00:10:36,880 --> 00:10:39,719 Speaker 1: God would love to hear from you. Let's spend some 154 00:10:39,840 --> 00:10:43,920 Speaker 1: time talking to God today. Hey, God, what's happening. It's me. 155 00:10:44,600 --> 00:10:46,000 Speaker 1: I know I ain't talked to you in a while, 156 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:49,480 Speaker 1: but feel bad about that. But I need you. He 157 00:10:49,600 --> 00:10:52,600 Speaker 1: know that. Everybody should say that prayer all the time. 158 00:10:52,640 --> 00:11:06,640 Speaker 1: It's cool, all right, well, all right, you're listening to show, ladies, gentlemen, people, animals. 159 00:11:07,120 --> 00:11:10,360 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show full effect. What's up Sherley, Hey Steve, 160 00:11:10,440 --> 00:11:14,160 Speaker 1: good morning to you talking about it? Call it good morning. 161 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:19,079 Speaker 1: What's up? Cruel coming at your junior morning? Everybody and 162 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:26,960 Speaker 1: Thomas smile. Gotta feeling, good morning, good morning. I gotta 163 00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:38,559 Speaker 1: feel ah, gotta feeling. Somebody's trying to sneak in my 164 00:11:38,880 --> 00:11:48,160 Speaker 1: friend and they gonna be no like that. Oh when 165 00:11:48,200 --> 00:11:50,920 Speaker 1: you hear that's all right there you've been to get too. 166 00:11:55,880 --> 00:12:02,840 Speaker 1: I didn't say we don't do that. Absolutely, that's who 167 00:12:02,960 --> 00:12:09,959 Speaker 1: doesn't do that. You ain't in the band and be 168 00:12:10,040 --> 00:12:15,599 Speaker 1: clowning that boy. Man, the man. I mean, man, I 169 00:12:15,760 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: just want to go. Really, man, you gotta stop all that. 170 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:22,800 Speaker 1: You can't do that. You have people hazing people that 171 00:12:22,880 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 1: ain't ever had they asked. And if you don't know 172 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:28,920 Speaker 1: what that is, you don't know what out of bounds like, 173 00:12:29,080 --> 00:12:30,880 Speaker 1: you don't know where to stop. So you just think 174 00:12:30,920 --> 00:12:33,439 Speaker 1: you just over here that that's that that a man. 175 00:12:34,200 --> 00:12:36,320 Speaker 1: Young kids, they don't know nothing about that. They ain't 176 00:12:36,320 --> 00:12:40,240 Speaker 1: took no whoop anyway, probably not subject. We need to 177 00:12:40,240 --> 00:12:44,360 Speaker 1: get on get on up out of him. Hey, good 178 00:12:44,400 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: morning again. Life is good. Life is good. Any questions 179 00:12:47,640 --> 00:12:49,280 Speaker 1: for me today though, there's something funny you want to 180 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:52,040 Speaker 1: ask to see you this morning. I'm feeling kind of 181 00:12:52,120 --> 00:12:55,920 Speaker 1: see you know, I think it's gonna be time for 182 00:12:56,080 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: some of that, you know, just let it out your system. Yeah, 183 00:12:59,360 --> 00:13:07,280 Speaker 1: how you feeling about vacation this year? CEO? Right there? 184 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 1: No time at all. I mean it's a new year. 185 00:13:12,840 --> 00:13:15,679 Speaker 1: We haven't started our spring and summer vacation, so I'm 186 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,320 Speaker 1: just wondering. I know how you've been in the past, 187 00:13:18,400 --> 00:13:20,920 Speaker 1: but that's the past. Well, I haven't been in the pain. 188 00:13:21,440 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: You all. You told us no, we couldn't have vacation 189 00:13:23,679 --> 00:13:26,640 Speaker 1: stake it on our own time. You weren't paying for vacations. 190 00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:32,319 Speaker 1: You know, things like that. It's a pattern patterns. I'm thinking, 191 00:13:32,440 --> 00:13:36,800 Speaker 1: have you changed listen to it? Know, the patting, the 192 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:41,160 Speaker 1: pattern just to the pattern caused the pattering about to 193 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:46,480 Speaker 1: be about the patty. So in other words, um, we 194 00:13:46,520 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 1: won't be able to ensure you saying you want to 195 00:13:48,559 --> 00:13:51,679 Speaker 1: take a trip together vacations. Well, I mean, I just 196 00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,560 Speaker 1: you know, he never gives us time off for vacation, 197 00:13:54,720 --> 00:13:57,400 Speaker 1: So I'm just wondering, Yeah, this year, will we be 198 00:13:57,520 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 1: able to have a vacation finalize? You gotta ask white folks. 199 00:14:03,800 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: We're asking the CEO. Leave you out of it. I 200 00:14:10,520 --> 00:14:13,920 Speaker 1: turn it over to the white folks. I think they 201 00:14:14,040 --> 00:14:17,280 Speaker 1: hand it better. They have more of a Tennessee to 202 00:14:17,360 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: hold me to the letter of the law. They gotta 203 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:26,440 Speaker 1: employee handbook. Well, then, yes, we'll have vacations all the 204 00:14:26,600 --> 00:14:28,160 Speaker 1: days time to be missing. I don't know what the 205 00:14:28,200 --> 00:14:35,920 Speaker 1: hell they're gonna do about here. I think we'll continue 206 00:14:36,000 --> 00:14:39,280 Speaker 1: this line of questioning, asked the CEO when we come 207 00:14:39,320 --> 00:14:45,040 Speaker 1: back after the hour. Right after this, you're listening to 208 00:14:45,480 --> 00:14:50,480 Speaker 1: Steve Hardy Morning Show. You know, being a mom is 209 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:53,240 Speaker 1: like a thousand little jobs all wrapped up into one, 210 00:14:53,720 --> 00:14:57,800 Speaker 1: from trauma nurse to afternoon mathematician, from organizer in chief. 211 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:01,480 Speaker 1: Somehow moms do it all. And let me say something. 212 00:15:01,480 --> 00:15:03,480 Speaker 1: I ain't no mom, but I show appreciate it the 213 00:15:03,560 --> 00:15:06,160 Speaker 1: one I had, and I appreciate all you mothers out there. 214 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:10,560 Speaker 1: So this Mother's day, listen to me. 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Come on, 224 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:49,320 Speaker 1: tell me you got a question for the CEO. H 225 00:15:49,640 --> 00:15:53,920 Speaker 1: Do you see raises for any of us anytime in 226 00:15:53,960 --> 00:15:58,720 Speaker 1: the neil you? I see it? Good question, man, definitely 227 00:15:58,760 --> 00:16:03,920 Speaker 1: see it? Okay, okay? And then will it ever come 228 00:16:04,120 --> 00:16:08,600 Speaker 1: to fruishing you see it happening. I just said, I 229 00:16:08,720 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: see it. I see marsh Millers and rainbows in the sky. 230 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:19,800 Speaker 1: Sometime I see rainbows in the sky, but run over 231 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:23,080 Speaker 1: there to it and it ain't there, or you're there, 232 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 1: it will be there when you get there. What I 233 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:30,960 Speaker 1: got a question? Go ahead, Carlin. Al Right, So as 234 00:16:31,000 --> 00:16:33,600 Speaker 1: a CEO, you're supposed to have, like, you know, this 235 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 1: vision and strategy for the company. So we're what in 236 00:16:37,320 --> 00:16:41,600 Speaker 1: the fourth month of the year. Okay, so what is 237 00:16:41,720 --> 00:16:45,080 Speaker 1: your vision and strategy for us for the rest of 238 00:16:45,160 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 1: the year. I ain't got vision strategy for nobody but 239 00:16:47,760 --> 00:16:53,760 Speaker 1: my damn self. I'm all vision and strategy out. I 240 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:58,120 Speaker 1: can't be visualizing strategizing for all y'all because they don't 241 00:16:58,160 --> 00:16:59,760 Speaker 1: need to be wanting to want some for y'all that 242 00:16:59,840 --> 00:17:04,920 Speaker 1: you don't want for you. Damn a chance. Yeah, we 243 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:07,879 Speaker 1: didn't even get a chance to get If you ain't 244 00:17:08,040 --> 00:17:12,960 Speaker 1: vision and strategizing by the fourth month or the year, 245 00:17:13,160 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 1: you ain't got no plan. Hey, what's your question, junior? First? Okay, 246 00:17:18,560 --> 00:17:21,600 Speaker 1: so we'll start to get around to our birthday. But 247 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 1: you know, like you know, next month, tommy birthday coming up. 248 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 1: You know, we want to know could you just provide 249 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:34,159 Speaker 1: a party or something like that? For only reason I 250 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:38,240 Speaker 1: don't do birthday parties because I don't know your birthdays. Well, 251 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:43,480 Speaker 1: well we can get that to you, know, See, you 252 00:17:43,560 --> 00:17:46,520 Speaker 1: misunderstand what I said. I said reading I don't do 253 00:17:46,680 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: birthday parties. It's because I don't know nobody's birthdays. You're 254 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:52,680 Speaker 1: getting it to me, don't mean I'm gonna know it. 255 00:17:54,480 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: Can you have it and keep it on you? Why 256 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:00,439 Speaker 1: would I keep your birthday on me when I need 257 00:18:00,520 --> 00:18:04,400 Speaker 1: all the space for my birthday? I know, Jenny seventeen. 258 00:18:05,600 --> 00:18:08,119 Speaker 1: If you want day to be important, you make it importantly. 259 00:18:08,160 --> 00:18:10,040 Speaker 1: You don't look over here. I ain't asked you for 260 00:18:10,119 --> 00:18:13,200 Speaker 1: a damn quarter for January semteen. You are no heavy? 261 00:18:13,560 --> 00:18:19,040 Speaker 1: Offered a quarter? Now? I did? Bye bye? What how 262 00:18:19,080 --> 00:18:21,080 Speaker 1: about some warm up? Now they was too tight, But 263 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:24,160 Speaker 1: I did buy him some because warm up and stow 264 00:18:24,240 --> 00:18:31,520 Speaker 1: you shop at. I told you it looked like I 265 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:33,560 Speaker 1: put it on the trying on the front of everybody. 266 00:18:33,760 --> 00:18:38,919 Speaker 1: You can't get my clothed baby get I don't care 267 00:18:38,920 --> 00:18:41,159 Speaker 1: if you do. Get the biggest side they got twenty husky. 268 00:18:41,280 --> 00:18:45,399 Speaker 1: I still can't wear well, okay, since none of us 269 00:18:45,600 --> 00:18:50,560 Speaker 1: my business too big for them for the job. I'm 270 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:54,120 Speaker 1: a man's man. I stretched out, wore out, poke out, 271 00:18:54,280 --> 00:19:06,440 Speaker 1: still out, round out, I'd be out. Can tide? Yeah, time, 272 00:19:10,600 --> 00:19:14,320 Speaker 1: you're bad back. Okay, Well, since we didn't take any 273 00:19:14,720 --> 00:19:18,080 Speaker 1: we won't be able to get any vacation. What about 274 00:19:18,119 --> 00:19:20,600 Speaker 1: like personal days, like for our own birthdays and stuff? 275 00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 1: Can we have those days? There? You go bringing up 276 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:27,800 Speaker 1: the birthdays personal being in a birthday, you need to 277 00:19:28,000 --> 00:19:30,240 Speaker 1: up your damn is the person of day or it 278 00:19:30,280 --> 00:19:32,200 Speaker 1: is your birthday. We're just trying to get a day off. 279 00:19:33,000 --> 00:19:36,040 Speaker 1: Used to actually give us those perfects? Who did he 280 00:19:36,160 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 1: used to? Well, Shan ain't here? No, okay you must. 281 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:45,520 Speaker 1: You might want to end up with Sean as you 282 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:49,120 Speaker 1: can hear. We want to celebrate things together, that's worry 283 00:19:49,160 --> 00:19:56,120 Speaker 1: about like food, truck, fridays, room, game room in here, 284 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,359 Speaker 1: like a pool table, ping pong table like that. Like 285 00:19:59,400 --> 00:20:02,520 Speaker 1: I can't take a about that. I was thinking about crymlal. 286 00:20:03,560 --> 00:20:08,879 Speaker 1: That's something we all do together. It's it's ever playing. 287 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:13,199 Speaker 1: Aren't coming? Ain't it yea here together? Oh? So now 288 00:20:13,320 --> 00:20:18,080 Speaker 1: because you ain't together, you ain't got time for the loading. 289 00:20:18,400 --> 00:20:30,800 Speaker 1: Oh that's who we're working with. Come ye, Faith, you're fooling. Yeah, 290 00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:45,920 Speaker 1: try your okay, come oh, ye sites us a big love. Okay, 291 00:20:45,960 --> 00:20:48,399 Speaker 1: let's go to the bathrond that we would go. Tommy, 292 00:20:48,520 --> 00:20:50,639 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to do a re enactment of the 293 00:20:50,760 --> 00:20:54,120 Speaker 1: major scene. What do you mean? Okay? What that means? 294 00:20:54,560 --> 00:20:56,719 Speaker 1: I want to go over and see if we can 295 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: find the place that the baby was born, Baby Jesus. 296 00:21:01,080 --> 00:21:03,399 Speaker 1: Yeah want that. And we don't find a play, We're 297 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:06,560 Speaker 1: gonna make it play. We're gonna reenact the major scene, okay, 298 00:21:06,960 --> 00:21:09,480 Speaker 1: with all the wise men and and yeah, all the 299 00:21:09,600 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: wise me and the baby mother Mary Joseph. We don't 300 00:21:14,320 --> 00:21:17,800 Speaker 1: have a baby though, we need a baby. Oh, come on, now, 301 00:21:18,520 --> 00:21:20,760 Speaker 1: you got grandkids? Surely you think I don't think that 302 00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:22,800 Speaker 1: was a setup that you threw at me. You think 303 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:26,639 Speaker 1: I don't think that, Yes, you did? Well, hold on, 304 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:30,040 Speaker 1: I got one deep, I got one better that him. Now. 305 00:21:30,119 --> 00:21:32,320 Speaker 1: I wasn't gonna make you the baby Jesus, because I 306 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:36,040 Speaker 1: don't think you qualified. What I was gonna do is 307 00:21:36,200 --> 00:21:38,560 Speaker 1: pop out. Wanted the boxers that the wise man head 308 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:46,040 Speaker 1: with the guilt like a jacket of Hello. It didn't 309 00:21:46,520 --> 00:21:48,960 Speaker 1: you didn't pop? You pop your pop right, on out. 310 00:21:51,800 --> 00:21:55,920 Speaker 1: Did we get anything? Did we get anything? I the 311 00:21:56,040 --> 00:22:00,040 Speaker 1: greatest session to all time. Clear a lot of and 312 00:22:00,080 --> 00:22:03,560 Speaker 1: that we learned mostly from this go up stands and 313 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:09,240 Speaker 1: after wife, Are you the CEO or not? I'm the CEO, 314 00:22:09,880 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: but jesz jess in imagery, immagry imagry. Alright, coming up 315 00:22:17,160 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 1: next this nephew Tommy's run that prank back, and we're 316 00:22:19,720 --> 00:22:22,919 Speaker 1: gonna tell you about Rudy Huxtable a k a. Keisha 317 00:22:22,920 --> 00:22:27,479 Speaker 1: and I Pulliam. Her messy divorce is finally over. All right, 318 00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 1: you're about on this show going through the court. You're 319 00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:35,000 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at 320 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,040 Speaker 1: the top of the hour, I will give you today's 321 00:22:37,160 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 1: keyword and more details on how you can qualify to 322 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:43,719 Speaker 1: win a trip to the Essence Festival in New Orleans. 