WEBVTT - Match My Fly or Bye Bye Bye 0:00:00.160 --> 0:00:03.159 Welcome to Carefully Reckless, the production of Our Heart Radio 0:00:03.240 --> 0:00:20.640 and the Black Effect. And just like that, we're back 0:00:20.640 --> 0:00:23.159 on the head. Welcome back to yet another episode of 0:00:23.160 --> 0:00:26.360 Carefully Reckless. What's Your Girl? Just hilarious? Now listen. I 0:00:26.480 --> 0:00:30.040 had the pleasure the honor of going to sit down 0:00:30.040 --> 0:00:32.760 with Gilly and Willottle crazy asses, them niggas from Philly. 0:00:33.200 --> 0:00:35.760 They got a podcast. It's called Million Dollars Worth of Game. Now. 0:00:35.760 --> 0:00:38.279 I love these niggas. They cool, And before I went 0:00:38.360 --> 0:00:41.600 up there, I had already knew to braced myself right now, Look, 0:00:42.440 --> 0:00:44.159 that's kind of what the topic is about the day. 0:00:44.200 --> 0:00:47.159 It's story time about my own self, all right, So 0:00:47.240 --> 0:00:49.919 grab your t grab your holes, because these niggas had 0:00:49.960 --> 0:00:55.360 me fucked up, all right. So look, one of the 0:00:55.440 --> 0:00:58.440 topics was being single. Now neither one of them niggas 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:00.800 are single, but they want to ask if I'm single 0:01:00.880 --> 0:01:03.000 or not. And they know, God damn well that I am. 0:01:03.160 --> 0:01:06.839 Everybody knows that I am. All right, So Gilly asked 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.479 me he just had to be the one, Jess, You're single. 0:01:09.720 --> 0:01:12.360 I say yeah, he said, okay, okay, I thought that 0:01:12.440 --> 0:01:15.600 was gonna be it. Willow straight cut him off. Willow said, Okay, damn, 0:01:15.760 --> 0:01:17.680 what what niggas need to do to get a shot 0:01:17.720 --> 0:01:20.160 at you look at the camera right now and telling 0:01:20.640 --> 0:01:22.360 how they can how they can have a shot with 0:01:22.440 --> 0:01:24.560 jest hilarious. I say, Yo, you just gotta be real. 0:01:24.600 --> 0:01:26.320 You gotta understand that I'm ahole bit. You gotta be 0:01:26.360 --> 0:01:27.959 able to have your own money. You gotta be able 0:01:27.959 --> 0:01:29.600 to match my ship. If you don't make more than me, 0:01:29.640 --> 0:01:32.120 you still gotta make something up that statue. You know, 0:01:32.160 --> 0:01:33.679 you gotta be up there. You know what I'm saying 0:01:33.720 --> 0:01:35.280 that you know what up there means if you're up there. 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:36.880 If you're not, then you know you're not you know 0:01:36.920 --> 0:01:39.520 what I mean. So Willow cut me off and he goes, 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.560 you know, you know, Wilo get to talk and he 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:43.920 can't stop this. Nigga says, so you mean to tell 0:01:43.959 --> 0:01:46.840 me that you you can't date a cash it at 0:01:46.840 --> 0:01:50.240 walmut or a piece of delivery boy, or or you know, 0:01:50.320 --> 0:01:54.440 like a driver or no. I said, very calmly, I'm like, no, 0:01:54.920 --> 0:01:58.120 gilly Quaid, how dumb standing sitting there and looking like okay, cool? 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:00.120 She said, No, Let's move to the next question. No, 0:02:00.280 --> 0:02:03.640 Wiler is trying to force me to be with these 0:02:03.680 --> 0:02:05.800 types of niggas. He's like, nah, So you mean, like, 0:02:05.800 --> 0:02:07.880 what if he a manager at Target? Like you know, 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:10.400 because you know you've been in shopping for towels and 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:12.480 soap and all of that stuff. You know, y'all girls 0:02:12.480 --> 0:02:14.320 go there to get your lip glosses and ship. Like, 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:16.480 what if you see him in the owls? I'm like, nah, 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:18.960 I'm never gonna see a manager in the house because 0:02:18.960 --> 0:02:20.880 managers don't roam the oles. You know what I'm saying. 