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Speaker 1: episode was recorded in a real life over at Echo

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Speaker 1: I thought it was important to mention anyway. This was

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Speaker 1: a really fun episode to do. I love recording these

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Speaker 1: enjoy it, and let's get into it. Hello everyone, it

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Speaker 1: is a quiet day at a park. I've come here

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Speaker 1: I don't know if anyone is going to be down

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Speaker 1: to talk to me, but that's okay too. I could

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Speaker 1: of what's going on in life. So let's see what's up.

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Speaker 1: What's up?

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Speaker 2: Man?

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Speaker 3: Oh man, that's awesome. Hey, go ah you doing?

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Speaker 1: Don't go with your name Spike, Spike nice, that's a

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Speaker 1: fucking cool name.

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Speaker 3: Well, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So you guys are.

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Speaker 3: Agents, yeah, well bounty hunters.

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Speaker 1: Oh you bounty hunters? Yeah, a bounty hunter.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Can you explain what exactly that is?

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Speaker 3: Sure?

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Speaker 4: Uh, when somebody is arrested for a crime, I'm supposed

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Speaker 4: to go to trial. They place a bond and that

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Speaker 4: guarantees their appearance. Some people don't follow through. Bloke we're

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Speaker 4: after right now, women by drugging them. Jesus and his girlfriend,

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Speaker 4: his sister and her boyfriend put up one hundred thousand

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Speaker 4: dollars to get him out, Oh my god, and then

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Speaker 4: I just blow doors and so most of it's not

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Speaker 4: that exciting. You're just looking around and you're offering people

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Speaker 4: five thousand dollars to drop a dime on him until

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Speaker 4: you get the address. Then you go to the police station.

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Speaker 4: Let him know you'll be blowing in some doors. You

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Speaker 4: take your crew out. This is Badger over here.

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Speaker 1: Hello, Badger can talk, Bads. You want to talk after, well,

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Speaker 1: let's I want to hear it from you first.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, So we figure this guy is one of two places.

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Speaker 4: It's either being hidden by the girlfriend or he went

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Speaker 4: to Korea. If you went to Korea, it's pretty easy.

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Speaker 4: We got his career ID and you can't flush a

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Speaker 4: is a retired brigadier general of the Marine Corps. So

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Speaker 4: And I'll zip tie him and drag him into the

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Speaker 1: So what are you guys doing at the park?

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Speaker 4: I scream, Yeah, we just finished the cases in Puente Hills,

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Speaker 4: So we just got I live in Koreatown and so

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Speaker 1: So how long have you been spending trying to track

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Speaker 4: We have one hundred and eighty six days to find him,

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Speaker 4: and I would say, we're on about day twenty three.

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Speaker 1: You have one hundred and six days two hudred and

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Speaker 1: eighty six one hundred and six, you're on day twenty three.

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Speaker 1: Are you confident that you will find him?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So how are you like tracking him down again?

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Speaker 4: You were just like when he posts bail, the people

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Speaker 4: passports plate sorry heights, passports plate numbers, their friends, where

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Speaker 4: so what you do is you just go around and

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Speaker 4: like Spike just show up with a wanted poster for

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Speaker 1: So normally you offer them money to top.

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Speaker 3: Five thousand cash.

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Speaker 1: Wow, that could sway a lot of folks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, because normally one hundred thousand dollars bond will get

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Speaker 3: Oh wow, it's commission only if you will.

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Speaker 1: So this is it? You say, you only get paid

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Speaker 3: Honey, bet, if you get it done. Man.

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Speaker 1: So you so have you seem like you've been doing

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Speaker 1: this for a long time? Yeah, and in that period

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Speaker 3: Well, you treat every case the same.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and you have a procedure and you follow it

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Speaker 4: and you'll realize two out of three in.

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Speaker 3: The time window.

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Speaker 4: Now, sometimes the bail agent, the guy that put up

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Speaker 4: the bond, he may get an extension from the court.

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Speaker 4: See California, people don't realize what's happened out here. Okay,

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Speaker 4: for me, it's a money train, but for most people

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Speaker 4: it's terrifying because they've made the compliance requirements for bounty

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Speaker 4: does contractor just as paperwork. Almost no bounty hunters that

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Speaker 4: at thirty six months, if I shot you today and

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Speaker 4: then I go hide and she brings me my food

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Speaker 4: for long enough, They're gonna throw my file away and

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Speaker 3: It's going to be as if it never happened.

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Speaker 4: And that's going to go down to one year because

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Speaker 4: they change the laws where we can't operate here. There's

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Speaker 4: a few tenacious people, I spike will just get compliant.

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Speaker 4: I have to have a permit for my handcuffs. I

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Speaker 4: It's and I even have to do eight hours with

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Speaker 1: Does this guy know that you're out there?

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Speaker 3: Absolutely?

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Speaker 1: And so he's he's actively so he's actively hiding from me. Yes,

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Speaker 1: and so in your in your line of work, tell me,

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Speaker 1: like the moments where you have locked eyes on a person,

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Speaker 1: well physical idea, what is that like? That must be

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Speaker 3: Yeah, there's a lot of fun.

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Speaker 4: I'm getting a bit older now, I have some real

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Speaker 4: I've got Greedy, he's six eighty three hundred, and then

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Speaker 4: I got Samson. He looks like NFL running Back, except bigger.

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Speaker 4: It can happen one of two ways. One way you

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Speaker 4: they're worried about is that they're going to get their reward,

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Speaker 4: and you get the address, you run it immediately to

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Speaker 3: You go to the sheriff.

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Speaker 4: Station, you take in your warrant from the court to

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Speaker 4: You let him know where you're going to be lowing

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Speaker 1: So once you know where they're at, you're not going

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Speaker 4: No, the only time you end up with something alone

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Speaker 1: That happened, Yeah, what is that like?

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Speaker 4: Well, that's a ton of fun because people around aren't prepared.

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Speaker 4: You don't have anything in the cops station. You may

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Speaker 4: not have body armor on, so you just well you

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Speaker 4: charge them and you.

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Speaker 1: Charge at them.

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Speaker 3: Z time.

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Speaker 1: Do you have zip tares on you right now? Just

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Speaker 4: No, you know, my last pairs in the car and

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Speaker 4: says my body armor. But that'd be all right, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Up with the mic cord.

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Speaker 1: That would be amazing if he just like just was

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Speaker 3: We caught you.

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Speaker 4: You get these eyes from them and then you, you know,

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Speaker 1: Okay, So interesting, we're.

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Speaker 4: Pretty particular people that hurt children, women Capitol. I had

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Speaker 4: a great one, this guy, lovely fella. He was playing

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Speaker 4: and that's one hundred thousand, right. So I called John,

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Speaker 4: I said, you know, John, I think we can bring

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Speaker 4: trying for like seven and a half years.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you got to go where they covi it.

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Speaker 4: This guy covets his little sister and he's in Mexico

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Speaker 4: right now. And I'm not going to Gable of horror

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Speaker 4: for one hundred grand, thank you.

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Speaker 4: But when he comes back for her birthday party, then

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Speaker 4: Himcause FBI gets real perstiicty.

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Speaker 3: They like to get their own callers. They don't want

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Speaker 1: So you're an independent contract yes, right, And to these

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Speaker 1: organizations like the FBI today, how what's your relationship like

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Speaker 1: with them? Do you? They not like you.

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Speaker 4: I spent just today one hundred and twenty dollars at

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Speaker 4: California Donuts. Yeah, which Eli Vera, who has the most

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Speaker 4: to them. It's in La Oka, and so when you like,

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Speaker 4: we took it down to the cop shop and point

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Speaker 4: to hills, made sure they had a dozen California Donuts.

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Speaker 4: We got badger and delivering them. She's a lot prettier

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Speaker 4: than I am, and you got to share respect. It's

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Speaker 4: their feet to them. Yeah, And really, my biggest danger

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Speaker 4: because my my front plate will take a seven to

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Speaker 4: six to two point blank. But my back plate, you know,

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Speaker 4: you can penetrate it, and you can always catch.

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Speaker 3: This big you've gotten shot in.

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Speaker 4: The police are the biggest danger, not because they're bad blokes,

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Speaker 4: but when you got a large, funny looking fellow like

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Speaker 4: here not so long ago because he wasn't That's why

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Speaker 4: So this is a weird case because he could turn

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Speaker 3: It's not one that'll extradite from a foreign country.

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Speaker 3: Anyway, we went by.

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Speaker 3: You won't know how we found him. We'll be back

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Speaker 4: Okay, I mean have him called. It is diurney before

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Speaker 3: You know?

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Speaker 4: How to get him do the right thing? You just

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, yeah, that's that's crazy.

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Speaker 3: I mean, you think she should stay with him?

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Speaker 3: All right, so she probably ought to move on. She

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, she probably give him, give him up.

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Speaker 1: Man, these are wild. So you're you're, you're you must

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Speaker 3: Oh, that's a probably a fair statement.

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Speaker 4: We get the true flawtsom which is nice tonight. On

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Speaker 1: And you get a deep sense of pride from doing that.

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Speaker 4: No, I get a deep of paycheck. So you know,

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: When all I know how to do is blow things

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Speaker 1: And you, if you're going to blow things up and

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Speaker 4: I do personal protection, but I'm not good with the

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Speaker 4: You know the stars that you've got to escalades driving

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Speaker 4: In Israel, well, I'm growing out in my beard, okay,

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Speaker 4: That way, he's got a fifty percent greater chance of

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Speaker 4: He wrote a book about Islam that was deemed defensive,

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Speaker 3: Fought kill order on him.

