WEBVTT - Vitamin D Live - I'm A Survivor 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.680 You can't fail if you don't quit. I say, if 0:00:02.680 --> 0:00:05.840 you fall down seven times, get up eight and if 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:09.520 you can look up, you can get up. It amazes 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:12.760 me in times in life how we're afraid to move, 0:00:14.000 --> 0:00:19.799 how oftentimes we get stuck and fear and apprehension, feeling 0:00:19.880 --> 0:00:22.200 though as though we can't make it through the next day, 0:00:22.840 --> 0:00:27.080 or perhaps we're playing back yesterday. But you have to 0:00:27.120 --> 0:00:31.760 realize is that you have survived one hundred percent of 0:00:31.800 --> 0:00:35.360 the worst days of your life. So why would now 0:00:36.000 --> 0:00:41.560 be any different? Listen, I'm just asking the question because 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:44.800 the fact of the matter is if you didn't make it, 0:00:44.840 --> 0:00:48.320 you wouldn't know, right, So what do you have to fear? 0:00:49.200 --> 0:00:51.600 It makes me think of that old track from Destiny's 0:00:51.640 --> 0:00:54.280 Child and for the Youngins. Yes, there was a time 0:00:54.360 --> 0:00:57.640 that Beyonce was once in a musical group and they 0:00:57.680 --> 0:01:02.040 had a song entitled Survivor. It says, I'm a survivor. 0:01:02.600 --> 0:01:05.720 I'm not gonna give up, I'm not gonna stop, I'm 0:01:05.720 --> 0:01:09.679 gonna work harder. I'm a survivor. I'm gonna make it. 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:15.280 I will survive, keep on surviving. I'm here to tell 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:20.319 you you're a survivor. I'm here to remind you your 0:01:20.360 --> 0:01:23.479 location is not your destination. I'm here to remind you 0:01:24.640 --> 0:01:27.600 that if you fall down seven times, get up eight. 0:01:29.000 --> 0:01:32.480 We got a lot to talk about, especially when we 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:37.039 talk about geeing grade. So sit back, relax. I got 0:01:37.040 --> 0:01:39.720 some special treats for you. You know what time it is. 0:01:39.800 --> 0:01:43.080 It's that damn dawn, like the break of day. Good morning, 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:46.240 good afternoon, good evening. You are tuned in to the 0:01:46.280 --> 0:01:49.000 Vitamin D with Dawn Day podcast and I am your host, 0:01:49.120 --> 0:01:51.480 Dawn Day, here to get you excited about your life 0:01:51.520 --> 0:01:53.360 so that you can live life on purpose and for 0:01:53.400 --> 0:01:55.800 a purpose. If this is your first time tuning in 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:58.880 vocal Vitamin T, it's a pun of my name. My 0:01:58.960 --> 0:02:00.760 name is Dawn and you get invite themIn D from 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:03.040 the sun. So I'm here shed light into your life. 0:02:03.120 --> 0:02:06.480 And I do this with inspirational insights and conversations with 0:02:06.560 --> 0:02:09.560 celebrities and everyday people like you and me, Because if 0:02:09.600 --> 0:02:11.520 you want to be better and you want to do better, 0:02:12.040 --> 0:02:14.280 then you're going to have to be able to see better. 0:02:14.680 --> 0:02:17.280 So join me on this journey of living our best 0:02:17.320 --> 0:02:21.240 lives and understanding and realizing how you are your greatest 0:02:21.280 --> 0:02:22.680 ass at get. 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:26.880 Your invite in Indy right with me and get excited 0:02:27.200 --> 0:02:28.720 about your life. 0:02:31.120 --> 0:02:35.000 I say, why be good when you're supposed to be great. 0:02:36.080 --> 0:02:40.239 You woke up today, you found another reason to live 0:02:40.360 --> 0:02:44.919 life on purpose and for a purpose. Now listen, I'm 0:02:44.919 --> 0:02:47.440 gonna tell you right now, I need you to pull up. 0:02:47.919 --> 0:02:50.160 Go ahead and share the live with somebody else. Tell 0:02:50.200 --> 0:02:52.040 them that the damn dawing like the Breaka Day is 0:02:52.120 --> 0:02:55.760 live and full effect. I have some exciting news. One 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:59.560 first and foremost, we're live on Facebook and YouTube. We're 0:02:59.600 --> 0:03:03.080 also live on tak tak and Instagram. This is the 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:06.400 first ever. These are the things that I've been talking about. 0:03:08.360 --> 0:03:13.359 You can't fail if you don't quit. And we have 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:17.720 some very special guests. I have some appetizing stories and 0:03:17.760 --> 0:03:21.280 advice letters, and we're gonna dive into an important conversation. 0:03:21.440 --> 0:03:25.160 As we know, October is Breast cancer Awareness month. I've 0:03:25.160 --> 0:03:27.840 shared with this on previous episodes of my podcast that 0:03:28.320 --> 0:03:32.000 my mother transitioned from stage four breast cancer. Well guess what, 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:36.280 I got a survivor in the house, a three time 0:03:36.760 --> 0:03:42.240 cancer survivor. So don't tell me that if you look up, 0:03:42.280 --> 0:03:45.080 you can't get up. Don't tell me that you fail 0:03:45.240 --> 0:03:47.440 down seven times, and you're not gonna get up aged 0:03:47.560 --> 0:03:51.640 because I got somebody right now, right here backstage to 0:03:51.720 --> 0:03:55.880 tell you that the time is now to live your life. 0:03:56.880 --> 0:04:03.440 My special guests are Jan Austen as well as Chandra Fitzpatrick. Okay, 0:04:03.480 --> 0:04:05.960 that's all I'm gonna give you. So let's talk about 0:04:06.000 --> 0:04:09.280 some things that's going on. I'm so glad. Let me 0:04:09.360 --> 0:04:12.800 just say this that the dock workers strike was only 0:04:12.840 --> 0:04:15.480 for a few days, and that you know that they 0:04:15.520 --> 0:04:18.080 all came to a partial agreement so that the workers 0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:21.040 could go back to work. Now, I was just watching 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:23.240 a lot of people out there were just panic buying, 0:04:23.320 --> 0:04:27.159 you know, running around like light bulbs hadn't been invented yet. 0:04:27.760 --> 0:04:31.560 People were just grabbing all the toilet paper off the shelves. Yeah, right, 0:04:31.640 --> 0:04:34.640 like toilet paper is going to put out a firefighter's 0:04:34.720 --> 0:04:35.960 jacket and save you all. 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:36.320 No. 0:04:36.960 --> 0:04:40.160 And first of all, toilet paper is made here in America. 0:04:40.920 --> 0:04:43.599 We don't get our toilet paper shipped. And those containers 0:04:43.600 --> 0:04:46.719 that were sitting at the docks, and toilet paper isn't bulletproof, 0:04:46.720 --> 0:04:49.880 and there isn't and it isn't fireproof, and toilet paper 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:51.800 is just playing useless when it gets wet from water 0:04:51.880 --> 0:04:55.279 and stuff. You know what I'm talking about. But people 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:58.280 were acting like toilet paper is somehow going to magically 0:04:58.320 --> 0:05:02.040 save them. Don't get me started. And we were even 0:05:02.040 --> 0:05:04.560 to go way back during the beginning of the pandemic. 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:07.680 For the life of me, I still can't understand why 0:05:08.000 --> 0:05:10.920 no one could find toilet paper on the show. I mean, 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:13.560 folks were acting like the toilet paper was some secret 0:05:13.600 --> 0:05:16.640 agent that they can save the world. There's an idea 0:05:16.760 --> 0:05:19.919 for a show. Okay, picture it. A government manager and 0:05:19.960 --> 0:05:22.960 a spy agency talking to the toilet paper secret agent. 0:05:23.000 --> 0:05:26.120 He say something like, secret agent, toilet paper, can you 0:05:26.200 --> 0:05:29.160 break into these Chinese embassies and get these secrets off 0:05:29.200 --> 0:05:31.760 to save the world. And then the toilet paper would 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:35.320 say something like this, can I get those secrets? Can 0:05:35.360 --> 0:05:39.040 can Mariah Carey make xmus money? Of course I can 0:05:39.040 --> 0:05:41.719 get those secrets from the embassy. Here, hold my beer. 0:05:42.480 --> 0:05:45.400 And while everybody is panic buying toilet paper, the toilet 0:05:45.400 --> 0:05:47.480 paper companies are all making a ton of money off 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:49.720 of this, so they're not gonna tell you to stop 0:05:49.760 --> 0:05:53.240 panic buying. I mean, who does that inside their companies? 0:05:53.279 --> 0:05:58.240 It's raining millions of dollars and the fear. Hm, that's 0:05:58.279 --> 0:06:00.840 just food for thought. Oh I'm I'm so glad that 0:06:00.960 --> 0:06:03.520 Hurricane Milton wasn't as bad as they said it was 0:06:03.560 --> 0:06:05.799 going to be. Thank God. You know, I was sitting 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:07.400 and I was praying, and I was thinking about all 0:06:07.440 --> 0:06:10.240 of you in the hurricanes path, and again so glad 0:06:10.279 --> 0:06:12.440 that the hurricane lost power like it did. And a 0:06:12.520 --> 0:06:16.120 huge special shout out to everyone that's been affected by 0:06:16.160 --> 0:06:19.320 these awful back to back storms. And huge vitamin D 0:06:19.480 --> 0:06:23.200 hug to all of those who are volunteering and helping 0:06:23.240 --> 0:06:26.359 those in need. Okay, thank you so very much. I 0:06:26.400 --> 0:06:30.840 want to let you know that you are appreciated. American 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:33.880 citizens helping each other out, Americans coming to the rescue 0:06:33.880 --> 0:06:37.400 of their fellow Americans, driving truckloads of supplies to Florida 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:40.080 and North Carolina. I mean people using their boats to 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:44.200 deliver supplies, food and medicines. Volunteer workers from all of 0:06:44.240 --> 0:06:47.000 their country and beyond coming together and clearing the roads 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:50.240 and helping to remove storm debris. Now, that was very 0:06:50.240 --> 0:06:53.320 cool and wonderful to see you all are truly amazing, 0:06:54.040 --> 0:06:57.120 and thank you all the gazillion times over for everybody 0:06:57.160 --> 0:07:00.400 being so incredibly awesome and supportive. And the strangest times 0:07:00.440 --> 0:07:02.880 is this. You know, we are our brothers and sisters, 0:07:02.960 --> 0:07:07.039 keeper each one, teach one, each one, keep one, or 0:07:07.120 --> 0:07:11.040 reach one. And speaking of a time, I just want 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:15.320 to say that I had a fun time yesterday. You 0:07:15.400 --> 0:07:18.440 may have heard me on the last episode on Thursday, 0:07:18.720 --> 0:07:20.840 how I mentioned I would be hosting a Q and 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:24.040 A for a new film. It's entitled Photo Booth. It's 0:07:24.040 --> 0:07:26.600 a thriller. It was over off of Sunset here and 0:07:26.640 --> 0:07:30.320 in Los Angeles, yes, at the Harmony Gold Theater. It 0:07:30.400 --> 0:07:33.120 was studying. Shout out to Isaac Taylor who put this 0:07:33.200 --> 0:07:36.880 whole thing together and made it work. Truly proud of 0:07:36.880 --> 0:07:40.280 your efforts. And then also remember I told you I 0:07:40.320 --> 0:07:44.680 had Coach La and she was promoting her event, empower 0:07:44.760 --> 0:07:50.000 her Radiant Women's Wellness Day. Well, guess what I got 0:07:50.040 --> 0:07:52.320 A whole bunch of goodies. Can I just share if 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.320 you don't mind, I want to give a shout out 0:07:54.360 --> 0:07:56.600 to Coach La. I want to give a shout out 0:07:56.640 --> 0:08:00.280 to pass it forward for this great goodie band. We 0:08:00.360 --> 0:08:04.160 had tons of amazing panel speakers. We had medical professionals. 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:07.000 I'm talking about the Chief of breast cancer surgery over 0:08:07.040 --> 0:08:09.920 at UCLA. In fact, the guests that I have today 0:08:09.920 --> 0:08:14.040 are here. So I got an awesome shirt. It's an elephant, 0:08:14.160 --> 0:08:16.520 and you know, it's just so fitting because my mom 0:08:16.640 --> 0:08:19.520 her favorite animal was the elephant. So I got the 0:08:19.560 --> 0:08:22.200 Health is Wealth t shirt. They also gave away these 0:08:22.280 --> 0:08:27.240 awesome fanny packs. I know a journal I mean, the 0:08:27.720 --> 0:08:30.840 group can keep on going. And I don't know anybody 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:34.319 that has an organization and perhaps I met this awesome 0:08:34.320 --> 0:08:37.400 gentleman named JJ and he's with Everest. He is actually 0:08:37.440 --> 0:08:41.080 the one responsible for creating these fanny packs. You see, 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:44.400 it's a real deal. This is on my waist and 0:08:44.440 --> 0:08:48.720 then check out this big backpag anyway, So that's what's 0:08:48.720 --> 0:08:50.760 going on. And because like I said at the beginning 0:08:50.760 --> 0:08:53.320 of the show, it is Breast cancer Awareness Month, I 0:08:53.360 --> 0:08:57.520 want to briefly share with you. Coming up, I'll have 0:08:57.640 --> 0:09:01.120 jan Austen. She's from LA and she works at the 0:09:01.200 --> 0:09:05.520 hell as a healthcare patient navigator in oncology at UCLA. 0:09:05.800 --> 0:09:08.800 She's worked in the healthcare industry for over thirty five 0:09:08.840 --> 0:09:15.720 plus years. I also have a survivor, Sandra Fitzpatrick from Nashville, Tennessee. 0:09:16.280 --> 0:09:19.280 But then moved to Los Angeles at the age of ten. 0:09:19.360 --> 0:09:23.360 She is a three time breast cancer survivor and has 0:09:23.480 --> 0:09:28.280 survived with it for over or approximately forty years. M h, 0:09:29.559 --> 0:09:33.360 are you ready to get inspired? Plus child? I got 0:09:33.360 --> 0:09:37.640 a Vitamin D advice letter. In fact, that's what delayed 0:09:37.640 --> 0:09:39.959 me because I realized I hadn't printed it out. Can 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:46.760 I give you the subject subject the double life wife. Hey, listen, 0:09:47.160 --> 0:09:49.680 I don't make it up. All I'm doing is I'm 0:09:49.720 --> 0:09:53.880 just reporting. That's all I'm doing. Okay, but it's I'm 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:56.600 telling you you are definitely in for a special treat. 0:09:57.120 --> 0:10:01.280 So now, without further ado, it's to hear from her 0:10:01.320 --> 0:10:05.560 crazy and silly friends from over at under the News dusk, 0:10:05.600 --> 0:10:09.240 where they hilariously report from their comedic take on the news, 0:10:09.360 --> 0:10:12.800 literally from under the desk, because as the world spins 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:14.840 more and more out of control, that's where they feel 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:19.079 the safest. I'm telling you, they're stupid. You all ready? 0:10:20.000 --> 0:10:23.080 All right, here we go. You know, I need to 0:10:23.080 --> 0:10:25.640 make sure I get a sounds effect for this next time. 0:10:26.880 --> 0:10:30.920 From high above the only freeway sign without gaging graffiti 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:35.240 on it. This is from under the Newsdesk, broadcasting live 0:10:35.320 --> 0:10:39.840 from our Eviction Proof news Room. Keanu Reeves from the 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:44.880 movie Speed is no speed Racer acter keanunew Reeves recently 0:10:44.880 --> 0:10:49.120 made his racing debut at the Indianapolis Speedway. Unfortunately, it 0:10:49.200 --> 0:10:52.120 got really scary for the Matrix Star. Halfway through the race, 0:10:52.760 --> 0:10:55.800 Reeves avoided hitting two cars and a tight turn that 0:10:55.920 --> 0:11:00.920 made his racing car spin out. Reeve's car slid twenty 0:11:01.000 --> 0:11:04.600 nine feet and onto the track's grass fields, where small 0:11:04.720 --> 0:11:12.120 fresh buds of marijuana grow wild. Ironically, this all took 0:11:12.120 --> 0:11:17.200 place right under the huge forty foot Cheeto's banner I'm 0:11:17.200 --> 0:11:19.640 not done yet. It took a few minutes, but Reeves 0:11:19.760 --> 0:11:22.600 roared back into the Indianapolis Speedway and he came in 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:28.240 thirty first place out of thirty six cars. Speedway officials 0:11:28.240 --> 0:11:30.760 said that Keanu Reeves could have finished at fifth or 0:11:30.880 --> 0:11:33.439 sixth in the race, but after leaving the grass fields, 0:11:33.760 --> 0:11:37.080 Keanu Reeves wasted about nine minutes of valuable raising time 0:11:37.120 --> 0:11:40.480 by driving around slowly and asking all the racing fans 0:11:40.920 --> 0:11:45.720 this question. Hey you got a paper and a lighter? 0:11:46.240 --> 0:11:49.480 Hey you got a paper and a lighter. Excuse me, 0:11:49.920 --> 0:11:52.280 maney Jins, do you have any paper and a lighter? 0:11:53.760 --> 0:11:56.160 Out of line. I know, I'm not. I'm just here 0:11:56.160 --> 0:12:00.800 to report it. Also, Disney raises the rent and then 0:12:00.920 --> 0:12:05.040 wonders why the fans don't want didn't win, and then 0:12:05.080 --> 0:12:10.200 more Walt Disney news. Oh come on now, don't don't 0:12:10.240 --> 0:12:14.720 woo yet, save your booze. Wait for it, trust us, 0:12:15.120 --> 0:12:20.480 it's so comic. Disney will once again, for the third 0:12:20.520 --> 0:12:23.160 time this year, raised the price of admissions to its 0:12:23.200 --> 0:12:25.800 theme park by more than six percent. But wait, that's 0:12:25.840 --> 0:12:29.840 not all. Disney will also super dramatically raise the price 0:12:29.880 --> 0:12:32.400 of all food and drinks inside the parks as well. 0:12:32.640 --> 0:12:35.240 So now a hamburger at Disney will cost you about 0:12:35.280 --> 0:12:39.640 thirty two dollars. Yes, we know thirty two dollars. Now, 0:12:39.720 --> 0:12:42.720 when we ask the Walt Disney Company and it's spokesperson 0:12:43.080 --> 0:12:48.560 Mickey Mouse, this, where where on earth do you get 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:53.000 a thirty two dollars hamburger from? Well, Mickey Mouse response 0:12:53.559 --> 0:12:58.240 from from a two dollars cow? Okay, okay, now you 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:02.640 guys can boo. Batman's a star and the Joker goes 0:13:02.679 --> 0:13:06.360 way too far. Fan favorite superhero Batman recently got his 0:13:06.440 --> 0:13:08.920 own star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame. Yes, with 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:12.600 the bat signal behind him. The Dark Knight detective accepted 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.559 his award to the cheers of millions of fans around 0:13:15.600 --> 0:13:20.440 the world. Now, Batman thanked Commissioner Gordon Robin and all 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:24.480 of the Payroll and Royalties Department employees over at Warner 0:13:24.480 --> 0:13:27.800 Brothers and DC Comics that were keeping them big fat 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:35.559 royalty checks coming in real nice for Batman. Okay, next up. Meanwhile, 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:39.160 at the Hall of Justice, Pfizer Pharmaceutical Companies has just 0:13:39.280 --> 0:13:42.600 now named Batman's arch enemy, the Joker, as the new 0:13:42.679 --> 0:13:47.839 CEO of Pfizer. Yes, that's right, the Joker. Pfiser spokesperson 0:13:47.880 --> 0:13:50.640 Tisha Campbell had this to say, The Joker is an 0:13:50.640 --> 0:13:55.240 amazing CEO. Why he's into seeming into seeing millions of 0:13:55.240 --> 0:13:59.679 people being experimental drugs and then hiding behind a walla 0:13:59.720 --> 0:14:03.600 lawyer more than we are. When asked how the Joker's 0:14:03.679 --> 0:14:06.440 first week as the new CEO of Pfizer is going, 0:14:06.559 --> 0:14:10.240 Campbell had this to say, approvingly, Oh, the Joker is 0:14:10.240 --> 0:14:12.679 a real go getter. He went right to work. He 0:14:13.320 --> 0:14:15.559 locked himself on the main plan and now he's making 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:24.160 thousands of krymptonite bullets. But we don't know why Finally, 0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.600 we asked Tiacha Campbell, how did Pfizer come to this 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:28.880 final decision for the Joker to be the new CEO. 0:14:29.720 --> 0:14:32.960 Campbell said this, well, we were really down to just 0:14:32.960 --> 0:14:35.840 two candidates to take over as the new head of Pfizer. 