1 00:00:00,040 --> 00:00:03,880 Speaker 1: Oh is on Fred's biggest stories of the day. I mean, 2 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:06,120 Speaker 1: you know, it's getting out of hand, you guys, it's 3 00:00:06,120 --> 00:00:11,879 Speaker 1: really getting out of hand. I will say, uh, you 4 00:00:11,920 --> 00:00:15,840 Speaker 1: guys are profully quiet about the the wish for Bob 5 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 1: to come back text that. 6 00:00:17,560 --> 00:00:20,640 Speaker 2: Actually, she said, I'm tired. 7 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:23,640 Speaker 1: It's funny. Bob just texted me and he said, ha 8 00:00:23,640 --> 00:00:27,200 Speaker 1: ha it was him. That was him. He's loving every 9 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,120 Speaker 1: minute of this. Good morning everyone. We're doing our best 10 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:32,839 Speaker 1: over here. But think twice before you get text some 11 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:36,400 Speaker 1: stupid stuff. I'll put it that way. So the Oscar 12 00:00:36,479 --> 00:00:38,040 Speaker 1: for the last time. I'm Surekaylin has more on that. 13 00:00:38,280 --> 00:00:40,800 Speaker 1: But despite over five hundred movies released in twenty twenty four, 14 00:00:40,840 --> 00:00:45,280 Speaker 1: the average American only watched three of those five hundred movies. 15 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:48,839 Speaker 1: Jason hasn't watched three movies of the last five thousand 16 00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:49,680 Speaker 1: movies that came out. 17 00:00:49,800 --> 00:00:50,559 Speaker 2: Literally not well. 18 00:00:50,600 --> 00:00:52,239 Speaker 1: The only movie I saw that I think it was 19 00:00:52,240 --> 00:00:54,240 Speaker 1: nominated was Wicked. That was that. 20 00:00:54,320 --> 00:00:55,760 Speaker 2: I don't even know what the other movies are about. 21 00:00:56,320 --> 00:00:59,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, no, but half of people haven't seen any of 22 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:03,720 Speaker 1: the ten Best Picture Oscar nominees, none of them. Yeah, 23 00:01:03,800 --> 00:01:07,200 Speaker 1: I was yea, though I have to look to it 24 00:01:07,240 --> 00:01:08,960 Speaker 1: today because I always feel that way. I felt that 25 00:01:09,000 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 1: way for a long time about the Oscars. Then I 26 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:14,240 Speaker 1: don't I see that, you know, the nominees, and I'm like, 27 00:01:14,880 --> 00:01:16,240 Speaker 1: you know, I'm not sure if I need to watch 28 00:01:16,319 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: this because I don't know what I'm looking at. 29 00:01:18,600 --> 00:01:20,920 Speaker 3: No, to me, more one looks good the substance I 30 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:22,400 Speaker 3: heard that's really good on my list. 31 00:01:22,319 --> 00:01:23,920 Speaker 4: On my list last night of like, oh, like what 32 00:01:23,959 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 4: should me and my husband watch because we want to 33 00:01:26,360 --> 00:01:28,600 Speaker 4: watch new stuff. So the Oscars is the perfect place 34 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 4: to see a whole list and just gather like, oh, 35 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:32,400 Speaker 4: we should see that, Like Amelia Perez, I want to 36 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 4: see that one too. 37 00:01:33,160 --> 00:01:34,039 Speaker 2: I haven't watched it. 38 00:01:34,160 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 3: Ooh, Conan's joke right at the actress, the lead actress. 39 00:01:37,560 --> 00:01:41,360 Speaker 2: That was wild. Some of the jokes are yeah. 40 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, did he get political? Because I didn't get to 41 00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 1: watch a whole lot of it last night, But that 42 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:45,839 Speaker 1: was one of the reasons that we learned on Friday, 43 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:47,680 Speaker 1: or that we had read that they picked him because 44 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:49,360 Speaker 1: I didn't think he would get too political, which of 45 00:01:49,400 --> 00:01:51,040 Speaker 1: course everyone's so sensitive about right now. 46 00:01:51,160 --> 00:01:53,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I feel like from what I saw, I had 47 00:01:53,920 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 3: to do now because it was really boring but from 48 00:01:57,080 --> 00:01:59,800 Speaker 3: what I saw, he didn't. But he definitely talked directly 49 00:02:00,120 --> 00:02:02,680 Speaker 3: that actress who had those old tweets about George Floyd, 50 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:04,520 Speaker 3: and it just made me like it was I mean, 51 00:02:04,720 --> 00:02:07,560 Speaker 3: it was uncomfortable because she was sitting right there and 52 00:02:07,600 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 3: he was talking right at her. But yeah, I'll talk 53 00:02:10,240 --> 00:02:12,680 Speaker 3: more about it, I guess whatever there is to talk about. 54 00:02:12,919 --> 00:02:14,840 Speaker 1: Well, we have a huge problem too this morning because 55 00:02:14,880 --> 00:02:19,079 Speaker 1: Hulu had technical issues which ended the OSCARS live stream 56 00:02:19,480 --> 00:02:24,920 Speaker 1: just before the best Picture announcement. I mean, how could you? 57 00:02:25,639 --> 00:02:29,160 Speaker 1: Right before? How could you? I was tuned into Hulu. 58 00:02:29,280 --> 00:02:31,480 Speaker 1: I was ready to watch it, and then I wasn't 59 00:02:31,520 --> 00:02:33,919 Speaker 1: able to, and then just outrage. I mean I haven't 60 00:02:33,919 --> 00:02:36,200 Speaker 1: been this mad since I couldn't watch the Mike Tyson fite. 61 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: I was very upset. But anyway, they apologize for the 62 00:02:39,840 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 1: experience and will make a full replay of the event 63 00:02:42,480 --> 00:02:44,720 Speaker 1: available as soon as possible, which does you no good 64 00:02:45,040 --> 00:02:47,359 Speaker 1: because now we already know what happened, so you ruined 65 00:02:47,360 --> 00:02:51,000 Speaker 1: it for me, man the whole thing. South Carolina is 66 00:02:51,160 --> 00:02:53,880 Speaker 1: dealing with over one hundred and seventy five wildfires that 67 00:02:53,919 --> 00:02:58,399 Speaker 1: have consumed approximately forty two hundred acres across various counties, 68 00:02:58,440 --> 00:03:03,920 Speaker 1: including Spartanburg Union Pickens County, Ian response to the fires, 69 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:05,840 Speaker 1: the governor there has declared the state of emergency to 70 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:10,160 Speaker 1: bolster firefighting efforts and ensure the safety of the affected communities. 