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Speaker 4: Oh Jesus, So I get to see the Holy Land,

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Speaker 4: and if I can keep him alive, it'll be a bonus.

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Speaker 1: Well, so you're defending somebody who has a fatwall on them. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: did he pay you to defend them?

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Speaker 4: I'd like to keep him alive because he seems like

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Speaker 1: That's awesome. Are you deeply religious?

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Speaker 3: No, I'm not religious. I'm Christian. It's completely different.

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Speaker 3: God Jesus once you're born again. It's profound.

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Speaker 4: I live my life for him rather than fit him

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we know the guidelines that.

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Speaker 1: Oh I'm on a YouTube thing?

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Speaker 3: Seriously?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Well, if this one publishes Spike likes the Gecko, I

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Speaker 1: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 1: If I if I, if anyone ever calls a fatwa

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Speaker 1: talk to you badger you guys, busy Okay, no worries,

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Speaker 1: I got it. Thank you very much, man, I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Take care of Spike. But that was pretty wild, see

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Speaker 1: that's not a metaphor for life, then what is. We're

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Speaker 2: Crazy though, because like please, I'd listen to you constantly

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Speaker 2: streams you. Yeah, I've tried calling in so many times.

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Speaker 1: Okay, now here now that we're okay, this is perfect.

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Speaker 2: But this is wild.

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Speaker 1: This is perfect because now that we're here, what is

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Speaker 1: want to talk about that we can do? This is better.

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Speaker 1: We can do it in face to face.

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Speaker 1: Like I'm going to get to the fucking bottom of

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Speaker 2: This is unreal.

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Speaker 1: What is what is your life like? Because give me

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Speaker 2: All right, So this is my beautiful girlfriend.

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Speaker 1: That's wonderful. Hello, nice to meet you.

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Speaker 2: I work, I build closets, Okay, pretty simple life. I

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Speaker 1: Okay?

447
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Speaker 2: Ah, fuck more so?

448
00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:09,040
Speaker 1: Hold on, No, I'm here, I'm with you. I should

449
00:19:09,040 --> 00:19:10,920
Speaker 1: brought water. Can you have any water?

450
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Speaker 4: No?

451
00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:12,600
Speaker 2: We had water.

452
00:19:12,680 --> 00:19:14,600
Speaker 1: Okay, We'll be fine. We can swallow our own spit,

453
00:19:14,680 --> 00:19:17,720
Speaker 1: clear our throws that way throat throats, I said throats,

454
00:19:17,920 --> 00:19:19,879
Speaker 1: which would be a good plural for the words throat.

455
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Speaker 1: You live a minimalistic lifestyle, but you were striving for more,

456
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Speaker 1: that's what you were saying.

457
00:19:23,320 --> 00:19:25,959
Speaker 2: No, it's not minimalistic. I spend a lot of money

458
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Speaker 2: at hobbies.

459
00:19:27,080 --> 00:19:31,119
Speaker 1: Okay, and stuff like that. Okay, but you would say simple,

460
00:19:31,680 --> 00:19:32,840
Speaker 1: simple for the most part.

461
00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:33,120
Speaker 2: Yeah.

462
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:35,760
Speaker 1: Okay. Now, when you when you say you're striving for more,

463
00:19:36,359 --> 00:19:40,679
Speaker 1: could you put towards at all? What that more would be?

464
00:19:41,480 --> 00:19:44,960
Speaker 2: Definitely more money, more money, striving for more money.

465
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Speaker 1: Okay, you spend a lot of money. You're striving for

466
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Speaker 1: more money. What do you do now? You build closes?

467
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Speaker 1: Can you make a lot of money building closets?

468
00:19:54,240 --> 00:19:57,399
Speaker 2: Not at the pace that I'm at, okay, but definitely

469
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Speaker 2: in the future. If I keep going with it, okay,

470
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Speaker 2: I would be able to get to a certain point

471
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Speaker 2: where I would be making a lot more money than

472
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Speaker 2: I am now.

473
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Speaker 1: Okay, and this money, you said you spend a lot

474
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Speaker 1: of money. What do you spend money on?

475
00:20:09,840 --> 00:20:12,320
Speaker 2: Do you know what? You know what Funko pops are?

476
00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:13,080
Speaker 1: Yes? I do know.

477
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Speaker 2: Funk Oh dude, I have. I have quite a few

478
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Speaker 2: of those. I think I have like ninety.

479
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Speaker 1: Five of them with ninety five Funko pops.

480
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Speaker 2: But my whole collection value is worth like five grand.

481
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Speaker 1: I think these Funko pops? H Do they give you

482
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Speaker 1: great joy in life?

483
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Speaker 2: Yes?

484
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Speaker 1: You said that instantly, you didn't have to think about it.

485
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Speaker 2: Nope.

486
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Speaker 1: And so you said you want more money. Yeah, if

487
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Speaker 1: you got more money, would you spend it on more

488
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Speaker 1: Funko pops?

489
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Speaker 2: No? No, probably not maybe every once in a while,

490
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Speaker 2: But I mainly want to start saving up more money

491
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Speaker 2: to start traveling.

492
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Speaker 1: To start traveling, okay, you need to save up money

493
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Speaker 1: for a gigantic suitcase so that you can bring all

494
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Speaker 1: the Funko pops with you when you go. Yeah, okay, yeah,

495
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Speaker 1: you want to start traveling, where do you ian?

496
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Speaker 2: I go A couple of places that I have in

497
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Speaker 2: mind are like Japan, I'm gonna go to Japan. I

498
00:21:05,920 --> 00:21:07,760
Speaker 2: want to go to Egypt Cairo.

499
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Speaker 1: Do they have rare funko pops and that you can

500
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Speaker 1: only get in Egypt in Cairo? Or am I overestimating

501
00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:15,800
Speaker 1: the place that funko pops take in your life?

502
00:21:15,920 --> 00:21:19,520
Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, a little bit of an overestimation. I mainly

503
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Speaker 2: want to go because of you know how pretty all

504
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Speaker 2: the spaces are.

505
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Speaker 1: Ok Uh these funko pops you without hesitation answered very

506
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Speaker 1: confidently that they give you great joy in life? Could

507
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Speaker 1: you explain why.

508
00:21:35,040 --> 00:21:42,080
Speaker 2: It's more so? Uh, ship, this is okay because it

509
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Speaker 2: kinda reaches just pressed the button.

510
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Speaker 1: Oh no, there's no way.

511
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Speaker 3: He let me.

512
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Speaker 1: Let me see that, ruth Like, there we go, beful,

513
00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:52,480
Speaker 1: there we go.

514
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so, I guess it's more so hinting towards like

515
00:21:58,640 --> 00:22:01,919
Speaker 2: childhood stuff coming from a little bit of a poor family,

516
00:22:02,840 --> 00:22:05,880
Speaker 2: buying myself things that I couldn't necessarily have as a kid.

517
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Speaker 1: M okay, and buying yourself things that you couldn't have

518
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Speaker 1: as a kid gives you fulfillment? Yes, are you just

519
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Speaker 1: like stuff from your childhood? In general? Do you have

520
00:22:17,080 --> 00:22:18,560
Speaker 1: a lot of sort of childhood toys.

521
00:22:20,240 --> 00:22:23,879
Speaker 2: Yeah, I have a lot of Legos, a lot of

522
00:22:23,880 --> 00:22:27,200
Speaker 2: comic books, a lot of funk pops.

523
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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, you want more money to travel? What is

524
00:22:31,760 --> 00:22:33,280
Speaker 1: between you and making more money?

525
00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:37,440
Speaker 2: I'm trying to balance school right now too.

526
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:39,040
Speaker 1: Oh you go to school so well?

527
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:41,760
Speaker 2: Not fully, but I'm trying to get myself back into

528
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Speaker 2: the groove.

529
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Speaker 1: What do you do at school?

530
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:45,320
Speaker 3: Ship?

531
00:22:45,480 --> 00:22:49,880
Speaker 2: Right now? I'm just trying to build up enough credits

532
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Speaker 2: at my community college so I can transfer into like

533
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:55,240
Speaker 2: a regular state school.

534
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Speaker 1: Okay, And then you want to does that like lead

535
00:22:58,359 --> 00:23:00,399
Speaker 1: you to a major that you want to do that

536
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:01,320
Speaker 1: gets you into career?

537
00:23:01,320 --> 00:23:02,920
Speaker 5: You want to do business?

538
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 2: Uh? Business and business management?

539
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:07,240
Speaker 1: Business and business management? What what do you want to

540
00:23:07,280 --> 00:23:08,240
Speaker 1: do in business business?

541
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Speaker 2: I definitely want to open up my own store sometime

542
00:23:12,400 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 2: some day.

543
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Speaker 1: What kind of store is it related? Really?

544
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Speaker 2: Okay?

545
00:23:18,119 --> 00:23:19,120
Speaker 1: I want a comic book store.

