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Speaker 1: It's every Tuesday in April. And um, the the opener

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Speaker 1: But when Chips sent me the picture, he was kind

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Speaker 1: Who are you working with Um Dirks. I'm working with

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Speaker 1: Dirks and he is doing a performance with this band

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Speaker 1: real life. And I sort of feel like that's what

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Speaker 1: having my picture taken. I always have, like it's just

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00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,000
Speaker 1: not my thing. And I think it's because it's like

424
00:22:21,359 --> 00:22:24,040
Speaker 1: it's a it's one view of yourself, you know, it's

425
00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,760
Speaker 1: it doesn't it's flat and it doesn't have personality off

426
00:22:28,840 --> 00:22:31,480
Speaker 1: I don't know, so what is interesting? And I think

427
00:22:31,520 --> 00:22:34,359
Speaker 1: that that this is kind of transitioning into the next topic,

428
00:22:34,480 --> 00:22:37,760
Speaker 1: but just the argument of like everyone has an opinion

429
00:22:37,800 --> 00:22:40,800
Speaker 1: about something. Even when you come out and you say, look,

430
00:22:40,880 --> 00:22:42,840
Speaker 1: this is what my attention was and this is the

431
00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:45,840
Speaker 1: reality of the situation, Someone's going to be like, oh, okay,

432
00:22:46,000 --> 00:22:48,720
Speaker 1: now that's just like the culture we live in right now,

433
00:22:49,080 --> 00:22:52,400
Speaker 1: which is good to some degree because I don't feel

434
00:22:52,440 --> 00:22:54,600
Speaker 1: like people are getting away with bullshit the way maybe

435
00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:58,480
Speaker 1: we used to. Um, but it's also exhausting, right, Like,

436
00:22:58,840 --> 00:23:02,640
Speaker 1: and it's like, I don't The truth is, I don't

437
00:23:02,720 --> 00:23:07,920
Speaker 1: watch the Kardashians. I don't follow them. The easiest remedy

438
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:10,040
Speaker 1: for all of it is to ignore it, you know,

439
00:23:10,359 --> 00:23:14,480
Speaker 1: Like what happened to that people? Like? I mean, I

440
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,600
Speaker 1: don't only I don't know who these people are that

441
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: wrote this, um, but why do they care so much?

442
00:23:20,160 --> 00:23:22,960
Speaker 1: I don't know? You know? Yeah. Well, so that brings

443
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:25,359
Speaker 1: us to the next topic, which is Colton Underwood came

444
00:23:25,359 --> 00:23:28,159
Speaker 1: out as gay this week, and UM, I mean we

445
00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 1: kind of talked about this a couple of weeks ago

446
00:23:30,200 --> 00:23:31,600
Speaker 1: or a month a couple of months ago with t

447
00:23:31,760 --> 00:23:33,680
Speaker 1: J Osborne coming out, and we were like, oh, good

448
00:23:33,760 --> 00:23:36,359
Speaker 1: for him, Like, I'm really glad that now it is

449
00:23:36,440 --> 00:23:40,359
Speaker 1: becoming so much more socially acceptable for any walk of

450
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:44,719
Speaker 1: life that you wouldn't like put your career in danger

451
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:48,840
Speaker 1: necessarily to own your truth about who you are. Um.

452
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,720
Speaker 1: But so the thing with him that was so interesting

453
00:23:52,160 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 1: is that he came out and this is after he

454
00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:58,320
Speaker 1: was the Bachelor, if you remember, he was on the Bachelorette.

455
00:23:58,359 --> 00:24:00,399
Speaker 1: Then I think he didn't even Bachelor in Paradise, and

456
00:24:00,480 --> 00:24:03,119
Speaker 1: then he was on The Bachelor as the actual, you know,

457
00:24:03,200 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 1: the Bachelor, and so then he walks away with this relationship.

458
00:24:06,440 --> 00:24:09,200
Speaker 1: And my immediate first response to the article when you

459
00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:11,120
Speaker 1: sent it to me was, oh, my god, I feel

460
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,320
Speaker 1: so bad for Cassie. Like we knew they had broken

461
00:24:13,440 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: up a year ago, I think, um or however long

462
00:24:16,160 --> 00:24:18,480
Speaker 1: ago that was. And I think there was rumors about

463
00:24:18,520 --> 00:24:21,240
Speaker 1: him being gay. But I just think about her sometimes

464
00:24:21,320 --> 00:24:23,119
Speaker 1: and I'm like, I wonder what kind of betrayal that

465
00:24:23,359 --> 00:24:25,840
Speaker 1: feels like, because it's a secret at the end of

466
00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:27,760
Speaker 1: the day, right, like you think that you're in a

467
00:24:27,880 --> 00:24:31,680
Speaker 1: certain relationship and come to find out the person is

468
00:24:31,720 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 1: not at all who you thought they were, right. I mean,

469
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,199
Speaker 1: I don't watch the show, so I don't know how

470
00:24:36,280 --> 00:24:40,560
Speaker 1: long they were together any of those details, but you know, there,

471
00:24:40,640 --> 00:24:45,640
Speaker 1: I think there's also like some people don't know, you know, like, yeah,

472
00:24:46,040 --> 00:24:47,639
Speaker 1: but that's kind of what he said, right, He was

473
00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 1: to fight his own reality or he was running from

474
00:24:52,040 --> 00:24:54,639
Speaker 1: himself as what had the terms he used, and he

475
00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:57,480
Speaker 1: was in the NFL for many years, which I think

476
00:24:57,520 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: would be a very veryfficult profession to ever come out

477
00:25:02,400 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 1: in just because it's just a bunch of dudes. You know,

478
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: hopefully that changes. I mean, is there anybody out? I

