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Speaker 1: Second date, up date.

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Speaker 2: You know, researchers say what you text a person after

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Speaker 2: a good first date can actually be more important than

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Speaker 2: the date itself.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, I mean you do look forward to it.

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Speaker 4: That is not.

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Speaker 3: Helpful for people who really overthink that text. Jeff.

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Speaker 2: I'm just saying, look, for example, if you were to

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Speaker 2: text hey, I had a great time with you tonight. Also,

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Speaker 2: I accidentally took your fork from the dinner for a

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Speaker 2: DNA TESTA.

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Speaker 5: No, that's not good. You might not go over quite

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Speaker 5: so well.

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Speaker 6: So you just leave it as I took your fork,

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Speaker 6: And you're just.

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Speaker 5: Saying, just try not to overthink it. That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: Because one of our listeners, Carly, says she had a

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Speaker 2: text exchange with a guy after they went out and

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Speaker 2: it could be the reason she's not getting called back. Now,

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Speaker 2: we're gonna get to that and talk about the text

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Speaker 2: in a little bit, But first Carly, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 7: Hey, everybody, But first Carly, we want to hear the

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Speaker 7: good part.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, and I don't ask this a lot, but

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Speaker 2: how important is it for you, Carly to get a

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Speaker 2: second date here with this guy? Is it a like

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Speaker 2: a lot like yay nay or hay neighbor type of situation.

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Speaker 3: It's hey neighbor.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the media. Is it a yay nay or

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Speaker 2: hay neighbor? Where are you on the important scale?

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Speaker 3: No?

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Speaker 7: No, no, it's a yay obviously.

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Speaker 3: Okay, why would you not do one through ten?

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Speaker 2: No, that's not as fun as we only do fun

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Speaker 2: stuff on our show. So this this guy is a yay.

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Speaker 2: Tell us about him and how you two met.

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Speaker 7: His name is Blaine, and I was at Top Golf

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Speaker 7: with some friends. I was there for a party.

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Speaker 3: And a great place to meet people. Yeah, yeah, what

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Speaker 3: I never want someone to see me there nobody.

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Speaker 5: Trying to help you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys love to show you. I don't know

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Speaker 3: that reach around and just show you how to do it.

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Speaker 5: Is that what Blaine did for you?

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Speaker 7: So, like he was there with a group of guys

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Speaker 7: and he were in like the next all over. So

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Speaker 7: we were just talking when it wasn't our turn, and

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Speaker 7: like we hit.

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Speaker 5: It off, cute hit it off.

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Speaker 1: Well I knew you would fun, Okay, I would.

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Speaker 2: I I'm sorry about that. Yeah I already said that joke.

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Speaker 2: But that's okay, Carley, keep going. So you guys hit

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Speaker 2: it off.

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Speaker 7: How Yeah, how he asked me out? I thought was

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Speaker 7: kind of cute because he gave me his number on

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Speaker 7: a golf ball. He wrote it on there with a

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Speaker 7: Sharpie's cool?

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Speaker 6: Actually, is it bad that I'm already thinking if you

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Speaker 6: got married, it would have to all be golf seeing Now?

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, this guy isn't even calling her back. Let's

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Speaker 2: not start making the wedding plans and choosing the plates

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Speaker 2: and everything.

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Speaker 5: That's true.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so that sounds really nice. Did you guys end

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Speaker 2: up hanging out?

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Speaker 7: Yes, we said we were going to hang out next Friday,

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Speaker 7: so we kind of planned that even before we left.

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Speaker 7: But then we were texting and I was like, I

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Speaker 7: to Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Also, don't waste a Friday night. That's a good call.

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Speaker 3: It's the whole chapel a weekend a guy.

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Speaker 2: Somebody's jaded over there? All right, Okay, so you moved

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Speaker 2: it up to tuesday.

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Speaker 5: How did that go?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: It was a really good date. I got to know

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Speaker 7: like what's important in his life, and you know, he's

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Speaker 6: So okay, so wait, I'm sorry. Were you guys just

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Speaker 6: at dinner? Is that what you did on Tuesday?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Like dinner drinks?

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Speaker 5: Okay, cool way to downplay it, Brooke, No.

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Speaker 3: I'm just trying to set the scene.

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Speaker 5: That's all you did. You just did dinner.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 5: How'd you feel after that hangout?

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Speaker 7: I mean I felt great, Like he seems like a

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Speaker 7: really great, caring guy. We did end up kissing.

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Speaker 3: How was the kids?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: Oh it was really good.

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Speaker 3: Look she's smiling.

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Speaker 7: Okay.

