WEBVTT - "I'M A BOUNTY HUNTER" (recorded in real life)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, it's Lyle here. Just a quick note that this

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<v Speaker 1>episode was recorded in a real life over at Echo

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<v Speaker 1>Park in Los Angeles. I went there and set up

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<v Speaker 1>some chairs and a little sign that says, come talk

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<v Speaker 1>to a real gecko, and I spoke to a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of interesting people that came by to chat. I also

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<v Speaker 1>added a phone call at the very end, so stick

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<v Speaker 1>around for that. Also. The first guy that came up

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<v Speaker 1>to me is wearing like tactical gear and stuff, but

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<v Speaker 1>you can't tell because it's an audio only thing, but

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<v Speaker 1>I thought it was important to mention anyway. This was

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<v Speaker 1>a really fun episode to do. I love recording these

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<v Speaker 1>things outside in real life. You get to look at

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<v Speaker 1>people's real faces and you're not just talking to a

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<v Speaker 1>mysterious omnipotent voice thing. And yeah, it was just a

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<v Speaker 1>lot of fun to do. So I hope you guys

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy it, and let's get into it. Hello everyone, it

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<v Speaker 1>is a quiet day at a park. I've come here

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<v Speaker 1>alone to be a gecko and try to talk to people.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if anyone is going to be down

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<v Speaker 1>to talk to me, but that's okay too. I could

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<v Speaker 1>sit here alone for an hour. I don't mind. I'm

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<v Speaker 1>trying to learn how to go more with the flow

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<v Speaker 1>of what's going on in life. So let's see what's up.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Man?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh man, that's awesome. Hey, go ah you doing?

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<v Speaker 1>Don't go with your name Spike, Spike nice, that's a

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<v Speaker 1>fucking cool name.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So you guys are.

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<v Speaker 3>Agents, yeah, well bounty hunters.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you bounty hunters? Yeah, a bounty hunter.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you explain what exactly that is?

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<v Speaker 3>Sure?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, when somebody is arrested for a crime, I'm supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to go to trial. They place a bond and that

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<v Speaker 4>guarantees their appearance. Some people don't follow through. Bloke we're

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<v Speaker 4>after right now, women by drugging them. Jesus and his girlfriend,

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<v Speaker 4>his sister and her boyfriend put up one hundred thousand

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<v Speaker 4>dollars to get him out, Oh my god, and then

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<v Speaker 4>he skipped. So once we have a piece of paper

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<v Speaker 4>from the court, I can arrest him the moment I

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<v Speaker 4>put eyes on him, and I'm not constrained by search warrens.

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<v Speaker 4>I just blow doors and so most of it's not

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<v Speaker 4>that exciting. You're just looking around and you're offering people

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<v Speaker 4>five thousand dollars to drop a dime on him until

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<v Speaker 4>you get the address. Then you go to the police station.

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<v Speaker 4>Let him know you'll be blowing in some doors. You

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<v Speaker 4>take your crew out. This is Badger over here.

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<v Speaker 1>Hello, Badger can talk, Bads. You want to talk after, well,

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<v Speaker 1>let's I want to hear it from you first.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, So we figure this guy is one of two places.

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<v Speaker 4>It's either being hidden by the girlfriend or he went

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<v Speaker 4>to Korea. If you went to Korea, it's pretty easy.

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<v Speaker 4>We got his career ID and you can't flush a

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<v Speaker 4>toilet there without your ID number. Old made of mine

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<v Speaker 4>is a retired brigadier general of the Marine Corps. So

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<v Speaker 4>he'll hit the guys at the US embassy there because

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<v Speaker 4>the Marines work for the State Department protect through the embassy.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'll zip tie him and drag him into the

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<v Speaker 4>US Embassy and get him ready for extradition.

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<v Speaker 1>So what are you guys doing at the park?

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<v Speaker 4>I scream, Yeah, we just finished the cases in Puente Hills,

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<v Speaker 4>So we just got I live in Koreatown and so

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<v Speaker 4>does she, So he came back this way.

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<v Speaker 1>So how long have you been spending trying to track

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<v Speaker 1>this guy down?

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<v Speaker 4>We have one hundred and eighty six days to find him,

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<v Speaker 4>and I would say, we're on about day twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>You have one hundred and six days two hudred and

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<v Speaker 1>eighty six one hundred and six, you're on day twenty three.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you confident that you will find him?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>So how are you like tracking him down again?

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<v Speaker 4>You were just like when he posts bail, the people

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<v Speaker 4>that put up the surety have to give all kinds

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<v Speaker 4>of information, so does he. So we've got all their ideas,

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<v Speaker 4>passports plate sorry heights, passports plate numbers, their friends, where

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<v Speaker 4>they work, where he worked, where his friends work, and

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<v Speaker 4>so what you do is you just go around and

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<v Speaker 4>politely squeeze, because it's kind of embarrassing having a bloke

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<v Speaker 4>like Spike just show up with a wanted poster for

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<v Speaker 4>your boyfriend, and all the shops around your area, somebody

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<v Speaker 4>always drops a dime.

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<v Speaker 1>So normally you offer them money to top.

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<v Speaker 3>Five thousand cash.

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<v Speaker 1>Wow, that could sway a lot of folks.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, because normally one hundred thousand dollars bond will get

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<v Speaker 4>you a ten thousand bounty. We negotiated a twenty five

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<v Speaker 4>thousand bounty on this because we might have to hop

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<v Speaker 4>over to inshot him back a couple of times.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh wow, it's commission only if you will.

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<v Speaker 1>So this is it? You say, you only get paid

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<v Speaker 1>if you.

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<v Speaker 3>Honey, bet, if you get it done. Man.

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<v Speaker 1>So you so have you seem like you've been doing

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<v Speaker 1>this for a long time? Yeah, and in that period

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<v Speaker 1>of time, have you ever sunk a ton of time

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<v Speaker 1>into a case and just not found the person?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, you treat every case the same.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, and you have a procedure and you follow it

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<v Speaker 4>and you'll realize two out of three in.

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<v Speaker 3>The time window.

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<v Speaker 4>Now, sometimes the bail agent, the guy that put up

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<v Speaker 4>the bounty or put up the both the bounty and

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<v Speaker 4>the bond, he may get an extension from the court.

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<v Speaker 4>See California, people don't realize what's happened out here. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>for me, it's a money train, but for most people

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<v Speaker 4>it's terrifying because they've made the compliance requirements for bounty

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<v Speaker 4>hunters so incredibly difficult. I have one guy that's Allly,

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<v Speaker 4>does contractor just as paperwork. Almost no bounty hunters that

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<v Speaker 4>come to California anymore. So now the criminals know that

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<v Speaker 4>at thirty six months, if I shot you today and

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<v Speaker 4>then I go hide and she brings me my food

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<v Speaker 4>for long enough, They're gonna throw my file away and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna have anybody looking for me.

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<v Speaker 3>It's going to be as if it never happened.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's going to go down to one year because

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<v Speaker 4>they change the laws where we can't operate here. There's

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<v Speaker 4>a few tenacious people, I spike will just get compliant.

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<v Speaker 4>I have to have a permit for my handcuffs. I

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<v Speaker 4>have to have a permit from my baton. I have

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<v Speaker 4>to have a permit for my tear gas. I have

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<v Speaker 4>to have an open carry permit. I have to have

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<v Speaker 4>a concealed weapons permit. I have to have a guard card.

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<v Speaker 4>It's and I even have to do eight hours with

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<v Speaker 4>a California Department of Insurance. So nobody's out there looking

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<v Speaker 4>for these people except just a few old timers like me.

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<v Speaker 1>Does this guy know that you're out there?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>And so he's he's actively so he's actively hiding from me. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>and so in your in your line of work, tell me,

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<v Speaker 1>like the moments where you have locked eyes on a person,

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<v Speaker 1>well physical idea, what is that like? That must be

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<v Speaker 1>crazy intense.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, there's a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm getting a bit older now, I have some real

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<v Speaker 4>big blokes that handle some of this for me. Now

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<v Speaker 4>I've got Greedy, he's six eighty three hundred, and then

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<v Speaker 4>I got Samson. He looks like NFL running Back, except bigger.

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<v Speaker 4>It can happen one of two ways. One way you

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<v Speaker 4>get a clean dime. Somebody calls you and really all

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<v Speaker 4>they're worried about is that they're going to get their reward,

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<v Speaker 4>and you get the address, you run it immediately to

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<v Speaker 4>local constable shop, whether it's if it's LAPD let's say,

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<v Speaker 4>rampart station, or if it's the sheriffs.

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<v Speaker 3>You go to the sheriff.

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<v Speaker 4>Station, you take in your warrant from the court to

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<v Speaker 4>show that you have the power to arrest this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>You let him know where you're going to be lowing

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<v Speaker 4>doors in, and then you go in with six to

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<v Speaker 4>nine people and you just overpower them.

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<v Speaker 1>So once you know where they're at, you're not going

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<v Speaker 1>in alone. You're going with the whole squad.

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<v Speaker 4>No, the only time you end up with something alone

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<v Speaker 4>is where you just run into him at Ralph's.

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<v Speaker 1>That happened, Yeah, what is that like?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, that's a ton of fun because people around aren't prepared.

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<v Speaker 4>You don't have anything in the cops station. You may

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<v Speaker 4>not have body armor on, so you just well you

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<v Speaker 4>charge them and you.

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<v Speaker 1>Charge at them.

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<v Speaker 3>Z time.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you have zip tares on you right now? Just

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<v Speaker 1>a case of that happens.

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<v Speaker 4>No, you know, my last pairs in the car and

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<v Speaker 4>says my body armor. But that'd be all right, Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>we tie them.

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<v Speaker 3>Up with the mic cord.

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<v Speaker 1>That would be amazing if he just like just was

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<v Speaker 1>walking by and.

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<v Speaker 3>We caught you.

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<v Speaker 4>You get these eyes from them and then you, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you give them some love and you try not to

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<v Speaker 4>hurt them.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So interesting, we're.

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<v Speaker 4>Pretty particular people that hurt children, women Capitol. I had

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<v Speaker 4>a great one, this guy, lovely fella. He was playing

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<v Speaker 4>chess with his best friend and the guy beat him

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<v Speaker 4>the temerity of it, so he shot him in the

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<v Speaker 4>head and so he was on the FBI's most wanted list,

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<v Speaker 4>and that's one hundred thousand, right. So I called John,

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<v Speaker 4>who was the especialation in charge up in Sacramento, and

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<v Speaker 4>I said, you know, John, I think we can bring

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<v Speaker 4>this fellow in and he's like, well, okay, we've been

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<v Speaker 4>trying for like seven and a half years.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, but you got to go where they covi it.

