1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:05,280 Speaker 1: Today's show is pre recorded. Y'all know what time y'all 2 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 1: don't know, y'all back a suit on the don giving 3 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:20,759 Speaker 1: them like a million bucks things and it's not good. 4 00:00:21,560 --> 00:01:02,040 Speaker 1: Steve Harp to mother Stuart Joy. You gotta use that turn. 5 00:01:24,640 --> 00:01:44,600 Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Got to turn 6 00:01:44,680 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 1: them out. Then the water, the water, y'all, come, come 7 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 1: on your bad uh huh, I show will good morning everybody. 8 00:02:04,920 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 1: Y'all listening to the bars, Come on dig me now 9 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:11,200 Speaker 1: one and on it. Steve Harvey got a radio show, 10 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,120 Speaker 1: Man on Man on man, grateful for it comes with 11 00:02:15,280 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 1: a huge amount of responsibility. I didn't really know I 12 00:02:18,600 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: was gonna have to be this responsible, you know, Um, 13 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:25,280 Speaker 1: can I share something with y'all? I started out to 14 00:02:25,520 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: Finally I had gotten on track and was able to 15 00:02:28,800 --> 00:02:33,960 Speaker 1: see a way to even pursue my dream. It has 16 00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:36,720 Speaker 1: been a long, a long trip that I've been on, 17 00:02:37,040 --> 00:02:40,239 Speaker 1: and I've gone through so many phases of it. It 18 00:02:40,760 --> 00:02:45,359 Speaker 1: is rewarding along the way to accomplish your dreams. What 19 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:48,120 Speaker 1: I'm saying is this, let me let me put it together, 20 00:02:48,200 --> 00:02:50,520 Speaker 1: because I got so much running through my head right now. 21 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:54,200 Speaker 1: You know, it's it's one thing to accomplish your dream, 22 00:02:55,240 --> 00:03:00,560 Speaker 1: but there's joy in the process of achieving it. See, 23 00:03:00,760 --> 00:03:04,720 Speaker 1: some people are so caught up in the goal, the 24 00:03:05,040 --> 00:03:10,679 Speaker 1: final goal, that they find no joy, no enjoyment in 25 00:03:10,800 --> 00:03:16,320 Speaker 1: the process. If you have found what it is you 26 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: want to do and you strike out on that journey, 27 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 1: please understand you are far more blessed than the average 28 00:03:24,880 --> 00:03:28,720 Speaker 1: person to know what it is you really want to do. 29 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:34,560 Speaker 1: To find your work in life, your purpose, to find 30 00:03:34,639 --> 00:03:38,200 Speaker 1: out what direction you want to go in is such 31 00:03:38,240 --> 00:03:41,440 Speaker 1: a blessing. The average person, if you sit down and 32 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:45,840 Speaker 1: talk to them, oftentimes don't have their life on track. 33 00:03:45,960 --> 00:03:47,640 Speaker 1: And it'd be some people that you're looking at you 34 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:52,520 Speaker 1: think God are going on because of their appearance, their swagger, 35 00:03:52,800 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: or they walk like it, they talk like it, they 36 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 1: look like it. But if you sit down and talk 37 00:03:56,960 --> 00:04:01,720 Speaker 1: to the average person, the average person man does not 38 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:06,360 Speaker 1: know what their purpose is, has not discovered what they 39 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:09,320 Speaker 1: want to do, and have no idea how to get there. 40 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:12,480 Speaker 1: If you are on the other side of that, if 41 00:04:12,560 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 1: you understand your purpose, if you have an idea of 42 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: what you want to be, and you are on your 43 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:23,719 Speaker 1: way there, you are truly blessed. And in that blessing. 44 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,600 Speaker 1: You must recognize it as a blessing. You must recognize 45 00:04:28,680 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: the fact that you are on the right side, and 46 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 1: that there should be a sense of accomplishment and a 47 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,239 Speaker 1: feeling of pride in you that you are on track 48 00:04:39,279 --> 00:04:43,200 Speaker 1: to accomplish your goal. See what used to happen was 49 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,480 Speaker 1: sometimes I used to keep my nose so on the 50 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:51,839 Speaker 1: grindstone that I wouldn't even look up and realize. Man, hey, man, 51 00:04:52,480 --> 00:04:55,520 Speaker 1: I know you're trying to get here, but steve, hold on, man, 52 00:04:55,960 --> 00:04:58,960 Speaker 1: can't you see what you've done so far? Can't you 53 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:02,440 Speaker 1: find just some joy in the process. See, a lot 54 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:05,640 Speaker 1: of us lose the joy of the blessings God has 55 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:08,080 Speaker 1: given us because we're looking at the end. Toot, I 56 00:05:08,120 --> 00:05:11,640 Speaker 1: ain't there yet. You on your way. I'm gonna give 57 00:05:11,640 --> 00:05:14,480 Speaker 1: you an example. I had a friend who told me 58 00:05:15,400 --> 00:05:18,160 Speaker 1: that they wanted to be a million now, and they 59 00:05:18,240 --> 00:05:21,360 Speaker 1: asked me some questions and I told him, so they 60 00:05:21,440 --> 00:05:26,479 Speaker 1: started the process, and I am telling you, this dude 61 00:05:26,760 --> 00:05:32,640 Speaker 1: works extremely hard. So about a year later we were talking. 62 00:05:33,640 --> 00:05:39,400 Speaker 1: He had found this business, he had set his goal, 63 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:43,240 Speaker 1: and he was working towards it. Then about two years 64 00:05:43,360 --> 00:05:45,559 Speaker 1: later I ran up into him again. We were talking 65 00:05:45,600 --> 00:05:48,320 Speaker 1: about it and everything. It's a man really really appreciate 66 00:05:48,360 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 1: the advice. He said, Man, but this is all jacked up, man, 67 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,080 Speaker 1: because I still ain't made that million I was talking about. 68 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:58,920 Speaker 1: I said, well, hey, man, just just keep at it. 69 00:05:59,000 --> 00:06:01,840 Speaker 1: It's coming. He a, man, keep at it. Man. You 70 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: know how long I've been doing this? Been two years now. 71 00:06:05,640 --> 00:06:07,279 Speaker 1: And I didn't say that to him, but I said 72 00:06:07,320 --> 00:06:10,080 Speaker 1: to myself, yeah, two years. He said, Man, I've been 73 00:06:10,120 --> 00:06:12,760 Speaker 1: grinding so long. Man, it's just it ain't having it 74 00:06:12,839 --> 00:06:15,600 Speaker 1: from me. I said, wait a minute, man, hold on, 75 00:06:15,880 --> 00:06:18,440 Speaker 1: hold on. I said, about how much you're making right 76 00:06:18,520 --> 00:06:23,320 Speaker 1: now a year? Man, about two hundred and fifty thousand. 77 00:06:24,279 --> 00:06:29,000 Speaker 1: I quit breathing. I said, well, my man, two years 78 00:06:29,040 --> 00:06:34,080 Speaker 1: ago you didn't have a clue. Two years later, you're 79 00:06:34,120 --> 00:06:37,440 Speaker 1: making a quarter of a million dollars. I said, man, 80 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,080 Speaker 1: do you understand how blessed you are? I said, man, 81 00:06:41,480 --> 00:06:44,880 Speaker 1: your family was about to get put out two years ago. 82 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,520 Speaker 1: You don't bought a house? Yeah, man, but this ain't 83 00:06:48,560 --> 00:06:52,280 Speaker 1: the house. I really won't. Ohoa Pardner, WHOA, I got that. 84 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 1: I got that the house you really won't make Mike 85 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: call five eight million. I don't know, but Man, y'all 86 00:06:59,560 --> 00:07:02,240 Speaker 1: got a house, you're making a payments, you drive it. 87 00:07:02,320 --> 00:07:04,160 Speaker 1: You ain't out no more. I said, hold on, man, 88 00:07:04,160 --> 00:07:05,960 Speaker 1: you got to stop. I said, you got to stop. 89 00:07:06,040 --> 00:07:08,200 Speaker 1: I said, man, because right now, man, you you coming 90 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:11,720 Speaker 1: across as real ungrateful to me. And so he said, man, 91 00:07:11,760 --> 00:07:14,240 Speaker 1: why are you tripping like that? Man? Man, you act 92 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 1: like don't nobody want to have nothing but you? I said, 93 00:07:16,640 --> 00:07:19,480 Speaker 1: whoa man, where are you going with this conversation? I said, Oh, 94 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,800 Speaker 1: I didn't come to you. I just came to you 95 00:07:20,880 --> 00:07:23,000 Speaker 1: and ask you how you doing. And I'm trying to 96 00:07:23,120 --> 00:07:26,840 Speaker 1: point out to you that the journey that you started on, 97 00:07:27,120 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 1: that you are on your weight, and you are in 98 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: the process of accomplishing your goals. And can you not 99 00:07:32,280 --> 00:07:36,480 Speaker 1: feel some joy and some pleasure in your accomplishment. Quit 100 00:07:36,560 --> 00:07:39,000 Speaker 1: tripping on the fact that you ain't made a million yet. 101 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:42,120 Speaker 1: You on your way. You don't went from your He thought, 102 00:07:42,160 --> 00:07:44,040 Speaker 1: this dude was making fifteen thousand dollars a year. You 103 00:07:44,120 --> 00:07:46,120 Speaker 1: making quarter of a million dollars in two years. May 104 00:07:46,240 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 1: come on, man, can't you see? Can't you see? So 105 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,080 Speaker 1: he said eventually a man, I kind of see what 106 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,119 Speaker 1: you're saying. But that ain't about nothing to me because 107 00:07:55,120 --> 00:07:58,760 Speaker 1: I ran up into him a year and a half later. 108 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:04,080 Speaker 1: How you doing, man, Man, I showed, wish I'd appreciate 109 00:08:04,120 --> 00:08:06,360 Speaker 1: it my life when I had it like that? I said, 110 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:09,200 Speaker 1: what you mean? Had it like that? Man? Just fell 111 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,160 Speaker 1: on some hard times. Man, I'm right back why I was. 112 00:08:13,600 --> 00:08:15,560 Speaker 1: And then we talked. I said, hey, man, don't worry 113 00:08:15,560 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 1: about it. I said, Once you know how to accomplish something, 114 00:08:17,800 --> 00:08:20,239 Speaker 1: I said, you just reapply the same principles and start 115 00:08:20,320 --> 00:08:23,240 Speaker 1: on over again. Man, you know how hard it is 116 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: to be to start over. Okay, my man, Hold up, partner, 117 00:08:25,960 --> 00:08:29,000 Speaker 1: you can't do yourself like this again. First you wasn't 118 00:08:29,040 --> 00:08:31,520 Speaker 1: grateful for what you had. Now you're looking at the 119 00:08:31,560 --> 00:08:33,199 Speaker 1: fact that you might have to start over, and you 120 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:37,680 Speaker 1: know how hard it is to start over. Maybe God said, okay, 121 00:08:38,520 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: you ain't happy with this. Okay, didn't handle it your way? 122 00:08:42,200 --> 00:08:44,599 Speaker 1: You obviously ain't happy with the way I'm bringing it 123 00:08:44,720 --> 00:08:46,800 Speaker 1: into your life. You want to handle it your weight, 124 00:08:46,840 --> 00:08:48,439 Speaker 1: Go ahead and handle it because he will let you 125 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:51,079 Speaker 1: have it your way. Can I tell you that he 126 00:08:51,240 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 1: will let you do it exactly the way you want 127 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,160 Speaker 1: to it because he gives us all the power of choice. 128 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:58,800 Speaker 1: So then maybe he said, Okay, you don't appreciate the 129 00:08:58,880 --> 00:09:00,839 Speaker 1: way I'm doing it. You don't like the favor I'm 130 00:09:00,880 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 1: showing you. You think it's take it too long. I'm 131 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:04,960 Speaker 1: gonna let you do it your way. I'm not gonna 132 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: turn my back on you. I'm just gonna let you 133 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:09,679 Speaker 1: do it your way. Just just say. Maybe he said that, 134 00:09:10,240 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: and now he right back where it was. So what 135 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 1: I try to get the young cat to understand was, man, 136 00:09:16,160 --> 00:09:20,200 Speaker 1: appreciate your life for what it is. Because like life, 137 00:09:20,280 --> 00:09:23,000 Speaker 1: Jenny's got that song that he got out off this album. 138 00:09:23,160 --> 00:09:26,439 Speaker 1: Still I still believe it could have been worse. And 139 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:30,680 Speaker 1: now that it is worse, what's on your mind now, Folks, 140 00:09:31,200 --> 00:09:33,599 Speaker 1: If you are on that side of life where you 141 00:09:33,720 --> 00:09:35,679 Speaker 1: have figured out what you want to do, you know 142 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 1: how you're gonna get that, and you know your purpose. 143 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: You're accomplishing what the majority of people never ever do. 144 00:09:41,559 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 1: So be grateful for your process. Don't tumble yourself, don't 145 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:48,000 Speaker 1: throw yourself off to cliff. It's gonna be all right. 146 00:09:48,480 --> 00:09:52,240 Speaker 1: Success takes a measure of time. It is not easy. 147 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:57,560 Speaker 1: If success were easy, everybody would be successful. You're listening 148 00:09:57,840 --> 00:10:04,959 Speaker 1: to Ladies and gentlemen, Welcome to the Steve Harvey Morning 149 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:13,160 Speaker 1: Show again introducing a man who has claimed to be 150 00:10:13,320 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 1: the innovator, creator, an activator of the entire music industry. 151 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 1: He is currently in a three trillion dollar lawsuit against 152 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:31,520 Speaker 1: the music industry for rights, publishing rights, ownership of all 153 00:10:31,760 --> 00:10:36,160 Speaker 1: music that he is responsible for. Ladies and Gentlemen, one 154 00:10:36,200 --> 00:10:41,079 Speaker 1: of the greatest lounge singers songwriters of our time, Roscoe Wallace, 155 00:10:41,360 --> 00:10:46,040 Speaker 1: with another song that is involved in the lawsuit that 156 00:10:46,240 --> 00:10:53,680 Speaker 1: he wrote, There's one things as appreciated very for believing 157 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:59,880 Speaker 1: every everything. Here we go on two one, two three paper? 158 00:11:00,040 --> 00:11:05,720 Speaker 1: Who was a roll houling stone? Hell, well, he laid 159 00:11:06,000 --> 00:11:14,480 Speaker 1: hat wasn't home and when he died everybody got left alone. Yeah, 160 00:11:15,240 --> 00:11:21,480 Speaker 1: I said, Nah, Papa wasn't we wasnt rolling stone? And 161 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:25,880 Speaker 1: what do you do? Whoever? He laid hat home and 162 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:40,000 Speaker 1: when he died everybody felt all alone? Yeah? That jam 163 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:43,400 Speaker 1: right there, Papa rolling tim jj omen for that too. 164 00:11:43,640 --> 00:11:47,000 Speaker 1: The whole catalog belonged to me. I would just another 165 00:11:47,120 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 1: here right here. Thank you so much for having me 166 00:11:49,840 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: and for letting me plead my case to the world. 