WEBVTT - Peg’s a Firecracker! | Golden Hour 0:00:07.800 --> 0:00:11.080 Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for 0:00:11.200 --> 0:00:13.640 joining us today. We're so excited to be back. How 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:14.040 are you? 0:00:14.280 --> 0:00:14.360 Is? 0:00:14.600 --> 0:00:17.400 Always excited to be back, Cath, I can't wait for today. 0:00:17.440 --> 0:00:21.160 We have a very special guest, please welcome from this 0:00:21.239 --> 0:00:25.720 season of The Golden Bachelor. Peg is here, Hey Peg, Peg? 0:00:27.040 --> 0:00:27.800 Gorgeous she is? 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:30.880 I mean, do you wake up looking that beautiful? That's 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:31.560 what I want to know. 0:00:31.640 --> 0:00:36.839 The hair, the cleavage you are Okay, no wigs, no 0:00:36.960 --> 0:00:37.520 wigs here. 0:00:39.080 --> 0:00:42.440 Your hair is really you look absolutely gorgeous. 0:00:42.520 --> 0:00:46.680 And that smile. Good lighter room. We're happy to have you. Yeah, 0:00:46.960 --> 0:00:48.040 so talk to us. 0:00:48.280 --> 0:00:51.800 Let's get started. There's so much we want to dive into. 0:00:52.920 --> 0:00:55.640 Here we go first, we want to get to know 0:00:55.960 --> 0:00:59.080 you a little bit better. Where are Let's just start 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:00.240 at the beginning. Where are you from? 0:01:01.160 --> 0:01:03.520 Born and raised in Las Vegas, Las Vegas, Nevada, born 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:04.000 and raised. 0:01:04.240 --> 0:01:06.680 Okay, wow, I'm coming your way soon. 0:01:06.800 --> 0:01:07.000 I know. 0:01:08.160 --> 0:01:10.200 Do you win? Do you win on the strip? 0:01:10.280 --> 0:01:13.119 Do we even gambled? People from Vegas? Probably don't even 0:01:13.160 --> 0:01:14.399 go to the strip, is that right? 0:01:14.800 --> 0:01:17.120 I can tell you I've gambled probably five times in 0:01:17.160 --> 0:01:17.880 my entire life. 0:01:17.959 --> 0:01:20.959 It's just I have a question. Is it hard to 0:01:21.080 --> 0:01:22.840 date in Las Vegas? 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:26.040 Really hard to date? Really, it's very hard to date here. 0:01:26.040 --> 0:01:27.920 You know why all the men are throwing their money 0:01:27.920 --> 0:01:30.399 away on the crafts table. That's what's going on there. 0:01:30.480 --> 0:01:32.119 And they don't live there, they just visit. 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:35.960 But you have had an incredible career. And my son 0:01:36.040 --> 0:01:38.920 was a firefighter, So I love you because thank you 0:01:38.959 --> 0:01:41.119 for your service all those years that you were one. 0:01:41.480 --> 0:01:44.839 But tell us about your life as a bomb tech. 0:01:45.800 --> 0:01:46.399 Well, it was. 0:01:46.360 --> 0:01:48.840 Really it was fun because I was on the fire department. 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:50.640 I was hired in nineteen ninety two. I was a 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:53.800 fourth woman hired on, so you can only guys imagine, 0:01:53.800 --> 0:01:55.840 and back in nineteen thinety two it was kind of 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:58.960 it was crazy, and you know, they did not want 0:01:59.000 --> 0:02:01.480 women on the fire department at all, they just did not. 0:02:01.880 --> 0:02:04.200 And somehow you got in there. 0:02:04.480 --> 0:02:06.400 I did, and I stayed because a lot of the 0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:08.679 women when they get hired on, they leave about six 0:02:08.720 --> 0:02:09.400 months to a year. 0:02:09.480 --> 0:02:12.160 They leave because if you can't handle the heat, get 0:02:12.160 --> 0:02:14.960 out of the kitchen. Yes, the guys don't want you there, 0:02:15.000 --> 0:02:17.880 they really don't, you know. So I did that for 0:02:17.919 --> 0:02:20.360 eight years on the floor. It's called fighting fires. 0:02:20.360 --> 0:02:22.960 I was on the ladder truck company, I was lading, 0:02:23.360 --> 0:02:25.720 I was on the pumper truck putting the fires out. 0:02:25.800 --> 0:02:28.440 I was on the ambulance. And then, to be honest 0:02:28.480 --> 0:02:29.480 with you, guys, I got bored. 