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<v Speaker 4>This guy covets his little sister and he's in Mexico

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<v Speaker 4>right now. And I'm not going to Gable of horror

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<v Speaker 4>for one hundred grand, thank you.

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<v Speaker 2>No.

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<v Speaker 4>But when he comes back for her birthday party, then

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<v Speaker 4>either you guys can go get him after I signed

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<v Speaker 4>Himcause FBI gets real perstiicty.

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<v Speaker 3>They like to get their own callers. They don't want

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<v Speaker 3>some contractor in the middle.

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<v Speaker 1>So you're an independent contract yes, right, And to these

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<v Speaker 1>organizations like the FBI today, how what's your relationship like

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<v Speaker 1>with them? Do you? They not like you.

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<v Speaker 4>I spent just today one hundred and twenty dollars at

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<v Speaker 4>California Donuts. Yeah, which Eli Vera, who has the most

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<v Speaker 4>righteous kills for the Sheriff's Department, swears is the best

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<v Speaker 4>to them. It's in La Oka, and so when you like,

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<v Speaker 4>we took it down to the cop shop and point

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<v Speaker 4>to hills, made sure they had a dozen California Donuts.

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<v Speaker 4>We got badger and delivering them. She's a lot prettier

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<v Speaker 4>than I am, and you got to share respect. It's

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<v Speaker 4>their feet to them. Yeah, And really, my biggest danger

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<v Speaker 4>because my my front plate will take a seven to

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<v Speaker 4>six to two point blank. But my back plate, you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you can penetrate it, and you can always catch.

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<v Speaker 3>This big you've gotten shot in.

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<v Speaker 4>The police are the biggest danger, not because they're bad blokes,

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<v Speaker 4>but when you got a large, funny looking fellow like

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<v Speaker 4>me wrestling somebody in the ground and throwing them in

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<v Speaker 4>the trunk of the car, they can misinterpret that as

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<v Speaker 4>a kidnapping. Oh shit, So they killed the chap over

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<v Speaker 4>here not so long ago because he wasn't That's why

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<v Speaker 4>we wear all this gear.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, just in case if like, like, have you

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<v Speaker 1>ever been like shot by a con? Not yet, but

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<v Speaker 1>that's like a part.

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<v Speaker 4>Well they got shot at with the twelve Games, but

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<v Speaker 4>they missed Jesus.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, man, how long you doing all this for?

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<v Speaker 3>Two thousand and eight?

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<v Speaker 1>Since two thousand and eight, so math, but.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>Fourteen years. Yeah, that's what I was taking fourteen years.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you always wanted to do this?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, I was a professional soldier before, okay.

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<v Speaker 4>And I just thought, well, you know, how do you

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<v Speaker 4>take these skills and put them into society in a

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<v Speaker 4>productive way. I don't like evil, so we don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to get child Muster's rapists and capital murderers out the street.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that.

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<v Speaker 4>I like that, And these are people that didn't show

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<v Speaker 4>up for courts. They screwed everybody that loves them. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, I've had a few ruckuses with the FBI,

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<v Speaker 4>and I stayed and faced the music and it all

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<v Speaker 4>went away. Because you're innocent, you don't bold. So, I mean,

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<v Speaker 4>you know a lot of analysis for my gecko, what's.

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<v Speaker 1>Been the most difficult part of your job?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh, sometimes you feel sorry for the bloke. Really, That's

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<v Speaker 4>why I prefer more heinous crimes.

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<v Speaker 1>Where I also get to this is that's a super

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<v Speaker 1>interesting thing. What makes you feel sorry for people even

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<v Speaker 1>if they've done heinous things.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, I mean, I'm born again and I used to

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<v Speaker 4>be a really evil person, and so I can't judge anybody.

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<v Speaker 4>Most of the people I arrested probably nicer than I was.

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<v Speaker 4>But you know, sometimes if somebody got another chance, they

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<v Speaker 4>might make it.

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<v Speaker 3>But that's not my duty.

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<v Speaker 4>A guy gives me a contract, somebody basically stole one

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<v Speaker 4>hundred thousand from him, or two hundred and fifty thousand

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<v Speaker 4>or a million, and it's my job to go bring

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<v Speaker 4>them in and then they face the music that they

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<v Speaker 4>created interesting.

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<v Speaker 1>So because you're you're born again and you're sort of

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<v Speaker 1>reformed from a life in which you yourself were doing

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<v Speaker 1>things that were not so great, it gives you a

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<v Speaker 1>greater empathy for people who are also doing things that.

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<v Speaker 4>Are Yeah, so that's why I'm not interested in people

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<v Speaker 4>that haven't committed much in the way of crimes, and

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<v Speaker 4>the crimes aren't that serious.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure, you're going for the real mind.

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<v Speaker 4>And you look at the file, right, this guy's got

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<v Speaker 4>a ten year older girlfriend he's using and then she's

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<v Speaker 4>going to lose your house now, and then he's brought

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<v Speaker 4>in and the sister. He's got a boyfriend that's twenty

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<v Speaker 4>years old that I went to his house and I

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<v Speaker 4>got his idea, right yeah, And he's like, I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't know this guy.

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<v Speaker 4>And I'm like, I'm standing here next to you, but

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<v Speaker 4>I haven't talked to the police in the area yet.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not gonna make a ruckas today.

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<v Speaker 3>It's amazing.

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<v Speaker 4>Everybody's innocent and they're all the victim.

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<v Speaker 1>That's very interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, here, where's my phone here? So you know seeing's

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<v Speaker 3>believing right? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, definitely what you got on that.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, you got to keep the stress up on the

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<v Speaker 4>people that are going to drop the dime, right, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>so here is this is the girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so here's the text you've you've been sending texts. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>he's got the guy that you're find, the guy that

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<v Speaker 1>you're looking for, and he's a text to his girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, yeah, Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So this is a weird case because he could turn

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<v Speaker 4>himself into the embassy and soul and I got enough

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<v Speaker 4>hookups from the Marine Corps, I don't have to go. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>and we can make it a lot easier on him

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<v Speaker 4>because the Orange County DA It's just isn't really a

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<v Speaker 4>crime in California.

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<v Speaker 3>You probably just exonerate him, not extraded him.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, it's not a crime in California.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not one that'll extradite from a foreign country.

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<v Speaker 1>Jesus.

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<v Speaker 3>Anyway, we went by.

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<v Speaker 4>I was going to put a tracker will not officially

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<v Speaker 4>you can't do that in California. But let's say that

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<v Speaker 4>somebody was going to put a tracker. This would be

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<v Speaker 4>a bad location. So we just took a picture of

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<v Speaker 4>the car. I said, we were in town. Your attorney

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<v Speaker 4>hasn't called me tell us this location. Please five thousand

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<v Speaker 4>in cash.

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<v Speaker 3>You won't know how we found him. We'll be back

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<v Speaker 3>to serve the lean on your house. Be smart, give

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<v Speaker 3>him up. My attorney'll call you. My attorney will suit you. Yes,

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<v Speaker 3>this is.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, I mean have him called. It is diurney before

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<v Speaker 4>you lose your home? Miss, How am I supposed to

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<v Speaker 4>do this? How am I supposed to?

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<v Speaker 3>You know?

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<v Speaker 4>How to get him do the right thing? You just

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<v Speaker 4>keep the same message going.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh wow, yeah, that's that's crazy.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, you think she should stay with him?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. I don't think she should stay with

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<v Speaker 1>him at all.

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<v Speaker 3>All right, so she probably ought to move on. She

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<v Speaker 3>probably ought to keep her house.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I know, she probably give him, give him up.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, and i'd give her five thousand in cash.

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<v Speaker 1>Man, these are wild. So you're you're, you're you must

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<v Speaker 1>see you know, doing what you do. You must see

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<v Speaker 1>like sides of humanity that that most people don't get

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<v Speaker 1>to see.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, that's a probably a fair statement.

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<v Speaker 4>We get the true flawtsom which is nice tonight. On

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<v Speaker 4>an average week, we've cleaned La out of one. Hardened

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<v Speaker 4>criminals comeback.

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<v Speaker 1>And you get a deep sense of pride from doing that.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I get a deep of paycheck. So you know,

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<v Speaker 4>you got to make a living here, and how do

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<v Speaker 4>you do it honorably?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>When all I know how to do is blow things

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<v Speaker 4>up and shoot at them.

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<v Speaker 1>And you, if you're going to blow things up and

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<v Speaker 1>shoot them, you might as well do it. You're you're

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<v Speaker 1>like dexter, kind of dexter.

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<v Speaker 4>I do personal protection, but I'm not good with the

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<v Speaker 4>blue eminem set.

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<v Speaker 1>What are blue?

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<v Speaker 4>You know the stars that you've got to escalades driving

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<v Speaker 4>up bel air hills backwards, And I've never seen Bill

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<v Speaker 4>m d m a all over your car, and you

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<v Speaker 4>gotta explain. I got a deal though, I'm going to Israel.

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<v Speaker 4>In Israel, well, I'm growing out in my beard, okay,

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<v Speaker 4>and I'll shave my head so I look like the.

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<v Speaker 3>Guy that i'm protecting.

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<v Speaker 4>That way, he's got a fifty percent greater chance of

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<v Speaker 4>living right away because he can shoot the wrong fellow.

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<v Speaker 4>He wrote a book about Islam that was deemed defensive,

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<v Speaker 4>so they have a.

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<v Speaker 3>Fought kill order on him.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh Jesus, So I get to see the Holy Land,

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<v Speaker 4>and if I can keep him alive, it'll be a bonus.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, so you're defending somebody who has a fatwall on them. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>did he pay you to defend them?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh, I'm doing this one pro bono. They just pick

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<v Speaker 4>up my air fair at Israel and my hotel. I

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<v Speaker 4>get to see the Holy Land.

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<v Speaker 1>What you're doing a pro bonum just to see your

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<v Speaker 1>the Holy Way.

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<v Speaker 4>I'd like to keep him alive because he seems like

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<v Speaker 4>a nice chap and i'd like to see the Holy Land.

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<v Speaker 1>That's awesome. Are you deeply religious?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I'm not religious. I'm Christian. It's completely different.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what is uh sort of keeping you in touch

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<v Speaker 1>with your Christianity.

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<v Speaker 3>God Jesus once you're born again. It's profound.

