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Speaker 2: Part two, Oh, we're getting into part two. Part one

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Speaker 1: It was already insane. But Sam, we're gonna We're gonna

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Speaker 1: TLDR for everyone hasn't seen it yet, so TLDR. A

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Speaker 1: cover up a six month long affair behind Evelyn's husband,

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Speaker 1: Marty's back. This bombshell drops two weeks before their wedding,

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Speaker 2: New bombshell has entered de Villa and no one likes it.

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Speaker 1: Ooh god, they never really like it? Who would like it? Overwhelmed,

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Speaker 1: he tells Marty everything, helps him gather proof and tracks

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Speaker 1: Now he's navigating the fallout of a canceled wedding, family

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Speaker 1: drama and lost trust. And that is a TLDR. That's

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Speaker 1: a good TLDR. Dang, who came up with that? Who

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Speaker 1: did that? I wonder who? Or what? Yeah, it's a what. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Riley is a what I was gonna say. Jug But guys,

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Speaker 1: we are If you thought that situation was crazy, it

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Speaker 2: Worth Wow to cover Wow. So you can do it.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna get into it. Hi, it's me again. I

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Speaker 1: want to thank everyone who has sent me kind messages

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Speaker 1: and support here on redda and even on other platforms.

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Speaker 1: This has really blown blown up, and frankly, it's totally

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Speaker 1: bizarre to see my life plastered all over the internet.

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Speaker 1: But it's nice to see so many people seeming to

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Speaker 1: be genuinely concerned for me. It helps a lot. At first,

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Speaker 1: I had a bit of trepidation about how visible this became,

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Speaker 1: it so I guess there is a lot to go over,

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Speaker 1: and so much has happened. Most of it, if I'm honest,

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Speaker 1: people who are just following along. The link to my

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Speaker 1: original post is here. First off, I left Mark's house

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Speaker 3: Really nice to have a brother that's a PI whenever

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Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying, low ki helpful buddy. By

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Speaker 1: the way, brother Mark was the Mark was the buddy.

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Speaker 1: But Mark, I have it on the board. You're good,

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Speaker 1: but I'm confident Mark is the buddy. Okay, so Sarah

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Speaker 1: But still, it was getting to be an unreasonable hour,

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Speaker 3: Well he also had steaks in it too, because he's

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Speaker 1: Against Marks the buddy, the buddy. It's okay, hey, not

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Speaker 1: So Sarah is still in the dark about everything. Both

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Speaker 1: we freaking know. Well, yes, I figured as much, Opie says.

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Speaker 1: I decided to push ahead with the obvious question.

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Speaker 4: What for?

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Speaker 1: Why per se? What half the dons?

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Speaker 2: Oh, they admit it. Is that a green flag? It

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Speaker 1: It's not a green flag, but it's not a red

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Speaker 2: But I feel like it's like like slitting someone's throat

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Speaker 1: They're like, I don't know if I can. Yeah, what I.

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Speaker 3: See is like a mountain of red flags and I

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Speaker 1: I agree, every a broken clock is right twice a day.

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Speaker 1: You know, you could have one green flag in her,

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Speaker 2: I feel like that's what I look for in a woman.

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Speaker 2: Oh God, one green flag right at the top.

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Speaker 1: Samuel Donner Special, Now I have to admit this response

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Speaker 1: And yes, that's true. But it's also true that she

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Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Evelyn wasn't happy about this. I wonder why, Witch.

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Speaker 1: Did you know. Sarah didn't say anything. She just nodded

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Speaker 1: a for the obvious follow up. How long the answer

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Speaker 1: Six months, the Truth, the Truth, two truths too, Truth,

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Speaker 1: two Green Flags, and a thousand lives.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's like I feel like turning the corner to me,

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Speaker 2: maybe we're like, you know, there's all this death and destruction,

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Speaker 2: and you know, kind of Mexico City it.

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Speaker 1: You know. However, however, Opie saying all of this stuff.

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Speaker 2: To be clear, Mexico City was built on Aztec land,

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Speaker 1: That's my reference. I did not get that right, I thought,

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Speaker 1: But yeah, I guess Sarah is implicating herself because she

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Speaker 2: Because op has the PI kind of stuff.

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Speaker 1: This evidence is going to court or else. I'm going

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Speaker 1: Yeah, like, oh, is Op is the man in this

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Speaker 1: Totally, I think the cop is in the right for this,

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Speaker 2: He's like saying like hey, and also you're on camera.

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00:22:30,600 --> 00:22:33,440
Speaker 1: Yeah, which is not helping Opie's case, Like like that's

428
00:22:33,680 --> 00:22:35,720
Speaker 1: just to me, not what an innocent person would say.

429
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:38,840
Speaker 2: No, but I think I think it's fair. It's like, hey,

430
00:22:38,840 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 2: like you're fishing obviously, like yeah, and I'm catching you

431
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:43,840
Speaker 2: on camera just.

432
00:22:43,800 --> 00:22:45,399
Speaker 1: So you know, I guess so, yeah, I mean he

433
00:22:45,640 --> 00:22:47,800
Speaker 1: hasn't so, but yeah, again, I like I feel like

434
00:22:47,840 --> 00:22:50,840
Speaker 1: Opie's like misdirecting anger at this point, but I digress.

435
00:22:50,920 --> 00:22:52,919
Speaker 1: Opie says, I think at this point I had pushed

436
00:22:52,960 --> 00:22:54,919
Speaker 1: my luck with this guy one too many times, but

437
00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:57,280
Speaker 1: what could I do. I think I was probably about

438
00:22:57,280 --> 00:23:00,200
Speaker 1: thirty seconds from getting the cuffs slapped on me ntill

439
00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,560
Speaker 1: his partner came up and basically pulled him away. He

440
00:23:02,640 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 1: was an older man, probably in his late fifties, and

441
00:23:05,160 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 1: probably didn't want to process two arrests right at the

442
00:23:08,040 --> 00:23:10,439
Speaker 1: beginning of his shift, especially when one of them was

443
00:23:10,480 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: obviously going to be more trouble than it was worth.

444
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:14,560
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure he talked him out of it, and

445
00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:17,480
Speaker 1: they left, carrying Evelyn away and hopefully out of my

446
00:23:17,600 --> 00:23:21,199
Speaker 1: life forever. At this point, I'm thinking about if I

447
00:23:21,240 --> 00:23:23,720
Speaker 1: want to even stay here at my house or not.

448
00:23:24,000 --> 00:23:25,880
Speaker 2: Well, I mean, I think it depends where Sarah's daying.

449
00:23:26,119 --> 00:23:28,399
Speaker 1: That is a good question. Yeah. The fact that my

450
00:23:28,520 --> 00:23:31,119
Speaker 1: parents live a couple of hours combined with the thought

451
00:23:31,320 --> 00:23:33,639
Speaker 1: about how poor I'm going to be in the short

452
00:23:33,720 --> 00:23:37,200
Speaker 1: term here ruled out either their place or a hotel,

453
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:39,680
Speaker 1: so I just decided to sleep in the guest room.

454
00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: Sarah made some futile efforts to get me to engage

455
00:23:42,280 --> 00:23:45,160
Speaker 1: with her in conversation or go to sleep in our bed,

456
00:23:45,440 --> 00:23:48,000
Speaker 1: but I just told her we talked tomorrow, that I

457
00:23:48,080 --> 00:23:51,520
Speaker 1: was tired and didn't want to be disturbed. Ye after

458
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:54,240
Speaker 1: all that, bro, there's no sleeping in the same bed.

459
00:23:54,320 --> 00:23:56,919
Speaker 1: We're not sleeping the same We're not We're less Like

460
00:23:57,359 --> 00:24:02,200
Speaker 1: dang dude, Sam's trying to get the Samuel Donner Special

461
00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:04,560
Speaker 1: to do something special for Samuel Donner.

462
00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:10,600
Speaker 2: Hey, I'm just saying, makeup sleep, it's good.

463
00:24:10,840 --> 00:24:13,480
Speaker 1: Oh did your did your your bracelet? You said you

464
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:15,480
Speaker 1: didn't get up hours trying to make up? Make up asleep?

465
00:24:15,520 --> 00:24:20,840
Speaker 1: Right right, right right, Okay, recovery is low. You need

466
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 1: to sleep. Yeah, yeah, that's what the whoop says. Thankfully

467
00:24:25,119 --> 00:24:28,040
Speaker 1: she let me be and I crashed hard, harder than

468
00:24:28,040 --> 00:24:30,879
Speaker 1: I had in years, which pretty much brings us up

469
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:34,080
Speaker 1: to speed to the last update. But dear friends of reddits,

470
00:24:34,440 --> 00:24:37,600
Speaker 1: let me tell you this, the next day was by

471
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:42,080
Speaker 1: far the weirdest effing day of my life so far.

472
00:24:42,400 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: Everything else has not been the weirdest effing day of

473
00:24:44,640 --> 00:24:47,679
Speaker 1: his life so far. The next day is what's coming

474
00:24:47,840 --> 00:24:52,160
Speaker 1: up is what more could happen? What more possibly could

475
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,680
Speaker 1: do We have any do you have any conspiracy theories?

476
00:24:53,680 --> 00:24:54,720
Speaker 1: Will I take my jacket off?

477
00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:57,600
Speaker 2: I think she's really got to fight for the relationship

478
00:24:57,720 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 2: with every dastardly tricking the book. Yeah, I think she's

479
00:25:02,800 --> 00:25:05,199
Speaker 2: gonna I think she's gonna be make some eggs and

480
00:25:05,200 --> 00:25:06,920
Speaker 2: bacon in the morning.

481
00:25:08,160 --> 00:25:13,720
Speaker 1: And you know, be all cute and nothing happened. Yeah,

482
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: I act like, good morning, here's your breakfast and everything else.

483
00:25:19,280 --> 00:25:21,399
Speaker 2: Harriet Spaghetti says Sam is trying to be less of

484
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:25,600
Speaker 2: a slut and more discreet slut since his father game

485
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:29,280
Speaker 2: of a stern talking to Yeah, No, I'm not.

486
00:25:29,760 --> 00:25:33,600
Speaker 1: I'm not. I'm not sledding around anymore. Our same boy

487
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,960
Speaker 1: as a pure boy, very pure boy, rather have a

488
00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:38,760
Speaker 1: bit slutting. No, not really. I haven't got any juicy

489
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: stories from me. You know what I'm doing.

490
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:45,320
Speaker 2: The only thing that's going into me is glucose monitor.

491
00:25:45,480 --> 00:25:48,399
Speaker 1: There we go, extra blood sugar, extra blood sugar. That's

492
00:25:48,440 --> 00:25:49,240
Speaker 1: all that's going on.

