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Speaker 1: What's up, y'all.

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Speaker 2: It's your girl Lex Peete, and it's your girls very

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Speaker 2: in the cold, and you are tuned in to another

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Speaker 2: episode of Poor Mind where.

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Speaker 1: Drunk Sign speaks sober thoughts. And we are coming to

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Speaker 1: y'all from New York. Yep, we are in in the

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Speaker 1: city still.

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Speaker 2: Yes, we are still in the city and work done

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Speaker 2: and work done, and it's cold and it's snowy.

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Speaker 1: Bruh. And when I tell you so.

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Speaker 3: Glad that I like picked some warm stuffs, yeah, because

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Speaker 3: I knew it was gonna be windy, but I didn't

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, you know what's crazy.

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Speaker 2: It's not like really bad windy it was this morning,

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Speaker 2: but last night. Yeah, but last night I was just like,

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Speaker 2: I am a summer baby to the t Okay. I

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Speaker 2: cannot do the snow. I like to be in the heat.

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Speaker 2: And that's why I'm taking my ass to Miami this

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Speaker 2: weekend to get a little sunshine. I need to get

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Speaker 2: my tan on, I need some Melani back check girl

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Speaker 2: East Cold.

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Speaker 1: I can't wait to get back to Atlanta. Yes, so this.

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Speaker 2: Week we are in New York because y'all, most likely

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Speaker 2: all of y'all already know. We did the Breakfast Club

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Speaker 2: this week. We were the co host on Breakfast Club.

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Speaker 2: And when I tell y'all, like the first time we

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Speaker 2: did it, I was kind of nervous, but it was

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Speaker 2: like cool. This time it was cool too. But we

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Speaker 2: were actually the co host is Tom versus getting interviewed.

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Speaker 2: So we had to be there the first day. We

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Speaker 2: had to get there at what tome five fifteen.

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Speaker 3: We had to be there, yeah, at five fifteen, So

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Speaker 3: we had to wake up at like four am.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Well, I had to get up at three thirty because

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Speaker 2: I had to curl my hair because I got this

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Speaker 2: me to do it. I got up at three thirty

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I got up at four. Yeah.

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Speaker 3: And then same thing today. I mean we got there

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Speaker 3: five five, but.

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Speaker 1: I still woke up at like four something.

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. I got up at five this morning.

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Speaker 2: I crawled my hair before I went to bed.

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Speaker 3: I wasn't nervous really though doing it, cause I mean,

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Speaker 3: I guess I feel like, you know, we have radio experience,

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Speaker 3: what to expect. And then I used to listen to

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Speaker 3: Breakfast Club when I used.

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Speaker 1: To go to work.

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Speaker 3: I had a job, so I wasn't really nervous. It

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Speaker 3: was just like the getting up early. And then on

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Speaker 3: top of that, and then you know, like we had

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Speaker 3: already met Charlemagne and Envy before, so we know that

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Speaker 2: So I'll say this, going on other people's platform, lets

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Speaker 2: you know how good they are, because sometimes, like me Andrea,

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Speaker 2: I say this all the time. We've gone on other

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Speaker 2: one thing I love about doing stuff with people who

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Speaker 1: Like they make it easy.

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Speaker 2: Like Envy and Charlemagne are so good, and by the

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Speaker 2: time y'all see this, the lip service episode will have dropped.

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Speaker 2: We also did lip Service with Angelie. She was amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was a good episode, so I think y'all

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Speaker 1: really gonna enjoy that. Yes, it was really good.

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Speaker 2: And I just love how like she just keeps the

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Speaker 2: people say, oh, Charlemagne sucks or Envy sucks, or lex

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Speaker 2: Andrea suck or Angela or whatever you know. And I

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Speaker 1: But y'all don't know how hard this shit is. Oh yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's hard to keep a conversation.

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Speaker 3: Yes, cause sometimes it'd be like this, But I feel

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Speaker 3: like if you don't know what you're doing, it be

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Speaker 2: Spots or people trying to talk too much over each other,

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Speaker 3: More I feel like we do this sometimes, but it

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Speaker 2: Well I think that's just because that's how we talk

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Speaker 1: I mean, true, true, So it's gotta like this.

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Speaker 2: This podcast has made off of our friendship and how

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Speaker 2: feel like with three people, you know, we can pretty

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Speaker 2: much do that. But when it gets the four or

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Speaker 1: Right, because I'm not gonna lie.

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Speaker 2: When me and Dre have more than one guest on,

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Speaker 2: things always tend to get a little hectic. We still

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Speaker 3: It being a little crazy cause but I think it's

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Speaker 3: and then how do you do that? I guess professionally, right,

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Speaker 3: be like shut the hell is actually when everybody you

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Speaker 3: know having a little libations, And.

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Speaker 2: I will say, that's another thing me and Drea have

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Speaker 2: mastered on the show. Y'all know, the early episodes of

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Speaker 2: wind Down Wednesday, Poor Minds was bananas.

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Speaker 1: It used to be pretty crazy.

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Speaker 3: That type of stuff come with practice though, you know,

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Speaker 3: like the more you do something, it's just like riding nobody.

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Speaker 1: Bro, when I tell you, oh my god, you don't

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Speaker 2: Because the older episodes, I our words used to be slurming.

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Speaker 1: I mean, because we used to be drunk.

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Speaker 3: Way, I feel like it's a it's a difference between

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Speaker 2: To be drinking a gallon of barefoot on camera with evidence,

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Speaker 3: Drinking a gallon of bare foot, it's wild. It's wild, period.

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Speaker 1: Just to us. For the growth, people did not care

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Speaker 3: It's me we did not care because what like, you

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Speaker 3: Not to say liquor is not good for your body

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Speaker 3: what I mean, but it's like, if you are gonna drink,

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Speaker 2: Like I couldn't even I could not even drink that

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Speaker 2: if I want on somebody's show and they don't have nothing,

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Speaker 2: and I want to have a little one two, maybe

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Speaker 3: To, Yeah, crazy, couldn't be me, child, I'm just pretty

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Speaker 3: I'm so ready to go home, Like I've had fun,

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Speaker 1: But I also feel like I.

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Speaker 3: Just been gone from my house for a little longer

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Speaker 3: than you, because you're I had one to Houston first.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, And I am tired, like I can't wait to

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Speaker 1: But I have money in Houston too.

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Speaker 3: Before I came out here, I got to hang out

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Speaker 3: But we still have fun, we still turned it.

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Speaker 2: But she's good, Like she's good, I mean she good.

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Speaker 1: She I broke wreaths, right, she not right? Well?

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Speaker 2: You know how some people like they feel like I

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Speaker 3: My philosophy in life you always good. As long as

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Speaker 1: Be all right? You know what that is? Your like

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Speaker 2: Because I would never forget you hit that curb so hard?

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Speaker 1: What curve?

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Speaker 2: When me, you and Ryan were in the car, rams

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Speaker 1: He didn't fly through the window, did he bro Ron

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Speaker 1: was like he never heard Ryan have such a hot

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Speaker 1: You know that, right? Everybody knows Ryan loves Okay, y'all

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Speaker 2: Ryan is obsessed with T pain like he loves him down,

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Speaker 1: He's saying, he screamed when he sees PA. Yes we

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Speaker 3: but I just always look at things like things could

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Speaker 1: So period, do you gonna be okay? Bro Okay?

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Speaker 2: Not like the breakfast club, but could you do a

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Speaker 2: morning radio show? Like as a job, Like if somebody

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Speaker 2: were like, Drea, I want you to do morning radio

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Speaker 1: Would you do it?

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Speaker 3: I feel like I could do anything if the check right,

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Speaker 3: and it's a good opportunity, But you.

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Speaker 1: Gotta be in Atlanta Monday through Friday. I live in Atlanta.

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Speaker 2: I know what I'm saying. It ain't no oh girl,

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Speaker 2: I want to I'm going to Greece. Small, I mean yeah,

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Speaker 2: but I ain't never been agree you see.

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Speaker 1: What I'm saying, Because you know, you like to get

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Speaker 1: up and go you like to get up and go pool.

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Speaker 1: I mean facts I do.

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Speaker 3: But at the same time, I just feel like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: you know, like what is the check, Like, what is

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Speaker 3: the what the contracts say? Because I would like to

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Speaker 3: be able if I want to go somewhere.

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Speaker 1: I want to be able to go.

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Speaker 3: Maybe not all the time, but like, I'm sure we

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Speaker 3: can get a geest host if I have an opportunity

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Speaker 3: to go to Greece. Yeah, I mean, I'm sure if

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Speaker 3: I got to offer the job, you would have one

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Speaker 3: super you wouldn't do a morning show.

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Speaker 1: Never I could do it. It gotta be a big

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Speaker 3: But I feel the only reason I feel like I

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Speaker 3: When I think of years, I think about three years,

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Speaker 2: So but yeah, shout out to the Breakfast Club and

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Speaker 3: Oh okay, it's time to go home. Did you say

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Speaker 2: This was a lot for me, and you know, I'm

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's gonna be real fun because I really didn't

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Speaker 3: I want to go to the rodeo. I've been to

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Speaker 2: There, say, and I'm not gonna lie Burn's barbecue tint

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Speaker 3: Probably, but yeah, it's kind of hard. My friends lived there.

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Speaker 2: Well, literally everybody I knew was in that tent, like everybody.

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Speaker 2: so the first topic because I feel like this has

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Speaker 1: And you like, oh, girl, you got you a older man.

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Speaker 2: that's good for you. But when a older woman dates

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Speaker 1: Uh, she's robbing the girl cradle. That's nasty.

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Speaker 2: She can't get a man her age. Oh, she's just

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Speaker 2: So how do you feel about the double standards?

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Speaker 1: I'm more so I wanted to talk about it.

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Speaker 3: I'm more so I wanted to talk about it from

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I feel like if men can be forty two and

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Speaker 1: Thing without the Yeah, without getting scrutinized for it.

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Speaker 3: Are like people making a big deal about it, Like,

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Speaker 3: I feel like, it's literally the same shit.

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Speaker 1: If you think one is nasty, why you don't think

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Speaker 2: Now, I agree with that because if a person, if

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Speaker 3: matter if the genders are reversed, right, it's still the

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00:18:35,960 --> 00:18:36,840
Speaker 3: same age gap.

442
00:18:37,359 --> 00:18:38,880
Speaker 1: I think that at the end of the day.

443
00:18:38,960 --> 00:18:41,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I really think y'all shouldn't give a fuck who

444
00:18:41,359 --> 00:18:46,280
Speaker 3: nobody fucking to be honest, But I have definitely seen

445
00:18:46,520 --> 00:18:51,680
Speaker 3: recently a lot of women getting backlash like popular I

446
00:18:51,760 --> 00:18:54,119
Speaker 3: guess you could say, women on social media and stuff

447
00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:57,800
Speaker 3: getting backlash for dating younger guys, you know, and then

448
00:18:57,800 --> 00:18:59,399
Speaker 3: a lot of people are trying to say, oh they

449
00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:02,280
Speaker 3: trying to or like you said, oh you can't get

450
00:19:02,359 --> 00:19:05,240
Speaker 3: somebody your age. But I feel like some of these

451
00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:11,320
Speaker 3: particular women in question can definitely get somebody their age.

452
00:19:11,480 --> 00:19:13,639
Speaker 3: Let's be for real here, right, you know what I mean?

453
00:19:13,720 --> 00:19:15,960
Speaker 3: But maybe you just want somebody. I think sometimes people

454
00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:17,840
Speaker 3: just like they the younger people because they be wanting

455
00:19:17,880 --> 00:19:21,359
Speaker 3: excitement and they like right, or I don't know, because

456
00:19:21,359 --> 00:19:23,640
Speaker 3: I haven't ever did personally, I've never dated a guy

457
00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:28,440
Speaker 3: that was significantly younger than me. I think probably have

458
00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,960
Speaker 3: I'm trying to think have I dated anybody that's.

459
00:19:30,840 --> 00:19:33,080
Speaker 1: Young in me period? I don't think I have.

460
00:19:33,560 --> 00:19:35,199
Speaker 2: But see to me, when you say like they want

461
00:19:35,240 --> 00:19:37,600
Speaker 2: a little bit of excitement, Like, I don't see the

462
00:19:37,720 --> 00:19:39,040
Speaker 2: excitement of datting somebody younger.

463
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:42,880
Speaker 1: What's the excitement me burping you? Maybe it being less serious.

464
00:19:43,000 --> 00:19:46,080
Speaker 3: I feel like everybody ain't always looking for a serious situation.

465
00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,000
Speaker 3: And I think that when dudes be younger, they be

466
00:19:49,040 --> 00:19:53,480
Speaker 3: aloof that was a good word. Yeah, I think they

467
00:19:53,600 --> 00:19:55,800
Speaker 3: be a little aloof or you know, they just be

468
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:58,200
Speaker 3: excited to be there, excited to like, because that's what

469
00:19:58,320 --> 00:20:00,920
Speaker 3: I think to when I also feel like, who's to

470
00:20:01,040 --> 00:20:03,560
Speaker 3: say that these niggas don't be running down on them?

471
00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:05,359
Speaker 1: I feel I definitely do.

472
00:20:05,400 --> 00:20:08,800
Speaker 3: I feel like young dudes definitely be wanting them older

473
00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:10,680
Speaker 3: women like they love older women.

474
00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,159
Speaker 2: And I'm not even saying I'm technically counted as older,

475
00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,320
Speaker 2: but I get hit on by.

476
00:20:15,240 --> 00:20:18,080
Speaker 1: Guys like in like twenty one to twenty five the most.

477
00:20:17,960 --> 00:20:21,720
Speaker 3: But then you are older woman in comparison to you know,

478
00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,719
Speaker 3: so yeah, I get it hit on a lot now

479
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:28,160
Speaker 3: personally for me, I do not like, won't nobody younger

480
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:30,560
Speaker 3: than me. That's just my personal preference. If I can

481
00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:32,880
Speaker 3: still smell the Similac on your breath, I'm cool.

482
00:20:33,119 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 1: I'm good on it. Now.

483
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:38,800
Speaker 3: Twenty one, that's that's too young. Yeah, twenty one is

484
00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:42,080
Speaker 3: a little different. Like I feel like, as a thirty

485
00:20:42,119 --> 00:20:45,520
Speaker 3: something year old woman or as a forty something year

486
00:20:45,600 --> 00:20:47,879
Speaker 3: old woman, what do you want with a twenty one

487
00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:48,400
Speaker 3: year old?

488
00:20:48,560 --> 00:20:49,679
Speaker 1: Like he barely legal?

489
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:53,240
Speaker 3: Right, he's barely legal, Like he's just now started being

490
00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,680
Speaker 3: able to have a drink and to go to the

491
00:20:54,720 --> 00:20:56,600
Speaker 3: twentyl club without a fake ided.

492
00:20:57,119 --> 00:20:58,800
Speaker 1: I don't want no part of that, you know what

493
00:20:58,840 --> 00:20:59,080
Speaker 1: I mean?

494
00:20:59,160 --> 00:21:00,800
Speaker 3: But I feel like, you know, when you talking about

495
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:04,440
Speaker 3: a woman who's in her thirties or her forties and

496
00:21:04,520 --> 00:21:06,680
Speaker 3: she dating a man that's like twenty eight, twenty nine,

497
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:09,359
Speaker 3: I was gonna say, that's short business. And I mean,

498
00:21:09,400 --> 00:21:12,919
Speaker 3: he is significantly younger than you style, But that's show business.

499
00:21:12,960 --> 00:21:15,160
Speaker 3: Y'all are content in adults. He has been an adult

500
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:17,440
Speaker 3: for a long time, So I don't necessarily think it's

501
00:21:17,520 --> 00:21:22,720
Speaker 3: grooming when a person is fresh off the bottle, fast,

502
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:26,240
Speaker 3: fresh off that similar, fresh off that nipple. I definitely

503
00:21:26,359 --> 00:21:29,040
Speaker 3: feel like it's a little bit of grooming going away

504
00:21:29,359 --> 00:21:29,760
Speaker 3: for sure.

