1 00:00:07,800 --> 00:00:11,080 Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hours, Golden Hour. Thanks for 2 00:00:11,200 --> 00:00:13,640 Speaker 1: joining us today. We're so excited to be back. How 3 00:00:13,760 --> 00:00:14,040 Speaker 1: are you? 4 00:00:14,280 --> 00:00:14,360 Speaker 2: Is? 5 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:17,400 Speaker 3: Always excited to be back, Cath, I can't wait for today. 6 00:00:17,440 --> 00:00:21,160 Speaker 3: We have a very special guest, please welcome from this 7 00:00:21,239 --> 00:00:25,720 Speaker 3: season of The Golden Bachelor. Peg is here, Hey Peg, Peg? 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 3: Gorgeous she is? 9 00:00:28,600 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 1: I mean, do you wake up looking that beautiful? That's 10 00:00:30,920 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 1: what I want to know. 11 00:00:31,640 --> 00:00:36,839 Speaker 3: The hair, the cleavage you are Okay, no wigs, no 12 00:00:36,960 --> 00:00:37,520 Speaker 3: wigs here. 13 00:00:39,080 --> 00:00:42,440 Speaker 1: Your hair is really you look absolutely gorgeous. 14 00:00:42,520 --> 00:00:46,680 Speaker 3: And that smile. Good lighter room. We're happy to have you. Yeah, 15 00:00:46,960 --> 00:00:48,040 Speaker 3: so talk to us. 16 00:00:48,280 --> 00:00:51,800 Speaker 1: Let's get started. There's so much we want to dive into. 17 00:00:52,920 --> 00:00:55,640 Speaker 1: Here we go first, we want to get to know 18 00:00:55,960 --> 00:00:59,080 Speaker 1: you a little bit better. Where are Let's just start 19 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,240 Speaker 1: at the beginning. Where are you from? 20 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:03,520 Speaker 4: Born and raised in Las Vegas, Las Vegas, Nevada, born 21 00:01:03,520 --> 00:01:04,000 Speaker 4: and raised. 22 00:01:04,240 --> 00:01:06,680 Speaker 3: Okay, wow, I'm coming your way soon. 23 00:01:06,800 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 4: I know. 24 00:01:08,160 --> 00:01:10,200 Speaker 1: Do you win? Do you win on the strip? 25 00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:13,119 Speaker 3: Do we even gambled? People from Vegas? Probably don't even 26 00:01:13,160 --> 00:01:14,399 Speaker 3: go to the strip, is that right? 27 00:01:14,800 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 2: I can tell you I've gambled probably five times in 28 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 2: my entire life. 29 00:01:17,959 --> 00:01:20,959 Speaker 3: It's just I have a question. Is it hard to 30 00:01:21,080 --> 00:01:22,840 Speaker 3: date in Las Vegas? 31 00:01:22,840 --> 00:01:26,040 Speaker 4: Really hard to date? Really, it's very hard to date here. 32 00:01:26,040 --> 00:01:27,920 Speaker 1: You know why all the men are throwing their money 33 00:01:27,920 --> 00:01:30,399 Speaker 1: away on the crafts table. That's what's going on there. 34 00:01:30,480 --> 00:01:32,119 Speaker 3: And they don't live there, they just visit. 35 00:01:32,520 --> 00:01:35,960 Speaker 1: But you have had an incredible career. And my son 36 00:01:36,040 --> 00:01:38,920 Speaker 1: was a firefighter, So I love you because thank you 37 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:41,119 Speaker 1: for your service all those years that you were one. 38 00:01:41,480 --> 00:01:44,839 Speaker 1: But tell us about your life as a bomb tech. 39 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 3: Well, it was. 40 00:01:46,360 --> 00:01:48,840 Speaker 2: Really it was fun because I was on the fire department. 41 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:50,640 Speaker 2: I was hired in nineteen ninety two. I was a 42 00:01:50,680 --> 00:01:53,800 Speaker 2: fourth woman hired on, so you can only guys imagine, 43 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: and back in nineteen thinety two it was kind of 44 00:01:55,960 --> 00:01:58,960 Speaker 2: it was crazy, and you know, they did not want 45 00:01:59,000 --> 00:02:01,480 Speaker 2: women on the fire department at all, they just did not. 46 00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:04,200 Speaker 3: And somehow you got in there. 47 00:02:04,480 --> 00:02:06,400 Speaker 2: I did, and I stayed because a lot of the 48 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:08,679 Speaker 2: women when they get hired on, they leave about six 49 00:02:08,720 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 2: months to a year. 50 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:12,160 Speaker 4: They leave because if you can't handle the heat, get 51 00:02:12,160 --> 00:02:14,960 Speaker 4: out of the kitchen. Yes, the guys don't want you there, 52 00:02:15,000 --> 00:02:17,880 Speaker 4: they really don't, you know. So I did that for 53 00:02:17,919 --> 00:02:20,360 Speaker 4: eight years on the floor. It's called fighting fires. 54 00:02:20,360 --> 00:02:22,960 Speaker 2: I was on the ladder truck company, I was lading, 55 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:25,720 Speaker 2: I was on the pumper truck putting the fires out. 56 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 4: I was on the ambulance. And then, to be honest 57 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:29,480 Speaker 4: with you, guys, I got bored. 58 00:02:29,560 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 3: I got going to say, did you have a favorite 59 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:32,200 Speaker 3: out of those. 60 00:02:33,960 --> 00:02:36,280 Speaker 4: With the bomb? The bomb? When I was a bomb tech. 61 00:02:36,639 --> 00:02:38,440 Speaker 4: So I got bored on the floor because the guys, 62 00:02:38,480 --> 00:02:39,200 Speaker 4: you know, they love it. 63 00:02:39,200 --> 00:02:41,000 Speaker 2: It's a big boys club and they have a lot 64 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:43,880 Speaker 2: of fun and they smoke scars and they play cards 65 00:02:43,919 --> 00:02:46,480 Speaker 2: and they do their video games in between all the calls, 66 00:02:46,600 --> 00:02:49,120 Speaker 2: and it was really as a boys club. But the 67 00:02:49,160 --> 00:02:51,360 Speaker 2: guys were great. I just have to say that. So 68 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 2: I promoted to the Arson Division. So I went through 69 00:02:53,880 --> 00:02:56,520 Speaker 2: the fire Academy, and then after that when I was 70 00:02:56,560 --> 00:02:58,480 Speaker 2: promoted to the arsen Division, I went through the police 71 00:02:58,520 --> 00:03:02,000 Speaker 2: Academy after the base academy. I did that for a 72 00:03:02,040 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 2: while and then I became a promoted to a bomb tach. 73 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:06,960 Speaker 4: So I went through the FBI Bomb Academy and Hunter 74 00:03:07,360 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 4: Emma and Redstone Arsenal. 75 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:11,760 Speaker 2: So the bomb the bomb. Being a bomb tach, it 76 00:03:11,800 --> 00:03:14,560 Speaker 2: was so much fun. I really really enjoyed that. The 77 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:17,360 Speaker 2: guys were great. What I did for a living was great. 78 00:03:17,400 --> 00:03:19,359 Speaker 2: I felt like I was the main character in the 79 00:03:19,400 --> 00:03:20,079 Speaker 2: spy novel. 80 00:03:20,200 --> 00:03:23,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, did you actually get called to a scene and 81 00:03:23,080 --> 00:03:23,440 Speaker 3: have to. 82 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:25,200 Speaker 4: Yes? 83 00:03:25,840 --> 00:03:28,239 Speaker 1: No, Susan. She sat around played video games. 