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Speaker 2: Ye, all right, Happy Monday.

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Speaker 3: It's way up and we have an action packed, fun

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Speaker 2: Candice Diller Best is going to be joining us all

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Speaker 2: week guest co hosting. Hey Candace, good morning, Good morning.

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Speaker 2: I know we were all up watching Real Housewives.

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Speaker 4: Oh god, but yesterday it was on, wasn't it.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you were on? Well, so you know they don't

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Speaker 3: want me to be on. Okay, it's not. I can't

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Speaker 3: do anything but be on with those girls.

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Speaker 2: Yes, yes, So we're gonna discuss, of course this morning

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Speaker 2: and all week.

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Speaker 3: Yes, we have time, and.

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Speaker 2: If there's any questions you have definitely hit us up

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Speaker 2: and I'll make sure I ask her on the air.

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Speaker 2: Hopefully you guys had a great weekend. We do have

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Speaker 2: a special guest joining us today. My boy, Michael Arsenal

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Speaker 2: will be joining us.

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Speaker 5: You like mine.

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Speaker 4: I love Michael and he loves Real Housewives.

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Speaker 3: He does.

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Speaker 6: Yes, we became friends. I read his first book, I

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Speaker 6: Can't Date g Oh yep, and I like fell in.

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Speaker 4: So I'm so happy to see he is a new

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Speaker 4: book out.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I finally bought some Jordans. So he'll be joining

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Speaker 2: us today. To talk about his brand new book. But

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Speaker 2: in the meantime, let's start the show off with some positivity,

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Speaker 2: like Kennis always tries to do.

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Speaker 3: Tries eight fifty one fifty.

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Speaker 2: Call us up and let us know who you want

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Speaker 2: to spread some love to. Who do you, guys want

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Speaker 3: Again? That's eight hundred fifty one fifty. It's way up.

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Speaker 5: I'm shine, I'm shine.

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Speaker 7: Turn your lights on, y'all spreading love to those who

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Speaker 7: are doing greatness.

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Speaker 3: Shine a light on, shine a light on. It's time

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Speaker 3: to shine a light on them, all right. It's way

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Speaker 3: up at Angela yee. I'm Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: And my girl Candas is here from real hotspots a Potomac.

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Speaker 2: What's I got so many things to ask you about today,

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Speaker 2: by the way, but let's shine a light now.

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Speaker 3: Today.

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Speaker 2: I want to shine a light on Lieutenant Treney Young.

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Speaker 2: She is the first black woman who is a captain

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Speaker 2: for the New York State Police Department. So shout out

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Speaker 2: on March fourteenth. She is the captain for the Bureau

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Speaker 6: And so yes, that's a great way to almost round

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Speaker 6: out Women's History Month.

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Speaker 3: I know you're honoring.

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Speaker 6: Women and then you know we're coming out of Black

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Speaker 6: History Month and with like we're getting a Black History

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Speaker 4: I love that for us.

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Speaker 3: Listen, we celebrate all year. We do.

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Speaker 2: Yeah know we extra highlighted during this time, but all

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Speaker 3: That's right as we should be.

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Speaker 2: All right, So a shout out to you, miss Nee Young,

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Speaker 2: Lieutenant Lieutenant Lieutenant Tone Young's captain Ternee Young. Now, who

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Speaker 5: Oh? My wife?

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Speaker 3: Okay, what's her name? And tell us why?

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Speaker 5: I'm well named Sierra and just because she's so supported,

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Speaker 2: Oh that's sweet you decided to call up here today

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Speaker 2: for your girl.

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Speaker 3: See era, how long you've been together?

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Speaker 8: Well, we've been together for going on nine years, but

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Speaker 2: Twenty and who proposed to who she proposed to me?

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Speaker 2: Well, that was Shining Light eight hundred and two ninety

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Speaker 2: we have your yet and we're gonna talk about Saucy Santana.

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Speaker 2: Why was his name coming up on these podcasts so much?

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Speaker 2: We'll discuss its way up, it.

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Speaker 7: Says in the rooms from industry shade to all of

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Speaker 3: All right, it's way up.

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Speaker 4: My girl.

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Speaker 2: Candace is here with me from Real Housewives the Potomac

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Speaker 3: You ready for some eat my favorite part?

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Speaker 2: All right, Well, let's talk about the No Till with

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Speaker 2: Gilbert Aerena's Pie Cast featuring Nick Young. Now, there was

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Speaker 3: You know, they became close during filming College Hill.

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Speaker 10: That's my doll.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, being friends. He pulled up a twerking video of

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Speaker 2: Okay, and Saucy responded, I really be having to check

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Speaker 2: You end up being cool with people that.

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Speaker 3: You wouldn't ordinarily meet in the industry.

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Speaker 2: Right, yes, yeah, y'all trying to go to school together,

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Speaker 2: past win the competition.

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Speaker 3: All right. Well, here's what Saucy Santana had to say.

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Speaker 7: I don't know what the was funny When you're talking

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Speaker 7: to Nick you laughing, Oh ha, he humboy, he harmboy.

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Speaker 11: Second, mother, I know you about to go your mother

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Speaker 6: Today, Well I think that's the end, Like he let

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Speaker 6: him know we can move on, like the one thing

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Speaker 3: Well, Gilbert responded, and here's what he had to say.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna throw my dollars to dogs. A good show

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Speaker 2: Show, Okay, all right, see now that's that's very people

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he cleaned it up.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I think his first reaction was the natural one.

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Speaker 6: And then he had to come back and say, oh, like,

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Speaker 2: And I will say this about Saucy Santana. He also

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Speaker 2: if he's in the room with you and that's not

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Speaker 3: Yep, you know. Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I always would see him at there's a like a

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Speaker 6: a show, I would always go there and he's always

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Speaker 6: in their chilling and he's just a chilling. Yes, hey

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Speaker 3: Saucy could turn it up and turn it down. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I've seen him do both all right.

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Speaker 2: Now, speaking of podcasts, Caitlyn Jenner and Lamar Odom have

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Speaker 2: a new project that they're working on together. They have

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Speaker 2: a new podcast that will provide a unique perspective on

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Speaker 2: the true essence of greatness in sports. So the two

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Speaker 2: of them are teaming up and their co host and

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Speaker 2: So we're going to see them launch this and then

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Speaker 2: upcoming weeks featuring boxing legends Sugar Ray Leonard.

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Speaker 3: As their first guest. Okay, that'll be an interesting.

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Speaker 6: This is a I mean, this is another example of

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Speaker 6: we're connected through the Kardashians, but like, but y'all are

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Speaker 2: Opportunistically, maybe this is a link up. Maybe opportunistically good

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Speaker 2: That's where we discussed what we did last night. And

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Speaker 2: you know what I did last night? I watched Real Housewives?

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Speaker 1: You did?

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Speaker 3: You know I did? So we're gonna catch up. My

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Speaker 1: Is, Yeah, last night.

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Speaker 3: So about last night last night?

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Speaker 7: Last night I went down.

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Speaker 2: It's way up, am Angela Yee and Candas from Real Housewives.

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Speaker 2: Potomac is here. Good morning, Ding Ding, good morning, And

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Speaker 2: this is where we discussed what we did last night. Now,

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Speaker 2: had a good weekend. The weather is great in New York. Yes,

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Speaker 2: this black woman owned restaurant in Brooklyn. Yes, in Williamsburg.