0:14:36.280 --> 0:14:40.680 It was really between the Joker and p Diddy, so 0:14:40.800 --> 0:14:44.040 we went with the lesser two evils. I'm not making 0:14:44.040 --> 0:14:47.480 it up. It's on the paper. The crime cartels don't 0:14:47.520 --> 0:14:50.240 want to be in no celly cells. The new Mexican 0:14:50.320 --> 0:14:55.560 mayor of Guerrero of Mexico, Alejandro Argos, was assassinated just 0:14:55.640 --> 0:14:59.280 six days after taking office. Crime investigators in Mexico are 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:02.320 putting the ca of the new mayor's death together and 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:06.360 have just found out three very big clues. The first clue, 0:15:06.800 --> 0:15:09.520 on the day of the assassination, nobody in that town 0:15:09.560 --> 0:15:14.120 went to work child, not even the sidewalk showed up. 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:20.560 The second clue, the mayor's bulletproof vest went missing from 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:25.640 the dry cleaners the night before. And the third and 0:15:25.720 --> 0:15:29.080 final clue, two days after he won the election, a 0:15:29.160 --> 0:15:33.400 crying janitor was scraping off Alejandro's Argo's name off the 0:15:33.440 --> 0:15:36.840 glass door to his office just as Alejandro was walking 0:15:36.880 --> 0:15:44.120 in heroically Argo's bravely Argos bravely ran on the campaign, 0:15:44.160 --> 0:15:46.960 promised to rid the city of crying cartels and to 0:15:46.960 --> 0:15:50.400 stop all the endless bullets. Well, we don't know about 0:15:50.440 --> 0:15:52.680 stopping all the endless bullets, but we sure do know 0:15:52.720 --> 0:15:55.000 that he stopped at least about four or five of them. 0:15:56.600 --> 0:15:59.240 And with that, Alejandro gets the Civil Rights Hero of 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:02.560 the Week award. And also we definitely want to send 0:16:02.600 --> 0:16:05.960 our prayers and condolences. Again, this is all from under 0:16:06.000 --> 0:16:08.680 the news desk. And another former child star was caught 0:16:08.720 --> 0:16:12.160 with drugs in the car. This just then a breaking 0:16:12.240 --> 0:16:16.120 news story at one am, another beloved child star was 0:16:16.240 --> 0:16:20.160 just arrested by LAPD. Officers took the former television star 0:16:20.200 --> 0:16:22.800 into custody on one hundred and twenty fifth Street and 0:16:22.880 --> 0:16:26.440 kool Aid Avenue. The former child star was in one 0:16:26.520 --> 0:16:29.840 hundred and fifty thousand dollars car with the expired iHeart 0:16:29.920 --> 0:16:33.120 Legos license plate and he had several guns and eight 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:36.480 huge bricks of cocaine in the back seat. The cocaine 0:16:36.480 --> 0:16:39.640 bricks had the words P. Diddy's Yard Cell written on 0:16:39.760 --> 0:16:42.400 them in a red crayon. But the former child star 0:16:42.600 --> 0:16:45.800 was dressed in a red form, red from head to toe, 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:50.640 and had this to say in his defense, Alma was 0:16:50.720 --> 0:16:55.680 nowhere near the crack house. Some people called alml mama. 0:16:56.360 --> 0:16:59.960 WHOA Okay, And we'll tell you and we'll try to 0:17:00.080 --> 0:17:02.560 stay with this breaking news until we run out of 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:06.560 baking soda and glass pipes and muppet alibis, whichever one 0:17:06.640 --> 0:17:10.880 comes first. Dante back to you. This is crazy. This 0:17:10.920 --> 0:17:13.440 is under the news desk. And because this has been 0:17:13.480 --> 0:17:16.440 under the news desk, the food goes in, but it's 0:17:16.480 --> 0:17:19.280 always news that comes out. This has been a fear 0:17:19.320 --> 0:17:23.040 best presentation. All right, that's from my writers. That's from 0:17:23.160 --> 0:17:25.639 under the newsdesk. Now, I told you guys that I 0:17:25.640 --> 0:17:28.359 have some special guests in the studio. Well right after 0:17:28.400 --> 0:17:31.760 this advice letter, in just a few minutes, we are 0:17:31.800 --> 0:17:34.679 going to be talking about breast cancer awareness. We're going 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:37.040 to be talking to a survivor, and we will also 0:17:37.200 --> 0:17:40.159 be speaking with an expert with over thirty five plus 0:17:40.240 --> 0:17:44.720 years experience when it comes to the healthcare industry. Now, Buckalop, 0:17:45.280 --> 0:17:47.720 it's time for the Vitamin D Advice Letter. Now, let 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:51.320 me just be clear with you. Vitamin D is all 0:17:51.359 --> 0:17:53.800 about shed the light on the good and the bad, 0:17:53.840 --> 0:17:55.680 Because what do I say? If you want to be 0:17:55.680 --> 0:17:58.600 better and you want to do better, that means you're 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:01.760 going to have to say better. Now, out take everything 0:18:01.800 --> 0:18:04.520 I say as a grain of salt. Okay, you're gonna 0:18:04.560 --> 0:18:06.760 have to eat the meat and spin out the bones. 0:18:07.040 --> 0:18:09.800 But one thing's for show. I'm gonna keep it real, 0:18:10.400 --> 0:18:14.160 so you know the deal. Are y all you ready? 0:18:14.600 --> 0:18:23.359 All right? Subject the Double Life wife. Dear Dawn, love 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:25.960 the show, but I'm writing to you because I feel 0:18:25.960 --> 0:18:29.760 so guilty and torn. I love my husband. We've been 0:18:29.800 --> 0:18:33.959 married for five years. He's my everything, Dawn. He's an 0:18:34.000 --> 0:18:39.040 amazing person. He doesn't beat on me or cheat on me. 0:18:39.240 --> 0:18:41.520 That should be a normal thing, right. Let me go 0:18:41.600 --> 0:18:45.480 back to the letter my bad. He's really a good 0:18:45.520 --> 0:18:49.840 man and a hard worker. But Dawn, I'm sleeping with 0:18:49.880 --> 0:18:53.720 my boss too. Now this is where I enter the 0:18:53.800 --> 0:18:59.200 dramatic don't don't don't all girl? Bye? Okay, let me finish. 0:18:59.280 --> 0:19:02.280 I'm sleeping with my boss to Plus, I'm six months 0:19:02.320 --> 0:19:06.199 pregnant with my first child, and I'm hoping that the 0:19:06.200 --> 0:19:13.359 baby is my husband's. Are y'a chirping as bad as 0:19:13.400 --> 0:19:18.159 I am? Okay, I'm not done because my husband is 0:19:18.240 --> 0:19:22.159 black and my boss isn't, Dawn. It all started a 0:19:22.200 --> 0:19:24.639 few months ago with working late with my boss. We 0:19:24.720 --> 0:19:27.440 hit it off really well, obviously, and then late night 0:19:27.480 --> 0:19:31.440 meetings turned into late night dinners and drinks, then to flirting, 0:19:31.480 --> 0:19:34.080 then to hugs, and then to yeah, well, you know, 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:39.760 my boss is fun and interesting. I like the attention 0:19:39.920 --> 0:19:42.320 and the expensive dates that I get from him, and 0:19:42.400 --> 0:19:45.600 he's really wonderful and bad. I care deeply about him. 0:19:45.920 --> 0:19:48.879 He is in great shape and I'm very attracted him, 0:19:48.920 --> 0:19:53.520 but I'm not in love with him. I'm afraid if 0:19:53.560 --> 0:19:56.119 my husband finds out that he's going to kick me 0:19:56.200 --> 0:19:59.000 out and divorce me. I don't want to lose him. 0:19:59.080 --> 0:20:02.840 He's so excited about the baby, Dawn. He's building cribs, 0:20:02.880 --> 0:20:06.720 buying baby furniture and toys, painting the baby's room. I 0:20:06.720 --> 0:20:09.800 feel so guilty, but I can't tell anyone, Dawn. I'm 0:20:09.800 --> 0:20:13.800 so scared. This isn't the mean that I want to be. 0:20:14.880 --> 0:20:18.600 You won't saying that last night. You wasn't saying that 0:20:18.640 --> 0:20:21.159 when you went out to eat. You weren't saying that 0:20:21.320 --> 0:20:24.199 when when your legs was embraced over his body. But 0:20:24.200 --> 0:20:28.399 I'm gonna be nice, Signed the Double Life Wife. Now 0:20:29.880 --> 0:20:32.560 I'm gonna be honest with you. I don't even know 0:20:32.560 --> 0:20:39.280 where to begin. Okay, Okay, First, I'm hoping that this 0:20:39.400 --> 0:20:42.480 child inside of you and your husband's health is okay, 0:20:43.440 --> 0:20:46.199 yours as well. If you don't know who the father is, 0:20:46.240 --> 0:20:48.960 then that means that you're not using protection, and that 0:20:49.040 --> 0:20:53.200 means with your boss too. Now, baby girl, I'm saying 0:20:53.240 --> 0:20:58.119 this not to frighten you, but compassionately reminds you that 0:20:58.200 --> 0:21:01.240 there are so many diseases out there there regardless of 0:21:01.280 --> 0:21:03.679 the fact if they got appeal that's preventing HIV. You 0:21:03.760 --> 0:21:07.520 have so many sti's and STDs and you don't want 0:21:07.520 --> 0:21:10.120 your child, or your husband or you to have anything. 0:21:10.280 --> 0:21:12.879 So if your husband was messing around on you and 0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:15.639 medically brought you home with something, you would be livid. 0:21:15.760 --> 0:21:21.359 Right And if you're not in a serious, committed monogamous relationship, 0:21:21.400 --> 0:21:24.000 anything can happen. Maybe your boss is sleeping with someone 0:21:24.000 --> 0:21:27.960 else and not telling you, so at this point everybody 0:21:27.960 --> 0:21:30.359 needs to get checked out. Okay, And I'm sorry, but 0:21:30.400 --> 0:21:32.199 you do have to tell your husband everything. And if 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:35.280 this is really an amazing person in your life, then 0:21:35.280 --> 0:21:37.240 why would you even do this in the first class? 0:21:37.280 --> 0:21:39.240 And I'm not trying to be hard on you because 0:21:39.359 --> 0:21:43.200 it's no secret. As the saying go, Papa was a 0:21:43.280 --> 0:21:51.919 rolling stone. But we gotta do better, right, Okay, So 0:21:53.359 --> 0:21:57.440 one thing after the checkouts, get all that handled, and 0:21:57.640 --> 0:22:01.640 I want to say this, I'm so sorry, but even 0:22:01.640 --> 0:22:04.600 if you tell him you split up, he still deserves 0:22:04.720 --> 0:22:08.679 the right to know. Okay. He has the right to 0:22:08.760 --> 0:22:10.520 know if his wife is cheating on him and if 0:22:10.520 --> 0:22:12.600 the baby inside of her is really his or not. 0:22:12.960 --> 0:22:15.800 And he deserves honesty, and so do you. That's only fair. 0:22:15.840 --> 0:22:17.440 And I know that you're afraid of losing out on 0:22:17.520 --> 0:22:20.239 a really good man because they I can imagine as 0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:22.560 I live in LA They are very hard to find. 0:22:22.640 --> 0:22:26.359 But affairs don't always end marriages. Some marriages do survive affairs, 0:22:26.400 --> 0:22:29.240 and people do find each other again. But this one's 0:22:29.280 --> 0:22:31.600 going to be an uphill battle for sure. If the 0:22:31.680 --> 0:22:34.800 child inside of you is not his and it's your boss's, 0:22:35.480 --> 0:22:37.600 most men won't raise a child born out of adultery. 0:22:38.160 --> 0:22:40.800 I know I'm not making it up. I'm just reporting 0:22:40.840 --> 0:22:43.920 it what it is. But you gotta be honest. There's 0:22:43.920 --> 0:22:46.920 just no way around it. And the truth always comes 0:22:46.920 --> 0:22:50.200 out eventually, as we know. Next, if you really want 0:22:50.200 --> 0:22:52.200 to save your marriage, you will have to end things 0:22:52.200 --> 0:22:54.560 with your boss and quit your job. Trust me, I 0:22:54.600 --> 0:22:57.320 know men, especially good ones. Your husband is not going 0:22:57.359 --> 0:23:00.240 to be okay with you seeing your affair partner day 0:23:00.240 --> 0:23:02.760 in and day out, spending time with him every day. 0:23:02.760 --> 0:23:04.880 And when you do end things with your boss romantically, 0:23:05.240 --> 0:23:07.480 you do not need to keep in touch with him 0:23:07.480 --> 0:23:13.679 for any reason, okay, unless the child inside of you 0:23:14.480 --> 0:23:16.760 is his. And affair is for a lot of married 0:23:16.800 --> 0:23:19.080 women seem like a lot of fun or something exciting, 0:23:19.080 --> 0:23:23.760 but in the end, it doesn't help marriages, far from it. 0:23:24.280 --> 0:23:26.359 I really want you and your husband and the baby 0:23:26.400 --> 0:23:29.000 to be okay. Stress and fear isn't good for you 0:23:29.160 --> 0:23:30.879 or the little one that's growing inside of you. So 0:23:31.240 --> 0:23:34.800 please take care of yourself and write me back. Write 0:23:34.800 --> 0:23:36.320 me back and let me know what happened, and that 0:23:36.520 --> 0:23:41.800 especially if you are okay. All right, If you would 0:23:41.800 --> 0:23:43.879 like to submit your advice letter, I want to encourage 0:23:43.880 --> 0:23:46.000 you to send me an email. Vitamin d at dawn 0:23:46.359 --> 0:23:50.840 Dai speaks dot com. Me's vitamin d at dawn Dai 0:23:51.119 --> 0:23:55.640 speaks dot com. All right, I want to get off 0:23:55.760 --> 0:23:59.320 a few community news and information before we lead onto 0:23:59.359 --> 0:24:01.400 our special guests that are here to speak with us 0:24:01.680 --> 0:24:06.840 about breast cancer awareness. Now, I sometimes get information from 0:24:06.840 --> 0:24:08.119 all of you, and I want to say thank you 0:24:08.440 --> 0:24:10.680 to each and every person that goes ahead and they 0:24:10.720 --> 0:24:14.480 send information. So here we are starting up. This is 0:24:14.560 --> 0:24:17.120 very near dearer to my heart. Black Men's Wellness Day. 0:24:17.320 --> 0:24:20.600 It's happening November two right here in Los Angeles, California. 0:24:21.000 --> 0:24:24.679 This event is for black men and for each person 0:24:24.680 --> 0:24:27.680 that loves them. You're gonna get your free health screenings. 0:24:27.720 --> 0:24:30.760 I'm talking about knowing your numbers. I'm talking about being 0:24:30.800 --> 0:24:33.359 able to talk to black professionals who have your best 0:24:33.359 --> 0:24:35.199 interests at heart. You know, I really think about it. 0:24:35.400 --> 0:24:38.120 I told you my dad transitioned when I was three 0:24:38.119 --> 0:24:40.879 months old. Who would have known or what could have 0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:44.320 benefited if he simply knew his numbers, because they say 0:24:44.320 --> 0:24:47.040 and when you know better, you can do better. And 0:24:47.119 --> 0:24:50.280 speaking of the African American Male Wellness Agency, there's a 0:24:50.280 --> 0:24:53.400 fit happening this Thursday from six to eight pm. This 0:24:53.440 --> 0:24:56.159 is over at Crenshaw Mall at the Museum of African 0:24:56.160 --> 0:25:00.359 American The African American Museum inside Crenshaw Mall. This is 0:25:00.840 --> 0:25:03.840 a conversation amongst black men that only black men are 0:25:03.880 --> 0:25:06.560 invited to and you get to talk about what's going 0:25:06.560 --> 0:25:09.119 on upstairs. Because there shouldn't be a reason why twenty 0:25:09.119 --> 0:25:11.159 percent of our black men are struggling with things that 0:25:11.200 --> 0:25:13.680 they can't confide in or share with anyone else because 0:25:13.680 --> 0:25:16.800 they simply don't have a safe space. So make sure 0:25:16.840 --> 0:25:19.400 you pull up and check out the African American Male 0:25:19.440 --> 0:25:22.439 Wellness Agency for this amazing event, and be sure to 0:25:22.440 --> 0:25:24.240 send me a note and I can give you some 0:25:24.280 --> 0:25:26.879 more information about this. Also, I want to give a 0:25:26.880 --> 0:25:29.800 shout out to Miss Felicia. She's out here at Howard. 0:25:30.119 --> 0:25:32.120 She sent me these photos. She said, Dawn, I'm here 0:25:32.119 --> 0:25:35.240 to show up and show out. Miss Felicia also joined 0:25:35.280 --> 0:25:38.880 me at the empower Her event that took place this 0:25:38.960 --> 0:25:41.719 past Saturday, and she sent me this picture with her 0:25:41.760 --> 0:25:45.760 and Missus Howard and I said, a'hu. You know. Also 0:25:45.800 --> 0:25:47.320 this morning I had a chance to meet with his 0:25:47.480 --> 0:25:50.080 Jacke One. She's on the live in the chat right now. 0:25:50.240 --> 0:25:52.080 We met up for some coffee. She flew in town 0:25:52.160 --> 0:25:54.119 from Texas and in fact, if you look at the 0:25:54.200 --> 0:25:57.040 chest she's in here saying hello. We caught up on things, 0:25:57.080 --> 0:26:00.280 talked about radio. She talked about she said, Dawn gear 0:26:00.359 --> 0:26:02.359 enough to get some sponsorship. So that's a reminder for 0:26:02.400 --> 0:26:04.760 all of you out there, okay. And then also I 0:26:04.760 --> 0:26:06.080 want to let you all know that there's a food 0:26:06.160 --> 0:26:10.080 drive happening every Monday and Friday Mondays at one and 0:26:10.240 --> 0:26:14.320 Friday at eleven am. And this is at the Praise Sanctuary. 0:26:14.600 --> 0:26:17.639 This is located off of South Vermont. The address is 0:26:17.680 --> 0:26:20.720 ten eight zero seven South Vermont Avenue. This is in 0:26:20.760 --> 0:26:23.199 Los Angeles. Now, if you know someone that can benefit 0:26:23.240 --> 0:26:25.040 from a food drive, I want you to tell them 0:26:25.040 --> 0:26:27.359 to pull up. And if you need more information, here's 0:26:27.400 --> 0:26:30.399 the number. It's three two three five one zero sixty 0:26:30.400 --> 0:26:34.040 two fifty five. Again that's three two three five one 0:26:34.119 --> 0:26:38.040 zero sixty two twenty five. Or visit them online at 0:26:38.200 --> 0:26:46.159 praiseisc dot org. That's Praise praises c dot org. And 0:26:46.240 --> 0:26:49.600 anyone looking for rental assistance. I want to let you 0:26:49.640 --> 0:26:52.280 know that Sanctuary Hope is here to help. Shout out 0:26:52.280 --> 0:26:55.199 to missus Janning. She was the executive director. I just 0:26:55.240 --> 0:26:59.560 saw her recently as well at the Bold Black LA event. 