546
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like I want to build or not build, but

547
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Speaker 2: I want to make like a safe space for a

548
00:23:24,400 --> 00:23:26,960
Speaker 2: lot of people that are into stuff like that. So

549
00:23:27,000 --> 00:23:30,520
Speaker 2: I wanted to kind of I want to sell comics collectibles,

550
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Speaker 2: and I want like the store to open up during

551
00:23:33,680 --> 00:23:37,600
Speaker 2: certain hours and then after after hours. It would be

552
00:23:37,800 --> 00:23:41,119
Speaker 2: like a place where people can go and play games

553
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:44,160
Speaker 2: like dragons, like card games and shit like that.

554
00:23:44,320 --> 00:23:47,359
Speaker 1: Now you said you mentioned safe space. Now you you

555
00:23:47,400 --> 00:23:50,520
Speaker 1: seem like you are more interested in the community aspect

556
00:23:50,560 --> 00:23:54,040
Speaker 1: of this than just the you know, the toys tell

557
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:58,760
Speaker 1: me growing up or just even now in your regular life.

558
00:23:59,160 --> 00:24:03,520
Speaker 1: These things you identify with comic books, funkal pops. Have

559
00:24:03,680 --> 00:24:10,320
Speaker 1: you found yourself? I guess at the subject of scrutiny

560
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:15,520
Speaker 1: for your your liking of them, and that is propelling

561
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Speaker 1: you to want to make a place where people who

562
00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:22,199
Speaker 1: enjoy them can all come together. Yeah, i'd say, so, okay,

563
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:25,000
Speaker 1: what kinds of scrutiny?

564
00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:30,120
Speaker 2: I don't know, not entirely sure if what that word means, but.

565
00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,040
Speaker 1: Like shit, you know, like like you said, a safe space,

566
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,480
Speaker 1: space where I guess that implies people won't get made

567
00:24:35,520 --> 00:24:37,320
Speaker 1: fun of when they're doing you know.

568
00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:41,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, no, well yeah, because I know that a lot

569
00:24:41,280 --> 00:24:46,600
Speaker 2: of people like look upon people who are really into

570
00:24:46,600 --> 00:24:49,800
Speaker 2: that and are like, oh, your fucking nerd, and like,

571
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:52,399
Speaker 2: go do that in like a private space, like we

572
00:24:52,440 --> 00:24:54,960
Speaker 2: don't want to see you. Sure, because like if you like,

573
00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:59,399
Speaker 2: most of the people that like walk into like a

574
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Speaker 2: coffee show or something like that. They're they're just like

575
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,280
Speaker 2: if you see someone playing a game like that and

576
00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:06,760
Speaker 2: they're like, why the fuck are you doing this here?

577
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:10,520
Speaker 2: M So I want I want to have a space

578
00:25:10,560 --> 00:25:14,720
Speaker 2: for people to just go not feel like ashamed for

579
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Speaker 2: doing things that they like.

580
00:25:15,920 --> 00:25:16,160
Speaker 3: Yeah?

581
00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, have you often felt ashamed for doing things that

582
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:18,840
Speaker 1: you like?

583
00:25:20,320 --> 00:25:23,840
Speaker 2: Sometimes? Sometimes if I'm like in a bookstore, if I'm

584
00:25:23,880 --> 00:25:26,480
Speaker 2: in like the comic book section, shit like that, I

585
00:25:26,480 --> 00:25:28,720
Speaker 2: feel like people have wondering judged the eyes.

586
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Speaker 1: Hmmm. It's interesting to hear you say that, because I'm

587
00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,560
Speaker 1: the My favorite part of this interaction has been you answered.

588
00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:40,120
Speaker 1: You answered the question of if these funkl PROCs bring

589
00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:41,760
Speaker 1: these Funkle pops, if they bring Jordan your live you

590
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,280
Speaker 1: answer immediately, You're like yes, and there's no has I

591
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:48,160
Speaker 1: can tell that they really do. And that's a happiness

592
00:25:48,480 --> 00:25:50,120
Speaker 1: that I think a lot of the people that are

593
00:25:50,160 --> 00:25:52,600
Speaker 1: ashamed that you know what might be giving you those

594
00:25:52,720 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 1: those eyes that maybe you feel used to. They they're

595
00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:01,840
Speaker 1: envious of of that. Perhaps possibly you know that's great

596
00:26:01,880 --> 00:26:03,960
Speaker 1: that you have this this jewel thing that gives you

597
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:06,240
Speaker 1: a lot of joy and you want to open up

598
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,760
Speaker 1: a place where other people can celebrate their joy of

599
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:10,520
Speaker 1: that thing. And I hope you do it.

600
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Speaker 2: I mean too.

601
00:26:12,480 --> 00:26:14,800
Speaker 1: It's probably gonna cost a lot of money. Probably you

602
00:26:14,840 --> 00:26:17,000
Speaker 1: don't have to sell the Funko pops. Probably, but you

603
00:26:17,000 --> 00:26:18,159
Speaker 1: would rather die, wouldn't you.

604
00:26:18,680 --> 00:26:19,080
Speaker 2: Yeah?

605
00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:20,280
Speaker 1: What's your name?

606
00:26:20,480 --> 00:26:20,760
Speaker 2: Drew?

607
00:26:21,000 --> 00:26:23,760
Speaker 1: Thank you for talking about echo, Drew. I appreciate you, man,

608
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:29,960
Speaker 1: appreciate you too. I liked that guy. I could sense

609
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:36,080
Speaker 1: some nervousness from him, some apprehension from him, but I

610
00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:38,800
Speaker 1: really want to get I really wanted to get to

611
00:26:38,840 --> 00:26:45,639
Speaker 1: the core of his emotions, his views, his feelings. And

612
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:49,000
Speaker 1: I think we did. And I think he showed up

613
00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:54,240
Speaker 1: not having anything to say, and then subconsciously reveal things

614
00:26:54,280 --> 00:26:57,959
Speaker 1: that he wanted to say, and then we tried to

615
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Speaker 1: get him to say more about the things. I have

616
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,080
Speaker 1: a seat. Nice to meet you. What's your name?

617
00:27:03,000 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 5: My brother is a big fan of you.

618
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:04,400
Speaker 2: Oh?

619
00:27:04,520 --> 00:27:05,159
Speaker 1: Hell yeah.

620
00:27:05,240 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 6: I send him a picture of you right now, and

621
00:27:06,560 --> 00:27:08,040
Speaker 6: he's like, you gotta go talk to him, like he's

622
00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:08,560
Speaker 6: super cool.

623
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:10,879
Speaker 1: Fucky. All right, let's do it. Let's let's have a

624
00:27:10,880 --> 00:27:13,800
Speaker 1: little chat for your brother. Augustine.

625
00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 5: Augustine, Yeah, what's your life life?

626
00:27:15,800 --> 00:27:16,240
Speaker 2: Huh?

627
00:27:16,320 --> 00:27:19,520
Speaker 5: My name is Lyle Lyle nice meets man too.

628
00:27:19,560 --> 00:27:20,320
Speaker 1: What's your life like?

629
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Speaker 5: Uh like, what do you mean like in general general?

630
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:24,119
Speaker 1: Yeah?

631
00:27:24,160 --> 00:27:24,680
Speaker 2: Pretty good?

632
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:25,320
Speaker 5: Pretty good.

633
00:27:25,640 --> 00:27:26,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm pretty young.

634
00:27:26,720 --> 00:27:28,400
Speaker 6: It could be better, you know, like I'm still looking

635
00:27:28,400 --> 00:27:31,640
Speaker 6: for a career and whatnot. But yeah, pretty good so far.

636
00:27:31,840 --> 00:27:34,400
Speaker 1: Okay, So there's a lot of like you said, you're yeah,

637
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:36,840
Speaker 1: how old are you? I'm twenty two two? And there's

638
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:40,360
Speaker 1: a question marks, yes, out in the distance, a lot

639
00:27:40,359 --> 00:27:42,160
Speaker 1: of question marks. How are you feeling when you see

640
00:27:42,200 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: those questions marks on the distance?

641
00:27:44,960 --> 00:27:48,560
Speaker 6: Pretty worrisome? But I'm pretty optimistic about it. You know,

642
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,960
Speaker 6: I'm still pretty young, so I feel that I have

643
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 6: a lot of time to figure things out and to

644
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:55,600
Speaker 6: experiment with a few career options and whatnot. Right now,

645
00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:58,359
Speaker 6: I'm actually into photography, so I'm hoping to start a

646
00:27:58,359 --> 00:28:01,600
Speaker 6: photography business, maybe getting to wedding photography.

647
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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

648
00:28:02,440 --> 00:28:03,160
Speaker 1: Is that what's in there?

649
00:28:03,240 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's what's in here here? Yeah?

650
00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,840
Speaker 1: Okay, what's been what's been uh exciting to you about

651
00:28:10,240 --> 00:28:11,320
Speaker 1: photographing things?

652
00:28:11,600 --> 00:28:13,160
Speaker 5: I just like it's just a passion of mine.

653
00:28:13,160 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 6: I like editing photos specifically, I like wedding photography.

654
00:28:16,280 --> 00:28:17,040
Speaker 5: That's my thing, you.

655
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Speaker 1: Know, And why wedding. Is there any aside from the

656
00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,160
Speaker 1: fact that it's probably the most lucrative form of photography.

657
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:25,159
Speaker 1: Is there anything that you enjoy about it? Do you?

658
00:28:25,640 --> 00:28:28,399
Speaker 1: Are you like captivated by love?

659
00:28:29,840 --> 00:28:30,199
Speaker 2: Uh?

660
00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:33,680
Speaker 6: Yeah, i'd say so. I just like the events, wedding events.

