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Speaker 1: Yeah, they talk better than they SciTE tell me about.

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Speaker 2: These are the radio blogs on the Fred Show. You're

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Speaker 2: riding in our diaries, except we say them alaud we

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Speaker 2: call them blogs.

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Speaker 1: Klin.

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right, go it's your blog.

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Speaker 4: So we've been talking a lot about my trauma this morning,

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Speaker 4: so I'm going to do another light but traumatic thing

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Speaker 4: in my life. And I would actually really like Paulina

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Speaker 4: and Fred to join in, if you guys feel the same.

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Speaker 4: So I think there's a movie about this that was

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Speaker 4: winning some awards or up for some awards recently. But

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Speaker 4: it's very interesting to me and I think a lot

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Speaker 4: about it how people can grow up in the same

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Speaker 4: household but like have such different childhoods. And I feel

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Speaker 4: like a lot of the older siblings definitely feel like

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Speaker 4: they grew up different than maybe their youngest sibling.

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Speaker 3: And that's that's very possible.

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Speaker 4: I mean, you know, your parents are advancing in their

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Speaker 4: careers or learning or becoming better parents.

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Speaker 3: I think the first child is usually like a test

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Speaker 3: dump dummy.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, the standards only existed for me. Yes, like seven

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Speaker 1: and a half years later, my parents gave up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, they gave.

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Speaker 1: Up with my sister.

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Speaker 3: And I don't blame them for getting tired of.

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Speaker 2: But they were too tired to go ahead, just do whatever,

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Speaker 2: just don't get arrested.

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Speaker 4: Oh, it's funny, like I would have these elaborate schemes

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Speaker 4: to like try to pull off sneaking off and drinking.

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Speaker 3: My sister's so lazy.

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Speaker 4: She would just pull off the Tito's label and just

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Speaker 4: like hide it behind something, and we'd I'd be like,

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Speaker 4: you know, we know what was in this.

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Speaker 1: Correct.

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Speaker 4: I'm like, the effort I wish you did to conceal

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Speaker 4: this like is very like I walked so you could like,

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Speaker 4: what are you doing?

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Speaker 5: She?

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Speaker 4: She whatever. So it's just very funny. And so we are.

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Speaker 4: She's about to graduate college and I'm so happy for her.

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Speaker 4: I'm so proud of her. She wants to move here,

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Speaker 4: and it's just very funny because now there's talks of

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Speaker 4: a graduation trip, which I love.

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Speaker 3: I'm in I love a trip whatever.

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Speaker 4: But my from my graduation we went to beny Hanna

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Speaker 4: in East Lansing, Michigan.

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Speaker 3: Now for her graduation right now, ma'am? Well id it?

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Speaker 3: And that was fancy for me?

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Speaker 1: Absolutely sounds pretty good. Where is she? What does she

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Speaker 1: get to do?

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Speaker 3: I believe that she gets to leave the country for her.

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Speaker 2: For her, I need to know where I need to

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Speaker 2: know where we're going, know where we're going.

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Speaker 4: I's authentic, and I do feel like I'm in Japan

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Speaker 4: when I'm at Ben and Banna.

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Speaker 3: However, it's just very funny and I I love it

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Speaker 3: so much for her.

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Speaker 4: I know sometimes people can be can and and yes,

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Speaker 4: maybe sometimes I have some private things to work through,

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Speaker 4: but I'm happy. I want her to have better than

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Speaker 4: I had and as she should.

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Speaker 3: But it's just very funny.

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Speaker 4: If you go down the list of comparisons and you

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Speaker 4: and your sister have a much smaller age difference, Paulina,

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Speaker 4: but we still feel it.

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Speaker 3: Right, Oh, my sister's beautiful life.

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Speaker 6: She got to go to like a private driving school

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Speaker 6: to get her license for no reason. Our high school

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Speaker 6: offered it, but my mom felt like, she's going to

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Speaker 6: go to a driving school and get her license, like

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Speaker 6: maybe six months before everybody else.

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Speaker 1: You should.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't invest in your future, and she did.

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Speaker 1: We can still in that too late.

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Speaker 3: I get here here, you we always get here.

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Speaker 6: And yeah, she got to do a trip to I

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Speaker 6: think she went somewhere like during spring break or something.

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Speaker 6: I didn't have a break. I worked two jobs. There

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Speaker 6: was no spring break for me. Yeah, my sister really

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Speaker 6: does live her life. Well, I mean, like like you said,

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Speaker 6: I'm happy for her because like you want better for

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Speaker 6: your siblings, your kids, like you want better Okay.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but then I know, like for you, like you know,

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Speaker 4: you had strict rules and you were actually not doing

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Speaker 4: anything and your parents treated you like you were like

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Speaker 4: a convict, you know. And then but your sister was

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Speaker 4: like she was, she was a vibe, she was partying.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, my sister is seven and a half years younger.