84 00:03:28,360 --> 00:03:30,080 Speaker 3: You know, you just learned it. But how many bomb 85 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:32,320 Speaker 3: threats are there? And you have to go dissect the bomb? 86 00:03:32,400 --> 00:03:32,520 Speaker 1: Like? 87 00:03:32,760 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 2: What when we roll up on scene. We have our trucks, 88 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:39,119 Speaker 2: we have our equipment. Nobody knows we're coming because it's 89 00:03:39,120 --> 00:03:40,640 Speaker 2: the entertainment capital of the world. 90 00:03:40,680 --> 00:03:42,520 Speaker 4: So we slither in and we slither out. 91 00:03:42,600 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 2: Yes, there we have a pipe bomb or we have 92 00:03:45,280 --> 00:03:48,520 Speaker 2: an unknown device. We midgate the situation and then we get. 93 00:03:48,440 --> 00:03:50,360 Speaker 3: The hell out of there, right right, right, right? 94 00:03:51,280 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 1: Boy? 95 00:03:52,120 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 3: Okay, tell me how did you know? Did you watch 96 00:03:56,280 --> 00:03:59,080 Speaker 3: The Bachelor? I mean, were you a fan of Bachelor? 97 00:03:59,080 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 3: How did you get to on the Golden Bachelor? 98 00:04:01,400 --> 00:04:06,000 Speaker 4: You saw watch Kristen's and Ryan's season? That was it? 99 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:08,720 Speaker 3: Okay, so tell us how you got here. 100 00:04:09,200 --> 00:04:11,800 Speaker 4: So my girlfriend Alana, my best friend from high school. 101 00:04:11,840 --> 00:04:13,320 Speaker 4: She has never missed a season. 102 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 2: And as soon as they advertised at what you guys 103 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:18,560 Speaker 2: three years ago two and a half years ago, I 104 00:04:18,600 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 2: think it was he called me right away and she 105 00:04:21,560 --> 00:04:23,320 Speaker 2: just said, you, I'm signing you up. 106 00:04:23,440 --> 00:04:25,960 Speaker 4: You got to do this. I have to do this. 107 00:04:26,040 --> 00:04:28,120 Speaker 2: I'm like, there is no way I'm putting myself on 108 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:31,320 Speaker 2: national television. There is no way I Am not going 109 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:33,960 Speaker 2: to do it. But she just kept on me and 110 00:04:34,040 --> 00:04:34,919 Speaker 2: on me and on me. 111 00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:38,279 Speaker 4: So I went ahead. She had started the process. I 112 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:38,920 Speaker 4: finished it. 113 00:04:39,240 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 1: I'm guessing your friends and family supported you. How did 114 00:04:42,880 --> 00:04:46,880 Speaker 1: you prepare to go on this, you know, what were 115 00:04:46,920 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: you hoping for? What were your expectations going on the show. 116 00:04:50,040 --> 00:04:52,080 Speaker 2: Well, when they announced Mail on a Wednesday, I think 117 00:04:52,080 --> 00:04:54,760 Speaker 2: it was in April they announced him, I'm like, oh, okay, 118 00:04:54,800 --> 00:04:56,960 Speaker 2: he's kind of good looking, you know, and I'm thinking. 119 00:04:56,640 --> 00:04:58,440 Speaker 4: Of my brain and I'm like, I don't know if 120 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:01,520 Speaker 4: I want to do this. But then my daughter's like, Mom. 121 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:03,200 Speaker 2: What else are you doing? You have nothing else going 122 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:05,719 Speaker 2: on in your life. I'm tired of calling me ten 123 00:05:05,760 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 2: times a day. 124 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:10,720 Speaker 1: So so, so I'm date. You weren't dating? I take 125 00:05:10,720 --> 00:05:12,200 Speaker 1: it prior No, I know. 126 00:05:12,320 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 4: What you guys. I go on a date here, I 127 00:05:14,080 --> 00:05:15,200 Speaker 4: go out and date there. 128 00:05:15,440 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 1: Well, I'm glad you do. 129 00:05:16,800 --> 00:05:19,600 Speaker 3: Okay, what did it feel like? Well, now you're there, 130 00:05:19,800 --> 00:05:23,000 Speaker 3: you're there, okay, getting out of that limo for the 131 00:05:23,040 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 3: first time, What were you thinking? What were you feeling? 132 00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,920 Speaker 3: Because we know you as being like us. 133 00:05:30,880 --> 00:05:34,120 Speaker 1: You know, energy, vivacious, Like, what was it when you 134 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:35,720 Speaker 1: stood out and you had to talk to him for 135 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,080 Speaker 1: the first time? Tell us about those. 136 00:05:36,920 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 4: First I had the bomb suit on. The bomb didn't 137 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:46,280 Speaker 4: go off, you tried, so then we just did what 138 00:05:46,279 --> 00:05:46,960 Speaker 4: we needed to do. 139 00:05:47,040 --> 00:05:50,080 Speaker 2: I got dressed and honestly, I can't remember two words 140 00:05:50,160 --> 00:05:52,240 Speaker 2: I said to you. 141 00:05:52,360 --> 00:05:54,919 Speaker 3: But how about the women? When you walked into the house. 142 00:05:56,240 --> 00:06:01,480 Speaker 2: I was like, oh shit, these are beautiful, gorgeous, accomplished women. 143 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,800 Speaker 2: And I'm really really excited. He's super excited for the 144 00:06:04,839 --> 00:06:06,200 Speaker 2: whole entire experience. 145 00:06:06,279 --> 00:06:08,360 Speaker 1: So how much were you able to chat with him 146 00:06:08,360 --> 00:06:10,360 Speaker 1: on the first night, because you know how crazy that is. 147 00:06:10,400 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 1: It's there's a lot of women, not a lot of time. 148 00:06:12,760 --> 00:06:13,880 Speaker 1: Did you get to chat. 149 00:06:14,240 --> 00:06:18,479 Speaker 4: Three minutest at the three minutes? It was three minutes? Yeah. 150 00:06:18,560 --> 00:06:20,360 Speaker 4: And I asked him, I said, what are you looking for? 151 00:06:20,400 --> 00:06:22,279 Speaker 2: I said, this is what I'm looking for because I 152 00:06:22,320 --> 00:06:24,960 Speaker 2: went in with the idea if he is he good 153 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:28,640 Speaker 2: for me. Yeah, you're tall, you're handsome, you're you're successful. 154 00:06:28,920 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 4: I dated that before. 