71 00:03:10,440 --> 00:03:15,440 Speaker 1: They have prompted mandatory evacuations in several regions the Carolina 72 00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: Forest near Myrtle Beach, where a significant blaze has threatened 73 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:22,560 Speaker 1: numerous homes. Dry windy conditions have made the situation worse, 74 00:03:22,760 --> 00:03:28,560 Speaker 1: making containment efforts challenging for firefighters. And uncrewed spacecraft called 75 00:03:28,600 --> 00:03:33,160 Speaker 1: the Blue Ghost has successfully landed on the Moon on Sunday, 76 00:03:33,160 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: making Texas based Firefly Aerospace only the second private sector 77 00:03:37,040 --> 00:03:40,480 Speaker 1: company ever to complete such a feed. The lunar Lander 78 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,560 Speaker 1: touchdown on the Moon's surface about three thirty am Eastern, 79 00:03:44,920 --> 00:03:47,600 Speaker 1: and it captured stunning footage during its descent, which was 80 00:03:47,600 --> 00:03:51,760 Speaker 1: way more exciting than the oscars. Way more exciting, But 81 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 1: I guess it's part of a privately owned fleet helping 82 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: NASA in its aim to return astronauts to the Moon 83 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:01,040 Speaker 1: later this decade. More space eyes because we love space. 84 00:04:01,240 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: Seven planets are expected to be seen in the Earth's 85 00:04:04,480 --> 00:04:09,200 Speaker 1: night sky on Friday, so Mercury Venus, Mars, Jupiter, Sat 86 00:04:09,240 --> 00:04:13,080 Speaker 1: and Uranus and Neptune will all be visible from Earth 87 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:16,040 Speaker 1: with the naked eye. Experts said, however, you would need 88 00:04:16,240 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: a good telescope to get a good look at the 89 00:04:18,640 --> 00:04:22,520 Speaker 1: so called planetary parade is what they're calling it. There's 90 00:04:22,560 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 1: a webcast hosted by the Virtual Telescope Project, which, okay, 91 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:31,480 Speaker 1: that will helps skywatchers and the curious find their favorite 92 00:04:31,480 --> 00:04:33,479 Speaker 1: planets in the sky. So you can go watch that 93 00:04:33,520 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: if you want to. The alignment happens when the planets 94 00:04:36,400 --> 00:04:39,679 Speaker 1: orbit the Sun on a relatively flat disc shaped plane. 95 00:04:40,200 --> 00:04:42,640 Speaker 1: While the lineup is not unusual, it's rare for all 96 00:04:42,680 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 1: seven planets to line up at once and won't happen 97 00:04:45,120 --> 00:04:48,479 Speaker 1: again until twenty forty. That's exciting, it is. But where's 98 00:04:48,560 --> 00:04:54,120 Speaker 1: Butcher and Sonita doing? Well, that's true, you're right, they're 99 00:04:54,160 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 1: still on the space station. And you know, we've sent 100 00:04:57,920 --> 00:05:00,279 Speaker 1: several people have been up to the space station, gone home, 101 00:05:00,600 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: We've sent people, we've sent like spacecrafts to the Moon 102 00:05:03,520 --> 00:05:06,800 Speaker 1: and back right, but we have not pulled through to 103 00:05:06,839 --> 00:05:08,600 Speaker 1: get Butch and Sunita, who have been up there for 104 00:05:08,640 --> 00:05:11,080 Speaker 1: like seven months now. You're a very good point. This 105 00:05:11,160 --> 00:05:13,360 Speaker 1: is crazy I thought they were. I thought Elon was 106 00:05:13,400 --> 00:05:14,880 Speaker 1: supposed to go get him right away. He's too busy 107 00:05:14,920 --> 00:05:18,560 Speaker 1: firing people. I guess. I guess I don't know. The 108 00:05:18,600 --> 00:05:21,440 Speaker 1: Skype era is over for this is terrible news if 109 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:24,000 Speaker 1: those of you, any of you been using Skype and 110 00:05:24,040 --> 00:05:26,000 Speaker 1: you love it, and you're like, what am I gonna do? 111 00:05:26,720 --> 00:05:29,279 Speaker 1: I guess Microsoft is trying to move everybody over to teams. 112 00:05:29,839 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 1: So Skype users can move your counse to the team's app, 113 00:05:32,400 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: where the tech Giant notes that they can use many 114 00:05:34,200 --> 00:05:38,039 Speaker 1: of the same features. So, yeah, Skype is over. We're 115 00:05:38,040 --> 00:05:40,440 Speaker 1: not doing that anymore. We're moving over to teams. 116 00:05:40,480 --> 00:05:40,799 Speaker 2: I guess. 117 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: TikTokers, here's here's the latest thing today. I feel like 118 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,680 Speaker 1: every day it's which thing from TikTok? Do we not 119 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:50,400 Speaker 1: need to do that everybody is doing? And this is 120 00:05:50,440 --> 00:05:51,880 Speaker 1: the one that you may have seen. Have you heard 121 00:05:51,880 --> 00:05:53,200 Speaker 1: of this airport theory? 