493
00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:54,080
Speaker 2: No sledding for me, which means, uh no, I'm so horny.

494
00:25:58,080 --> 00:26:05,120
Speaker 1: Just I just I just meditate the fine meditating. Ohs. Anyways,

495
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:06,760
Speaker 1: are we ready to get to the weird st effing

496
00:26:06,800 --> 00:26:08,960
Speaker 1: Dave of Opie's life. Yeah, So to start with, I

497
00:26:09,040 --> 00:26:12,000
Speaker 1: wake up at eleven am, a weird time. Sarah was

498
00:26:12,040 --> 00:26:15,400
Speaker 1: still home. She had cleaned the house from top to bottom.

499
00:26:15,640 --> 00:26:20,240
Speaker 1: My man, she's gonna act like a fifty's housewife. Dude,

500
00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: nice one. Josephine nailed it, nailed it, nailed it. I mean,

501
00:26:24,160 --> 00:26:28,199
Speaker 1: the floors sparkled, the toilets shined. I could lick the

502
00:26:28,520 --> 00:26:32,600
Speaker 1: linoleum in the bathroom and it'd probably be minty fresh.

503
00:26:32,800 --> 00:26:34,800
Speaker 1: She had obviously been busy, but when she saw me,

504
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,400
Speaker 1: she sort of hovered out of immediate rage, but not

505
00:26:38,560 --> 00:26:41,600
Speaker 1: quite engaging, but looking like she wanted to say something.

506
00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,679
Speaker 1: I get it. Last night was traumatic for everyone, and

507
00:26:44,720 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 1: she was probably uncertain like that. I just canceled the

508
00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:49,800
Speaker 1: wedding in the heat of the moment. Was I serious

509
00:26:49,840 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: about this? Was I really angry? I just took a

510
00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:56,119
Speaker 1: deep breath and told her we needed to finish talking.

511
00:26:56,440 --> 00:26:58,040
Speaker 1: She tried to sit next to me on the couch,

512
00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,240
Speaker 1: and I thought about rebuffing her, but I didn't. We

513
00:27:01,320 --> 00:27:04,240
Speaker 1: were not getting married. But I didn't need to act

514
00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: like I hated her, but truthfully I didn't. I was

515
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:10,479
Speaker 1: disappointed in her, but decently disgusted by some of the

516
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 1: things I had read in her text message exchanges between

517
00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: her sister. But we were both hurting here and I

518
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:16,760
Speaker 1: didn't want to make it anywhere.

519
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:19,080
Speaker 2: I really want to know what she was saying, Like

520
00:27:19,160 --> 00:27:22,240
Speaker 2: what was so disgusting? You know she was was she like, yeah,

521
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:26,560
Speaker 2: like go cheat on him, you girl, Like he's.

522
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 1: A little turd. I remember in the first episode he

523
00:27:30,880 --> 00:27:35,000
Speaker 1: said like they talked about very intimate moments with my

524
00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:37,119
Speaker 1: brother in law that I like didn't want to know

525
00:27:37,240 --> 00:27:41,879
Speaker 1: or something. I think Evelyn was dishing like, oh, you know, Marty,

526
00:27:42,080 --> 00:27:44,920
Speaker 1: he's he's you know, just terrible in bed and everything.

527
00:27:45,000 --> 00:27:50,840
Speaker 1: But Jake, but Jake is a difference, got a long

528
00:27:51,320 --> 00:27:56,080
Speaker 1: long Jake's got a drake. Jake. You know what I'm

529
00:27:56,119 --> 00:28:00,200
Speaker 1: talking about. If you've seen that video Ladies and Gentleman and.

530
00:28:00,160 --> 00:28:03,920
Speaker 2: That's been great from the internet, Oh yeah, my brain,

531
00:28:04,880 --> 00:28:07,920
Speaker 2: not from my downloads folder, right.

532
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:15,680
Speaker 1: Not from my screensavers, from the poster over my wall.

533
00:28:16,040 --> 00:28:18,159
Speaker 1: You know you're in a good partnership when you and

534
00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:21,280
Speaker 1: your partner watched it together. No further comment will repeat

535
00:28:22,240 --> 00:28:24,520
Speaker 1: on repeat. I mean, you know it's full screen. It's

536
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:29,960
Speaker 1: pretty mesmerizing playing the No God, how did it go?

537
00:28:30,080 --> 00:28:34,840
Speaker 2: There's playing in the background in fresh shut.

538
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:42,320
Speaker 1: Yea, no, one man should have all that power. All right,

539
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,880
Speaker 1: that was fine, it was good, It was nice work,

540
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,720
Speaker 1: all right, But back to peace. Sorry, okay, God turning

541
00:28:49,760 --> 00:28:52,440
Speaker 1: the tables on me. So I was disappointed in her,

542
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:54,600
Speaker 1: decently disgusted by some of the things I had read

543
00:28:54,640 --> 00:28:57,000
Speaker 1: in her text messages between her sister. But we were

544
00:28:57,040 --> 00:28:59,640
Speaker 1: both hurting, and I didn't want to make it any worse,

545
00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:02,400
Speaker 1: I would say, or escalate things to a point where

546
00:29:02,480 --> 00:29:05,400
Speaker 1: my life could get any more complicated than it already was.

547
00:29:05,760 --> 00:29:08,440
Speaker 1: It took some more convincing on my part for Sarah

548
00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:11,680
Speaker 1: to truly and fully believe the wedding was off. She

549
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 1: was not taking it well. Heck, that's an understatement. She

550
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:17,120
Speaker 1: was a wreck, and I didn't expect that card to

551
00:29:17,120 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: be pulled out of my deck. That was me. I

552
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,360
Speaker 1: think she was hyperventilating a few times. I was holding

553
00:29:23,360 --> 00:29:26,560
Speaker 1: it together, but obviously not only was this my idea,

554
00:29:26,880 --> 00:29:29,080
Speaker 1: I also had longer to come up with the terms

555
00:29:29,080 --> 00:29:34,040
Speaker 1: of it. She finally asked the serious question, hmm, what

556
00:29:34,200 --> 00:29:39,200
Speaker 1: about us? What about us? What about else? Really quick,

557
00:29:39,200 --> 00:29:43,400
Speaker 1: before we get into the answer, Sam chat comments, what

558
00:29:43,560 --> 00:29:47,360
Speaker 1: do you what about about us? Yeah? What what could? What

559
00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:48,960
Speaker 1: do you think OPI should do in this situation? We

560
00:29:49,000 --> 00:29:50,080
Speaker 1: kind of know what he's where he's going.

561
00:29:50,080 --> 00:29:53,760
Speaker 2: Well, so my, uh, my, understanding what op he's gonna

562
00:29:53,760 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 2: do right now is he's wedding postponed, honeymoon canceled, but

563
00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 2: relationships still there. Yeah, I probably would do the same,

564
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,880
Speaker 2: Like I would probably like feel out what the relationship

565
00:30:06,880 --> 00:30:09,760
Speaker 2: feels like. But it does, you know, learning that your

566
00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:13,920
Speaker 2: partner is a great liar. It's just like never again, dude.

567
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,280
Speaker 2: I remember I was dating someone.

568
00:30:15,400 --> 00:30:16,800
Speaker 1: I think I know the story about to tell. I

569
00:30:17,440 --> 00:30:19,840
Speaker 1: don't know if you know this. Maybe maybe you do,

570
00:30:19,920 --> 00:30:21,760
Speaker 1: but uh, this was this was.

571
00:30:21,760 --> 00:30:25,520
Speaker 2: When I was like like early college, late high school maybe,

572
00:30:26,000 --> 00:30:27,960
Speaker 2: and the girl I was dating at the time had

573
00:30:28,000 --> 00:30:31,920
Speaker 2: backed her car and accidentally hit someone's car right and

574
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 2: the person gets out and and like goes to the

575
00:30:35,440 --> 00:30:38,240
Speaker 2: windows like hey, like you know, where's your insurance like

576
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:40,480
Speaker 2: like like come on, like like give your stuff. She

577
00:30:40,560 --> 00:30:43,560
Speaker 2: starts instantly crying and she's like I can't find it.

578
00:30:43,680 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: I can't find it. And then the guy goes like, oh,

579
00:30:45,880 --> 00:30:48,120
Speaker 2: like hey, like it's fine. Just like then you know,

580
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:50,160
Speaker 2: like sorry, I'm just so funning. The blah blah blah

581
00:30:50,280 --> 00:30:52,880
Speaker 2: turns on the water works. The guy ends up being like, hey,

582
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:55,280
Speaker 2: you know what, there's like it's like barely a scratch,

583
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:55,760
Speaker 2: It's fine.

584
00:30:56,120 --> 00:30:57,000
Speaker 1: She drives away.

585
00:30:57,480 --> 00:31:00,760
Speaker 2: Instantly, she stops crying, and I'm like, oh did your

586
00:31:00,760 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 2: insurance do you leave your interns at home? Saying oh no,

587
00:31:02,560 --> 00:31:07,320
Speaker 2: it's in the global compartment. And I was like, whoa, Yeah,

588
00:31:07,400 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 2: that's when is that going to be? Like like that

589
00:31:09,320 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 2: was good?

590
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:12,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was good, a little too good.

591
00:31:12,640 --> 00:31:14,760
Speaker 2: Like you know, I'm like, but I don't want to

592
00:31:14,760 --> 00:31:17,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to marry a good actress. Yeah, I

593
00:31:17,400 --> 00:31:19,000
Speaker 2: don't want I want to know that. I know what

594
00:31:19,000 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 2: you're thinking, Well.

595
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 1: It's not about marrying the good actress. It's when do

596
00:31:23,240 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: you use your your good actress talents?

597
00:31:26,480 --> 00:31:30,360
Speaker 2: Well but still like but honestly, it's like, but like

598
00:31:30,440 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 2: you never know it's a good actress. Yeah, it was

599
00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:34,520
Speaker 2: so that that kind.

600
00:31:34,320 --> 00:31:38,920
Speaker 1: Of Samuel Donner not marrying actresses despite his his upcoming

601
00:31:39,000 --> 00:31:40,680
Speaker 1: La glow Up. It's true. It's true.

602
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's by Kim k knows job in the in

603
00:31:44,200 --> 00:31:45,240
Speaker 2: the in the works, dude.

604
00:31:45,960 --> 00:31:48,800
Speaker 1: The chat in the community is already fonding. It's gonna be.

605
00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:49,560
Speaker 1: It's just gonna be.

606
00:31:49,920 --> 00:31:52,800
Speaker 2: Dude, Yeah, it's gonna be just gonna I want to

607
00:31:52,840 --> 00:31:55,520
Speaker 2: grow my nose by three times though, I want like

608
00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:56,520
Speaker 2: Kim K's nose.

