Speaker 1: Freaking Jewels. Second d the woman on the phone for
Speaker 1: a second date update today met the dude that she
Speaker 1: wants to call in one of the sexiest ways possible.
Speaker 1: She was helping him out with a little interior design.
Speaker 1: That's right, so sexy. You know what, I think this
Speaker 1: room needs a complete rehaul. We need to strip down
Speaker 1: the walls all the way to the studs. You think, oh, oh,
Speaker 1: those studs look a little weak. Maybe they need to
Speaker 1: be reinforced so they can handle a little more weight.
Speaker 1: Looks like this building hasn't been retrofitted for earthquakes. Let's
Speaker 1: try to shake the floor a little bit, see if
Speaker 1: they can handle the kind of stress. Carol is on
Speaker 1: the phone right now. Apparently she's an interior designer, and
Speaker 1: she met the guy that she wants to call while
Speaker 1: she was helping him design his place. What's up, Carol? Hi? Guys,
Speaker 1: Hi did it and just like I envisioned it in
Speaker 1: my head? Oh? Sure? Did? I bet your profession has
Speaker 1: never sounded as hot as the way Jewel described it. No, No,
Speaker 1: you know, I've I've taken places down to the stats,
Speaker 1: but just put the whole new light on it. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know what your living root needs a stripper pole
Speaker 1: and for me to get on it real quick. That's
Speaker 1: what every place needs. My god, Lon't I'm feeling better already,
Speaker 1: are you? Because Jewels the one on the Super Bowl?
Speaker 1: Let's all remember that. Oh now, I don't know. So
Speaker 1: how did you go on a date with this guy?
Speaker 1: What's his name? Well, his name is Kenn. He called
Speaker 1: my business and he wanted me to come to do
Speaker 1: a consultation on his new interior, to sign layout for
Speaker 1: his conduct. Okay, so this is routine for me, and
Speaker 1: I'm made an appointment and I went to his place
Speaker 1: and he opened the door, and as soon as he
Speaker 1: opened the door, I felt this since an attraction, Like
Speaker 1: I had no idea he was going to be hot.
Speaker 1: How do I do my job? Yeah? Well, hello, Ken,
Speaker 1: let me enter your condo. It really threw me. I
Speaker 1: need but I'm a professional, and I went in the
Speaker 1: whole time, You're just like, Hi, this place needs air conditioning. Ken.
Speaker 1: He's like, that's actually pretty cool in here. I don't
Speaker 1: know what you're talking about. All right? Did Ken give
Speaker 1: you any indication in the very beginning that he was
Speaker 1: filling that same chemistry that you were not? Right away?
Speaker 1: But then as the meeting went on, he brought up
Speaker 1: something personal, and then I started feeling a vibe. Oh well,
Speaker 1: that's good. What did he say? He brought up the
Speaker 1: fact that he was divorced, and that's why I told
Speaker 1: him that I was recently single as well. Okay, so,
Speaker 1: and he didn't like start right and lamenting his failed
Speaker 1: marriage or anything at that point. No, okay. At the
Speaker 1: end of the appointment, he actually said that he enjoyed
Speaker 1: our meeting and he would like to take me to dinner.
Speaker 1: So that is definitely more than just interior design. Yeah,
Speaker 1: and I usually don't mixed work with dating, but the
Speaker 1: sky was really hot. Couldn't help herself. Did you actually
Speaker 1: go to dinner with him? I did. A couple of
Speaker 1: days later. We met a this congo and he told
Speaker 1: me there was a great little local place, so we walked.
Speaker 1: We walked over and we had a really nice dinner.
Speaker 1: And that's kind of a setup for him having to
Speaker 1: walk you back to his place too. Yeah. I was
Speaker 1: a little hesitant about that, but you know, I had
Speaker 1: been there for a professional meeting, so I felt it
Speaker 1: was okay. Yeah, yeah, cautious Carol party. So we walked
Speaker 1: back to this place after dinner, and I told him
Speaker 1: I had a really nice seasoning, and I kissed him
Speaker 1: on the cheek and then my last Okay, so you
Speaker 1: guys didn't kiss on the lips or do more than that? No, okay, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. That's ridiculous for me to think. I apologize
Speaker 1: for asking a question. I just want to make sure.