122 00:05:54,040 --> 00:05:54,480 Speaker 2: No? 123 00:05:54,680 --> 00:05:58,400 Speaker 1: Okay, So there's a series of tiktoks about airport theory, 124 00:05:58,440 --> 00:06:01,960 Speaker 1: which says that basically you can get through security in 125 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes consistently on average fifteen minutes, and so the 126 00:06:06,120 --> 00:06:08,120 Speaker 1: people who show up two hours early to the airport 127 00:06:08,120 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: are crazy because it will never take that long, and 128 00:06:11,080 --> 00:06:13,679 Speaker 1: so people are trying to prove or disprove this airport 129 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,159 Speaker 1: theory that arriving at the airport only fifteen minutes in 130 00:06:16,240 --> 00:06:20,960 Speaker 1: advance of your flight to clear security will work, which 131 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:24,280 Speaker 1: goes against the conventional wisdom of showing up hours in advance. 132 00:06:24,360 --> 00:06:26,840 Speaker 1: The problem is, I guess it's causing a bunch of 133 00:06:26,880 --> 00:06:30,480 Speaker 1: stress at the airport because people are doing this and realizing, wait, 134 00:06:30,520 --> 00:06:32,640 Speaker 1: I'm not going to make my flight, which is causing 135 00:06:32,680 --> 00:06:35,920 Speaker 1: problems in the security line. People are missing flights, and 136 00:06:35,960 --> 00:06:37,840 Speaker 1: now the airlines are like, hey, can we stop with this? 137 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:41,000 Speaker 1: Like you really? You know, maybe if you're in I 138 00:06:41,080 --> 00:06:44,279 Speaker 1: don't know, Amarillo, Texas, you can get through security in 139 00:06:44,279 --> 00:06:47,240 Speaker 1: fifteen minutes, but not in Atlanta, not every time, and 140 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:49,400 Speaker 1: just because you saw somebody on TikTok do it, So 141 00:06:49,440 --> 00:06:51,599 Speaker 1: how about we don't do this anymore and then everybody 142 00:06:51,600 --> 00:06:52,479 Speaker 1: makes their flights. 143 00:06:52,839 --> 00:06:53,039 Speaker 2: Yeah. 144 00:06:53,839 --> 00:06:55,200 Speaker 1: But I do feel like there are two kinds of 145 00:06:55,240 --> 00:06:57,600 Speaker 1: people in life, and I feel like these people need 146 00:06:57,640 --> 00:07:01,600 Speaker 1: to be aligned, because a misalignment here is a serious issue. 147 00:07:01,680 --> 00:07:03,560 Speaker 1: But there are the kind of people that show up 148 00:07:03,560 --> 00:07:05,400 Speaker 1: about an hour and a half to two hours early 149 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:07,720 Speaker 1: and there are the people who think they can show up, 150 00:07:07,960 --> 00:07:11,480 Speaker 1: like if they arrive when the flight starts boarding, then 151 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,640 Speaker 1: they'll make the flight and be fine and no time 152 00:07:13,720 --> 00:07:16,720 Speaker 1: is wasted. And I am of the earlier camp. I'm 153 00:07:16,760 --> 00:07:18,640 Speaker 1: of the camp where you need to show up early 154 00:07:19,320 --> 00:07:22,360 Speaker 1: because well, what's the problem. You show up early and 155 00:07:22,360 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: then there's long lines and whatever and it takes forever. 156 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,560 Speaker 1: You're safe if you get right through. Then go enjoy 157 00:07:28,600 --> 00:07:32,800 Speaker 1: a nice uh you know Chilis did Chilis to go? 158 00:07:33,440 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: You know, or go get you a bagel, or maybe 159 00:07:36,280 --> 00:07:39,280 Speaker 1: have a nice, nice beer at the airport. If you 160 00:07:39,280 --> 00:07:41,160 Speaker 1: can drink a beer at any time in the airport, 161 00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 1: there are no laws about drinking in the airport. You 162 00:07:43,320 --> 00:07:44,920 Speaker 1: can have a beer at eight thirty if you want to. 163 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:48,560 Speaker 1: No one's gonna stop you. It's acceptable there. So I 164 00:07:48,600 --> 00:07:50,400 Speaker 1: don't know which camp are you guys in. I think 165 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:52,960 Speaker 1: Kalin's of the early camp. Jason's have like to go 166 00:07:53,040 --> 00:07:57,480 Speaker 1: the day before camp. Yeah, I'm already there. Yeah, Kik 167 00:07:57,760 --> 00:08:00,000 Speaker 1: just doesn't get hotels and sleeps at the airport. 168 00:08:00,320 --> 00:08:01,240 Speaker 2: Yes, just stay there. 169 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,040 Speaker 1: Yes, And then Paulina forgot she had a flight entirely, 170 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:09,040 Speaker 1: So did I get all that right, yep, yeah, because 171 00:08:09,040 --> 00:08:12,440 Speaker 1: I figure if you go early, you know that way, 172 00:08:12,840 --> 00:08:15,240 Speaker 1: you're not stressed, and everybody knows how this goes. You 173 00:08:15,800 --> 00:08:18,720 Speaker 1: go early, you get in, you pass security, then you 174 00:08:18,800 --> 00:08:20,920 Speaker 1: got to go to your gate. You have to see 175 00:08:20,920 --> 00:08:25,680 Speaker 1: that it's there, right okay? B twenty three. Okay, there 176 00:08:25,720 --> 00:08:28,280 Speaker 1: it is. I lo's up to it. B twenty three. 177 00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:32,120 Speaker 1: It says we're going to Phoenix. Says it right there? Okay? Perfect? 178 00:08:32,200 --> 00:08:35,240 Speaker 1: It doesn't board for an hour. Now I can survey 179 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:37,720 Speaker 1: my options and I can see what there is to do. 180 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 1: Do I want to go to the bookstore. Do I 181 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:42,200 Speaker 1: want to go buy a periodical? Do I want to 182 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,960 Speaker 1: go and have a nice McDonald's or maybe go to 183 00:08:45,000 --> 00:08:48,040 Speaker 1: the macaroni grill. I haven't decided, but I have those 184 00:08:48,080 --> 00:08:51,680 Speaker 1: options because I've also been perusing my options as I 185 00:08:51,720 --> 00:08:53,600 Speaker 1: walk to the gate. The last thing you want to 186 00:08:53,640 --> 00:08:57,080 Speaker 1: do is just pick the first option you see, only 187 00:08:57,120 --> 00:08:59,640 Speaker 1: for your gate to be way far away and then 188 00:08:59,679 --> 00:09:02,439 Speaker 1: you really you missed a better option on your way 189 00:09:02,440 --> 00:09:08,360 Speaker 1: to the gate. You'd never want that to happen. Okay, 190 00:09:08,440 --> 00:09:11,760 Speaker 1: A lot of feedback on that this morning. Good, So 191 00:09:11,840 --> 00:09:14,360 Speaker 1: don't do that. It's a national I want you to 192 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 1: be happy day, which is encouraging you to do something 193 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: that makes other people happy. So I guess we're relying 194 00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:23,800 Speaker 1: on other people to make us happy today. Which, yeah, 195 00:09:23,840 --> 00:09:26,960 Speaker 1: what do you guys do? That's what are you doing? 