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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rad and I

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Speaker 1: Heart Radio and two time People's Choice Award winning podcast

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Speaker 1: Hello Everybody, We're scrubbing in. It is the final day

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Speaker 1: of November. Bye bye November. Hello December. Hello Rent Checks.

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Speaker 1: I was like another month down behind us of one

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Speaker 1: month left. But this is the best month of the year.

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Speaker 1: Oh is this is this your favorite month of the year. No,

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Speaker 1: it's not my favorite. It's the best month of the year.

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Speaker 1: It's not. It is the best month of the year,

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Speaker 1: but it's not my favorite month of the year. There's

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Speaker 1: a difference. Um, Okay, what's your favorite month? My favorite

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Speaker 1: month of the year. I'd have to say is probably

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Speaker 1: June because I like summertime, but not when it gets

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Speaker 1: like I don't want to be I don't like it

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Speaker 1: when it's too hot, but I like the summertime vibes.

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Speaker 1: So June feels like that. That's my month. That's my

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Speaker 1: month to shine. Okay, that's where you really thrive. And December.

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Speaker 1: December is the best month of the year because it's

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Speaker 1: like Christmas time and there's holiday spirit and cheer and

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Speaker 1: like your house is decorated and it's like cozy and

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Speaker 1: it's cold and you just want to snuggle and like

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Speaker 1: eat eighty degrees now right now. So when you say

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Speaker 1: it's cold, you mean indoors. It can be cold at

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Speaker 1: night and it's chrispy at night. I agree, I agree.

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Speaker 1: I decorated my Christmas tree this weekend. It's always so

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Speaker 1: fun once it's done. But honestly, the decorating is honestly

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Speaker 1: the wrapping the lights around and the ribbon and then

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Speaker 1: hanging the ornaments to where they're you know, separated enough.

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Speaker 1: It's really it. It's what's the world intricate process. It's

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Speaker 1: an intricate process this, but you can make it like

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Speaker 1: cute and fun when you put on some like Megan

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Speaker 1: Train or Christmas music and have some Veno perhaps a

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Speaker 1: spiked apple cider too. Maybe that's what I was missing.

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Speaker 1: I was in just like business mode. I was like,

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Speaker 1: gotta get it up. I had in Sync playing in

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Speaker 1: sync Holiday, which is classic. Um, but yeah, I did that,

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Speaker 1: and then we also went and got a tree and

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Speaker 1: decorated Haley's tree last night. So me, Pink and Haley

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Speaker 1: were just basically professional tree decorators. Wend All weekend. That

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Speaker 1: was my weekend. Wow. I actually, you know what, So

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Speaker 1: I always get a real Christmas tree every year, but

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Speaker 1: this year I sprung for a fake one because I

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Speaker 1: got it two weeks ago, and so I thought I

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Speaker 1: would die before Christmas. And I'm not gonna lie like

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Speaker 1: I don't miss my real tree. Yeah, I got a

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Speaker 1: real tree, and Mike came pre liszt. I don't have

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Speaker 1: It just I just popped her right up. I will say.

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Speaker 1: Although I don't love the decorating part of it, I

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Speaker 1: love going and picking out my tree and finding a

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Speaker 1: might be the prettiest tree I've ever gotten. It's perfectly

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Speaker 1: symmetrical on all sides. Like I feel like I got

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Speaker 1: a fresh batch or something. Tall was your tree? It's

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Speaker 1: like nine ft? I think, I know, I like really

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Speaker 1: went for it because I wish I got taller one. Actually,

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Speaker 1: So I put it on like this like bachelor box,

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Speaker 1: you being like red Star is six ft, so that's

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Speaker 1: how tall my tree will be. Yeah, well like six

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Speaker 1: And I just went for because my my place flooded

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Speaker 1: I don't. I don't think those None of those were

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Speaker 1: if you get COVID, but that was it kind of yeah,

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Speaker 1: It's okay, well you put it on your vision board.

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Speaker 1: if that makes sense right, Well, my issue with vision

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Speaker 1: so you can watch it because you are watching together.

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00:24:01,920 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 1: You're watching it together. So I don't know. Should I

424
00:24:04,000 --> 00:24:05,760
Speaker 1: text him and be like, you're not gonna watch are

425
00:24:05,760 --> 00:24:07,320
Speaker 1: you gonna watch? I ask me if he's going to

426
00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:08,919
Speaker 1: watch it, because then I can watch it without him.

427
00:24:08,960 --> 00:24:11,760
Speaker 1: This is a great topic, Okay, So I just feel

428
00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:13,800
Speaker 1: like it's like not said like I shouldn't watch it

429
00:24:13,800 --> 00:24:15,760
Speaker 1: without him? Right That's like, yeah, I think if you're

430
00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:17,919
Speaker 1: going to watch it, you need to let him know.

431
00:24:18,600 --> 00:24:21,119
Speaker 1: I don't think you should watch it without This is

432
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:23,840
Speaker 1: a good time right now. Hold, I'm a text right

433
00:24:23,840 --> 00:24:25,239
Speaker 1: now and say what should I say? Are you going

434
00:24:25,280 --> 00:24:29,040
Speaker 1: to watch the undoing? Yes? And he's gonna say no

435
00:24:29,240 --> 00:24:32,080
Speaker 1: because he knows that would be wrong of him to

436
00:24:32,160 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: do so. Do I ask him? Are you going to

437
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:36,000
Speaker 1: watch the undoing without me? You know that makes it

438
00:24:36,040 --> 00:24:39,000
Speaker 1: sound the accusatory act. No, I'd be like, hey, are

439
00:24:39,080 --> 00:24:42,439
Speaker 1: you wanting to finish the undoing together? Or are you

440
00:24:42,480 --> 00:24:44,520
Speaker 1: gonna watch it separately? Or should I say, hey, are

441
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:48,640
Speaker 1: you going to finish the unddoing tonight? That's honestly say,

442
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,240
Speaker 1: I think that works. I like Becca's too. Are you

443
00:24:52,240 --> 00:24:54,440
Speaker 1: going to finish the Are you gonna finish the ending tonight?

444
00:24:54,640 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: Are we gonna watch it together? Are you going to

445
00:24:56,480 --> 00:24:58,879
Speaker 1: finish it? Yeah? Are we gonna Are you wanting to

446
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:00,840
Speaker 1: watch the undoing together? There? Are you going to finish

447
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:04,919
Speaker 1: it tonight? Okay? Okay. This is such a funny topic

448
00:25:05,000 --> 00:25:09,480
Speaker 1: because one of my friends, Um, she wrote me and said, asked,

449
00:25:09,480 --> 00:25:12,640
Speaker 1: if I had watched the Taylor Swift Folklore cabin session

450
00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:15,080
Speaker 1: or studio session, how do you find that it's on

451
00:25:15,119 --> 00:25:21,000
Speaker 1: Disney Plus, I don't have that. I highly highly highly recommend.

452
00:25:21,960 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 1: I'll give you my log in. It's so good. I'm

453
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:29,720
Speaker 1: not going on air. I'm not multitasking. Really good. Hey,

454
00:25:29,720 --> 00:25:32,040
Speaker 1: are you wanting to finish the Undoing together? Or are

455
00:25:32,080 --> 00:25:40,359
Speaker 1: you going to watch on your own tonight? Okay? Sorry, okay,

456
00:25:40,359 --> 00:25:42,959
Speaker 1: tell me about the Taylor Swift documentary. I mean it's

457
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:47,720
Speaker 1: amazing and actually, should we take a break? Yes, as

458
00:25:47,760 --> 00:25:49,440
Speaker 1: a matter of fact, we should. I was thinking we

459
00:25:49,480 --> 00:25:55,199
Speaker 1: should take a break, which time is flying by? Wow? Um,

460
00:25:55,240 --> 00:25:57,239
Speaker 1: I want to talk about Taylor Swift and then the

461
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 1: topic of couples watching shows together. Um, we'll be right

462
00:26:02,760 --> 00:26:20,719
Speaker 1: back with those hard hitting topics and we're back, okay.

