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Speaker 1: Second Date update. Where's the worst place to take a

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Speaker 1: woman on a first date?

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Speaker 2: The worst?

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jeffrey in the morning Home of the second

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Speaker 1: date update, I mean, like a garbage.

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Speaker 3: Are you going to give us options because I have

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Speaker 3: some ideas?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean crematorium comes to mind, the garbage, especially

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Speaker 1: if you talked about having barbecue already.

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Speaker 4: That.

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Speaker 1: There is something that might be worse than that.

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Speaker 5: There's no way, Jeff Well, I was gonna say, chure Nobyl,

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Speaker 5: but you know what, let's okay, let's talk to our

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Speaker 5: listener rehtt because he thinks he may have taken his

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Speaker 5: date someplace pretty regrettable.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's all you have to do is come

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Speaker 3: on our show and you'll feel better by comparison.

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Speaker 1: Before we find out about this woman, just tell us

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Speaker 1: the place that you took her.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I took her to my ex's house.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, what I am?

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, we got a backup, not even like the

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Speaker 3: restaurant where my ex works.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I know the bad idea.

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Speaker 1: Now, okay, it's good that you realize that. But let's

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Speaker 1: go back and let's start from the beginning. Where did

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Speaker 1: you meet this woman and what's her name?

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Speaker 3: And not yours.

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Speaker 1: You actually took out.

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Speaker 4: The girl that I took out. Her name's Christina. We

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Speaker 4: met at a hiking club, a small group of people

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Speaker 4: that get together and take heights on the weekend.

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Speaker 1: Let me guess you reached for the same cashew in

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Speaker 1: the bag of trail mix. And that's cute.

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Speaker 3: How did you turn it from hiking to a date?

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Speaker 4: So we're both cat people, So that's kind of how

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Speaker 4: we came together a little bit on that.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, bond cat hiking and cat people. Yeah, that's true.

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Speaker 3: So I mean you guys had a pretty good relationship then,

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Speaker 3: probably before you actually moved into the romantic world, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean we had tons of talks and I

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Speaker 4: mean tons of picture My cat's name is Soorbet. So

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Speaker 4: I set up a date at my house to help

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Speaker 3: Okay, I like how you said your house. That's good.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we were gonna make pizzas at my place. I

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Speaker 4: got a fancy pizza oven, nice, so we wanted to

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Speaker 4: do that. Introduced her to the cat. She looked real nice.

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Speaker 4: We didn't burn anything. That's usually a good sign.

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Speaker 3: I mean, were you able to have because you guys

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Speaker 3: had been friends already were you able to have like

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Speaker 3: some flirty moments.

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Speaker 1: Like come up behind her and need the pizza, like

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Speaker 1: show her, like grab her hands and show her, show

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Speaker 1: her how to toss it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we got like a little ghost moment with the pizza.

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Speaker 3: Do I do not say you did that.

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Speaker 4: I'm just kidding. Yeah, it was still flirty, a little

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Speaker 4: flower getting everywhere, but nothing crazy.

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Speaker 3: Oh kay, all right, that's cute. I mean it sounds

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like a great setup to go over

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Speaker 4: So, I mean I kept calling for the cat. The

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Speaker 3: And right, I mean, cats notoriously don't come when you

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Speaker 4: And then I remembered that I actually had dropped the

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Speaker 3: What do you remembered?

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Speaker 1: You and your ex split custody of your cat.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, I mean it was kind of a contentious

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Speaker 4: part of the breakup there, but I mean we're good now.

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Speaker 3: How could you forget that? It was the whole date

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Speaker 3: center that makes you look so bad. You're a cat

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Speaker 4: I had a pretty busy day and it split my mind.

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Speaker 4: I mean, I had the things to worry about.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, that is a lot to tackle, both pepperoni

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Speaker 1: I still don't get how did you end up at

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Speaker 4: So, right after we ate, I was pretty disappointed that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, okay, yeah, but just chalk it up and you

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Speaker 3: make a plan for the next time, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I wish I would have done that. That's a

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Speaker 4: good point. On our way home, I just figured i'd

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Speaker 4: swing by my exes and introduce her to Sorbet.

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Speaker 3: No making her home.

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Speaker 1: You brought Christina over to your ex's house.

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Speaker 4: Oh no, it sounds really bad when you say it

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Speaker 3: You didn't warn either woman, So show up unexpectedly with

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but usually my ex is pretty cool. If I

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Speaker 3: He alone.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So I mean when when we showed up, it

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Speaker 3: Yeah? Really yeah shocking.

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Speaker 1: I can see why you you guys broke up. She's

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Speaker 3: Yeah that's it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah. It was a lot of silence and patting the

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Speaker 3: You're all sitting on the couch together. Why did I

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 3: Like say hi to the cat. Then everybody parts.

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Speaker 1: You're like a scene to a funny movie.

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Speaker 3: You're inside.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So you guys all spent the night at your

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Speaker 1: how did that go?

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Speaker 4: That didn't happen? Thank god?

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Speaker 1: Okay good.

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Speaker 4: The whole time ended in like a real big fight.

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Speaker 3: Wait, a fight with who you in the ex or

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Speaker 3: what you and the cat?

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Speaker 4: Everybody kind of ended up shouting, yeah, Christina didn't like

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Speaker 4: my ex was being rude, my my accident like that

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Speaker 4: I brought a girl there.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 4: It was the whole thing.