609
00:31:57,120 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: But for just like just like zoom in control plus

610
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:06,000
Speaker 1: control rise. Yeah, yeah, we'd be able to breathe so well.

611
00:32:08,280 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 1: But you're saying basically, hey, continue with what you're doing

612
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,760
Speaker 1: right now. Wedding and everything is off. Relationship is like

613
00:32:15,040 --> 00:32:17,720
Speaker 1: under investigation, but yeah, still still exists.

614
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,640
Speaker 2: I think still, I think it would still exist, but

615
00:32:19,640 --> 00:32:21,920
Speaker 2: it would really rock my confidence. And I think it

616
00:32:22,040 --> 00:32:24,240
Speaker 2: might like within like a month or two peter out.

617
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,520
Speaker 2: But if if there's some real work done, maybe it's

618
00:32:26,560 --> 00:32:27,840
Speaker 2: just it's just hard to know.

619
00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: That your partner is a great liar. You'd have to

620
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:33,680
Speaker 1: like really come back from this, like, yeah, that's strong. Well, finally,

621
00:32:33,720 --> 00:32:36,080
Speaker 1: she asked a serious question, what about us? Obie says,

622
00:32:36,160 --> 00:32:37,760
Speaker 1: I know I am going to get a lot of

623
00:32:37,760 --> 00:32:40,400
Speaker 1: hate from people for this, especially the kind of redditors

624
00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,240
Speaker 1: that think that every infraction in a relationship is grounds

625
00:32:43,240 --> 00:32:46,560
Speaker 1: for nuking it from orbit. And indeed, one could even

626
00:32:46,600 --> 00:32:49,440
Speaker 1: say that my calling off the wedding was like dropping

627
00:32:49,560 --> 00:32:56,880
Speaker 1: a what is that moab? A motor of all about boat,

628
00:32:57,680 --> 00:32:59,600
Speaker 1: a motor of about, a motor.

629
00:32:59,400 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 2: Of a a military orb actually birthed a martian over

630
00:33:08,080 --> 00:33:12,160
Speaker 2: a boy. He yeah, it's a it's a b m

631
00:33:12,560 --> 00:33:15,320
Speaker 2: oom a boom boom.

632
00:33:15,320 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 1: Boom show shock. We can do that. And indeed, one

633
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:23,720
Speaker 1: could even say that my calling off the wedding was

634
00:33:23,760 --> 00:33:30,320
Speaker 1: like dropping a big on our six year relationship. But truthfully,

635
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 1: I didn't have an answer for Sarah in that moment.

636
00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:36,120
Speaker 1: I just didn't know, and I told her so quick cut,

637
00:33:37,440 --> 00:33:40,960
Speaker 1: love it, like that's exactly like this just happened. Opie's

638
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,640
Speaker 1: immediately communicating it. I don't see any issues. I think

639
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:44,959
Speaker 1: this is a win. I think this is a win,

640
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Speaker 1: and I love it. I love to see it good communication,

641
00:33:47,080 --> 00:33:49,800
Speaker 1: I said, I read all those text messages and it

642
00:33:49,840 --> 00:33:52,240
Speaker 1: showed me a side of her that I didn't know existed,

643
00:33:52,520 --> 00:33:55,720
Speaker 1: and that I wasn't certain about her or our relationship anymore.

644
00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:59,280
Speaker 1: I said, I couldn't understand why she would go along

645
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Speaker 1: with Evelyn, putting down Marty and joining in even egging

646
00:34:03,320 --> 00:34:06,960
Speaker 1: her on and cheating not only on him, but their

647
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:11,560
Speaker 1: daughter too, the daughter, I guess, basically saying like like

648
00:34:11,880 --> 00:34:14,560
Speaker 1: that's the father of your daughter, and you're like yeah,

649
00:34:14,680 --> 00:34:17,080
Speaker 1: like oh yeah, go go get another man for your daughter.

650
00:34:17,120 --> 00:34:18,480
Speaker 1: You know, that's that's not the kind of man you

651
00:34:18,480 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 1: want for your daughter. She just kept saying, I know,

652
00:34:21,080 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 1: I know it was wrong. I know. I asked her

653
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:26,200
Speaker 1: for an explanation, but she couldn't provide one. She said

654
00:34:26,320 --> 00:34:29,360
Speaker 1: she just got carried away and that she had to

655
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 1: choose her sister like that.

656
00:34:32,840 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 2: You can still be there for your sister, but not

657
00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,560
Speaker 2: support every action that your sister makes.

658
00:34:37,600 --> 00:34:40,640
Speaker 1: It's a different thing, you know. Loki's supporting someone I

659
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 1: feel like is in these moments where they do something wrong.

660
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:46,280
Speaker 1: It's like, Hey, you've done something wrong, and I want

661
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,600
Speaker 1: to support you to the path.

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00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:52,880
Speaker 2: Of Yeah, like if if someone you love starts like

663
00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 2: doing some addictive substances, you're not gonna.

664
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Speaker 1: Be like, you go, girl, go shoot that shit up.

665
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:04,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, No, You're like, hey, maybe maybe, like maybe let's

666
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Speaker 2: not do that.

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00:35:04,800 --> 00:35:06,239
Speaker 1: You know. That's what support looks like.

668
00:35:06,280 --> 00:35:09,000
Speaker 2: It looks like condemning the bad and praising the good,

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Speaker 2: not just praising every action.

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Speaker 1: Indeed, Opie says, I told her that I thought a

671
00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:16,560
Speaker 1: good sister was someone who kept you on the straight

672
00:35:16,560 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 1: and narrow and didn't give you a free pass to

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00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:21,640
Speaker 1: be a d bag. She agreed with me and said

674
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Speaker 1: that she would do better, but that Evelyn had always

675
00:35:24,040 --> 00:35:26,000
Speaker 1: been the boss when they were kids, and she was

676
00:35:26,040 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 1: always the follower.

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00:35:27,239 --> 00:35:30,080
Speaker 2: That's a if all your friends were coming out of

678
00:35:30,080 --> 00:35:31,280
Speaker 2: the mountain when you.

679
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,879
Speaker 1: Do it too. Oh yes, because she told leader, I'm

680
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:39,279
Speaker 1: always a follower. Maybe grow a brain ghosting, I grow

681
00:35:39,400 --> 00:35:46,239
Speaker 1: some freakingness a little bit. Okay, I get this. I

682
00:35:46,280 --> 00:35:48,200
Speaker 1: have an older sibling too, and while I am a

683
00:35:48,239 --> 00:35:51,520
Speaker 1: bit more independent, I also spent the last nine eighteen

684
00:35:51,600 --> 00:35:54,000
Speaker 1: years of my life with them, with him living on

685
00:35:54,040 --> 00:35:55,919
Speaker 1: the other side of the planet, except for the odd

686
00:35:55,920 --> 00:36:00,120
Speaker 1: occasional visit around Thanksgiving or Christmas. But still, maybe I

687
00:36:00,160 --> 00:36:02,400
Speaker 1: had a leg up on Sarah because my older sibling

688
00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:05,760
Speaker 1: was a decent guy while Evelyn was a piece of trash.

689
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Speaker 1: Now Here is where I get the second major e

690
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Speaker 1: fin shock of my life. In like forty eight hours.

691
00:36:13,840 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: Sarah says to me, it's not fair. It's not fair.

692
00:36:17,880 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: It's not fair. What's not fair? Opie says, what's not fair? Hey,

693
00:36:22,120 --> 00:36:25,200
Speaker 1: that's what I said. Ha huh. I asked her, you

694
00:36:25,280 --> 00:36:29,160
Speaker 1: were spicy texting that bimbo wife Mandy Girl on Instagram

695
00:36:29,239 --> 00:36:33,480
Speaker 1: last year and I got over it. Ooh a, whoa

696
00:36:34,920 --> 00:36:39,759
Speaker 1: new information has entered the chat. This is Sarah accusing well,

697
00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:43,680
Speaker 1: running back. We're running back. So you were spicy texting

698
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 1: that bimbo wife Mandy girl on Instagram last year and

699
00:36:47,040 --> 00:36:49,600
Speaker 1: I got over it. I was so hurt, but I

700
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:55,480
Speaker 1: got over it. Why can't you get over this? Why? Huh? What?

701
00:36:55,480 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 1: What the heck is she talking about? Opie says, who

702
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:02,920
Speaker 1: is this bimbo wife Mandy? Like? I have no effing clue.

703
00:37:03,400 --> 00:37:05,440
Speaker 1: I asked her if she was high or having a

704
00:37:05,440 --> 00:37:08,719
Speaker 1: psychotic break like, Okay, that was mean of me, but

705
00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:13,080
Speaker 1: I have absolutely not been doing sp cyber, spicy sleep

706
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:17,880
Speaker 1: or a spicy sleep texting or whatever with anyone, especially

707
00:37:17,920 --> 00:37:21,120
Speaker 1: not some Instagram girl. I'm protesting pretty loudly at this point,

708
00:37:21,160 --> 00:37:24,040
Speaker 1: and Sarah is yelling at me through her tears, telling

709
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:26,480
Speaker 1: me that she saw the messages last year and that

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00:37:26,520 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 1: she had decided not to confront me because I had

711
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:32,080
Speaker 1: stopped it. Evidently, she had been checking my socials from

712
00:37:32,120 --> 00:37:35,319
Speaker 1: my home computer when I'm at work, which should have

713
00:37:35,360 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: been really boring because I only have family and a

714
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: couple of work friends on there. Conspiracy theory, Sarah protects

715
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:47,560
Speaker 1: a cheater, Sarah, it seems accuses of cheating. Is it

716
00:37:47,600 --> 00:37:52,120
Speaker 1: a leap to say that Sarah herself, has cheated, has cheated?

717
00:37:52,280 --> 00:37:54,719
Speaker 1: Is a cheater? I don't want to go there yet.

718
00:37:54,840 --> 00:37:56,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to go there. I don't think we.

719
00:37:56,560 --> 00:37:58,880
Speaker 1: I don't think so we have a whole nother part

720
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:02,799
Speaker 1: of this story. I might. I don't think she is.

721
00:38:03,320 --> 00:38:08,320
Speaker 1: Could we poll cheating? Cheating or not? Is she cheating?