463
00:26:20,800 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: The Taylor Swift Folklore Studio Sessions. I can't remember the

464
00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:28,399
Speaker 1: actual name of it, but that's the concept is so good.

465
00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: It's very simple, like she's in a cabin with Jack

466
00:26:32,119 --> 00:26:36,760
Speaker 1: Antonoff and Aaron Aaron, Oh, I'm black and older's last name,

467
00:26:36,800 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 1: he writes. He writes, he wrote like all of the

468
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:44,320
Speaker 1: folklore albums, and they're just kind of talking about each

469
00:26:44,359 --> 00:26:47,880
Speaker 1: song briefly, and then she performs it acoustically, but like

470
00:26:48,280 --> 00:26:52,600
Speaker 1: the whole thing, the whole Yes, it's like a private show.

471
00:26:53,240 --> 00:26:55,919
Speaker 1: And you know how certain you hear certain songs in

472
00:26:55,960 --> 00:26:58,840
Speaker 1: a different way and it makes you appreciate them, like

473
00:26:58,920 --> 00:27:01,879
Speaker 1: you hear the lyrics in a different way. My tears

474
00:27:02,000 --> 00:27:07,919
Speaker 1: ricochet is like gut wrenching and extyle. Oh wait, I

475
00:27:07,960 --> 00:27:10,399
Speaker 1: saw like a little teaser clip of the Taylor Swift

476
00:27:10,400 --> 00:27:13,880
Speaker 1: documentary and I was literally peeing my pants laughing because

477
00:27:13,880 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 1: it was so funny because they were just sitting around

478
00:27:15,560 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 1: a campfire and she goes, you know, it's like it's great.

479
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: It's like every country song out there where you know,

480
00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:24,600
Speaker 1: I married him. And then she had the baby, Yeah,

481
00:27:24,640 --> 00:27:30,800
Speaker 1: and the baby is me that I love country music

482
00:27:30,840 --> 00:27:33,160
Speaker 1: for that reason. They're all like a story with a twist.

483
00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:36,480
Speaker 1: But yeah, she was talking about The Great Next Last

484
00:27:36,480 --> 00:27:41,159
Speaker 1: Great American Dynasty being that way. I still listen to

485
00:27:41,160 --> 00:27:44,800
Speaker 1: that album by the way I put on Yeah, I mean,

486
00:27:44,840 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 1: I'm just such a freaking die hard fan. Yeah, i

487
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:50,400
Speaker 1: mean Visible String is still in heavy rotation of all

488
00:27:50,440 --> 00:27:53,760
Speaker 1: my playlists. But then she talked about, um, this is

489
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,880
Speaker 1: me trying, and she was They were talking about how

490
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:58,159
Speaker 1: she kind of got into the topic of addiction and

491
00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: how you don't get a pat on your back every

492
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:04,520
Speaker 1: single day from someone when you're not when you're when

493
00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,800
Speaker 1: you don't have a drink, you know, like there's not

494
00:28:06,840 --> 00:28:09,440
Speaker 1: someone physically there, but you're trying like you're doing it,

495
00:28:09,480 --> 00:28:11,199
Speaker 1: And it kind of gave a new perspective to that

496
00:28:11,240 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: song as well. Um, but the whole point of me

497
00:28:14,320 --> 00:28:17,560
Speaker 1: bring up folklore was that, Um, my friend said, hey,

498
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 1: have you watched the focal Or studio sessions? And I

499
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, watch it and she was like oh.

500
00:28:24,440 --> 00:28:26,280
Speaker 1: She was like I told my girlfriend I'd watch it

501
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:29,000
Speaker 1: with her, and you know, we lived together, and I

502
00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,840
Speaker 1: was like, oh, I was like why don't you just

503
00:28:30,880 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 1: watch it and then put on a performance of a

504
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,480
Speaker 1: lifetime when you watch it with her as if you've

505
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,719
Speaker 1: never seen it before. She was like, she was like

506
00:28:39,800 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 1: she'll know. She was like, she'll know. I can't get

507
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:44,520
Speaker 1: away with it. That's just it's part of living together.

508
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:50,840
Speaker 1: Does not care about any of the things that I watched,

509
00:28:50,840 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: so I never have to worry about that. You know,

510
00:28:53,560 --> 00:28:57,840
Speaker 1: It's interesting because we don't really care either, Like Red

511
00:28:57,840 --> 00:29:01,120
Speaker 1: Star and I don't have the same Like you know,

512
00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:04,959
Speaker 1: he like sports and Yeah, but didn't watch Yes, so

513
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:06,680
Speaker 1: we had that was like our show, but that was

514
00:29:06,720 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 1: like known to that was our show, so we only

515
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 1: would watch that together. But the thing is with the

516
00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: undoing is it's literally on everybody's Instagram. Like I was

517
00:29:16,200 --> 00:29:20,400
Speaker 1: watching I was my laundry is done. I was watching

518
00:29:20,840 --> 00:29:23,960
Speaker 1: Daily Pop's Instagram story today and they were talking about it.

519
00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:26,400
Speaker 1: I was like, I had to like fly Past because

520
00:29:26,440 --> 00:29:29,360
Speaker 1: I don't want the spoilers. I've never seen it. I've

521
00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:31,120
Speaker 1: never seen a minute of it, but I know who

522
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,920
Speaker 1: done it. Don't tell me not. I don't know who

523
00:29:35,000 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: did it either, but I don't know anything about the show,

524
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,320
Speaker 1: so maybe I will pay attention to anything about it.

525
00:29:41,240 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 1: Maybe if I see anything about I'll skip through it

526
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:45,880
Speaker 1: because it sounds like something I should watch. No, it's

527
00:29:45,920 --> 00:29:50,280
Speaker 1: so good. So we we both started the first episode

528
00:29:50,320 --> 00:29:52,680
Speaker 1: and like, of course, everything's kind of slow to start,

529
00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:55,800
Speaker 1: and then after the first episode was like, oh and

530
00:29:55,840 --> 00:29:58,120
Speaker 1: then we're like one more. After that, when we're like

531
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,080
Speaker 1: one more, shows are like that, that's how so the

532
00:30:02,160 --> 00:30:05,239
Speaker 1: last show I was really genuinely like that with was

533
00:30:05,600 --> 00:30:10,240
Speaker 1: um little fires everywhere. Yeah, I just could not get

534
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,360
Speaker 1: enough and wanted the next episode. But that makes me

535
00:30:13,400 --> 00:30:17,640
Speaker 1: feel excited. I'm doing that with Queen's Gambit right now.

536
00:30:17,640 --> 00:30:20,720
Speaker 1: I'm very enjoying it very much. Are so we were

537
00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: going to start that one too, but then everyone's so

538
00:30:23,080 --> 00:30:25,200
Speaker 1: psalms on it that I'm just that's not at all

539
00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:27,600
Speaker 1: what I've seen. Everyone loves that show, and that's it's

540
00:30:27,640 --> 00:30:33,680
Speaker 1: like setting records on Netflix. Yes, Sissany didn't love it,

541
00:30:33,840 --> 00:30:36,760
Speaker 1: and that that that's all you need. That's all I need,

542
00:30:37,240 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: pretty question, Okay, but here's the thing. I started it

543
00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:42,440
Speaker 1: was very into it, and then I kind of gone

544
00:30:42,520 --> 00:30:44,440
Speaker 1: over it. But you know, I think I don't know

545
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:48,040
Speaker 1: and then when you say chess, it's like it's so

546
00:30:48,160 --> 00:30:51,160
Speaker 1: much more about not about chess, Like it's so much

547
00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:53,800
Speaker 1: more about me in comparison. So when people say it's

548
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 1: not about chess, it's like saying, oh, yeah, I watched Greece,

549
00:30:56,720 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: but it's not about the music. No. But like people