167 00:11:53,240 --> 00:11:58,160 Speaker 1: For listing. Stop all that breathing college all good. Hat 168 00:11:58,320 --> 00:12:00,559 Speaker 1: hate an't gonna get you. No, where's morning? Time too 169 00:12:00,600 --> 00:12:08,079 Speaker 1: early for hate, way too early for he. Let me 170 00:12:08,200 --> 00:12:10,920 Speaker 1: Jay call. I think me and you both know who 171 00:12:11,000 --> 00:12:16,760 Speaker 1: ain't wrote it. No, No, that would be you. I 172 00:12:17,120 --> 00:12:20,920 Speaker 1: say I did, and you cause you. I say that 173 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:23,680 Speaker 1: I wrote it because I did. That's a different between 174 00:12:23,679 --> 00:12:26,280 Speaker 1: me in you, and that's why I didn't put you 175 00:12:26,679 --> 00:12:31,040 Speaker 1: in the lawsuit. Thank you. I'm gonna suit me. Donna 176 00:12:31,080 --> 00:12:35,640 Speaker 1: get sued up in him. Came I talked to you, 177 00:12:35,760 --> 00:12:41,439 Speaker 1: lay all I would know him. Let me represent your state. 178 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:48,439 Speaker 1: Oh hell no, I like that? Help what Let me 179 00:12:48,720 --> 00:12:54,319 Speaker 1: let me represent your state? Be good man. Let me 180 00:12:54,360 --> 00:12:56,960 Speaker 1: ask you something you know. You ain't big on the truth. 181 00:12:57,040 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 1: I don't believe in it all the time. Okay, would 182 00:13:00,240 --> 00:13:01,959 Speaker 1: you take a lot of take the test if a 183 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 1: Marger was asking a question? What? No? Absolutely, Now, I'm 184 00:13:08,960 --> 00:13:12,719 Speaker 1: not gonna let you put all the wires on, but 185 00:13:12,880 --> 00:13:15,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take the test of it's gonna be rigged, 186 00:13:16,120 --> 00:13:18,200 Speaker 1: you know if when you ain't looking, I'm gonna snatch 187 00:13:18,280 --> 00:13:23,120 Speaker 1: a wire too off. But I'm gonna take this test 188 00:13:23,120 --> 00:13:26,439 Speaker 1: because I have to appear as dope. I'm cooperating, but 189 00:13:26,800 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 1: I gotta tell you you ain't looking. I gotta get 190 00:13:30,679 --> 00:13:35,880 Speaker 1: to it. The wise awful. All right, so much for 191 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:39,440 Speaker 1: that rigged polygraph. Coming up at thirty two minutes after 192 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:41,760 Speaker 1: the hour, we're gonna start the show off with Nephew. 193 00:13:41,840 --> 00:13:45,440 Speaker 1: Tommy's run that prank back right after this. You're listening 194 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:48,920 Speaker 1: to Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, time to start 195 00:13:49,000 --> 00:13:51,280 Speaker 1: your morning off with run that rank back with the nephew. 196 00:13:51,360 --> 00:13:57,079 Speaker 1: What you got now, well, Shirley, we're gonna run it back. 197 00:13:57,160 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 1: It's in w A. Okay, that's not ice cube, that's 198 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:07,080 Speaker 1: not easy Ad, that ain't Andre. Okay. This is n WA, 199 00:14:08,240 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 1: n word abolisher, in word abolish, and we've been to 200 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:17,439 Speaker 1: put a stop to to using the N word right here, 201 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:25,000 Speaker 1: right now. Okay, okay, let's go randit cat. Hello. Hello, 202 00:14:25,720 --> 00:14:28,080 Speaker 1: I'm trying to reach a mister Fears. My name is 203 00:14:28,360 --> 00:14:31,560 Speaker 1: Andrews is here. Okay, how are you doing, sir? Everything 204 00:14:31,640 --> 00:14:36,520 Speaker 1: going good tonight, man, I'm doing fine? Word um wow, 205 00:14:36,960 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 1: uh sir, listen, my name is once again Andrews, and 206 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:45,240 Speaker 1: I'm with n WA, which is in word abolishers, and 207 00:14:45,880 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 1: as you know, the N word just got buried and 208 00:14:48,760 --> 00:14:52,520 Speaker 1: we're trying to keep that successful and trying to do 209 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,600 Speaker 1: as much as we can for people to not use 210 00:14:54,680 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: the word. It's been brought to our attention that you 211 00:14:57,280 --> 00:15:01,800 Speaker 1: have been consistently u using the word even after we've 212 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: buried it, and what we're wanted to do is first 213 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,400 Speaker 1: of all, ask you to stop, and we don't want 214 00:15:06,440 --> 00:15:09,320 Speaker 1: to take any other actions which could mean not only 215 00:15:09,760 --> 00:15:13,600 Speaker 1: burying the word, but also burying the people who use it, 216 00:15:13,880 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 1: such as yourself. Thank you don't call from and I 217 00:15:18,440 --> 00:15:20,400 Speaker 1: told you I'm late for work? Man? You called me 218 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:24,600 Speaker 1: with please? I say, I want to say, I ain't 219 00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:28,200 Speaker 1: got time to be listener n w A y'all need 220 00:15:28,240 --> 00:15:29,800 Speaker 1: to go listen to a rap record or something. I'm 221 00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:34,200 Speaker 1: calling my su I got to do. I'm big man. 222 00:15:35,160 --> 00:15:38,000 Speaker 1: I understand that, sir. We're just asking you, sir, can 223 00:15:38,120 --> 00:15:43,680 Speaker 1: we could you possibly not use the N word? Go 224 00:15:43,800 --> 00:15:47,760 Speaker 1: ask somebody else? Calling somebody else bother? I say, I say, 225 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:53,480 Speaker 1: station called me with this with you crazy N I 226 00:15:53,480 --> 00:15:57,040 Speaker 1: ain't never heard of y'all, sir? Do you were just 227 00:15:58,160 --> 00:16:03,160 Speaker 1: I know it's I know it's a process, sir, but 228 00:16:03,240 --> 00:16:06,040 Speaker 1: we're asking you that if you could just possibly just 229 00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:09,160 Speaker 1: quit using the word man, you I'll use whatever the 230 00:16:09,240 --> 00:16:10,880 Speaker 1: hell I want. I don't know you, You don't know me. 231 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:12,560 Speaker 1: What the hell you how you know I'll use the 232 00:16:12,600 --> 00:16:16,040 Speaker 1: word anyway, Sir, could you please not call me that? 233 00:16:18,280 --> 00:16:20,440 Speaker 1: I said, don't call me that now. Don't get me 234 00:16:20,720 --> 00:16:23,920 Speaker 1: bent out of shape about it? All right? You sound 235 00:16:24,000 --> 00:16:28,320 Speaker 1: like a stupid I got you what I've said. Huh. 236 00:16:28,360 --> 00:16:29,840 Speaker 1: I told you I got to do, man, I ain't 237 00:16:29,840 --> 00:16:32,120 Speaker 1: got time to play on the pot. I'm trying to 238 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:35,080 Speaker 1: make sure that here in this country from now on, 239 00:16:35,360 --> 00:16:37,680 Speaker 1: the word is not used anymore. And for you to 240 00:16:37,920 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 1: do this, for you to continue to go against the grain, 241 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:43,360 Speaker 1: we gotta put a stop to it. I don't have 242 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:49,160 Speaker 1: a problem the type of that's who I am. I'm 243 00:16:49,200 --> 00:16:52,040 Speaker 1: a good gristling grain type of I don't have a 244 00:16:52,120 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: problem burying you along with the word. Oh look, you 245 00:16:56,720 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 1: calling crazy boy bury me. I'm a burry You to 246 00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:03,080 Speaker 1: bear a hatchet in your back? How about that? You 247 00:17:03,120 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 1: don't like that, dude? Inn Wa with attitude, that's what 248 00:17:06,560 --> 00:17:09,600 Speaker 1: your ship called. It's not it's in wa, it's in 249 00:17:09,840 --> 00:17:15,240 Speaker 1: word abolishers with attitude. Stupid. I don't know who made 250 00:17:15,320 --> 00:17:19,560 Speaker 1: up with my apologist's spell. Apologists apologists because you're stupid. 251 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:22,720 Speaker 1: Don't call my phone. It's in Look, you're gonna talk 252 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:26,000 Speaker 1: to me with some respects. Talk to me with some respects, sir. 253 00:17:26,160 --> 00:17:28,400 Speaker 1: You aren't get no respect for me. Can you call 254 00:17:28,520 --> 00:17:31,680 Speaker 1: my phone? Stupid bro? You call me. I don't know 255 00:17:31,720 --> 00:17:34,000 Speaker 1: how you got my I was spending this much time 256 00:17:34,080 --> 00:17:37,639 Speaker 1: talking to your stupid You sound like a dumb calling 257 00:17:37,720 --> 00:17:39,960 Speaker 1: somebody phone. Co cost nine wanted one to get you 258 00:17:40,080 --> 00:17:45,120 Speaker 1: some help, so don't get you swop him. Oh well, 259 00:17:45,359 --> 00:17:48,320 Speaker 1: I'm right here. I ain't moving. I live right here 260 00:17:48,320 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 1: at thirteen o one. I ain't come to see me. 261 00:17:51,560 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 1: Look it up. If you can't find it, get your 262 00:17:53,480 --> 00:17:56,840 Speaker 1: GPS right here. Can I tell you another thing? You 263 00:17:56,920 --> 00:17:59,480 Speaker 1: can tell me whatever you want to tell me. This 264 00:17:59,680 --> 00:18:02,800 Speaker 1: is I feel timing from the Steve Harvey Martin Show. 265 00:18:03,640 --> 00:18:07,680 Speaker 1: You just got pray by your brother Marcus space Man. 266 00:18:08,080 --> 00:18:18,480 Speaker 1: You are crazy. Dog You're crazy, y'all, y'all crazy? Amen? 267 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:24,280 Speaker 1: Amen's true? Hey, look at your brother Marcus told he 268 00:18:24,400 --> 00:18:26,440 Speaker 1: told us he said I bet him five hundred dollars. 269 00:18:26,480 --> 00:18:30,200 Speaker 1: He was gonna use the N word before the month 270 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:35,120 Speaker 1: was up. Dog Man, y'all, can't just you know told 271 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:38,040 Speaker 1: it like this? You know, cub, but you can't. Just 272 00:18:38,200 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 1: told U. Something on me made it take time. It's 273 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:43,800 Speaker 1: like stop smoking cigarettes. It take me six months just 274 00:18:43,920 --> 00:18:48,720 Speaker 1: to get it out. My sister timeout, your brother said, 275 00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:51,320 Speaker 1: he said, I promise you. My brother Calvin is the 276 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:55,000 Speaker 1: craziest person I know. He said, he gonna go off 277 00:18:55,080 --> 00:18:57,600 Speaker 1: as soon as you call it. I might have been. 278 00:18:57,640 --> 00:18:59,760 Speaker 1: The critic said, he know, but y'all some of the 279 00:18:59,800 --> 00:19:07,960 Speaker 1: crazy on the radio. That damn. Hey, Calvin dooman favorite man, 280 00:19:08,720 --> 00:19:15,880 Speaker 1: work my man, dog, Yeah, hold up, work on the word, 281 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,639 Speaker 1: all right, work on time. I'm gonna try. I promise, 282 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:21,800 Speaker 1: do a fast try to fans for about two weeks 283 00:19:21,880 --> 00:19:27,080 Speaker 1: without using all right, okay, yeah, that's a good. Let 284 00:19:27,119 --> 00:19:30,040 Speaker 1: me ask you what is this? Boy? What is the 285 00:19:30,200 --> 00:19:33,520 Speaker 1: baddest radio show in the land. You got to be kids, 286 00:19:33,720 --> 00:19:37,800 Speaker 1: don't ask like that. It's the Steve Harby Morning Show. Man. 287 00:19:38,080 --> 00:19:43,159 Speaker 1: I'm listening stol folks every morning. How about that? All right? 288 00:19:43,359 --> 00:19:47,080 Speaker 1: Say for now, you say folks and people and y'all 289 00:19:47,600 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: try so, y'all think I got any progress out of 290 00:19:51,280 --> 00:19:54,399 Speaker 1: shutting that word down? Did I get any progress with him? No? 291 00:19:56,080 --> 00:20:00,040 Speaker 1: Excuse me? Excuse me? Oh my man? They do you 292 00:20:04,160 --> 00:20:06,679 Speaker 1: really am getting him to polish that. Yeah, he had 293 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:11,200 Speaker 1: no chance. Will stop it? You're not You're not stopped 294 00:20:11,200 --> 00:20:16,440 Speaker 1: it be not stopped it stupid. Is happening tomorrow night, y'all. 295 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:20,800 Speaker 1: In case you didn't know, it's at the Ramona Pavilion Ballroom, Jacksonville, Florida. 296 00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:23,840 Speaker 1: Nephew Tommy and Friends Comedy Show. We got two shows 297 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:28,560 Speaker 1: Friday to Saturday, seven and ten, both nights, seven and ten, 298 00:20:28,680 --> 00:20:32,560 Speaker 1: both nights, Jacksonville. I need some help. Last comedy club, y'all. 299 00:20:32,600 --> 00:20:35,240 Speaker 1: Head down there. I think it burned down. But it 300 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:37,040 Speaker 1: was a lady in ned that made a hell of 301 00:20:37,119 --> 00:20:39,800 Speaker 1: a banana putting. Could you tell her time in coming 302 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:43,679 Speaker 1: to town? She got the best banana putting in the South. 303 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:46,480 Speaker 1: And I'm looking for tell her the nephew looking for. 304 00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:49,600 Speaker 1: I am at the Ramona Pavilion ball Room. Leave bring 305 00:20:49,680 --> 00:20:54,920 Speaker 1: me something that putting. Lord Hammers all right, but thank you, nephew. 306 00:20:55,040 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: Coming up, it is asked the CLLO. Right after this, 307 00:20:58,840 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 1: you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the 308 00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:06,440 Speaker 1: top of the hour and trending entertainment news. Drake has 309 00:21:06,480 --> 00:21:10,840 Speaker 1: broken his silence about Astra Whirl and Attorney Benjamin Crump 310 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:14,280 Speaker 1: has been hired to represent one of the victims. Plus, 311 00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:19,320 Speaker 1: we'll talk about celebrity couple divorce news, and Carla is 312 00:21:19,359 --> 00:21:21,760 Speaker 1: on deck with today's music news. We'll talk about all 313 00:21:21,800 --> 00:21:23,480 Speaker 1: of these stories at the top of the hour, but 314 00:21:23,680 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 1: right now it is time for Steve's favorite segment, Ask 315 00:21:27,200 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: the CLO Chief Love Officer. Ready for your love questions? 316 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:34,720 Speaker 1: Here we go. This one is from Simone in Birmingham. 317 00:21:35,119 --> 00:21:38,240 Speaker 1: Simone says, I work in administration at a hospital and 318 00:21:38,359 --> 00:21:40,840 Speaker 1: I hired a young woman for an entry level position. 319 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:45,320 Speaker 1: She presented as very polished and professional, but whenever she 320 00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:50,200 Speaker 1: opens her mouth, she wants everyone to know how woke 321 00:21:50,400 --> 00:21:53,480 Speaker 1: she is. She loves to bring up civil rights issues 322 00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:56,680 Speaker 1: with her white co workers and she's offended. All of 323 00:21:56,760 --> 00:22:00,000 Speaker 1: the Trump supporters in the office, even the black employee, 324 00:22:00,240 --> 00:22:04,040 Speaker 1: are uncomfortable around her. How can I fix this? You 325 00:22:04,160 --> 00:22:07,919 Speaker 1: need brother to inside and go a little sister. Let 326 00:22:08,000 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 1: me help you out with something or there's a time 327 00:22:10,520 --> 00:22:12,800 Speaker 1: and place for everything. She was hired as a what 328 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:17,760 Speaker 1: surely a hospital for entry level position. Now let me 329 00:22:17,840 --> 00:22:21,480 Speaker 1: explain something to you. You got everybody around her own edge, 330 00:22:22,400 --> 00:22:25,359 Speaker 1: and you're creating an uncomfortable work atmosphere for a lot 331 00:22:25,440 --> 00:22:28,960 Speaker 1: of people with your discussions of politics and everything. You 332 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:32,080 Speaker 1: have every right to feel how you feel, vote for 333 00:22:32,200 --> 00:22:34,720 Speaker 1: who you want to vote for. You're making your co 334 00:22:34,920 --> 00:22:38,119 Speaker 1: workers are uncomfortable with a lot of your stances. Just 335 00:22:38,320 --> 00:22:40,200 Speaker 1: asking you to tone it down there. If you all 336 00:22:40,240 --> 00:22:42,560 Speaker 1: want to get together and have discussion groups off the 337 00:22:42,760 --> 00:22:45,560 Speaker 1: job site, that would be perfectly fine with me. But 338 00:22:45,760 --> 00:22:49,360 Speaker 1: while at work, if we could refrain from the discussions 339 00:22:49,359 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 1: of politics that's causing this discomfort in our office, it 340 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:58,000 Speaker 1: would serve you greatly. If you continue continue to create 341 00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,679 Speaker 1: what's going to be looked at soon as a hostile 342 00:23:00,720 --> 00:23:06,320 Speaker 1: work environment, you will be held accountable for that. Get 343 00:23:06,359 --> 00:23:08,920 Speaker 1: your black ass back out there. Don't come back in 344 00:23:09,080 --> 00:23:12,240 Speaker 1: here with this and see what I'm talking about. Shut 345 00:23:12,320 --> 00:23:16,040 Speaker 1: your damn mouth. See woman doesn't set up here and 346 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:17,960 Speaker 1: hide your ass trying to give you a shot at you, 347 00:23:18,040 --> 00:23:23,840 Speaker 1: and he scared all the white fox. I personally don't 348 00:23:23,840 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 1: give a damn bout the Trump's supporter, but well, we 349 00:23:26,160 --> 00:23:29,119 Speaker 1: got to work with him now, right right, all right? 