479
00:25:08,800 --> 00:25:11,200
Speaker 1: think there's one guy who came out a couple of

480
00:25:11,280 --> 00:25:13,400
Speaker 1: years ago, but I don't even know if he plays anymore, right,

481
00:25:13,600 --> 00:25:16,560
Speaker 1: I mean, and how absurd is that? You know, Like,

482
00:25:17,080 --> 00:25:20,639
Speaker 1: there have got to be more gay men, aren't like

483
00:25:20,800 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: and who gives a ship? Right, it shouldn't matter. But

484
00:25:23,840 --> 00:25:25,719
Speaker 1: if it's just these a bunch of bro this are

485
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:29,080
Speaker 1: the kind of mentalities that I think everyone's encouraging need

486
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:33,480
Speaker 1: to be changed, you know, like the browdown of football

487
00:25:33,600 --> 00:25:35,840
Speaker 1: or being in the locker room and whatever. Like a

488
00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,719
Speaker 1: gay guy isn't just going to be like looking at

489
00:25:37,760 --> 00:25:40,080
Speaker 1: your dick because he's gay. Like that just is not

490
00:25:40,200 --> 00:25:42,399
Speaker 1: how this works. But that is the kind of the

491
00:25:42,480 --> 00:25:44,600
Speaker 1: things that would happen. But so anyway, you were telling

492
00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,240
Speaker 1: me that, now Colton is a little bit under fire

493
00:25:47,440 --> 00:25:49,720
Speaker 1: because at first it started as people being like, oh, yes,

494
00:25:49,920 --> 00:25:52,399
Speaker 1: good for you, like own your truth. And now he

495
00:25:52,520 --> 00:25:55,480
Speaker 1: has a Netflix special that they're coming out saying that

496
00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,760
Speaker 1: he um is doing. Can you tell us the premise

497
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: behind this special? It's basically what it says is, um,

498
00:26:02,680 --> 00:26:06,280
Speaker 1: it's just a series about him coming out and um,

499
00:26:06,359 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 1: I mean there's an article on TMZ about it and

500
00:26:10,440 --> 00:26:14,720
Speaker 1: his his friends with the Olympian Gus Kenworthy, who also

501
00:26:14,800 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 1: came out of the closet. I think he was the

502
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 1: first Olympian. Maybe I don't know, Um that might be there,

503
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,800
Speaker 1: like Greg lu Gaines. Yeah, there's a bunch of maybe

504
00:26:25,880 --> 00:26:32,080
Speaker 1: maybe out um still participating in the Olympics. Um, I

505
00:26:32,160 --> 00:26:34,920
Speaker 1: could be giving him more credit than it's actually true.

506
00:26:35,040 --> 00:26:40,960
Speaker 1: But um, the it's like apparently you know what people

507
00:26:41,000 --> 00:26:42,760
Speaker 1: are saying is that like he's going to be sort

508
00:26:42,800 --> 00:26:47,240
Speaker 1: of be like coaching him into like his new gay life.

509
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,800
Speaker 1: The premise itself is dumb. Yeah. I mean, look, I

510
00:26:51,920 --> 00:26:53,960
Speaker 1: think obviously I haven't seen it, and I don't know

511
00:26:54,040 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: what the creative is going to be, but it's it

512
00:26:56,359 --> 00:27:00,880
Speaker 1: could be really heartfelt, but I I worry that it's

513
00:27:00,920 --> 00:27:03,800
Speaker 1: going to lean really cringe worthy. Well, it depends on

514
00:27:03,920 --> 00:27:06,280
Speaker 1: if it's like, Okay, let's talk about how this is

515
00:27:06,320 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 1: affecting you emotionally to like calm talk to these people.

516
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: That could be cool, Like you said, like the experience

517
00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:15,200
Speaker 1: of processing through the changes that are happening in his life.

518
00:27:15,960 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: If it's about like oh, let's go let's go to

519
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 1: this club, like the silly things that get put on

520
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,639
Speaker 1: gay people about like you know, being flamboyant or anything

521
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:29,000
Speaker 1: like that, that sounds dumb to me. Yeah, I think it.

522
00:27:29,240 --> 00:27:31,800
Speaker 1: I think it could end up like really treading into

523
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 1: some like murky Stereo too waters right. But um, when

524
00:27:36,040 --> 00:27:37,680
Speaker 1: I was just pulling up the article, it looks like

525
00:27:37,800 --> 00:27:40,760
Speaker 1: there's another thing on TMZ that now there's some rumors

526
00:27:40,800 --> 00:27:44,439
Speaker 1: about like a gay Bachelor sort of spinoff sort of thing.

527
00:27:44,560 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: I'm not surprised that. Yeah, I figured that. I mean

528
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: they're doing Senior Bachelor, like they're doing seniors is it

529
00:27:50,520 --> 00:27:54,920
Speaker 1: like people my age? Because literally old that, thank god,

530
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,719
Speaker 1: because it just makes it so dumb to watch, mostly

531
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:02,000
Speaker 1: because when you're toy mean something, you're an idiot about dating.

532
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,960
Speaker 1: And so that show has become so dumb because they're

533
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:09,040
Speaker 1: only targeting that market of people who can't really be

534
00:28:09,119 --> 00:28:15,360
Speaker 1: ready to find the quote unquote real love. So okay, Well,

535
00:28:15,520 --> 00:28:18,119
Speaker 1: and then so some of the clap back is I

536
00:28:18,160 --> 00:28:22,960
Speaker 1: mean he has assists gendered very attractive white male you know,

537
00:28:23,320 --> 00:28:29,640
Speaker 1: and um, you know the plight in his life, even

538
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:33,119
Speaker 1: coming out as gay, Like it's really just kind of

539
00:28:33,160 --> 00:28:35,359
Speaker 1: a drop in the bucket. There's there's a shock factor

540
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:39,480
Speaker 1: to it because of the path to stardom was, you know,

541
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:43,400
Speaker 1: through the being the Bachelor. Um, and so I think

542
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: the media is eating that up and it becomes his like,

543
00:28:45,960 --> 00:28:50,560
Speaker 1: you know, big story. Um. And you know he's hit.

