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Speaker 1: Second date update. There's so many different themed bars nowadays

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Speaker 1: that are like fun and kitchy. Yeah, but there's one

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Speaker 1: where you can get drinks on a working carnival carousel.

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Speaker 2: Oh that's so cool.

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Speaker 1: You just go up and down on your horse sea

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Speaker 1: while getting schwasted. Yeah, that's part of the fun. And

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Speaker 1: there's another one that's called the Ping Pong Emporium with

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Speaker 1: over one hundred ping pong tables. You just play and drink.

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Speaker 2: It's like beer pong or whatever pong you want.

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Speaker 1: Whatever type. My personal favorite, though, is Lose gas Station

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Speaker 1: just off the highway. It is themed. It's just like

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Speaker 1: a gas station and you can actually pump gas there.

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Speaker 1: You just get a six piece sushi and a forty

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Speaker 1: of mickeys and then you head into the restroom see

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Speaker 1: what happens. That's my style. But I guess one of

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Speaker 1: our listeners did a themed bar for his first date

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Speaker 1: the other night. His name is Matt, so let's talk

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Speaker 1: to him.

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Speaker 3: Matt.

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Speaker 1: How you doing, I'm doing okay?

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Speaker 3: How are you? Guys?

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Speaker 2: Are you wishing you knew about Lose sooner so you

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Speaker 2: could have taken her there?

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Speaker 1: I can show you where it is.

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Speaker 3: I mean, I'm open to a new places.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's my guy. Maybe i'll see you in the

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Speaker 1: restaurant there. But first, let's focus on this date you

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Speaker 1: went on. Who is the woman that you met?

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Speaker 3: Tanita is her name?

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Speaker 2: Did you guys meet online on app?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 3: Actually it was a she's a friend of a coworker.

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Speaker 2: Of mine who we never hear about things like people.

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Speaker 1: This is weird.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm recently single and my coworker just was like, oh,

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Speaker 3: she's recently single too, so showed me a picture. I

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Speaker 3: was like, oh, yeah, she's cute.

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Speaker 1: I hate that.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I mean he thought she was cute. That's exciting.

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Speaker 1: Nobody sets you up unless they're taking pity on.

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Speaker 2: You looking for a rebounds. I got sat up with

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Speaker 2: my husband about pity.

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Speaker 1: Someone felt bad for you and hooked you up with

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Speaker 1: some stranger gat man.

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Speaker 2: He turned out to be the best guy ever.

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Speaker 1: Yeah he is. You you're the party.

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Speaker 2: To say.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, back to Matt Brook, let's not focus on your

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Speaker 1: pitifull life. Matt tell us about yours.

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Speaker 3: Well, I was kind of trying to make it a

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Speaker 3: year of of yes, so I can understand where you're

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Speaker 3: coming from. So I just I was like, you know what,

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Speaker 3: I'm just going to say yes to these things.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what was it like when you guys first met.

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Speaker 3: We first we talked on the phone and we decided like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: let's meet in person. So we went to this bar

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Speaker 3: that is like a bar and board games place.

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Speaker 4: Okay, why do you say, Oh, like it's negative.

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Speaker 1: Chef bord for like, you know, romantic activity.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how that goes, but that's fun.

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Speaker 1: Yes, for like a family game night, But I don't

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Speaker 1: know about a date. What what games were you playing?

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Speaker 3: So, like, my favorite game is Connect four and hers

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Speaker 3: is Sorry, So we grabbed one of those too, And.

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Speaker 4: Those are perfect because they're easy to have conversation at

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Speaker 4: the same time you're playing them.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's what I like about Next four.

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Speaker 3: It's like it forces you to look at the person

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Speaker 3: because it's vertical, you know.

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Speaker 1: You apologize. I've definitely played both of those games before,

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Speaker 1: but with blindfolds and handcuffs on. So it's probably a

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Speaker 2: How do you know when you win Connect four?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that seems like there were some different rules.

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Speaker 1: Yea, yeah, we don't talk about that. You did the

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what was it like it was great.

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Speaker 3: Neither one of us were like overly competitive. We had

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Speaker 3: some drinks. I mean, your producer even asked me, He

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Speaker 3: was like, is there anything that you could think of

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Speaker 3: that went wrong? And honestly, there was nothing that was weird.

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Speaker 3: We got to know each other and it felt really cool.

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Speaker 2: Do you think it was too boring?

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Speaker 4: I mean, like that's the only thing, like, if there's

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Speaker 3: No, it was fun. Another thing is after the dates

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Speaker 3: is kind of a different story. Why So I fully

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Speaker 3: intended to go out with her again, and she was

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Speaker 3: I sent her a text and I didn't get any response.