323 00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 1: That's right, but right now it is time for the 324 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:51,480 Speaker 1: nephew to run that prank back, and later on today 325 00:22:51,960 --> 00:22:57,080 Speaker 1: I have a parenting question for you, Carla and Sheriff. Okay, 326 00:22:58,760 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 1: no worries at all. All right, I got the blind 327 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:04,280 Speaker 1: Baber for you right now, Charley, the blind bomb. That 328 00:23:04,560 --> 00:23:11,159 Speaker 1: was crazy running cat. Yeah, I'm trying to reach you. 329 00:23:11,600 --> 00:23:16,240 Speaker 1: Uh that run the buck. Yeah you now you run 330 00:23:16,520 --> 00:23:20,840 Speaker 1: the barbershop down there, doren't you? Okay? Now, I'm trying 331 00:23:20,920 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 1: to see if if y'all got any uh boot rountals 332 00:23:24,800 --> 00:23:26,280 Speaker 1: down there. Well, I can come in there and cut 333 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:28,639 Speaker 1: them how I've been cutting how a long time. I 334 00:23:28,680 --> 00:23:30,680 Speaker 1: want to see if y'all got some room down there. 335 00:23:31,080 --> 00:23:33,440 Speaker 1: They tell me you might, you might have had something 336 00:23:33,520 --> 00:23:36,359 Speaker 1: come available. I got two booths open right now you 337 00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:38,840 Speaker 1: need a boot. Yeah, I'm trying to get in there 338 00:23:38,840 --> 00:23:40,680 Speaker 1: and get the cutting. Now. You know how much you 339 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:45,560 Speaker 1: charge for for boothront on a weekly basis two hundred 340 00:23:45,560 --> 00:23:49,520 Speaker 1: dollars a week, two hundred dollars, eight hundred dollars a month. 341 00:23:49,600 --> 00:23:52,399 Speaker 1: That they're good because you're two hundred. Now, when can 342 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:54,520 Speaker 1: I get down there so you can meet me? You know, 343 00:23:54,680 --> 00:23:56,440 Speaker 1: when we can show me around the shop so I 344 00:23:56,560 --> 00:23:59,760 Speaker 1: know what I'm moving from eight to seven? That's that's 345 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:02,160 Speaker 1: two are too? Sadness? Alright? Because I want to see 346 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:03,719 Speaker 1: if I can maybe meet you there so I can 347 00:24:03,760 --> 00:24:07,040 Speaker 1: get down and you feel my way around. Well, come on, then, 348 00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,080 Speaker 1: what I want to ask you do you mind doing 349 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:13,520 Speaker 1: for me? Do you think you could possibly put up 350 00:24:13,840 --> 00:24:17,920 Speaker 1: some ramps where you got steps at and uh and 351 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,920 Speaker 1: your phone? Could you take your mind if you take 352 00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:23,960 Speaker 1: the phone and put it in breil for me? Oh wait, wait, 353 00:24:24,040 --> 00:24:25,639 Speaker 1: wait man, what the hell I need to put my 354 00:24:26,240 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: taking ramps side and putting phones in the brill for 355 00:24:30,440 --> 00:24:34,560 Speaker 1: what was going on with you? Well, I'm I'm blind, 356 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,040 Speaker 1: but I still don't you know, I'm not gonna let 357 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:41,000 Speaker 1: that stop me. You know I'm still gonna Oh no, no, no, no, 358 00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:47,000 Speaker 1: hell no, man, you wait minute, you what I'm blind? 359 00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: But see now, see I've been but I've been cutting 360 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:52,119 Speaker 1: my hair for over ten years, and folks say my 361 00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:54,719 Speaker 1: hair could always look good. So I didn't figuring I'm 362 00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:57,560 Speaker 1: gonna start cutting half now. Oh well, yes, what you 363 00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:00,480 Speaker 1: might cut, it might be some good that you do, 364 00:25:00,680 --> 00:25:03,120 Speaker 1: but just ain't cut nor in my shop. Not being 365 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:07,840 Speaker 1: glad that you ain't that jack man? No what ain't 366 00:25:07,840 --> 00:25:10,200 Speaker 1: got no problem with that, but but you you just 367 00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:13,160 Speaker 1: can't do it that. Well wait, wait, not cause nothing. 368 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:16,440 Speaker 1: You see this what they called they called excrimination. You 369 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 1: can't do that. You can't scriminate from people. You're called 370 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,920 Speaker 1: they got some type of handicap blows to you. Listen, 371 00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:25,400 Speaker 1: hol let me tell you something, man, I'm not trying 372 00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:27,119 Speaker 1: to be trying to put you out of being a 373 00:25:27,240 --> 00:25:29,119 Speaker 1: dock doing what you need to do. But you just 374 00:25:29,320 --> 00:25:32,320 Speaker 1: can't do that my shot. Man, I can't be calling 375 00:25:32,400 --> 00:25:39,359 Speaker 1: discrimination discrimination, scrimination or what not. Not it not jot. 376 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: You just can't do it. But listen, not that I 377 00:25:42,640 --> 00:25:45,240 Speaker 1: know how to cut how, I know how to give 378 00:25:45,320 --> 00:25:48,200 Speaker 1: folks aligning and stuff like now. I ain't trying to 379 00:25:48,359 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: use no rayzor or nothing like that. But no, man, 380 00:25:51,640 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: come on, dude, listen. Can't you frying itself to get 381 00:25:56,359 --> 00:25:59,360 Speaker 1: into was trying to cut out? Well, this is something 382 00:25:59,440 --> 00:26:02,600 Speaker 1: this what I like though? This what this? This? I 383 00:26:02,800 --> 00:26:05,639 Speaker 1: feel like? This is my calling. You can't do it 384 00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:08,200 Speaker 1: in my show. I'm no good to see now. That's 385 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,040 Speaker 1: what I don't. I don't care to hear something like 386 00:26:10,160 --> 00:26:13,440 Speaker 1: this here. Now I've been I got the qualifications and 387 00:26:13,520 --> 00:26:14,960 Speaker 1: I'm able to do it and I want to be 388 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:17,520 Speaker 1: here to come now now. And I told you when 389 00:26:17,560 --> 00:26:19,160 Speaker 1: I felt what I tell you, I said I wanted 390 00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:21,359 Speaker 1: to feel my way around. Didn't I say that I 391 00:26:21,440 --> 00:26:23,440 Speaker 1: don't need to feel your way down. I need you 392 00:26:23,520 --> 00:26:25,159 Speaker 1: to be able to see what you're doing. I mean, 393 00:26:25,200 --> 00:26:27,000 Speaker 1: I don't care about you bein't able to cut no 394 00:26:27,080 --> 00:26:29,440 Speaker 1: aft being blind, you got to be able to see 395 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:32,360 Speaker 1: to do that. This could probably do to do wonders 396 00:26:32,440 --> 00:26:35,359 Speaker 1: for your show people to come from miles around to 397 00:26:35,480 --> 00:26:40,359 Speaker 1: see somebody like myself cutting that kind of what I said. 398 00:26:40,960 --> 00:26:43,320 Speaker 1: I heard what you said. But what I'm saying with 399 00:26:43,440 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 1: you now, what you what? I don't want you to 400 00:26:45,119 --> 00:26:47,560 Speaker 1: do it make me mad about this, But but this 401 00:26:47,640 --> 00:26:49,800 Speaker 1: because I don't you know not not you don't get 402 00:26:49,880 --> 00:26:52,960 Speaker 1: mad about something a bit blong to me. I'm I'm 403 00:26:53,040 --> 00:26:56,640 Speaker 1: offering and you call me your blind. I can't help 404 00:26:56,680 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: you when you run go on with that. Now listen, 405 00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,160 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you this here, and I'm gonna tell 406 00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:05,400 Speaker 1: it to you strength. I'm coming down there to that barbershop. 407 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:08,600 Speaker 1: I'm gonna feeling boots out and I'm gonna start cutting. 408 00:27:08,840 --> 00:27:11,240 Speaker 1: Now what one thing I don't want to do and 409 00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:13,359 Speaker 1: have to get into no tussle with you now, I 410 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,719 Speaker 1: don't want that about getting trusting with me that if 411 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:19,120 Speaker 1: you bring your in my shot that much, you're gonna 412 00:27:19,119 --> 00:27:22,399 Speaker 1: cut it and he's gonna be some clue you moving around. 413 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,359 Speaker 1: But I'm coming down there, and I'm coming down That 414 00:27:25,560 --> 00:27:28,600 Speaker 1: is evening Now, what do you know where you might 415 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:31,440 Speaker 1: keep you with my shot? You're gonna You're gonna get 416 00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:34,240 Speaker 1: you what by blind man is what you're gonna do. 417 00:27:34,520 --> 00:27:36,720 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna see it coming either. You hit me 418 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:42,040 Speaker 1: as long as I got the money to pay my 419 00:27:42,280 --> 00:27:44,800 Speaker 1: booll rent. You don't give a damn. I don't want 420 00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:50,040 Speaker 1: your money, can't. No, man, you understand what I say 421 00:27:50,080 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 1: to you. I'm understanding what you're saying. And if I 422 00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:56,440 Speaker 1: got to call the law about you being discriminate law, 423 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:00,240 Speaker 1: you can call anybody you want to call that's mine. 424 00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:04,119 Speaker 1: You're not gonna do that. You understand what I'm telling you. Now, 425 00:28:04,240 --> 00:28:09,720 Speaker 1: you bring you goodn't I'll be waiting on you. I'm 426 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:12,960 Speaker 1: coming down that this eating and I'm coming and I'm 427 00:28:13,040 --> 00:28:15,960 Speaker 1: coming to up y'all because you got the name the 428 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,520 Speaker 1: discriminade gives me. I don't know. I didn't get my 429 00:28:20,000 --> 00:28:24,200 Speaker 1: coming the first who gave you mom No, you're not 430 00:28:24,359 --> 00:28:30,720 Speaker 1: be doing I didn't even fix you. They give me. 431 00:28:30,920 --> 00:28:33,040 Speaker 1: They give me this number and said you is the 432 00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:36,800 Speaker 1: one that do the hiring round the barber shop. You 433 00:28:36,880 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: don't call my personal number. You called myoper don't tell 434 00:28:40,920 --> 00:28:44,400 Speaker 1: you money, No, not nothing, What different do that make 435 00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:46,480 Speaker 1: if I'm some man looking for a job. See that? 436 00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: Damn you don't call my personal phone. Shot That's where 437 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:55,000 Speaker 1: I do my business. This is what's wrong with black folks. 438 00:28:55,160 --> 00:28:58,200 Speaker 1: Nine days you don't call my personal number. Whatn' here 439 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:03,760 Speaker 1: wrong with you? You understand me? You can't. You're gonna 440 00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:11,280 Speaker 1: watch your done with me? What you're gonna do? I'll 441 00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:13,760 Speaker 1: tell you what. I'll tell you one thing you're gonna watch. 442 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: You're gonna watch me get on your just why you 443 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,920 Speaker 1: you can't save me? You? I got one more thing 444 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:26,840 Speaker 1: I need to say to you. This is Nephew timing 445 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: from the Steve Harvey Morning Show. You just got pranked 446 00:29:31,440 --> 00:29:45,400 Speaker 1: by your cousin. Man, you ain't no good Hey, Mr, 447 00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:48,600 Speaker 1: I got to ask you, man, what is the baddest 448 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,920 Speaker 1: I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land, 449 00:29:52,560 --> 00:29:57,160 Speaker 1: The Steve Harvard Moaning Show. You're gonna rip them boothside man, 450 00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:08,280 Speaker 1: all right, and go easy on when you see him, baby, 451 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:18,040 Speaker 1: somebody's can catch you. All right, Thank you, nephew, Keisha 452 00:30:18,040 --> 00:30:22,160 Speaker 1: and I Pulliam Rudy Huxtable of course from Yeah she's 453 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:26,280 Speaker 1: officially single now? Uh? I wanting to call it Rudy, 454 00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,160 Speaker 1: but her name is Keisha and Ed Heartwell had a 455 00:30:29,320 --> 00:30:31,680 Speaker 1: messy split back in two thousand and sixteen, and now 456 00:30:31,800 --> 00:30:34,680 Speaker 1: the judge has granted Keisha her divorce on the grounds 457 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:38,400 Speaker 1: of adultery and cruel treatment. When do THEO go to court? 458 00:30:38,520 --> 00:30:40,600 Speaker 1: Is he incouding intention? Because here about to own that 459 00:30:40,680 --> 00:30:48,360 Speaker 1: show in court? I cannot what Policia Claire is not 460 00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:54,800 Speaker 1: in course, she's on Empire, Okay? Is she on court? 