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.880 I noticed because I've been a manager. We stay in 0:02:22.919 --> 0:02:25.400 the office, not doing ship, watching the cameras, you know 0:02:25.400 --> 0:02:27.840 what I'm saying. He's like, no, no, no, no, But 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.600 what if it was? And then Gilly cut him off, 0:02:30.600 --> 0:02:35.240 like yo, she said no, nigga, no. Now fast forward 0:02:35.360 --> 0:02:37.800 to when they posted about this ship. I got a 0:02:37.800 --> 0:02:40.079 lot of backlash from the men. They did the same 0:02:40.120 --> 0:02:43.240 thing to me that they were doing to be somemone. Now, listen, 0:02:43.520 --> 0:02:47.560 it's a preference. It's a fucking preference. My preference is 0:02:47.600 --> 0:02:50.680 not to deal with a guy who has, you know, 0:02:50.760 --> 0:02:53.120 a job of that stature. No, you can't be a 0:02:53.200 --> 0:02:55.919 cash fucking with me. No, you can't be a piece 0:02:55.919 --> 0:02:58.400 of delivery boy, fucking with me. No, you can't be 0:02:58.440 --> 0:03:02.239 a manager at Target working with me. Now, listen, I'm 0:03:02.240 --> 0:03:04.680 not saying nobody would have nine to five. That's not 0:03:04.720 --> 0:03:07.240 what I said. That's what b Simone said. You can't 0:03:07.240 --> 0:03:09.000 have no nine to five. And she gave up a 0:03:09.040 --> 0:03:12.600 good reason because nine to five. Niggas don't understand what 0:03:12.840 --> 0:03:14.919 she do. You know what I mean, whether that was 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:16.919 her real reason or not. All right, she gave a reason, 0:03:16.960 --> 0:03:20.440 but still everybody jumped on her asks because that was 0:03:20.520 --> 0:03:23.880 her preference. I don't understand why to this date that 0:03:23.919 --> 0:03:25.480 A lot of guys got mad at her for that, 0:03:25.560 --> 0:03:27.200 A lot of females got mad at her for that. 0:03:27.440 --> 0:03:29.600 My preference is, you just gotta have a certain type 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.720 of job. You can have a job because, believe it 0:03:31.800 --> 0:03:33.720 or not, I don't want to date a celebrity. No 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:35.640 I do not. I do not want to date an athlete. 0:03:35.640 --> 0:03:37.080 I don't want to date an actor. I don't want 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.000 to date a rapper. I don't want to date another 0:03:39.040 --> 0:03:43.120 comedian again in my life. No, I do not. I'd 0:03:43.240 --> 0:03:46.400 rather have a working man. Now, you do have to 0:03:46.440 --> 0:03:48.560 have a certain type of job, like, okay, you can 0:03:48.600 --> 0:03:51.080 be a principal. You know you can be a professor, 0:03:51.320 --> 0:03:53.120 you can be a therapist. You know you can be 0:03:53.200 --> 0:03:55.960 a doctor, work at the hospital. You know what I'm saying, 0:03:56.000 --> 0:03:59.160 Like all types of ship on your own business, something 0:03:59.200 --> 0:04:02.080 like that. Work your way up. Okay, cool, I didn't say. No, 0:04:02.160 --> 0:04:04.200 nine of five is just a certain type of nine 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:06.839 of five. What the funk is wrong with that? Yes, 0:04:06.920 --> 0:04:08.800 I used to be a cash ship. Even when I 0:04:08.840 --> 0:04:11.400 was a cash I didn't date another cashi, you know 0:04:11.440 --> 0:04:14.160 what I'm saying. Yes, I used to work for FedEx. Yes, 0:04:14.280 --> 0:04:17.400 did I want another package handler to be my boyfriend? 0:04:17.400 --> 0:04:21.160 No the funk I didn't. I'm not making fun of anybody. No, man, 0:04:21.279 --> 0:04:24.320 if you have a job, that's good, that's bettering yourself. 0:04:24.680 --> 0:04:28.039 Having a job is something that's very, very hard, especially 0:04:28.080 --> 0:04:31.080 for black men, for certain black men, you understand what 0:04:31.120 --> 0:04:33.560 I'm saying. But then you got your black men who 0:04:33.600 --> 0:04:36.119 don't want to work, but they don't want to do ship. 0:04:36.480 --> 0:04:38.080 I don't want to work for the white man. You're 0:04:38.080 --> 0:04:40.080 not trying to work for your damn self. So you 0:04:40.120 --> 0:04:42.159 know you got those types of guys. Now, I've had 0:04:42.200 --> 0:04:45.000 my share of every type, all right. I have fucked 0:04:45.040 --> 0:04:47.120 with a broke nigga before. I have funked with a 0:04:47.160 --> 0:04:50.400 guy who worked with the UPS before, like Chris Mike's boyfriend. 