722
00:38:08,480 --> 00:38:10,920
Speaker 1: Is she cheating or not? Is she not? I try

723
00:38:10,960 --> 00:38:13,160
Speaker 1: to make this case to her, offering to let her

724
00:38:13,200 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 1: log into all my accounts and check for herself, but

725
00:38:15,680 --> 00:38:18,200
Speaker 1: she's just calling me a liar and a perverts and

726
00:38:18,280 --> 00:38:21,360
Speaker 1: all kinds of other crap. She starts throwing stuff at me,

727
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:24,120
Speaker 1: and so things are getting out of hand, and I

728
00:38:24,200 --> 00:38:26,839
Speaker 1: tell her that I'll have her taken out of this

729
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,799
Speaker 1: house just like her sister whoa. She swears at me

730
00:38:29,880 --> 00:38:32,600
Speaker 1: and stomps off to the master bedroom and slams the door.

731
00:38:32,719 --> 00:38:35,120
Speaker 1: Now at this point, I am so dang confused. I

732
00:38:35,160 --> 00:38:37,800
Speaker 1: barely know what to think. I head into my office,

733
00:38:38,000 --> 00:38:41,360
Speaker 1: fire up my desktop and type up Bimbo wife Mandy

734
00:38:41,520 --> 00:38:45,640
Speaker 1: into Google, and sure enough, there is an Instagram, a Twitter,

735
00:38:45,960 --> 00:38:50,960
Speaker 1: a Reddit, and even and of course a spicy Pans

736
00:38:51,040 --> 00:38:54,239
Speaker 1: and Only Pans page. I click on one of the

737
00:38:54,320 --> 00:38:59,280
Speaker 1: instagram links and it comes up with an extremely busty

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00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:03,840
Speaker 1: woman like clearly pushing the limits of science and technology.

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00:39:04,040 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 1: And oh guess where she's from Australia. I feel like

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00:39:07,320 --> 00:39:11,759
Speaker 1: Opie's laying something down. That is some technology. That that's

741
00:39:11,800 --> 00:39:14,799
Speaker 1: some technology. Oh a technology has been pushed.

742
00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:21,000
Speaker 2: Yes, Oh wow, check this out. Yeah, that's some that

743
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:21,880
Speaker 2: that is some.

744
00:39:22,880 --> 00:39:28,160
Speaker 1: Another conspiracy theory is this bimbo wife Mandy's secret plot

745
00:39:28,840 --> 00:39:32,960
Speaker 1: to marketing and getting everything.

746
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,360
Speaker 2: Wait, there's only one hundred eight No, she has she

747
00:39:35,400 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 2: has three hundred and twenty nine.

748
00:39:37,360 --> 00:39:46,279
Speaker 1: Wow, that's crazy, dude. That is not natural. That is

749
00:39:47,200 --> 00:39:53,319
Speaker 1: that is not natural late. Wow, that is pushing tech

750
00:39:53,480 --> 00:39:54,680
Speaker 1: science to that is.

751
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,480
Speaker 2: Ning science and technology.

752
00:39:57,840 --> 00:40:01,880
Speaker 1: Wow, how is that? How is how many do you

753
00:40:01,960 --> 00:40:04,200
Speaker 1: how many surgeries? Do you think? She had? A lot?

754
00:40:04,440 --> 00:40:05,680
Speaker 1: A lot is that?

755
00:40:05,840 --> 00:40:08,520
Speaker 2: But like that must be really she must have a

756
00:40:08,600 --> 00:40:12,760
Speaker 2: core like solid rock, because that's a lot to carry.

757
00:40:12,800 --> 00:40:16,200
Speaker 1: That's a lot of weight. That's that's that's that's a

758
00:40:16,239 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 1: workout everywhere you go. Wow, that's a workout. One way

759
00:40:21,320 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 1: to rock hard abs, it's just one way to get

760
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:31,680
Speaker 1: a car. Wow. Oh man, wow. Okay, so she accused

761
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,080
Speaker 1: him of cheating with her, but she's it's I am

762
00:40:34,120 --> 00:40:37,200
Speaker 1: not now his brothers from Australia. I feel like Opie's

763
00:40:37,280 --> 00:40:38,200
Speaker 1: laying something down.

764
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:41,200
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, I feel like my brother.

765
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 1: Has been subscribing to something. Ah the brother.

766
00:40:47,200 --> 00:40:49,799
Speaker 3: So the brother has his Instagram and is using it

767
00:40:49,840 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 3: to hide from his wife. So that's what's happening. Or

768
00:40:53,160 --> 00:40:55,480
Speaker 3: it could be lying because that's kind of a stretch.

769
00:40:55,560 --> 00:40:56,560
Speaker 1: Same heiding over there.

770
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Speaker 2: I went all the way to the bottom to see,

771
00:40:59,080 --> 00:41:01,320
Speaker 2: like I could see the beginnings of them.

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00:41:01,400 --> 00:41:04,919
Speaker 1: Right, she gotta gotta thoroughly invested for science. I think

773
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 1: they've got science.

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00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:09,200
Speaker 2: I think she started posting in uh oh wait, No,

775
00:41:09,200 --> 00:41:10,440
Speaker 2: I'm still I'm still going deeper.

776
00:41:10,960 --> 00:41:12,720
Speaker 1: I'm still going deeper. How are you now?

777
00:41:13,760 --> 00:41:17,480
Speaker 2: I want to see, like, is this something that was

778
00:41:17,560 --> 00:41:19,080
Speaker 2: like this is this is for?

779
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:21,359
Speaker 1: Okay, here we go. Is she used as a scapegoat

780
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: for people who want to accuse their partners of doing something? Oh?

781
00:41:26,600 --> 00:41:33,239
Speaker 4: Wow, Oh my god, Okay, I need to dude, dudea

782
00:41:33,640 --> 00:41:37,520
Speaker 4: this this was her in two thousand and six.

783
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:43,439
Speaker 2: Oh wow, that's her? Now, whoa she really? She's really

784
00:41:43,520 --> 00:41:46,600
Speaker 2: she's been putting in the work. Wow, that's that is

785
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: a crazy transformation. I think you can see that those

786
00:41:49,560 --> 00:41:51,719
Speaker 2: are that that that was not what she was born with.

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00:41:52,040 --> 00:41:55,960
Speaker 1: So basically you're saying anything is possible, ladies, anything is possibly,

788
00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:59,680
Speaker 1: you know, like you can have a is really investigating.

789
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:04,239
Speaker 1: Bro is locked and look at him on that phone

790
00:42:04,280 --> 00:42:06,920
Speaker 1: over there. Your mom here too? What do you mean

791
00:42:07,000 --> 00:42:10,799
Speaker 1: what your mom's here? My mom's not here, she is

792
00:42:10,960 --> 00:42:13,120
Speaker 1: she was here this morning. She's still here. My mom.

793
00:42:13,200 --> 00:42:18,520
Speaker 1: Oh my, yes, my mom might be downstairs. I'm doing it.

794
00:42:18,520 --> 00:42:25,840
Speaker 2: For science research. I'm literally researching. I research. But that's crazy.

795
00:42:25,840 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 1: Do you see that? Transformation? Two thousand and six? What

796
00:42:28,360 --> 00:42:33,359
Speaker 1: was that notification? Boy said? New subscrib subscription.

797
00:42:32,920 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 3: Can welcome Samuel Daughner subscription discord Welcome shot.

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00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:43,759
Speaker 2: We were doing research for a discord and what sam

799
00:42:43,840 --> 00:42:47,120
Speaker 2: was doing research researching and some of the best discords

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Speaker 2: out there are her of models and I joined one

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Speaker 2: under my real Yeah anyway.

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Speaker 3: I'm under his real name and announced to everyone Samuel Daughner.

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Speaker 1: You subscription welcome to our community, like as of R girly.

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00:43:02,160 --> 00:43:09,120
Speaker 2: Yeah, anyway, anyways, I am fine, I'm not even I'm

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00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:10,239
Speaker 2: told I'm zen.

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Speaker 1: We're here. We're gonna get back to the story. We're

807
00:43:12,360 --> 00:43:14,880
Speaker 1: gonna lock back in he just meditated. Guys, yeah, he

808
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:18,080
Speaker 1: just meditated, if you know what we're talking about. But

809
00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:20,040
Speaker 1: also I wanted to say real quick, the poll is

810
00:43:20,080 --> 00:43:23,720
Speaker 1: literally fifty fifty split, right, what was our pool? Literally

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00:43:23,760 --> 00:43:28,800
Speaker 1: fifty was Sarah cheating or not? And chat is so

812
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:31,480
Speaker 1: so are we. I'm saying she's cheating, you're saying she's not.

813
00:43:31,760 --> 00:43:36,600
Speaker 1: It's kind of crazy. This is a the same eyebreaker. Yeah,

814
00:43:36,960 --> 00:43:39,360
Speaker 1: what are you saying? Actually, I'm literally in the middle,

815
00:43:39,480 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 1: but I don't think she is. I don't think she is. Okay, Okay,

816
00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:44,400
Speaker 1: so right now we're on naw By. Riley was like

817
00:43:44,440 --> 00:43:47,000
Speaker 1: the House of Representatives, but also like I do think

818
00:43:47,040 --> 00:43:51,279
Speaker 1: she is. I'm like, okay, okay, Well you know what.

819
00:43:51,360 --> 00:43:52,920
Speaker 1: You know what, there's only one way to find out

820
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:56,120
Speaker 1: in this next part, so Obie says, well, everyone, remember

821
00:43:56,160 --> 00:43:58,160
Speaker 1: all the nice stuff I was talking about. My brother

822
00:43:58,480 --> 00:44:01,680
Speaker 1: Guess who was staying with us last Christmas all the

823
00:44:01,680 --> 00:44:05,040
Speaker 1: way from Australia. Guess who? I told, Sure, go ahead

824
00:44:05,080 --> 00:44:07,799
Speaker 1: and use my office computer to play games if you

825
00:44:07,920 --> 00:44:10,759
Speaker 1: have jet lag. As far as I can tell, my

826
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:14,520
Speaker 1: brother after his wife and kids went to sleep, logged

827
00:44:14,560 --> 00:44:18,560
Speaker 1: into either her insta, her only pans or something and

828
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 1: was probably paying money to Spicy Sleep text this girl

829
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,359
Speaker 1: what a great FN guy? And Sam, who is he

830
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:27,440
Speaker 1: actually talking to?

831
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:33,480
Speaker 2: He's talking to usually their manager, which is like a dude,

832
00:44:33,560 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 2: and like the dude is like, oh yeah, big boy,

833
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:41,720
Speaker 2: you like these like tiggles bag breakers. To be clear,

834
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Speaker 2: I'm not like that's that's not for me.

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Speaker 1: Uh, you are Australian and a brother. You have a

836
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 1: lot in common that.

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Speaker 2: Those those kinds of body modifications is not something that

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Speaker 2: I am personally.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. Man, you did some deep research. Man.

840
00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: I a man of science.