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Speaker 2: And and my mom obviously was was pretty young when

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Speaker 2: she had me, so she would have been god, oh man,

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Speaker 2: let me think about this, Like she would have been

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Speaker 2: like forty years old and had an eighteen year old

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Speaker 2: or seventeen year old I mean not that old really. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but yet my parents insisted they were like lurking around

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Speaker 2: every corner. They thought that I was always trying to

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Speaker 2: get out game them. Yeah, and I was not trying

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Speaker 2: to out gain them at all. Like I my dad, I

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Speaker 2: know what you're trying to do. It's like, but I'm

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Speaker 2: not you know what I'm playing. I genuinely am not

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Speaker 2: two jobs, Like I don't know, they didn't ask me

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Speaker 2: to get you know, I don't know. It was crazy,

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Speaker 2: but they were always like, I know, I know what

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Speaker 2: you're thinking, like I know you're gonna try and do this,

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Speaker 2: You're gonna try and do that.

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Speaker 1: And I wasn't trying to do anything.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm not saying I wasn't a teenager, but

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Speaker 2: I mean if I was, you know, a couple of

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Speaker 2: minutes late, we had a problem no girls in my

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Speaker 2: room with the door closed like that kind of thing.

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Speaker 2: Then I come home and it's like my sister's at

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Speaker 2: home with the door closed with cracksmoke coming at the bottom,

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Speaker 2: and the think, you know, the two guys in there,

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Speaker 2: you know, watching a rated R movie And I'm like,

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Speaker 2: what is happening right? And of course I would call

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Speaker 2: it out because I'm that much older, like what is

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Speaker 2: this right?

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Speaker 1: They're like, she's not doing anything. I'm like, he has a.

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Speaker 2: Crackpie, like they are making masks, ask for all the

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Speaker 2: student fans like what are you doing?

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Speaker 1: Sorry? Yeah, no, they just.

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Speaker 2: I mean it's like and then she you know, but

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Speaker 2: then she was she was always gaming them, and then

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Speaker 2: the problem is, and I love my sister, but then

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Speaker 2: she'd get caught, and then then she'd tell the truth,

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Speaker 2: and my parents are like, no, no, no, we start with

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Speaker 2: the truth and then maybe you know, but like, nothing

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Speaker 2: really happened. If I had been pulling off some of

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Speaker 2: that stuff, I would have gotten my butt caked.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean, as the younger sibling in the room, I

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Speaker 5: speak and say that you all really are the strongest soldiers.

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Speaker 5: Older siblings really are the strongest soldiers. You guys go

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Speaker 5: through everything and then we just kind of come behind

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Speaker 5: you and live a beautiful life. My sister had a

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Speaker 5: totally different set of parents than I had, you know,

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Speaker 5: my parents who she went through the churches. Love you, Helena,

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Speaker 5: But yeah, older siblings really are the strongest soldiers. Y'all

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Speaker 5: deserve that. Yeah, yeah, well give me your flowers my sister, Yeah,

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Speaker 5: thank you.

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Speaker 2: High school trip was the tradition they started with me,

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Speaker 2: was where do you want to go for spring break

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Speaker 2: of your senior year? And my sister, obviously she was young,

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Speaker 2: so she got to go too. But then she got

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Speaker 2: a trip with my parents that I didn't get to

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Speaker 2: go on. Yep, so she got to go on my trip.

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Speaker 2: But then when it was to come time for me

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Speaker 2: to I'm like, all right, cause I think she did

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Speaker 2: something cool too, like went to Italy or something, and

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Speaker 2: I'm like, all right, great, so when is that and

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Speaker 2: you shoot the ticket over?

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Speaker 1: You know, my social Security member. You made it.

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Speaker 4: Real to come with us, Like it changes the whole,

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Speaker 4: Like if I wanted to go somewhere to dinner to

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Speaker 4: celebrate me, like it was like, no, we got to

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Speaker 4: go somewhere with like a high chair and chicken fingers

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Speaker 4: and I like that.

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Speaker 2: Oh but we're not doing that. So anyway, I hope

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Speaker 2: you enjoyed both trips. Yeah, rock on, Amanda. Whatever now

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Speaker 2: she now you got it. I need I need to

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Speaker 2: go now waiting met the phone, you just knew. Why

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Speaker 2: didn't somebody get ghosted? It's not more breadshell next