0:04:50.640 --> 0:04:55.320 He worked at UPS okay, and after a few months 0:04:55.680 --> 0:04:58.000 he quit, and then he came to work for me, 0:04:58.440 --> 0:05:00.480 and then he was supposed to build his own business. 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.560 Offer the money he was making off of me and 0:05:02.600 --> 0:05:05.240 off of the the y'all say cloud, I call it 0:05:05.320 --> 0:05:08.600 the platform that he had built off of me, my coattail. 0:05:08.880 --> 0:05:10.800 I don't give a funk. Y'all feel offended. I'm gonna 0:05:10.800 --> 0:05:12.440 tell her like it is. You know what I'm saying. 0:05:12.480 --> 0:05:15.000 He built his k off of my m and what 0:05:15.040 --> 0:05:18.200 did he do with that? Not a goddamn thing. I 0:05:18.240 --> 0:05:22.360 have put men in positions to make something of themselves, 0:05:22.360 --> 0:05:26.680 to be entrepreneurial. I've done that. It didn't work. It 0:05:26.720 --> 0:05:28.920 can only happen with a certain type of guy. You 0:05:28.960 --> 0:05:31.680 can't have a childish as mentality. You can't have a 0:05:31.760 --> 0:05:34.920 broke ass mentality. You have to have some type of ambition. 0:05:35.320 --> 0:05:37.960 I can't raise a man. You're not supposed to raise 0:05:38.040 --> 0:05:40.240 a man that you're supposed to be with. You're not 0:05:40.279 --> 0:05:43.120 supposed to raise him. That was his parents job. They 0:05:43.200 --> 0:05:44.840 failed him. I didn't know what the fun was going 0:05:44.880 --> 0:05:47.159 on at the White the wild nigga started stealing from me, 0:05:47.400 --> 0:05:49.120 but she was already making money. All you had to 0:05:49.160 --> 0:05:52.560 do was nigga. What So when I say I have 0:05:52.800 --> 0:05:56.360 upped the anti within my standards of men, yes I 0:05:56.400 --> 0:05:59.040 do deserve a motherfucker with some money, Yes I do, 0:05:59.360 --> 0:06:02.280 because I didn't had too many of them without. So 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:04.240 why the fun don't I get to say what my 0:06:04.320 --> 0:06:07.359 standard is? Why the fuck can't I have a preference 0:06:07.400 --> 0:06:11.000 now because my preference back then was bullshit as I 0:06:11.000 --> 0:06:14.400 can see. But it's always something about a woman wanting 0:06:14.440 --> 0:06:16.839 to help a man, no matter where he came from. 0:06:16.960 --> 0:06:18.840 You know what I'm saying, I don't sucked with jailbirds. 0:06:19.200 --> 0:06:20.520 You know what I'm saying that a lie to me 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:22.480 told me what it was gonna be when he got home. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:25.080 I hadn't held the nigga, damn. Put money on his books, 0:06:25.480 --> 0:06:27.599 may show his family was good. And I'm checking up 0:06:27.640 --> 0:06:30.240 on your kids and and and making sure your baby 0:06:30.279 --> 0:06:32.839 mother good and all that. Ship you come home and 0:06:32.920 --> 0:06:34.680 you ain't with me or her. You felt a whole 0:06:34.720 --> 0:06:37.320 another bit like all of that. You know, you put 0:06:37.520 --> 0:06:39.400 a lot of your hope and a lot of your trust, 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:42.320 then a lot of your money into niggas to get 0:06:42.320 --> 0:06:44.840 a slap in the face. That hap that has happened 0:06:44.839 --> 0:06:47.120 to me four times, there will not be a fifth. 0:06:47.760 --> 0:06:50.599 So no, Now my preference is a nigga who got 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:53.120 some money I'm not talking about so you can take 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.479 me on shopp and s Freeze and and all that 0:06:55.520 --> 0:06:58.919 ship and blow your money, you know, frivolously on me. No, 0:06:59.040 --> 0:07:01.400 I'm not talking about that ship. That's not what I'm 0:07:01.400 --> 0:07:03.480 talking about. This so we can buy some properties together, 0:07:03.680 --> 0:07:05.960 so we can do something together. You gotta match my ship. 0:07:06.200 --> 0:07:07.920 What if I say, baby, let's open up a restaurant. 