0:27:00.280 --> 0:27:03.400 But here's the thing. There's rental assistance starts here. There's 0:27:03.400 --> 0:27:06.560 just a few qualifications. You must reside in South Los Angeles, 0:27:06.640 --> 0:27:09.600 South Bay or Antelope Valley and at an eminent risk 0:27:09.720 --> 0:27:13.600 of losing housing or how are your housing insecure? Okay, 0:27:13.880 --> 0:27:16.399 So you can go ahead and apply, check online at 0:27:16.640 --> 0:27:21.280 the SHO dot org. That's the Sanctuary of Hope dot org. 0:27:21.359 --> 0:27:23.480 Or you can go ahead and call three two three 0:27:23.640 --> 0:27:27.160 seven a six twenty four thirteen. Okay, three two three 0:27:27.320 --> 0:27:31.080 seven four six twenty four thirteen. Lastly, I want to 0:27:31.080 --> 0:27:34.040 share with you a housing experience for those who are 0:27:34.080 --> 0:27:36.480 in transitional living. I want to let you know that 0:27:36.840 --> 0:27:41.920 Senior Pastor Nate DeVaughn is here to help. Westminster Baptist 0:27:42.000 --> 0:27:45.760 Church has transitional housing available and it's dedicated to inform, 0:27:45.960 --> 0:27:49.160 enlighten and educate. Now rent is seven hundred dollars per month, 0:27:49.200 --> 0:27:52.280 plus meal plan for one hundred and thirty dollars. They 0:27:52.280 --> 0:27:56.600 offer clean, fully furnished rooms with televisions and cable, three 0:27:56.640 --> 0:27:59.920 delicious meals each day prepared by their private chef Anna, 0:28:00.320 --> 0:28:03.960 a fully stocked dining room of TV dinners and all 0:28:04.000 --> 0:28:06.840 the makings of sandwiches, healthy snacks, fruit and so much 0:28:06.880 --> 0:28:09.080 more so. If you want to be clean and sober, 0:28:09.200 --> 0:28:11.640 or if you want to stay clean and sober, they're 0:28:11.640 --> 0:28:15.480 the place for you. All residents must attend two one 0:28:15.520 --> 0:28:19.920 hour meetings. Okay, if you're interested. They're located at twenty 0:28:19.920 --> 0:28:22.919 three hundred Griffith Avenue right here in Los Angeles, and 0:28:22.960 --> 0:28:25.280 the number to call in is three one zero six 0:28:25.359 --> 0:28:30.040 two nine zero seven four six. And lastly, in community news, 0:28:30.160 --> 0:28:32.719 you know Toya on the Move. Yes, our girl, Toya 0:28:32.760 --> 0:28:36.600 on the Move is doing something so amazing and so phenomenal. 0:28:37.280 --> 0:28:41.320 Toy on the Move has her ninth annual costume giveaway. 0:28:42.160 --> 0:28:44.520 It's first come, first serve, right if you're off of 0:28:44.560 --> 0:28:48.720 Manchester twenty one oh seven Manchester Boulevard, Sweet number one 0:28:48.720 --> 0:28:53.240 oh five. Now this they're providing free Halloween costume candy 0:28:53.280 --> 0:28:57.640 boxes of photo booth cotton candy and popcorn. Children must 0:28:57.680 --> 0:29:00.040 be present to receive a costume and must be a 0:29:00.080 --> 0:29:03.520 companied by an adult. This is taking place on October 0:29:03.600 --> 0:29:09.000 twenty seventh, from twelve pm to four pm until supplies last. 0:29:09.720 --> 0:29:12.880 How about that? How does that sound? So? Each one, 0:29:12.920 --> 0:29:17.400 teach one, each one, reach one. Now okay, we're ready, 0:29:18.640 --> 0:29:21.640 I guess Miss Jen and Misshonda said, Dawn, is it 0:29:21.680 --> 0:29:25.160 time for us yet? It is? Look I'm looking at 0:29:25.200 --> 0:29:28.120 them backstage. Wait, Mama's Jan She up here, sitting up, 0:29:28.160 --> 0:29:30.960 She got her hair, she fixed her hair together. Misshonda 0:29:31.080 --> 0:29:33.920 just sitting there looking pretty and pink. Okay, So here's 0:29:33.920 --> 0:29:36.840 the deal. I told you This past Saturday, I went 0:29:36.840 --> 0:29:40.440 to an event entitled empower Her Radiant Women's Wellness Day. 0:29:40.440 --> 0:29:43.120 I may have missed construed that, but it was all 0:29:43.160 --> 0:29:46.640 about breast caaracer awareness and women coming together taking care 0:29:46.680 --> 0:29:50.360 of themselves. They had food, they had yoga, they gave 0:29:50.360 --> 0:29:53.480 out massages. I mean the drinks were amazing. If you're 0:29:53.480 --> 0:29:56.800 following me on social media at Dawn Dai Speaks, you 0:29:56.920 --> 0:29:59.960 perhaps saw it in the stories and on ig line 0:30:00.240 --> 0:30:03.800 on Vitamin D Dawn Dai. Check it out. So in 0:30:03.840 --> 0:30:07.240 the meantime, I'm up there sending and talking. Wait should 0:30:07.240 --> 0:30:07.920 I tell the story? 0:30:07.920 --> 0:30:08.040 Now? 0:30:08.040 --> 0:30:09.640 Our way to our pull them on. Let me tell 0:30:09.680 --> 0:30:13.520 you about my guest. My special guest that I am 0:30:13.560 --> 0:30:16.360 bringing to the stage right here with me is miss 0:30:16.600 --> 0:30:21.320 Jan Austin Way for us and she's from Los Angeles. 0:30:21.520 --> 0:30:24.480 She has the working title as a healthcare Patient Navigator 0:30:24.480 --> 0:30:27.960 in oncology. She's worked in the healthcare industry for thirty 0:30:27.960 --> 0:30:31.480 five plus years, twenty five years in surgical oncology for 0:30:31.560 --> 0:30:35.120 a major research medical center right here in Los Angeles. 0:30:35.640 --> 0:30:39.320 Her mother was diagnosed with breast cancer twenty plus years ago. 0:30:39.800 --> 0:30:43.320 After her mother recovered from surgery and treatment, she decided 0:30:43.320 --> 0:30:44.800 that she wanted to do something to give back to 0:30:44.840 --> 0:30:47.200 other women who followed in the same path as her 0:30:47.240 --> 0:30:51.120 mother had. Love that and the next we have Miss 0:30:51.240 --> 0:30:56.080 Chandra Fitzpatrick. Originally from Nashville, Tennessee, and moved to Los 0:30:56.120 --> 0:30:59.280 Angeles at ten years old. She currently works for a 0:30:59.320 --> 0:31:02.040 major airline line and customer service, which she has been 0:31:02.080 --> 0:31:06.120 doing for thirty eight years. She is also a three 0:31:06.240 --> 0:31:11.080 time breast cancer survivor. She has been in remission for 0:31:11.160 --> 0:31:15.920 the past forty years. And she said her mother nor 0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:19.560 her grandmother had breast cancer, So then one wonders, well, 0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:23.560 how did this happen. She has a degree in micro 0:31:23.920 --> 0:31:29.880 biology nutritional and says nutritional knowledge is necessary. So family, 0:31:29.880 --> 0:31:34.680 without further ado, please send your digital waves, your podcast 0:31:34.760 --> 0:31:38.360 waves to our special guest, Miss Jan and Miss Chandra. 0:31:39.840 --> 0:31:44.480 Hello, I am hello. 0:31:44.400 --> 0:31:49.560 There, Bhi. Thank you all for joining me. I'm so 0:31:49.640 --> 0:31:51.640 excited for this conversation. 0:31:52.400 --> 0:31:54.080 Excited by your enthusiasm. 0:31:55.640 --> 0:31:59.080 Well, we're talking about something, any advice and information that 0:31:59.120 --> 0:32:03.000 you all can provide that may actually help save someone's life. 0:32:03.840 --> 0:32:06.160 I mean, we're talking about an expert that you've probably 0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:09.560 talked to so many people from so many walks of life, 0:32:09.640 --> 0:32:11.680 who probably don't know where they're going, not sure and 0:32:11.720 --> 0:32:14.280 where to turn. And then you mess Chandra are a 0:32:14.280 --> 0:32:17.680 beacon of life to say, Hey, I survive, so so 0:32:17.800 --> 0:32:21.960 can you? Right, And this conversation is so important because, 0:32:22.000 --> 0:32:24.680 like I stated, my mother transition of stage for a 0:32:24.720 --> 0:32:27.120 breast cancer, and I do think it is a change 0:32:27.120 --> 0:32:29.640 of lifestyle. I think stress has something to do with it. 0:32:29.640 --> 0:32:32.280 And I also think it's all about the willpower. And 0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:36.680 that's why today's episode was entitled I'm a Survivor because, 0:32:36.720 --> 0:32:39.400 whether you believe it or not, every person that is watching, 0:32:39.440 --> 0:32:42.520 that is listening is a survivor. Why because you have 0:32:42.600 --> 0:32:45.280 survived one hundred percent of the worst days of your life. 0:32:45.400 --> 0:32:46.120 You want to know how? 0:32:46.160 --> 0:32:46.520 I know. 0:32:48.280 --> 0:32:52.320 Because you can hear I'm here. Hey, what you say 0:32:54.200 --> 0:33:00.440 catch a baby because it's coming in hot Look y'all, 0:33:00.480 --> 0:33:01.920 I say, we're here for a good time. Not a 0:33:01.920 --> 0:33:04.400 long time, So come on and talk to me, talk 0:33:04.440 --> 0:33:07.640 to me about Well, let's start with you, miss Jane. 0:33:07.720 --> 0:33:11.800 Let's talk about your experience when it comes to breast 0:33:11.800 --> 0:33:17.600 cancer and any information that individuals should know. You can 0:33:17.680 --> 0:33:19.600 start with just telling about talking about yourself. 0:33:20.160 --> 0:33:26.000 Okay, Hi, good evening. Thank you so much for this opportunity. 0:33:26.520 --> 0:33:30.200 It was wonderful meeting you and person on Saturday and 0:33:31.320 --> 0:33:36.520 just being here to talk about life experiences. 0:33:37.680 --> 0:33:40.160 So is there. 0:33:40.040 --> 0:33:42.520 Something in your background playing, like a TV or something. 0:33:44.440 --> 0:33:50.360 Yes, let's get that turned our going to turn that off. Okay, 0:33:52.280 --> 0:33:57.600 that's that that background noise. So yeah, So my mom 0:33:58.040 --> 0:33:59.920 was diagnosed. 0:34:01.640 --> 0:34:06.520 In nineteen ninety eight and I worked at UCLA at 0:34:06.560 --> 0:34:08.719 that time, but not in surgical oncology. 0:34:09.160 --> 0:34:13.440 I worked at another practice. 0:34:13.960 --> 0:34:16.799 And you know, just going through the whole scare because 0:34:16.800 --> 0:34:21.480 when you hear the word cancer, the diagnoses cancer, first 0:34:21.520 --> 0:34:23.040 thing your mind. 0:34:22.840 --> 0:34:24.600 Is it's a death sentence. 0:34:24.719 --> 0:34:28.600 You don't think about know anything about staging, You know 0:34:28.719 --> 0:34:33.000 nothing about you know, family history or any of that. 0:34:33.239 --> 0:34:36.480 So the first thing, the first thought comes to mind. 0:34:36.440 --> 0:34:39.920 Is if my affairs are not in order, I need 0:34:39.960 --> 0:34:43.280 to get my affairs in order. And for my mom, 0:34:43.719 --> 0:34:50.479 her diagnoses was at stage one, right before yeah, stage one, 0:34:50.960 --> 0:34:55.240 and so for her it was the shock of course, 0:34:55.880 --> 0:35:00.359 and then after that being proactive with surgery, and then 0:35:00.480 --> 0:35:05.719 followed by radiation therapy and chemo therapy and just the 0:35:05.800 --> 0:35:11.120 whole family dynamic and everything changing from there. She had 0:35:11.160 --> 0:35:16.759 an incredible medical on colleges because at one point I 0:35:16.800 --> 0:35:20.319 had younger brothers and sisters who didn't really understand the 0:35:20.400 --> 0:35:24.719 dynamics of my mom's diagnoses, and at the time, I 0:35:24.840 --> 0:35:26.520 was up and out of the house, so I would 0:35:26.560 --> 0:35:29.480 just go back and forth to visit and accompanying her 0:35:29.520 --> 0:35:31.640 to her doctor's appointments. 0:35:31.080 --> 0:35:31.839 And that kind of thing. 0:35:31.880 --> 0:35:37.680 But the day to day, you know, the day to 0:35:37.719 --> 0:35:40.520 day routines at home, I was not there because I 0:35:40.560 --> 0:35:43.279 had grown up and grown out, so you know, the 0:35:43.440 --> 0:35:45.320 washing of the dishes and the cleaning of the house, 0:35:45.400 --> 0:35:46.439 my younger brothers and. 0:35:46.360 --> 0:35:47.120 Sisters were there. 0:35:47.160 --> 0:35:51.560 And it had become so overwhelming that her medical and 0:35:51.600 --> 0:35:57.040 colleges called a family meeting and gave instructions and directions 0:35:57.080 --> 0:35:58.279 to each one of my. 0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:02.120 Brothers and sisters who was still at of what they 0:36:02.160 --> 0:36:03.000 needed to do. 0:36:03.239 --> 0:36:06.720 To make sure that my mom was not stressed. 0:36:06.360 --> 0:36:10.279 Out, and also gave the directions to my dad, my 0:36:10.360 --> 0:36:14.520 bonus dad as well, So that's something that's not done anymore. 0:36:15.520 --> 0:36:19.879 And so she went through the surgery, the treatment, and 0:36:20.200 --> 0:36:25.480 her post top appointments for five years and she is 0:36:25.560 --> 0:36:28.920 free and clear of cancer. There's some other things that 0:36:29.000 --> 0:36:33.479 have happened as it related to the treatment, but she's 0:36:33.480 --> 0:36:34.240 still here. 0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:38.240 With us almost thirty years later. 0:36:39.440 --> 0:36:41.479 And the way that I got to meet this one 0:36:42.080 --> 0:36:47.840 is one of my besties right now was basically cancer 0:36:48.120 --> 0:36:52.359 brought us together, which is strange, and I'll tell you why. 0:36:52.960 --> 0:36:56.920 It's because she and I went to the same church, 0:36:57.640 --> 0:36:59.400 but she wasn't a member. 0:37:01.120 --> 0:37:04.480 Her cousin brought her to the church because of the castor. 0:37:04.560 --> 0:37:08.760 They had a relationship her cousin and our pastor, and 0:37:09.600 --> 0:37:13.759 I worked volunteer at the church, worked very closely with 0:37:13.800 --> 0:37:16.400 the pastor at the time. She knew that I worked 0:37:16.400 --> 0:37:21.359 in ecology, and so when anyone was diagnosed with any 0:37:21.360 --> 0:37:25.479 type of hope concern issue, or whatever the case may be, 0:37:25.840 --> 0:37:28.359 she would call upon me and another. 0:37:28.080 --> 0:37:29.480 Friend of mine who's a physician. 0:37:29.600 --> 0:37:32.399 Reason being is because we were part of the health 0:37:32.440 --> 0:37:35.799 and filling ministry in our church, and she and I 0:37:35.920 --> 0:37:39.640 cool partner as co directors of that ministry. 0:37:40.640 --> 0:37:44.320 So Schandra went up after church. 0:37:44.800 --> 0:37:47.279 To the poolpit to talk to the pastor and just 0:37:47.400 --> 0:37:49.880 let the pastor know that she was scheduled for surgery. 0:37:50.480 --> 0:37:52.239 I think the next day of the day, a couple 0:37:52.280 --> 0:37:55.920 of days after, two days after. So it was at 0:37:55.920 --> 0:37:58.760 the end of service. People were, you know, still fellowshipping 0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:00.360 after being addiction. 0:38:00.600 --> 0:38:01.319 Some people had. 0:38:01.280 --> 0:38:04.640 Left, and all of a certain, all of a sudden, 0:38:04.680 --> 0:38:08.080 from the poolpit, I heard my name, jam is Jan 0:38:08.200 --> 0:38:10.359 Austen is Jam Here is Jan still here? 0:38:10.360 --> 0:38:13.600 It's Jan still in the congregation. Go find Jam. Well. 0:38:14.080 --> 0:38:17.480 I was still in the congregation, closer getting ready about, 0:38:17.560 --> 0:38:18.800 you know, leave out of the door. 0:38:20.000 --> 0:38:21.879 And so, you know, with. 0:38:22.000 --> 0:38:26.759 Urgency, I'd go up quickly to the poolpit, and the 0:38:26.840 --> 0:38:33.960 pastor said, Jan, this is Shandra, Jondra Fish Patrick Jan, Chandra, 0:38:34.080 --> 0:38:34.640 this is Jam. 0:38:34.840 --> 0:38:35.799 I want you to. 0:38:35.800 --> 0:38:39.960 Connect with her. I want I'm assigning you Jan to her. 0:38:40.400 --> 0:38:43.280 I need you to follow her, get her phone number. 0:38:43.560 --> 0:38:46.759 She's going to be having surgery soon. At the time, 0:38:46.840 --> 0:38:50.200 Chandra was Mary, and I can remember her. 0:38:50.880 --> 0:38:56.680 Asking the pastor asking Shadra's ex hussan now if he 0:38:57.239 --> 0:39:00.600 was going to walk with her through the process, and 0:39:01.160 --> 0:39:02.239 he said, yeah, she goes. 0:39:02.280 --> 0:39:04.160 Are you sure, because this is a heck of a 0:39:04.239 --> 0:39:06.200 process that you're getting ready to walk through. 0:39:06.560 --> 0:39:09.640 If you're not ready and prepared to walk through this 0:39:09.719 --> 0:39:12.680 process with her, you step aside. 0:39:12.760 --> 0:39:16.200 We got her, We got her. We need to keep 0:39:16.200 --> 0:39:19.319 her covered, we need to keep her lifted. And if 0:39:19.320 --> 0:39:21.919 you can't do that, you step aside. We got her. 0:39:22.680 --> 0:39:26.560 So we introduced to We were introduced to each other 0:39:26.600 --> 0:39:29.040 at the pool pit and I asked her her name. 0:39:29.440 --> 0:39:32.319 She gave me her name. I asked her her last name. 0:39:32.560 --> 0:39:34.799 She gave me her last name. I already knew. 0:39:35.480 --> 0:39:37.759 I said, who's your surgeon? She told me who her 0:39:37.760 --> 0:39:40.960 surgeon was. I looked at her, I looked at the pastor. 0:39:41.080 --> 0:39:43.600 I said, I didn't know you in person, but I 0:39:43.640 --> 0:39:48.160 know who you are because I scheduled your surgery. Wow, 0:39:48.160 --> 0:39:53.319 and that's how we met. Yeah, that's how I've been 0:39:53.680 --> 0:40:01.080 fast friends like sisters since that Sunday. And that was 0:40:01.160 --> 0:40:04.200 when she was diagnosed at that particular time, that was 0:40:04.200 --> 0:40:05.720 her second diagnoses. 0:40:06.200 --> 0:40:10.839 Yeah, she was diagnosed again. Afterwards. I knew about it. 0:40:13.280 --> 0:40:14.840 I called the pastor to let her know. 0:40:15.440 --> 0:40:18.239 I called her cousin, who introduced her to the church 0:40:18.239 --> 0:40:19.640 and to the pastor to let her know. 0:40:20.920 --> 0:40:23.520 I also called one of the social workers. 0:40:23.160 --> 0:40:26.520 Who she knew very well at UCLA and let her know. 0:40:27.120 --> 0:40:27.960 Everybody knew. 0:40:28.080 --> 0:40:30.520 Everybody was in position because we knew what we had 0:40:30.560 --> 0:40:38.000 to do to diagnoses and information to her. Not over 0:40:38.040 --> 0:40:42.160 the phone, it was in person, and I was there, 0:40:42.800 --> 0:40:45.040 and I was the one to love on her and 0:40:45.080 --> 0:40:52.960 bring her the third diagnoses information pastors the time, and 0:40:54.280 --> 0:40:56.120 pastor was on the phone at the time. 0:40:56.239 --> 0:40:58.440 Her cousin was on the phone at the time. Another 0:40:58.480 --> 0:40:59.879 cousin was on the phone at the time. 0:41:00.040 --> 0:41:03.880 Carolin, and I was there in person, and a social 0:41:03.920 --> 0:41:07.160 worker was standing nearby, and she's waiting to go in 0:41:07.719 --> 0:41:11.120 to have the surgeon let her know, and the clastic 0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:14.480 surgeon to let her know this was her third diagnosis 0:41:14.520 --> 0:41:17.080 in what was going to have to happen from then again, 0:41:17.320 --> 0:41:21.839 that same conversation with her ex husband was head by 0:41:21.920 --> 0:41:25.560 her cousin by the pastor. Look, we getting ready to 0:41:25.600 --> 0:41:29.200 go into war, and if you are not armored and 0:41:29.239 --> 0:41:33.600 you don't have your full breastplate pay, you can just 0:41:33.719 --> 0:41:38.359 walk now because we got her and we've had her 0:41:38.440 --> 0:41:42.759 every since he gone. He's moved out, he moved out, 0:41:43.200 --> 0:41:45.080 not because he wanted to, because he had to. 0:41:46.760 --> 0:41:51.320 And that's that's our connection. And we have her fast 0:41:51.400 --> 0:41:54.440 friends ever since. Sometimes she can't stand her. 0:41:54.680 --> 0:41:55.000 Me, and. 0:41:57.040 --> 0:42:02.960 But that's the way it goes with your family. You know, 0:42:03.000 --> 0:42:04.239 I was sitting up here. I don't know why it 0:42:04.320 --> 0:42:07.759 struck a chord with me because I guess, you know, 0:42:07.840 --> 0:42:10.360 the first time my mother had breast cans, she had 0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:12.399 to be around thirty seven thirty eight, So I'm kind 0:42:12.400 --> 0:42:16.360 of like in the years that I recognized that was 0:42:16.400 --> 0:42:19.000 probably like two and a half and or three. And 0:42:19.120 --> 0:42:22.160 it's amazing, like when you don't really understand as a child, 0:42:22.239 --> 0:42:25.040 but my mother, like Nondra, how your hair is down 0:42:25.120 --> 0:42:26.520 to your breast, my mother could have her hair in 0:42:26.560 --> 0:42:29.319 a ponytail, and how thick her ponytail would be. It 0:42:29.360 --> 0:42:30.840 was to a bit off her back. And I remember 0:42:30.880 --> 0:42:33.440 as a child, I sit in the hallway looking at her. 0:42:33.560 --> 0:42:36.359 She was standing in the bathroom and cutting the last 0:42:36.360 --> 0:42:40.120 peeples of her hair to hold onto. And then after that, 0:42:40.360 --> 0:42:42.919 I just you know, when you think about being diagnosed, 0:42:43.280 --> 0:42:45.839 there's so many there's so many things. I feel as 0:42:45.880 --> 0:42:48.240 though can play a factor. You got one. You're fighting 0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:52.680 for your life, and as superficial as a vanity would sound, 0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:55.720 it's also the notion of that you're losing a piece 0:42:55.719 --> 0:42:57.759 of you, of your identity. We got a call and 0:42:57.800 --> 0:42:58.560 do you mind taking it? 0:42:58.560 --> 0:42:58.600 Lo? 0:42:58.719 --> 0:43:03.520 What's taking it? Hello? Talk to me? 0:43:03.680 --> 0:43:09.360 He's hey, Kesha. 