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Speaker 2: You did say the one thing that you're worried about

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Speaker 2: that could have stopped you from hanging out again was

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Speaker 2: your text message exchange afterwards.

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Speaker 5: Can you get into that or.

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Speaker 3: Just read it sassy today?

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Speaker 1: Just read it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know how long it is. Just give us

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Speaker 5: the vibe I think.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: I mean, you know, like sometimes when your friends will

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Speaker 7: ask you about to some expensive place and you're just

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Speaker 7: not in a place to do that. So I just

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Speaker 7: wanted to be honest and let him know where I

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Speaker 7: was at. I did tell him that I was a

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Speaker 7: little short on my rent this month.

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Speaker 6: Oh okay, how did you jump from?

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Speaker 4: That?

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Speaker 3: Was a fun night, I thought you.

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Speaker 8: Were just going to say, hey, our next day, let's

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Speaker 8: not do top golf, maybe something a little lighter.

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Speaker 3: You know, Wait, didn't he pay for dinner?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? He paid for dinner.

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Speaker 5: Okay, she's just sharing.

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Speaker 2: I think she's trying to like be honest and be

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Speaker 2: like I'm in a vulnerable place.

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Speaker 1: Only get that.

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Speaker 6: I'm just curious how you brought it up, Like, is

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Speaker 6: it seems so out of the blue.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean we were just like talk about date

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Speaker 7: and then we were talking about like, well, what you're

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Speaker 7: week like and what are you doing? And I was

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Speaker 7: just feeling a little stressed because of this, and so

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Speaker 7: like it was just sharing like general stuff.

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Speaker 2: Well it sounds normal to me, Like, don't you when

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Speaker 2: you were dating Brooke talk about paying rent with all

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Speaker 2: the guys that you hung out with your rent?

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Speaker 4: Do?

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Speaker 3: I think they? Like, I think it's good to be

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Speaker 6: But I'm wondering if he read it as basically an

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Speaker 5: Oh that's how I read it, And how did he

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Speaker 7: He was like really sweet and he he did send

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Speaker 7: me a little bit of money.

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Speaker 5: I mean like, oh, really, that.

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Speaker 7: Sounds like he's an amazing guy who cares. I mean,

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Speaker 7: we've been on one date. I wasn't expecting him to

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Speaker 5: He set Wow, are you taking notes over there?

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Speaker 3: But he set you money and then stopped talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Because that's kind of strange.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, what happened after that?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and then we were supposed to go out again,

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Speaker 7: and now he's just not responding.

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Speaker 5: Huh.

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Speaker 3: Do you think he regrets the money?

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Speaker 6: He said, like, maybe he sent it when he was

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Speaker 6: feeling bad, and then after he thought about it, he's like, ah, man,

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Speaker 6: that's kind of a week.

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Speaker 7: I was money for the date and then he ran out.

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Speaker 5: I fought a nice gift.

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Speaker 2: For a girl, and you spent a couple hundred box

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Speaker 2: and then they kind of insinuated want to another and

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Speaker 2: you realize, all right, this may be the base of

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm back out right now.

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Speaker 2: An exchange of money or goods can change the vibe

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Speaker 2: between two people. You would know, Jeff, Yes, I'm very

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Speaker 2: cold after the exchange. I will tell you that even

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Speaker 2: though I'm satisfied in the moment away, let's just not

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Speaker 2: get into this. We need to call Blaine and figure

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Speaker 2: out where his head is at. That's the most important

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Speaker 2: We're going to come back and do that with your

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Speaker 2: second date update.

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Speaker 5: Right after this second date update, we're.

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Speaker 2: In the middle of a second date update with one

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Speaker 2: of our listeners, Carly.

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Speaker 5: Am I saying that right, Carly?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Do you want to emphasize the why more Harley.

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Speaker 2: Ex It could be the traditional pronunciation of Carly. We're

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Speaker 2: all still recovering from some of the information that we

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Speaker 2: learned about her date with Blaine, and.

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Speaker 3: She shared a lot.

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Speaker 2: She did all the highlights real quick. They had a

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Speaker 2: great meet up at Top Golf. It's where they met,

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Speaker 2: had a great get to know you date sash followed

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Speaker 2: by kind of an awkward tech exchange that involved him

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Speaker 2: sending our listener Carly money because she admitted she was

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Speaker 3: Ah, which is really kind of him.

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Speaker 5: It is, but it does change the vibe. I mean

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Speaker 5: me just saying it, Yeah, it does.

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Speaker 2: It feels awkward to say they exchanged money afterwards, but

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Speaker 2: he did send her some and then after that did

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Speaker 4: I have a question.

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Speaker 2: I usually don't pipe up this early, but was it alone, Like,

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Speaker 2: was this something that you was supposed to pay you back?