0:07:07.960 --> 0:07:09.920 What if I say, let's go buy some land, build 0:07:09.960 --> 0:07:13.600 some houses, and you know, create our own community so 0:07:13.720 --> 0:07:16.840 motherfucker's can move into a black owned community. What if 0:07:16.840 --> 0:07:18.960 I want to say that I'm not gonna do that 0:07:18.960 --> 0:07:21.400 ship or my own and then bring you in. No, 0:07:21.720 --> 0:07:23.600 we gotta do that ship together. That's what the funk 0:07:23.640 --> 0:07:25.760 I want. I want somebody who can match me. Like 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.040 I said, you don't even gotta be having as much 0:07:28.040 --> 0:07:31.280 money as I do, but you gotta have something and 0:07:31.280 --> 0:07:34.040 then you gotta be working to get there. Now, let's 0:07:34.120 --> 0:07:38.920 kick it over to a brief break. Everybody can be 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:42.160 better at something like even me. Am I happy where 0:07:42.200 --> 0:07:45.800 I am? Yes, but I'm not gonna get comfortable here. No, 0:07:46.240 --> 0:07:50.040 everybody can be better than they are, even people like Beyonce. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:52.440 You think she okay, well where she Yet we look 0:07:52.480 --> 0:07:54.440 at her and she's the most perfect woman in the world, 0:07:54.680 --> 0:07:56.800 richest woman in the world. It can't get no better. 0:07:56.840 --> 0:07:59.400 But in her mind, that's her mentality. That's why she 0:07:59.520 --> 0:08:01.480 is where she is, because she always believes she can 0:08:01.520 --> 0:08:04.520 do better. You understand, you're not supposed to stop anywhere. 0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:07.080 That's the type of man that I'm looking for. That's 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:09.200 the type of man that I'm in search of. That 0:08:09.320 --> 0:08:11.520 is the type of man that I want. You know 0:08:11.520 --> 0:08:15.520 what I'm saying, some ambition, some commitment to something. Not 0:08:15.680 --> 0:08:18.320 not commitment as in relationship. Okay, No, I'm talking about 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:22.080 commit to making something better of yourself. You know what 0:08:22.080 --> 0:08:24.200 I'm saying. If you work at ups, work up to 0:08:24.200 --> 0:08:26.640 be the manager. A matter of fact, while you're working there, 0:08:27.040 --> 0:08:30.680 create your own transportation company, just like Amazon did, just 0:08:30.760 --> 0:08:33.880 like DHL. It's not easy, but if your work and 0:08:33.880 --> 0:08:35.880 work and work and keep working, you will get there. 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:38.199 Like it's this boxer I was talking to you, right. 0:08:38.640 --> 0:08:41.680 He's from Baltimore City. He wanted to own a bunch 0:08:41.760 --> 0:08:43.760 of like a chain of readers. He wanted to buy 0:08:44.120 --> 0:08:47.800 a chain of readers, the Italian night Ship. He wanted 0:08:47.840 --> 0:08:50.120 to buy a bunch of Dunkin Donuts, a bunch of subways. 0:08:50.120 --> 0:08:52.000 He wanted to buy like he wanted to have like 0:08:52.280 --> 0:08:55.920 fifteen franchises. I remember him telling me at dinner one time. 0:08:56.280 --> 0:08:58.360 I said, okay, cool, you know that's how it works. 0:08:58.360 --> 0:08:59.959 He said, I know. And they're not gonna give it 0:09:00.000 --> 0:09:01.400 to me off the rip. I'm not gonna get it 0:09:01.440 --> 0:09:03.960 easy as a white man would, but I'm gonna do 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:07.000 that ship. This was two years ago. We lost contact 0:09:07.080 --> 0:09:10.080 whatever whatever, ba bah bah. He never stopped boxing, boxing 0:09:10.120 --> 0:09:12.640 this week get his money money from But now that 0:09:12.720 --> 0:09:16.040 nigga got five readers, he got five ducking done us 0:09:16.120 --> 0:09:18.679 to go and five subways to buy, he gonna do it. 0:09:18.679 --> 0:09:20.959 He sat in my face two years ago and told 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:23.280 me he was gonna do it. Had to ex leave 0:09:23.440 --> 0:09:25.960 him because she didn't believe he was gonna do it. 0:09:26.320 --> 0:09:28.120 She that's not only why she loved him. She loved 0:09:28.160 --> 0:09:30.680 him because he was basically using up all the money 0:09:30.760 --> 0:09:32.560 to do this ship, but she didn't see the bigger picture. 