0:43:10.400 --> 0:43:12.320 Wait Keisha, my cousin from Michigan. 0:43:14.719 --> 0:43:20.279 No, yeah, yeah, yeah? 0:43:21.600 --> 0:43:24.080 How are you talk to me? What you got going on? 0:43:24.239 --> 0:43:28.440 I'm good. I'm going to a football game, a flag 0:43:28.480 --> 0:43:30.400 football game. It's all girls. 0:43:30.560 --> 0:43:32.640 Oh hold on, Keisha, did you have any comments you 0:43:32.640 --> 0:43:33.960 wanted to say. We're in the middle of an interview 0:43:33.960 --> 0:43:35.719 for breast cancer awareness. 0:43:37.120 --> 0:43:40.680 Oh, my grandma had breast cancer, so I e salute 0:43:40.680 --> 0:43:41.640 all the survivoris. 0:43:42.960 --> 0:43:47.120 Oh wow, is your grandmother still with us? 0:43:48.440 --> 0:43:50.920 No, she passed away a couple of years ago. But 0:43:50.960 --> 0:43:52.600 it wasn't be because of breast cancer. 0:43:52.719 --> 0:43:53.400 He partied. 0:43:54.000 --> 0:43:56.280 He beat it in one Mmmm. 0:43:58.880 --> 0:44:01.719 Well, thank you for sharing. And I'm sure have you 0:44:01.920 --> 0:44:04.120 gotten your mammograms? Have you been tested? 0:44:05.840 --> 0:44:06.080 Yeah? 0:44:06.200 --> 0:44:09.520 I did last year. So yeah, I had a scare, 0:44:09.760 --> 0:44:11.360 but it wasn't bread cancer. 0:44:12.000 --> 0:44:18.520 Okay, is in the wrong place. Your lymph node is 0:44:18.560 --> 0:44:22.200 in the wrong place and that arose in alarm? Oh wow, Okay, 0:44:22.280 --> 0:44:26.680 that's something we can we can talk about jan'shmton. What 0:44:26.719 --> 0:44:28.120 does that mean? Miss Jan? 0:44:29.800 --> 0:44:34.920 When your lymph nodes are swollen, that's an indication of 0:44:34.960 --> 0:44:40.400 some sort of affection, and that might not necessarily be cancer. 0:44:40.480 --> 0:44:43.320 But when you have a lymph note the lymph node 0:44:43.360 --> 0:44:46.080 is what cures your blood from one part of your 0:44:46.080 --> 0:44:49.440 body and organ to the other. So that's like the 0:44:49.480 --> 0:44:53.320 freeway for your blood flow. So if you have that 0:44:53.600 --> 0:45:01.200 normal enlarged lymph node, don't overlook it. Always seek attention, 0:45:02.080 --> 0:45:05.480 medical attention regardless, because it could be from a cold, 0:45:05.640 --> 0:45:08.239 or it could be from the flu, or it could 0:45:08.320 --> 0:45:11.920 be from an affection, or it could be from some disase, 0:45:12.040 --> 0:45:12.880 but you won't. 0:45:12.760 --> 0:45:15.680 Know that until you go and have it checked out. 0:45:17.080 --> 0:45:20.200 And the thing is that you have to always remember 0:45:20.640 --> 0:45:25.239 you can't do anything about anything until you step out of. 0:45:25.320 --> 0:45:30.640 Fear, a step into faith. Come on, faith over fear. 0:45:30.800 --> 0:45:33.479 That's true, faith over truth. 0:45:33.680 --> 0:45:36.920 Because the thing is, you can't do something about anything 0:45:37.000 --> 0:45:40.600 until you know what you're what you're fighting against, or 0:45:40.640 --> 0:45:42.120 what you're standing up against. 0:45:43.120 --> 0:45:45.600 You got to face a head on, gotta. 0:45:45.320 --> 0:45:48.880 Face it marless to however it looks or however you 0:45:48.960 --> 0:45:50.440 feel about it. 0:45:50.480 --> 0:45:51.600 You got to be a warrior. 0:45:52.840 --> 0:45:54.960 Keisha, what were you going to say? 0:45:55.840 --> 0:45:56.000 Oh? 0:45:56.160 --> 0:45:59.400 I would saying that's true, because like I was pidded 0:46:00.040 --> 0:46:03.440 if they were all like my it was like lower 0:46:03.520 --> 0:46:06.279 and higher than it usually is. And that's where they 0:46:06.360 --> 0:46:08.200 found like they thought it was a mask. 0:46:08.920 --> 0:46:13.799 M Oh wow, that was here. Thank you so much 0:46:13.800 --> 0:46:17.640 for sharing that. I appreciate. You're welcome and thank you 0:46:17.680 --> 0:46:18.399 for calling in. 0:46:18.520 --> 0:46:19.160 You're welcome. 0:46:19.400 --> 0:46:20.520 You pulled up on me. 0:46:22.440 --> 0:46:25.680 Yes, thank you. 0:46:27.040 --> 0:46:30.840 Oh wow. You know I remember my mother Because you 0:46:30.880 --> 0:46:33.560 have lip nose under your arms, right, you have enough. 0:46:33.440 --> 0:46:35.720 Notes throughout your whole body, your neck. 0:46:36.440 --> 0:46:37.760 Because that can be swollen. 0:46:37.960 --> 0:46:43.719 Yes, there in here in your chest, clammical area in 0:46:43.800 --> 0:46:46.719 your arm pits your arms up and down. 0:46:46.719 --> 0:46:48.520 So it's your left nose. 0:46:48.640 --> 0:46:53.319 It's like the freeway that takes your blood flow from 0:46:53.400 --> 0:46:56.759 one area and one organ to another. So they're throughout 0:46:56.800 --> 0:46:59.080 your whole body, starting at the top of your head, 0:46:59.440 --> 0:47:00.040 all the way. 0:47:00.040 --> 0:47:02.920 To your feet or where your loft notes are located. 0:47:04.760 --> 0:47:13.320 Talk to me, Hi, I'm Brenda Brenda. Hello, hello there. 0:47:13.680 --> 0:47:17.960 Yes, I'm just put in late, but I suffered with 0:47:18.080 --> 0:47:23.440 cluster headaches, migrain, and vertigo, and. 0:47:23.360 --> 0:47:25.560 I've tried oxygen I tried to medication. 0:47:25.680 --> 0:47:28.760 I tried everything it is. Do you have any suggestion 0:47:28.880 --> 0:47:30.040 or any type of medication. 0:47:30.520 --> 0:47:34.799 I'll be going to neurologies in the morning. At are 0:47:34.840 --> 0:47:36.240 you dehydrated? 0:47:37.719 --> 0:47:39.360 Oh no, I drink clear water? 0:47:40.280 --> 0:47:40.520 You do? 0:47:40.719 --> 0:47:45.080 And what about your oxygen intake? Are you me on oxygen? 0:47:45.280 --> 0:47:48.320 I take oxygen at the own set of a headache? 0:47:49.640 --> 0:47:50.400 Yeah? 0:47:50.520 --> 0:47:52.279 Is there any type of pill or any type of 0:47:52.320 --> 0:47:55.680 medication or something that's going to kind of control? 0:47:56.840 --> 0:47:57.840 Do you a vertigo? 0:47:58.160 --> 0:47:58.239 Uh? 0:47:58.560 --> 0:47:59.920 Uh uh? 0:48:00.640 --> 0:48:01.760 Decrease the pain? 0:48:03.640 --> 0:48:06.600 When you feel an oncoming, It's probably better to go 0:48:06.719 --> 0:48:11.800 into a dark area, Okay, Cluster headaches that kind of 0:48:11.840 --> 0:48:13.120 starts like a migraine. 0:48:15.760 --> 0:48:17.960 Question the head with migraine and very good? 0:48:18.680 --> 0:48:24.240 Yeah, pain stress, And sometimes it could be your intake, 0:48:24.400 --> 0:48:26.399 something that you're eating that you don't even know you're 0:48:26.400 --> 0:48:30.040 allerging to. I'm gonna telling about that. 0:48:30.080 --> 0:48:31.239 I have to pull me in the morning. 0:48:31.280 --> 0:48:32.120 I bring it up. 0:48:32.760 --> 0:48:35.399 Thank you so much for calling on Brenda. I just learned, 0:48:35.440 --> 0:48:39.640 see it all right, show you right, sure right, Love you, 0:48:39.719 --> 0:48:44.080 God blessed, love you too. What we kind of left 0:48:44.080 --> 0:48:45.799 off that I wanted to peek back up on is 0:48:45.920 --> 0:48:48.760 the moment that you found out you had your third 0:48:48.840 --> 0:48:53.919 diagnosis with breast cancer. What stage were you in, how 0:48:53.960 --> 0:48:57.120 old are you and how old were you and what 0:48:57.160 --> 0:48:58.160 was going through your mind? 0:49:00.120 --> 0:49:05.960 Okay, the first time that they diagnosed me with breast cancer, 0:49:06.400 --> 0:49:10.920 I was approximately twenty nine, thirty years old, and they said, 0:49:11.160 --> 0:49:15.080 due to the size of the mass, I had had 0:49:15.160 --> 0:49:19.000 that tumor for at least five years. What they said, 0:49:18.560 --> 0:49:23.520 you you've had this since you were twenty five and 0:49:23.600 --> 0:49:24.120 I was like. 0:49:26.160 --> 0:49:26.600 Okay. 0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:33.240 So they had some pathologists come in and take samples, 0:49:33.280 --> 0:49:37.120 like a needle biopsy to see if it was malignant. 0:49:38.120 --> 0:49:39.120 Of course it was. 0:49:39.400 --> 0:49:41.839 And can you just for those who may be unfamiliar, 0:49:41.840 --> 0:49:43.520 we know we have two types of tumors. We have 0:49:43.640 --> 0:49:46.680 benign and malignant. Can you just just share what they 0:49:46.719 --> 0:49:47.720 are the difference? 0:49:47.840 --> 0:49:50.720 It was malignant, it was and I and that's interesting 0:49:50.760 --> 0:49:53.680 that you say that too, because I when they called 0:49:53.719 --> 0:49:57.040 me to give me the results, they said, you have 0:49:57.200 --> 0:50:00.080 abnormal cells, and I said, what. 0:50:00.080 --> 0:50:00.480 Do you mean? 0:50:00.520 --> 0:50:02.520 They said they're malignant. I said, what do you mean? 0:50:02.840 --> 0:50:04.800 I needed to hear you. 0:50:04.640 --> 0:50:08.319 Have breast cancer so that I could identify with it. 0:50:08.760 --> 0:50:14.040 So but I did not let the prognosis be my 0:50:14.200 --> 0:50:17.880 death sentence. I said, no, I can't do it anyways, 0:50:18.200 --> 0:50:24.920 So they scheduled me for I had a lumpectomy. They 0:50:24.960 --> 0:50:31.319 took the lump out, they did surgery, then radiation, and 0:50:31.360 --> 0:50:32.399 then chemo. 0:50:35.040 --> 0:50:36.480 Got twenty nine. 0:50:37.480 --> 0:50:45.920 So that was an experience above and beyond I had 0:50:45.960 --> 0:50:48.960 about I was scheduled for twelve treatments of chemo. 0:50:49.719 --> 0:50:53.680 I made it to eleven because I. 0:50:53.600 --> 0:50:59.320 Had gotten so sick from the nausea of the chemo. 0:51:00.520 --> 0:51:04.480 Then approximately ten years later. 0:51:05.760 --> 0:51:08.279 I went in, well, of course I was going for 0:51:08.400 --> 0:51:10.920 my checkups and the cancer. 0:51:11.000 --> 0:51:14.520 The cancer came back, so. 0:51:17.480 --> 0:51:24.120 I said, Okay, here we go again. So the same 0:51:24.160 --> 0:51:27.319 thing was kind of was done when we met each 0:51:27.360 --> 0:51:27.759 other in the. 0:51:27.719 --> 0:51:30.359 Second Yeah, the second time, and it was It's so. 0:51:30.320 --> 0:51:34.279 Funny because as jan was talking about it, I was 0:51:34.360 --> 0:51:40.400 remembering how we met in church when the pastor introduced us, 0:51:41.040 --> 0:51:45.319 and Janet asked me my last name, and she said, 0:51:45.320 --> 0:51:47.640 I scheduled my boss is doing your surgery. 0:51:48.040 --> 0:51:50.160 I scheduled your surgery. I'm like wow. 0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:56.080 And it was interesting because the the DeLillo, the classic 0:51:56.120 --> 0:52:00.200 surglastic surgeon, when I went to see him on Tuesday day, 0:52:00.800 --> 0:52:03.680 the day before you No, so let's two days later, 0:52:04.400 --> 0:52:08.040 after the meeting at church. Right, okay, he said, how 0:52:08.040 --> 0:52:09.080 long have you been knowing Jan? 0:52:09.440 --> 0:52:13.200 I said, about two days. I've been going up earth. 0:52:13.600 --> 0:52:16.200 He said. She came up here and prayed with me 0:52:16.680 --> 0:52:19.200 and for me and you like she'd been knowing you 0:52:19.239 --> 0:52:22.560 for twenty years. I'm like, I don't know, I don't know. 0:52:22.680 --> 0:52:28.560 I prayed over every physician, every clinician, every hospital attendant, 0:52:28.719 --> 0:52:39.520 every housekeeper, every food service person, every nurse, every intake administrator, 0:52:39.719 --> 0:52:44.080 everybody who had anything to do with her, in addition to. 0:52:43.920 --> 0:52:46.640 Before her surgery. I went into the O R room and. 0:52:46.560 --> 0:52:48.080 Prayed over I. 0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:52.719 I love the instruments that you pend souls. Everything. 0:52:52.880 --> 0:52:58.120 Jan is very thorough, very very thorough. So we went 0:52:58.160 --> 0:53:02.719 through I went through that. What was it about a 0:53:02.840 --> 0:53:03.400 year later? 0:53:04.040 --> 0:53:06.640 Yeah, like that, about a year later, and. 0:53:06.440 --> 0:53:09.600 I was that's when she was telling me that they 0:53:09.640 --> 0:53:14.040 all knew before I did the third diagnoses. And it 0:53:14.160 --> 0:53:18.359 was so so weird because when I was sitting in 0:53:18.400 --> 0:53:22.280 the doctor's office and I could hear a voice saying, 0:53:22.320 --> 0:53:28.080 do you trust me? And I said, why would you 0:53:28.120 --> 0:53:31.319 ask me that? And there was no one else in 0:53:31.320 --> 0:53:35.080 the in the waiting room. So the lady came and said, okay, 0:53:35.320 --> 0:53:39.120 the doctor will see you. And while I was can 0:53:39.160 --> 0:53:41.680 we go back to how you got there to the 0:53:41.719 --> 0:53:45.000 third time, because you noticed that there's this little mall, 0:53:45.080 --> 0:53:49.759 a little pimple in between you and your cleavage, and 0:53:49.880 --> 0:53:52.680 she thought it was just a pimple. She was thinking 0:53:52.680 --> 0:53:56.480 of a spacious cyst. She was thinking it was a mall. 0:53:57.160 --> 0:54:01.479 She thought it was just a little like a flea 0:54:01.600 --> 0:54:03.200 bite or a mosquito bite. 0:54:03.200 --> 0:54:04.480 That's what she thought it was. 0:54:04.719 --> 0:54:07.120 But it was very painful when I would hug people, 0:54:07.480 --> 0:54:08.120 because I'm a. 0:54:08.080 --> 0:54:10.560 Hugger, when you would chest on them, or when you 0:54:10.640 --> 0:54:11.640 would when I. 0:54:11.600 --> 0:54:14.800 Would embrace them, when I would hunt them, that bump 0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:16.399 would hurt so mad. 0:54:17.239 --> 0:54:20.960 So that's how I was like, I don't know about 0:54:21.000 --> 0:54:21.880 this right here. 0:54:22.360 --> 0:54:27.240 So when doctor DeLillo took a sample without telling me anyways, 0:54:27.360 --> 0:54:30.720 took a sample, it was cancer. It was breast cancer. 0:54:32.440 --> 0:54:36.720 So I had to go through things for the third time. 0:54:39.320 --> 0:54:44.400 That was I was like, it was it was a 0:54:44.440 --> 0:54:49.759 lot because this time the third time, it was not 0:54:50.080 --> 0:54:54.840 surgery first, right, it was chemo first, right, since you 0:54:54.920 --> 0:54:57.960 are yeah, yeah, so it was they said that it 0:54:58.000 --> 0:55:00.640 was the reverse, yeah, since it was a third time, 0:55:00.719 --> 0:55:04.239 and she had already had radiation on both sides. They 0:55:04.239 --> 0:55:07.680 couldn't have radiate the breast anymore because once a breast 0:55:07.920 --> 0:55:11.040 or an area has had radiation, they cannot go back 0:55:11.080 --> 0:55:12.200 to the same spot. 0:55:12.000 --> 0:55:14.520 Not that you know. I remember when my mom had radiation, 0:55:15.440 --> 0:55:18.440 and I'm sure the methods have improved as the years 0:55:18.440 --> 0:55:21.680 have gone on. Yes, And I guess I was so young, 0:55:21.760 --> 0:55:23.440 so I didn't really get it, but it hurts me 0:55:23.480 --> 0:55:25.560 so much now because I'm just thinking, like, oh my gosh, 0:55:25.560 --> 0:55:29.360 what was this Where underneath her arm was actually raw? 0:55:30.280 --> 0:55:34.239 And when you talked about the the chemo, I can 0:55:34.360 --> 0:55:37.719 remember my mother and I didn't know, And you know, 0:55:37.800 --> 0:55:39.759 I think it's amazing, Like how you say you gotta 0:55:39.800 --> 0:55:42.839 fight and you gotta push. My mom pushed so much. 0:55:42.880 --> 0:55:45.320 I didn't even know cancer was a big deal. She 0:55:45.400 --> 0:55:49.040 would drop us off at our sports activities during the summer, 0:55:49.640 --> 0:55:52.680 stop at a light, open a car, open the door, 0:55:52.719 --> 0:55:56.680 and throw up. I remember looking at her hands. They 0:55:56.719 --> 0:56:01.760 were jet black and literally things were burskin is peeling away. 0:56:02.480 --> 0:56:05.399 Yeah, yeah, yeah, all of that. All of that. 0:56:05.719 --> 0:56:09.080 I remember I was looking in the mirror one day 0:56:09.120 --> 0:56:11.719 to put some makeup on, and you know how you 0:56:11.800 --> 0:56:14.440 open your mouth while you're putting makeup on it. 0:56:14.560 --> 0:56:17.000 I'm like, my tongue was black. 0:56:17.680 --> 0:56:18.239 I was like, what. 0:56:19.120 --> 0:56:21.640 And my hands were dark, my bottom of my feet 0:56:21.640 --> 0:56:22.080 were dark. 0:56:22.120 --> 0:56:25.040 I'm like the most. 0:56:24.880 --> 0:56:29.400 Challenging thing for me was to stay alive in my mind, 0:56:30.760 --> 0:56:38.000 because once you've accepted death in your mind, that'll take 0:56:38.040 --> 0:56:42.000 you a whole nother different way, different direction. So I 0:56:42.040 --> 0:56:45.759 had to keep when I was told, when you go 0:56:45.800 --> 0:56:48.720 in the restroom and you use the restroom, flush twice 0:56:50.239 --> 0:56:53.719 because what comes out of you is very toxic. I'm 0:56:53.760 --> 0:56:56.880 not a chemo treatment. I'm like, so, what was it doing. 0:56:56.719 --> 0:56:57.680 To my insults? 0:56:57.920 --> 0:56:58.120 Right? 0:57:00.520 --> 0:57:01.600 What's going on there? 0:57:02.080 --> 0:57:05.759 So I had to because I was already eating right 0:57:05.920 --> 0:57:10.640 and doing doing you know, organic and so forth and 0:57:10.680 --> 0:57:14.400 so one raw all of that, and I when I 0:57:14.440 --> 0:57:17.760 got it the third time, I'm like, Lord, I got it. 0:57:19.280 --> 0:57:19.800 I hear you. 0:57:20.200 --> 0:57:23.680 I'm let's let's just do this. Let's get through this. 0:57:24.320 --> 0:57:28.640 But the most, the most important thing for me was 0:57:28.760 --> 0:57:32.720 not accepting the prognosis. 0:57:32.800 --> 0:57:36.120 And the second thing is, and I share this with so. 0:57:36.120 --> 0:57:39.400 Many people because people can come and talk to me. 0:57:41.400 --> 0:57:45.680 I said, when I helped someone, I said, don't come 0:57:45.720 --> 0:57:49.120 back and thank me. You reach and get the hand 0:57:49.200 --> 0:57:53.360 of another soldier on the battlefield, and you pull them through. 0:57:53.840 --> 0:57:57.440 That's how you tell me thank you. That is so 0:57:57.480 --> 0:58:00.680 important because we all are going that journey. 0:58:02.400 --> 0:58:06.760 That journey is like no journey you've ever been through. 0:58:08.560 --> 0:58:15.120 Help somebody, Listen to somebody, do whatever you can. I 0:58:15.160 --> 0:58:17.720 will go with you to the doctor and we will 0:58:17.760 --> 0:58:20.360 talk to them at the same time, so I can 0:58:20.400 --> 0:58:22.520 help you make out an informed decision. 0:58:23.320 --> 0:58:24.480 But I'm going to tell you. 0:58:24.480 --> 0:58:30.600 It gets you out of yourself when you're helping others. 0:58:30.760 --> 0:58:35.200 So what was really funny but not funny? But I'm 0:58:35.200 --> 0:58:40.360 on vacation and I was tired. I'm tired, so and 0:58:40.400 --> 0:58:42.760 I worked with a major airline. I'm not even flying anywhere. 0:58:42.760 --> 0:58:44.680 I'm just like, I just wanted to do a staycation. 0:58:45.760 --> 0:58:49.480 So yesterday one of the girls that asked me, could 0:58:49.520 --> 0:58:50.520 I take you to lunch? 0:58:51.360 --> 0:58:52.560 And I said, okay, all right. 0:58:53.400 --> 0:58:59.320 So I left home, went to the post office, had 0:58:59.360 --> 0:59:03.480 a challenge there, left there trying to get to lunch. 0:59:03.920 --> 0:59:05.760 Well, actually it's dinner at this time. 0:59:07.280 --> 0:59:10.160 I went to a gas station, had a challenge there, 0:59:10.560 --> 0:59:12.760 went to another gas station, had another challenge. 