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Speaker 2: And then let me see what else did I do?

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Speaker 2: I watched Real House was a Potomac. Yes, best show,

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Speaker 2: as I do every single week. Now let's talk about it.

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Speaker 3: Can cause you hear about it?

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Speaker 2: So you and Robin still no resolution here, but she

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Speaker 2: has been sending text messages between the two of you

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Speaker 2: to a blogger she did.

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Speaker 3: Why does she do that?

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Speaker 6: I'm still trying to figure it out and then not

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Speaker 6: owning it is the part that I'm kind of confused by.

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Speaker 6: And this blogger has since exposed himself as somewhat of

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Speaker 6: a colorist. So it's interesting that she is choosing to

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Speaker 3: Right, because she's had accusations about being colorists.

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Speaker 6: Unfortunately, and I don't and I will say this again,

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Speaker 6: I don't believe that Robin herself is a colorist. But

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Speaker 6: laughing at posts that are referring to myself and Wendy

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Speaker 2: Tell us all your secret. But sometimes we can't help

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Speaker 3: Again. Let's impress Candas today.

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Speaker 4: Give me something salacious and nasty.

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Speaker 3: I want to hear it all. You gotta write a

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Speaker 3: Angela and Canvas is here. I feel like we need

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Speaker 2: I know, because people are telling us their secrets eight

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Speaker 3: Yes, all write anonymous. Call it what's your secret?

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Speaker 5: Oh, I'm currently pregnant right now.

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Speaker 3: Congratulation, Thank you.

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Speaker 5: I've been with my bost like going on ten years

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Speaker 5: we're sleeping around, and I think that baby maybe the

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Speaker 6: Do you have do you track your period? Like there

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Like I did all of it, talking to my

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Speaker 5: Like I don't even know. I'm just being I'm real

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Speaker 5: nervous that when you get here in nine months that

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Speaker 6: Okay, so let's like play this out. If it comes

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Speaker 6: he'll do?

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Speaker 5: You?

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Speaker 2: Are you going to do a DNA task because you

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: True, I mean if I can get away with it,

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Speaker 3: Then you're gonna be fine. Oh my gosh.

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Speaker 2: But one day, what if he's like, let me go

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Speaker 2: what if the other guy is like, I think that

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Speaker 5: The other guy is because when me and him was

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Speaker 5: but he's like, I know it could be a man.

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Speaker 3: What would you do if that was you, Candice? I

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Speaker 6: I would have to tell my man now, like I

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Speaker 3: Can't you find out why you're pregnant?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: You can, they can do you know what you should do?

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Speaker 2: You should test your side guy? Yes, to see alone.

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Speaker 3: Yes, well, no, you could tell him he knows it

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Speaker 6: No, no, don't, don't don't like uproot his feelings yet,

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Speaker 6: your spot. You need to keep this on the low.

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Speaker 6: This is like you take this kind of stuff with you.

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Speaker 3: To the grave. Who know, Candace was so sneaky? I listen?

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Speaker 6: I'm very yes, I keep my stuff goes to the

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Speaker 3: But good luck, yes.

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Speaker 2: Good and we pray for your healthy baby.

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Speaker 3: Yes, baby, whoever's it is right? Thank you? What's ep?

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Speaker 3: Anonymous color?

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Speaker 2: How are you you want to tell me in candas

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Speaker 2: a secret?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 11: Yes, relationship with my fiance I cheated like two.

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Speaker 8: Or three times, even though she's a girl.

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Speaker 3: Oh, a lesbian relationship? You cheated with a guy.

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Speaker 11: It's only because I'm a sexual person, and when we

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Speaker 6: Is this your first time stepping outside of your lesbian

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like yes or no.

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Speaker 6: You got a lot of us, right, no judgement.

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Speaker 11: It was multiple times. It was multiple times.

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Speaker 3: Okay, you did you still like men?

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Speaker 11: I found that out when I got older.

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Speaker 6: Okay, so does your girlfriend know that you're bisexual?

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Speaker 11: Oh she's no longer my fiance at all.

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Speaker 3: Oh so, y'all back up, because to admit it, okay,

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Speaker 11: So that being said, please your partners please.

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Speaker 3: Okay, that's the lesson today.

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Speaker 11: Please your partners, And congratulations on your show. It's been

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you.

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Speaker 2: We up here having a good time. I appreciate it.

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Speaker 2: All right, all right, all right you y all right?

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Speaker 2: Well that was tell us a secret. You guys did

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Speaker 3: That was I'm like riveted. I love the advice that

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Speaker 2: In case you couldn't get through the eight hundred two

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Speaker 2: And when we come back, we have your yee tea.

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Speaker 2: And let's talk about Kanye. His team is saying that

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Speaker 2: over one million dollars of apparel was stolen from his warehouse.

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Speaker 3: Will tell you what's going on. It's way up.

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Speaker 7: Oh, she's about to blow the lead ab off this,

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Speaker 7: but let's get it. Angelus feeling that yee te Come

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Speaker 7: and get the tea.

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Speaker 2: All right, it's way up. And my girl can is

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Speaker 2: guest hosting today and.

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Speaker 3: All week, all week, all week.

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Speaker 2: Here are we, folks, Yes, and let's get into this, yeete.

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Speaker 2: So Ninny leaks Apparently she's saying that Portia did not

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Speaker 3: No, she didn't want to do that.

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Speaker 2: And you know Nini had said at the time, she

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Speaker 4: But I feel like Nini was looking at their friendship

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Speaker 4: fine to Kiki and break bread with you and have

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Speaker 3: That those are two different relationships. Well, all this comes

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but I will say Simon posted my habitious cists

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Speaker 2: keep winning, very proud of you been my friend before

448
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Speaker 2: a BS. So I guess he's trying to say he's

449
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Speaker 2: trying to clean it up. Yes, Simon out, but somebody

450
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Speaker 2: I've been friends with. That was a double day and

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Speaker 2: Nini did that to be shady. Nini posted it like

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Speaker 2: three times.

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Speaker 6: He wanted to make sure everybody saw you see this. Yes,

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Speaker 6: listen with the housewives.

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Speaker 3: Do we're a little shady, all right? And you can

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Speaker 3: say we because yes, you a little shady. I owe

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Speaker 3: my shade. Yes.

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Speaker 2: Good bye to everybody that matters, all right. Now, let's

459
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Speaker 2: talk about Kanye West. His Easy team is saying over

460
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Speaker 2: one million dollars worth a gap apparel was stolen from

461
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Speaker 2: his warehouse, about one point two million dollars worth, all right,

462
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Speaker 2: And there was a seasoned desist letter because there was

463
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Speaker 2: a group that was planning to go ahead and do

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Speaker 2: a sale of these items. And they're saying that the

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Speaker 2: sale for these items was bought legitimately, and they had

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Speaker 2: receipts also to support the claim that the sales was legitimate.

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Speaker 2: But there was a cease and desist as cops went

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Speaker 2: to go and investigate investigate.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's happening with these missing clothes, but.

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Speaker 6: I don't I don't want to accuse him and everything,

471
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Speaker 6: but this allegedly sounds like a little bit of.

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Speaker 2: Some type of far like it was stolen, but then

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Speaker 2: they sell it was sold, right, I don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 6: Because like his his apparel line was kind of went downhill,

475
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Speaker 6: so I feel like maybe he's trying to salvage the

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Speaker 6: last of it.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, well sell organizers are saying that, you know,

478
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Speaker 2: they would should be able to still sell it.