155 00:06:30,480 --> 00:06:32,920 Speaker 2: I wanted to get to know who he was inside 156 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:35,240 Speaker 2: and get to know if he was right for me 157 00:06:35,320 --> 00:06:35,960 Speaker 2: in my life. 158 00:06:36,000 --> 00:06:37,640 Speaker 1: And you did that in three minutes. Peg. 159 00:06:37,720 --> 00:06:42,880 Speaker 3: I'm really remember asking these questions, thinking, Wow, yeah, she 160 00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,520 Speaker 3: wants to find out is this a good fit for me? 161 00:06:46,680 --> 00:06:48,840 Speaker 3: And I'm going to be obvious and I admired it. 162 00:06:49,080 --> 00:06:51,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, because that's who you know, that's kind of who 163 00:06:51,360 --> 00:06:52,640 Speaker 1: I we are that way. 164 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:55,760 Speaker 3: I didn't do that the first night, oh my first 165 00:06:55,760 --> 00:06:56,919 Speaker 3: three minutes. Not I didn't. 166 00:06:57,120 --> 00:06:57,359 Speaker 1: I was. 167 00:06:59,160 --> 00:07:00,560 Speaker 4: Said to him. I said to him, I said, well, 168 00:07:00,600 --> 00:07:02,680 Speaker 4: what are you looking for? This is what I'm looking for? 169 00:07:02,720 --> 00:07:04,960 Speaker 4: And I said you looking for and he said. 170 00:07:04,839 --> 00:07:06,960 Speaker 3: You Yeah, that was cute. 171 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: I was very cute. Okay, so the first rose time 172 00:07:10,280 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 1: of year, You're been up all night the whole dale. 173 00:07:12,400 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: Were you confident? Were you nervous? How are you feeling? 174 00:07:15,760 --> 00:07:18,080 Speaker 4: I was so nervous. You guys were in this process. 175 00:07:18,160 --> 00:07:20,640 Speaker 2: We go from our normal life, so we get wished 176 00:07:20,640 --> 00:07:23,640 Speaker 2: into this this you know, this process of you know, 177 00:07:23,680 --> 00:07:27,480 Speaker 2: this dating, you know reality show. And my heart was 178 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:29,240 Speaker 2: just pounding a million miles a minute. 179 00:07:29,280 --> 00:07:30,760 Speaker 4: And I think we all the girls were nervous. 180 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: We're just coming way to. 181 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:34,640 Speaker 3: Expect your name to be Yeah, did you think you 182 00:07:34,720 --> 00:07:35,240 Speaker 3: were in it? 183 00:07:36,480 --> 00:07:36,720 Speaker 4: Yes? 184 00:07:37,600 --> 00:07:39,600 Speaker 1: That's good, good beynest confidence. 185 00:07:39,840 --> 00:07:40,080 Speaker 2: Yeah. 186 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,560 Speaker 1: Who was there anyone that left that you were surprised 187 00:07:42,600 --> 00:07:43,120 Speaker 1: they left? 188 00:07:43,440 --> 00:07:46,480 Speaker 4: Yes? Tracy? I just love Tracy. 189 00:07:46,520 --> 00:07:48,360 Speaker 2: Her and I are really good friends to this day, 190 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,640 Speaker 2: and I just loved her and I was just yeah, 191 00:07:50,680 --> 00:07:52,760 Speaker 2: I just couldn't wrap my brain around that one. 192 00:07:53,160 --> 00:07:55,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, she I heard, she's got a lot of hats. 193 00:07:56,400 --> 00:07:56,800 Speaker 1: She does. 194 00:07:57,560 --> 00:07:58,520 Speaker 3: She was adorable. 195 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:01,400 Speaker 1: All right, So we're going to fast forward a little bit. 196 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:04,520 Speaker 1: You get the one on one last week. Let's just 197 00:08:04,600 --> 00:08:08,200 Speaker 1: get it right fun. How let me just say, in 198 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,679 Speaker 1: case peg your memory is faulty, which I know it isn't. 199 00:08:11,200 --> 00:08:13,600 Speaker 1: I never had a one on one day, neither did Susan, 200 00:08:13,680 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: So we're desperate to hear all about it. What were 201 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:17,560 Speaker 1: you feeling when you found out it would be you? 202 00:08:18,280 --> 00:08:20,800 Speaker 2: Well, I was excited because you know, I did not 203 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:23,160 Speaker 2: go into hear Guns of Blazon because I was not 204 00:08:23,320 --> 00:08:25,640 Speaker 2: happy with that podcast. And you can ask my daughter. 205 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,040 Speaker 2: I was like, you know, I was not happy. I'm like, 206 00:08:28,120 --> 00:08:30,800 Speaker 2: I dated those guys. I don't want to date those. 207 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,360 Speaker 4: Narcissistic, egotistical asses. Anymore. 208 00:08:33,360 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 2: I've been there, done that, so I really kind of 209 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:38,679 Speaker 2: I paused, and I knew I was going to get 210 00:08:38,679 --> 00:08:40,040 Speaker 2: some alone time with him. 211 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:40,800 Speaker 4: And when I did. 212 00:08:40,880 --> 00:08:44,080 Speaker 2: At the OC Fair, we were eating our turkey legs 213 00:08:44,080 --> 00:08:46,280 Speaker 2: and we were, you know, drinking our beer and stuff. 214 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:48,520 Speaker 2: And then we had a break and I went to him. 215 00:08:48,559 --> 00:08:50,439 Speaker 2: I said, look, I need to ask you something. 216 00:08:50,720 --> 00:08:51,040 Speaker 4: I said. 217 00:08:51,080 --> 00:08:53,160 Speaker 2: I'm glad that you apologize to all the women. I 218 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 2: get that, I said, but I need to know who 219 00:08:54,960 --> 00:08:57,079 Speaker 2: you are. And I told him this, I said, if 220 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,760 Speaker 2: you are that guy on that podcast. I looked him 221 00:08:59,760 --> 00:09:01,760 Speaker 2: direct in the eye. I said, I don't want to 222 00:09:01,840 --> 00:09:04,280 Speaker 2: date you. I don't want to date you. I and 223 00:09:04,320 --> 00:09:05,199 Speaker 2: don't waste. 224 00:09:04,880 --> 00:09:06,960 Speaker 4: My time, and I don't want to waste your time. 225 00:09:07,480 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 4: And I'm sitting here like. 226 00:09:08,280 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 2: A little chihuahuah because I'm like, I'm not going to 227 00:09:10,960 --> 00:09:13,640 Speaker 2: open up my heart. I've dated these guys before and 228 00:09:13,720 --> 00:09:15,360 Speaker 2: all they do is rip your heart out and they 229 00:09:15,440 --> 00:09:16,920 Speaker 2: leave you bleeding everywhere. 230 00:09:23,720 --> 00:09:28,160 Speaker 1: Watching your date with Mel, he like, I said, the 231 00:09:28,200 --> 00:09:30,600 Speaker 1: three of us, you know, we leave no prisoners. He 232 00:09:30,640 --> 00:09:33,679 Speaker 1: looked like he was just watching you have a great time. 233 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 1: Like your energy you could see that he was like Wow, 234 00:09:36,520 --> 00:09:39,520 Speaker 1: look at her energy. How did you feel about that? 235 00:09:39,880 --> 00:09:40,439 Speaker 1: The whole thing? 236 00:09:40,920 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 3: You know what? 237 00:09:41,280 --> 00:09:41,680 Speaker 4: You guys? 238 00:09:42,120 --> 00:09:45,240 Speaker 2: After I got an apology from him personally and we 239 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,520 Speaker 2: talked about it a little bit, I realized he's not 240 00:09:47,600 --> 00:09:49,960 Speaker 2: the guy that everybody's perceiving him to be. 241 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:52,520 Speaker 4: And I suspend judgment because. 242 00:09:52,240 --> 00:09:55,400 Speaker 2: I really wanted to know who was inside. Yeah he's tall, 243 00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:56,959 Speaker 2: good looking, all that great stuff. 