505
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,119
Speaker 1: Yes, so especially when it's one of these, you know,

506
00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:39,560
Speaker 1: rich younger guys. Yes, I saw this. This is very,

507
00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,160
Speaker 1: very weird.

508
00:21:40,760 --> 00:21:42,720
Speaker 2: But I was looking for sex topics for us to

509
00:21:42,800 --> 00:21:47,080
Speaker 2: talk about, and they have a fetish category called eighteenth birthdays.

510
00:21:48,480 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 1: Like that's when shit gets weird.

511
00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:52,680
Speaker 2: When you're like waiting for somebody to turn eighteen and

512
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:53,960
Speaker 2: you feel like, oh, well, it's okay.

513
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:55,960
Speaker 1: That's when stuff gets a little weird.

514
00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,440
Speaker 2: Like when the girl what's what's a girl's name, the

515
00:21:58,480 --> 00:22:01,159
Speaker 2: bad Baby girl turned eighteen and started her only fans,

516
00:22:01,280 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 2: like eighteen, yeah, she Well, I think she's way past

517
00:22:03,920 --> 00:22:05,640
Speaker 2: eighteen now. I think this was a couple of years ago.

518
00:22:05,680 --> 00:22:07,520
Speaker 2: Whenever she I think she might be like nineteen twenty.

519
00:22:07,560 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 2: I don't know how old she is now, but I

520
00:22:09,119 --> 00:22:11,640
Speaker 2: remember when she turned eighteen and started her only fans.

521
00:22:11,840 --> 00:22:14,000
Speaker 2: And I'm not knocking her hustle, you know whatever, but

522
00:22:14,080 --> 00:22:16,240
Speaker 2: I'm talking about on the other end, like the men

523
00:22:17,040 --> 00:22:18,679
Speaker 2: that were signing up for that account.

524
00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,640
Speaker 1: It's like, do you realize, Like, that's when it gets

525
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:22,560
Speaker 1: creepy to me.

526
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 3: Unfortunately, though, I think a lot of people think that

527
00:22:25,520 --> 00:22:27,320
Speaker 3: when you turn eighteen, you free games.

528
00:22:27,520 --> 00:22:30,159
Speaker 1: Yeah, And I think that men have been thinking like

529
00:22:30,240 --> 00:22:33,040
Speaker 1: that for a very very long time. And I hate

530
00:22:33,080 --> 00:22:34,920
Speaker 1: to say, but it's not just men. You know, women

531
00:22:35,240 --> 00:22:36,520
Speaker 1: they do that too.

532
00:22:36,880 --> 00:22:39,320
Speaker 2: They get to try to groom in the young boys,

533
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:41,720
Speaker 2: and it happens more than but you know what it

534
00:22:41,800 --> 00:22:44,520
Speaker 2: is because they applaud that, like if a young boy

535
00:22:44,640 --> 00:22:46,920
Speaker 2: sleeps with his teacher, it's like, oh man, you knocked

536
00:22:46,960 --> 00:22:47,560
Speaker 2: the teacher down.

537
00:22:47,640 --> 00:22:50,960
Speaker 1: It's cool, you know what I'm saying. Yeah, that was No,

538
00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:54,320
Speaker 1: it's not that was never okay, No, I'm what I'm said.

539
00:22:55,520 --> 00:22:59,159
Speaker 3: That be a little different, you know, technically even though

540
00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,600
Speaker 3: you shouldn't be professor, shouldn't be trying to fuck on you.

541
00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:05,120
Speaker 1: Right, y'all are grown but in high school.

542
00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:07,320
Speaker 2: Right, I mean, I of course think it's girls when

543
00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:09,520
Speaker 2: I'm saying, I see what people say when they see

544
00:23:09,560 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 2: stuff like that. That's perverty though, it's very perverted and

545
00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:13,640
Speaker 2: it's very disgusting.

546
00:23:13,760 --> 00:23:17,440
Speaker 1: Like I said, there's definitely a fin line. We're not

547
00:23:17,520 --> 00:23:18,000
Speaker 1: a fin line.

548
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:21,520
Speaker 2: It's a blind between liking somebody and the age doesn't

549
00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:24,480
Speaker 2: matter and they're an adult like they're twenty eight, twenty nine,

550
00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:27,520
Speaker 2: thirty versus you dating somebody young because you're trying to

551
00:23:27,560 --> 00:23:29,399
Speaker 2: mold them into what you think that they could be.

552
00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,520
Speaker 2: And you're trying to like, oh, let me sink my

553
00:23:31,720 --> 00:23:35,480
Speaker 2: pause in him before he gets too old and realizes XYZ, Like,

554
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 2: let me put this because ladies, we know, the older we.

555
00:23:38,640 --> 00:23:41,359
Speaker 1: Get, you know, the kusha get better, you dude, the

556
00:23:41,480 --> 00:23:42,280
Speaker 1: kuca get better.

557
00:23:42,359 --> 00:23:45,320
Speaker 2: So you know, if you thirty five and you putting

558
00:23:45,359 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 2: it on a little twenty year old, he ain't gonna

559
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:47,480
Speaker 2: know what to do.

560
00:23:48,040 --> 00:23:50,840
Speaker 1: You know what you're doing. You know what you're doing.

561
00:23:50,880 --> 00:23:53,280
Speaker 1: It's the same thing with these older men, like you know,

562
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:53,760
Speaker 1: if you in.

563
00:23:53,840 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 2: Your thirties, Like if you're thirty five and you're talking

564
00:23:57,119 --> 00:23:59,320
Speaker 2: to an eighteen year old, you know what you're doing.

565
00:23:59,840 --> 00:24:02,360
Speaker 2: You know how to manipulate this girl. You know how

566
00:24:02,480 --> 00:24:05,080
Speaker 2: to make her fall in love with you. Like she young,

567
00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,920
Speaker 2: she don't know no better. You can't run that game

568
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:10,080
Speaker 2: on a thirty three year old, So I mean you.

569
00:24:10,119 --> 00:24:12,520
Speaker 1: Can because it's still some dumb thirty three year olds.

570
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,280
Speaker 1: You're definitely kidd So I bexed the difference. You're right,

571
00:24:16,320 --> 00:24:17,240
Speaker 1: you're right about that, but.

572
00:24:17,359 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 2: It's easier to do it on the eighteen year old,

573
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:21,800
Speaker 2: like you gotta put in a little more work.

574
00:24:21,720 --> 00:24:23,639
Speaker 1: Easier to do that type of stuff with dumb people.

575
00:24:25,000 --> 00:24:28,159
Speaker 3: No, see what I'm being honest, because I feel like

576
00:24:28,200 --> 00:24:30,639
Speaker 3: when I was eighteen, I just have never been a

577
00:24:30,720 --> 00:24:33,639
Speaker 3: super impressionable person, Like you know what I mean. I

578
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:38,640
Speaker 3: think some people are easily persuaded or can be manipulated,

579
00:24:38,680 --> 00:24:40,280
Speaker 3: and I think you have some people who are just

580
00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 3: not easily manipulated. And I feel like I've always dated

581
00:24:43,280 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 3: guys that were older than me. Like even when I

582
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:48,119
Speaker 3: was eighteen, I definitely was dating like twenty three year olds.

583
00:24:48,840 --> 00:24:51,000
Speaker 3: Well that's not twenty two year olds. I mean, yeah,

584
00:24:51,040 --> 00:24:54,280
Speaker 3: but you're one of those you have life experience. Yeah,

585
00:24:54,359 --> 00:24:56,480
Speaker 3: but like, but why I was eighteen.

586
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,760
Speaker 2: It's kind of like, y'all both still childish, y'all both

587
00:24:58,760 --> 00:25:01,040
Speaker 2: still figuring it out. But like if you were, if

588
00:25:01,040 --> 00:25:03,480
Speaker 2: you were eighteen dating a thirty five year old, he

589
00:25:03,640 --> 00:25:05,600
Speaker 2: got some game that you ain't never even that's.

590
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:06,120
Speaker 1: A little bit different.

591
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 3: But let me okay, but I was twenty two twenty

592
00:25:08,640 --> 00:25:13,240
Speaker 3: three dating like a forty two year old. I was, Yeah,

593
00:25:14,560 --> 00:25:16,760
Speaker 3: I was, and I used to be like no, and

594
00:25:16,800 --> 00:25:18,919
Speaker 3: I didn't never fuck that Nigain. I got mashit from

595
00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:21,080
Speaker 3: him and he used to be running it up. He

596
00:25:21,200 --> 00:25:22,720
Speaker 3: used to drive from Louisiana.

597
00:25:23,000 --> 00:25:26,560
Speaker 1: I remember, I know you do to that young man.

598
00:25:26,680 --> 00:25:29,240
Speaker 1: He used to drive from Louisiana all the time. Bring

599
00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:31,680
Speaker 1: me gibs, my god, I remember that young man.

600
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:36,639
Speaker 3: Yes, he used to be buying me a little cute

601
00:25:36,680 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 3: little designer slides and Percy.

602
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,480
Speaker 2: Remember he bought me that little loois back like he

603
00:25:42,440 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 2: used to be in the member, like young Timder, I'm

604
00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:45,679
Speaker 2: gonna put the whole dick in a.

605
00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,080
Speaker 1: But that's but that's what I'm saying to me.

606
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:52,720
Speaker 3: It's just more of a mindset thing, like I think

607
00:25:52,800 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 3: you can easily manipulate somebody when they're easily manipulated.

608
00:25:57,160 --> 00:26:00,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, But you can't lie say like with wisdom

609
00:26:00,840 --> 00:26:02,880
Speaker 2: does come with age, you know what I'm saying.

610
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,600
Speaker 1: It do, But some people still dumb.

611
00:26:04,760 --> 00:26:07,280
Speaker 3: You can't say that wisdom coming some people don't be

612
00:26:07,400 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 3: wise and they be old as fuzzed, right, But you

613
00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:10,760
Speaker 3: can't say.

614
00:26:10,640 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 2: Like you do live and you learn, like there's things

615
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 2: that I did at eighteen, or decisions that are decisions

616
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 2: that I've made at eighteen that I'm not making at

617
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:17,920
Speaker 2: thirty three.

618
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: You're not right, because you're not dumb.

619
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:22,480
Speaker 2: Right, But there's a lot of people the point that

620
00:26:22,560 --> 00:26:24,760
Speaker 2: I'm making I was dumb at one point.

621
00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:27,760
Speaker 1: I wisened up. Some people stay dumb, but some people

622
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:34,080
Speaker 1: do wisen up, you know, maybe more more more of

623
00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,440
Speaker 1: the first I see, you don't have faith in the worls.

624
00:26:37,960 --> 00:26:40,439
Speaker 3: I have no faith in the faith in these niggas,

625
00:26:40,520 --> 00:26:42,400
Speaker 3: neither the Oh, if it make it sound any better.

626
00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,399
Speaker 2: Okay, and you're forty five and you're single, what's the

627
00:26:45,480 --> 00:26:46,320
Speaker 2: youngest you would date.

628
00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:49,959
Speaker 1: From forty five and single.

629
00:26:50,480 --> 00:26:53,639
Speaker 3: Yes, I probably wouldn't want to date anybody younger than

630
00:26:53,800 --> 00:26:54,640
Speaker 3: like thirty eight.

631
00:26:55,200 --> 00:26:58,760
Speaker 1: Okay, that's fair, that's fair. I just don't like dating

632
00:26:58,840 --> 00:27:00,200
Speaker 1: people much older than me.

633
00:27:00,400 --> 00:27:02,800
Speaker 3: Like, even with that situation that I was talking about

634
00:27:02,840 --> 00:27:04,320
Speaker 3: that I was in, I think that was one of

635
00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,080
Speaker 3: the reasons why I didn't end up having sex with him,

636
00:27:07,119 --> 00:27:09,320
Speaker 3: because I just couldn't vibe with him like that. Yeah,

637
00:27:09,400 --> 00:27:12,040
Speaker 3: I just felt like we were from two completely different

638
00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:15,359
Speaker 3: eras in generations, Like we didn't have anything in common,

639
00:27:15,840 --> 00:27:17,600
Speaker 3: and so I feel like when it's a big age

640
00:27:17,680 --> 00:27:18,199
Speaker 3: gap like that.

641
00:27:18,320 --> 00:27:22,440
Speaker 1: I just in rachels nah, because he wasn't at all bad.

642
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:27,359
Speaker 3: But he's definitely. He definitely used to be playing like

643
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,639
Speaker 3: a little cool jas the.

644
00:27:29,280 --> 00:27:30,160
Speaker 1: Ain't that bad?

645
00:27:33,119 --> 00:27:35,560
Speaker 3: You used to watch solid movies? Did we watch what

646
00:27:35,840 --> 00:27:38,000
Speaker 3: solid movies? If the black and white ones?

647
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:38,280
Speaker 4: No?

648
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: On your spot? But yeah, like I just yeah, girl,

649
00:27:42,880 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 1: I don't know.

650
00:27:43,680 --> 00:27:45,480
Speaker 3: I just think that when it's that big of an

651
00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:47,920
Speaker 3: age gap, we don't have nothing in common, and I

652
00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:49,760
Speaker 3: just feel like it's not gonna work. I prefer to

653
00:27:49,840 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 3: date people like we kind of within that same age

654
00:27:52,840 --> 00:27:56,000
Speaker 3: range or not too far, because usually my philosophy is,

655
00:27:56,680 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 3: you know, we wasn't in high school at the same time,

656
00:27:58,920 --> 00:27:59,520
Speaker 3: you too old?

657
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:03,600
Speaker 1: See. I like older guys, but not too much older

658
00:28:03,920 --> 00:28:04,399
Speaker 1: that I'm not.

659
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:08,359
Speaker 3: That I'm thirty one, I feel like niggas be a

660
00:28:08,400 --> 00:28:11,919
Speaker 3: little more mature yeah in a thirties, yeah, than they

661
00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:13,399
Speaker 3: was in a twenties. Like I felt like when I

662
00:28:13,480 --> 00:28:15,320
Speaker 3: was in my twenties, I felt like I had to

663
00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:17,879
Speaker 3: date somebody that was like ten years older than me

664
00:28:18,480 --> 00:28:21,359
Speaker 3: or whatever to get it, yeah, to get.

665
00:28:21,280 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: A quote unquote mature guy.

666
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,680
Speaker 3: But now that I'm thirty one, I feel like, you know,

667
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:27,200
Speaker 3: if I date a thirty five year old or a

668
00:28:27,320 --> 00:28:28,440
Speaker 3: thirty eight year old.

669
00:28:28,320 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: I think he gonna be you know, yes, it should

670
00:28:30,760 --> 00:28:32,040
Speaker 1: have it together a little bit.

671
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 2: See, I've always been and look, I'm gonna be kind

672
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,160
Speaker 2: of contradicting myself a little bit though, but I've always

673
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,640
Speaker 2: kind of liked older men, but not too too much older.

674
00:28:41,000 --> 00:28:42,920
Speaker 2: Like at one point I was dating a guy like

675
00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:45,240
Speaker 2: extremely older than me, Like I thought the nigga was

676
00:28:45,240 --> 00:28:46,640
Speaker 2: gonna take me to a juke joint old.

677
00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:48,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't want no geriatric deep and I.

678
00:28:49,440 --> 00:28:52,280
Speaker 2: Like, you know, he's waking up in the morning scatting

679
00:28:52,320 --> 00:28:54,160
Speaker 2: the jazz and shit like I don't.

680
00:28:55,560 --> 00:28:58,479
Speaker 1: But I liked it. I liked it a little bit.

681
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:01,800
Speaker 1: But I still like old, and I still like older guys,

682
00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,080
Speaker 1: Like like how old I think?

683
00:29:05,120 --> 00:29:09,160
Speaker 2: I talked about this, like, you know, like big Papa's

684
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,320
Speaker 2: in his fifties. He's in his fifties, but he's not

685
00:29:12,560 --> 00:29:15,960
Speaker 2: like the average I will say, like fifty year old.