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<v Speaker 4>I live my life for him rather than fit him

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<v Speaker 4>into my life like a religious person would.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, we know the guidelines that.

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<v Speaker 4>I try to try to do my level best to

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<v Speaker 4>serve well.

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<v Speaker 1>Spike, it's been crazy talking to you, man. Thank you

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<v Speaker 1>for your time. I mean sitting down and chatting where.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh I'm on a YouTube thing?

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<v Speaker 3>Seriously?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>All right?

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<v Speaker 4>Well, if this one publishes Spike likes the Gecko, I

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<v Speaker 4>will endorse you.

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<v Speaker 1>I appreciate that.

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<v Speaker 3>Man.

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<v Speaker 1>If I if I, if anyone ever calls a fatwa

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<v Speaker 1>on me, I'll give you a call. Beautiful, Can I

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<v Speaker 1>talk to you badger you guys, busy Okay, no worries,

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<v Speaker 1>I got it. Thank you very much, man, I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Take care of Spike. But that was pretty wild, see

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<v Speaker 1>you guys. You know what's crazy about doing this show

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<v Speaker 1>is that sometimes you sit around for forty five minutes,

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<v Speaker 1>ask a bunch of people if they're down to talk

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<v Speaker 1>to you. You get rejected by most of them. One

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<v Speaker 1>accepts they don't really want to talk to you that much,

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<v Speaker 1>or you're just kind of like, well, maybe I should

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<v Speaker 1>pack it up. But if you stay for a little

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<v Speaker 1>bit longer than when you were planning on leaving, you

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<v Speaker 1>will get an interview with a bounty hunter. And if

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<v Speaker 1>that's not a metaphor for life, then what is. We're

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<v Speaker 1>hanging out, we're in the sun, we're alive, we're outside

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<v Speaker 1>of our rooms, we're off the computer. This is all

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<v Speaker 1>I've ever wanted is just look at other people in

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<v Speaker 1>the friggin faces.

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<v Speaker 2>Crazy though, because like please, I'd listen to you constantly

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<v Speaker 2>at work and I'll you know, hop in the live

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<v Speaker 2>streams you. Yeah, I've tried calling in so many times.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, now here now that we're okay, this is perfect.

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<v Speaker 2>But this is wild.

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<v Speaker 1>This is perfect because now that we're here, what is

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<v Speaker 1>there a thing that if you called in you would

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<v Speaker 1>want to talk about that we can do? This is better.

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<v Speaker 1>We can do it in face to face.

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<v Speaker 2>I just wanted to be on the show.

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<v Speaker 1>Really okay, but but okay, when you're listening to the

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<v Speaker 1>podcast though, and I know this because I've done this

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<v Speaker 1>with podcasts that I've listened to. I imagine what I

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<v Speaker 1>would say were I on the show. You've never once,

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<v Speaker 1>as you've listened to all these people's share things, You've

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<v Speaker 1>never once thought yourself, what would I share if I

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<v Speaker 1>were on the podcast? Not?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know. I just know I haven't.

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<v Speaker 2>I haven't really thought about it.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I'm going to get to the fucking bottom of

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<v Speaker 1>you before this. This is a challenge that I'm accepting.

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<v Speaker 2>This is unreal.

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<v Speaker 1>What is what is your life like? Because give me

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<v Speaker 1>a baseline?

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<v Speaker 2>All right, So this is my beautiful girlfriend.

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<v Speaker 1>That's wonderful. Hello, nice to meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>I work, I build closets, Okay, pretty simple life. I

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<v Speaker 2>do play video games.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you build closets, you play video games, you live

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<v Speaker 1>a simple life. What is your relationship with the life

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<v Speaker 1>you live? Do you ever reevaluate your simple life and

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<v Speaker 1>wish to make it more complex? Or are you fairly

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<v Speaker 1>happy where you're at?

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<v Speaker 2>And I'm more so striving for more?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay?

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<v Speaker 2>Ah, fuck more so?

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<v Speaker 1>Hold on, No, I'm here, I'm with you. I should

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<v Speaker 1>brought water. Can you have any water?

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<v Speaker 4>No?

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<v Speaker 2>We had water.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, We'll be fine. We can swallow our own spit,

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<v Speaker 1>clear our throws that way throat throats, I said throats,

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<v Speaker 1>which would be a good plural for the words throat.

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<v Speaker 1>You live a minimalistic lifestyle, but you were striving for more,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what you were saying.

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<v Speaker 2>No, it's not minimalistic. I spend a lot of money

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<v Speaker 2>at hobbies.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and stuff like that. Okay, but you would say simple,

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<v Speaker 1>simple for the most part.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay. Now, when you when you say you're striving for more,

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<v Speaker 1>could you put towards at all? What that more would be?

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<v Speaker 2>Definitely more money, more money, striving for more money.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, you spend a lot of money. You're striving for

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<v Speaker 1>more money. What do you do now? You build closes?

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<v Speaker 1>Can you make a lot of money building closets?

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<v Speaker 2>Not at the pace that I'm at, okay, but definitely

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<v Speaker 2>in the future. If I keep going with it, okay,

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<v Speaker 2>I would be able to get to a certain point

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<v Speaker 2>where I would be making a lot more money than

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<v Speaker 2>I am now.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, and this money, you said you spend a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of money. What do you spend money on?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you know what? You know what Funko pops are?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? I do know.

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<v Speaker 2>Funk Oh dude, I have. I have quite a few

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<v Speaker 2>of those. I think I have like ninety.

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<v Speaker 1>Five of them with ninety five Funko pops.

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<v Speaker 2>But my whole collection value is worth like five grand.

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<v Speaker 1>I think these Funko pops? H Do they give you

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<v Speaker 1>great joy in life?

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<v Speaker 2>Yes?

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<v Speaker 1>You said that instantly, you didn't have to think about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Nope.

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<v Speaker 1>And so you said you want more money. Yeah, if

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<v Speaker 1>you got more money, would you spend it on more

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<v Speaker 1>Funko pops?

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<v Speaker 2>No? No, probably not maybe every once in a while,

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<v Speaker 2>But I mainly want to start saving up more money

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<v Speaker 2>to start traveling.

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<v Speaker 1>To start traveling, okay, you need to save up money

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<v Speaker 1>for a gigantic suitcase so that you can bring all

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<v Speaker 1>the Funko pops with you when you go. Yeah, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you want to start traveling, where do you ian?

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<v Speaker 2>I go A couple of places that I have in

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<v Speaker 2>mind are like Japan, I'm gonna go to Japan. I

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<v Speaker 2>want to go to Egypt Cairo.

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<v Speaker 1>Do they have rare funko pops and that you can

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<v Speaker 1>only get in Egypt in Cairo? Or am I overestimating

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<v Speaker 1>the place that funko pops take in your life?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah? Yeah, a little bit of an overestimation. I mainly

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<v Speaker 2>want to go because of you know how pretty all

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<v Speaker 2>the spaces are.

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<v Speaker 1>Ok Uh these funko pops you without hesitation answered very

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<v Speaker 1>confidently that they give you great joy in life? Could

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<v Speaker 1>you explain why.

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<v Speaker 2>It's more so? Uh, ship, this is okay because it

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<v Speaker 2>kinda reaches just pressed the button.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no, there's no way.

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<v Speaker 3>He let me.

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<v Speaker 1>Let me see that, ruth Like, there we go, beful,

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<v Speaker 1>there we go.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so, I guess it's more so hinting towards like

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<v Speaker 2>childhood stuff coming from a little bit of a poor family,

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<v Speaker 2>buying myself things that I couldn't necessarily have as a kid.

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<v Speaker 1>M okay, and buying yourself things that you couldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>as a kid gives you fulfillment? Yes, are you just

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<v Speaker 1>like stuff from your childhood? In general? Do you have

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of sort of childhood toys.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I have a lot of Legos, a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>comic books, a lot of funk pops.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, you want more money to travel? What is

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<v Speaker 1>between you and making more money?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm trying to balance school right now too.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh you go to school so well?

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<v Speaker 2>Not fully, but I'm trying to get myself back into

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<v Speaker 2>the groove.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you do at school?

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<v Speaker 3>Ship?

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<v Speaker 2>Right now? I'm just trying to build up enough credits

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<v Speaker 2>at my community college so I can transfer into like

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<v Speaker 2>a regular state school.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, And then you want to does that like lead

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<v Speaker 1>you to a major that you want to do that

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<v Speaker 1>gets you into career?

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<v Speaker 5>You want to do business?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh? Business and business management?

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<v Speaker 1>Business and business management? What what do you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do in business business?

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<v Speaker 2>I definitely want to open up my own store sometime

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<v Speaker 2>some day.

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<v Speaker 1>What kind of store is it related? Really?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>I want a comic book store.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, Like I want to build or not build, but

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<v Speaker 2>I want to make like a safe space for a

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<v Speaker 2>lot of people that are into stuff like that. So

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<v Speaker 2>I wanted to kind of I want to sell comics collectibles,

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<v Speaker 2>and I want like the store to open up during

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<v Speaker 2>certain hours and then after after hours. It would be

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<v Speaker 2>like a place where people can go and play games

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<v Speaker 2>like dragons, like card games and shit like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Now you said you mentioned safe space. Now you you

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<v Speaker 1>seem like you are more interested in the community aspect

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<v Speaker 1>of this than just the you know, the toys tell

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<v Speaker 1>me growing up or just even now in your regular life.

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<v Speaker 1>These things you identify with comic books, funkal pops. Have

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<v Speaker 1>you found yourself? I guess at the subject of scrutiny

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<v Speaker 1>for your your liking of them, and that is propelling

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<v Speaker 1>you to want to make a place where people who

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<v Speaker 1>enjoy them can all come together. Yeah, i'd say, so, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>what kinds of scrutiny?

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know, not entirely sure if what that word means, but.

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<v Speaker 1>Like shit, you know, like like you said, a safe space,

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<v Speaker 1>space where I guess that implies people won't get made

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<v Speaker 1>fun of when they're doing you know.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, no, well yeah, because I know that a lot

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<v Speaker 2>of people like look upon people who are really into

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<v Speaker 2>that and are like, oh, your fucking nerd, and like,

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<v Speaker 2>go do that in like a private space, like we

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to see you. Sure, because like if you like,

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<v Speaker 2>most of the people that like walk into like a

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<v Speaker 2>coffee show or something like that. They're they're just like

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<v Speaker 2>if you see someone playing a game like that and

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<v Speaker 2>they're like, why the fuck are you doing this here?