461 00:30:54,960 --> 00:30:58,880 Speaker 1: In impact? You know? But I think it's coming up. 462 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:06,160 Speaker 1: It's coming up, coming up. At the top of the hour, 463 00:31:06,280 --> 00:31:09,440 Speaker 1: I'm gonna tell you today's key word and details on 464 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:11,400 Speaker 1: how you can qualify to win a trip to this 465 00:31:11,560 --> 00:31:16,680 Speaker 1: year's Essence Festival, and Tracy Morgan said that Whoopie Goldberg 466 00:31:17,080 --> 00:31:21,400 Speaker 1: is the most decorated woman in comedy. Right after this, 467 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:30,160 Speaker 1: you're listening to The Steve Harvey Show. The Steve Harvey 468 00:31:30,240 --> 00:31:32,719 Speaker 1: Morning Show wants to give you a chance to win 469 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 1: one of four trips for two to the Essence Festival, 470 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:41,880 Speaker 1: presented by Coca Cola, going down in New Orleans July 471 00:31:42,320 --> 00:31:45,200 Speaker 1: through the eighth. Just listen for the daily key word, 472 00:31:45,480 --> 00:31:48,440 Speaker 1: then go online for your chance to win. One winner 473 00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:52,560 Speaker 1: will be selected each day starting tomorrow. And today's key 474 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:57,560 Speaker 1: word is festival. Alright, that's festival f E S T 475 00:31:57,920 --> 00:32:05,640 Speaker 1: I v A L festival the first spells to enter 476 00:32:06,040 --> 00:32:10,560 Speaker 1: get rules. Visit Steve Harvey f M dot com. Now 477 00:32:10,640 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 1: in entertainment news, Tracy Morgan, who is back and doing 478 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:17,400 Speaker 1: it real big with his show The Last Dog Anyway, 479 00:32:17,440 --> 00:32:19,800 Speaker 1: he stopped by the View. He talked about how grateful 480 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:22,400 Speaker 1: he is to receive his star on the Hollywood Walk 481 00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,640 Speaker 1: of Fame. He talked about, of course, his hit show, 482 00:32:24,720 --> 00:32:26,800 Speaker 1: The Last Do G. It has been picked up for 483 00:32:26,880 --> 00:32:31,560 Speaker 1: a second season. Yes, it's already. It's really good, and 484 00:32:31,720 --> 00:32:36,240 Speaker 1: Tracy gave Whoopie Goldberg mad prop says the best decorated 485 00:32:36,320 --> 00:32:40,240 Speaker 1: female comedian. Uh tick a, listen to this, Like billions 486 00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:43,240 Speaker 1: of people's have been the show business and acted, but 487 00:32:43,360 --> 00:32:46,160 Speaker 1: only like two thousand people gotta star. I'm right there 488 00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:51,280 Speaker 1: with Lena Horn Wow right, and you know what you 489 00:32:51,400 --> 00:32:54,240 Speaker 1: don't I mean, we get Star was awesome. But the 490 00:32:54,360 --> 00:32:57,800 Speaker 1: people that don't win, like Jackie Gleeson is right across 491 00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,920 Speaker 1: the street, but Sakin is right of the street. And 492 00:33:01,000 --> 00:33:02,920 Speaker 1: these are the people that maybe want to do comedy. 493 00:33:03,920 --> 00:33:07,720 Speaker 1: But big, I mean to me the most decorated female 494 00:33:07,960 --> 00:33:20,680 Speaker 1: comedian in the world. Wow, whoop, whooping Goldber. That was 495 00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:24,120 Speaker 1: really nice that he said that. Yeah, what does that 496 00:33:24,280 --> 00:33:28,640 Speaker 1: make Manique? Monique is she? Is she? What are you start? 497 00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:31,240 Speaker 1: What does that make? Amy Shuman? I mean, I'm just 498 00:33:31,720 --> 00:33:33,880 Speaker 1: now we're gonna decorate this comedy the way were supposed to. 499 00:33:34,720 --> 00:33:36,760 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to say, now I'm with hire, with 500 00:33:37,840 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 1: when he when I'm with him. But what I'm asking 501 00:33:41,480 --> 00:33:49,920 Speaker 1: fans like Steve, I'm with him, war whooping Morgan, Tracey whoop, whooping, 502 00:33:50,040 --> 00:33:57,320 Speaker 1: cold whopping, one of the greatst What I'm asking him everything? 503 00:33:57,960 --> 00:34:01,720 Speaker 1: Why he didn't say nothing by moniqu As that's one 504 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:05,520 Speaker 1: on because he felt that Whoopie was the most decorated 505 00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:08,880 Speaker 1: comedian already said what he felt and I said, what 506 00:34:09,120 --> 00:34:17,000 Speaker 1: the colt whoop? What a whataterfi Monique Amos, That's what 507 00:34:17,160 --> 00:34:21,319 Speaker 1: I'm asking. He didn't mention them. He mentioned WHOOPI go Ber? 508 00:34:21,520 --> 00:34:28,439 Speaker 1: Why why he didn't mention you had enough? You can't 509 00:34:28,520 --> 00:34:42,560 Speaker 1: take no stop speak with me? Wait, man hit it again? 510 00:34:42,680 --> 00:34:46,240 Speaker 1: Cat to me the most decorated female comedian in the world, 511 00:34:47,000 --> 00:34:58,440 Speaker 1: My dear, I only have five people have got the 512 00:34:58,520 --> 00:35:03,400 Speaker 1: ego I know what the you got, come on everything 513 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:11,359 Speaker 1: grammar to you got that Tony boy, Yeah, girl man, 514 00:35:12,400 --> 00:35:15,920 Speaker 1: and let me tell you something, Poppy Goldberg. It's the 515 00:35:16,080 --> 00:35:19,520 Speaker 1: reason black people can wear a hair on TV. Like, 516 00:35:19,800 --> 00:35:31,439 Speaker 1: come on, Poppy Goldberg started that. Yeah, don't go over 517 00:35:31,520 --> 00:35:35,880 Speaker 1: the sideways. She got both barrels, she got her stuff 518 00:35:35,920 --> 00:35:43,680 Speaker 1: in the chamber. Okay, with some fly sniggers on, all right, Steve, 519 00:35:44,120 --> 00:35:46,520 Speaker 1: let's go ahead and transfer on over to miss Dance, 520 00:35:46,640 --> 00:35:49,880 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, without further ado, our very own talented 521 00:35:50,040 --> 00:35:54,680 Speaker 1: informative miss and Trip. Thank you, Thank you, Steve. Good 522 00:35:54,719 --> 00:35:57,799 Speaker 1: morning and trip of the news everybody, Good morning out there. Okay, 523 00:35:57,840 --> 00:36:00,719 Speaker 1: confirmation hearings on President Trump's nomen need to have the 524 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:04,680 Speaker 1: massive Department of Veterans Affairs. You're Admiral Ronnie Jackson. Those 525 00:36:05,040 --> 00:36:08,680 Speaker 1: hearings have been postponed and indefinitely after the nominations run 526 00:36:08,760 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 1: to some very strong and bipartisan by the way, resistance 527 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:14,880 Speaker 1: in the U. S. Senate. Now, there are allegations, unsubstantiated, 528 00:36:15,120 --> 00:36:18,560 Speaker 1: but allegations that Dr Jackson, for instance, may have overprescribed 529 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:21,520 Speaker 1: prescription drugs, that he used to be called a candy man, 530 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,720 Speaker 1: or that he might have been drinking excessively while performing 531 00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:28,000 Speaker 1: his duties as White House position to ex Presidents Obama 532 00:36:28,080 --> 00:36:30,960 Speaker 1: and Bush and now Donald Trump, legislatives say they want 533 00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:34,160 Speaker 1: to investigate more. Now looks like gop Leady Mitch McConnell 534 00:36:34,239 --> 00:36:36,560 Speaker 1: is passing the ball to the President, who in turn 535 00:36:36,680 --> 00:36:38,520 Speaker 1: is passing it to Dr Jackson. It's up to the 536 00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:43,400 Speaker 1: administration to do the vetting. And um, I'm assuming at 537 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:46,080 Speaker 1: some point here it'll be cleared up as to the 538 00:36:46,160 --> 00:36:48,640 Speaker 1: way forward with regard to the new v A Secretary 539 00:36:50,040 --> 00:36:53,120 Speaker 1: Admiral Jackson, I said, what do you need this for? 540 00:36:53,640 --> 00:36:57,440 Speaker 1: President Trump calls the confirmation process ugly and disgusting. Senators 541 00:36:57,440 --> 00:36:59,560 Speaker 1: already doubted that Dr Jackson would be able to run 542 00:36:59,600 --> 00:37:01,719 Speaker 1: the human his VA anyway because they're not sure that 543 00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:04,320 Speaker 1: they say that he has the administrative skills and the 544 00:37:04,360 --> 00:37:06,239 Speaker 1: way of the murders of four innocent people at a 545 00:37:06,280 --> 00:37:08,840 Speaker 1: waffle House restaurant in Nashville over the weekend, focus is 546 00:37:08,880 --> 00:37:11,840 Speaker 1: now on also on the fact that the suspected gunman, 547 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:13,880 Speaker 1: Travis Ranking, was not allowed to own a gun in 548 00:37:13,960 --> 00:37:17,400 Speaker 1: Illinois because the Secret Service canceled his permit, but was 549 00:37:17,520 --> 00:37:20,200 Speaker 1: possibly within his rights to own one in Tennessee, where 550 00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:23,120 Speaker 1: he allegedly committed the mass murder. Also, there's a question 551 00:37:23,160 --> 00:37:25,640 Speaker 1: of whether Ryan King's father could face charges for giving 552 00:37:25,719 --> 00:37:28,239 Speaker 1: his son back the guns that the Secret Service took 553 00:37:28,280 --> 00:37:31,080 Speaker 1: from him last month. Travis Ranking currently being held on 554 00:37:31,160 --> 00:37:34,279 Speaker 1: two million dollars bail and facing four murder chargers. The 555 00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,720 Speaker 1: jury and the retrial of Bill Cosby on sexual assault 556 00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,680 Speaker 1: charges now deliberating that case. Last year, a different jury 557 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:42,040 Speaker 1: deadlock causing this mistrial, and that's why we have a 558 00:37:42,080 --> 00:37:45,719 Speaker 1: retrial now. President Trump is reportedly considering giving a posthumous 559 00:37:45,800 --> 00:37:49,440 Speaker 1: pardon to heavyweight boxing champ Jack Johnson. Jack Johnson came 560 00:37:49,480 --> 00:37:52,479 Speaker 1: the first black heavyweight champ in nineteen o eight because 561 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,800 Speaker 1: he had a white girlfriend who traveled with him. Racist 562 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,560 Speaker 1: charging with transporting a white woman across state lines for 563 00:37:57,600 --> 00:38:00,600 Speaker 1: immortal purposes he could was convicted by an old, white, 564 00:38:00,640 --> 00:38:03,200 Speaker 1: old male jury and sent to prison for a year. 565 00:38:03,360 --> 00:38:06,000 Speaker 1: Trump has been says he's been thinking about partnering Johnson. 566 00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:09,319 Speaker 1: Everson Sylvester Saloon called him about the case and asked 567 00:38:09,400 --> 00:38:11,720 Speaker 1: him to think about please giving him a partner. A rapper, 568 00:38:11,960 --> 00:38:14,520 Speaker 1: Meek Mill, finally, a freeman. That's right, Meek Mill. In fact, 569 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:17,560 Speaker 1: rang the bell before last night seventy in Miami head Game, 570 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:22,480 Speaker 1: and finally Today's National Telephone Day, Ring that telephone. Now, 571 00:38:22,560 --> 00:38:25,240 Speaker 1: we'll be back with more entertainment and today's training topics. 572 00:38:25,239 --> 00:38:27,759 Speaker 1: Twenty minutes after the hour on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 573 00:38:28,200 --> 00:38:34,960 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. Billy stand up Meek 574 00:38:35,040 --> 00:38:40,120 Speaker 1: mil is a freeman. First of all, what to violate 575 00:38:40,239 --> 00:38:43,640 Speaker 1: his probation because he popped up wheelie and he broke 576 00:38:43,719 --> 00:38:48,440 Speaker 1: up a fight. Yeah, yeah, that's the violation. So if 577 00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:52,960 Speaker 1: you're on probation, you you can't be any kind of citizen, 578 00:38:53,840 --> 00:38:57,320 Speaker 1: not even a good one. So you have to be oatmeal. 579 00:38:57,520 --> 00:38:59,759 Speaker 1: If you see a fight, you don't go nowhere near 580 00:39:00,000 --> 00:39:02,840 Speaker 1: as you on probation. If you you see some kids, 581 00:39:02,880 --> 00:39:05,320 Speaker 1: you can't entertain them with a wheel stands. You have 582 00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:09,080 Speaker 1: to be a non existent human being on probation. But 583 00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,080 Speaker 1: since you didn't give me a shout out on this 584 00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:18,080 Speaker 1: song that I asked you too, are you serious? Yes? Yes, 585 00:39:18,520 --> 00:39:23,320 Speaker 1: I mean it's so serious, horrible injustice, it really is. 586 00:39:23,480 --> 00:39:28,320 Speaker 1: Jay Z, dr J, Kevin Hart, Rick Ross, Philadelphia seventies 587 00:39:28,360 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: Sixers co owner Michael Rubin, and many players from the 588 00:39:31,560 --> 00:39:35,400 Speaker 1: seventies Sixers and the Eagles Colin Kaepernick. They all, um, 589 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:38,399 Speaker 1: you know, have been in support of Meek Mill. When 590 00:39:38,520 --> 00:39:42,160 Speaker 1: they tell you this is wrong, the the fist tells 591 00:39:42,239 --> 00:39:45,319 Speaker 1: you this is wrong, the police come out and say 592 00:39:45,560 --> 00:39:49,160 Speaker 1: he did the right thing. Are you kidding me? And 593 00:39:49,719 --> 00:39:53,880 Speaker 1: for her to have any insinuated ties, well, I mean, 594 00:39:53,960 --> 00:39:56,800 Speaker 1: you know, Steve, the last five months have been a 595 00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:00,520 Speaker 1: just a nightmare for Meek Mill. After that contra visual 596 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:04,360 Speaker 1: ruling back in November, you know, Meek received the sentence 597 00:40:04,560 --> 00:40:09,120 Speaker 1: of two to four years in prison for probation violation. 598 00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,480 Speaker 1: Just like you just said, Steve Shirley. Well, the Pennsylvania 599 00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:16,280 Speaker 1: Supreme Court ordered bail for Meek so he can go free. 600 00:40:16,960 --> 00:40:20,560 Speaker 1: Over ruling that judge c that you just mentioned, Judge 601 00:40:20,640 --> 00:40:24,480 Speaker 1: Genice Brinkley, who wanted to keep him there in prison 602 00:40:24,680 --> 00:40:28,560 Speaker 1: at for at least another sixty days. Meek was ordered 603 00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:32,360 Speaker 1: to be released yesterday. He issued a statement thanking the 604 00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:37,240 Speaker 1: District Attorney's office, the Pennsylvania Supreme Court, his legal team, 605 00:40:37,320 --> 00:40:42,319 Speaker 1: Brock Nation, jay Z, seventies Sixers owner Michael Rubin, all 606 00:40:42,440 --> 00:40:46,160 Speaker 1: of his family, his friends, and his fans who showed 607 00:40:46,200 --> 00:40:49,759 Speaker 1: support while he was locked up, Meek says he also 608 00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:52,800 Speaker 1: plans to shauna light on other cases where people of 609 00:40:52,960 --> 00:40:57,600 Speaker 1: color are improperly jailed and promised to keep fighting. He's 610 00:40:57,600 --> 00:41:00,880 Speaker 1: gonna resume his rap career, get back to making music. 