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Speaker 5: Or he just gave you the money expecting nothing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, he didn't say it was alone.

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Speaker 5: I guess it's not if he's not calling you back.

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Speaker 3: Okay, he's the worst loan shark.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, never mind.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean maybe it's just because she didn't send

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Speaker 6: him a formal thank you.

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Speaker 2: Oh I feel like Carl, you must have said thank you?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 7: Oh yeah of course.

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Speaker 5: Okay, So what's running through your head?

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Speaker 1: Then?

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Speaker 5: What's going through your mind before we reach out to him?

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Speaker 7: I don't know, I mean like it might admit it weird,

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Speaker 7: but I really like I I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you don't know. But you also made your rent, right,

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Speaker 3: so that's good news.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm gonna I really like him. So, I mean,

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Speaker 7: like as they really bummed. If that's the reason, you know.

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Speaker 6: I'm gonna tell you if a guy asked me to

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Speaker 6: help pay his rent, I probably wouldn't call him back.

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Speaker 5: Husband, Michael, do not ask Brooke to chip intowards. This

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Speaker 5: is on you this time. Let's just reach out. We'll

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Speaker 5: see if Blaine picks up, and hopefully he has an

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Speaker 5: explanation for us. But here we go. Hello, Hey is

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Speaker 5: this Blaine?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just Blaine.

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Speaker 5: Hey, man, what's up. It's Jeff just.

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Speaker 3: On a first name basis.

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Speaker 5: Jeff, I thought he would know.

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Speaker 3: What has anybody ever known?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Takes a lot.

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Speaker 7: I'm sorry.

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Speaker 4: Who are you guys?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'll explain. We're a radio show. We're called Brook

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Speaker 5: Well on the show. Yeah, it's a good thing, should be.

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Speaker 2: We're calling you for a really fun, exciting reason because

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Speaker 4: Yeah she really like to Yeah, okay, okay, okay, make

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Speaker 4: does that make you curious? You have? No, not really.

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Speaker 8: I mean she's cute, she's fun. I'm just not interested

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Speaker 4: Me to tell you?

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Speaker 5: I get it. Cute and fun YEA a million of

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Speaker 2: But look, it would be helpful if we get a

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Speaker 2: I don't know if it's too much to delve into this,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we had a nice guess at the end of

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Speaker 3: Okay, can you give us something here to tell her?

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Speaker 4: Like, well, okay, after our days we started texting each other.

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Speaker 4: She said thanks, I had a good time, and then

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Speaker 4: we started making plans that She mentioned that she was

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Speaker 5: Whoa, that's that's new information to us.

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Speaker 3: Wait, we're going to say that.

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Speaker 6: Okay, any chance you sent her money?

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Speaker 4: So I actually did?

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, we're all acting surprise.

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Speaker 5: Now, what a generous move of you.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: So wait, I have a question. Why did you send

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Speaker 8: I felt bad, I mean like I've been short too,

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Speaker 4: I'm in a decent spot.

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Speaker 8: I asked her what her VENMO was, and I kicked

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Speaker 8: her two hundred dollars right away.

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Speaker 2: She mentioned that you were like a really good, caring guy.

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Speaker 6: And when you're describing it too, like you're not shaming her,

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Speaker 2: Like yeah, right, did that make it weird? Though, to

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Speaker 4: Not exactly, I mean, I'm what what was weird is

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Speaker 8: She was like, thank you, thank you, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: but then she says, I'm still eight hundred short.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, maybe maybe she was just telling you that

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Speaker 5: That you could run her finances.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, before how she already said she couldn't pay her.

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Speaker 6: I don't know, just.

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Speaker 3: What was going on?

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Speaker 5: What was going on with your in your mind?

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Speaker 8: There's no way I'm giving a thousand dollars to a

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Speaker 8: that's just a bad feeling, you know, it's a whole

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Speaker 3: Yeah, and that's really short on rent.

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Speaker 8: Yeah yeah, I started thinking, like you do this to

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Speaker 6: It definitely doesn't feel like she's a scam artist or

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Speaker 5: Yeah, most girls don't at first.

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Speaker 4: Brook.

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Speaker 3: Oh, I think it's pretty honest.

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Speaker 8: Whatever her situation is, it's just not something I want

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Speaker 2: I think before you make any final decisions on that,

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Speaker 2: I feel like maybe you need to hear from Carly

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Speaker 5: To talk to you. Yeah, she's waiting for the other

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Speaker 3: Didn't call for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm kidding. We didn't even know about the eight

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Speaker 5: Carl are you there?