0:59:12.800 --> 0:59:15.800 I said, what is going on? So by this time, 0:59:15.840 --> 0:59:19.880 I'm like kind of not dealing with it. 0:59:19.960 --> 0:59:20.360 So well. 0:59:20.800 --> 0:59:25.560 Jam calls and I said, Jensen, how you doing? I said, fine, 0:59:25.600 --> 0:59:28.680 but I'm going through some things right now. What's going on? 0:59:29.760 --> 0:59:32.640 She said? Hey? You know I went to this. 0:59:32.640 --> 0:59:37.200 Affair, she said, She said, would you be interested in? 0:59:44.000 --> 0:59:47.920 But what? What wrongs? Because I had, I did, I 0:59:47.960 --> 0:59:50.360 took no. I had to stay in the bed all day. 0:59:50.560 --> 0:59:54.080 I'm just connecting. I'm not answering my phone. I'm not 0:59:54.200 --> 0:59:56.640 answering my door said don't call me. 0:59:57.000 --> 0:59:59.840 So I had to take a minute and kill before 0:59:59.840 --> 1:00:00.760 I I said no. 1:00:02.160 --> 1:00:07.320 And then I remembered when I was having prayer that morning. 1:00:09.640 --> 1:00:13.320 Instead of me saying and asking the Lord for this, 1:00:13.640 --> 1:00:14.000 can you? 1:00:14.080 --> 1:00:16.120 Can you do this? And can I? I said, Lord, 1:00:16.160 --> 1:00:17.600 what can I do for you today? 1:00:17.760 --> 1:00:18.000 Hey? 1:00:20.120 --> 1:00:22.640 I said what can I do for you? And before 1:00:22.680 --> 1:00:26.680 I told jan no, it came right back up. I 1:00:26.720 --> 1:00:32.200 said come. I said, yeah, I'll do it because at 1:00:32.200 --> 1:00:33.280 first I could. 1:00:33.160 --> 1:00:36.520 Tell and I knew I had to dread lightly because 1:00:36.560 --> 1:00:37.640 I knew she was tired. 1:00:37.880 --> 1:00:41.040 She had already given me the disclosure when we spoke 1:00:41.120 --> 1:00:44.160 on Saturday and Sunday. And here I am with this 1:00:44.320 --> 1:00:47.040 request when I already know she said, but I had 1:00:47.160 --> 1:00:49.840 had such a day right before she called. 1:00:49.880 --> 1:00:53.040 It was right in the middle. I said, this is 1:00:53.040 --> 1:00:58.080 the way it happens, and she answer said what I 1:00:58.120 --> 1:00:59.560 already knew she was God Won. 1:01:00.080 --> 1:01:03.000 Yeah, on my phone has their own ring tongue, so 1:01:03.040 --> 1:01:04.120 I already know who it was. 1:01:04.720 --> 1:01:08.280 But yeah, so. 1:01:07.400 --> 1:01:08.600 I'm glad you said. 1:01:08.680 --> 1:01:11.920 Yes, I'm glad. I'm glad. 1:01:12.080 --> 1:01:17.040 Look, I'm I'm not gonna ever not be there for 1:01:17.120 --> 1:01:20.480 someone because you never know when you're gonna say something 1:01:20.520 --> 1:01:25.040 that I helped that person get through their trial, and 1:01:25.080 --> 1:01:26.760 I want to always. 1:01:26.680 --> 1:01:28.160 Be there for that. 1:01:29.880 --> 1:01:33.440 But I gotta ask you this, Okay, why did you 1:01:33.520 --> 1:01:38.000 keep on fighting? Why didn't you get tired? What made 1:01:38.000 --> 1:01:41.200 you hold on? Who did you hold on for? 1:01:43.440 --> 1:01:52.040 You know, I just refuse to accept the fact that. 1:01:53.480 --> 1:01:54.560 I just I'm a fighter. 1:01:55.520 --> 1:02:01.520 When they said, okay, you've got cancer, I said, I 1:02:01.680 --> 1:02:03.600 cried for like forty five minutes. 1:02:03.640 --> 1:02:05.400 I said, cancer messed with the wrong one. 1:02:05.600 --> 1:02:10.360 Hey, we're not doing this, I said, Lord got to 1:02:10.400 --> 1:02:10.800 help me. 1:02:12.400 --> 1:02:14.160 I'm not accepting that. 1:02:14.640 --> 1:02:18.160 And I that day, I'm went to start getting vegetables 1:02:18.200 --> 1:02:21.560 and I got active in my own. 1:02:21.840 --> 1:02:26.920 H Yeah, Now there was something that you guys had shared, 1:02:27.040 --> 1:02:29.680 especially when you met at the church, about how you 1:02:29.680 --> 1:02:32.479 don't want to be stressed out. How does stress play 1:02:32.480 --> 1:02:34.840 a factor when the count of dealing with cancer. 1:02:34.880 --> 1:02:41.600 It's huge. Yeah, I'm cuge, you get huge. 1:02:41.920 --> 1:02:44.680 Someone once told me. I shared this. I'm one of 1:02:44.680 --> 1:02:46.760 those individuals you know, you go to the game shows. 1:02:47.080 --> 1:02:49.280 Oftentimes I get picked to go on there and then 1:02:49.360 --> 1:02:52.040 just happened to win games at times. So we were 1:02:52.080 --> 1:02:54.680 traveling back to the headquarters of WHETHER studio on the 1:02:54.680 --> 1:02:57.080 studio lot at the main office, and I was sitting 1:02:57.080 --> 1:03:00.280 next to a nurse and for some reason, and we 1:03:00.320 --> 1:03:03.240 got on a discussion about health and the main calls 1:03:03.280 --> 1:03:06.040 why people are dying. And the first thing I said 1:03:06.040 --> 1:03:08.000 to her, I said, well, cancer, I'm just thinking about 1:03:08.000 --> 1:03:10.320 how so many, so many people pop up with cancer. 1:03:10.320 --> 1:03:13.200 My mom transition for cancer. You hear cancer, cancer, cancer, 1:03:13.280 --> 1:03:18.360 And she said, no, the number one killer stress. 1:03:17.840 --> 1:03:25.560 Yeah, stressed. And then second behind that is environment. Because 1:03:25.600 --> 1:03:30.560 if you're an environment that's toxic, that brings about stress. 1:03:31.160 --> 1:03:37.000 What you read, if you're in an environment that is uh, 1:03:37.840 --> 1:03:40.320 if you are in a food. 1:03:41.560 --> 1:03:45.080 Desert, the desert, that brings about stress. 1:03:45.920 --> 1:03:49.920 If you are a half a paycheck away from paying 1:03:49.960 --> 1:03:52.080 your bills and your kids need whatever. 1:03:52.440 --> 1:03:55.000 That brings about stress. If you're in a. 1:03:55.080 --> 1:03:58.600 Job or career that you hate but you're stuck in 1:03:58.720 --> 1:04:01.720 it because you got to pay the bills and your 1:04:01.720 --> 1:04:04.800 family's depended on you, that brings about stress. 1:04:05.200 --> 1:04:09.600 Getting on the slow five every morning, ako. 1:04:14.200 --> 1:04:18.920 But one oh one, it brings about stress. You know, 1:04:19.120 --> 1:04:24.840 everything brings about stress. So whatever you can do. And 1:04:24.920 --> 1:04:27.440 a lot of times we go about life thinking we 1:04:27.560 --> 1:04:30.400 got it, we can handle it, we got it, pile 1:04:30.480 --> 1:04:32.640 it on, we got it, we got it, until we don't, 1:04:34.320 --> 1:04:39.520 until we are stopped in our tracks. 1:04:37.880 --> 1:04:43.680 And can't move left, right, forward or backwards. We just stuck. 1:04:45.040 --> 1:04:49.680 And then also exercise has a lot to do with it, 1:04:49.760 --> 1:04:52.720 the lack thereof and what you put in you get out. 1:04:54.520 --> 1:04:56.480 Shit in shut out. 1:04:56.840 --> 1:04:59.560 You mean you talk about the Doritos and the Ketos, 1:05:00.960 --> 1:05:04.160 color guys and the Coca Colas and all of that. 1:05:04.200 --> 1:05:07.400 What you put in you get out. If you think 1:05:07.440 --> 1:05:08.720 about it, next time. 1:05:08.520 --> 1:05:13.680 You go to a convenience store seven eleven or a Circle. 1:05:13.440 --> 1:05:14.480 K or one of those. 1:05:15.720 --> 1:05:19.080 I don't know if you've ever taken time to look 1:05:19.120 --> 1:05:20.920 at you know how, like when you go and you 1:05:20.960 --> 1:05:23.160 want to get something to drink, and you make a 1:05:23.160 --> 1:05:25.440 decision that if you want a soft drink, or if 1:05:25.480 --> 1:05:29.120 you want a bottle of water or coconut water or 1:05:29.160 --> 1:05:34.480 whatever the case may be, nine times out of ten 1:05:35.800 --> 1:05:44.120 that coconut water, that coconut water, regular water, or kombushta 1:05:45.000 --> 1:05:49.520 is going to cost almost double what a Coca cola 1:05:49.640 --> 1:05:52.960 or a seven nut would cost you. You can get 1:05:53.000 --> 1:05:56.920 a big leader of seven up on sale for ninety 1:05:57.000 --> 1:06:00.000 nine cent, but try to get a gallon of water 1:06:00.520 --> 1:06:03.200 and see what the price difference is is. 1:06:03.280 --> 1:06:06.160 Because that water is what's going to help you to 1:06:06.200 --> 1:06:09.720 get all the toxic town. It's going to help to 1:06:09.800 --> 1:06:10.520 open up. 1:06:10.440 --> 1:06:15.520 Your your otteries and your ligments and your vessels and 1:06:15.560 --> 1:06:15.960 all that. 1:06:16.600 --> 1:06:17.480 The only thing that. 1:06:17.400 --> 1:06:20.840 Coke has gotta do is clog things up. So it's 1:06:20.880 --> 1:06:23.680 all in the choices that we make. And let me 1:06:23.680 --> 1:06:25.040 say this not to cut you off. 1:06:25.840 --> 1:06:27.560 When I used to hear. 1:06:28.840 --> 1:06:32.640 Survivors say cancer was one of the best things that. 1:06:32.640 --> 1:06:36.160 Happened to me, and I was looking away, what yeah, 1:06:36.600 --> 1:06:36.960 they said? 1:06:36.960 --> 1:06:39.360 What cancer was one of the best things that happened 1:06:39.400 --> 1:06:43.440 to me? And I didn't understand it. I'm like, what 1:06:43.480 --> 1:06:45.280 are they talking about? 1:06:46.520 --> 1:06:47.360 What happened? 1:06:47.440 --> 1:06:54.600 For me was that I changed everything in my life. 1:06:55.280 --> 1:06:58.360 I changed my jam was talking about nutrition. 1:06:58.960 --> 1:07:05.480 I changed christian I change how I dealt with stressful issues. 1:07:05.480 --> 1:07:08.360 And especially hydration. 1:07:09.400 --> 1:07:11.880 That I have a book that says, you're not sick, 1:07:11.960 --> 1:07:13.720 you're thirsty, and. 1:07:13.640 --> 1:07:17.880 You'd be surprised what water, just water will do for you. 1:07:18.200 --> 1:07:22.280 And I didn't drink it. I didn't drink water. And 1:07:23.640 --> 1:07:27.440 I did things for me that gave me peace. And 1:07:27.480 --> 1:07:31.720 I do that now. I have a little list here 1:07:32.160 --> 1:07:35.160 and I have it in the bathroom. It says life rules, 1:07:35.240 --> 1:07:41.439 trust God, spiritual time, exercise, healthy food, clean water, fresh air, 1:07:41.760 --> 1:07:47.240 and rest. That's what I wrote up when I was 1:07:47.280 --> 1:07:51.560 going through And that was another thing too. I was 1:07:51.600 --> 1:07:53.760 at the airport and this was I think this was 1:07:53.800 --> 1:07:56.040 a third No, this was the second time. 1:07:56.080 --> 1:07:56.880 I forget which. 1:07:56.720 --> 1:08:00.880 Time I was going through it, but anyways, it was 1:08:00.880 --> 1:08:05.400 the second or third. And this man needed help and 1:08:05.480 --> 1:08:07.640 he didn't speak English. 1:08:07.280 --> 1:08:10.000 And I ran around and I found someone. I said, 1:08:10.080 --> 1:08:12.520 bla blast fai. So I got someone. 1:08:12.600 --> 1:08:15.479 I said, tell him to sit right here, and I'm 1:08:15.480 --> 1:08:17.040 going to take care of him. But he's got to 1:08:17.080 --> 1:08:20.440 stay there and wait for me. So they told him 1:08:20.840 --> 1:08:23.679 and I had to go do something else. I came back, 1:08:23.800 --> 1:08:26.320 got him and took him on the plane, but. 1:08:26.280 --> 1:08:27.920 I was still I was. 1:08:27.840 --> 1:08:32.799 Crying because the next day I was going for surgery 1:08:33.240 --> 1:08:42.040 for the cancer. So I remember I was angry and crying. 1:08:43.800 --> 1:08:45.120 And I heard a voice. 1:08:44.840 --> 1:08:51.519 Say, I want you to help others as you go through. 1:08:55.040 --> 1:08:58.760 And it didn't hit me until about two or three 1:08:58.840 --> 1:08:59.479 days later. 1:09:00.760 --> 1:09:04.960 I said, oh, I'm not going to die. I'm going 1:09:05.040 --> 1:09:08.040 to go soon. I'm going soon. 1:09:09.160 --> 1:09:13.559 And I would take my chemo poll and go and 1:09:13.640 --> 1:09:19.120 talk to other people that were having chemo. The one lady, 1:09:19.200 --> 1:09:22.400 older lady, she said, you ladies are so loud. 1:09:22.520 --> 1:09:26.439 Are you laughing? I love the laughter, but you're so loud. 1:09:26.880 --> 1:09:30.240 I had everyone just crawled around with their chemo polls 1:09:30.280 --> 1:09:37.200 and we would be telling our experience. H h. 1:09:39.479 --> 1:09:40.240 Yeah. 1:09:40.680 --> 1:09:43.000 I always say we're here for a good time, not 1:09:43.080 --> 1:09:45.679 a long time. So you got to make a count, 1:09:46.320 --> 1:09:48.400 and you make it count by living your life one 1:09:48.439 --> 1:09:50.960 purpose and for a purpose. And when you say, hey 1:09:51.040 --> 1:09:54.440 doing I realized I'm going to get through. You decided 1:09:54.479 --> 1:09:58.160 to lift while you crying. And I think oftentimes we 1:09:58.200 --> 1:10:00.760 get so focused on self, but like you said, you 1:10:00.760 --> 1:10:03.160 found a moment where you were thinking about others because 1:10:03.320 --> 1:10:05.519 we can go fast alone, but we know that we 1:10:05.560 --> 1:10:10.760 can go further together. Absolutely, because it's somebody that's looking 1:10:10.800 --> 1:10:13.960 for the answers that you got. Somebody is going through 1:10:13.960 --> 1:10:18.760 the experience that you had experienced. Yes, why wouldn't I 1:10:18.800 --> 1:10:21.880 give you the blueprint? Why wouldn't I give you the information? 1:10:22.280 --> 1:10:26.240 If I know how unhappy, how much pain I am in, 1:10:27.720 --> 1:10:29.599 why would I even want that for someone else? 1:10:30.200 --> 1:10:30.800 Exactly? 1:10:31.120 --> 1:10:33.720 But oftentimes I feel like what the problem is or 1:10:33.760 --> 1:10:36.920 what becomes the issue, is that oftentimes we don't have 1:10:37.000 --> 1:10:40.400 the resources, or perhaps we don't know what or where 1:10:40.439 --> 1:10:44.280 the resources exist. Now, one thing that I think about 1:10:44.280 --> 1:10:48.200 too is that, And maybe I can get your insight 1:10:48.240 --> 1:10:53.519 on this. My mother was very secretive well about everything, 1:10:54.000 --> 1:10:57.479 but especially going through this process. Now it's like on 1:10:57.479 --> 1:10:59.760 one end, well, Mama, why are you not hide and 1:11:00.000 --> 1:11:02.400 why aren't you telling somebody so somebody can help? But 1:11:02.439 --> 1:11:05.200 then you hear another notion is that everybody doesn't wish 1:11:05.320 --> 1:11:07.559 the best for you or you don't want to seem 1:11:07.720 --> 1:11:10.720 like you're always going through something? What was that like 1:11:10.760 --> 1:11:11.639 for you? Miss Chandra? 1:11:13.560 --> 1:11:17.040 That's from while you're while you're talking, I'm just remembering 1:11:17.120 --> 1:11:20.080 what I'm going what I went through when I was 1:11:20.120 --> 1:11:26.840 going through and that's true. People don't always want the 1:11:26.880 --> 1:11:30.240 best for you, but for me. 1:11:31.600 --> 1:11:35.760 Like I said, I know that if I share my. 1:11:35.880 --> 1:11:42.639 Story with you, it may not even be I'm talking 1:11:42.680 --> 1:11:45.679 about cancer, but there may be something in my story 1:11:45.760 --> 1:11:49.680 that will help you with stress, that will help you 1:11:49.800 --> 1:11:54.840 with nutrition, that will help you with hydration, that will 1:11:54.880 --> 1:12:00.719 help you with resting, or even just talking, even helping 1:12:00.840 --> 1:12:03.400 timbody else get out of yourself. 1:12:04.320 --> 1:12:10.080 So I'm going to talk about it. I'm gonna talk 1:12:10.120 --> 1:12:10.599 about it. 1:12:10.880 --> 1:12:11.400 I want to. 1:12:11.680 --> 1:12:14.040 I want to share that because I don't know what 1:12:14.240 --> 1:12:15.720 part of my journey is for you. 1:12:17.960 --> 1:12:20.800 And they say the journey is the experience, and the 1:12:20.920 --> 1:12:26.040 experience is the journey. Life is the greatest teacher because 1:12:26.040 --> 1:12:29.240 first you take the test and then you learn the lesson. 1:12:31.479 --> 1:12:33.719 I remember I was so angry. 1:12:33.760 --> 1:12:38.800 I was like, Lord, I'm eating pretty decent. I said, 1:12:39.040 --> 1:12:42.200 who is going to listen to me when I talk 1:12:42.280 --> 1:12:46.760 about cancer? I said, They're not going to listen to me. 1:12:49.479 --> 1:12:53.400 It was just the opposite when I go into store, 1:12:53.920 --> 1:12:57.400 because if I'm in some store and I'm like, where's 1:12:57.439 --> 1:13:01.800 the rejuwal act, you know, which is a minute it's 1:13:01.960 --> 1:13:02.960 for a minute, very. 1:13:04.320 --> 1:13:04.719 Liquid. 1:13:04.880 --> 1:13:07.639 That's really really good for you. And they're like, well 1:13:07.680 --> 1:13:10.200 we we we don't have that. I said, I'm a 1:13:10.240 --> 1:13:14.639 three time cancer survivor. That's that's really good for you. 1:13:15.840 --> 1:13:18.200 They turn around and next week I go back. 1:13:18.360 --> 1:13:21.400 They got it? What Yeah? 1:13:21.479 --> 1:13:23.599 And then what you'll see people saying did she say 1:13:23.680 --> 1:13:24.839 she was three times? 1:13:25.080 --> 1:13:26.800 Well? Can I speak to her? 1:13:27.360 --> 1:13:31.040 So it turned all the way around from me saying 1:13:31.400 --> 1:13:36.280 nobody's gonna listen to me after being there three times. 1:13:36.040 --> 1:13:42.040 To everyone tell her about your experience on Saturday, which 1:13:42.920 --> 1:13:45.880 it was it Saturday or Sunday, which when they called 1:13:45.920 --> 1:13:47.879 to you and had you come. 1:13:47.720 --> 1:13:58.120 To oh yeah again because I'm on vacation. One of 1:13:58.160 --> 1:14:01.759 the girls that were called and I looked at the phone. 1:14:01.840 --> 1:14:07.880 I was like, so, I said, hey, what's going on? 1:14:08.080 --> 1:14:13.200 She said not too much with Shaun'd you busy? I said, now, 1:14:13.520 --> 1:14:14.639 how you doing? 1:14:14.840 --> 1:14:15.240 She said? 1:14:15.240 --> 1:14:15.559 Funny? 1:14:15.960 --> 1:14:21.080 She said, would you be our guest at the Sofi Stadium? 1:14:21.880 --> 1:14:24.600 We want in the VIP box. We want to do 1:14:24.680 --> 1:14:33.400 an interview with survivors. And I was like, okay, that's 1:14:33.439 --> 1:14:38.799 that's when I get quiet, get peaceful for a minute. 1:14:39.360 --> 1:14:41.120 I said, yeah, okay, I'll do that. 1:14:42.439 --> 1:14:44.920 I haven't even been I could walk to Sofi, I 1:14:44.960 --> 1:14:45.679 haven't been there. 1:14:46.160 --> 1:14:51.240 So anyways, I go over there and what an experience. 1:14:52.080 --> 1:14:54.720 I get there and they not only is it the 1:14:54.800 --> 1:15:00.000 VIP suite is the owner's box, but it was really 1:15:00.160 --> 1:15:05.400 nice even at halftime, so it was an actual football game. 1:15:05.439 --> 1:15:09.840 It was an actual football game. And I was like, 1:15:10.120 --> 1:15:12.720 everything looks so clear. They said, because you're not that 1:15:12.880 --> 1:15:16.479 far away. I was like, okay, So, and they're like, 1:15:16.479 --> 1:15:18.960 whatever you want to eat, we've got it. Whatever you 1:15:18.960 --> 1:15:21.679 want to drink, We've got everything you want is here. 1:15:22.040 --> 1:15:25.559 And here's a here's a bag for you coming with 1:15:25.680 --> 1:15:31.160 all your breast cancer inside. It was really nice, really 1:15:31.200 --> 1:15:33.200 really nice. All I had planned to do was to 1:15:33.280 --> 1:15:35.639 lay in bed and watch TV or read the book. Anyways, 1:15:35.680 --> 1:15:40.080 but and then have them. And then halftime they said, 1:15:40.200 --> 1:15:43.320 can we get the acknowledge survivors? 1:15:43.680 --> 1:15:44.719 They had them on the field. 1:15:44.960 --> 1:15:47.400 They said, can we get all the survivors in here 1:15:47.479 --> 1:15:51.479 to stand up? Well, they had one an actor and 1:15:51.520 --> 1:15:54.240 his wife was there. She was celebrating right in front 1:15:54.240 --> 1:15:58.200 of me, celebrating three years of. 1:15:59.479 --> 1:16:00.519 Surviving cancer. 1:16:00.960 --> 1:16:04.000 And they had told them to come and say something 1:16:04.040 --> 1:16:04.280 to me. 1:16:04.479 --> 1:16:06.559 I'm like I should be saying something to them. 1:16:07.240 --> 1:16:12.400 So anyways, that was she and I had an emotional 1:16:12.439 --> 1:16:14.200 moment because of the journey. 1:16:14.920 --> 1:16:18.360 Because of journey, and the friend that invited me said. 1:16:18.240 --> 1:16:22.840 She needed to see you because if in fact it 1:16:22.960 --> 1:16:26.879 comes back, she needs to know that's not a death sentence. 1:16:27.400 --> 1:16:30.080 She needed to see You've been through there three times 1:16:30.120 --> 1:16:33.120 and you standing up here clapping with the best stuff. 1:16:33.120 --> 1:16:41.559 Come on, come on, I'm just saying hier changes things. 1:16:42.200 --> 1:16:48.280 It was such an emotional It became such an emotional event. 