661
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:36,440
Speaker 6: I just like the atmosphere, you know, like everyone's always happy,

662
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,320
Speaker 6: everyone's smiling, and uh yeah, and it's.

663
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Speaker 5: Just it's just a fun time.

664
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Speaker 6: I actually shot a few wedding photography gigs here and there,

665
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Speaker 6: and yeah, it was.

666
00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:44,880
Speaker 5: The time of my life.

667
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Speaker 1: When it's been about four hours, they're slowly packing things up.

668
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:53,600
Speaker 1: You've gotten all the footage that you need. Do you

669
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Speaker 1: sneak any food? Yeah? Of course, Okay you have to.

670
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Speaker 1: What's the best thing you've eaten in one of these weddings?

671
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Speaker 1: Best thing I've only been to like his fanic weddings,

672
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Speaker 1: So the best thing. It's probably just like tacos or

673
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,520
Speaker 1: like some kindness out that's some steak, you know what

674
00:29:05,600 --> 00:29:09,040
Speaker 1: I mean, some stuff like that. But yeah, I haven't

675
00:29:09,040 --> 00:29:11,760
Speaker 1: tried any cakes though from weddings. I like hearing you

676
00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,240
Speaker 1: say why you like wedding photography? That was a good answer.

677
00:29:14,240 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: You were like, everyone's happy, it's a good vibe. It's

678
00:29:17,520 --> 00:29:21,640
Speaker 1: it's your your photographing just the positive energy, right, and

679
00:29:21,680 --> 00:29:23,920
Speaker 1: you're trying to capture that in the in the photos.

680
00:29:24,880 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: Do you hope to one day get married?

681
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:30,960
Speaker 6: Yeah, of course, I think of course I say that now,

682
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:34,280
Speaker 6: but probably not for like the next ten years or so.

683
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: Okay, yeah, what about you, man, Man, I have I

684
00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,920
Speaker 1: have a complicated relationship with relationships in general, you know,

685
00:29:41,120 --> 00:29:44,120
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know, man, I like, I love

686
00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 1: I have great friends and I love them, and I

687
00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,440
Speaker 1: have great family and I love them. And then think

688
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 1: about like romantic relationships, is that like they're just they're tricky,

689
00:29:53,240 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 1: you know, they're they're tricky for everyone. You know. Uh,

690
00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,000
Speaker 1: my relationship with my family though, it's it feels less,

691
00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,040
Speaker 1: feels more solid, and then you know, those are relationships

692
00:30:03,080 --> 00:30:05,200
Speaker 1: that have been around forever. And to then take a

693
00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:07,760
Speaker 1: new person and be like I'm trying to get you

694
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:11,400
Speaker 1: on the same level as like my mom or whatever,

695
00:30:11,480 --> 00:30:13,520
Speaker 1: like a person that I've known forever. I mean, that's

696
00:30:14,000 --> 00:30:15,960
Speaker 1: it's a hefty task, you know, if that if that's

697
00:30:16,000 --> 00:30:16,720
Speaker 1: the ultimate goal.

698
00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:20,440
Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, no, for sure, especially just finding trust in

699
00:30:20,480 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 6: someone you know.

700
00:30:21,000 --> 00:30:22,200
Speaker 1: Just like, yeah, if you think about it.

701
00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:24,600
Speaker 6: It's a stranger that you're meeting totally and you're slowly

702
00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:25,480
Speaker 6: getting to know each other.

703
00:30:25,520 --> 00:30:28,440
Speaker 5: It's it's very it's anxious. It's all anxiety.

704
00:30:28,480 --> 00:30:28,560
Speaker 2: Right.

705
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Speaker 1: Do you how trusting of a person are you? Just

706
00:30:31,520 --> 00:30:32,040
Speaker 1: in general?

707
00:30:32,800 --> 00:30:37,320
Speaker 5: I'm pretty trusting, probably too good for my own Like, has.

708
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:41,040
Speaker 1: There been a time where you have been very trusting

709
00:30:41,800 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: and it is backfired on you?

710
00:30:44,800 --> 00:30:49,320
Speaker 6: That's a yes, I forgive more than you know, I

711
00:30:49,320 --> 00:30:50,440
Speaker 6: forgive more than I should.

712
00:30:50,680 --> 00:30:53,520
Speaker 1: I guess really yeah, and you don't. You don't have

713
00:30:53,520 --> 00:30:55,320
Speaker 1: to tell me if you can't think of anything or

714
00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,400
Speaker 1: don't want to share. But has there been a time

715
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 1: where you feel like you forgave and you shouldn't?

716
00:31:03,880 --> 00:31:06,400
Speaker 6: It's more Yeah, this is I don't want to share

717
00:31:06,400 --> 00:31:09,320
Speaker 6: it too much. But yeah, there's been situations where yeah,

718
00:31:09,440 --> 00:31:11,440
Speaker 6: sure it's been like that, But I don't think it's

719
00:31:11,440 --> 00:31:14,080
Speaker 6: more about like me forgiving the person. That's just like

720
00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 6: trying to forgive myself. A communicating with a person. Sometimes

721
00:31:18,160 --> 00:31:20,920
Speaker 6: someone doesn't want to be have that conversation with you,

722
00:31:20,920 --> 00:31:22,239
Speaker 6: you know what I mean. Let's say like you do

723
00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,640
Speaker 6: X and Y, you do something bad. We're not bad

724
00:31:24,680 --> 00:31:28,280
Speaker 6: in general, just like something that makes a person makes

725
00:31:28,320 --> 00:31:30,200
Speaker 6: like the relationship you know, all tangled, dip and messed up.

726
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:30,680
Speaker 1: Sure yea.

727
00:31:31,040 --> 00:31:34,479
Speaker 6: And the way I approach it is like, I'm not

728
00:31:34,520 --> 00:31:37,040
Speaker 6: trying to get your forgiveness. I need to forgive myself.

729
00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:40,760
Speaker 6: I want to apologize, I'm in the wrong, YadA, YadA YadA. Yeah,

730
00:31:40,800 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 6: but I have to figure myself at the end of

731
00:31:42,240 --> 00:31:44,000
Speaker 6: the day. And if you can accept my forgiveness, then

732
00:31:44,000 --> 00:31:44,680
Speaker 6: I'm okay for that.

733
00:31:45,120 --> 00:31:46,960
Speaker 1: You know. That's uh. I like. I like that way

734
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: of thinking because you can't control whatever. But you can't

735
00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,320
Speaker 1: you you have no control you are I like that

736
00:31:52,360 --> 00:31:55,840
Speaker 1: because your brain is operating solely within the things that

737
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 1: you can control. You can control, You apologize, you do

738
00:31:58,880 --> 00:32:02,040
Speaker 1: the best you can to make, you know, to make

739
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,080
Speaker 1: amends with a person, and then from there it's you know,

740
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:09,040
Speaker 1: you can't make them forgive you, but you can forgive yourself.

741
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:09,680
Speaker 2: Yeah.

742
00:32:09,800 --> 00:32:13,960
Speaker 1: I like that because it's uh. Again, it's it's dealing

743
00:32:14,040 --> 00:32:15,840
Speaker 1: heavily with the things that are within your control.

744
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,360
Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like a It's like stoicism.

745
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:19,320
Speaker 1: It's very much.

746
00:32:19,880 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah.

747
00:32:20,640 --> 00:32:22,520
Speaker 1: Do you are you into stock philosophy?

748
00:32:22,720 --> 00:32:25,760
Speaker 6: I'm into it, but I think that following it, like

749
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,840
Speaker 6: heart to heart, like you know, like hardcore hardcore is

750
00:32:28,880 --> 00:32:32,040
Speaker 6: like too extreme and you're basically a psychopath at that point.

751
00:32:32,120 --> 00:32:33,960
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, I like part of me wants

752
00:32:34,000 --> 00:32:36,880
Speaker 1: to get there, man, Like well not even just I

753
00:32:36,880 --> 00:32:39,600
Speaker 1: think stoicism in the form of like I have no

754
00:32:39,720 --> 00:32:43,640
Speaker 1: emotions or I don't connect with people is like I don't.

755
00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:47,959
Speaker 1: I don't think that that's what stoicism is necessarily, but

756
00:32:48,000 --> 00:32:51,760
Speaker 1: like little things like that, like being a master at

757
00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:55,720
Speaker 1: worrying about things that are within my control and not

758
00:32:55,800 --> 00:32:57,680
Speaker 1: worrying about things that aren't. Yeah, that kind of that

759
00:32:57,760 --> 00:33:00,560
Speaker 1: kind of know, I enjoy that idea so much, way

760
00:33:00,600 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 1: more than all the other ones, like nihilism and everything

761
00:33:02,640 --> 00:33:04,960
Speaker 1: like that. It's also negative, you know, It's just like,

762
00:33:05,360 --> 00:33:07,560
Speaker 1: you know, we're humans. You know, you can only control

763
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:10,520
Speaker 1: what you can you can control. Have you had I'm

764
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 1: gonna wait into the ice cream truck passes. Sure, when

765
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:17,480
Speaker 1: I'm done with this, I'm chasing that guy down.

766
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 5: He's been walking around for a minute.

