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Speaker 1: Diana, welcome to stay or go. Thank you for your

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Speaker 1: You can hit us in a lot of different ways

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Speaker 1: of Fredshire Radio. You can DMS there, you can hit

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Speaker 1: us at freendship Radio dot com as well. But what's

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Speaker 1: going on? I want to hear your situation so we

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Speaker 2: Go ahead, please.

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Speaker 3: Great Now, I.

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Speaker 4: Just I was hoping to get some advice.

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Speaker 2: I'm I'm just absolutely pissed.

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Speaker 4: At my boyfriend. So the other night he went to

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Speaker 4: a work happy hour and afterwards he offered his much younger, single,

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Speaker 4: very attractive coworker ride home and she accepted, and he

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Speaker 4: you know, mentioned it when he got home to me,

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Speaker 4: like it's no big deal. And I've just barely talked

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Speaker 4: he would not know that.

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Speaker 1: That's not do Wait a minute, Okay, that's the whole problem.

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Speaker 1: The whole problem is that your your boyfriend gave a

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Speaker 4: I mean it's not just that she's younger, it's you know, she's,

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Speaker 4: like I said, she's single, and she's very good looking.

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Speaker 4: So yes, that makes me uncomfortable.

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Speaker 1: So the only people who deserve a ride home. Are

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Speaker 1: ugly people shot out ugly people. So she'd been ugly,

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Speaker 1: then that's fine. But because she's hot, it's I mean, look,

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Speaker 1: come on, you hear what I'm saying, Like Diana really.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yes, when you put it that way, its yeah,

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Speaker 5: I won't talk to.

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Speaker 2: You because of this.

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Speaker 5: I just assume you would know better than to offer

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Speaker 5: a woman a ride at home. And you know what,

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Speaker 5: any woman, yes, even if she was ugly.

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Speaker 3: It's just weird to me.

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Speaker 2: Wouldn't it have been?

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Speaker 1: I kind of feel like I would have judged the

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Speaker 1: all right, see you right. I feel like I would

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Speaker 2: That he did.

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Speaker 5: A woman she could call an uber.

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Speaker 4: I mean, she can call a taxi, she can call

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Speaker 4: a friend to come get her, like they're option.

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Speaker 3: She doesn't need him to give.

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Speaker 2: Her a rest. So he's getting the silent treatment for this.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, huh uh, you don't really, you of alved Paulina

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Speaker 1: you're the most jealous person probably in the room.

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Speaker 6: I'm very jealous, but I don't think that would not

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Speaker 6: from like ten years ago, right, he used to do

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Speaker 6: stuff like this, Right, he drive the bottle girls home

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Speaker 6: all that whatever. Okay, but he was a pos you

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Speaker 7: Was just not any person.

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Speaker 6: But if having did it, like I love and trust Hobby,

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Speaker 6: and Hobby's not driving.

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Speaker 7: The bottle girls.

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Speaker 2: Did he work at the bar? He did?

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Speaker 8: My ex.

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Speaker 1: Was gonna see it. Let me tell you. If your

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Speaker 1: all the bottles, that's very different than.

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Speaker 7: He worked there. So he was a shuttle for the

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Speaker 7: bottle Yeah. Right.

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Speaker 1: If he just pulled up at the club at the

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Speaker 1: But if he worked there, and honestly, you either trust

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Speaker 6: And I didn't trust him, So that's why you know,

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Speaker 6: to me, sounds like, oh, girl on the phone here

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Speaker 6: might not trust him, or there's it's deeper than that

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Speaker 6: than driving the pretty girl from work home.

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Speaker 1: Eight five one one, three five. You can call him

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Speaker 1: text the same number, but stay or go. This is

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Speaker 1: not a go, This is a wait. What you know?

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Speaker 2: Okay?

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Speaker 9: Me, I definitely would give any of y'all around home

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Speaker 9: no problem, and I don't expect Big Tim to question it.

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Speaker 9: But when you really think about it, would all these

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Speaker 7: I mean, you could get.

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Speaker 4: A you can run, you're not a bike, right, a helicopter?

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Speaker 8: Right?