686
00:29:16,000 --> 00:29:17,880
Speaker 2: Like he don't be acting like an old ass man,

687
00:29:17,920 --> 00:29:19,360
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying. Not that fifty is an

688
00:29:19,360 --> 00:29:21,320
Speaker 2: old ass man, No fifty anybody.

689
00:29:21,360 --> 00:29:28,600
Speaker 1: But you know what what them little heads, the way

690
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:34,440
Speaker 1: he be wearing the negs. But okay, but okay, girl.

691
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: Don't you act like he had what's a pass called

692
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:39,920
Speaker 2: a cagle what they called he don't wear those.

693
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:45,080
Speaker 1: He dot see what you did again? He got some.

694
00:29:47,160 --> 00:29:49,400
Speaker 3: When he around us. He be trying to wear caps

695
00:29:49,440 --> 00:29:51,960
Speaker 3: because he because he was swagging us, you know, were

696
00:29:51,960 --> 00:29:54,160
Speaker 3: a little younger, you know. But I feel like he

697
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:58,080
Speaker 3: definitely got the cagles that he be pulling out on

698
00:29:58,440 --> 00:29:59,600
Speaker 3: a normal occasion.

699
00:30:00,000 --> 00:30:04,040
Speaker 1: It's a regular occasion. You need to stop, Okay, all right,

700
00:30:04,120 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: so we go move on.

701
00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 3: To I never dated nobody in apps. I like that's

702
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:13,440
Speaker 3: where I draw I drawed a line in forty something.

703
00:30:13,800 --> 00:30:16,280
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I feel like, like I said, that's probably

704
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:18,920
Speaker 2: like the oldest I've you know, talked to or dated

705
00:30:19,000 --> 00:30:19,280
Speaker 2: or whatever.

706
00:30:19,360 --> 00:30:21,000
Speaker 1: But we ain't having fun. Like he's got like an

707
00:30:21,040 --> 00:30:23,040
Speaker 1: old fifty Like I can't date.

708
00:30:22,920 --> 00:30:25,120
Speaker 2: Nobody that don't like to be outside and turn up

709
00:30:25,160 --> 00:30:26,880
Speaker 2: and have a good time and go bay. It's like

710
00:30:27,520 --> 00:30:29,720
Speaker 2: because I've dated younger men that just like to be inside,

711
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:30,560
Speaker 2: you know what I'm saying.

712
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:32,920
Speaker 1: So I'm just if we can get up and go,

713
00:30:33,120 --> 00:30:34,120
Speaker 1: you can get the dick up.

714
00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:37,040
Speaker 3: Yeah, because I feel like that's not an age thing,

715
00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:40,040
Speaker 3: that's more of a personality track, because you got people

716
00:30:40,240 --> 00:30:41,680
Speaker 3: older people who be outside.

717
00:30:41,840 --> 00:30:45,560
Speaker 1: My daddy used to be outside facts he did. I

718
00:30:45,640 --> 00:30:46,400
Speaker 1: believe it outside.

719
00:30:46,400 --> 00:30:48,320
Speaker 2: Would you date a man like if you had to

720
00:30:48,360 --> 00:30:49,040
Speaker 2: take viagra?

721
00:30:49,920 --> 00:30:51,480
Speaker 1: No, damn you streat.

722
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:54,280
Speaker 3: I mean if that's my husbands different, Like if we married,

723
00:30:54,280 --> 00:30:57,840
Speaker 3: I'm not gonna divorce my nigga because he got ed. Now.

724
00:30:58,160 --> 00:31:00,800
Speaker 2: So if you're five and you're dating fifty year old

725
00:31:01,480 --> 00:31:04,480
Speaker 2: and he has to take vigary dating or married dating,

726
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 2: if we dating, I'm not what the hell?

727
00:31:08,560 --> 00:31:12,840
Speaker 3: So my pussy words, I know it's gonna still risk.

728
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:15,920
Speaker 1: I know it worked that period. You ain't got to

729
00:31:16,040 --> 00:31:17,320
Speaker 1: tell me twice.

730
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:20,800
Speaker 3: But now for real, Like, I just feel like, Yo,

731
00:31:21,080 --> 00:31:23,600
Speaker 3: at forty five, my pussy's still gonna be working, like

732
00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:25,479
Speaker 3: and I want Yo nick to work to look I'm

733
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,160
Speaker 3: trying to still.

734
00:31:26,160 --> 00:31:28,480
Speaker 2: Puggy hey, but he gonna take the little blue pill.

735
00:31:29,320 --> 00:31:29,720
Speaker 1: And it's.

736
00:31:31,680 --> 00:31:34,880
Speaker 3: I just don't you are a judging. I don't feel

737
00:31:34,920 --> 00:31:37,160
Speaker 3: like it's judging. It's just the preference. Now if you're

738
00:31:37,240 --> 00:31:40,320
Speaker 3: my husband, I am gonna be so big on when

739
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:42,640
Speaker 3: I get married. But when I get married, like staying

740
00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:45,560
Speaker 3: committed to my nigga, But that's because you made a

741
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:48,520
Speaker 3: commitment to me up until then.

742
00:31:49,160 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 1: Buy nigga if it ain't working, you got to go.

743
00:31:52,000 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 2: Okay, I feel you, So what if he was taking

744
00:31:53,800 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 2: it behind your back and like it like you have

745
00:31:55,840 --> 00:31:57,200
Speaker 2: the best text of your life and then like a

746
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,120
Speaker 2: year later you find a viagratude.

747
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:03,760
Speaker 1: Do what you gotta do. What you go though, do

748
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:04,880
Speaker 1: what you gotta do.

749
00:32:05,600 --> 00:32:08,440
Speaker 3: But sometimes I feel like, but sometimes I feel like,

750
00:32:08,480 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 3: because you're saying that, but sometimes people be taking those

751
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:13,040
Speaker 3: supplements and stuff and that shit don't work.

752
00:32:14,560 --> 00:32:16,320
Speaker 1: So don't get me wrong. Like maybe if he was

753
00:32:16,400 --> 00:32:18,400
Speaker 1: taking it and it was working, I'd be cool with it.

754
00:32:19,120 --> 00:32:22,080
Speaker 3: But sometimes niggas be having a recksile dysfunction and they

755
00:32:22,160 --> 00:32:24,720
Speaker 3: be taking like viagra and blue Shoe and all of

756
00:32:24,760 --> 00:32:25,880
Speaker 3: that stuff and they still.

757
00:32:25,720 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 1: Don't be getting it up.

758
00:32:27,320 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 3: Okay, Okay, So if you're going through all of these

759
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:33,720
Speaker 3: measures and it's still not working and we're dating and

760
00:32:33,800 --> 00:32:34,880
Speaker 3: we're not married.

761
00:32:35,200 --> 00:32:37,600
Speaker 1: Then you off the door. Oh I'm going with a

762
00:32:37,680 --> 00:32:43,400
Speaker 1: win you and what you're gonna do probably just cheat.

763
00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:45,280
Speaker 1: See No, I don't.

764
00:32:46,080 --> 00:32:48,280
Speaker 3: I'm not cheating on no nigga that I'm not married to.

765
00:32:54,000 --> 00:32:56,560
Speaker 3: If we not, I just feel like, if we're just

766
00:32:56,760 --> 00:32:57,560
Speaker 3: dating each.

767
00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,320
Speaker 1: Other, why am I cheating on you? Why would want

768
00:33:01,360 --> 00:33:04,080
Speaker 1: the older man because we vibe. But I might want

769
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:07,120
Speaker 1: the younger nigga just for the dick. I'm breaking up

770
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:08,400
Speaker 1: with anybody. I don't give it them.

771
00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:11,280
Speaker 3: We in a relationship, I'm breaking up with you. I'm

772
00:33:11,320 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: not cheating if we married. If we married, I'm getting

773
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:14,920
Speaker 3: a divorce.

774
00:33:15,000 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Are we separating? You are cheating? Because

775
00:33:18,880 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: why the fuck am I sticking around? Why not get that?

776
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,640
Speaker 1: No more? All right, go ahead, let's get to the

777
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:28,720
Speaker 1: next topic. Let's get to the next topic. What's up, y'all.

778
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Speaker 2: It's your girl, lex P and I have a very

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786
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Speaker 2: I repeat, we are still adding dates. But if you

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795
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Speaker 2: our financial goals on the show, so we definitely want

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Speaker 1: I mean, you're gonna do that anyway.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. So for the next topic, I need to pull

829
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Speaker 1: it up because I ain't pulled it up. So the

830
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Speaker 1: name not the rosett and hit us a little bit.

831
00:35:33,680 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 3: So for the next topic, I also talk about our

832
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:41,120
Speaker 3: most relationships with like do you create relationships normally with

833
00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:45,719
Speaker 3: immediate connection or do you create them from like going

834
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:53,560
Speaker 3: on multiple days? I personally feel like immediate connection long

835
00:35:53,680 --> 00:35:57,799
Speaker 3: lasting relationships. It's right off the back, absolutely, I think.

836
00:35:57,920 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 3: So I don't know if I feel cause I feel

837
00:36:00,560 --> 00:36:02,560
Speaker 3: like if you go on one day with somebody or

838
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:04,520
Speaker 3: a few dates with somebody and you don't like them.

839
00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: Every time I've ever tried to give myself time.

840
00:36:08,080 --> 00:36:11,120
Speaker 3: To grow to like somebody, it still didn't end up

841
00:36:11,200 --> 00:36:15,400
Speaker 3: being anything that serious because I didn't like you off

842
00:36:15,520 --> 00:36:18,840
Speaker 3: the rig. We didn't have an immediate connection, right, Like

843
00:36:18,920 --> 00:36:21,600
Speaker 3: I feel like you have immediate connections with people, and

844
00:36:21,719 --> 00:36:24,120
Speaker 3: you know when you do, whether it's friends, like whether

845
00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:27,200
Speaker 3: when you meet somebody and y'all coolest fucking and you're just.

846
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:28,880
Speaker 1: Like, oh, that's my friend, Like I love her, We

847
00:36:29,000 --> 00:36:31,160
Speaker 1: be having a good time. Same thing.

848
00:36:31,239 --> 00:36:34,160
Speaker 3: I feel like with dating relationships, even sometimes when you

849
00:36:34,280 --> 00:36:36,840
Speaker 3: meet a guy and he's your friend first, you know,

850
00:36:36,960 --> 00:36:40,080
Speaker 3: when you and a person have like chemist and a connection,

851
00:36:40,360 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 3: right And then sometimes I think with some people, you know,

852
00:36:42,800 --> 00:36:44,400
Speaker 3: you just don't really vibe with them like that, but

853
00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:46,960
Speaker 3: you still try to force it, or you might like

854
00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:49,200
Speaker 3: so many other things about them like they might have

855
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,600
Speaker 3: they might check off all the other boxes, like you know,

856
00:36:52,040 --> 00:36:57,239
Speaker 3: say he's financially stable, say he's attractive, you know, say

857
00:36:57,280 --> 00:36:59,600
Speaker 3: the dick is fire all three of those things.

858
00:37:00,200 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 1: But spark, But that spark, y'all, and y'all just don't

859
00:37:03,880 --> 00:37:04,480
Speaker 1: have a lot of things.

860
00:37:06,160 --> 00:37:08,760
Speaker 2: I hate that goddamn spark because it ruins my life

861
00:37:09,440 --> 00:37:12,200
Speaker 2: because that spark gonna think like, you can't tell if

862
00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,680
Speaker 2: this is lustor it's love for a while, oh my god.

863
00:37:16,800 --> 00:37:19,320
Speaker 2: And then once you deep in it, that spark is

864
00:37:19,440 --> 00:37:22,480
Speaker 2: still there and it'll still trick you sometimes because you'd

865
00:37:22,480 --> 00:37:24,120
Speaker 2: be like, nah, this wasn't love, because this ain't what

866
00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:24,680
Speaker 2: real love is.

867
00:37:24,760 --> 00:37:26,440
Speaker 1: Then you see the nigga and you'll be like, look.

868
00:37:26,400 --> 00:37:31,240
Speaker 2: Wait, that spark that sparked my koochie. I've been sparked,

869
00:37:31,360 --> 00:37:34,000
Speaker 2: my brain been sparked, my heart been sparked.

870
00:37:34,040 --> 00:37:37,400
Speaker 1: Bitch, I'm burnt. I'm bounced on you. I'm telling you, Like,

871
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 1: but I do feel like relationships that last you just.

872
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:48,000
Speaker 2: Have a because sometimes you really build something and it's

873
00:37:48,080 --> 00:37:51,160
Speaker 2: like you grow together and you really learn each other.

874
00:37:51,520 --> 00:37:52,480
Speaker 1: Now have I ever done this?

875
00:37:52,800 --> 00:37:52,840
Speaker 4: No?

876
00:37:53,440 --> 00:37:53,480
Speaker 1: Me?

877
00:37:53,760 --> 00:37:57,040
Speaker 2: So I'm just like, you know, maybe because I'm always

878
00:37:57,080 --> 00:37:59,879
Speaker 2: on the spark side and the guy that I've dealt

879
00:37:59,920 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 2: with when I talk about men, I always think of

880
00:38:02,200 --> 00:38:04,719
Speaker 2: like the two like guys that just had me, like

881
00:38:05,600 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 2: all scrambled in the head, and both of these men

882
00:38:08,920 --> 00:38:11,480
Speaker 2: it was like when I first met them, it was like,

883
00:38:11,680 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 2: Oh my god, especially throw Back Bay, like that shit.

884
00:38:14,320 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: Our first day really threw me for a fucking loop, bitch.

885
00:38:17,200 --> 00:38:19,680
Speaker 1: Like I left that. I still have the video that

886
00:38:19,800 --> 00:38:20,520
Speaker 1: I took that night.

887
00:38:21,440 --> 00:38:24,160
Speaker 2: I got home, I got on Snapchat and I was

888
00:38:24,239 --> 00:38:26,400
Speaker 2: really drunk, and I was like, oh my god, y'all, I.

889
00:38:26,640 --> 00:38:30,080
Speaker 1: Just had the most amazing night of my life. That's

890
00:38:30,120 --> 00:38:30,600
Speaker 1: what you said.

891
00:38:30,840 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 2: Yes, I still have those videos and I'd be looking

892
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,600
Speaker 2: at them and I'm like, what the fuck, bitch, Like

893
00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:38,520
Speaker 2: you could just see it in my eyes, Bitch, I

894
00:38:38,719 --> 00:38:42,080
Speaker 2: was like, this is my husband. I'm going to get pregnant.

895
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,080
Speaker 2: I still feel like that might be my baby daddy.

896
00:38:45,120 --> 00:38:48,400
Speaker 2: And you know why the spark, the spark be.

897
00:38:48,440 --> 00:38:52,600
Speaker 1: Having me confused, bitch. I don't know. Sometimes the spark

898
00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:54,799
Speaker 1: can fuck you on, Spark can't fuck you up.

899
00:38:54,840 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 3: But I just feel like, yeah, no, I definitely feel

900
00:38:58,239 --> 00:39:01,279
Speaker 3: like sometimes you just have that connection with people and

901
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,439
Speaker 3: then relationships last, well maybe not last, but I think

902
00:39:04,480 --> 00:39:07,319
Speaker 3: that like even for example, when you see a lot

903
00:39:07,360 --> 00:39:11,320
Speaker 3: of people who you know, they'll have like a person

904
00:39:11,400 --> 00:39:13,280
Speaker 3: that they met when they was like in the early twenties,

905
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:15,520
Speaker 3: or they met them in high school and they'd be like, oh,

906
00:39:16,480 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 3: I felt like me and this person were so in love.

907
00:39:18,600 --> 00:39:20,439
Speaker 3: That was my first love, my soulmate, whatever.

908
00:39:20,760 --> 00:39:21,560
Speaker 1: And then they move on.