0:09:32.600 --> 0:09:34.160 You feel me, She got fed up and she left, 0:09:34.559 --> 0:09:37.199 just like the movie uh acrimony or some ship? What 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:40.120 was it with with Taragi Piens and whatever? She didn't 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:43.439 believe in the guy's dream. Long enough, fast forward. Now 0:09:43.880 --> 0:09:45.960 he's in the process of doing exactly what he set 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:47.720 across from me and told me he was gonna do. 0:09:47.960 --> 0:09:50.640 That's the type of nigga that I'm after. That's the 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:52.640 type of guy that get my pussy weight. That's the 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:55.640 type of guy that I I see myself with, not 0:09:55.840 --> 0:09:59.640 just fucking I see myself with. He did Tom and Jail. 0:10:00.080 --> 0:10:01.760 He's still got a little hood with him, but he's 0:10:01.800 --> 0:10:04.400 very class. He cleaned up nice, sexy hisself. And if 0:10:04.400 --> 0:10:06.800 he's listening, dumping my d m BO because I'm assuring. 0:10:08.360 --> 0:10:10.960 But yeah, that's that's the ship I'm talking about right there. 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:14.720 You set out to conquer a plan, to conquer a 0:10:14.840 --> 0:10:19.240 task so big that nobody, nobody believes in you when 0:10:19.280 --> 0:10:20.960 you're telling them this ship. Because a lot of people 0:10:21.000 --> 0:10:24.040 can talk a good game. So understand when I say 0:10:24.120 --> 0:10:26.760 my preference is a guy who has a certain a 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:32.280 certain nine of five. It has to be something near 0:10:32.320 --> 0:10:36.240 my stature of money. That's just what it is. It 0:10:36.360 --> 0:10:40.280 was such a relief when I dated Country Wane. After 0:10:40.400 --> 0:10:44.400 dating somebody like Chris, I was so programmed to paying 0:10:44.440 --> 0:10:46.960 the tab every time we went out to eat too. 0:10:47.440 --> 0:10:49.600 You know when men Wayne would be out somewhere and 0:10:49.600 --> 0:10:52.040 he tried to get me to taste that na is 0:10:52.160 --> 0:10:54.240 vegan food, shout out to him. I love my ex 0:10:54.320 --> 0:10:56.120 to death. But no, baby, I was you know, I 0:10:56.200 --> 0:10:59.280 wasn'ta be no goddamn vegan. I would find myself reaching 0:10:59.320 --> 0:11:01.760 in my purse or he'd be like what you're thinking 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:04.600 about to pay for what? All? Right? Like this ain't that. 0:11:04.760 --> 0:11:07.960 I'll do this. You know we'll be out. He would 0:11:08.000 --> 0:11:10.120 just think of me, buy me ship. You know what 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:12.120 I'm saying Like that, And that's not what I required. 0:11:12.160 --> 0:11:15.640 That's not a requirement for you to to splurge and 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:17.680 buy me bags and buy me I can do that 0:11:17.720 --> 0:11:20.079 ship myself, you know what I'm saying, Like, I can 0:11:20.080 --> 0:11:22.520 do that myself. I don't need I gotta take me 0:11:22.559 --> 0:11:24.800 shop and every day to prove his love. No, no, 0:11:25.240 --> 0:11:27.920 but when that nigga Dwayne Coley a k A. Country 0:11:27.920 --> 0:11:29.360 Wayne said to me, do you want to go to 0:11:29.400 --> 0:11:32.920 Puerto Rico? Let's get away? And I said, what, all right, 0:11:32.920 --> 0:11:34.760 we're splitting it down a half. He said, why would 0:11:34.800 --> 0:11:36.640 I split a trip. I'm telling you I want to 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:39.920 take you on. Stop playing with me. He couldn't believe. 0:11:40.440 --> 0:11:45.199 I couldn't believe how conditioned I was by my previous relationship. 