244 00:09:57,000 --> 00:09:59,760 Speaker 4: But are you right for me? Can you get into 245 00:09:59,800 --> 00:10:00,520 Speaker 4: mind life? 246 00:10:00,559 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: You know? 247 00:10:01,400 --> 00:10:04,160 Speaker 4: And I just I let down my guards and I 248 00:10:04,240 --> 00:10:06,320 Speaker 4: just really started to have a good time. I have 249 00:10:06,400 --> 00:10:08,360 Speaker 4: a lot of energy, you guys, and I annoy the 250 00:10:08,480 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 4: shit out of a lot of people. 251 00:10:09,880 --> 00:10:13,040 Speaker 3: Raise your that's three of us, we said, we're from 252 00:10:13,120 --> 00:10:13,920 Speaker 3: the same mold. 253 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 1: Did the three of us? We both just all we 254 00:10:17,120 --> 00:10:18,400 Speaker 1: raised our hands in unison. 255 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:21,320 Speaker 3: I mean, wait, I have a question. You were so 256 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:23,800 Speaker 3: full of energy and I loved you. Knew every words 257 00:10:23,800 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 3: of the song. And I was shocked to see Kacy 258 00:10:27,520 --> 00:10:32,600 Speaker 3: didn't even look like Casey. But was his energy matching yours? 259 00:10:32,720 --> 00:10:39,200 Speaker 3: I did not see it? Well, yes, oh hell, you know? 260 00:10:39,400 --> 00:10:42,840 Speaker 2: And I believe because you know, getting to know him 261 00:10:43,320 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 2: and you know he's nervous, he's a human being. 262 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,360 Speaker 4: You guys, just like we are. And he was nervous 263 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:49,840 Speaker 4: as much as we were nervous. 264 00:10:50,520 --> 00:10:52,800 Speaker 2: He's got this, you know, this little jumping bean, this 265 00:10:52,840 --> 00:10:55,320 Speaker 2: little Tasmanian devil, and he's just. 266 00:10:55,240 --> 00:10:56,440 Speaker 4: Like, what do I do with this? 267 00:10:56,880 --> 00:10:57,080 Speaker 1: Right? 268 00:10:57,360 --> 00:11:00,439 Speaker 3: He loved you being you, but you didn't seem nervous. 269 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,640 Speaker 2: I was not nervous. I went in there, you guys, 270 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 2: and I just I wanted to be you. 271 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,600 Speaker 4: Be me, You love me, you hate me? I am 272 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:08,160 Speaker 4: who I am. 273 00:11:08,200 --> 00:11:11,320 Speaker 1: Can I just say this has not worked well for me? 274 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,200 Speaker 1: I mean I say the exact same things said. I'm 275 00:11:14,240 --> 00:11:16,800 Speaker 1: just putting that out there. I am who I am. 276 00:11:17,040 --> 00:11:19,760 Speaker 1: And it's like, take me or leap me. The problem 277 00:11:19,760 --> 00:11:21,800 Speaker 1: is they mostly leave me, but moving back to you 278 00:11:22,559 --> 00:11:23,599 Speaker 1: the way. 279 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:24,319 Speaker 4: But here's the thing. 280 00:11:24,320 --> 00:11:26,000 Speaker 2: When somebody falls in love with you, they're going to 281 00:11:26,040 --> 00:11:27,600 Speaker 2: fall in love with your authentic self. 282 00:11:27,679 --> 00:11:30,199 Speaker 4: It's not that it's not the representative. I don't want 283 00:11:30,240 --> 00:11:32,080 Speaker 4: to fall in love with anybody's representative. 284 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:35,880 Speaker 3: Oh absolutely, That's why I have to be on me 285 00:11:36,240 --> 00:11:37,679 Speaker 3: y to be real. 286 00:11:37,679 --> 00:11:39,680 Speaker 4: Kathy, keep being you. Somebody will come along. 287 00:11:39,480 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: Thank you, peg, and you're going to make sure it happens. 288 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:44,440 Speaker 1: How did it feel opened up to me about your divorce. 289 00:11:44,559 --> 00:11:45,160 Speaker 1: Was that hard? 290 00:11:45,960 --> 00:11:46,920 Speaker 4: No, it wasn't hard. 291 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,400 Speaker 2: His wife stepped out on the marriage and my ex 292 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,480 Speaker 2: husband stepped out on the marriage. So we have that 293 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:55,440 Speaker 2: commonality and that hurt in that grief, and we understood 294 00:11:55,480 --> 00:11:55,920 Speaker 2: each other. 295 00:11:56,120 --> 00:12:00,160 Speaker 3: But the best was the tattoo. Yeah, saying about that, 296 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 3: do you have any more? 297 00:12:02,080 --> 00:12:02,600 Speaker 1: Can we say it? 298 00:12:02,640 --> 00:12:03,720 Speaker 3: We can do that in the fantasy. 299 00:12:03,880 --> 00:12:05,960 Speaker 1: Can we see your tattoo? Can we see it? Where 300 00:12:06,040 --> 00:12:06,320 Speaker 1: is it? 301 00:12:06,559 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 4: I am stamp. You guys had an affair, right, and 302 00:12:10,640 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 4: I got a tattoo? 303 00:12:11,600 --> 00:12:15,080 Speaker 3: Kill me whatever, There's nothing wrong with it. But I 304 00:12:15,120 --> 00:12:16,839 Speaker 3: love how you said, and I'll show you. 305 00:12:16,880 --> 00:12:17,080 Speaker 4: Wait. 306 00:12:17,160 --> 00:12:19,199 Speaker 1: Don't you have a tattoo on your wrist with your 307 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 1: daughter or something? 308 00:12:21,480 --> 00:12:23,040 Speaker 4: That's my piscy girl right there. 309 00:12:23,880 --> 00:12:25,920 Speaker 3: You know I'm a piscey girl, are you? 310 00:12:26,160 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 2: Yes, I'm a cancer So cancers and pisces are like that. 311 00:12:32,720 --> 00:12:37,200 Speaker 1: Here I am left on the colt again. Kathy's gone again. 312 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:39,960 Speaker 1: What do you think I am? 313 00:12:40,920 --> 00:12:45,319 Speaker 4: I don't the ball my sister we get along as 314 00:12:45,320 --> 00:12:46,680 Speaker 4: well too. You're just stubborn. 315 00:12:47,320 --> 00:12:47,640 Speaker 2: I'm not. 316 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:51,480 Speaker 1: I am not stubborn. No, I really am not. I'm 317 00:12:51,480 --> 00:12:54,120 Speaker 1: not getting wrong. I'm strong willed I'm not stubborn. 318 00:12:54,400 --> 00:12:55,319 Speaker 3: It's a better word. 319 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,600 Speaker 1: I'm not. But okay, so well wait wait. 320 00:12:58,440 --> 00:13:01,800 Speaker 3: Did you think you did you even think about the 321 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:04,840 Speaker 3: possibility of getting that date rose that night? Or was 322 00:13:04,840 --> 00:13:06,640 Speaker 3: that furthest thing for your mind from you? 323 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,680 Speaker 2: For in my mind, I was expecting them to call 324 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 2: all the other girls. I was waiting for the other girls, 325 00:13:11,320 --> 00:13:13,040 Speaker 2: you know, other women's names to be called. So I 326 00:13:13,080 --> 00:13:15,360 Speaker 2: was a little taken back, to be honest with you. 327 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 3: No, no, I meant on your date, on your one on 328 00:13:17,559 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 3: one when he gave you, when he gave you the rose. 329 00:13:19,559 --> 00:13:22,559 Speaker 2: Yeah, girl, we had some connection going on there. 