0:02:29.560 --> 0:02:31.480 I got going to say, did you have a favorite 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:32.200 out of those. 0:02:33.960 --> 0:02:36.280 With the bomb? The bomb? When I was a bomb tech. 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:38.440 So I got bored on the floor because the guys, 0:02:38.480 --> 0:02:39.200 you know, they love it. 0:02:39.200 --> 0:02:41.000 It's a big boys club and they have a lot 0:02:41.000 --> 0:02:43.880 of fun and they smoke scars and they play cards 0:02:43.919 --> 0:02:46.480 and they do their video games in between all the calls, 0:02:46.600 --> 0:02:49.120 and it was really as a boys club. But the 0:02:49.160 --> 0:02:51.360 guys were great. I just have to say that. So 0:02:51.400 --> 0:02:53.880 I promoted to the Arson Division. So I went through 0:02:53.880 --> 0:02:56.520 the fire Academy, and then after that when I was 0:02:56.560 --> 0:02:58.480 promoted to the arsen Division, I went through the police 0:02:58.520 --> 0:03:02.000 Academy after the base academy. I did that for a 0:03:02.040 --> 0:03:04.600 while and then I became a promoted to a bomb tach. 0:03:04.639 --> 0:03:06.960 So I went through the FBI Bomb Academy and Hunter 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:09.400 Emma and Redstone Arsenal. 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:11.760 So the bomb the bomb. Being a bomb tach, it 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.560 was so much fun. I really really enjoyed that. The 0:03:14.600 --> 0:03:17.360 guys were great. What I did for a living was great. 0:03:17.400 --> 0:03:19.359 I felt like I was the main character in the 0:03:19.400 --> 0:03:20.079 spy novel. 0:03:20.200 --> 0:03:23.000 Yeah, did you actually get called to a scene and 0:03:23.080 --> 0:03:23.440 have to. 0:03:24.919 --> 0:03:25.200 Yes? 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.239 No, Susan. She sat around played video games. 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:30.080 You know, you just learned it. But how many bomb 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:32.320 threats are there? And you have to go dissect the bomb? 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:32.520 Like? 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:35.880 What when we roll up on scene. We have our trucks, 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:39.119 we have our equipment. Nobody knows we're coming because it's 0:03:39.120 --> 0:03:40.640 the entertainment capital of the world. 0:03:40.680 --> 0:03:42.520 So we slither in and we slither out. 0:03:42.600 --> 0:03:45.200 Yes, there we have a pipe bomb or we have 0:03:45.280 --> 0:03:48.520 an unknown device. We midgate the situation and then we get. 0:03:48.440 --> 0:03:50.360 The hell out of there, right right, right, right? 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:51.520 Boy? 0:03:52.120 --> 0:03:56.280 Okay, tell me how did you know? Did you watch 0:03:56.280 --> 0:03:59.080 The Bachelor? I mean, were you a fan of Bachelor? 0:03:59.080 --> 0:04:01.240 How did you get to on the Golden Bachelor? 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:06.000 You saw watch Kristen's and Ryan's season? That was it? 0:04:06.280 --> 0:04:08.720 Okay, so tell us how you got here. 0:04:09.200 --> 0:04:11.800 So my girlfriend Alana, my best friend from high school. 0:04:11.840 --> 0:04:13.320 She has never missed a season. 0:04:13.760 --> 0:04:16.320 And as soon as they advertised at what you guys 0:04:16.320 --> 0:04:18.560 three years ago two and a half years ago, I 0:04:18.600 --> 0:04:21.320 think it was he called me right away and she 0:04:21.560 --> 0:04:23.320 just said, you, I'm signing you up. 0:04:23.440 --> 0:04:25.960 You got to do this. I have to do this. 0:04:26.040 --> 0:04:28.120 I'm like, there is no way I'm putting myself on 0:04:28.200 --> 0:04:31.320 national television. There is no way I Am not going 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.960 to do it. But she just kept on me and 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:34.919 on me and on me. 0:04:35.320 --> 0:04:38.279 So I went ahead. She had started the process. I 0:04:38.360 --> 0:04:38.920 finished it. 