767
00:33:19,280 --> 00:33:20,760
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I know I'm gonna find him because he's

768
00:33:20,800 --> 00:33:23,600
Speaker 1: got this freaking bugs bunny flavored thing that I'm I

769
00:33:23,640 --> 00:33:28,000
Speaker 1: got my eye on. Have you in the past been

770
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:31,400
Speaker 1: drawn to any of these more negative philosophies. Have you

771
00:33:31,400 --> 00:33:32,920
Speaker 1: been nihilistic in the past.

772
00:33:33,000 --> 00:33:35,200
Speaker 6: Especially after a breakup or something, you know what I mean? Okay,

773
00:33:35,440 --> 00:33:37,000
Speaker 6: like what else can you do? You just have to

774
00:33:37,040 --> 00:33:39,360
Speaker 6: be hating the world, like, oh, I hate I hate this,

775
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:41,280
Speaker 6: you know, like nothing's gonna change.

776
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,360
Speaker 1: How did you get yourself out of that nihilistic point?

777
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:46,080
Speaker 1: Unto you seem I don't know you very well, but

778
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:50,000
Speaker 1: you seem like you're you don't seem very nihilistic to me. Yeah, no,

779
00:33:50,120 --> 00:33:51,280
Speaker 1: how did you get yourself out of that?

780
00:33:51,360 --> 00:33:51,560
Speaker 2: Yeah?

781
00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:55,040
Speaker 5: Thank you? I don't know you just you know, do

782
00:33:55,160 --> 00:33:56,040
Speaker 5: things that you like to do.

783
00:33:56,800 --> 00:33:59,240
Speaker 6: For me, what really helped me with just communicating with friends,

784
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 6: with family, really spending time by yourself and getting to

785
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,880
Speaker 6: know yourself, what your faults are when you could be

786
00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:08,160
Speaker 6: better at you know. Yeah, you're just like doing things

787
00:34:08,160 --> 00:34:11,160
Speaker 6: that you can enjoy. Yeah, that's my thing.

788
00:34:12,680 --> 00:34:15,280
Speaker 1: And so these let's go back to these question marks.

789
00:34:16,040 --> 00:34:19,279
Speaker 1: You're experimenting with photography. What else you're you experimenting with

790
00:34:19,719 --> 00:34:20,040
Speaker 1: right now?

791
00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:23,400
Speaker 6: I'm experimenting with CSI crime scene investigations.

792
00:34:23,520 --> 00:34:27,479
Speaker 1: Crime scene investigation, Yes, sir, that's the I guess that's

793
00:34:27,520 --> 00:34:31,440
Speaker 1: sort of in a in a similar ish realm of photography.

794
00:34:31,480 --> 00:34:33,160
Speaker 1: I was about to say that they have absolutely nothing

795
00:34:33,200 --> 00:34:33,839
Speaker 1: to do with each other.

796
00:34:33,880 --> 00:34:36,880
Speaker 6: But there's forends of photography, you know, like when you

797
00:34:36,880 --> 00:34:38,440
Speaker 6: go to crime scenes and they take the photos of

798
00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:39,279
Speaker 6: the dead bodies and stuff.

799
00:34:39,280 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: Would that be like your ship?

800
00:34:41,400 --> 00:34:43,520
Speaker 5: I tried it and it's pretty interesting.

801
00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:43,920
Speaker 2: I like it.

802
00:34:44,000 --> 00:34:45,440
Speaker 1: What do you mean you tried it? Where do you

803
00:34:45,480 --> 00:34:47,279
Speaker 1: go to try out photograph?

804
00:34:47,360 --> 00:34:50,520
Speaker 6: And just like internships, you know, courses and whatnot.

805
00:34:50,640 --> 00:34:52,400
Speaker 1: I don't know if you're like going to get training

806
00:34:52,600 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 1: the police.

807
00:34:53,920 --> 00:34:55,359
Speaker 5: Not like a vigilanta or nothing like that.

808
00:34:55,840 --> 00:34:59,520
Speaker 1: Okay, what is inspiring to you about crime scene investigation?

809
00:35:00,040 --> 00:35:00,800
Speaker 5: I just like the service.

810
00:35:00,880 --> 00:35:04,080
Speaker 6: I like the idea of going to a place, looking

811
00:35:04,120 --> 00:35:07,680
Speaker 6: at all the evidence and using it to someday collect

812
00:35:08,000 --> 00:35:09,719
Speaker 6: enough evidence to like convict the bad guy, you know

813
00:35:09,760 --> 00:35:12,880
Speaker 6: what I mean. And it's a it's a very it's

814
00:35:12,920 --> 00:35:15,840
Speaker 6: a very humbling position too. So it's a very humbling

815
00:35:15,880 --> 00:35:18,560
Speaker 6: position too, because you know, you're surrounded by hard things,

816
00:35:18,600 --> 00:35:21,200
Speaker 6: you're surrounded by negative things all the time, and somehow

817
00:35:21,239 --> 00:35:22,960
Speaker 6: you have to get the job done and do what

818
00:35:23,000 --> 00:35:25,919
Speaker 6: you have to do to like comfort a victim or

819
00:35:26,320 --> 00:35:29,239
Speaker 6: solve the case. You know per se and I really

820
00:35:29,320 --> 00:35:32,640
Speaker 6: like that, but it's pretty hard to get into. You

821
00:35:32,719 --> 00:35:35,400
Speaker 6: need some good experience to get into that, which I

822
00:35:35,440 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 6: don't have, so which is why I'm experimenting with photography

823
00:35:37,840 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 6: right now.

824
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:38,920
Speaker 5: In the meantime.

825
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 1: Interesting, you're again like doing everything that's in your control, right,

826
00:35:43,800 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: some of these question marks, there are things that aren't

827
00:35:46,200 --> 00:35:48,359
Speaker 1: in your control. They're like, oh, this field is hard

828
00:35:48,360 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: to get into these it's hard to get clients for photogets,

829
00:35:50,719 --> 00:35:54,040
Speaker 1: this and that. But everything that's within your control you're doing. Yeah,

830
00:35:54,120 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: you know, I love that that way of approaching thing.

831
00:35:56,760 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 7: Thank you?

832
00:35:57,120 --> 00:36:00,200
Speaker 1: Does that make you less anxious at all? Just knowing like, okay,

833
00:36:00,200 --> 00:36:03,640
Speaker 1: at least I am giving all I've got to this question, mink.

834
00:36:03,680 --> 00:36:04,960
Speaker 5: It's a work in progress.

835
00:36:05,000 --> 00:36:06,719
Speaker 6: I don't think anyone just jumps into like all right,

836
00:36:06,760 --> 00:36:09,239
Speaker 6: I'm going to control my emotions today. Like you know,

837
00:36:09,280 --> 00:36:12,200
Speaker 6: there's feelings of anxiety for sure of on sureness, but

838
00:36:12,840 --> 00:36:13,840
Speaker 6: you know we'll exposure.

839
00:36:13,880 --> 00:36:16,520
Speaker 5: You know, it'll go away. You know, that's that's my thing.

840
00:36:16,680 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 1: Are you Are you at the park just walking around

841
00:36:18,560 --> 00:36:19,080
Speaker 1: by yourself?

842
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:21,480
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'm actually not from here, from a long beach.

843
00:36:21,520 --> 00:36:23,440
Speaker 6: It's like thirty minutes away from here?

844
00:36:23,480 --> 00:36:24,240
Speaker 1: What are you doing here?

845
00:36:24,760 --> 00:36:27,279
Speaker 6: I went over to apply for a photography position at

846
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:28,240
Speaker 6: a Harley Davison.

847
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,759
Speaker 1: Dude, you're a hustler. Maybe fine this question mark, sir,

848
00:36:31,880 --> 00:36:35,080
Speaker 1: what's what's a question mark? There needs to be a

849
00:36:35,120 --> 00:36:40,120
Speaker 1: new symbol for like a question mark that will eventual

850
00:36:40,239 --> 00:36:43,640
Speaker 1: like like a cocoon mark. You know what I'm saying.

851
00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: It's like there's a question, and it's a question right now,

852
00:36:47,520 --> 00:36:50,520
Speaker 1: but it is inevitable that the question mark will turn

853
00:36:50,560 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: into a beautiful exclamation point butterfly. Right, we need a

854
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:57,640
Speaker 1: new symbol for whatever you got going on because you're inevitable. Yeah,

855
00:36:57,680 --> 00:36:59,000
Speaker 1: from how I s thank you?

856
00:36:59,040 --> 00:36:59,359
Speaker 5: Thank you?

857
00:36:59,440 --> 00:37:00,200
Speaker 2: Of course you're right.

858
00:37:00,280 --> 00:37:02,239
Speaker 6: Yeah, like it's like a cocoon. It's there, but yeah,

859
00:37:02,280 --> 00:37:05,200
Speaker 6: not there yet. Yeah, not for sure for sure, but

860
00:37:05,239 --> 00:37:07,400
Speaker 6: thank you, man. I appreciate that. I'm just trying, you know,

861
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 6: trying my hardest out here. I think we're all trying,

862
00:37:10,600 --> 00:37:13,040
Speaker 6: you know, to be who we want to be and whatnot.

863
00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 6: But yeah, what got you into this? Like we always

864
00:37:15,600 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 6: like this when you're young? Did you want to talk

865
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:19,160
Speaker 6: to people? Like did you have that urge?

866
00:37:19,400 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 1: I was looking through my old journals. Yes, I don't

867
00:37:22,520 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 1: I don't journal as much as I did in the past,

868
00:37:24,560 --> 00:37:28,840
Speaker 1: but I was looking through a journal from four years ago.