Speaker 1: And were there any awkward moments during your guys's dinner
Speaker 1: or date. I've been thinking about that, and maybe I
Speaker 1: was talking too much about my divorce and my ex husband,
Speaker 1: maybe more than I should have. Yeah, I would say
Speaker 1: at all at all. Yeah, I wouldn't bring that up
Speaker 1: at all. Was he talking about his two? He talked
Speaker 1: about it a little, so I felt that I could
Speaker 1: as well. But maybe I just went too far. Is
Speaker 1: your talk about your divorce like, hey, we split up
Speaker 1: amicably and now we're friends, or is it I hate
Speaker 1: that mother? It wasn't Elie, either of those. I mean,
Speaker 1: I just talked about it and talked about it, and
Speaker 1: maybe for about a half an hour. That's a long
Speaker 1: time to focus on your divorce during a date, Carol,
Speaker 1: Were you in it and thinking? How do I stop myself?
Speaker 1: He was asking questions. So I was just answering, and
Speaker 1: I didn't think I was doing anything wrong because he
Speaker 1: seemed curious, so I just I continued the conversation. All right,
Speaker 1: and how long has it been since you've talked to him?
Speaker 1: Two weeks? Two weeks? And are you interested in calling
Speaker 1: him for a second date or you're just upset because
Speaker 1: he hasn't called you back to finish decorating his play? Both?
Speaker 1: Thanks for being honest about it. All right, well we'll
Speaker 1: play a song, come back, call him and get your
Speaker 1: second date update? Okay, okay, brooking jubil in the morning
Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: Carol is on the phone and today she wants to
Speaker 1: call a guy named Ken. They bonded over the fact
Speaker 1: that they're both divorced, and now she's hoping she can
Speaker 1: get him on the phone and find out why he's
Speaker 1: not calling her back, so maybe they can go on
Speaker 1: a second date and then they can see if their
Speaker 1: divorced stuff fits together nice, if it still works. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's what? Is that a correct way to recap everything? Carol? Yes? Yeah,
Speaker 1: you know, sometimes you're divorced and you don't know if
Speaker 1: things are working correctly after a few years, so you
Speaker 1: guys want to check it out and make sure that
Speaker 1: everything is still in working order because the equipment hasn't
Speaker 1: been used in a while. But I didn't know you
Speaker 1: were talking about that, talking about, like, you know, the
Speaker 1: emotional baggage and how do you create a healthy relationship
Speaker 1: the next time. No, no, no, not at all. I
Speaker 1: was just talking about mashing up things and seeing if
Speaker 1: everything works. It will be interesting to see if that
Speaker 1: does happen. It will be Yeah, Carol, I'm about to
Speaker 1: dial his phone number and get him on the phone.
Speaker 1: Let me just refresh everybody's memory. You met him because
Speaker 1: he hired you as an interior designer for his new condo,
Speaker 1: and you guys went to dinner. But you feel like
Speaker 1: maybe you talked a little bit too much about your
Speaker 1: divorce during your date, and that's why he's not calling
Speaker 1: you back. I think that maybe yet, maybe he's just
Speaker 1: not ready to date yet. Yeah that's true. Maybe. Well
Speaker 1: let's find out. I'm gonna dial his phone number right
Speaker 1: now and see if we can get you an answer. Okay, great, Okay,
Speaker 1: hello him, I speak to Ken. Please. Yeah, this is
Speaker 1: kid Ken. How are you? This is Jewil from Brook
Speaker 1: and Jewil in the Morning from Who Brooke and Jewil
Speaker 1: in the Morning. It's a radio show. Uh okay, yeah,
Speaker 1: I've heard of you. What's what's going on? Well, we're
Speaker 1: calling people today doing a survey asking a little bit
Speaker 1: about our listening audience. Can you answer a few questions
Speaker 1: for me? Real quick? Uh? Yeah, real quick? Okay? How
Speaker 1: old are you? No, that's not appropriate? Forty three three? Okay?
Speaker 1: Have you ever been divorced before? Yeah? Wait, what you know? Cool?
Speaker 1: Have you recently gone out on a date with a
Speaker 1: girl named Carol who's also divorced? What's going on here?
Speaker 1: I don't know how much you know about our show,
Speaker 1: But have you ever heard a second date update? No? No? Okay,
Speaker 1: Well what that is is it's where if you go
Speaker 1: out on a date with someone and then not call
Speaker 1: them back after they email us to see if we
Speaker 1: can get you on the phone and ask why so.