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00:45:02,640 --> 00:45:04,319
Speaker 2: I am a man of science and I'm trying to

842
00:45:04,320 --> 00:45:08,080
Speaker 2: get to the bottom of it. But but no, I'm

843
00:45:08,120 --> 00:45:11,240
Speaker 2: more of a of a butt man than anything else,

844
00:45:12,120 --> 00:45:15,120
Speaker 2: and historically I have the data to back it up.

845
00:45:15,600 --> 00:45:17,359
Speaker 1: That is true. I will give him that. I will

846
00:45:17,360 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 1: give him that as a buttman myself.

847
00:45:19,440 --> 00:45:23,600
Speaker 2: As as as both as the buttman of the podcast.

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00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:28,400
Speaker 2: Thank you, Bradley, thank you. And yeah you've seen the

849
00:45:28,440 --> 00:45:30,880
Speaker 2: ladies that I've dated. Yeah, that's true.

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00:45:31,400 --> 00:45:36,399
Speaker 1: Well go to the story where we're going, guys, where

851
00:45:36,480 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: is the story taking us? I would love to call

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Speaker 1: my brother and not only and confirm my suspicions, but

853
00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:45,359
Speaker 1: also give him a good God dang earfol But it's

854
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:47,520
Speaker 1: like two or three in the morning there, so it's

855
00:45:47,520 --> 00:45:49,799
Speaker 1: going to have to wait. But I am crawling the

856
00:45:49,840 --> 00:45:53,080
Speaker 1: walls here trying to sort out how I feel about everything.

857
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:57,440
Speaker 1: I feel totally let down by everyone. I think to myself, dang,

858
00:45:57,640 --> 00:46:00,560
Speaker 1: what is this world coming to. For a brief moment,

859
00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 1: I connect the dots between whatever the heck Sarah saw

860
00:46:03,719 --> 00:46:07,160
Speaker 1: my brother do and what she did with Evelyn. But

861
00:46:07,400 --> 00:46:10,240
Speaker 1: try as I might, it doesn't. It doesn't really come together.

862
00:46:10,280 --> 00:46:11,920
Speaker 1: And I think what he's saying by this is like,

863
00:46:12,320 --> 00:46:14,480
Speaker 1: you know, I let I let my my fiance go

864
00:46:14,680 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 1: on his cheating, so I've like earned the past to

865
00:46:17,680 --> 00:46:20,480
Speaker 1: like help my sister, you know what I mean, Like

866
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: I earned.

867
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:24,440
Speaker 2: This, you know, like she's vicariously cheating. Yeah, maybe she's

868
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 2: not doing it. Maybe she got it out by by

869
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,280
Speaker 2: helping Evelyn. It's kind of like like World of Warcraft

870
00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:30,880
Speaker 2: or like Second Life. You know, you're like playing this

871
00:46:30,960 --> 00:46:32,839
Speaker 2: game because you don't can't do it in real life,

872
00:46:32,920 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 2: but you have this world where you can like be

873
00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,160
Speaker 2: the thing that you want to be.

874
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:41,160
Speaker 1: Is that why your Second Life character subscribed to that's

875
00:46:41,200 --> 00:46:49,080
Speaker 1: my first life character. And gentlemen, cut, Okay, we're gonna

876
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:53,520
Speaker 1: we'll stop. We'll stop. So maybe she's a more tolerant

877
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:57,319
Speaker 1: and forgiving person. Sorry, guys, my meditation alarm. Not that

878
00:46:57,440 --> 00:47:01,080
Speaker 1: kind of meditation. Not that kind of meditation. New subscriber,

879
00:47:01,239 --> 00:47:04,920
Speaker 1: don't you don't you? Don't you get your little I

880
00:47:04,920 --> 00:47:08,120
Speaker 1: shouldn't said anything. I just open the door of the

881
00:47:08,120 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 1: spin cycle and walk right in. I walked right in. Anyways,

882
00:47:13,320 --> 00:47:16,359
Speaker 1: maybe she's a more talent and forgiving person than I am,

883
00:47:16,520 --> 00:47:19,200
Speaker 1: which is why she didn't confront me when she saw this.

884
00:47:19,520 --> 00:47:21,320
Speaker 1: But I wish she had. It would have given me

885
00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:24,240
Speaker 1: an opportunity to directly tell her my whole personal stance

886
00:47:24,280 --> 00:47:26,880
Speaker 1: on these things, and to even show her how I

887
00:47:26,920 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: would act. It might have influenced her in a good

888
00:47:29,160 --> 00:47:31,920
Speaker 1: way later on, or maybe it wouldn't have mattered. I

889
00:47:31,960 --> 00:47:34,279
Speaker 1: don't know. All I know is that this post is

890
00:47:34,280 --> 00:47:37,759
Speaker 1: becoming a novel, and I have blown off most of

891
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:40,040
Speaker 1: the morning when I should have been working to get

892
00:47:40,080 --> 00:47:42,160
Speaker 1: this out of my head and on to this page.

893
00:47:42,200 --> 00:47:44,480
Speaker 1: I feel better for doing it, but there's still probably

894
00:47:44,520 --> 00:47:46,760
Speaker 1: two to three posts left to tell, and lazy gentlemen

895
00:47:46,760 --> 00:47:49,160
Speaker 1: we're not even We're we got a whole other episode,

896
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:51,760
Speaker 1: so just stay buckled in. I'm not going to post

897
00:47:51,760 --> 00:47:54,480
Speaker 1: them to this supreador anymore. I'm not sure that they

898
00:47:54,640 --> 00:47:57,000
Speaker 1: let me do it, but I will try to quietly

899
00:47:57,080 --> 00:47:59,279
Speaker 1: update my profile in the next day or two with

900
00:47:59,400 --> 00:48:02,480
Speaker 1: the rest of the blowout, talking to my brother, talking

901
00:48:02,520 --> 00:48:07,200
Speaker 1: to my parents and Sarah's parents, and finally where Sarah

902
00:48:07,239 --> 00:48:10,600
Speaker 1: and I stand. Oh my gosh, this is a soap opera.

903
00:48:10,680 --> 00:48:14,120
Speaker 1: This is a soap freaking opera and not one that

904
00:48:14,160 --> 00:48:19,920
Speaker 1: I would eat. Oh yeah, John, John eats soap so

905
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:22,719
Speaker 1: much it happens. Is the second time he's done this.

906
00:48:22,920 --> 00:48:26,640
Speaker 1: Yeah happens. John will eat soap. Sorry.

907
00:48:26,960 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 2: John texts me and he's like, Sam, I ate soap.

908
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:35,920
Speaker 2: I might be late to work, and I'm like, again,

909
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:40,480
Speaker 2: literally the whole day, I don't what happens because you're

910
00:48:40,480 --> 00:48:41,760
Speaker 2: like spitting into a cup.

911
00:48:41,600 --> 00:48:45,240
Speaker 1: Or like, so basically it starts frothing right, it starts

912
00:48:45,360 --> 00:48:48,000
Speaker 1: frothing up, and I have to literally if I don't,

913
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,759
Speaker 1: my mouth will just be full of bubbles. So I

914
00:48:50,800 --> 00:48:55,280
Speaker 1: have to just constantly like howktua the bubbles.

915
00:48:54,920 --> 00:48:57,399
Speaker 2: And John and I are on meetings throughout the day,

916
00:48:59,080 --> 00:49:01,120
Speaker 2: It's like he's like, yeah, you know, like the guys

917
00:49:01,120 --> 00:49:03,920
Speaker 2: that do dip that are like, yeah, like that is.

918
00:49:04,480 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 1: I'm to say, you look like my uncle. I was like,

919
00:49:08,360 --> 00:49:11,840
Speaker 1: I'm a clean redneck. I was kind of used to it.

920
00:49:11,920 --> 00:49:14,080
Speaker 3: I was like, oh, okay, if if I thought about soap,

921
00:49:14,080 --> 00:49:14,799
Speaker 3: it disgusted me.

922
00:49:14,840 --> 00:49:17,200
Speaker 1: But if I thought about like dip tobacco, I was like, okay,

923
00:49:17,200 --> 00:49:17,640
Speaker 1: this is cool.

924
00:49:18,719 --> 00:49:21,600
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be honest, like there was a part

925
00:49:21,640 --> 00:49:23,360
Speaker 2: of me that like every type job wedded.

926
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:28,279
Speaker 1: I'm like, I couldn't help it. By the way, and

927
00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:30,719
Speaker 1: I told this story on stream yesterday. The first time

928
00:49:30,800 --> 00:49:32,480
Speaker 1: was when we did the Doctor Phil Man on the

929
00:49:32,480 --> 00:49:39,200
Speaker 1: Street videos. Luckily there's enough time in between. So anyways,

930
00:49:39,719 --> 00:49:44,360
Speaker 1: so Back loves his soap. I love soap, but Sarah

931
00:49:44,440 --> 00:49:46,760
Speaker 1: in this story is not squeaky clean ladies and gentlemen.

932
00:49:47,160 --> 00:49:50,120
Speaker 1: Because Opie says. One thing that I can say, however,

933
00:49:50,520 --> 00:49:53,799
Speaker 1: is it seems like most of my immediate family relationships

934
00:49:53,840 --> 00:49:57,960
Speaker 1: are incredibly strained for various reasons. My parents are largely supportive,

935
00:49:58,239 --> 00:50:00,680
Speaker 1: but that's becoming less. So now that's the reality of

936
00:50:00,719 --> 00:50:03,239
Speaker 1: the financial losses setting. And remember they're losing all this

937
00:50:03,239 --> 00:50:05,480
Speaker 1: stuff through the wedding. Yes, the marriage is still off.

938
00:50:05,760 --> 00:50:08,359
Speaker 1: That was pretty much a certainty from the get go.

939
00:50:08,560 --> 00:50:11,200
Speaker 1: Sarah's parents are a bit more pissed, and I'm sure

940
00:50:11,280 --> 00:50:14,239
Speaker 1: they are sticking pins in voodoo dolls crafted in my

941
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:18,480
Speaker 1: image right now, Evelyn. For most people, wondering is no

942
00:50:18,560 --> 00:50:25,120
Speaker 1: longer in jail free teg free, evelyd. She got Sarah

943
00:50:25,160 --> 00:50:27,840
Speaker 1: to bail her out, and I even laid into Sarah

944
00:50:27,880 --> 00:50:31,960
Speaker 1: for that, calling her her sister's underling, which I actually

945
00:50:31,960 --> 00:50:34,200
Speaker 1: think struck a chord and it was not a minor

946
00:50:34,360 --> 00:50:37,360
Speaker 1: with her because she wrote me like a twenty page

947
00:50:37,440 --> 00:50:40,520
Speaker 1: letter about how her sister always bossed her throughout her

948
00:50:40,680 --> 00:50:43,480
Speaker 1: entire childhood. I've read it twice now and I wish

949
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,759
Speaker 1: we had talked about this pretty much any time we

950
00:50:46,880 --> 00:50:52,400
Speaker 1: had within the last six years. Ooh, so they don't communicate.