350 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,240 Speaker 1: Moving on, Nathan and South Philly says, I'm a fifty 351 00:23:32,280 --> 00:23:34,760 Speaker 1: five year old married man and I caught my wife 352 00:23:34,840 --> 00:23:37,919 Speaker 1: sitting in her car with another man outside her hair salon. 353 00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,680 Speaker 1: She took longer than expected and didn't answer her phone, 354 00:23:41,800 --> 00:23:44,760 Speaker 1: so I went by the salon. The guy got out 355 00:23:44,800 --> 00:23:47,560 Speaker 1: of the car and walked inside the salon. My wife 356 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: said he is the owner of the salon, and he 357 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 1: just came out to say hi. I had to go 358 00:23:52,600 --> 00:23:55,680 Speaker 1: all weekend with my mind racing. Should I have gone 359 00:23:55,720 --> 00:24:00,680 Speaker 1: inside and questioned this guy or not? No, But when 360 00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 1: you're sitting in that cardo when I roll up, you 361 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,760 Speaker 1: know it might be my wife car. But to trust 362 00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:10,639 Speaker 1: and believe though I had something to do with it 363 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 1: being her car. Okay, Yeah, we're gonna handle it in 364 00:24:18,280 --> 00:24:20,879 Speaker 1: the parking lot, that's all. I ain't gonna get back 365 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:22,720 Speaker 1: in this. You ain't get it back in it. We 366 00:24:22,800 --> 00:24:24,440 Speaker 1: ain't get back in that way. You know where the 367 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:26,760 Speaker 1: good that you're going to stay out here in this 368 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:30,320 Speaker 1: parking lot. You ain't gonna get inside and seeing that 369 00:24:30,480 --> 00:24:32,680 Speaker 1: year old you fit fire. You ain't shop no more. 370 00:24:32,680 --> 00:24:34,840 Speaker 1: You ain't no how that your mind racing. My mind 371 00:24:34,880 --> 00:24:39,000 Speaker 1: ain't gonna be racing. His mind race every time he 372 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,040 Speaker 1: come out that salon, his mind gonna get the race. 373 00:24:42,640 --> 00:24:46,000 Speaker 1: Every time he opened his card, though, his mind gonna race. 374 00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:50,680 Speaker 1: Where is nates At? Where's Nat ass At? I'm gonna 375 00:24:50,720 --> 00:24:54,280 Speaker 1: be like Nat turner on a slave owner. You're gonna 376 00:24:54,280 --> 00:24:57,840 Speaker 1: be looking for me. I'm coming up the river. Where 377 00:24:58,240 --> 00:25:02,159 Speaker 1: is NAT's gonna be your message? I'm not fit to 378 00:25:02,200 --> 00:25:04,840 Speaker 1: be the only one. My weekend tossed up your whole 379 00:25:05,119 --> 00:25:10,560 Speaker 1: life from here on out? Where the hell is now? Yeah? 380 00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:15,040 Speaker 1: All right? Moving on Athena in New Orleans, Closs, I 381 00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:17,919 Speaker 1: have three sisters that are very close, but I am 382 00:25:18,000 --> 00:25:20,920 Speaker 1: not speaking to them because my oldest sister married a 383 00:25:21,040 --> 00:25:25,200 Speaker 1: man that I dated for twelve years. She went behind 384 00:25:25,280 --> 00:25:27,440 Speaker 1: my back and slept with him, and he dumped me 385 00:25:27,680 --> 00:25:31,240 Speaker 1: for her. My other two sisters knew all along that 386 00:25:31,359 --> 00:25:34,000 Speaker 1: they were messing around, and they never told me. This 387 00:25:34,160 --> 00:25:36,720 Speaker 1: has been haunting me for years, and now I really 388 00:25:36,800 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: missed my sisters and I want closure. Should I be 389 00:25:39,400 --> 00:25:44,840 Speaker 1: the bigger person and contact them? You don't want to 390 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:50,919 Speaker 1: stop talking to them, See, lady, You're trying to create something, 391 00:25:51,320 --> 00:25:54,960 Speaker 1: an illusion that you're the bigger person that won't reach 392 00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:58,480 Speaker 1: out to them. You stopped talking to your sisters. You 393 00:25:58,560 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 1: don't even know the whole story, especially from the other 394 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:07,200 Speaker 1: two sisters. Now the other sister that's got the man, 395 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:11,639 Speaker 1: that's where it. Look. You gotta get some closure, got 396 00:26:11,760 --> 00:26:14,200 Speaker 1: to reach some type of things, so you can handle that. 397 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:17,199 Speaker 1: But the other sisters, what you're blaming them for? They 398 00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:20,600 Speaker 1: didn't tell you what you want them to say. It's 399 00:26:20,680 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 1: not their fault. So should you be the bigger person? 400 00:26:23,680 --> 00:26:26,880 Speaker 1: You do want to walk away from relationship, so quite 401 00:26:27,000 --> 00:26:29,200 Speaker 1: naturally you should be the one to go over there saying, 402 00:26:29,200 --> 00:26:33,000 Speaker 1: I miss y'all, you know I struggle to get past that. 403 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:38,639 Speaker 1: Where wasn't your man twelve years? Come on now? Twelve 404 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:40,960 Speaker 1: years away? And it ain't lead to manage y'all dated 405 00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,919 Speaker 1: for twelve years? What is going little ragged ass relationship 406 00:26:45,040 --> 00:26:47,159 Speaker 1: you had? Because you ain't got that little ragged as 407 00:26:47,280 --> 00:26:53,240 Speaker 1: twelve year golo wee as relationship. It is a tough 408 00:26:53,320 --> 00:26:56,600 Speaker 1: blow that that's a tough blow. I'm the unbelievable blow. 409 00:26:56,600 --> 00:26:59,920 Speaker 1: If it's your brother, I do I shall I get? 410 00:27:00,040 --> 00:27:03,160 Speaker 1: But that's a tough blow. Shouldn't a sister that did 411 00:27:03,280 --> 00:27:08,160 Speaker 1: the one to come? I don't know what's wrong with huh? 412 00:27:09,560 --> 00:27:12,320 Speaker 1: But you know you should be the bigger one to 413 00:27:12,400 --> 00:27:15,280 Speaker 1: go to the other sisters. But like I said, now 414 00:27:15,359 --> 00:27:17,719 Speaker 1: that sister that got you. Man, that's where we got 415 00:27:17,800 --> 00:27:20,320 Speaker 1: the problem at I don't really know how to work 416 00:27:20,400 --> 00:27:23,399 Speaker 1: through that. That's an ass woman. That has to happen. 417 00:27:23,680 --> 00:27:28,200 Speaker 1: Oh man, my brother already know what that is. Yeah, 418 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:30,639 Speaker 1: but me and my brother know what that is. But 419 00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:33,399 Speaker 1: that had never happened O between them, because that's my brother. 420 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 1: It's my brother, and I don't even know how to 421 00:27:38,480 --> 00:27:43,080 Speaker 1: We was raised different exactly keep my brother, man, I 422 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:47,280 Speaker 1: had it happened, the ass woman has to happer. But 423 00:27:47,480 --> 00:27:51,600 Speaker 1: that's not gonna happen. In mind, man, that's an impossibility. 424 00:27:52,880 --> 00:27:56,520 Speaker 1: Don't do that. I get that's did you guys won't 425 00:27:56,560 --> 00:28:00,800 Speaker 1: be fighting because he won't do it. Not my brother, Yeah, 426 00:28:01,000 --> 00:28:03,680 Speaker 1: my brother, my nephew, nephew. I got nephew month old 427 00:28:03,760 --> 00:28:07,119 Speaker 1: in me. That could never happen between us. It could never. 428 00:28:07,800 --> 00:28:13,120 Speaker 1: It's unthinkable. It's impossible, all right, Well, moving on, Wellnda 429 00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 1: and Franklin, Tennessee says, when I got married four years ago, 430 00:28:16,160 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: I came into the marriage with credit card debt, and 431 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,240 Speaker 1: I've paid most of it. My credit cards are in 432 00:28:21,320 --> 00:28:24,680 Speaker 1: our safe and I used them only in case of emergencies. 433 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:26,960 Speaker 1: I was sitting on the back porch earlier and I 434 00:28:27,040 --> 00:28:29,960 Speaker 1: got to text alert of suspicious activity on my visa. 435 00:28:30,240 --> 00:28:32,720 Speaker 1: I asked my husband if he used my card and 436 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: he said he bought an air friar on the card 437 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:39,760 Speaker 1: and he will pay it off asap. Um. Shouldn't he 438 00:28:39,760 --> 00:28:41,680 Speaker 1: have asked me before he used my credit card? Or 439 00:28:41,760 --> 00:28:45,200 Speaker 1: is this a what's mine is yours type situation? Well? 440 00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 1: He need a combination to the safe you know, unless 441 00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:55,240 Speaker 1: you got he isn't her safe? Well is the after? 442 00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:59,520 Speaker 1: I incaut but that sounds like a nice community practice 443 00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:07,400 Speaker 1: because I'm show you use laugh watch all right, thank you, Cello. 444 00:29:07,520 --> 00:29:08,960 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, we'll have 445 00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,960 Speaker 1: some entertainment news for you right after this. You're listening 446 00:29:12,280 --> 00:29:19,160 Speaker 1: to the same show. Drake has finally broken his silence 447 00:29:19,240 --> 00:29:22,480 Speaker 1: in the wake of the Astra World Festival. Drake says, 448 00:29:22,600 --> 00:29:25,080 Speaker 1: I've spent the past few days trying to wrap my 449 00:29:25,160 --> 00:29:29,240 Speaker 1: mind around this devastating tragedy. My heart is broken for 450 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:31,720 Speaker 1: the families and friends of those who lost their lives, 451 00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 1: and for anyone who is suffering. I will continue to 452 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,560 Speaker 1: pray for all of them and will be of service 453 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:42,040 Speaker 1: in any way I can. That's from Drake. Meanwhile, the 454 00:29:42,160 --> 00:29:45,640 Speaker 1: lawsuits against Travis Scott are piling up, including one from 455 00:29:45,680 --> 00:29:48,040 Speaker 1: the family of a nine year old victim who's currently 456 00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: fighting for his life. Ezra Blount was nearly trampled to 457 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 1: death during the chaos that ensued at Energy Park. His 458 00:29:56,000 --> 00:29:59,680 Speaker 1: family has retained the services of Ben Crump for the 459 00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:03,680 Speaker 1: lit negation. According to the paperwork Crump filed on the 460 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:07,160 Speaker 1: child's behalf, Ezra was kicked, stepped on, and trampled as 461 00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,400 Speaker 1: people around him were lifting up unconscious bodies of friends 462 00:30:10,440 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: and strangers and surf them over the top of the crowd, 463 00:30:14,320 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 1: hoping to send them to safety. Meanwhile, Energy Park has 464 00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:22,120 Speaker 1: an insurance policy that'll pay out up to twenty six 465 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:28,840 Speaker 1: million dollars. Oh that's yes, yeah, Energy Park, I'm telling you. 466 00:30:29,120 --> 00:30:32,680 Speaker 1: But now I don't know if they're releasing the paperwork 467 00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: on who he's suing. But Live Nation got problem, thought, 468 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:42,440 Speaker 1: Yeah they do. Energy Park got a problem. All all 469 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:44,680 Speaker 1: the big boys behind this got a problem, y'all. Quit 470 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:47,680 Speaker 1: point of friends at Travis Scott and Drake and all 471 00:30:47,760 --> 00:30:50,560 Speaker 1: this here, y'all, y'all can stop all that because they 472 00:30:50,720 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 1: so far down the food chain in this. Because I'm 473 00:30:56,040 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 1: telling you how this works. Man. Now unless it's his company. Yeah, see, 474 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:06,600 Speaker 1: unless it's his company. And trust me, Live Nation is 475 00:31:06,640 --> 00:31:11,560 Speaker 1: the big boys. They're the big boys, the biggest. So 476 00:31:12,360 --> 00:31:15,240 Speaker 1: they got they got a major problem. My lawyer told me. 477 00:31:15,320 --> 00:31:17,400 Speaker 1: We were talking about it the other day. My lawyer said, 478 00:31:17,680 --> 00:31:22,840 Speaker 1: trust me, Live Nation lawyers ain't been to sleep because 479 00:31:22,840 --> 00:31:25,680 Speaker 1: you haven't heard much from them or about them. You 480 00:31:25,760 --> 00:31:34,880 Speaker 1: know your statement. So surely they're so busy. Oh but 481 00:31:35,320 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 1: it is. I really feel bad for I feel bad 482 00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:41,200 Speaker 1: for all the victims. But a child. But now, let 483 00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:44,720 Speaker 1: me say something to adults. Let me say something to 484 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:49,240 Speaker 1: adults that have children. Your children can't go everywhere just 485 00:31:49,320 --> 00:31:55,040 Speaker 1: because they want to, that's true. Yeah. And this man 486 00:31:55,240 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: had the little boy on his shoulders, on the shoulders 487 00:31:58,440 --> 00:32:02,040 Speaker 1: so he could see the concert. It's a brother and 488 00:32:02,120 --> 00:32:06,080 Speaker 1: the little boys, the nine year old, and he I 489 00:32:06,200 --> 00:32:09,520 Speaker 1: think the father fell, Yeah, it had to. Yeah, then 490 00:32:09,600 --> 00:32:14,280 Speaker 1: that's how his son, father protect his son. I'm sure that. Yeah, 491 00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,960 Speaker 1: of course, I'm sure of that. I'm sure his brother 492 00:32:17,080 --> 00:32:20,200 Speaker 1: right here did everything in his power. Yeah. That's a 493 00:32:20,280 --> 00:32:23,080 Speaker 1: hard fall of that boy up there on his shoulders. Yeah, 494 00:32:23,440 --> 00:32:26,560 Speaker 1: that's so sad, horrible. That's what some of the reports say, 495 00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,160 Speaker 1: all right, m we're gonna switch gears here. Talk about 496 00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:35,760 Speaker 1: some celebrities that are breaking up. This couple is a 497 00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,400 Speaker 1: hip hop producer and reality stars Stevie J and his 498 00:32:39,520 --> 00:32:42,320 Speaker 1: wife Faith Evans. Well, they've called it quits after only 499 00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:46,720 Speaker 1: three years of marriage. Stevij put in the paperwork, yeah, 500 00:32:47,160 --> 00:32:50,320 Speaker 1: at a Los Angeles County Superior court. It's unclear just 501 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:55,400 Speaker 1: what promoted the split between Faith and Stevie J, but 502 00:32:55,560 --> 00:32:58,640 Speaker 1: the marriage started off a bit rocky. Last year, Faith 503 00:32:58,800 --> 00:33:02,720 Speaker 1: was reportedly arrested for domestic violence for allegedly attacking Stevie. 