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Speaker 3: So after a few hours, I was feeling a little antsy,

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Speaker 3: so I sent another and I'll just I'll read it

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Speaker 3: to you guys. Hold on, So I wrote, you better

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Speaker 3: else tonight, and like a bunch of cute emojis.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, I mean I see what you were trying

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Speaker 4: Read if you spoke it, maybe, but reading it, especially

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Speaker 4: when you read it from someone you don't know.

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Speaker 3: That one absolutely I thought you would see that it

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Speaker 3: You know, like I thought she was gonna rip me

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Speaker 2: So what did she say back? Anything?

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: And so I just kind of sent a few more texts,

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Speaker 3: Oh God.

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Speaker 2: What did you say? As a follow up.

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Speaker 3: I just kind of stuck with the same theme. I

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Speaker 3: just was like, all right, I'm going out. I like,

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Speaker 3: send her a picture of some shoes. I was like, damn,

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Speaker 3: getting balled up.

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Speaker 1: Years from now, I'm gonna walk down the island say

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Speaker 1: I do you don't text me back? Don't bro try?

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Speaker 2: That is so cry.

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Speaker 1: I love at all.

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Speaker 2: Have you talked to the coworker that set you guys up?

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Speaker 3: No? Because I just feel like it's embarrassed.

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Speaker 2: It's too embarrassed.

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Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I mean I haven't sent her a sorry

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Speaker 3: jiff with like the commercial from the board game.

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Speaker 2: Okay, trying to make an inside joke. This doesn't really happening.

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Speaker 1: There just too far fast exactly. This might be too

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Speaker 1: far gone, but there's a chance we could bring it back.

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Speaker 2: Can we delete the text? Isn't too late for that,

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Speaker 2: it'd be too late.

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Speaker 1: For that, but hopefully we can get her on the

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I mean I really, I mean, you guys

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Speaker 1: Just don't start the conbo with you better text me bad. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well you better stay on hold this entire time. Well,

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Speaker 1: we're gonna move on to a different person and get

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Speaker 2: Date update, get you a picture of my shoes.

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Speaker 3: I deserve that.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna do your second ate update right after this.

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Speaker 1: Hold on that second date update if you're just joining us.

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Speaker 1: We're on the phone with Matt, who says he went

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Speaker 1: out on the perfect first date beers board games, It's

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Speaker 1: fun body flirtations. That night was flawless. After the date,

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Speaker 1: though a little bit of a different story, Matt admits

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Speaker 1: he may have messed up because she wasn't responding to

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Speaker 1: his text yeah, and in a misguided effort to get

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Speaker 1: to Nita to respond, he tried to egger on a

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Speaker 1: little bit with something like, Hey, if you don't respond

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Speaker 1: to me, I'm gonna go out with someone else.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god.

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Speaker 4: And he'd only given it a couple hours two for

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Speaker 4: her to respond. Yeah, she'd like left him on red

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Speaker 4: for a day or two, and.

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Speaker 1: When he still got no reply back. He kept teasing

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Speaker 1: you don't call me back.

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Speaker 5: Are you a.

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Speaker 2: Dad, because dad's never known when the joke's over either.

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Speaker 3: I am not a Dade.

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Speaker 1: But the thing is, he hasn't said like he's in

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Speaker 4: No, I really truly think you read it as a joke.

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Speaker 4: I think she did not.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean that's the basis of it. I think

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Speaker 3: I just figured. I'm already embarrassed. Lean in.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he tried. We're gonna try harder. We're gonna try harder.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call to Nita here in just a second.

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Speaker 2: Digging out of a hole.

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Speaker 1: Yes, yeah, you're not painting it very nicely for him,

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Speaker 1: You're I'm just saying, I like to get a little

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Speaker 2: Oh okay, then maybe she blocked you before she saw

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Speaker 2: the rest of them.

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Speaker 1: Forward, thinking that we need Don't you feel a little

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Speaker 1: bit better now, Matty thrilled. Good news is we're not blocked.

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Speaker 1: So let's see what she has to say. Here we go. Hello,

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Speaker 1: Hey is this Tanita? It is hey Tanita. You're on

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Speaker 1: the radio right now with a fun morning show called

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Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the show, Tanita.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, oh, let me get another cup of coffee.

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, that's actually our tagline.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's not really, but I know this might be weird,

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Speaker 1: but we do want to talk to you about your

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Speaker 1: dating life a little bit. If you have a second.

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Speaker 5: What do you mean, what are you talking about.

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Speaker 1: It's a segment that we do on our show called

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update, and one of our listeners has reached

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Speaker 1: out because he went out with you recently, had a

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Speaker 1: great time, and now hasn't been able to arrange that

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Speaker 1: second meet up. His name is Matt.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, yeah.

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Speaker 4: He said, Yeah, has played board games together, which sounded

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it was fun. The whole date was fun until

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Speaker 5: after the date.

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Speaker 1: After the date wasn't fun.

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Speaker 5: Well yeah, I mean I don't know. I don't know

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Speaker 5: if he told you anything or whatever.