550
00:30:59,520 --> 00:31:01,600
Speaker 1: say Friday that Lights is one of the greatest shows

551
00:31:01,600 --> 00:31:04,440
Speaker 1: of all time, it's not about football. It's not Oh

552
00:31:04,480 --> 00:31:07,040
Speaker 1: that's a good I never watched it. Gray's Anatomy is

553
00:31:07,160 --> 00:31:14,520
Speaker 1: not just about surgery blood. I can't watch Grayson Anatomy. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

554
00:31:14,560 --> 00:31:18,239
Speaker 1: Think but here's the thing. I haven't decided that as

555
00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:21,239
Speaker 1: much as I think I love a binging show, I

556
00:31:21,280 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 1: think I do better with the week by week episode

557
00:31:24,160 --> 00:31:27,560
Speaker 1: or maybe like two episodes released a week. It's just

558
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,920
Speaker 1: too much for my my attention span to try and

559
00:31:31,960 --> 00:31:36,240
Speaker 1: pay attention for that long. And I really admire people

560
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: who can sit down and binge a show, but I

561
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,720
Speaker 1: can't do it. I used to be able to, but

562
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:42,160
Speaker 1: I can't do it anymore. I can't do that. I watch.

563
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,360
Speaker 1: I watched one at night. That's my thing. Otherwise I

564
00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:48,480
Speaker 1: feel like I go watch a couple episodes I know,

565
00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:50,360
Speaker 1: but I don't have self control. So then I want

566
00:31:50,360 --> 00:31:51,959
Speaker 1: to keep going because I want to know what happens.

567
00:31:51,960 --> 00:31:54,560
Speaker 1: But then at some point I check my phone and

568
00:31:54,600 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 1: then I check out, and then I've missed important stuff.

569
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: And it's just like I and you got it. You

570
00:32:00,960 --> 00:32:03,560
Speaker 1: got me for maybe two hours a week at best.

571
00:32:05,840 --> 00:32:09,160
Speaker 1: I think that's fair. But back to the topic of

572
00:32:09,160 --> 00:32:12,000
Speaker 1: of I would never watch one of our shows without

573
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,560
Speaker 1: my wife. I would never do that. And also we

574
00:32:14,600 --> 00:32:17,440
Speaker 1: also kind of claim movies like there'll be a movie

575
00:32:17,480 --> 00:32:19,800
Speaker 1: and if I know she wants to see it, it

576
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,880
Speaker 1: is off limits. And there's been a number of movies.

577
00:32:21,920 --> 00:32:23,920
Speaker 1: I've been on a plane, I'm like, Oh, I want

578
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:27,040
Speaker 1: to watch that movie. I can't. That's the Namer's movie.

579
00:32:27,440 --> 00:32:29,640
Speaker 1: Even though it's been up for three years now and

580
00:32:29,680 --> 00:32:32,120
Speaker 1: we have not gotten around to it, I still can't

581
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:35,080
Speaker 1: because it's still on the list. Oh, y'all are so

582
00:32:35,240 --> 00:32:37,480
Speaker 1: y'all are much better people than me. I'm just like,

583
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:40,360
Speaker 1: isn't really that big of a deal if I just

584
00:32:40,480 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: act like it's amazing when I watched it against Yeah,

585
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:48,520
Speaker 1: I'm it's not dishonest if it's not talked about. If

586
00:32:48,520 --> 00:32:52,040
Speaker 1: it's not that's dishonest. If you said to her I

587
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,360
Speaker 1: watched this, but I'm happy to watch it with you again.

588
00:32:54,480 --> 00:32:57,480
Speaker 1: That's honest, but going like, wow, this is great, like

589
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:01,160
Speaker 1: you've never seen them before, these brand new. But if

590
00:33:01,200 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: I said that, if I information, that would be dishonest.

591
00:33:06,080 --> 00:33:08,840
Speaker 1: If I was just like this show is amazing or

592
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: this movie is amazing, that is not dishonest. That's just me. Yeah,

593
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,080
Speaker 1: just kind of mark on that I feel like I

594
00:33:21,160 --> 00:33:24,080
Speaker 1: might lose. But this is more just like my personality

595
00:33:24,120 --> 00:33:31,880
Speaker 1: type versus others of just you know, like being impatient. Yeah,

596
00:33:32,080 --> 00:33:34,360
Speaker 1: but like still willing to sit there and watch it

597
00:33:34,400 --> 00:33:37,640
Speaker 1: again as if it's the first time, so you can,

598
00:33:37,680 --> 00:33:45,640
Speaker 1: really you could call me selfless selfless, she said, Anyways,

599
00:33:46,520 --> 00:33:50,200
Speaker 1: I think I'm gonna have to end up waiting. He's

600
00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,680
Speaker 1: like probably looking at his phone like she wouldn't dare

601
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:56,160
Speaker 1: watch that without me respond, you know, he's just staring

602
00:33:56,200 --> 00:34:04,320
Speaker 1: at his phone deciding how to on um oh wait,

603
00:34:04,360 --> 00:34:07,560
Speaker 1: he's wow, it was weird, he said, L O L

604
00:34:07,760 --> 00:34:09,960
Speaker 1: do you want to watch? We can watch separate as

605
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,200
Speaker 1: long as we stay on track together. He knows you

606
00:34:13,360 --> 00:34:17,480
Speaker 1: very well. I see. That's what is very respectful, because

607
00:34:17,480 --> 00:34:20,120
Speaker 1: he's like, listen, we can't be together, so if you

608
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,960
Speaker 1: want to watch it, and we can like do an

609
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:26,080
Speaker 1: episode like tonight, in an episode tomorrow night, just so

610
00:34:26,200 --> 00:34:28,760
Speaker 1: you don't get ahead of each other. Yeah, he's saying,

611
00:34:28,840 --> 00:34:33,200
Speaker 1: I know what you're saying. He's saying, Okay, Tanya, I

612
00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:35,359
Speaker 1: know why you sent this text. I know you want

613
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,919
Speaker 1: to watch it without me. That's fine. Let's each watch

614
00:34:38,920 --> 00:34:41,040
Speaker 1: an episode tonight so we stay on track. That is

615
00:34:41,080 --> 00:34:44,439
Speaker 1: a good response from a good man. I agree. I

616
00:34:44,480 --> 00:34:50,680
Speaker 1: like that. That was nice. He's saying, I would love

617
00:34:50,719 --> 00:34:53,080
Speaker 1: to watch it with you, but since that can't happen

618
00:34:53,160 --> 00:34:55,799
Speaker 1: if you're wanting to watch it. But you know what,

619
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:58,200
Speaker 1: you know what's going to show patients is you're like,

620
00:34:58,239 --> 00:35:00,359
Speaker 1: I would rather watch it when we're together, And then

621
00:35:00,360 --> 00:35:02,880
Speaker 1: he's gonna be like, crap, I want to watch it tonight.

622
00:35:05,640 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: Let's see. Okay, I'm gonna say okay. Tony can't talk

623
00:35:09,280 --> 00:35:15,520
Speaker 1: while she formulates this text, as we have heard, so, um,

624
00:35:15,560 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: I was gonna talk about something else that happened. There

625
00:35:17,480 --> 00:35:20,960
Speaker 1: wasn't a Gray's Anatomy episode. No, I might lose my

626
00:35:20,960 --> 00:35:24,480
Speaker 1: wife and Grace by the way, she was considering pulling

627
00:35:24,520 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: out after all of these years, because she really has

628
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,919
Speaker 1: a hard time with this season. She's not enjoying it.

629
00:35:30,920 --> 00:35:34,800
Speaker 1: It's too difficult, it's too real, it's too um raw,

630
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 1: and it's too much of a reminder of this really

631
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 1: difficult world we're living in right now. I think we

632
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Speaker 1: have an email regarding this topic. I think we do. Yeah.