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<v Speaker 2>M So I want I want to have a space

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<v Speaker 2>for people to just go not feel like ashamed for

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<v Speaker 2>doing things that they like.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, have you often felt ashamed for doing things that

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<v Speaker 1>you like?

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes? Sometimes if I'm like in a bookstore, if I'm

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<v Speaker 2>in like the comic book section, shit like that, I

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<v Speaker 2>feel like people have wondering judged the eyes.

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<v Speaker 1>Hmmm. It's interesting to hear you say that, because I'm

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<v Speaker 1>the My favorite part of this interaction has been you answered.

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<v Speaker 1>You answered the question of if these funkl PROCs bring

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<v Speaker 1>these Funkle pops, if they bring Jordan your live you

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<v Speaker 1>answer immediately, You're like yes, and there's no has I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell that they really do. And that's a happiness

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<v Speaker 1>that I think a lot of the people that are

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<v Speaker 1>ashamed that you know what might be giving you those

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<v Speaker 1>those eyes that maybe you feel used to. They they're

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<v Speaker 1>envious of of that. Perhaps possibly you know that's great

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<v Speaker 1>that you have this this jewel thing that gives you

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<v Speaker 1>a lot of joy and you want to open up

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<v Speaker 1>a place where other people can celebrate their joy of

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<v Speaker 1>that thing. And I hope you do it.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean too.

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<v Speaker 1>It's probably gonna cost a lot of money. Probably you

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<v Speaker 1>don't have to sell the Funko pops. Probably, but you

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<v Speaker 1>would rather die, wouldn't you.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>What's your name?

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<v Speaker 2>Drew?

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you for talking about echo, Drew. I appreciate you, man,

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<v Speaker 1>appreciate you too. I liked that guy. I could sense

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<v Speaker 1>some nervousness from him, some apprehension from him, but I

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<v Speaker 1>really want to get I really wanted to get to

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<v Speaker 1>the core of his emotions, his views, his feelings. And

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<v Speaker 1>I think we did. And I think he showed up

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<v Speaker 1>not having anything to say, and then subconsciously reveal things

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<v Speaker 1>that he wanted to say, and then we tried to

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<v Speaker 1>get him to say more about the things. I have

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<v Speaker 1>a seat. Nice to meet you. What's your name?

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<v Speaker 5>My brother is a big fan of you.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh?

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<v Speaker 1>Hell yeah.

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<v Speaker 6>I send him a picture of you right now, and

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<v Speaker 6>he's like, you gotta go talk to him, like he's

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<v Speaker 6>super cool.

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<v Speaker 1>Fucky. All right, let's do it. Let's let's have a

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<v Speaker 1>little chat for your brother. Augustine.

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<v Speaker 5>Augustine, Yeah, what's your life life?

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<v Speaker 2>Huh?

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<v Speaker 5>My name is Lyle Lyle nice meets man too.

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<v Speaker 1>What's your life like?

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<v Speaker 5>Uh like, what do you mean like in general general?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Pretty good?

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<v Speaker 5>Pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I'm pretty young.

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<v Speaker 6>It could be better, you know, like I'm still looking

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<v Speaker 6>for a career and whatnot. But yeah, pretty good so far.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So there's a lot of like you said, you're yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>how old are you? I'm twenty two two? And there's

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<v Speaker 1>a question marks, yes, out in the distance, a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of question marks. How are you feeling when you see

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<v Speaker 1>those questions marks on the distance?

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<v Speaker 6>Pretty worrisome? But I'm pretty optimistic about it. You know,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm still pretty young, so I feel that I have

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<v Speaker 6>a lot of time to figure things out and to

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<v Speaker 6>experiment with a few career options and whatnot. Right now,

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<v Speaker 6>I'm actually into photography, so I'm hoping to start a

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<v Speaker 6>photography business, maybe getting to wedding photography.

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<v Speaker 2>You know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Is that what's in there?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's what's in here here? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what's been what's been uh exciting to you about

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<v Speaker 1>photographing things?

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<v Speaker 5>I just like it's just a passion of mine.

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<v Speaker 6>I like editing photos specifically, I like wedding photography.

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<v Speaker 5>That's my thing, you.

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<v Speaker 1>Know, And why wedding. Is there any aside from the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that it's probably the most lucrative form of photography.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there anything that you enjoy about it? Do you?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you like captivated by love?

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<v Speaker 2>Uh?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, i'd say so. I just like the events, wedding events.

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<v Speaker 6>I just like the atmosphere, you know, like everyone's always happy,

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<v Speaker 6>everyone's smiling, and uh yeah, and it's.

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<v Speaker 5>Just it's just a fun time.

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<v Speaker 6>I actually shot a few wedding photography gigs here and there,

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<v Speaker 6>and yeah, it was.

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<v Speaker 5>The time of my life.

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<v Speaker 1>When it's been about four hours, they're slowly packing things up.

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<v Speaker 1>You've gotten all the footage that you need. Do you

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<v Speaker 1>sneak any food? Yeah? Of course, Okay you have to.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the best thing you've eaten in one of these weddings?

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<v Speaker 1>Best thing I've only been to like his fanic weddings,

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<v Speaker 1>So the best thing. It's probably just like tacos or

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<v Speaker 1>like some kindness out that's some steak, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, some stuff like that. But yeah, I haven't

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<v Speaker 1>tried any cakes though from weddings. I like hearing you

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<v Speaker 1>say why you like wedding photography? That was a good answer.

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<v Speaker 1>You were like, everyone's happy, it's a good vibe. It's

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<v Speaker 1>it's your your photographing just the positive energy, right, and

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<v Speaker 1>you're trying to capture that in the in the photos.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you hope to one day get married?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, of course, I think of course I say that now,

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<v Speaker 6>but probably not for like the next ten years or so.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, yeah, what about you, man, Man, I have I

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<v Speaker 1>have a complicated relationship with relationships in general, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't know, man, I like, I love

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<v Speaker 1>I have great friends and I love them, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have great family and I love them. And then think

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<v Speaker 1>about like romantic relationships, is that like they're just they're tricky,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, they're they're tricky for everyone. You know. Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship with my family though, it's it feels less,

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<v Speaker 1>feels more solid, and then you know, those are relationships

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<v Speaker 1>that have been around forever. And to then take a

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<v Speaker 1>new person and be like I'm trying to get you

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<v Speaker 1>on the same level as like my mom or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>like a person that I've known forever. I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 1>it's a hefty task, you know, if that if that's

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<v Speaker 1>the ultimate goal.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, yeah, no, for sure, especially just finding trust in

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<v Speaker 6>someone you know.

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<v Speaker 1>Just like, yeah, if you think about it.

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<v Speaker 6>It's a stranger that you're meeting totally and you're slowly

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<v Speaker 6>getting to know each other.

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<v Speaker 5>It's it's very it's anxious. It's all anxiety.

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<v Speaker 2>Right.

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<v Speaker 1>Do you how trusting of a person are you? Just

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<v Speaker 1>in general?

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<v Speaker 5>I'm pretty trusting, probably too good for my own Like, has.

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<v Speaker 1>There been a time where you have been very trusting

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<v Speaker 1>and it is backfired on you?

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<v Speaker 6>That's a yes, I forgive more than you know, I

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<v Speaker 6>forgive more than I should.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess really yeah, and you don't. You don't have

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<v Speaker 1>to tell me if you can't think of anything or

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to share. But has there been a time

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<v Speaker 1>where you feel like you forgave and you shouldn't?

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<v Speaker 6>It's more Yeah, this is I don't want to share

0:31:06.400 --> 0:31:09.320
<v Speaker 6>it too much. But yeah, there's been situations where yeah,

0:31:09.440 --> 0:31:11.440
<v Speaker 6>sure it's been like that, But I don't think it's

0:31:11.440 --> 0:31:14.080
<v Speaker 6>more about like me forgiving the person. That's just like

0:31:14.120 --> 0:31:18.120
<v Speaker 6>trying to forgive myself. A communicating with a person. Sometimes

0:31:18.160 --> 0:31:20.920
<v Speaker 6>someone doesn't want to be have that conversation with you,

0:31:20.920 --> 0:31:22.239
<v Speaker 6>you know what I mean. Let's say like you do

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<v Speaker 6>X and Y, you do something bad. We're not bad

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<v Speaker 6>in general, just like something that makes a person makes

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<v Speaker 6>like the relationship you know, all tangled, dip and messed up.

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<v Speaker 1>Sure yea.

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<v Speaker 6>And the way I approach it is like, I'm not

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<v Speaker 6>trying to get your forgiveness. I need to forgive myself.

0:31:37.040 --> 0:31:40.760
<v Speaker 6>I want to apologize, I'm in the wrong, YadA, YadA YadA. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 6>but I have to figure myself at the end of

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<v Speaker 6>the day. And if you can accept my forgiveness, then

0:31:44.000 --> 0:31:44.680
<v Speaker 6>I'm okay for that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. That's uh. I like. I like that way

0:31:46.960 --> 0:31:50.200
<v Speaker 1>of thinking because you can't control whatever. But you can't

0:31:50.240 --> 0:31:52.320
<v Speaker 1>you you have no control you are I like that

0:31:52.360 --> 0:31:55.840
<v Speaker 1>because your brain is operating solely within the things that

0:31:55.840 --> 0:31:58.800
<v Speaker 1>you can control. You can control, You apologize, you do

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<v Speaker 1>the best you can to make, you know, to make

0:32:02.080 --> 0:32:05.080
<v Speaker 1>amends with a person, and then from there it's you know,

0:32:05.920 --> 0:32:09.040
<v Speaker 1>you can't make them forgive you, but you can forgive yourself.

0:32:09.320 --> 0:32:09.680
<v Speaker 2>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>I like that because it's uh. Again, it's it's dealing

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<v Speaker 1>heavily with the things that are within your control.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's like a It's like stoicism.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very much.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. Yeah.

0:32:20.640 --> 0:32:22.520
<v Speaker 1>Do you are you into stock philosophy?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm into it, but I think that following it, like

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<v Speaker 6>heart to heart, like you know, like hardcore hardcore is

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<v Speaker 6>like too extreme and you're basically a psychopath at that point.

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<v Speaker 1>Like I don't know, I like part of me wants

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<v Speaker 1>to get there, man, Like well not even just I

0:32:36.880 --> 0:32:39.600
<v Speaker 1>think stoicism in the form of like I have no

0:32:39.720 --> 0:32:43.640
<v Speaker 1>emotions or I don't connect with people is like I don't.