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Speaker 9: Why why are you offering to draft the drunk?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 7: It is a little like she could have.

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Speaker 2: Walked or you know, all over the country and nobody.

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Speaker 7: But also.

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Speaker 2: I'm a drunk sell And also he.

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Speaker 7: Doesn't say anything until after the fact. You know what

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Speaker 2: That's he's supposed to do it. That's for permission to

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Speaker 7: Hey babe, I'm on my home, but I got a

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Speaker 2: I don't think she would have liked that either, Okay,

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Speaker 2: but at least tell her after the fact, after the

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Speaker 2: fact of what is crazy?

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Speaker 1: You guys cannot perpetuate the idea that a man who

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Speaker 1: does a nice thing for a coworker is absolutely cheating

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Speaker 1: or doing something wrong. You cannot perpetuate that that's crazy.

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Speaker 9: It wasn't any women at the party that could have

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Speaker 9: given her a ride home? Like, where's our boss? Where

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Speaker 9: you know her coworker? She's so good, look anywhere?

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Speaker 1: Just if he were up to something, I feel like

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Speaker 7: Or is he cheating in plain sight? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Good job? Absolutely not you guys, No, no, no, no.

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Speaker 9: Stop the bus come everything, no, right, you can get up.

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Speaker 1: But I will not allow us to use this platform

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Speaker 7: I don't walk.

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Speaker 2: This is crazy. The bus come every fifteen minutes, every fifteen.

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Speaker 7: Minutes sometimes, you know, a lot of options.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, now is that is that safe?

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Speaker 1: Even though like this dude he gave his coworker a

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Speaker 7: I would appreciate like being letting know me.

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Speaker 1: Yes, you know, like right, Diane, let me take some Diana.

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Speaker 1: I appreciate the call. I think you should. I think

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Speaker 1: you should. Everything's fine, right, Do you have any reason?

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Speaker 1: Do you have any reason to not trust him? I

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Speaker 3: Right?

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Speaker 5: I mean no, he's never you know, cheated on me, Lillie,

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Speaker 5: what I know of or anything like that. And he's saying, Oh,

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Speaker 3: I could be her father.

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Speaker 5: She got home safe, but I just I just don't

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Speaker 3: I mean, like you guys were saying, there's.

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Speaker 5: No reason she needed to do it. She could have

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Speaker 3: I just don't think he should have done.

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Speaker 2: It, Diana.

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Speaker 1: God forbid he left I mean, and I know this

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Speaker 1: And then what would you think of him? And what

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Speaker 1: would everybody else think of him? Well, that was rude.

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Speaker 1: He just left her there and drove off, like that's rude.

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Speaker 2: What how is it his response? Because he's a nice guy.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like then that person that thinks he's rude

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Speaker 1: this is okay, Dana, let me take some calls.

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Speaker 2: I thank you so much. Good luck to you girl.

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Speaker 3: Thanks.

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Speaker 7: She's drunking, hot and young, slipped and selling.

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Speaker 1: It out of here. Oh my god, I will not

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Speaker 1: allow this. And she's single up waves Hey Kim, yeah Ki,

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Speaker 1: these people I work with? Who are these people?

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Speaker 4: Very seriously, here's my take on it.

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Speaker 5: I think he should go.

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Speaker 6: You know, my I work in an office.

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Speaker 4: We go out for drinks every once in a while.

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Speaker 10: I would be appalled if some guy that I worked

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Speaker 6: I think it's says that he's.

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Speaker 4: A great guy, looks out for his car workers, and

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Speaker 10: To do that, I think it's more of her issue.

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Speaker 2: Than I think. It was nice of him to tuck

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Speaker 7: Right here, you could share your I think it was.

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Speaker 1: Nice to make sure that she took a shower and

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Speaker 7: You know her.

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Speaker 2: If you did what through I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I think it was nice to check every nook and

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Speaker 1: But the boogeyman wasn't hiding in her pants.

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Speaker 2: I think that was nice.

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Speaker 8: Maybe the total medical office.

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Speaker 3: Who knows, No, I think it was.

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Speaker 2: I think it was wonderful. Uh huh, I don't.