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Speaker 1: But I did hear that there were some texts exchanged,

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Speaker 1: And by exchanged, I mean just from.

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Speaker 4: Him and the good us he's self aware at how

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Speaker 5: Oh really, well, there were a lot more than just

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Speaker 5: some texts. It was like, I mean, I don't know

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Speaker 5: to the extent of what he said, but like he said, there.

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Speaker 1: Was a lot that he was trying to like egg

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Speaker 1: you on and say he was going to go on

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Speaker 1: a date with somebody else if he didn't reply.

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Speaker 4: He was trying to joke, but we also understand how

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Speaker 4: it could be read not as a joke, Saul, and

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Speaker 4: by like read literally just as.

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Speaker 2: A red flag.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, he like literally walks from me through an

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Speaker 5: entire date with somebody. And that's where I kind of

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Speaker 1: You mean, Wait, what do you mean you walked you

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 5: It was first like he was talking about like let's

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Speaker 5: go out with somebody if you don't text me back,

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Speaker 2: No, I think it was a joke. I think he

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Speaker 1: Well I thought that was that was that was the

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, okay, hold one sec.

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Speaker 1: You didn't really go on dates, I don't think so.

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Speaker 5: I'm walking out the door out that was the last Okay, okay,

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Speaker 5: I just bought a drink. Everything's going well.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I think he's trying to be funny

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Speaker 1: Feels achy now though.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll read you his next text. I'm playing pinball

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Speaker 1: The board games that you were playing on your date.

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Speaker 2: Still get Wait, there's work. I like that you can

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Speaker 5: It's a little bit terrifying. Actually, But his neck text,

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Speaker 1: Oh no, that's like me.

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Speaker 4: And this is this is over like a what three

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Speaker 5: Well, it was like a whole day from the beginning of.

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Speaker 1: because I need to tell you, Tanita that Matt's on

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Speaker 3: This yeah with a hey, yeah, man, I thought I

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Speaker 1: That philis in buddy, what what's going on?

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Speaker 3: I mean, what do you want me to say? I

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Speaker 4: Well, yeah, but you said you sat like four not

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Speaker 4: a whole day's worth not I just made out by date?

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Speaker 3: Yeah here, I don't remember getting that number. I mean date, what.

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Speaker 3: here's what I so. I went on another date. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 3: o my god, to me, I thought about you the

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Speaker 4: Doesn't matter.

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Speaker 2: Nothing in the last two minutes, arged you but I was.

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Speaker 1: Thinking about you the whole I mean, Tina, does it

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Speaker 5: Yeah, if he made it up, I would have gone

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Speaker 3: Okay, hey, can I change my answer? I made the

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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, let's let's rewind the tape and delete.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I feel like this is the first

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Speaker 4: It's like, normally people want what they can't have, and

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Speaker 1: It, just doesn't. We don't know that for sure.

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Speaker 2: Yet, but go ahead. I mean, it's part of before

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Speaker 1: Obviously, he's very embarrassed by what happened, but he knows

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Speaker 4: Of losing, like make out with other women I mean

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Speaker 1: Plus, Matt, you're not still seeing that girl?

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Speaker 3: Right? No?

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Speaker 1: No, I mean good answer. Okay.

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Speaker 2: He was just about to say.

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Speaker 1: Let's stop and stop asking if you'd like to go

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Speaker 5: You know, he was so good at Connect four and

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Speaker 5: so good at Sorry. He wins all the games, so

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Speaker 5: he's really good at playing games. I'm gonna say no.

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Speaker 3: Look like.

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Speaker 1: Hope, something.

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Speaker 2: Like, what are you doing all right?

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Speaker 1: Matt? Answer? Yeah, we we can't catch another date, buddy.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I thought of something to say, but I almost feel

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Speaker 2: I don't think that the whole can't get deeper at

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Speaker 3: Matt, go ahead, Yeah, go ahead, Tonita. I just wish

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Speaker 3: you would quit playing games with my heart. Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, so we're all of our listeners, So thank you

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Speaker 1: I was so hoping when we asked the question, tell

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Speaker 1: made that up to get under her skin. Yeah, that's

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, this man, I swear like that he

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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is like important information.

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Speaker 1: So when he told us he really did go out

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Speaker 1: Plus the textboard was lighting up with people.

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Speaker 2: Just call him an idiot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, not happy. No, they said ditch this guy. We

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Speaker 2: Was it the the other person he was out with.

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Speaker 1: No, it turns out it was from Matt himself. He said, Hey,

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Speaker 1: and I think she should reconsider. It's not as bad

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Speaker 2: Come on, man, you get a texting while he does.

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Speaker 1: Matt, It was as bad as it sounds.

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Speaker 2: But it's amazing he can get a lot of first dates.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, he had too, Mats back, is that next one?

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Speaker 1: We'll keep working on that for you. But if you

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