330 00:13:22,640 --> 00:13:23,760 Speaker 1: I really I love this. 331 00:13:24,520 --> 00:13:25,719 Speaker 4: We both had that kid. 332 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:26,120 Speaker 3: We looked. 333 00:13:26,320 --> 00:13:28,240 Speaker 4: There was a moment that we both looked in each. 334 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:30,640 Speaker 2: Other's eyes and it was electrifying, and I was like, 335 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:32,079 Speaker 2: oh shit, I'm in trouble. 336 00:13:32,200 --> 00:13:36,280 Speaker 1: I think we're gonna Vombit priceless because when we met you, 337 00:13:36,400 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 1: when we were there, you were in a different place. 338 00:13:38,880 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 3: You hadn't had one on one date yet. 339 00:13:41,200 --> 00:13:43,800 Speaker 1: I chatty you, and I remember, and you said it 340 00:13:43,880 --> 00:13:47,679 Speaker 1: on the show. You talked about chatty women that and 341 00:13:47,720 --> 00:13:51,400 Speaker 1: I really I empathized or I see myself in you 342 00:13:51,480 --> 00:13:54,600 Speaker 1: as well. First of all high energy, but also you 343 00:13:54,640 --> 00:13:57,200 Speaker 1: know women, groups of women to me are like, eh, 344 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 1: they're a little you know, say away, that's how I am. 345 00:14:00,800 --> 00:14:03,600 Speaker 1: And when you said you spend time in the in 346 00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:07,000 Speaker 1: the firehouse with men, I you know, I tend to 347 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: get along with men better than women's for the same 348 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:11,680 Speaker 1: reason like chatty I hate to say chatty Kathy's but 349 00:14:11,760 --> 00:14:16,199 Speaker 1: you know you you said it, and I wondered, how 350 00:14:16,440 --> 00:14:17,240 Speaker 1: was that? Like? 351 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,440 Speaker 4: It was different, you guys. It wasn't good nor bad, 352 00:14:19,440 --> 00:14:20,840 Speaker 4: because there's no good and bad in life. 353 00:14:20,840 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 2: It's just different. So I'm used to directness. I'm used 354 00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 2: to no bullshit with the guys. And then I come 355 00:14:26,120 --> 00:14:27,760 Speaker 2: into the yeah, and you know. 356 00:14:27,800 --> 00:14:30,320 Speaker 4: I have twenty five years, you guys, I was with guys. 357 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:31,640 Speaker 4: That's a long time. 358 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:32,280 Speaker 1: It is. 359 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:34,440 Speaker 4: Yep. No one of the girls told me I needed 360 00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,440 Speaker 4: to have more feathers, and I'm like, no, I don't. 361 00:14:36,560 --> 00:14:37,960 Speaker 4: I don't. I like who I am. 362 00:14:38,040 --> 00:14:40,360 Speaker 3: I liked it, you know, if your life. 363 00:14:41,400 --> 00:14:44,080 Speaker 4: I'm honest, I'm direct and I'm no bullshit. 364 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:45,800 Speaker 1: Kind of and I'll take a peg. What my line is. 365 00:14:45,840 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 1: When men say to me I'm too much, I say 366 00:14:48,880 --> 00:14:51,960 Speaker 1: to them, no, no, no, I'm not too much. You're 367 00:14:52,040 --> 00:14:55,040 Speaker 1: just not enough for me. You go, And that's that's 368 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:59,960 Speaker 1: truly what I think. So okay, So the drama with Nicole, 369 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:02,800 Speaker 1: by the way, we've renamed we passed. 370 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,320 Speaker 3: Wait wait, wait, tell me how you felt what the 371 00:15:05,360 --> 00:15:06,920 Speaker 3: pool party going on? Please? 372 00:15:07,080 --> 00:15:09,240 Speaker 4: Yeah, you guys, you're gonna laugh. You're gonna laugh so hard, 373 00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:13,720 Speaker 4: you to laugh so hard. Right, so you guys know 374 00:15:13,840 --> 00:15:16,840 Speaker 4: how hard production is. It is hard. You know, if 375 00:15:16,840 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 4: all those people out there knew what we went. 376 00:15:19,160 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: Fifteen hours a day, seventeen hours a day of filming. 377 00:15:22,440 --> 00:15:26,680 Speaker 4: You're exhausted. You've got your adrenaline running. There's a whole 378 00:15:26,720 --> 00:15:27,720 Speaker 4: other world to this. 379 00:15:28,680 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 2: After the rose, the first rose, after we did the 380 00:15:31,880 --> 00:15:35,200 Speaker 2: cheerleading competition, and then we come back to do the 381 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:38,600 Speaker 2: pool party, and I'm exhausted, right, So I do my 382 00:15:38,680 --> 00:15:42,240 Speaker 2: couple of cannonballs, and then I went took a nap. 383 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:44,560 Speaker 3: I have to use the ladies room. I'll be back 384 00:15:44,640 --> 00:15:46,480 Speaker 3: and when they find you and you had your power 385 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:47,560 Speaker 3: nap by that okay. 386 00:15:47,360 --> 00:15:51,880 Speaker 4: But I so Susan, So I missed the entire drama. 387 00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:53,560 Speaker 4: So they woke me up. They come on the door 388 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:54,680 Speaker 4: and they're like, they're. 389 00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,040 Speaker 1: Like, you gotta get up. 390 00:15:56,160 --> 00:15:58,440 Speaker 4: So I'm like this, I'm just I was. I got 391 00:15:58,880 --> 00:16:01,080 Speaker 4: out of my mouth, I got the sleep in my eyes, 392 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:03,600 Speaker 4: and I'm like, okay, let's go, let's go. 393 00:16:03,920 --> 00:16:06,120 Speaker 3: And that was How did the women tell you? Like 394 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 3: she was all over them on the pool like a 395 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:11,080 Speaker 3: clomba tree. I think they said, yeah. 396 00:16:11,240 --> 00:16:12,880 Speaker 4: You know what, you guys, I just don't pay attention 397 00:16:12,920 --> 00:16:14,200 Speaker 4: to that stuff. And that's the truth. 398 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:18,000 Speaker 1: I just that's because you're confident. That's because you're confident. 399 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,280 Speaker 3: Yes for now. 400 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:21,680 Speaker 4: I wasn't there for woman drama. I was really there 401 00:16:21,720 --> 00:16:23,000 Speaker 4: to see if this man. 402 00:16:23,160 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 3: Is a connection my life right out right. So what 403 00:16:32,240 --> 00:16:34,600 Speaker 3: your first impression when you met all the women, and 404 00:16:34,640 --> 00:16:39,520 Speaker 3: I'm speaking of Nicole right now, did it change over time? Well? 405 00:16:39,640 --> 00:16:41,800 Speaker 4: I have the closet, I had the big room, and 406 00:16:41,880 --> 00:16:42,920 Speaker 4: Nicole was in the room. 407 00:16:43,440 --> 00:16:45,160 Speaker 3: Yeah, I've heard. 408 00:16:45,240 --> 00:16:47,520 Speaker 2: So I want to have a podcast that says inside 409 00:16:47,520 --> 00:16:48,520 Speaker 2: the closet. 