611 00:41:01,480 --> 00:41:04,120 Speaker 1: And it was really good to see Meek at the 612 00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:07,120 Speaker 1: seventies six is Miami Heat game. It was game five 613 00:41:07,239 --> 00:41:10,000 Speaker 1: last night of the playoffs. If you were there Philly, 614 00:41:10,680 --> 00:41:13,360 Speaker 1: you were there at Wells Fargo Arena, or you know 615 00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:16,240 Speaker 1: you were like us, you just watched the game on TV. 616 00:41:16,640 --> 00:41:20,400 Speaker 1: You know, Meek Mill was the seventies Sixers v I 617 00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:24,200 Speaker 1: P guest last night at the game. That is just 618 00:41:24,480 --> 00:41:27,440 Speaker 1: fantastic news. Okay, Shirley, what you got? What we got 619 00:41:27,520 --> 00:41:30,479 Speaker 1: coming up? Coming up in about ten minutes at thirty 620 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,480 Speaker 1: four after the hour, Sarah Land, Alabama. We're gonna talk 621 00:41:33,520 --> 00:41:36,680 Speaker 1: about that little suburb of Mobile. I believe it is 622 00:41:36,920 --> 00:41:40,840 Speaker 1: well anyway, police are standing by the controversial arrest of 623 00:41:40,920 --> 00:41:45,680 Speaker 1: a black woman at a waffle house. Yeah wait till 624 00:41:45,719 --> 00:41:49,239 Speaker 1: you hear this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 625 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:54,120 Speaker 1: According to CBS News Now, guys, police and waffle House 626 00:41:54,200 --> 00:41:59,400 Speaker 1: corporate executives are defending police intervention at the Sarah Land, Alabama, 627 00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:03,800 Speaker 1: rest staurant where a black woman's arrest captured on video 628 00:42:04,040 --> 00:42:07,960 Speaker 1: raised questions about mistreatment. In a news conference, police and 629 00:42:08,040 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 1: Sarah Lend, a suburb of Mobile, said that they responded 630 00:42:11,680 --> 00:42:15,040 Speaker 1: when employees call them reporting trouble with a woman who 631 00:42:15,120 --> 00:42:18,440 Speaker 1: appeared drunk and had been asked to leave for bringing 632 00:42:18,480 --> 00:42:22,480 Speaker 1: in what employees believed to be alcohol. When they arrived, 633 00:42:22,760 --> 00:42:28,520 Speaker 1: witnesses told them that Shakisa Clemens had indicated she might 634 00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:31,960 Speaker 1: have a gun and might shoot people. A video shows 635 00:42:32,040 --> 00:42:35,640 Speaker 1: three police officers wrestling her to the ground. Three police 636 00:42:35,680 --> 00:42:38,800 Speaker 1: officers wrestling one woman to the ground, uh, to the 637 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,040 Speaker 1: floor and arresting her while she and a friend complained loudly. 638 00:42:42,640 --> 00:42:45,439 Speaker 1: The video shows two officers throwing Clements to the floor, 639 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:49,879 Speaker 1: her top somehow gets pulled down it exposures her breasts, yeah, 640 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:54,080 Speaker 1: and them asking what are you doing? What you know? 641 00:42:54,239 --> 00:42:56,239 Speaker 1: Clemens was asking this what are you doing? What are 642 00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:58,800 Speaker 1: you doing? And and the cops says, I'm about to 643 00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,319 Speaker 1: break your arm is what I'm about to do. Uh. 644 00:43:02,600 --> 00:43:05,560 Speaker 1: Take a listen to the Saralyne police press conference. All 645 00:43:05,680 --> 00:43:10,320 Speaker 1: witness accounts were in concert and reported the individuals smelled 646 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,680 Speaker 1: of alcohol and appeared intoxicated. One person did bring a 647 00:43:13,760 --> 00:43:16,520 Speaker 1: drink into the establishment and they were told that they 648 00:43:16,520 --> 00:43:19,560 Speaker 1: could not have outside food or beverages in the restaurant. 649 00:43:19,680 --> 00:43:21,960 Speaker 1: They were asked to lead because of bringing in this beverage, 650 00:43:21,960 --> 00:43:24,800 Speaker 1: which they also believed could be alcohol. After that encounter, 651 00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,880 Speaker 1: all of the situation escalated, with both Ms. Clemens and 652 00:43:28,920 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 1: Miss Adams being allowed and using profanity towards the employees 653 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,560 Speaker 1: of waffle House. Words were used towards the employees, such 654 00:43:35,600 --> 00:43:40,360 Speaker 1: as calling women horns. They were told, you need to 655 00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:42,840 Speaker 1: cool down and please stop using the profanity. We have 656 00:43:42,960 --> 00:43:46,400 Speaker 1: other patrons in the restaurant. They told the waffle House 657 00:43:46,480 --> 00:43:49,080 Speaker 1: employees that I'll come over this counter and beat your 658 00:43:50,440 --> 00:43:53,240 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have your job. You ain't gonna be here tomorrow. 659 00:43:53,320 --> 00:43:56,319 Speaker 1: According to one of the witnesses, waffle House personnel are 660 00:43:56,360 --> 00:44:00,480 Speaker 1: also told I may have a gun, I may have anything. 661 00:44:01,160 --> 00:44:03,279 Speaker 1: I can come back here and shot, just play something 662 00:44:03,320 --> 00:44:06,440 Speaker 1: if I need to. Witnesses also record that the officer 663 00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,160 Speaker 1: asked Ms. Clemens to comply with his instructions on multiple 664 00:44:10,200 --> 00:44:14,479 Speaker 1: occasions to stop resisting arrest, and she refused to comply. Wow, 665 00:44:14,680 --> 00:44:24,320 Speaker 1: I've done well. You know what's gonna happen man, sadly 666 00:44:24,680 --> 00:44:27,320 Speaker 1: is when they showed his video, it's gonna make a 667 00:44:27,480 --> 00:44:32,160 Speaker 1: lot of people say they were justified because of the 668 00:44:33,080 --> 00:44:36,439 Speaker 1: the pointing back and forth between her and the employee. 669 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,200 Speaker 1: That's what people are going to do. See. Let me 670 00:44:39,239 --> 00:44:41,920 Speaker 1: tell you something. These same people, I want you to 671 00:44:42,120 --> 00:44:47,120 Speaker 1: understand this, looked at the Rodney King video and saw 672 00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:53,200 Speaker 1: the police protecting himself, saw a man resisting arrest. If 673 00:44:53,280 --> 00:44:56,360 Speaker 1: they can look at that video and come to that conclusion, 674 00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 1: please understand that they're gonna look at this video in 675 00:45:00,600 --> 00:45:05,799 Speaker 1: the same way. Now. Was it are necessary to treat 676 00:45:05,880 --> 00:45:12,239 Speaker 1: this woman this way? Absolutely? What. You can't tell me 677 00:45:12,640 --> 00:45:15,320 Speaker 1: that there's not another way to treat a woman. You 678 00:45:15,480 --> 00:45:19,120 Speaker 1: can't tell me that. And you can't tell me had 679 00:45:19,200 --> 00:45:22,920 Speaker 1: this woman not been of color, that she'd even be 680 00:45:23,000 --> 00:45:26,040 Speaker 1: on the ground. I don't imagine, because you have no 681 00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:28,879 Speaker 1: proof of it happening in the past, and so I don't. 682 00:45:29,200 --> 00:45:33,239 Speaker 1: I just it's it's a horrible thing that's happened. Um. Look, 683 00:45:34,160 --> 00:45:38,000 Speaker 1: the witnesses are there saying what she said that could 684 00:45:38,040 --> 00:45:43,040 Speaker 1: be legit was she resisting arrest? I don't know, But 685 00:45:43,239 --> 00:45:47,399 Speaker 1: once they claim, once they show you struggling. All they're 686 00:45:47,400 --> 00:45:51,279 Speaker 1: gonna say is that's resisting that once they see you struck, 687 00:45:51,520 --> 00:45:55,360 Speaker 1: any type of pulling away anything, don't man, John, I 688 00:45:55,360 --> 00:45:57,759 Speaker 1: don't know how to get away. You posted just fall out, 689 00:45:57,800 --> 00:46:01,000 Speaker 1: gold limp, dish rag and then let him jerk you 690 00:46:01,040 --> 00:46:05,200 Speaker 1: around how they want to wow. Well, Stevie n double 691 00:46:05,280 --> 00:46:09,239 Speaker 1: a CP has called the arrests troubling and they're investigating 692 00:46:09,320 --> 00:46:12,440 Speaker 1: to get a firsthand account of what really hasn't Yes, 693 00:46:12,520 --> 00:46:16,000 Speaker 1: it is. Investigation is needed because this is a woman 694 00:46:16,080 --> 00:46:20,080 Speaker 1: we're talking about, was talking. We're talking about a woman 695 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,400 Speaker 1: and they handled the way they handled her. All right, 696 00:46:23,560 --> 00:46:27,080 Speaker 1: um neview tell me has a prank phone call coming up. Plus, 697 00:46:27,120 --> 00:46:31,160 Speaker 1: we're gonna tell you what our woman crushed Wednesday is 698 00:46:31,480 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 1: and good it better be good. What our woman crushed 699 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,080 Speaker 1: Wednesday in Chick fil A have in common. That's what 700 00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:43,520 Speaker 1: we're going to tell you. Okay, alright, you're listening to 701 00:46:43,920 --> 00:46:47,320 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Coming up at the top of 702 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,520 Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after, it's today's Strawberry 703 00:46:50,640 --> 00:46:55,319 Speaker 1: Letters subject he chose his wife over me. But up 704 00:46:55,400 --> 00:46:58,960 Speaker 1: next it's the nephew with today prank phone call. Imagine 705 00:46:59,000 --> 00:47:01,920 Speaker 1: that what you got. Now you have to be in 706 00:47:02,000 --> 00:47:08,040 Speaker 1: the situation. Sorry, you got. Uh. You know everybody, uh, 707 00:47:08,400 --> 00:47:11,720 Speaker 1: you know, all couples are not able to have a child. 708 00:47:12,160 --> 00:47:13,719 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Everybody is not able to 709 00:47:14,440 --> 00:47:17,640 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, so sometimes you need 710 00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,200 Speaker 1: a little help, you know. So let's prank. Right here 711 00:47:20,280 --> 00:47:30,600 Speaker 1: is what you call unorthodox methods. Unorthodox methods. Run a cat. Hello, Hello, 712 00:47:30,640 --> 00:47:34,560 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach trying to reach brother Robert and speaking. Hey, 713 00:47:34,560 --> 00:47:36,719 Speaker 1: how you doing. I'm I'm calling you from the church. 714 00:47:36,760 --> 00:47:39,400 Speaker 1: How are you doing? Brothers man, I'm doing super fantastic. 715 00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:43,279 Speaker 1: Any day above ground is a good day. That's good. 716 00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:46,440 Speaker 1: That's good. Hey, hey, listen, man, we wanted to uh, 717 00:47:47,840 --> 00:47:49,279 Speaker 1: being one of the brothers of the church, I wanted 718 00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: to give you a call. Man. You didn't make it 719 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:52,919 Speaker 1: to day, but you well, you know, your wife stood 720 00:47:53,000 --> 00:47:55,000 Speaker 1: up to day and uh asked us to keep you 721 00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:58,120 Speaker 1: all and our prayers because y'all are definitely trying to 722 00:47:58,160 --> 00:48:01,360 Speaker 1: bring a new child until the world. And she let 723 00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:05,160 Speaker 1: us know that, you know, uh, she's she's being a 724 00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,279 Speaker 1: little older now forty one for the two you know, 725 00:48:07,840 --> 00:48:09,480 Speaker 1: she said it takes a little longer to try and 726 00:48:09,640 --> 00:48:12,439 Speaker 1: conceive a child than you know in your earlier years. 727 00:48:12,480 --> 00:48:14,279 Speaker 1: So we we definitely wanted to let you know man 728 00:48:14,360 --> 00:48:17,600 Speaker 1: that we we got you all in our prayers. Man. Man, 729 00:48:17,760 --> 00:48:19,960 Speaker 1: you just don't know how much we appreciate that. Man. Yeah, 730 00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:22,680 Speaker 1: we've been trying, but I know what prayers, all things 731 00:48:22,719 --> 00:48:25,839 Speaker 1: are possible. Yeah, well, we definitely want to definitely want 732 00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,719 Speaker 1: to keep you out of our prayers, man. And uh, 733 00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:30,319 Speaker 1: I hope that you are able to conceive this child 734 00:48:30,360 --> 00:48:32,880 Speaker 1: and bring you know, brain, brain brain, bringing new a 735 00:48:32,960 --> 00:48:34,719 Speaker 1: new child into this world. You know that the book 736 00:48:34,760 --> 00:48:40,279 Speaker 1: says be fruitful and multiplies. Definitely definitely Who is this again? Brother, brother, Brother. 737 00:48:40,640 --> 00:48:42,600 Speaker 1: I don't know if you know me directly, but my brother. 738 00:48:42,680 --> 00:48:46,000 Speaker 1: I wanted the brothers at the church. Okay, okay, brother, 739 00:48:46,560 --> 00:48:49,040 Speaker 1: thank you not not not not not not Robert. What 740 00:48:49,120 --> 00:48:52,000 Speaker 1: I want to ask you, man, was have you considered 741 00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:56,960 Speaker 1: any any alternatives methods as far as you know, maybe 742 00:48:57,040 --> 00:49:01,279 Speaker 1: helping this situation? Uh, We've got a few. Uh what 743 00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,439 Speaker 1: what what what are you referring to as an alternative? Well, 744 00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,960 Speaker 1: I mean I think I have a good uh thing 745 00:49:08,040 --> 00:49:10,480 Speaker 1: that that might be able to help this thing speed 746 00:49:10,600 --> 00:49:13,520 Speaker 1: up the process and and and and you guys will 747 00:49:13,560 --> 00:49:17,920 Speaker 1: be expecting in no time. Man. Man, we have levels 748 00:49:17,960 --> 00:49:19,719 Speaker 1: for some things like that. What what what what you 749 00:49:19,800 --> 00:49:22,320 Speaker 1: got in mine? I mean, uh, well, what I have 750 00:49:22,600 --> 00:49:26,000 Speaker 1: is a little little unorthodox, man. But I think if 751 00:49:26,040 --> 00:49:28,719 Speaker 1: you allow me to help you on this, man, I 752 00:49:28,840 --> 00:49:32,359 Speaker 1: think that you'll be definitely satisfied. And you know, man, 753 00:49:32,400 --> 00:49:34,680 Speaker 1: if nine months now you gotta be at the hospital 754 00:49:34,760 --> 00:49:37,160 Speaker 1: wait looking for you, your baby boy, your paper girl, 755 00:49:37,239 --> 00:49:41,759 Speaker 1: you know, well classified and orthodox. Okay, uh see what 756 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:44,920 Speaker 1: what I have in mind, man, is have you considered 757 00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:51,120 Speaker 1: maybe like a Sarah get father clarified clasified ferry because 758 00:49:51,239 --> 00:49:52,840 Speaker 1: I'm thinking the wrong thing. I don't want I just 759 00:49:52,920 --> 00:49:54,520 Speaker 1: want to lead ship with on the same page. What 760 00:49:54,520 --> 00:49:56,920 Speaker 1: do you mean by Sarah? The fuck? Well? What it 761 00:49:57,160 --> 00:49:59,400 Speaker 1: is man is you know you know of course the 762 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:04,000 Speaker 1: Saraghus is someone that will carry a shy for those 763 00:50:04,080 --> 00:50:07,040 Speaker 1: that cannot carry one. You know what I'm saying, right right? 764 00:50:07,120 --> 00:50:10,120 Speaker 1: So what what? What? What? I've gone to the doctor 765 00:50:10,120 --> 00:50:12,800 Speaker 1: and got myself checked out, man, good physical and everything. 766 00:50:12,880 --> 00:50:16,640 Speaker 1: I'm physically sitting everything. And you know, maybe I guess 767 00:50:16,680 --> 00:50:20,000 Speaker 1: the complications are coming from uh you as far as 768 00:50:20,040 --> 00:50:21,799 Speaker 1: the child not being you know, you're not being able 769 00:50:21,800 --> 00:50:24,479 Speaker 1: to conceive right now? No, no, I ain't. There ain't 770 00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:27,400 Speaker 1: nothing wrong with me man, Okay, you know what you mean? 771 00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:29,600 Speaker 1: Like you physically fit? I mean, what what the hell 772 00:50:29,640 --> 00:50:31,520 Speaker 1: they got to do with sri. Let's see what I'm 773 00:50:31,560 --> 00:50:34,120 Speaker 1: saying is if if what you know, if you if 774 00:50:34,160 --> 00:50:38,239 Speaker 1: you allow me to come over and and supply my services. 775 00:50:38,680 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 1: I mean, let's see if you left for a weekend man, 776 00:50:40,800 --> 00:50:43,080 Speaker 1: and I stayed over there by the time you get back. Now, 777 00:50:43,360 --> 00:50:46,480 Speaker 1: what the wrong with you? Is this? What's going on 778 00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:48,520 Speaker 1: at this church? Man? Am I at the wrong church 779 00:50:48,640 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 1: that you you're telling me? You try? Help me understand. 