869
00:37:29,320 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: I started this two years ago, and at the end

870
00:37:31,480 --> 00:37:32,919
Speaker 1: of my journal, I wrote, I want to get better

871
00:37:32,960 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: at talking to people. And this was before I had

872
00:37:35,560 --> 00:37:37,719
Speaker 1: the idea to do this, and so I think it's

873
00:37:37,760 --> 00:37:40,880
Speaker 1: been a it's been a warm in my mind for

874
00:37:40,920 --> 00:37:42,719
Speaker 1: a while, you know, to be doing this.

875
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:43,280
Speaker 2: That's awesome.

876
00:37:43,320 --> 00:37:43,760
Speaker 5: That's awesome.

877
00:37:43,800 --> 00:37:45,799
Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks man, that's hard for so.

878
00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,319
Speaker 2: I don't know, I'm for me. It was kind of

879
00:37:47,560 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: you started.

880
00:37:48,040 --> 00:37:50,000
Speaker 1: I was gonna say, you started this off like you

881
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:52,399
Speaker 1: looked very nervous, and now you look very chill.

882
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 5: Thank you think, which is.

883
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,920
Speaker 1: Something I love seeing that too. And this has to

884
00:37:54,920 --> 00:37:56,759
Speaker 1: see it people all the time, like the start off.

885
00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,399
Speaker 1: I see it myself all the time where I start off.

886
00:37:59,480 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 1: I walked up here with my fucking thing. I was like,

887
00:38:03,560 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 1: is this a stupid idea to come to I've done

888
00:38:05,360 --> 00:38:07,120
Speaker 1: this a billion times. Every time I do it, I'm like,

889
00:38:07,440 --> 00:38:09,399
Speaker 1: this is a stupid idea. And then I'm a little

890
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:12,040
Speaker 1: nervous and now I'm here in the moment, so and

891
00:38:12,080 --> 00:38:14,880
Speaker 1: it's trained me. It's interesting because now when I recognize

892
00:38:15,360 --> 00:38:19,080
Speaker 1: an anxiousness within me at the beginning of something. I

893
00:38:19,120 --> 00:38:23,720
Speaker 1: don't I don't give it any any attention but anywhere,

894
00:38:23,719 --> 00:38:26,040
Speaker 1: because I just know it's inevitable that it goes away

895
00:38:26,080 --> 00:38:28,360
Speaker 1: and that I this gets to a point where I

896
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:31,200
Speaker 1: feel comfortable or it doesn't, but I just powerful. Eventually

897
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:35,439
Speaker 1: I will feel comfortable again. Stoicism, right there, A God,

898
00:38:35,960 --> 00:38:38,359
Speaker 1: You're great man. What's your name, Augustine? Is there anything

899
00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:39,720
Speaker 1: else you want to say to the people of the computer.

900
00:38:40,160 --> 00:38:42,560
Speaker 6: Uh No, just have a great one and do what

901
00:38:42,600 --> 00:38:45,000
Speaker 6: you gotta do. You know what I mean, and stay strong.

902
00:38:45,160 --> 00:38:45,720
Speaker 6: That's utiful.

903
00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for talking to a sure man. Good luck with

904
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:51,960
Speaker 1: your photography. Man, I fucked to that guy. He was cool.

905
00:38:52,600 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 1: I love I love seeing it and other people and

906
00:38:54,640 --> 00:38:59,000
Speaker 1: in myself situations where you start nervous and then you

907
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,040
Speaker 1: just breeze through it.

908
00:39:00,040 --> 00:39:00,160
Speaker 2: It.

909
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:03,600
Speaker 1: I think that happens enough times you start to recognize

910
00:39:03,719 --> 00:39:09,760
Speaker 1: the familiar journey of that and h keeps you calm

911
00:39:09,800 --> 00:39:13,800
Speaker 1: as you navigate it. But I like that guy. He

912
00:39:13,960 --> 00:39:16,440
Speaker 1: was a good homa and I wish him luck in

913
00:39:16,680 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 1: uh photography, and I wish him luck in his dead

914
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:23,320
Speaker 1: people photography business.

915
00:39:24,600 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 2: How's it going?

916
00:39:25,200 --> 00:39:26,399
Speaker 1: It's going good man. What's your name?

917
00:39:26,719 --> 00:39:27,120
Speaker 7: Sandro?

918
00:39:27,440 --> 00:39:31,800
Speaker 1: Sandro? Yours Lyle, mister Lyle Gecko, mister Lyle Gecko.

919
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:32,400
Speaker 7: Nice to meet you.

920
00:39:32,480 --> 00:39:33,160
Speaker 1: Nice to meet you too.

921
00:39:33,200 --> 00:39:33,359
Speaker 2: Man.

922
00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:35,400
Speaker 1: What's what's your life like?

923
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 7: That's fine? I guess, okay, how about yours?

924
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: What would make it better?

925
00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:42,520
Speaker 7: You want to make it better?

926
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:43,720
Speaker 1: I would make it better.

927
00:39:43,840 --> 00:39:44,200
Speaker 7: I guess.

928
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:44,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

929
00:39:44,640 --> 00:39:46,239
Speaker 7: Okay, he just just made my day.

930
00:39:46,560 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 1: That's awesome.

931
00:39:47,600 --> 00:39:49,959
Speaker 5: What are you are you?

932
00:39:50,640 --> 00:39:52,200
Speaker 1: What's bringing you here to this park?

933
00:39:54,400 --> 00:39:57,520
Speaker 7: Actually? I just want to enjoy him on Saturday, okay,

934
00:39:57,880 --> 00:39:59,200
Speaker 7: and learning some texts.

935
00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,480
Speaker 1: Learning some text yeah, I memorize what kind of text?

936
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:04,360
Speaker 2: It's for a script?

937
00:40:04,760 --> 00:40:04,920
Speaker 3: Oh?

938
00:40:05,320 --> 00:40:06,320
Speaker 1: Are you an actor?

939
00:40:06,480 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 7: Yeah?

940
00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:09,480
Speaker 1: Oh? What kind of What kind of acting do you do?

941
00:40:09,719 --> 00:40:11,839
Speaker 1: Dramatic acting, comedic acting.

942
00:40:11,840 --> 00:40:16,400
Speaker 7: Whatever you want? I know I'm not that good in comedian. Well,

943
00:40:16,560 --> 00:40:19,280
Speaker 7: actually I would like to act as a get coal.

944
00:40:19,680 --> 00:40:21,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, I should have brought an extra suit.

945
00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 7: If you had another one, I would definitely word it

946
00:40:25,040 --> 00:40:27,880
Speaker 7: and I would take a swim, I promise I do.

947
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,400
Speaker 1: Kind of it's getting a little high. Do you kind

948
00:40:29,400 --> 00:40:31,400
Speaker 1: of want to dive into the lake at some point?

949
00:40:33,480 --> 00:40:36,520
Speaker 7: Maybe I should wear swan like the boats?

950
00:40:36,640 --> 00:40:38,839
Speaker 1: Did you move to La to become a star.

951
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:43,480
Speaker 7: No, not really, just to to live that life. I

952
00:40:43,640 --> 00:40:47,200
Speaker 7: like to act. It's not the goal actually to be

953
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:51,640
Speaker 7: a star. But I just I feel so many emotions

954
00:40:51,640 --> 00:40:55,320
Speaker 7: when I act. What kind of emotions the whole bunch,

955
00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,719
Speaker 7: from happy to said. I can feel that if I

956
00:40:58,840 --> 00:41:02,319
Speaker 7: act in like in front of a camera, but I

957
00:41:02,360 --> 00:41:06,719
Speaker 7: can't feel it in my personal life, like if I'm

958
00:41:06,760 --> 00:41:11,120
Speaker 7: just talking to a normal person's average persons. I never

959
00:41:11,160 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 7: get those emotions which I get when I do acting.

960
00:41:14,880 --> 00:41:17,479
Speaker 1: Really, yeah, tell me, okay, give me a Let's start

961
00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:20,239
Speaker 1: with just any emotion that comes to your mind that

962
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,640
Speaker 1: you get when you're acting that you don't get in

963
00:41:22,640 --> 00:41:23,400
Speaker 1: your real life.

964
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:29,480
Speaker 7: Really, sadness, deeply sadness with tears. I can't have tears.

965
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 1: Really, you don't get deeply sad in your own life?

966
00:41:32,520 --> 00:41:35,400
Speaker 7: Yeah, I get said, of course, I guess everyone gets.

967
00:41:35,560 --> 00:41:38,879
Speaker 7: But I never can. I never can cry. I mean

968
00:41:38,920 --> 00:41:42,840
Speaker 7: once in two years I can maybe have two or

969
00:41:42,880 --> 00:41:46,680
Speaker 7: three tears. But I like to have tears. I think

970
00:41:46,719 --> 00:41:49,600
Speaker 7: it's kind of a nice feeling, but I don't get

971
00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,720
Speaker 7: it often. But when I act, the tears are coming.

972
00:41:54,160 --> 00:41:58,440
Speaker 1: Well, when you're acting and you're giving these tears, do

973
00:41:58,480 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: you think that those tears, although they are product if

974
00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:03,840
Speaker 1: you're acting, come from a real place.