410 00:16:49,080 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 1: In the big room, I was going to say, or 411 00:16:52,040 --> 00:16:53,520 Speaker 1: words from the big closet. 412 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:56,480 Speaker 2: Yeah, So you really get to know these women once 413 00:16:56,520 --> 00:16:58,600 Speaker 2: you have I had Nicole, and I had Cheryl, and 414 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:01,400 Speaker 2: I had Debbie, I had Carl, I had all of 415 00:17:01,480 --> 00:17:01,880 Speaker 2: us in there. 416 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:04,159 Speaker 4: S So let me just put it this way. 417 00:17:04,240 --> 00:17:06,520 Speaker 2: Who Nicole was at the house was a little bit 418 00:17:06,520 --> 00:17:08,440 Speaker 2: different than now who I'm seeing. 419 00:17:08,160 --> 00:17:11,679 Speaker 1: Who she is well, and so we are struggling because 420 00:17:11,760 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 1: our show, we felt was pure. So this whole thing 421 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:20,600 Speaker 1: of monetizing, becoming an influencer, this whole stick that she's 422 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:25,879 Speaker 1: producing even yet now online. How do you feel about 423 00:17:26,000 --> 00:17:28,359 Speaker 1: those things that she said about you know, I'm kissing 424 00:17:28,400 --> 00:17:31,960 Speaker 1: for America and you know the women on the first season. 425 00:17:32,359 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 1: How do you feel about that, that whole scenario. 426 00:17:35,000 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 4: Here's how I feel about it. 427 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:39,199 Speaker 2: I you know what, everybody has motives in life, and 428 00:17:39,240 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 2: we all have to make a buck. But don't come 429 00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:44,639 Speaker 2: on a dating show and take somebody else's spot that's 430 00:17:44,720 --> 00:17:46,360 Speaker 2: truly there to find her love. 431 00:17:46,440 --> 00:17:47,840 Speaker 1: Oh my god, we love you, Pet. 432 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:49,080 Speaker 3: That's perfect, Welson. 433 00:17:49,119 --> 00:17:51,119 Speaker 4: I have a problem. She wants to go and be 434 00:17:51,160 --> 00:17:53,440 Speaker 4: an influence, girl, Go do your thing? 435 00:17:54,520 --> 00:17:57,520 Speaker 2: Was you took somebody else's spot like me and like 436 00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:58,720 Speaker 2: you guys saw on TV? 437 00:17:58,960 --> 00:17:59,920 Speaker 4: I just nice gott. 438 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:03,560 Speaker 1: Did anyone confront her? Did you did anyone confront Nicle 439 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:07,119 Speaker 1: and say, hey, girlfriend, the wrong thing to say about 440 00:18:07,119 --> 00:18:10,560 Speaker 1: the women from season one, wrong thing to be here here, 441 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:13,720 Speaker 1: the wrong names. I don't think I'm saying, but did 442 00:18:13,760 --> 00:18:14,800 Speaker 1: anyone confront her? 443 00:18:14,920 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 2: I will when I see her, you know, I will 444 00:18:17,600 --> 00:18:18,879 Speaker 2: tell her that was very rude. 445 00:18:19,000 --> 00:18:21,920 Speaker 3: It was what's been said is she was a lot 446 00:18:21,920 --> 00:18:24,359 Speaker 3: of fun in the house. She did people's make up 447 00:18:24,640 --> 00:18:26,879 Speaker 3: like she was good in the beginning until all that 448 00:18:27,040 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 3: started coming out. 449 00:18:28,119 --> 00:18:31,679 Speaker 1: We were there because we were the first ones. We 450 00:18:31,720 --> 00:18:36,040 Speaker 1: didn't know what influencing was. We were there to fine love. 451 00:18:36,359 --> 00:18:39,800 Speaker 1: So now your second season, you people have watched it, right, 452 00:18:40,240 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: so you know what can come of it. Susan and 453 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 1: I did not know we were going to have a podcast. 454 00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:46,560 Speaker 1: We did not know where our lives are going to be. 455 00:18:46,800 --> 00:18:49,440 Speaker 1: But I want to know if any of the other 456 00:18:49,560 --> 00:18:54,240 Speaker 1: women wanted, like told her to chill out. Did anyone 457 00:18:54,600 --> 00:18:57,240 Speaker 1: when you gave up one on one where people like, oh, 458 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,640 Speaker 1: you won't believe what Nicole said, guess what she did 459 00:18:59,720 --> 00:19:01,200 Speaker 1: or so. I mean, you don't have to give names, 460 00:19:01,240 --> 00:19:03,000 Speaker 1: but if you want to feel for any. 461 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 2: You saw Cindy talking about it, and saw you saw 462 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,600 Speaker 2: Robin got it. 463 00:19:07,720 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 4: Yes, And I know, to be honest with me, personally, guys, 464 00:19:10,119 --> 00:19:12,199 Speaker 4: I got bored with it. I'm like, I'm going to 465 00:19:12,200 --> 00:19:12,800 Speaker 4: take another nap. 466 00:19:12,800 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 3: I don't have time for this. 467 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 2: I don't have time for this. My focus is Mail 468 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:18,840 Speaker 2: and that's why I am here. But those guys dove 469 00:19:18,920 --> 00:19:22,200 Speaker 2: into it, and I really wish they would have called 470 00:19:22,320 --> 00:19:23,280 Speaker 2: gave Mail the. 471 00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:27,199 Speaker 3: Name, because I think from season's past that person that 472 00:19:27,320 --> 00:19:30,639 Speaker 3: does the telling never ends up good for them. And 473 00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:33,800 Speaker 3: I thought she handled it well. I did. She planted 474 00:19:33,840 --> 00:19:36,879 Speaker 3: that seat, she said, there's things going on. I'm not 475 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:39,240 Speaker 3: going to be the chatty kathy girl that comes and 476 00:19:39,280 --> 00:19:40,880 Speaker 3: tells you all though, somebody you know. 477 00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:42,960 Speaker 2: What you guys, come on, we're sixty year old women, 478 00:19:43,160 --> 00:19:45,560 Speaker 2: you know, say hey, look, Nicole's here. Not for the 479 00:19:45,640 --> 00:19:47,600 Speaker 2: right reason. This is what I heard. Now what you 480 00:19:47,720 --> 00:19:49,880 Speaker 2: do with this information is your business. But I need 481 00:19:49,920 --> 00:19:52,040 Speaker 2: to tell you that because I am a woman of 482 00:19:52,040 --> 00:19:54,680 Speaker 2: integrity and self respect and self dignity. 483 00:19:54,720 --> 00:19:56,600 Speaker 4: That's how you know. 484 00:19:56,200 --> 00:19:59,560 Speaker 1: What Susan said is true. It never plays well for 485 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:03,480 Speaker 1: the per who who quote unquote rats them out, and 486 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:06,360 Speaker 1: you're it's just so interesting, I have to say, personally, 487 00:20:06,720 --> 00:20:09,680 Speaker 1: it is so interesting hearing your take because. 