504 00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:05,240 Speaker 1: This will be the second divorce for Faith and the 505 00:33:05,320 --> 00:33:10,080 Speaker 1: first for Stevie. That's sad. Well, I met them out 506 00:33:10,080 --> 00:33:12,800 Speaker 1: at this function. I was at out in Beverly Hills, 507 00:33:12,840 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: and yeah, I just really liked her because I always 508 00:33:14,920 --> 00:33:18,920 Speaker 1: liked Stevie Ja, yes character, and now I've always liked Faith, 509 00:33:19,000 --> 00:33:21,080 Speaker 1: so I thought I thought they looked good together. But 510 00:33:21,480 --> 00:33:25,400 Speaker 1: you know, yeah, it happens. I'm back over here theaepid Day, 511 00:33:25,600 --> 00:33:36,680 Speaker 1: Come on back, I'm a day. I'm all right moving on. 512 00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: Carlos is here with today's music news. What you got Carlo, Well, 513 00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:42,760 Speaker 1: we just want to give a shout out guys to 514 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:47,600 Speaker 1: Missy Elliott. She received her own star on the Hollywood 515 00:33:47,720 --> 00:33:50,840 Speaker 1: Walk of Fame. So yeah, I love me some Missy, 516 00:33:50,880 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: miss Nina Elliott. She did a speech and she showed 517 00:33:54,320 --> 00:33:56,480 Speaker 1: love to her sisters in hip hop, the women she 518 00:33:56,640 --> 00:34:00,800 Speaker 1: called godmothers, Queen Latifa, you know the just moony love 519 00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:05,040 Speaker 1: Angie Stone, Rock Say and Chantey Yo Yo mc light, 520 00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,319 Speaker 1: Salton Pepper and you know, Missy showed them all love 521 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:11,560 Speaker 1: and then she praised them as the backs that we 522 00:34:11,760 --> 00:34:14,680 Speaker 1: stand on in the foundation of you know, women, female 523 00:34:14,880 --> 00:34:18,560 Speaker 1: mcs and hip hop and producers. And Missy also thanked 524 00:34:18,600 --> 00:34:22,360 Speaker 1: her fans. Uh Sierra was there with her. So it 525 00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:24,960 Speaker 1: was really really nice, so much deserved. So shout out 526 00:34:25,000 --> 00:34:31,000 Speaker 1: to Missy Elliott. Get your Hollywood Yeah like cool to 527 00:34:31,080 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 1: be on. Yeah, I remember when we were out there 528 00:34:34,600 --> 00:34:43,080 Speaker 1: for you see. Oh yeah said doctor Phil was there. 529 00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:50,240 Speaker 1: Ye meant the most timidle Sonny Calhoun was there, Lord 530 00:34:50,360 --> 00:34:53,560 Speaker 1: him or your childhood friend straight out of Cleveland where 531 00:34:53,560 --> 00:34:57,239 Speaker 1: he wasn't really my friend, he was my my whole 532 00:34:57,320 --> 00:35:00,440 Speaker 1: ambition in life. He was Manny. His brother was my friend. 533 00:35:00,640 --> 00:35:05,640 Speaker 1: Man Sunday was his big brother. Sunday wasn't pimp. Sunday 534 00:35:05,719 --> 00:35:10,160 Speaker 1: came out on Where is this going, had on the 535 00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: lemon yellow suit. I was loved boy, right hill Man, 536 00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,080 Speaker 1: this dude right here when I saw Sunday, Man, it 537 00:35:16,280 --> 00:35:21,719 Speaker 1: was hot at hell outside. Yeah, but he had fur 538 00:35:21,880 --> 00:35:30,080 Speaker 1: coat with him. A little about pimps. Dog Hi boys, Man, 539 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:34,279 Speaker 1: I can't leave this man. Look at you got a star. Man. 540 00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:39,680 Speaker 1: Everybody leaves, aren't taking picture with it. He don't need 541 00:35:39,800 --> 00:35:44,040 Speaker 1: nobody to fit. Yeah, only standing around with everybody, only 542 00:35:44,160 --> 00:35:48,160 Speaker 1: pure with him. Man, Steve, gotta star here on ground. Man, Man, 543 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:53,440 Speaker 1: you want us? Man? God coming up at twenty minutes 544 00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:56,239 Speaker 1: after the hour more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show 545 00:35:56,360 --> 00:36:02,839 Speaker 1: on this Veteran's Day right after this. You're listening today 546 00:36:03,040 --> 00:36:06,440 Speaker 1: Veterans Day. This is the holiday that we recognize an 547 00:36:06,480 --> 00:36:10,120 Speaker 1: honor all past and present military who have served our country. 548 00:36:10,520 --> 00:36:14,719 Speaker 1: Unlike Memorial Day, which remembers the fallen, this day celebrates 549 00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:17,600 Speaker 1: those who served in war and got to come home. 550 00:36:18,120 --> 00:36:22,320 Speaker 1: This holiday is celebrated each year on November eleventh because 551 00:36:22,440 --> 00:36:25,440 Speaker 1: it's the day that signifies the eleventh hour of the 552 00:36:25,520 --> 00:36:30,160 Speaker 1: eleventh day of the eleventh month of nineteen eighteen, when 553 00:36:30,239 --> 00:36:33,279 Speaker 1: World War One ended. We want it takes the time 554 00:36:33,360 --> 00:36:37,240 Speaker 1: to thank all of our veterans for serving and their sacrifices. 555 00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:40,160 Speaker 1: Of course, I mean thank you, thank you, thank thank you. 556 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:49,399 Speaker 1: Yeah yeah to the veterans, absolutely yeah you. Happy better 557 00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:56,200 Speaker 1: day to my husband, Toosh Army bet yep yeah. And 558 00:36:56,320 --> 00:36:59,200 Speaker 1: we also want to remind everyone that our very own nephew, 559 00:36:59,280 --> 00:37:04,719 Speaker 1: Tommy's found dation, Miles of Giving, is dedicated dedicated to 560 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,120 Speaker 1: helping veterans. Right, Tommy as that Miles and Giving, we 561 00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:11,080 Speaker 1: give back to wounded veterans. Tommy went over did two? 562 00:37:11,239 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: USO two is over there? Oh? Saudi Arabia, afghanastand Germany? Kuwait, 563 00:37:17,840 --> 00:37:20,439 Speaker 1: you name it. I was there on the front line. 564 00:37:20,440 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: If you ain't ever seeing what the front line looking like, 565 00:37:22,280 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 1: let me tell you it's a whole different beach, buddy. 566 00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:26,080 Speaker 1: So I take my hat off to all the soldiers 567 00:37:26,480 --> 00:37:30,160 Speaker 1: and just I'm gonna give this to you. Save the date, 568 00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:33,240 Speaker 1: all right, This is the Miles of Giving weekend twenty 569 00:37:33,360 --> 00:37:39,920 Speaker 1: twenty two, May thirteenth to the sixteenth, where well, New Orleans, Louisiana. 570 00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,200 Speaker 1: It's the Miles and Giving weekend. But we got comedy shows, 571 00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,279 Speaker 1: We're doing service projects for the betters. We got a 572 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:49,399 Speaker 1: Sunday brunch hosted by oh My first Lady, the one 573 00:37:49,440 --> 00:37:53,800 Speaker 1: and only Jacqueline. Jacqueline Miles will be hosting the Sunday brunch. 574 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,400 Speaker 1: I got a golf tournament that's gonna be off the 575 00:37:56,520 --> 00:38:01,120 Speaker 1: chain Monday to sixteenth PPC, Louisiana. So everybody in Louisiana 576 00:38:01,120 --> 00:38:02,560 Speaker 1: and around the way, you want to come hang out 577 00:38:02,600 --> 00:38:04,680 Speaker 1: with your boy? This has saved the date. Miles. A 578 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:08,320 Speaker 1: given weekend twenty twenty two, May thirteen through the sixteen, 579 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:11,680 Speaker 1: New Orleans, Louisiana, and a golf course down that time. 580 00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:15,560 Speaker 1: And that's nice, man, that's a nice PC course in 581 00:38:15,640 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 1: the New Orleans. Ship got it on. Lock on the 582 00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:22,719 Speaker 1: stay pretty. If you ain't business man, come play with 583 00:38:22,800 --> 00:38:24,800 Speaker 1: your boy. Man. I showed you, man, I want to 584 00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:28,239 Speaker 1: come down there. Man, I'm gonna take more time out. Man, 585 00:38:28,480 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm gonna I'm gonna be a better golfer this year. 586 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,239 Speaker 1: I say that a year. I said that two weeks ago, 587 00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:37,440 Speaker 1: and I wasn't worth damn. I mean, as soon as 588 00:38:37,480 --> 00:38:39,480 Speaker 1: you say it and go out there, golf call, you're 589 00:38:39,480 --> 00:38:48,400 Speaker 1: gonna be a better what man? Congratulations, hit the golf 590 00:38:48,520 --> 00:38:52,360 Speaker 1: ball to make it go where you want it to go. 591 00:38:52,920 --> 00:38:56,279 Speaker 1: It's very very hard to do man, to make a 592 00:38:56,360 --> 00:38:59,440 Speaker 1: what I missed that a golf ball go where you 593 00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:01,560 Speaker 1: want it to go, Jess, cause you hit it with 594 00:39:01,719 --> 00:39:07,719 Speaker 1: this stick. That's hard though, it's really really hard. I'm 595 00:39:07,719 --> 00:39:09,920 Speaker 1: about I don't knows that hit a golf ball to 596 00:39:10,120 --> 00:39:15,600 Speaker 1: make money. I can't do that. I can't do that. 597 00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:18,200 Speaker 1: All right, coming up at thirty four minutes after the hour, 598 00:39:18,239 --> 00:39:22,320 Speaker 1: we're gonna check Steve Harvey's voicemail eight seven seven twenty nine. Steve. 599 00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:28,879 Speaker 1: Right after this, you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. All right, guys, 600 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,719 Speaker 1: it is time to check Steve's voicemail. Let's see what 601 00:39:31,840 --> 00:39:34,640 Speaker 1: we got at eight seven seven twenty nine, Steve. All right, Steve, 602 00:39:34,760 --> 00:39:38,279 Speaker 1: let's go to the phones. Line one. Sharanda in Louisiana. 603 00:39:38,840 --> 00:39:41,160 Speaker 1: All right, missus, Steve, Barbon you all. Her name is? 604 00:39:41,200 --> 00:39:44,279 Speaker 1: She want the awesome time from Basha Louisiana. I love 605 00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,520 Speaker 1: you our program every morning it's up listening to me, 606 00:39:46,680 --> 00:39:48,960 Speaker 1: especially Virgin had to say about our heavenly Father. It's 607 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:51,600 Speaker 1: uplifting and keeping him first. And God bless you all 608 00:39:51,680 --> 00:39:54,440 Speaker 1: up and here got Monday comes again. Thank y'all. God. 609 00:39:54,520 --> 00:39:59,680 Speaker 1: Lets you all somebody, Oh she do the announcements, Tommy 610 00:40:01,640 --> 00:40:05,240 Speaker 1: giving under God, our Past, the first Lady Membership, Friend 611 00:40:06,000 --> 00:40:12,680 Speaker 1: Christian Friends. You have a scripture right after. Well, thank 612 00:40:12,719 --> 00:40:14,839 Speaker 1: you for that. You know, we try to be inspirational 613 00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:17,879 Speaker 1: on this show. It's part of the program, So thank 614 00:40:17,920 --> 00:40:19,839 Speaker 1: you very much. What else we got, Sherley? All right, 615 00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,640 Speaker 1: let's go down the line for and talk to Steph Walker. Okay, 616 00:40:23,719 --> 00:40:27,160 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey. We listen to your Strawberry letter every morning 617 00:40:27,160 --> 00:40:29,960 Speaker 1: as we're driving to work, and we heard that Strawberry 618 00:40:30,040 --> 00:40:33,320 Speaker 1: letter about the brother who married into the family, the 619 00:40:33,400 --> 00:40:37,080 Speaker 1: white family with the racist brother. So you know, my 620 00:40:37,200 --> 00:40:40,360 Speaker 1: husband just said, what about part so we need to 621 00:40:40,560 --> 00:40:44,279 Speaker 1: hear how this and up we need to to be 622 00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:48,040 Speaker 1: continued a right, So we're waiting. Y'all be good and 623 00:40:48,200 --> 00:40:51,480 Speaker 1: y'all been safe and well bye bye. Yeah. Now you 624 00:40:51,600 --> 00:40:54,640 Speaker 1: know something, Steph, I agree with you. I would love 625 00:40:54,800 --> 00:40:58,440 Speaker 1: to get a letter from the man who wrote the 626 00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,440 Speaker 1: letter because thanksgiving us. So when it gets here, we 627 00:41:02,520 --> 00:41:06,160 Speaker 1: would love to know what the hell happened to ourselves. 628 00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:08,720 Speaker 1: You know, we've done these Strawberry letters a few ways. 629 00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:12,280 Speaker 1: Remember we were doing them live sometimes and then remember 630 00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,680 Speaker 1: we would get the people on the phone. But these 631 00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:16,640 Speaker 1: are real letters. I know, I know people think we 632 00:41:16,760 --> 00:41:18,960 Speaker 1: make these letters up, but we don't. These are very 633 00:41:19,040 --> 00:41:22,320 Speaker 1: real letters. And these letters get a little bit you know, 634 00:41:22,520 --> 00:41:26,040 Speaker 1: remember that time we had that oh lord, we had 635 00:41:26,120 --> 00:41:32,040 Speaker 1: that all lady that was dating the pastor and they 636 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,440 Speaker 1: found out about it because they just was listening to 637 00:41:34,560 --> 00:41:36,640 Speaker 1: the show and it just didn't make it made sense 638 00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:40,879 Speaker 1: that their church together. Yeah yeah, yeah, and all hell 639 00:41:41,000 --> 00:41:43,840 Speaker 1: broke loose. So we had stopped doing live Strawbay letters 640 00:41:45,520 --> 00:41:50,200 Speaker 1: because it was getting live. Yeah, it was some people 641 00:41:50,239 --> 00:41:52,400 Speaker 1: going up there adding some mode to the story. So 642 00:41:52,520 --> 00:41:54,600 Speaker 1: we had to stop doing that. But I would like 643 00:41:54,719 --> 00:41:56,960 Speaker 1: to do some follow ups. We've had some follow ups, 644 00:41:58,520 --> 00:42:01,040 Speaker 1: so that's an interesting concept we would I wish we 645 00:42:01,120 --> 00:42:05,319 Speaker 1: could reach out to maybe Mississippi Monica could reach out 646 00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 1: to the letter writer and just say, hey, we love 647 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,560 Speaker 1: to know how it worked out for you on Thanksgivings 648 00:42:10,719 --> 00:42:13,319 Speaker 1: follow up let us know. So Steph Walker, We're gonna 649 00:42:13,320 --> 00:42:14,959 Speaker 1: look into that and see if we make that happen. 