951
00:50:52,480 --> 00:50:55,799
Speaker 1: They had six years to you know, she would know

952
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,520
Speaker 1: that kind of stuff by it, right in sixty years

953
00:50:58,560 --> 00:50:58,879
Speaker 1: of time.

954
00:50:58,960 --> 00:51:01,560
Speaker 3: I think he knew it, and that's why he said it,

955
00:51:01,640 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 3: but she didn't explain it, if that makes sense.

956
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,879
Speaker 1: He always saw it because this guy's pretty insideful. Yeah,

957
00:51:06,880 --> 00:51:09,680
Speaker 1: Like they didn't have a full, in depth conversation like

958
00:51:09,719 --> 00:51:12,080
Speaker 1: breaking it down together and her kind of like share.

959
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:14,279
Speaker 2: She didn't ask if he saw it. I didn't ask.

960
00:51:14,360 --> 00:51:17,360
Speaker 2: You know, if you see something, say something. If you

961
00:51:17,480 --> 00:51:18,080
Speaker 2: see something.

962
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:21,040
Speaker 3: True, that is true because of all the nice they've

963
00:51:21,040 --> 00:51:23,440
Speaker 3: been together eating meals, not like hey, your sister said this,

964
00:51:23,560 --> 00:51:24,400
Speaker 3: like how are you feeling?

965
00:51:24,600 --> 00:51:27,800
Speaker 2: Yeahah, I think it's on both of them, Honestly, I agree.

966
00:51:27,880 --> 00:51:31,239
Speaker 1: I agree. Possibly hot take chat comments of vis rate

967
00:51:31,320 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 1: us if you want, but that's what the three of

968
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:35,320
Speaker 1: us believe, so let's talk about it in the comments.

969
00:51:35,400 --> 00:51:38,799
Speaker 2: Also for the person asking you about the doctor Phil stuff,

970
00:51:38,640 --> 00:51:40,719
Speaker 2: if you haven't seen the doctor Phil video, I think

971
00:51:40,719 --> 00:51:42,640
Speaker 2: some of the chat probably has seen it. Help him out,

972
00:51:42,960 --> 00:51:44,680
Speaker 2: But we were on Phil.

973
00:51:44,719 --> 00:51:47,640
Speaker 1: Anyways, right it. If anyone is still interested except a

974
00:51:47,680 --> 00:51:50,520
Speaker 1: final chapter, expect a final chapter of this saga in

975
00:51:50,600 --> 00:51:52,960
Speaker 1: like a day or two, and maybe a follow up

976
00:51:53,040 --> 00:51:56,279
Speaker 1: after the former wedding date passes. And we got some

977
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:59,000
Speaker 1: relevant comments we haven't heard yet from everyone else. In

978
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,760
Speaker 1: this relevant comment from Serenity Moon three ninety four. Well,

979
00:52:02,960 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: that was a ride. I was not anticipating, just binge

980
00:52:06,200 --> 00:52:08,680
Speaker 1: the whole thing. It is an incredible story that sounds

981
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:11,520
Speaker 1: like it belongs in a Telenovella. I've noticed that there

982
00:52:11,520 --> 00:52:13,920
Speaker 1: has been some debate on the authenticity of this post,

983
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:16,600
Speaker 1: but has been having a practicing lawyer for the past

984
00:52:16,640 --> 00:52:19,799
Speaker 1: ten years, mostly criminal law with a very light sprinkling

985
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:22,800
Speaker 1: of divorce slash custody law. I have seen and heard

986
00:52:22,840 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: things like this, and even beyond fact is stranger than fiction.

987
00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:29,960
Speaker 1: First of all, you know your relationship better than any

988
00:52:29,960 --> 00:52:32,640
Speaker 1: stranger on the internet ever will. With that being said,

989
00:52:32,719 --> 00:52:35,160
Speaker 1: as an outsider looking in, here are some things to

990
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:38,560
Speaker 1: consider moving forward. So we got the lawyer of ten

991
00:52:38,640 --> 00:52:42,920
Speaker 1: years giving her take. Evelyn will be a constant figure

992
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:46,200
Speaker 1: in your life if you reconcile with Sarah. They are sisters.

993
00:52:46,360 --> 00:52:48,640
Speaker 1: She bailed her out after she got physical with you.

994
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:52,720
Speaker 1: Regardless of any control slash manipulation slash bullying that Sarah

995
00:52:52,760 --> 00:52:55,520
Speaker 1: is claiming, it does not appear, at least at the moment,

996
00:52:55,640 --> 00:52:57,920
Speaker 1: that she is willing to face that and stand up

997
00:52:57,920 --> 00:53:00,719
Speaker 1: for herself. If she ever will consider that, Evelyn might

998
00:53:00,760 --> 00:53:03,319
Speaker 1: be a hostile relationship that you will be signing up

999
00:53:03,360 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 1: for if you decide to continue with Sarah. Not the

1000
00:53:07,080 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: map change bro.

1001
00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:13,560
Speaker 2: Oh really, it's not a wheelshair h We're not on

1002
00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:16,760
Speaker 2: a wheel. Shure, we're fine, We're fine, or it's still fine,

1003
00:53:16,760 --> 00:53:17,799
Speaker 2: but that's crazy.

1004
00:53:17,600 --> 00:53:20,000
Speaker 1: Should be Let's see what the driver's like. What is

1005
00:53:20,000 --> 00:53:25,160
Speaker 1: the drive to be? Like? Wow? I thought I thought,

1006
00:53:25,200 --> 00:53:28,799
Speaker 1: I thought you said our boys name Ivan.

1007
00:53:28,840 --> 00:53:33,480
Speaker 2: Look, Look how close the fire is to Santa Monica? Proper?

1008
00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:37,680
Speaker 1: Wait? What do I look up? What do I look up? Here?

1009
00:53:37,719 --> 00:53:42,040
Speaker 2: I'll put it. I'll put it in the Holy Moly

1010
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:45,480
Speaker 2: yes for everyone who's here. Where we live in Santa

1011
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:49,400
Speaker 2: Monica and there's a huge fire very close that we

1012
00:53:49,400 --> 00:53:50,920
Speaker 2: can actually see from our place.

1013
00:53:51,480 --> 00:53:54,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna look. Yeah, I can see. Can you see it?

1014
00:53:54,960 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 2: If you move to the right, all the way to

1015
00:53:56,920 --> 00:53:57,920
Speaker 2: the right, can you see it?

1016
00:53:58,360 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah? I see like a little bit of like part

1017
00:54:01,719 --> 00:54:06,440
Speaker 1: of the evacuation map, like a block of the evacuation

1018
00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:08,840
Speaker 1: map is shifted down and then block of the warning.

1019
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:11,600
Speaker 1: Oh this is a better map than what I said. Yeah,

1020
00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: the one that you sent. Yeah. Yeah, because like the.

1021
00:54:15,760 --> 00:54:19,960
Speaker 2: My piano I think my piano teachers house is screwed.

1022
00:54:21,000 --> 00:54:24,279
Speaker 1: Oh wow, I does he live around that area? Yeah? Him.

1023
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: Go I pray he has fire insurance. Oh yeah, I

1024
00:54:27,000 --> 00:54:28,479
Speaker 1: mean he definitely does. That's good.

1025
00:54:29,080 --> 00:54:31,920
Speaker 2: But how am I gonna how am I gonna what

1026
00:54:32,080 --> 00:54:36,480
Speaker 2: I mean, his piano is probably Oh god, I hope

1027
00:54:36,520 --> 00:54:38,960
Speaker 2: he He definitely has insurance. But I was supposed to

1028
00:54:38,960 --> 00:54:40,719
Speaker 2: be my pianoilest in today but he got evacuated.

1029
00:54:40,920 --> 00:54:46,600
Speaker 1: Right yeah, wow, Okay, well we would see. Oh yeah, dude,

1030
00:54:47,719 --> 00:54:48,600
Speaker 1: that's the whole thing.

1031
00:54:48,760 --> 00:54:51,520
Speaker 2: So it's right next to San San Vicente.

1032
00:54:51,680 --> 00:54:56,560
Speaker 1: Dude, fifteen thousand acres. That is a lot more acres.

1033
00:54:57,000 --> 00:54:59,400
Speaker 2: Okay, so his house is fine. But I really, I mean,

1034
00:54:59,440 --> 00:55:02,640
Speaker 2: I wo thank god. I think it's gonna be I

1035
00:55:02,640 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 2: think there is a good well, I think that other block,

1036
00:55:06,719 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 2: that yellow block, is going to be moved up for sure. Yea,

1037
00:55:10,040 --> 00:55:15,440
Speaker 2: the yellow block, Yeah, potentially, But I doubt it's going

1038
00:55:15,520 --> 00:55:19,200
Speaker 2: to cross like the freeway. Like there's no way it

1039
00:55:19,239 --> 00:55:25,240
Speaker 2: crosses like Olympic, you know, because that would be crazy.

1040
00:55:25,960 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 2: Oh right, yeah, Like I think it's I think it's

1041
00:55:28,200 --> 00:55:30,800
Speaker 2: not going to cross like I think the chances.

1042
00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:35,080
Speaker 1: It slows down drastically without the brush, yeah exactly, exactly

1043
00:55:35,160 --> 00:55:38,719
Speaker 1: like a hurricane, like hurricanes that like Inner Florida or

1044
00:55:38,760 --> 00:55:41,040
Speaker 1: like when they hit the land, they start weakening as

1045
00:55:41,040 --> 00:55:45,080
Speaker 1: soon as they touch the lanky guys, We're gonna be fine. Yeah,

1046
00:55:45,120 --> 00:55:46,600
Speaker 1: we're just updating ourselves.

1047
00:55:48,080 --> 00:55:50,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, we want to make sure, but we're I think

1048
00:55:50,600 --> 00:55:51,799
Speaker 2: we'll we'll be okay.

1049
00:55:52,239 --> 00:55:54,440
Speaker 1: Not saying people aren't able to change, but it is

1050
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,880
Speaker 1: rare and only if the person is willing to for themselves,

1051
00:55:58,280 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: not for anybody else. Good fighting is too unhealthy. On

1052
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,640
Speaker 1: the flip side, not fighting at all is equally as unhealthy.

1053
00:56:05,920 --> 00:56:08,200
Speaker 1: We are all human. We have things that annoy us,

1054
00:56:08,320 --> 00:56:10,759
Speaker 1: past experiences that shape the way we think, differences in

1055
00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: opinion and perspective, insecurities. No one gets along all the time,

1056
00:56:14,560 --> 00:56:17,640
Speaker 1: and if they do, then no real truthful communication is occurring.