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Speaker 3: Why are you wanting to call this girl again. Christina

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Speaker 3: doesn't want to have anything to do with you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but your show says you help people get second

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Speaker 3: The Apostle miracle workers over here. But oh my gosh,

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Speaker 3: can I just ask when you drop Christina off at

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Speaker 4: She actually gave me the finger, but I don't think

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Speaker 1: If it's a finger that I'm thinking of, then it

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Speaker 1: could be a good thing.

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Speaker 5: Too.

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Speaker 4: She was emotional. Now that we've had some space, it's

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Speaker 4: been about a week or so, so I figured we

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Speaker 1: Guys, at least this will be a great story, right, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm very eager to hear how Christina felt the experience.

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Speaker 3: This one was gonna be cussing.

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Speaker 1: We don't know. We're gonna call her. We'll see how

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Speaker 1: she's doing. But we do your second date update right

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Speaker 1: after this second date update. What went wrong on Rhett's

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Speaker 1: first date A little hard to say because there was pizza,

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Speaker 1: in a certain finger being pointed at Rhett when he

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Speaker 1: dropped Christina off at home. It wasn't a proposal with

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Speaker 1: the wedding ring. Other than that, though a plus Daterett,

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Speaker 1: you would agree, right, Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Other than all of that, I guess it was fine.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, Wait, I have a question. Have you had

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Speaker 4: Well, that's the biggest thing is I just haven't seen

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Speaker 4: I just I didn't want to mess that up.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, and you didn't.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure you're the one who needs to apologize. It

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Speaker 3: He needs to apologize to both women house. You can't

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Speaker 1: I don't know what who does that. I'm just clearly

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Speaker 3: Your ex shows up at your house today.

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Speaker 1: I don't have one, all right, But we don't know

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Speaker 1: the whole story. We have a hunch of what went wrong.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait to hear her story. And the thing

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Speaker 4: Yeah. I'm just a really nice guy who made one

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Speaker 4: dumb choice. And I told you the whole story.

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Speaker 3: Okay, Yeah, but her perspective is going to be interesting.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, perspective. Well, let's find out what that is. I'm

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Speaker 1: going to dial her right now. Hopefully she has nothing

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Speaker 1: but good things to.

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Speaker 3: Say about you, or she doesn't just cuss at us

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Speaker 1: Okay, we'll see how this goes. I'm dialing.

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Speaker 3: She flips us off as she answers the phone be

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Speaker 1: We'll be able to feel it.

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Speaker 5: Here you.

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Speaker 2: Hello?

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Speaker 1: Hey? Is this Christina?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Hey, Christina, good morning. We've all been very eager to

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Speaker 1: talk to you. Where a radio show called Brook and

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning And I don't even know where

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Speaker 3: Christina, how are you doing?

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Speaker 2: Fine?

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Speaker 1: What is this This is a radio show, and we're

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Speaker 1: doing a segment trying to help out one of our

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Speaker 1: listeners that you went on a date with recently. His

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Speaker 1: name is Rhett Er.

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Speaker 2: What.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, I mean actually that's a better response than

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Speaker 3: I expected from you. To be honest, I'm being serious.

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Speaker 1: Because we heard about your guys' hangout. We won't rehash

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Speaker 1: the whole story.

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Speaker 2: Wait a second, Yeah he emailed us. Why is he

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Speaker 2: doing that?

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Speaker 1: Well, obviously because he likes you.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean just that, like you guys were friends

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Speaker 3: one date and he knows he screwed it up.

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Speaker 2: No? He was like, Oh, I've got something to show you.

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Speaker 1: Oh god, okay, we did not know that part of

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I said, she yelled at me and called

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'm gonna tell you on the thirty second date

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Speaker 1: Look, I know that we all feel terrible about that.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. He lied to me too, Okay, not

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Speaker 2: No before that. So I knew him from hiking, Like

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Speaker 2: Honestly, I think that he lied about his cat's age

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean we do hear a lot of people

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Speaker 3: And hopefully apologize.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, I mean I'm going to apologize for the fight,

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Speaker 4: I mean, those are just details.

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Speaker 2: Well you might not think that's important, but I do.

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Speaker 4: Well maybe if your cat was more mature, it'd be Okay,

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Speaker 2: Well, that wasn't cool, but neither in lying about the

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Speaker 1: Okay, there are a lot of cats that it need.

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Speaker 5: Es you're dating.

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Speaker 1: I like the problem solving. That's a positive.

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Speaker 2: So my cat's a third wheel.

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Speaker 4: Now that's great.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you find very interesting things important for your dating life.

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Speaker 2: we're shuffling back and forth between a deck. Who thinks

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I could see that part, but I

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Speaker 4: But I take offense to that because my cat maybe nine,

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Speaker 1: Don't know how many lives as least.

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Speaker 3: I think it's just cat fit.

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Speaker 1: Why would you?

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Speaker 3: Why would you just say I swear not lie to

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Speaker 4: Well, because it's like super important. I want her to

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Speaker 1: I don't know two cats, three cats, one cat, no cat, whatever,

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Speaker 1: Yes, he went through all this effort to make this happen,

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Speaker 3: Are we miracle workers? Because that is insane?

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Speaker 1: Yes, we should take all the credit for its Look,

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Speaker 1: Jeffrey in the morning, you know what really makes me

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Speaker 1: It's a good reminder that everybody crazy. Everybody values different

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Speaker 2: I mean maybe you could have still been dating the Yes, yeah,

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Speaker 2: I don't care about that.

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Speaker 1: Yes, it still mattered to her, just not quite as

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Speaker 3: Everyone's got different priorities.

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Speaker 1: And we know that now. So whatever is important to you,

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Speaker 1: we will call that person who's not calling you back.

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Speaker 1: Email the show so we can help, and go check

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