0:32:43.720 --> 0:32:47.959
<v Speaker 1>I don't think that that's what stoicism is necessarily, but

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<v Speaker 1>like little things like that, like being a master at

0:32:53.120 --> 0:32:55.720
<v Speaker 1>worrying about things that are within my control and not

0:32:55.800 --> 0:32:57.680
<v Speaker 1>worrying about things that aren't. Yeah, that kind of that

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<v Speaker 1>kind of know, I enjoy that idea so much, way

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<v Speaker 1>more than all the other ones, like nihilism and everything

0:33:02.640 --> 0:33:04.960
<v Speaker 1>like that. It's also negative, you know, It's just like,

0:33:05.360 --> 0:33:07.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, we're humans. You know, you can only control

0:33:07.600 --> 0:33:10.520
<v Speaker 1>what you can you can control. Have you had I'm

0:33:10.520 --> 0:33:15.600
<v Speaker 1>gonna wait into the ice cream truck passes. Sure, when

0:33:15.640 --> 0:33:17.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm done with this, I'm chasing that guy down.

0:33:17.960 --> 0:33:19.200
<v Speaker 5>He's been walking around for a minute.

0:33:19.280 --> 0:33:20.760
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I know I'm gonna find him because he's

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<v Speaker 1>got this freaking bugs bunny flavored thing that I'm I

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<v Speaker 1>got my eye on. Have you in the past been

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<v Speaker 1>drawn to any of these more negative philosophies. Have you

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<v Speaker 1>been nihilistic in the past.

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<v Speaker 6>Especially after a breakup or something, you know what I mean? Okay,

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<v Speaker 6>like what else can you do? You just have to

0:33:37.040 --> 0:33:39.360
<v Speaker 6>be hating the world, like, oh, I hate I hate this,

0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:41.280
<v Speaker 6>you know, like nothing's gonna change.

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<v Speaker 1>How did you get yourself out of that nihilistic point?

0:33:43.440 --> 0:33:46.080
<v Speaker 1>Unto you seem I don't know you very well, but

0:33:46.120 --> 0:33:50.000
<v Speaker 1>you seem like you're you don't seem very nihilistic to me. Yeah, no,

0:33:50.120 --> 0:33:51.280
<v Speaker 1>how did you get yourself out of that?

0:33:51.360 --> 0:33:51.560
<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you? I don't know you just you know, do

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<v Speaker 5>things that you like to do.

0:33:56.800 --> 0:33:59.240
<v Speaker 6>For me, what really helped me with just communicating with friends,

0:33:59.240 --> 0:34:02.720
<v Speaker 6>with family, really spending time by yourself and getting to

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<v Speaker 6>know yourself, what your faults are when you could be

0:34:04.880 --> 0:34:08.160
<v Speaker 6>better at you know. Yeah, you're just like doing things

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<v Speaker 6>that you can enjoy. Yeah, that's my thing.

0:34:12.680 --> 0:34:15.280
<v Speaker 1>And so these let's go back to these question marks.

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<v Speaker 1>You're experimenting with photography. What else you're you experimenting with

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<v Speaker 1>right now?

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<v Speaker 6>I'm experimenting with CSI crime scene investigations.

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<v Speaker 1>Crime scene investigation, Yes, sir, that's the I guess that's

0:34:27.520 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 1>sort of in a in a similar ish realm of photography.

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<v Speaker 1>I was about to say that they have absolutely nothing

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<v Speaker 1>to do with each other.

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<v Speaker 6>But there's forends of photography, you know, like when you

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<v Speaker 6>go to crime scenes and they take the photos of

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<v Speaker 6>the dead bodies and stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>Would that be like your ship?

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<v Speaker 5>I tried it and it's pretty interesting.

0:34:43.520 --> 0:34:43.920
<v Speaker 2>I like it.

0:34:44.000 --> 0:34:45.440
<v Speaker 1>What do you mean you tried it? Where do you

0:34:45.480 --> 0:34:47.279
<v Speaker 1>go to try out photograph?

0:34:47.360 --> 0:34:50.520
<v Speaker 6>And just like internships, you know, courses and whatnot.

0:34:50.640 --> 0:34:52.400
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if you're like going to get training

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<v Speaker 1>the police.

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<v Speaker 5>Not like a vigilanta or nothing like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, what is inspiring to you about crime scene investigation?

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<v Speaker 5>I just like the service.

0:35:00.880 --> 0:35:04.080
<v Speaker 6>I like the idea of going to a place, looking

0:35:04.120 --> 0:35:07.680
<v Speaker 6>at all the evidence and using it to someday collect

0:35:08.000 --> 0:35:09.719
<v Speaker 6>enough evidence to like convict the bad guy, you know

0:35:09.760 --> 0:35:12.880
<v Speaker 6>what I mean. And it's a it's a very it's

0:35:12.920 --> 0:35:15.840
<v Speaker 6>a very humbling position too. So it's a very humbling

0:35:15.880 --> 0:35:18.560
<v Speaker 6>position too, because you know, you're surrounded by hard things,

0:35:18.600 --> 0:35:21.200
<v Speaker 6>you're surrounded by negative things all the time, and somehow

0:35:21.239 --> 0:35:22.960
<v Speaker 6>you have to get the job done and do what

0:35:23.000 --> 0:35:25.919
<v Speaker 6>you have to do to like comfort a victim or

0:35:26.320 --> 0:35:29.239
<v Speaker 6>solve the case. You know per se and I really

0:35:29.320 --> 0:35:32.640
<v Speaker 6>like that, but it's pretty hard to get into. You

0:35:32.719 --> 0:35:35.400
<v Speaker 6>need some good experience to get into that, which I

0:35:35.440 --> 0:35:37.759
<v Speaker 6>don't have, so which is why I'm experimenting with photography

0:35:37.840 --> 0:35:38.160
<v Speaker 6>right now.

0:35:38.239 --> 0:35:38.920
<v Speaker 5>In the meantime.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting, you're again like doing everything that's in your control, right,

0:35:43.800 --> 0:35:46.160
<v Speaker 1>some of these question marks, there are things that aren't

0:35:46.200 --> 0:35:48.359
<v Speaker 1>in your control. They're like, oh, this field is hard

0:35:48.360 --> 0:35:50.680
<v Speaker 1>to get into these it's hard to get clients for photogets,

0:35:50.719 --> 0:35:54.040
<v Speaker 1>this and that. But everything that's within your control you're doing. Yeah,

0:35:54.120 --> 0:35:56.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, I love that that way of approaching thing.

0:35:56.760 --> 0:35:57.040
<v Speaker 7>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 1>Does that make you less anxious at all? Just knowing like, okay,

0:36:00.200 --> 0:36:03.640
<v Speaker 1>at least I am giving all I've got to this question, mink.

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<v Speaker 5>It's a work in progress.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think anyone just jumps into like all right,

0:36:06.760 --> 0:36:09.239
<v Speaker 6>I'm going to control my emotions today. Like you know,

0:36:09.280 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 6>there's feelings of anxiety for sure of on sureness, but

0:36:12.840 --> 0:36:13.840
<v Speaker 6>you know we'll exposure.

0:36:13.880 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 5>You know, it'll go away. You know, that's that's my thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you Are you at the park just walking around

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<v Speaker 1>by yourself?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'm actually not from here, from a long beach.

0:36:21.520 --> 0:36:23.440
<v Speaker 6>It's like thirty minutes away from here?

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<v Speaker 1>What are you doing here?

0:36:24.760 --> 0:36:27.279
<v Speaker 6>I went over to apply for a photography position at

0:36:27.320 --> 0:36:28.240
<v Speaker 6>a Harley Davison.

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<v Speaker 1>Dude, you're a hustler. Maybe fine this question mark, sir,

0:36:31.880 --> 0:36:35.080
<v Speaker 1>what's what's a question mark? There needs to be a

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<v Speaker 1>new symbol for like a question mark that will eventual

0:36:40.239 --> 0:36:43.640
<v Speaker 1>like like a cocoon mark. You know what I'm saying.

0:36:43.680 --> 0:36:47.480
<v Speaker 1>It's like there's a question, and it's a question right now,

0:36:47.520 --> 0:36:50.520
<v Speaker 1>but it is inevitable that the question mark will turn

0:36:50.560 --> 0:36:54.160
<v Speaker 1>into a beautiful exclamation point butterfly. Right, we need a

0:36:54.160 --> 0:36:57.640
<v Speaker 1>new symbol for whatever you got going on because you're inevitable. Yeah,

0:36:57.680 --> 0:36:59.000
<v Speaker 1>from how I s thank you?

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you?

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<v Speaker 2>Of course you're right.

0:37:00.280 --> 0:37:02.239
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like it's like a cocoon. It's there, but yeah,

0:37:02.280 --> 0:37:05.200
<v Speaker 6>not there yet. Yeah, not for sure for sure, but

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<v Speaker 6>thank you, man. I appreciate that. I'm just trying, you know,

0:37:07.440 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 6>trying my hardest out here. I think we're all trying,

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:13.040
<v Speaker 6>you know, to be who we want to be and whatnot.

0:37:13.280 --> 0:37:15.560
<v Speaker 6>But yeah, what got you into this? Like we always

0:37:15.600 --> 0:37:17.560
<v Speaker 6>like this when you're young? Did you want to talk

0:37:17.560 --> 0:37:19.160
<v Speaker 6>to people? Like did you have that urge?

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<v Speaker 1>I was looking through my old journals. Yes, I don't

0:37:22.520 --> 0:37:24.520
<v Speaker 1>I don't journal as much as I did in the past,

0:37:24.560 --> 0:37:28.840
<v Speaker 1>but I was looking through a journal from four years ago.

0:37:29.320 --> 0:37:31.440
<v Speaker 1>I started this two years ago, and at the end

0:37:31.480 --> 0:37:32.919
<v Speaker 1>of my journal, I wrote, I want to get better

0:37:32.960 --> 0:37:35.520
<v Speaker 1>at talking to people. And this was before I had

0:37:35.560 --> 0:37:37.719
<v Speaker 1>the idea to do this, and so I think it's

0:37:37.760 --> 0:37:40.880
<v Speaker 1>been a it's been a warm in my mind for

0:37:40.920 --> 0:37:42.719
<v Speaker 1>a while, you know, to be doing this.

0:37:42.800 --> 0:37:43.280
<v Speaker 2>That's awesome.

0:37:43.320 --> 0:37:43.760
<v Speaker 5>That's awesome.

0:37:43.800 --> 0:37:45.799
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thanks man, that's hard for so.

0:37:45.680 --> 0:37:47.319
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, I'm for me. It was kind of

0:37:47.560 --> 0:37:48.000
<v Speaker 2>you started.