488 00:20:09,800 --> 00:20:10,840 Speaker 3: She could give a shit less. 489 00:20:11,080 --> 00:20:13,480 Speaker 1: Well, none of us we didn't care either. I mean, 490 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,000 Speaker 1: I was in the stupid drama, but we didn't care 491 00:20:16,119 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: like we knew that that that uh, how quickly we 492 00:20:21,080 --> 00:20:23,760 Speaker 1: forget his name is Gary? Gary was not our guy. 493 00:20:24,080 --> 00:20:26,159 Speaker 1: But I think that's the right way to play it, 494 00:20:26,240 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: right it is? Uh all right? So this week, you 495 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:33,520 Speaker 1: guys had the final group date before hometowns. How were 496 00:20:33,560 --> 00:20:35,400 Speaker 1: you feeling going into this week. 497 00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:40,560 Speaker 4: Coming coming and going into our final group date. I'm excited, 498 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 4: you guys. 499 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 2: I'm really excited because I know mel and I have 500 00:20:43,400 --> 00:20:45,600 Speaker 2: a connection and I can feel it, and I know 501 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:48,680 Speaker 2: he feels it. You know when we look at each other, 502 00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:52,200 Speaker 2: there's that electric kind of a connection between us. 503 00:20:52,240 --> 00:20:55,280 Speaker 1: So you don't focus. I mean, I don't know because 504 00:20:55,320 --> 00:20:57,920 Speaker 1: I wasn't there. If he has connections with other women? 505 00:20:58,000 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 3: He took the words right out of my mouth. Did 506 00:20:59,600 --> 00:21:03,119 Speaker 3: you did you any certain way when he was kissing 507 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 3: Cindy or going somewhere with h. 508 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:08,600 Speaker 2: Honestly, you guys, I just really, honestly, I just focused 509 00:21:08,640 --> 00:21:10,560 Speaker 2: on that connection with him and I and I knew 510 00:21:10,600 --> 00:21:12,439 Speaker 2: in my heart, deep down in my soul, that we 511 00:21:12,520 --> 00:21:13,440 Speaker 2: had something special. 512 00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,479 Speaker 4: I felt it. I felt it at our one on 513 00:21:15,480 --> 00:21:15,920 Speaker 4: one date. 514 00:21:16,000 --> 00:21:18,560 Speaker 1: So wait, how was it on your one on one 515 00:21:18,560 --> 00:21:20,479 Speaker 1: time on the group date? Because we saw it on 516 00:21:20,520 --> 00:21:24,160 Speaker 1: the on your one on one, we saw you having 517 00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,440 Speaker 1: a blast, but when you did, you were in the 518 00:21:26,520 --> 00:21:29,760 Speaker 1: mud bath. Tell me, how did that feel, because the 519 00:21:29,800 --> 00:21:31,960 Speaker 1: fact that you got to do that on that group 520 00:21:32,080 --> 00:21:33,679 Speaker 1: date was pretty amazing. 521 00:21:33,760 --> 00:21:35,760 Speaker 4: I thought I loved it. I got we had so 522 00:21:35,840 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 4: much fun. We did laugh. 523 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 2: And that's one thing about our connection is it's fun 524 00:21:40,600 --> 00:21:45,119 Speaker 2: and it's it's lightheartedness. There's no any of that other stuff. 525 00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:47,240 Speaker 2: It's just we're enjoying life. And I told him in 526 00:21:47,280 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 2: the beginning our heavy lifting, it's over with. We raised 527 00:21:50,320 --> 00:21:52,719 Speaker 2: the kids, we've done the career, we've put them through college. 528 00:21:53,119 --> 00:21:55,960 Speaker 2: You know, now it's time to really just enjoy each other. 529 00:21:55,880 --> 00:21:56,960 Speaker 4: And enjoy life. 530 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,480 Speaker 2: And now kids, you have PEG one twenty eight Dakota, 531 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:01,600 Speaker 2: and I love that. 532 00:22:01,720 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 3: You made me cry. She got all teared up when 533 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:06,160 Speaker 3: the when the kids were oh I. 534 00:22:06,080 --> 00:22:08,679 Speaker 1: Know, yeah, we were saying you, how lucky were you 535 00:22:08,720 --> 00:22:11,320 Speaker 1: that you got to see your kid on the show. Yeah, 536 00:22:11,320 --> 00:22:14,480 Speaker 1: we didn't get that. Uh so tell us about your hometown. 537 00:22:14,600 --> 00:22:16,400 Speaker 1: What's it going to mean to you? Tell us? 538 00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:21,200 Speaker 3: Oh wait, when he did you, well, obviously you felt 539 00:22:21,240 --> 00:22:24,600 Speaker 3: a connection. Were you surprised at who he didn't pick? 540 00:22:26,840 --> 00:22:30,160 Speaker 1: When you for hometowns with the two that left, Yeah, 541 00:22:30,400 --> 00:22:33,480 Speaker 1: you were not surprised. Well, and the next question as 542 00:22:33,520 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: a journalist, why. 543 00:22:34,760 --> 00:22:38,160 Speaker 3: And Cindy and Debbie were going to be there with you? 544 00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:40,719 Speaker 1: You tell me why? Why were you not? We were 545 00:22:40,760 --> 00:22:42,520 Speaker 1: surprised that Eryl didn't stick around. 546 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:46,640 Speaker 2: I just getting to know Mail a little a lot, 547 00:22:46,760 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 2: you guys, because our one on one day was ten hours, 548 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:50,399 Speaker 2: so I got to spend a lot of time with 549 00:22:50,480 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 2: him ten hours, So I really it is. 550 00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:56,040 Speaker 4: It's lucky, so I really got to know him. 551 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:58,040 Speaker 2: And when I know, when you get to know somebody, 552 00:22:58,119 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 2: I just knew that that connection wasn't strong enough with 553 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:02,800 Speaker 2: Eryl nor Okay. 554 00:23:03,640 --> 00:23:09,080 Speaker 1: Pool, Okay, we're getting a little short on time. Come on, 555 00:23:09,280 --> 00:23:11,439 Speaker 1: tease us. Tell us about your hometown date. What's it 556 00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:12,280 Speaker 1: going to be like? 557 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:15,400 Speaker 2: It's going to be so fun, you guys, stay tuned 558 00:23:15,400 --> 00:23:16,879 Speaker 2: because I take him to the firehouse. 559 00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,439 Speaker 3: Of course, he doesn't touch a bomb, does he? 560 00:23:21,000 --> 00:23:22,200 Speaker 4: No? No, he doesn't. 561 00:23:22,200 --> 00:23:24,879 Speaker 1: Wait does your firehouse have the have you know how 562 00:23:24,920 --> 00:23:28,399 Speaker 1: they don't have the things anymore? The poles or a 563 00:23:28,440 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: pole at yours? 564 00:23:29,880 --> 00:23:31,000 Speaker 4: You can touch this bomb? 565 00:23:34,080 --> 00:23:36,280 Speaker 1: You know what? Peg, I think I just fell in 566 00:23:36,359 --> 00:23:39,880 Speaker 1: love with you. Wait, it's do you have a pole 567 00:23:39,960 --> 00:23:40,919 Speaker 1: at your firehouse? 