633
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Speaker 1: Actually I was gonna ask you because I thought that, Well,

634
00:35:48,560 --> 00:35:53,120
Speaker 1: let's read the email. Then there's two emails. Oh, he responded,

635
00:35:53,880 --> 00:35:56,040
Speaker 1: I said I'd rather watch together, so let's wait, And

636
00:35:56,040 --> 00:36:01,279
Speaker 1: he said, you sure, question mart because he knows why

637
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:05,719
Speaker 1: you said that in the first place. Or he's like

638
00:36:06,320 --> 00:36:10,440
Speaker 1: he thought he was free to do what he wants

639
00:36:10,480 --> 00:36:14,200
Speaker 1: tonight and now he's she's gone back on it. Don't

640
00:36:14,280 --> 00:36:17,360
Speaker 1: give him any ulterior motives. He is simply reacting to

641
00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,319
Speaker 1: the text from time. Yeah, he had good reactions, I

642
00:36:20,400 --> 00:36:24,440
Speaker 1: have to say, very good. Say I'm sure I do

643
00:36:24,600 --> 00:36:25,680
Speaker 1: want to watch it. I do want to watch it

644
00:36:25,680 --> 00:36:27,319
Speaker 1: with him because we started it together, so we both

645
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:33,520
Speaker 1: have our theories. Okay, great, okay, good started together. We

646
00:36:33,560 --> 00:36:39,000
Speaker 1: finished it together. Well that's sweet. Like a team, like

647
00:36:39,160 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 1: a team, like a team. At the end. Oh God,

648
00:36:43,840 --> 00:36:48,799
Speaker 1: to be in a relationship with me, everything has like

649
00:36:48,880 --> 00:36:54,600
Speaker 1: a deep meaning. Alright, so this was in the Facebook group, correct,

650
00:36:54,640 --> 00:37:00,520
Speaker 1: mart Yes, Aubrey posted this. She it was very very

651
00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 1: heartfelt to comment here from Aubrey loser or loser perhaps, Uh.

652
00:37:04,840 --> 00:37:06,839
Speaker 1: It may be controversial to bring up where we are

653
00:37:06,880 --> 00:37:09,200
Speaker 1: with this whole COVID thing, but I'm really struggling with

654
00:37:09,239 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 1: the wave Becca Antonia are feeling about COVID being such

655
00:37:12,239 --> 00:37:14,520
Speaker 1: a big part of this season of Gray's almost at

656
00:37:14,520 --> 00:37:17,040
Speaker 1: the point of anger and literal tears as I listened

657
00:37:17,040 --> 00:37:19,080
Speaker 1: to the last couple of podcasts breaking down and talking

658
00:37:19,080 --> 00:37:21,719
Speaker 1: about the new Grays episodes. I'm a COVID our end

659
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:25,319
Speaker 1: and the first one ever in the USA. Wow, I've

660
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:27,560
Speaker 1: been doing this for eleven months with no break. All

661
00:37:27,600 --> 00:37:30,680
Speaker 1: of us are exhausted from not only hearing but living.

662
00:37:31,920 --> 00:37:34,359
Speaker 1: I'm understanding about the whole wanting to step away from

663
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:37,040
Speaker 1: reality and have a break from COVID, But as they mentioned,

664
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,440
Speaker 1: Grays always tries to be on the forefront of what

665
00:37:39,600 --> 00:37:42,040
Speaker 1: is happening in our world currently, and I'm grateful for

666
00:37:42,040 --> 00:37:44,520
Speaker 1: the look they and other medical dramas back on TV

667
00:37:44,920 --> 00:37:47,239
Speaker 1: are providing into the world of fighting this pandemic on

668
00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:49,640
Speaker 1: the front lines. Even though it's not the break from

669
00:37:49,719 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 1: reality that some of you, and admittedly me want. It's

670
00:37:53,000 --> 00:37:55,160
Speaker 1: giving a glimpse for people not working on the front

671
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:57,440
Speaker 1: lines what we are going through and what we are seeing.

672
00:37:57,800 --> 00:37:59,680
Speaker 1: The way these episodes give you a feeling of being

673
00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,040
Speaker 1: punched seen your gut, and the emotions you feel watching

674
00:38:02,080 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 1: I'm living each and every day at the hospital. I

675
00:38:04,640 --> 00:38:06,320
Speaker 1: know it's not fun to watch and be faced with

676
00:38:06,360 --> 00:38:09,040
Speaker 1: the reality of what's going on, but personally, I hope

677
00:38:09,080 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 1: these episodes cause a reaction or stir of emotion for

678
00:38:11,520 --> 00:38:13,799
Speaker 1: people so they can better support loved ones who are

679
00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:16,040
Speaker 1: in the center of this fight. It's just been a

680
00:38:16,080 --> 00:38:18,160
Speaker 1: week for me at work, and normally the podcast is

681
00:38:18,200 --> 00:38:20,040
Speaker 1: an escape for me, but it's been really hard to

682
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:22,360
Speaker 1: hear back at Antonia who I feel like, are my

683
00:38:22,440 --> 00:38:26,160
Speaker 1: friends from AFAR complain or make comments about it? Basically

684
00:38:26,520 --> 00:38:29,640
Speaker 1: long renting post to ask am I being overly sensitive

685
00:38:29,719 --> 00:38:32,080
Speaker 1: or are there any other frontline COVID workers feeling in

686
00:38:32,080 --> 00:38:33,880
Speaker 1: the same way I am? After hearing the last couple

687
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: of episodes, and she put some pictures of herself and

688
00:38:36,239 --> 00:38:39,319
Speaker 1: some of her her hero coworkers, so the post would

689
00:38:39,440 --> 00:38:42,759
Speaker 1: get drowned out here. So anyway, that's the topic. So

690
00:38:42,840 --> 00:38:45,120
Speaker 1: she's not happy with you know, people like my wife

691
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 1: having that reaction. I'm surprised that she is so interested

692
00:38:48,560 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 1: in grace. I would think she would want complete escapism,

693
00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,960
Speaker 1: which she gets home from that hospital. You know, it's

694
00:38:53,960 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: interesting because when I read this, I was confused what

695
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:01,839
Speaker 1: we we had said because I like that they're I

696
00:39:01,880 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: like that they're showcasing like how serious COVID is, and

697
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,600
Speaker 1: I feel like we've talked about how I think it's

698
00:39:08,640 --> 00:39:12,200
Speaker 1: giving people more sense of it, um empathy to what

699
00:39:12,480 --> 00:39:15,000
Speaker 1: is actually going on out there, and making people maybe

700
00:39:15,000 --> 00:39:18,200
Speaker 1: take it a little more seriously, like you know, stay

701
00:39:18,280 --> 00:39:21,040
Speaker 1: at home and quarantine and wear masks and just to

702
00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,239
Speaker 1: be like more careful because they are seeing it, when

703
00:39:24,719 --> 00:39:28,000
Speaker 1: in reality, if you don't have anybody that's healthcare worker,

704
00:39:28,080 --> 00:39:30,680
Speaker 1: you're not seeing those things. So I was like kind

705
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,000
Speaker 1: of confused because I feel like I've been the only

706
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: thing I'm complaining about is like I don't want I

707
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,960
Speaker 1: don't want Meredith to fall Like I felt like the

708
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:40,399
Speaker 1: fall on the sand was cheesy, you know what I mean.

709
00:39:40,400 --> 00:39:43,239
Speaker 1: It's not the COVID stuff that I'm not you know,

710
00:39:43,560 --> 00:39:47,759
Speaker 1: I don't think it's good. It's the other things. Yeah,

711
00:39:47,800 --> 00:39:50,759
Speaker 1: so I was confused by that. I first just want

712
00:39:50,800 --> 00:39:55,879
Speaker 1: to say, like something I've been learning is when I've

713
00:39:55,920 --> 00:39:59,799
Speaker 1: always kind of had the mentality of when something when

714
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:04,080
Speaker 1: and once it's is affected by something, to my brain

715
00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,799
Speaker 1: goes to that. I think a lot of people do

716
00:40:06,840 --> 00:40:09,680
Speaker 1: this where it's like everyone needs to stop being so sensitive.