909
00:39:22,680 --> 00:39:26,520
Speaker 3: They end up going to college, finding somebody else, marrying

910
00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:30,040
Speaker 3: somebody else, having kids, building a family, and then later

911
00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,920
Speaker 3: it down the line when they and a forties and fifties,

912
00:39:31,960 --> 00:39:34,759
Speaker 3: they end up like running into that person again and

913
00:39:34,880 --> 00:39:38,040
Speaker 3: it feel like they hitting it off where they stopped.

914
00:39:38,200 --> 00:39:39,960
Speaker 1: What Tyler Perry movie you don't watch.

915
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 3: No, I'm saying, I know people. One of my one

916
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:44,920
Speaker 3: of my family members is like that. She was engaged

917
00:39:44,960 --> 00:39:47,799
Speaker 3: to this guy when I was a kid. They were

918
00:39:47,840 --> 00:39:50,720
Speaker 3: supposed to get married. They didn't end up getting married.

919
00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:54,920
Speaker 3: They both moved on and he started dating other people.

920
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 3: She's dated other people since then, and now they're dating

921
00:39:57,840 --> 00:39:59,239
Speaker 3: again in there in their fifties.

922
00:40:00,120 --> 00:40:02,040
Speaker 1: Do you know how but think about how scary that

923
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:02,759
Speaker 1: is though, But you.

924
00:40:02,760 --> 00:40:05,720
Speaker 3: Said, and it's not waiting because again, you've been living

925
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:07,600
Speaker 3: your life, you've been doing your thing. But in the

926
00:40:07,680 --> 00:40:10,360
Speaker 3: back of your mind, you just like me, like everybody

927
00:40:10,440 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 3: that you've dated since then, you just like me and

928
00:40:12,760 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 3: that person me and these people don't have that spark

929
00:40:15,280 --> 00:40:17,120
Speaker 3: that I had with this person.

930
00:40:17,280 --> 00:40:18,360
Speaker 1: But do you know how scary that is?

931
00:40:18,400 --> 00:40:21,960
Speaker 2: Because imagine being Okay, So say you have a spark

932
00:40:22,040 --> 00:40:25,040
Speaker 2: from somebody in high school, you've moved on and got married,

933
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,240
Speaker 2: and you run into that person and you're still married.

934
00:40:28,360 --> 00:40:31,200
Speaker 2: Imagine being your husband because maybe his spark is with you,

935
00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:34,840
Speaker 2: so you're always that person for him, right, but your.

936
00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,920
Speaker 1: Spark is with this nigga. That's fucking scary as hell

937
00:40:38,000 --> 00:40:39,879
Speaker 1: to think about it. Yeah, it is scary as hell.

938
00:40:39,920 --> 00:40:42,400
Speaker 3: But do you not feel like it's millions of people

939
00:40:42,480 --> 00:40:44,799
Speaker 3: out there who are in relationships like that where they

940
00:40:44,960 --> 00:40:48,000
Speaker 3: not where it's one siding and one of the partners

941
00:40:48,120 --> 00:40:50,520
Speaker 3: is way more in love with you know, the person

942
00:40:50,560 --> 00:40:51,799
Speaker 3: and the other person he is with them.

943
00:40:52,040 --> 00:40:53,880
Speaker 1: I think it's a lot of marriages like that.

944
00:40:55,080 --> 00:40:57,960
Speaker 3: Give me the spark, betch You're right, give me the spark,

945
00:40:58,000 --> 00:40:59,520
Speaker 3: and that's what I want to But that's why I

946
00:40:59,560 --> 00:41:01,920
Speaker 3: don't under saying why people do stuff like that, Like

947
00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 3: I'm not going to.

948
00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:05,319
Speaker 1: See Donna broke it down, bitch, that makes sense.

949
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:07,439
Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't even like, to be honest, I don't

950
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 3: understand why people do stuff like that. If I have

951
00:41:10,080 --> 00:41:12,200
Speaker 3: a spark with somebody and I feel like I've never

952
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,440
Speaker 3: had no connection like this with anybody.

953
00:41:14,120 --> 00:41:18,120
Speaker 1: Else, I ain't letting you go unless you gotta do

954
00:41:18,239 --> 00:41:20,560
Speaker 1: some real fucked up shit. Yeah, you know what I

955
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:21,640
Speaker 1: mean for me to let you go.

956
00:41:21,800 --> 00:41:24,319
Speaker 3: But people be breaking up, Like I've seen stories where

957
00:41:24,360 --> 00:41:27,080
Speaker 3: people have broken up for things like, oh, this person

958
00:41:27,160 --> 00:41:29,319
Speaker 3: got a job offering a different CD, so they had

959
00:41:29,360 --> 00:41:30,879
Speaker 3: to move away and I didn't want to move.

960
00:41:31,320 --> 00:41:33,360
Speaker 1: Bitch. If me and a nigga got a connection like that,

961
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:34,440
Speaker 1: I can work from anywhere.

962
00:41:35,320 --> 00:41:38,399
Speaker 2: But also, ladies and men, this is not a sign

963
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:40,719
Speaker 2: to text that toxic ass nigga that you think you

964
00:41:40,840 --> 00:41:41,480
Speaker 2: had a spark with.

965
00:41:41,840 --> 00:41:43,680
Speaker 3: I'm just saying I feel like, if you make a

966
00:41:43,760 --> 00:41:46,120
Speaker 3: connection with somebody and you feel like you've never had

967
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:48,759
Speaker 3: that with anybody else, to me, it's worth trying to

968
00:41:48,840 --> 00:41:51,480
Speaker 3: work through the obstacles, Like even if it is maybe

969
00:41:51,560 --> 00:41:53,920
Speaker 3: them having a job offered somewhere else and having to

970
00:41:54,040 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 3: move out of the city, if you feel like this

971
00:41:55,840 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 3: is your person and you found a connection that you've

972
00:41:59,719 --> 00:42:02,080
Speaker 3: never had had before, it's worth working out. I think

973
00:42:02,080 --> 00:42:04,160
Speaker 3: it's stupid when people be like, oh, yeah, I was

974
00:42:04,200 --> 00:42:06,400
Speaker 3: so in love with this person, but they ended up

975
00:42:06,440 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 3: having to, uh, you know, move somewhere like so.

976
00:42:10,320 --> 00:42:12,800
Speaker 2: Okay, define what the spark feels like to you.

977
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 1: It's just the media.

978
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:18,279
Speaker 3: Like you you feel it in your kuchie, you know

979
00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:20,480
Speaker 3: that you feel you feel it in your couchie, you

980
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:24,480
Speaker 3: feel in your bone. It's not the bone, it's the

981
00:42:24,560 --> 00:42:33,200
Speaker 3: one that you're talking about. Yeah, we need today, I

982
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:36,560
Speaker 3: can't remember, but that's feel it.

983
00:42:36,719 --> 00:42:38,719
Speaker 1: You feel it in your body. I just feel like,

984
00:42:38,760 --> 00:42:40,080
Speaker 1: you know, when you meet your people.

985
00:42:40,200 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 3: Every time I've ever met one of my people that

986
00:42:42,719 --> 00:42:44,480
Speaker 3: I feel like God put on this earth for me

987
00:42:44,600 --> 00:42:46,920
Speaker 3: to be cool weed or for them to be in

988
00:42:47,000 --> 00:42:50,880
Speaker 3: my life. I know because it's just an immediate connection.

989
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,960
Speaker 3: And I feel like it's the same thing with the men.

990
00:42:55,440 --> 00:42:57,879
Speaker 3: And every time I on the something and every time

991
00:42:57,920 --> 00:43:03,080
Speaker 3: I've had an immediate connection with the guy, those situations

992
00:43:03,200 --> 00:43:04,320
Speaker 3: lasted the longiest.

993
00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,239
Speaker 2: When I think about my true true like first love,

994
00:43:09,200 --> 00:43:11,080
Speaker 2: like when I really that was the first time I

995
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,920
Speaker 2: fell in love. I've talked, I talked to you about him.

996
00:43:13,920 --> 00:43:16,239
Speaker 2: I was like twenty we used to live together, that relationship.

997
00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:18,239
Speaker 1: That's really how it was.

998
00:43:18,440 --> 00:43:22,319
Speaker 2: Literally we met and literally three days later we were

999
00:43:22,360 --> 00:43:24,800
Speaker 2: saying I love you three days later. And when I

1000
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:26,400
Speaker 2: think about when I talk about being in love is

1001
00:43:26,400 --> 00:43:28,960
Speaker 2: crazy because I was only like, what nineteen twenty men,

1002
00:43:29,480 --> 00:43:31,359
Speaker 2: But I think about that and I'm like, I don't

1003
00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:34,359
Speaker 2: know if well, yeah, I have been closer to people

1004
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:37,120
Speaker 2: since him, but I remember that feeling. I remember that,

1005
00:43:37,160 --> 00:43:40,240
Speaker 2: and I remember saying if I don't have this feeling again,

1006
00:43:40,440 --> 00:43:41,160
Speaker 2: I don't want it.

1007
00:43:41,719 --> 00:43:44,280
Speaker 1: And then I got it again, like I got it again.

1008
00:43:44,360 --> 00:43:48,160
Speaker 2: That spark that And it's crazy because no matter what

1009
00:43:48,480 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 2: this is another thing about the spark, No matter what happens, though,

1010
00:43:52,120 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 2: y'all are always like drawn back.

1011
00:43:54,520 --> 00:43:55,200
Speaker 1: To each other.

1012
00:43:55,719 --> 00:43:59,680
Speaker 2: It's like weird, like the universe always like connects you,

1013
00:43:59,800 --> 00:44:05,759
Speaker 2: like I remember Lauren London said something like I don't

1014
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:07,560
Speaker 2: want to really quote her like word for word, but

1015
00:44:07,640 --> 00:44:09,320
Speaker 2: she was saying like, I'm gonna find you.

1016
00:44:09,920 --> 00:44:10,719
Speaker 1: I found you in this.

1017
00:44:10,840 --> 00:44:12,799
Speaker 2: Lifetime and I can't wait to find you in the next,

1018
00:44:13,080 --> 00:44:14,840
Speaker 2: because you know, some people really feel like they're like

1019
00:44:14,960 --> 00:44:17,120
Speaker 2: kindred souls and they're always gonna find each other.

1020
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:18,640
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Do you feel like we

1021
00:44:18,719 --> 00:44:19,719
Speaker 1: eat another life song?

1022
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:21,799
Speaker 2: Uh?

1023
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:25,359
Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't want to come back

1024
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:29,560
Speaker 1: to this bitch. This shit is ass. Thish is ghetto,

1025
00:44:29,800 --> 00:44:30,640
Speaker 1: This shit is ghetto.

1026
00:44:30,680 --> 00:44:32,120
Speaker 2: I was just talking a round about that the other

1027
00:44:32,200 --> 00:44:33,920
Speaker 2: I said, Bro, it would just be my luck that

1028
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:34,839
Speaker 2: the world would end.

1029
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:37,319
Speaker 3: That God would be like, oh no, you stay, you're

1030
00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:40,520
Speaker 3: not not was not was giving the task to repopulate the.

1031
00:44:40,840 --> 00:44:44,200
Speaker 1: Lot survive a bitch. That would be just my fucking

1032
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: look like, that's just how things work. I can speaking

1033
00:44:47,520 --> 00:44:50,399
Speaker 1: of repopulation. Are you having a kid this year? This year?

1034
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah?

1035
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:53,160
Speaker 1: But they all made you ask me that we were

1036
00:44:53,200 --> 00:44:59,200
Speaker 1: talking about repopulation. Yeah, but this year. Hey, you know February,

1037
00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 1: did you? It's just spark. It's February and I'm not praying. Well,

1038
00:45:06,080 --> 00:45:08,479
Speaker 1: you're drinking rose. Obviously you're not pregnant. I mean people

1039
00:45:08,520 --> 00:45:11,360
Speaker 1: be pregnant and don't know. Okay, you're right because my

1040
00:45:11,440 --> 00:45:12,480
Speaker 1: sister was getting.

1041
00:45:13,880 --> 00:45:19,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm little Peanut is so bad.

1042
00:45:19,640 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: It is probably why he bade be drunk. It's a

1043
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:25,520
Speaker 1: little tequila.

1044
00:45:25,640 --> 00:45:26,360
Speaker 2: It is bomb.

1045
00:45:26,840 --> 00:45:31,920
Speaker 1: That's exactly why he bad. Oh Lord, Yeah, shout out

1046
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:35,719
Speaker 1: to Peanut. But people definitely be pregnant and don't know.

1047
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:40,040
Speaker 1: But I know for facts that I am because I

1048
00:45:40,280 --> 00:45:44,719
Speaker 1: just went to the doctor and I'm good, but that's

1049
00:45:44,800 --> 00:45:51,359
Speaker 1: not what I ate. But you don't know this year. Yeah,

1050
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:54,320
Speaker 1: I feel like I have too much going on. Okay,

1051
00:45:54,760 --> 00:45:57,160
Speaker 1: I mean the baby don't stop nothing, A baby, don't

1052
00:45:57,160 --> 00:45:57,680
Speaker 1: stop nothing.

1053
00:45:57,719 --> 00:46:00,239
Speaker 3: But for me to have a baby, uh in the

1054
00:46:00,320 --> 00:46:03,680
Speaker 3: next year, it would very much be have to be unplanned.

1055
00:46:03,760 --> 00:46:05,960
Speaker 3: Like if I was to get pregnant anytime soon. If

1056
00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:08,319
Speaker 3: you got pregnant next week, what you're doing? Why would

1057
00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:10,040
Speaker 3: I get pregnant next week? I'm not having sex.

1058
00:46:10,640 --> 00:46:13,120
Speaker 2: Okay, next time you got sex, say you got pregnant.

1059
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:14,239
Speaker 1: Are you having it?

1060
00:46:14,760 --> 00:46:17,560
Speaker 2: If it's like an accident, I'm really curious. I'm not

1061
00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 2: even being funny because I might slip up.

1062
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,240
Speaker 3: If I got Yeah, I feel like I'm at that age.

1063
00:46:24,360 --> 00:46:26,080
Speaker 3: But I feel like I've been saying this for a

1064
00:46:26,200 --> 00:46:28,919
Speaker 3: long time. Yeah, like I've been saying for a long time,

1065
00:46:29,000 --> 00:46:30,719
Speaker 3: I'm at the point in my life where if I

1066
00:46:30,800 --> 00:46:32,400
Speaker 3: get pregnant, I'm not getting no abortion.

1067
00:46:32,719 --> 00:46:35,600
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're too old to be at the clinic trying

1068
00:46:35,640 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 2: to hide a playing parents.

1069
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,719
Speaker 3: I mean, we a lot too old to be at

1070
00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:40,520
Speaker 3: the clinic. Were gonna leave that in our past, like

1071
00:46:41,320 --> 00:46:41,719
Speaker 3: in there with.

1072
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:45,799
Speaker 1: The teens bitch, cut up your old doing the hell

1073
00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,080
Speaker 1: old ass to keep that baby.

1074
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:52,400
Speaker 3: But no, for real though, Yeah, like I feel like

1075
00:46:52,400 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 3: I'm thirty one, Like I'm at an age where it's

1076
00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:57,439
Speaker 3: like I'm mature enough. I feel like to be a mother,

1077
00:46:58,000 --> 00:47:00,880
Speaker 3: and I feel like I make smart decisions with the

1078
00:47:00,960 --> 00:47:04,480
Speaker 3: people I choose today and sleep with. If we're not

1079
00:47:04,560 --> 00:47:07,400
Speaker 3: gonna use a condom, You're somebody that I feel like

1080
00:47:07,560 --> 00:47:10,399
Speaker 3: I would be cool with getting pregnant at this point

1081
00:47:10,440 --> 00:47:11,399
Speaker 3: in my life right.

1082
00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:17,880
Speaker 1: Now, when I was younger. No, I'm no, no, no, no, no, no, no.