650 00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:19,960 Speaker 1: YEA cool? All right, let's go to line at two 651 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:23,680 Speaker 1: and talk to Foster and Pensacola High Steem. My name 652 00:42:23,760 --> 00:42:26,880 Speaker 1: is Foster Smith in Pensacola, Florida. I'm so glad you 653 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:29,719 Speaker 1: saw that up about Michael Jordan. There shouldn't be no 654 00:42:29,880 --> 00:42:33,440 Speaker 1: debate by Michael Jardon Lebron Jane. Michael Jordan is the 655 00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:36,840 Speaker 1: greatest that devil put some tennis. Michael Dron was a 656 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:40,560 Speaker 1: musty player after his second year in the NBA day 657 00:42:41,719 --> 00:42:51,440 Speaker 1: his whole career. Thank you, because, man, like you know, 658 00:42:51,560 --> 00:42:54,120 Speaker 1: I was sitting here and I was listening to the debate, 659 00:42:54,960 --> 00:42:57,480 Speaker 1: and I was listening because Lebron's a great player, man 660 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:00,800 Speaker 1: and done and his and his off the field is 661 00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:06,840 Speaker 1: even even more accomplishing. If not, that's great, But and 662 00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,720 Speaker 1: I was thinking of he's won titles at the Lakers, 663 00:43:09,880 --> 00:43:12,600 Speaker 1: he's won a title down in Miami, and he's won 664 00:43:12,719 --> 00:43:17,520 Speaker 1: Titling Cleave. That's sheer greatness. When everywhere you go you 665 00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:20,839 Speaker 1: can manage to put a team together on your back 666 00:43:21,040 --> 00:43:24,840 Speaker 1: and lead him to the promised Land. That's impressive. But 667 00:43:25,040 --> 00:43:28,279 Speaker 1: when I look at the footage of the tape and 668 00:43:28,560 --> 00:43:32,920 Speaker 1: I see the skill set that both these players possessed, 669 00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:36,960 Speaker 1: and I was alive and old enough to witness both 670 00:43:37,040 --> 00:43:39,360 Speaker 1: of them in my prime, because I'm in my prime 671 00:43:39,520 --> 00:43:42,880 Speaker 1: now and was in my Prime Prime Nen. I justn't 672 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:49,480 Speaker 1: had no money. Michael Jordan is the greatest basketball player 673 00:43:50,120 --> 00:43:57,719 Speaker 1: to ever damn drivel period. Now you argue whoever you want, 674 00:43:57,960 --> 00:43:59,840 Speaker 1: if you want to, I'm saying what I said. You 675 00:44:00,000 --> 00:44:12,919 Speaker 1: ain't got no radio showy Alright, you have something to say, 676 00:44:13,000 --> 00:44:15,960 Speaker 1: call Steve's voicemail at eight seven seven twenty nine. Steven, 677 00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,360 Speaker 1: please leave a message coming up next to nephew with 678 00:44:18,480 --> 00:44:22,239 Speaker 1: today's frank phone call. Right after this. You're listening to 679 00:44:22,480 --> 00:44:26,359 Speaker 1: the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the top 680 00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my 681 00:44:28,800 --> 00:44:32,440 Speaker 1: strawberry letter for today. The subject my ex paid for 682 00:44:32,640 --> 00:44:36,600 Speaker 1: my grandma's funeral. We'll get into that in just a bit, 683 00:44:36,920 --> 00:44:39,440 Speaker 1: but right now it is a nephew here with today's 684 00:44:39,480 --> 00:44:42,399 Speaker 1: frank phone call. What you got for is nef ah. 685 00:44:42,719 --> 00:44:45,000 Speaker 1: You know, I don't know how to say it. Let 686 00:44:45,080 --> 00:44:50,000 Speaker 1: me find the right words, because I wanted to sound affectionate. Uh, 687 00:44:50,760 --> 00:44:56,359 Speaker 1: your wife as fine as heil. I'm gonna beat your 688 00:44:57,719 --> 00:45:01,279 Speaker 1: play this ragged ass Penny. I wish you this or 689 00:45:01,320 --> 00:45:09,120 Speaker 1: something like that. Your wife. Let hello, Hello, I'm trying 690 00:45:09,120 --> 00:45:11,800 Speaker 1: to reach Daryl. Yeah, this is Darrel Hors this and 691 00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 1: tell how you're doing. My name is Alonzo man. I 692 00:45:14,280 --> 00:45:18,800 Speaker 1: um for liquor distributing company. I do a district liquid distribution. 693 00:45:18,840 --> 00:45:21,640 Speaker 1: How you doing today? I'm pretty good. I'm pretty good man. 694 00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,680 Speaker 1: What can I do for you? Hey, we're putting together 695 00:45:24,840 --> 00:45:30,880 Speaker 1: a big, big event man with vodka and they're throwing 696 00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:33,440 Speaker 1: a They're throwing a huge pool party. And like I say, 697 00:45:33,520 --> 00:45:35,719 Speaker 1: I've been I'm in the liquor business man. I've been 698 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:38,239 Speaker 1: doing it for for quite some years now. And you know, 699 00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:41,880 Speaker 1: we're always trying to do different type of publicity and 700 00:45:42,040 --> 00:45:44,879 Speaker 1: really get to hype up. And what we're trying to do, man, 701 00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,880 Speaker 1: is really get people to come out to this fashion party. 702 00:45:47,920 --> 00:45:50,680 Speaker 1: Because it's the first quarter twenty twenty. We wanted to 703 00:45:50,760 --> 00:45:55,120 Speaker 1: be a one to remember. And uh, I know the 704 00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:57,600 Speaker 1: no no no, no, no, no no no no, you're 705 00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,680 Speaker 1: I go to the bank, I go to the bank 706 00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:05,840 Speaker 1: where your where your wife works at Kindred And Okay, 707 00:46:06,040 --> 00:46:08,239 Speaker 1: what we're trying to do is have I mean, we 708 00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:11,919 Speaker 1: want our flyer and slash poster to be something really 709 00:46:12,040 --> 00:46:15,279 Speaker 1: really memorable, something that's gonna really draw people in. And 710 00:46:15,680 --> 00:46:17,799 Speaker 1: you have this, This thing is gonna be all over 711 00:46:17,920 --> 00:46:20,800 Speaker 1: social media, the whole nine yards. So we're trying to 712 00:46:20,880 --> 00:46:23,400 Speaker 1: see you know, buddy of mine told me that he 713 00:46:24,120 --> 00:46:26,360 Speaker 1: kind of knew of you or had a had a 714 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:28,120 Speaker 1: number on you, and I was like, cool, let me 715 00:46:28,160 --> 00:46:30,480 Speaker 1: reach out to him. He told me you were Kendra's husband, 716 00:46:30,880 --> 00:46:33,040 Speaker 1: So I want my husband. So I don't understand what 717 00:46:33,280 --> 00:46:35,200 Speaker 1: my wife's got to do with this whole thing. Okay, 718 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,839 Speaker 1: what I'm trying to do is see if you were 719 00:46:36,920 --> 00:46:40,680 Speaker 1: cool with Kindred being on our flyer. Man. I mean, 720 00:46:40,680 --> 00:46:43,000 Speaker 1: because your wife is finish, so we want to put 721 00:46:43,040 --> 00:46:46,160 Speaker 1: her on the flyer. And what you mean my wife 722 00:46:46,320 --> 00:46:49,439 Speaker 1: is finish? What do you mean we want? You're gonna 723 00:46:49,440 --> 00:46:52,160 Speaker 1: call me up and talk about my wife? Vin, it's 724 00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:54,880 Speaker 1: wrong with you, brother, Brother, it's this. It's a respect 725 00:46:55,000 --> 00:46:57,600 Speaker 1: thing I'm giving you. I'm giving you crowds. Its crowds, 726 00:46:57,640 --> 00:46:59,759 Speaker 1: and I'm giving bucking out what you need man, because 727 00:47:00,160 --> 00:47:02,959 Speaker 1: it don't sound right, dude, We're trying to get your wife. 728 00:47:03,000 --> 00:47:04,960 Speaker 1: We want to get her to a photo shoot in 729 00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:08,600 Speaker 1: a Portini so we can put it how. No, you 730 00:47:08,719 --> 00:47:11,279 Speaker 1: ain't using my wife and no Porkini to put on 731 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:14,759 Speaker 1: no fly you want your damn mind. It's my wife's man, 732 00:47:14,840 --> 00:47:18,759 Speaker 1: respect me. Okay, Okay, okay, okay, hold on man, hold on, man, 733 00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:20,759 Speaker 1: Why are you tripping like this? Bro? Why are you 734 00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,719 Speaker 1: tripping like little wife? My wife ain't gonna be no 735 00:47:22,920 --> 00:47:25,880 Speaker 1: damn no, the flying for no, the party man with 736 00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:29,839 Speaker 1: the you think this is what's wrong with you? Okay, bro, bro, 737 00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:32,560 Speaker 1: you know what, Man, I tried to call you and 738 00:47:32,680 --> 00:47:35,359 Speaker 1: give you to respect. I mean I'll get out sound 739 00:47:35,400 --> 00:47:38,360 Speaker 1: like what? Boy? Well okay, look, I didn't call for 740 00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:40,600 Speaker 1: no argument. I just I just talked to Kendra. When 741 00:47:40,600 --> 00:47:41,920 Speaker 1: I go to the place, depart and see if she 742 00:47:42,000 --> 00:47:44,160 Speaker 1: want to do. Oh oh, he's gonna go to my 743 00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:46,560 Speaker 1: wife's job at the bank. That's what you're gonna do. Okay. 744 00:47:46,640 --> 00:47:48,680 Speaker 1: I'm just ain't gonna do this because I'll be there too, 745 00:47:48,719 --> 00:47:50,800 Speaker 1: and I don't make a deposit with my foot, you know, 746 00:47:51,320 --> 00:47:54,320 Speaker 1: go ahead, okay, okay, hold on man. We were playing, 747 00:47:54,480 --> 00:47:57,560 Speaker 1: we're playing five thousand dollars for the photos. Okay again, 748 00:47:57,640 --> 00:48:01,000 Speaker 1: what you're paying? No amount of money's gonna let me 749 00:48:01,200 --> 00:48:03,719 Speaker 1: put my wife, the mother of my children, on the 750 00:48:04,280 --> 00:48:06,719 Speaker 1: close to end. No for Kenny, I don't care how 751 00:48:06,800 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 1: much you can kiss my ass, will let you do that? Okay, Okay, bro, okay, 752 00:48:12,120 --> 00:48:15,160 Speaker 1: so I ain't gonna really go back and forth what 753 00:48:15,239 --> 00:48:19,000 Speaker 1: you man? I was calling you trying to be a man. Okay, 754 00:48:19,080 --> 00:48:20,840 Speaker 1: well I'm trying to be man to man with you. 755 00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:23,719 Speaker 1: Just you know, throw the opportunity at you. Now you 756 00:48:23,840 --> 00:48:26,960 Speaker 1: throwing it back up. You was with disrespect. I wouldn't 757 00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,000 Speaker 1: showing me for my wife to be a side now. No, 758 00:48:30,239 --> 00:48:32,319 Speaker 1: I don't want none of that. Okay, man, No, your 759 00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:34,759 Speaker 1: wife frying is hell. People are Oh, you need to 760 00:48:34,840 --> 00:48:38,600 Speaker 1: quit telling me how fine my wife is. Okay, horder 761 00:48:39,280 --> 00:48:43,920 Speaker 1: gave you my phone number in the first place I've got. Hey, man, 762 00:48:44,480 --> 00:48:47,399 Speaker 1: evidently that's all Mulling pointed. Just all right, I don't 763 00:48:47,400 --> 00:48:50,440 Speaker 1: even matter. Just one the boy day. The issue on 764 00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:53,080 Speaker 1: the table is I want to take some pictures of Kenny. 765 00:48:53,480 --> 00:48:55,640 Speaker 1: Let me know when you plan on going to my 766 00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:57,960 Speaker 1: wife job at the bank. Let me know, and you're 767 00:48:58,000 --> 00:49:01,320 Speaker 1: gonna bring your black down there. I can be there. Okay. 768 00:49:01,640 --> 00:49:04,520 Speaker 1: Nobody calls another brother a talk about how fine his 769 00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,800 Speaker 1: wife says Okay, I told you know that you shouldn't 770 00:49:07,800 --> 00:49:10,520 Speaker 1: get stopped right there, But you're gonna keep all talking 771 00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,439 Speaker 1: about my wife. Okay. So let me say this though, 772 00:49:14,000 --> 00:49:16,319 Speaker 1: Tommy is the one that said your wife was fine 773 00:49:16,360 --> 00:49:18,520 Speaker 1: as hell. That's the one brought all this to our 774 00:49:18,600 --> 00:49:20,879 Speaker 1: pitching at the meeting. Tommy is the one that said 775 00:49:20,960 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 1: your wife was fine as hell. Though, Tommy just Tommy. 776 00:49:25,680 --> 00:49:28,920 Speaker 1: Tommy said your wife is fine as hell. That's what 777 00:49:29,360 --> 00:49:32,839 Speaker 1: Tommy can get hit too. Who is Tommy? You don't 778 00:49:32,880 --> 00:49:34,960 Speaker 1: you take your wife to work in the morning. Let 779 00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:38,040 Speaker 1: me know, and you're gonna bring your black down there? Okay? 780 00:49:38,120 --> 00:49:40,200 Speaker 1: And I wat y'all be what y'all be listening to 781 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:43,200 Speaker 1: on the way to work? What radio station y'all be 782 00:49:43,280 --> 00:49:53,960 Speaker 1: listening to? We've been listening to Matthew Tommy, Baby, see 783 00:49:54,080 --> 00:50:03,359 Speaker 1: harm mister, you wouldn't aboudy to get y'all. Hey, man, 784 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:08,759 Speaker 1: your wife kender got me to prank you, bro wait 785 00:50:08,840 --> 00:50:17,520 Speaker 1: till my wife got my blood pressure up. Oh man, 786 00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:19,920 Speaker 1: She told me, she said, we listen to y'all every 787 00:50:20,000 --> 00:50:22,080 Speaker 1: morning on the way to work. He drops me off 788 00:50:22,160 --> 00:50:24,719 Speaker 1: and he goes to work. She said, Tommy, you've got 789 00:50:24,800 --> 00:50:26,640 Speaker 1: to get it. I said, you gotta let me know 790 00:50:26,719 --> 00:50:28,840 Speaker 1: what what do he love them most? She say me, 791 00:50:32,080 --> 00:50:35,560 Speaker 1: I don't know about that right now. After it's a man, 792 00:50:36,200 --> 00:50:38,440 Speaker 1: a man we love you back, baby, keep listening to 793 00:50:38,480 --> 00:50:40,560 Speaker 1: the steam off and morning. So tell me this problem. 794 00:50:40,760 --> 00:50:43,040 Speaker 1: What is the baddest radio show in the land? Man? 795 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:46,560 Speaker 1: What is it? Darrel? It's Steve Harvey with nephew Tommy. 796 00:50:49,520 --> 00:50:54,520 Speaker 1: Come on, baby me tell me. His reaction was pure 797 00:50:55,440 --> 00:51:00,399 Speaker 1: right off the dribble, because Doc, I'm telling you when 798 00:51:00,440 --> 00:51:05,040 Speaker 1: you go man and you go, your wife is fine. 799 00:51:05,360 --> 00:51:10,239 Speaker 1: Hell Wait a minute, look hook up. Wait you thought 800 00:51:10,320 --> 00:51:13,319 Speaker 1: you could walk up to me and say that, because now, 801 00:51:13,400 --> 00:51:16,680 Speaker 1: if this is the statement you picked to say to me, yeah, 802 00:51:17,239 --> 00:51:20,480 Speaker 1: I can't even imagine what's running through your rabbit air mind. 803 00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:24,560 Speaker 1: But but you thought the compliment it your wife find 804 00:51:24,640 --> 00:51:27,920 Speaker 1: his hell? Bro? Me and you me and you got 805 00:51:28,040 --> 00:51:31,560 Speaker 1: an instant problem. And like he said, what man calls 806 00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 1: another man to go? Man? Your wife findes hell? Dog. Yeah, 807 00:51:37,800 --> 00:51:41,520 Speaker 1: it's a compliment. It's all you said it like he 808 00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:48,719 Speaker 1: was gonna say, ain't she right? Your wife find she 809 00:51:48,920 --> 00:51:52,640 Speaker 1: find You're at the club and the bottle girl go by, man, 810 00:51:52,800 --> 00:51:55,400 Speaker 1: that little girl, that little bottle girl finding here? Who 811 00:51:55,640 --> 00:52:00,960 Speaker 1: I see you? Man? Your wife find his hell? What? 812 00:52:03,800 --> 00:52:07,880 Speaker 1: Ain't that a compliment? Though? No, Tommy, it's an insult. 813 00:52:08,640 --> 00:52:11,520 Speaker 1: Because if if you if all you can must up 814 00:52:11,560 --> 00:52:14,360 Speaker 1: to me where you can't even contain yourself to have 815 00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:17,719 Speaker 1: that thought to yourself. You guys, to let that much out. 816 00:52:17,840 --> 00:52:25,879 Speaker 1: It's called this way deeper than that. I just don't 817 00:52:25,920 --> 00:52:28,600 Speaker 1: I'm beinna give you five thousand dollars. Man, I don't 818 00:52:28,680 --> 00:52:33,200 Speaker 1: care what you the mother my children. Okay, but what 819 00:52:33,280 --> 00:52:37,520 Speaker 1: about flying No, but KINNI, I'm not supposed to say 820 00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:39,760 Speaker 1: your wife ain't fine at all? Your wife looks straight crazy. 821 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:45,239 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean that's better. That's better because that's 822 00:52:45,320 --> 00:52:48,840 Speaker 1: your opinion. They say everybody in Jackson will be a 823 00:52:48,920 --> 00:52:54,400 Speaker 1: Florida You know fine, I'm fine. I ain't gonna say 824 00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:55,800 Speaker 1: I ain't gonna say that. I ain't gonna say that. 825 00:52:56,040 --> 00:52:58,879 Speaker 1: I will say this. I will say this. They're coming 826 00:52:58,920 --> 00:53:00,840 Speaker 1: from all over to see that nephew. They're coming up 827 00:53:00,840 --> 00:53:05,279 Speaker 1: out of Brunswick, Georgia, Savannah, Georgia, Saint Augustine, Daytona beach Day, 828 00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:08,879 Speaker 1: coming this weekend to see the nephew stand and act 829 00:53:08,960 --> 00:53:11,120 Speaker 1: a dog Gone Food. So let me tell you something 830 00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:14,040 Speaker 1: you already know. I'm at the Ramona Pavilion Ballroom two 831 00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:17,640 Speaker 1: shows Friday, Who Sandy seven and ten Nephew Timmy and 832 00:53:17,680 --> 00:53:20,239 Speaker 1: Friends comedy show. You don't want to miss it because 833 00:53:20,239 --> 00:53:22,399 Speaker 1: they're coming from all over. See me act a fool? 834 00:53:22,640 --> 00:53:29,200 Speaker 1: Your wife is? I hope y'all? Come? Okay, yeah, you 835 00:53:29,280 --> 00:53:33,279 Speaker 1: see the well, somebody to say that to me, I'll 836 00:53:33,280 --> 00:53:36,440 Speaker 1: be ready to fight, So go all right, Thank you, nephew. 837 00:53:36,760 --> 00:53:39,120 Speaker 1: Coming up next to my Strawberry letter, the subject my 838 00:53:39,239 --> 00:53:41,840 Speaker 1: ex paid from my grandma's funeral. We'll get into it 839 00:53:42,000 --> 00:53:45,719 Speaker 1: right after this. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 840 00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:49,440 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 841 00:53:49,480 --> 00:53:53,680 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, sex, dating, work, parenting, and more. Please 842 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:56,480 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve HARVEYFM dot com and 843 00:53:56,600 --> 00:54:01,080 Speaker 1: click submit Strawberry letter because we could be reading your 844 00:54:01,160 --> 00:54:03,000 Speaker 1: letter live on the air, just like we're going to 845 00:54:03,080 --> 00:54:05,200 Speaker 1: read this one right here, right now, and you never know, 846 00:54:05,280 --> 00:54:07,799 Speaker 1: it could be yours. And we're looking for those follow 847 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:12,479 Speaker 1: ups too, if the situation has been resolved or there's 848 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:16,600 Speaker 1: more to the story, whatever, we went to jail after all. 849 00:54:16,680 --> 00:54:21,239 Speaker 1: It is we gotta fight here. It is Strawberry letter, 850 00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,120 Speaker 1: all right, newew thank you, subject my ex paid for 851 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:27,880 Speaker 1: my grandma's funeral. Here's Stephen Shirley I am engaged to 852 00:54:27,960 --> 00:54:31,200 Speaker 1: a man that I work with. We both teach elementary school, 853 00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:33,759 Speaker 1: and when he transferred to my school, it was love 854 00:54:33,800 --> 00:54:36,600 Speaker 1: at first sight for me. At the time, I had 855 00:54:36,640 --> 00:54:39,240 Speaker 1: only been divorced a few months and my ex husband 856 00:54:39,320 --> 00:54:41,919 Speaker 1: was still pursuing me and trying to work things out. 857 00:54:42,280 --> 00:54:45,719 Speaker 1: He cheated on me more than a few times, and 858 00:54:45,960 --> 00:54:49,080 Speaker 1: when we were married, so I divorced him. He didn't 859 00:54:49,200 --> 00:54:52,760 Speaker 1: contest anything and I got whatever I asked for because 860 00:54:52,840 --> 00:54:54,920 Speaker 1: he is still in love with me. I have our 861 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:57,759 Speaker 1: family home sitting on three acres, and he let me 862 00:54:57,880 --> 00:55:01,719 Speaker 1: have both our dogs. I lost respect for him every 863 00:55:01,760 --> 00:55:04,120 Speaker 1: time I heard a rumor of him cheating, and I'm 864 00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:07,759 Speaker 1: much happier divorced. Now. Fast forward to when I met 865 00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:11,520 Speaker 1: my fiance and we became inseparable in no time. My 866 00:55:11,640 --> 00:55:14,680 Speaker 1: ex husband was overbearing and used his money to try 867 00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,239 Speaker 1: to lure me back in. He bought me a range 868 00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:19,600 Speaker 1: Rover last year for my birthday, and I could not 869 00:55:19,719 --> 00:55:22,640 Speaker 1: tell my fiance this, so the car is still at 870 00:55:22,719 --> 00:55:25,719 Speaker 1: my ex's house. When we first got engaged, I was 871 00:55:25,840 --> 00:55:29,520 Speaker 1: honest with my fiance about my ex's extravagant gifts so 872 00:55:29,680 --> 00:55:32,359 Speaker 1: he wouldn't find out later and be upset. He told 873 00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,759 Speaker 1: me that I do not set boundaries with my ex 874 00:55:35,200 --> 00:55:38,839 Speaker 1: because I liked the attention. I told him I would 875 00:55:38,880 --> 00:55:42,200 Speaker 1: do better. Then, my grandma died. She and my ex 876 00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:45,000 Speaker 1: husband were very close, so I knew he'd be at 877 00:55:45,040 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 1: the funeral. My fiance and my fiance and I went 878 00:55:48,120 --> 00:55:50,680 Speaker 1: to her funeral, and as soon as a service came 879 00:55:50,760 --> 00:55:53,600 Speaker 1: to an end, my grandfather stood up and thanked my 880 00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:58,120 Speaker 1: ex husband for paying for everything. My fiance was furious, 881 00:55:58,239 --> 00:56:01,640 Speaker 1: so we skipped the repast. I tried to control the 882 00:56:01,719 --> 00:56:04,080 Speaker 1: situation by calling my X and telling him to stop 883 00:56:04,160 --> 00:56:08,000 Speaker 1: coming around my family. My fiance told me that we're 884 00:56:08,040 --> 00:56:10,120 Speaker 1: going to pay my ex husband back for the funeral. 885 00:56:10,520 --> 00:56:13,520 Speaker 1: Is my fiance crazy? Why does it matter who paid 886 00:56:13,640 --> 00:56:16,640 Speaker 1: for it? Well, you know what, I kind of think 887 00:56:16,719 --> 00:56:19,000 Speaker 1: this is a problem that doesn't have to be. I mean, 888 00:56:19,080 --> 00:56:21,080 Speaker 1: you have two men who are fighting over you and 889 00:56:21,239 --> 00:56:26,120 Speaker 1: fighting for your attention. Really, but your ex if you're divorced, 890 00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,040 Speaker 1: I mean, he needs to let go. If he was 891 00:56:29,320 --> 00:56:32,040 Speaker 1: married to you and had you and then he started cheating, 892 00:56:32,800 --> 00:56:35,120 Speaker 1: you know, that's on him. You clearly have moved on 893 00:56:35,280 --> 00:56:37,719 Speaker 1: and he should too. It's too late for him now. 894 00:56:38,239 --> 00:56:39,800 Speaker 1: When he was married to you. Like I said, he 895 00:56:39,880 --> 00:56:43,520 Speaker 1: blew it. He lost in this situation. He's not dealing 896 00:56:43,600 --> 00:56:46,000 Speaker 1: with reality. He's in denial. I think right now he 897 00:56:46,120 --> 00:56:50,480 Speaker 1: created this problem. I do think your fiance was out 898 00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:53,560 Speaker 1: of line making you miss your grandmother's repast. He was 899 00:56:53,640 --> 00:56:56,839 Speaker 1: in his feelings looking at this situation to me all 900 00:56:56,880 --> 00:56:59,279 Speaker 1: the way wrong. I'm with you on this one. What 901 00:56:59,360 --> 00:57:02,480 Speaker 1: difference does it make who pays for the funeral? You 902 00:57:02,560 --> 00:57:04,880 Speaker 1: can't control what your ex does, and you said that 903 00:57:05,000 --> 00:57:07,920 Speaker 1: he and your grandmother were very close and apparently your 904 00:57:07,960 --> 00:57:12,479 Speaker 1: grandfather appreciated it. I think it's stupid to spend money 905 00:57:12,640 --> 00:57:14,880 Speaker 1: to pay your ex back. That's just stupid to me. 906 00:57:15,280 --> 00:57:18,160 Speaker 1: Your fiance shouldn't be trying to prove anything, not to you, 907 00:57:18,440 --> 00:57:21,040 Speaker 1: not to him. He's saying he's going to pay your 908 00:57:21,080 --> 00:57:24,000 Speaker 1: ex back. I think that's just his ego getting in 909 00:57:24,040 --> 00:57:28,240 Speaker 1: the way. Funerals are not cheap, okay, so you know 910 00:57:28,320 --> 00:57:31,040 Speaker 1: you could spend that money on something else. He doesn't 911 00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:33,720 Speaker 1: have to flex your your new fiance. He's already got 912 00:57:33,760 --> 00:57:36,600 Speaker 1: the prize and the prizes you as far as the cargoes. 913 00:57:36,760 --> 00:57:39,640 Speaker 1: Just let his stay where it is and your ex's garage, 914 00:57:40,000 --> 00:57:41,960 Speaker 1: and I say, go on and live your life with 915 00:57:42,120 --> 00:57:44,680 Speaker 1: your fiance and don't let your ex get in the 916 00:57:44,720 --> 00:57:49,920 Speaker 1: way of your happiness. Steve, surely, Yes, it's a man 917 00:57:50,080 --> 00:57:52,960 Speaker 1: problem right here. I know, I know it is. Don't 918 00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:55,280 Speaker 1: worry about it. See it's a lot of man law 919 00:57:55,400 --> 00:57:59,040 Speaker 1: in hell. There's a lot of codes in Hell, a 920 00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:03,439 Speaker 1: lot of ego in Hill, a lot of flexing in hill. 921 00:58:04,600 --> 00:58:10,360 Speaker 1: It's some power struggling here, and there's some trying to 922 00:58:12,160 --> 00:58:14,680 Speaker 1: stand up and do some pushback. It's all of this. 923 00:58:15,200 --> 00:58:17,400 Speaker 1: But all this is man problem because the woman in 924 00:58:17,520 --> 00:58:21,360 Speaker 1: this letter is correct and perfect. I see no flaw 925 00:58:21,400 --> 00:58:24,040 Speaker 1: in this woman right here. I really don't. I'm engaged 926 00:58:24,080 --> 00:58:25,880 Speaker 1: to a man that I worked with. We both teach 927 00:58:26,000 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 1: elementary school, and when he transferred to my school, it 928 00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:31,560 Speaker 1: was love at first sight for me. At the time, 929 00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 1: I had only been divorced a few months. What happens 930 00:58:34,040 --> 00:58:36,160 Speaker 1: is when people get divorced, they don't know what love 931 00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:38,360 Speaker 1: gonna come along. So anybody walked through to do it 932 00:58:38,480 --> 00:58:41,160 Speaker 1: look like love right away. This happens to be real. 933 00:58:41,280 --> 00:58:46,400 Speaker 1: Though he cheated on me, excuse me, You've only been 934 00:58:46,480 --> 00:58:49,560 Speaker 1: divorced a few months and the ex husband was still 935 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:53,919 Speaker 1: pursuing me. This is important information trying to work things out. 936 00:58:54,240 --> 00:58:57,000 Speaker 1: He cheated on me more than a few times when 937 00:58:57,080 --> 00:58:59,840 Speaker 1: we were married, so I divorced him. He didn't come 938 00:59:00,080 --> 00:59:03,880 Speaker 1: test anything, and I got whatever I asked for because 939 00:59:03,960 --> 00:59:07,600 Speaker 1: he's still in love with me. This is a love 940 00:59:07,720 --> 00:59:13,080 Speaker 1: story going bad, y'all. This is a man who has 941 00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:16,480 Speaker 1: lost the best thing ever happened to him, and he 942 00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:20,600 Speaker 1: wanted back. I ain't mad at him. Now we have 943 00:59:20,760 --> 00:59:24,920 Speaker 1: a problem because he gave you your family home sitting 944 00:59:24,960 --> 00:59:28,080 Speaker 1: on three acres, and he let me have both our dogs. 945 00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:31,000 Speaker 1: I lost respect for him every time I heard a 946 00:59:31,080 --> 00:59:35,080 Speaker 1: room of him cheating, and I'm much happier divorced. Well, 947 00:59:35,280 --> 00:59:37,520 Speaker 1: you sound like it, and you need to keep that 948 00:59:37,680 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 1: in mind. Fast forward to when I met my fiance. 949 00:59:40,840 --> 00:59:44,920 Speaker 1: We became insuperabowl in no time. Now. My ex hundred 950 00:59:45,000 --> 00:59:47,840 Speaker 1: was overbearing and used his money to try to lure 951 00:59:47,960 --> 00:59:53,960 Speaker 1: me back in. That's what it's for. That's what that's 952 00:59:54,040 --> 00:59:57,400 Speaker 1: what me and become powerful to use a power. What 953 00:59:57,600 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 1: good is power if you don't wield it. You gotta wielded. 954 01:00:02,960 --> 01:00:05,800 Speaker 1: He bought me a range Rover last year for my birthday, 955 01:00:06,120 --> 01:00:08,960 Speaker 1: and I could not tell my fiance this, so the 956 01:00:09,160 --> 01:00:12,000 Speaker 1: car is still in my ex's house. You're a good woman. 957 01:00:12,680 --> 01:00:15,160 Speaker 1: You are a good woman. I told you. I can't 958 01:00:15,200 --> 01:00:17,720 Speaker 1: find no fault in this lady. Right here, you left 959 01:00:17,800 --> 01:00:19,920 Speaker 1: that range from Hey, ain't many women gonna lead that 960 01:00:20,000 --> 01:00:23,880 Speaker 1: range rover that driveway? Not right, but you did it 961 01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:27,160 Speaker 1: to keep the peace, and I admire you. All right, 962 01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:29,600 Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response coming up at 963 01:00:29,600 --> 01:00:32,840 Speaker 1: twenty three minutes after the our subject of today's Strawberry 964 01:00:32,920 --> 01:00:35,280 Speaker 1: letter and my ex paid for my grandma's funeral. We'll 965 01:00:35,280 --> 01:00:38,360 Speaker 1: get back into it right after this. You're listening to 966 01:00:39,240 --> 01:00:42,640 Speaker 1: Harvey Morning Show. All right, Come on, Steve, let's recap 967 01:00:42,680 --> 01:00:45,400 Speaker 1: today's Strawberry letter. The subject my ex paid for my 968 01:00:45,480 --> 01:00:48,160 Speaker 1: grandma's funeral. We ain't got to that part yet, but 969 01:00:48,240 --> 01:00:54,000 Speaker 1: we're dealing with some man stuff here. This is man law, man, code, man, flexing, power, struggles, 970 01:00:54,120 --> 01:00:57,760 Speaker 1: all this here, self esteem, This is all this in 971 01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,720 Speaker 1: this letter. Shirley couldn't tell you because she don't know 972 01:01:00,720 --> 01:01:03,200 Speaker 1: all these man ruthe and what Shirley said was fine. 973 01:01:03,800 --> 01:01:05,919 Speaker 1: But Shirley liked this woman in this letter. I can't 974 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,520 Speaker 1: find no flaw with this woman in this letter because 975 01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:13,400 Speaker 1: this woman is absolutely doing the right things. She's been divorced. 976 01:01:13,600 --> 01:01:17,040 Speaker 1: Her husband cheated on him, he ruined it. She's happier 977 01:01:17,160 --> 01:01:20,360 Speaker 1: being divorced without him. She met a new man at 978 01:01:20,400 --> 01:01:23,439 Speaker 1: a job. They both elementary school teachers. This is gonna 979 01:01:23,480 --> 01:01:29,120 Speaker 1: come into play. He's told the X about he's told 980 01:01:29,160 --> 01:01:33,440 Speaker 1: the fiance about the X and extravagant gifts. Doing the divorce. 981 01:01:33,520 --> 01:01:35,960 Speaker 1: The man gave her everything, the house on three acres, 982 01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:40,240 Speaker 1: both the dogs, everything, because he still loved the woman. 983 01:01:40,400 --> 01:01:42,720 Speaker 1: He messed up. He trying to get her back. She 984 01:01:42,880 --> 01:01:45,640 Speaker 1: says her ex husband was overbearned and he used his 985 01:01:45,840 --> 01:01:50,520 Speaker 1: money to try to lure me back in, as he should, 986 01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:56,520 Speaker 1: because that's what it's for. What is power unless you wielded. 987 01:01:57,520 --> 01:02:00,920 Speaker 1: I ain't mad at the husband, the ex husband, so 988 01:02:01,080 --> 01:02:03,520 Speaker 1: he bought you a range Rover last year from my birthday, 989 01:02:03,560 --> 01:02:06,320 Speaker 1: and you couldn't tell your fiance this. So the car 990 01:02:06,560 --> 01:02:09,479 Speaker 1: is still at my ex's house. You're a smart lady. 991 01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:14,120 Speaker 1: You're a smart lady. When we first got engaged at 992 01:02:14,160 --> 01:02:17,080 Speaker 1: here's the part. I was honest with my fiance, who 993 01:02:17,400 --> 01:02:23,040 Speaker 1: is the school teacher, about my ex husband's extravagant gifts. 994 01:02:23,560 --> 01:02:27,080 Speaker 1: So he wouldn't find out later and be upset. He 995 01:02:27,280 --> 01:02:30,640 Speaker 1: told me that I do not sound set boundaries with 996 01:02:30,880 --> 01:02:34,440 Speaker 1: my ex because I liked the attention. I told him 997 01:02:34,520 --> 01:02:39,440 Speaker 1: I do better. Well, it's you know, it's amazing when 998 01:02:39,480 --> 01:02:42,280 Speaker 1: people say that you should set boundaries with another person. 999 01:02:42,400 --> 01:02:45,800 Speaker 1: You really can't make another person do nothing. If you 1000 01:02:45,840 --> 01:02:48,240 Speaker 1: could make him do right, he wouldn't. You wouldn't. He 1001 01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,240 Speaker 1: wouldn't have been cheating on you in the first place. 1002 01:02:51,360 --> 01:02:54,040 Speaker 1: You can't make people do stuff, And it's a little 1003 01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:58,080 Speaker 1: bit unfair of mister school teacher sir that you talking about. 1004 01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:01,200 Speaker 1: You don't set no boundaries. She got boundaries, She don't 1005 01:03:01,240 --> 01:03:04,400 Speaker 1: take the gills, but she can't stop everything because he 1006 01:03:04,520 --> 01:03:06,840 Speaker 1: flexing on you. Dog, You know what this is now. 1007 01:03:07,600 --> 01:03:10,800 Speaker 1: Then my grandma died. She and my ex husband were 1008 01:03:10,920 --> 01:03:13,280 Speaker 1: very close, so I knew he'd be at the funeral, 1009 01:03:13,800 --> 01:03:16,400 Speaker 1: my fiance, said, fiance saying, I went to her funeral, 1010 01:03:16,480 --> 01:03:18,480 Speaker 1: and as soon as the service came to an end, 1011 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,800 Speaker 1: my grandfather stood up and thanked my ex husband for 1012 01:03:21,880 --> 01:03:29,880 Speaker 1: paying for everything. Okay, that's honorable. He thanked another man 1013 01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:34,000 Speaker 1: for stepping up burying his wife, because that's what men do. 1014 01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:37,760 Speaker 1: I think It was really admirable of your ex husband. 