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:42.839 I'm guessing your friends and family supported you. How did 0:04:42.880 --> 0:04:46.880 you prepare to go on this, you know, what were 0:04:46.920 --> 0:04:49.520 you hoping for? What were your expectations going on the show. 0:04:50.040 --> 0:04:52.080 Well, when they announced Mail on a Wednesday, I think 0:04:52.080 --> 0:04:54.760 it was in April they announced him, I'm like, oh, okay, 0:04:54.800 --> 0:04:56.960 he's kind of good looking, you know, and I'm thinking. 0:04:56.640 --> 0:04:58.440 Of my brain and I'm like, I don't know if 0:04:58.480 --> 0:05:01.520 I want to do this. But then my daughter's like, Mom. 0:05:01.360 --> 0:05:03.200 What else are you doing? You have nothing else going 0:05:03.240 --> 0:05:05.719 on in your life. I'm tired of calling me ten 0:05:05.760 --> 0:05:06.479 times a day. 0:05:07.320 --> 0:05:10.720 So so, so I'm date. You weren't dating? I take 0:05:10.720 --> 0:05:12.200 it prior No, I know. 0:05:12.320 --> 0:05:14.039 What you guys. I go on a date here, I 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:15.200 go out and date there. 0:05:15.440 --> 0:05:16.240 Well, I'm glad you do. 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:19.600 Okay, what did it feel like? Well, now you're there, 0:05:19.800 --> 0:05:23.000 you're there, okay, getting out of that limo for the 0:05:23.040 --> 0:05:26.920 first time, What were you thinking? What were you feeling? 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:30.920 Because we know you as being like us. 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:34.120 You know, energy, vivacious, Like, what was it when you 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:35.720 stood out and you had to talk to him for 0:05:35.720 --> 0:05:37.080 the first time? Tell us about those. 0:05:36.920 --> 0:05:40.440 First I had the bomb suit on. The bomb didn't 0:05:40.480 --> 0:05:46.280 go off, you tried, so then we just did what 0:05:46.279 --> 0:05:46.960 we needed to do. 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:50.080 I got dressed and honestly, I can't remember two words 0:05:50.160 --> 0:05:52.240 I said to you. 0:05:52.360 --> 0:05:54.919 But how about the women? When you walked into the house. 0:05:56.240 --> 0:06:01.480 I was like, oh shit, these are beautiful, gorgeous, accomplished women. 0:06:01.760 --> 0:06:04.800 And I'm really really excited. He's super excited for the 0:06:04.839 --> 0:06:06.200 whole entire experience. 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:08.360 So how much were you able to chat with him 0:06:08.360 --> 0:06:10.360 on the first night, because you know how crazy that is. 0:06:10.400 --> 0:06:12.560 It's there's a lot of women, not a lot of time. 0:06:12.760 --> 0:06:13.880 Did you get to chat. 0:06:14.240 --> 0:06:18.479 Three minutest at the three minutes? It was three minutes? Yeah. 0:06:18.560 --> 0:06:20.360 And I asked him, I said, what are you looking for? 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.279 I said, this is what I'm looking for because I 0:06:22.320 --> 0:06:24.960 went in with the idea if he is he good 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:28.640 for me. Yeah, you're tall, you're handsome, you're you're successful. 0:06:28.920 --> 0:06:30.120 I dated that before. 0:06:30.480 --> 0:06:32.920 I wanted to get to know who he was inside 0:06:33.000 --> 0:06:35.240 and get to know if he was right for me 0:06:35.320 --> 0:06:35.960 in my life. 0:06:36.000 --> 0:06:37.640 And you did that in three minutes. Peg. 0:06:37.720 --> 0:06:42.880 I'm really remember asking these questions, thinking, Wow, yeah, she 0:06:43.080 --> 0:06:46.520 wants to find out is this a good fit for me? 0:06:46.680 --> 0:06:48.840 And I'm going to be obvious and I admired it. 0:06:49.080 --> 0:06:51.360 Yeah, because that's who you know, that's kind of who 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:52.640 I we are that way. 0:06:52.839 --> 0:06:55.760 I didn't do that the first night, oh my first 0:06:55.760 --> 0:06:56.919 three minutes. Not I didn't. 0:06:57.120 --> 0:06:57.359 I was. 0:06:59.160 --> 0:07:00.560 Said to him. I said to him, I said, well, 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:02.680 what are you looking for? This is what I'm looking for? 0:07:02.720 --> 0:07:04.960 And I said you looking for and he said. 0:07:04.839 --> 0:07:06.960 You Yeah, that was cute. 0:07:07.080 --> 0:07:10.240 I was very cute. Okay, so the first rose time 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.280 of year, You're been up all night the whole dale. 0:07:12.400 --> 0:07:15.040 Were you confident? Were you nervous? How are you feeling? 