544
00:28:50,640 --> 00:28:54,640
Speaker 1: That face sells papers and his clickbait, you know. And um,

545
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:58,480
Speaker 1: the truth is is like he's not going to struggle

546
00:28:58,520 --> 00:29:01,520
Speaker 1: as a gay man because he's so pretty. He's beautiful,

547
00:29:02,000 --> 00:29:05,840
Speaker 1: he's well off. Now, you know, he has the means

548
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: to live whatever sort of life he wants to live. So, UM,

549
00:29:09,640 --> 00:29:12,000
Speaker 1: I found this someone sent me a post on it

550
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 1: from Facebook. I don't know who this person is. It's

551
00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:19,400
Speaker 1: someone named Kevin John, um commented, but they posted, um

552
00:29:19,640 --> 00:29:23,440
Speaker 1: the TMZ article about this um journey to being a

553
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:27,720
Speaker 1: gay man for Netflix and this guy Kevin genre and

554
00:29:27,800 --> 00:29:30,160
Speaker 1: now he's going to monetize this by having a whole

555
00:29:30,240 --> 00:29:33,000
Speaker 1: Netflix special, got it. I applaud anyone who has the

556
00:29:33,040 --> 00:29:35,880
Speaker 1: strength encouraged to come out, But when it's another wealthy, handsome,

557
00:29:35,920 --> 00:29:39,239
Speaker 1: cisgendered white guy who will have everything and everyone at

558
00:29:39,240 --> 00:29:43,000
Speaker 1: his fingertips, fawning over it, fawning over him. It creates

559
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,440
Speaker 1: a false perception that this is the only ideal worth living. Again,

560
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,800
Speaker 1: for young people and or others in the closet, it

561
00:29:49,840 --> 00:29:52,560
Speaker 1: will calcify the belief that because they don't look like

562
00:29:52,720 --> 00:29:55,200
Speaker 1: him or receive the same attention as him, that their

563
00:29:55,240 --> 00:29:58,640
Speaker 1: experiences are not worthy. Next steps cover people interview on

564
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:02,760
Speaker 1: Ellen over saturation on the gay news blogs, accepting a profile,

565
00:30:02,880 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 1: on accepting a Profiles Encourage Award from the HRC Guest

566
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: Panel judge on Drag Race and Dating Gus Kenworthy by

567
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,200
Speaker 1: July four. So it's just they're laying out like the

568
00:30:13,280 --> 00:30:17,600
Speaker 1: stereotypical rollout of when a white cis gendered successful male

569
00:30:17,680 --> 00:30:19,800
Speaker 1: comes out of the closet and makes it look so

570
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:24,040
Speaker 1: easy totally. I mean hopefully he owns up too, and

571
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:25,600
Speaker 1: I think he does and a lot like I read

572
00:30:25,600 --> 00:30:27,800
Speaker 1: an article on CNN where he was just like I

573
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,160
Speaker 1: lived with this for so long, with like just trying

574
00:30:30,200 --> 00:30:31,960
Speaker 1: to stuff and stuff and stuff. I remember he was

575
00:30:32,000 --> 00:30:34,080
Speaker 1: super overweight. We we didn't watch The Bachelor. He was

576
00:30:34,120 --> 00:30:36,600
Speaker 1: super overweight for many years because I think he was

577
00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:39,080
Speaker 1: probably like that was his way of coping and trying

578
00:30:39,120 --> 00:30:41,520
Speaker 1: not to be who he was or be seen, you know,

579
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: whatever it is that people do with the food medicating thing. Um,

580
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,280
Speaker 1: I hear what that guy is saying, and I do

581
00:30:47,520 --> 00:30:49,680
Speaker 1: think that that would be something. I hope that like

582
00:30:49,880 --> 00:30:52,680
Speaker 1: Colton sees that kind of stuff and can include those

583
00:30:52,760 --> 00:30:58,000
Speaker 1: kind of conversations or cast other people like other people.

584
00:30:58,600 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 1: There are opportunities within this opportunity to get it right.

585
00:31:01,960 --> 00:31:04,479
Speaker 1: I agree, but I don't think we can penalize him

586
00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: because he's a person in the public eye, like for

587
00:31:07,920 --> 00:31:11,280
Speaker 1: doing the things he's doing, like having the Netflix special,

588
00:31:11,320 --> 00:31:13,320
Speaker 1: if he goes on Ellen to talk about his story,

589
00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:16,720
Speaker 1: like that's not a bad thing. These are like he

590
00:31:17,040 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: was already in the entertainment business in the public eye

591
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:24,280
Speaker 1: on TV, so like now he's like, okay, but let

592
00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:26,280
Speaker 1: me try to be more of my authentic self and

593
00:31:26,400 --> 00:31:29,480
Speaker 1: use it for something to spread this so it becomes

594
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:32,480
Speaker 1: more like it normalizes it. The more we see something,

595
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:35,120
Speaker 1: the more it normalizes it. So if he doesn't do

596
00:31:35,280 --> 00:31:38,120
Speaker 1: that special, if he doesn't go on Ellen, we're not

597
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:43,320
Speaker 1: helping move this forward. But I think that like what

598
00:31:43,560 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 1: this person and other people are trying to get at

599
00:31:47,880 --> 00:31:50,880
Speaker 1: is there are people like will nas X there are

600
00:31:51,120 --> 00:31:53,800
Speaker 1: you know who. It came out very early in his career.