1083
00:47:21,440 --> 00:47:23,200
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy. I could come on one hand,

1084
00:47:23,200 --> 00:47:24,560
Speaker 1: in the niggas, I've had raw six with.

1085
00:47:27,000 --> 00:47:29,960
Speaker 2: Congratulate congratulate Shin.

1086
00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:37,719
Speaker 1: But he's just saying I can too.

1087
00:47:38,200 --> 00:47:43,040
Speaker 3: I'm just joking, geez, But yeah, no, I just feel

1088
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:45,440
Speaker 3: like I can coind of, I haven't had raw sex

1089
00:47:45,480 --> 00:47:48,799
Speaker 3: with a lot of niggas, but I definitely have had

1090
00:47:48,960 --> 00:47:51,799
Speaker 3: raw sex with some niggas. Day I knew, damn well,

1091
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:54,920
Speaker 3: I ain't want to have that baby. I know, like

1092
00:47:55,080 --> 00:47:57,480
Speaker 3: I knew if I got pregnant, I would have been crying.

1093
00:47:57,840 --> 00:48:01,319
Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Seriously, do you think about raw dick?

1094
00:48:01,480 --> 00:48:06,120
Speaker 1: That is really wild. It's really insane. It's raw. Oh

1095
00:48:06,280 --> 00:48:09,840
Speaker 1: my god, uncooked. Oh my goodness. Yeah, I don't know.

1096
00:48:09,920 --> 00:48:12,960
Speaker 1: I don't like that. Okay, So no baby baby in

1097
00:48:13,080 --> 00:48:16,480
Speaker 1: twenty twenty three? No, okay, are you gonna have a

1098
00:48:16,520 --> 00:48:19,759
Speaker 1: baby in I don't know. No, I don't know. I'm

1099
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:21,960
Speaker 1: not gonna lie. You just told me the other day

1100
00:48:22,000 --> 00:48:25,279
Speaker 1: you don't want a baby no more. The spark. It

1101
00:48:25,440 --> 00:48:26,240
Speaker 1: hit my koochie.

1102
00:48:26,560 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 3: You're insane, I am because if I think I know

1103
00:48:29,400 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 3: who you're talking about.

1104
00:48:33,880 --> 00:48:37,920
Speaker 1: Hey, I'm not gonna lie. I was like, I think

1105
00:48:38,000 --> 00:48:40,919
Speaker 1: about what I'm thinking about.

1106
00:48:41,000 --> 00:48:46,160
Speaker 2: Genetically, it would be a beautiful child, well taken care of.

1107
00:48:46,960 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 2: I can just leave the kid with him. The grandma's

1108
00:48:50,040 --> 00:48:55,400
Speaker 2: the baby. I don't gotta do nothing. But I don't know,

1109
00:48:56,440 --> 00:49:00,480
Speaker 2: I I'm I'm really just talking shit. It's the spark.

1110
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:02,840
Speaker 2: That's why I get the You're supposed to get the

1111
00:49:02,880 --> 00:49:05,719
Speaker 2: spark in your bones and you but I know I

1112
00:49:05,800 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 2: get the spark right here.

1113
00:49:06,800 --> 00:49:09,800
Speaker 1: So it'd be like, you're not supposed to get the

1114
00:49:09,880 --> 00:49:13,000
Speaker 1: spark in your brain? Are well it fried? Mind?

1115
00:49:13,080 --> 00:49:15,200
Speaker 3: I think he's supposed to get in your brain. I'm

1116
00:49:15,360 --> 00:49:18,640
Speaker 3: cooked in your bone. Mine was the electric chair bitch.

1117
00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:21,759
Speaker 1: Not the fried and died You and lady to the song,

1118
00:49:21,920 --> 00:49:25,960
Speaker 1: Oh did he I'm down bad? And now he about

1119
00:49:25,960 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: to lay you down with that baby? He about to

1120
00:49:29,239 --> 00:49:34,240
Speaker 1: set you down? Yeah he was not. Outside the Summer Sam,

1121
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 1: Stay tuned, y'all. I'm gonna be a poor baby on

1122
00:49:39,960 --> 00:49:41,680
Speaker 1: the way. I'm gonna turn around at the list show.

1123
00:49:41,880 --> 00:49:49,000
Speaker 1: Let's go, still gonna be drinking. It's okay, Auntie, gonna

1124
00:49:49,040 --> 00:49:52,120
Speaker 1: drink for I'm a week. Okay, okay, okay. So you

1125
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:52,960
Speaker 1: need the spark.

1126
00:49:53,080 --> 00:49:55,200
Speaker 2: You honestly changed my mind with your definition.

1127
00:49:55,960 --> 00:49:59,000
Speaker 3: I need the spark. I want to be I never

1128
00:49:59,120 --> 00:50:01,080
Speaker 3: want to be in a relationship that sounds so ghetto.

1129
00:50:01,160 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 1: I have to learn. I have to grow to love you.

1130
00:50:03,640 --> 00:50:08,320
Speaker 1: You music said, I love teach me how to love you.

1131
00:50:09,080 --> 00:50:12,839
Speaker 1: But if I don't automatically feel that spark. So does

1132
00:50:12,920 --> 00:50:14,560
Speaker 1: a spark mean I want to fuck you on the

1133
00:50:14,600 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: first day, but you don't act on it. That's the feeling,

1134
00:50:18,280 --> 00:50:21,320
Speaker 1: like you know, you just really like this. You be

1135
00:50:21,400 --> 00:50:25,400
Speaker 1: looking at him like personally, I don't look at no

1136
00:50:25,520 --> 00:50:30,600
Speaker 1: niggas like that. Oh that's just Auntie. I love dyling

1137
00:50:31,719 --> 00:50:44,000
Speaker 1: Watch Ryan Ryan. That's how she said it. I love doing?

1138
00:50:45,320 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: Did I love doing what? Ay? Were watching all my page?

1139
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:55,319
Speaker 1: But watch the slow have the boomerang that watched the flow.

1140
00:50:56,239 --> 00:51:01,480
Speaker 1: That's how she said lit He did not say that

1141
00:51:01,760 --> 00:51:04,759
Speaker 1: like that, but she did. I am through.

1142
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,040
Speaker 3: And if you if I was a nigga and you

1143
00:51:07,160 --> 00:51:09,239
Speaker 3: were sitting across the table looking at me like that,

1144
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:13,080
Speaker 3: it's a spark man.

1145
00:51:13,640 --> 00:51:18,359
Speaker 1: You look like you had a little to rig Ley

1146
00:51:19,160 --> 00:51:24,040
Speaker 1: get him over time. I don't believe it. I do

1147
00:51:24,239 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 1: not believe it. Oh my god.

1148
00:51:26,440 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 2: Okay, so now we're gonna get into b a baby

1149
00:51:31,920 --> 00:51:35,560
Speaker 2: wowow about bow bow?

1150
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:40,040
Speaker 1: I love we start love dealing with a rich That's

1151
00:51:40,080 --> 00:51:44,000
Speaker 1: what I thought you was about to say. I was

1152
00:51:44,040 --> 00:51:45,960
Speaker 1: gonna say. I really thought we were gonna have a

1153
00:51:46,040 --> 00:51:48,080
Speaker 1: calm episode today.

1154
00:51:51,360 --> 00:51:54,120
Speaker 2: My professional back is New York had me feeling professional.

1155
00:51:54,400 --> 00:51:56,480
Speaker 3: One of them people who feel I really feel like

1156
00:51:56,520 --> 00:51:59,400
Speaker 3: I'm never gonna grow up, Like I'm gonna always be childish.

1157
00:52:00,080 --> 00:52:03,359
Speaker 1: Ways I'm never gonna be mature. Yeah, I should come

1158
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,400
Speaker 1: to grips with that. Huh what about me? You think me?

1159
00:52:05,480 --> 00:52:07,359
Speaker 1: A maturity don't go hand in hand.

1160
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 3: Like when God was passing out what he was gonna

1161
00:52:09,719 --> 00:52:13,200
Speaker 3: put in people, he skipped on the maturity with me.

1162
00:52:13,280 --> 00:52:14,400
Speaker 1: I think I'm pretty.

1163
00:52:17,120 --> 00:52:17,319
Speaker 3: You know.

1164
00:52:19,719 --> 00:52:27,200
Speaker 1: What, mature elaborate. I feel like I started this episode

1165
00:52:27,280 --> 00:52:31,800
Speaker 1: of being very serious. You made me laugh? How did I?

1166
00:52:32,480 --> 00:52:34,880
Speaker 1: How was I not being serious? I'm very serious?

1167
00:52:38,360 --> 00:52:43,600
Speaker 3: All right, we're gonna talk about very I am very

1168
00:52:43,880 --> 00:52:47,440
Speaker 3: very unus person literally every day every.

1169
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:49,359
Speaker 1: You know what's crazy though, I think most people think

1170
00:52:49,400 --> 00:52:55,120
Speaker 1: I'm serious. I don't think anybody thinks. You don't think

1171
00:52:55,120 --> 00:52:56,240
Speaker 1: anybody think I'm serious.

1172
00:52:56,640 --> 00:52:58,640
Speaker 3: I think about people that don't know me, like if

1173
00:52:58,640 --> 00:53:00,840
Speaker 3: you watched the show, people think.

1174
00:53:01,600 --> 00:53:03,239
Speaker 1: Out of me and you. I feel like they think

1175
00:53:03,320 --> 00:53:04,120
Speaker 1: I'm serious.

1176
00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:06,480
Speaker 2: And this is what delusional looks like. You know how

1177
00:53:06,480 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 2: you be calling me delusion? This is fucking delusion. You

1178
00:53:09,680 --> 00:53:12,360
Speaker 2: just with you think people who watch Poor Minds.

1179
00:53:12,160 --> 00:53:13,800
Speaker 1: Think you're a serious surface.

1180
00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:18,320
Speaker 3: Yes, you don't have to say it hard, bitch, You

1181
00:53:18,360 --> 00:53:19,360
Speaker 3: don't make it because I.

1182
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:27,719
Speaker 1: Was serious serious, un serious, bitch, I'm serious. Oh she

1183
00:53:27,960 --> 00:53:31,920
Speaker 1: conguss hurts exactly.

1184
00:53:32,360 --> 00:53:37,319
Speaker 3: My point was just proving God, I said, we're keeping

1185
00:53:37,400 --> 00:53:39,480
Speaker 3: this episode with my serious Facebook.

1186
00:53:39,960 --> 00:53:42,320
Speaker 2: Okay, so today, how do I say this word properly?

1187
00:53:42,400 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: Drea Cook? Holding? Is it cuk holding or cook? I

1188
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:49,040
Speaker 1: thought we were talking about a sexoricism. Oh you want

1189
00:53:49,040 --> 00:53:50,600
Speaker 1: to talk about that? That's what I thought we was

1190
00:53:50,680 --> 00:53:53,840
Speaker 1: talking about. I mean we can talk about the sexism. Yeah, okay,

1191
00:53:53,920 --> 00:53:56,279
Speaker 1: well fuck that, we're gonna talk about sexism.

1192
00:53:56,400 --> 00:54:02,520
Speaker 2: Is a cook hold like a choke hold. Unseerious, un

1193
00:54:02,680 --> 00:54:04,920
Speaker 2: serious person, cause.

1194
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:08,759
Speaker 1: You know, damn well, you know damn you got that

1195
00:54:08,880 --> 00:54:09,960
Speaker 1: nigga in a cookoats.

1196
00:54:13,040 --> 00:54:14,480
Speaker 2: I don't think you want to have your nigga in

1197
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:15,120
Speaker 2: a cook hold.

1198
00:54:15,800 --> 00:54:18,600
Speaker 1: I love dealing with a reach nigga, reach niggas.

1199
00:54:18,640 --> 00:54:22,760
Speaker 3: I feel like probably like, okay, you're not let into

1200
00:54:22,880 --> 00:54:24,320
Speaker 3: some nasty sheet.

1201
00:54:24,480 --> 00:54:26,279
Speaker 1: Do you want to talk about that? Yeah, I mean

1202
00:54:26,320 --> 00:54:33,040
Speaker 1: we can talk about bowls. Okay, let's speak your peace.

1203
00:54:33,360 --> 00:54:35,640
Speaker 2: I have to say this about the cook holding. I

1204
00:54:35,680 --> 00:54:39,480
Speaker 2: have to get something off my chest. There was a

1205
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:46,160
Speaker 2: situation one time where this guy I know, like he

1206
00:54:46,320 --> 00:54:48,200
Speaker 2: was in a situation. So cut holding is basically when

1207
00:54:48,320 --> 00:54:50,879
Speaker 2: you like to watch your partner get fucked by somebody else.

1208
00:54:50,960 --> 00:54:54,560
Speaker 2: Like you're literally watching your partner get fucked by somebody else.

1209
00:54:55,520 --> 00:54:59,680
Speaker 2: So I knew it's a guy and he fucked somebody

1210
00:54:59,840 --> 00:55:02,239
Speaker 2: like in front of her husband, and.

1211
00:55:04,680 --> 00:55:06,400
Speaker 1: It was fucking weird to me.

1212
00:55:07,600 --> 00:55:10,680
Speaker 2: Not all it was just because who they were as

1213
00:55:10,760 --> 00:55:12,560
Speaker 2: far as like who were physically.

1214
00:55:13,160 --> 00:55:16,880
Speaker 1: It was like an old white couple. Why are you

1215
00:55:17,040 --> 00:55:19,880
Speaker 1: beating up old boloney meat. I went to it. I

1216
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:21,320
Speaker 1: told you I went to a sex club with my

1217
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,239
Speaker 1: friend a few months ago. I told you that. It

1218
00:55:24,360 --> 00:55:25,319
Speaker 1: was like, yes, I did.

1219
00:55:25,360 --> 00:55:27,480
Speaker 3: I talked about this on poor Mindes. I definitely said,

1220
00:55:27,560 --> 00:55:29,600
Speaker 3: me and my friend accidentally went to a sex club.

1221
00:55:29,640 --> 00:55:31,360
Speaker 3: We thought we were trying to get a dream. Accident,

1222
00:55:32,239 --> 00:55:33,600
Speaker 3: we were trying to get a dream.

1223
00:55:33,640 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 1: Did you eat some couchie that night?

1224
00:55:35,000 --> 00:55:37,759
Speaker 3: I didn't, But this nigga named Jerome. Did he ate

1225
00:55:37,800 --> 00:55:39,560
Speaker 3: your coucie? No, he eat my coucie.

1226
00:55:40,120 --> 00:55:42,080
Speaker 1: He ate this lady kouchie front the bag when she

1227
00:55:42,200 --> 00:55:44,200
Speaker 1: walked in, her and her husband. It was an old

1228
00:55:44,239 --> 00:55:47,040
Speaker 1: white couple too. And you can't get in the same.

1229
00:55:47,160 --> 00:55:49,200
Speaker 1: You will never look at Jerome the same again. No,

1230
00:55:49,360 --> 00:55:49,800
Speaker 1: I won't.

1231
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:51,800
Speaker 3: And then he definitely ate it from the back, like

1232
00:55:51,880 --> 00:55:53,680
Speaker 3: when they when they walked in, he was like, hey,

1233
00:55:53,719 --> 00:55:57,719
Speaker 3: what's up? And then he spready, that's how they shake

1234
00:55:57,840 --> 00:56:00,640
Speaker 3: hands at the sex club. I like, you know how

1235
00:56:00,719 --> 00:56:04,279
Speaker 3: dog sniff booties? Yeah, to say hello and see what

1236
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,919
Speaker 3: you've been up to be a dog ruf ruf.

1237
00:56:07,080 --> 00:56:09,520
Speaker 1: Oh my god. And that's what I'm saying, y'all.

1238
00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:16,319
Speaker 2: This man, he's tall, he makes money fine as hell,

1239
00:56:17,160 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 2: and he'd be wanting to fuck with me so bad.

1240
00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:21,080
Speaker 2: And I cannot get that out of my head every

1241
00:56:21,120 --> 00:56:24,400
Speaker 2: time he and you said he sucked raw raw me

1242
00:56:24,719 --> 00:56:25,560
Speaker 2: to me, why an't we.