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Speaker 3: So I don't know. I don't know what's happening with that,

480
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Speaker 3: but I think we'll.

481
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Speaker 4: See at some point we figured it out.

482
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Speaker 2: Because in the same time, you know, Kanye is also

483
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Speaker 2: prepping an eight million dollar lawsuit against Yes Jewels, one

484
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Speaker 2: of his former employees that he's saying he's going to sue.

485
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Speaker 2: He threatened her with legal action after firing her over

486
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Speaker 2: alleged NDA violations.

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Speaker 3: She dared him to.

488
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Speaker 2: Sue, and now how he is doing just that eight

489
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Speaker 2: million dollars is what he wants, she said fn NBA.

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Speaker 3: That was her response to all of that. Well that's

491
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Speaker 3: not good. Yes, that's not gonna hold up in court man.

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Speaker 2: Well that is your yuta. And when we come back,

493
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Speaker 2: we have under the radar. These are the stories that

494
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Speaker 2: are not in the headlines. They are flying under the radar.

495
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Speaker 2: If you are planning to go to Miami Beach for

496
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Speaker 2: spring break, we'll give you an update because you know,

497
00:21:21,880 --> 00:21:24,520
Speaker 2: Miami broke up with spring Break, and we'll talk about

498
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Speaker 2: marriage rates. They are up, and we'll discuss why it's

499
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Speaker 2: way up.

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Speaker 7: News this in the news that relates to you. These

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Speaker 7: stories are flying under the radar.

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Speaker 2: All right, it's way up, and it's time for under

503
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Speaker 2: the radar with my girl Candace.

504
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Speaker 4: What's going on?

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Speaker 2: What's going on? And here's some good news for under

506
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Speaker 2: the radar. Marriage rates are up and divorce rates are down.

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Speaker 2: I love this, According to New Day, we love that

508
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Speaker 2: for us, don't we good?

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Speaker 3: All right?

510
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Speaker 2: And according to reports, intentionality maybe behind declining divorce rates

511
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Speaker 2: and being stuck at home during lockdown forced a lot

512
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Speaker 2: of couples to face problems in their relationship head on,

513
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Speaker 2: and that might have caused some additional issues or it

514
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Speaker 2: could help lay the groundwork for a stable future.

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Speaker 6: I definitely discovered that Chris and I were meant to

516
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Speaker 6: be yes, so it worked out. But I have friends

517
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Speaker 6: that literally like were like, GTF, get me out of here, right, yeah, yeah,

518
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Speaker 6: I can't be married.

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Speaker 3: Please help.

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Speaker 2: You know, it's interesting because it's nice to be with

521
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Speaker 2: somebody who you could really literally spend every single day with.

522
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Speaker 2: That's how I feel But for some people, you know,

523
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Speaker 2: you do need a little breaks sometimes every now and

524
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Speaker 2: then to balance. Yes, all right, now a judge has

525
00:22:30,480 --> 00:22:33,720
Speaker 2: ruled that Miami Beach is spring break mid nightcrefew is staying.

526
00:22:33,840 --> 00:22:36,760
Speaker 2: There were three nightclubs that have filed complaints against the city,

527
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Speaker 2: and it was empty mid lounge and Exchange, and so

528
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Speaker 2: you want to make sure that businesses are still able.

529
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Speaker 3: To make money.

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Speaker 2: But some people were like, well, we had to close businesses.

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Speaker 2: There were the strictest measures ever to protect life and

532
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Speaker 2: property from stampedes. They were shooting, stabbings, all kinds of

533
00:22:56,840 --> 00:22:58,919
Speaker 2: things that were issues that were going on. And so

534
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Speaker 2: according to people who live in the community, these are

535
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Speaker 2: shared sacrifices we make as a community to protect the

536
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Speaker 2: life and property from criminals that we see year after year.

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Speaker 2: How do you put a price on an innocent life,

538
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Speaker 2: the life of a spring breaker, you know, But that's

539
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Speaker 2: hard because a lot of people do.

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Speaker 3: Rely.

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Speaker 2: I was in Miami recently for the Soby Wine and

542
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Speaker 2: Food Festival, and I do feel like, you know, it

543
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Speaker 2: is important for some of these businesses to make sure

544
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Speaker 2: that during this time they may be ramping up as

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Speaker 2: far as clubs and people do come there to go

546
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Speaker 2: to the clubs with clubs have to close at midnight,

547
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Speaker 2: that is going to be difficult. But safety first, I mean,

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Speaker 2: but are you are you hedging your entire year on

549
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Speaker 2: this one week? Like there's so many things that happen

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Speaker 2: in art Basle, like ABFF, There's so many things that

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Speaker 2: happened in Miami that you can like.

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Speaker 4: Put out your business.

553
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Speaker 6: It doesn't have to be that particulate break like it's

554
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Speaker 6: bring break the biggest week in Miami.

555
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Speaker 3: How about have a day party, have a darty and

556
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Speaker 3: make your money.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, excellent people, Well that is your under the radar.

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Speaker 2: And now you know, we got the Way Up mix

559
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Speaker 2: at the top of the hour, plus author and a

560
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Speaker 2: friend of mine, journalist Michael Michael Arsenal, He's a friend

561
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Speaker 2: of ours is going to be joining us. I finally

562
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Speaker 2: bought some Jordan's that is his latest collection of essays

563
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Speaker 2: that is available right now.

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Speaker 3: It's way up.

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Speaker 2: She's like the tut like they angela Jean, like they

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Speaker 2: angela Jean Man.

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Speaker 7: She's spilling it all.

568
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Speaker 3: This is yeak.

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Speaker 1: Way up.

570
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Speaker 3: Party time. It's way up.

571
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Speaker 2: Candice's hair from Real Housewives Up Atomach Hi guest hosting

572
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Speaker 2: all week, folks.

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Speaker 3: All right, let's get into this yet. We were talking

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Speaker 3: about the NAACP Image Awards just off the camera too.

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Speaker 3: Just now.

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Speaker 2: One of the top honors, Usher was named Entertainer of

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Speaker 2: the Year.

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Speaker 6: Well deserved, very he's having like a moment moment and

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Speaker 6: I'm so happy for him.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and he's really thankful, he said, for the journey

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Speaker 2: of his career three decades.

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Speaker 3: That's insane.

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Speaker 6: And he doesn't age at all and his music is

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Speaker 6: still so good.

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Speaker 2: So congratulations to him. His award was presented to him

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Speaker 2: by Oprah. By the way, yes, that's an accomplishment.

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Speaker 3: A lot of people were at the awards this year.

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Speaker 5: Now.

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Speaker 2: Queen Latifa was hosting, and she got a message from

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Speaker 2: Vice President Kamala Harris at the start of the awards

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Speaker 2: reminding people to make sure you go out and make

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Speaker 2: sure you're registered to vote.

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Speaker 3: That's right now.

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Speaker 2: One of the things that you also talked about is

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Speaker 2: a lot of the struggles that we're facing, like inflation,

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Speaker 2: and Taraji P. Hinton spoke up from the audience, listened

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Speaker 2: to this and it's so secret.

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Speaker 1: If we are facing some seriously pivotal issues.

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Speaker 11: Everyone's talking about inflation, you know, what's not feeling inflation?

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Speaker 5: Equal play for black actress.