1015 01:03:39,000 --> 01:03:42,120 Speaker 1: But he's always showing that he's dead. But he paid 1016 01:03:42,200 --> 01:03:44,200 Speaker 1: for that funeral, so you could see he paid for 1017 01:03:44,280 --> 01:03:47,000 Speaker 1: the funeral because he tried to get you back, so 1018 01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,480 Speaker 1: he didn't know. You don't want to range Rover, I'm 1019 01:03:49,520 --> 01:03:54,280 Speaker 1: gonna pay for your dear grandmother's funeral. Everything. The grandfather, 1020 01:03:54,480 --> 01:03:56,919 Speaker 1: he don't know what's going on behind the story with y'all. 1021 01:03:57,640 --> 01:03:59,840 Speaker 1: So he stands up and he thanks the man after 1022 01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:03,680 Speaker 1: funeral because he's going wild. This boy didn't have to 1023 01:04:03,760 --> 01:04:06,960 Speaker 1: do this now. He didn't even date my granddaughter no more. 1024 01:04:07,400 --> 01:04:11,960 Speaker 1: And that's true. My fiance was furious, so we skipped 1025 01:04:12,000 --> 01:04:14,800 Speaker 1: the repass. Pete probably want to go over there because 1026 01:04:14,800 --> 01:04:17,840 Speaker 1: they repairs. I promise he repass was nice because he 1027 01:04:17,960 --> 01:04:20,720 Speaker 1: paid for the funeral. Oh they got a steaking lops 1028 01:04:20,800 --> 01:04:23,200 Speaker 1: over there. They got a chef had to repass. Oh 1029 01:04:23,320 --> 01:04:26,400 Speaker 1: it's finn to be ball loved. He finned set the 1030 01:04:26,480 --> 01:04:30,400 Speaker 1: repass out. The repass gonna look like a d Waden reception. 1031 01:04:32,800 --> 01:04:37,040 Speaker 1: And your boyfriend knew we cannot go to this repass 1032 01:04:37,200 --> 01:04:40,520 Speaker 1: because he didn't clowned over there too. I be damned. 1033 01:04:41,080 --> 01:04:43,640 Speaker 1: Who got this big gass cake up in here this repairs? 1034 01:04:47,280 --> 01:04:54,680 Speaker 1: Who in the hell got a chocolate fountain at the repair? Ex? 1035 01:04:56,160 --> 01:05:01,520 Speaker 1: Her ex husband flexing? Now we gotta eagle problem because 1036 01:05:01,520 --> 01:05:04,360 Speaker 1: he hadn't told you you don't say boundaries. He hadn't 1037 01:05:04,360 --> 01:05:07,240 Speaker 1: told you he ain't go into the repass. Then you, 1038 01:05:07,400 --> 01:05:09,680 Speaker 1: being a decent lady, you try to control the situation 1039 01:05:09,760 --> 01:05:11,760 Speaker 1: by calling your X and telling him to stop coming 1040 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:14,160 Speaker 1: around your family. You've done everything you can, but you 1041 01:05:14,200 --> 01:05:16,439 Speaker 1: aren't going to stop this grown man because he trying 1042 01:05:16,480 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 1: to get you back. My fiance told me that we 1043 01:05:19,360 --> 01:05:21,840 Speaker 1: are going to pay my ex husband back for the funeral? 1044 01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:25,240 Speaker 1: Is my fiance crazy? What doesn't matter who paid for it? 1045 01:05:25,720 --> 01:05:28,800 Speaker 1: Really shouldn't matter who paid for it. But see he 1046 01:05:29,120 --> 01:05:32,160 Speaker 1: got your ex making him look bad as all he 1047 01:05:32,400 --> 01:05:35,880 Speaker 1: thinking because he a school teacher. He couldn't come up 1048 01:05:35,880 --> 01:05:39,000 Speaker 1: with the money for the funeral because school teachers are 1049 01:05:39,040 --> 01:05:44,040 Speaker 1: the most underserved, underpaid people in our community. And a 1050 01:05:44,200 --> 01:05:47,360 Speaker 1: great man is he? I bet you he is? But 1051 01:05:47,520 --> 01:05:51,000 Speaker 1: that school teacher salary got some things going on that's 1052 01:05:51,120 --> 01:05:55,560 Speaker 1: limiting him to flex it and arrange rovers range rover 1053 01:05:55,680 --> 01:05:59,640 Speaker 1: and the funeral. Now, unless we're gonna put Grandma in 1054 01:05:59,760 --> 01:06:03,959 Speaker 1: the back. Could have arranged, Rob, we got some double 1055 01:06:04,000 --> 01:06:08,800 Speaker 1: summit this up. You know what, you stop the school teacher. Now, 1056 01:06:08,840 --> 01:06:11,320 Speaker 1: we'd have had to put grandmama in the range roll 1057 01:06:13,040 --> 01:06:15,040 Speaker 1: that's gonna be where the funeral. That in the back 1058 01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:17,560 Speaker 1: of the range rover, that's gonna be, had to double 1059 01:06:17,640 --> 01:06:20,440 Speaker 1: up as the casket, and we're gonna have to drive 1060 01:06:20,560 --> 01:06:23,320 Speaker 1: that off into just into the ocean, and just your 1061 01:06:23,360 --> 01:06:29,200 Speaker 1: mama have an ass sea burial. Okay, is this really 1062 01:06:29,280 --> 01:06:32,000 Speaker 1: what you want to say? That's exactly what I wanted 1063 01:06:32,000 --> 01:06:35,840 Speaker 1: to say. Not really, because there's nothing this school teacher 1064 01:06:35,920 --> 01:06:38,240 Speaker 1: can do with this man's money. He gonna had to 1065 01:06:38,360 --> 01:06:41,280 Speaker 1: grow up and get past it. And now he can't 1066 01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,600 Speaker 1: afford to pay this back. If you pay this back, 1067 01:06:43,680 --> 01:06:45,200 Speaker 1: y'all ain't gonna be able to get that house or 1068 01:06:45,280 --> 01:06:47,840 Speaker 1: nothing else y'all want? All right? Thank you, Steve. Post 1069 01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,200 Speaker 1: your comments on today's Struwberry Letter at Steve Harvey you 1070 01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:52,760 Speaker 1: f Femine, Instagram and Facebook, and check out the Strubberry 1071 01:06:52,800 --> 01:06:55,800 Speaker 1: Letter podcast on demand. They're coming up at forty six 1072 01:06:55,880 --> 01:06:58,040 Speaker 1: minutes after the hour from the talk. It is our 1073 01:06:58,080 --> 01:07:05,280 Speaker 1: girl Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're listening all right. 1074 01:07:05,360 --> 01:07:09,240 Speaker 1: Come on, Steve introduced our girl from the Talk ladies, gentlemen, 1075 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:14,400 Speaker 1: come on now, Sheryl Underwood. Thank you, Steve Harvey. You know, 1076 01:07:14,600 --> 01:07:17,320 Speaker 1: but it is Veteran's Day and I want to shout 1077 01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:20,960 Speaker 1: out all the veterans out there in the world. You know, 1078 01:07:21,200 --> 01:07:23,040 Speaker 1: I think we started the week then we started the week. 1079 01:07:23,280 --> 01:07:28,760 Speaker 1: Colifl describe areas laying a strong veteran to rest the dynamic. 1080 01:07:28,880 --> 01:07:34,240 Speaker 1: Amazing General Cola Power, coldest brother, yes, bad in a 1081 01:07:34,320 --> 01:07:36,960 Speaker 1: super baby should have ran for president. We wouldn't be 1082 01:07:37,000 --> 01:07:40,080 Speaker 1: dealing with the dude in the Republican Party we got now. 1083 01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:43,320 Speaker 1: I think Cola Power had the man. He was cold brother, 1084 01:07:43,480 --> 01:07:46,000 Speaker 1: you know. And see for me, I shout out the 1085 01:07:46,120 --> 01:07:50,320 Speaker 1: veterans because you know, black people when we came over here, 1086 01:07:50,360 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 1: some of us was free, Some of us was not Tommy, 1087 01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,560 Speaker 1: you know, Steve, uh you, Julius, you know. But we 1088 01:07:56,760 --> 01:07:59,920 Speaker 1: fought in every war to try to prove our dedication 1089 01:08:00,040 --> 01:08:03,600 Speaker 1: and love to this country that didn't always love us so. 1090 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:06,760 Speaker 1: But but to put a uniform on, to stand up 1091 01:08:06,800 --> 01:08:09,680 Speaker 1: for this flag in this constitution, it was an honor. 1092 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:12,240 Speaker 1: It was an honor. So we saluted all vestans out 1093 01:08:12,280 --> 01:08:15,800 Speaker 1: there and do y'all remember in roots when the veterans 1094 01:08:16,080 --> 01:08:19,439 Speaker 1: from World War Two and World War One came back 1095 01:08:19,760 --> 01:08:22,479 Speaker 1: and they were not treated with respect. And remember the 1096 01:08:22,600 --> 01:08:26,000 Speaker 1: Great Stand Show was one of this. He's a good 1097 01:08:26,160 --> 01:08:29,640 Speaker 1: but the bomb actor you know him? Uh Steve and 1098 01:08:29,800 --> 01:08:33,840 Speaker 1: Tommy now from Harlem Knights, he was the boxer. He 1099 01:08:34,000 --> 01:08:44,080 Speaker 1: was a boxer. And to take this, but they were 1100 01:08:44,280 --> 01:08:47,200 Speaker 1: veterans that had got together to stand up for themselves, 1101 01:08:47,240 --> 01:08:50,519 Speaker 1: and they were World War One veterans. And I really 1102 01:08:50,600 --> 01:08:53,280 Speaker 1: just want to salute veterans, especially when we put on 1103 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,679 Speaker 1: the uniform whatever branch of service. When you talk about Army, Navy, 1104 01:08:56,760 --> 01:09:00,240 Speaker 1: Air Force, Marines, and even the coast Guard, that means 1105 01:09:00,320 --> 01:09:03,599 Speaker 1: that we understand that we are sophisticated enough to understand 1106 01:09:03,640 --> 01:09:06,200 Speaker 1: that we fight for this country and we love this country, 1107 01:09:06,439 --> 01:09:09,160 Speaker 1: and we can be laying under a black commander in chief, 1108 01:09:09,560 --> 01:09:13,000 Speaker 1: President Barack Obama. That and then when they made President 1109 01:09:13,040 --> 01:09:16,559 Speaker 1: Barack Obama, I commanded chief. I was so so proud. 1110 01:09:16,720 --> 01:09:18,920 Speaker 1: So I just want to say Happy Veteran's Day to 1111 01:09:19,080 --> 01:09:22,720 Speaker 1: all the veterans out there. And I wanted to join 1112 01:09:22,840 --> 01:09:25,799 Speaker 1: the military because I saw a picture of my father 1113 01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:30,280 Speaker 1: and all of his brothers wearing their army uniform and 1114 01:09:30,439 --> 01:09:34,160 Speaker 1: a special shout out. Now, this is my stepfather, John Chappelle, 1115 01:09:34,479 --> 01:09:37,720 Speaker 1: who married my mother. He was stationed at Offen Air 1116 01:09:37,800 --> 01:09:40,920 Speaker 1: Force Base. That's how I got to Castle Air Force Base, 1117 01:09:41,200 --> 01:09:45,479 Speaker 1: which brought me to California and the rest is history. 1118 01:09:45,640 --> 01:09:48,200 Speaker 1: And I was in the Air Force Reserve at Travis 1119 01:09:48,320 --> 01:09:52,400 Speaker 1: Air Force Base and O'Hare, Phil. So we are saluting 1120 01:09:52,560 --> 01:09:56,560 Speaker 1: all veterans out there today. We salute you on this 1121 01:09:56,720 --> 01:09:59,840 Speaker 1: Veteran's Day. Well, thank you for your service. Ryl, thank you, 1122 01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:03,000 Speaker 1: thank you, thank you. I love being it man. I 1123 01:10:03,080 --> 01:10:04,920 Speaker 1: love being a military man. I didn't think I could 1124 01:10:04,960 --> 01:10:09,840 Speaker 1: run a mile. Whoo chat listen, motivated, motivated, I'm like, whoa, 1125 01:10:09,880 --> 01:10:13,960 Speaker 1: this is what we gonna do. Air date. All right, Cheryl, 1126 01:10:14,040 --> 01:10:15,840 Speaker 1: thank you. Coming up at the top of the hour. 1127 01:10:15,880 --> 01:10:19,360 Speaker 1: We're going to talk about traveling. Right after this. You're 1128 01:10:19,400 --> 01:10:25,120 Speaker 1: listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Kyle Rittenhouse, the 1129 01:10:25,360 --> 01:10:28,759 Speaker 1: armed Illinois teenager who killed two people and wounded another 1130 01:10:28,880 --> 01:10:33,560 Speaker 1: during protests in Kenosha, Wisconsin, took the stand yesterday to 1131 01:10:33,720 --> 01:10:38,240 Speaker 1: testify in his own defense in his trial on homicide charges. 1132 01:10:38,520 --> 01:10:41,960 Speaker 1: All right, so here's what happened in court, Rittenhouse took 1133 01:10:42,000 --> 01:10:45,719 Speaker 1: the stand right. He says he did nothing wrong. Rittenhouse 1134 01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:48,519 Speaker 1: defended his actions in Kenosha in the wake of the 1135 01:10:48,600 --> 01:10:51,720 Speaker 1: protests related to the police shooting of Jacob Blake in 1136 01:10:51,880 --> 01:10:55,160 Speaker 1: August of last year. Remember they shot Jacob Blake seven 1137 01:10:55,280 --> 01:10:59,240 Speaker 1: times in the back. This happened in August of last year. 1138 01:10:59,479 --> 01:11:03,240 Speaker 1: Rittenhouse told the court. I didn't do anything wrong. I 1139 01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:07,200 Speaker 1: defended myself. He's a teenager. It also said that he 1140 01:11:07,320 --> 01:11:11,240 Speaker 1: didn't intend to kill anyone, but agreed he used deadly 1141 01:11:11,360 --> 01:11:15,000 Speaker 1: force that night. It was a very emotional testimony if 1142 01:11:15,040 --> 01:11:17,559 Speaker 1: you had a chance to see it. Rittenhouse broke down 1143 01:11:17,640 --> 01:11:20,400 Speaker 1: on the stand while describing the night of the shooting, 1144 01:11:20,520 --> 01:11:24,960 Speaker 1: prompting the judge to call a ten minute recess. Rittenhouse 1145 01:11:25,000 --> 01:11:29,599 Speaker 1: says he was ambushed. Rittenhouse testify that Joseph Rosenbaum, who 1146 01:11:29,680 --> 01:11:32,439 Speaker 1: he shot and killed, had threatened to kill him, and 1147 01:11:32,560 --> 01:11:34,840 Speaker 1: he said he came out from behind the car and 1148 01:11:35,040 --> 01:11:40,519 Speaker 1: ambushed me. Well, the interesting thing about it was, this 1149 01:11:40,640 --> 01:11:42,640 Speaker 1: is the first time I've seen the video, and I 1150 01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:45,759 Speaker 1: just happened to watch some of them, and I watched 1151 01:11:46,120 --> 01:11:48,439 Speaker 1: all the clips. I didn't know it had went down 1152 01:11:48,600 --> 01:11:51,920 Speaker 1: like that. I just didn't remember Steve. That was from 1153 01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:54,640 Speaker 1: the last year. No, no, no, no, yeah, no, I 1154 01:11:54,720 --> 01:11:57,360 Speaker 1: know we talked about it. I never saw the footage. 1155 01:11:58,400 --> 01:12:00,519 Speaker 1: This is the first time I saw footag was doing 1156 01:12:00,560 --> 01:12:05,920 Speaker 1: the trial. The prosecutor presented the footage. Now, I don't 1157 01:12:05,960 --> 01:12:09,280 Speaker 1: know how. I didn't even realize that he had killed 1158 01:12:09,360 --> 01:12:13,800 Speaker 1: the two people in two separate places. So this dude 1159 01:12:13,920 --> 01:12:19,599 Speaker 1: just on one yeah, and he talking about they said 1160 01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:22,720 Speaker 1: get him, getting him. Wait a minute, man, First of all, 1161 01:12:22,880 --> 01:12:26,479 Speaker 1: you're not a police officer, right, But I'm just watching 1162 01:12:26,560 --> 01:12:30,880 Speaker 1: the footage of how he killed these two people. At 1163 01:12:31,120 --> 01:12:36,080 Speaker 1: no point in time did anyone point a gun at him, 1164 01:12:37,439 --> 01:12:42,360 Speaker 1: At no point in time. Why is he there? It 1165 01:12:42,600 --> 01:12:46,040 Speaker 1: doesn't make any He there cross state lines to get there. 