196 00:09:27,000 --> 00:09:28,080 Speaker 1: What are you guys gonna do? 197 00:09:31,120 --> 00:09:36,760 Speaker 2: I'm here, Okay, that's not so far. 198 00:09:36,960 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: No, you're gonna try a little harder than that. It's 199 00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:46,280 Speaker 1: National Anthem Day, okay, and National read across America Day 200 00:09:46,800 --> 00:09:50,200 Speaker 1: aka Doctor Seuss's birthday today. The entertainmer of Port Kaelin 201 00:09:50,280 --> 00:09:54,240 Speaker 1: has that next two minutes after System Music will do blogs, 202 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: our audio journals and waiting by the phone, let's figure 203 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,520 Speaker 1: out if somebody is being ghosted and why. We'll do 204 00:09:59,559 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: that in about thirty minutes. On The Fred Show, we're 205 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 1: back in too. Glad you're here. It's a fresh show. 206 00:10:06,520 --> 00:10:10,679 Speaker 1: It's Kiki's Court, all right, the honorable Kikilik is here. 207 00:10:10,800 --> 00:10:13,839 Speaker 1: Judge Kiki, Oh, I'm here, Yes, take it. 208 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,640 Speaker 5: Away, all right, let's get into the courtroom, it says Kiki. 209 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,840 Speaker 5: My name is Mona. I've been married for two weeks 210 00:10:19,880 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 5: and I'm already no longer speaking to my mother in 211 00:10:22,360 --> 00:10:25,800 Speaker 5: law throughout my wedding planning process, she kept trying to 212 00:10:25,960 --> 00:10:28,800 Speaker 5: add people to my guest list. My husband and I 213 00:10:28,880 --> 00:10:32,440 Speaker 5: paid for our entire wedding by ourselves, and we can 214 00:10:32,520 --> 00:10:35,920 Speaker 5: only afford one hundred people. Well, on my wedding day, 215 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:39,119 Speaker 5: my husband and I had to turn away twenty additional 216 00:10:39,240 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 5: guests that my mother in law invited instead of us 217 00:10:42,920 --> 00:10:46,160 Speaker 5: enjoying our reception. We were arguing and debating if we 218 00:10:46,160 --> 00:10:50,679 Speaker 5: should just eat the additional costs or tell the uninvited 219 00:10:50,679 --> 00:10:53,720 Speaker 5: guests to go home. I stood my ground and turned 220 00:10:53,760 --> 00:10:56,400 Speaker 5: them all away, which resulted in my mother in law 221 00:10:56,440 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 5: throwing a fit at our wedding reception. She stormed out 222 00:10:59,360 --> 00:11:02,400 Speaker 5: Missy most the night and cost a complete scene. We 223 00:11:02,520 --> 00:11:04,800 Speaker 5: haven't spoken, and now I'm wondering if I made the 224 00:11:04,880 --> 00:11:05,480 Speaker 5: right decision. 225 00:11:07,679 --> 00:11:10,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, all right, judge Geeky, what say you. 226 00:11:10,679 --> 00:11:12,360 Speaker 2: Mona, I'm on your side. 227 00:11:12,480 --> 00:11:15,880 Speaker 5: I am on your side with this, because I've said 228 00:11:15,880 --> 00:11:18,280 Speaker 5: this to every wedding I've been in and every bride 229 00:11:18,280 --> 00:11:21,680 Speaker 5: I've stood beside. It's like, your wedding is not the 230 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:25,040 Speaker 5: family reunion. You know, your cousins that you haven't seen 231 00:11:25,080 --> 00:11:27,640 Speaker 5: in years. If you have no direct communication with these 232 00:11:27,640 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 5: people on a regular basis, you should not feel pressure 233 00:11:30,360 --> 00:11:31,680 Speaker 5: to add them to your guest list. 234 00:11:32,120 --> 00:11:35,160 Speaker 2: And your wedding is a day for you and your husband. 235 00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,520 Speaker 5: It is not about your mom's guest list, your grandma's 236 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,200 Speaker 5: guest list, like they need to have a party. 237 00:11:40,200 --> 00:11:42,079 Speaker 2: If they miss their their family, that bad. 238 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:45,520 Speaker 5: Because when you think about how expensive a wedding can cost, 239 00:11:45,840 --> 00:11:48,600 Speaker 5: would you pay seventy dollars to eat with cousin Sally on. 240 00:11:48,520 --> 00:11:49,240 Speaker 2: A regular day? 241 00:11:49,559 --> 00:11:49,640 Speaker 1: No? 242 00:11:49,880 --> 00:11:51,640 Speaker 5: So why would I pay for a seventy dollars plate 243 00:11:51,679 --> 00:11:53,400 Speaker 5: for her to come to my wedding and we don't 244 00:11:53,400 --> 00:11:54,000 Speaker 5: even speak. 245 00:11:54,320 --> 00:11:57,720 Speaker 1: So yeah, just so I'm clear, and you mentioned it, 246 00:11:57,760 --> 00:11:59,760 Speaker 1: I'm just want to be certain to have all the 247 00:12:00,200 --> 00:12:04,400 Speaker 1: details before I assess my position on this. This is serious. Yes, 248 00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,240 Speaker 1: but they paid for it. The parents didn't pay for it. 249 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:09,280 Speaker 5: No, the bride and the groom paid for the wedding 250 00:12:09,280 --> 00:12:11,440 Speaker 5: and they can only afford four hundred people. 251 00:12:11,679 --> 00:12:16,320 Speaker 1: Yeah well then no, then then I didn't Pauline in 252 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:18,120 Speaker 1: your family, wasn't it this way where they paid for 253 00:12:18,160 --> 00:12:18,800 Speaker 1: their own guests? 