1243
00:56:25,600 --> 00:56:29,480
Speaker 1: Just talking about how crazy that is? How crazy that is?

1244
00:56:30,040 --> 00:56:31,200
Speaker 1: And I saw the lady.

1245
00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:33,799
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna sit up here and say she would

1246
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:35,840
Speaker 2: like she wasn't ugly, but she wasn't like.

1247
00:56:36,520 --> 00:56:40,879
Speaker 1: It was just an older white lady. Oh yeah, yeah.

1248
00:56:41,400 --> 00:56:45,360
Speaker 2: And he specifically was like he likes to watch black

1249
00:56:45,520 --> 00:56:49,839
Speaker 2: men fuck his wife. That's when sh it just got

1250
00:56:49,840 --> 00:56:54,880
Speaker 2: a little weird racist. It's given like he got turned

1251
00:56:54,920 --> 00:56:58,200
Speaker 2: on mentioning him like I'll kill you.

1252
00:56:58,400 --> 00:57:01,439
Speaker 1: I don't, Yeah, I don't. I don't like that. Yeah

1253
00:57:02,480 --> 00:57:06,399
Speaker 1: it was given KKK. I don't like it. Don't seem

1254
00:57:06,480 --> 00:57:06,920
Speaker 1: right about it.

1255
00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:09,640
Speaker 2: Some may write in the water, and I'm sorry, yes

1256
00:57:09,760 --> 00:57:12,480
Speaker 2: I'm being judging, but anybody, like threes are different if

1257
00:57:12,560 --> 00:57:16,160
Speaker 2: y'all are all participating, but anybody that likes to watch, like,

1258
00:57:16,280 --> 00:57:18,080
Speaker 2: if you love me, why are you watching me get

1259
00:57:18,120 --> 00:57:19,960
Speaker 2: sucked by somebody else, and.

1260
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:22,920
Speaker 1: I've seen that at the sex club to iself. But

1261
00:57:23,120 --> 00:57:25,560
Speaker 1: how long did y'all stay? We stayed for a while.

1262
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,880
Speaker 1: It was like we there, we're here, we might as

1263
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: well walk around. And what else did you shake off

1264
00:57:31,000 --> 00:57:33,800
Speaker 1: the premises? What else did you see? I see the light?

1265
00:57:34,640 --> 00:57:36,000
Speaker 1: I don't you know. I'm not gonna lie what to

1266
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,360
Speaker 1: a sex reson. I actually had a good time. Would

1267
00:57:38,400 --> 00:57:44,720
Speaker 1: I go back? Would I go back? Ye? No, that's

1268
00:57:44,800 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: not for me.

1269
00:57:45,480 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 2: You better smell a wild in there. Oh I can't

1270
00:57:51,200 --> 00:57:52,240
Speaker 2: imagine the smell.

1271
00:57:53,400 --> 00:58:01,040
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, the stinch of bad decisis. But no,

1272
00:58:01,280 --> 00:58:03,080
Speaker 1: for real, I wouldn't go back, but I did.

1273
00:58:03,240 --> 00:58:05,640
Speaker 3: I feel like you should do a lot of things

1274
00:58:05,720 --> 00:58:08,720
Speaker 3: in life just so you could say you did absolutely

1275
00:58:08,800 --> 00:58:10,560
Speaker 3: like I said. And that's one of those things where

1276
00:58:10,600 --> 00:58:12,200
Speaker 3: it's like, even though I went on accident, and I

1277
00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:13,240
Speaker 3: can unestly say.

1278
00:58:13,680 --> 00:58:17,200
Speaker 1: Bro, stop making that face. It really was an accident.

1279
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,720
Speaker 3: I had never even heard of these clubs, and I

1280
00:58:20,840 --> 00:58:22,320
Speaker 3: really had just wanted to have a drink. But I

1281
00:58:22,360 --> 00:58:25,440
Speaker 3: should have known the way it was ducked out that

1282
00:58:25,560 --> 00:58:27,120
Speaker 3: he was working club.

1283
00:58:27,720 --> 00:58:30,080
Speaker 1: I mean, Chili's wasn't open. If you just wanted to drink.

1284
00:58:30,520 --> 00:58:34,400
Speaker 1: It's like twelve. I was like, am I'm not gonna

1285
00:58:34,440 --> 00:58:36,160
Speaker 1: lie like I said, I went to the sex resort.

1286
00:58:36,280 --> 00:58:39,000
Speaker 3: I would never go back, but it was a good experience.

1287
00:58:39,120 --> 00:58:41,920
Speaker 3: But see you a freak though, because you knew you

1288
00:58:42,120 --> 00:58:43,480
Speaker 3: was going to a sex resort.

1289
00:58:43,960 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: I didn't know that I was going to. I went

1290
00:58:47,040 --> 00:58:49,400
Speaker 1: with my friends too, but we didn't know we were

1291
00:58:49,480 --> 00:58:52,240
Speaker 1: going into the club. She was hosting an event. She

1292
00:58:52,320 --> 00:58:53,760
Speaker 1: didn't want to go by herself.

1293
00:58:54,440 --> 00:58:56,320
Speaker 2: Was like, period, I needed a vacation.

1294
00:58:56,520 --> 00:58:58,080
Speaker 1: I was broke and she was paying for it.

1295
00:58:59,480 --> 00:59:01,200
Speaker 3: And you was like, yeah, I'm gonna just go to

1296
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,200
Speaker 3: this resort and me walking around butt ass naked, y'all.

1297
00:59:04,520 --> 00:59:07,000
Speaker 1: I they got that resort was so freezing and I

1298
00:59:07,120 --> 00:59:11,120
Speaker 1: might fuck me a nigga. No, bitch, don't do it. Bitch,

1299
00:59:11,360 --> 00:59:13,600
Speaker 1: I did not. I didn't say you did. I said

1300
00:59:13,640 --> 00:59:16,880
Speaker 1: you that's what you was thinking on your way. No,

1301
00:59:19,360 --> 00:59:29,160
Speaker 1: might fuck me a rich nigga. I might fuck me wait,

1302
00:59:30,440 --> 00:59:32,520
Speaker 1: but no, that resort was so freaky.

1303
00:59:33,360 --> 00:59:35,760
Speaker 2: I was just sitting in my bathing suit because like

1304
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:38,320
Speaker 2: at this point, you know, y'all know what, Like I

1305
00:59:38,480 --> 00:59:41,000
Speaker 2: just didn't want to be completely but booty, whole ass naked.

1306
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:43,840
Speaker 2: It was that resort was so freaky. I'm sitting in

1307
00:59:43,880 --> 00:59:45,840
Speaker 2: the like on the beach in the chair tanning.

1308
00:59:45,920 --> 00:59:46,880
Speaker 1: The lady came and tacked on me.

1309
00:59:46,920 --> 00:59:48,200
Speaker 3: She's like, you have to take your song suit off.

1310
00:59:48,600 --> 00:59:50,800
Speaker 3: Like the workers were like, you have to be naked.

1311
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:53,360
Speaker 3: Like there's a designable.

1312
00:59:53,640 --> 00:59:57,240
Speaker 1: Everywhere, Like, don't sound sanitari. There was a designated spot

1313
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:58,960
Speaker 1: if you wanted to have clothes on. And it was

1314
00:59:59,000 --> 01:00:03,320
Speaker 1: like this big I'm telling you, I've seen some wild

1315
01:00:03,400 --> 01:00:05,040
Speaker 1: ass ship there. It was actually a lady.

1316
01:00:05,840 --> 01:00:07,800
Speaker 2: And I know I've told this story before, but this

1317
01:00:07,920 --> 01:00:09,320
Speaker 2: is for the new listeners who've never.

1318
01:00:09,600 --> 01:00:12,160
Speaker 1: Because this is what y'all came for. It was a

1319
01:00:12,280 --> 01:00:15,040
Speaker 1: lady sitting on a floaty. She was sitting on the floaty.

1320
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:18,280
Speaker 3: One friend had one leg, the other friend had another leg,

1321
01:00:18,360 --> 01:00:19,440
Speaker 3: and this man was just eating her.

1322
01:00:19,400 --> 01:00:21,880
Speaker 1: Kouchie in the middle of the pool. In the middle

1323
01:00:21,920 --> 01:00:26,240
Speaker 1: of the pool, like not over my dak Ory beach.

1324
01:00:27,640 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: Move but I don't like that. That sounds so unstandardsary.

1325
01:00:30,960 --> 01:00:34,280
Speaker 1: In a pool with no everybody COUCHI out, everybody meet up.

1326
01:00:34,280 --> 01:00:37,800
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna lie. At that point, we definitely got out.

1327
01:00:37,920 --> 01:00:40,120
Speaker 2: It was just a wild time it was a wild week.

1328
01:00:40,240 --> 01:00:42,240
Speaker 2: It was a wild this what you came from?

1329
01:00:43,040 --> 01:00:43,400
Speaker 1: All right?

1330
01:00:43,560 --> 01:00:45,960
Speaker 2: So yes, cut holding, let us know what y'all think

1331
01:00:45,960 --> 01:00:48,800
Speaker 2: about that. Would y'all participate in it? Are we being

1332
01:00:48,880 --> 01:00:50,960
Speaker 2: too judgy or not? Am I being too hard on

1333
01:00:51,120 --> 01:00:51,480
Speaker 2: old boy?

1334
01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:53,320
Speaker 3: But I don't feel like it's I don't feel like

1335
01:00:53,480 --> 01:00:57,400
Speaker 3: being judgie is not wanting to participate in things yourself.

1336
01:00:57,920 --> 01:01:00,800
Speaker 3: I think being judgy is when you like, we did

1337
01:01:00,920 --> 01:01:02,880
Speaker 3: just judge, because we did just say you. I didn't

1338
01:01:02,920 --> 01:01:03,280
Speaker 3: say you.

1339
01:01:03,680 --> 01:01:05,520
Speaker 1: I said that sounds unsanitary.

1340
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:10,360
Speaker 2: You said it was smelling crazy, not judging. No, you

1341
01:01:10,600 --> 01:01:13,280
Speaker 2: said that you don't want to talk about I know it.

1342
01:01:13,400 --> 01:01:15,720
Speaker 1: Was funky in there bringing his sweat because.

1343
01:01:19,440 --> 01:01:27,800
Speaker 2: I know. Okay, So now we're gonna get into the bop.

1344
01:01:27,960 --> 01:01:33,960
Speaker 2: A ah wow, why are you ruined everything?

1345
01:01:35,320 --> 01:01:38,240
Speaker 1: Wow? Wow? I don't know what is your.

1346
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:42,560
Speaker 2: Okay, I'll go first, Okay, So my bop other week

1347
01:01:42,720 --> 01:01:44,720
Speaker 2: is by an artist named Upstars.

1348
01:01:44,760 --> 01:01:47,640
Speaker 1: He has a song, my song. He has a song

1349
01:01:47,800 --> 01:01:48,720
Speaker 1: called mine.

1350
01:01:49,040 --> 01:01:51,360
Speaker 2: And he kind of gives me that he has a

1351
01:01:51,400 --> 01:01:53,000
Speaker 2: little Auto two in his voice. It kind of gives

1352
01:01:53,040 --> 01:01:55,760
Speaker 2: a little Chris Brown a little bit. I don't know

1353
01:01:55,800 --> 01:01:57,880
Speaker 2: who I would compare him to but it's like R

1354
01:01:57,920 --> 01:02:00,640
Speaker 2: and B but it's really really dope.

1355
01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:01,640
Speaker 1: I like his sound.

1356
01:02:02,120 --> 01:02:04,800
Speaker 2: I haven't really got to skim through his projects for real,

1357
01:02:04,920 --> 01:02:06,840
Speaker 2: for real, but this was a song that was sent

1358
01:02:06,880 --> 01:02:08,600
Speaker 2: to me. I can't remember who sent me this, but

1359
01:02:09,120 --> 01:02:12,560
Speaker 2: Upstars Mine, I really like it, Like it was giving

1360
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,760
Speaker 2: me a vibe, Like it's that kind of song, like

1361
01:02:14,880 --> 01:02:16,320
Speaker 2: when you were on the way to your boot house

1362
01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:18,440
Speaker 2: or when your boot kicking it, like this is a

1363
01:02:18,520 --> 01:02:19,880
Speaker 2: song you can vibe to and listen to.

1364
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:24,200
Speaker 1: So but it's spelled up st r z. I'm just

1365
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:25,920
Speaker 1: guessing that you say it like upstars.

1366
01:02:26,000 --> 01:02:28,520
Speaker 2: I don't know, y'all be the kids be getting too creative?

1367
01:02:28,560 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 2: How y'all spell y'all names? Now, y'all know Auntie can

1368
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:34,640
Speaker 2: barely read, so get it together. So Upstars Mine, that's

1369
01:02:34,680 --> 01:02:36,080
Speaker 2: my bop of the week. What you've been listening to?

1370
01:02:36,240 --> 01:02:36,520
Speaker 1: Droll?

1371
01:02:37,680 --> 01:02:41,280
Speaker 3: So I am an untie at this point. I feel like,

1372
01:02:41,360 --> 01:02:43,480
Speaker 3: you know, we definitely like the aunties, you know, cause

1373
01:02:43,480 --> 01:02:44,520
Speaker 3: it's twenty something year olds.

1374
01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,840
Speaker 1: They like the young ones, fat early twenties, right.

1375
01:02:48,240 --> 01:02:50,960
Speaker 3: So you know, I'll be trying to get on TikTok

1376
01:02:51,000 --> 01:02:52,760
Speaker 3: and I'll be seeing what's going on over there and

1377
01:02:52,880 --> 01:02:55,880
Speaker 3: then parts. And I really loved the trend of how

1378
01:02:56,000 --> 01:02:58,040
Speaker 3: like they be speeding up all of like the little

1379
01:02:58,080 --> 01:03:00,880
Speaker 3: songs that was out that was popular when we younger. Okay,

1380
01:03:01,520 --> 01:03:05,560
Speaker 3: so party next Door freaking you they gotta sped up, Okay,

1381
01:03:06,160 --> 01:03:07,560
Speaker 3: and I really used to love that song.

1382
01:03:07,880 --> 01:03:09,640
Speaker 1: You know what, I'm not gonna lie. They sped up

1383
01:03:09,680 --> 01:03:12,680
Speaker 1: Mariah Carry song too, and it's cute. What it's a rap?

1384
01:03:13,120 --> 01:03:16,520
Speaker 3: I mean literally, yeah, they be speeding up everything. They

1385
01:03:16,600 --> 01:03:18,760
Speaker 3: sped up per way by Party next Door like they

1386
01:03:18,880 --> 01:03:19,720
Speaker 3: be speeding up everything.

1387
01:03:20,080 --> 01:03:22,000
Speaker 2: That's so opposite of like you know they because in

1388
01:03:22,160 --> 01:03:25,640
Speaker 2: Houston they down, but the kids are speeding it up.

1389
01:03:25,680 --> 01:03:28,200
Speaker 1: They love speeding up the songs. But I'm actually here

1390
01:03:28,320 --> 01:03:31,640
Speaker 1: for you like it. I think I like the Mariah

1391
01:03:31,680 --> 01:03:33,880
Speaker 1: Carry one. I'm like I said, you didn't like her

1392
01:03:33,920 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: way sped up.

1393
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:37,320
Speaker 2: Maybe I have to hear it, Yeah, maybe I need

1394
01:03:37,400 --> 01:03:38,800
Speaker 2: to hear it, but I haven't because I I be

1395
01:03:38,960 --> 01:03:40,840
Speaker 2: on TikTok, but I haven't heard that. I haven't seen

1396
01:03:40,880 --> 01:03:44,840
Speaker 2: that trend yet. I'll be on the different side of TikTok,

1397
01:03:45,640 --> 01:03:48,880
Speaker 2: what's side you, I'll be on farmer talk by be.