0:37:48.040 --> 0:37:50.000
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say, you started this off like you

0:37:50.160 --> 0:37:52.399
<v Speaker 1>looked very nervous, and now you look very chill.

0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:53.480
<v Speaker 5>Thank you think, which is.

0:37:53.400 --> 0:37:54.920
<v Speaker 1>Something I love seeing that too. And this has to

0:37:54.920 --> 0:37:56.759
<v Speaker 1>see it people all the time, like the start off.

0:37:57.120 --> 0:37:59.399
<v Speaker 1>I see it myself all the time where I start off.

0:37:59.480 --> 0:38:03.480
<v Speaker 1>I walked up here with my fucking thing. I was like,

0:38:03.560 --> 0:38:05.359
<v Speaker 1>is this a stupid idea to come to I've done

0:38:05.360 --> 0:38:07.120
<v Speaker 1>this a billion times. Every time I do it, I'm like,

0:38:07.440 --> 0:38:09.399
<v Speaker 1>this is a stupid idea. And then I'm a little

0:38:09.440 --> 0:38:12.040
<v Speaker 1>nervous and now I'm here in the moment, so and

0:38:12.080 --> 0:38:14.880
<v Speaker 1>it's trained me. It's interesting because now when I recognize

0:38:15.360 --> 0:38:19.080
<v Speaker 1>an anxiousness within me at the beginning of something. I

0:38:19.120 --> 0:38:23.720
<v Speaker 1>don't I don't give it any any attention but anywhere,

0:38:23.719 --> 0:38:26.040
<v Speaker 1>because I just know it's inevitable that it goes away

0:38:26.080 --> 0:38:28.360
<v Speaker 1>and that I this gets to a point where I

0:38:28.360 --> 0:38:31.200
<v Speaker 1>feel comfortable or it doesn't, but I just powerful. Eventually

0:38:31.280 --> 0:38:35.439
<v Speaker 1>I will feel comfortable again. Stoicism, right there, A God,

0:38:35.960 --> 0:38:38.359
<v Speaker 1>You're great man. What's your name, Augustine? Is there anything

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<v Speaker 1>else you want to say to the people of the computer.

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<v Speaker 6>Uh No, just have a great one and do what

0:38:42.600 --> 0:38:45.000
<v Speaker 6>you gotta do. You know what I mean, and stay strong.

0:38:45.160 --> 0:38:45.720
<v Speaker 6>That's utiful.

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<v Speaker 1>Thanks for talking to a sure man. Good luck with

0:38:48.480 --> 0:38:51.960
<v Speaker 1>your photography. Man, I fucked to that guy. He was cool.

0:38:52.600 --> 0:38:54.560
<v Speaker 1>I love I love seeing it and other people and

0:38:54.640 --> 0:38:59.000
<v Speaker 1>in myself situations where you start nervous and then you

0:38:59.040 --> 0:39:00.040
<v Speaker 1>just breeze through it.

0:39:00.040 --> 0:39:00.160
<v Speaker 2>It.

0:39:00.800 --> 0:39:03.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that happens enough times you start to recognize

0:39:03.719 --> 0:39:09.760
<v Speaker 1>the familiar journey of that and h keeps you calm

0:39:09.800 --> 0:39:13.800
<v Speaker 1>as you navigate it. But I like that guy. He

0:39:13.960 --> 0:39:16.440
<v Speaker 1>was a good homa and I wish him luck in

0:39:16.680 --> 0:39:21.480
<v Speaker 1>uh photography, and I wish him luck in his dead

0:39:21.480 --> 0:39:23.320
<v Speaker 1>people photography business.

0:39:24.600 --> 0:39:25.160
<v Speaker 2>How's it going?

0:39:25.200 --> 0:39:26.399
<v Speaker 1>It's going good man. What's your name?

0:39:26.719 --> 0:39:27.120
<v Speaker 7>Sandro?

0:39:27.440 --> 0:39:31.800
<v Speaker 1>Sandro? Yours Lyle, mister Lyle Gecko, mister Lyle Gecko.

0:39:31.920 --> 0:39:32.400
<v Speaker 7>Nice to meet you.

0:39:32.480 --> 0:39:33.160
<v Speaker 1>Nice to meet you too.

0:39:33.200 --> 0:39:33.359
<v Speaker 2>Man.

0:39:34.120 --> 0:39:35.400
<v Speaker 1>What's what's your life like?

0:39:36.520 --> 0:39:39.120
<v Speaker 7>That's fine? I guess, okay, how about yours?

0:39:39.160 --> 0:39:39.960
<v Speaker 1>What would make it better?

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<v Speaker 7>You want to make it better?

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:43.720
<v Speaker 1>I would make it better.

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<v Speaker 7>I guess.

0:39:44.280 --> 0:39:44.480
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>Okay, he just just made my day.

0:39:46.560 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 1>That's awesome.

0:39:47.600 --> 0:39:49.959
<v Speaker 5>What are you are you?

0:39:50.640 --> 0:39:52.200
<v Speaker 1>What's bringing you here to this park?

0:39:54.400 --> 0:39:57.520
<v Speaker 7>Actually? I just want to enjoy him on Saturday, okay,

0:39:57.880 --> 0:39:59.200
<v Speaker 7>and learning some texts.

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<v Speaker 1>Learning some text yeah, I memorize what kind of text?

0:40:03.280 --> 0:40:04.360
<v Speaker 2>It's for a script?

0:40:04.760 --> 0:40:04.920
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:40:05.320 --> 0:40:06.320
<v Speaker 1>Are you an actor?

0:40:06.480 --> 0:40:06.719
<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh? What kind of What kind of acting do you do?

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<v Speaker 1>Dramatic acting, comedic acting.

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<v Speaker 7>Whatever you want? I know I'm not that good in comedian. Well,

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<v Speaker 7>actually I would like to act as a get coal.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, okay, I should have brought an extra suit.

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<v Speaker 7>If you had another one, I would definitely word it

0:40:25.040 --> 0:40:27.880
<v Speaker 7>and I would take a swim, I promise I do.

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<v Speaker 1>Kind of it's getting a little high. Do you kind

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<v Speaker 1>of want to dive into the lake at some point?

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<v Speaker 7>Maybe I should wear swan like the boats?

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<v Speaker 1>Did you move to La to become a star.

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<v Speaker 7>No, not really, just to to live that life. I

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<v Speaker 7>like to act. It's not the goal actually to be

0:40:47.239 --> 0:40:51.640
<v Speaker 7>a star. But I just I feel so many emotions

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<v Speaker 7>when I act. What kind of emotions the whole bunch,

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<v Speaker 7>from happy to said. I can feel that if I

0:40:58.840 --> 0:41:02.319
<v Speaker 7>act in like in front of a camera, but I

0:41:02.360 --> 0:41:06.719
<v Speaker 7>can't feel it in my personal life, like if I'm

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<v Speaker 7>just talking to a normal person's average persons. I never

0:41:11.160 --> 0:41:14.600
<v Speaker 7>get those emotions which I get when I do acting.

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<v Speaker 1>Really, yeah, tell me, okay, give me a Let's start

0:41:17.520 --> 0:41:20.239
<v Speaker 1>with just any emotion that comes to your mind that

0:41:20.719 --> 0:41:22.640
<v Speaker 1>you get when you're acting that you don't get in

0:41:22.640 --> 0:41:23.400
<v Speaker 1>your real life.

0:41:24.400 --> 0:41:29.480
<v Speaker 7>Really, sadness, deeply sadness with tears. I can't have tears.

0:41:30.040 --> 0:41:32.320
<v Speaker 1>Really, you don't get deeply sad in your own life?

0:41:32.520 --> 0:41:35.400
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I get said, of course, I guess everyone gets.

0:41:35.560 --> 0:41:38.879
<v Speaker 7>But I never can. I never can cry. I mean

0:41:38.920 --> 0:41:42.840
<v Speaker 7>once in two years I can maybe have two or

0:41:42.880 --> 0:41:46.680
<v Speaker 7>three tears. But I like to have tears. I think

0:41:46.719 --> 0:41:49.600
<v Speaker 7>it's kind of a nice feeling, but I don't get

0:41:49.600 --> 0:41:53.720
<v Speaker 7>it often. But when I act, the tears are coming.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, when you're acting and you're giving these tears, do

0:41:58.480 --> 0:42:01.640
<v Speaker 1>you think that those tears, although they are product if

0:42:01.640 --> 0:42:03.840
<v Speaker 1>you're acting, come from a real place.

0:42:04.480 --> 0:42:06.799
<v Speaker 7>I guess they're come from a real place. Yeah, I'm

0:42:06.840 --> 0:42:10.360
<v Speaker 7>pretty sure of that because I'm thinking about real moments

0:42:10.400 --> 0:42:14.000
<v Speaker 7>in my life which made me almost had tears in

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:16.840
<v Speaker 7>my real life. But now when I act, the tears

0:42:16.840 --> 0:42:19.640
<v Speaker 7>are coming. When I think back, it's like, I don't know,

0:42:19.840 --> 0:42:20.680
<v Speaker 7>something psychic.

0:42:21.520 --> 0:42:23.160
<v Speaker 1>What kinds of things make you sad?

0:42:23.520 --> 0:42:28.200
<v Speaker 7>What kind of things make me sad? Yeah, that's a

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:33.840
<v Speaker 7>good question. It makes me sad if people don't treat

0:42:33.920 --> 0:42:38.359
<v Speaker 7>the nature right, if they like throw away waste or

0:42:38.920 --> 0:42:42.359
<v Speaker 7>just throw cigarettes into the lake, or I don't know,

0:42:43.040 --> 0:42:48.200
<v Speaker 7>kick animals. Some things make me really sad. Or if

0:42:48.280 --> 0:42:51.319
<v Speaker 7>people don't help each other, if they are honking at

0:42:51.320 --> 0:42:53.520
<v Speaker 7>each other on the streets, I hate that. I would

0:42:53.560 --> 0:42:56.640
<v Speaker 7>never do that because I think it's very rude. What

0:42:56.760 --> 0:42:57.320
<v Speaker 7>do you think?

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<v Speaker 1>I also I think it's very weird too, when people

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<v Speaker 1>hawk on the street. I think that honking, like cars

0:43:04.160 --> 0:43:07.480
<v Speaker 1>don't really need horns, because honking is less of a

0:43:07.640 --> 0:43:10.319
<v Speaker 1>thing that provides solutions to problems and more of just

0:43:10.360 --> 0:43:13.200
<v Speaker 1>an expression of anger for the sake of that expression. Right,

0:43:15.000 --> 0:43:17.600
<v Speaker 1>So car horns make you cry people being meant to

0:43:17.640 --> 0:43:18.319
<v Speaker 1>animals makes you.