1:16:48.720 --> 1:16:50.519 I was glad that I went. 1:16:51.040 --> 1:16:53.800 I even text him yesterday and said, I got to 1:16:53.800 --> 1:16:56.960 thank you again for inviting me. I said, because I 1:16:57.040 --> 1:17:03.000 needed that. I needed that, and other people that were 1:17:03.040 --> 1:17:04.840 there they needed youth. 1:17:05.000 --> 1:17:08.559 Yes, And it's just a reminder of how we need 1:17:08.600 --> 1:17:12.200 each other. We're I'm meant to do these things alone. 1:17:12.680 --> 1:17:17.240 He's like, she's a three time survivor what so. 1:17:18.120 --> 1:17:24.000 Yeah, And what's so interesting to me is I remember in. 1:17:24.160 --> 1:17:26.320 September, first part of September. 1:17:25.960 --> 1:17:30.040 Last part of August, they were doing things for her 1:17:30.120 --> 1:17:34.560 airline and doing huge, big things over the summer. 1:17:34.280 --> 1:17:37.599 And all, and she was not a part of that mix. 1:17:38.439 --> 1:17:40.720 And she's like, you know, I've been working for this 1:17:40.800 --> 1:17:42.479 company for you know. 1:17:42.439 --> 1:17:45.720 Thirty plus years. I'm a three time breast cancer survivor. 1:17:46.120 --> 1:17:46.960 When they had the. 1:17:46.920 --> 1:17:51.840 Big thing with the you know, this comic strip major 1:17:52.040 --> 1:17:56.000 a lister thing, and they had my image, my face 1:17:56.160 --> 1:17:58.599 on the side of the plane. And do you think 1:17:58.640 --> 1:18:03.400 I got a dollar or two or anything? And you know, 1:18:03.520 --> 1:18:07.320 I sold myself and my stuff, my likeness, and I 1:18:07.360 --> 1:18:12.920 didn't even get any kind of, you know, financial reimbursement 1:18:13.040 --> 1:18:14.479 for my time and my effort. 1:18:15.320 --> 1:18:17.160 And I reminded her. 1:18:17.479 --> 1:18:22.919 Of what the Lord told her years ago, years ago, 1:18:23.760 --> 1:18:25.360 the Lord and I had to put it to take 1:18:25.360 --> 1:18:29.000 her back to her and Memoris, as she does often 1:18:29.080 --> 1:18:31.720 with me as well, I said, do you remember what 1:18:31.760 --> 1:18:32.639 the Lord told you? 1:18:33.280 --> 1:18:35.280 I said, don't be angry, and I know. 1:18:35.280 --> 1:18:37.799 That you are because it feels like you've been taking 1:18:38.000 --> 1:18:41.599 advantage of and abuse. But the Lord told you you 1:18:41.640 --> 1:18:45.520 will never lack, you will never go without. 1:18:45.280 --> 1:18:47.559 Money, you will never be hungry. 1:18:48.120 --> 1:18:50.759 So there's a reason and the purpose for you doing 1:18:50.800 --> 1:18:54.880 this without pay, because he's already paid a hello. And 1:18:56.080 --> 1:19:01.960 I also realized to that when it was shared with 1:19:02.040 --> 1:19:07.759 me that through all I was on like in thirty 1:19:07.920 --> 1:19:10.639 magazines on the side of the plane in Turns Square, 1:19:11.240 --> 1:19:12.559 all of that New York. 1:19:12.880 --> 1:19:14.759 Yeah, that. 1:19:17.479 --> 1:19:21.000 I was doing it as public service announcement to get 1:19:21.120 --> 1:19:24.720 research money, to get money for research. 1:19:24.840 --> 1:19:26.759 So I was doing it for that reason. 1:19:27.160 --> 1:19:29.000 I didn't want to put my hand in the same 1:19:29.120 --> 1:19:32.640 pond that I was trying to get the money raised for. 1:19:33.040 --> 1:19:35.200 And I was told that was one of the. 1:19:35.040 --> 1:19:39.800 Most successful campaigns that they had had, and so I 1:19:39.880 --> 1:19:41.080 felt good about. 1:19:40.760 --> 1:19:45.840 That, as you should. Yeah, thank you for that. Now, 1:19:45.880 --> 1:19:48.360 that was something that you were mentioning and I've heard. 1:19:48.479 --> 1:19:50.160 I mean, in fact, that's how miss Jane and I 1:19:50.160 --> 1:19:53.200 we were talking about. It started over food. Everybody know 1:19:53.240 --> 1:19:56.080 how much I love to eat. Yes, I was looking 1:19:56.120 --> 1:19:58.160 at the buffet long we were at and empower her 1:19:59.160 --> 1:20:01.320 grabbing my vest was out of the possum and Jed 1:20:01.400 --> 1:20:05.880 was excited because it was gluten free. Oh yeah, may 1:20:05.960 --> 1:20:08.240 It didn't matter to me. I was just trying to eat. 1:20:08.520 --> 1:20:11.000 But it is important. Just like you said, what you 1:20:11.040 --> 1:20:12.880 put in is what you get out. Now, that was 1:20:12.880 --> 1:20:14.639 something that you had made mention how you were going 1:20:14.680 --> 1:20:16.240 to the store and I think I don't know if 1:20:16.240 --> 1:20:18.320 it was a berry or something like that. Can you 1:20:18.360 --> 1:20:20.000 just give us a list of some items that are 1:20:20.000 --> 1:20:23.200 good to eat if somebody is fighting cancer, that perhaps 1:20:23.280 --> 1:20:25.840 even helped you. Now, one thing that I've seen people 1:20:25.880 --> 1:20:31.080 talk about a lot is soursop clothes are really good for, 1:20:31.320 --> 1:20:34.160 you know, pulling out mucus and inflammation. What else do 1:20:34.240 --> 1:20:34.920 you recommend? 1:20:36.000 --> 1:20:39.479 I have so much stuff in my kitchen you'd be like, 1:20:39.960 --> 1:20:43.200 you have got to be kidding me, because I made 1:20:43.439 --> 1:20:48.240 smoothies and I put from Marenga to Ashwa Gonda to 1:20:48.880 --> 1:20:53.400 I mean, I have a lot of herbs, flat seed. 1:20:54.000 --> 1:20:58.560 I mean, I make up so many different types of teas. 1:20:59.400 --> 1:21:02.120 I mean it's a lot. 1:21:02.200 --> 1:21:06.200 I was even writing down Vitamin D K two Vitamin 1:21:06.360 --> 1:21:07.960 C crystals. 1:21:07.400 --> 1:21:11.639 Are number one Vitamin C or vitamin D vitamin C. 1:21:12.120 --> 1:21:17.360 The crystals, not the child because cristal the granuapns lyric 1:21:17.439 --> 1:21:23.280 sprouts and I actually had so many people at work 1:21:23.360 --> 1:21:26.720 on it because it gives your body such oxygen. 1:21:26.920 --> 1:21:28.480 Cancer doesn't like oxygen. 1:21:29.680 --> 1:21:32.120 When we were talking to your aunt about oxygen about 1:21:32.120 --> 1:21:35.400 the cluster headaches, Yeah, because I have a girlfriend now 1:21:35.640 --> 1:21:38.640 that she might have five good days out of the 1:21:38.760 --> 1:21:44.720 month behind cluster headache. And she said, Chandra, have you 1:21:44.760 --> 1:21:47.920 ever gotten an icy and you sucked it too fast 1:21:48.400 --> 1:21:52.120 and you get that freeze, I said, God, I said, yeah, 1:21:52.160 --> 1:21:53.080 I can feel it right now. 1:21:53.120 --> 1:21:55.120 She said, that's what a cluster headache feels like. 1:21:55.760 --> 1:21:57.800 That is awful, she said. 1:21:57.800 --> 1:21:59.920 And I went and got the book because I wanted 1:21:59.880 --> 1:22:02.000 to know more about it, and deep dives with it 1:22:02.040 --> 1:22:06.439 with her, and she said, they call it suicide headache 1:22:06.439 --> 1:22:09.519 because more people commit suicide on that with that. 1:22:09.560 --> 1:22:12.479 Headache, she said, because they can't that pain. 1:22:13.120 --> 1:22:17.040 That pain is so intense, it's like a freeze head pain. 1:22:17.640 --> 1:22:22.640 I said, well, what what has a direct effect on it? 1:22:22.720 --> 1:22:23.800 She said oxygen. 1:22:24.439 --> 1:22:26.600 I said, well, then we need to find foods that 1:22:26.760 --> 1:22:29.439 have the highest yield of oxygen in it. 1:22:30.520 --> 1:22:33.360 Vitamin C has a high yield. 1:22:33.640 --> 1:22:38.000 The granules, yeah, the crystals, the crystal, not the tabs, 1:22:38.080 --> 1:22:44.439 not the capsules. It looks like white power, and a 1:22:44.479 --> 1:22:47.880 lot of people just kind of confuse. 1:22:47.560 --> 1:22:50.880 That for a narcotic, but it's not. 1:22:52.680 --> 1:22:57.200 Yes, Sprouts and Whole Foods and even Amazon you can 1:22:57.200 --> 1:23:04.480 get it Mother Mothers as well, and Arilhana of course, right, yeah, 1:23:04.880 --> 1:23:07.639 yeah that it simply howesome has it carries it as well? 1:23:08.000 --> 1:23:09.200 Simply whosome as well. 1:23:10.520 --> 1:23:12.000 So but yeah, I. 1:23:11.880 --> 1:23:16.559 Do do a lot. Also fast at the beginning of 1:23:16.600 --> 1:23:18.799 the year. I do a fast, a three week fast. 1:23:19.000 --> 1:23:20.520 Great, you don't eat for three weeks. 1:23:21.520 --> 1:23:25.599 I juice. I juice in the morning, apples and ginger. 1:23:25.720 --> 1:23:29.240 I juice in the evening with all the vegetables. I 1:23:29.320 --> 1:23:31.799 do my fruits in the morning because that has sugar 1:23:31.800 --> 1:23:33.600 in it, natural sugars. 1:23:33.200 --> 1:23:34.360 And that gives me energy. 1:23:34.760 --> 1:23:38.160 And then in the afternoon evening, which I'm usually sleep 1:23:38.200 --> 1:23:42.360 by five every day anyways, but I do the kale, 1:23:42.400 --> 1:23:49.080 the spinach, the celery, the ginger, garlic, all of that, 1:23:49.200 --> 1:23:55.160 beat beets and the beat leaves. That's very important. And 1:23:55.240 --> 1:23:57.960 I juice that in the evenings. And that's what I do. 1:23:58.080 --> 1:23:58.960 Plenty of water. 1:23:59.360 --> 1:24:03.040 And she's on line for the twenty one days, no 1:24:03.280 --> 1:24:06.960 social media and no phone calls, no chip chatters. 1:24:06.560 --> 1:24:10.040 No nothing, nothing but prayer and asking. 1:24:10.120 --> 1:24:11.799 It's working and sleeping. 1:24:12.240 --> 1:24:14.960 Yeah, And she tries to make sure she takes off 1:24:15.280 --> 1:24:17.720 and as much as she can the first week or 1:24:17.760 --> 1:24:23.000 two into her fast, because understandably, you know, you have 1:24:23.120 --> 1:24:26.040 to change everything, and people have a tendency to be 1:24:26.080 --> 1:24:30.640 an irritant of course during that time, because you. 1:24:29.760 --> 1:24:32.840 Are already on nerves edge. You're want a middle. But 1:24:33.000 --> 1:24:35.160 I can't happen the first week. 1:24:35.400 --> 1:24:38.519 The first week, i'd stay home, I stay in the house. 1:24:39.160 --> 1:24:45.120 But it restores, revives and get you ready for the 1:24:45.200 --> 1:24:48.200 new year, and I need to get centered. 1:24:50.520 --> 1:24:53.320 I've heard that of how people, you know, you'd be 1:24:53.360 --> 1:24:58.200 surprised that fast thing will help eliminate kind of diseases 1:24:58.240 --> 1:25:01.240 because now your body is focused on what is this 1:25:01.320 --> 1:25:03.320 more an object than when you think about all this 1:25:03.439 --> 1:25:06.080 food and stuff that we're eating. It's trying to figure 1:25:06.120 --> 1:25:08.719 out a combat that rather than combat it was naturally 1:25:08.760 --> 1:25:10.639 in the body. Now kind of. 1:25:11.720 --> 1:25:12.720 You're absolutely right. 1:25:13.720 --> 1:25:17.360 During that time, it's been said that during fascinating, your 1:25:17.400 --> 1:25:20.440 body will actually cleanse itself of diseases. 1:25:20.760 --> 1:25:23.960 During that time it restores us. 1:25:25.120 --> 1:25:27.799 And then two with cancer, what we didn't talk about 1:25:28.400 --> 1:25:29.440 is the number. 1:25:29.280 --> 1:25:31.960 One thing that it craves. It's sugar. 1:25:34.400 --> 1:25:37.320 And I don't want to get into the chemistry of 1:25:37.360 --> 1:25:43.320 it all, but the chemical composition of vitamin C is 1:25:43.400 --> 1:25:47.639 similar to that of glucose, except for it has an 1:25:47.720 --> 1:25:52.639 oxygen on the rink. So and when they would do 1:25:52.760 --> 1:25:56.680 tests with me and inject me with these radio isotopes 1:25:57.800 --> 1:26:01.360 the liquid so that they could see when the cancer 1:26:01.640 --> 1:26:03.479 was in the system if it's. 1:26:03.320 --> 1:26:04.000 There at all. 1:26:04.720 --> 1:26:08.439 They also would cod it with a certain kind of 1:26:08.560 --> 1:26:13.400 sugar because cancer loves sugar, and when it gobbles that 1:26:14.120 --> 1:26:17.639 radio isotope, they know exactly where it is because it's 1:26:17.640 --> 1:26:20.400 going to go for the sugar like a path many. 1:26:20.160 --> 1:26:21.680 You know, I guess that just hit me on so 1:26:21.760 --> 1:26:24.519 many levels because you know, growing up, I wasn't a 1:26:24.640 --> 1:26:28.000 child that was into sweets, but I got my sugars 1:26:28.040 --> 1:26:31.160 from cars and that still follows me until this day. 1:26:31.960 --> 1:26:34.600 And you know, I just think, because you know, it 1:26:34.680 --> 1:26:37.160 doesn't show up overnight, it's you know, we already And 1:26:37.200 --> 1:26:39.479 that's another thing that we didn't discuss. How we're all 1:26:39.520 --> 1:26:43.000 born where we all have cancer cells. It's just a 1:26:43.040 --> 1:26:46.280 matter of when they come ignited or the switch cuts 1:26:46.360 --> 1:26:49.479 on that everything starts to go, you know, in a array. 1:26:50.960 --> 1:26:55.639 But also further, because pun intended you mentioned vitamin D, 1:26:55.720 --> 1:26:59.880 we know that as a people, African Americans, we especially women, 1:27:00.320 --> 1:27:04.519 our decision in vitamin D. Why is vitamin D important? 1:27:06.080 --> 1:27:10.040 It actually helps you to absorb calcium to give your 1:27:10.080 --> 1:27:11.960 bone strength. 1:27:13.040 --> 1:27:16.440 And to help your immune system. 1:27:16.080 --> 1:27:19.400 And it should be taken combined right, and currently we 1:27:19.560 --> 1:27:23.120 have the vitamin D three with the calcium because it 1:27:23.120 --> 1:27:28.040 works together. It synergistically works together. It one activates the 1:27:28.080 --> 1:27:28.559 other one. 1:27:29.040 --> 1:27:32.880 Now, what's the difference between vitamin D and vitamin D three? 1:27:33.439 --> 1:27:36.559 It is the active, more active form of vitamin D. 1:27:39.600 --> 1:27:43.320 And then K two you take with you can, Yeah, 1:27:43.920 --> 1:27:46.240 usually they tell you to take that with calcium to 1:27:46.240 --> 1:27:46.839 take combined. 1:27:46.920 --> 1:27:47.360 That it's. 1:27:48.760 --> 1:27:52.040 Most times with any kind of vitamins and supplements of mirrors, 1:27:52.320 --> 1:27:55.320 they should be taken conjointly with something else because it 1:27:55.360 --> 1:28:00.320 works as a powerhouse as opposed to singularly, like viamin 1:28:00.479 --> 1:28:03.360 bat should be combined with something else because it gives 1:28:03.360 --> 1:28:04.879 it more power and more strength. 1:28:04.920 --> 1:28:09.920 Oh now this may sound very face surface, but oftentimes 1:28:09.960 --> 1:28:12.880 it's similar. Well, whatever reminded me of just even if 1:28:12.880 --> 1:28:15.640 you are on medication, how you have to eat with 1:28:15.720 --> 1:28:18.559 certain medication. I didn't realize that if you don't eat, 1:28:19.120 --> 1:28:20.879 the medication can't do what it needs. 1:28:20.720 --> 1:28:25.160 To do, and it's going to eat, and most times 1:28:25.200 --> 1:28:29.000 it's going to eat the blinding of yourself and that's 1:28:29.040 --> 1:28:32.599 how you get sick afterwards, because it needs to eat. 1:28:32.720 --> 1:28:35.040 So if it doesn't have a food, it's going to 1:28:35.080 --> 1:28:37.559 go to a source which is in your gut and 1:28:37.600 --> 1:28:39.960 it's going to eat your gut and then you feel 1:28:40.040 --> 1:28:42.439 nauseous and we want to throw up because it's medication 1:28:42.479 --> 1:28:44.160 because you didn't have food on it. 1:28:44.120 --> 1:28:44.760 To eat on it. 1:28:46.400 --> 1:28:51.240 Yeah, I don't realize that I've done that with vitamins. Yeah, 1:28:51.320 --> 1:28:55.160 I've experienced that too. There's this gentleman, his name is 1:28:55.160 --> 1:28:56.920 mister Lee. I like to call him like something. I 1:28:56.960 --> 1:28:59.320 want to make sure I up level the conversation when 1:28:59.320 --> 1:29:03.080 it comes down to fibroids. But he had had taken 1:29:03.160 --> 1:29:05.880 so many herbs. So when you said, ash Gwanda mull 1:29:05.960 --> 1:29:09.240 and leaf, how important tumork is the vitamin D three, 1:29:09.280 --> 1:29:15.639 taking the iron so much caratone or something like that, 1:29:17.920 --> 1:29:21.360 I realized that when I just had a smoothie and 1:29:21.400 --> 1:29:24.439 I'm taking all of these vitamins and herbs, I got nauseous. 1:29:24.560 --> 1:29:27.479 I got sick, but didn't realize the dawn is eating 1:29:27.560 --> 1:29:30.640 in the line and of your stomach. But guess what, 1:29:30.800 --> 1:29:33.439 the more you know, the more you're able to grow. 1:29:34.280 --> 1:29:35.880 And that's what I want people to do when they're 1:29:35.920 --> 1:29:39.080 listening to this conversation now, as we're talking about nutrition 1:29:39.160 --> 1:29:41.040 and what we're putting in our body, what is other 1:29:41.080 --> 1:29:43.839 than sugar. We identify that what other kind of foods 1:29:43.840 --> 1:29:46.000 are just like a no. As a people, we need 1:29:46.080 --> 1:29:55.040 to step back from fried no French fries, no chips, your. 1:29:54.960 --> 1:29:58.040 Teas aside and those. 1:30:00.400 --> 1:30:09.040 Inflammation builders, chills, bread, bread chips, anything white, really the 1:30:09.080 --> 1:30:14.599 white flower, the white potato, anything white, the white rice, 1:30:15.240 --> 1:30:17.040 because there's no nutritional value. 1:30:17.120 --> 1:30:21.080 It fills you up, but it's just like coffee. 1:30:21.320 --> 1:30:23.840 It takes you up and then slams you down and 1:30:23.880 --> 1:30:27.200 it doesn't hold unlike you know, there are other. 1:30:27.120 --> 1:30:28.280 Choices with potatoes. 1:30:28.320 --> 1:30:33.240 There's yams, and there's sweet potatoes, and there's Japanese potatoes. 1:30:33.720 --> 1:30:36.559 Some of those potatoes, even like the purple potatoes, are 1:30:36.640 --> 1:30:39.599 so sweet like dessert you don't. 1:30:39.400 --> 1:30:42.800 Need to have very actual and they're very very good 1:30:42.840 --> 1:30:44.400 for you. They're very feeling. 1:30:44.560 --> 1:30:46.479 They have a lot of fiber and a lot of 1:30:46.800 --> 1:30:52.679 vitamins and minerals and that sugar taste, that sugar rush 1:30:52.760 --> 1:30:55.160 you get at three o'clock if you have just a 1:30:55.240 --> 1:30:59.600 half or fourth of that purple Japanese potato and you 1:30:59.640 --> 1:31:01.520 don't have to put no butter or nothing. 1:31:01.200 --> 1:31:03.320 On it, just scoop it out and eat it. 1:31:03.439 --> 1:31:06.639 And that sugar rush that you're trying to fulfill will 1:31:07.240 --> 1:31:11.280 be cured. In addition to the other vitamins and supplements 1:31:11.560 --> 1:31:14.599 and fiber that come along from. 1:31:14.400 --> 1:31:20.040 Eating the Japanese potato, you'll get it. So it's choices, yeah. 1:31:19.760 --> 1:31:22.480 And speaking of choices, what are the choices that individuals 1:31:22.479 --> 1:31:24.439 need to make when it comes to finding a doctor 1:31:24.479 --> 1:31:27.880 and who to ask questions? Who? Where do you start? 1:31:28.560 --> 1:31:30.680 Is it important? Did you guys feel it's important to 1:31:30.720 --> 1:31:33.200 have a black doctor going through your process? Or you 1:31:33.240 --> 1:31:35.880 know that you've worked with What kind of quoe do 1:31:35.960 --> 1:31:37.960 you ask the questions to? Is the doctor the part 1:31:38.000 --> 1:31:40.040 for your person? And I want to open that up 1:31:40.080 --> 1:31:42.160 to anybody that's watching. This is your moment now to 1:31:42.200 --> 1:31:45.360 call in with any questions in regards to dealing with 1:31:45.400 --> 1:31:48.559 breast cancer or those who have been afflicted by it. 1:31:49.000 --> 1:31:50.479 What about finding the doctors? 1:31:51.360 --> 1:31:55.719 Well, the first thing, it depends on what first and foremost. 1:31:55.800 --> 1:31:59.879 And somebody says it is wheat flour good, that's gluten. 1:32:00.800 --> 1:32:04.040 For me, it's it's like a life sentence for me. 1:32:04.600 --> 1:32:06.160 I can't do gluten at. 1:32:06.000 --> 1:32:09.639 All, no type of gluten, and gluten is wheat flour, 1:32:10.600 --> 1:32:15.080 wheat rye, barley and smelt, spelt s P e l 1:32:15.200 --> 1:32:21.200 T is gluten and for me, it works as. 1:32:24.240 --> 1:32:26.120 Like a bullet to my system. 1:32:29.520 --> 1:32:31.200 Doctors, yes, before we. 1:32:31.400 --> 1:32:34.799 Finding the right doctors. First of all, it really depends 1:32:34.840 --> 1:32:35.640 on your insurance. 1:32:36.680 --> 1:32:39.320 That's number one. You have to start with your insurance. 