601
00:31:54,080 --> 00:31:57,160
Speaker 1: That's the difference he started out. I mean, I never

602
00:31:57,280 --> 00:32:00,320
Speaker 1: knew him not as gay, right, so it just didn't

603
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,560
Speaker 1: it never even registered to me as any sort of difference. Well,

604
00:32:04,800 --> 00:32:08,480
Speaker 1: but which is interesting because he normalized it from the gig,

605
00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:10,760
Speaker 1: from the gig the get go. And what's making this

606
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:16,080
Speaker 1: story sensational is that he you know, and he covered

607
00:32:16,120 --> 00:32:20,000
Speaker 1: it up and and very publicly lived a lie. Um

608
00:32:20,400 --> 00:32:25,160
Speaker 1: used his pretty face to his advantage and now gets

609
00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:33,600
Speaker 1: to sort of live his truth. Um from a privileged position,

610
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:45,000
Speaker 1: I do from that perspective, I do hope that he

611
00:32:45,120 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: acknowledges and he did in these articles that I read

612
00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,720
Speaker 1: like he's like, I wish that I wouldn't have caused

613
00:32:50,800 --> 00:32:54,480
Speaker 1: anyone else heartbreak or or harm because of my own

614
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,640
Speaker 1: inability to accept myself like, and I hope that he

615
00:32:57,800 --> 00:33:00,040
Speaker 1: keeps that conversation going because to me, that was the

616
00:33:00,160 --> 00:33:02,520
Speaker 1: first thing that I thought of when this whole thing

617
00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,800
Speaker 1: came out, was just the people in his path, Like

618
00:33:05,120 --> 00:33:07,600
Speaker 1: how misleading was he he was on a full TV

619
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,760
Speaker 1: show about dating women, Like, it's so misleading and fucked

620
00:33:11,840 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 1: up because it's it's a mind fun you know, But

621
00:33:14,640 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 1: he wasn't. That's like that saying where it's like, hurt people,

622
00:33:18,120 --> 00:33:20,400
Speaker 1: hurt people, you know, and it's like, if we're not

623
00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:24,160
Speaker 1: willing to accept the truth of ourselves, then you will

624
00:33:24,400 --> 00:33:27,000
Speaker 1: take other people down in your path. But you know,

625
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: as a gay man, you know, there was a point

626
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:33,400
Speaker 1: where I dated women. And it wasn't because I was

627
00:33:33,480 --> 00:33:35,560
Speaker 1: trying to pull the wool over anyone's eyes. It was

628
00:33:35,680 --> 00:33:38,080
Speaker 1: because I believed that if I fell in love with

629
00:33:38,120 --> 00:33:41,240
Speaker 1: the right woman, I wouldn't feel these things for men exactly.

630
00:33:41,520 --> 00:33:44,760
Speaker 1: And that's what he was saying. That's that's he probably

631
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,560
Speaker 1: was like, I'm going to take this to the f

632
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:51,720
Speaker 1: degree and literally wear out my options. Yeah, and you know,

633
00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:53,840
Speaker 1: you get presented with a lot of really beautiful women.

634
00:33:54,400 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: The girl he was engaged to was beautiful. I mean,

635
00:33:57,640 --> 00:34:00,720
Speaker 1: so if you can't, if you're like, well, is still

636
00:34:00,880 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: not like reven my engine, then you have your answer.

637
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:08,880
Speaker 1: So look, I I ultimately I think it's a great thing.

638
00:34:09,040 --> 00:34:12,160
Speaker 1: Like we need visibility, we need acceptance, we need to

639
00:34:12,239 --> 00:34:16,160
Speaker 1: move the needle forward. Um. We need to normalize gay people. Um,

640
00:34:16,480 --> 00:34:19,399
Speaker 1: because gay people aren't going anywhere and we're all over

641
00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:22,879
Speaker 1: the world and we need people to look up to UM.

642
00:34:23,480 --> 00:34:26,600
Speaker 1: But I do think that, like we need to make

643
00:34:26,640 --> 00:34:29,520
Speaker 1: sure that the like the people in our media aren't

644
00:34:29,520 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: whitewashing it. You know that there are so like the

645
00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,200
Speaker 1: plight of UM, of people of color in the trans

646
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,959
Speaker 1: world is I mean, it's a dangerous life and they're

647
00:34:41,040 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 1: just people where people and I get that it's different

648
00:34:44,840 --> 00:34:46,640
Speaker 1: and it's hard for us to wrap our heads around

649
00:34:46,760 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: things that are different. But if we can just look

650
00:34:49,040 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: at them as human beings, we can we can move

651
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:55,839
Speaker 1: past the fear of the difference. And so I think

652
00:34:55,920 --> 00:34:59,160
Speaker 1: it's important for our friends at Netflix and these places

653
00:34:59,239 --> 00:35:02,560
Speaker 1: that are going to given they're gonna take the easy route,

654
00:35:02,719 --> 00:35:05,680
Speaker 1: like Colton works on television, this story works for TV.