975
00:42:04,480 --> 00:42:06,799
Speaker 7: I guess they're come from a real place. Yeah, I'm

976
00:42:06,840 --> 00:42:10,360
Speaker 7: pretty sure of that because I'm thinking about real moments

977
00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 7: in my life which made me almost had tears in

978
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:16,840
Speaker 7: my real life. But now when I act, the tears

979
00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 7: are coming. When I think back, it's like, I don't know,

980
00:42:19,840 --> 00:42:20,680
Speaker 7: something psychic.

981
00:42:21,520 --> 00:42:23,160
Speaker 1: What kinds of things make you sad?

982
00:42:23,520 --> 00:42:28,200
Speaker 7: What kind of things make me sad? Yeah, that's a

983
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 7: good question. It makes me sad if people don't treat

984
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 7: the nature right, if they like throw away waste or

985
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:42,359
Speaker 7: just throw cigarettes into the lake, or I don't know,

986
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:48,200
Speaker 7: kick animals. Some things make me really sad. Or if

987
00:42:48,280 --> 00:42:51,319
Speaker 7: people don't help each other, if they are honking at

988
00:42:51,320 --> 00:42:53,520
Speaker 7: each other on the streets, I hate that. I would

989
00:42:53,560 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 7: never do that because I think it's very rude. What

990
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:57,320
Speaker 7: do you think?

991
00:42:58,280 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 1: I also I think it's very weird too, when people

992
00:43:00,040 --> 00:43:04,120
Speaker 1: hawk on the street. I think that honking, like cars

993
00:43:04,160 --> 00:43:07,480
Speaker 1: don't really need horns, because honking is less of a

994
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,319
Speaker 1: thing that provides solutions to problems and more of just

995
00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:13,200
Speaker 1: an expression of anger for the sake of that expression. Right,

996
00:43:15,000 --> 00:43:17,600
Speaker 1: So car horns make you cry people being meant to

997
00:43:17,640 --> 00:43:18,319
Speaker 1: animals makes you.

998
00:43:18,600 --> 00:43:19,719
Speaker 7: I agree, definitely.

999
00:43:19,960 --> 00:43:22,600
Speaker 1: And when you are acting and you're crying, you're thinking

1000
00:43:22,600 --> 00:43:25,400
Speaker 1: about these things.

1001
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 7: Not about the car honking, but yes, about all Yeah.

1002
00:43:28,239 --> 00:43:31,600
Speaker 1: What what's another emotion that you channel for reacting.

1003
00:43:35,040 --> 00:43:37,040
Speaker 3: Like real?

1004
00:43:39,000 --> 00:43:43,439
Speaker 7: I would say, real, honest happiness, because I don't get

1005
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:46,200
Speaker 7: these feelings a lot, a lot. I'm not one of

1006
00:43:46,239 --> 00:43:50,879
Speaker 7: the sunshine persons which can walk like this the whole day.

1007
00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:55,120
Speaker 7: I mean, I of course I'm happy sometimes, but not

1008
00:43:55,120 --> 00:44:00,120
Speaker 7: not all the day. And it's not that it's not

1009
00:44:00,200 --> 00:44:03,279
Speaker 7: the same. You get it.

1010
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:07,360
Speaker 1: You're not a very happy person just in general, or

1011
00:44:07,480 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 1: like I.

1012
00:44:08,760 --> 00:44:15,799
Speaker 7: Would say that, I'm just average, I guess happy, not just.

1013
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:19,879
Speaker 1: Do you wait? Okay, So when you're acting and you're

1014
00:44:19,960 --> 00:44:22,800
Speaker 1: channeling happiness, what are you thinking about when you're channeling that?

1015
00:44:24,440 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 7: Oh, just very little things in life which made me

1016
00:44:30,320 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 7: sometimes really happy, Like if I see someone picking on

1017
00:44:34,360 --> 00:44:37,200
Speaker 7: waste and throw it into the garbage can or something

1018
00:44:37,239 --> 00:44:40,200
Speaker 7: like that, that can make me really happy. It's just

1019
00:44:40,440 --> 00:44:44,400
Speaker 7: a few seconds of a day, or like if I

1020
00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:46,320
Speaker 7: talk to you right now, that makes me happy.

1021
00:44:46,600 --> 00:44:48,360
Speaker 1: To be honest, I'm glad that talking to me. It

1022
00:44:48,480 --> 00:44:50,360
Speaker 1: has made you happy. That's very sweet.

1023
00:44:50,360 --> 00:44:53,000
Speaker 5: Have you say, I.

1024
00:44:52,960 --> 00:44:54,200
Speaker 7: Hope it's the same for you.

1025
00:44:54,320 --> 00:44:55,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, talking to you has made me happy as well.

1026
00:44:56,040 --> 00:44:59,080
Speaker 7: Actually it should make you happy, otherwise you probably not

1027
00:44:59,160 --> 00:44:59,480
Speaker 7: do it.

1028
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,479
Speaker 1: Yeah, now I feel similar, and I.

1029
00:45:03,480 --> 00:45:04,480
Speaker 7: Like costumes also.

1030
00:45:06,200 --> 00:45:08,480
Speaker 1: Well have you ever do you think wearing a costume

1031
00:45:08,480 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 1: would make you feel happy?

1032
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:10,120
Speaker 3: Oh?

1033
00:45:10,200 --> 00:45:13,839
Speaker 7: Yeah, definitely. I got a tiger, which I were every

1034
00:45:13,960 --> 00:45:14,960
Speaker 7: year at Carnival.

1035
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:22,640
Speaker 1: Now I'm what what emotion? What about anger? Do you feel? Anger?

1036
00:45:24,160 --> 00:45:30,439
Speaker 7: Not that often. Actually, it's more sadness than anger, which

1037
00:45:30,480 --> 00:45:33,200
Speaker 7: I feel because I do a lot of sports. It's

1038
00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:37,360
Speaker 7: maybe because of my workouts. I'm just calming down every

1039
00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:40,239
Speaker 7: day so I never get on a high level or

1040
00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:42,560
Speaker 7: it's never it never gets big.

1041
00:45:44,880 --> 00:45:45,839
Speaker 1: What's your dream role?

1042
00:45:47,160 --> 00:45:51,960
Speaker 7: Dream role? To be a GETU? That would be cool.

1043
00:45:53,560 --> 00:45:56,600
Speaker 1: I think that would be cool too. It's fun being

1044
00:45:56,600 --> 00:45:58,520
Speaker 1: a get go I guess.

1045
00:45:58,520 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 2: So.

1046
00:45:58,920 --> 00:45:59,520
Speaker 7: Isn't it hot?

1047
00:46:00,160 --> 00:46:03,439
Speaker 1: It is hot, but I'm kind of getting used to it.

1048
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:06,000
Speaker 1: It's been chill talking to you. I've you're calming me

1049
00:46:06,080 --> 00:46:08,359
Speaker 1: down a little bit. I feel like I've been out

1050
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:09,520
Speaker 1: here for about two hours.

1051
00:46:09,640 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 7: Yeah, something like that in here too.

1052
00:46:12,600 --> 00:46:14,360
Speaker 1: You know you've been here for two hours? What have

1053
00:46:14,440 --> 00:46:14,799
Speaker 1: you been doing.

1054
00:46:14,880 --> 00:46:17,120
Speaker 7: Yeah, I was just memorizing texts.

1055
00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:19,120
Speaker 1: Can you recite what you memorized at all?

1056
00:46:19,400 --> 00:46:19,960
Speaker 7: You want to hear it?

1057
00:46:20,000 --> 00:46:20,200
Speaker 3: Yeah?

1058
00:46:20,280 --> 00:46:20,560
Speaker 1: Can I do.

1059
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:25,560
Speaker 7: It's like I'll have a bowl of your raising brand.

1060
00:46:27,080 --> 00:46:36,040
Speaker 7: You want to share this? That was the first two lines,

1061
00:46:36,719 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 7: and if you want to get the script, I can

1062
00:46:38,520 --> 00:46:41,520
Speaker 7: give you and you can read a part.

1063
00:46:41,680 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: I think I'll wait until the final product is out

1064
00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:48,040
Speaker 1: on TV. Is a Raisin brand commercial?

1065
00:46:49,080 --> 00:46:53,400
Speaker 7: Almost? No, it's about that's from a script from Silver Linings.

1066
00:46:53,560 --> 00:46:54,640
Speaker 7: Do you know the movie Say.

1067
00:46:54,560 --> 00:46:55,400
Speaker 1: A Linings Playbook?

1068
00:46:55,520 --> 00:46:55,759
Speaker 7: Yeah?

1069
00:46:56,080 --> 00:46:57,920
Speaker 1: Okay, I thought it was a Raisin brand commercial.

1070
00:46:58,960 --> 00:47:04,760
Speaker 7: No, it's not that there. It's a long story. Okay,

1071
00:47:05,080 --> 00:47:06,719
Speaker 7: put it away, did you?

1072
00:47:08,840 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 3: Hmm?

1073
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:10,959
Speaker 1: What are you feeling right now?

1074
00:47:14,200 --> 00:47:18,319
Speaker 7: Column? I'm looking forward to to go to Panda Express after.

1075
00:47:18,680 --> 00:47:22,400
Speaker 1: That's why I go after this really Yeah.

1076
00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:24,319
Speaker 7: I love Panda I like Pan Express too.

1077
00:47:25,000 --> 00:47:26,160
Speaker 5: That's just the.