0:07:15.760 --> 0:07:18.080 I was so nervous. You guys were in this process. 0:07:18.160 --> 0:07:20.640 We go from our normal life, so we get wished 0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:23.640 into this this you know, this process of you know, 0:07:23.680 --> 0:07:27.480 this dating, you know reality show. And my heart was 0:07:27.520 --> 0:07:29.240 just pounding a million miles a minute. 0:07:29.280 --> 0:07:30.760 And I think we all the girls were nervous. 0:07:30.800 --> 0:07:32.200 We're just coming way to. 0:07:32.400 --> 0:07:34.640 Expect your name to be Yeah, did you think you 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:35.240 were in it? 0:07:36.480 --> 0:07:36.720 Yes? 0:07:37.600 --> 0:07:39.600 That's good, good beynest confidence. 0:07:39.840 --> 0:07:40.080 Yeah. 0:07:40.400 --> 0:07:42.560 Who was there anyone that left that you were surprised 0:07:42.600 --> 0:07:43.120 they left? 0:07:43.440 --> 0:07:46.480 Yes? Tracy? I just love Tracy. 0:07:46.520 --> 0:07:48.360 Her and I are really good friends to this day, 0:07:48.400 --> 0:07:50.640 and I just loved her and I was just yeah, 0:07:50.680 --> 0:07:52.760 I just couldn't wrap my brain around that one. 0:07:53.160 --> 0:07:55.720 Yeah, she I heard, she's got a lot of hats. 0:07:56.400 --> 0:07:56.800 She does. 0:07:57.560 --> 0:07:58.520 She was adorable. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:01.400 All right, So we're going to fast forward a little bit. 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:04.520 You get the one on one last week. Let's just 0:08:04.600 --> 0:08:08.200 get it right fun. How let me just say, in 0:08:08.200 --> 0:08:10.679 case peg your memory is faulty, which I know it isn't. 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:13.600 I never had a one on one day, neither did Susan, 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:15.960 So we're desperate to hear all about it. What were 0:08:15.960 --> 0:08:17.560 you feeling when you found out it would be you? 0:08:18.280 --> 0:08:20.800 Well, I was excited because you know, I did not 0:08:20.920 --> 0:08:23.160 go into hear Guns of Blazon because I was not 0:08:23.320 --> 0:08:25.640 happy with that podcast. And you can ask my daughter. 0:08:25.720 --> 0:08:28.040 I was like, you know, I was not happy. I'm like, 0:08:28.120 --> 0:08:30.800 I dated those guys. I don't want to date those. 0:08:30.680 --> 0:08:33.360 Narcissistic, egotistical asses. Anymore. 0:08:33.360 --> 0:08:36.280 I've been there, done that, so I really kind of 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:38.679 I paused, and I knew I was going to get 0:08:38.679 --> 0:08:40.040 some alone time with him. 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:40.800 And when I did. 0:08:40.880 --> 0:08:44.080 At the OC Fair, we were eating our turkey legs 0:08:44.080 --> 0:08:46.280 and we were, you know, drinking our beer and stuff. 0:08:46.320 --> 0:08:48.520 And then we had a break and I went to him. 0:08:48.559 --> 0:08:50.439 I said, look, I need to ask you something. 0:08:50.720 --> 0:08:51.040 I said. 0:08:51.080 --> 0:08:53.160 I'm glad that you apologize to all the women. I 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:54.920 get that, I said, but I need to know who 0:08:54.960 --> 0:08:57.079 you are. And I told him this, I said, if 0:08:57.120 --> 0:08:59.760 you are that guy on that podcast. I looked him 0:08:59.760 --> 0:09:01.760 direct in the eye. I said, I don't want to 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:04.280 date you. I don't want to date you. I and 0:09:04.320 --> 0:09:05.199 don't waste. 0:09:04.880 --> 0:09:06.960 My time, and I don't want to waste your time. 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:08.360 And I'm sitting here like. 0:09:08.280 --> 0:09:10.920 A little chihuahuah because I'm like, I'm not going to 0:09:10.960 --> 0:09:13.640 open up my heart. I've dated these guys before and 0:09:13.720 --> 0:09:15.360 all they do is rip your heart out and they 0:09:15.440 --> 0:09:16.920 leave you bleeding everywhere. 