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Speaker 3: Thank you Taraji for standing out for all of them. Okay.

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Speaker 6: I love that the NAACP allowed her to do that

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Speaker 6: because I feel like when she was doing a Color

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Speaker 6: Purple tour, there was a lot of like back and

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Speaker 6: forth about whether or not it was appropriate for Kaji

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Speaker 6: to be talking about.

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Speaker 4: Equal pay for black way and I love that.

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Speaker 6: I feel like the NAACP kind of came out and said, no,

609
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Speaker 6: this conversation is relevant, it's important, it needs to be

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Speaker 6: talked about, and they co signed her getting a game

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Speaker 6: that moment.

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Speaker 3: Yes, all right.

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Speaker 2: And in addition to that, Fantasia shed some tears.

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Speaker 3: I love some Fantasia.

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Speaker 2: She got the award for Outstanding Actress in a Motion Picture.

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Speaker 3: That's for the color Purple.

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Speaker 2: Since we were talking about amen the color purple, and

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Speaker 2: here's what she said.

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Speaker 11: I don't even have a speech because I didn't think

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Speaker 11: I was going.

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Speaker 9: My mother was a woman that went through a lot

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Speaker 9: of things, but I saw her after everything she went through,

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Speaker 9: walk out as a queen. She always kept God first,

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Speaker 9: and I will continue to do the same.

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Speaker 3: I love Colleen.

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Speaker 9: I want to say to God, the.

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Speaker 3: Sing your song Fantasi, Thank you Fantasia. All right. And

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Speaker 3: another thing that happened was Amanda.

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Speaker 2: Seals posted this video about not being invited to certain

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Speaker 2: award shows even though she's hosted before.

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Speaker 3: Listen to this.

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Speaker 12: If it wasn't for y'all, I would really think that

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Speaker 12: I ain't doing because the industry I'm in does not

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Speaker 12: recognize me. And to be clear, I'm speaking about the

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Speaker 12: black spaces in the industry I'm in, you know, like

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Speaker 12: I don't get invited to Essence women in Hollywood that

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Speaker 12: I've never been invited to the NAACP Image Awards, I've

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Speaker 12: been nominated for an Image Award, never been invited to

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Speaker 12: the Naacpmage Awards. I literally hosted the BET Awards in

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Speaker 12: twenty twenty in my house and I was not invited

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Speaker 12: to the BET Awards.

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Speaker 3: Since Amanda definitely needs to be invited to all.

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Speaker 6: She deserves, she's more than deserving the award shows.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, So I don't know where the disconnect is.

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Speaker 2: Is it that like your person is supposed to submit

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Speaker 2: to or yeah, how does this work?

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Speaker 6: I do feel like the way that the system works

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Speaker 6: is like, if you want to be invited to something,

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Speaker 6: you have your publicists submit your name, and it's like

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Speaker 6: I could never believe that BT would not accept her

651
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Speaker 6: wanting to come in and be again.

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Speaker 3: Give her the special treatment.

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Speaker 6: Right she's She's a fixture in the black community for sure,

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Speaker 6: and a voice that is really important.

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Speaker 2: I remember when she was hosting the Beta where it

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Speaker 2: was during the pandemic and had to set everything up

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Speaker 2: at home by yourself and figure out all of the technicals.

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Speaker 3: Yes for that, but that is your yut. And when

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Speaker 3: we come back, Candice, since.

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Speaker 2: You're here, we got to talk to you about everything

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Speaker 2: Candice related.

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Speaker 3: Okay, it's way up, way up with Angela ye more now, yes,

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Speaker 3: it's way up.

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Speaker 2: My girl, Candice Dyler Bassett has been here with me,

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Speaker 2: guest hosting today on a Monday, Today on Monday in

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Speaker 2: all week and all we got this week started off right,

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Speaker 2: But of course Real Housewives is on last night and

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Speaker 2: you're in New York, and I got to assume it's

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Speaker 2: some music things happening.

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Speaker 3: Actually, yes, there are.

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Speaker 6: So I originally was coming here just for you guys.

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Speaker 6: This was like my week to co host with you.

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Speaker 6: But my team is always working and they actually have

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Speaker 6: some label meetings set up for me. So I'll be

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Speaker 6: hanging out and you know, having some meetings and pitching

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Speaker 6: my music. And I think we're gonna do like a

677
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Speaker 6: little a little like listening session, okay, and you know, hopefully, oh,

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Speaker 6: a listening session. So how many songs we have? Fine lines,

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Speaker 6: so we're gonna queue that up. But how many how

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Speaker 6: many songs do you have now, like recorded that we

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Speaker 6: haven't heard yet that's ready to go?

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Speaker 4: Oh my gosh, six or seven. I've been recording.

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Speaker 6: Everything has been recorded in La Okay, shout out to

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Speaker 6: Triangle Park, the amazing team I've been working with. So

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Speaker 6: I'm hoping I'm probably just gonna do an EP I think, okay,

686
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Speaker 6: makes sense, I have I'm like, the song list is

687
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Speaker 6: getting so long, and I love all of the songs

688
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Speaker 6: we've done so far. So I'm like, m is it

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Speaker 6: an album? I don't know, but we're well, we'll see.

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Speaker 6: We're gonna figure out what the team is gonna look like,

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Speaker 6: and then we'll figure out what songs we're gonna put on.

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Speaker 2: Because that's why, if you saw last next year have

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Speaker 2: to go catch up like I did. And you know,

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Speaker 2: because you are booked and busy, a lot of things

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Speaker 2: happening we all know that you also were around with

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Speaker 2: Tamar on tour with her too.

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Speaker 3: Yes, it was just her birthday.

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Speaker 4: Birthday, Tamar, your birthday was a couple yesterday, I think.

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Speaker 3: So that's a beautiful thing.

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Speaker 2: Another thing on this show in the midst of your career, though,

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Speaker 2: is you got very emotional wanting to have a baby. Yes,

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Speaker 2: and so that's also another journey, and you can have

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Speaker 2: it both ways, because sometimes it is difficult to think

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Speaker 2: about a career and what you have going on right now,

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Speaker 2: but also wanting to make sure you can have a family.

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Speaker 6: But you can do all of those things. I want

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Speaker 6: to be a poster child for what you just said.

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Speaker 6: I want to be someone that can people can look

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Speaker 6: at black women can look at and say, she has

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Speaker 6: a career, she has businesses, she's supporting herself, her family,

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Speaker 6: and she's a great mom and she's a present mom

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Speaker 6: and a loving mom and a saying mom. I'm manifesting

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Speaker 6: all of those things. So, yeah, it's that was hard.

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Speaker 6: That scene was like I was like my heart was

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Speaker 6: beating the whole time that I was talking to Ken

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Speaker 6: because I was I was afraid to say it out loud,

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Speaker 6: Like it was like I had a realization in that

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Speaker 6: moment that all of this like talking around the subject

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Speaker 6: of having a baby, I just want to have a baby,

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Speaker 6: like and it's okay to say that, yeah and be

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Speaker 6: Fina saying yeah. So that's where I am now. So

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Speaker 6: we're we're figuring out the rest.

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Speaker 2: All right, good, well, listen, I hope you all having

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Speaker 2: fun while you're chiding too at the same time a

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Speaker 2: little bit. Yes, all right, well, agag Kanus is going

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Speaker 2: to be here all week, so we'll be having some

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Speaker 2: some little check in. Yes, and I know a lot

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Speaker 2: of your fans and friends and family are checking into

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Speaker 2: and they have questions also.