780 00:50:52,080 --> 00:50:54,640 Speaker 1: You're saying you want to come over and and hoy 781 00:50:54,680 --> 00:50:56,719 Speaker 1: have sex with my wife. Well, I mean, I mean, 782 00:50:56,840 --> 00:50:58,560 Speaker 1: don't don't look at it like that. Don't look at 783 00:50:58,600 --> 00:51:00,359 Speaker 1: it like that. Look at it up. I'm here. I mean, 784 00:51:00,400 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 1: that's what you're killing me indically, you just ain't you though? 785 00:51:03,680 --> 00:51:06,960 Speaker 1: What excuse me? Okay, you want to come out and 786 00:51:07,040 --> 00:51:09,400 Speaker 1: say with my wife? No, no, no, I want to 787 00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,920 Speaker 1: come over and just apply my services man, and put 788 00:51:12,000 --> 00:51:14,080 Speaker 1: you guys in a better position that you will be 789 00:51:15,000 --> 00:51:17,480 Speaker 1: sending your life. You understand what I'm saying? You understand 790 00:51:17,520 --> 00:51:19,920 Speaker 1: what I'm coming from. Now, I don't kid like you 791 00:51:20,000 --> 00:51:21,759 Speaker 1: tell me you want to have sex in my life? Man? 792 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:24,400 Speaker 1: What the wrong with you? Hold on? Hold on no 793 00:51:24,520 --> 00:51:27,120 Speaker 1: this this this brother awesome. Man. Listen see what I'm 794 00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:29,080 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do. Man, I don't give up 795 00:51:29,640 --> 00:51:33,400 Speaker 1: you brother who brother? Man, I don't know you? And 796 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:36,000 Speaker 1: then you're talking about the church. What kind of is this? This? 797 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:39,120 Speaker 1: Don't let this church that really, the church don't have 798 00:51:39,239 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 1: nothing to do with this. It's me calling you to 799 00:51:41,719 --> 00:51:44,080 Speaker 1: lend me when you come to me to be if 800 00:51:44,120 --> 00:51:46,239 Speaker 1: you allow me to be the sarag and father. I 801 00:51:46,480 --> 00:51:48,319 Speaker 1: have a pregnant bout the end of the week. Man, 802 00:51:48,480 --> 00:51:51,160 Speaker 1: you got me as soon as I see I'm coming 803 00:51:51,200 --> 00:51:53,120 Speaker 1: to brother stead of accusing to see you, you show 804 00:51:53,239 --> 00:51:56,640 Speaker 1: that said it's like you okay, okay, Gary kidd who 805 00:51:56,680 --> 00:52:01,400 Speaker 1: you want to have brothers like? You? Keep looking at 806 00:52:01,440 --> 00:52:03,480 Speaker 1: that like that? How have we gonna get this? We're 807 00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:05,000 Speaker 1: gonna get past just so we can't get you to 808 00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,239 Speaker 1: this child. Man, we actually gonna get pasted it you 809 00:52:08,360 --> 00:52:11,399 Speaker 1: talk about her having sex with my wife? Your wife said, brother, 810 00:52:11,440 --> 00:52:14,120 Speaker 1: you ain't got no way so I have a wife, 811 00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 1: Brother Robert, what I'm trying to do is help you 812 00:52:16,360 --> 00:52:18,480 Speaker 1: along with yours and getting this child and see you. 813 00:52:18,560 --> 00:52:20,480 Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to help. Does you can't help 814 00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:23,080 Speaker 1: me talking about having sex with my wife? You said 815 00:52:23,080 --> 00:52:26,440 Speaker 1: that on anther. I ain't thank you for going out, Brod' 816 00:52:27,080 --> 00:52:29,040 Speaker 1: you're getting my phone number? Well you know we we 817 00:52:29,200 --> 00:52:31,200 Speaker 1: have people listed at the church. We have our phone 818 00:52:31,280 --> 00:52:34,440 Speaker 1: numbers listed. He lifts mind. And when I get that too, 819 00:52:34,680 --> 00:52:38,160 Speaker 1: I hope to see you that I'm gonna punch your head. Hey, look, man, 820 00:52:38,239 --> 00:52:40,360 Speaker 1: why don't I Why don't I speak to your wife 821 00:52:40,800 --> 00:52:43,400 Speaker 1: when she comes to church this week and I see her? 822 00:52:43,760 --> 00:52:47,080 Speaker 1: Don't see singing my wife? Oh no, I'm just gonna 823 00:52:47,120 --> 00:52:49,919 Speaker 1: talk to and see how she feels about maybe maybe 824 00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,040 Speaker 1: you know using this now you can't say, man, don't 825 00:52:53,080 --> 00:52:55,920 Speaker 1: even look in her direction. Brother, by man, who don't 826 00:52:55,920 --> 00:52:58,920 Speaker 1: want you? I need to see you myself? Okay? What what? What? 827 00:52:59,040 --> 00:53:00,840 Speaker 1: What does all the anger? Oh? Brother? What? What? What? 828 00:53:01,160 --> 00:53:04,160 Speaker 1: What do you mean? You're me angry to sit here 829 00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,080 Speaker 1: telling me that the script I'm gonna come half sex 830 00:53:07,160 --> 00:53:10,279 Speaker 1: with your wife? Okay? Get ain't okay, brother, I got 831 00:53:10,360 --> 00:53:12,640 Speaker 1: one more thing I need to tell you. Are you 832 00:53:12,719 --> 00:53:17,000 Speaker 1: ready for conflay this. You better hang up in your say. Okay, 833 00:53:17,080 --> 00:53:21,840 Speaker 1: are you listening, brother Robins, I'm taling this. This is 834 00:53:21,960 --> 00:53:24,880 Speaker 1: nephew Tommy from the Steve Hobby Morning Show. You just 835 00:53:25,120 --> 00:53:33,440 Speaker 1: got pranked by your wife. Man, what do you say? Hey, 836 00:53:35,200 --> 00:53:38,080 Speaker 1: me doing think that? Man? I'm about to have the 837 00:53:38,160 --> 00:53:43,040 Speaker 1: rest come to tell you about it. Now you go 838 00:53:43,160 --> 00:53:45,600 Speaker 1: straight plus pervis in the mound. Didn't look for you 839 00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:54,120 Speaker 1: here on that one man? Who? All right, hey, one 840 00:53:54,160 --> 00:53:56,239 Speaker 1: more thing? Man? Tell me? Does what do you what 841 00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:59,439 Speaker 1: is the badest I'm talking about the baddest radio show 842 00:53:59,560 --> 00:54:12,719 Speaker 1: in the show with Steve you that man? You don't 843 00:54:12,760 --> 00:54:16,000 Speaker 1: say some people need help? You went too far? Can 844 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:20,200 Speaker 1: some people need help? You know? If if you if 845 00:54:20,239 --> 00:54:24,440 Speaker 1: he ain't swimming many good. But by the end of 846 00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:28,440 Speaker 1: the week time, by the end of the weekend, I'm 847 00:54:28,440 --> 00:54:30,919 Speaker 1: gonna help pregnant. By any weekend you ain't gonna worry about. 848 00:54:30,920 --> 00:54:33,480 Speaker 1: There's nothing to stick your chest out to another man 849 00:54:33,760 --> 00:54:38,520 Speaker 1: for about his wife. What you want? Hey, hey, you 850 00:54:38,600 --> 00:54:40,839 Speaker 1: need to stick or something else? Now what you want 851 00:54:40,880 --> 00:54:52,839 Speaker 1: me to stick? Oh? We're gonna keep that all right, 852 00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:57,480 Speaker 1: thank you, nephew. Oh lord, listen, it's women crushed well, 853 00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,600 Speaker 1: it's Women Rush Wednesday, and we're crushing on the youngest 854 00:55:02,680 --> 00:55:05,120 Speaker 1: Chick fil a owner in history. You guys, hear about this. 855 00:55:05,480 --> 00:55:08,720 Speaker 1: She's twenty six years old. Her name is Ashley Derby. 856 00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:12,080 Speaker 1: He opened up her first location right by USC in 857 00:55:12,280 --> 00:55:16,600 Speaker 1: Los Angeles and now her second location is in downtown 858 00:55:16,960 --> 00:55:23,120 Speaker 1: l A. Derby. Yes, yes, yes, yes, and she is sister. 859 00:55:25,200 --> 00:55:29,799 Speaker 1: I see it. What's what's the last? It's way too hard. 860 00:55:32,520 --> 00:55:48,440 Speaker 1: Quenas schnitzey quenas he almost cost. Today's technology makes a 861 00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,360 Speaker 1: lot of things easier, you know, similar because everything is 862 00:55:51,400 --> 00:55:54,360 Speaker 1: connected and they all connected to your WiFi. But it 863 00:55:54,480 --> 00:55:57,799 Speaker 1: may only take one week leak and all those connections 864 00:55:57,880 --> 00:56:01,719 Speaker 1: for criminals to get in. 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You're 874 00:56:36,640 --> 00:56:41,120 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, right now, guys, 875 00:56:41,239 --> 00:56:43,759 Speaker 1: it is time for today's Strawberry Letter. Don't forget it. 876 00:56:43,800 --> 00:56:47,720 Speaker 1: If you need advice on relationships, on dating, on work, 877 00:56:47,960 --> 00:56:52,640 Speaker 1: on parenting, on sex, on more. Uh, submit your Strawberry 878 00:56:52,719 --> 00:56:55,680 Speaker 1: Letter to Steve Harvey FM dot com. And that a 879 00:56:55,800 --> 00:56:59,040 Speaker 1: parenting question for y'all. I asked y'all earlier, and y'all 880 00:56:59,080 --> 00:57:02,600 Speaker 1: are not giving me as we would like to talk 881 00:57:02,640 --> 00:57:05,200 Speaker 1: to you about him. Maybe about forty one after the 882 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:08,239 Speaker 1: can we do it? Yeah, let's let's yet, we gotta 883 00:57:08,239 --> 00:57:13,520 Speaker 1: get to the water show. But R run your show. 884 00:57:13,600 --> 00:57:18,320 Speaker 1: Don't take a trying to be in charge of something. 885 00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:22,520 Speaker 1: What you say, we can't even say it's ws and 886 00:57:22,720 --> 00:57:25,439 Speaker 1: he's gonna try and defend someone. Oh no, you ain't 887 00:57:25,480 --> 00:57:30,600 Speaker 1: letting the way stop between all the water burger it's 888 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:41,720 Speaker 1: what a burger? Delicious? Friends? Yes, all right, anyway, click 889 00:57:42,000 --> 00:57:44,480 Speaker 1: commits Strawberry letter and thank you guys, because we have 890 00:57:44,600 --> 00:57:47,120 Speaker 1: been getting a lot of letters in we need more though, Yes, 891 00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 1: I just asked him. I told you when it's something 892 00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:56,600 Speaker 1: like that, now, no sense you would be quiet? Okay, 893 00:57:56,920 --> 00:58:01,840 Speaker 1: how about that to buckle up and hold on tight? 894 00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:04,240 Speaker 1: Here it is strawberry letter. They only let me say 895 00:58:04,280 --> 00:58:09,240 Speaker 1: that because it wow. Thank you Tommy. All right, here 896 00:58:09,280 --> 00:58:12,640 Speaker 1: we go subject he chose his wife over me. Here, 897 00:58:12,680 --> 00:58:16,240 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, I need your advice because I really want 898 00:58:16,280 --> 00:58:20,000 Speaker 1: to kick my dad's wife's behind. I am a forty 899 00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:23,280 Speaker 1: two year old single mother of two kids. My children's 900 00:58:23,400 --> 00:58:26,800 Speaker 1: dad's don't help me financially, so my father has helped 901 00:58:26,840 --> 00:58:30,240 Speaker 1: me raise my kids for the past fifteen years. Well, 902 00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:34,680 Speaker 1: I recently lost my job and everything went downhill. I 903 00:58:34,840 --> 00:58:36,840 Speaker 1: wasn't able to pay my rent, so I had to 904 00:58:36,880 --> 00:58:39,400 Speaker 1: move out of my apartment. At the beginning of this month. 905 00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,000 Speaker 1: I called my dad to ask if we could move 906 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:44,880 Speaker 1: back home, and my dad had the nerve to tell 907 00:58:45,000 --> 00:58:48,400 Speaker 1: me that I had to discuss it with his wife, 908 00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:51,600 Speaker 1: my stepmother. He put her on the phone and she 909 00:58:51,760 --> 00:59:00,720 Speaker 1: screened h E double l NA yes and UH said 910 00:59:00,840 --> 00:59:03,280 Speaker 1: this would be the ninth time that I've moved back 911 00:59:03,360 --> 00:59:05,880 Speaker 1: in with them. She said it's not their problem that 912 00:59:05,960 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: I can't keep a job, and that both of my 913 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,840 Speaker 1: kids dad's are losers. She said she will no longer 914 00:59:10,960 --> 00:59:15,080 Speaker 1: allow me to ruin my daddy's credit. Then she told 915 00:59:15,120 --> 00:59:21,480 Speaker 1: me to get off my fat blank and start and 916 00:59:21,640 --> 00:59:26,120 Speaker 1: start taking care of myself. Before she could finish, I 917 00:59:26,280 --> 00:59:29,560 Speaker 1: hung up on her. Yes, I have made plenty mistakes, 918 00:59:29,680 --> 00:59:32,479 Speaker 1: but I don't need her throwing them in my face. 919 00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:35,560 Speaker 1: So now my children and I are living with my girlfriend, 920 00:59:35,720 --> 00:59:38,240 Speaker 1: but we can't stay there much longer. My dad will 921 00:59:38,280 --> 00:59:41,120 Speaker 1: not speak to me until I apologize to his wife. 922 00:59:41,400 --> 00:59:44,520 Speaker 1: I told him that was never going to happen. Why 923 00:59:44,520 --> 00:59:47,760 Speaker 1: should I apologize to this woman? She hurt my feelings, 924 00:59:48,040 --> 00:59:51,280 Speaker 1: so she should apologize to me and let me move 925 00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:54,000 Speaker 1: in until I get back on my feet. I don't 926 00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:56,920 Speaker 1: feel like I'm wrong. This was my dad's way. This 927 00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:59,920 Speaker 1: was this was my dad way before he was her husband. 928 01:00:00,160 --> 01:00:04,520 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, what do you think? Nope, nope, nope, nope, nope. 929 01:00:04,680 --> 01:00:08,480 Speaker 1: How wrong are you? You're just so wrong right here? Uh? 930 01:00:08,600 --> 01:00:10,920 Speaker 1: And the fact that you don't know this makes this 931 01:00:11,080 --> 01:00:14,680 Speaker 1: letter even more ridiculous. Okay, your father has every right 932 01:00:14,760 --> 01:00:17,240 Speaker 1: to do what he's doing, confer with his wife. He 933 01:00:17,360 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: has to discuss this with his wife. Okay, it's her 934 01:00:19,960 --> 01:00:24,840 Speaker 1: house too. Uh. Your your dad doesn't owe you anything, okay, Uh, 935 01:00:25,360 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 1: he doesn't have to let you and your kids move 936 01:00:27,240 --> 01:00:29,160 Speaker 1: in with them. I mean, how much more is he 937 01:00:29,280 --> 01:00:32,120 Speaker 1: supposed to do for you? At forty two? He's been 938 01:00:32,160 --> 01:00:35,520 Speaker 1: helping you for the last fifteen years. That help has 939 01:00:35,560 --> 01:00:39,160 Speaker 1: turned into enabling. Yes, your dad was you're enabler and 940 01:00:39,320 --> 01:00:42,120 Speaker 1: he is tired of it now and wife E is 941 01:00:42,200 --> 01:00:45,360 Speaker 1: not having it at all. Okay, and how old are 942 01:00:45,400 --> 01:00:49,000 Speaker 1: these boys now? They've been doing this for fifteen years? Yeah, 943 01:00:49,400 --> 01:00:51,840 Speaker 1: come on, now, it's time for you to take your 944 01:00:51,880 --> 01:00:55,240 Speaker 1: baby's daddy's to court and get some child supports. You 945 01:00:55,280 --> 01:00:58,120 Speaker 1: can get the financial help you need to. Uh, you know, 946 01:00:58,360 --> 01:01:00,320 Speaker 1: live your life the way you need to live your life. 947 01:01:00,440 --> 01:01:04,040 Speaker 1: And yes, of course, apologize to your step mom and 948 01:01:04,320 --> 01:01:06,520 Speaker 1: for your dad. You're trying to make them feel guilty 949 01:01:06,600 --> 01:01:08,600 Speaker 1: for not letting you get back in. They have every 950 01:01:08,800 --> 01:01:13,680 Speaker 1: right to do what they did, every right. Come on now, Steve, Yes, 951 01:01:16,760 --> 01:01:21,280 Speaker 1: come on boy, Steve. And he's type of letters who 952 01:01:21,360 --> 01:01:25,720 Speaker 1: I exhale My gift comes out in letters like this. 953 01:01:26,560 --> 01:01:30,160 Speaker 1: Let me take you down to it, because you really 954 01:01:30,200 --> 01:01:34,520 Speaker 1: want to kick your daddy's wife behind I'm futty too. 955 01:01:34,800 --> 01:01:39,920 Speaker 1: Let's just start that. Damn the single mother, Paul, You 956 01:01:40,240 --> 01:01:44,600 Speaker 1: farty too? What hever? You ain't twenty four? You didn't 957 01:01:44,600 --> 01:01:51,880 Speaker 1: flipped it? You farty too? You got two kids? Nothing's 958 01:01:51,920 --> 01:01:58,480 Speaker 1: wrong here, farty too. Two kids ain't bad, nothing wrong 959 01:01:58,560 --> 01:02:05,200 Speaker 1: with that. You're ready. Ready. My children's dad's don't help 960 01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:11,840 Speaker 1: me financially, so they're not sending no child. So my 961 01:02:12,040 --> 01:02:18,840 Speaker 1: father has helped me raise my kids fifteen years. No, 962 01:02:18,960 --> 01:02:26,520 Speaker 1: I don't worry about that. I do this fifteen years. 