1398
01:03:48,880 --> 01:03:51,640
Speaker 1: Watching people do you want to plants, I don't know.

1399
01:03:51,800 --> 01:03:53,360
Speaker 2: I'm thinking about it. I'm thinking about like when I

1400
01:03:53,400 --> 01:03:54,800
Speaker 2: want to retire, Like what do I want to do?

1401
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:57,080
Speaker 1: But I don't know.

1402
01:03:57,120 --> 01:04:00,000
Speaker 2: I was thinking about farming stuff, plants, Like I'm getting

1403
01:04:00,080 --> 01:04:01,919
Speaker 2: into plants because I really want to start my own

1404
01:04:02,000 --> 01:04:02,720
Speaker 2: herb garden.

1405
01:04:05,320 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: Don't get excited back there yet. That's how I'm gonna say.

1406
01:04:07,720 --> 01:04:09,840
Speaker 1: What kind of like I want to do, like Oregano,

1407
01:04:10,120 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 1: definitely Cilantro, I love I Like that's what you're gonna

1408
01:04:16,240 --> 01:04:18,240
Speaker 1: tell to me? Or is that what he's really gonna be?

1409
01:04:18,960 --> 01:04:25,640
Speaker 1: I want to do? Oragan O, Cilantro, sage and crack.

1410
01:04:28,520 --> 01:04:32,040
Speaker 3: I don't think you can grow crag, but you gotta

1411
01:04:32,080 --> 01:04:35,600
Speaker 3: cook it, like you gotta get the I mean, now

1412
01:04:35,640 --> 01:04:37,000
Speaker 3: you can't get the plane. What is it called the

1413
01:04:37,080 --> 01:04:41,720
Speaker 3: opium plane. It's either opium or opious. I gotta start

1414
01:04:41,800 --> 01:04:43,080
Speaker 3: some with girl.

1415
01:04:43,080 --> 01:04:45,080
Speaker 1: You're gonna go to jail. I don't care. I don't

1416
01:04:45,080 --> 01:04:51,600
Speaker 1: got nothing to lose. Take me all right, all right,

1417
01:04:51,640 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: all right, okay, So now.

1418
01:04:53,480 --> 01:04:55,400
Speaker 2: So your Bible of the week was the sped up

1419
01:04:55,480 --> 01:04:58,600
Speaker 2: version of Party Next for freaking you. Okay, cool, So

1420
01:04:58,880 --> 01:05:01,040
Speaker 2: now we're gonna get into our fan favorite segment of

1421
01:05:01,160 --> 01:05:01,520
Speaker 2: the week.

1422
01:05:01,640 --> 01:05:02,200
Speaker 1: Let's say.

1423
01:05:03,680 --> 01:05:05,600
Speaker 2: I thought we had an item with them. Oh no,

1424
01:05:05,720 --> 01:05:08,280
Speaker 2: I don't this a way Okay, So make sure y'all

1425
01:05:08,320 --> 01:05:11,640
Speaker 2: subscribe to the Patreon. We upload weekly bonus content.

1426
01:05:11,680 --> 01:05:14,320
Speaker 3: If y'all don't get enough Poor Minds only on Friday, y'all,

1427
01:05:14,560 --> 01:05:16,120
Speaker 3: please go subscribe to the Patreon.

1428
01:05:16,240 --> 01:05:16,800
Speaker 1: It's really good.

1429
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:18,360
Speaker 2: A lot of times y'all be wanting us to talk

1430
01:05:18,400 --> 01:05:20,440
Speaker 2: about hot topics, but we don't talk about them on here.

1431
01:05:20,720 --> 01:05:22,720
Speaker 2: We talk about it on Patreon. So go sign up

1432
01:05:22,760 --> 01:05:27,120
Speaker 2: at patreon dot com. Backslash poor Minds and we have

1433
01:05:27,720 --> 01:05:29,360
Speaker 2: the poor your Heart Out segment. If you want your

1434
01:05:29,440 --> 01:05:32,080
Speaker 2: question answered on the show, make sure you email us

1435
01:05:32,120 --> 01:05:35,320
Speaker 2: at askpoor Minds at gmail dot com. Now, y'all been

1436
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:38,000
Speaker 2: getting a little long with these paragraphs. Let's bring it

1437
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:39,480
Speaker 2: back one paragraph. Y'all.

1438
01:05:39,600 --> 01:05:41,600
Speaker 1: Try to break these things down.

1439
01:05:41,800 --> 01:05:43,919
Speaker 3: Okay, you want to start, you want me to start,

1440
01:05:44,080 --> 01:05:48,440
Speaker 3: You can start, Okay, it says please keep this anonymous.

1441
01:05:48,800 --> 01:05:50,760
Speaker 2: Heydrea and lex I have been a listener of the

1442
01:05:50,760 --> 01:05:52,960
Speaker 2: show for some time now, and I love y'all and

1443
01:05:53,120 --> 01:05:55,360
Speaker 2: this podcast, so let me get right to it.

1444
01:05:55,560 --> 01:05:57,919
Speaker 1: Sorry in advance if this is super long. Now see

1445
01:05:57,960 --> 01:05:58,560
Speaker 1: what I just said.

1446
01:05:59,040 --> 01:06:01,600
Speaker 2: I'm twenty eight and I live in Dallas. I have

1447
01:06:01,720 --> 01:06:04,240
Speaker 2: been dating this guy since May of twenty twenty one.

1448
01:06:04,560 --> 01:06:07,280
Speaker 2: Our first date was amazing and we immediately vibed.

1449
01:06:07,040 --> 01:06:07,480
Speaker 1: With each other.

1450
01:06:07,800 --> 01:06:11,040
Speaker 2: We spent that entire summer together and it was too amazing.

1451
01:06:11,400 --> 01:06:14,360
Speaker 2: We soon started traveling together, going on group dates with

1452
01:06:14,440 --> 01:06:17,480
Speaker 2: his friends who are either married or in long term relationships,

1453
01:06:17,800 --> 01:06:21,400
Speaker 2: going on double dates with his parents, attending family gatherings together,

1454
01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 2: spending birthdays and holidays together, etc. Fast forward to February

1455
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,600
Speaker 2: twenty twenty two and we go to Cabo. We had

1456
01:06:28,640 --> 01:06:31,200
Speaker 2: an amazing time, but I thought he would ask me

1457
01:06:31,280 --> 01:06:34,480
Speaker 2: to be his girlfriend on his trip, and when he didn't,

1458
01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:38,440
Speaker 2: I was so disappointed. May rolls around again, making it

1459
01:06:38,560 --> 01:06:41,200
Speaker 2: a year of dating. We act as though we are

1460
01:06:41,280 --> 01:06:43,600
Speaker 2: in a relationship in every way, but he just won't

1461
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:46,200
Speaker 2: say the word girlfriend. This has been a point of

1462
01:06:46,320 --> 01:06:48,680
Speaker 2: contention for me because I think it's strange that he

1463
01:06:48,720 --> 01:06:51,640
Speaker 2: won't claim me in that way. We have had several

1464
01:06:51,840 --> 01:06:55,160
Speaker 2: arguments about this, to which he gives different reasoning each time.

1465
01:06:55,600 --> 01:06:57,640
Speaker 2: At first, he didn't want to rush into a relationship

1466
01:06:57,680 --> 01:06:59,880
Speaker 2: because he had done that several times in the past.

1467
01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:02,840
Speaker 2: Then it was I should know how he feels about

1468
01:07:02,920 --> 01:07:05,760
Speaker 2: me based on his actions, But my love language is

1469
01:07:05,800 --> 01:07:08,880
Speaker 2: words of affirmation, so I need to feel reassured through

1470
01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:09,480
Speaker 2: his words.

1471
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:12,640
Speaker 1: And we're grown. If you want to like, if you

1472
01:07:12,720 --> 01:07:14,560
Speaker 1: love me and want to be with me in that way,

1473
01:07:14,680 --> 01:07:15,640
Speaker 1: say it with your chest.

1474
01:07:16,000 --> 01:07:18,720
Speaker 2: To make matters worse, we talk about our future together

1475
01:07:18,880 --> 01:07:21,960
Speaker 2: often he makes future plans with me included in them

1476
01:07:22,040 --> 01:07:24,880
Speaker 2: and makes decisions with me in mind. I end up

1477
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:28,360
Speaker 2: abruptly cutting him off, cutting off all communications with him

1478
01:07:28,440 --> 01:07:31,280
Speaker 2: around August of twenty twenty two. According to him, that

1479
01:07:31,440 --> 01:07:33,360
Speaker 2: was the worst pain he's ever felt, and he's never

1480
01:07:33,480 --> 01:07:36,720
Speaker 2: been hurt in that way before. Also, when we finally

1481
01:07:36,760 --> 01:07:39,040
Speaker 2: had a conversation following this, he told me he had

1482
01:07:39,120 --> 01:07:42,280
Speaker 2: made plans that week to make this official, make things official,

1483
01:07:42,680 --> 01:07:45,680
Speaker 2: which I low key believe, but I also think it's bullshit.

1484
01:07:46,080 --> 01:07:48,280
Speaker 2: He also managed to write me an email telling me

1485
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:50,080
Speaker 2: how I was so amazing and that we had the

1486
01:07:50,160 --> 01:07:51,520
Speaker 2: most ideal relationship.

1487
01:07:51,880 --> 01:07:54,760
Speaker 1: I was a breath of fresh air. Blah blah blah.

1488
01:07:55,240 --> 01:07:57,920
Speaker 2: I appreciated the email, but that was the most emotion

1489
01:07:58,040 --> 01:07:59,800
Speaker 2: I had ever gotten from him, and I hate that

1490
01:07:59,840 --> 01:08:02,640
Speaker 2: it came after I was cutting him off. We started

1491
01:08:02,680 --> 01:08:05,080
Speaker 2: dealing with each other again because he expressed to me

1492
01:08:05,200 --> 01:08:07,720
Speaker 2: that he wanted that. And since we started back, things

1493
01:08:07,760 --> 01:08:09,600
Speaker 2: are kind of the same, but there are differences.

1494
01:08:09,720 --> 01:08:10,080
Speaker 1: For sure.

1495
01:08:10,560 --> 01:08:13,000
Speaker 2: He is an affectionate. He barely tells me he loves

1496
01:08:13,080 --> 01:08:15,959
Speaker 2: me anymore. We spend time together, but I just feel

1497
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:18,639
Speaker 2: like a friend or like he hasn't forgiven me. It's

1498
01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:20,720
Speaker 2: just a weird vibe now, and I spend most of

1499
01:08:20,800 --> 01:08:24,120
Speaker 2: our time together in my head wondering how he feels. Also,

1500
01:08:24,240 --> 01:08:26,360
Speaker 2: he just got a promotion that requires him to move

1501
01:08:26,439 --> 01:08:29,240
Speaker 2: to Austin. I say all of this to ask what

1502
01:08:29,360 --> 01:08:32,080
Speaker 2: should I do. Should I have a conversation with him

1503
01:08:32,120 --> 01:08:33,960
Speaker 2: to try and see where his head is at, or

1504
01:08:34,040 --> 01:08:36,720
Speaker 2: take steps to fix things, or should I just take

1505
01:08:36,800 --> 01:08:38,280
Speaker 2: the hint and call it quits for good?

1506
01:08:38,720 --> 01:08:39,240
Speaker 1: Send help.

1507
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:42,000
Speaker 2: Thank you for listening. I can't wait to hear this advice.

1508
01:08:43,560 --> 01:08:46,519
Speaker 2: What you think, little Drea, cut that niggo leave him alone?

1509
01:08:46,520 --> 01:08:49,160
Speaker 2: I agree, because he already ain't really want to claim

1510
01:08:49,240 --> 01:08:51,560
Speaker 2: you for real. And you know what, I'll say this,

1511
01:08:52,479 --> 01:08:54,479
Speaker 2: If a man loses like he saw that, you can

1512
01:08:54,560 --> 01:08:57,240
Speaker 2: walk away. So when you came back, that was his

1513
01:08:57,360 --> 01:08:58,960
Speaker 2: moment to be like, Hey, I don't want to lose

1514
01:08:59,000 --> 01:09:01,800
Speaker 2: you again. So if this is all you wanted to

1515
01:09:01,880 --> 01:09:04,400
Speaker 2: be claimed, because if y'all are doing all this stuff,

1516
01:09:04,720 --> 01:09:08,040
Speaker 2: double dates with the parents, vacation, all, that's a lot.

1517
01:09:08,560 --> 01:09:11,800
Speaker 2: So if the commitment is scaring him away, he just

1518
01:09:11,920 --> 01:09:13,320
Speaker 2: is not ready to be in a relationship.

1519
01:09:13,360 --> 01:09:16,320
Speaker 1: But if if a relationship is what you want, I.

1520
01:09:16,400 --> 01:09:19,400
Speaker 2: Think it's kind of like you're you're gonna be You're

1521
01:09:19,400 --> 01:09:21,160
Speaker 2: gonna wake up and it's gonna be two years later

1522
01:09:21,280 --> 01:09:23,440
Speaker 2: again and y'all are still not in a relationship.

1523
01:09:23,520 --> 01:09:25,519
Speaker 3: Yeah, I just kind of feel like, not to say

1524
01:09:25,560 --> 01:09:27,160
Speaker 3: you waste the your time, but I kind of do

1525
01:09:27,280 --> 01:09:28,639
Speaker 3: feel like you kind of wasteing your time.

1526
01:09:28,720 --> 01:09:30,559
Speaker 2: And to me, if you have to walk away from

1527
01:09:30,600 --> 01:09:32,920
Speaker 2: a person to get them to quote unquote act right,

1528
01:09:33,520 --> 01:09:35,160
Speaker 2: that's not the person for you. I shouldn't have to

1529
01:09:35,240 --> 01:09:37,360
Speaker 2: walk away from you for you to start being like, oh,

1530
01:09:37,479 --> 01:09:38,080
Speaker 2: I could lose you.

1531
01:09:38,200 --> 01:09:41,080
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. Yeah, sometimes I do think

1532
01:09:41,080 --> 01:09:42,480
Speaker 1: you got to scare a niggah.

1533
01:09:45,280 --> 01:09:47,120
Speaker 3: But the fact that you did walk away and you

1534
01:09:47,280 --> 01:09:49,480
Speaker 3: came back and the problems are even worse.

1535
01:09:51,400 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 1: It's a rap for you, babe. Bee.

1536
01:09:55,720 --> 01:09:57,840
Speaker 3: Yeah, I think you definitely need to let that nigga

1537
01:09:57,840 --> 01:10:02,120
Speaker 3: go out cut him. Lucy's okay, Hi, ladies, I'm going

1538
01:10:02,200 --> 01:10:04,400
Speaker 3: to try to keep this short and simple. I recently

1539
01:10:04,479 --> 01:10:06,519
Speaker 3: had some events occur between me and two of my

1540
01:10:06,600 --> 01:10:09,519
Speaker 3: closest friends that left me feeling hurt. For the past

1541
01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:11,720
Speaker 3: few months, I have been talking to this guy. We

1542
01:10:11,880 --> 01:10:14,280
Speaker 3: have something going on in twenty twenty one, but fell

1543
01:10:14,360 --> 01:10:17,719
Speaker 3: off because we were emotionally tied to other people. Fast

1544
01:10:17,800 --> 01:10:20,200
Speaker 3: forward to my birthday last year. We got back in

1545
01:10:20,280 --> 01:10:23,320
Speaker 3: touch and have been inseparable ever since. I enjoy his company.

1546
01:10:23,400 --> 01:10:25,080
Speaker 3: We talk on the phone twenty four to seven and

1547
01:10:25,160 --> 01:10:27,639
Speaker 3: we are very open with each other. I've never bad

1548
01:10:27,760 --> 01:10:30,400
Speaker 3: mouthed him to my friends at all. About a week ago,

1549
01:10:30,520 --> 01:10:32,680
Speaker 3: he told me that he loved me. I've dealt with

1550
01:10:32,760 --> 01:10:35,960
Speaker 3: a lot of fuck niggas, so I actually tell them. Wait,

1551
01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,760
Speaker 3: so I actually tell that him?