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Speaker 3: But here's a snippet of.

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Speaker 2: Fine wine right now, and yeah, and we also have

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Speaker 2: asked yee eight hundred and two nine fifty one fifty

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Speaker 2: on the way.

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Speaker 3: But let's hear some fine wine right here.

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Speaker 5: About is your party?

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Speaker 6: I know what you wild well leave it right there,

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Speaker 6: Anita pillows.

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Speaker 3: Fun dotty fine wine, less hellottle dotty fine wine.

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Speaker 2: Yes, all right, well, Candace, make sure y'all down loan

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Speaker 2: fine wine.

741
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Speaker 3: She's got a whole ep on the way.

742
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Speaker 2: You got meetings while you're here in town this week,

743
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Speaker 2: And yeah, ask Yee is on the.

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Speaker 3: Way because you're also great at giving advice.

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Speaker 4: I do like to give advice. Yeah, yeah, you're trying it.

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Speaker 6: Yes, I'm a miniature Oprah Okay slash Eyanla.

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Speaker 3: I'll write Minnie.

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Speaker 2: Oprah Ayanla Oprah Venzan Yes, all right. Eight hundred two

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Speaker 2: ninety two fifty one fifty ask ye in the meantime.

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Speaker 3: Oh, he's another great singer songwriter. Moneylong made for me.

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Speaker 3: It's way up.

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Speaker 7: I'm going to everybody since with its relationship with Korean advice,

753
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Speaker 7: Angela's dropping facts.

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Speaker 3: Should you should know? This is ask what's up? His

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Speaker 3: way up? At Angela Yee.

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Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee and my guest host Candace is here

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Speaker 2: all week, Happy Monday, and it's time for asking Yee.

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Speaker 2: Eight hundred two ninety two fifty one fifty any question.

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Speaker 2: We want to help you out. And we have Joe

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Speaker 2: on the line.

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Speaker 3: What's up? Joe?

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Speaker 10: Hey, how y'all doing this? Afternoon?

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Speaker 3: Good? Thank you? What's your question today?

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Speaker 10: Okay? So I have a friend and she's married, but

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Speaker 10: the gun she's married to he does drugs. He beats

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Speaker 10: on her from the kids, you know, And I'm offering

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Speaker 10: to try to get her out. I've even offer the

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Speaker 10: pay for her divorce and get her therapy to what

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Speaker 10: she can get away from this gun. But it seems

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Speaker 10: like no matter how hard I try to be that friend,

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Speaker 10: she just won't leave. And it sucks because I watched

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Speaker 10: my mom all my life. I'm almost forty years old.

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Speaker 10: I watched her go through the same thing you know,

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Speaker 10: and some people never get out of it. I mean,

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Speaker 10: I just don't understand why somebody would want to stay

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Speaker 10: in that predicament, especially when they beat you in front

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Speaker 10: of your kids. My personal opinion, he needs to.

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Speaker 3: Behind to up right.

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Speaker 2: I agree with you on that, and that's a difficult

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Speaker 2: situation because people don't leave until they're ready to leave.

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter what you say to her. All you

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Speaker 2: can do is be the supportive friend and offer the

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Speaker 2: resources you know to her that can be helpful and beneficial,

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Speaker 2: and be there for her because it's hard to watch

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Speaker 2: your friends go through something like that.

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Speaker 10: She's but every time she tries weaving, he finds her

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Speaker 10: and beats her. And I told her, I'm like, why

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Speaker 10: won't you just put it behind and behind balls?

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Speaker 2: And people who are in relationships like that a lot

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Speaker 2: of times they'll make excuses continuous.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, for the other person, that's.

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Speaker 5: What she does.

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Speaker 10: She keeps saying, Oh, well, I love them.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, what bird got to do with it?

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Speaker 6: She has to be ready, Joe, that's the bottom line.

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Speaker 6: And until she is, all you can do is be

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Speaker 6: there for her and know that she knows that you

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Speaker 6: are a resource for her. And the worst thing you

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Speaker 6: can do is try to push her to do something

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Speaker 6: that she's not ready to do.

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Speaker 3: She might cut you off, right, And.

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Speaker 10: That's what I'm not trying.

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Speaker 3: That's what I said.

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Speaker 10: I'm not trying to push you. I said, but whenever

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Speaker 10: you're ready, just call me and I will help you.

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Speaker 3: Yes, stay there.

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Speaker 2: I wonder having a conversation with your mom even like

808
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Speaker 2: that might be something you know somebody there.

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Speaker 10: Actually, my mom has tried and it goes in one

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Speaker 10: ear and up the other sometimes with.

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Speaker 2: Her, and I'm you know, I will say, you never

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Speaker 2: know when something will stick. I had an issue like

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Speaker 2: this with somebody really really close to me, and she

814
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Speaker 2: was stuck in this relationship and wasn't listening to anybody,

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Speaker 2: And as much as people try to talk to her,

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Speaker 2: she would cut them off and really isolate herself. But

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Speaker 2: then one day she finally had enough and that's when

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Speaker 2: I took her to the police station to file that

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Speaker 2: restraining order. That was the first step. And she never

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Speaker 2: looked back after that. And so I think there's hope.

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Speaker 2: You just don't know when that day is going to come.

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Speaker 2: But a king point is her breaking point. Only she

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Speaker 2: knows what that is. But you know, I think it's

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Speaker 2: important remind her you do have children you have to

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Speaker 2: think about.

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Speaker 3: Also, it's not just about you.

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Speaker 10: Well, here's and here's what makes it really awkward about

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Speaker 10: the situation. It's her the guy she's married to, her

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Speaker 10: ex husband, and her kids all living in the same place.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, And what exactly.

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Speaker 5: I'm sitting here.

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Speaker 10: I'm like, okay, I'm like, why husband sticking out for

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Speaker 10: you and stopping this guy?

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Speaker 3: Right? Wow, that's we.

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Speaker 10: Must we must love enjoying it because he's sitting there

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Speaker 10: watching it.

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Speaker 3: Listen. I just pray that she gets out of this alive, yes,

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Speaker 3: and with her children. Yeah, her and her children.

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Speaker 10: That's what I'm scared of. I'm scared of one day

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Speaker 10: I'm gonna get a phone call She's gonna end up.

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Speaker 3: Well, we're not gonna put that in the air.

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Speaker 2: But you know what, express all of these things to her.

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Speaker 2: That's all you can do. Like I said, I'll pray

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Speaker 2: with it every day versus.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, be there for her. That's the best you

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Speaker 4: can do.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, thank you.

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Speaker 4: You have a good heart.

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Speaker 10: Yes, man, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: All right, take care, thank you? All right?

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Speaker 2: Well that was ask ye eight hundred two nine fifty

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Speaker 2: in case you couldn't get through. And when we come back,

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Speaker 2: Michael Arsenal, the author of I Finally Bought Some Jordan's.

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Speaker 3: That book is out now. I can't date Jesus. That's

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Speaker 3: another book, that right, And I don't want to die Prayer?

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Speaker 4: Yes, that was my other favorite. Yes, I love him.

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Speaker 3: All right, Well he'll be joining us when we come back.

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Speaker 7: It's way up, youb it, way up with Angela.

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Speaker 3: Yee more now what's up? Sway yep and Angela.