0:09:23.720 --> 0:09:28.160 Watching your date with Mel, he like, I said, the 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:30.600 three of us, you know, we leave no prisoners. He 0:09:30.640 --> 0:09:33.679 looked like he was just watching you have a great time. 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:36.439 Like your energy you could see that he was like Wow, 0:09:36.520 --> 0:09:39.520 look at her energy. How did you feel about that? 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:40.439 The whole thing? 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:41.160 You know what? 0:09:41.280 --> 0:09:41.680 You guys? 0:09:42.120 --> 0:09:45.240 After I got an apology from him personally and we 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:47.520 talked about it a little bit, I realized he's not 0:09:47.600 --> 0:09:49.960 the guy that everybody's perceiving him to be. 0:09:50.400 --> 0:09:52.520 And I suspend judgment because. 0:09:52.240 --> 0:09:55.400 I really wanted to know who was inside. Yeah he's tall, 0:09:55.480 --> 0:09:56.959 good looking, all that great stuff. 0:09:57.000 --> 0:09:59.760 But are you right for me? Can you get into 0:09:59.800 --> 0:10:00.520 mind life? 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:00.800 You know? 0:10:01.400 --> 0:10:04.160 And I just I let down my guards and I 0:10:04.240 --> 0:10:06.320 just really started to have a good time. I have 0:10:06.400 --> 0:10:08.360 a lot of energy, you guys, and I annoy the 0:10:08.480 --> 0:10:09.760 shit out of a lot of people. 0:10:09.880 --> 0:10:13.040 Raise your that's three of us, we said, we're from 0:10:13.120 --> 0:10:13.920 the same mold. 0:10:13.960 --> 0:10:17.040 Did the three of us? We both just all we 0:10:17.120 --> 0:10:18.400 raised our hands in unison. 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.320 I mean, wait, I have a question. You were so 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:23.800 full of energy and I loved you. Knew every words 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:26.720 of the song. And I was shocked to see Kacy 0:10:27.520 --> 0:10:32.600 didn't even look like Casey. But was his energy matching yours? 0:10:32.720 --> 0:10:39.200 I did not see it? Well, yes, oh hell, you know? 0:10:39.400 --> 0:10:42.840 And I believe because you know, getting to know him 0:10:43.320 --> 0:10:45.600 and you know he's nervous, he's a human being. 0:10:45.640 --> 0:10:48.360 You guys, just like we are. And he was nervous 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:49.840 as much as we were nervous. 0:10:50.520 --> 0:10:52.800 He's got this, you know, this little jumping bean, this 0:10:52.840 --> 0:10:55.320 little Tasmanian devil, and he's just. 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:56.440 Like, what do I do with this? 0:10:56.880 --> 0:10:57.080 Right? 0:10:57.360 --> 0:11:00.439 He loved you being you, but you didn't seem nervous. 0:11:00.800 --> 0:11:02.640 I was not nervous. I went in there, you guys, 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:04.240 and I just I wanted to be you. 0:11:04.960 --> 0:11:07.600 Be me, You love me, you hate me? I am 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:08.160 who I am. 0:11:08.200 --> 0:11:11.320 Can I just say this has not worked well for me? 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:14.200 I mean I say the exact same things said. I'm 0:11:14.240 --> 0:11:16.800 just putting that out there. I am who I am. 0:11:17.040 --> 0:11:19.760 And it's like, take me or leap me. The problem 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:21.800 is they mostly leave me, but moving back to you 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:23.599 the way. 0:11:23.640 --> 0:11:24.319 But here's the thing. 0:11:24.320 --> 0:11:26.000 When somebody falls in love with you, they're going to 0:11:26.040 --> 0:11:27.600 fall in love with your authentic self. 0:11:27.679 --> 0:11:30.199 It's not that it's not the representative. I don't want 0:11:30.240 --> 0:11:32.080 to fall in love with anybody's representative. 0:11:32.120 --> 0:11:35.880 Oh absolutely, That's why I have to be on me 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:37.679 y to be real. 0:11:37.679 --> 0:11:39.680 Kathy, keep being you. Somebody will come along. 