655
00:35:06,080 --> 00:35:07,560
Speaker 1: They're going to take the easy route. But I think

656
00:35:07,600 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 1: it's important to UM also like challenge yourselves and like,

657
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:15,839
Speaker 1: you know, open the world up for other people. Well,

658
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,439
Speaker 1: hopefully they see these kind of notes and they will

659
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 1: incorporate them into what their story is. It is it

660
00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:23,919
Speaker 1: is an enticing story and it's like such easy TV,

661
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: Like that's just period, that's it. So I don't blame

662
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:29,520
Speaker 1: them for doing it. Let's just hope that they get

663
00:35:29,600 --> 00:35:34,279
Speaker 1: some notes and incorporate a bigger picture thinking into this. Yeah,

664
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:36,640
Speaker 1: I mean there's not a gay on Arthur's not gonna

665
00:35:36,840 --> 00:35:40,000
Speaker 1: to watch the show. Yeah, you know that's hot. I've

666
00:35:40,080 --> 00:35:42,040
Speaker 1: always never been attracted to him, but maybe this is

667
00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:45,200
Speaker 1: why maybe my gaitar isn't it. Yeah, I mean I'm

668
00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:47,000
Speaker 1: looking at some photos of him right now where he's

669
00:35:47,040 --> 00:35:50,279
Speaker 1: really hot. Um. I think he's pretty. I just have

670
00:35:50,400 --> 00:35:54,239
Speaker 1: never felt like, oh wow, but do you Yeah, I

671
00:35:54,280 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: think he's pretty hot. Okay, interesting. I don't think I

672
00:35:57,280 --> 00:36:00,399
Speaker 1: love his personality. He's just sort of like vanilla to me. Yeah.

673
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:02,680
Speaker 1: I've never watched the show, so I don't know anything.

674
00:36:02,800 --> 00:36:05,759
Speaker 1: Oh my god, I'm remembering now that when I was

675
00:36:05,800 --> 00:36:08,799
Speaker 1: watching the show, like there's something about him that feels inauthentic.

676
00:36:09,360 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Well there's there's this clip that's been

677
00:36:12,239 --> 00:36:17,480
Speaker 1: circulating online that Billy Billy Eicher. Yeah, yeah, I think

678
00:36:17,520 --> 00:36:20,960
Speaker 1: it's him. Um is like doing this interview thing and

679
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:24,279
Speaker 1: he says something like I'm gay. I always lead with

680
00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:26,880
Speaker 1: that like dull, and then he like makes a comment

681
00:36:27,000 --> 00:36:30,640
Speaker 1: like well maybe you're the first gay bachelor, and it

682
00:36:30,760 --> 00:36:33,239
Speaker 1: cuts the cult and he's just kind of like like

683
00:36:33,520 --> 00:36:39,040
Speaker 1: Oh my god, it's so funny calling it like it.

684
00:36:39,400 --> 00:36:41,920
Speaker 1: He didn't even know he was saying, yeah, maybe we

685
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:46,560
Speaker 1: just started a thing. He's like, he's like, he's like,

686
00:36:46,640 --> 00:36:52,200
Speaker 1: look away from me. Okay. Cut Yeah exactly and seen.

687
00:36:52,719 --> 00:36:54,680
Speaker 1: Um okay, last thing we want to talk about really quickly,

688
00:36:54,680 --> 00:36:57,799
Speaker 1: because I know Chip has a call. I'm gonna work.

689
00:36:58,000 --> 00:37:00,439
Speaker 1: It's to get on the call on this podcast. You guys,

690
00:37:00,520 --> 00:37:04,520
Speaker 1: excuse him. Maybe hear him in the background. Um, So,

691
00:37:04,760 --> 00:37:07,160
Speaker 1: j Lo and a Rod officially broke up today. And

692
00:37:07,480 --> 00:37:09,640
Speaker 1: I mean not that you didn't see this coming, right,

693
00:37:10,000 --> 00:37:11,319
Speaker 1: but I said to you, I was like, in our

694
00:37:11,360 --> 00:37:12,799
Speaker 1: news story thing, I feel like we have to talk

695
00:37:12,800 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: about this, not because like another celebrity breakup is like

696
00:37:15,160 --> 00:37:17,640
Speaker 1: so mind blowing, and not that this one is even

697
00:37:17,680 --> 00:37:20,840
Speaker 1: anything that none of us expected basically from the beginning,

698
00:37:20,880 --> 00:37:22,760
Speaker 1: like a Rod does not have a good track record.

699
00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:25,600
Speaker 1: But I said to you, I find it so fascinating

700
00:37:25,960 --> 00:37:28,160
Speaker 1: that when like a woman like j Lo. J Lo

701
00:37:28,640 --> 00:37:32,240
Speaker 1: is beautiful to me, like literally one of the most beautiful,

702
00:37:32,440 --> 00:37:35,080
Speaker 1: getting more and more beautiful as she ages, which is

703
00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:39,880
Speaker 1: just mind blowing. She's so uber talented, so successful, she

704
00:37:40,040 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 1: seems really kind um seems like very positive reactions from people,

705
00:37:46,160 --> 00:37:49,000
Speaker 1: like just all of these things that I'm just like,

706
00:37:49,080 --> 00:37:51,000
Speaker 1: I feel like she has so much to offer, and

707
00:37:51,080 --> 00:37:53,719
Speaker 1: it's so interesting to me to watch these powerful women

708
00:37:53,840 --> 00:37:57,800
Speaker 1: like her, Jennifer Aniston, halle Berry, these people who you're like,

709
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:01,319
Speaker 1: every guy would be pawning after them not be able

710
00:38:01,400 --> 00:38:05,080
Speaker 1: to find a successful long term relationship. And I don't

711
00:38:05,120 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 1: I shouldn't say successful because maybe relationships shouldn't be put

712
00:38:09,200 --> 00:38:11,759
Speaker 1: in the box of if they don't last forever, they're

713
00:38:11,800 --> 00:38:15,279
Speaker 1: not successful. Like if you learn something, maybe that's the

714
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:17,600
Speaker 1: success you need. Maybe it sounds like they're coming out

715
00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: of this as friends. I mean that's a suppress release

716
00:38:22,080 --> 00:38:24,000
Speaker 1: because there's all these cheating rumors with him too. So

717
00:38:24,400 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 1: are they do they have kids together? No, no kids together.