717
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:12,560
Speaker 1: But I'm working on realizing that just because it doesn't

718
00:40:12,560 --> 00:40:16,760
Speaker 1: affect me, or just because it doesn't affect you personally,

719
00:40:16,800 --> 00:40:20,879
Speaker 1: it doesn't mean that someone's being overly sensitive. I think

720
00:40:20,920 --> 00:40:24,600
Speaker 1: it's your feelings, Aubrey. I'm speaking to you because this

721
00:40:24,640 --> 00:40:28,200
Speaker 1: post is from you, but your feelings are valid. And

722
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,600
Speaker 1: if it hurt your feelings or made you mad and

723
00:40:30,640 --> 00:40:32,920
Speaker 1: that's how you felt, then that is a very valid

724
00:40:33,000 --> 00:40:36,040
Speaker 1: feeling because you're experiencing a lot more in this pandemic

725
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:40,879
Speaker 1: than we are and ever will um. So, I am

726
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:44,360
Speaker 1: sorry that it came across as if we're just being

727
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:48,879
Speaker 1: whiny and complaining about every episode. I'm kind of also

728
00:40:48,920 --> 00:40:50,719
Speaker 1: because it's like a TV show, so I think that

729
00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:55,000
Speaker 1: we joke about it maybe when in in it is

730
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:58,239
Speaker 1: reality for so many people, right, yeah, and I and

731
00:40:58,400 --> 00:41:00,680
Speaker 1: the but on the flip side, I think it's valid

732
00:41:00,719 --> 00:41:03,359
Speaker 1: for people to not want maybe not want to watch

733
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:05,560
Speaker 1: it while we're living through it. You know, maybe it

734
00:41:05,680 --> 00:41:07,800
Speaker 1: is too hard, and maybe it doesn't make them feel

735
00:41:08,320 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 1: like they're getting an escape or having a moment away

736
00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,040
Speaker 1: from that. But I think everyone's able to feel how

737
00:41:14,080 --> 00:41:16,360
Speaker 1: they want to, and I think it's something that obviously

738
00:41:16,400 --> 00:41:19,200
Speaker 1: we can always be more sensitive to because our health

739
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 1: care workers and our frontline workers are literally heroes, the

740
00:41:23,760 --> 00:41:28,120
Speaker 1: heroes and like backbone of this country right now. So um,

741
00:41:28,360 --> 00:41:30,880
Speaker 1: thank you for what you're doing. And I'm sorry that

742
00:41:30,960 --> 00:41:35,880
Speaker 1: it came across as if we are bashing you in

743
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,800
Speaker 1: any way. Yeah, bashing you were making making it seem

744
00:41:38,880 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 1: like it's not important for them to show that. Of course,

745
00:41:41,160 --> 00:41:44,600
Speaker 1: likes as much as they can show the reality of

746
00:41:44,640 --> 00:41:47,480
Speaker 1: what's going on. I think it's so important. But I

747
00:41:47,520 --> 00:41:50,680
Speaker 1: think you know, Mark, your wife not wanting to watch

748
00:41:50,719 --> 00:41:54,719
Speaker 1: it for the reason of not not feeling like it's

749
00:41:54,840 --> 00:41:58,719
Speaker 1: doing anything beneficial for her spirit or her emotion or

750
00:41:58,719 --> 00:42:02,880
Speaker 1: whatever it is, is as valid as Aubrey feeling angry

751
00:42:02,880 --> 00:42:05,680
Speaker 1: and mad that we were talking about it that way.

752
00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:09,640
Speaker 1: So I'm sorry that. I'm sorry to all the healthcare

753
00:42:09,640 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 1: workers who listened to the podcast and felt that way.

754
00:42:12,440 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: I don't think it's our ever our intention to you know,

755
00:42:16,280 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 1: make anyone. I promise you it's never our intention intention

756
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,320
Speaker 1: to make anyone mad. And I am to be totally honest,

757
00:42:24,360 --> 00:42:28,560
Speaker 1: like I could never do that, Like I couldn't even

758
00:42:28,719 --> 00:42:30,799
Speaker 1: see how they it is on Gray's Anatomy, like I

759
00:42:30,880 --> 00:42:34,600
Speaker 1: don't I don't have I am not that I don't

760
00:42:34,600 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: have that strength. I was gonna say, it's almost so

761
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:41,319
Speaker 1: far from our reality that it's hard for us to

762
00:42:41,440 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: even I think, grasp that that's really what's going on

763
00:42:44,800 --> 00:42:48,560
Speaker 1: out there. So UM, I'm sorry, I'm thankful for you.

764
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,800
Speaker 1: I'm sorry that you're seeing that every day and living

765
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,399
Speaker 1: through this if that's even a glimpse of what it's like.

766
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:57,960
Speaker 1: So um, you know, we can always learn to be

767
00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 1: more sensitive, especially right now during these times. Well, speaking

768
00:43:02,680 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: of COVID and speaking of making listeners mad, We've got

769
00:43:06,560 --> 00:43:10,480
Speaker 1: another email. But first, there's some really great sponsors that

770
00:43:10,560 --> 00:43:13,440
Speaker 1: have some really great products and or services to tell

771
00:43:13,480 --> 00:43:32,960
Speaker 1: you about. All right, we are back and we have

772
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:40,799
Speaker 1: another email, UM that also had some words mostly for me,

773
00:43:40,960 --> 00:43:44,000
Speaker 1: So Mark you you're um, you can take it away.

774
00:43:44,040 --> 00:43:46,840
Speaker 1: This is from Emily. I've never been one to harshly

775
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:49,719
Speaker 1: criticize others for their actions, but I do think it

776
00:43:49,760 --> 00:43:51,799
Speaker 1: needs to be stated when they impact those around you.

777
00:43:52,280 --> 00:43:54,840
Speaker 1: It's been growing incredibly difficult to listen to the podcast

778
00:43:54,880 --> 00:43:57,600
Speaker 1: each week were the mixed messages we as listeners are getting.

779
00:43:58,000 --> 00:44:00,919
Speaker 1: I noticed that Tanya, Mark and the Ston are all

780
00:44:00,960 --> 00:44:04,000
Speaker 1: taking this pandemic seriously and have made sacrifices in their

781
00:44:04,080 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: life for the needs of others. For example, Mark canceling

782
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 1: his travels to Wisconsin for the holidays. However, Becca continues

783
00:44:10,960 --> 00:44:15,800
Speaker 1: to travel. Since March alone, she has traveled to Hawaii, Louisiana, Maine,

784
00:44:15,880 --> 00:44:18,600
Speaker 1: and Puerto Rico. It has been hard listening to Becca

785
00:44:18,680 --> 00:44:21,759
Speaker 1: recount how much she enjoyed visiting Jojo and pr when

786
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:25,360
Speaker 1: it is absolutely not advised to travel. As a microbiologist

787
00:44:25,360 --> 00:44:28,480
Speaker 1: and a PhD student, this is dangerous behavior. Her flippant

788
00:44:28,480 --> 00:44:31,239
Speaker 1: attitude to the pandemic is quite infuriating for those who,

789
00:44:31,280 --> 00:44:34,400
Speaker 1: like myself, have lost loved on was this terrible disease?