254 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:21,280 Speaker 4: No, we paid for our guests, but we also didn't 255 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,959 Speaker 4: have anything like you know, crazy over the top legover 256 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:25,760 Speaker 4: budget kind of like I don't know if this is 257 00:12:25,760 --> 00:12:26,920 Speaker 4: how Mona's was. 258 00:12:27,520 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 2: But the thing is, though, even if they pay. 259 00:12:29,960 --> 00:12:31,800 Speaker 4: For their own guests, like your mother in law or whatever, 260 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 4: your in law's pay for their own guests, some people 261 00:12:33,720 --> 00:12:35,720 Speaker 4: just want to do small weddings. So if you only 262 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:37,600 Speaker 4: have like a fifty person wedding, which my best friend 263 00:12:37,600 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 4: wants to do that, and then you know his mother 264 00:12:39,400 --> 00:12:41,680 Speaker 4: in law invites, you know, the family extend to the 265 00:12:41,679 --> 00:12:44,200 Speaker 4: cousins or whatever from the other state, then now the 266 00:12:44,200 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 4: wedding's one hundred people. 267 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:46,360 Speaker 2: Right, or you know what I mean. 268 00:12:46,720 --> 00:12:49,400 Speaker 1: I'm just more impressed they came up, they come up. 269 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:51,880 Speaker 1: I'm more impressed they come up. I'm more impressed they 270 00:12:51,920 --> 00:12:54,200 Speaker 1: came up with four hundred people, and they didn't include 271 00:12:54,200 --> 00:12:56,240 Speaker 1: all the random cousins and stuff like that, because there's 272 00:12:56,280 --> 00:12:58,520 Speaker 1: no way, there's no way. I don't I wouldn't be 273 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,880 Speaker 1: able to invit four hundred people. No, they invited one 274 00:13:01,960 --> 00:13:03,599 Speaker 1: hundred people or one hundred. I don't know where I 275 00:13:03,600 --> 00:13:06,960 Speaker 1: got four hundred from. Either way, that's a lot of 276 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 1: people I don't even I guess it is. And the 277 00:13:09,600 --> 00:13:12,000 Speaker 1: problem with being married or getting married when you're older, 278 00:13:12,720 --> 00:13:14,839 Speaker 1: you know, I'm in my early forties or whatever, is 279 00:13:14,880 --> 00:13:17,080 Speaker 1: that Now, I know a lot of people and not 280 00:13:17,160 --> 00:13:19,480 Speaker 1: everybody probably needs to be at my wedding, but a 281 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:21,559 Speaker 1: lot of people probably think they should be, right, you 282 00:13:21,559 --> 00:13:22,880 Speaker 1: know what I mean. So, like, there would be a 283 00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,560 Speaker 1: lot of people offended if I had a wedding of 284 00:13:25,640 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 1: any you know size that wasn't beyond just family and 285 00:13:29,440 --> 00:13:32,800 Speaker 1: my sister, mom, dad, you know, maybe a couple close friends. 286 00:13:33,440 --> 00:13:35,199 Speaker 1: Even then though, I think there'd be a lot of 287 00:13:35,200 --> 00:13:36,839 Speaker 1: people in my life like what do you mean? I 288 00:13:36,840 --> 00:13:39,240 Speaker 1: didn't get invited to the wedding, Like what do you mean? 289 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,679 Speaker 1: And so I can see why at this point in 290 00:13:41,720 --> 00:13:44,120 Speaker 1: my life, I can see why older people when they 291 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:45,959 Speaker 1: get married, or people who are not you know, twenty 292 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:48,320 Speaker 1: something anymore or whatever, or second marriage is, I can 293 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:50,320 Speaker 1: see why they just go off and the elope because 294 00:13:50,679 --> 00:13:52,120 Speaker 1: you don't have to deal with any of this. You 295 00:13:52,120 --> 00:13:54,120 Speaker 1: don't have to worry about who who got invited and 296 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: who didn't get invited. You don't have to have anyone 297 00:13:56,360 --> 00:13:59,520 Speaker 1: else's opinion on this, parents or other family members, because 298 00:13:59,520 --> 00:14:01,000 Speaker 1: it's like, look, I just went off and did it, 299 00:14:01,160 --> 00:14:03,800 Speaker 1: and it's done, and it's over, and nobody came. And 300 00:14:04,120 --> 00:14:07,440 Speaker 1: then maybe you have a party afterwards and that's not 301 00:14:07,679 --> 00:14:10,360 Speaker 1: the expense of a wedding, and you can invite everybody 302 00:14:10,360 --> 00:14:11,960 Speaker 1: who wants to go, because I don't think you should 303 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:16,520 Speaker 1: be obligated to pay for people that you don't want there. 304 00:14:16,600 --> 00:14:18,520 Speaker 1: It's your money. Now, I've heard of people in the 305 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: past where it's like we're paying for the wedding, but 306 00:14:22,080 --> 00:14:25,440 Speaker 1: then the parents on each side pay for their guests. 307 00:14:25,760 --> 00:14:28,280 Speaker 1: So like if they insist on Aunt Sally, and they 308 00:14:28,320 --> 00:14:33,000 Speaker 1: insist on Uncle Rico or whatever else, then then they 309 00:14:33,040 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: can pay for that. But the other issue with that 310 00:14:35,440 --> 00:14:38,480 Speaker 1: is if I wanted them, if I wanted somebody there, 311 00:14:38,520 --> 00:14:41,960 Speaker 1: I probably would have invited them exactly. So like, why 312 00:14:42,000 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: am I giving you guys an extra guest list, like 313 00:14:46,440 --> 00:14:49,200 Speaker 1: an extraneous guest list. Why why do you now get 314 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:50,680 Speaker 1: to change the whole vibe in my wedding with a 315 00:14:50,680 --> 00:14:52,960 Speaker 1: bunch of people. I don't know. The only way I 316 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:56,120 Speaker 1: can see that being a thing is if they if 317 00:14:56,160 --> 00:14:58,280 Speaker 1: the parents paid for it, because if you're going to 318 00:14:58,320 --> 00:15:00,760 Speaker 1: take somebody else's money, then they're going to get input 319 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:02,240 Speaker 1: on who gets to go. Yeah. 320 00:15:02,360 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 