718
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:29,960
Speaker 1: She has kids from his separate marriage, and so does

719
00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,680
Speaker 1: he previous marriage. But it's just so fascinating and I

720
00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 1: just want to know what that's about sometimes because I

721
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:37,480
Speaker 1: think a lot of us will put it in the

722
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:41,160
Speaker 1: box of um men have a hard time with really

723
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,279
Speaker 1: successful women and like being in the shadow at all.

724
00:38:44,800 --> 00:38:47,200
Speaker 1: I look at him and I'm like, that looks to

725
00:38:47,320 --> 00:38:50,520
Speaker 1: me like a picker issue, because like he is notoriously

726
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:53,640
Speaker 1: a playboy, Like I think he's been a cheater, like

727
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,600
Speaker 1: on multiple occasions. And and that's kind of what you

728
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 1: see with Jennifer Aniston too, is like she picks these guys.

729
00:38:59,640 --> 00:39:03,160
Speaker 1: I have struggle with this as well, like these unavailable men,

730
00:39:03,400 --> 00:39:05,920
Speaker 1: you know, And that to me is just so fascinating

731
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:08,080
Speaker 1: because you can be so successful in so many parts

732
00:39:08,120 --> 00:39:10,000
Speaker 1: of your life, but it doesn't mean you have it

733
00:39:10,040 --> 00:39:13,000
Speaker 1: all figured out well. And I can imagine the challenge

734
00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:17,400
Speaker 1: of just I mean, these women are incredibly successful and

735
00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:24,439
Speaker 1: incredibly busy, like finding time to even like relationship. Yeah,

736
00:39:24,760 --> 00:39:28,880
Speaker 1: and um, and that's also like you can't just date anybody.

737
00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 1: Your pool is a lot shot more shallow. Well, I

738
00:39:31,000 --> 00:39:33,279
Speaker 1: guess you probably don't want to just date anyone either,

739
00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:34,920
Speaker 1: because you need someone to be able to kind of

740
00:39:35,440 --> 00:39:38,160
Speaker 1: be at your level, right. You know you also kind

741
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 1: of would be like, well, fuck it, I'm just gonna

742
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: go find a normal person. Yeah, but it sound like

743
00:39:42,560 --> 00:39:45,719
Speaker 1: Jaylo is getting on fucking bumble, you know, Like that's

744
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:47,520
Speaker 1: what everyone's like, Oh my gosh, she could have whoever

745
00:39:47,640 --> 00:39:50,200
Speaker 1: she wants, And you're like, but can she? Because the

746
00:39:50,320 --> 00:39:53,640
Speaker 1: reality is is I do think the more successful the

747
00:39:53,760 --> 00:39:57,440
Speaker 1: more um famous, the more beautiful you are. As a

748
00:39:57,560 --> 00:40:00,920
Speaker 1: woman can sometimes close a lot of doors versus open them,

749
00:40:01,000 --> 00:40:03,759
Speaker 1: like as a guy you can. Yeah, girls are like

750
00:40:03,840 --> 00:40:06,319
Speaker 1: throwing themselves at you. It doesn't really work that way.

751
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:08,320
Speaker 1: Like Ja is not walking into a bar where a

752
00:40:08,360 --> 00:40:10,120
Speaker 1: bunch of dudes are probably hitting Like who can I

753
00:40:10,200 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 1: take care of for the rest of their lives? You know, Like, yeah, no,

754
00:40:14,680 --> 00:40:19,399
Speaker 1: she's not. And like I would imagine for Jlo, all

755
00:40:19,440 --> 00:40:21,840
Speaker 1: these women, like there is a level of excellence to

756
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:25,880
Speaker 1: everything that they do that they expect that they're going

757
00:40:25,920 --> 00:40:28,160
Speaker 1: to expect that sort of excellence out of their partners.

758
00:40:28,280 --> 00:40:32,240
Speaker 1: I think that's right interesting and those are big shoes

759
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,160
Speaker 1: to fill, Like that's terrifying it would be as a guy,

760
00:40:36,320 --> 00:40:40,640
Speaker 1: you mean, because you're you're like it's you're emasculated out

761
00:40:40,680 --> 00:40:42,480
Speaker 1: of the gate. I had a guy say to me

762
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: one time, I just feel I talked about this on

763
00:40:45,719 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 1: very cavalery. He was very successful and also like in

764
00:40:49,680 --> 00:40:51,520
Speaker 1: the public eye, and he said to me, I just

765
00:40:51,520 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 1: feel like I have to have my ship together around you.

766
00:40:53,520 --> 00:40:55,640
Speaker 1: And so I was just like, okay, so do Like

767
00:40:55,719 --> 00:40:58,480
Speaker 1: I didn't get it. I was like, okay, Like why

768
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:00,600
Speaker 1: does why is that special for you? You know, like

769
00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:03,400
Speaker 1: your together. Also, it's like don't you feel like I

770
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:05,680
Speaker 1: feel like that every day? And like do I have

771
00:41:05,800 --> 00:41:09,120
Speaker 1: my ship together every day? Absolutely? Not? Like the point

772
00:41:09,280 --> 00:41:10,920
Speaker 1: is is that every day you wake up and you're like,

773
00:41:11,040 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 1: what can I do better than I said yesterday? Like

774
00:41:15,000 --> 00:41:16,960
Speaker 1: I do feel like guys a lot of times get

775
00:41:17,040 --> 00:41:19,440
Speaker 1: intimidated and shut down by that, and then they go

776
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,080
Speaker 1: to women who are just like they don't feel like

777
00:41:22,080 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: they're going to be challenged to have to get better

778
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,440
Speaker 1: or to like challenge that like hey, that wasn't like

779
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,279
Speaker 1: enough or do you know what I'm saying. I've seen

780
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,200
Speaker 1: that consistently with guys I've dated, at least Like when

781
00:41:33,239 --> 00:41:35,000
Speaker 1: he said that, I was like, you just summed up

782
00:41:35,040 --> 00:41:38,240
Speaker 1: the biggest problem I have with men is like, okay,

783
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:42,520
Speaker 1: so do fucker like come on, like I'm tired of you.