1552
01:10:38,320 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: Okay girl, So I could actually tell that. Him saying that.

1553
01:10:41,720 --> 01:10:44,400
Speaker 3: Okay, So I could actually tell that him saying that

1554
01:10:44,600 --> 01:10:47,240
Speaker 3: came from a genuine place. That was a big moment

1555
01:10:47,320 --> 01:10:49,559
Speaker 3: for me. So of course I told my two friends

1556
01:10:49,560 --> 01:10:52,479
Speaker 3: about you. They both had the same reaction. Why would

1557
01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:54,800
Speaker 3: you believe him? He has a baby what's the new?

1558
01:10:54,960 --> 01:10:58,160
Speaker 3: This isn't the first nigga to say this, He's nothing special, etc.

1559
01:10:58,960 --> 01:11:01,160
Speaker 3: Their reactions hurt my fe because I never do this

1560
01:11:01,280 --> 01:11:03,880
Speaker 3: to them when they are talking to anybody. I'm the

1561
01:11:03,920 --> 01:11:06,320
Speaker 3: friend that's never been in a relationship, and I feel like,

1562
01:11:06,439 --> 01:11:08,559
Speaker 3: now that I want to get in one, it's nothing

1563
01:11:08,600 --> 01:11:11,479
Speaker 3: but negativity coming from them. Am I being dramatic for

1564
01:11:11,520 --> 01:11:14,439
Speaker 3: feeling this way? Do y'all feel like relationships are running?

1565
01:11:14,479 --> 01:11:17,880
Speaker 3: Friendships are vice versa? Would this be a petty reason

1566
01:11:17,960 --> 01:11:19,599
Speaker 3: to back off or end a friendship?

1567
01:11:20,000 --> 01:11:20,360
Speaker 1: Ps?

1568
01:11:20,560 --> 01:11:22,960
Speaker 3: I've been friends with them for over five years. Is

1569
01:11:23,000 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 3: it possible that I've outgrown them? Or even think that

1570
01:11:26,120 --> 01:11:30,080
Speaker 3: we're all twenty only twenty one? Thank you so much, ladies.

1571
01:11:31,640 --> 01:11:34,320
Speaker 2: I feel like that's not a reason to cut somebody off,

1572
01:11:34,439 --> 01:11:35,559
Speaker 2: but you should create.

1573
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:37,960
Speaker 1: It's okay to create boundaries with your friends, y'all.

1574
01:11:38,520 --> 01:11:42,040
Speaker 2: You do not have to tell your friends everything, And

1575
01:11:42,120 --> 01:11:44,600
Speaker 2: I think that's what people get misconstrued with things like,

1576
01:11:45,360 --> 01:11:47,760
Speaker 2: sometimes you know your friends who you can share things with,

1577
01:11:47,880 --> 01:11:50,800
Speaker 2: and you know your friends that you can't necessarily share

1578
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:54,360
Speaker 2: everything with. I don't share everything with none of my friends.

1579
01:11:54,520 --> 01:11:57,960
Speaker 2: Sometimes I may tell you a year later a month later,

1580
01:11:58,160 --> 01:12:00,519
Speaker 2: a day later. But sometimes you need to just go

1581
01:12:00,680 --> 01:12:03,400
Speaker 2: through things yourself, so now you know how they feel.

1582
01:12:03,880 --> 01:12:06,320
Speaker 2: I wouldn't say stop being friends with them, but if

1583
01:12:06,360 --> 01:12:08,280
Speaker 2: this is a relationship that you want to see where

1584
01:12:08,320 --> 01:12:11,320
Speaker 2: it goes, then you need to keep this relationship between

1585
01:12:12,040 --> 01:12:14,240
Speaker 2: you know, you and him and just see where it goes.

1586
01:12:14,280 --> 01:12:16,960
Speaker 2: And you can't confide in them about your relationship unfortunately.

1587
01:12:17,520 --> 01:12:19,320
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I feel like y'all twenty one, so I

1588
01:12:19,360 --> 01:12:22,000
Speaker 3: don't necessarily think it's a reason to cut somebody off y'all,

1589
01:12:22,160 --> 01:12:24,280
Speaker 3: Like girl, y'all only been friends since y'all was with

1590
01:12:24,600 --> 01:12:26,800
Speaker 3: like sixteen. Yeah, because she said they're only twenty one,

1591
01:12:26,880 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 3: you Know's what I'm saying. So it's just kind of like,

1592
01:12:29,320 --> 01:12:31,400
Speaker 3: I definitely just think stop telling them so much of

1593
01:12:31,479 --> 01:12:33,920
Speaker 3: your business. Like people definitely be feeling like I gotta

1594
01:12:33,920 --> 01:12:36,439
Speaker 3: tell people everything. Child. I always been the post to

1595
01:12:36,479 --> 01:12:38,720
Speaker 3: child my whole life. I don't tell people. I don't

1596
01:12:38,720 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 3: tell nobody everything right, right, not even my mama pure

1597
01:12:42,520 --> 01:12:44,360
Speaker 3: and I love her. I tell her the most, but

1598
01:12:44,520 --> 01:12:47,559
Speaker 3: I don't even tell her everything. So I just feel

1599
01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:51,200
Speaker 3: like you definitely have to stop oversharing, like, and you

1600
01:12:51,280 --> 01:12:53,439
Speaker 3: also can't be upset when your friends don't like people.

1601
01:12:53,520 --> 01:12:57,280
Speaker 3: Sometimes people definitely like people that are trash ass people

1602
01:12:57,720 --> 01:13:01,160
Speaker 3: and your friends rightfully so be seeing through the bullshit

1603
01:13:01,280 --> 01:13:04,400
Speaker 3: or I think when you like people, it'd be hard

1604
01:13:04,520 --> 01:13:06,439
Speaker 3: for you to see them for who they really are,

1605
01:13:06,560 --> 01:13:08,479
Speaker 3: see their true colors, and a lot of time, the

1606
01:13:08,520 --> 01:13:11,320
Speaker 3: people around you they can see that sheet, you know,

1607
01:13:11,479 --> 01:13:14,400
Speaker 3: and maybe sometimes to a certain extem they are overstepping

1608
01:13:14,439 --> 01:13:17,240
Speaker 3: their boundaries because you can't tell somebody what to do,

1609
01:13:17,840 --> 01:13:20,200
Speaker 3: and you just got to accept who people want to

1610
01:13:20,240 --> 01:13:23,080
Speaker 3: date and whatever they want to do. But if you

1611
01:13:23,200 --> 01:13:26,240
Speaker 3: didn't tell them, they wouldn't have nothing to go off.

1612
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:28,920
Speaker 2: Of, because you can't, like, this is the thing about

1613
01:13:29,040 --> 01:13:32,000
Speaker 2: asking somebody's opinion or telling them some news about you

1614
01:13:32,840 --> 01:13:37,639
Speaker 2: just because you expect this reaction. That's not like that's

1615
01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:40,439
Speaker 2: your fault, because if you're telling somebody some news or

1616
01:13:40,479 --> 01:13:43,519
Speaker 2: you're telling somebody something and asking their opinion, you have

1617
01:13:43,640 --> 01:13:45,800
Speaker 2: to understand that they may not react the way that

1618
01:13:45,920 --> 01:13:48,080
Speaker 2: you want them to, you know what I'm saying. So

1619
01:13:48,360 --> 01:13:50,800
Speaker 2: you can't expect people just to always be like, oh,

1620
01:13:50,880 --> 01:13:52,719
Speaker 2: this is a great decision if they know this, nigga,

1621
01:13:52,720 --> 01:13:55,120
Speaker 2: and did X y Z to you? Because especially if

1622
01:13:55,200 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 2: like just four or five months ago, you was complaining

1623
01:13:57,240 --> 01:13:59,280
Speaker 2: about how he ain't shitting, how he broke your heart.

1624
01:14:00,160 --> 01:14:01,439
Speaker 1: So just tread lightly.

1625
01:14:01,479 --> 01:14:04,280
Speaker 2: I don't think you should stop being friends with them. Agree,

1626
01:14:05,880 --> 01:14:09,000
Speaker 2: So what else we got, Little Draya the tour. The

1627
01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:12,120
Speaker 2: tickets are available. Make sure y'all go set eighty five

1628
01:14:12,200 --> 01:14:15,439
Speaker 2: South Show dot com, Poor Minds dot com and all

1629
01:14:15,479 --> 01:14:16,320
Speaker 2: the dates will be there.

1630
01:14:16,439 --> 01:14:18,880
Speaker 1: Tickets are available. We look.

1631
01:14:19,040 --> 01:14:21,320
Speaker 2: We announced the tour extra early, so y'all have time

1632
01:14:21,439 --> 01:14:23,960
Speaker 2: to save your coins, figure out what city you want

1633
01:14:24,000 --> 01:14:26,559
Speaker 2: to come to plan a girl's weekend because we outside.

1634
01:14:26,840 --> 01:14:28,320
Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all something. If y'all went to the

1635
01:14:28,360 --> 01:14:30,960
Speaker 2: first tour, you do not want to miss the second one.

1636
01:14:31,160 --> 01:14:32,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be lit.

1637
01:14:32,320 --> 01:14:34,240
Speaker 3: And like Leck said, well, I don't know if you

1638
01:14:34,360 --> 01:14:36,439
Speaker 3: just said this, but we adding more dates. Yes, we're

1639
01:14:36,439 --> 01:14:38,479
Speaker 3: definitely out all the dates that we have because I

1640
01:14:38,560 --> 01:14:41,040
Speaker 3: had seen a lot of comments, people complaining and talking

1641
01:14:41,040 --> 01:14:43,840
Speaker 3: about we ain't coming certain places. We still adding more dates,

1642
01:14:44,000 --> 01:14:47,080
Speaker 3: and we said it in the cash don't fritz, don't fret.

1643
01:14:47,640 --> 01:14:51,160
Speaker 3: We're adding more dates coming soon. And yeah, you know,

1644
01:14:51,280 --> 01:14:53,679
Speaker 3: sign up for our Patreon. We got some new merchants

1645
01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:56,400
Speaker 3: off coming soon, and we just have a lot of

1646
01:14:56,560 --> 01:14:58,960
Speaker 3: exciting things in this year. You know, we're doing roots

1647
01:14:59,000 --> 01:15:02,360
Speaker 3: picnics coming up, and I think you can already get

1648
01:15:02,400 --> 01:15:03,120
Speaker 3: your tickets for that.

1649
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:04,960
Speaker 1: So if you live in Philly, or if you want

1650
01:15:05,000 --> 01:15:06,479
Speaker 1: to go to Philly, get.

1651
01:15:06,400 --> 01:15:08,439
Speaker 3: Your tickets for Ruth's picnics so you can come see

1652
01:15:08,600 --> 01:15:10,519
Speaker 3: Lix and out on the podcast stage.

1653
01:15:10,560 --> 01:15:12,720
Speaker 1: Because it's gonna be lit this summer. We're gonna have

1654
01:15:12,760 --> 01:15:15,679
Speaker 1: a ball. And yeah, I'm sitting up because I'm ready

1655
01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:20,720
Speaker 1: to sign all right, everybody real, we ain't got our

1656
01:15:20,760 --> 01:15:22,680
Speaker 1: stage today. I know we ain't got our stage. We

1657
01:15:22,720 --> 01:15:24,960
Speaker 1: ain't done it old school in a long time. Have

1658
01:15:25,080 --> 01:15:26,360
Speaker 1: to make it work. You ready?

1659
01:15:26,720 --> 01:15:29,240
Speaker 2: I think we got to sing this first part together.

1660
01:15:30,240 --> 01:15:32,639
Speaker 2: I'm a little horse, the first verse.

1661
01:15:32,560 --> 01:15:35,640
Speaker 1: Of the song, which one you I said what I

1662
01:15:35,720 --> 01:15:39,320
Speaker 1: wanted to sing earlier. Okay, we can go back, we

1663
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:43,200
Speaker 1: can Okay, you ready? I need to uh LERI say,

1664
01:15:43,479 --> 01:15:45,960
Speaker 1: how you ain't never ready? No, I'm not because I.

1665
01:15:45,960 --> 01:15:49,760
Speaker 2: Didn't know what song sad, my bad, my bad little bro,

1666
01:15:49,880 --> 01:15:50,519
Speaker 2: my bad little bro.

1667
01:15:50,600 --> 01:15:51,560
Speaker 1: Okay, I just sent it to you.

1668
01:15:52,520 --> 01:15:55,880
Speaker 2: You got it, you got it, my g And let

1669
01:15:55,920 --> 01:15:59,640
Speaker 2: me also say I said that if you went to

1670
01:15:59,720 --> 01:16:01,880
Speaker 2: the tour, but also if you missed the tour last year,

1671
01:16:02,400 --> 01:16:04,840
Speaker 2: you got enough time to figure out your plan, so

1672
01:16:05,000 --> 01:16:06,559
Speaker 2: ain't no excuses, all right?

1673
01:16:06,760 --> 01:16:07,960
Speaker 1: Anyways? You ready.

1674
01:16:11,520 --> 01:16:12,519
Speaker 3: Go go?

1675
01:16:12,680 --> 01:16:15,840
Speaker 1: What it starting to sing? A part of me wants

1676
01:16:15,880 --> 01:16:19,000
Speaker 1: to leave you. Yeah, A part of me wants for

1677
01:16:19,120 --> 01:16:20,120
Speaker 1: you to come home.

1678
01:16:20,760 --> 01:16:24,360
Speaker 4: A part of me says, I'm living a life and

1679
01:16:24,479 --> 01:16:25,840
Speaker 4: I'm bettering off without you.

1680
01:16:26,720 --> 01:16:29,800
Speaker 3: A part of me says the thing get through. A

1681
01:16:29,920 --> 01:16:33,280
Speaker 3: part of me says I'm over you. A part of

1682
01:16:33,360 --> 01:16:37,920
Speaker 3: me wants to say goodbye. A part of me is asking.

1683
01:16:37,720 --> 01:16:42,200
Speaker 1: Why he wants to be here with you.

1684
01:16:42,560 --> 01:16:45,400
Speaker 4: And every time I think that where over and done,

1685
01:16:45,680 --> 01:16:47,439
Speaker 4: you do something they get me back.

1686
01:16:47,560 --> 01:16:50,440
Speaker 1: Love and you because you got me just walk.

1687
01:16:52,400 --> 01:16:55,479
Speaker 4: And I really want to be with you, and something

1688
01:16:55,680 --> 01:16:58,759
Speaker 4: telling me I should leave you alone?

1689
01:16:58,960 --> 01:17:05,080
Speaker 1: You alone in between two because I really want to

1690
01:17:05,200 --> 01:17:08,439
Speaker 1: be with you. Wait wait, pause, pause, pause.

1691
01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:09,640
Speaker 2: Do you remember when she was singing a line and

1692
01:17:09,720 --> 01:17:13,559
Speaker 2: she was like, oh my god, do you remember that alive?

1693
01:17:13,680 --> 01:17:14,600
Speaker 1: And she was trying to hit that.

1694
01:17:14,800 --> 01:17:18,679
Speaker 2: No, She's like, but I can't feel this, Oh my god,

1695
01:17:18,840 --> 01:17:21,800
Speaker 2: I said, I feel you, LaToya, because that I can't

1696
01:17:21,880 --> 01:17:27,920
Speaker 2: feel this way you know till LaToya look it HiT's

1697
01:17:27,960 --> 01:17:29,040
Speaker 2: that stick like grit.

1698
01:17:29,760 --> 01:17:33,600
Speaker 1: We'll see you ain't gonna let us forget that was

1699
01:17:33,760 --> 01:17:38,080
Speaker 1: never the greatest city ever. Bye y'all, But I can't

1700
01:17:38,160 --> 01:17:39,200
Speaker 1: feel this way