963 01:02:26,880 --> 01:02:30,160 Speaker 1: You don't need extra breath for that. Somebody's been helping 964 01:02:30,200 --> 01:02:32,919 Speaker 1: you with the damn kids, and ain't they damned show 965 01:02:33,080 --> 01:02:38,800 Speaker 1: damn hug your boyfriend's fifteen years. Well, I recently lost 966 01:02:38,880 --> 01:02:41,120 Speaker 1: my job and everything went down here. I wasn't able 967 01:02:41,120 --> 01:02:42,520 Speaker 1: to pay my risk. I had to move out of 968 01:02:42,560 --> 01:02:45,080 Speaker 1: my apartment at the beginning to this moment, I called 969 01:02:45,120 --> 01:02:47,040 Speaker 1: my dad asked him if we can move back home, 970 01:02:47,080 --> 01:02:49,560 Speaker 1: and my daddy had the nerve to tell me I 971 01:02:49,640 --> 01:02:52,600 Speaker 1: had discussed this with his wife. That's cause it's her house. 972 01:02:53,960 --> 01:02:57,160 Speaker 1: And the other reason it cause your asses. Fardy too, 973 01:02:59,520 --> 01:03:03,840 Speaker 1: You ain't fifteen you put out, you farty too. My 974 01:03:04,080 --> 01:03:09,480 Speaker 1: stepmother he put on the phone, and she screamed, Hell now, 975 01:03:10,720 --> 01:03:18,360 Speaker 1: I love her, and let me tell you why. She said, 976 01:03:18,480 --> 01:03:23,760 Speaker 1: hell no, because this will be the knife time one time. 977 01:03:24,520 --> 01:03:29,919 Speaker 1: This will be the knife time. Nine damn times. You're 978 01:03:30,080 --> 01:03:34,360 Speaker 1: farty two year old behind. They can't crawling back to 979 01:03:34,480 --> 01:03:37,240 Speaker 1: the house. You ain't crawling up in here no more 980 01:03:38,240 --> 01:03:40,880 Speaker 1: we come back. I'm gonna tell you why you really 981 01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:46,560 Speaker 1: can't come back. It ain't just the nine times. Oh 982 01:03:46,720 --> 01:03:50,800 Speaker 1: that's big, But I got mold and that why yo, 983 01:03:51,400 --> 01:03:55,120 Speaker 1: the hat can't come back up in here. Nine damn 984 01:03:55,320 --> 01:03:59,160 Speaker 1: pads who do that? I don't know the blues they 985 01:03:59,240 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: placed to stay? Nine ten? You just ain't paying no 986 01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:10,720 Speaker 1: damn rents. Mad at his wife if the key damn 987 01:04:10,840 --> 01:04:16,360 Speaker 1: every year you get put out due the stepmama. You're 988 01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:20,160 Speaker 1: brying our phones and join your ass ain't paying the rent? Right? 989 01:04:21,200 --> 01:04:23,640 Speaker 1: All right, we're gonna have part two of Steve's response 990 01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:26,920 Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three after the hour. You're listening 991 01:04:27,240 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, Steve, come on, 992 01:04:30,800 --> 01:04:33,480 Speaker 1: let's get to part two of your response to today's 993 01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:37,640 Speaker 1: strawberry letter. He chose his wife over me, This fotty 994 01:04:37,760 --> 01:04:42,760 Speaker 1: too year old woman who is single because she can't 995 01:04:42,800 --> 01:04:47,040 Speaker 1: get nobody to marry her because she keeps picking loses 996 01:04:47,360 --> 01:04:51,080 Speaker 1: that don't pay no child important and help her financially 997 01:04:51,160 --> 01:04:54,880 Speaker 1: with the two boyd I feel sorry for that, but 998 01:04:55,000 --> 01:04:57,760 Speaker 1: that ain't the problem. You called your daddy because you 999 01:04:57,880 --> 01:05:03,240 Speaker 1: lost your job, and why you keeping losing job? You 1000 01:05:04,000 --> 01:05:07,040 Speaker 1: keep losing job? Then you call your daddy now he 1001 01:05:07,080 --> 01:05:08,520 Speaker 1: didn't help you in the path it this time and 1002 01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:10,560 Speaker 1: tell you a discuss it with his white Now you 1003 01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:13,640 Speaker 1: want to kill her. You want to kick my wife 1004 01:05:13,760 --> 01:05:17,040 Speaker 1: daddy behind. He putting my step mother on the phone 1005 01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 1: and she's screened. Hell now you ain't coming, Hell no, 1006 01:05:22,280 --> 01:05:25,040 Speaker 1: when you gotta bring it? She said it would be 1007 01:05:25,240 --> 01:05:30,000 Speaker 1: the ninth time, and she did not lie as because 1008 01:05:30,120 --> 01:05:34,240 Speaker 1: you didn't dispute it just the nine damn time that 1009 01:05:34,400 --> 01:05:37,960 Speaker 1: I moved back in with them. She'd been there through 1010 01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:44,520 Speaker 1: eight movie. She said, it's not a problem that I 1011 01:05:44,760 --> 01:05:48,400 Speaker 1: can't keep a job and that both my kids dads 1012 01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:52,439 Speaker 1: are losing. You slept with them, bums. Not ain't helping 1013 01:05:52,480 --> 01:05:56,680 Speaker 1: out with your kids? Come on, this will be the 1014 01:05:56,840 --> 01:06:00,520 Speaker 1: ninth time. She said. She was no longer allowed me 1015 01:06:01,120 --> 01:06:06,600 Speaker 1: to ruin my daddy's credit. Here is what you really mad. 1016 01:06:08,440 --> 01:06:12,560 Speaker 1: She then told me to get off my fat as 1017 01:06:13,960 --> 01:06:18,200 Speaker 1: start taking care of myself. That's what prompted this letter. Right, 1018 01:06:20,080 --> 01:06:24,800 Speaker 1: she had called your father asser. See that wasn't She 1019 01:06:25,000 --> 01:06:29,560 Speaker 1: wasn't gonna right this letter until she told her get 1020 01:06:29,800 --> 01:06:38,640 Speaker 1: off your father and take care of yourself alone. Now 1021 01:06:38,880 --> 01:06:42,800 Speaker 1: we have the letter. Now before she could finish, I 1022 01:06:43,000 --> 01:06:51,840 Speaker 1: hung up because the fatther ass wiped out. This is 1023 01:06:51,880 --> 01:06:54,200 Speaker 1: how the conversation. Get off your fat ass and take 1024 01:06:54,240 --> 01:06:59,600 Speaker 1: care of yourself. Hey, what is daddy and step mom 1025 01:06:59,640 --> 01:07:02,120 Speaker 1: over there doing by theirself? Anyway? What did they do? 1026 01:07:02,760 --> 01:07:09,640 Speaker 1: They live it? They they probably set sixty seventies. They 1027 01:07:09,640 --> 01:07:14,640 Speaker 1: don't want them damn kids, and they eating groceries. But 1028 01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:16,840 Speaker 1: there's already last time she was here, that one reasons 1029 01:07:16,880 --> 01:07:20,280 Speaker 1: you left the pad locked refrigerator. They put combinations on 1030 01:07:20,360 --> 01:07:25,360 Speaker 1: all the camp be sure she could finish. I hung 1031 01:07:25,480 --> 01:07:27,880 Speaker 1: up on her. Yes I have made now here we go. 1032 01:07:28,120 --> 01:07:31,240 Speaker 1: Here comes the confession. I hung up on it. Yes, 1033 01:07:31,320 --> 01:07:33,960 Speaker 1: I have made plenty of mistakes, but I don't need 1034 01:07:34,040 --> 01:07:36,040 Speaker 1: her throwing them in my face. She didn't throw them 1035 01:07:36,040 --> 01:07:37,600 Speaker 1: in the face. You keep throwing them in the face, 1036 01:07:37,640 --> 01:07:40,000 Speaker 1: you keep dragging them. Damn kidding back over there eight 1037 01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:42,880 Speaker 1: times prior. It ain't that they throwing it in your face. 1038 01:07:42,960 --> 01:07:45,400 Speaker 1: You keep bringing it to they face. So now my 1039 01:07:45,600 --> 01:07:48,520 Speaker 1: children are now are living with my girlfriend, but we 1040 01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:51,240 Speaker 1: can't stay there much longer. You know why because your 1041 01:07:51,280 --> 01:07:54,680 Speaker 1: girlfriend know you gotta fat, and you're over there eating 1042 01:07:54,680 --> 01:07:58,080 Speaker 1: groceries up over there too, and the two boys. My 1043 01:07:58,200 --> 01:08:00,720 Speaker 1: dad would not speak to me until I apologize to 1044 01:08:00,840 --> 01:08:03,880 Speaker 1: his wife because see, you ain't just hang up. See 1045 01:08:03,960 --> 01:08:06,120 Speaker 1: see what you called you fat? Take care of yourself. 1046 01:08:07,400 --> 01:08:10,800 Speaker 1: Oh you went out the house like you at the waffer. 1047 01:08:12,320 --> 01:08:15,320 Speaker 1: You gonna come back around? Oh you threw something back 1048 01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:19,200 Speaker 1: up in that house. Then now you gotta regret. I'm fat. 1049 01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:25,280 Speaker 1: Oh I'm fat. I ain't the only one fat. Me 1050 01:08:25,360 --> 01:08:27,400 Speaker 1: and you ain't the same side. Because when I live 1051 01:08:27,520 --> 01:08:31,960 Speaker 1: at I wore your clothes. That's why you can't come back. 1052 01:08:32,280 --> 01:08:35,040 Speaker 1: And that's why you gotta apologize. I told him I 1053 01:08:35,160 --> 01:08:37,840 Speaker 1: was that was never going to happen. Now you're not 1054 01:08:37,880 --> 01:08:39,680 Speaker 1: gonna apologize to you when you ain't getting in this 1055 01:08:39,760 --> 01:08:43,760 Speaker 1: woman's Oh are you stupid? Why should I apologize to 1056 01:08:43,800 --> 01:08:47,240 Speaker 1: this woman? She hurt my feelings? You've been eating her 1057 01:08:47,280 --> 01:08:51,240 Speaker 1: grocery staying at her house, messing up your daddy credit. 1058 01:08:51,760 --> 01:08:55,280 Speaker 1: She don't know you nothing. She hurt my feelings, so 1059 01:08:55,439 --> 01:08:57,960 Speaker 1: she should apologize to me and let me move in 1060 01:08:58,120 --> 01:09:01,360 Speaker 1: until I get back on my feet. Who see, everybody 1061 01:09:01,400 --> 01:09:04,360 Speaker 1: always gotta do something for you. She got to apologize 1062 01:09:04,439 --> 01:09:06,160 Speaker 1: me and let me move in until I get back 1063 01:09:06,240 --> 01:09:08,280 Speaker 1: on my feet. It's hard to get on your feet 1064 01:09:08,320 --> 01:09:12,960 Speaker 1: with ass your side. I've seen big people fall before. 1065 01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:15,880 Speaker 1: It takes a while. They got to roll over, get 1066 01:09:15,960 --> 01:09:18,080 Speaker 1: on both knees. They need a hand up. Ify, ain't 1067 01:09:18,080 --> 01:09:21,280 Speaker 1: no hand on the way, They just stay there. No, 1068 01:09:21,400 --> 01:09:23,639 Speaker 1: I'm telling you this is what this is. I don't 1069 01:09:23,680 --> 01:09:26,760 Speaker 1: feel like I'm wrong. Well, Charley told you all wrong. 1070 01:09:27,640 --> 01:09:30,320 Speaker 1: This was my dad way before. He was a hug. Yeah, 1071 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:33,000 Speaker 1: your dad. But when you get a wife, he has 1072 01:09:33,040 --> 01:09:37,200 Speaker 1: to leave all others and cleave unto her. That your 1073 01:09:37,320 --> 01:09:44,360 Speaker 1: answers included in the league. What your ass is included 1074 01:09:44,400 --> 01:09:47,400 Speaker 1: in the league. And you could come over with people's 1075 01:09:47,400 --> 01:09:49,240 Speaker 1: house and stay long if you leave some of that 1076 01:09:49,400 --> 01:09:55,880 Speaker 1: as they But she brings that white as stead and 1077 01:09:55,960 --> 01:09:58,559 Speaker 1: replenishing ass. See if you would get in the weight 1078 01:09:58,640 --> 01:10:00,960 Speaker 1: loss business, if somebody wouldn' mind letting you stay there. 1079 01:10:01,520 --> 01:10:03,840 Speaker 1: But you're in the ass replenishing this. You know, they're 1080 01:10:03,880 --> 01:10:08,320 Speaker 1: just blowing that. We're sitting up here watching as we go. 1081 01:10:09,760 --> 01:10:12,440 Speaker 1: Your sons are sitting on it while you're walking around Walmart. 1082 01:10:14,200 --> 01:10:17,719 Speaker 1: You got one son on each cheek. Ain't got your grocer, 1083 01:10:19,360 --> 01:10:23,080 Speaker 1: your boys riding your She really doesn't get it. She says, 1084 01:10:23,200 --> 01:10:25,759 Speaker 1: this was my dad way before he was her husband. 1085 01:10:26,800 --> 01:10:31,240 Speaker 1: Yeah that's right, but so damn what. He's still your 1086 01:10:31,360 --> 01:10:35,320 Speaker 1: daddy and he said you can't come over there. He's 1087 01:10:35,360 --> 01:10:38,519 Speaker 1: not like Shelly said. He's not just your daddy. He's 1088 01:10:38,560 --> 01:10:42,040 Speaker 1: been your enabler. You've been over these people house eight. 1089 01:10:43,680 --> 01:10:46,200 Speaker 1: So what you do is you know you ain't got 1090 01:10:46,360 --> 01:10:48,479 Speaker 1: to do right as long as you don't want to, 1091 01:10:48,680 --> 01:10:50,840 Speaker 1: because you just go over your daddy's house. Well, they 1092 01:10:51,040 --> 01:10:52,760 Speaker 1: put a stop to this, So now I ain't got 1093 01:10:52,840 --> 01:10:54,479 Speaker 1: to go to work. I don't feel like it to day. 1094 01:10:54,720 --> 01:10:57,800 Speaker 1: You five, I'm going to my daddy. You ought to 1095 01:10:57,840 --> 01:11:04,360 Speaker 1: be taking care of dad. You're forty too, You lazy 1096 01:11:05,080 --> 01:11:08,439 Speaker 1: and you ask with like a cor Alright, Steve, we 1097 01:11:08,520 --> 01:11:12,120 Speaker 1: gotta get email us or instagram your thoughts on today's 1098 01:11:12,120 --> 01:11:14,600 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter at my Girl Shirley and please join me 1099 01:11:14,720 --> 01:11:17,639 Speaker 1: this Thursday at one p m. For the Strawberry Letter 1100 01:11:17,720 --> 01:11:22,120 Speaker 1: Live after show on Facebook. Okay, coming up, Steve, it 1101 01:11:22,320 --> 01:11:25,680 Speaker 1: is your turn to ask us the parenting question. When 1102 01:11:25,760 --> 01:11:28,400 Speaker 1: we come back, it'll be right after this. You're listening 1103 01:11:28,680 --> 01:11:34,320 Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Billy Stand Up. Meek 1104 01:11:34,400 --> 01:11:39,759 Speaker 1: Milm is a freeman. First of all, what to violate 1105 01:11:39,880 --> 01:11:43,240 Speaker 1: his probation because he popped a whilie and he broke 1106 01:11:43,360 --> 01:11:49,080 Speaker 1: up a fight. Yeah, that's violation. So if you're on probation, 1107 01:11:49,960 --> 01:11:53,840 Speaker 1: you you can't be any kind of citizen, not even 1108 01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:57,200 Speaker 1: a good one. So you have to be oatmeal. If 1109 01:11:57,240 --> 01:11:59,639 Speaker 1: you see a fight, you don't go nowhere near because 1110 01:11:59,640 --> 01:12:02,439 Speaker 1: you want robation. If you you see some kids, you 1111 01:12:02,520 --> 01:12:05,080 Speaker 1: can't entertain them with a wheel stand. You have to 1112 01:12:05,160 --> 01:12:09,400 Speaker 1: be a non existent human being on probation. But since 1113 01:12:09,479 --> 01:12:13,080 Speaker 1: you didn't give me a shout out on this song 1114 01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:18,000 Speaker 1: that I asked you too, are you serious? Yeah? I 1115 01:12:18,080 --> 01:12:23,240 Speaker 1: mean it's so serious, horrible injustice, it really is. Jay Z, 1116 01:12:23,600 --> 01:12:28,240 Speaker 1: dr J, Kevin Hart, Rick Ross, Philadelphia seventies Sixers co 1117 01:12:28,400 --> 01:12:31,679 Speaker 1: owner Michael Rubin, and many players from the seventies Sixers 1118 01:12:31,760 --> 01:12:35,280 Speaker 1: and the Eagles Colin Kaepernick. They all, um, you know, 1119 01:12:35,439 --> 01:12:38,439 Speaker 1: have been in support of Meek Mill. When they tell 1120 01:12:38,560 --> 01:12:42,080 Speaker 1: you this is wrong, the de fist tells you this 1121 01:12:42,320 --> 01:12:45,280 Speaker 1: is wrong, the police come out and say he did 1122 01:12:45,400 --> 01:12:49,400 Speaker 1: the right thing. Are you kidding me? And for her 1123 01:12:49,479 --> 01:12:53,880 Speaker 1: to have any insinuated ties, well, I mean, you know, Steve, 1124 01:12:54,240 --> 01:12:57,479 Speaker 1: the last five months have been a just a nightmare 1125 01:12:57,600 --> 01:13:01,320 Speaker 1: for Meek Mill. After that controversial ruling back in November, 1126 01:13:01,840 --> 01:13:04,720 Speaker 1: you know, Meek received the sentence of two to four 1127 01:13:04,840 --> 01:13:09,360 Speaker 1: years in prison for probation violation. Just like you just said, 1128 01:13:09,400 --> 01:13:13,360 Speaker 1: Steve Shirley. Well, the Pennsylvania Supreme Court ordered bail for 1129 01:13:13,520 --> 01:13:17,799 Speaker 1: Meek so he could go free, over ruling that judge 1130 01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:21,760 Speaker 1: st that you just mentioned, Judge Genie Brinkley, who wanted 1131 01:13:21,840 --> 01:13:24,880 Speaker 1: to keep him there in prison and for at least 1132 01:13:25,000 --> 01:13:29,000 Speaker 1: another sixty days. Meek was ordered to be released yesterday. 