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Speaker 1: But but I get in ubers all the time when

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Speaker 1: I'm drunk, right, I don't. Yeah, Okay, I mean yeah,

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Speaker 1: but I mean is that unsafe? But okay, Kim, thank

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Speaker 7: You and Kaitlyn went out last weekend to drink and

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Speaker 7: you left her.

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Speaker 1: You left the bar alone, young woman alone.

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Speaker 6: In a bar.

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Speaker 7: I'm gonna dare you. I'm a damn I'm young and

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Speaker 7: alone and single.

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Speaker 3: You dare you?

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Speaker 7: I saw you drive away.

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 1: They drove away in a new burg that I offered

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Speaker 1: to put you in. But you know what, in case

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Speaker 1: I ever have a girlfriend, I can't do that because

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Speaker 1: I don't. That would have been so inappropriate.

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Speaker 7: I love me though.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, that'll go over really great.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Fred, I mean Fred Hobb.

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Speaker 6: We just texted means that I'm allowed to drive you

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Speaker 6: home anymore, Fred, because you're HoTT in single.

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Speaker 2: Drive anymore because I suspended last week. He doesn't want

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Speaker 2: to ride. This is crazy.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, you can throw a rock to

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Speaker 1: Kaylin's house from the bar we were at.

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Speaker 2: But yes, but what I did? I did.

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Speaker 5: I presented an option though, But imagine if something had happened.

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Speaker 2: But I presented an option and you said no.

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Speaker 11: Yeah, which is what this girl should have done.

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Speaker 1: This is so crazy. I at least presented the option

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Speaker 1: and you said no. That was after you told the

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Speaker 1: whole bar that your black eye was from me. So

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Speaker 1: at this point I was ready to go. But I

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Speaker 1: was ready to go. Hey everyone thought I was an abuser.

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Speaker 1: So this woman just called sarrago and she's not talking

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Speaker 1: was clear to enunciate that she is young and attractive,

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Speaker 1: which seems to be the issue here. If she were

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Speaker 1: have been doing a public service. But because she's young

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Speaker 2: What do you think?

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Speaker 11: So all I'm going to say is this, I'm pretty

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Speaker 11: would say, they're all my friends and everything. I know,

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Speaker 11: yes of loving trust and everything. We all trust each other,

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Speaker 11: nothing like that. But if I'm like the designated driver

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Speaker 11: and me and my coworkers are out and they're like, hey,

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Speaker 11: you know, can I get a right, then that's no

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Speaker 11: problem at all.

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Speaker 8: It's namely on her.

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Speaker 11: All I have to say is that he should go.

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Speaker 11: She has some trust issues, some insecurities that she has

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Speaker 11: to work through. It's really not a big deal. I

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Speaker 1: I agree, Mario. I think she's projecting. But thank you

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Speaker 1: so much. Have a great day. I appreciate you listening

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Speaker 1: to Yeah, I appreciate you listening and being so highly

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Speaker 1: intelligentis to agree with me. I hate Natasha. Hi, Natasha,

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Speaker 1: these people are Can you believe this? Can you believe

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Speaker 1: these people in this room can believe it? I can't

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Speaker 1: believe it. What do you think.

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Speaker 3: I think she should go if her trust issues are

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Speaker 3: that bad?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is on her, and I think she needs

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Speaker 1: to acknowledge that. Because again I agree if this dude

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Speaker 1: were known for cheating and he were known for cheating

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: There's a lot of scenarios here where she could have

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Speaker 1: said something where I would have said, well, that is

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Speaker 1: that that puts him in a precarious situation, you know,

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Speaker 1: like that, that's not a great look. But he doesn't.

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Speaker 1: She she has no reason not to trust him. She

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Speaker 1: said that herself. He was doing a nice thing, he

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Speaker 1: I would probably be more inclined to leave her. I

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Speaker 1: think she should be worried about what he's going to do.

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Speaker 6: I agree.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Natasha, have a great day, Thanks for listening.

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Speaker 1: Thank you appreciate what she thinks.

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Speaker 7: Because he's gilding up with the young one.