790
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,719
Speaker 1: Because the podcast has become so disjointed, it should come

791
00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,120
Speaker 1: as no surprise that scrubbing In did not win the

792
00:44:40,160 --> 00:44:48,040
Speaker 1: PCAs this year. Damn say something, I mean, I was

793
00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:50,759
Speaker 1: gonna let you say something, because I'm obviously going to

794
00:44:50,880 --> 00:44:54,719
Speaker 1: say something. I mean, she makes the point. I don't

795
00:44:54,719 --> 00:44:57,680
Speaker 1: mean about you, but I mean about our podcast. It

796
00:44:57,760 --> 00:45:01,400
Speaker 1: definitely felt disjointed this year, Like I I totally agree,

797
00:45:01,400 --> 00:45:05,200
Speaker 1: and I think that we I said that whatever episode

798
00:45:05,239 --> 00:45:08,560
Speaker 1: it was, two episodes ago when we lost that it

799
00:45:08,600 --> 00:45:13,840
Speaker 1: wasn't a surprise because it definitely did feel disjointed. So Emily,

800
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:17,879
Speaker 1: I hear you, yeah, and I feel you. I also

801
00:45:18,480 --> 00:45:21,759
Speaker 1: I hear you too, and I think you know, as

802
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:24,839
Speaker 1: as the numbers went, I think I got more relaxed

803
00:45:24,880 --> 00:45:27,439
Speaker 1: as the numbers were, like we were seeing things go down,

804
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:30,400
Speaker 1: and I think I just honestly, I think I was

805
00:45:30,560 --> 00:45:34,120
Speaker 1: just a little more relaxed than I should have been.

806
00:45:34,640 --> 00:45:38,719
Speaker 1: And I went to Hawaii right before the stay at

807
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: Home order, so that that one was like before anyone

808
00:45:42,160 --> 00:45:45,439
Speaker 1: knew what was happening, But the others, You're right. I mean,

809
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:50,080
Speaker 1: I weighed the options of what people would say and

810
00:45:50,120 --> 00:45:53,720
Speaker 1: how it looked, and everywhere I went, I was only

811
00:45:53,760 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: with the people I traveled to. I didn't I wasn't

812
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:59,280
Speaker 1: in crowd or seeing anybody. But I think the flying

813
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:04,120
Speaker 1: alone was um a controversial. It's do you I think

814
00:46:04,160 --> 00:46:06,600
Speaker 1: for a lot of people, and it's kind of just

815
00:46:06,719 --> 00:46:10,960
Speaker 1: been one of those things where I don't know. I

816
00:46:11,000 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: don't really feel like I'm not going to defend myself necessarily,

817
00:46:14,800 --> 00:46:17,520
Speaker 1: because I do think as someone who is in this

818
00:46:17,840 --> 00:46:20,520
Speaker 1: industry and doing what you're doing, and you're aware of

819
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:27,719
Speaker 1: how serious and dangerous this virus is, I think that

820
00:46:28,000 --> 00:46:31,200
Speaker 1: me taking the criticism and listening and doing better is

821
00:46:31,239 --> 00:46:36,760
Speaker 1: probably my best response because there's not really anything to defend.

822
00:46:36,880 --> 00:46:40,800
Speaker 1: If it came across as um as, if I don't

823
00:46:40,840 --> 00:46:45,360
Speaker 1: care flipping or whatever the reaction is. I think that

824
00:46:45,360 --> 00:46:50,200
Speaker 1: that is an opinion that is I know, and look,

825
00:46:50,239 --> 00:46:52,319
Speaker 1: it's like I can see where it's weird because like,

826
00:46:52,360 --> 00:46:55,239
Speaker 1: I see what she's saying, because I find myself to like,

827
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:59,240
Speaker 1: I haven't been on a plane since I don't even know, February,

828
00:46:59,280 --> 00:47:02,920
Speaker 1: Marge or whenever whenever this thing started in March. Um

829
00:47:04,320 --> 00:47:07,160
Speaker 1: was it March a, February? Um? The world shut down

830
00:47:07,200 --> 00:47:09,520
Speaker 1: on March eleventh. That was when we found out about

831
00:47:09,560 --> 00:47:14,680
Speaker 1: the NBA and Tom Hanks. Okay, so that is so

832
00:47:14,760 --> 00:47:17,040
Speaker 1: I haven't been on a plane, and I haven't I've

833
00:47:17,040 --> 00:47:19,120
Speaker 1: been wanting to travel. I've been really wanting to, but

834
00:47:19,200 --> 00:47:24,880
Speaker 1: I haven't. But that's my own personal choice, okay, and

835
00:47:24,920 --> 00:47:27,000
Speaker 1: that's what I feel comfortable with. That's what like, that's

836
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 1: on me, you know what I mean? And I do.

837
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:31,799
Speaker 1: I do sometimes I find myself looking on social media

838
00:47:31,840 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: and I see and I don't. I don't see you,

839
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:35,800
Speaker 1: and I don't look at you as being like reckless

840
00:47:35,800 --> 00:47:39,200
Speaker 1: and careless. But I do see people on Instagram where they're,

841
00:47:39,200 --> 00:47:42,880
Speaker 1: you know, showing all these people and they're like traveling

842
00:47:42,920 --> 00:47:45,279
Speaker 1: to this place and they're having dinner meals with all

843
00:47:45,320 --> 00:47:48,280
Speaker 1: these people, And I do find myself kind of having

844
00:47:48,320 --> 00:47:50,240
Speaker 1: the same feeling that Emily is writing in her email,

845
00:47:50,280 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like why are there why

846
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:56,160
Speaker 1: are people out there not taking this seriously? Do you

847
00:47:56,200 --> 00:47:58,680
Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like people are dying, people are

848
00:47:58,719 --> 00:48:02,720
Speaker 1: getting sick, people are losing lot, people aren't seeing babies

849
00:48:02,760 --> 00:48:06,000
Speaker 1: that are being born into their families, Like people aren't

850
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:09,520
Speaker 1: seeing their family members, Like this is super serious. So

851
00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:12,160
Speaker 1: like I do see where at least coming from, because

852
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:14,840
Speaker 1: I have felt those same things to other people that

853
00:48:14,880 --> 00:48:16,759
Speaker 1: I follow on social media. But I think at the

854
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:20,160
Speaker 1: end of the day, we all just have to just

855
00:48:20,680 --> 00:48:26,680
Speaker 1: like we're all in this pandemic, and yes, it's everything

856
00:48:26,800 --> 00:48:29,600
Speaker 1: is not encouraged and it's everybody. It's safer to be

857
00:48:29,680 --> 00:48:31,480
Speaker 1: at home and to do as little as you can.

858
00:48:32,080 --> 00:48:33,920
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, like we're not.

859
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:37,640
Speaker 1: Mental health is also very serious and like something that

860
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: you may not know what somebody's going through, you know

861
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,439
Speaker 1: what I mean, like, uh, you know these people might

862
00:48:44,840 --> 00:48:46,239
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's like you just don't know what

863
00:48:46,280 --> 00:48:48,160
Speaker 1: people are going through and what it's it is for

864
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,920
Speaker 1: their mental health to be around people or I don't know.

865
00:48:52,000 --> 00:48:54,239
Speaker 1: So it's almost like you don't want to point the

866
00:48:54,320 --> 00:48:58,560
Speaker 1: finger at anybody, but you want to to just be

867
00:48:58,640 --> 00:49:01,799
Speaker 1: an example. Yourself was gonna say, hold people accountable, and

868
00:49:01,840 --> 00:49:06,320
Speaker 1: I I, you know, if I've learned anything in it's

869
00:49:06,360 --> 00:49:10,719
Speaker 1: you know, listening and taking criticism where it's on the

870
00:49:10,840 --> 00:49:13,759
Speaker 1: spectrum of holding someone accountable, which is kind of what

871
00:49:13,840 --> 00:49:17,719
Speaker 1: I feel Emily's doing, even though it's like a little harsh,

872
00:49:18,000 --> 00:49:20,960
Speaker 1: like it it is harsh reading it, you know, reading

873
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,640
Speaker 1: those words, but I will say, like, you know, as

874
00:49:23,680 --> 00:49:25,640
Speaker 1: soon as the like when I when we got back

875
00:49:25,640 --> 00:49:29,520
Speaker 1: from Hawaiian realized like how serious things were I saw.