1133 01:13:29,200 --> 01:13:33,120 Speaker 1: He issued a statement thanking the District Attorney's office, the 1134 01:13:33,240 --> 01:13:37,920 Speaker 1: Pennsylvania Supreme Court, his legal team, Rock Nation, jay Z, 1135 01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:43,080 Speaker 1: seventies Sixers owner Michael Rubin, all of his family, his friends, 1136 01:13:43,720 --> 01:13:47,400 Speaker 1: and his fans who showed support while he was locked up. 1137 01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,400 Speaker 1: Meek says he also plans to Shauna light on other 1138 01:13:50,479 --> 01:13:55,040 Speaker 1: cases where people of color are improperly jailed and promised 1139 01:13:55,120 --> 01:13:58,680 Speaker 1: to keep fighting. He's gonna resume his rap career, get 1140 01:13:58,760 --> 01:14:01,800 Speaker 1: back to making music. And it was really good to 1141 01:14:01,880 --> 01:14:05,360 Speaker 1: see Meek at the seventy sixers Miami Heat game. It 1142 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:07,960 Speaker 1: was game five last night of the playoffs. If you 1143 01:14:08,040 --> 01:14:12,800 Speaker 1: were there, Philly, Meek Mill was the seventy Sixers v 1144 01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:27,760 Speaker 1: I P guest last night at the game. Yea one 1145 01:14:27,840 --> 01:14:31,920 Speaker 1: on five point three D in Philly. We feel like 1146 01:14:32,120 --> 01:14:37,080 Speaker 1: Philly to me. Now, that is just fantastic news. All right, Steve, 1147 01:14:37,160 --> 01:14:40,880 Speaker 1: You've been wanting to ask us this all morning, the 1148 01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:44,000 Speaker 1: parenting question for Carla, Tommy and I. What do you 1149 01:14:44,080 --> 01:14:46,560 Speaker 1: have for it? I wanted to notice, surely you have 1150 01:14:46,680 --> 01:14:52,320 Speaker 1: a daughter of this age. Tasha is yeah, she's not 1151 01:14:52,520 --> 01:14:55,880 Speaker 1: there yet. Tommy, you have boys the son of this age, 1152 01:14:56,920 --> 01:15:00,600 Speaker 1: and your daughters are not there? All right? How do 1153 01:15:00,760 --> 01:15:07,759 Speaker 1: you feel about any of your children being not married 1154 01:15:09,320 --> 01:15:14,760 Speaker 1: to their boyfriend or girlfriend wanting to spend time with 1155 01:15:15,040 --> 01:15:21,360 Speaker 1: y'all on vacation? How do you all feel about so 1156 01:15:21,800 --> 01:15:25,479 Speaker 1: like if my daughter wanted to bring her boyfriendcation on 1157 01:15:25,640 --> 01:15:30,760 Speaker 1: vacation with us and they're not married. Where where where 1158 01:15:30,760 --> 01:15:34,360 Speaker 1: are they sleeping in? Yeah, that's the thing. Yeah, which 1159 01:15:34,400 --> 01:15:40,679 Speaker 1: y'all also separate rooms. See, I feel the same way 1160 01:15:41,000 --> 01:15:44,040 Speaker 1: my mom felt if I wanted to do that growing up. 1161 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:49,080 Speaker 1: I mean, you know, I'm old school in that regard. Just, um, don't. 1162 01:15:49,479 --> 01:15:52,400 Speaker 1: I don't want that to happen. See, that's one thing. 1163 01:15:53,439 --> 01:15:55,519 Speaker 1: But then maybe he's talking about because the first thing 1164 01:15:55,600 --> 01:15:57,080 Speaker 1: hit in my mind. I got to foot the bill, 1165 01:15:57,120 --> 01:15:59,760 Speaker 1: I got to pay for another person if it's my 1166 01:16:00,120 --> 01:16:02,720 Speaker 1: and I think he needs to be getting that. Just 1167 01:16:02,880 --> 01:16:06,560 Speaker 1: answer that question. Yeah, don't get a problem with that. 1168 01:16:07,000 --> 01:16:09,479 Speaker 1: Understand what you're saying. I feel like, yeah, like my 1169 01:16:09,560 --> 01:16:11,599 Speaker 1: mom felt, if they were me, I wouldn't want them 1170 01:16:11,640 --> 01:16:15,200 Speaker 1: to do it if they're not married, right, But you're 1171 01:16:15,240 --> 01:16:19,639 Speaker 1: not talking about financially, you're just talking about yeah, yeah, yeah, 1172 01:16:19,680 --> 01:16:22,800 Speaker 1: you're just talking about the couple when you were talking 1173 01:16:22,840 --> 01:16:25,519 Speaker 1: about going on the trip, but going on the trip 1174 01:16:25,600 --> 01:16:27,720 Speaker 1: with the parents, that's what you're saying. Yeah, I think 1175 01:16:27,720 --> 01:16:29,960 Speaker 1: it's a problem, but you're gonna sleep over here right 1176 01:16:30,080 --> 01:16:33,719 Speaker 1: as long as this you're yeah, they can't sleep together? 1177 01:16:33,840 --> 01:16:36,840 Speaker 1: Is that what you're asking the others? How y'all felt 1178 01:16:36,840 --> 01:16:40,559 Speaker 1: about It's awkward? Understand how you feel. See, even if 1179 01:16:40,600 --> 01:16:42,720 Speaker 1: they have separate rooms, you don't think they're gonna they 1180 01:16:42,760 --> 01:16:46,120 Speaker 1: ain't gonna stay right, I better not catch you creep 1181 01:16:46,160 --> 01:16:56,559 Speaker 1: and cross you didn't they cannot go. Yeah, I feel 1182 01:16:56,640 --> 01:16:59,960 Speaker 1: the same way. Yeah, my mom didn't want me to 1183 01:17:00,120 --> 01:17:01,840 Speaker 1: do it. I don't want my kids to do it. 1184 01:17:02,600 --> 01:17:06,320 Speaker 1: That's it. It's just the way. It's a different time now, 1185 01:17:06,880 --> 01:17:09,600 Speaker 1: and you know, I'm trying to understand it and get it. 1186 01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:12,639 Speaker 1: But I mean, you know, at the end of the day, 1187 01:17:13,800 --> 01:17:17,519 Speaker 1: you know they millennials. We ain't. We got to be millennius. 1188 01:17:17,840 --> 01:17:31,840 Speaker 1: Know what, I'm gonna stay old. We were raised. I 1189 01:17:31,920 --> 01:17:35,080 Speaker 1: don't have it where you're in my This is the 1190 01:17:35,200 --> 01:17:38,759 Speaker 1: rule that I had to come up with. You can't 1191 01:17:38,800 --> 01:17:42,400 Speaker 1: be in our personal space with it. We could be 1192 01:17:42,479 --> 01:17:45,800 Speaker 1: in the same hotel with it. You can't be in 1193 01:17:45,880 --> 01:17:49,080 Speaker 1: our personal space. Let me ask you this, Steve. Are 1194 01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:54,920 Speaker 1: they grown technically? Oh yeah, there are? Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, 1195 01:17:55,280 --> 01:17:58,200 Speaker 1: like our same age as are Yeah you at You 1196 01:17:58,240 --> 01:18:02,880 Speaker 1: ain't coming now, I bet not. Thank Yeah. You you 1197 01:18:03,000 --> 01:18:06,880 Speaker 1: opened that doing something. We gotta go and we'll come 1198 01:18:06,920 --> 01:18:10,080 Speaker 1: back and and and pick this back up. All right, 1199 01:18:10,120 --> 01:18:12,040 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvy Morning Show. 1200 01:18:12,120 --> 01:18:16,840 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1201 01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:21,040 Speaker 1: All right, we're still in the middle of this conversation. Steve, 1202 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:24,120 Speaker 1: you asked us this question, how do we feel about um, 1203 01:18:24,880 --> 01:18:32,160 Speaker 1: your our kids. I'm not no, I'm just want your 1204 01:18:32,200 --> 01:18:37,679 Speaker 1: honest opinion. You can't say. I was just wondering. I said, 1205 01:18:37,840 --> 01:18:41,360 Speaker 1: how do you feel about your children who are of 1206 01:18:41,600 --> 01:18:51,240 Speaker 1: age dating, being involved with their significant others, wanting to 1207 01:18:51,360 --> 01:18:54,719 Speaker 1: come on vacation with you? I don't have a problem 1208 01:18:54,760 --> 01:18:58,680 Speaker 1: with that. It's not a yeah, it's cool. It's it 1209 01:18:58,840 --> 01:19:05,240 Speaker 1: might be fun m a whole lot of funny, you 1210 01:19:05,360 --> 01:19:09,040 Speaker 1: know what? Because I was thinking, there's still my baby 1211 01:19:09,120 --> 01:19:11,000 Speaker 1: is still a baby to me, you know what I mean? 1212 01:19:12,120 --> 01:19:15,800 Speaker 1: She yeah, she is. I still he's still my baby. 1213 01:19:18,560 --> 01:19:20,960 Speaker 1: She's still my baby. To be cool with it, because 1214 01:19:21,000 --> 01:19:22,960 Speaker 1: I would be uncomfortable with him. I only have a 1215 01:19:23,000 --> 01:19:25,479 Speaker 1: ten year old daughter, but she can't bring her boyfriend 1216 01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:28,599 Speaker 1: on trips with us. I guess it's just not Well, 1217 01:19:28,640 --> 01:19:37,800 Speaker 1: you're not and Tash Tash will papa gasket? Yeah, having 1218 01:19:37,880 --> 01:19:41,639 Speaker 1: this discussion because you know, because of what we talked about, 1219 01:19:41,680 --> 01:19:44,800 Speaker 1: You're absolutely right, We're not. They're going to have sex. 1220 01:19:44,880 --> 01:19:47,000 Speaker 1: If they're having sex already, they're going to have it. 1221 01:19:47,360 --> 01:19:50,080 Speaker 1: That's not even the questions. Let's let's take that off 1222 01:19:50,160 --> 01:19:52,960 Speaker 1: the table, because let's let's let none of us are 1223 01:19:53,040 --> 01:19:59,599 Speaker 1: naive about that. My daughters one, she has a fiance. 1224 01:20:00,000 --> 01:20:02,400 Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he asked her to marry her for 1225 01:20:02,520 --> 01:20:10,799 Speaker 1: a reason. You're not being naive about that. He don't know. Okay, 1226 01:20:11,280 --> 01:20:15,720 Speaker 1: they've actually met us places, but they're engaged. That's and 1227 01:20:15,840 --> 01:20:19,599 Speaker 1: this young man has means you ain't know, Daddy, can 1228 01:20:19,680 --> 01:20:24,000 Speaker 1: you fly us over here? I'm not being to fly 1229 01:20:24,160 --> 01:20:27,080 Speaker 1: no boy nowhere. I just want you to understand that 1230 01:20:27,400 --> 01:20:30,560 Speaker 1: I'm not going to give a man a quarter to 1231 01:20:30,800 --> 01:20:35,120 Speaker 1: impress you. M As long as you ain't interrupting my 1232 01:20:35,400 --> 01:20:38,280 Speaker 1: sex while were on vacation, I'm pretty much fine with it. 1233 01:20:38,920 --> 01:20:43,160 Speaker 1: So you're cool with that. I mean, what is the problem, though, Seriously, 1234 01:20:43,200 --> 01:20:46,240 Speaker 1: I don't think. I don't if they're grown, they're twenty one, 1235 01:20:46,400 --> 01:20:49,960 Speaker 1: they're of age, they're legally grown. You're asking this because 1236 01:20:49,960 --> 01:20:52,479 Speaker 1: you must don't want them now, No, no, no, no, no, 1237 01:20:52,680 --> 01:20:57,360 Speaker 1: I really I really enjoyed, Lord. I mean, they're legally grown, 1238 01:20:57,560 --> 01:20:59,840 Speaker 1: So I actually like this young man as long as 1239 01:20:59,880 --> 01:21:01,960 Speaker 1: you like them and they're cool and you get along. 1240 01:21:02,120 --> 01:21:06,160 Speaker 1: I look at it like family time. He took sex 1241 01:21:06,240 --> 01:21:08,400 Speaker 1: off of it. I was just asking y'all how you 1242 01:21:08,520 --> 01:21:12,799 Speaker 1: felt about it. I'm okay because I've done it before. 1243 01:21:13,120 --> 01:21:17,919 Speaker 1: It wasn't awkward for me because it's just a fiance. 1244 01:21:18,880 --> 01:21:23,040 Speaker 1: If you're not engaged and you're my daughter, No, he 1245 01:21:23,200 --> 01:21:27,479 Speaker 1: can't come. No. No, he has to provide you the 1246 01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:30,320 Speaker 1: lifestyle that he can promise you. But if he can 1247 01:21:30,400 --> 01:21:34,080 Speaker 1: do that and they're not engaged, he still can't come. 1248 01:21:34,560 --> 01:21:40,479 Speaker 1: He can't. She could, but he can't. If my son's 1249 01:21:41,360 --> 01:21:44,240 Speaker 1: is dating a significant other and I pay for my 1250 01:21:44,720 --> 01:21:47,120 Speaker 1: son to come, which I don't have to because they 1251 01:21:47,200 --> 01:21:51,080 Speaker 1: all worked, except if he was winking because he's in college. 1252 01:21:51,479 --> 01:21:53,519 Speaker 1: If I pay for my sons had their own money 1253 01:21:53,800 --> 01:21:56,280 Speaker 1: and they bring the significant other, I'm okay with that. 1254 01:21:57,600 --> 01:22:00,599 Speaker 1: I'm not okay if it's different with the You're yeah, 1255 01:22:00,720 --> 01:22:03,360 Speaker 1: you're just it's just a double standard because it's boys, 1256 01:22:03,479 --> 01:22:05,920 Speaker 1: you're not. I don't I don't know what you want 1257 01:22:05,960 --> 01:22:08,160 Speaker 1: to call it double standards it I ain't doing that, 1258 01:22:09,040 --> 01:22:13,320 Speaker 1: but that is a double standard. Well, I'm just calling 1259 01:22:13,360 --> 01:22:15,360 Speaker 1: it what it is. Well, the boys have to pay, though, 1260 01:22:15,720 --> 01:22:17,800 Speaker 1: they have to pay for their old girl to call. Yeah, 1261 01:22:17,960 --> 01:22:20,880 Speaker 1: so if they can pay, they can come. I know 1262 01:22:21,840 --> 01:22:25,280 Speaker 1: you asked the question. Yeah, because now we're getting deeper 1263 01:22:25,400 --> 01:22:31,360 Speaker 1: into it. See you're saying I have a double standard, don't. 1264 01:22:31,360 --> 01:22:33,720 Speaker 1: I don't know what you're calling it dead phone. I'm 1265 01:22:33,760 --> 01:22:37,760 Speaker 1: just telling you I'm not my daughter, ain't bringing no 1266 01:22:37,960 --> 01:22:41,960 Speaker 1: boy on no damn trip. See Okay, I'm calling it 1267 01:22:42,080 --> 01:22:47,000 Speaker 1: that because that's what it is, said the sun the 1268 01:22:47,600 --> 01:22:51,800 Speaker 1: son vacation and you had a significant other. I'll allow that, 1269 01:22:52,200 --> 01:22:56,040 Speaker 1: but you're double yeah my daughter because ain't no boy. 1270 01:22:56,320 --> 01:23:02,800 Speaker 1: Listen to me, I'm times well, if you stop yelling, okay, 1271 01:23:03,760 --> 01:23:06,120 Speaker 1: tim me right now, you're just dealing with trade here. Boy. 1272 01:23:06,960 --> 01:23:10,960 Speaker 1: But soon as Sydney get of age, you this this 1273 01:23:11,120 --> 01:23:14,160 Speaker 1: tone I got, you're gonna have this damn And if 1274 01:23:14,240 --> 01:23:17,720 Speaker 1: Sirley was a man, exactly if I were a man, 1275 01:23:18,400 --> 01:23:20,720 Speaker 1: you met Tasha, who ain't but teen, get of this 1276 01:23:20,840 --> 01:23:23,960 Speaker 1: age and watch how Tosh handled this here. I'm just 1277 01:23:24,040 --> 01:23:27,519 Speaker 1: letting you know how you're gonna feel. You don't have 1278 01:23:27,680 --> 01:23:30,320 Speaker 1: you you have strong as attitude by it like this, 1279 01:23:30,520 --> 01:23:38,400 Speaker 1: But it's still a double standard. Still, it's I bet 1280 01:23:38,439 --> 01:23:42,160 Speaker 1: your black ass won't be on this boat. That's all 1281 01:23:42,240 --> 01:23:45,639 Speaker 1: we know. Now everyone, all your sons can bring their 1282 01:23:45,680 --> 01:23:49,360 Speaker 1: significant significant others, and your daughters are just by themselves 1283 01:23:49,800 --> 01:23:56,519 Speaker 1: on the boat. Don't talk to your mama, talk amongst 1284 01:23:56,560 --> 01:24:01,160 Speaker 1: yourselves to your mama. And let me tell you something. 