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Speaker 2: He and I have a really special guest here with me,

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Speaker 2: and I've been asking Michael to come up here. Michael

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Speaker 2: Arsenal is here, author of I Finally Bought Some Jordans.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for having me, Can I say New York

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Speaker 2: Times best selling author? Because you have other books that

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Speaker 2: you know and you know I love your books.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, I can't date why I'm in New

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Speaker 1: York author, so thank you.

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Speaker 3: I can't date Jesus, and I don't want to die poor.

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Speaker 2: Yes, so let's start with the beginning part and I

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Speaker 2: won't give away too much of the book. But there's

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Speaker 2: some people that have you blocked that you really love,

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Speaker 2: like Tony Braxon and Jenney Icho.

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Speaker 3: Both have you blocked. I'm trying to get and you're

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Speaker 3: trying to get unblocked. But there have been a few

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Speaker 3: situations where things that you have written about people have

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Speaker 3: actually come back to a point where you've had to

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Speaker 3: Like just so you know I've written about you before.

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Speaker 5: You know.

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Speaker 13: I functioned as a critic for the most part, or

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Speaker 13: I have been in the year's past, and a lot

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Speaker 13: of people don't like criticism as much as they make

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Speaker 13: it seem. I think kind of criticism in general is

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Speaker 13: like a dying are form. And so for me, like

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Speaker 13: in the first case of first the first two books,

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Speaker 13: they both have been adapted or they were optioned to

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Speaker 13: be adapted for TV, and each instance it was someone

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Speaker 13: that reached out to me that I wrote very critically about.

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Speaker 1: So I was actually surprised that they were interesting with

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Speaker 1: you here. Yeah, like with.

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Speaker 13: For example, with Lee Daniels. Initially I worked with Lee

891
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Speaker 13: Daniels and Jeror Carmichael. I was working with them on

892
00:38:23,920 --> 00:38:26,360
Speaker 13: a TV adaptation of our Candidate Jesus. It's in another

893
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:29,760
Speaker 13: direction now. It's still going though, thankfully. But in each instance,

894
00:38:29,840 --> 00:38:32,000
Speaker 13: I like with Lee Daniels, I he was like, you

895
00:38:32,040 --> 00:38:34,400
Speaker 13: talked about me, and I was like, yes, yes, he

896
00:38:34,520 --> 00:38:35,200
Speaker 13: respected that.

897
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Speaker 2: Right now, I'm talking to author Michael Arsono. His book

898
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:40,080
Speaker 2: I finally bought some Jordan's is out now.

899
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:42,960
Speaker 1: In the case of Tony Braxton, I've never had that opportunity.

900
00:38:43,000 --> 00:38:45,399
Speaker 2: It's just like, yeah, you don't even really know what

901
00:38:45,440 --> 00:38:46,840
Speaker 2: you could have possibly said.

902
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:48,080
Speaker 3: You're trying to figure it out.

903
00:38:48,200 --> 00:38:51,200
Speaker 13: Yes, So I used to be an active Twitter user,

904
00:38:51,360 --> 00:38:53,920
Speaker 13: and I just used to tweet about Braxton family values.

905
00:38:54,040 --> 00:38:56,080
Speaker 13: So I used to have names for some of them

906
00:38:56,200 --> 00:38:59,600
Speaker 13: and playful but maybe not. I used to call one

907
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:02,560
Speaker 13: of them Auntie Braxton because she was from Baltimore but

908
00:39:02,600 --> 00:39:05,239
Speaker 13: sounded like she was from Canada. Tracy makes you rest

909
00:39:05,480 --> 00:39:09,240
Speaker 13: left behind Braxton only because that was the thing which

910
00:39:09,239 --> 00:39:12,160
Speaker 13: she actually followed me Tony though I never even said

911
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:14,839
Speaker 13: thing about Tony Braxton. I might have said once she's

912
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:16,319
Speaker 13: like the sugar Avy of R and.

913
00:39:16,280 --> 00:39:17,840
Speaker 3: B, but you didn't think that was an insult in

914
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:18,279
Speaker 3: any way.

915
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Speaker 1: I wouldn't want to be the sugar Avery of R

916
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Speaker 1: and B.

917
00:39:20,440 --> 00:39:24,920
Speaker 3: I but blocked, Like I wonder when that happened.

918
00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: I was trying to promote her single and it was like, oh,

919
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:28,920
Speaker 1: you can't tag her.

920
00:39:29,400 --> 00:39:32,000
Speaker 2: Hopefully somebody can let Tony Braxton if y'all could all

921
00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 2: just tag her and be like, please, I'm block young Synek, but.

922
00:39:36,200 --> 00:39:37,840
Speaker 3: You're still a fan even with Jeneko.

923
00:39:37,920 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 2: You're still a fan of her, Yes, even though you

924
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:41,360
Speaker 2: don't know why you're blocked.

925
00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:44,360
Speaker 13: My suspicion is I was misquoted and she might have

926
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Speaker 13: searched her name because I don't even add people like

927
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Speaker 13: I don't like to add.

928
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:51,000
Speaker 4: No actually hashtag, Yeah I used the hashtag.

929
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Speaker 13: The only time I really at you is if you

930
00:39:52,680 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 13: actually add at me. Because some of those reality stars

931
00:39:55,080 --> 00:39:56,920
Speaker 13: search their names. Yeah, they didn't like to take a

932
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Speaker 13: buck at you. And I don't usually believe in argument

933
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Speaker 13: back and forth, but back then I kind of would

934
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Speaker 13: a little bit.

935
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Speaker 2: I think it's interesting when people do that, Like I

936
00:40:05,360 --> 00:40:07,560
Speaker 2: remember there was an author who came on when I

937
00:40:07,600 --> 00:40:09,799
Speaker 2: was on the Breakfast Club, did the interview, and then

938
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Speaker 2: afterwards she was like ripping the Breakfast Club. But then

939
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,799
Speaker 2: she came back on for her next book, and I'm like,

940
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:18,600
Speaker 2: you just said what a terrible platform to say is

941
00:40:18,680 --> 00:40:20,880
Speaker 2: how often it is? But then you came on and

942
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 2: did another interview.

943
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Speaker 1: I see, I don't like that.

944
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Speaker 3: I thought that was wild.

945
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Speaker 13: I was like, okays, because if you feel the way

946
00:40:26,280 --> 00:40:28,440
Speaker 13: and you're actually fortunate enough to be in that position,

947
00:40:28,600 --> 00:40:31,359
Speaker 13: say it directly, you'd be surprised depending on how you

948
00:40:31,719 --> 00:40:34,440
Speaker 13: convey the message. But Jane, I think I was at

949
00:40:34,480 --> 00:40:37,480
Speaker 13: an events where they gave me and the other panelist's

950
00:40:37,560 --> 00:40:40,080
Speaker 13: alcohol to talk about R and B. All I was

951
00:40:40,120 --> 00:40:42,319
Speaker 13: trying to say was that her voice wasn't like sha

952
00:40:42,360 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 13: I was trying to make a maybe more nuanced point

953
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,359
Speaker 13: than like Red wind Aloud at the time.

954
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Speaker 3: So she said, had a fuller voice.

955
00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:51,360
Speaker 1: That's it.

956
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:51,880
Speaker 3: That was it.