0:11:39.480 --> 0:11:41.320 Thank you, peg, and you're going to make sure it happens. 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.440 How did it feel opened up to me about your divorce. 0:11:44.559 --> 0:11:45.160 Was that hard? 0:11:45.960 --> 0:11:46.920 No, it wasn't hard. 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:49.400 His wife stepped out on the marriage and my ex 0:11:49.480 --> 0:11:51.480 husband stepped out on the marriage. So we have that 0:11:51.679 --> 0:11:55.440 commonality and that hurt in that grief, and we understood 0:11:55.480 --> 0:11:55.920 each other. 0:11:56.120 --> 0:12:00.160 But the best was the tattoo. Yeah, saying about that, 0:12:01.200 --> 0:12:01.920 do you have any more? 0:12:02.080 --> 0:12:02.600 Can we say it? 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:03.720 We can do that in the fantasy. 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:05.960 Can we see your tattoo? Can we see it? Where 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:06.320 is it? 0:12:06.559 --> 0:12:10.600 I am stamp. You guys had an affair, right, and 0:12:10.640 --> 0:12:11.439 I got a tattoo? 0:12:11.600 --> 0:12:15.080 Kill me whatever, There's nothing wrong with it. But I 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:16.839 love how you said, and I'll show you. 0:12:16.880 --> 0:12:17.080 Wait. 0:12:17.160 --> 0:12:19.199 Don't you have a tattoo on your wrist with your 0:12:19.280 --> 0:12:20.160 daughter or something? 0:12:21.480 --> 0:12:23.040 That's my piscy girl right there. 0:12:23.880 --> 0:12:25.920 You know I'm a piscey girl, are you? 0:12:26.160 --> 0:12:31.560 Yes, I'm a cancer So cancers and pisces are like that. 0:12:32.720 --> 0:12:37.200 Here I am left on the colt again. Kathy's gone again. 0:12:39.040 --> 0:12:39.960 What do you think I am? 0:12:40.920 --> 0:12:45.319 I don't the ball my sister we get along as 0:12:45.320 --> 0:12:46.680 well too. You're just stubborn. 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:47.640 I'm not. 0:12:48.600 --> 0:12:51.480 I am not stubborn. No, I really am not. I'm 0:12:51.480 --> 0:12:54.120 not getting wrong. I'm strong willed I'm not stubborn. 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:55.319 It's a better word. 0:12:56.320 --> 0:12:58.600 I'm not. But okay, so well wait wait. 0:12:58.440 --> 0:13:01.800 Did you think you did you even think about the 0:13:01.840 --> 0:13:04.840 possibility of getting that date rose that night? Or was 0:13:04.840 --> 0:13:06.640 that furthest thing for your mind from you? 0:13:06.800 --> 0:13:08.680 For in my mind, I was expecting them to call 0:13:08.720 --> 0:13:11.240 all the other girls. I was waiting for the other girls, 0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:13.040 you know, other women's names to be called. So I 0:13:13.080 --> 0:13:15.360 was a little taken back, to be honest with you. 0:13:15.440 --> 0:13:17.560 No, no, I meant on your date, on your one on 0:13:17.559 --> 0:13:19.480 one when he gave you, when he gave you the rose. 0:13:19.559 --> 0:13:22.559 Yeah, girl, we had some connection going on there. 0:13:22.640 --> 0:13:23.760 I really I love this. 0:13:24.520 --> 0:13:25.719 We both had that kid. 0:13:25.760 --> 0:13:26.120 We looked. 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.240 There was a moment that we both looked in each. 0:13:28.120 --> 0:13:30.640 Other's eyes and it was electrifying, and I was like, 0:13:30.720 --> 0:13:32.079 oh shit, I'm in trouble. 0:13:32.200 --> 0:13:36.280 I think we're gonna Vombit priceless because when we met you, 0:13:36.400 --> 0:13:38.800 when we were there, you were in a different place. 0:13:38.880 --> 0:13:40.840 You hadn't had one on one date yet. 0:13:41.200 --> 0:13:43.800 I chatty you, and I remember, and you said it 0:13:43.880 --> 0:13:47.679 on the show. You talked about chatty women that and 0:13:47.720 --> 0:13:51.400 I really I empathized or I see myself in you 0:13:51.480 --> 0:13:54.600 as well. First of all high energy, but also you 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:57.200 know women, groups of women to me are like, eh, 0:13:57.640 --> 0:14:00.760 they're a little you know, say away, that's how I am. 0:14:00.800 --> 0:14:03.600 And when you said you spend time in the in 0:14:03.640 --> 0:14:07.000 the firehouse with men, I you know, I tend to 0:14:07.000 --> 0:14:09.280 get along with men better than women's for the same 0:14:09.320 --> 0:14:11.680 reason like chatty I hate to say chatty Kathy's but 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:16.199 you know you you said it, and I wondered, how 0:14:16.440 --> 0:14:17.240 was that? Like? 