1:32:39.320 --> 1:32:41.479 But what if you don't have insurance. 1:32:42.240 --> 1:32:45.240 Then you have to have insurance. In the state of California. 1:32:45.800 --> 1:32:47.120 By law, you're supposed to have. 1:32:47.840 --> 1:32:53.000 Obamacare at least, so Obamacare was here trying to name 1:32:53.040 --> 1:32:54.160 something else or whatever. 1:32:54.880 --> 1:32:57.200 If you don't have insurance, you're penalized. 1:32:57.280 --> 1:33:01.479 First of all, So that's the first is insurance. To 1:33:01.600 --> 1:33:04.959 have the proper medical insurance because you cannot pay. 1:33:04.760 --> 1:33:09.480 For these business out of pocket. It's a specialized specialty appointment. 1:33:11.600 --> 1:33:15.040 You know, medical care is not general. It's not done 1:33:15.120 --> 1:33:18.439 by your general practitioner. It's a specialist. And when you 1:33:18.800 --> 1:33:22.400 get to a specialized area, anything be it finance, be 1:33:22.479 --> 1:33:26.800 it food, be it whatever, if you're going to a specialist, 1:33:27.439 --> 1:33:30.000 that's going to cost you more because that's their focus. 1:33:30.000 --> 1:33:30.799 That's all they. 1:33:30.720 --> 1:33:36.560 Operate in, is that one particular modality medical modality, financial modality, 1:33:36.640 --> 1:33:40.200 food modality. That is their food for focus, and that 1:33:40.400 --> 1:33:41.880 is what they look at. 1:33:42.200 --> 1:33:44.160 And so number one is insurance. 1:33:44.720 --> 1:33:48.400 Then once you have your insurance, be it a PPO 1:33:48.479 --> 1:33:50.840 where you can go wherever you want to go or 1:33:50.920 --> 1:33:55.639 an HMO where you have to get an authorization to. 1:33:55.640 --> 1:33:58.080 Go wherever you want to go and it. 1:33:57.960 --> 1:34:01.080 Has to be approved, and you have to then be 1:34:01.160 --> 1:34:06.120 an advocate. Regardless if it's a PPO insurance or EGO insurance, 1:34:06.400 --> 1:34:08.640 you got to make sure that you're an advocate for 1:34:08.720 --> 1:34:11.600 yourself and that you partner with somebody who can be 1:34:11.640 --> 1:34:15.080 an advocate for you. So again, it's like those people 1:34:15.080 --> 1:34:18.080 that talk about in the grocery store, I'm a three 1:34:18.160 --> 1:34:21.680 time breast cancer survivor, and you're listening and you've just 1:34:21.800 --> 1:34:24.679 been diagnosed with cancer or your sister or your mother whatever. 1:34:24.960 --> 1:34:27.679 That's when you lean in and say, hey, my sister 1:34:27.840 --> 1:34:29.120 was diagnosed with cancer. 1:34:29.200 --> 1:34:30.960 I don't know what to do, she doesn't know what 1:34:30.960 --> 1:34:33.479 to do. What do we do? What can you tell us? 1:34:33.680 --> 1:34:36.360 So that you're an advocate somebody. 1:34:36.040 --> 1:34:39.800 Who's been you walk through the trenches, who's walked through 1:34:39.800 --> 1:34:42.680 the path, because you can talk to a doctor, you 1:34:42.680 --> 1:34:45.160 can talk to a nutritionist or whatever, but they don't 1:34:45.200 --> 1:34:46.600 have that personal experience. 1:34:46.880 --> 1:34:50.599 They're treating, they're diagnosing, they're doing surgery, so it becomes 1:34:50.640 --> 1:34:52.880 sort of like a robotic kind of thing, just like 1:34:52.960 --> 1:34:53.880 any job you do. 1:34:54.200 --> 1:34:55.559 You as a. 1:34:57.360 --> 1:35:00.880 With your podcast, I wouldn't know the first thing to do, 1:35:01.320 --> 1:35:02.920 just like you tried to help us get on. 1:35:04.640 --> 1:35:08.280 Even called in that was you know, because we're not checking. 1:35:08.439 --> 1:35:14.840 We are looked like we looked like, you know. So 1:35:15.240 --> 1:35:18.599 it depends on where your strengths are. That's not our strength, 1:35:18.680 --> 1:35:19.360 that's where you are. 1:35:19.439 --> 1:35:21.720 So if we were to start a podcast right now, 1:35:22.080 --> 1:35:28.040 we have to go to. 1:35:31.520 --> 1:35:33.960 Do what I can't hear you what's the paper? 1:35:34.240 --> 1:35:37.519 So you know it's it's all of that, you know 1:35:37.520 --> 1:35:39.679 what I mean, you go to the source of somebody 1:35:39.720 --> 1:35:42.120 who's been through, who's walked through the trenches. 1:35:42.200 --> 1:35:44.639 Because I know you didn't mean to call it cut 1:35:44.680 --> 1:35:45.439 you off, but I did. 1:35:45.800 --> 1:35:48.800 When you first started with your podcast, I'm sure that 1:35:49.040 --> 1:35:50.559 microphone and all of that. 1:35:50.520 --> 1:35:52.320 You didn't know what you Michael, I was in the 1:35:52.400 --> 1:35:56.320 bed underneath a comforter with the USB MI just so 1:35:56.400 --> 1:35:59.200 I get yes, yeah, and look. 1:35:59.080 --> 1:35:59.599 At you now. 1:36:00.160 --> 1:36:03.040 You know you got to step and repeat behind you say, 1:36:04.000 --> 1:36:07.000 a desk and a mask and a phone and a subflower, 1:36:07.720 --> 1:36:10.760 the little ring you got, the bells, you know, you 1:36:10.880 --> 1:36:13.080 got all that, and I even see your bun's. 1:36:12.800 --> 1:36:17.880 Eye tree behind you. But yeah, you do, you do. 1:36:18.280 --> 1:36:23.240 You will seek out those who have been through or 1:36:24.240 --> 1:36:27.680 speaking on the subject, because if you. 1:36:27.680 --> 1:36:32.720 Came to me and you said, hey, I just got diagnosed. 1:36:33.080 --> 1:36:35.640 I'm gonna go with you. I'm gonna say when's your 1:36:35.680 --> 1:36:39.320 next appointment or who you seeing? Let me take you 1:36:39.360 --> 1:36:41.320 to my doctor. As a matter of fact, I've done 1:36:41.360 --> 1:36:44.080 that with several people. I'll bring them right on up 1:36:44.080 --> 1:36:50.120 in to the hospital, say hey, it's such a such 1:36:50.120 --> 1:36:52.559 your in town, or what is their schedule? 1:36:52.600 --> 1:36:53.799 Look like, Look, I got. 1:36:53.640 --> 1:36:56.160 Somebody I'm walking with and I'm gonna bring her and 1:36:56.240 --> 1:36:58.040 I need you to connect us and I need to. 1:36:58.080 --> 1:37:00.320 Make that happen. So we do that all the time. 1:37:00.479 --> 1:37:04.719 Where if I somebody that I know who is frail 1:37:04.840 --> 1:37:09.200 and fragile, somebody that I have embraced as an association 1:37:09.320 --> 1:37:12.800 and even sometimes as a patient, they'll come in and 1:37:12.840 --> 1:37:16.479 they're frightened within their lives and they're shaking in the 1:37:16.479 --> 1:37:19.840 whole nine yards and you know they don't know what 1:37:19.960 --> 1:37:20.320 to do. 1:37:20.640 --> 1:37:22.040 It's a life sentence for them. 1:37:22.120 --> 1:37:23.680 And I'll say to you, you know, I have a 1:37:23.720 --> 1:37:27.800 really good friend who has walked through this walk. You know, 1:37:28.080 --> 1:37:31.519 I met her under this circumstances. 1:37:32.000 --> 1:37:34.320 If you want to speak. 1:37:34.040 --> 1:37:36.519 With her, I know that she'd be willing to speak 1:37:36.560 --> 1:37:37.320 with you. 1:37:37.320 --> 1:37:38.240 You just let me know. 1:37:38.720 --> 1:37:43.160 I'll do a phone call, you know, a conference call 1:37:43.240 --> 1:37:45.720 between the two of you, and then you guys, you know, 1:37:46.040 --> 1:37:50.080 you go from there. And so that's usually how we've 1:37:50.120 --> 1:37:52.759 worked it out over the years. And it doesn't matter, 1:37:53.200 --> 1:37:55.400 you know, if it's two, three o'clock in the morning, 1:37:55.560 --> 1:38:00.440 she's up sleep, because I say. 1:38:00.240 --> 1:38:01.880 Sleeps at five o'clock every day. 1:38:01.960 --> 1:38:04.559 But my girlfriend had said to me, because I went 1:38:04.640 --> 1:38:08.400 with someone with every chemo treatment, I was sitting there 1:38:08.439 --> 1:38:11.240 with my arm next to their arm, and she said, 1:38:11.760 --> 1:38:15.040 she said, why do you give so much of yourself? 1:38:15.520 --> 1:38:18.200 I said, because I don't see it as that. 1:38:23.720 --> 1:38:31.800 So and another thing I wanted to say is a 1:38:31.840 --> 1:38:40.520 lot of times there are those those mistruths and stewelies 1:38:40.560 --> 1:38:45.360 that go out there. Somebody's been diagnosed with breast cancer, 1:38:45.479 --> 1:38:48.200 somebody who has not been through themselves and have not 1:38:48.320 --> 1:38:49.080 locked the path. 1:38:49.560 --> 1:38:53.720 They'll say, oh, my cousin, I remember when she was 1:38:53.800 --> 1:38:55.200 diagnosed with breast cancer. 1:38:55.479 --> 1:38:58.320 As soon as they opened her up under the mile 1:38:58.439 --> 1:39:00.920 it's reread anywhere, so don't happen to you. 1:39:01.200 --> 1:39:02.639 Well, you've not watched that walk. 1:39:03.520 --> 1:39:06.400 This is something you heard somebody from down the way 1:39:06.640 --> 1:39:10.679 twenty five thirty years ago who played the telephone game 1:39:10.720 --> 1:39:14.599 and got the message all twisted. Because that's not that 1:39:14.680 --> 1:39:17.280 was not the conversation. That was just the pieces that 1:39:17.400 --> 1:39:18.080 you picked up. 1:39:18.479 --> 1:39:22.680 And you have no idea how that will turn somebody 1:39:23.040 --> 1:39:27.760 into fear into isolation. They may be stage zero. 1:39:27.680 --> 1:39:30.599 Or stage one diagnoses, but then when they come around 1:39:30.640 --> 1:39:34.080 and get the courage because somebody's mama for twenty years 1:39:34.080 --> 1:39:37.479 ago had breast cancer and somebody opened them up, and 1:39:37.520 --> 1:39:40.080 it's spread everywhere, which is not the truth. It's probably 1:39:40.120 --> 1:39:45.240 already everywhere before they have surgery. So then now you know, 1:39:45.360 --> 1:39:49.360 five six years later, here they are. Now it's metestasized 1:39:49.400 --> 1:39:53.160 to every organ and every part of their body because 1:39:53.240 --> 1:39:56.080 they've been told by their friend that twenty years ago, 1:39:56.200 --> 1:39:59.920 when their cousin mama's sister was opened up, it went everywhere. 1:40:00.200 --> 1:40:03.160 And so now you're here nine months later and the 1:40:03.240 --> 1:40:05.400 cancer is all around your lymph nose. 1:40:05.280 --> 1:40:05.479 And you. 1:40:07.760 --> 1:40:08.880 In your bone. 1:40:08.760 --> 1:40:14.000 And your laments, your bones, your your nerves, and it's 1:40:14.080 --> 1:40:17.520 just wrapped around it, and now nine months later. 1:40:18.600 --> 1:40:25.280 Surgically there's nothing that can be done, and radiation there's 1:40:25.320 --> 1:40:29.920 nothing that can be done. They can offer you chemo, but. 1:40:30.000 --> 1:40:30.680 That's just. 1:40:33.120 --> 1:40:33.800 Shooting it off. 1:40:34.000 --> 1:40:37.280 They extend your life for maybe another month or so 1:40:37.760 --> 1:40:39.639 until they get to the point of where they said, 1:40:39.920 --> 1:40:41.360 we've done everything we can do. 1:40:41.680 --> 1:40:44.680 So now it's quality of life. Quality of life is 1:40:44.720 --> 1:40:45.400 hospitals care. 1:40:46.520 --> 1:40:48.719 So let me ask you this. Now, you talked about 1:40:48.760 --> 1:40:52.040 the whole notion of the telephone game. I don't know 1:40:52.040 --> 1:40:54.360 if it's a thing with an older generation, and I'm 1:40:54.400 --> 1:40:57.360 just speaking from my experience with my family not to 1:40:57.400 --> 1:40:59.880 call my out genie out like that, but call around. 1:41:00.040 --> 1:41:02.880 It's because we gotta keep it real. What is this 1:41:03.080 --> 1:41:08.160 notion of not being transparent with the doctor, feeling as 1:41:08.240 --> 1:41:10.479 though if I share the information with the doctor, oh, 1:41:10.520 --> 1:41:12.080 they just gonna tell me some because they're trying to 1:41:12.120 --> 1:41:16.280 make the money. How do you feel about transparency when 1:41:16.760 --> 1:41:19.000 when it comes to dealing with your doctor, should you 1:41:19.040 --> 1:41:21.639 tell them everything? Should you hold it back and wait 1:41:21.680 --> 1:41:24.800 for them to discover? What do you do well? 1:41:24.880 --> 1:41:25.720 The only way that. 1:41:25.680 --> 1:41:28.439 They can give you a diagnosis is based on their resource, 1:41:28.720 --> 1:41:30.360 based on the information that you share. 1:41:31.400 --> 1:41:35.800 That's just like with anything. If I came to you 1:41:35.840 --> 1:41:37.599 and said, don I want to start a. 1:41:37.600 --> 1:41:42.360 Podcast and you say, okay, do you have an LFC? 1:41:43.240 --> 1:41:46.840 No? Do you have a microphone at least? Well, yeah, 1:41:46.840 --> 1:41:47.280 I have a. 1:41:47.280 --> 1:41:50.880 Microphone from what type of microphone isn't And then you 1:41:51.000 --> 1:41:53.559 tell me I asked or whatever, Well, there's no way 1:41:53.680 --> 1:41:56.280 we can start, like you said, with your covers and 1:41:56.320 --> 1:41:59.679 you had your microphone. If you didn't have your blanket 1:41:59.720 --> 1:42:02.760 and your comforter and your microphone, you wouldn't be able 1:42:02.800 --> 1:42:03.680 to get to where you. 1:42:03.680 --> 1:42:06.040 Are right now. So it is. 1:42:07.560 --> 1:42:12.439 The more you share with your healthcare professional position that 1:42:12.800 --> 1:42:16.280 you feel confident with, because there are a lot out 1:42:16.320 --> 1:42:20.080 there that you may not feel confident with because you 1:42:20.160 --> 1:42:23.479 become a number or you become you know that fifteen 1:42:23.560 --> 1:42:26.160 minutes is a billable You know. 1:42:28.800 --> 1:42:29.960 It's a billable charge. 1:42:30.000 --> 1:42:33.160 So if you're now going into the twenty minute mark, 1:42:33.280 --> 1:42:34.679 then not become something different. 1:42:34.680 --> 1:42:37.679 So you know, you've got to be an advocate for yourself. 1:42:37.760 --> 1:42:39.240 You've got to find an advocate. 1:42:39.760 --> 1:42:42.519 You've got to be transparent, You've got to be a 1:42:42.680 --> 1:42:48.200 great historian your own personal history and then whatever history 1:42:48.280 --> 1:42:53.880 you know from other family members, because genetics makes the difference. 1:42:54.400 --> 1:42:56.559 Genetics, your pedigree, your chart. 1:42:56.880 --> 1:43:01.160 Grandma was diagnosed in you know, nineteen six, and then 1:43:01.840 --> 1:43:03.080 grand Mama wasn't. 1:43:03.439 --> 1:43:06.200 But here I am so eskipped the generation. 1:43:06.720 --> 1:43:10.120 The more that the physician knows that your family history, 1:43:10.760 --> 1:43:16.080 the better your chances are are the better resources that 1:43:16.120 --> 1:43:19.080 physician has in order to get to where you need 1:43:19.160 --> 1:43:21.800 to be with the medications and your treatments and all 1:43:22.000 --> 1:43:24.559 the more. Whatever you hold back, they can't give you 1:43:24.600 --> 1:43:29.000 any information or any type of medication if you're holding 1:43:29.040 --> 1:43:32.040 back information, Just like the clusters you're on. 1:43:32.640 --> 1:43:34.559 You go in, she said, they say, well, how long 1:43:34.600 --> 1:43:35.639 have you had the headache? 1:43:35.720 --> 1:43:35.880 Oh? 1:43:36.040 --> 1:43:36.559 Just a month? 1:43:36.680 --> 1:43:39.640 But she's been suffering for five years. Yeah, why are 1:43:39.720 --> 1:43:42.559 you holding on to what you've experienced five years ago? 1:43:42.600 --> 1:43:43.840 And you're telling her a month? 1:43:44.000 --> 1:43:46.320 So now they're going to treat you as this is 1:43:46.360 --> 1:43:50.280 a new diagnosis, not that this is a long standing 1:43:50.520 --> 1:43:53.960 diagnoses that you've been dealing with for five years. Okay, 1:43:54.120 --> 1:43:56.760 So with that five years, there have been some other 1:43:56.840 --> 1:43:59.040 things that have taken place in your. 1:43:58.880 --> 1:44:01.760 Body because you've been dealing with us for five years. 1:44:01.880 --> 1:44:05.280 Not one month, gotcha? And I know we've been talking 1:44:05.320 --> 1:44:07.160 for a bit, but this stuff is just so important 1:44:07.160 --> 1:44:10.320 as I realized information or resources that I didn't know. 1:44:11.479 --> 1:44:13.840 If you are having an issue with your doctor, I've 1:44:13.840 --> 1:44:16.400 been in situations where I'm asking the doctor questions and 1:44:16.400 --> 1:44:19.120 it's almost like you taking a defense that I care 1:44:19.160 --> 1:44:22.400 about my body. I'm not saying that you're wrong. I'm 1:44:22.439 --> 1:44:24.280 asking because I need to understand. 1:44:25.080 --> 1:44:27.360 This is this is this is just what I was 1:44:27.400 --> 1:44:30.440 about to hear on I watched. 1:44:30.120 --> 1:44:33.160 The interaction between the patient and the doctor. 1:44:33.439 --> 1:44:38.719 Older lady and he's talking here medically like he's talking 1:44:38.760 --> 1:44:43.280 to his friends, his coworkers, and she's like, yes, yes, sir, 1:44:43.439 --> 1:44:46.200 uh huh, okay, thank you. So I watched him walk 1:44:46.200 --> 1:44:46.720 out of the room. 1:44:47.080 --> 1:44:50.160 I said, do you know what he said? And she 1:44:50.400 --> 1:44:53.880 just kind of smiled. I said, do you know what's wrong? 1:44:55.120 --> 1:44:57.720 She just smiled. I said, you have an ulcer? 1:44:58.560 --> 1:45:02.800 She said, why didn't he say, aw, sir, Well, he's 1:45:02.960 --> 1:45:06.280 used to talking to doctor X y Z. 1:45:07.240 --> 1:45:08.960 So they're talking, they targe. 1:45:08.760 --> 1:45:13.000 Nurse or nurse, and I say, because it's my thing, 1:45:13.600 --> 1:45:14.880 I'll listen to them. 1:45:14.880 --> 1:45:18.439 And I'm like, sir, with all due respect, they know 1:45:18.560 --> 1:45:18.880 me now. 1:45:18.960 --> 1:45:21.479 They're like Chandra, if you say it with all due respect, 1:45:22.320 --> 1:45:25.599 everything's about to hit the fan. But I'm like, I 1:45:25.640 --> 1:45:28.639 can follow with you, but when I can't, I'm gonna 1:45:28.680 --> 1:45:30.000 need you to break that down. 1:45:30.880 --> 1:45:31.400 Oh wow. 1:45:32.120 --> 1:45:37.200 When I had cancer the first time I was, there 1:45:37.200 --> 1:45:42.920 are certain markers on estrogen receptor site positive extragen receptor 1:45:42.960 --> 1:45:43.679 site negative. 1:45:44.080 --> 1:45:46.280 I don't want to go into all of that, but. 1:45:47.840 --> 1:45:51.839 When I first got diagnosed, I believe I was extragen 1:45:51.880 --> 1:45:59.120 receptor site negative. When the cancer came back, the doctor said, 1:45:59.640 --> 1:46:02.680 all right, Fitzpatrick, you know what time it is. You 1:46:02.760 --> 1:46:05.519 know we're gonna do this. I said, okay. He said, 1:46:05.840 --> 1:46:09.840 s your receptor sy positive? I said hum. He said 1:46:10.080 --> 1:46:12.839 why did you say that? I said, because the first 1:46:12.920 --> 1:46:16.719 cancer was negative. He said, are you sure? I said, 1:46:16.760 --> 1:46:20.120 go check it. You gotta be diligent too, You gotta 1:46:20.240 --> 1:46:23.040 this is your body. You gotta listen to what's going on. 1:46:23.680 --> 1:46:27.679 So he came back and he said, good. 1:46:27.880 --> 1:46:32.320 Find that was good. He's a wonderful doctor. He's a 1:46:32.360 --> 1:46:36.000 wonderful doctor, and I know he's got a thousand patients. 1:46:36.439 --> 1:46:39.360 He said, you're absolutely right. Do you know what that means? 1:46:39.680 --> 1:46:42.840 I said, yeah, I got a new primary in the 1:46:42.920 --> 1:46:47.280 same breast, so it's not like it's metastasized, so they 1:46:47.280 --> 1:46:51.720 don't have to go so radical with me. You've got 1:46:51.720 --> 1:46:55.200 two different cancers in the same breast, so there are 1:46:55.200 --> 1:46:56.000 two primaries. 1:46:56.040 --> 1:46:57.639 We can treat them and say both new. 1:46:58.320 --> 1:47:01.560 But what that means we have to remove that breast 1:47:02.000 --> 1:47:06.839 because now you've got two primaries different types of cancer breast, 1:47:07.439 --> 1:47:08.919 but different types of cancer. 1:47:09.240 --> 1:47:10.920 So now we cannot treat. 1:47:10.680 --> 1:47:14.440 That breath and it's different types of cancer, two different locations. 1:47:14.760 --> 1:47:16.080 We have to eradicate it. 1:47:16.320 --> 1:47:18.360 So I wonder if that happened with my mom because 1:47:18.680 --> 1:47:21.559 she had looked ucto me. Did I say that right? 