784
00:41:43,960 --> 00:41:50,000
Speaker 1: But it's also like, what's the issue like that for yourself?

785
00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:52,040
Speaker 1: I know, but I think not for me, like just

786
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,680
Speaker 1: have your ship together, right or just like try to

787
00:41:54,760 --> 00:41:57,279
Speaker 1: get better. It's like I don't think I think that

788
00:41:57,520 --> 00:41:59,920
Speaker 1: maybe guys look at that as sort of this intimidate

789
00:42:00,000 --> 00:42:04,640
Speaker 1: waiting I'll never um not match up, but I'll never

790
00:42:05,080 --> 00:42:07,480
Speaker 1: you know, match up to the expectation that's being put

791
00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:09,239
Speaker 1: on me or on never whatever. And like I know,

792
00:42:09,440 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: for me, I don't expect anyone to be perfect because

793
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:15,879
Speaker 1: I'm not perfect and so I can't. But if you're

794
00:42:15,920 --> 00:42:18,919
Speaker 1: not willing to be vulnerable enough to own your ship,

795
00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:22,560
Speaker 1: admit when you sunk up, or try to do something

796
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:24,960
Speaker 1: differently if it's not working, like I don't know what

797
00:42:25,080 --> 00:42:27,319
Speaker 1: to tell you that, that's like a lifeless and that's

798
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: not it. That's relationships or work. Yeah, just work. Yeah.

799
00:42:31,160 --> 00:42:34,640
Speaker 1: So and that's fine if you're the end goal is

800
00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,719
Speaker 1: you're you're chasing the right end goal then but it

801
00:42:37,800 --> 00:42:43,400
Speaker 1: makes mentality. I mean, I guess that's why I don't understand.

802
00:42:44,080 --> 00:42:47,440
Speaker 1: I feel like a lot of times, like really successful guy,

803
00:42:47,600 --> 00:42:52,080
Speaker 1: this is now, it's like, this is about me. Last

804
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,239
Speaker 1: thing I'll say it is like I just feel like

805
00:42:53,239 --> 00:42:55,359
Speaker 1: a lot of times really successful gods can only think

806
00:42:55,400 --> 00:42:58,080
Speaker 1: about they can only stay in the lane of like work,

807
00:42:58,200 --> 00:43:01,759
Speaker 1: being really successful everything is to be easy, which is

808
00:43:02,560 --> 00:43:05,280
Speaker 1: not realistic. Um, I do have a couple of listener

809
00:43:05,360 --> 00:43:08,080
Speaker 1: things about our ending. Okay, this has been the new

810
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,960
Speaker 1: the new topic of us getting emails we just don't know.

811
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:16,200
Speaker 1: Since we've moved over to the Edge instead of at casual,

812
00:43:16,320 --> 00:43:19,120
Speaker 1: We're like, how do we in this? And I got

813
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:22,200
Speaker 1: some message too. Yeah, we'll get to yours in a second,

814
00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:26,160
Speaker 1: because um, but we we got a couple and this

815
00:43:26,360 --> 00:43:28,600
Speaker 1: one says this one was about because you keep wanting

816
00:43:28,640 --> 00:43:30,480
Speaker 1: to call it slut of the Week, and I'm like,

817
00:43:30,560 --> 00:43:31,880
Speaker 1: I just can't get on board with that, Like I

818
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:33,640
Speaker 1: don't know. So she says, Hey, Kelly, I was listening

819
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:36,000
Speaker 1: to the Edge yesterday and I had a thought, since

820
00:43:36,040 --> 00:43:37,800
Speaker 1: you were not a fan of slut of the Week stories,

821
00:43:38,080 --> 00:43:40,239
Speaker 1: you could call it freak of the Week. Love to

822
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:41,879
Speaker 1: listen to you and Chip on the way to work

823
00:43:41,960 --> 00:43:44,759
Speaker 1: every Friday. I love that people listen on their way

824
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:46,839
Speaker 1: to work on Friday morning and we're like talking about

825
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: sleds of the week start your day? What a way

826
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:52,960
Speaker 1: to start your day? Anyway, it could do Freak of

827
00:43:53,000 --> 00:43:54,800
Speaker 1: the Week. I'm still not sold on the whole idea.

828
00:43:55,320 --> 00:43:57,279
Speaker 1: I don't know why. Well, I mean I do have

829
00:43:57,320 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: a bump against well it really it really like it's

830
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:03,200
Speaker 1: not about whether or not, like we want, we would

831
00:44:03,239 --> 00:44:05,560
Speaker 1: need people to be willing to share their stories and

832
00:44:05,640 --> 00:44:07,640
Speaker 1: it's not like they're flying in. I know, guys, so

833
00:44:07,760 --> 00:44:10,000
Speaker 1: if you want this to happen, like give us some stories.

