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Speaker 1: Second Date, up Date. We have a textboard at seventy

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Speaker 1: eight five nine two where listeners can send text into

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Speaker 1: our show, and unfortunately sometimes we do have to block

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Speaker 1: people if they cross the line with us.

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Speaker 2: It's been so long since I've blocked anyone, though, like

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Speaker 2: I feel like years.

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Speaker 3: Anytime you come out the girls or you're like brook's

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Speaker 3: a B word, you're blocked.

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Speaker 1: Ye okay, only I.

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Speaker 4: Can say that's happening.

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Speaker 3: Because we're blocking.

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Speaker 1: If you're rude to any of us. Blocked, if you

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Speaker 1: criticize our hero of the week because you didn't like

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Speaker 1: my choice, block, if you compliment me and tell me

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Speaker 1: that I'm cute and fancy, blocked. I'm a shy boy.

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Speaker 1: I don't like compliments that come on.

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Speaker 4: Scaring listeners are so nice.

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Speaker 3: We are not.

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Speaker 1: Blocking people too nice if you ask me blocked. That's

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Speaker 1: why one of our listeners, Aaron, reached out to us

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Speaker 1: because he's confused after he got blocked by somebody, and

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Speaker 1: he has no idea. Why aren't fight the.

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Speaker 3: Urge to compliment Jeff or you will be blocked right now.

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Speaker 4: I'm gonna say, was it Jose, Yeah, I'll block you

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Speaker 4: right away.

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Speaker 1: Aaron, what's up?

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Speaker 5: Man.

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Speaker 1: Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey guys, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 3: Don't you talk about about the girls?

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry he called you guys.

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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I didn't care. What is happening, Aaron?

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Speaker 4: How are you doing?

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Speaker 5: Oh? I'm doing good. I'm a little confused as the

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Speaker 5: why I got blocked, but I sold Maybe you guys

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Speaker 3: Oyah, did you say anything mean against people? Blocked? Here?

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Speaker 4: I was taking unsolicited pictures or what? I'm curious are

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Speaker 4: you blocked?

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Speaker 1: Are you talking about text?

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Speaker 4: Social media?

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Speaker 5: Like?

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Speaker 4: What are you blocked on?

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Speaker 3: Good question?

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Speaker 5: She blocked my number? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Oh really personal?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, So tell us about this woman who blocked you.

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Speaker 1: What's her name?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so her name is Jenna Ted. We matched on

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Speaker 5: Hinge and we went on one kind of date.

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Speaker 4: What do you mean kind of date?

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Speaker 2: Was it like one of those pre dates where you

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Speaker 5: So as soon as we matched, we started talking and

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Speaker 5: then we were hanging out like an hour later.

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Speaker 4: What oh, yeah, on the same day that you matched.

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Speaker 5: Yeah. Well, so she told me that she was taking

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Speaker 5: her dog out for a walk, So I said Hey,

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Speaker 5: I haven't got my cardio and yet today. Why don't

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Speaker 5: I come with you and we can just talk?

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Speaker 1: Oh, you yourself to her dog walk?

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Speaker 3: Okay, random, alexis your dog walker with? This be a

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Speaker 3: good date. If a guy was dogs with guys all

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Speaker 3: the time, it was a good good idea.

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Speaker 1: You walk the guys too little lesha on them and

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Speaker 1: oh no, I do make.

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Speaker 3: Them clean up the dog peop.

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Speaker 1: You don't want to do that?

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Speaker 4: For why did Jes look so hopeful when he asked that.

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Speaker 1: I didn't know that that was a service. If it's

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Speaker 1: how did the dog walk go with Jenna?

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Speaker 5: Uh? It was mostly small talk. It was kind of

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Speaker 2: And that's okay, I mean that's to be expected. What

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Speaker 5: I thought I was taking something up?

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 3: She didn't seem like she cut it off, Like how

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Speaker 5: So? Yeah, we were talking about hinge and how are

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Speaker 1: That was that was supposed to be a joke.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I thought it was a joke.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I have so many people in my inbox that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you said it to us. I didn't would have

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Speaker 5: Yeah. See, I maybe I messed up and she just

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Speaker 1: Sure, but that doesn't seem like enough to want to

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Speaker 4: Did things change after that moment?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 5: Not real? It ended not long after that, so I

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Speaker 1: Is it possible that you're just a really slow walker

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Speaker 1: and it pissed her off.

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Speaker 1: Or yeah, you got to match her stride for stride?