1285 01:24:01,520 --> 01:24:05,040 Speaker 1: Madred and told every last one of them. That's how 1286 01:24:05,120 --> 01:24:08,720 Speaker 1: your daddy feel. I can't I can't stop it. And 1287 01:24:08,840 --> 01:24:11,320 Speaker 1: what he nothing to do is be uncomfortable on his vacation. 1288 01:24:12,080 --> 01:24:13,920 Speaker 1: He's not gonna be on comfortable. I'm not gonna ask 1289 01:24:14,000 --> 01:24:16,160 Speaker 1: him to be on comfortable. Your daddy work all year 1290 01:24:16,200 --> 01:24:18,560 Speaker 1: for this vacation. I'm not gonna ask this man to 1291 01:24:18,600 --> 01:24:21,720 Speaker 1: be uncomfortable. Cause you wants to do this here. Your 1292 01:24:21,800 --> 01:24:24,839 Speaker 1: boyfriend got to be before to take you the places 1293 01:24:24,920 --> 01:24:26,800 Speaker 1: that he could take. Well, if you can sit up 1294 01:24:26,840 --> 01:24:29,800 Speaker 1: on your doctor on your daddy dad, listen, well let's 1295 01:24:29,800 --> 01:24:32,320 Speaker 1: do that. Said. If he could afford it, let's not 1296 01:24:32,360 --> 01:24:34,240 Speaker 1: worry about these kids. Can't afford it. He ain't coming 1297 01:24:34,280 --> 01:24:36,679 Speaker 1: over here ship. Okay, let's not worry about these kids. 1298 01:24:36,800 --> 01:24:43,040 Speaker 1: Double double stick takes a triple. Yeah, I was significant other. 1299 01:24:43,720 --> 01:24:47,719 Speaker 1: I wouldn't take you know what to get an understanding 1300 01:24:47,760 --> 01:24:54,120 Speaker 1: what's actually happened on this because we don't really example, 1301 01:24:57,200 --> 01:25:02,280 Speaker 1: all right, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. The Steve 1302 01:25:02,320 --> 01:25:04,960 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show wants to give you a chance to 1303 01:25:05,040 --> 01:25:09,439 Speaker 1: win one of four trips for two to the Essence 1304 01:25:09,560 --> 01:25:14,000 Speaker 1: Festival presented by Coca Cola, going down in New Orleans 1305 01:25:14,120 --> 01:25:17,040 Speaker 1: July five through the eighth. Just listen for the daily 1306 01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:19,920 Speaker 1: key word, then go online for your chance to win. 1307 01:25:20,320 --> 01:25:24,160 Speaker 1: One winner will be selected each day starting tomorrow, and 1308 01:25:24,280 --> 01:25:29,360 Speaker 1: today's key word is festival. Alright, that's festival f E 1309 01:25:29,800 --> 01:25:38,080 Speaker 1: S T I v A L Festival fest. To enter, 1310 01:25:38,479 --> 01:25:43,160 Speaker 1: get rules, visit Steve Harvey FM dot com. Now an 1311 01:25:43,320 --> 01:25:46,880 Speaker 1: entertainment news Tracy Morgan, who is back and doing it 1312 01:25:47,000 --> 01:25:49,839 Speaker 1: real big with his show The Last O G. Anyway, 1313 01:25:49,880 --> 01:25:52,240 Speaker 1: he stopped by the view. He talked about how grateful 1314 01:25:52,280 --> 01:25:54,840 Speaker 1: he is to receive his star on the Hollywood Walk 1315 01:25:54,880 --> 01:25:57,080 Speaker 1: of Fame. He talked about, of course, as hit show, 1316 01:25:57,160 --> 01:25:59,240 Speaker 1: The Last O G. It has been picked up for 1317 01:25:59,320 --> 01:26:04,639 Speaker 1: a second season. Yeah already, it's really good and Tracy 1318 01:26:04,800 --> 01:26:09,719 Speaker 1: gave Whoopie Goldberg mad Prop says the best decorated female comedian. 1319 01:26:10,200 --> 01:26:13,320 Speaker 1: Uh take a listen to this like billions of peoples 1320 01:26:13,760 --> 01:26:16,080 Speaker 1: have been in show business and acted, but only like 1321 01:26:16,160 --> 01:26:20,120 Speaker 1: two thousand people gotta star. I'm right there with Lena Horn. Wow, 1322 01:26:22,760 --> 01:26:25,320 Speaker 1: you know what you don't? I mean, we're getting the 1323 01:26:25,360 --> 01:26:28,519 Speaker 1: star was awesome. But the people that I'm win like 1324 01:26:28,760 --> 01:26:32,080 Speaker 1: Jackie Gleeson is right across the street, but Sake is 1325 01:26:32,160 --> 01:26:34,120 Speaker 1: right across the street. And these are the people that 1326 01:26:34,200 --> 01:26:38,479 Speaker 1: maybe want to do comedy, but big I mean, to me, 1327 01:26:38,720 --> 01:26:48,360 Speaker 1: the most decorated female comedian in the world. Wow, Yo, 1328 01:26:49,840 --> 01:26:55,400 Speaker 1: whoop Goldberg. That was really nice that he said that. Yeah, 1329 01:26:56,120 --> 01:27:00,720 Speaker 1: what does that make Monique? She is she? Why are 1330 01:27:00,760 --> 01:27:06,679 Speaker 1: you starting trouble? I'm with him? War whooping, Tracy Morgan, 1331 01:27:06,880 --> 01:27:12,080 Speaker 1: Tracey Whoop, whooping, Cole whopping, one of the greats. She's got. 1332 01:27:13,680 --> 01:27:19,120 Speaker 1: What I'm asking Why he didn't say nothing by Monique 1333 01:27:19,160 --> 01:27:22,760 Speaker 1: and Amos. That's one I'm asking because he felt that 1334 01:27:22,880 --> 01:27:26,160 Speaker 1: Whoopie was the most decorated comedian already said what he 1335 01:27:26,280 --> 01:27:32,800 Speaker 1: felt and I said, Whooper cole whatterfi Monique. That's what 1336 01:27:32,960 --> 01:27:40,080 Speaker 1: I'm asking. Why why he didn't mention you had enough? 1337 01:27:41,439 --> 01:27:55,960 Speaker 1: You can't take no stop speak wait man hit it again. 1338 01:27:56,080 --> 01:27:59,599 Speaker 1: Cat to me, the most decorated female comedian in the world. 1339 01:28:10,240 --> 01:28:14,680 Speaker 1: Only five people got what he got it. Come on, 1340 01:28:15,520 --> 01:28:22,120 Speaker 1: he got everything, gar to you got that, Tony boy, 1341 01:28:22,680 --> 01:28:26,840 Speaker 1: you bad girl man. And then let me tell you something. 1342 01:28:27,479 --> 01:28:31,640 Speaker 1: WHOOPI Goldberg. It's the reason black people can wear the 1343 01:28:31,840 --> 01:28:43,880 Speaker 1: hair on TV like, come on, hoppy Goldberg started that. Yeah, yes, 1344 01:28:44,200 --> 01:28:48,160 Speaker 1: don't go over the sideways. Alright, get ready when we 1345 01:28:48,280 --> 01:28:50,679 Speaker 1: come back the last break of the day and time 1346 01:28:50,760 --> 01:28:57,840 Speaker 1: for Steve's closing remarks. You're listening show all right, here 1347 01:28:57,880 --> 01:29:00,840 Speaker 1: we are, last break of the day with just one 1348 01:29:00,920 --> 01:29:04,679 Speaker 1: more thing, and get ready of course for Steve's closing remarks. 1349 01:29:04,720 --> 01:29:06,599 Speaker 1: He has brought those back for the new year two 1350 01:29:06,680 --> 01:29:11,360 Speaker 1: thousand eighteen. Okay, to date, I thought a good subject 1351 01:29:11,439 --> 01:29:16,960 Speaker 1: to talk about was about I think mentors being mentored, 1352 01:29:17,280 --> 01:29:21,720 Speaker 1: how to attract the right mentor. Um. I don't care 1353 01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:25,040 Speaker 1: what you're thinking of doing in your life. I don't 1354 01:29:25,080 --> 01:29:29,920 Speaker 1: care what decisions you make. Somebody's already done it, attempted, 1355 01:29:29,960 --> 01:29:34,120 Speaker 1: it gone down that role made the attempt. Maybe not 1356 01:29:34,439 --> 01:29:38,120 Speaker 1: your ideas specifically, but the route to get there has 1357 01:29:38,280 --> 01:29:43,439 Speaker 1: already been traveled for the most part. Uh, if you 1358 01:29:43,520 --> 01:29:47,400 Speaker 1: want to be successful, there are successful people. If you 1359 01:29:47,439 --> 01:29:50,000 Speaker 1: want to be a star athlete, there's a star you 1360 01:29:50,080 --> 01:29:52,519 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. I'm saying to you that whatever 1361 01:29:52,560 --> 01:29:56,360 Speaker 1: it is you're trying to accomplish, somebody has already taken 1362 01:29:56,439 --> 01:29:59,840 Speaker 1: the path. Now, finding these people is really really not 1363 01:30:00,080 --> 01:30:05,080 Speaker 1: that difficult. Now, getting in front of them is where 1364 01:30:05,080 --> 01:30:08,040 Speaker 1: you're gonna find the difficulty. So let me give you 1365 01:30:08,200 --> 01:30:12,080 Speaker 1: a couple of suggestions. What is the best way to 1366 01:30:12,240 --> 01:30:16,520 Speaker 1: approach a mentor. What is the best way to approach 1367 01:30:16,640 --> 01:30:23,519 Speaker 1: a mentor of means and a mentor with means, Because 1368 01:30:23,600 --> 01:30:27,920 Speaker 1: that's that's two different people. You know, Martin Luther King 1369 01:30:28,880 --> 01:30:33,200 Speaker 1: was a mentor of means. He wasn't a wealthy man, 1370 01:30:33,920 --> 01:30:37,360 Speaker 1: but Lord have mercy man, the knowledge that he could 1371 01:30:37,360 --> 01:30:43,040 Speaker 1: have given you about struggling and overcoming and and and sticktuitiveness, 1372 01:30:43,120 --> 01:30:45,280 Speaker 1: those those lessons he could have taught you would have 1373 01:30:45,360 --> 01:30:50,879 Speaker 1: been invaluable. So you have two different types of mentors. 1374 01:30:50,960 --> 01:30:57,120 Speaker 1: You have mentors of means and mentors with means. Now, 1375 01:30:57,200 --> 01:31:01,559 Speaker 1: if you can find the two combined, that's even more special. 1376 01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:05,200 Speaker 1: But you're getting into more of a rare territory. Now, 1377 01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:11,840 Speaker 1: it's harder to find mentors of means and with means combined, 1378 01:31:12,040 --> 01:31:14,400 Speaker 1: because how do you get to that person? How do 1379 01:31:14,479 --> 01:31:17,519 Speaker 1: you get to the oprah Winfreys. When you find someone 1380 01:31:18,360 --> 01:31:21,080 Speaker 1: in your life, or you meet someone that you hear someone, 1381 01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:22,720 Speaker 1: you put them on your vision board. I want to 1382 01:31:22,760 --> 01:31:24,600 Speaker 1: meet this person one day. I would love to have 1383 01:31:24,680 --> 01:31:28,920 Speaker 1: a conversation with this person. You have to understand something. 1384 01:31:29,680 --> 01:31:35,200 Speaker 1: Most people with means of any kind, like Bishop Jake's, 1385 01:31:36,360 --> 01:31:39,559 Speaker 1: he has a lot of means. Man he tells well 1386 01:31:39,720 --> 01:31:43,720 Speaker 1: financially too, but he is also just a man of 1387 01:31:44,800 --> 01:31:49,639 Speaker 1: wealth of knowledge. How do you get to these people? Well, 1388 01:31:49,800 --> 01:31:53,000 Speaker 1: it's several ways to do it, but if you can 1389 01:31:53,160 --> 01:31:57,920 Speaker 1: somehow find that way, because there's no specific way. Right 1390 01:31:58,320 --> 01:32:00,880 Speaker 1: when you get in front of this person, I want 1391 01:32:00,880 --> 01:32:04,400 Speaker 1: you to understand something when you're facing them. They don't 1392 01:32:04,680 --> 01:32:10,320 Speaker 1: mind teaching and sharing because most people of means are 1393 01:32:10,439 --> 01:32:16,240 Speaker 1: great sharers and great teachers a Bishop Jake's, Joe Oldstein, 1394 01:32:17,640 --> 01:32:20,200 Speaker 1: that brother that has the app out, the hip hop 1395 01:32:20,560 --> 01:32:26,160 Speaker 1: uh preacher Eric Eric Thomas brothers like that too, and 1396 01:32:26,280 --> 01:32:29,000 Speaker 1: I listened to him man a lot of times. But 1397 01:32:29,160 --> 01:32:31,759 Speaker 1: getting in front of them, taking their course or whatever 1398 01:32:31,840 --> 01:32:33,720 Speaker 1: you might do. When you get in front of them, 1399 01:32:33,800 --> 01:32:37,960 Speaker 1: they don't mind teaching and sharing. They will mind giving 1400 01:32:38,000 --> 01:32:41,360 Speaker 1: you money. See, most people want to meet them mentor 1401 01:32:41,600 --> 01:32:43,559 Speaker 1: so they can present an idea to him and get 1402 01:32:43,600 --> 01:32:46,280 Speaker 1: some financial help. That's the quickest way to run them 1403 01:32:46,320 --> 01:32:50,120 Speaker 1: off out of it because everybody is used to that. 1404 01:32:50,960 --> 01:32:54,160 Speaker 1: Do you have any idea how many times in a 1405 01:32:54,320 --> 01:32:58,840 Speaker 1: week I'm asked for money? It's sickening. But if you 1406 01:32:58,920 --> 01:33:00,559 Speaker 1: come to me and say, man, could you just give 1407 01:33:00,600 --> 01:33:02,800 Speaker 1: me a piece of advice? I usually don't have no 1408 01:33:02,960 --> 01:33:06,000 Speaker 1: problem with that. I got time for most anybody that 1409 01:33:06,080 --> 01:33:09,519 Speaker 1: wants some advice wants me to share a wealth a 1410 01:33:09,720 --> 01:33:12,960 Speaker 1: piece of knowledge. That's okay. So when you get to 1411 01:33:13,080 --> 01:33:18,120 Speaker 1: these people, have a plan to be taught something. Ask 1412 01:33:18,200 --> 01:33:20,560 Speaker 1: him to teach you to fish, not to give you 1413 01:33:20,600 --> 01:33:23,679 Speaker 1: a fish sandwich. Ask him to teach you to fish. 1414 01:33:23,840 --> 01:33:27,360 Speaker 1: They don't have a problem with that. Now in several 1415 01:33:27,400 --> 01:33:28,760 Speaker 1: ways to get in front of them. But when you 1416 01:33:28,880 --> 01:33:31,160 Speaker 1: do get that, when you finally do meet and meet 1417 01:33:31,240 --> 01:33:34,000 Speaker 1: the main as difficult as you think. Now, if you 1418 01:33:34,280 --> 01:33:36,880 Speaker 1: live in you know, New York, and your mental lives 1419 01:33:36,920 --> 01:33:38,120 Speaker 1: in the l A, You're gonna to find a way 1420 01:33:38,160 --> 01:33:39,479 Speaker 1: to get to l A. Oh, you gotta find out 1421 01:33:39,479 --> 01:33:41,920 Speaker 1: when you come to New York. You gotta do some research, 1422 01:33:42,200 --> 01:33:46,040 Speaker 1: but you have mentors closer than that. You have somebody 1423 01:33:46,080 --> 01:33:49,680 Speaker 1: who's a really well mentally balanced person that you need 1424 01:33:49,760 --> 01:33:52,400 Speaker 1: information from. You have a person who seems to be 1425 01:33:52,520 --> 01:33:55,040 Speaker 1: doing really well with a wife and their children you 1426 01:33:55,160 --> 01:33:58,200 Speaker 1: need information from. Because it's all a balancing act. You 1427 01:33:58,280 --> 01:34:00,880 Speaker 1: can't be successful in your business and while your family 1428 01:34:00,960 --> 01:34:03,519 Speaker 1: sitting over there struggling and in ruins is not going 1429 01:34:03,640 --> 01:34:06,240 Speaker 1: to work. Once you learn the traits of success, it 1430 01:34:06,520 --> 01:34:09,479 Speaker 1: it filters over into every other aspect of life. So 1431 01:34:09,640 --> 01:34:12,439 Speaker 1: you gotta have a balance. You can find these people 1432 01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:17,400 Speaker 1: right here. Don't ask them for money. People want to 1433 01:34:17,640 --> 01:34:23,120 Speaker 1: share and teach and give you information. Everybody needs a mentor. 1434 01:34:23,720 --> 01:34:28,280 Speaker 1: You cannot make it without mentorship. You know, there's an 1435 01:34:28,360 --> 01:34:32,160 Speaker 1: incredible saying, and we ain't got to get into why 1436 01:34:32,400 --> 01:34:38,840 Speaker 1: so incredible. But friendship is essential to the soul. You 1437 01:34:38,920 --> 01:34:42,679 Speaker 1: know why friendship is so essential to the soul. I've 1438 01:34:42,760 --> 01:34:48,679 Speaker 1: lost my mother, my father, I've lost my brother, I've 1439 01:34:48,800 --> 01:34:53,200 Speaker 1: lost my best friend. Before you can live your life 1440 01:34:53,240 --> 01:34:56,160 Speaker 1: without your mother, you may have to eventually one day, 1441 01:34:56,640 --> 01:34:58,519 Speaker 1: you can live your life without your father. You may 1442 01:34:58,600 --> 01:35:01,439 Speaker 1: eventually have to do that one day You can live 1443 01:35:01,560 --> 01:35:04,720 Speaker 1: your life without your uncles and your relatives. But you 1444 01:35:04,840 --> 01:35:06,920 Speaker 1: know what, is very very difficult to live your life 1445 01:35:06,960 --> 01:35:12,320 Speaker 1: without a friend. It is very very difficult to live 1446 01:35:12,400 --> 01:35:19,080 Speaker 1: in this world with no friendship. Nowhere. It's man, you got. 1447 01:35:20,240 --> 01:35:26,240 Speaker 1: Friendship is essential to the soul. Do not avoid mentoring. 1448 01:35:26,600 --> 01:35:29,599 Speaker 1: Don't try to do it all by yourself, because nobody 1449 01:35:29,680 --> 01:35:32,479 Speaker 1: gets to the top by yourself. There's no such thing 1450 01:35:32,800 --> 01:35:38,080 Speaker 1: as a self made You've got to have amenity For 1451 01:35:38,200 --> 01:35:41,479 Speaker 1: all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, avoid where prohibited. 1452 01:35:41,520 --> 01:35:44,519 Speaker 1: Participants must be legal US residents at least eighteen years old, 1453 01:35:44,600 --> 01:35:47,800 Speaker 1: unless otherwise stated. For complete contest rules, visit Steve Harvey 1454 01:35:47,880 --> 01:35:51,240 Speaker 1: dot com. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Show.