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<v Speaker 7>I agree, definitely.

0:43:19.960 --> 0:43:22.600
<v Speaker 1>And when you are acting and you're crying, you're thinking

0:43:22.600 --> 0:43:25.400
<v Speaker 1>about these things.

0:43:24.280 --> 0:43:27.840
<v Speaker 7>Not about the car honking, but yes, about all Yeah.

0:43:28.239 --> 0:43:31.600
<v Speaker 1>What what's another emotion that you channel for reacting.

0:43:35.040 --> 0:43:37.040
<v Speaker 3>Like real?

0:43:39.000 --> 0:43:43.439
<v Speaker 7>I would say, real, honest happiness, because I don't get

0:43:43.480 --> 0:43:46.200
<v Speaker 7>these feelings a lot, a lot. I'm not one of

0:43:46.239 --> 0:43:50.879
<v Speaker 7>the sunshine persons which can walk like this the whole day.

0:43:50.880 --> 0:43:55.120
<v Speaker 7>I mean, I of course I'm happy sometimes, but not

0:43:55.120 --> 0:44:00.120
<v Speaker 7>not all the day. And it's not that it's not

0:44:00.200 --> 0:44:03.279
<v Speaker 7>the same. You get it.

0:44:04.400 --> 0:44:07.360
<v Speaker 1>You're not a very happy person just in general, or

0:44:07.480 --> 0:44:08.839
<v Speaker 1>like I.

0:44:08.760 --> 0:44:15.799
<v Speaker 7>Would say that, I'm just average, I guess happy, not just.

0:44:16.560 --> 0:44:19.879
<v Speaker 1>Do you wait? Okay, So when you're acting and you're

0:44:19.960 --> 0:44:22.800
<v Speaker 1>channeling happiness, what are you thinking about when you're channeling that?

0:44:24.440 --> 0:44:30.239
<v Speaker 7>Oh, just very little things in life which made me

0:44:30.320 --> 0:44:33.600
<v Speaker 7>sometimes really happy, Like if I see someone picking on

0:44:34.360 --> 0:44:37.200
<v Speaker 7>waste and throw it into the garbage can or something

0:44:37.239 --> 0:44:40.200
<v Speaker 7>like that, that can make me really happy. It's just

0:44:40.440 --> 0:44:44.400
<v Speaker 7>a few seconds of a day, or like if I

0:44:44.480 --> 0:44:46.320
<v Speaker 7>talk to you right now, that makes me happy.

0:44:46.600 --> 0:44:48.360
<v Speaker 1>To be honest, I'm glad that talking to me. It

0:44:48.480 --> 0:44:50.360
<v Speaker 1>has made you happy. That's very sweet.

0:44:50.360 --> 0:44:53.000
<v Speaker 5>Have you say, I.

0:44:52.960 --> 0:44:54.200
<v Speaker 7>Hope it's the same for you.

0:44:54.320 --> 0:44:55.960
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, talking to you has made me happy as well.

0:44:56.040 --> 0:44:59.080
<v Speaker 7>Actually it should make you happy, otherwise you probably not

0:44:59.160 --> 0:44:59.480
<v Speaker 7>do it.

0:45:00.400 --> 0:45:03.479
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, now I feel similar, and I.

0:45:03.480 --> 0:45:04.480
<v Speaker 7>Like costumes also.

0:45:06.200 --> 0:45:08.480
<v Speaker 1>Well have you ever do you think wearing a costume

0:45:08.480 --> 0:45:09.480
<v Speaker 1>would make you feel happy?

0:45:09.880 --> 0:45:10.120
<v Speaker 3>Oh?

0:45:10.200 --> 0:45:13.839
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, definitely. I got a tiger, which I were every

0:45:13.960 --> 0:45:14.960
<v Speaker 7>year at Carnival.

0:45:15.640 --> 0:45:22.640
<v Speaker 1>Now I'm what what emotion? What about anger? Do you feel? Anger?

0:45:24.160 --> 0:45:30.439
<v Speaker 7>Not that often. Actually, it's more sadness than anger, which

0:45:30.480 --> 0:45:33.200
<v Speaker 7>I feel because I do a lot of sports. It's

0:45:33.000 --> 0:45:37.360
<v Speaker 7>maybe because of my workouts. I'm just calming down every

0:45:37.440 --> 0:45:40.239
<v Speaker 7>day so I never get on a high level or

0:45:40.360 --> 0:45:42.560
<v Speaker 7>it's never it never gets big.

0:45:44.880 --> 0:45:45.839
<v Speaker 1>What's your dream role?

0:45:47.160 --> 0:45:51.960
<v Speaker 7>Dream role? To be a GETU? That would be cool.

0:45:53.560 --> 0:45:56.600
<v Speaker 1>I think that would be cool too. It's fun being

0:45:56.600 --> 0:45:58.520
<v Speaker 1>a get go I guess.

0:45:58.520 --> 0:45:58.600
<v Speaker 2>So.

0:45:58.920 --> 0:45:59.520
<v Speaker 7>Isn't it hot?

0:46:00.160 --> 0:46:03.439
<v Speaker 1>It is hot, but I'm kind of getting used to it.

0:46:03.440 --> 0:46:06.000
<v Speaker 1>It's been chill talking to you. I've you're calming me

0:46:06.080 --> 0:46:08.359
<v Speaker 1>down a little bit. I feel like I've been out

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:09.520
<v Speaker 1>here for about two hours.

0:46:09.640 --> 0:46:12.040
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, something like that in here too.

0:46:12.600 --> 0:46:14.360
<v Speaker 1>You know you've been here for two hours? What have

0:46:14.440 --> 0:46:14.799
<v Speaker 1>you been doing.

0:46:14.880 --> 0:46:17.120
<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I was just memorizing texts.

0:46:17.520 --> 0:46:19.120
<v Speaker 1>Can you recite what you memorized at all?

0:46:19.400 --> 0:46:19.960
<v Speaker 7>You want to hear it?

0:46:20.000 --> 0:46:20.200
<v Speaker 3>Yeah?

0:46:20.280 --> 0:46:20.560
<v Speaker 1>Can I do.

0:46:22.120 --> 0:46:25.560
<v Speaker 7>It's like I'll have a bowl of your raising brand.

0:46:27.080 --> 0:46:36.040
<v Speaker 7>You want to share this? That was the first two lines,

0:46:36.719 --> 0:46:38.480
<v Speaker 7>and if you want to get the script, I can

0:46:38.520 --> 0:46:41.520
<v Speaker 7>give you and you can read a part.

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:44.120
<v Speaker 1>I think I'll wait until the final product is out

0:46:44.400 --> 0:46:48.040
<v Speaker 1>on TV. Is a Raisin brand commercial?

0:46:49.080 --> 0:46:53.400
<v Speaker 7>Almost? No, it's about that's from a script from Silver Linings.

0:46:53.560 --> 0:46:54.640
<v Speaker 7>Do you know the movie Say.

0:46:54.560 --> 0:46:55.400
<v Speaker 1>A Linings Playbook?

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:55.759
<v Speaker 7>Yeah?

0:46:56.080 --> 0:46:57.920
<v Speaker 1>Okay, I thought it was a Raisin brand commercial.

0:46:58.960 --> 0:47:04.760
<v Speaker 7>No, it's not that there. It's a long story. Okay,

0:47:05.080 --> 0:47:06.719
<v Speaker 7>put it away, did you?

0:47:08.840 --> 0:47:09.040
<v Speaker 3>Hmm?

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:10.959
<v Speaker 1>What are you feeling right now?

0:47:14.200 --> 0:47:18.319
<v Speaker 7>Column? I'm looking forward to to go to Panda Express after.

0:47:18.680 --> 0:47:22.400
<v Speaker 1>That's why I go after this really Yeah.

0:47:21.800 --> 0:47:24.319
<v Speaker 7>I love Panda I like Pan Express too.

0:47:25.000 --> 0:47:26.160
<v Speaker 5>That's just the.

0:47:26.040 --> 0:47:29.720
<v Speaker 7>Best fast food. I don't like to call it fast

0:47:29.760 --> 0:47:33.520
<v Speaker 7>food because there's rice and vegetables and vegetables.

0:47:33.560 --> 0:47:34.080
<v Speaker 1>Yeah.

0:47:33.760 --> 0:47:37.839
<v Speaker 7>Yes, I'm looking forward for this and I'm going out.

0:47:39.320 --> 0:47:41.400
<v Speaker 1>Thank you, meet you man, Thank you for talking to

0:47:41.440 --> 0:47:49.000
<v Speaker 1>a gecko. Hello is Ashley? Yes? How are you doing? Ashley?

0:47:50.000 --> 0:47:53.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm good. How are you get Ashley? It says here

0:47:53.840 --> 0:47:57.960
<v Speaker 1>that you're thirty three years old, you're from Texas. It

0:47:57.960 --> 0:48:03.799
<v Speaker 1>says you're having trouble dating on because it's hard to

0:48:03.920 --> 0:48:09.200
<v Speaker 1>get guys to actually meet up with you. Tell me

0:48:09.280 --> 0:48:13.560
<v Speaker 1>more about about this this issue that you were having

0:48:13.600 --> 0:48:14.200
<v Speaker 1>on Tender.

0:48:15.880 --> 0:48:18.120
<v Speaker 8>Well, I feel like it's not really the meeting up.

0:48:18.200 --> 0:48:21.560
<v Speaker 8>It's more like the communication and stuff. So like right now,

0:48:21.719 --> 0:48:25.040
<v Speaker 8>I have probably like sixty matches right, and none of

0:48:25.080 --> 0:48:29.520
<v Speaker 8>those sixty, I only have like five active conversations, like

0:48:29.600 --> 0:48:32.520
<v Speaker 8>five people that have actually messaged me or I've messaged

0:48:32.560 --> 0:48:37.560
<v Speaker 8>them first and they responded right, and it's like we'll

0:48:37.640 --> 0:48:40.520
<v Speaker 8>get to the point where we exchange numbers and then

0:48:40.560 --> 0:48:44.040
<v Speaker 8>it's like just the weirdest shit. Or like the main

0:48:44.160 --> 0:48:47.359
<v Speaker 8>thing that it seems really common is like I have roommates,

0:48:47.440 --> 0:48:48.919
<v Speaker 8>and then a lot of the guys that I would

0:48:48.920 --> 0:48:50.680
<v Speaker 8>talk out too are like I have roommates too, and

0:48:50.719 --> 0:48:53.160
<v Speaker 8>I'm like, WHOA, you can't come to my house And

0:48:53.120 --> 0:48:56.239
<v Speaker 8>I'm like, well you my house, and I'm like what

0:48:56.480 --> 0:49:00.320
<v Speaker 8>the It's like always something. Then there's these guys that

0:49:00.440 --> 0:49:03.600
<v Speaker 8>have like four or five kids, and you know, I

0:49:03.680 --> 0:49:08.560
<v Speaker 8>was like all this weird extra bultion. All I want

0:49:08.600 --> 0:49:13.279
<v Speaker 8>to do is just fucking really nice dude and like

0:49:13.680 --> 0:49:16.880
<v Speaker 8>chill and hang out and some boat and friendship together.

