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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone.

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Speaker 2: It's the Fred Show. Hey Pete, good morning, welcome to

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Speaker 2: the program. How are you.

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Speaker 3: Good morning, I'm doing fantastic.

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Speaker 1: Here are you? We're great? Thank you.

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Speaker 2: Waiting by the phone is what this is called. We're

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Speaker 2: trying to figure out if a woman named Lily may

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Speaker 2: have ghosted you. So can you kind of set us

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Speaker 2: up here, you know, give us the backstory about how

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Speaker 2: you met and about any dates that you've been on,

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Speaker 2: and why you think you're being ghosted? Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Sure, thing.

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Speaker 1: So I met Lily at the beach the other day.

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Speaker 3: She was just so gorgeous there, and I was so nervous,

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Speaker 3: and I finally got the chance to worked up the

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Speaker 3: courage to go for out after a couple of drinks.

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Speaker 1: Of course, look at you.

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Speaker 2: Walking up to other humans and and speaking, you know,

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Speaker 2: in person, face to face.

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Speaker 1: Look at you. This is unheard of. I love this.

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Speaker 4: I know, you know.

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Speaker 3: The little the bus helped a little bit.

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Speaker 1: I'm yeah, sure, yeah, yeah help.

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Speaker 3: So so I and the next day I asked her

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Speaker 3: out and sot out was really nice dinner, and uh,

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm just she ghosted me afterwards, and

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Speaker 3: I'm just not sure, why because I feel like I

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Speaker 3: did everything right.

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Speaker 2: And they all do.

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Speaker 1: I guess that.

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Speaker 3: I mean, that's just kind of how it goes, like,

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Speaker 3: I don't.

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Speaker 1: Know one of the ones.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you you approached her in person, so you

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Speaker 2: kind of gauge the chemistry.

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Speaker 1: So did she exchange numbers? You go on a date.

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Speaker 2: I mean, you didn't waste much time much time, it

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Speaker 2: doesn't sound like and you think that the date went,

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Speaker 2: you know, you look back on it and the conversation

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Speaker 2: was good and everything was flowing, and you really were like,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna see this woman again. This is great, except

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Speaker 2: now you can't get ahold of her.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean I think I'm back, Like I feel

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Speaker 3: like she got a little bit quiet and at the

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Speaker 3: end of the date. But I mean, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I just tiredly went for Italian. So maybe she was

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Speaker 3: just like carb overload.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it could be. Yeah, we're gonna find out, or

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Speaker 2: at least we're gonna try. We're gonna call this woman Lily.

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Speaker 2: You'll be on the phone at the same time. At

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Speaker 2: some point you're welcome to jump in, and you know,

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Speaker 2: what we're hoping for is that we can set you

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Speaker 2: guys up on another date and pay for that.

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Speaker 1: All right, yeah, but.

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Speaker 2: Hang on one second. We'll be back in two minutes. It,

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Speaker 2: we'll do it. Okay, let's find out what's going on

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Speaker 2: after Sizza on the Fred Show.

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Speaker 1: Stay right in here.

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Speaker 2: We're commercial free, by the way, almost forty five minutes,

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Speaker 2: no commercials Suside's a commercial free fresh show. Good morning,

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much for waking up with us. Hey, Pete, yo,

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Speaker 2: all right, let's call it Lily. You guys, you met

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Speaker 2: on the beach, actually, and you walked up to her.

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Speaker 2: This is this is crazy. Kick you listen to what

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Speaker 2: he did. He walked up to her. I love this

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Speaker 2: face to face in person. He used his mouth. He

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Speaker 2: spoke to her, yes, looked her in the eye and said,

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Speaker 2: would you like to go out with me? And then

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Speaker 2: she looked him back and said I would like to

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Speaker 2: do that. She used her mouth as well, and then

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Speaker 2: they exchanged numbers and then they went on a date

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Speaker 2: the next day. Like I mean, the whole thing is

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Speaker 2: just as like it's extinct, the whole process human contact.

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Speaker 1: Never even heard of it.

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Speaker 4: I know.

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Speaker 2: Well, this is what happens. So except now Lily's not

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Speaker 2: calling him back. Pete is this all right, so far

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Speaker 2: that's correct, okay, and you want to know why, So

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Speaker 2: let's call her now and see if we can figure

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Speaker 1: Good luck, Pete, thank you. Hello, Hi, this is Lily.

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Speaker 3: Yea, this is Lilyly.

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Speaker 1: Good morning. My name is Fred.

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Speaker 2: I'm calling for the Fred Show, the morning radio show,

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Speaker 2: and I do have to tell you that we are

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Speaker 2: on the air right now and I would need your

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Speaker 2: permission to continue with the call. Can we chat for

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Speaker 2: a little bit on the on the show?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Why not? Okay, Well, thank you so much.

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Speaker 2: I know it's a little bit weird to get a

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Speaker 2: call like this, but we're calling on behalf of a

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Speaker 2: dude named Pete who says he met you at the beach.

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Speaker 2: I guess walked up to you and you guys went

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Speaker 2: on a date recently.

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Speaker 4: Oh yeah, okay about Pete.

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Speaker 2: This is it is so well what happened because he

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Speaker 2: told us that he met you, he walked up to you,

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Speaker 2: you guys chatted when on a date the next day.

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Speaker 2: He thought everything went well, but now he can't get

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Speaker 2: a hold of you. So what's going on on?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it was so weird.