4: I also did one thing that I don't know if 321 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,800 Speaker 4: it's common or not, is I did tell my mom 322 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:08,800 Speaker 4: and my mother in law, like, if they wanted to invite, 323 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:11,440 Speaker 4: let's just say like a really good friend or something, 324 00:15:11,480 --> 00:15:13,040 Speaker 4: or someone that they worked with for twenty years. My 325 00:15:13,080 --> 00:15:15,720 Speaker 4: mom has been the same job forever, so she was 326 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:17,640 Speaker 4: really close to her coworkers who saw me grow up. 327 00:15:17,840 --> 00:15:18,880 Speaker 4: And I was like, oh, you know, if you want 328 00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:20,880 Speaker 4: to invite somebody like, you know, please do Obviously they 329 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:23,280 Speaker 4: wouldn't be on my let's just say my list, right, 330 00:15:23,480 --> 00:15:24,680 Speaker 4: They're not top of mind for me. 331 00:15:25,240 --> 00:15:26,800 Speaker 2: But I wanted my mom in laws. 332 00:15:26,640 --> 00:15:28,560 Speaker 4: To invite people that maybe I don't know who they are, 333 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:30,960 Speaker 4: but you know, havy my husband maybe like grew up 334 00:15:30,960 --> 00:15:32,760 Speaker 4: with this person, like a family friend that I don't 335 00:15:32,800 --> 00:15:34,680 Speaker 4: know who that is, you know, or my mom like 336 00:15:34,680 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 4: I don't have a lot of family here in the country. 337 00:15:37,160 --> 00:15:39,600 Speaker 4: So they weren't coming out from Poland. They were gonna 338 00:15:39,600 --> 00:15:42,040 Speaker 4: fly out here for my wedding. And I was like, well, Mom, 339 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:42,960 Speaker 4: who do you want to invite? 340 00:15:43,040 --> 00:15:45,200 Speaker 2: Right? That is like family that I might not be 341 00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:49,760 Speaker 2: aware of or on my radar. Did she take them advantage? Yeah, 342 00:15:49,800 --> 00:15:52,480 Speaker 2: she brought my high school English teacher. Oh yeah, she 343 00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:55,200 Speaker 2: was holding hands with Yes, like me too. 344 00:15:55,560 --> 00:15:57,680 Speaker 1: You were smart to have a destination wedding too, because 345 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:00,440 Speaker 1: I think that weeds him out as well. Yes, oh yeah, 346 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,240 Speaker 1: because not everyone's going to pay for that. Yeah. 347 00:16:03,360 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 5: I would love to hear from the brides because I 348 00:16:05,840 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 5: can only like, I get particular about a dinner party, 349 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:10,040 Speaker 5: like is my dinner party? 350 00:16:10,280 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 2: This is why I want at the table. 351 00:16:11,640 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 5: So I can only imagine when it's the biggest day 352 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:16,320 Speaker 5: of your life. You know, not the biggest day, but 353 00:16:16,360 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 5: you know, one of the most important days of your life, 354 00:16:18,400 --> 00:16:20,760 Speaker 5: and you feel like you have to please everybody else. 355 00:16:20,800 --> 00:16:22,400 Speaker 5: Absolutely not so. 356 00:16:22,440 --> 00:16:24,800 Speaker 1: Eight five, five, five, nine, one, one oh three five 357 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:26,360 Speaker 1: you can call it text the same number. But you 358 00:16:26,360 --> 00:16:28,480 Speaker 1: guys are the jury in Kiki's court. I want to know, 359 00:16:28,600 --> 00:16:33,000 Speaker 1: do you do you think that you should Do you 360 00:16:33,000 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: think that your parents should be able to inject guests 361 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:40,080 Speaker 1: onto the guest list because well, so and so is important, 362 00:16:40,080 --> 00:16:42,760 Speaker 1: and so and so is important and whatever you know 363 00:16:42,800 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 1: as where you may favor friends or coworkers or whatever. 364 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:48,920 Speaker 1: I mean, do you think that your family should get 365 00:16:48,920 --> 00:16:50,840 Speaker 1: some kind of input and who gets to go to 366 00:16:50,880 --> 00:16:53,080 Speaker 1: this stuff? Or do you think, no, it's my wedding, 367 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,480 Speaker 1: I paid for it, and so I'll choose and if 368 00:16:55,520 --> 00:16:58,160 Speaker 1: that upsets family well, then I guess that's a me 369 00:16:58,320 --> 00:17:00,280 Speaker 1: problem and not a you problem, because I y's the 370 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:02,200 Speaker 1: other problem here is that you know, maybe you're not 371 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:04,800 Speaker 1: as close with certain people as your parents are. They 372 00:17:05,280 --> 00:17:07,880 Speaker 1: think they should be there. You'd rather invite someone who 373 00:17:07,880 --> 00:17:10,800 Speaker 1: you met more recently. It might cause long term damage. 374 00:17:10,840 --> 00:17:13,199 Speaker 1: You don't care right now, but your parents are like, no, 375 00:17:13,280 --> 00:17:15,560 Speaker 1: they have to come, like, come on, they they were 376 00:17:15,560 --> 00:17:17,440 Speaker 1: part of your upbringing or whatever. I mean, it's comp 377 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:19,480 Speaker 1: families complicated. 378 00:17:19,080 --> 00:17:19,960 Speaker 2: No, it really is. 379 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:22,320 Speaker 5: But I think I think the fair thing is to maybe, 380 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:25,159 Speaker 5: if you can afford it, offer your parents a table 381 00:17:25,320 --> 00:17:28,280 Speaker 5: and you say, listen, this is your table. Fill it 382 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:30,679 Speaker 5: with whoever you want to feel it with. Outside of 383 00:17:30,720 --> 00:17:32,600 Speaker 5: your table. The rest is my wedding. 