1057
00:56:17,960 --> 00:56:21,000
Speaker 1: It is not a genuine relationship. Vast majority of the time.

1058
00:56:21,040 --> 00:56:23,000
Speaker 1: My husband and I get along wonderfully. He is my

1059
00:56:23,040 --> 00:56:26,120
Speaker 1: best friend, but goodness knows, we have had our arguments,

1060
00:56:26,200 --> 00:56:29,520
Speaker 1: petty things that aggravate us, Emotional things, needing alone time,

1061
00:56:29,560 --> 00:56:32,200
Speaker 1: bad days at work, are just being angry. It happens.

1062
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:34,239
Speaker 1: The key is how you solve it and how you

1063
00:56:34,280 --> 00:56:37,279
Speaker 1: communicate when these things happen. The messages she forgave you

1064
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Speaker 1: for but never told you about, a couple of ways

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00:56:40,120 --> 00:56:42,640
Speaker 1: to look at this a She was saving it as

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00:56:42,719 --> 00:56:44,959
Speaker 1: a get out of jail card, get out of jail

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00:56:45,000 --> 00:56:48,000
Speaker 1: free card if she ever needed it, such as in

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Speaker 1: this very moment. Most people would think that she has

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00:56:50,560 --> 00:56:52,880
Speaker 1: done the same, or at least thought about it. B

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00:56:53,239 --> 00:56:56,040
Speaker 1: she is insecure and or not comfortable talking to you

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00:56:56,120 --> 00:56:58,880
Speaker 1: about this, which low key. She's afraid of confronting her

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00:56:58,920 --> 00:57:01,719
Speaker 1: sister too, so maybe there's some stuff there too. If

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00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:04,000
Speaker 1: this is the case, it very well might be that

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00:57:04,040 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 1: she was following her sister because that is who she is,

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00:57:06,760 --> 00:57:10,040
Speaker 1: non confrontational and preferring to keep the peace no matter

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00:57:10,120 --> 00:57:12,960
Speaker 1: the circumstances. This is something she must work on herself

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00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,360
Speaker 1: with with therapy, because she will never have a healthy

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00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:18,120
Speaker 1: relationship with anyone. She can never truly love someone because

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00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:21,040
Speaker 1: she doesn't love herself. Confrontations are needed, not all the time,

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00:57:21,200 --> 00:57:24,040
Speaker 1: but absolutely in situations such as the DMS. Choosing to

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00:57:24,080 --> 00:57:27,680
Speaker 1: stay silent versus voicing valid concerns means she is not

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00:57:27,720 --> 00:57:32,000
Speaker 1: being truthful with you or herself still going. It's highly

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00:57:32,040 --> 00:57:34,800
Speaker 1: concerning the stages of her behavior after canceling the wedding,

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00:57:34,880 --> 00:57:38,320
Speaker 1: first the crying, then bringing up the DMS, finally with

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00:57:38,360 --> 00:57:40,880
Speaker 1: the physically throwing things that you when it sets in

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00:57:40,920 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 1: that the wedding has really been canceled. It is the

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00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,800
Speaker 1: physical attacking that raises the biggest flag, especially after everything

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00:57:47,840 --> 00:57:51,760
Speaker 1: with her sister. I understand emotion intentions were high, but

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00:57:51,800 --> 00:57:54,240
Speaker 1: it's never an excuse for this type of behavior. The

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00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:57,240
Speaker 1: vast majority of DV cases are not a one and

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00:57:57,320 --> 00:57:59,960
Speaker 1: done deal. This could be an exception, but I've seen

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00:58:00,080 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: too much in my years of working statistically. It usually

1093
00:58:03,360 --> 00:58:06,800
Speaker 1: continues and escalates. The real test will be after the

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00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:09,760
Speaker 1: previously scheduled wedding date and listing out some of the

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00:58:09,800 --> 00:58:12,040
Speaker 1: reasons she was trying to convince you to change your mind.

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00:58:12,200 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: One thing stuck out to me embarrassing. Is this all

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00:58:15,560 --> 00:58:18,000
Speaker 1: just to save face, not to have to go through

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00:58:18,000 --> 00:58:20,560
Speaker 1: the embarrassment of having to inform family and friends that

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00:58:20,640 --> 00:58:23,240
Speaker 1: the wedding has been canceled? Or is it because of

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00:58:23,280 --> 00:58:26,360
Speaker 1: her legitimate feelings towards you. Going back to the non

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00:58:26,360 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: confrontational aspect of her personality you have painted, this scenario

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00:58:30,320 --> 00:58:33,760
Speaker 1: might be her worst nightmare, having to have awkward and

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00:58:33,800 --> 00:58:37,440
Speaker 1: embarrassing conversations about what has occurred, versus going into her

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00:58:37,440 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: comfort zone keeping the peace. This might be nothing but

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00:58:40,400 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: just a thought on the future relationship with in laws.

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00:58:42,600 --> 00:58:45,680
Speaker 1: I support your decision and is exposing the affair, saying

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00:58:45,840 --> 00:58:49,240
Speaker 1: that you have not only canceled a wedding again support

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00:58:49,600 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 1: with Sarah, losing money, et cetera, et cetera, but you

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00:58:52,600 --> 00:58:56,680
Speaker 1: have also exposed Evelyn's lives which led to her marriage deteriorating.

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Speaker 1: It's not your faults. Evelyn's decisions are hers to blame.

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00:59:00,440 --> 00:59:04,120
Speaker 1: But how will Sarah and Evelyn's parents view it? Because remember, again,

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00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,160
Speaker 1: their sisters. So it's like, I'm telling the parents about

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00:59:07,200 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 1: Evelyn's thing about sarahs you kind of gotta tell them

1114
00:59:09,800 --> 00:59:13,200
Speaker 1: the whole kitten kaboodle to say, why you're bringing off

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00:59:13,240 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: the wedding?

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00:59:13,680 --> 00:59:13,840
Speaker 2: Right?

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00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:17,400
Speaker 1: God, dude, imagine his parents hearing that, like, there's just

1118
00:59:17,520 --> 00:59:20,360
Speaker 1: so much What are my daughters doing? Yeah, dude, what

1119
00:59:20,520 --> 00:59:23,080
Speaker 1: are my kids doing? One after another? I don't know

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Speaker 1: if they raised them right?

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00:59:24,160 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 4: Right?

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00:59:24,480 --> 00:59:26,880
Speaker 1: Kind of crazy goes all the way after the top.

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00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:30,439
Speaker 1: Will they blame and enable their daughter's behavior or will

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00:59:30,480 --> 00:59:33,760
Speaker 1: they be the parents and understand that while they love them,

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00:59:33,760 --> 00:59:36,360
Speaker 1: their daughter's actions were wrong. Already being said, but bears

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00:59:36,400 --> 00:59:39,439
Speaker 1: a peeding when someone shows you who they are, believe them.

1127
00:59:39,600 --> 00:59:43,000
Speaker 1: Cheating is deplorable. Lying through a mission is still lying.

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Speaker 1: You saw the messages. We did not. But based off

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Speaker 1: your account, Sarah did not bat an eye at what

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00:59:48,200 --> 00:59:51,520
Speaker 1: her sister was doing, didn't condemn it, she encouraged it.

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00:59:51,800 --> 00:59:54,160
Speaker 1: She could have easily come to you, as as her

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00:59:54,200 --> 00:59:57,040
Speaker 1: fiance with what was going on, she chose not to.

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00:59:57,320 --> 00:59:59,240
Speaker 1: When it blow up in her face, it is then

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00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:02,000
Speaker 1: that she up to history with the sister. You have

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01:00:02,120 --> 01:00:04,280
Speaker 1: been with this woman for six years and she fails

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01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:06,280
Speaker 1: to mention any of this until the moment you call

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01:00:06,360 --> 01:00:09,840
Speaker 1: the wedding off. Is it truth or convenience? I don't

1138
01:00:09,840 --> 01:00:11,920
Speaker 1: know which is which, But the one thing I know

1139
01:00:12,120 --> 01:00:14,479
Speaker 1: is always true is that you can listen to full

1140
01:00:14,560 --> 01:00:19,480
Speaker 1: episodes of stories just like this on Spotify, Apple Podcast,

1141
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,240
Speaker 1: wherever you listen to podcasts, just go to Spotify.

1142
01:00:22,400 --> 01:00:25,000
Speaker 2: But we have a podcast. You could listen to this

1143
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:29,400
Speaker 2: while you're, you know, doing other stuff. Almost voices, Yeah, insane,

1144
01:00:29,520 --> 01:00:32,240
Speaker 2: it's twenty four seven, three sixty five. You never have

1145
01:00:32,320 --> 01:00:35,440
Speaker 2: to be alone, you never voices inside your head. You

1146
01:00:35,440 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 2: can be alone the voices that are coming from our

1147
01:00:38,400 --> 01:00:39,360
Speaker 2: heads into your head.

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01:00:39,440 --> 01:00:39,640
Speaker 4: Yeah.

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01:00:39,680 --> 01:00:41,480
Speaker 3: I literally have their voices to start on my head for

1150
01:00:41,920 --> 01:00:43,760
Speaker 3: three months. Yeah, I started listening to them.

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01:00:43,840 --> 01:00:46,760
Speaker 1: There we go. So, yeah, go to Spotify or wherever you

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01:00:46,800 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 1: listen and just search. Okay, story time, it's gonna pop

1153
01:00:49,320 --> 01:00:53,200
Speaker 1: right up and take a binge. But Sam, we are

1154
01:00:53,920 --> 01:00:57,280
Speaker 1: about to end part two of this three part song.

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01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,480
Speaker 1: It's been a doozy, it's been a doozy. Do you

1156
01:01:00,640 --> 01:01:02,920
Speaker 1: still agree? You know, we just broke down, like he

1157
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:05,720
Speaker 1: has to expose Evelyn and his stuff to the parents.

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01:01:05,760 --> 01:01:08,800
Speaker 1: Do you still agree with telling the parents? And if so,

1159
01:01:08,880 --> 01:01:11,479
Speaker 1: why you know the truth comes out? Like either way,

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01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: I think telling your parents makes sense. That's easy. Yeah,

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01:01:15,720 --> 01:01:18,320
Speaker 1: that's easy, makes sense. I don't know if going to.

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Speaker 2: Tell her parents like she can tell her own parents.