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Speaker 4: I yeah, it's a no for me. I mean I

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Speaker 4: don't want to see Pete again. Okay, So yeah, we

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Speaker 2: Well, we'd like to know because we want to be

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Speaker 2: able to tell him. You know, no one likes to

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Speaker 2: be ghosted, and I know that it happens, and I

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Speaker 2: know that it comes with the territory sometimes, but in

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Speaker 2: this case, you know, we can offer him some closures.

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Speaker 1: So what happened?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, look the entire date, Pete was just straight

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Speaker 4: up picking his nose, and it's just this is gross,

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Speaker 4: Like the guys shouldn't be doing that these days. I

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Speaker 4: mean they should have these days in.

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Speaker 2: The past maybe, but now we don't do that anymore.

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Speaker 2: So he was picking his nose. I mean, this isn't

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Speaker 2: like he had an a sure, a one time thing.

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Speaker 2: I mean he was constantly up in there you're saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, throughout the whole day.

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Speaker 4: And I don't even think he realized he was doing

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Speaker 4: it because he was just picking, like in every activity,

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Speaker 4: like he was talking, he was picking, he was ordering food,

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Speaker 4: he was ticking, like he was grabbing things off the table,

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Speaker 4: he was taking.

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Speaker 3: It was just weird, you know.

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Speaker 2: So this isn't like I just plucked my nose hairs

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Speaker 2: and up and that you can handle from the outside.

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Speaker 2: I mean we were, we were going, it was taking

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Speaker 2: for gold. This was an expedition, you're saying exactly.

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Speaker 4: I don't know if this is like a habit. He

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Speaker 4: he was also touching things with the same hand.

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Speaker 2: That everybody knows we're going to pick your nose. You

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Speaker 2: used the other hand to touch them. But let me,

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Speaker 2: I'm want to bring Pete in here. I forgot to

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Speaker 2: mention that Pete is here. Uh did you notice that.

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Speaker 1: You were doing this? And maybe you thought you were

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Speaker 1: You weren't going to get caught, Pete.

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Speaker 3: Look, okay, there are two kinds of people in this world.

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Speaker 3: People that pick their nose and people that lie about it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so this absolutely happened. I mean, you're not You're

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Speaker 2: not even going to sit here and tell us you

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Speaker 2: were not picking your nose. You you were.

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Speaker 3: I mean I didn't think it was like all out

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Speaker 2: But see, this is like you know, and I can

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Speaker 2: only speak obviously from the male perspective, but like if

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Speaker 2: you try and pick your nose because it's itching, and

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Speaker 2: you try and do it discreetly. This is similar to

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Speaker 2: me as like if you, if you like, are trying

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Speaker 2: to adjust yourself as a dude, and you try and

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Speaker 1: With like a long step or you know what I mean,

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Speaker 1: Like you try.

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Speaker 2: And you try to try a little wider, right, You

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Speaker 2: try and incorporate it into a normal movement, hoping that

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Speaker 1: But you do like a you do like a squat

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Speaker 1: almost stum geting.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, they get a little sticky sometimes and they stick

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Speaker 2: to stuff. So yeah, so you do like one of

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Speaker 2: those I don't know, I don't go to the gym,

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Speaker 2: but you know what it looks like, yeah, right, and

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Speaker 2: you're hoping that nobody sees you take like an extra

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Speaker 1: Right right exactly. And so this wasn't that.

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Speaker 2: I mean, he's just saying right now, like, yeah, this

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Speaker 2: no one's ever complained about this before, Pete. The fact

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Speaker 3: I haven't been on a date like super recently but

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Speaker 3: it makes sense.

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Speaker 2: It's gross. I mean, Pete, it's gross. No, he wants

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Speaker 2: every now and again. Maybe you got a got a

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Speaker 1: You got it, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 3: But like, come on, I think I don't think I

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Speaker 1: Well you do it like it's it's.

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Speaker 3: Up your nose, you know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why would she make the same Yeah, yeah, you

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Speaker 4: I mean it was gross. We were on a date,

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Speaker 4: Like you should have some common courtesy not to do that,

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Speaker 4: Like do that and when you're walking in the park, but.

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Speaker 1: Like not on a date in the park.

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Speaker 2: He's got like an inchy nose, or he's a cocaine

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Speaker 2: cowboy or I don't know what's going on, but like,

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Speaker 2: for whatever reason, there was a lot of a lot

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Speaker 2: of nose picking going on. Literally, well we can we

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Speaker 2: give him another shot. I mean now, I mean it

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Speaker 2: doesn't sound like he is ashamed of it. But here

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Speaker 2: he here he is. Now he has the knowledge, you know,

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Speaker 2: he don't pick your nose on a date. I can't

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Speaker 2: believe to say this. I mean, this is what I

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Speaker 2: do for a living. For some reason, But would you

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Speaker 2: give another shot?

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Speaker 4: No? Definitely, not like I don't want to be seen

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Speaker 4: with a guy that does this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, Hey Pete, what can I say? She's

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Speaker 2: not interested. You don't seem ashamed though, So maybe there's

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Speaker 2: a woman out there who is an equal, equally intense nosepicker.

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Maybe I don't love how d he.

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Speaker 2: Is unfazed by this. He's like, yeah, I do it

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Speaker 2: for you, so what No? Not good for him? Yes,

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Speaker 2: saying every I feel like every day I have to

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Speaker 2: say this. We live in a society. I'm afraid to

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Speaker 2: ask what you do with the you know, after you're

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Speaker 2: done it, But we don't need that. You should be

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Speaker 2: afraid you ask that because we don't want the answer. Lily,

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Speaker 2: thank you for answering, and thank you for your time. Pete,

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Speaker 2: I guess good luck.

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Speaker 4: Thank you