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Speaker 2: Just one of those guys who walks in front of

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Speaker 4: It drives me nuts.

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Speaker 1: How's you're walking?

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Speaker 5: I felt like I matched her stride for stride, but

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Speaker 5: I wasn't really focused on that.

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Speaker 1: Okay, let's say you got to pass on the walking.

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Speaker 1: What else could it have been, Brooke?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I'm just wondering when you got blocked, did

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Speaker 2: you like leave the date and immediately she blocked you

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Speaker 2: or was there a couple of texts back and forth beforehand?

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Speaker 5: Question. I tried texting her maybe half hour later, and

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Speaker 5: it was it didn't go through. So it seems like

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Speaker 4: You can tell you you were blocked. It never it

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Speaker 4: just never says delivered.

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Speaker 6: Never.

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Speaker 3: Months later, still not delivered. Yeah, I through my text.

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Speaker 1: We're all experts on different areas of dating in here,

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Speaker 1: So okay, how long has it been since you got blocked?

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Speaker 5: It been about a week at this point.

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Speaker 4: You guys, what if it's just an accident. What if

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Speaker 4: she just got like you don't actually.

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Speaker 2: Thumbs and she I don't know, sometimes I actually hit

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Speaker 4: Like she's like, why isn't this guy calling me?

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Speaker 3: That's a hopeful she would her pockets confirmed.

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Speaker 4: You never know what the right butt sheet can do.

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Speaker 5: Walk a dexterous cheek back there, But I mean, yeah,

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Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, she should definitely give you another chance or

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Speaker 2: at least an explanation for why you've been blocked.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call her right now. Hopefully she hasn't blocked

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Speaker 1: us already, but if she answered, I'm sure a lot

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Speaker 1: of people have. But if she picks up, we'll ask

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Speaker 1: her all the important questions and try and get you

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Speaker 1: your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 5: Thank good?

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Speaker 1: All right, man, hold on second date update. Just to

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Speaker 1: recap real quick if you miss part one. One of

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Speaker 1: our listeners, Aaron, hung out with a lady and that

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Speaker 1: happened within an hour of matching. They were on a

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: The crazy part is that walk only lasted a half hour.

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Speaker 1: An hour later, he was already blocked. I mean this

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Speaker 1: girl works fast. Yeah, and we're trying to help Aaron

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Speaker 1: it was just a miscommunication that caused him to get blocked.

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Speaker 1: We don't really know.

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Speaker 3: At least we can pinpoint like an hour and a

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Speaker 4: We asked all about whether she liked him and what

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Speaker 4: it was like with him. We never asked did the

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Speaker 3: Oh, did the dogs like he shother? Did one bite

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Speaker 4: I don't think he had a dog. I don't think

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Speaker 4: she was just joining him on apologies.

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Speaker 1: He had a dog too, Aaron. Could you get a

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Speaker 1: read on Jenna's dog's feelings towards you.

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Speaker 5: I think he was kind of focused on the walk.

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Speaker 5: He gave me a sniff, he stussed me out, but

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Speaker 5: he wasn't super.

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Speaker 1: That's not good, I say.

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Speaker 2: I think that's okay as long as there's no growlly

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean growling and nipping on my dates. That's

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Speaker 1: a good thing right from the beginning.

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Speaker 2: I'm dying to get so many buts yees.

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Speaker 1: So I don't know any last words, Aaron, before we

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Speaker 1: dial the number.

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Speaker 5: At the very least, I hope she answers, and I

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Speaker 5: hope she telled me what I did wrong.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a good attitude going in to learn something.

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Speaker 4: I like that.

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Speaker 1: Let's set that bar super super low.

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Speaker 5: So here we go.

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Speaker 1: I'm dialing the number right now. Let's see if she

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Speaker 1: picks up. Hello, Hey is this Jenna?

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Speaker 6: This is who is this?

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Speaker 1: This is a actually radio show called Brook and Jeffrey

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Speaker 1: in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Hey, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Who Yeah, there's a lot of us in here.

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Speaker 1: We're a radio show and we do this segment that

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Speaker 1: you're on right now called a second date Update. We're

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Speaker 1: hoping to pry a little bit into your personal life,

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Speaker 1: if that's okay.

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Speaker 6: Second date Update, Yeah, that's.

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Speaker 1: Where we help our listeners who've gone out with somebody

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Speaker 1: and they felt like there was a connection. We try

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Speaker 1: to be the investigators to figure out why a second

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Speaker 1: meetup hasn't happened, or if something went wrong during the date.