1078
00:47:26,040 --> 00:47:29,720
Speaker 7: Best fast food. I don't like to call it fast

1079
00:47:29,760 --> 00:47:33,520
Speaker 7: food because there's rice and vegetables and vegetables.

1080
00:47:33,560 --> 00:47:34,080
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1081
00:47:33,760 --> 00:47:37,839
Speaker 7: Yes, I'm looking forward for this and I'm going out.

1082
00:47:39,320 --> 00:47:41,400
Speaker 1: Thank you, meet you man, Thank you for talking to

1083
00:47:41,440 --> 00:47:49,000
Speaker 1: a gecko. Hello is Ashley? Yes? How are you doing? Ashley?

1084
00:47:50,000 --> 00:47:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm good. How are you get Ashley? It says here

1085
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:57,960
Speaker 1: that you're thirty three years old, you're from Texas. It

1086
00:47:57,960 --> 00:48:03,799
Speaker 1: says you're having trouble dating on because it's hard to

1087
00:48:03,920 --> 00:48:09,200
Speaker 1: get guys to actually meet up with you. Tell me

1088
00:48:09,280 --> 00:48:13,560
Speaker 1: more about about this this issue that you were having

1089
00:48:13,600 --> 00:48:14,200
Speaker 1: on Tender.

1090
00:48:15,880 --> 00:48:18,120
Speaker 8: Well, I feel like it's not really the meeting up.

1091
00:48:18,200 --> 00:48:21,560
Speaker 8: It's more like the communication and stuff. So like right now,

1092
00:48:21,719 --> 00:48:25,040
Speaker 8: I have probably like sixty matches right, and none of

1093
00:48:25,080 --> 00:48:29,520
Speaker 8: those sixty, I only have like five active conversations, like

1094
00:48:29,600 --> 00:48:32,520
Speaker 8: five people that have actually messaged me or I've messaged

1095
00:48:32,560 --> 00:48:37,560
Speaker 8: them first and they responded right, and it's like we'll

1096
00:48:37,640 --> 00:48:40,520
Speaker 8: get to the point where we exchange numbers and then

1097
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,040
Speaker 8: it's like just the weirdest shit. Or like the main

1098
00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,359
Speaker 8: thing that it seems really common is like I have roommates,

1099
00:48:47,440 --> 00:48:48,919
Speaker 8: and then a lot of the guys that I would

1100
00:48:48,920 --> 00:48:50,680
Speaker 8: talk out too are like I have roommates too, and

1101
00:48:50,719 --> 00:48:53,160
Speaker 8: I'm like, WHOA, you can't come to my house And

1102
00:48:53,120 --> 00:48:56,239
Speaker 8: I'm like, well you my house, and I'm like what

1103
00:48:56,480 --> 00:49:00,320
Speaker 8: the It's like always something. Then there's these guys that

1104
00:49:00,440 --> 00:49:03,600
Speaker 8: have like four or five kids, and you know, I

1105
00:49:03,680 --> 00:49:08,560
Speaker 8: was like all this weird extra bultion. All I want

1106
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:13,279
Speaker 8: to do is just fucking really nice dude and like

1107
00:49:13,680 --> 00:49:16,880
Speaker 8: chill and hang out and some boat and friendship together.

1108
00:49:19,239 --> 00:49:22,080
Speaker 8: Happening to me And I'm wondering, isn't like.

1109
00:49:24,239 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 2: This is a lot?

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Speaker 1: This is a lot going on? Here is going on here?

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Speaker 1: It's a lot, Ashley's a lot. There's a lot going

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Speaker 1: on here. Okay, So listen, first of all, the like

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Speaker 1: you off the gate, you started out with this roommate

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Speaker 1: thing about how he's got roomates. So you've got roommates.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, are you just looking to like are

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Speaker 1: you just like looking to like meet somebody off tin

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Speaker 1: Tinder and just like hook up with them? Are you

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Speaker 1: looking to like go out on dates?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 1: What do you what do you actually like desire out

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Speaker 1: of your out of this experience?

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Speaker 8: Well, I mean, I'm open to both, but it's like

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Speaker 8: neither as you really have at the moment. I've only

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Speaker 8: been on tender for probably like three months, four months,

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Speaker 8: and I've actually met.

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Speaker 1: Up with.

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Speaker 8: Uh three guys.

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Speaker 1: Three guys was horrible? Yeah, well okay, all right, so

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Speaker 1: you've been up with three guys already. Okay, so so

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Speaker 1: why were they horrible?

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Speaker 8: Okay, the guy that I actually messed around it, I

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Speaker 8: think that's It's also like I now I may be

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Speaker 8: in maybe in my dream because the guy who actually

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Speaker 8: met up with he doesn't want to do the date

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Speaker 8: stuff and that's cool, but also the sex is fucking horrible.

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Speaker 8: And I was like, I'm the sucking open person, Like

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Speaker 8: I'm like, okay, we can try this, so we can

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Speaker 8: try that, and it's still just really worth it.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 1: The first guy, the sex was just bad. Yeah, what

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Speaker 1: about the other two guys?

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Speaker 8: Yeah, the other guy he was into like the kink

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Speaker 8: lifestyle and that he was into some stuff that I

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Speaker 8: just wasn't comfortable with basically like restraining me and doing

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Speaker 8: all this other kind of stuff like I do we

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Speaker 8: don't have to give the miller, but like that was

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Speaker 8: just beyond my comfort field. So that didn't work out.

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Speaker 1: Okay, difference in and sexual preference stuff. The third guy.

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Speaker 8: The third guy was fucking married. After we met, like

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Speaker 8: on the date, we met about this really nice little

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Speaker 8: restaurant and it was everything was going so great, Like

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Speaker 8: there was chemistry, the conversational, he was handsome. I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 8: it's a bit and then he's like yoh, so my wife.

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Speaker 8: I'm like, wait what you never what? Like, oh my god?

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Speaker 8: So that obviously didn't work.

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Speaker 1: Oh well, I mean listen, did he not? So he

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Speaker 1: didn't he didn't have included in his profile that he

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Speaker 1: was married, not at.

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Speaker 8: All, because why would I waste my time?

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Speaker 1: It's true? Okay, So not there these three guys worked out.

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Speaker 1: Uh listen, Ashley, it might just take you a little

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Speaker 1: bit of time to find the situation that you're looking for.

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Speaker 1: It might just be a numbers game for you, you

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Speaker 1: know what I'm saying. Okay, So I mean I would

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Speaker 1: just would I just wouldn't give up. And by the way,

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Speaker 1: let me tell you something. You're talking about how it's

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Speaker 1: it's hard to get guys to meet up with you.

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Speaker 1: Every single man that you meet on tender h where

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Speaker 1: you want to sort of bring up the hey, let's

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Speaker 1: meet in person thing, you're making their lives a hell

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Speaker 1: of a lot easier.

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Speaker 8: Okay.

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Speaker 1: So I mean, look, if you want to take that

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Speaker 1: initiative to you know, say hey, let's meet up, everyone

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Speaker 1: you talk to about that will be you know, receptive

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Speaker 1: to it. If if my if my my predictions about uh,

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Speaker 1: you know, guys on Tinder are correct, h they'll they'll

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Speaker 1: they'll be happy to mat it with you. I mean, look,

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Speaker 1: stay safe, you know, don't meet up with anyone crazy

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Speaker 1: like vet people first, you know, yes, but uh, if

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Speaker 1: this is if, if that's what you want is to

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Speaker 1: meet up with a bunch of people so you can

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Speaker 1: find the right one and then feel free to take

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Speaker 1: that initiative instead of just kind of waiting around for

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Speaker 1: for it to happen. Is the thesis of what I'm saying.

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Speaker 8: That's really some of the risk. I really appreciate that

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Speaker 8: because I'm kind of waiting for them to come to me,

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Speaker 8: you know, like, oh, they'll message to me first, or

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Speaker 8: if they want to, they'll let me know. But I

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Speaker 8: think it's solid advice.

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Speaker 1: For yeah, fuck that, fuck all. Whatever the gender roles,

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Speaker 1: the guys gotta do the fucking just. If that's what

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Speaker 1: you want, just take the initiative for it.

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Speaker 8: Gotcha, good?

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Speaker 1: Good? What's your what's your name again?

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Speaker 8: Ashley?

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Speaker 5: Ashley?

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Speaker 1: Ashley? Good luck to you. Don't get in it where

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Speaker 1: a condom? They're female condoms, right, how does that work?

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Speaker 1: You just like put it in your.

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Speaker 8: I imagine it might be similar to way you know

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Speaker 8: they have those clips your period maybe something like that,

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Speaker 8: but it's like goes up in your eye. Honestly, I

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Speaker 8: don't know.

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Speaker 1: Well I'm not so sure. You know, have fun, don't

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Speaker 1: get pregnant, or do if that's what you want, do

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Speaker 1: whatever you want. Uh? Mary is your name again?

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Speaker 5: Mary?

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Speaker 8: Actually back?

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Speaker 1: Ashley? Oh sorry, I'm bad.

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Speaker 8: You can stay you just stay awesome, stay sext back.

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Speaker 8: I appreciate it.

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Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a good rest of the night.

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Speaker 3: Never think.

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Speaker 1: It goes on the line, Think of your phone calls

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Speaker 1: every night.

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Speaker 3: Never think and goes to on his hide.

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Speaker 1: You're teaching you a cloud in the middle of your life,

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Speaker 1: but he's not ready.

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Speaker 5: An expert