957
00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:54,080
Speaker 13: And I actually admit in the book I was actually

958
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,600
Speaker 13: a little wrong about Jane's voice, So my bad, but

959
00:40:56,840 --> 00:40:58,799
Speaker 13: that's I'm like, I'm a fan. And once again I

960
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:01,399
Speaker 13: was trying to do free promo and I'm like, oh,

961
00:41:01,440 --> 00:41:02,080
Speaker 13: she blocked me.

962
00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:06,600
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh no, Michael Arsena is here and we

963
00:41:06,680 --> 00:41:08,520
Speaker 2: have a lot more with him when we come back.

964
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 2: You know him as the author of I Can't Date Jesus.

965
00:41:11,840 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 2: I don't want to die poor. And now I finally

966
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Speaker 2: bought some Jordans.

967
00:41:15,239 --> 00:41:15,759
Speaker 3: We have more.

968
00:41:15,800 --> 00:41:19,840
Speaker 7: It's way up, vibit, way up with Angela yet more?

969
00:41:20,120 --> 00:41:22,359
Speaker 3: Now, what's up? Hiss, way up with Angela Yee.

970
00:41:22,360 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 2: I'm Angela Yee and journalist and author Michael Arsena is

971
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,640
Speaker 2: here with me today. Also want to talk to you

972
00:41:27,719 --> 00:41:30,400
Speaker 2: about something interesting that you said in the book was

973
00:41:30,440 --> 00:41:34,400
Speaker 2: about learning how to be able to cry. Yes, you know,

974
00:41:34,440 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 2: and I think that's an important thing to do because

975
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,560
Speaker 2: sometimes we feel like we have to be so strong

976
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:41,719
Speaker 2: all the time, and crying is like a sign of weakness.

977
00:41:42,160 --> 00:41:43,120
Speaker 1: I cried this morning.

978
00:41:43,320 --> 00:41:45,160
Speaker 13: He's supposed to be a celebratory day, but I'm like,

979
00:41:45,200 --> 00:41:47,719
Speaker 13: I miss my mom and I'd rather at least get

980
00:41:47,760 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 13: it out than not. My mom died like four months ago,

981
00:41:50,880 --> 00:41:53,000
Speaker 13: and that was my lifeline in my heart. I'm not

982
00:41:53,120 --> 00:41:56,279
Speaker 13: going to pretend that I'm not carrying that pain with me,

983
00:41:56,680 --> 00:41:58,880
Speaker 13: and I don't want to talk in a way that

984
00:41:58,960 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 13: makes other people more comfortable. Because I know grief is

985
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,839
Speaker 13: hard for other people to be around and all of that,

986
00:42:04,880 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 13: so I respect it. But at the same time, it's like,

987
00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:09,160
Speaker 13: I have to be honest and honestly stick to what

988
00:42:09,200 --> 00:42:10,600
Speaker 13: I wrote in the book. I need to be honest

989
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,600
Speaker 13: about where I'm at, and I didn't want to like

990
00:42:12,680 --> 00:42:15,680
Speaker 13: fold up or make myself into somebody I'm not, or

991
00:42:15,719 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 13: a feeling that I don't really have, because I don't

992
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,760
Speaker 13: think that would serve me any purpose, and I honestly

993
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,279
Speaker 13: think it would be antithetical to it. I try to

994
00:42:22,280 --> 00:42:23,880
Speaker 13: get across in my books, which is just to be

995
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:26,719
Speaker 13: open and honest about the stuff that's bothering you, and

996
00:42:26,760 --> 00:42:30,319
Speaker 13: hopefully my sadness and my grief or whatever will help

997
00:42:30,360 --> 00:42:33,319
Speaker 13: people deal with theirs, or inform people how to treat

998
00:42:33,320 --> 00:42:35,560
Speaker 13: other folks who are dealing with it, or just provide

999
00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:36,360
Speaker 13: like an escape.

1000
00:42:36,480 --> 00:42:39,120
Speaker 2: Right now, I'm talking to author Michael Arsono. His book

1001
00:42:39,160 --> 00:42:41,879
Speaker 2: I finally bought some Jordan's is out. Now, your dad

1002
00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 2: did he read this book?

1003
00:42:43,200 --> 00:42:45,440
Speaker 13: No, my dad doesn't read my books, but I do

1004
00:42:45,560 --> 00:42:47,640
Speaker 13: know my aunt's read it and they said that I

1005
00:42:47,680 --> 00:42:50,200
Speaker 13: was honest but respectful, which is literally the best thing

1006
00:42:50,320 --> 00:42:51,480
Speaker 13: you could hear from.

1007
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:53,280
Speaker 3: That, you know, because you're always very clear.

1008
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 2: I love my dad like I love him so much,

1009
00:42:56,080 --> 00:42:57,280
Speaker 2: but there's a lot of flaws.

1010
00:42:57,560 --> 00:42:59,200
Speaker 13: And I want to say this in like a demeaning way.

1011
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,640
Speaker 13: I just think some people are incapable of having certain

1012
00:43:01,680 --> 00:43:05,000
Speaker 13: types of conversations with you, in reaching certain conclusions, and

1013
00:43:05,000 --> 00:43:07,680
Speaker 13: you're not necessarily going to get what you want out

1014
00:43:07,719 --> 00:43:10,040
Speaker 13: of them. So what I try to write about is that,

1015
00:43:10,440 --> 00:43:13,480
Speaker 13: in spite of knowing that, I try to like maintain

1016
00:43:13,560 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 13: relationships and communication as best I can and hopefully something changes.

1017
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:21,640
Speaker 13: But if not, just as a child, I'm trying to

1018
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,480
Speaker 13: maintain something, if that makes sense.

1019
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:25,480
Speaker 1: I don't think we're ever going to have that moment

1020
00:43:25,520 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: where he admits a.

1021
00:43:26,160 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 13: Lot of things the fact since recently I kind of know,

1022
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:33,240
Speaker 13: but we love each other and we're all doing our best.

1023
00:43:33,800 --> 00:43:35,520
Speaker 13: So I just try to meet him where I'm at.

1024
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: Does he hug you at least?

1025
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:37,799
Speaker 2: Yes?

1026
00:43:37,880 --> 00:43:42,839
Speaker 13: You know it's crazy, and I my dad, I love

1027
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:44,560
Speaker 13: I said he like, you know, whood like kind of

1028
00:43:44,640 --> 00:43:47,200
Speaker 13: a toffing up. But one time he cat on the

1029
00:43:47,200 --> 00:43:50,480
Speaker 13: phone like you that he loved me, and then he

1030
00:43:50,520 --> 00:43:55,000
Speaker 13: will hug me. He will be like a boy. Yeah,

1031
00:43:55,280 --> 00:43:56,880
Speaker 13: he'll hug me. Now he'll be like, I love you

1032
00:43:56,920 --> 00:43:59,040
Speaker 13: on the phone. I had to keep saying I love you, Pop,

1033
00:43:59,160 --> 00:44:00,240
Speaker 13: love you Pop, because I.

1034
00:43:59,880 --> 00:44:00,799
Speaker 3: Know to say it back.

1035
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,600
Speaker 13: Because also if you even if necessarily have the language,

1036
00:44:03,640 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 13: I have the language and I know what you need.

1037
00:44:05,920 --> 00:44:07,839
Speaker 13: I know it feels good for him to hear me

1038
00:44:07,840 --> 00:44:09,920
Speaker 13: say it because he said it in his way. So

1039
00:44:09,960 --> 00:44:11,600
Speaker 13: that's how you know, Like he might not be able

1040
00:44:11,600 --> 00:44:13,280
Speaker 13: to give me that, but I can give him something.