0:11:45.679 --> 0:11:48.200 Always was paying for everything. After a while, like and 0:11:48.240 --> 0:11:51.520 then yo, Chris had money coming in. He just got lazy, 0:11:51.559 --> 0:11:54.480 got comfortable and started being a bomb. Slowly but surely 0:11:54.520 --> 0:11:57.040 you know what I'm saying. That's what happens. That wasn't 0:11:57.080 --> 0:11:59.319 the only time I was in a relationship with that happened. 0:11:59.559 --> 0:12:01.960 And no, haven't always been up. But even when I 0:12:02.000 --> 0:12:05.160 was broke, I didn't prefer a man who worked any 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:08.160 nine of five. I didn't. Yeah, I had standards. Yeah 0:12:08.160 --> 0:12:10.160 I was broke. I'm talking about lights out everything. I've 0:12:10.200 --> 0:12:12.760 shared this with y'all before. If y'all are ADVID listeners, 0:12:12.840 --> 0:12:15.600 y'all know I never let my son stuff. I would 0:12:15.640 --> 0:12:17.760 go to being hungry, but I would be working with 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.520 niggas and not even tell them. Or are you dropping 0:12:20.559 --> 0:12:23.120 me off to a powerless house, buddy? You dropped. I 0:12:23.120 --> 0:12:25.240 just wouldn't let you come in. No, that's it. No, 0:12:25.280 --> 0:12:27.400 you don't need to come in period. That's how strong 0:12:27.440 --> 0:12:29.640 I was, That's how my pride was. So nobody can 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:31.160 never call me a gold digger because I would have 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:33.120 been a gold digger from the fucking jump. I dug 0:12:33.200 --> 0:12:35.360 my own goal, got my own ship. But it feels 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:37.960 good to have a motherfucker to match you. Feels good 0:12:38.000 --> 0:12:40.440 after not having that for so long. That was why 0:12:40.480 --> 0:12:42.480 it was such a relief, and that's why me and 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:45.640 Wayne are friends today. We shared more than just a relationship. 0:12:45.679 --> 0:12:48.199 We actually got to know each other after getting together. 0:12:48.720 --> 0:12:52.800 He showed me more than just what all of y'all saying. 0:12:52.880 --> 0:12:55.320 He's a really, really good dude. That is what my 0:12:55.360 --> 0:12:57.800 preference is. A guy that can match me, or you 0:12:57.840 --> 0:12:59.720 can hand more money or have just a little bit 0:12:59.840 --> 0:13:02.120 less to me, but you got to have something because 0:13:02.120 --> 0:13:04.719 I'm done with building niggas, and that's just what it is, 0:13:05.040 --> 0:13:08.319 and that's vice versa. Just like I got a preference, y'all, 0:13:08.400 --> 0:13:11.440 niggas got preference. Maybe y'all don't prefer to deal with 0:13:11.480 --> 0:13:13.920 a bitch like me, y'all don't prefer to deal with 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.520 a female like me. Why my voice deep? Why I've 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:19.480 seen the comments. Oh it's a lot of testosterone up 0:13:19.480 --> 0:13:21.840 and shorty, Oh my god, the masculinity is on ten. 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:23.920 Oh she had to be born a nigga. And I'm 0:13:23.920 --> 0:13:26.199 gonna tell you right now. I'm gonna tell you right now, 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:28.600 I will have your weak ass and love. You don't know. 0:13:28.720 --> 0:13:30.440 You only see that side that y'all see you on. 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.880 I g you only see that side. You're judging me 0:13:32.920 --> 0:13:35.479 because of my voice of how much of a Baltomore 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:38.280 bitch I am. That's what you're judging. But you don't 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:41.000 know to know me, and to know me like that 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.319 is to love me. Nigga, you will another leave. I'm 0:13:43.320 --> 0:13:45.440 talking about going all the way back to even my 0:13:45.480 --> 0:13:47.840 baby father. I know how to treat a man and 0:13:47.920 --> 0:13:50.680 I've never ever ever lost one that wouldn't come back. 0:13:50.720 --> 0:13:54.240 You understand what I'm saying. Period. This is before Jess Hilarius, 0:13:54.280 --> 0:13:57.800 when I was just regular dirty jests from round away period. 0:13:58.160 --> 0:13:59.719 Always knew how to treat a man. I got that 0:13:59.760 --> 0:14:02.839 from mother. Y'all got mad at Ari Fletcher money bag 0:14:02.920 --> 0:14:06.000 Yo's girlfriend months ago for saying, why y'all mad at me? 0:14:06.040 --> 0:14:08.120 Because I don't like the funk with broke niggas. That's 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:12.720 her fucking preference. That's what she prefers. Apparently before Gie Herbo, 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:15.560 she's been fucking with niggas with money. That's just who 0:14:15.559 --> 0:14:19.720 are is, That's who she's been. I understood that period. Like, 0:14:19.760 --> 0:14:21.960 if that's our preference, and she's getting these niggas, what 0:14:22.040 --> 0:14:25.320 the funk y'all mad for? What y'all mad for? Now? 0:14:25.680 --> 0:14:29.640 Porsha Williams gold Diggers, that's what that's given to me. 0:14:29.880 --> 0:14:31.960 The only guy, like I swear to god, I feel 0:14:32.000 --> 0:14:33.800 like she really really fucking loved and he broke her 0:14:33.800 --> 0:14:35.680 heart was Cordell. That was the first guy that I've 0:14:35.680 --> 0:14:37.920 seen that we actually seen her with when she first 0:14:37.920 --> 0:14:40.080 got on the show and ship. You know what I'm saying. Cordell, 0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:43.400 he sucked over real bad. So did the baby Father nigga. 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.320 But that's some gold diggers ship y'all talking about me, bitch, 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:49.600 that's gold digger ship with porshagot going on. Don't don't 0:14:49.600 --> 0:14:52.360 confuse me with that. That's not what I do. I 0:14:52.400 --> 0:14:54.520 tried to help these niggas. I'm telling you, some of 0:14:54.520 --> 0:14:57.440 them are just unhelpable, and like I said as vice versa, 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.840 even with the guy. You think men want to date 0:15:00.880 --> 0:15:03.760 a broke bitch. You think that you've got celebrities that 0:15:03.840 --> 0:15:05.480 say it in their music all the time. You know 0:15:05.480 --> 0:15:07.160 what I'm saying. And I love Chris Brown to death. 0:15:07.200 --> 0:15:09.680 I love him to goddamn death. But he he even 0:15:09.720 --> 0:15:12.360 said in the song Loyal, I can make a broke 0:15:12.400 --> 0:15:15.920 bitch rich, but I don't funk with broke bitches. And listen, 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:17.760 do you know why that man said that. I ain't 0:15:17.760 --> 0:15:19.320 even gotta call him up and ask him, And yes, 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:21.200 how you got his number and know you're not getting in, 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:24.000 But yes, I do not even have to call him up. 0:15:24.400 --> 0:15:26.120 He don't want to broke bitch because all they're gonna 0:15:26.120 --> 0:15:28.920 do is leach. If you're a breadwinner and you're running 0:15:28.920 --> 0:15:31.560 into a broke bitch, she see to come up, it's 0:15:31.680 --> 0:15:35.040 destined for her to leach off you. That's broke bitches 0:15:35.040 --> 0:15:37.240 were broke mentalities. Now it's broke people out here that 0:15:37.320 --> 0:15:40.000 really want to get it for themselves, that really make 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.640 the best out of situations and end up coming up 0:15:42.680 --> 0:15:44.760 because they know what to do with the money. Like 0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:47.560 Pleasure p. He was another one on his page The 0:15:47.560 --> 0:15:49.840 other day this ship hit the blogs, shout out the 0:15:49.840 --> 0:15:52.800 neighborhood Talk Pleasure P posted, you want me to fly 0:15:52.960 --> 0:15:55.400 you out so you can lay up under me, reap 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:57.240 all the money and all that type of ship to 0:15:57.360 --> 0:16:00.400 fly you back home and all that, instead of having 0:16:00.400 --> 0:16:02.760 me put you at a position to get your own 0:16:02.760 --> 0:16:04.880 business so you can be making money just like me. 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:08.120 Y'all are weird. Y'all women are weird. These new women 0:16:08.160 --> 0:16:11.040 are weird. And I went through them comments and y'all 0:16:11.040 --> 0:16:14.960 would not believe not one woman agreed with him. Yo, 0:16:15.160 --> 0:16:17.560 bitches was in the comments like I'm talking about comment 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:20.960 after comments, if you broke, just say that? What? Like? 0:16:21.560 --> 0:16:23.240 What the funk? Hold up? Hold up? I know the 0:16:23.320 --> 0:16:25.440 ship getting good, but listen to just a couple of 0:16:25.440 --> 0:16:27.600 seconds of a commercial. If you love me, you'll listen. 0:16:28.680 --> 0:16:34.280 People's minds aren't even wired right anymore with common sense 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:38.200 like are you what? Are you stupid? It's the same 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:41.920 with men, like we don't want broke broke niggas. Men 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:45.600 don't want broke women. You understand that and especially your 0:16:45.600 --> 0:16:48.840 mentality behind it. Now. I know women who ain't gotta 0:16:48.880 --> 0:16:52.000 pop the fucking pissing, But talking about oh no, my 0:16:52.080 --> 0:16:53.520 nigga in the head. This isn't need the head isn't 0:16:53.520 --> 0:16:54.960 even know You're not sucking if we if you ain't 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:56.920 got this and you've got, you ain't got. You ain't 0:16:56.960 --> 0:16:58.960 got not a piece of ambition in the fucking world. 0:16:59.240 --> 0:17:01.560 You ain't got no thing going for yourself, not a 0:17:01.600 --> 0:17:04.600 piece of longevity, and no type of business, not not 0:17:04.880 --> 0:17:08.520 one ounce of business mind do you have and you're 0:17:08.520 --> 0:17:11.320 talking about all you got a whole list of fucking 0:17:11.359 --> 0:17:14.560 a one standards for a nigger. No, I don't agree 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:17.520 with that, but that's a different story. That's who the 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.840 ones y'all need to be attacking. In the comments, it 0:17:19.920 --> 0:17:22.800 was so many mad men under that comment, like that's 0:17:22.800 --> 0:17:25.080 why she's gonna be single forever. And even if I am, 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:27.160 I'm gonna be I'm gonna be paid, and I'm gonna 0:17:27.200 --> 0:17:31.400 be able to love myself. Y'all niggas don't love yourself. See, 0:17:31.680 --> 0:17:35.320 y'all wouldn't have been offended if y'all were working on yourself. 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:37.879 That's what I'm talking about. If you work on yourself, 0:17:38.080 --> 0:17:40.560 you wouldn't get offended. If you're working and you're striving 0:17:40.560 --> 0:17:43.080 to be something greater than you already are. If you 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:45.679 wasn't moving so stagnant ly in your life, if you 0:17:45.760 --> 0:17:48.240 wasn't comfortable where you at. You know what I'm saying, 0:17:48.240 --> 0:17:50.639 If you didn't get comfortable where you at, which is 0:17:50.800 --> 0:17:54.160 almost no fucking where, then you wouldn't be offended. Being 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:58.280 offended is easier than doing something about it. Being offended 0:17:58.359 --> 0:18:01.360 is the new trend. I say that wholeheartedly and proudly 0:18:01.560 --> 0:18:04.040 because it is. I ain never seen so many weak 0:18:04.119 --> 0:18:06.399 ass men in my life. And the reason why I 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:08.760 say you weak is because you're you're a punk nigga. 0:18:09.000 --> 0:18:11.600 You let what I say, You let that ship like 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:13.919 really make you curse me out, really like make you 0:18:13.960 --> 0:18:16.720 point out what you feel are my flaws. Man. Everybody 0:18:16.760 --> 0:18:20.119 want her ball head, trash talking red ass. Anyway, the 0:18:20.880 --> 0:18:24.280 the you're the same nigga selling weed, waking up the 0:18:24.320 --> 0:18:27.879