Speaker 1: Carol actually emailed us about you, and she told us
Speaker 1: how you hired her to decorate your place and then
Speaker 1: you ended up taking her out for dinner and now
Speaker 1: you're not calling her back. Yeah. I mean, but you know,
Speaker 1: I don't feel like I should go into all that
Speaker 1: on the radio. Well, she actually kind of wants you
Speaker 1: to why, because she liked you, and she wants to
Speaker 1: know what the reason is. Did she do something wrong
Speaker 1: on the date? I mean it was just it was
Speaker 1: just kind of drains and I don't know, probably embarrassing
Speaker 1: for her. So I really don't want to get into it.
Speaker 1: Oh well, if you're saying that it's something that's going
Speaker 1: to embarrass her, she's prepared to be embarrassed. I mean,
Speaker 1: she's the one that emailed us to do this segment.
Speaker 1: So yeah, but I mean she told me. I don't
Speaker 1: know if she would want me telling everybody who's listening
Speaker 1: to this. Well, that's kind of the deal. When you
Speaker 1: do this, we tell you beforehand, like you have to
Speaker 1: be willing to air whatever dirty laundry it is, and
Speaker 1: you have to be willing to hear something that might
Speaker 1: be embarrassing. So she knows she's totally clueless. Okay, all right,
Speaker 1: Well yeah, I don't know how much she like told
Speaker 1: you about the date, but you know, we we were
Speaker 1: talking and both of us had been divorced, so we
Speaker 1: were just talking about some of our experiences with that.
Speaker 1: And apparently she's had four different husbands. Oh whoa, that's
Speaker 1: a lot a lot. Yeah. Well, you know, I mean
Speaker 1: she only told us about one divorce, or at least
Speaker 1: made it. Don't like he only had one divorcee Oh no, no, no, no, Um,
Speaker 1: it's really uh okay. So yes, she had said she
Speaker 1: had four, Um two of them were actually divorces one
Speaker 1: of them. And I mean, I swear this is how
Speaker 1: I remember it. She said that she doesn't actually know
Speaker 1: where he is. He's wait, he's missy like she and
Speaker 1: the word she actually used were missing in action, and
Speaker 1: then like laughed about it it was a military thing.
Speaker 1: I don't think so. I mean she if it was
Speaker 1: a military thing, I don't think she would have laughed.
Speaker 1: I mean she had laughed like she didn't know where
Speaker 1: he is and she laughed about it, so she like
Speaker 1: technically still married to him. I don't I honestly, I
Speaker 1: didn't want to ask much beyond that. Um, but she
Speaker 1: had said that she had been married four times, so
Speaker 1: you know, I was like, well, what about the last one?
Speaker 1: And she told me that he died. Did she laugh
Speaker 1: about that too? Or was that a sad moment for her? No?
Speaker 1: She she offered that, And you know, so I was
Speaker 1: trying to be sympathetic, and she was sort of a a
Speaker 1: cavalier about that too. She said that apparently they were
Speaker 1: in the Caribbean and he fell off of a hoverboard
Speaker 1: a story. No, she did not kill these guys. Why
Speaker 1: are you thinking that that one of those ridiculous conclusions.
Speaker 1: I have something to stay here? What's going on? Ken?
Speaker 1: That's Carol. She's actually on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you, and apparently she has something
Speaker 1: to say. Now, yes I do. I do have something
Speaker 1: to say here. Now's your opportunity, Carol say it. Okay,
Speaker 1: I don't. I don't know where you've got the impression
Speaker 1: that I was being cavalier. I was. I was being
Speaker 1: honest with you. And if a woman can't be honest,
Speaker 1: what's the point. Well, yeah, no, I mean I understand
Speaker 1: I did feel like I was being sympathetic, but I
Speaker 1: mean I was kind of taking it off the fact
Speaker 1: that you were like you laughed about it, which I
Speaker 1: thought was so No. No, I did not last I
Speaker 1: don't know. I don't need to know where you got
Speaker 1: that from. Okay, And I have to tell I thought
Speaker 1: we were having a really nice evening and I felt
Speaker 1: like you were someone that I could open up to.
Speaker 1: But it seems like you're being a real jerk about this.
Speaker 1: Hold on, No, I'm not being a jerk about this.
Speaker 1: I mean I was being really I guess I was
Speaker 1: being really sympathetic to what was you. But honestly, you
Speaker 1: started off to Tony you were divorced, and then went
Speaker 1: to tell me you had four husbands you were joking
Speaker 1: about one that totally disappeared. Did I tell you he
Speaker 1: was missing an action? Yes, but the police don't even
Speaker 1: know where he is. By missing an action, do you
Speaker 1: mean he was in the military. No, he played for you, galile,
Speaker 1: like said, and I thought I'm married. Okay, So he
Speaker 1: was ukulely player that just disappeared on you. He wasn't
Speaker 1: just any ukulely play or he was damned good at it.