1:47:23.880 --> 1:47:26.880 And then I don't What is the myomectomy? Why is 1:47:26.880 --> 1:47:27.400 that term? Is? 1:47:27.439 --> 1:47:30.640 That's what my mectamy is to reduce the size of 1:47:30.680 --> 1:47:34.200 your breast, So that is that's something you choose to 1:47:34.240 --> 1:47:37.080 do because if you have big breast and they're too 1:47:37.080 --> 1:47:40.280 heavy or whatever, myomectamy small and okay. 1:47:41.000 --> 1:47:44.639 To do with cancer is aesthetics. 1:47:44.520 --> 1:47:47.800 Is aesthetics okay? And so she has a lumped me 1:47:48.400 --> 1:47:48.880 my mother. 1:47:48.880 --> 1:47:53.639 Had that based on cancer or family history of cancer. 1:47:53.960 --> 1:47:56.479 Masectic maseectomy means to. 1:47:57.040 --> 1:47:59.720 Remove to a take out the breast issue. 1:47:59.479 --> 1:48:00.559 The breast tissue. 1:48:00.680 --> 1:48:03.799 Yeah, exactly, and sometimes that's done in order to lessen 1:48:03.840 --> 1:48:07.000 your chances of it coming back. Right. I believe Angelina 1:48:07.040 --> 1:48:07.880 Jolie did that. 1:48:08.560 --> 1:48:12.960 Yeah, I have found that Angelina Joe Lee was high risk. 1:48:13.200 --> 1:48:13.920 She didn't have. 1:48:13.880 --> 1:48:15.759 Cancer right right, But I'm as a prevention. 1:48:16.000 --> 1:48:24.560 Yeah, so it was prevention. But it doesn't mean that it. 1:48:22.040 --> 1:48:25.599 It doesn't mean that she can't be diagnosed with breast 1:48:25.600 --> 1:48:28.280 cancer because she took away the breast tissue. 1:48:28.960 --> 1:48:31.000 She could still get breast. 1:48:30.600 --> 1:48:34.400 So a lot of these celebrities, because they have family history, 1:48:34.439 --> 1:48:36.479 they don't themselves have breast cancer. 1:48:36.720 --> 1:48:38.120 They come around this time. 1:48:37.920 --> 1:48:40.360 Of year or whatever the big hot I had a 1:48:40.479 --> 1:48:44.000 masectomy because I was at his high risk, or I was. 1:48:45.600 --> 1:48:49.120 I was high risk, or there was a question. 1:48:49.240 --> 1:48:52.639 So I just had a complete masectomy and I had, 1:48:53.360 --> 1:48:57.320 you know, tissue from my abdomen or from my buttocks 1:48:57.439 --> 1:49:03.080 or implants place to let's in my wrisk. Well with 1:49:03.200 --> 1:49:05.880 the implants, cancer can hide behind there. 1:49:06.080 --> 1:49:09.960 Oh my gosh, you got a chest wall, just like 1:49:10.000 --> 1:49:12.960 how do you think men are diagnosed with breast cancer. 1:49:13.040 --> 1:49:16.800 They don't have breasts, they have chest. 1:49:17.120 --> 1:49:19.120 And it's at the chest wall, so it doesn't have 1:49:19.200 --> 1:49:23.000 to be what's protruding out from your chest wall, your breast. 1:49:23.600 --> 1:49:26.759 It could be your actual trust itself. Just like Chauldren. 1:49:26.800 --> 1:49:30.120 The second time, it was in between her breast, that's 1:49:30.200 --> 1:49:32.320 all my I'm so to believe it. 1:49:32.439 --> 1:49:34.800 The third time what they had to do. But I 1:49:34.880 --> 1:49:41.120 have found that women have started prophylactically getting double mistectomies 1:49:41.280 --> 1:49:43.400 because they don't even want to be bothered. They said, 1:49:43.400 --> 1:49:47.240 I've had my children, I'm married, I've had my children. 1:49:47.360 --> 1:49:50.040 I don't need these, and if my mom and sister 1:49:50.160 --> 1:49:51.719 had it, I don't want to take a chance. 1:49:51.880 --> 1:49:53.200 Just take the breast. 1:49:54.000 --> 1:49:58.400 I'm like, okay, but that doesn't eradicate anything. 1:49:59.120 --> 1:50:01.599 This is my sister's. My mother had a mass sectomy. 1:50:01.840 --> 1:50:07.000 Yes sect They did a circular cut, opened it up, 1:50:07.120 --> 1:50:10.840 took out the bad tissue, closed it back up. Made 1:50:10.880 --> 1:50:16.000 these two match and took some there's some shallow ye 1:50:16.280 --> 1:50:20.240 tell me? Yeah, n breast developed from her. I'm trying 1:50:20.240 --> 1:50:25.760 to think as a tram flat tram flat, yeah, wow. 1:50:26.320 --> 1:50:29.320 So they took they took fat off my stomach, and 1:50:29.400 --> 1:50:31.599 so I had a flat stomach and two perky breasts 1:50:31.600 --> 1:50:32.080 when they. 1:50:31.920 --> 1:50:36.559 Got through, and you got your life and I got. 1:50:36.400 --> 1:50:42.599 My life and the nipples. Yeah, it's come a long way. 1:50:42.960 --> 1:50:45.559 It's come a long way from what they used to 1:50:45.600 --> 1:50:49.880 do because in insurance wise, they make a. 1:50:49.960 --> 1:50:53.000 Match whereas they used to just take the breast off 1:50:53.000 --> 1:50:54.040 and you would be kind of. 1:50:54.040 --> 1:50:58.080 Locked or that you would have to have an implant 1:50:56.640 --> 1:51:02.559 prosthetic breast where they put this insert just like you 1:51:02.600 --> 1:51:06.439 know the T shirt bras that we wear and they 1:51:06.439 --> 1:51:08.240 have the little inserts to kind. 1:51:08.040 --> 1:51:11.040 Of make you eating or whatever. Well, they have one 1:51:11.120 --> 1:51:19.880 that's uh that's made of uh sellup. What do you 1:51:19.920 --> 1:51:24.679 call it? Not sello fane? What is it called nostyl 1:51:25.840 --> 1:51:30.560 from uh silicon? Silicon? There you go, a silicon. 1:51:30.800 --> 1:51:34.120 They have the silicones that they place inside the gummies 1:51:34.560 --> 1:51:37.200 or the ones that fit into your bra. Well, the 1:51:37.240 --> 1:51:40.080 ones that they fit into your bra they could be 1:51:41.400 --> 1:51:44.880 two to five pounds, depends on what cut side you were, 1:51:45.160 --> 1:51:48.240 so that could be very heavy slubbing. 1:51:47.800 --> 1:51:52.040 This thing around. So some people say, look forget it. 1:51:52.080 --> 1:51:54.160 I don't want anything. I came in with nothing. 1:51:54.400 --> 1:51:57.679 I don't want nothing other people body image or whatever 1:51:57.760 --> 1:51:59.720 the case may be. Yes, go ahead, give me the 1:51:59.760 --> 1:52:02.720 gum beers which ones letting men, that's another thing you 1:52:02.720 --> 1:52:07.080 got to research which ones have been recalled from a company, 1:52:07.320 --> 1:52:10.519 you know, because at one time Johnson and Johnson, their 1:52:12.160 --> 1:52:16.439 breast implants were leaky. So then you've had the solution 1:52:16.880 --> 1:52:21.000 from the sailine that's leaking into your body, that's absorbed 1:52:21.000 --> 1:52:24.360 into your blood stream, and that brings a whole another problem. 1:52:24.479 --> 1:52:29.160 So anyway, for yourself, you got to know what you're doing. 1:52:29.400 --> 1:52:32.920 You got up lock in with somebody who's been through 1:52:33.320 --> 1:52:35.920 so that they can walk with you and tell you 1:52:36.120 --> 1:52:38.000 what their experience was. 1:52:38.000 --> 1:52:40.479 It doesn't mean that her experience is going. 1:52:40.479 --> 1:52:43.000 To be my experience, but at least I know she's 1:52:43.080 --> 1:52:45.800 walked through three times as opposed to come on to 1:52:45.880 --> 1:52:48.560 a friend whose mama's grandmother. 1:52:48.720 --> 1:52:51.640 Back in the day when they opened them up, it 1:52:51.760 --> 1:52:53.840 went everywhere and they had to close them up. 1:52:53.840 --> 1:52:55.479 As soon as they close them up, they died on 1:52:55.520 --> 1:53:00.639 the beer. And so those you've got to eat what's. 1:53:00.400 --> 1:53:02.960 Your plenty in because what you get out get out 1:53:03.200 --> 1:53:07.320 come on. I think that's the word. I mean, we 1:53:07.320 --> 1:53:09.240 we so much. We could have gotten too, but I 1:53:09.280 --> 1:53:10.760 know that we have been on for a bed and 1:53:10.800 --> 1:53:13.280 I want to thank you for your time, especially because 1:53:13.320 --> 1:53:14.920 I know Misscheanda you said that you go to bed 1:53:14.920 --> 1:53:17.000 at five o'clock. We all had. 1:53:17.560 --> 1:53:19.200 I was looking, I'm like, oh, I'm. 1:53:19.080 --> 1:53:23.360 Two hours was a bed at five because she's up 1:53:23.400 --> 1:53:23.800 at one? 1:53:23.920 --> 1:53:28.040 Like it's oh my god. When I was hosting the 1:53:28.160 --> 1:53:31.080 FM dow front page, a lot of my listeners will 1:53:31.120 --> 1:53:33.040 be up in perky at two o'clock in the morning, 1:53:33.080 --> 1:53:37.639 I said, what are you doing? Wing? What is going on? 1:53:38.720 --> 1:53:40.000 I at early? 1:53:40.200 --> 1:53:45.519 So I'm always I'm always up, my eyes open about one. 1:53:45.439 --> 1:53:50.000 Thirty two o'clock, closed around five in the afternoon. 1:53:51.720 --> 1:53:55.600 Oh my goodness, so thank you so much. You know, 1:53:55.640 --> 1:53:58.200 what I got from this conversation is one you gotta 1:53:58.240 --> 1:54:01.240 have faith, and that's simple, having faith in which you 1:54:01.280 --> 1:54:04.520 cannot see. What do you believe over yourself? Being cognizant 1:54:04.520 --> 1:54:06.920 of what you speak over yourself and also what you 1:54:06.960 --> 1:54:09.920 put over yourself? What are you allowing in yourself and 1:54:09.920 --> 1:54:13.160 what to surround yourself with. I never really thought about 1:54:13.200 --> 1:54:15.240 what you meant when you said the environment. But that 1:54:15.320 --> 1:54:18.320 includes people as well, food as. 1:54:18.120 --> 1:54:28.240 Well, information, that box you know, that television, that social media, 1:54:28.600 --> 1:54:29.600 all that stuff. 1:54:29.360 --> 1:54:33.000 That's like guardiage. Yeah, you know, so you gotta be careful. 1:54:36.000 --> 1:54:38.560 Good stuff in, good stuff out. 1:54:38.600 --> 1:54:44.320 Well, I'm telling you that well, I said, from this conversation, 1:54:44.480 --> 1:54:46.600 I definitely feel as though I got some good stuff in. 1:54:46.760 --> 1:54:49.840 And I know for certain just that we got in 1:54:49.840 --> 1:54:51.880 the comments that we've gotten some good stuff out and 1:54:51.880 --> 1:54:54.440 it couldn't come forward unless you all had taken a 1:54:54.520 --> 1:54:57.240 chance to step up, to show up and show out 1:54:57.400 --> 1:55:00.640 and shed light pun intended, because this is vitamin D 1:55:01.200 --> 1:55:03.600 on what really matters to the heart. And that's what 1:55:03.640 --> 1:55:07.720 I said and each other. Before you get out of here, 1:55:07.840 --> 1:55:10.520 is there any just even if someone is just now 1:55:10.560 --> 1:55:13.040 stepping in, is there a resource or information that you 1:55:13.080 --> 1:55:16.720 can provide whether somebody needs some financial assistance. Because my 1:55:16.800 --> 1:55:18.960 mom I didn't think about it, luckily, I guess the 1:55:19.000 --> 1:55:21.840 insurance or whatever she had set up. There was a 1:55:21.880 --> 1:55:24.440 time that my mother couldn't be in our own home, 1:55:24.480 --> 1:55:26.520 whether it was because the dog was there, if there 1:55:26.600 --> 1:55:30.839 was some sports, just stuff, and it's just like fortunately 1:55:30.880 --> 1:55:32.960 we were able to stay in a hotel. I know 1:55:33.000 --> 1:55:36.760 there's organizations that actually help families, whether it's a mother 1:55:36.840 --> 1:55:38.440 or I guess in some case a father that may 1:55:38.480 --> 1:55:41.960 have breast cancer that helps with funding. Any information that 1:55:42.040 --> 1:55:43.800 you can provide before we head out of here. 1:55:47.520 --> 1:55:51.440 So there's so many different organizations that are available to you. 1:55:51.480 --> 1:55:52.440 There are a lot of. 1:55:52.440 --> 1:55:56.880 Different hospitals that operate on a sliding scale, so you 1:55:57.040 --> 1:56:00.120 just have to ask. Not all of them, but there 1:56:00.200 --> 1:56:05.240 are some that have funding that have been offered to them, 1:56:05.920 --> 1:56:11.320 you know as a perpetual gift or you know, a donation. 1:56:11.080 --> 1:56:13.080 Of some sort. So you just have to ask. 1:56:14.520 --> 1:56:20.720 Secondly, Secondly, you have to make sure you're insured. There's 1:56:20.760 --> 1:56:24.680 no reason why anybody should not be insured. Nobody, even 1:56:24.880 --> 1:56:28.480 someone who is you know, houseless right now, because there's 1:56:28.520 --> 1:56:29.720 all kinds of plans out. 1:56:29.560 --> 1:56:35.200 There is you know, you go through your social service department. 1:56:36.960 --> 1:56:42.600 I will say what I have to say offline dong 1:56:43.120 --> 1:56:45.640 and you can share later on if you choose to. 1:56:46.920 --> 1:56:50.040 There are facilities that you can go to and tell 1:56:50.080 --> 1:56:52.760 them what's going on, and they cannot refuse your medical care. 1:56:53.920 --> 1:56:56.920 They cannot pull up family get ready because you know, 1:56:56.960 --> 1:57:01.360 I'm sharing it. My sister just posted there was an 1:57:01.440 --> 1:57:04.400 organization that she used to work for, entitle, the Pink Fund, 1:57:04.600 --> 1:57:07.480 and a national organization that will help with funding, help 1:57:07.520 --> 1:57:09.040 with resources and all that. 1:57:09.800 --> 1:57:14.440 Yeah, like any major medical facility that has a breast 1:57:14.560 --> 1:57:18.920 cancer facility or connection to there are resources. 1:57:19.040 --> 1:57:20.080 You just have to ask. 1:57:20.520 --> 1:57:22.680 Closed mouths don't get fans, so have. 1:57:23.320 --> 1:57:27.360 They also have social workers that will get you connected 1:57:27.440 --> 1:57:32.240 with medical care, be it you know, some of the 1:57:32.400 --> 1:57:36.360 HMOs that are signed to a certain area or whatever case. 1:57:36.560 --> 1:57:38.160 There are resources out there. 1:57:38.360 --> 1:57:41.920 You just have to ask for it and not be 1:57:41.960 --> 1:57:46.520 prideful in asking for it. The thing is is that 1:57:47.080 --> 1:57:50.880 there's somebody to help you in every industry and everywhere. 1:57:51.080 --> 1:57:54.800 Come on, you just have to ask, and you know 1:57:54.880 --> 1:57:57.160 you might get a you know, two no's or whatever, 1:57:57.200 --> 1:57:59.200 but that one yes is the yes that you know 1:57:59.560 --> 1:58:03.040 you need to get you to the next step. Environment 1:58:04.080 --> 1:58:11.800 stain hydrated, stain hydrated, stay hydrated, and then also making 1:58:11.840 --> 1:58:14.880 sure that you as much as you can within your 1:58:14.920 --> 1:58:18.600 own power to keep your stress level as low as 1:58:18.600 --> 1:58:22.280 you possibly can. Now, some people are trying on drama 1:58:23.120 --> 1:58:24.360 and that's how they operate. 1:58:24.600 --> 1:58:27.360 If it doesn't any other way, that's. 1:58:27.200 --> 1:58:31.200 How they operate. They function and trauma and drama. That's 1:58:31.280 --> 1:58:34.720 not my case, that's not my story. But what I 1:58:34.760 --> 1:58:35.560 can to you. 1:58:35.560 --> 1:58:39.640 Is trauma drama as on to the dis ease in 1:58:39.720 --> 1:58:40.600 your body. 1:58:40.600 --> 1:58:44.440 The disease, because if it doesn't serve you, it doesn't 1:58:44.480 --> 1:58:49.680 deserve you catch it. Catch it well, catch this ladies. 1:58:50.000 --> 1:58:52.360 Thank you so much. I don't know. We didn't talk 1:58:52.400 --> 1:58:54.760 about it. So if you just don't say nothing, that's 1:58:54.800 --> 1:58:57.760 fine too. I don't know if you open if people 1:58:57.800 --> 1:59:00.720 can check you out on any social media, or if 1:59:00.760 --> 1:59:03.880 there's any way if somebody has a question that they 1:59:03.880 --> 1:59:06.080 can follow up. Is there any information you would like 1:59:06.160 --> 1:59:08.680 to share an email? I don't know. I'm just putting 1:59:08.680 --> 1:59:09.120 it out there. 1:59:10.120 --> 1:59:12.040 Okay, we can do that. 1:59:12.840 --> 1:59:13.720 You want to say it now? 1:59:13.840 --> 1:59:15.600 Or oh can I say it? 1:59:15.920 --> 1:59:16.120 Yeah? 1:59:16.200 --> 1:59:16.760 I'm gonn write it? 1:59:16.800 --> 1:59:23.120 Not yeah, okay? In frank D, isn't David? Isn't that Edward? 1:59:23.480 --> 1:59:30.200 And isn't Nancy? Isn't Apple? Isn't Edward? At gmail dot com. 1:59:30.440 --> 1:59:37.600 Three time cancer survivor Chandra Fitzpatrick has said, if you 1:59:37.800 --> 1:59:41.680 have any concerns, if you have any questions, if you 1:59:41.800 --> 1:59:45.360 need any resources, to pull up on me. Her email 1:59:45.440 --> 1:59:48.480 is fis in Frank D isn' day? He is an elephant, 1:59:48.480 --> 1:59:50.120 and is in Nancy A is an apple? He is 1:59:50.160 --> 1:59:54.760 an elephant at gmail dot com. Closemouths, don't get fed, 1:59:56.760 --> 1:59:59.160 Just pull up and choose your life. All right, Well, 1:59:59.160 --> 2:00:01.160 thank you so much. Is there anything else. 2:00:01.440 --> 2:00:04.840 If you contact her and she needs to be there 2:00:04.920 --> 2:00:07.960 to be an advocate for you, she knows exactly how 2:00:08.000 --> 2:00:10.120 to get to me. Because I work for a major 2:00:10.200 --> 2:00:14.040 medical facility. Without getting their permission first, I cannot put 2:00:14.080 --> 2:00:15.000 out that information. 2:00:15.360 --> 2:00:18.200 But if you pull up on Chandra, she'll pull up 2:00:18.240 --> 2:00:18.840 on Hey. 2:00:19.000 --> 2:00:21.520 You better catch it. Because each one reach one, because 2:00:21.560 --> 2:00:23.600 each one don't teach one, all right. 2:00:24.640 --> 2:00:28.680 I believe that right, each one help one. Thank you 2:00:29.160 --> 2:00:31.000 if you were going to get all this content and 2:00:31.080 --> 2:00:31.880 information when. 2:00:31.760 --> 2:00:34.280 We met on Saturday, and I did not, all I 2:00:34.320 --> 2:00:36.920 knew was I was hongry, and somebody said they didn't 2:00:36.920 --> 2:00:38.960 need gluten free and I was like, well, where's the 2:00:39.000 --> 2:00:44.880 next thing for me? We are getting so many thank 2:00:44.920 --> 2:00:48.160 yous ms. Maya said thank you, Latasha said thank you, 2:00:48.480 --> 2:00:50.880 thank you so much for making room for showing up. 2:00:51.320 --> 2:00:54.200 And you know, little Dawn inside right now is smiling 2:00:54.640 --> 2:00:57.040 because you know that there's certain people that's gonna look 2:00:57.040 --> 2:00:59.640 out for the little Dawns and the little Charlotte's and 2:00:59.680 --> 2:01:03.080 the little Chandra's as well as the little chance who 2:01:03.120 --> 2:01:06.320 have all been affected by cancer some way somehow. So 2:01:06.480 --> 2:01:09.680 I say thank you, and I applaud you, Thank. 2:01:09.480 --> 2:01:13.480 You, Lord, you thank you for this opportunity, thank you 2:01:13.560 --> 2:01:17.240 for being here, thank you for the choice encounter. And 2:01:17.320 --> 2:01:20.760 I think all of your listeners, the ones that are 2:01:20.760 --> 2:01:25.160 here now, the ones that will come absolutely. 2:01:24.880 --> 2:01:25.720 And listen later. 2:01:25.920 --> 2:01:28.480 Yes, and just one thing we have to say to you, 2:01:28.600 --> 2:01:32.760 miss Daal, when you reach the pinnacle and you break 2:01:32.840 --> 2:01:36.160 that glass, don't forget about. 2:01:36.080 --> 2:01:37.240 Yeah, I hope. 2:01:39.080 --> 2:01:42.680 No. Thank you so much, ladies, have a great night. 2:01:43.640 --> 2:01:45.600 Thank you. 2:01:45.960 --> 2:01:48.760 I hope you were inspired by this conversation like I was. 2:01:49.400 --> 2:01:51.839 I hope you realize that you are. You have survived 2:01:51.880 --> 2:01:55.040 one of the worst days of your life. I hope 2:01:55.080 --> 2:01:57.280 you realize that you can't fail if you don't quit, 2:01:57.320 --> 2:01:59.040 and if you can look up, you can get up. 2:02:01.360 --> 2:02:06.640 Believe in yourself, protect yourself, don't stress yourself out because 2:02:06.680 --> 2:02:09.280 if it doesn't serve you, and then it doesn't deserve you. 2:02:09.640 --> 2:02:11.880 If you need any more information or resources, I want 2:02:11.920 --> 2:02:13.920 to open up my email address once again for you 2:02:14.000 --> 2:02:16.520 to send an email to me and contact me Vitamin 2:02:16.560 --> 2:02:19.280 d at Dawn dai speaks dot com. And if this 2:02:19.400 --> 2:02:22.800 conversation moved you any clippers, can you tell somebody to 2:02:22.840 --> 2:02:25.480 tell somebody else that Dawn got a podcast. It is 2:02:25.600 --> 2:02:28.200 entitled vitamin D and with shedding lights so that you 2:02:28.240 --> 2:02:30.560 can be better, so that you can do better. 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