384 00:17:32,640 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I feel like that's more 385 00:17:34,119 --> 00:17:34,600 Speaker 2: than fair. 386 00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:36,959 Speaker 5: We're talking one hundred dollars a plate at these some 387 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:37,880 Speaker 5: of these maquet halls. 388 00:17:37,880 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 2: It's expensive, very. 389 00:17:39,800 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I would even again, I would even say 390 00:17:42,920 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: even if you were paying for people to come like 391 00:17:46,359 --> 00:17:48,600 Speaker 1: you want to. To Paulina's point, you want to invite 392 00:17:48,640 --> 00:17:51,479 Speaker 1: your coworkers. You want to invite people that you know. 393 00:17:51,960 --> 00:17:54,560 Speaker 1: I don't know that. Well, maybe i've never even met them. 394 00:17:55,000 --> 00:17:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm not paying for that. But I also, even if 395 00:17:57,080 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: you're paying for it, I don't even know if I 396 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: want them there. I don't know them. 397 00:18:01,040 --> 00:18:03,440 Speaker 2: Yeah, true, that's a good point, trick. 398 00:18:03,840 --> 00:18:07,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, they're just hanging out drinking my free bar, you know, dancing, 399 00:18:07,600 --> 00:18:09,920 Speaker 5: doing the electric slide and I don't even notice person. 400 00:18:11,680 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying, Like, even if you said, okay, fine, 401 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:17,240 Speaker 1: you can pay. You can pay for fifty more people 402 00:18:17,280 --> 00:18:19,000 Speaker 1: if you want fifty more people to come, Like, even 403 00:18:19,040 --> 00:18:20,960 Speaker 1: if you were to say that, okay, well I don't 404 00:18:20,960 --> 00:18:24,320 Speaker 1: know these people. Like for example, my well, my parents 405 00:18:24,320 --> 00:18:28,480 Speaker 1: paid for my sister's wedding, but they then had input 406 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:31,200 Speaker 1: on who got to go. And there were some people 407 00:18:31,240 --> 00:18:34,880 Speaker 1: that were like friends but also clients of my parents' 408 00:18:34,920 --> 00:18:37,600 Speaker 1: business and stuff like that they got invited, and that 409 00:18:37,640 --> 00:18:41,600 Speaker 1: took up space from because the number of guests didn't change, 410 00:18:41,720 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 1: the number of people who could come didn't change, but 411 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:45,960 Speaker 1: they paid for it. So they were like, well, we're 412 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 1: inviting so and so and so my sister couldn't say 413 00:18:47,920 --> 00:18:50,360 Speaker 1: very much. And then some of those people didn't show up, 414 00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,560 Speaker 1: and so, well, my parents were pissed, and they had 415 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,280 Speaker 1: every reason to be. My sister was more pissed because 416 00:18:57,280 --> 00:18:59,120 Speaker 1: she was like, well, we had to invite so and so, 417 00:19:00,440 --> 00:19:02,560 Speaker 1: they didn't even come. And then these other people that 418 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:04,920 Speaker 1: I did want to invite couldn't come because we had 419 00:19:04,960 --> 00:19:07,040 Speaker 1: to invite so and so, And I couldn't say anything 420 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 1: to you because it was your money. But then here 421 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:11,040 Speaker 1: we go. 422 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what. 423 00:19:13,200 --> 00:19:16,200 Speaker 4: It's respectful like to not show up after your RSVBDA. 424 00:19:16,760 --> 00:19:19,400 Speaker 4: I'm not talking about like like emergency, like the craziest 425 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,680 Speaker 4: thing you've ever seen, you know, car flipped over, arms 426 00:19:21,720 --> 00:19:22,160 Speaker 4: fallen off. 427 00:19:22,200 --> 00:19:24,560 Speaker 2: Oh no, that would be I'm serious. 428 00:19:24,720 --> 00:19:26,320 Speaker 1: That might be a reason not to go to a wedding. 429 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:27,119 Speaker 5: I might. 430 00:19:27,960 --> 00:19:29,720 Speaker 1: I might be like, well wait a minute, though, like 431 00:19:29,880 --> 00:19:32,240 Speaker 1: could the ambulance have stopped? Could you have like pulled up? 432 00:19:32,400 --> 00:19:34,480 Speaker 1: You know, like, what do you mean pull up on 433 00:19:34,560 --> 00:19:36,680 Speaker 1: me and my wedding? A bunch of texts my mother 434 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:39,120 Speaker 1: in law wanted people my husband and I didn't want, 435 00:19:39,359 --> 00:19:41,960 Speaker 1: or no, we paid for one hundred percent, and she 436 00:19:42,119 --> 00:19:44,280 Speaker 1: threatened to keep the money that they were going to 437 00:19:44,320 --> 00:19:48,200 Speaker 1: give us. Oh, I guess it's a gift. So we 438 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,240 Speaker 1: laughed at her. No one's going to control my story. 439 00:19:51,359 --> 00:19:53,400 Speaker 1: That's what this person said, yeah, I like that one. Yes, 440 00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:56,920 Speaker 1: I had friends that had their wedding in Colorado just 441 00:19:57,000 --> 00:19:59,159 Speaker 1: to avoid having a bunch of people come. Yeah. I 442 00:19:59,200 --> 00:20:01,960 Speaker 1: think that's a very smart thing. The further away you 443 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:04,359 Speaker 1: have it and the more expensive it is, you got 444 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:07,320 Speaker 1: to realize that fewer people are going to come, but 445 00:20:07,440 --> 00:20:09,240 Speaker 1: you might be able to use that to your advantage. 446 00:20:09,680 --> 00:20:12,000 Speaker 2: Remember when Paula tried Thanksgiving week? 447 00:20:12,040 --> 00:20:12,439 Speaker 1: Oh, I do. 448 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:14,560 Speaker 2: Again. 