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Speaker 1: And one of our listeners reached out about you named Aaron,

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, we figured you might not have the best

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Speaker 1: reaction because we heard that after the date you blocked

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Speaker 1: him and he just doesn't know why or if that

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Speaker 1: was on purpose.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, no, I definitely blocked him on purpose.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So what we know is that you guys went

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Speaker 1: on a dog walk and it didn't seem to last

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Speaker 1: very long. So maybe you could tell us your version

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Speaker 1: of the hangout and that would help us understand a

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Speaker 6: Okay, Well, I guess to start with, I thought he'd

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Speaker 6: show up with his dog too.

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Speaker 3: I assumed he had a dog already. The girls had

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Speaker 3: to correct me.

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Speaker 4: Why would you assume that?

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Speaker 6: Well, because we met up to walk our dog, so

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Speaker 6: I thought, But we met up to walk my dog.

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Speaker 6: He literally just wanted to walk with me while I

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Speaker 4: That just sounds like a miscommunication.

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Speaker 2: Mad me say, you need to get his cardio in

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Speaker 2: for the days.

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Speaker 1: I would have blocked him for that too.

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Speaker 6: That's not why I blocked him.

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Speaker 6: I was surprised, but I got over it quick. It

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Speaker 1: So where did the date shift for you in your mind?

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Speaker 6: Well, then he asks me, so what's your credit score?

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Speaker 6: Should I be worried?

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Speaker 4: He sounds like he's trying to be funny.

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Speaker 1: He told us that there was a few jokes that

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Speaker 6: It did not sound like a joke. He actually wanted.

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Speaker 4: To know, did you tell Did you tell him?

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Speaker 6: No? I didn't tell him. I thought it was so

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Speaker 3: I feel like that's less like intense than it used

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Speaker 6: In a thirty minute conversation, Yeah, it was really quick.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I don't even know that we should be

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Speaker 6: talking about that on a fifth or a sixth date.

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Speaker 1: Okay.

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Speaker 4: Has different comfort levels when it comes to money.

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Speaker 3: Okay, because some couples have joined accounts eventually and some

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Speaker 1: So is that where you felt like he crossed the line? Oh?

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Speaker 6: Absolutely, I mean fifteen minutes in and he's asking me

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Speaker 2: I was sure he wasn't joking though, Like when you

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Speaker 2: didn't tell him, what kind of response did he give you?

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Speaker 6: We both just kind of laughed it off, but he

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Speaker 1: Okay, it's possible that it was a joke and it

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Speaker 1: just didn't come across the right way, and the best

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Speaker 1: way to find out is to have you well again, Well,

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Speaker 1: at least have you talked to him about it, because

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Speaker 1: you might not know this, Jenna, But Aaron's on the

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Speaker 1: other line right now, listening to this conversation.

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Speaker 6: The guy I blocked is on the phone.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, really blocked him.

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Speaker 4: Yet, But he say it that way it doesn't feel

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Speaker 4: it's fun.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, very true.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully he has an explanation, though, Aaron are you there.

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Speaker 5: Hey, yeah, hey jokester, Hey you.

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Speaker 4: Want to know your Social Security number?

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Speaker 1: Next date? Or at least say something to Jenna.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry I made you feel uncomfortable. It's just in

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Speaker 5: today's dating culture. I'm trying to find a long term

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Speaker 6: See, I knew you weren't joking. I knew you actually

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Speaker 6: wanted to know my.

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Speaker 1: Credit or that's a lot, but he wanted to know

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Speaker 1: it for honorable reasons, because he.

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Speaker 4: Wants to be with you.

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Speaker 2: For unless you have a score of under seven fifty, yes,

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Speaker 2: for loans.

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Speaker 3: Love is not real.

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Speaker 1: That's got to change how you feel about it a

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Speaker 1: little bit, right, Jenna, No, not at all.

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Speaker 3: Oh man manon Aaron, You see how that's kind of weird.

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Speaker 3: What if she's the love of your life and she

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Speaker 4: Credits it's not very romantic.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Well, to honest, I was kind of asking to

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Speaker 5: see if you'd be interested in like a no string

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Speaker 3: What m hmm, like a sugar excitation?

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Speaker 4: What are you asking?

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Speaker 5: It's awkward to talk about on the radio.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, full of control over what you say and

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Speaker 3: I feel like texting this is awkward as well.

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Speaker 4: Do you know what he's talking about?