876
00:49:29,800 --> 00:49:35,520
Speaker 1: I think for people for however, many months, like I

877
00:49:35,560 --> 00:49:38,279
Speaker 1: didn't leave my house and just when when I went

878
00:49:38,360 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 1: to where did she? When I went to Maine in Vermont,

879
00:49:43,080 --> 00:49:46,600
Speaker 1: that's when I was like when I kind of relaxed

880
00:49:46,719 --> 00:49:52,000
Speaker 1: and whether I was wrong, I'm sorry, I didn't. I

881
00:49:52,000 --> 00:49:54,560
Speaker 1: don't mean to offend anyone. My goal is to never

882
00:49:54,800 --> 00:49:58,719
Speaker 1: like outrage anybody. And like Tanya said, I think it's

883
00:49:58,800 --> 00:50:01,960
Speaker 1: kind of a time where we're all all doing our best,

884
00:50:02,000 --> 00:50:05,799
Speaker 1: and maybe I didn't do my best, but also I'm

885
00:50:05,840 --> 00:50:10,120
Speaker 1: just we're trying. It's going to be very interesting when

886
00:50:10,160 --> 00:50:12,360
Speaker 1: this vaccine comes along, and I know a lot of

887
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:16,240
Speaker 1: people are hesitant about this vaccine for a number of reasons.

888
00:50:16,239 --> 00:50:19,399
Speaker 1: Maybe they're generally anti vaccinations, or perhaps they're just worried

889
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,960
Speaker 1: about a vaccination that was rushed to market so quickly.

890
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:24,960
Speaker 1: Because I think it's gonna be mandatory a lot of places,

891
00:50:25,000 --> 00:50:26,839
Speaker 1: and I think airlines are going to be one of them.

892
00:50:26,880 --> 00:50:28,680
Speaker 1: I think if you want to fly on an airplane,

893
00:50:28,719 --> 00:50:31,480
Speaker 1: you're gonna have to get a vaccination improve it. Yeah,

894
00:50:31,520 --> 00:50:33,160
Speaker 1: I agree. I think a lot of places are going

895
00:50:33,200 --> 00:50:35,680
Speaker 1: to be that way. And I also want to say,

896
00:50:35,800 --> 00:50:38,439
Speaker 1: um that because I didn't acknowledge it right off the bat,

897
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:42,400
Speaker 1: that I'm sorry, Emily for the people that you've lost

898
00:50:42,440 --> 00:50:47,440
Speaker 1: people to this disease. And um, I mean both of

899
00:50:47,760 --> 00:50:50,120
Speaker 1: my mom had it and my sister had it, and

900
00:50:50,160 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 1: it was so scary, not knowing if they were going

901
00:50:52,520 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: to be one of the ones where it got serious.

902
00:50:55,080 --> 00:50:58,040
Speaker 1: So I'm really sorry that you've lost people to this disease.

903
00:50:58,080 --> 00:51:02,080
Speaker 1: And I I I had the mentality of about the

904
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:06,759
Speaker 1: vaccine and you know, how is it going to affect us?

905
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:11,040
Speaker 1: It was rushed market. But then I saw someone posted like, Okay,

906
00:51:11,160 --> 00:51:13,640
Speaker 1: you need to know everything that's in the vaccine list,

907
00:51:13,680 --> 00:51:16,400
Speaker 1: all the things that are in a pop tart. I

908
00:51:16,520 --> 00:51:20,080
Speaker 1: was like, that really related to me because all I

909
00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:28,120
Speaker 1: knew was like artificial strawberry flavoring. But um, back to

910
00:51:28,200 --> 00:51:30,279
Speaker 1: bring it back. I'm sorry, Emily, and I'm sorry to

911
00:51:30,320 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: anyone who's been offended by my travel. I am doing

912
00:51:33,680 --> 00:51:35,680
Speaker 1: my best, just like everyone else, and maybe I'm just

913
00:51:35,680 --> 00:51:37,440
Speaker 1: not doing as good of a job as other people,

914
00:51:37,480 --> 00:51:40,640
Speaker 1: but I'm very serious. Now, I've been staying at home,

915
00:51:40,960 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: seeing the my circle, my little pod, and um, that's

916
00:51:45,960 --> 00:51:50,960
Speaker 1: what I'm going to continue to do until safer out there. Well,

917
00:51:51,280 --> 00:51:53,560
Speaker 1: since you guys have just been so happy, with the

918
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:58,960
Speaker 1: podcast lately, we are gonna have many episodes in addition

919
00:51:59,040 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: to our weekly at episodes. Um So we will be

920
00:52:02,160 --> 00:52:06,120
Speaker 1: having a dog psychic on to help Becca talk to Phoebe.

921
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:08,800
Speaker 1: This is true, and we're gonna have because you guys

922
00:52:08,840 --> 00:52:11,960
Speaker 1: love when I talk about my period so much. We

923
00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,680
Speaker 1: are going to have a mini episode where we just

924
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:18,279
Speaker 1: dive right into the Diva cup and let me tell

925
00:52:18,280 --> 00:52:23,960
Speaker 1: you something, I have never been happier about my um

926
00:52:24,000 --> 00:52:28,320
Speaker 1: my uh menstrual cup as I was over the Thanksgiving

927
00:52:28,360 --> 00:52:31,480
Speaker 1: weekend that bad boy I used to when I can't

928
00:52:31,480 --> 00:52:34,200
Speaker 1: even tell you the amount of waste I'm reducing with

929
00:52:34,239 --> 00:52:36,600
Speaker 1: that little cup that I just pop right in, pull

930
00:52:36,640 --> 00:52:38,799
Speaker 1: it right out, clean it off, nice, pop it right

931
00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,799
Speaker 1: back in. I mean, yeah, and what's the deal I'm

932
00:52:41,800 --> 00:52:44,080
Speaker 1: gonna try? Who am I gonna try? You're gonna try

933
00:52:44,120 --> 00:52:46,480
Speaker 1: the period underwear? Yeah, So we're gonna gonna have a

934
00:52:46,520 --> 00:52:49,719
Speaker 1: full mini episode of just period talk because that's what

935
00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: you guys want to know. Yeah, it's it's interesting because

936
00:52:53,560 --> 00:52:56,200
Speaker 1: I don't know if we're just shielded from most of

937
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,880
Speaker 1: the hater if if we're just like if everyone's just

938
00:53:00,280 --> 00:53:02,960
Speaker 1: bringing it in for us to see to like, really

939
00:53:03,719 --> 00:53:06,439
Speaker 1: help us grow and learn and grow a thicker skin.

940
00:53:06,600 --> 00:53:13,279
Speaker 1: But y'all have Oh I love it. Yeah, Mark's like

941
00:53:13,360 --> 00:53:16,359
Speaker 1: all about it. He's like, I don't know. I look

942
00:53:16,440 --> 00:53:18,880
Speaker 1: at that differently. Back when I was a DJ in Milwaukee,

943
00:53:19,160 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 1: there were, um, it's a long story I don't need

944
00:53:21,239 --> 00:53:23,880
Speaker 1: to get into, but there was actually people picketing outside

945
00:53:23,880 --> 00:53:26,120
Speaker 1: of our our radio station, set up at a concert

946
00:53:26,400 --> 00:53:29,319
Speaker 1: with signs that said that I should be fired, and

947
00:53:29,360 --> 00:53:32,200
Speaker 1: that to me was a pinnacle of my career and

948
00:53:32,239 --> 00:53:33,960
Speaker 1: I was. I wasn't there, but I was upset that

949
00:53:34,000 --> 00:53:35,920
Speaker 1: the promotions people down there didn't get a picture of

950
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:38,120
Speaker 1: people with these pickets, because I would have it framed

951
00:53:38,120 --> 00:53:41,480
Speaker 1: on my wall. Right now, you're doing something right, I'm

952
00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:44,920
Speaker 1: in that situation. I'm telling you, you're very sensitive and

953
00:53:44,960 --> 00:53:47,520
Speaker 1: I get that, and all the podcast hosts are, but