449 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:18,159 Speaker 1: For those of you who are new friends of this year, 450 00:20:18,240 --> 00:20:21,040 Speaker 1: Paulina got married what last two years ago? Last year? 451 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:27,000 Speaker 1: I can't keep well, you were pregnant, so it was yeah, 452 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 1: it was like a year and a half ago, right, 453 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:32,040 Speaker 1: last summer or tummer anyway, whatever, and and so the 454 00:20:32,160 --> 00:20:37,920 Speaker 1: initial plan was Mexico on Thanksgiving week, and then you 455 00:20:38,080 --> 00:20:40,760 Speaker 1: were offended that people wouldn't go. You were offended that 456 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:43,119 Speaker 1: people were saying they couldn't go. And I'm like, Paulina, 457 00:20:43,800 --> 00:20:46,720 Speaker 1: it's Thanksgiving in Mexico, Like, that's a very nice thing, 458 00:20:46,800 --> 00:20:49,119 Speaker 1: except most people want to spend Thanksgiving with their family. 459 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,320 Speaker 1: You're asking people to go to your wedding on a holiday. 460 00:20:51,440 --> 00:20:53,560 Speaker 1: You can't be upset if people don't go. If you're 461 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 1: gonna have your if you're gonna have your wedding an 462 00:20:55,160 --> 00:20:58,040 Speaker 1: all inclusive resort in Mexico that is going to cost 463 00:20:58,080 --> 00:21:00,119 Speaker 1: people a little bit of money. You also can't be 464 00:21:00,200 --> 00:21:01,879 Speaker 1: offended if they don't go. 465 00:21:02,280 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 4: I know, I had to grow up from that mentality 466 00:21:04,320 --> 00:21:06,200 Speaker 4: because I still don't like Thanksgiving guys. 467 00:21:06,240 --> 00:21:08,359 Speaker 2: No, that's I don't really care for it. But hey, listen, 468 00:21:08,400 --> 00:21:10,080 Speaker 2: it all worked out in the end in Vegas. 469 00:21:10,240 --> 00:21:11,880 Speaker 5: So you were the reverse I thought it. I thought 470 00:21:11,880 --> 00:21:14,399 Speaker 5: you planned it that way so that maybe people can't come, right. 471 00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:16,959 Speaker 5: They're saying like, oh, I know they won't come now 472 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:20,879 Speaker 5: because it's on this day. But yeah, so OURSVP to 473 00:21:20,960 --> 00:21:23,000 Speaker 5: a wedding and I show up. That is extremely rude. 474 00:21:23,560 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 5: But as his mother in law like, she threw a 475 00:21:25,440 --> 00:21:28,200 Speaker 5: fit at the reception too, and now it's not speaking 476 00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:30,320 Speaker 5: to her daughter in law because she turned people away. 477 00:21:30,800 --> 00:21:34,000 Speaker 1: See, let's talk to Eva. Eva's the one. Good morning, 478 00:21:34,080 --> 00:21:37,520 Speaker 1: by the way, good morning. So you're the one that 479 00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:39,879 Speaker 1: laughed at your your mother in law because you're like, no, 480 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:43,120 Speaker 1: you're not inviting people to this wedding, especially if I'm 481 00:21:43,119 --> 00:21:45,800 Speaker 1: paying for it's my day exactly. 482 00:21:45,960 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 4: My husband and I, excuse me, paid for our wedding 483 00:21:48,760 --> 00:21:51,040 Speaker 4: and one hundred percent, and she was like, well, we're 484 00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:52,960 Speaker 4: keeping the twenty five hundred and we're not coming. 485 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:57,840 Speaker 2: And we're like, okay, it's gonna cost way more than that, 486 00:21:58,160 --> 00:22:02,800 Speaker 2: so what. But you ended up coming. The day was great, 487 00:22:02,960 --> 00:22:06,080 Speaker 2: but it's just like the threatening is not gonna work, 488 00:22:06,160 --> 00:22:06,800 Speaker 2: you know what I mean? 489 00:22:07,440 --> 00:22:09,399 Speaker 1: Yes? Yeah, And why is it up to you to 490 00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:12,360 Speaker 1: determine who comes to my stuff, like especially if you're 491 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:16,320 Speaker 1: not paying for it exactly? Yeah, like, hey, thank you, 492 00:22:16,440 --> 00:22:18,399 Speaker 1: have a great day, you too. 493 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:18,720 Speaker 2: Bye bye. 494 00:22:18,920 --> 00:22:21,040 Speaker 1: Look at this all these people weddings, Man, it brings 495 00:22:21,080 --> 00:22:24,280 Speaker 1: out all kinds of drama, like everyone's got a wedding story. 496 00:22:24,359 --> 00:22:27,720 Speaker 1: Both my sisters had holiday weddings and then wonder wondered 497 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:29,560 Speaker 1: why people didn't come that. 498 00:22:29,640 --> 00:22:35,479 Speaker 2: Where are y'all at right? I mean, forget that turkey 499 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:36,800 Speaker 2: raise come to myself. 500 00:22:37,320 --> 00:22:40,040 Speaker 1: I had my wedding on Christmas in Mexico and nobody 501 00:22:40,119 --> 00:22:42,359 Speaker 1: showed up. It's very offensive. I'm like, what do you 502 00:22:42,440 --> 00:22:44,000 Speaker 1: mean you don't What do you mean you won't come? 503 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,639 Speaker 4: Beautiful though? Come on, like holiday is in Mexico on 504 00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:48,880 Speaker 4: the beach in Kenkoon. 505 00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:52,760 Speaker 1: Yeah, it does sound nice, except for the whole. 506 00:22:52,680 --> 00:22:54,880 Speaker 2: You know, family thing is family tradition. 507 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,720 Speaker 1: Problem solve. I think we all agree. If it ain't 508 00:23:00,760 --> 00:23:03,200 Speaker 1: your day and you're not paying for it, then you 509 00:23:03,280 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 1: don't have a leg to stand. On the Entertainment Report, 510 00:23:05,560 --> 00:23:08,399 Speaker 1: we'll do it in two minutes. Headlines and funds that 511 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:08,879 Speaker 1: coming up.