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Speaker 7: Hey, Yeah, I'm here. I mean, you're actee like it's

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Speaker 7: I just told him I was still short.

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Speaker 1: Are you wait?

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Speaker 2: Are you're putting it out as a vibe, like as

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Speaker 8: Like why else would you tell me that after I

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Speaker 8: Why else would you share that information? And what's what's

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Speaker 3: What is that what you said?

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Speaker 6: Carly?

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Speaker 3: You're not working?

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Speaker 4: She He actually said to me, I still got the text.

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Speaker 4: I can read it to you.

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Speaker 3: Oh that's what I wanted to begin. Please help us,

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Speaker 3: That's what I asked her to do.

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Speaker 5: What did she say?

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Speaker 8: Well, no, it says right here, she's like, look, I

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, that's way different.

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Speaker 3: Why I thought you were trying to be vulnerable with

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Speaker 7: You don't have to go to work, I mean, like

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Speaker 3: That's crazy.

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Speaker 4: This makes me question everything, like how did she even

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 8: Did she pay for it or somebody else pay for it?

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Speaker 2: You know you don't have to pay for top golf,

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Speaker 2: Yes you do. If you're at a birthday party, you don't, Jeff.

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Speaker 3: Everyone chips in for birthday parties except for you. It's

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Speaker 3: and I have to say, Jeff, you have to pay

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Speaker 5: Before they bring the bill. There's nothing they can do.

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Speaker 5: Just like everything's free, you don't pay, it's not.

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Speaker 3: Do not back this up, curly. This is not good

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Speaker 3: for you.

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Speaker 1: I just don't.

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Speaker 3: If you want rent going like a sugar dotty site normal.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you don't got a trick people.

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Speaker 6: You could just be open to yeah, I mean, or

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Speaker 3: It's just the universal rule of life.

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Speaker 5: Why you being mean? She'd went to work? She got

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Speaker 3: She said until next month.

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Speaker 2: The person that we really need to focus on here

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Speaker 2: is Blaine. I bet he feels horrible for not coming

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Speaker 4: Right, Yeah, I feel so horrible.

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Speaker 5: Okay, really wanted to hear because he's.

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Speaker 8: No, I'm not responsible for someone.

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Speaker 5: Well here's what.

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Speaker 2: You won't have to be responsible for paying for your

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Speaker 5: Bill for you.

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Speaker 3: Is that why you call it? From the beginning? Car

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Speaker 3: We're going to cover the check.

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Speaker 2: Actually, wait, that made me think of something, Carly. Did

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Speaker 5: Because is that why you changed the day?

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Speaker 7: That it's a coincidence?

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Speaker 6: Come on, No, Jay is way too specific to be

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Speaker 5: The first of the month. Carly.

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Speaker 2: I am equally parts disappointed and impressed by you.

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Speaker 7: Okay, you guys are reading way too much into this,

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Speaker 7: Like we just get on with the gifts card thing.

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Speaker 2: Jokes on you, Carly. Nobody here reads. But let's let's

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Speaker 2: do what he said. Let's ask Blaine, would you like

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Speaker 5: On our time?

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Speaker 4: I'm not feeling it. No, I go next thing.

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Speaker 8: I know she's probably gonna be trying to sell me

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Speaker 5: Carly, do you have some available though, because now the time.

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Speaker 7: Sounds like no, I don't do crypto.

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Speaker 3: She hasn't do any money. Nobody freaking Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 5: Man, I didn't know that working was optional.

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Speaker 3: It's not.

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Speaker 5: We've all been here dedicating her whole You know I

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Speaker 2: Hold on a second, Hey, Brooks, I'm a little short

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Speaker 2: I'm sure you've got some extra cash. Question mark check

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Speaker 2: sent Okay, okay, I'll see how she responds to that.

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Speaker 5: I don't know, hopefully looking at it is.

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Speaker 2: Look at that she said, yes I did.

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Speaker 5: I'm not sending you picks for it. You know what appropriate?

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Speaker 6: Okay?

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Speaker 5: Okay, No, I'm not brook stop say close stop it. Okay, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I'm just going to send her to the link to

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Speaker 3: Past.

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Speaker 5: Now, I'm going to send her the link and my

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Speaker 5: not talk to me ever again. Thank you. All right,

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Speaker 5: the show is gonna be weird moving forward.

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Speaker 3: Don't send that to me.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, there was something in there for you. Two extra Brook.

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Speaker 2: Go check out our podcast where you get yours at

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Speaker 2: Brook and Jeffrey. All of our photos are up on there,

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Speaker 2: and email the show if you want help.

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Speaker 5: We'll call that person who's not calling you back Brook

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Speaker 5: and Jeffrey

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Speaker 3: In the morning.