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Speaker 1: You should have seen what she was doing while he

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Speaker 1: was doing unbelievable. This is crazy a tote or something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I had no idea they were on some kind of

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Speaker 1: a bitmer level of commitment. Hey, Liz, Hi, good morning guys.

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Speaker 1: I Liz there or go? What do you think?

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Speaker 7: I guess? Say?

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Speaker 3: But I do understand where she's coming from, because I

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Speaker 6: My boyfriend gave a coworker a ride to the car

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Speaker 4: And I was not okay with it, and he pulled

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Speaker 2: Why though, what was the problem?

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Speaker 1: Did he buy her? Because that would that would be

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Speaker 1: my problem is he didn't.

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Speaker 7: Buy her the car.

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Speaker 6: But I guess it's just the principal, like he didn't say,

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Speaker 6: you know, like beforehand, and he told me after this

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay. So so Liz, let's just let's just

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Speaker 1: role play this a little bit here. So they're in

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Speaker 1: you know, we all I drove with somebody else, need

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Speaker 1: call you and say, Hi, Liz, I'm standing here with

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Speaker 1: Is that okay with you? Oh no, it's not okay?

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Speaker 1: All right, see a coworker, I'm out of here. Like

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Speaker 1: what was he supposed to do? Yeah?

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Speaker 6: I get I mean, honestly, I would have been like, hey,

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Speaker 6: you could have paid for her uber hole, which I

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Speaker 6: could have been like, there you go.

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Speaker 2: You know, okay, well, fair enough, fair enough.

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Speaker 7: I mean, it's not asking, We're not we're not asking

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Speaker 7: answer permission. You just say you let your partner know

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Speaker 3: You can.

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Speaker 2: On the corner a good day.

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Speaker 4: It's like I always tell my partner, put yourself in

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Speaker 6: With an attractive person.

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Speaker 3: Is that okay.

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Speaker 1: I would like to believe that if you did a

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Speaker 1: nice thing for an attractive, ugly, fat, skinny supermodel not

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Speaker 1: would like to believe that I wouldn't jump to you know,

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Speaker 2: I'd like to believe that I would.

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Speaker 1: I would trust you enough to that you could be

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Speaker 1: somehow it would be okay. I'd like to believe that,

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Speaker 1: Thank you, Liz, have a good.

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Speaker 2: Day, have a good data all right now.

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Speaker 1: Nicole, Nicole you're taking a hard stance on this, Nicole,

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Speaker 1: are you.

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Speaker 9: Yes?

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Speaker 2: I am to go ahead. What is it? Who tell

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Speaker 4: So I feel like she should not go.

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Speaker 10: However, I think that I do think it's disrespectful. I

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Speaker 10: it's it has nothing to do with him. It's her

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Speaker 10: it's not his business. But he made it his problem,

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Speaker 10: and he made it his business by asking her. And

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Speaker 10: I think it's really disrespectful for a taken man to

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, fair enough, thank you, have a good day, Tammy, Hi, Sammy,

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Speaker 2: good morning. Damn.

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Speaker 1: Hi.

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Speaker 3: She should stay, but she should definitely have a conversation

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Speaker 3: just remembering that Chris Rocks bit from I don't know

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Speaker 8: D I don't.

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Speaker 2: Standing up.

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Speaker 8: So many.

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Speaker 7: Over the edge, Tammy.

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Speaker 1: We cannot, we cannot perpetuate the idea that a man

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Speaker 3: I'm not saying it's one hundred percent, but I mean it, honestly,

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Speaker 3: it kind of makes some sense to me. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I mean, it's it's money. It seems real, you know,

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Speaker 1: I just I don't want to put out there that

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Speaker 1: Probably half the stuff, but it's not all. We can't

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Speaker 1: do that. That that is that is a dangerous idea. Look,

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Speaker 1: you guys like women. So I can't even I really am.

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Speaker 2: I need to go motor boat. Thank you, Tammy.

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Speaker 3: Have a good day, all right, guys.

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Speaker 1: I actually, I don't know if I've ever had to

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Speaker 1: I just like I had to, Tammy stop.

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Speaker 7: It's my new favorite quote.

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Speaker 1: Oh boy, The Entertainer of Port and Josey. This shows

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