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01:01:22,880 --> 01:01:25,120
Speaker 1: Maybe yeah, maybe you do what we suggested at the

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01:01:25,200 --> 01:01:28,200
Speaker 1: very beginning of a series, tell them or I will

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01:01:28,400 --> 01:01:31,320
Speaker 1: right where it's like, hey, hell tell her parents and

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01:01:31,400 --> 01:01:34,920
Speaker 1: tell her parents because like if OPI's thinking, like, okay,

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Speaker 1: if I don't tell.

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Speaker 2: Them as they need to tell because of the wedding stuff,

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01:01:38,800 --> 01:01:40,600
Speaker 2: they need to know, they need.

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01:01:40,440 --> 01:01:43,280
Speaker 1: To know because of everything. So it's like, hey, look,

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01:01:43,720 --> 01:01:46,760
Speaker 1: tell the parents. You know, these are your parents. I

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01:01:46,800 --> 01:01:49,000
Speaker 1: don't want to have to like break the news to them,

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01:01:49,320 --> 01:01:51,520
Speaker 1: So how about you just be the one to do it.

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01:01:51,640 --> 01:01:54,040
Speaker 1: That's the best way here. I won't be I'm not

1175
01:01:54,080 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: trying to stab you in the back or whatever, but

1176
01:01:56,080 --> 01:01:58,760
Speaker 1: they just need to know the truth because of the

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01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:00,880
Speaker 1: wedding and everything if everything else that implies.

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01:02:01,120 --> 01:02:04,760
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I completely agree. So I think I like her.

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01:02:04,840 --> 01:02:10,000
Speaker 2: Our classic piece of advice always works, tried and freaking true,

1180
01:02:10,280 --> 01:02:11,040
Speaker 2: ladies and gentlemen.

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01:02:11,040 --> 01:02:13,560
Speaker 1: Tried and true. Well, let's get to the end of

1182
01:02:13,640 --> 01:02:15,800
Speaker 1: this part. So with that book being written, I am

1183
01:02:15,840 --> 01:02:18,160
Speaker 1: still an outsider looking and if the commenter says, you

1184
01:02:18,200 --> 01:02:20,280
Speaker 1: are at the best vantage point to determine what is

1185
01:02:20,360 --> 01:02:23,360
Speaker 1: right for you moving forward. I understand the time crunch

1186
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:26,240
Speaker 1: with the wedding slash affair. I understand wanting to make

1187
01:02:26,240 --> 01:02:28,480
Speaker 1: sure they didn't have an opportunity to try and hide it.

1188
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:30,919
Speaker 1: That being said, you do need to have a talk

1189
01:02:30,960 --> 01:02:32,800
Speaker 1: with your brother so as not to be labeled a

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01:02:32,840 --> 01:02:36,480
Speaker 1: hypocrite by Sarah, her family, your own inner conscience, and

1191
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:40,400
Speaker 1: online strangers following this, In an ideal world, Evelyn should

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01:02:40,440 --> 01:02:42,920
Speaker 1: have told Marty herself and owned up to what she

1193
01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,400
Speaker 1: had done, And in an ideal world, your brother shouldn't

1194
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,400
Speaker 1: do the same so his wife doesn't have to hear

1195
01:02:48,440 --> 01:02:51,760
Speaker 1: it from you. Or anyone else, and then op responds,

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01:02:51,960 --> 01:02:54,720
Speaker 1: I do think that Sarah is very conflict avoidant, people

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01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,720
Speaker 1: please your type of person. I also think I largely

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01:02:57,720 --> 01:03:00,520
Speaker 1: ignored it because it worked in my favor. Actually, when

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01:03:00,560 --> 01:03:02,439
Speaker 1: I was the person she was trying to please. Ooh,

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01:03:02,640 --> 01:03:05,680
Speaker 1: that's that's an important one. Opie kind of let her

1201
01:03:05,680 --> 01:03:08,880
Speaker 1: people be thin thing because he was the person benefiting

1202
01:03:08,920 --> 01:03:14,560
Speaker 1: from it. Mind of a red flag from op from

1203
01:03:14,640 --> 01:03:17,400
Speaker 1: OP Yeah, I don't. I don't. I don't want to.

1204
01:03:17,400 --> 01:03:18,840
Speaker 1: I don't want a point. I don't want to. It's

1205
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:20,760
Speaker 1: not great. Yeah, it's not looking. It's not it's not

1206
01:03:20,760 --> 01:03:22,520
Speaker 1: a good look. People chatter like. I don't know if

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01:03:22,520 --> 01:03:24,840
Speaker 1: I like OPI I saw a few comments.

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01:03:24,880 --> 01:03:27,280
Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, I mean I do think he has gone

1209
01:03:27,280 --> 01:03:30,400
Speaker 2: a little far in some places. But I don't want

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01:03:30,400 --> 01:03:31,600
Speaker 2: to point blame yet.

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01:03:32,000 --> 01:03:34,920
Speaker 1: All right, Opie says, I mean, it feels great to

1212
01:03:34,960 --> 01:03:37,640
Speaker 1: have a doting girlfriend until it becomes apparent that the

1213
01:03:37,640 --> 01:03:41,040
Speaker 1: core reason for this behavior is an overwhelming insecurity that

1214
01:03:41,160 --> 01:03:44,120
Speaker 1: leaves her vulnerable to all sorts of manipulation. That being said,

1215
01:03:44,160 --> 01:03:46,320
Speaker 1: I don't know how much this understanding counts for other

1216
01:03:46,400 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 1: than making me a bit sad that I don't have

1217
01:03:48,920 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: a time machine. Wow. And that's the end of part two.

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01:03:51,680 --> 01:03:54,600
Speaker 1: But again we got out of three. We have part

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01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:59,120
Speaker 1: three that gives us the finale, the the end of

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01:03:59,200 --> 01:04:01,120
Speaker 1: the saga, the answers to the questions.

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01:04:01,160 --> 01:04:03,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, and if you want to see that finale, you

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01:04:03,680 --> 01:04:06,800
Speaker 2: freaking better subscribe right now because we got.

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01:04:06,600 --> 01:04:10,360
Speaker 1: To do stories coming to you. That's right. So if

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Speaker 1: you love us, make sure to subscribe. We love you.

1225
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Speaker 1: See Santa tomorrow. This is an episode from Deep Within

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Speaker 1: the Archives. Time for okop relash he a hold for

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Speaker 1: threatening to press charges for animal neglect? Is this chat

1228
01:04:27,480 --> 01:04:32,200
Speaker 1: GBTAI or real? This one sounds like it could be real.

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Speaker 2: I twenty four female, recently went on a two week

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01:04:36,400 --> 01:04:39,400
Speaker 2: vacation asked my friend Sarah to take care of my cat,

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Speaker 2: Whiskers while I was away. I provided Sarah with detailed

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Speaker 2: instructions on how to take care of Whiskers, including feeding

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Speaker 2: him twice a day at specific times. I also gave

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01:04:49,640 --> 01:04:51,320
Speaker 2: Sarah a key to my house. It made sure she

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Speaker 2: knew how to contact me in case of any emergencies.

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Speaker 2: And to be clear, this is an ur slash okop

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Speaker 2: show submission from Cracking, Yeah, it is. Let's use your

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01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:04,000
Speaker 2: name Crocing. When I returned from vacation, I was horrified

1239
01:05:04,040 --> 01:05:07,720
Speaker 2: to find that Whiskers was severely underweight and malnourished. I

1240
01:05:07,720 --> 01:05:10,280
Speaker 2: immediately contacted Sarah and asked her why she didn't follow

1241
01:05:10,280 --> 01:05:12,200
Speaker 2: the instructions to feed Whiskers.

1242
01:05:11,760 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: Poor old Whiskers.

1243
01:05:12,520 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 2: Sarah admitted that she had forgotten to feed him, that

1244
01:05:16,040 --> 01:05:19,080
Speaker 2: bitch and felt terrible about it. I was extremely upset

1245
01:05:19,120 --> 01:05:21,680
Speaker 2: and felt betrayed by my friend. I confronted her again

1246
01:05:21,720 --> 01:05:24,520
Speaker 2: and threatened to press charges for animal neglect. I reminded

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01:05:24,520 --> 01:05:28,200
Speaker 2: her that Whiskers is a living being and depends on

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01:05:28,320 --> 01:05:30,880
Speaker 2: us for survival, and that her actions could have resulted

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01:05:31,040 --> 01:05:35,000
Speaker 2: in his death. Sarah apologized profusely and offered to make

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01:05:35,040 --> 01:05:37,520
Speaker 2: things right, but the damage was already done. I couldn't

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01:05:37,520 --> 01:05:39,760
Speaker 2: trust her to take care of Whiskers again and had

1252
01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:42,200
Speaker 2: to put an extra effort to nurse him back to health.

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Speaker 2: It's a heart wrenching experience. I felt that I was

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01:05:44,920 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 2: the one being neglectful as a pet owner. In the end,

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Speaker 2: I don't know if I'm the asshole for getting mad

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01:05:49,600 --> 01:05:51,960
Speaker 2: and threatening to press charges, but I couldn't help feeling

1257
01:05:51,960 --> 01:05:54,600
Speaker 2: that way in the moment. Whiskers is my family, and

1258
01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:56,920
Speaker 2: I would do anything to protect him, even if it

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01:05:57,000 --> 01:05:58,440
Speaker 2: means going against a friend.

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Speaker 1: Am I the a hole? I mean that's such a

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01:06:04,720 --> 01:06:07,640
Speaker 1: shitty thing to do to not feed someone's cat.

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01:06:07,960 --> 01:06:12,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, such a shitty thing to do. So so not

1263
01:06:12,640 --> 01:06:16,760
Speaker 2: the a hole because I mean she like, I mean,

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01:06:16,800 --> 01:06:18,040
Speaker 2: you have a cat, you kind of do.

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Speaker 1: I also have a sick, decrepit cat, not decrepit, but

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01:06:22,280 --> 01:06:28,000
Speaker 1: skinny cat. Dude, that's so fucking annoying. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's Harry didn't take care. I don't know if pressing charges.

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Speaker 2: You think that would be a met a little much.

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01:06:34,200 --> 01:06:37,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, he's your best friend and they apologize. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: That's a tough one.

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Speaker 2: And it's like the cat's doing better now.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, I'm on the fence. I'm on the fence here.

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Speaker 1: I don't think I would press charges. That might be

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Speaker 1: a little bit much. I already just take them for

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Speaker 1: all their worse. Yeah, might as well turn on your friends. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but no one has turned on anyone because this was

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Speaker 1: Ai John. No GPT roadets got done it.

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Speaker 2: Damn GPT full of us once fullness twice. But if

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Speaker 2: you have a real story that you want to us

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Speaker 2: abmit to our slash Okop show. Please do because we'll

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Speaker 2: read it on the show.

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Speaker 1: That's right. Maybe you