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:19.440 It was different, you guys. It wasn't good nor bad, 0:14:19.440 --> 0:14:20.840 because there's no good and bad in life. 0:14:20.840 --> 0:14:23.760 It's just different. So I'm used to directness. I'm used 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:26.080 to no bullshit with the guys. And then I come 0:14:26.120 --> 0:14:27.760 into the yeah, and you know. 0:14:27.800 --> 0:14:30.320 I have twenty five years, you guys, I was with guys. 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:31.640 That's a long time. 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:32.280 It is. 0:14:32.400 --> 0:14:34.440 Yep. No one of the girls told me I needed 0:14:34.440 --> 0:14:36.440 to have more feathers, and I'm like, no, I don't. 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:37.960 I don't. I like who I am. 0:14:38.040 --> 0:14:40.360 I liked it, you know, if your life. 0:14:41.400 --> 0:14:44.080 I'm honest, I'm direct and I'm no bullshit. 0:14:43.760 --> 0:14:45.800 Kind of and I'll take a peg. What my line is. 0:14:45.840 --> 0:14:48.840 When men say to me I'm too much, I say 0:14:48.880 --> 0:14:51.960 to them, no, no, no, I'm not too much. You're 0:14:52.040 --> 0:14:55.040 just not enough for me. You go, And that's that's 0:14:55.120 --> 0:14:59.960 truly what I think. So okay, So the drama with Nicole, 0:15:00.560 --> 0:15:02.800 by the way, we've renamed we passed. 0:15:02.800 --> 0:15:05.320 Wait wait, wait, tell me how you felt what the 0:15:05.360 --> 0:15:06.920 pool party going on? Please? 0:15:07.080 --> 0:15:09.240 Yeah, you guys, you're gonna laugh. You're gonna laugh so hard, 0:15:09.280 --> 0:15:13.720 you to laugh so hard. Right, so you guys know 0:15:13.840 --> 0:15:16.840 how hard production is. It is hard. You know, if 0:15:16.840 --> 0:15:18.760 all those people out there knew what we went. 0:15:19.160 --> 0:15:22.200 Fifteen hours a day, seventeen hours a day of filming. 0:15:22.440 --> 0:15:26.680 You're exhausted. You've got your adrenaline running. There's a whole 0:15:26.720 --> 0:15:27.720 other world to this. 0:15:28.680 --> 0:15:31.800 After the rose, the first rose, after we did the 0:15:31.880 --> 0:15:35.200 cheerleading competition, and then we come back to do the 0:15:35.240 --> 0:15:38.600 pool party, and I'm exhausted, right, So I do my 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:42.240 couple of cannonballs, and then I went took a nap. 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.560 I have to use the ladies room. I'll be back 0:15:44.640 --> 0:15:46.480 and when they find you and you had your power 0:15:46.560 --> 0:15:47.560 nap by that okay. 0:15:47.360 --> 0:15:51.880 But I so Susan, So I missed the entire drama. 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:53.560 So they woke me up. They come on the door 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:54.680 and they're like, they're. 0:15:54.440 --> 0:15:56.040 Like, you gotta get up. 0:15:56.160 --> 0:15:58.440 So I'm like this, I'm just I was. I got 0:15:58.880 --> 0:16:01.080 out of my mouth, I got the sleep in my eyes, 0:16:01.440 --> 0:16:03.600 and I'm like, okay, let's go, let's go. 0:16:03.920 --> 0:16:06.120 And that was How did the women tell you? Like 0:16:06.560 --> 0:16:08.440 she was all over them on the pool like a 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:11.080 clomba tree. I think they said, yeah. 0:16:11.240 --> 0:16:12.880 You know what, you guys, I just don't pay attention 0:16:12.920 --> 0:16:14.200 to that stuff. And that's the truth. 0:16:14.280 --> 0:16:18.000 I just that's because you're confident. That's because you're confident. 0:16:18.120 --> 0:16:19.280 Yes for now. 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:21.680 I wasn't there for woman drama. I was really there 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:23.000