1041
00:44:13,640 --> 00:44:15,640
Speaker 13: And then in term, like I still have a parent

1042
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:17,879
Speaker 13: that I can have a relationship with, because I think

1043
00:44:17,920 --> 00:44:18,720
Speaker 13: sometimes you can't.

1044
00:44:18,760 --> 00:44:19,560
Speaker 1: I understand bout some.

1045
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,520
Speaker 13: People, particularly queer folks, might cut off their relationships with

1046
00:44:22,600 --> 00:44:23,799
Speaker 13: their parents for their n well being.

1047
00:44:24,600 --> 00:44:27,040
Speaker 1: But I don't want to do that, so this is

1048
00:44:27,239 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: the best I can do with it.

1049
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:30,560
Speaker 2: I also think sometimes like my dad is not like

1050
00:44:30,600 --> 00:44:33,080
Speaker 2: that either, Like my dad won't be like I love

1051
00:44:33,120 --> 00:44:35,960
Speaker 2: you and do those things. He'll be like all right

1052
00:44:36,040 --> 00:44:39,080
Speaker 2: and then just hang up the phone. Yeah, it's just

1053
00:44:39,120 --> 00:44:41,680
Speaker 2: weird to me. It's like, all right, see you later.

1054
00:44:42,040 --> 00:44:43,759
Speaker 1: I go about what they were taught or what they

1055
00:44:43,800 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 1: weren't taught.

1056
00:44:44,520 --> 00:44:46,800
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's what I think sometimes, Like the oldest generation,

1057
00:44:46,920 --> 00:44:47,920
Speaker 3: it was a lot different.

1058
00:44:48,160 --> 00:44:50,319
Speaker 13: Yeah, he had it really hard, and that was what

1059
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:52,520
Speaker 13: I tried to get out of my first book, Like

1060
00:44:52,880 --> 00:44:57,120
Speaker 13: you have to, even if it was a chaotic, troubled childhood,

1061
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,759
Speaker 13: understanding why a person is who they are and why

1062
00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:02,239
Speaker 13: they things that they do might not necessarily bring you

1063
00:45:02,280 --> 00:45:06,160
Speaker 13: complete peace, but it provides an understanding that I think

1064
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,320
Speaker 13: really helps the person that's been hurt or impacted.

1065
00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:11,239
Speaker 2: Well, thank you and make sure y'all pick up. I

1066
00:45:11,280 --> 00:45:12,600
Speaker 2: finally bought some Jordan's.

1067
00:45:13,080 --> 00:45:14,919
Speaker 3: You guys are gonna enjoy this so much.

1068
00:45:14,960 --> 00:45:17,360
Speaker 2: And also there'll be parts where you'll really be touched

1069
00:45:17,400 --> 00:45:19,160
Speaker 2: and be able to relate because I know for me,

1070
00:45:19,719 --> 00:45:21,760
Speaker 2: I was like, oh my god, you know me too.

1071
00:45:21,680 --> 00:45:24,200
Speaker 1: And yes, thank you for having me. This is great.

1072
00:45:24,400 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1073
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:26,440
Speaker 2: It was such a pleasure to see you, and I

1074
00:45:26,440 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 2: will see you when I come to La.

1075
00:45:28,280 --> 00:45:29,520
Speaker 1: Since you will, you.

1076
00:45:29,480 --> 00:45:31,919
Speaker 2: Can watch that phone interview on my YouTube channel Way

1077
00:45:32,040 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 2: Up with Ye And when we come back, of course,

1078
00:45:34,600 --> 00:45:37,080
Speaker 2: we have the last word pick.

1079
00:45:37,000 --> 00:45:40,480
Speaker 7: Up the phone, tapping to get your voice heard with

1080
00:45:40,680 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 7: the word bitch.

1081
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:44,840
Speaker 3: Here is the last word on Way Up with Angela yee?

1082
00:45:44,960 --> 00:45:46,560
Speaker 3: What's up? His Way Up with Angela Yee.

1083
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:50,200
Speaker 2: I'm Angela yee, and day one the Candice Dialer Bassett

1084
00:45:50,280 --> 00:45:51,400
Speaker 2: as my host.

1085
00:45:51,800 --> 00:45:54,439
Speaker 3: We did it, Joe, I made it. You got four

1086
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:57,399
Speaker 3: more days. Though. I'm excited. I feel really good.

1087
00:45:57,440 --> 00:45:59,919
Speaker 6: I'm really I feel blessed to be here and thanks

1088
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:01,000
Speaker 6: for your hospitality.

1089
00:46:01,160 --> 00:46:03,080
Speaker 3: Of course, we'll have breakfast tomorrow. How's that?

1090
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:03,800
Speaker 7: Yes?

1091
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 3: Okay, food, Yes, food tomorrow.

1092
00:46:06,239 --> 00:46:09,479
Speaker 2: But tomorrow we're also going to discuss this fight yes,

1093
00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:11,680
Speaker 2: that I saw on the Jazzmine brand.

1094
00:46:11,920 --> 00:46:13,040
Speaker 3: Yes, it is.

1095
00:46:13,120 --> 00:46:15,239
Speaker 6: I mean it was a long time coming because it

1096
00:46:15,320 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 6: kind of came out way early in the season and

1097
00:46:18,200 --> 00:46:21,080
Speaker 6: people have been kind of anticipating talking about it. Yes,

1098
00:46:21,400 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 6: so the clip is out talking hear her, Guysten, the

1099
00:46:26,719 --> 00:46:29,560
Speaker 6: Army of the Lord protected me. Yes, but yeah, I

1100
00:46:29,600 --> 00:46:31,000
Speaker 6: have some things I want to clear up.

1101
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:33,400
Speaker 2: Okay, So tomorrow we are going to give you the

1102
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:35,440
Speaker 2: time and space to clear all of it up.

1103
00:46:36,360 --> 00:46:37,200
Speaker 3: Way Up with Ye.

1104
00:46:37,400 --> 00:46:39,800
Speaker 2: And in the meantime, thank you so much to Michael

1105
00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:40,960
Speaker 2: Arsenal for joining us.

1106
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,800
Speaker 3: We both love Michael, Love you. Michael.

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Speaker 2: I finally bought some Jordans. Is out now and the

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Speaker 2: interview is on my YouTube channel.

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Speaker 3: Way Up with Ye. And of course, you guys have

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Speaker 3: the last word.

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Speaker 8: How you talked to this jerrial about ten years ago.

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Speaker 8: She moved out of state and I ended up moving

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Speaker 8: down South Well, and her mom, you know, was curse

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Speaker 8: Me and her started sleeping around, messed around, and the

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Speaker 8: younger sister came and I didn't even know it was

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Speaker 8: the sister. Me and sister started hanging out. I ended

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Speaker 8: up sleeping with the system. This was just a crazy situation.

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Speaker 5: I want to shine a light on my sisters of

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Speaker 5: the Alabama Fire women's tackles football team. We had an

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Speaker 5: undefeated regular season last year and we were just one

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Speaker 5: game short of making the Women's Hall of Fame in

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Speaker 5: ESPN two. I'm so proud of my ladies, so keep

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Speaker 5: shining the fire bright. Alagama Fire women's football

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Speaker 7: Team going way out with Angela Yee