1166 01:12:46,120 --> 01:12:52,800 Speaker 1: He's from Illinois to start trouble. That's why he took 1167 01:12:52,920 --> 01:12:57,720 Speaker 1: his gun. He took a k How how you on 1168 01:12:58,080 --> 01:13:05,639 Speaker 1: film shooting two people one man unarmed? You shot an 1169 01:13:05,800 --> 01:13:09,200 Speaker 1: unarmed man, you say, because he was charging you, and 1170 01:13:11,000 --> 01:13:13,920 Speaker 1: what what are you talking about? And his testimony was 1171 01:13:14,040 --> 01:13:19,280 Speaker 1: very dramatic too. You know, Y got no time for that. 1172 01:13:20,880 --> 01:13:25,040 Speaker 1: But in the drama, the actor the Oscars, I didn't 1173 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:27,840 Speaker 1: think he would be on the stand. I didn't think 1174 01:13:27,960 --> 01:13:31,400 Speaker 1: that was his defense. That was risky though, because we've 1175 01:13:31,479 --> 01:13:34,519 Speaker 1: never seen that, so it might. But I'm gonna tell 1176 01:13:34,520 --> 01:13:39,360 Speaker 1: you something. I saw enough. What well, Okay, let me 1177 01:13:39,439 --> 01:13:43,360 Speaker 1: start this two ways. I saw enough where I know 1178 01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:49,040 Speaker 1: for a fact, if this boy was black, he's fitting 1179 01:13:49,080 --> 01:13:52,719 Speaker 1: to get convicted. I know that. It's if you play 1180 01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:55,519 Speaker 1: that tape for me and a black dude has got 1181 01:13:55,600 --> 01:13:58,120 Speaker 1: this gun, I'm going all right, this dude going to jail. Now. 1182 01:13:59,320 --> 01:14:02,240 Speaker 1: If you play this tape for me and it's a 1183 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:07,400 Speaker 1: police officer doing this, the police officer is in trouble, 1184 01:14:09,040 --> 01:14:12,760 Speaker 1: but Steve. But but now let me finish. If our 1185 01:14:13,040 --> 01:14:16,439 Speaker 1: seventeen year old white boy does this, and I watched 1186 01:14:16,520 --> 01:14:21,360 Speaker 1: the tape, I'm nervous. But now I saw enough that 1187 01:14:21,600 --> 01:14:25,320 Speaker 1: I saw two murders. Yes, but I don't know what 1188 01:14:25,520 --> 01:14:29,560 Speaker 1: these damn generous is gonna see. That's what's crazy to me. 1189 01:14:29,960 --> 01:14:32,120 Speaker 1: But if this is a seventeen year old black boy, 1190 01:14:32,479 --> 01:14:35,360 Speaker 1: he'd have died that night walking down the street with 1191 01:14:35,600 --> 01:14:41,120 Speaker 1: the acape Thomas with the the police are not allowing 1192 01:14:41,280 --> 01:14:45,200 Speaker 1: that a black dude to be walking around him strapped 1193 01:14:45,240 --> 01:14:47,760 Speaker 1: with a rifle one like that. Come on, man, this 1194 01:14:48,000 --> 01:14:51,479 Speaker 1: white boy with his hat on backwards went there with 1195 01:14:51,760 --> 01:14:55,680 Speaker 1: the intent to be a vigilante. And that's exactly how 1196 01:14:55,800 --> 01:14:59,120 Speaker 1: he added it. He got to go to prison. All right, 1197 01:15:00,080 --> 01:15:02,760 Speaker 1: I don't know. Coming up, we'll have more of the 1198 01:15:02,800 --> 01:15:05,600 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show at twenty minutes after. Right after this, 1199 01:15:06,280 --> 01:15:11,599 Speaker 1: you're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show. The time 1200 01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:13,920 Speaker 1: you decide to lie down for the night and go 1201 01:15:14,040 --> 01:15:17,439 Speaker 1: to sleep may determine how at risk you are to 1202 01:15:17,600 --> 01:15:21,160 Speaker 1: develop heart disease. Research are studying the sleep habits of 1203 01:15:21,280 --> 01:15:24,560 Speaker 1: eighty eight thousand adults over six years found a correlation 1204 01:15:24,640 --> 01:15:28,680 Speaker 1: between bedtime and heart disease. The data is showing that 1205 01:15:28,840 --> 01:15:32,439 Speaker 1: those who went to sleep after eleven pm had a 1206 01:15:32,520 --> 01:15:37,600 Speaker 1: twenty five percent higher risk of cardiovascar cardiovascular disease, and 1207 01:15:37,760 --> 01:15:41,200 Speaker 1: those who dozed off before ten pm were at a 1208 01:15:41,360 --> 01:15:46,320 Speaker 1: twenty four percent higher risk. That led researchers to conclude 1209 01:15:46,720 --> 01:15:50,479 Speaker 1: that the ideal bedtime is between ten and eleven pm. 1210 01:15:51,120 --> 01:15:53,400 Speaker 1: The study also found that the risk is higher for 1211 01:15:53,520 --> 01:15:59,120 Speaker 1: women after eleven pm and higher for men before ten pm. 1212 01:16:00,080 --> 01:16:04,240 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, into bed. We have to get up early, 1213 01:16:04,800 --> 01:16:14,479 Speaker 1: that stupid ass. That yeah, a heart attack. Thirty We 1214 01:16:14,600 --> 01:16:18,240 Speaker 1: got a show started ten thirty. I'm just trying to 1215 01:16:18,280 --> 01:16:24,240 Speaker 1: figure out what they're talking about. Yeah. Yeah, the people 1216 01:16:24,320 --> 01:16:27,760 Speaker 1: have different jobs and stuff careers than we. Sound like 1217 01:16:27,840 --> 01:16:33,160 Speaker 1: they got different goals. You out here trying to get it? Man, 1218 01:16:33,400 --> 01:16:35,000 Speaker 1: I don't know what. I don't know what y'all. Y'all 1219 01:16:35,120 --> 01:16:42,320 Speaker 1: quit talking to me about sneak. Next question. All right, 1220 01:16:42,400 --> 01:16:44,400 Speaker 1: we'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We'll 1221 01:16:44,439 --> 01:16:46,160 Speaker 1: play a round of would you rather? At thirty three 1222 01:16:46,200 --> 01:16:51,760 Speaker 1: minutes after? Right after this you're listening to show? All right, 1223 01:16:51,840 --> 01:16:55,080 Speaker 1: here we go, guys, would you rather? Would you rather 1224 01:16:55,200 --> 01:17:01,080 Speaker 1: become someone else? Or just stay you? Or just stay you? Yet? 1225 01:17:02,840 --> 01:17:05,280 Speaker 1: I can't even know who the other else? Who is else? 1226 01:17:06,120 --> 01:17:07,840 Speaker 1: Even if you could pick something, I'll tell you what. 1227 01:17:08,000 --> 01:17:10,320 Speaker 1: How about this a better question? If you could pick 1228 01:17:10,439 --> 01:17:14,880 Speaker 1: to be whoever you wanted to be or yourself? Who 1229 01:17:14,920 --> 01:17:18,639 Speaker 1: would you pick? Man? Or would you just stay yourself? Men? 1230 01:17:19,400 --> 01:17:25,640 Speaker 1: You've got to want to change time? Please? What is advantage? 1231 01:17:28,000 --> 01:17:32,800 Speaker 1: What is wrong? Admittedly you stupid? Why would you want 1232 01:17:32,840 --> 01:17:36,160 Speaker 1: to continue? Well? Look where he has gotten me. M 1233 01:17:38,120 --> 01:17:41,479 Speaker 1: thank you for that brought me a mighty long way. 1234 01:17:41,600 --> 01:17:49,120 Speaker 1: Go ahead, sir, Okay, would your brother explore space, explore 1235 01:17:49,200 --> 01:17:53,200 Speaker 1: the ocean, the ocean space. Scared of both of them. 1236 01:17:54,840 --> 01:17:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm scared of them. I can't food with the water man. Lord, 1237 01:18:00,640 --> 01:18:06,400 Speaker 1: people have been going into space lately. Yeah, William, it's 1238 01:18:06,400 --> 01:18:08,599 Speaker 1: something down that water. We ain't seen you now, nothing, 1239 01:18:08,640 --> 01:18:10,960 Speaker 1: we ain't seen nothing. I'm sure something's face too, but 1240 01:18:11,120 --> 01:18:14,320 Speaker 1: down in that water. Yeah, once you get to space, 1241 01:18:14,680 --> 01:18:16,479 Speaker 1: we don't go that far space. We just go right 1242 01:18:16,520 --> 01:18:18,479 Speaker 1: to the moon and back. That's it. We just want 1243 01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:20,599 Speaker 1: to make a you turn. There's a nice little you turn. 1244 01:18:20,800 --> 01:18:24,599 Speaker 1: That's all that water space over the ocean. Yeah, okay, 1245 01:18:25,439 --> 01:18:28,320 Speaker 1: all right. Would you rather be a kid for your 1246 01:18:28,360 --> 01:18:33,080 Speaker 1: whole life or be an adult your entire life? Adult, 1247 01:18:34,120 --> 01:18:39,120 Speaker 1: you'd rather be an adult. You're way more freedom as kids. 1248 01:18:39,160 --> 01:18:41,680 Speaker 1: Ain't having no damn ocean. Now, I'm not going back 1249 01:18:41,760 --> 01:18:47,160 Speaker 1: saying my daddy house. That's he. Oh you in here 1250 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:51,760 Speaker 1: changing channels? You work now, excuse me. I know you 1251 01:18:51,800 --> 01:18:55,240 Speaker 1: ain't slamming no dos in here. You don't hold no dope. 1252 01:18:56,760 --> 01:19:00,719 Speaker 1: A close that dope for you? Let all out? Yeah. Also, 1253 01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:04,320 Speaker 1: if I leave this dobe, then we're gonna stop breathing. Okay, 1254 01:19:04,360 --> 01:19:06,360 Speaker 1: you rather be an adult in your entire life? Did 1255 01:19:06,439 --> 01:19:10,200 Speaker 1: you answer Tommy, Yeah, I'm gonna go with adult, but 1256 01:19:10,520 --> 01:19:16,760 Speaker 1: be the size of a child. I would rather he 1257 01:19:16,960 --> 01:19:26,640 Speaker 1: shut up, That's what I would rather. Come on, he 1258 01:19:26,800 --> 01:19:28,519 Speaker 1: kind of he kind of got the best of both. 1259 01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:36,840 Speaker 1: We else he's an adult and a child. Come on, sir, Okay, okay, 1260 01:19:37,000 --> 01:19:40,360 Speaker 1: all right, all right. Would you rather go on a 1261 01:19:40,439 --> 01:19:43,320 Speaker 1: cruise with your friends or go on a cruise with 1262 01:19:43,439 --> 01:19:46,840 Speaker 1: your spouse? I know what you're going to say, Well, 1263 01:19:46,880 --> 01:19:51,639 Speaker 1: I know my wife. No, No, I have the option 1264 01:19:51,720 --> 01:19:55,240 Speaker 1: every year. It's me and my girl. Man. Yeah, hands down. 1265 01:19:55,560 --> 01:19:58,280 Speaker 1: You've never gone on a guy's trip on a bump. 1266 01:19:58,360 --> 01:20:01,280 Speaker 1: It's been that kind of money. We don't damn. All right, 1267 01:20:05,400 --> 01:20:08,200 Speaker 1: coming up in forty nine minutes after the hour, it's 1268 01:20:08,240 --> 01:20:10,000 Speaker 1: the last break of the day. We'll have some closing 1269 01:20:10,040 --> 01:20:15,120 Speaker 1: remarks from Steve Harvey right after this you're listening show. 1270 01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:17,600 Speaker 1: All right, guys, here we are last break of the 1271 01:20:17,720 --> 01:20:20,519 Speaker 1: day on this Thursday, and we have to say again 1272 01:20:20,680 --> 01:20:23,200 Speaker 1: Happy Veterans Day to all of our veterans. Thank you 1273 01:20:23,280 --> 01:20:30,720 Speaker 1: so much for your service. Yes, um yeah, yea. And 1274 01:20:31,000 --> 01:20:39,680 Speaker 1: Steve yeah, Uh, here's a philosophy that I live with. Uh, 1275 01:20:40,000 --> 01:20:42,560 Speaker 1: it's just something simple. I don't you know. I just 1276 01:20:42,680 --> 01:20:46,080 Speaker 1: try to throw a lot of thought starters out there 1277 01:20:46,120 --> 01:20:48,720 Speaker 1: for people to kind of get you, uh, you know, 1278 01:20:48,840 --> 01:20:51,120 Speaker 1: just looking at stuff maybe a little bit differently that 1279 01:20:51,280 --> 01:20:52,960 Speaker 1: might be able to help you in your day to day, 1280 01:20:53,600 --> 01:20:57,320 Speaker 1: especially on your journey to becoming successful. And one of 1281 01:20:57,360 --> 01:21:07,200 Speaker 1: the things I don't do, I don't do percentages. I 1282 01:21:08,040 --> 01:21:14,479 Speaker 1: don't do percentages. I don't care about the percentage. And 1283 01:21:14,600 --> 01:21:17,360 Speaker 1: there's a lot of ways I don't do percentages. First 1284 01:21:17,400 --> 01:21:21,960 Speaker 1: of all, let me tell you what statistics are usually 1285 01:21:22,400 --> 01:21:27,479 Speaker 1: involving some type of percentage. One out of every six, 1286 01:21:27,600 --> 01:21:32,719 Speaker 1: out of every only one in a million. Some type 1287 01:21:32,760 --> 01:21:38,479 Speaker 1: of statistics usually involve some type of percentage. And that's 1288 01:21:38,520 --> 01:21:44,439 Speaker 1: why I don't do percentage. I'm always one hundred percent 1289 01:21:46,400 --> 01:21:50,360 Speaker 1: in every aspect of my life. I try to give 1290 01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:55,360 Speaker 1: whatever i'm doing one hundred percent. Matter fact, I don't try, 1291 01:21:55,439 --> 01:21:58,639 Speaker 1: I do it. When I go to work, I give 1292 01:21:58,680 --> 01:22:04,639 Speaker 1: it one hundred percent. If I'm playing golf, no matter 1293 01:22:04,720 --> 01:22:06,960 Speaker 1: how bad that day is gone, and it's a lot 1294 01:22:07,040 --> 01:22:12,840 Speaker 1: of them, I'm giving one hundred percent. When I'm relaxing, 1295 01:22:13,080 --> 01:22:19,280 Speaker 1: I'm giving one hundred percent. If I'm motivating somebody, I'm 1296 01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:22,480 Speaker 1: all in one hundred percent. I have no other percentage 1297 01:22:22,720 --> 01:22:25,920 Speaker 1: because I don't do percentages. Man, I'm not gonna let 1298 01:22:26,080 --> 01:22:31,160 Speaker 1: anybody determine my value with a percentage. I'm not gonna 1299 01:22:31,600 --> 01:22:34,920 Speaker 1: deflect or ruin the chances of the outcome being what 1300 01:22:35,080 --> 01:22:38,000 Speaker 1: I needed to be by giving less than one hundred percent. 1301 01:22:38,240 --> 01:22:40,760 Speaker 1: I don't do percentages. I don't care when you come 1302 01:22:40,800 --> 01:22:42,080 Speaker 1: up to me and tell me, why are you're gonna 1303 01:22:42,120 --> 01:22:44,040 Speaker 1: do that type of show? Anybody never did that by 1304 01:22:44,120 --> 01:22:47,000 Speaker 1: show that did that show before. That's one out of 1305 01:22:47,080 --> 01:22:50,040 Speaker 1: every three thousand shows. One out of every twenty thousand 1306 01:22:50,080 --> 01:22:52,479 Speaker 1: comedians were told they would get on the Tonight Show. 1307 01:22:52,800 --> 01:22:56,320 Speaker 1: So every night before I walked on stage in comedy clubs, 1308 01:22:56,560 --> 01:23:03,519 Speaker 1: I used to hum the Johnny Carson theme, Done Anything Done? 1309 01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:08,200 Speaker 1: I just hummed it. One time a comedian heard me said, hey, 1310 01:23:08,280 --> 01:23:10,840 Speaker 1: man's that's the Tonight Show thing? I see? Yeah, because 1311 01:23:10,880 --> 01:23:13,760 Speaker 1: one day, man, I'm gonna get that. He said, Man, yea, 1312 01:23:13,800 --> 01:23:17,200 Speaker 1: how hard he is to get on Tonight Show? I said, yeah, 1313 01:23:17,240 --> 01:23:19,200 Speaker 1: I I don't know. He said, Man, one out of 1314 01:23:19,280 --> 01:23:23,439 Speaker 1: every twenty thousand comedians to ever get on that show. Okay, cool, 1315 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:25,880 Speaker 1: but see it seeing us, I don't care nothing about 1316 01:23:25,920 --> 01:23:30,240 Speaker 1: your percentage the number you said that. I only cared 1317 01:23:30,280 --> 01:23:34,320 Speaker 1: about where you said one. Then my goal was to 1318 01:23:34,520 --> 01:23:39,280 Speaker 1: just be that one. I guess what, I never I 1319 01:23:39,360 --> 01:23:42,080 Speaker 1: never made it to the Johnny Carson Show. I never 1320 01:23:42,200 --> 01:23:46,200 Speaker 1: got there. I did go on the show when Jay 1321 01:23:46,320 --> 01:23:51,040 Speaker 1: Lennar was hosting it, called it Tonight Show. I finally 1322 01:23:51,120 --> 01:23:53,280 Speaker 1: made it and me and Jay Lennar was in the 1323 01:23:53,360 --> 01:23:56,360 Speaker 1: back having a conversation about it. He said, Man, how 1324 01:23:56,600 --> 01:23:59,200 Speaker 1: is it that you're not doing Late Night? He said, Man, 1325 01:23:59,280 --> 01:24:02,080 Speaker 1: they're missing a boat on you. Man. And how is it, man, 1326 01:24:02,120 --> 01:24:04,400 Speaker 1: that this is your first time doing the Tonight Show. 1327 01:24:05,000 --> 01:24:07,640 Speaker 1: I said, well, I believed I'd always get to the 1328 01:24:07,720 --> 01:24:10,120 Speaker 1: Tonight Show. I just thought it would be with Johnny Carson. 1329 01:24:11,040 --> 01:24:14,200 Speaker 1: But it's better cause as you, he said, it's better 1330 01:24:14,240 --> 01:24:15,960 Speaker 1: being on the show cause it's me. I said, yeah, 1331 01:24:15,960 --> 01:24:20,680 Speaker 1: at least I know you. Because if you know one thing, 1332 01:24:21,200 --> 01:24:24,800 Speaker 1: I did not care about the percentage one in every 1333 01:24:24,880 --> 01:24:30,200 Speaker 1: twenty thousand. Okay, cool, you did say one, though. See, 1334 01:24:30,240 --> 01:24:33,840 Speaker 1: when you believe in percentages, you kill all your hopes 1335 01:24:33,920 --> 01:24:40,160 Speaker 1: for probability. When you go into the probability factor too much, 1336 01:24:40,560 --> 01:24:45,040 Speaker 1: you kill all chances at possibility. Did you know what 1337 01:24:45,120 --> 01:24:49,719 Speaker 1: I just said? If you rely on statistics, you ruin 1338 01:24:49,800 --> 01:24:52,760 Speaker 1: your chances for probability. But if you lean too heavy 1339 01:24:52,840 --> 01:24:57,200 Speaker 1: on probability, you kill all your chances of possibility. I 1340 01:24:57,439 --> 01:25:00,360 Speaker 1: didn't care what the stats said. I did don't care 1341 01:25:00,360 --> 01:25:02,880 Speaker 1: about the probability. It not heart is for one in 1342 01:25:03,000 --> 01:25:06,519 Speaker 1: twenty thousand, get there. I only concern myself with the 1343 01:25:06,680 --> 01:25:11,880 Speaker 1: possibility that I could be one. I'm telling you, y'all, 1344 01:25:14,040 --> 01:25:16,680 Speaker 1: these things that you keep imagining, these themes that you 1345 01:25:16,840 --> 01:25:20,519 Speaker 1: keep hoping for, these things that you're praying about, these 1346 01:25:20,600 --> 01:25:26,760 Speaker 1: things that you're expiring to, It's gonna happen if you 1347 01:25:26,880 --> 01:25:30,200 Speaker 1: believe it's gonna happen, and you stay the course and 1348 01:25:30,400 --> 01:25:33,040 Speaker 1: you never give up, and you keep the faith and 1349 01:25:33,200 --> 01:25:38,599 Speaker 1: you put in the unrelenting work ethic that's required, which 1350 01:25:38,760 --> 01:25:42,160 Speaker 1: is one hundred percent all the time in all things. 1351 01:25:42,479 --> 01:25:49,559 Speaker 1: Listen to me, y'all. Here's the formula. It's one one 1352 01:25:50,040 --> 01:25:54,000 Speaker 1: percent of the time and in one hundred percent of 1353 01:25:54,160 --> 01:25:58,080 Speaker 1: all things. Let me give you the formula again. It's 1354 01:25:58,160 --> 01:26:05,320 Speaker 1: one hundred percent of the time, in one hundred percent 1355 01:26:05,640 --> 01:26:10,600 Speaker 1: all things. If you follow that formula, that is no 1356 01:26:10,920 --> 01:26:16,439 Speaker 1: way you will not be successful. That's a promise of 1357 01:26:16,600 --> 01:26:21,120 Speaker 1: your heavenly father. It's not a theory. God said that 1358 01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:26,680 Speaker 1: if you believe, you shall receive you. And if you 1359 01:26:26,760 --> 01:26:30,200 Speaker 1: put the work ethic with it, you're gonna mess around 1360 01:26:30,200 --> 01:26:35,320 Speaker 1: and half something. Get out of the statistics and get 1361 01:26:35,360 --> 01:26:38,800 Speaker 1: out of percentages. It's only one that matters. If you 1362 01:26:38,960 --> 01:26:42,200 Speaker 1: give one hundred percent, one hundred percent of the time, 1363 01:26:42,640 --> 01:26:45,080 Speaker 1: in one hundred percent of the things you do, you 1364 01:26:45,160 --> 01:26:47,960 Speaker 1: will be successful. And if you put God in the 1365 01:26:48,080 --> 01:26:52,599 Speaker 1: mix of all that, you're about to be a winner. Y'all. Congratulations, Hey, 1366 01:26:52,720 --> 01:26:56,080 Speaker 1: y'all hanging there. We'll see y'all tomorrow morning. God knows you, 1367 01:26:56,400 --> 01:26:59,240 Speaker 1: and let you do about that, God willing. We'll see 1368 01:26:59,280 --> 01:27:08,479 Speaker 1: y'all tomorrow. For all Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, 1369 01:27:08,560 --> 01:27:11,800 Speaker 1: void where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at 1370 01:27:11,880 --> 01:27:15,960 Speaker 1: least eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 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