568 00:23:41,520 --> 00:23:41,960 Speaker 4: Have a pole? 569 00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,840 Speaker 2: So I used to joke all the time and people say, 570 00:23:43,880 --> 00:23:47,520 Speaker 2: what'd you do for a career? You know, I'm like, 571 00:23:47,560 --> 00:23:48,320 Speaker 2: why I danced? 572 00:23:48,359 --> 00:23:49,320 Speaker 4: You know? I had? 573 00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,160 Speaker 1: I used to hung around on a pole, slid down 574 00:23:52,200 --> 00:23:54,120 Speaker 1: the pole, being from. 575 00:23:54,119 --> 00:23:58,760 Speaker 2: Vegas, right, being Vegas, Like, yes, I slid down the pole, 576 00:23:58,800 --> 00:23:59,960 Speaker 2: you guys in nineteen ninety. 577 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 4: Two, That's what I did. 578 00:24:00,800 --> 00:24:05,120 Speaker 3: We just I love this all right? In one word, 579 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 3: how would you describe your experience on the show, on 580 00:24:10,320 --> 00:24:13,440 Speaker 3: The Golden Bachelor in one word? What would that word be? 581 00:24:14,200 --> 00:24:16,639 Speaker 4: Amazing? Amazing? 582 00:24:16,840 --> 00:24:21,320 Speaker 1: Okay, I mean you could see. Yeah, just your experience 583 00:24:21,359 --> 00:24:23,560 Speaker 1: from what we've seen so far looks incredible and I 584 00:24:23,640 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 1: can't wait to see your hometown. Okay, if you were 585 00:24:26,320 --> 00:24:28,560 Speaker 1: we always ask this question back if you were stuck, 586 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 1: and by the way, too, I'm just going to tell 587 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,919 Speaker 1: you two of the names are Susan and Cathy, so 588 00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: think carefully about the third. If you were stuck on 589 00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 1: a deserted island and could only take three women from 590 00:24:39,960 --> 00:24:43,600 Speaker 1: your season so not us, who would they be? 591 00:24:44,560 --> 00:24:50,520 Speaker 2: It would be Terry, Tracy and Debbie. And why just 592 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:52,840 Speaker 2: because I love them and they're super smart women, and 593 00:24:52,880 --> 00:24:55,040 Speaker 2: I think we could, you know, put all our little 594 00:24:55,359 --> 00:24:57,600 Speaker 2: intellect together and we would survive. 595 00:24:57,280 --> 00:25:01,600 Speaker 3: Each one different than the next one. A humor factor 596 00:25:01,680 --> 00:25:04,560 Speaker 3: one would be, she's gonna know how to start a fire? 597 00:25:04,600 --> 00:25:06,920 Speaker 3: Oh no, that's you. 598 00:25:06,920 --> 00:25:09,120 Speaker 1: No, she does how to put it out? Are they 599 00:25:09,160 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 1: your besties from the show? 600 00:25:10,960 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 4: They are. I just love them dearly. 601 00:25:13,359 --> 00:25:15,280 Speaker 1: So wait, Debbie Tracy and who else? 602 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,320 Speaker 4: Terry from Houston's Number one? Her and I we just 603 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,639 Speaker 4: bonded right away, and. 604 00:25:21,000 --> 00:25:23,160 Speaker 1: That's how we were. That's how we were cool. That's 605 00:25:23,200 --> 00:25:24,119 Speaker 1: how we were all. 606 00:25:24,200 --> 00:25:29,920 Speaker 3: Right. Now it's your turn. 607 00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:33,280 Speaker 1: Oh I know, go Ford says, do you. 608 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,040 Speaker 3: We got to ask you a ton of questions? Do 609 00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:36,680 Speaker 3: you have any questions for us? 610 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:37,080 Speaker 1: Yes? 611 00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:41,960 Speaker 4: Who did your face lifts? Because I need a little talk. 612 00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:45,399 Speaker 3: You guys look just the mini Yes, and it's wonderful. 613 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 1: I'm gonna, honestly, I'm going to say this to you. Yes, 614 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 1: I've had a little bit of work done. Both of 615 00:25:52,359 --> 00:25:54,800 Speaker 1: us have not major minny. 616 00:25:54,800 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 3: I wish I could do it. 617 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,680 Speaker 1: You are stunningly beautiful. You know, my whole thing is 618 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:03,320 Speaker 1: about women and powering women. You are absolutely gorgeous. So 619 00:26:03,640 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: do whatever you need to do to make yourself feel better, 620 00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:08,439 Speaker 1: but do it to make yourself feel better because you 621 00:26:08,480 --> 00:26:10,159 Speaker 1: are beautiful, so you don't need to. 622 00:26:10,359 --> 00:26:12,000 Speaker 3: I need to know. How old are you? 623 00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:13,880 Speaker 1: Sixty two? Sixty two? 624 00:26:14,400 --> 00:26:18,760 Speaker 3: You are a perfect example what women of your same 625 00:26:18,880 --> 00:26:22,920 Speaker 3: age just proving to them that life is not over 626 00:26:23,119 --> 00:26:26,680 Speaker 3: the experience that you just had. I mean, not everybody's 627 00:26:26,720 --> 00:26:28,680 Speaker 3: going to end up on a show like we say, 628 00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 3: you know, but get up and live again. I mean 629 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:35,600 Speaker 3: you're a perfect example. Yeah, and your smile pure happiness, and. 630 00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:40,160 Speaker 1: And your energy, your energy is infectious. And we want 631 00:26:40,160 --> 00:26:42,680 Speaker 1: you to join our crowd because you are You're one 632 00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:45,240 Speaker 1: of us. Okay, well this I hate to say it, 633 00:26:45,280 --> 00:26:48,360 Speaker 1: but this was so much fun. And thank you Peg. 634 00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:50,919 Speaker 1: You are a wonderful person, wonderful guest. It was so 635 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:52,280 Speaker 1: nice getting to know you more. 636 00:26:52,840 --> 00:26:54,960 Speaker 4: Thank you, ladies very much. I really appreciate it was 637 00:26:55,000 --> 00:26:55,560 Speaker 4: a lot of fun. 638 00:26:55,680 --> 00:26:57,480 Speaker 3: Thank you. Well, we're going to have you back again. 639 00:26:57,480 --> 00:26:59,200 Speaker 3: We're gonna have to because I can't wait to see 640 00:26:59,200 --> 00:27:03,240 Speaker 3: these hometowns have more questions. And thank you everybody for 641 00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 3: tuning in this week. Make sure to follow Bachelor Happy 642 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,920 Speaker 3: Hour as we have new episodes coming out every week, 643 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 3: and you don't want to miss them. 644 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:14,680 Speaker 1: You do not, so listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden 645 00:27:14,680 --> 00:27:18,000 Speaker 1: Hour on the iHeartRadio app or wherever you listen to 646 00:27:18,040 --> 00:27:18,840 Speaker 1: your podcasts. 647 00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,359 Speaker 3: Until next time, you have a great week.