0:49:19.239 --> 0:49:22.080
<v Speaker 8>Happening to me And I'm wondering, isn't like.

0:49:24.239 --> 0:49:24.640
<v Speaker 2>This is a lot?

0:49:24.800 --> 0:49:26.839
<v Speaker 1>This is a lot going on? Here is going on here?

0:49:27.320 --> 0:49:29.920
<v Speaker 1>It's a lot, Ashley's a lot. There's a lot going

0:49:29.960 --> 0:49:32.160
<v Speaker 1>on here. Okay, So listen, first of all, the like

0:49:32.640 --> 0:49:36.440
<v Speaker 1>you off the gate, you started out with this roommate

0:49:36.760 --> 0:49:39.880
<v Speaker 1>thing about how he's got roomates. So you've got roommates.

0:49:39.960 --> 0:49:42.719
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, are you just looking to like are

0:49:42.760 --> 0:49:44.880
<v Speaker 1>you just like looking to like meet somebody off tin

0:49:45.200 --> 0:49:47.080
<v Speaker 1>Tinder and just like hook up with them? Are you

0:49:47.080 --> 0:49:49.080
<v Speaker 1>looking to like go out on dates?

0:49:49.080 --> 0:49:49.160
<v Speaker 2>Like?

0:49:49.200 --> 0:49:51.120
<v Speaker 1>What do you what do you actually like desire out

0:49:51.160 --> 0:49:53.560
<v Speaker 1>of your out of this experience?

0:49:55.880 --> 0:49:58.200
<v Speaker 8>Well, I mean, I'm open to both, but it's like

0:49:58.600 --> 0:50:02.600
<v Speaker 8>neither as you really have at the moment. I've only

0:50:02.640 --> 0:50:06.440
<v Speaker 8>been on tender for probably like three months, four months,

0:50:06.520 --> 0:50:08.160
<v Speaker 8>and I've actually met.

0:50:08.000 --> 0:50:08.279
<v Speaker 1>Up with.

0:50:10.239 --> 0:50:11.759
<v Speaker 8>Uh three guys.

0:50:12.640 --> 0:50:17.160
<v Speaker 1>Three guys was horrible? Yeah, well okay, all right, so

0:50:17.200 --> 0:50:20.040
<v Speaker 1>you've been up with three guys already. Okay, so so

0:50:20.200 --> 0:50:21.360
<v Speaker 1>why were they horrible?

0:50:23.160 --> 0:50:25.279
<v Speaker 8>Okay, the guy that I actually messed around it, I

0:50:25.280 --> 0:50:27.799
<v Speaker 8>think that's It's also like I now I may be

0:50:27.840 --> 0:50:30.120
<v Speaker 8>in maybe in my dream because the guy who actually

0:50:30.239 --> 0:50:34.000
<v Speaker 8>met up with he doesn't want to do the date

0:50:34.160 --> 0:50:39.240
<v Speaker 8>stuff and that's cool, but also the sex is fucking horrible.

0:50:40.000 --> 0:50:42.920
<v Speaker 8>And I was like, I'm the sucking open person, Like

0:50:42.960 --> 0:50:44.879
<v Speaker 8>I'm like, okay, we can try this, so we can

0:50:44.880 --> 0:50:47.040
<v Speaker 8>try that, and it's still just really worth it.

0:50:49.360 --> 0:50:49.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay.

0:50:50.200 --> 0:50:52.920
<v Speaker 1>The first guy, the sex was just bad. Yeah, what

0:50:53.239 --> 0:50:54.240
<v Speaker 1>about the other two guys?

0:50:54.440 --> 0:50:59.480
<v Speaker 8>Yeah, the other guy he was into like the kink

0:50:59.520 --> 0:51:05.319
<v Speaker 8>lifestyle and that he was into some stuff that I

0:51:05.400 --> 0:51:10.080
<v Speaker 8>just wasn't comfortable with basically like restraining me and doing

0:51:10.120 --> 0:51:12.480
<v Speaker 8>all this other kind of stuff like I do we

0:51:12.520 --> 0:51:14.759
<v Speaker 8>don't have to give the miller, but like that was

0:51:14.840 --> 0:51:17.239
<v Speaker 8>just beyond my comfort field. So that didn't work out.

0:51:17.920 --> 0:51:24.279
<v Speaker 1>Okay, difference in and sexual preference stuff. The third guy.

0:51:25.600 --> 0:51:30.080
<v Speaker 8>The third guy was fucking married. After we met, like

0:51:30.560 --> 0:51:33.720
<v Speaker 8>on the date, we met about this really nice little

0:51:34.000 --> 0:51:38.080
<v Speaker 8>restaurant and it was everything was going so great, Like

0:51:38.400 --> 0:51:44.239
<v Speaker 8>there was chemistry, the conversational, he was handsome. I was like, yeah,

0:51:44.320 --> 0:51:47.960
<v Speaker 8>it's a bit and then he's like yoh, so my wife.

0:51:48.000 --> 0:51:51.640
<v Speaker 8>I'm like, wait what you never what? Like, oh my god?

0:51:52.320 --> 0:51:53.800
<v Speaker 8>So that obviously didn't work.

0:51:54.640 --> 0:51:59.120
<v Speaker 1>Oh well, I mean listen, did he not? So he

0:51:59.120 --> 0:52:01.160
<v Speaker 1>didn't he didn't have included in his profile that he

0:52:01.239 --> 0:52:03.560
<v Speaker 1>was married, not at.

0:52:03.400 --> 0:52:05.240
<v Speaker 8>All, because why would I waste my time?

0:52:05.880 --> 0:52:10.480
<v Speaker 1>It's true? Okay, So not there these three guys worked out.

0:52:11.280 --> 0:52:15.399
<v Speaker 1>Uh listen, Ashley, it might just take you a little

0:52:15.400 --> 0:52:19.200
<v Speaker 1>bit of time to find the situation that you're looking for.

0:52:19.920 --> 0:52:23.200
<v Speaker 1>It might just be a numbers game for you, you

0:52:23.239 --> 0:52:26.719
<v Speaker 1>know what I'm saying. Okay, So I mean I would

0:52:26.719 --> 0:52:29.160
<v Speaker 1>just would I just wouldn't give up. And by the way,

0:52:29.920 --> 0:52:32.239
<v Speaker 1>let me tell you something. You're talking about how it's

0:52:33.000 --> 0:52:34.840
<v Speaker 1>it's hard to get guys to meet up with you.

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:40.680
<v Speaker 1>Every single man that you meet on tender h where

0:52:40.840 --> 0:52:45.440
<v Speaker 1>you want to sort of bring up the hey, let's

0:52:45.520 --> 0:52:49.480
<v Speaker 1>meet in person thing, you're making their lives a hell

0:52:49.520 --> 0:52:50.280
<v Speaker 1>of a lot easier.

0:52:52.280 --> 0:52:52.600
<v Speaker 8>Okay.

0:52:52.960 --> 0:52:54.759
<v Speaker 1>So I mean, look, if you want to take that

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<v Speaker 1>initiative to you know, say hey, let's meet up, everyone

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<v Speaker 1>you talk to about that will be you know, receptive

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<v Speaker 1>to it. If if my if my my predictions about uh,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, guys on Tinder are correct, h they'll they'll

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<v Speaker 1>they'll be happy to mat it with you. I mean, look,

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<v Speaker 1>stay safe, you know, don't meet up with anyone crazy

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<v Speaker 1>like vet people first, you know, yes, but uh, if

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<v Speaker 1>this is if, if that's what you want is to

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<v Speaker 1>meet up with a bunch of people so you can

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<v Speaker 1>find the right one and then feel free to take

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<v Speaker 1>that initiative instead of just kind of waiting around for

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<v Speaker 1>for it to happen. Is the thesis of what I'm saying.

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<v Speaker 8>That's really some of the risk. I really appreciate that

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<v Speaker 8>because I'm kind of waiting for them to come to me,

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<v Speaker 8>you know, like, oh, they'll message to me first, or

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<v Speaker 8>if they want to, they'll let me know. But I

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<v Speaker 8>think it's solid advice.

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<v Speaker 1>For yeah, fuck that, fuck all. Whatever the gender roles,

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<v Speaker 1>the guys gotta do the fucking just. If that's what

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<v Speaker 1>you want, just take the initiative for it.

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<v Speaker 8>Gotcha, good?

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<v Speaker 1>Good? What's your what's your name again?

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<v Speaker 8>Ashley?

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<v Speaker 5>Ashley?

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley? Good luck to you. Don't get in it where

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<v Speaker 1>a condom? They're female condoms, right, how does that work?

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<v Speaker 1>You just like put it in your.

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<v Speaker 8>I imagine it might be similar to way you know

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<v Speaker 8>they have those clips your period maybe something like that,

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<v Speaker 8>but it's like goes up in your eye. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 8>don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>Well I'm not so sure. You know, have fun, don't

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<v Speaker 1>get pregnant, or do if that's what you want, do

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<v Speaker 1>whatever you want. Uh? Mary is your name again?

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<v Speaker 5>Mary?

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<v Speaker 8>Actually back?

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<v Speaker 1>Ashley? Oh sorry, I'm bad.

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<v Speaker 8>You can stay you just stay awesome, stay sext back.

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<v Speaker 8>I appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you. Have a good rest of the night.

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<v Speaker 3>Never think.

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<v Speaker 1>It goes on the line, Think of your phone calls

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<v Speaker 1>every night.

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<v Speaker 3>Never think and goes to on his hide.

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<v Speaker 1>You're teaching you a cloud in the middle of your life,

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<v Speaker 1>but he's not ready.

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<v Speaker 5>An expert