Speaker 1: He was professional and one day he just disappears. You
Speaker 1: know how those musicians are. Maybe he just decided to
Speaker 1: go on the road and you know, write some songs
Speaker 1: and stuff. Who knows. I am fascinated by your life
Speaker 1: right now, Carol. Well, I don't need you to be fascinated.
Speaker 1: I'm really embarrassed, but by what's going on here. I
Speaker 1: don't think you have anything to be embarrassed about, Carol.
Speaker 1: I mean a lot of this is out of your control,
Speaker 1: missing in action, a free coverboard accident. I mean, no,
Speaker 1: it's not my fault. And my fourth failed marriages had
Speaker 1: nothing to do with me, and I don't want to
Speaker 1: get married anymore. I'm done. I've had enough marriages, guys.
Speaker 1: I think what's getting lost in all this is like
Speaker 1: this came out all on a first date, yes, which
Speaker 1: was a little bit much for me to handle. I
Speaker 1: mean it started off really friendly, but then we're going
Speaker 1: into hoverboard acction in and its appeared and and drinking
Speaker 1: and laughing, and like I that's not a first date
Speaker 1: conversation in my opinion. Ken, you know what, how have
Speaker 1: you shut up? I think I'll god enough for you today. Well, Carol,
Speaker 1: you know what, Carol, I'm sorry, but the way that
Speaker 1: you're talking right now, like I'm starting to get a sense,
Speaker 1: but maybe what happened to that third husband? You know what, Ken,
Speaker 1: that's really a stupid remark, and it's kink. We're alive today.
Speaker 1: He beat you over the head with this ukulele wait an,
Speaker 1: I thought you said you didn't know what happened to him.
Speaker 1: I don't. I'm just I'm just assuming that he did
Speaker 1: because I haven't here. Okay, all right, guys, clearly I
Speaker 1: am not the crazy one. Here? Am I going on
Speaker 1: this now? I think I think you are. I will
Speaker 1: never say anything mean against Carol. Ever was making a
Speaker 1: wise choice? Ken? Would you like to go out with
Speaker 1: Carol one more time on a second date? We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. No, I mean, the thought of even
Speaker 1: possibly being missing or dead husband number five is a
Speaker 1: terrifying thought. I don't want to go anywhere and near that.
Speaker 1: You know what, Ken, I didn't even want to go
Speaker 1: out on another date with you. Now that I've heard
Speaker 1: all of this, and you can cancel our interior design
Speaker 1: contract phone, I am done. Okay, I don't want you
Speaker 1: back in my house. Everybody agrees. I wouldn't even go
Speaker 1: in your place anymore. And for your information, that color
Speaker 1: palette you had was chackier than the jacket you wore
Speaker 1: when we went after din Oh damn design? Yeah, broken
Speaker 1: jewel in the morning text in at seven, eight, five
Speaker 1: nine two says did she just meant to murder? On
Speaker 1: the radio? And talking about today's second day update, Carol
Speaker 1: wanted to call a dude named Ken. It went out
Speaker 1: on a date and she was talking about her ex.
Speaker 1: Her ex is we came to find out when we
Speaker 1: got him on the phone. She said, four husbands, two
Speaker 1: normal divorces. The other two kind of disappeared very mysteriously. Yea, well,
Speaker 1: one died, actually did die. She knows he's dead, and
Speaker 1: the other one was like, I don't know how he disappeared.
Speaker 1: So Ken was a little nervous about continuing a relationship
Speaker 1: with her. We do have a possible sighting of the
Speaker 1: ukulele player though, really yeah, someone said that there's a
Speaker 1: player that wanders around my town. Maybe it's She said
Speaker 1: that one of her ex husbands played the ukulele and
Speaker 1: he was a professional and he just took off and
Speaker 1: had never been heard from again. And that's where he
Speaker 1: was like, did he take off or did he disappear
Speaker 1: at the hands of you? So there you go. Thanks
Speaker 1: for the hot tip on that. We'll investigate. Remember, if
Speaker 1: you want to do a second day update, I have
Speaker 1: to do his email the show and we will call
Speaker 1: the person who didn't call you back. Two five