954
00:53:47,600 --> 00:53:49,840
Speaker 1: you just need a thicker skin and enjoy it because

955
00:53:49,880 --> 00:53:53,240
Speaker 1: you're never gonna make everybody happy. I guess that's that's

956
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,640
Speaker 1: That's where I'm at right now. My skin is just

957
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:59,239
Speaker 1: getting thick. Let me tell you something. I am going

958
00:53:59,280 --> 00:54:03,279
Speaker 1: to make read my middle name. She has a red

959
00:54:03,360 --> 00:54:06,360
Speaker 1: sweater on. But yeah, I'm gonna legally change my middle

960
00:54:06,440 --> 00:54:10,959
Speaker 1: name to Tanya. Period vagina talk because I will never

961
00:54:11,200 --> 00:54:15,000
Speaker 1: stop talking about all the things I have to do

962
00:54:15,120 --> 00:54:18,520
Speaker 1: with being a female and having a vagina and having

963
00:54:18,560 --> 00:54:21,360
Speaker 1: a period. Yeah, I get a lot of d m s,

964
00:54:21,400 --> 00:54:23,600
Speaker 1: and especially after last week's episode, I got a lot

965
00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:26,920
Speaker 1: that we're like, I don't I'm not trying to criticize,

966
00:54:27,160 --> 00:54:34,359
Speaker 1: but and I'm like, Okay, we've opened the door to criticism,

967
00:54:34,400 --> 00:54:38,040
Speaker 1: so bring it on. My skin is only gonna get thicker.

968
00:54:38,520 --> 00:54:42,239
Speaker 1: I can handle it. I can handle it, you know

969
00:54:42,400 --> 00:54:46,400
Speaker 1: who I mean. Jennier Berniston gets hate. I can handle

970
00:54:46,480 --> 00:54:49,400
Speaker 1: some hate. Yeah, and you know what, I always just

971
00:54:49,440 --> 00:54:53,279
Speaker 1: go back to Jenner and gets height. No that we

972
00:54:53,360 --> 00:55:00,920
Speaker 1: beat Oprah for People's Choice might have been, but who cares,

973
00:55:01,480 --> 00:55:06,640
Speaker 1: Bill Beater was a great year. Was a great year, honestly,

974
00:55:06,920 --> 00:55:08,680
Speaker 1: I got to say it was a really great year.

975
00:55:08,880 --> 00:55:12,200
Speaker 1: But you know, it's gonna be a better year. I'm

976
00:55:12,200 --> 00:55:14,120
Speaker 1: thinking about my word of the year. I've really been

977
00:55:14,160 --> 00:55:17,640
Speaker 1: noodling on it for the past week. I have narrowed

978
00:55:17,640 --> 00:55:21,279
Speaker 1: it down to three. So it's just gonna be a

979
00:55:21,320 --> 00:55:26,840
Speaker 1: good year. I know it. What is noodling? Noodling means

980
00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: I'm pondering I'm pontificating between the three words because they

981
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:34,399
Speaker 1: really one of them is an emotion that I want

982
00:55:34,440 --> 00:55:36,880
Speaker 1: to evoke in which I feel like should be the

983
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:40,680
Speaker 1: main word in the in my presence, uh. And then

984
00:55:40,719 --> 00:55:43,319
Speaker 1: the other one is more of um, more of like

985
00:55:43,360 --> 00:55:45,800
Speaker 1: an attitude, you know that I kind of want to embody.

986
00:55:45,840 --> 00:55:47,600
Speaker 1: And then the third one is more of like a

987
00:55:47,640 --> 00:55:49,880
Speaker 1: perspective that I want to have. So it's really choosing

988
00:55:49,880 --> 00:55:54,840
Speaker 1: between those three things, going more towards the mood like

989
00:55:54,880 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: that thank you saying you got to wrap it up.

990
00:55:58,440 --> 00:56:01,319
Speaker 1: I haven't been talking a lot this time. It's time

991
00:56:01,320 --> 00:56:07,200
Speaker 1: to go outside. Okay, Um, we love you all, even

992
00:56:07,239 --> 00:56:11,480
Speaker 1: when you don't love us, we love you, that's true.

993
00:56:12,280 --> 00:56:14,520
Speaker 1: And you know what, we didn't get to talk about

994
00:56:14,760 --> 00:56:18,120
Speaker 1: our things that we're thankful for. I'm thankful for you

995
00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: and Mark and Easton. I am thankful for you guys

996
00:56:23,160 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 1: as well. What else are you thankful for? I'm thankful

997
00:56:26,680 --> 00:56:30,040
Speaker 1: for a lot of things. We're limited on time, so

998
00:56:30,320 --> 00:56:35,480
Speaker 1: give me three Mark why trying to rushed out the door?

999
00:56:37,480 --> 00:56:40,400
Speaker 1: Were pre recording the mini episode next and the gifts

1000
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:44,960
Speaker 1: have been waiting for eight minutes. I wasn't going to

1001
00:56:44,680 --> 00:56:49,000
Speaker 1: say that maybe has to be here for the second

1002
00:56:49,120 --> 00:56:52,200
Speaker 1: to do the reading. We gotta go either way, we're

1003
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:54,080
Speaker 1: being rude to be going to give us three, give

1004
00:56:54,120 --> 00:56:57,440
Speaker 1: us three. Um. I'm thankful for the growth that this

1005
00:56:57,520 --> 00:57:02,360
Speaker 1: year has brought. I'm thankful for our community, hate and

1006
00:57:02,400 --> 00:57:06,759
Speaker 1: all um. And I'm thankful that every day is a

1007
00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:15,279
Speaker 1: new opportunity of happiness. That's beautiful, that's all well. And

1008
00:57:15,440 --> 00:57:20,080
Speaker 1: on the positivity, I'm telling you, I am. I had

1009
00:57:20,080 --> 00:57:24,440
Speaker 1: a reset over Thanksgiving and my reven engines are revved.

1010
00:57:26,280 --> 00:57:29,040
Speaker 1: Room room, baby, let's go. Does anyone have anything else

1011
00:57:29,080 --> 00:57:32,600
Speaker 1: they want to share? Room room baby, Let's go. Yeah,

1012
00:57:32,760 --> 00:57:37,160
Speaker 1: room room all right, UM, I have a great week.

1013
00:57:37,240 --> 00:57:40,320
Speaker 1: Everybody will be here some at some point later this

1014
00:57:40,360 --> 00:57:44,960
Speaker 1: week with our mini episode. I often forget this. I'm

1015
00:57:45,040 --> 00:57:48,400
Speaker 1: just doing this just a pissmark off now, but um,

1016
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:52,120
Speaker 1: it's fine. I want to have a resurrection, not resurrection,

1017
00:57:52,680 --> 00:57:55,600
Speaker 1: redemption for Pie because I really did enjoy it on

1018
00:57:55,640 --> 00:57:59,280
Speaker 1: Thanksgiving and I thought Mark right, Mark, Mark, Mark might

1019
00:57:59,280 --> 00:58:03,120
Speaker 1: have it right off the fine, Thank you, that's great.

1020
00:58:03,480 --> 00:58:07,680
Speaker 1: Feel like I was watching a video game glitch. I

1021
00:58:07,720 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 1: need ASA. I don't know what that is. I don't know,

1022
00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:18,560
Speaker 1: but something people are taking taking like a supplement, a

1023
00:58:18,600 --> 00:58:23,040
Speaker 1: supplement Oshawa gun Ashwa, Ganda to help with stress and anxiety.

1024
00:58:23,680 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 1: You need that. Yes, if anybody's taken that, please holler,

1025
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:32,520
Speaker 1: Please send us an email thank you. Yeah. Please weigh

1026
00:58:32,560 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: in is on the Facebook group as always and send

1027
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,960
Speaker 1: us any emails that you would like us to read

1028
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:47,960
Speaker 1: at scrubbing in at ihart media dot com. Um, we

1029
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Speaker 1: love you guys. We will be back next time