834
00:44:10,080 --> 00:44:12,560
Speaker 1: Who wants to be the slut of the week. I mean,

835
00:44:12,800 --> 00:44:15,360
Speaker 1: it's like kind of leave it in your hands, Like

836
00:44:15,440 --> 00:44:17,600
Speaker 1: if you all don't want to share your stories, then

837
00:44:17,640 --> 00:44:22,000
Speaker 1: we can't even have slut because I don't know. Every week,

838
00:44:23,600 --> 00:44:26,279
Speaker 1: he's like got a new grinder person every week. This

839
00:44:26,440 --> 00:44:29,640
Speaker 1: girl says, just finished listening today's episode of the Edge

840
00:44:29,680 --> 00:44:31,120
Speaker 1: and put on the radio and this is one. And

841
00:44:31,200 --> 00:44:33,400
Speaker 1: she sent me a picture of the Aerosmith song and

842
00:44:33,520 --> 00:44:35,560
Speaker 1: she goes, I can't hear it the same now I

843
00:44:35,680 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: hear you and ship instead living on the vetch Um, okay,

844
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:44,120
Speaker 1: this is from Laura. She says things I forgot to

845
00:44:44,160 --> 00:44:46,120
Speaker 1: mention to you about last week's living on the veg

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Speaker 1: My second grader had an Encyclopedia for a spelling word. Um,

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Speaker 1: why encyclopedia get it? Why we talked about this, We're like,

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Speaker 1: remember Encyclopedia's And she goes, I told him it was

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Speaker 1: Google before there was Google, because he didn't even know

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Speaker 1: what it was. Can you imagine also, as far as

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Speaker 1: us being quote unquote ladies, I moved to from upstate

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Speaker 1: New York to South Mississippi when I was seven. You

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Speaker 1: better believe I died when the clerk at when Dixie

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Speaker 1: called me, ma'am. What the funk I'm twenty seven years old. Anyway, Love,

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Speaker 1: y'all can't wait for the merch she did. She did

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Speaker 1: an eye roll because it's taken so and I love

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Speaker 1: all the fooling around trying to figure out a new

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Speaker 1: sign off. Okay, speaking of sign offs, so this is

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Speaker 1: from Harmony. Hey, Kelly, thinking about a sign off for

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Speaker 1: the Edge episode? What about stay edgy or keep it edgy?

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Speaker 1: We might have read that one already, Sorry if I'm

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Speaker 1: um repeating. So then I got this fortune cookie from

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Speaker 1: one of our listeners. Went to a restaurant, got a

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Speaker 1: fortune cookie, and his fortune cookie says, if you're not

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Speaker 1: living on the edge, you're taking up too much space,

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Speaker 1: and he goes, I just he goes. I had literally

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Speaker 1: just listened to y'all's episode where you don't have a

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00:45:55,560 --> 00:45:57,640
Speaker 1: sign off, and he said, I felt like it was

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Speaker 1: like a god thing. So if you're not living on

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Speaker 1: the edge, you're taking up too much space. Actually, Love,

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Speaker 1: I think it's hilarious, but I googled it and there's

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00:46:06,640 --> 00:46:09,640
Speaker 1: a book by that title. So it's just like living

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00:46:09,680 --> 00:46:13,600
Speaker 1: on the bed now and it's a little bit um

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Speaker 1: wordy maybe for an every week if you're not living

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Speaker 1: on edge touching okay, because there's there's something that's a

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00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:28,359
Speaker 1: little negative about it. It's a little like nasty or snarky. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: well we would need to have to figure out how

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00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:31,640
Speaker 1: to say it, like kind of bit like we're basically like,

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Speaker 1: if you're being a pussy, get the funk out of

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00:46:33,719 --> 00:46:37,520
Speaker 1: here yet. Okay, Well so we did what how do

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Speaker 1: we get to this? So I got a message and

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00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:46,960
Speaker 1: then I went back and forth with us and basically

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Speaker 1: it was like she's with us on the struggle, and

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Speaker 1: she really misses I'm really bad, I'm not a good

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Speaker 1: microphone user. Um. She misses just that like act casual,

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00:47:02,120 --> 00:47:05,200
Speaker 1: like the vibe of it, which is so silly that

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Speaker 1: it's hilarious that we all got so attached to it.

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Speaker 1: And I never could get that right either, really if

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Speaker 1: that was part of the joke, always remembered to finish

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Speaker 1: the sentence. Um. So she suggested trying to combine them,

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Speaker 1: and I think we might have come up with something

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00:47:24,600 --> 00:47:27,960
Speaker 1: already forgot what I'm supposed to say. Hey, whispered to me.

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00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:33,720
Speaker 1: Don't hold on a second, guys. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay.

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Speaker 1: So we're going to practice. We're gonna try. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: try one. So what if I go, when you're living

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Speaker 1: on the edge, always remember act casually. You forgot to

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Speaker 1: say the word to always remember to Okay, wait, so

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Speaker 1: I say, when you're living on the edge, always remember

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Speaker 1: to act. It doesn't flow as good when I remember

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Speaker 1: to act casual. Why can't I just say always remember

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00:47:58,840 --> 00:48:00,719
Speaker 1: it's casual? I mean, like it would just be. It's

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00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 1: like it's like an unsaid colon that happens in there.

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Speaker 1: I get that or is it a comma? I think

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Speaker 1: it's a colon. It's like I think it's always remember colon.

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Speaker 1: But everyone just has to know the colon in their

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Speaker 1: read Guys, Like, I'm not gonna go colon. You know

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Speaker 1: if we need a colon or the world to it

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00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:26,040
Speaker 1: when you're living on the edge, colon. Let me try

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Speaker 1: it one more time. This is gonna be the new

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Speaker 1: sign off you guys. Email us at at casual at

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00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:32,800
Speaker 1: velvet dot com if you like it or don't like it.

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Speaker 1: We can take feedback, honest feedback and in kind criticism

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Speaker 1: will take kind being the key word. I mean, everyone's

914
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Speaker 1: got an opinion is okay. So as soon as you're

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Speaker 1: slid of the week stories and your your feelings about

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Speaker 1: this new sign off, here we go. When you're living

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Speaker 1: on the edge, always remember to act casual talking about it.