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Speaker 6: I mean, it sounds like he's looking to be my

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Speaker 1: That's how it sounds, susy.

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Speaker 4: I heard it as he wants you to be the

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Speaker 4: sugar mom. That's why he's asking your score.

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Speaker 5: Can you clarify er closer to what she said? I

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Speaker 5: don't like that term. I don't see it like that.

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Speaker 5: I would just see paying for companionship, not the weird stuff.

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Speaker 3: Got it? So you'd be paying to have her on

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Speaker 3: your arm, and that's all.

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Speaker 4: If she's the one getting paid. Why is her credit

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Speaker 5: Well? I need to know if it's something she's interested in.

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Speaker 5: If her credit score is low enough, then you can

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Speaker 2: I see you were looking for a low credit score

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Speaker 4: I was thinking of a.

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Speaker 3: Wait a minute, you want to help her life and

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Speaker 4: There's a different app you should go on than hints.

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Speaker 1: Recommend four of them. But Jenna, are you are you

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I'm hearing it.

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Speaker 1: Pretty shock sounding.

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Speaker 4: Are you interested in something like that?

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Speaker 6: I mean, this is definitely not the way that I

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Speaker 6: I thought that he was making sure I had a

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Speaker 6: flawless credit score here.

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Speaker 5: I mean, realistically, I think.

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Speaker 6: Depending on the amount of money, anybody could be interested.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I wait, I did.

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Speaker 5: Wait a second, we have.

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Speaker 3: To reach what does this mean?

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Speaker 4: Hold on like this?

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Speaker 2: This is a totally different type of relationship, certainly is.

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Speaker 5: But JN think you are interested.

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Speaker 6: I don't know. I I've never really thought about it.

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Speaker 1: Do you do this her first opportunity?

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Speaker 4: Is it like an offer letter that gets passed over?

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Speaker 4: Or how do you work out the detail? Block him

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Speaker 4: to text the details?

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Speaker 5: If she would unblock me, then maybe we could talk

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Speaker 3: No, I want to hear you don't to hear about

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Speaker 2: This is so strange, Like at the beginning of this,

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Speaker 4: You were looking for something forever. But you're just it.

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Speaker 5: Could definitely turn into that. I'm open to that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, steps started.

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Speaker 2: I feel like there's anything that sounds too good to

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Speaker 2: be true, Jenny, you need to be careful of.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's brooks jealousy coming out. You don't have to

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Speaker 6: I'm not saying yes, but I am open to thinking

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, maybe you're open to the idea of unblocking

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Speaker 1: Aaron and meeting up with him one more time, and

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Speaker 1: we would pay for it, so you too could discuss

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Speaker 1: the terms of the future of your relationships the sugar

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Speaker 2: I feel like this.

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Speaker 4: We're going to pay for it? Yeah, him pay for it, jeff.

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Speaker 1: Well, he's going to pay for everything else, not if

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Speaker 1: at least buy the cup of coffee that they talk over.

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Speaker 5: We don't even need to go out. I can send

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Speaker 3: Okay, little little negotiation starter.

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Speaker 1: Well, that saves us money and I love that. So

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Speaker 1: it's up to you, Jenna, will you or will you

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Speaker 4: That could be a new segment.

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Speaker 1: The whole thing.

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Speaker 6: I think I'll unblock him.

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Speaker 4: Whoa romance.

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Speaker 1: Lurking Jeffrey in the morning Attention to lady listeners with

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Speaker 1: low credit scores. Aaron is looking to supplement your financial

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Speaker 1: hardship as long as you are willing to walk your

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Speaker 2: How hard that was for me to finally get it

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Speaker 4: Yeah, by the time.

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Speaker 1: The funny thing was at the start of the call.

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Speaker 1: I mean he had a deep voice and he just

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Speaker 2: But he was like remember, he's like, oh, I made

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Speaker 4: Maybe I came off to braggy.

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Speaker 1: But once she got onto the phone, he wasn't messing around.

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Speaker 1: He went right to the payment companionship negotiation talk. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: I think it was all business. I don't even know

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean there's not a lot of heart in it,

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Speaker 2: that's for sure.

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Speaker 1: We can assume what's going to happen.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there was like a mental fee we could get.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know about that one. What I do

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Speaker 1: what I do want is for all of our listeners

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Speaker 1: to find our second date updates on our YouTube. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I want that for everybody. And wherever you get your podcasts,

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Speaker 1: you can always find them at Brook

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Speaker 4: And Jeffrey Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning,