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Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl XP and it's your girl's

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Speaker 1: brain the call.

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Speaker 2: And we have a very special announcement. Your girls will

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Speaker 2: and many more.

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Speaker 4: It's gonna be so fun.

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Speaker 2: So if you've never seen Poor Minds Live, I'm telling

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Speaker 2: you you're not gonna want to miss this, So go

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Speaker 3: Period.

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Speaker 4: What's up, y'all?

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Speaker 1: Is your girl XP and it's your girl Nicole, and.

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Speaker 4: You are tuned in to another episode of.

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Speaker 1: Poor mind Gradu speaks sober.

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Speaker 2: We don't got no guests today. We don't got no

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Speaker 2: guests today. Hey, hey, I just thought they wanted to.

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Speaker 1: Celebrate you be really giving auntie vibes.

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Speaker 5: Hey hey, hey, I want to shoot babe me.

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Speaker 2: Here I go, here, I go, here, I go again. Girls,

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Speaker 2: what's my weakness? Okay, then chill it, chill it, none

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Speaker 2: of my business. You're supposed to look around and don't

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Speaker 2: get me oh Auntie still got it.

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Speaker 1: I will HopStop be your only thirty four.

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Speaker 3: Like it's definitely Auntie, but it's not like great unty,

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Speaker 3: like that's great Auntie vibes, like go Shoop is great UNTI.

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Speaker 4: Why because why?

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Speaker 3: Because was that a man or a woman that came

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Speaker 3: on the track that need it both? I like your

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Speaker 3: hair though, And speaking of Auntie vibes, what.

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Speaker 4: Thank you dog? This is what I don't do no

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Speaker 4: song because where did that come from?

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Speaker 3: I like, because I like it. It's nice, I'm fucking

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Speaker 3: with you. It's giving like fair of fast vibes. But

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Speaker 3: you was just talking about an old school song, so

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Speaker 3: I was like, it's giving like old school, it's given

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Speaker 3: seventies like I'm fucking with you, So like, what's a

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Speaker 3: seventies song that you fuck with?

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Speaker 4: Like, oh, what's that song? Because I know you like.

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Speaker 2: Shoop obviously that's not a seventies song. No, I mean yeah,

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Speaker 2: with you it's my favorite.

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Speaker 4: Thing, you know that song.

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Speaker 3: I want to put on my my, my, my baby shoes.

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Speaker 3: My boogie said shoes, Well my, well, I ain't gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I actually said fancy shoes. Same thing, young, I said,

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Speaker 3: fancy shoes. You know what song I really like from

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Speaker 3: the seventies. It's about his group.

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Speaker 6: Seven You Loo can dance You look job.

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Speaker 4: Oh see that watch that scene in the dance scene Queenie.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, such a good song.

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Speaker 4: That was a great song.

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Speaker 5: That was amazing the first time I remember the first

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Speaker 5: time I heard that song.

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Speaker 3: I was in middle school. Okay, Miss Congeniality came out, Okay,

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Speaker 3: it was on Miss Congeniality.

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Speaker 1: And I was like, oh my god, this is a

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Speaker 1: good song.

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Speaker 3: And I feel so stupid, y'all because for a long time,

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Speaker 3: I'm just like.

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Speaker 1: This is how arrogant Americans are.

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Speaker 3: Oh, we really think that, like we're the center of everything.

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Speaker 3: Like I just automatically assume every song I ever heard

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no, no no, no, I.

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Speaker 3: Did I'm saying me, But I'm saying I see why

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Speaker 3: people across the world things that American people are so arrogant,

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Speaker 3: I don't know. I was taking it back to find

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Speaker 3: out they're from They're from like Sweden, I don't know,

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Speaker 3: Switzerland they're from like Sweden or Spiling.

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Speaker 4: It was two couples. Oh yeah, okay, I like that.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was two couples and they're all still a

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Speaker 1: live shout out to them.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I like that.

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Speaker 2: That's actually a good thing, you know, because they made

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Speaker 2: some good music.

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Speaker 4: The people are whisper they had.

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Speaker 2: They had a little more flavor back then, you know

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like they used to really Okay, did

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Speaker 2: you ever play rock band? I? Did you remember that

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Speaker 2: song droom dum down, down down down, I'm going crazy?

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Speaker 1: I was right from Sweden.

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Speaker 4: They are from Sweden. Yeah, but do you remember that

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Speaker 4: song I'm going crazy on here? You you never played

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Speaker 4: that on rock band? No, I ain't gonna lie.

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Speaker 3: I was really more of a rock band girl. I

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Speaker 3: was more of like the what's the one? We used

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Speaker 3: to be work men?

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Speaker 4: Oh the dance? Okay, my feet moved, queen what they

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Speaker 4: used to do? Bro? We gotta keep through.

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Speaker 1: But I will say a lot of those.

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Speaker 2: Games put me onto the rock music, you know what

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Speaker 2: I'm saying. Like they had they had some hits that stuck, like.

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Speaker 4: Oh my mom.

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Speaker 3: But see that's the another thing too. I don't know,

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Speaker 3: I feel like you just have to have parents that

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Speaker 3: are like culture. Because my mom used to put me

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Speaker 3: on to like Elton John when I was younger.

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Speaker 4: Like, my mom really used to listen to Elton John, Boy.

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Speaker 2: George Okay, yeah, you know a little something.

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Speaker 1: Yes, what was the lady name that was in Greece?

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Speaker 4: Olivia John Molessly.

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Speaker 1: I used to listen to.

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Speaker 3: But you not have like older parents like my mom

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Speaker 4: And you liked it. It stuck to you a little bit.

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Speaker 4: But every time.

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Speaker 3: I would hear something catchy, I just always assume they

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Speaker 4: I think because I thought.

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Speaker 3: Dancing Queen was by some niggas from like North Dakota.

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Speaker 2: You know what song I really I didn't really Illinois.

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Speaker 2: I didn't realize was an anthem for white people. You know,

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Speaker 2: I don't thought they talk like this.

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Speaker 5: No, they say, you know, oh, I thought they were

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Speaker 5: the ones away You want Chapelle?

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Speaker 4: You know? Yeah, yeah, you want some Piasta? Is that them?

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Speaker 1: No, that's a tell Pisa South Italian.

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Speaker 4: Okay, you know what, we be like Piasta? You want some?

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Speaker 1: No, I never be like Pista. We say pasta.

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Speaker 4: Politician, tall little politician.

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Speaker 2: Okay, back to what I was saying. I realized the

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Speaker 2: white people's anthem.

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Speaker 4: You tallician. Look, I'm taolitician. Come on, bro, come on, not.

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Speaker 1: Dog you is so you a tallician?

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Speaker 4: What is that anyway?

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Speaker 2: Tall? We gotta get to this one. The white people

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Speaker 2: anthem is living on a prayer.

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Speaker 4: Oh.

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Speaker 2: Bath like John bon Jovi, you did your mother fucking

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Speaker 1: No, it's that song by that men with their red hair,

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Speaker 3: Bro I hate that likes what it is. I hate

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Speaker 3: that I cannot think. I hate that I cannot think

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Speaker 3: of people names when I be trying to think of stuff,

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Speaker 3: because I should have did my research before we came.

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Speaker 3: But obviously it's the impromptu conversation that man with the

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Speaker 3: red hair, the one that had that song from the

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Speaker 3: eighties that everybody loves.

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Speaker 4: Oh what is it called?

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Speaker 3: No, I know which one you're talking to, lext know

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Speaker 3: what I'm talking about.

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Speaker 2: He used to wear the bandana, he had the bandana, Journey,

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Speaker 2: the group. I know which one you're talking about. I

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Speaker 2: know what journey song y'all are talking about. Is that

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Speaker 2: just a small town girl? But that's not the song

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Speaker 2: she's talking no, it's not. She's talking about are you

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Speaker 2: used to play this? Huh no? No, oh, sweet of

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Speaker 2: mind that one, y'all?

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Speaker 3: Oh sweet, it was like an eighties. It was an

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Speaker 3: eighties anthem. I'm hold on, give me one second.

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Speaker 4: You gotta be sweet.

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Speaker 1: One thing about me. I'm gonna find some ship.

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Speaker 4: It's not guns and roses.

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Speaker 1: Guys, eighties anthem.

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Speaker 4: The guns and red hair men, not red hair.

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Speaker 2: It gotta be the guns and roses nigga because he

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Speaker 2: had red hair, didn't he like y'all? The main nigga

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Speaker 2: like the Sweet Child of Mine was about who. I

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Speaker 2: don't know who That man is? Sorry to that man,

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Speaker 2: I can name Hammel and man.

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Speaker 4: They had that song.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh oh, come.

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Speaker 4: On, I won't go for that. No, no, not you,

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Speaker 4: not hell you.

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Speaker 1: I hate the I hate the core. What song you

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Speaker 1: talking about?

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Speaker 3: But no, oh my god, it would have been on

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Speaker 3: the same play least is. I can't go for that. No,

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Speaker 3: they're gonna they're gonna drive me. It's all right, that's

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Speaker 3: all right, Okay, I think of it there in the episode.

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna say, okay, okay, so we all move on

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Speaker 2: and catch what you been up to.

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Speaker 4: Girl. We haven't had a job about that was catching up?

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Speaker 4: What the that was?

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Speaker 1: Like twenty minutes Conte, We all gotta.

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Speaker 4: Ask you what you've been up to, what's going on?

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Speaker 4: And don't say nothing.

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Speaker 1: I can't go for that, no.

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Speaker 4: Living Like okay, what else? What is this new? Outside

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Speaker 4: the gym?

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Speaker 3: Outside of the gym, I've been working on self. I've

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Speaker 3: been doing a lot of self reflection. I have come

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Speaker 3: to a conclusion that I'm like a very complex person.

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Speaker 4: M hm, that's good. You know, what do you think

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Speaker 4: about me? Do you think that?

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Speaker 3: Do you think I'm a complex I think this about you.

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Speaker 3: Do you think I'm a basic beat?

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Speaker 4: No? I don't think you're a basic bitch.

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Speaker 2: I think it's crazy because I was having like a

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Speaker 2: really bad week weekend this past weekend, and like when

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Speaker 2: we get on the phone, we be on.

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Speaker 4: The phone, y'all.

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Speaker 2: Me Andre be on the phone for like three four hours,

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Speaker 2: like literally we were on the phone, damn near the

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Speaker 2: whole day Sunday. Like, so I be thinking about our

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Speaker 2: conversations and we will literally go from gossiping to talking

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Speaker 2: about God and religion, talking about making money, talking.

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Speaker 4: About being healthy.

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Speaker 2: Like we be talking about a plethora of things, talking

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Speaker 2: about music.

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Speaker 4: I've been reading I see.

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Speaker 2: But anyways, I feel like I think you are a

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Speaker 2: complex person. And I think that's what y because I

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Speaker 2: feel like it's not just one dimensional like our conversations

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Speaker 2: from the day we met though, It's just we've always

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Speaker 2: had a lot of shit to talk about, and the

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Speaker 2: conversations are they're not the same. It's just like we

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Speaker 2: were talking about basic bit shit then and now we're

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Speaker 2: grown women and we're just we are always discovering things

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Speaker 2: that were into like vice versa. Like I feel like

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Speaker 2: I'm always learning from you, you're learning from me, and

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Speaker 2: we'd be like, oh you did this, Oh yes, since

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Speaker 2: the trot is like, I feel like we're always just

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Speaker 2: introducing each other to different things and putting each other

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Speaker 2: on different stuff. So yeah, I would definitely say you're

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Speaker 2: a complex person. Like I think there's a lot of

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Speaker 4: You never knew that song.

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Speaker 3: And I'm really, if anything shocked, And none of your

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Speaker 1: You know what?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? Because I think you lie your life. This makes

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Speaker 3: It's hard. It's hard to get to know the real

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Speaker 3: But I think to get to know the real you. Yes,

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Speaker 3: And with you, I think it has made you more

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Speaker 4: Yeah that's right. I do do that.

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Speaker 2: my god, Lex, I think you were so.

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Speaker 4: X y Z. I am.

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Speaker 4: What do you think my don't care? Here? Don't care

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Speaker 2: You don't give a fuck, think what you're gonna think, bitch,

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Speaker 4: It's more of a.

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Speaker 2: Like, yeah, girl, you right, you got it, you're right,

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Speaker 2: You know you're more so of a like girl, I'm

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Speaker 3: But I think it stems from the same place as

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Speaker 5: Ever respond right? Well, how am I supposed to respond

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Speaker 5: like you want me to respond?

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Speaker 4: Is this the part of the podcast? We're supposed to cry?

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Speaker 4: You know? Because growing up it's hard.

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Speaker 1: I don't want to be one of the podcasts like

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Speaker 1: I want to cry too.

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Speaker 4: I think that start crying.

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Speaker 2: We should definitely start Why you start crying her too?

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Speaker 2: Let's do a car let's do a card.

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Speaker 3: But but I know what is wrong with us?

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Speaker 1: Why can't we cry?

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Speaker 4: I've cried before.

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Speaker 1: We're terrible actressies. I cannot cry on the spot. I

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Speaker 4: Fall, get the I can't cry.

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Speaker 3: I know you're a liar. I can't cry what I

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Speaker 3: just said. You're proving my point lining again because you're.

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Speaker 4: About my line again.

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Speaker 2: No, I can't cry right now, but we do need

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Speaker 2: to start crying on camera. All right, all right, all right,

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Speaker 2: but before we get into the Karrisha roulette, Tom, what

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Speaker 5: Because we've finish cut up? Yeah, I see, Oh I

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Speaker 5: love it. It's giving rich Auntie vibes. So we're gonna

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Speaker 5: all right, So this one, we have either tequila or vodka.

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Speaker 5: And that's.

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Speaker 4: Exactly what I am. Okay, I love it. I like

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Speaker 4: it was I was like, what is time doing here?

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00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: And she had me drunk too, ah, I will we

443
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,440
Speaker 2: know that right, all right, all right?

444
00:22:48,520 --> 00:22:49,520
Speaker 4: But yeah, it was it was.

445
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:51,760
Speaker 2: It was good to see you there, and like HARMANI

446
00:22:51,840 --> 00:22:54,680
Speaker 2: looks so beautiful. Yes, shout her out because her little

447
00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:56,840
Speaker 2: baby's gonna be here. But like I said, by the

448
00:22:56,880 --> 00:22:58,760
Speaker 2: time this drop and I just really had a good time.

449
00:22:58,920 --> 00:23:05,240
Speaker 1: So shout out to her taking over period.

450
00:23:06,640 --> 00:23:08,040
Speaker 2: All right, all right, all right, you want me to

451
00:23:08,080 --> 00:23:11,399
Speaker 2: go first, and you're gonna go before we get through, Okay,

452
00:23:11,480 --> 00:23:15,679
Speaker 2: So mine says take a shot, or we'll say sip,

453
00:23:15,800 --> 00:23:18,600
Speaker 2: Take a sip. If you ever spit in someone's food

454
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:22,840
Speaker 2: or drink, why are you looking at me?

455
00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 4: I haven't, but I have a story about it. You

456
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:27,399
Speaker 4: want to know.

457
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:30,120
Speaker 3: Oh, well, maybe that's why I thought it was you.

458
00:23:30,720 --> 00:23:32,680
Speaker 3: It was your story. Never mind, that's why.

459
00:23:34,320 --> 00:23:37,720
Speaker 2: It was I've never told you the story that I'm

460
00:23:37,720 --> 00:23:40,639
Speaker 2: about to tell you. I'm about to tell it. But

461
00:23:40,680 --> 00:23:47,520
Speaker 2: what did I spit in somebody drink food?

462
00:23:48,440 --> 00:23:49,440
Speaker 1: Tell me the story?

463
00:23:49,760 --> 00:23:49,960
Speaker 4: Well?

464
00:23:50,359 --> 00:23:54,199
Speaker 2: Okay, so I always talk about how I used to work.

465
00:23:55,400 --> 00:23:58,520
Speaker 2: I used to work at TGI Fridays, right, so y'all

466
00:23:58,560 --> 00:24:00,639
Speaker 2: know it was a lot of life. It was a

467
00:24:00,720 --> 00:24:04,240
Speaker 2: mixed It was mixed in there. The employees were mixed.

468
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:08,479
Speaker 2: It was blacks and whites, and no when the black

469
00:24:08,680 --> 00:24:10,760
Speaker 2: people that I worked with would get mad at against

470
00:24:10,760 --> 00:24:13,440
Speaker 2: because y'all, you know, customer service is a very hard job.

471
00:24:13,560 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 2: Let me, Yeah, I worked in customer service for years,

472
00:24:15,800 --> 00:24:19,600
Speaker 2: and I will say, like I just I just can't

473
00:24:19,600 --> 00:24:21,919
Speaker 2: believe that people in the world are like that, you know,

474
00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:23,760
Speaker 2: like they would treat me like I was beneath them,

475
00:24:23,880 --> 00:24:25,320
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. And so when I had

476
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:27,040
Speaker 2: a customer that would come in and be nice to me,

477
00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:29,240
Speaker 2: I was just so grateful because it's like we're humans,

478
00:24:29,280 --> 00:24:31,560
Speaker 2: you know what I mean. So the frustration, I would

479
00:24:31,680 --> 00:24:34,439
Speaker 2: understand that. But when the black people would get mad,

480
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:36,520
Speaker 2: we would just come back to the back man, fuck them, man,

481
00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:37,840
Speaker 2: and fuck them and left.

482
00:24:37,760 --> 00:24:38,359
Speaker 4: Me two dollars.

483
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,199
Speaker 2: Fuck them ah aad niggas, Like we'd just be back

484
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:41,560
Speaker 2: there cursing up a storm.

485
00:24:42,240 --> 00:24:43,959
Speaker 4: When I tell you, the white people used to be different,

486
00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:46,000
Speaker 4: they used to be fucking different.

487
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:49,520
Speaker 2: Okay, So I remember one time this guy worked with

488
00:24:49,560 --> 00:24:51,240
Speaker 2: his I don't want to give away his name. I'm

489
00:24:51,240 --> 00:24:53,359
Speaker 2: not gonna say his name. He's to call me sugar ticks.

490
00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:55,760
Speaker 2: He was older. He was a older white guy, older

491
00:24:55,800 --> 00:24:59,040
Speaker 2: white guy. I was like twenty three. He was like

492
00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:02,640
Speaker 2: thirty eight, thirty nine. He used to call me sugar tits. Hey,

493
00:25:02,680 --> 00:25:03,320
Speaker 2: sugar tits.

494
00:25:03,400 --> 00:25:04,560
Speaker 4: This is one I had big ditties.

495
00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,480
Speaker 2: He was like a trashy, like you know, I hate

496
00:25:07,480 --> 00:25:09,520
Speaker 2: to say trashy, but he was. You know, I was,

497
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:12,439
Speaker 2: you know, whatever we all had, but that's what he was.

498
00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:14,800
Speaker 2: And I remember he had this guest who was just

499
00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:16,320
Speaker 2: running him rampant.

500
00:25:16,359 --> 00:25:18,399
Speaker 4: Can I get ranched? Can I get a refilled? Can

501
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 4: I get this?

502
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:22,000
Speaker 2: When I asked somebody for something like a waitress. I

503
00:25:22,040 --> 00:25:23,800
Speaker 2: always try to ask for everything I need at once,

504
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,080
Speaker 2: so you don't have to run back and forth. But

505
00:25:25,119 --> 00:25:27,080
Speaker 2: this person was running him ragged.

506
00:25:27,160 --> 00:25:28,960
Speaker 4: They was, y'all.

507
00:25:28,960 --> 00:25:32,760
Speaker 2: When I say, I saw him walk back and he

508
00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:34,920
Speaker 2: took their drink and he spitted it and he mixed

509
00:25:34,920 --> 00:25:35,280
Speaker 2: it up.

510
00:25:36,440 --> 00:25:42,080
Speaker 4: And I was so shocked. I was so fucked.

511
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:45,359
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, cause you hear about

512
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,000
Speaker 2: stories like that, but I actually sought singing.

513
00:25:48,280 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 4: Oh my god. I was so like, what the actual fuck?

514
00:25:53,240 --> 00:25:55,840
Speaker 3: I never seen it myself, But I used to be

515
00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,000
Speaker 3: friends with this girl that worked in Chick fil A,

516
00:25:58,640 --> 00:26:00,440
Speaker 3: and she used to tell me how, like she works

517
00:26:00,440 --> 00:26:03,360
Speaker 3: as the drive through, so she would be like when

518
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:05,399
Speaker 3: customers would come through, and they would get into it

519
00:26:05,400 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 3: with the customers and stuff like. She had this one

520
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,359
Speaker 3: coworker that if a customer talks to her crazy.

521
00:26:11,400 --> 00:26:12,280
Speaker 1: She would lick they.

522
00:26:12,160 --> 00:26:17,360
Speaker 2: Bun, bun, the bun, the bun so they couldn't even

523
00:26:17,359 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 2: take She would lick the bun because them buns be shiny.

524
00:26:19,840 --> 00:26:20,480
Speaker 4: Then put the.

525
00:26:20,440 --> 00:26:26,639
Speaker 3: Pickles, the cheese, the chicken filet, Oh my god, and

526
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 3: then put it together and put it in.

527
00:26:28,200 --> 00:26:29,840
Speaker 1: That little foil bag.

528
00:26:30,160 --> 00:26:33,840
Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's getting absorbed. You gotta think about

529
00:26:33,880 --> 00:26:35,720
Speaker 2: the humidity in them bags.

530
00:26:36,960 --> 00:26:41,200
Speaker 4: Really fistery. I mean it's all up in there, real nasty.

531
00:26:41,720 --> 00:26:43,760
Speaker 3: But yeah, she was like she had a car worker

532
00:26:43,760 --> 00:26:45,520
Speaker 3: that used to do that. Anytime a customer will talk

533
00:26:45,560 --> 00:26:47,520
Speaker 3: to her crazy, she would leak they bunny.

534
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:51,200
Speaker 4: Now, I like my buns. I like my buns.

535
00:26:53,480 --> 00:26:56,440
Speaker 2: I would say this, and a stranger people think I'm

536
00:26:56,480 --> 00:26:58,639
Speaker 2: crazy for saying this. I guess it's because I used

537
00:26:58,640 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 2: to work customer service. I can get bad service. I'm

538
00:27:02,280 --> 00:27:04,640
Speaker 2: still gonna tip you well, or I'm gonna still be nice.

539
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 2: Now I don't let people walk all over and be

540
00:27:06,520 --> 00:27:09,960
Speaker 2: meet and be crazy. But you never know what type

541
00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:13,600
Speaker 2: of day somebody had. And when I say I'm fucking blessed,

542
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,720
Speaker 2: I am very blessed. Like if I wake up and

543
00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,479
Speaker 2: have a bad day, it's something that's going on with

544
00:27:18,520 --> 00:27:21,119
Speaker 2: me personally. You gotta realize a lot of people that

545
00:27:21,160 --> 00:27:23,680
Speaker 2: are working these jobs, they're either living paycheck to paycheck,

546
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,480
Speaker 2: you know, they're getting tips, they live off of their tips.

547
00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,520
Speaker 2: So you don't know what this person is going through.

548
00:27:28,600 --> 00:27:30,120
Speaker 2: I mean, they don't know what I'm going through either,

549
00:27:30,160 --> 00:27:32,560
Speaker 2: But you know what, like I said, I'm blessed.

550
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:33,800
Speaker 4: It's a lot of things I.

551
00:27:33,760 --> 00:27:37,000
Speaker 2: Could be stressed about that I'm not right the things

552
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:39,200
Speaker 2: I'm stressed about. I want to be on this side,

553
00:27:39,720 --> 00:27:43,160
Speaker 2: you know. So I always treat people well. I give

554
00:27:43,160 --> 00:27:46,639
Speaker 2: them tips because I don't want my buns licked. I

555
00:27:46,680 --> 00:27:47,680
Speaker 2: don't fucking want.

556
00:27:47,520 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 4: My buy today, not today. So guess what, Hey, welcome

557
00:27:50,960 --> 00:27:54,160
Speaker 4: to chicks Flake. Well, how you doing well? Get God

558
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:56,119
Speaker 4: damn it, you look beautiful today. Man.

559
00:27:56,200 --> 00:27:57,480
Speaker 1: I agree, I'm the same way.

560
00:27:57,520 --> 00:27:59,600
Speaker 3: And I heard about that story at a young like

561
00:27:59,680 --> 00:28:02,399
Speaker 3: at a pretty young age. So I feel like that

562
00:28:02,520 --> 00:28:04,960
Speaker 3: has a lot to do with why I always treat

563
00:28:05,000 --> 00:28:06,120
Speaker 3: servers really nice.

564
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:08,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, you treat people with I think you're like,

565
00:28:08,920 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 2: we're both well, that's just the type of person I

566
00:28:10,640 --> 00:28:12,560
Speaker 2: am in general, Like I was raised that way.

567
00:28:12,640 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 3: But I think that even after finding that out, I've

568
00:28:16,000 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 3: taken even more care and I treat people nicely because

569
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,040
Speaker 3: I don't want nobody.

570
00:28:21,760 --> 00:28:23,840
Speaker 4: Doing that to me. I mean, I've had people treat

571
00:28:23,880 --> 00:28:27,639
Speaker 4: me my bun is nuts. Don't lick my butN.

572
00:28:29,080 --> 00:28:31,640
Speaker 3: You will lick my b I'm not doing one too,

573
00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:41,120
Speaker 3: will probably leak your ones too. But well, so now

574
00:28:41,120 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 3: I try to get to the first topic. Oh my god,

575
00:28:44,920 --> 00:28:48,000
Speaker 3: I gotta, I gotta do my d.

576
00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:50,640
Speaker 4: Go ahead, go ahead, this is given wine down Wednesday.

577
00:28:50,720 --> 00:28:53,680
Speaker 4: I love, I love so. I think it's just like

578
00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 4: a real shot for this.

579
00:28:55,720 --> 00:29:02,440
Speaker 3: But ta can put a little juice and look at relaxing.

580
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,480
Speaker 4: I love that watermeller.

581
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:08,520
Speaker 2: See Toppy on her p's and over the big chilling

582
00:29:08,880 --> 00:29:10,280
Speaker 2: getting them buns licked.

583
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:15,080
Speaker 4: Oh sorry, all right, go ahead.

584
00:29:15,000 --> 00:29:18,240
Speaker 1: Take a shot. If you ever let a nigga finger ride.

585
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:20,560
Speaker 4: You finger ride? What's a finger or if.

586
00:29:20,440 --> 00:29:24,320
Speaker 3: You a nigga or if you a nigga that likes

587
00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,160
Speaker 3: fingers in your ass?

588
00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:28,960
Speaker 4: Wait?

589
00:29:29,040 --> 00:29:31,800
Speaker 2: Wait, wait wait wait finger ride? Like that means a

590
00:29:31,840 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 2: nigga finger you like you riding his fingers?

591
00:29:35,880 --> 00:29:40,600
Speaker 4: Are you wrong? Question? What you mean?

592
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:40,880
Speaker 3: Wrong?

593
00:29:40,960 --> 00:29:41,200
Speaker 4: Question?

594
00:29:42,120 --> 00:29:44,360
Speaker 3: Because we not a nigga that like a like the

595
00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:51,120
Speaker 3: finger ride? I mean you might have.

596
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 4: But I definitely finger the nigga booty before did he

597
00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:57,280
Speaker 4: ride on the back a little bit? He was like,

598
00:29:57,360 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 4: I can't do it.

599
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:03,560
Speaker 2: I can't do I can do it whateverever.

600
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 1: You won't, he wrote, he can't wait to try.

601
00:30:11,280 --> 00:30:14,640
Speaker 4: I mean that's what he was doing. Okay, this is

602
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:19,760
Speaker 4: a good one. Okay, I was trying too. That was funny, though,

603
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 4: Come what do you do? You can't wait to im terra? Okay,

604
00:30:35,280 --> 00:30:38,720
Speaker 4: come on now, do come take a shot.

605
00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:45,760
Speaker 3: If you ever used someone else's toothbrush, I feel dirty

606
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:46,640
Speaker 3: and spoke.

607
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:53,560
Speaker 4: Yes, I'm not trying to be funny. Oh my god, I.

608
00:30:53,480 --> 00:30:54,360
Speaker 1: Need a watermelon?

609
00:30:55,680 --> 00:31:00,240
Speaker 4: What a watermelon? That's my mama said, a watermelon? Okay,

610
00:31:00,240 --> 00:31:01,320
Speaker 4: I eat a watermelon juice.

611
00:31:01,400 --> 00:31:03,080
Speaker 2: Let me just say this before we get to the topics.

612
00:31:03,080 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 2: I let you use somebody's toothbrush.

613
00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:07,360
Speaker 5: Before it was for It wasn't not an accident.

614
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:10,520
Speaker 4: You're just dirty. I'm not dirty. I didn't ask my toothbrush.

615
00:31:11,040 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 4: I'm sorry, but I didn't.

616
00:31:14,800 --> 00:31:20,480
Speaker 2: If we swapping, spit, swallowing nut all this stuff.

617
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:23,200
Speaker 4: We can share a toothbrush. No, I don't like that.

618
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:27,240
Speaker 2: It's not I didn't do it because oh we always

619
00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:29,920
Speaker 2: share a toothbrush. I was just like I needed a toothbrush.

620
00:31:30,000 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 2: It was like I was at his house. We were

621
00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:34,280
Speaker 2: like we decided to wake up and go to brunch,

622
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:35,920
Speaker 2: and I was like, you know, I could just throw

623
00:31:35,960 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 2: my hair up, but I needed to brush my teeth.

624
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 4: So I had to brush my teeth. I do. I

625
00:31:40,720 --> 00:31:44,280
Speaker 4: was licking in balls. I don't like that.

626
00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:47,760
Speaker 5: If we you don't like what, what's the problem. I

627
00:31:47,760 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 5: don't like that you just randomly used the nigga.

628
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,200
Speaker 4: It wasn't a random nigga. It wasn't.

629
00:31:53,560 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 3: I didn't say it was a random nigga. I said,

630
00:31:54,960 --> 00:31:57,479
Speaker 3: I don't like that you randomly used a nigga too.

631
00:31:57,640 --> 00:32:00,360
Speaker 4: I needed it. Would you rather me go funk? Mom? Yeah?

632
00:32:00,360 --> 00:32:02,280
Speaker 4: I would rather you go home and use your I

633
00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 4: wasn't going home. Where was you going?

634
00:32:04,960 --> 00:32:07,000
Speaker 1: Not going home when you didn't have a toothbrush?

635
00:32:07,000 --> 00:32:10,440
Speaker 4: Its crazy, but I wasn't close to my house. I

636
00:32:10,520 --> 00:32:11,520
Speaker 4: wasn't close to my house.

637
00:32:11,640 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 3: The crazy thing about you is that you tried to

638
00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 3: shame me for going out to smoke hookah after the crab.

639
00:32:17,560 --> 00:32:20,080
Speaker 1: Boil, but you was out here using niggas too.

640
00:32:20,120 --> 00:32:23,200
Speaker 3: The brushes, so you would go to brunch you are

641
00:32:23,240 --> 00:32:24,760
Speaker 3: a nasty bg.

642
00:32:24,640 --> 00:32:28,160
Speaker 2: I done suck that dick he didne whatever he got

643
00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:32,959
Speaker 2: is already in me. You going to the local Medusa

644
00:32:33,200 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 2: smelling like a juicy.

645
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:39,120
Speaker 3: I didn't say the club. What I said was a

646
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:41,480
Speaker 3: lounge like I wouldn't go to Medusa.

647
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:43,560
Speaker 1: I would go to octopus kitchen.

648
00:32:43,800 --> 00:32:47,480
Speaker 4: Still bad niggas in that shaking ass. They're fool nasty already.

649
00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:50,360
Speaker 4: So you're gonna blend in. You gonna blend in.

650
00:32:50,400 --> 00:32:52,360
Speaker 2: They don't know if that's the kitchen of you, Is

651
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 2: that drea or is that my plate?

652
00:32:54,760 --> 00:32:56,640
Speaker 1: But I could promise you when you went to brushes,

653
00:32:56,680 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: they knew it was you.

654
00:32:58,040 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 4: I didn't stink. I brushed my teeth.

655
00:33:00,200 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 3: No, you was probably thinking because you had a mixture

656
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:03,120
Speaker 3: of bacteria.

657
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,320
Speaker 2: No, he didn't have no back tias. Teeth was real

658
00:33:06,360 --> 00:33:07,240
Speaker 2: little bacterial.

659
00:33:07,640 --> 00:33:11,160
Speaker 4: See see how you do? No, how do you use?

660
00:33:11,440 --> 00:33:13,920
Speaker 4: I brushed my teeth. I brushed them.

661
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 2: I brushed them. I don't swap his tongue ben in

662
00:33:17,520 --> 00:33:20,120
Speaker 2: my mouth. He doesn't spit in my mouth before that back.

663
00:33:20,760 --> 00:33:22,480
Speaker 4: Oh please, bitch, you.

664
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:27,200
Speaker 2: Know you get spit in that mouth. You ain't lie, lie,

665
00:33:28,680 --> 00:33:29,840
Speaker 2: I want you too.

666
00:33:30,320 --> 00:33:31,280
Speaker 4: I did.

667
00:33:31,280 --> 00:33:34,200
Speaker 3: I have never said that I did not get spit

668
00:33:34,280 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 3: in my mouth. What I'm saying is I took a

669
00:33:37,280 --> 00:33:41,520
Speaker 3: shot because I brushed my teeth with somebody else's toothbrush before,

670
00:33:41,640 --> 00:33:44,640
Speaker 3: because I got the colors confused. Like I was at

671
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 3: my nigga house and we had two toothbrushes.

672
00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 2: What color is his was like blue and mouth was purple.

673
00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:54,040
Speaker 2: But you think that nigga was using a purple tooth brush.

674
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:56,840
Speaker 2: You picked up the blue on purpose? Nasty bitch.

675
00:33:59,160 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 3: You want me to be You want me to be

676
00:34:00,840 --> 00:34:05,920
Speaker 3: yang yang with you so bad because take my juicy

677
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 3: carr fingers over a tongue.

678
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:09,000
Speaker 4: But let me.

679
00:34:11,960 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 2: What's if a nigga spit in your mouth and you

680
00:34:16,600 --> 00:34:19,440
Speaker 2: use his toothbrush. It's the same germs. What's the difference.

681
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 2: It's like, it's not the same germs.

682
00:34:21,640 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 4: How mm hmmm.

683
00:34:23,560 --> 00:34:27,360
Speaker 3: Okay, because the toothbrush be sitting there. That's why you

684
00:34:27,400 --> 00:34:29,359
Speaker 3: gotta get a back. That's why you gotta get a

685
00:34:29,719 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 3: toothbrush sanitizer. Do you know, I know you ain't that

686
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:37,759
Speaker 3: you ain't that deep in the game. I'm not, I know,

687
00:34:37,840 --> 00:34:39,680
Speaker 3: but you can get a toothbrush sanitizer.

688
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:51,640
Speaker 4: It ain't what talk for you. Probably the toothbrush to reda.

689
00:34:53,760 --> 00:34:56,719
Speaker 3: But no, hope, for real, they have toothbrush sanitizers where

690
00:34:56,719 --> 00:34:58,160
Speaker 3: you could put it over your toothbrush.

691
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:01,759
Speaker 4: It's a light, it's the blue light, so you could

692
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:02,800
Speaker 4: put it over your toothbrush.

693
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,560
Speaker 3: It's sand the size of your toothbrush, and you keep

694
00:35:04,560 --> 00:35:06,799
Speaker 3: it on near when you're not using it and it

695
00:35:06,840 --> 00:35:12,640
Speaker 3: protects it from the germs. Okay, so today, why would

696
00:35:12,680 --> 00:35:15,279
Speaker 3: I put it on my booty hole? But why do

697
00:35:15,400 --> 00:35:16,879
Speaker 3: you be using niggas toothbrushes?

698
00:35:17,719 --> 00:35:22,280
Speaker 4: Because I need I did it one time. It's strict

699
00:35:22,320 --> 00:35:23,480
Speaker 4: in here it is.

700
00:35:24,160 --> 00:35:26,319
Speaker 2: I used it one time. I needed to brush my teeth.

701
00:35:26,360 --> 00:35:28,360
Speaker 2: So I can go eat me a little. I can't

702
00:35:28,440 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 2: get no fish and grits.

703
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:30,959
Speaker 4: Bits a fish taste the same.

704
00:35:36,040 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 2: Get it to this topic, okay, because we do what?

705
00:35:42,960 --> 00:35:45,680
Speaker 4: No, we're doing one topic, then we gotta move on. Okay,

706
00:35:47,719 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 4: which one you want to do? One of two? Let's

707
00:35:51,680 --> 00:35:53,000
Speaker 4: do two. Let's do too.

708
00:35:53,239 --> 00:35:53,600
Speaker 1: Okay.

709
00:35:54,360 --> 00:35:57,600
Speaker 3: So I want to talk about love versus pride because

710
00:35:58,840 --> 00:36:01,120
Speaker 3: m hmm. I was reading the book recently, and the

711
00:36:01,120 --> 00:36:04,000
Speaker 3: book basically said that like you can I truly love

712
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:08,160
Speaker 3: someone and have pride like people that are truly, really

713
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:13,280
Speaker 3: deeply in love, without conditions, without restrictions, all of these things.

714
00:36:13,360 --> 00:36:17,759
Speaker 1: They they love each other and they have no pride.

715
00:36:18,040 --> 00:36:18,879
Speaker 1: I agree.

716
00:36:19,280 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 3: I feel like this is the first time in my

717
00:36:20,520 --> 00:36:22,120
Speaker 3: life that I ever been in love with somebody and

718
00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:22,719
Speaker 3: I don't have no.

719
00:36:27,360 --> 00:36:33,840
Speaker 4: What has happened? Mm hmm. Why would you smile at

720
00:36:33,920 --> 00:36:40,640
Speaker 4: me like that? Cause yeah, you b that nigga my homemade.

721
00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:52,399
Speaker 3: Anyways, So yeah, this is the first time in my life. Yeah,

722
00:36:52,400 --> 00:36:54,720
Speaker 3: I'm waiting for the tear to fall. It's not coming.

723
00:36:54,880 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 3: Just keep talking, Okay. So this is the first time

724
00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 3: in my life that I ever felt like I love

725
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:03,439
Speaker 3: somebody like and I have no pride, Like I'm never

726
00:37:03,560 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 3: embarrassed about anything, Like I'm not embarrassed to cry, I'm

727
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:09,520
Speaker 3: not embarrassed to act a fool, I'm not embarrassed to

728
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:14,600
Speaker 3: throw a feet the queaf. Oh I was, actually I

729
00:37:14,640 --> 00:37:20,799
Speaker 3: was see y'all be having to be careful what.

730
00:37:20,800 --> 00:37:23,879
Speaker 5: I say because I'm about to say, Okay, I'm sorry,

731
00:37:23,920 --> 00:37:25,960
Speaker 5: I go ahead, go ahead, But.

732
00:37:26,000 --> 00:37:28,680
Speaker 4: No, that's that's real, And can I just inter.

733
00:37:30,120 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 3: Nona hapen? But it shouldn't happen often because why that

734
00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 3: much airing?

735
00:37:35,520 --> 00:37:36,120
Speaker 4: You please?

736
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:41,600
Speaker 2: But I'll say all jokes aside, just for one second,

737
00:37:41,680 --> 00:37:43,200
Speaker 2: let me pause you for a second, because I know

738
00:37:43,239 --> 00:37:45,120
Speaker 2: everybody knows, like, oh, Lex is a lover girl, but

739
00:37:45,560 --> 00:37:47,359
Speaker 2: it is so beautiful to.

740
00:37:47,320 --> 00:37:48,279
Speaker 4: See you be in love.

741
00:37:48,440 --> 00:37:52,160
Speaker 2: No, I'm serious and I'm not joking, because this is

742
00:37:52,160 --> 00:37:54,560
Speaker 2: how I know love is real. I always say love

743
00:37:54,640 --> 00:37:57,160
Speaker 2: is something that you can't really explain. It's just a

744
00:37:57,200 --> 00:37:59,440
Speaker 2: feeling and sometimes it just hits you. But when you

745
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,640
Speaker 2: really experience love, you cannot control it.

746
00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 4: You can't do nothing about it.

747
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:06,719
Speaker 2: And it's just like, out of all my friends, like

748
00:38:06,719 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 2: you're the only person out of my friends who's not

749
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:11,160
Speaker 2: a lover girl. But I think it's because you never

750
00:38:11,280 --> 00:38:13,640
Speaker 2: experienced real love. And I used to always tell you that,

751
00:38:13,719 --> 00:38:17,760
Speaker 2: and you think that's why let me finish. I felt

752
00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,840
Speaker 2: personally I could be wrong, but this was just my

753
00:38:20,920 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 2: personal opinion. I felt like you had never experienced love

754
00:38:24,480 --> 00:38:25,839
Speaker 2: so like real love.

755
00:38:25,880 --> 00:38:26,640
Speaker 4: And I'm not saying that.

756
00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 2: Maybe I never felt like you gave somebody love and

757
00:38:31,080 --> 00:38:34,160
Speaker 2: they gave you love. And I think when I experienced that,

758
00:38:34,360 --> 00:38:36,920
Speaker 2: I experienced real love at a very young age.

759
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:37,279
Speaker 4: I did.

760
00:38:37,960 --> 00:38:44,879
Speaker 2: But I'm sorry, what what I don't know?

761
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:47,520
Speaker 3: I'm just like, this is how I know something that's

762
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:49,879
Speaker 3: wrong with me because I wish you would have never

763
00:38:49,920 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 3: told me that.

764
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:52,480
Speaker 4: No, but I mean we've talked about it. I'm talking

765
00:38:52,480 --> 00:38:57,320
Speaker 4: about you. If not you using that men, why we

766
00:38:57,400 --> 00:39:02,239
Speaker 4: still a favorites. I mean, I just like.

767
00:39:02,239 --> 00:39:06,480
Speaker 3: Get like a visual of the bacterial like skiddy cron.

768
00:39:08,160 --> 00:39:09,200
Speaker 1: Like flying over here to.

769
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:23,279
Speaker 3: Meck up, It's like I see them that is not

770
00:39:23,440 --> 00:39:24,080
Speaker 3: that's gone.

771
00:39:24,160 --> 00:39:25,719
Speaker 4: That's been like eight years ago.

772
00:39:26,880 --> 00:39:29,920
Speaker 2: Okay, but anyways, but no, I say, like the love

773
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: versus pride thing, it's very very real because I think

774
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:35,240
Speaker 2: it happens in different stages in people's lives.

775
00:39:35,320 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 4: Right, So I feel like for.

776
00:39:36,800 --> 00:39:39,239
Speaker 2: You, like I am enjoying this because I feel like

777
00:39:39,280 --> 00:39:43,480
Speaker 2: you're finally understanding and you're getting it because I feel like,

778
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 2: I mean I'm not I'm not putting your business out

779
00:39:46,040 --> 00:39:47,200
Speaker 2: there at all, but I feel.

780
00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:50,319
Speaker 4: Like you can no, not out there a little bit.

781
00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:53,880
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, No, the men that I saw you deal with,

782
00:39:54,560 --> 00:39:57,640
Speaker 2: it was always on some ship like that was cool

783
00:39:58,040 --> 00:40:01,160
Speaker 2: and you loved them for a person the person who

784
00:40:01,160 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 2: they like them.

785
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 4: Yeah. Well no, I'll say.

786
00:40:03,800 --> 00:40:06,240
Speaker 2: This because people like I said, you can't define love.

787
00:40:06,440 --> 00:40:08,239
Speaker 2: This is why I always say you can't define love.

788
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: People say love is tangible and x y Z Okay,

789
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:13,799
Speaker 2: that's your opinion. My opinion on love is like you

790
00:40:13,880 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 2: cannot explain it. So it's like I love a lot

791
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 2: of people, but love looks different. My love for you

792
00:40:20,320 --> 00:40:22,359
Speaker 2: is different than my love for Tie, and my love

793
00:40:22,400 --> 00:40:23,600
Speaker 2: for that and my love for Shade.

794
00:40:23,600 --> 00:40:24,040
Speaker 4: Everybody.

795
00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 1: I love everybody in different ways.

796
00:40:26,200 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 2: It's the difference of how I love my sister and

797
00:40:28,160 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 2: I love my nephew, how I love my man. But

798
00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:32,480
Speaker 2: it's all love, and it's hard to explain, you know

799
00:40:32,480 --> 00:40:36,439
Speaker 2: what I'm saying. Like I don't love Tie because she's

800
00:40:36,440 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 2: a bartend on what the things she does for me,

801
00:40:38,840 --> 00:40:39,520
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

802
00:40:39,800 --> 00:40:41,440
Speaker 4: It's like I love her as a person.

803
00:40:41,560 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 2: So it's like when you say, why do you love Tie,

804
00:40:44,440 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 2: or why do you love Shae or why do you

805
00:40:46,120 --> 00:40:48,920
Speaker 2: love this person? It's like you can't really explain it.

806
00:40:48,960 --> 00:40:51,479
Speaker 2: So to see you actually and I know you love

807
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:56,719
Speaker 2: your friends and you love your family, but experiencing romantic

808
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:57,760
Speaker 2: love is different.

809
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:00,359
Speaker 4: So now to actually watch you.

810
00:41:00,280 --> 00:41:03,680
Speaker 2: Experienced romantic love, this is the first time in my

811
00:41:03,719 --> 00:41:05,840
Speaker 2: life I've seen you put your pride to the side,

812
00:41:06,120 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 2: and that's.

813
00:41:06,520 --> 00:41:08,840
Speaker 4: How I know you're in love because you used to

814
00:41:08,920 --> 00:41:09,839
Speaker 4: always ask me.

815
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,239
Speaker 2: We got into it when you were dating your ex

816
00:41:12,280 --> 00:41:13,960
Speaker 2: and you were like, I was like, you don't love him.

817
00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:18,640
Speaker 4: You're like, yes, I do. I love him? Lex I

818
00:41:18,680 --> 00:41:23,000
Speaker 4: know least, why would you say yes, yes I do.

819
00:41:23,400 --> 00:41:26,200
Speaker 4: I don't know. All I do is he's my man.

820
00:41:26,920 --> 00:41:31,879
Speaker 2: He bought this, he got me a sonnail, he got

821
00:41:31,920 --> 00:41:34,040
Speaker 2: me the don't say and gaban.

822
00:41:33,960 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 4: I'm just saying, no, you didn't say that. But because

823
00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:37,560
Speaker 4: I don't don't like that.

824
00:41:37,719 --> 00:41:39,799
Speaker 2: I know, I'm just playing. I can't do the real

825
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:42,960
Speaker 2: impression of you. You can, oh, because you got mad

826
00:41:42,960 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 2: at me that time, but you can do it.

827
00:41:44,760 --> 00:41:45,360
Speaker 4: Okay.

828
00:41:45,680 --> 00:41:50,919
Speaker 2: Lets I love him and you wouldn't understand because he's

829
00:41:50,960 --> 00:41:52,840
Speaker 2: taking care of me and this is different.

830
00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 4: You don't get it because you know I'm that bit

831
00:42:00,520 --> 00:42:01,160
Speaker 4: and he.

832
00:42:01,080 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 1: Realized that I'm that bit. That's what you say.

833
00:42:03,960 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 2: No, you said that, you said that.

834
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,000
Speaker 4: I don't say you said.

835
00:42:09,400 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 2: You said I'm that bitch and he knows that I'm

836
00:42:12,120 --> 00:42:14,280
Speaker 2: that bitch and he ain't never fucked with a bitch

837
00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:14,719
Speaker 2: like me.

838
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 4: I never said that.

839
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:22,719
Speaker 2: God, oh God, you said that he ain't never a

840
00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 2: fucked because it was a time in your life.

841
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:28,760
Speaker 3: Maybe maybe maybe I'll say that off camera.

842
00:42:29,239 --> 00:42:31,920
Speaker 4: You say that on camera because I am that bitch.

843
00:42:32,719 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 1: But pause, I don't say something like that, you know.

844
00:42:35,760 --> 00:42:37,840
Speaker 2: Let me say this, Dre, you said that at this

845
00:42:38,080 --> 00:42:43,040
Speaker 2: time because but what I'm saying is you I told

846
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,600
Speaker 2: you this. I said, you have to realize it's gonna

847
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 2: be more than your looks while somebody really loves you

848
00:42:48,520 --> 00:42:49,320
Speaker 2: because you used.

849
00:42:49,160 --> 00:42:50,480
Speaker 4: To be like like kind of call.

850
00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:52,480
Speaker 2: I mean we were young, though, let me say that

851
00:42:52,520 --> 00:42:54,239
Speaker 2: we were young, so I'm not saying that, Like, but

852
00:42:54,600 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 2: it was a time you felt like I'm so bad

853
00:42:57,320 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 2: a nigga, never gonna do me wrong.

854
00:42:59,360 --> 00:43:02,040
Speaker 4: I'm so bad never you know what I'm saying. So,

855
00:43:03,160 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 4: but point still still remains. But you know what I'm saying.

856
00:43:07,560 --> 00:43:09,640
Speaker 2: So, but this was the This is the first time

857
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,400
Speaker 2: I'm seeing you actually being forgiving, giving someone grace and

858
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:14,960
Speaker 2: understanding that nobody is perfect.

859
00:43:14,960 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 4: Because in my.

860
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:18,320
Speaker 1: Defense though, too, my nigga haven't did me wrong.

861
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:22,840
Speaker 3: Like it's not nothing that he's done that is like unforgivable.

862
00:43:22,880 --> 00:43:25,080
Speaker 1: To be honest, he really haven't did anything.

863
00:43:25,239 --> 00:43:28,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's not an ideal, Like how our relationship started

864
00:43:28,760 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 3: is just not the ideal situation for me right how

865
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:36,280
Speaker 3: I would have wanted it to things to be, you know, but.

866
00:43:37,360 --> 00:43:39,440
Speaker 4: I don't want to see it into details about it.

867
00:43:39,600 --> 00:43:42,239
Speaker 3: No me either, but I don't. I don't feel like

868
00:43:42,239 --> 00:43:44,840
Speaker 3: he's did me wrong. But I do feel.

869
00:43:44,480 --> 00:43:50,560
Speaker 1: Like I have no pride as far as and when

870
00:43:50,600 --> 00:43:51,920
Speaker 1: I think of pride, I more.

871
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:56,520
Speaker 3: So think of being honest with people, Like, yeah, I

872
00:43:56,520 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 3: think when people have pride, you don't really You don't

873
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:03,000
Speaker 3: really want to tell people how you feel. You don't

874
00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,600
Speaker 3: really want to tell them what's really going on in

875
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:07,520
Speaker 3: your mind because you think you gonna look stupid.

876
00:44:07,560 --> 00:44:08,480
Speaker 4: Okay, I feel that.

877
00:44:08,560 --> 00:44:10,359
Speaker 1: Or you think they gonna use that against you.

878
00:44:10,600 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 4: I feel that.

879
00:44:11,160 --> 00:44:12,400
Speaker 1: But when you really love.

880
00:44:12,239 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 3: Somebody, you don't care, or you might not even want

881
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:16,759
Speaker 3: to show the emotion that you feel. Like right now,

882
00:44:16,960 --> 00:44:18,920
Speaker 3: your feelings may be hurt. You might want to cry,

883
00:44:19,160 --> 00:44:22,560
Speaker 3: but you're like, no, I gotta keep that. You need, bitch, please,

884
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:25,560
Speaker 3: because you cannot cry on the spot.

885
00:44:25,600 --> 00:44:29,880
Speaker 4: You must go to some classes if I was sober,

886
00:44:30,960 --> 00:44:31,600
Speaker 4: but keep going.

887
00:44:32,000 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 3: But no, for real, Like it's like a nigga could

888
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:36,279
Speaker 3: say some shit hurts your feelings, you might want to

889
00:44:36,320 --> 00:44:38,440
Speaker 3: cry in that moment, even with your friends. It just

890
00:44:38,520 --> 00:44:42,880
Speaker 3: goes with anything, because this is not just directed solely

891
00:44:42,960 --> 00:44:44,520
Speaker 3: towards romantic love.

892
00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:45,960
Speaker 4: It could be loved in general.

893
00:44:46,040 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: Like I just feel like real.

894
00:44:47,320 --> 00:44:51,920
Speaker 3: Love between human beings, Like it's no pride.

895
00:44:51,960 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 1: You can show your friends how you really feel.

896
00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:55,680
Speaker 3: You can try your man how you really feel, you

897
00:44:55,680 --> 00:44:58,200
Speaker 3: can try your parents how you really feel, anybody that

898
00:44:58,239 --> 00:44:58,880
Speaker 3: you're close to.

899
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,400
Speaker 1: And and I think that sometimes when it comes.

900
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:06,719
Speaker 3: To loving people, you will love them, but you won't

901
00:45:06,760 --> 00:45:09,040
Speaker 3: really want to let them know how you feel because

902
00:45:09,080 --> 00:45:09,919
Speaker 3: you feel like it'll make.

903
00:45:09,840 --> 00:45:10,440
Speaker 4: You look weak.

904
00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:14,440
Speaker 3: But to me, that's not really Like to me, that's conditional,

905
00:45:14,520 --> 00:45:16,760
Speaker 3: almost like pride.

906
00:45:16,840 --> 00:45:18,640
Speaker 1: I mean love with no conditions.

907
00:45:18,960 --> 00:45:21,319
Speaker 3: You have no pride, you like, I don't care if

908
00:45:21,360 --> 00:45:24,440
Speaker 3: I look stupid. I don't care if you think I'm emotional.

909
00:45:24,760 --> 00:45:26,799
Speaker 3: I don't care what you think about me and how

910
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 3: I'm reacting to the situation. This is my natural emotion

911
00:45:30,680 --> 00:45:33,760
Speaker 3: in this moment, with whatever you told me, with whatever

912
00:45:33,800 --> 00:45:36,799
Speaker 3: I've experienced, this is how I'm reacting, And it just is what.

913
00:45:36,719 --> 00:45:39,600
Speaker 2: It is because you know what real love is, because

914
00:45:39,680 --> 00:45:41,360
Speaker 2: real love is reciprocated.

915
00:45:41,719 --> 00:45:48,759
Speaker 4: So when I know I was trying to get reciprocated.

916
00:45:47,800 --> 00:45:51,160
Speaker 2: Because you know what I feel like I said, this

917
00:45:51,200 --> 00:45:53,240
Speaker 2: is the difference between and when I say in love,

918
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 2: it doesn't necessarily have.

919
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,919
Speaker 4: To be just romantic, because that's what I said.

920
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:59,640
Speaker 2: Focus Like, I feel like if I express to you

921
00:45:59,680 --> 00:46:01,399
Speaker 2: how I feel like, if you did something that hurts

922
00:46:01,440 --> 00:46:03,560
Speaker 2: my feelings, I'm gonna tell you because I know what,

923
00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,440
Speaker 2: You're gonna receive that and you're gonna tell me how

924
00:46:06,480 --> 00:46:07,799
Speaker 2: you feel. But you're not gonna be like, you know what,

925
00:46:07,960 --> 00:46:09,120
Speaker 2: Fuck Lex, I'm not talking to.

926
00:46:09,040 --> 00:46:12,799
Speaker 4: Her no more. And it's the same thing in relationships.

927
00:46:12,840 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 2: So once you experience that when you have to walk

928
00:46:15,280 --> 00:46:18,920
Speaker 2: on eggshells, you can have love for somebody that you

929
00:46:19,000 --> 00:46:21,840
Speaker 2: have to walk on eggshells. But that's not to me

930
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,000
Speaker 2: personally true love because there's a difference between you having

931
00:46:25,040 --> 00:46:27,319
Speaker 2: love for somebody and like being in love.

932
00:46:27,440 --> 00:46:29,880
Speaker 3: No, that's not love because if you can't be yourself

933
00:46:29,920 --> 00:46:32,319
Speaker 3: with somebody, I don't think y'all really love each other.

934
00:46:32,440 --> 00:46:32,560
Speaker 2: Right.

935
00:46:32,600 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 3: You feel like you have to hide who you are yep,

936
00:46:34,920 --> 00:46:37,920
Speaker 3: or only show a certain version of yourself.

937
00:46:37,560 --> 00:46:39,919
Speaker 4: With someone, then what are we doing?

938
00:46:40,080 --> 00:46:42,520
Speaker 3: You don't really love that person, that person don't love you,

939
00:46:43,000 --> 00:46:45,319
Speaker 3: or you're afraid that they won't accept you. For who

940
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 3: you are and if you afraid that they won't accept

941
00:46:47,120 --> 00:46:48,800
Speaker 3: you for who you are, like, it's not.

942
00:46:48,719 --> 00:46:49,600
Speaker 4: Real love, right.

943
00:46:49,880 --> 00:46:52,120
Speaker 2: I definitely agree because I, like I said, this is

944
00:46:52,160 --> 00:46:54,840
Speaker 2: the first time that I've seen you be like you

945
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:57,640
Speaker 2: don't have no pride, like you just be like cause.

946
00:46:57,520 --> 00:46:58,399
Speaker 4: Bit y'all know I don't.

947
00:46:58,400 --> 00:47:02,760
Speaker 1: I'll be playing what's that song? I'm trying to act

948
00:47:02,800 --> 00:47:04,799
Speaker 1: like I don't want to be with you.

949
00:47:06,000 --> 00:47:11,319
Speaker 4: I was like, just you, yeah, I know you was

950
00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,760
Speaker 4: in your room singing No. I would hold a booting

951
00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:14,760
Speaker 4: box out the window.

952
00:47:15,640 --> 00:47:18,680
Speaker 7: You was like a Shawn See looking out my wing,

953
00:47:20,040 --> 00:47:25,600
Speaker 7: knowing that I should go even when I pegged my

954
00:47:25,800 --> 00:47:27,040
Speaker 7: bass something.

955
00:47:29,560 --> 00:47:31,959
Speaker 4: That's how I be feeling because I be packing my bag.

956
00:47:32,200 --> 00:47:33,840
Speaker 4: They don't be going nowhere.

957
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:38,440
Speaker 3: Real because something always holds me bag because I have

958
00:47:38,560 --> 00:47:39,160
Speaker 3: no pride.

959
00:47:40,560 --> 00:47:41,440
Speaker 4: You know what's crazy?

960
00:47:41,600 --> 00:47:43,480
Speaker 2: That's how I know, Like I be loving people, but

961
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:46,279
Speaker 2: I know when I'm in love versus I got love

962
00:47:46,320 --> 00:47:53,600
Speaker 2: for them and I'm having I do.

963
00:47:49,239 --> 00:47:53,239
Speaker 4: I do, you know? But you know why I say

964
00:47:53,239 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 4: that because I be.

965
00:47:54,000 --> 00:47:57,319
Speaker 2: Having pride, do you When it came to rapper Bay,

966
00:47:57,440 --> 00:48:00,400
Speaker 2: I was in love with him and I had no shame,

967
00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:03,640
Speaker 2: no pride, like, if he stopped calling me, I'm gonna

968
00:48:03,640 --> 00:48:06,200
Speaker 2: pick up the phone and I was gonna call like

969
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,719
Speaker 2: the dude I was at last year, Like, I loved him,

970
00:48:08,800 --> 00:48:11,560
Speaker 2: I had love for him, but I had pride there.

971
00:48:11,680 --> 00:48:12,879
Speaker 4: There was a lot of pride there.

972
00:48:12,880 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 2: That's why I say, I know the difference between being

973
00:48:15,440 --> 00:48:17,320
Speaker 2: in love and having love.

974
00:48:17,320 --> 00:48:20,080
Speaker 3: But that's what I was gonna say. That's a different situation.

975
00:48:20,239 --> 00:48:23,759
Speaker 3: We're talking about in love. Yes, Like I feel like

976
00:48:24,960 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 3: from the book, the books that I was reading, it

977
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:29,640
Speaker 3: was talking about being in love with somebody. Like when

978
00:48:29,640 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 3: you're in love with someone, you don't have pride. That

979
00:48:32,160 --> 00:48:35,560
Speaker 3: nigga that you're talking about from last year, you was

980
00:48:35,600 --> 00:48:36,800
Speaker 3: not in love with that nigga.

981
00:48:36,840 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: You know that's why you fucked with him.

982
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:39,799
Speaker 4: I had love.

983
00:48:39,920 --> 00:48:41,759
Speaker 3: I think you would never want that's in bad to

984
00:48:41,800 --> 00:48:44,600
Speaker 3: happen to him. I wish the best for him having love.

985
00:48:44,920 --> 00:48:48,120
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm agreeing with you. No, But when you been

986
00:48:48,280 --> 00:48:55,879
Speaker 4: in love, you no oh no oh. Yeah, when I'm

987
00:48:55,920 --> 00:48:59,640
Speaker 4: in love, I can honestly know it'd be plenty of tears.

988
00:49:00,560 --> 00:49:04,040
Speaker 2: When I'm in love, there's no I don't give a

989
00:49:04,360 --> 00:49:07,160
Speaker 2: fin you finn nook.

990
00:49:07,320 --> 00:49:10,239
Speaker 3: It's crazy because I would you say that isn't that

991
00:49:10,280 --> 00:49:11,760
Speaker 3: what It took.

992
00:49:11,680 --> 00:49:15,560
Speaker 2: Some real goods and that ship thinks that she needs

993
00:49:15,560 --> 00:49:16,319
Speaker 2: a dinuge.

994
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:19,640
Speaker 3: You remember that guy, I don't want no, I don't

995
00:49:19,680 --> 00:49:21,880
Speaker 3: want no peenis that's gonna make me the nudge.

996
00:49:22,120 --> 00:49:26,160
Speaker 2: That's what too Chain said. Thank you, Hobby, Hobby had

997
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:29,360
Speaker 2: my bag. But anyways, like I said, that's why I

998
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,000
Speaker 2: can decide that.

999
00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:33,680
Speaker 3: Don't mean as you thought, Hobby name home waiting these

1000
00:49:33,680 --> 00:49:39,080
Speaker 3: stress love like you, Hobby beside our worthy sometimes.

1001
00:49:41,480 --> 00:49:44,879
Speaker 4: Come on, nah no, don't do my dog Hobby like that.

1002
00:49:45,960 --> 00:49:49,680
Speaker 2: All I'm saying is I know we know the difference

1003
00:49:50,239 --> 00:49:51,480
Speaker 2: real love, no pride.

1004
00:49:51,560 --> 00:49:52,080
Speaker 4: Let's move on.

1005
00:49:53,360 --> 00:49:57,279
Speaker 2: Don't be trying to shade Hobby. I'm not sha She

1006
00:49:57,440 --> 00:50:02,640
Speaker 2: was being shady. Hobby, you about Hovey City because he

1007
00:50:02,680 --> 00:50:06,600
Speaker 2: knew the song.

1008
00:50:06,440 --> 00:50:13,439
Speaker 4: Howey You'll play you? So he just proved my point.

1009
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:16,279
Speaker 1: So you didn't prove your point like you thought.

1010
00:50:16,280 --> 00:50:17,720
Speaker 4: You didn't know what I was saying.

1011
00:50:17,760 --> 00:50:20,239
Speaker 2: I was saying the reason I said Finnock was because

1012
00:50:20,239 --> 00:50:20,960
Speaker 2: of two chains.

1013
00:50:22,880 --> 00:50:28,640
Speaker 3: Anyways, speach now it stop thinking into the big bow.

1014
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:33,560
Speaker 4: The big bow about bell bell.

1015
00:50:34,840 --> 00:50:36,759
Speaker 2: All right, So for the bad today, I wanted to

1016
00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:42,480
Speaker 2: talk about how casual sex ruins intimacy. And let me

1017
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:44,920
Speaker 2: tell you why I changed my mind about this, because

1018
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 2: y'all know me.

1019
00:50:46,480 --> 00:50:47,320
Speaker 4: I'm big horny.

1020
00:50:48,040 --> 00:50:50,759
Speaker 2: They called me, they call me big, they call me

1021
00:50:50,840 --> 00:50:52,120
Speaker 2: big horny in the streets.

1022
00:50:52,160 --> 00:50:57,239
Speaker 4: No, they don't let me. They do. They don't. I

1023
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:01,040
Speaker 4: know somebody they call you name drop them, name them.

1024
00:51:01,239 --> 00:51:02,359
Speaker 4: I wouldn't do that. Name them.

1025
00:51:02,480 --> 00:51:06,719
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna do that.

1026
00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:09,880
Speaker 4: Name them. I'm gonna sure you the clip. The girls

1027
00:51:09,800 --> 00:51:11,359
Speaker 4: are gonna pick that up. And no, but.

1028
00:51:11,360 --> 00:51:15,480
Speaker 2: Anyways, I'll say this, Okay, somebody though, girl, No you don't.

1029
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:21,919
Speaker 2: But anyway, okay.

1030
00:51:22,760 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 1: Casual laughing because you know I probably know somebody.

1031
00:51:25,680 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 4: No, I'm laughing because you lie older than me.

1032
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,800
Speaker 1: That's crazy.

1033
00:51:30,840 --> 00:51:33,000
Speaker 2: But I'll say this, I can't wait for the vibe.

1034
00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:38,320
Speaker 2: Casual sex is ruining intimacy. And I a thousand percent agree.

1035
00:51:38,320 --> 00:51:41,560
Speaker 2: And let me tell you why, because as I get older,

1036
00:51:41,640 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 2: I truly believe in exchanging energies and having intimate moments

1037
00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:49,319
Speaker 2: like I don't want to fuck, like I don't want

1038
00:51:49,320 --> 00:51:53,640
Speaker 2: to just like sex is supposed to be something that

1039
00:51:53,680 --> 00:51:56,720
Speaker 2: two people are experiencing and they're rising to another level.

1040
00:51:56,719 --> 00:51:59,840
Speaker 2: They're not they're having an outer world experience. That's what

1041
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:02,279
Speaker 2: sex should be. And this is coming from somebody who

1042
00:52:02,400 --> 00:52:05,080
Speaker 2: used to have casual sex. I don't want to have

1043
00:52:05,120 --> 00:52:08,600
Speaker 2: casual sex anymore because when you're having casual sex, it's

1044
00:52:08,680 --> 00:52:09,000
Speaker 2: not that.

1045
00:52:10,320 --> 00:52:15,239
Speaker 4: And I truly believe that if you're horny, I get it.

1046
00:52:15,280 --> 00:52:18,680
Speaker 2: We're all horny. Like we all have emotions, men and women.

1047
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:22,360
Speaker 2: If you're not involved with somebody who truly cares about

1048
00:52:22,400 --> 00:52:24,840
Speaker 2: you and y'all can share this intimate moment together, just

1049
00:52:24,960 --> 00:52:25,160
Speaker 2: use a.

1050
00:52:25,200 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 4: Vibrator, beat your meat.

1051
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 2: But I just really think that, like, if you get

1052
00:52:29,920 --> 00:52:31,680
Speaker 2: rid of casual sex, a lot of.

1053
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:33,200
Speaker 4: These problems wouldn't be happening.

1054
00:52:33,840 --> 00:52:35,960
Speaker 2: I say that to say I just seen a clip

1055
00:52:36,080 --> 00:52:37,880
Speaker 2: from Tonight's Conversation.

1056
00:52:38,160 --> 00:52:39,080
Speaker 4: They're on tour right now.

1057
00:52:39,120 --> 00:52:42,040
Speaker 2: Shout out to them, and they had a woman who

1058
00:52:42,120 --> 00:52:44,560
Speaker 2: stood up in the audience and was like, I fucked

1059
00:52:44,560 --> 00:52:47,920
Speaker 2: this nigga last week, and I see him here with

1060
00:52:48,400 --> 00:52:52,240
Speaker 2: his homeboy and there with two girls, and she was hurt.

1061
00:52:52,840 --> 00:52:55,280
Speaker 4: She was upset. She was like, I just fucked this nigga.

1062
00:52:55,440 --> 00:52:58,239
Speaker 2: I've been texting him whatever and he's not answering, and

1063
00:52:58,239 --> 00:53:00,319
Speaker 2: now I see him on a date. But guess what

1064
00:53:00,560 --> 00:53:04,840
Speaker 2: if y'all would stop having casual sex, these situations wouldn't happen.

1065
00:53:05,520 --> 00:53:08,080
Speaker 1: Well, I feel like casual sex more so.

1066
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:14,560
Speaker 3: Has fucked up dating because if you're used to dealing

1067
00:53:14,560 --> 00:53:15,840
Speaker 3: with one person.

1068
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:18,760
Speaker 1: And then you go and you deal.

1069
00:53:18,600 --> 00:53:22,680
Speaker 3: With another person, it's like you don't your expectations are

1070
00:53:22,719 --> 00:53:25,480
Speaker 3: low because it's like I was dealing with this person

1071
00:53:25,520 --> 00:53:28,200
Speaker 3: and this person wasn't having to do X, Y and z,

1072
00:53:28,360 --> 00:53:30,239
Speaker 3: or or they were having to do X, Y and Z,

1073
00:53:30,400 --> 00:53:32,560
Speaker 3: and so then you go into another situation with another

1074
00:53:32,600 --> 00:53:35,759
Speaker 3: person and it's still casual, but you have the same expectations.

1075
00:53:35,760 --> 00:53:38,240
Speaker 3: But this person might be a millionaire and this person

1076
00:53:38,320 --> 00:53:40,560
Speaker 3: make seventy thousand dollars a year.

1077
00:53:40,880 --> 00:53:42,400
Speaker 1: I think people always are.

1078
00:53:42,360 --> 00:53:47,239
Speaker 3: Expecting monetary or financial gain these days, and that's why

1079
00:53:47,239 --> 00:53:49,719
Speaker 3: I think casual sex be fucking shit up.

1080
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:52,640
Speaker 2: Well, I don't even think it's about monetary gain. I

1081
00:53:52,680 --> 00:53:55,480
Speaker 2: think sometimes I had a conversation with you about this,

1082
00:53:55,640 --> 00:53:57,880
Speaker 2: and I had a conversation with my best friend killer.

1083
00:54:00,200 --> 00:54:03,239
Speaker 2: These men are out here dating, okay. So if a

1084
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:07,160
Speaker 2: man is it's a lot of gentlemen out here. Believe

1085
00:54:07,160 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 2: it or not, it's a lot of gentlemen out here.

1086
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:12,160
Speaker 2: So if a man is taking you out, opening the door,

1087
00:54:12,640 --> 00:54:16,120
Speaker 2: paying for dinner, making sure you straight, texting you every morning.

1088
00:54:16,480 --> 00:54:18,759
Speaker 2: That's cool, but that don't mean you need to fuck

1089
00:54:18,840 --> 00:54:21,080
Speaker 2: him and go all off on the edge. And this

1090
00:54:21,200 --> 00:54:23,120
Speaker 2: my man, this is my man. And I asks him

1091
00:54:23,120 --> 00:54:25,440
Speaker 2: courting you and being a gentleman. That's what he's supposed

1092
00:54:25,440 --> 00:54:25,640
Speaker 2: to do.

1093
00:54:26,800 --> 00:54:29,160
Speaker 3: And I agree, but I think what is fucking shit

1094
00:54:29,280 --> 00:54:32,880
Speaker 3: up is like girls be going fuck with a NBA

1095
00:54:33,080 --> 00:54:36,920
Speaker 3: player or an NFL player. That nigga take you on

1096
00:54:36,960 --> 00:54:43,840
Speaker 3: a first day. He's taking you to He's taking you

1097
00:54:43,880 --> 00:54:44,360
Speaker 3: the noble.

1098
00:54:44,480 --> 00:54:46,680
Speaker 1: He's taking you to what's the steakhouse with like.

1099
00:54:46,600 --> 00:54:51,200
Speaker 3: Little All, taking you the noble. He knew took his

1100
00:54:51,320 --> 00:54:53,799
Speaker 3: girl down. He's taking you he put them. He's taking

1101
00:54:53,800 --> 00:54:55,719
Speaker 3: you the noble. He's taking you to Little Alley. On

1102
00:54:55,760 --> 00:54:57,680
Speaker 3: the first day, he might take you to the or

1103
00:54:57,800 --> 00:55:00,600
Speaker 3: get you some shoes real quick, real quick.

1104
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:01,920
Speaker 4: It might take you to tom for it.

1105
00:55:01,920 --> 00:55:03,839
Speaker 3: You shoot some shoes real quick on the first day,

1106
00:55:04,200 --> 00:55:07,400
Speaker 3: and then you go on, you shit don't work out

1107
00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:09,839
Speaker 3: between you and that nigga. But because you've been exposed

1108
00:55:09,880 --> 00:55:13,520
Speaker 3: to that, now on your next day you're like, oh,

1109
00:55:13,680 --> 00:55:15,359
Speaker 3: this is what this nigga needs to do for me.

1110
00:55:16,120 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 4: If he can't do this for me.

1111
00:55:17,920 --> 00:55:19,680
Speaker 3: Then I'm not fucking with him like that, even if

1112
00:55:19,680 --> 00:55:21,200
Speaker 3: you like everything else about him.

1113
00:55:21,280 --> 00:55:22,919
Speaker 4: Oh okay, now I'll see where you're going.

1114
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:25,279
Speaker 1: Even if you like everything else about him.

1115
00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:28,799
Speaker 3: He's a he's he's attentive, he has a great personality.

1116
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:32,759
Speaker 3: He loves God, he has a great relationship with God.

1117
00:55:32,800 --> 00:55:34,920
Speaker 3: He has a great relationship with his mother. He has

1118
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,160
Speaker 3: all of these amazing things. He has his own apartment,

1119
00:55:37,560 --> 00:55:40,480
Speaker 3: he pays his own bills, he has an honest job,

1120
00:55:40,560 --> 00:55:43,279
Speaker 3: honest living. But because he can't do for you with

1121
00:55:43,760 --> 00:55:46,120
Speaker 3: this other nigga did for you on one day, you

1122
00:55:46,200 --> 00:55:47,959
Speaker 3: never dated that nigga outside of that one day because

1123
00:55:47,960 --> 00:55:50,680
Speaker 3: all he wanted was some policey just hypothetically, all right,

1124
00:55:50,719 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 3: But that's so stupid because them, if that's what's going on,

1125
00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:57,319
Speaker 3: that's why I feel like shit is fucked up.

1126
00:55:57,360 --> 00:55:58,360
Speaker 1: But when it comes.

1127
00:55:58,160 --> 00:56:00,200
Speaker 4: Back, but that shit is really not even going on.

1128
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:03,279
Speaker 1: Somebody told me recently they blame us in CD girls.

1129
00:56:03,400 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 2: I mean, let me tell you this though, and I'm

1130
00:56:05,480 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 2: just being real, I'm glad you brought somebody said it

1131
00:56:07,719 --> 00:56:09,759
Speaker 2: to me because I got two points to make. First

1132
00:56:09,800 --> 00:56:13,400
Speaker 2: of all, I said no, no, no, First of all, I'm

1133
00:56:13,440 --> 00:56:16,400
Speaker 2: not talking about that because that's not what's literally happening

1134
00:56:16,440 --> 00:56:19,800
Speaker 2: to the average that's not what's happening to the average woman, Drea.

1135
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:21,560
Speaker 4: So you talked about, but.

1136
00:56:21,520 --> 00:56:25,000
Speaker 3: What you talk about on your platform makes people feel.

1137
00:56:24,680 --> 00:56:25,799
Speaker 1: Like it can happen to them.

1138
00:56:26,000 --> 00:56:29,160
Speaker 3: What we and I just you let me rephrase, meet us,

1139
00:56:29,640 --> 00:56:33,000
Speaker 3: be and you what we've talked about makes people feel

1140
00:56:33,040 --> 00:56:34,840
Speaker 3: like that's what can happen.

1141
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,040
Speaker 4: And let me get to that.

1142
00:56:36,280 --> 00:56:41,160
Speaker 2: So first point, I'm talking about the average person because

1143
00:56:41,160 --> 00:56:43,560
Speaker 2: the average person is not going to the or not

1144
00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:46,399
Speaker 2: going to Little Alley, not going to noble. So I say,

1145
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,760
Speaker 2: but so yeah, so let me say this, these niggas

1146
00:56:51,800 --> 00:56:54,799
Speaker 2: not even doing that. When a man is supposed to

1147
00:56:54,840 --> 00:56:57,640
Speaker 2: court you, let him court you. Just because a man

1148
00:56:57,760 --> 00:57:01,200
Speaker 2: is taking you out to dinner, showing in doing X

1149
00:57:01,320 --> 00:57:03,839
Speaker 2: y Z in the beginning, that's what he's supposed to do.

1150
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:06,640
Speaker 2: That doesn't mean you have to fuck him, That's what

1151
00:57:06,680 --> 00:57:10,120
Speaker 2: I'm saying. So even if he is, say the first day,

1152
00:57:10,360 --> 00:57:13,120
Speaker 2: is him taken to the the your is taking you

1153
00:57:13,160 --> 00:57:15,960
Speaker 2: to little Alley, whatever level it's on, I don't care

1154
00:57:16,000 --> 00:57:19,360
Speaker 2: what level it's on. A man is courting you. That

1155
00:57:19,360 --> 00:57:22,160
Speaker 2: doesn't mean y'all have any type of connection. He is

1156
00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:24,720
Speaker 2: trying to rerill you in. This is a job application,

1157
00:57:25,040 --> 00:57:26,800
Speaker 2: and he put his best motherfucking face on.

1158
00:57:26,960 --> 00:57:29,640
Speaker 3: But I think the problem with casual sext these days

1159
00:57:29,680 --> 00:57:32,200
Speaker 3: is that niggas do that type of shit. They do

1160
00:57:32,320 --> 00:57:35,400
Speaker 3: the bare minimum and because a woman has not experienced

1161
00:57:35,400 --> 00:57:37,320
Speaker 3: that before, and they be like, oh, I'm gonna give

1162
00:57:37,400 --> 00:57:43,240
Speaker 3: him some pissy because he liked me. Let's be Let's

1163
00:57:43,280 --> 00:57:46,040
Speaker 3: be real, though, you have been at a point before

1164
00:57:46,080 --> 00:57:47,720
Speaker 3: in life where you was like, oh, a nigga did

1165
00:57:47,800 --> 00:57:50,600
Speaker 3: this for me, he really liked me, not realizing this

1166
00:57:50,640 --> 00:57:54,600
Speaker 3: is what he do for everybody because he has the financials,

1167
00:57:54,680 --> 00:57:56,480
Speaker 3: he has the financial capability to do.

1168
00:57:56,560 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: So you ain't up. You ain't being up, but you

1169
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: gave that nigga some pussy.

1170
00:58:03,440 --> 00:58:07,080
Speaker 4: So what we're telling your mother?

1171
00:58:07,200 --> 00:58:09,680
Speaker 3: God, I feel I'm not talking about you for real.

1172
00:58:09,720 --> 00:58:12,280
Speaker 3: I'm just saying, though, but you did, and.

1173
00:58:13,440 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 4: You gonna dumb it down. Hold adneck, I did, I

1174
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:23,120
Speaker 4: had I did too, say that then, bit, but you

1175
00:58:23,320 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 4: not special, bro, Stop saying you. I feel I'm getting offended, bitch.

1176
00:58:30,600 --> 00:58:31,280
Speaker 4: Come on now.

1177
00:58:32,640 --> 00:58:35,960
Speaker 1: The point I'm making is that like it's not it's.

1178
00:58:35,800 --> 00:58:39,680
Speaker 3: Within his it's within his range, it's within his tax

1179
00:58:39,800 --> 00:58:41,560
Speaker 3: breakeet to do the things that he's doing.

1180
00:58:41,840 --> 00:58:44,480
Speaker 1: You are not special. You just the girl for the moment.

1181
00:58:44,920 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 3: You have to tell You have to say it to

1182
00:58:46,960 --> 00:58:51,240
Speaker 3: yourself that it's like, unless a man makes me his girlfriend,

1183
00:58:52,280 --> 00:58:55,280
Speaker 3: unless he shows me he wants to be committed to me,

1184
00:58:55,920 --> 00:58:58,640
Speaker 3: unless he shows me that he sees a future with me,

1185
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,400
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna give him no pleay, But just based

1186
00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:03,720
Speaker 3: off of the things that niggas is doing for you,

1187
00:59:04,400 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 3: I think that's what women be giving niggas pussy off

1188
00:59:07,080 --> 00:59:11,040
Speaker 3: of these days. And that's where bitches be fucking up because, yeah,

1189
00:59:11,040 --> 00:59:12,800
Speaker 3: that nigga did this for you because he like you

1190
00:59:12,880 --> 00:59:15,560
Speaker 3: in that moment, But then if you stop fucking with him,

1191
00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,560
Speaker 3: he gonna like somebody else. Make these niggas show.

1192
00:59:18,360 --> 00:59:24,360
Speaker 2: You and a man is beyond monetary things. And that's

1193
00:59:24,400 --> 00:59:26,600
Speaker 2: what I want to say too. And then to the

1194
00:59:26,640 --> 00:59:29,280
Speaker 2: comment that they were like, oh, y'all preached this. Do

1195
00:59:29,360 --> 00:59:33,360
Speaker 2: y'all realize that the girl you was talking about somebody

1196
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,680
Speaker 2: said that we preached this. I'm going to your second point. Oh,

1197
00:59:36,760 --> 00:59:38,400
Speaker 2: that was the second point. I was gonna make This

1198
00:59:38,440 --> 00:59:40,840
Speaker 2: is the point I'm gonna make. We started recording this

1199
00:59:40,880 --> 00:59:43,200
Speaker 2: shit when I was twenty six, twenty seven. I'm thirty

1200
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:45,960
Speaker 2: four now. I always say this. LEXP went through that,

1201
00:59:46,000 --> 00:59:48,560
Speaker 2: so you ain't got to go through that. When is

1202
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 2: a lit I don't talk about bdb's no more. We

1203
00:59:50,840 --> 00:59:52,840
Speaker 2: don't talk about Oh you a nigga supposed to do

1204
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:54,200
Speaker 2: this in X y Z. This is how I know

1205
00:59:54,280 --> 00:59:58,320
Speaker 2: y'all don't watch the show because when I tell you, oh,

1206
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,560
Speaker 2: but Causehante got a mes chance, got a man at

1207
01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:04,840
Speaker 2: home and he's so good to me. That's what she said.

1208
01:00:05,360 --> 01:00:16,680
Speaker 4: All right, it's sorry that but okay, this is what

1209
01:00:16,720 --> 01:00:23,760
Speaker 4: I'm saying, though you sorry, it was he not at all.

1210
01:00:26,400 --> 01:00:27,840
Speaker 1: That's your nose flaaring up.

1211
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:29,479
Speaker 4: That's how you know I meant it.

1212
01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:34,640
Speaker 2: But I'm saying all that to say, I me and

1213
01:00:34,680 --> 01:00:36,160
Speaker 2: my man, we don't have to talk about money now.

1214
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:38,760
Speaker 2: Do I want somebody who's ambitious, who have things going on?

1215
01:00:38,880 --> 01:00:39,520
Speaker 1: Of course?

1216
01:00:39,760 --> 01:00:45,520
Speaker 2: But I say all that to stay it's not nothing casual.

1217
01:00:46,040 --> 01:00:49,240
Speaker 2: I didn't fuck him because he was doing X y Z.

1218
01:00:49,920 --> 01:00:52,320
Speaker 2: It was like we had to create a bond. He

1219
01:00:52,440 --> 01:00:54,760
Speaker 2: had to show up for me. He had to create

1220
01:00:54,760 --> 01:00:58,520
Speaker 2: a safe space for me and vice versa. So yes,

1221
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,880
Speaker 2: the things I used to talk about at twenty seven,

1222
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:03,120
Speaker 2: it's going to be different than the things I talk

1223
01:01:03,160 --> 01:01:04,600
Speaker 2: about at thirty four.

1224
01:01:05,400 --> 01:01:06,600
Speaker 4: So it's like, if y'all.

1225
01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,200
Speaker 2: Are tuned in now today, Yeah, go watch your old episodes.

1226
01:01:09,200 --> 01:01:11,280
Speaker 2: We're saying, Oh, do this, do that, do that, man,

1227
01:01:11,360 --> 01:01:13,360
Speaker 2: do what works for you. But the bottom line is

1228
01:01:14,000 --> 01:01:16,320
Speaker 2: make that nigga work for you and for the men,

1229
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:19,360
Speaker 2: to make her bring something to the table. I think

1230
01:01:19,400 --> 01:01:21,160
Speaker 2: I hate to bring the table, bring something to the

1231
01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:22,840
Speaker 2: table conversations, but this.

1232
01:01:22,800 --> 01:01:24,200
Speaker 4: Is how relationships work. Y'all.

1233
01:01:24,240 --> 01:01:26,920
Speaker 2: Both gotta bring something to the table. It does not

1234
01:01:27,040 --> 01:01:30,080
Speaker 2: need to be one sided. I'm tired of that. We

1235
01:01:30,160 --> 01:01:33,160
Speaker 2: all need to bring something to the motherfucking table. You

1236
01:01:33,200 --> 01:01:35,720
Speaker 2: cannot show up to the table with just dip. You

1237
01:01:35,760 --> 01:01:38,560
Speaker 2: can't show up to the table with just pussy what else?

1238
01:01:39,800 --> 01:01:43,400
Speaker 3: So now I think it's time to get into the

1239
01:01:43,760 --> 01:01:44,640
Speaker 3: You made a good point.

1240
01:01:44,800 --> 01:01:47,360
Speaker 4: I didn't you want to do a lyric? Break now

1241
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:50,919
Speaker 4: break it on down. We got a little time. Oh

1242
01:01:51,200 --> 01:01:52,440
Speaker 4: we really don't. We really know.

1243
01:01:52,840 --> 01:01:54,280
Speaker 3: So you just want to do the item I mean,

1244
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:55,960
Speaker 3: not the item of the week. You want to just yeah,

1245
01:01:55,960 --> 01:01:58,320
Speaker 3: we gotta, I gotta.

1246
01:01:58,480 --> 01:02:09,160
Speaker 4: I don't want to leave it. So now what's haping

1247
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 4: to get into the bop? The bout.

1248
01:02:14,040 --> 01:02:19,120
Speaker 2: Bow Bow Bow Bow Bow. So my bop of the week.

1249
01:02:19,160 --> 01:02:22,360
Speaker 2: This song hasn't even been released yet. Hopefully by the

1250
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:24,600
Speaker 2: time y'all see this, the song will drop. But let

1251
01:02:24,680 --> 01:02:26,080
Speaker 2: me tell y'all something about my ear. My ear a

1252
01:02:26,080 --> 01:02:27,800
Speaker 2: little different. I know a hit when I see one.

1253
01:02:27,960 --> 01:02:30,120
Speaker 2: Y'all can never make me hate her. Shout out to

1254
01:02:30,160 --> 01:02:30,840
Speaker 2: Sexy Red.

1255
01:02:31,160 --> 01:02:33,720
Speaker 4: She got a song coming out called get It Sexy,

1256
01:02:34,080 --> 01:02:40,360
Speaker 4: Get It Sexy, Get It sex sick favorite.

1257
01:02:40,520 --> 01:02:43,320
Speaker 2: Oh, one thing I can fuck with a bitch about

1258
01:02:43,920 --> 01:02:47,280
Speaker 2: is that you being your authentic self. It's Sexy Red

1259
01:02:47,320 --> 01:02:49,400
Speaker 2: and did nothing but be herself from day one, and

1260
01:02:49,440 --> 01:02:51,360
Speaker 2: that's why she's successful. Y'all can be mad at this

1261
01:02:51,400 --> 01:02:53,280
Speaker 2: girl all she won't, but she know how to get

1262
01:02:53,280 --> 01:02:54,960
Speaker 2: in that studio and make a motherfucking hit.

1263
01:02:55,240 --> 01:02:55,520
Speaker 6: She do.

1264
01:02:56,120 --> 01:02:57,160
Speaker 4: And I'm so.

1265
01:02:57,040 --> 01:02:59,440
Speaker 2: Excited for getting Sexy to drop. Let me tell y'all

1266
01:02:59,440 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 2: how sex he Red carried poor minds. Last year we

1267
01:03:03,800 --> 01:03:05,960
Speaker 2: could not find nothing to walk out too, and we

1268
01:03:06,000 --> 01:03:08,080
Speaker 2: was walking out to all her mother fucking music. She

1269
01:03:08,240 --> 01:03:11,720
Speaker 2: kept dropping fire hits on our ass and the whole tour,

1270
01:03:11,800 --> 01:03:15,120
Speaker 2: we was walking out to Sexy Red. So sexy Red

1271
01:03:15,600 --> 01:03:18,160
Speaker 2: getting sexy. That's my bop of the week. I'm fucking

1272
01:03:18,160 --> 01:03:19,320
Speaker 2: with you. You need to come sit on.

1273
01:03:19,280 --> 01:03:23,040
Speaker 1: The couch, Queen Amen. I love sexy Red.

1274
01:03:23,040 --> 01:03:27,120
Speaker 4: Even sexy Red. Ama been that ass.

1275
01:03:26,600 --> 01:03:28,800
Speaker 1: Over lit couchie breed.

1276
01:03:31,200 --> 01:03:36,160
Speaker 3: I was, no, that was an am But also I

1277
01:03:36,240 --> 01:03:37,560
Speaker 3: was giving my tony breakfast.

1278
01:03:42,960 --> 01:03:45,400
Speaker 4: Come on, come on, now, what's what you been doing?

1279
01:03:45,560 --> 01:03:47,120
Speaker 1: Okay, So I feel like we gotta have a little

1280
01:03:47,160 --> 01:03:49,400
Speaker 1: balance because you're a heathen.

1281
01:03:52,040 --> 01:03:53,600
Speaker 4: You've been playing me this whole episode.

1282
01:03:54,040 --> 01:03:59,480
Speaker 3: So I don't have a new song, but I've been

1283
01:03:59,480 --> 01:04:03,240
Speaker 3: listening to In the Sanctuary, which is where you need

1284
01:04:03,280 --> 01:04:03,680
Speaker 3: to be.

1285
01:04:09,080 --> 01:04:11,600
Speaker 1: By Kirk by the Kurk Card singers.

1286
01:04:12,040 --> 01:04:17,440
Speaker 4: We lift hand, say shoe wear, We lift that hand,

1287
01:04:18,240 --> 01:04:22,920
Speaker 4: give you the give you the glory, to give you

1288
01:04:23,080 --> 01:04:25,120
Speaker 4: the pra You didn't know why I do that song.

1289
01:04:25,680 --> 01:04:29,320
Speaker 3: Keep singing and we will praise you for arrest up Harday,

1290
01:04:30,920 --> 01:04:33,040
Speaker 3: we will praise you, arrest up.

1291
01:04:33,120 --> 01:04:36,560
Speaker 4: Holdays, we.

1292
01:04:40,560 --> 01:04:48,600
Speaker 1: Don't live, don't live, don't live.

1293
01:04:49,360 --> 01:04:50,040
Speaker 4: A heaven?

1294
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:55,240
Speaker 3: Okay, but no, yes that's not that's not hop of

1295
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:59,080
Speaker 3: the week because I have like a Christian playlist that

1296
01:04:59,120 --> 01:05:00,720
Speaker 3: I feel like I need to sh with the people.

1297
01:05:01,880 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 4: I need to share with you. First. I have my playlists. No,

1298
01:05:05,680 --> 01:05:06,440
Speaker 4: but I'm serious.

1299
01:05:06,520 --> 01:05:09,600
Speaker 2: I had one and I switched over to Spotify. I

1300
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,640
Speaker 2: had a playlist. I have my Christian playlist. I have

1301
01:05:12,760 --> 01:05:16,160
Speaker 2: my grades Anatomy playlist. What's on your Christian placest? Oh

1302
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:18,280
Speaker 2: my god, I can't remember. I can't remember what's on

1303
01:05:18,320 --> 01:05:20,720
Speaker 2: none of that ship. But I was praising God.

1304
01:05:20,800 --> 01:05:24,920
Speaker 4: Do you love God? Love? I love God? On my

1305
01:05:25,040 --> 01:05:27,880
Speaker 4: fucking curse. When we at church?

1306
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:29,000
Speaker 1: We're not in church.

1307
01:05:33,760 --> 01:05:37,760
Speaker 4: Not the Taler Perry movie, y'all.

1308
01:05:38,400 --> 01:05:41,200
Speaker 1: That's the only that's the only Christians.

1309
01:05:41,760 --> 01:05:44,560
Speaker 3: The Christian song last No, and it's because it was

1310
01:05:44,560 --> 01:05:45,520
Speaker 3: atli Pery.

1311
01:05:45,880 --> 01:05:46,720
Speaker 4: You hear me?

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Speaker 2: Now, Okay, So now get into our favorite segment of

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Speaker 2: the week.

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Speaker 4: Pour your heart out.

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01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:54,640
Speaker 2: If you want your question answered on the show, make

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01:05:54,640 --> 01:05:57,120
Speaker 2: sure you email us at ask four months that you.

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01:05:57,080 --> 01:05:58,800
Speaker 1: Miss I think we should only do one question.

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01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:02,640
Speaker 2: Let's do one question that because we gotta jit.

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01:06:02,880 --> 01:06:04,280
Speaker 4: We've been chatty today.

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Speaker 5: I miss you, Thanks, Bookie.

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01:06:09,160 --> 01:06:12,160
Speaker 4: Let me read it because you want to make sure

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01:06:12,280 --> 01:06:13,320
Speaker 4: we ain't gonna do that again.

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01:06:13,800 --> 01:06:15,440
Speaker 1: Go about this in the right way.

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01:06:16,880 --> 01:06:19,760
Speaker 4: I like you a red hair you do. If I

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01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:21,840
Speaker 4: was a nigga, I would be like you sucking trying

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01:06:21,880 --> 01:06:25,720
Speaker 4: to be you want to be? No, I want to

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01:06:25,760 --> 01:06:32,000
Speaker 4: go to the bathroom. Who you're so tying about it?

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01:06:32,040 --> 01:06:34,360
Speaker 4: About it? Oh?

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Speaker 2: No?

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Speaker 4: No, no, no, okay, no, be for real.

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Speaker 1: I love you both so much.

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01:06:43,880 --> 01:06:46,080
Speaker 3: Thank you for the endless joy I get from listening

1333
01:06:46,160 --> 01:06:48,720
Speaker 3: to you and your hard work on this amazing podcast.

1334
01:06:49,120 --> 01:06:51,360
Speaker 3: I want to know if the bdb's you have both

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01:06:51,400 --> 01:06:55,560
Speaker 3: really liked, huh and the men that you have been

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01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:58,600
Speaker 3: most serious with make you laugh? Ali like I was

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01:06:58,640 --> 01:07:00,760
Speaker 3: talking to a guy that I really like and thought

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Speaker 3: that he liked me.

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01:07:01,960 --> 01:07:04,400
Speaker 1: He was hilarious and I made him laugh too. We

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01:07:04,400 --> 01:07:05,520
Speaker 1: could riff on each other.

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01:07:06,040 --> 01:07:08,640
Speaker 3: There was also a lot of sexual attention, flirting, and

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01:07:08,720 --> 01:07:11,480
Speaker 3: a couple of cute days and fun makeouts. Then he

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01:07:11,520 --> 01:07:13,840
Speaker 3: started to get a little quiet on me with his texts,

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01:07:13,880 --> 01:07:15,840
Speaker 3: and one day I felt that he wasn't going to

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01:07:15,920 --> 01:07:18,840
Speaker 3: text me anymore, so I didn't reach out to him either,

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01:07:18,920 --> 01:07:22,080
Speaker 3: And here we are a couple of weeks later, when

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01:07:22,160 --> 01:07:23,000
Speaker 3: nothing said.

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01:07:22,800 --> 01:07:24,000
Speaker 4: About why he fizzled out.

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01:07:24,640 --> 01:07:27,200
Speaker 3: I am talking to another guy, but at first impression,

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01:07:27,800 --> 01:07:29,680
Speaker 3: he doesn't make me crack up like the other one,

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01:07:29,800 --> 01:07:33,120
Speaker 3: not even close. I want to be open minded when dating,

1352
01:07:33,440 --> 01:07:37,320
Speaker 3: but this has me realizing how important humor that matches

1353
01:07:37,400 --> 01:07:40,840
Speaker 3: mind is to my potential relationships and kind of depressing

1354
01:07:41,120 --> 01:07:44,400
Speaker 3: that I'm going to have to be very patient as

1355
01:07:44,440 --> 01:07:46,720
Speaker 3: I feel like it's rare to find a super funny

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01:07:46,760 --> 01:07:50,240
Speaker 3: guy who is also very attractive like that one was.

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01:07:50,600 --> 01:07:52,880
Speaker 3: How do you feel about that? Is it important to you?

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01:07:53,360 --> 01:07:56,480
Speaker 3: Do guys make you laugh out loud? I'm sorry, do

1359
01:07:56,520 --> 01:07:59,520
Speaker 3: you guys? Do guys make you laugh out loud? Thank you,

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01:07:59,600 --> 01:08:03,800
Speaker 3: beautiful fools. That's definitely important to me. I need to

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01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:05,240
Speaker 3: be with a funny like I need to be with

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01:08:05,240 --> 01:08:06,320
Speaker 3: a nigga that makes me laugh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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01:08:08,400 --> 01:08:11,640
Speaker 2: I feel like I realized that a long time ago

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01:08:11,600 --> 01:08:14,880
Speaker 2: because I'm goofy as fuck. Like I am goofy as fuck,

1366
01:08:16,640 --> 01:08:18,679
Speaker 2: so I need somebody who's gonna make me laugh.

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01:08:19,280 --> 01:08:21,520
Speaker 4: So I feel like, if that's something.

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01:08:21,240 --> 01:08:24,080
Speaker 2: That's on your checklist, like yeah, move on, Like stop

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01:08:24,120 --> 01:08:27,040
Speaker 2: sticking with people, let them. That's an easy box to

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01:08:27,120 --> 01:08:30,519
Speaker 2: check off. Niggas be funny, people be funny. I don't

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01:08:30,560 --> 01:08:33,280
Speaker 2: think no, but I'm saying it's easy to find a

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01:08:33,320 --> 01:08:36,400
Speaker 2: funny nigga, you think. So not everybody is funny, but

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01:08:36,439 --> 01:08:43,760
Speaker 2: people do be funny. It's easy to find somebody who's funny.

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01:08:44,080 --> 01:08:47,200
Speaker 3: But I don't mean funny with his actions. I mean, like, nigga,

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01:08:47,320 --> 01:08:53,760
Speaker 3: can you crack a joke? Am I gonna laugh at

1376
01:08:53,800 --> 01:08:57,160
Speaker 3: your jokes and not laugh at you because.

1377
01:08:57,000 --> 01:08:58,400
Speaker 4: You are you are clown?

1378
01:08:58,479 --> 01:09:01,120
Speaker 2: But I think finding a funny nig is easy, so

1379
01:09:01,720 --> 01:09:04,160
Speaker 2: laughing is very important. Now I'm not gonna lie bad

1380
01:09:04,320 --> 01:09:08,599
Speaker 2: bees they usually don't be funny. That's what she asked about.

1381
01:09:08,800 --> 01:09:11,040
Speaker 4: Funny look funny. Look, they do be funny looking.

1382
01:09:11,439 --> 01:09:15,800
Speaker 2: But like I said, you're gonna laugh, but I'm okay.

1383
01:09:15,840 --> 01:09:18,360
Speaker 2: So I'm in a different those situation, like now, like

1384
01:09:18,439 --> 01:09:21,200
Speaker 2: my nigga is hilarious, like.

1385
01:09:22,720 --> 01:09:26,200
Speaker 4: That nigga funny, like that nigga's so funny, like dre

1386
01:09:26,360 --> 01:09:27,759
Speaker 4: Be calling me, like what the fuck?

1387
01:09:28,040 --> 01:09:31,040
Speaker 2: He's unhinged, He's fucking I never thought I would be

1388
01:09:31,080 --> 01:09:34,559
Speaker 2: dating somebody who's more unhinged than me. So, but that's

1389
01:09:34,600 --> 01:09:38,439
Speaker 2: what I realized with him, That's what I wanted. You

1390
01:09:38,520 --> 01:09:41,479
Speaker 2: gotta realize the first time I fell in love, that

1391
01:09:41,560 --> 01:09:44,320
Speaker 2: nigga was funny. So I was like, oh, maybe this

1392
01:09:44,439 --> 01:09:47,080
Speaker 2: is something that I that I yearned for as like

1393
01:09:47,439 --> 01:09:49,479
Speaker 2: somebody who is just as unhinged as me.

1394
01:09:49,760 --> 01:09:54,800
Speaker 1: Quick question, who's Harry Potter and who's Malfoy?

1395
01:09:55,040 --> 01:10:01,160
Speaker 4: And what you because you mean your madge?

1396
01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:09,680
Speaker 3: Oh wait, maybe not Malfoy, Lord Baltimore.

1397
01:10:10,120 --> 01:10:12,920
Speaker 2: You know what I think, I'm Lord Baltimore. You think

1398
01:10:13,240 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 2: he's Harry main character energy like that's why I told

1399
01:10:19,439 --> 01:10:34,200
Speaker 2: you like when I be with him like but but yeah,

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01:10:34,240 --> 01:10:36,560
Speaker 2: I feel like if being funny is a characteristic that

1401
01:10:36,600 --> 01:10:38,920
Speaker 2: you like, pay attention to the characteristics you like. I

1402
01:10:38,920 --> 01:10:41,160
Speaker 2: can't date no serious nigga. I know you can't either,

1403
01:10:41,360 --> 01:10:42,240
Speaker 2: because your niggas.

1404
01:10:42,920 --> 01:10:45,160
Speaker 4: You think he funny. He funny, he funny.

1405
01:10:45,680 --> 01:10:48,320
Speaker 3: Don't say this because I tell him he's unfunny all

1406
01:10:48,360 --> 01:10:48,559
Speaker 3: the time.

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01:10:48,800 --> 01:10:52,160
Speaker 2: He funny, but I mean he not like hilarious, but

1408
01:10:52,360 --> 01:10:53,360
Speaker 2: he know how to crack a little.

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01:10:53,479 --> 01:10:56,360
Speaker 4: He ain't me, Yeah, he ain't you. You eats him up.

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01:10:56,479 --> 01:10:57,320
Speaker 1: I eat that nigga.

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01:10:57,880 --> 01:11:01,280
Speaker 4: I'm glad you said you was on his ass this morning.

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01:11:01,320 --> 01:11:03,240
Speaker 1: That was but first of all, I'm a funny need

1413
01:11:03,400 --> 01:11:04,519
Speaker 1: he be trying to play.

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01:11:08,200 --> 01:11:12,120
Speaker 4: Eat that nigga and border one way? Okay, I'm not you.

1415
01:11:13,880 --> 01:11:16,760
Speaker 2: All right, So make sure y'all tune in to Poor

1416
01:11:16,840 --> 01:11:17,519
Speaker 2: Minds every week.

1417
01:11:17,600 --> 01:11:17,760
Speaker 3: Y'all.

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01:11:17,800 --> 01:11:20,800
Speaker 2: Thank y'all for subscribing and tuning in. I know y'all

1419
01:11:20,840 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 2: been missing the solo episode, so we had deliver it

1420
01:11:23,200 --> 01:11:26,120
Speaker 2: for y'all. Deliver this for y'all. We had fun today today.

1421
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:28,120
Speaker 2: It was a fun episode and I hope y'all got

1422
01:11:28,240 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 2: you know everything you need to get, So make sure

1423
01:11:30,160 --> 01:11:33,439
Speaker 2: y'all go to a black Effect dot com. Hopefully by

1424
01:11:33,479 --> 01:11:34,840
Speaker 2: the time this dropped. I don't know if we've done

1425
01:11:34,840 --> 01:11:37,559
Speaker 2: the show or not. We got so much that we're

1426
01:11:37,600 --> 01:11:40,679
Speaker 2: working on, y'all. When I tell y'all, thank y'all so much.

1427
01:11:40,880 --> 01:11:43,440
Speaker 2: We haven't done this in a while. Just thank the listeners.

1428
01:11:43,840 --> 01:11:45,599
Speaker 2: We have grown the platform as.

1429
01:11:45,640 --> 01:11:49,320
Speaker 3: I wanna thank you for making me who I am,

1430
01:11:49,680 --> 01:11:52,439
Speaker 3: putting me where I need to be. I want to

1431
01:11:52,520 --> 01:11:56,519
Speaker 3: thank you bread soon that scene and do my thing.

1432
01:12:00,080 --> 01:12:03,240
Speaker 3: But calling to your local station and next to DJ

1433
01:12:03,400 --> 01:12:04,439
Speaker 3: to play my son?

1434
01:12:04,560 --> 01:12:07,240
Speaker 4: Did you call into the local station? And that's gonna

1435
01:12:07,240 --> 01:12:10,320
Speaker 4: thank you? But no, for real, y'all.

1436
01:12:10,360 --> 01:12:12,680
Speaker 2: Our platform is growing and this year, you know, we

1437
01:12:12,720 --> 01:12:14,439
Speaker 2: said we're not going on tour, but we wanted to

1438
01:12:14,439 --> 01:12:17,360
Speaker 2: focus on being guests heavy and We've got some amazing

1439
01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,720
Speaker 2: guests that y'all seen and amazing guests coming up.

1440
01:12:20,000 --> 01:12:21,240
Speaker 4: So thank y'all so much.

1441
01:12:21,320 --> 01:12:24,439
Speaker 2: Y'all go to Music Beauty dot Com, get your lppies,

1442
01:12:24,520 --> 01:12:26,320
Speaker 2: get all that good stuff.

1443
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Speaker 4: And we'll see y'all next week.

1444
01:12:28,080 --> 01:12:31,519
Speaker 1: Quick question, Oh with you a bow Wow and or

1445
01:12:31,520 --> 01:12:32,639
Speaker 1: a Romeo bow Wow?

1446
01:12:32,720 --> 01:12:36,840
Speaker 2: Hands down and anything? No disrespect to Romeo. Was not

1447
01:12:36,840 --> 01:12:38,760
Speaker 2: trying to go to ic DC. I was trying to

1448
01:12:38,800 --> 01:12:39,439
Speaker 2: Little bow Wow.

1449
01:12:39,479 --> 01:12:40,120
Speaker 4: You just don't know.

1450
01:12:41,760 --> 01:12:42,960
Speaker 1: But this is before I see.

1451
01:12:43,040 --> 01:12:43,759
Speaker 4: It don't matter.

1452
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:47,799
Speaker 2: Bow Wow had hits on hits until he was older.

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01:12:48,000 --> 01:12:50,320
Speaker 2: Bow Wow was twelve years old. Little bow Wow, you

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01:12:50,479 --> 01:12:53,280
Speaker 2: just don't know to He ain't ride, and he ain't

1455
01:12:53,280 --> 01:12:54,360
Speaker 2: pumping like I'm pumping.

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01:12:54,400 --> 01:12:56,559
Speaker 4: He ain't saying nothing home, and you ain't fresh as

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01:12:56,560 --> 01:12:56,880
Speaker 4: on me.

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01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:03,599
Speaker 1: And stand and the song will on Marion. Let me

1459
01:13:03,840 --> 01:13:05,280
Speaker 1: hold you down.

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01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:09,000
Speaker 4: Like that, the one when he plays when I'm with somebody,

1461
01:13:09,080 --> 01:13:11,840
Speaker 4: all I think about you? Who went on all at home?

1462
01:13:13,840 --> 01:13:14,519
Speaker 4: Stop playing?

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01:13:15,400 --> 01:13:17,280
Speaker 3: It's about it was all when I just wanted to

1464
01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:19,120
Speaker 3: know what you thought. It was always bow off for me?

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01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:20,479
Speaker 7: What's on?

1466
01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:27,320
Speaker 4: To show some uh Hi? He says he wants you,

1467
01:13:27,680 --> 01:13:31,120
Speaker 4: It says he needs you. It's real something to make

1468
01:13:31,240 --> 01:13:34,920
Speaker 4: you way you if it really wants you, if it

1469
01:13:35,000 --> 01:13:38,200
Speaker 4: really needs you, really got to have you the second

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01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:41,719
Speaker 4: time to fill them out? What is a good boy?

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01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:44,479
Speaker 4: Really really good boy? Who?

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01:13:44,479 --> 01:13:46,960
Speaker 7: Why not let him play with you?

1473
01:13:47,520 --> 01:13:51,160
Speaker 6: That's we ain't give in to him good picking up snow,

1474
01:13:51,600 --> 01:13:53,040
Speaker 6: roll it all around, fucking it.

1475
01:13:53,080 --> 01:13:56,160
Speaker 1: Out like your bag, bro, pop to pop to pop

1476
01:13:56,280 --> 01:13:56,760
Speaker 1: that thing.

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01:13:57,200 --> 01:13:59,680
Speaker 6: I'm gonna show you how to make your names say,

1478
01:14:00,439 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 6: picking all beggin up, so rolling all around, look it.

1479
01:14:04,439 --> 01:14:07,439
Speaker 4: Out, I get bad bro, pop to pop to pop

1480
01:14:07,600 --> 01:14:10,639
Speaker 4: that thing. I'm gonna show you how to make a misstake.

1481
01:14:11,680 --> 01:14:15,760
Speaker 4: You get old. He's growing cold. It's just the samsums

1482
01:14:15,880 --> 01:14:18,720
Speaker 4: of a young love growing out.

1483
01:14:18,920 --> 01:14:22,519
Speaker 6: Think it's time and you're thinking of leaving beginning time.

1484
01:14:23,000 --> 01:14:26,960
Speaker 4: It's lelling nice. He's coming home. Me and him mess

1485
01:14:27,000 --> 01:14:30,160
Speaker 4: the door waiting nothing, No, take him by the hair,

1486
01:14:30,320 --> 01:14:34,519
Speaker 4: let him know. So if you understand me, come, oh,

1487
01:14:34,760 --> 01:14:38,000
Speaker 4: my lad, is winding up? If you know just how

1488
01:14:38,120 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 4: to move, how to move? Let the shop behind show

1489
01:14:43,040 --> 01:14:48,479
Speaker 4: all what you wanna do is winding up? If you

1490
01:14:48,640 --> 01:14:53,320
Speaker 4: know just how to move home, my fellow shop.

1491
01:14:54,040 --> 01:14:58,920
Speaker 2: Show all what you wanna dow beggin up.

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01:14:59,040 --> 01:15:02,320
Speaker 4: Son it all around, Puck it out like your bag. Bro.

1493
01:15:02,920 --> 01:15:10,599
Speaker 4: Pump pump pup, oh even low, take it up, slow

1494
01:15:11,120 --> 01:15:13,680
Speaker 4: rolling all around, puck it out like a bag bro.

1495
01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:17,320
Speaker 4: Pop to pop to pop that thing. I'm gonna show

1496
01:15:17,320 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 4: you how to make a man say oh period, we

1497
01:15:23,000 --> 01:15:23,519
Speaker 4: ate that up.

1498
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:29,320
Speaker 3: Helloly, speak it up, slow rolling around, puck it out

1499
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:30,920
Speaker 3: like your back bro.

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01:15:33,880 --> 01:15:40,400
Speaker 4: Hop the thing I thought it was, see y'all next week.

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Speaker 6: It