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Speaker 1: Brooke, we've all seen your school photos.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, based on the images that you've shown us of

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Speaker 2: your outfits and telescope lenses, I'm just gonna go out

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Speaker 2: there on a limb and say, you probably definitely got bullied.

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Speaker 3: I mean, okay, does getting hit by an egg salad

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Speaker 3: sandwich on the bus count is bullying?

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Speaker 4: It only happened once, they laugh when they threw it. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: I've always.

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Speaker 3: Told myself it was meant for Simon that was sitting

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Speaker 4: But I don't know. Splatted on the back of the seat.

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Speaker 4: And I'm going to tell you egg salad is hard

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Speaker 4: to clean off of lenses. My glasses were just lovered.

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Speaker 1: You're bullied.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I've been bullied, but it doesn't really affect me

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Speaker 5: I just.

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Speaker 1: Fine, doesn't affect Brooke.

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Speaker 2: But I only bring it up because it affects What

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Speaker 2: if your old bully from school came a knock in

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Speaker 2: and said, I want to apologize and make it up

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Speaker 2: to you.

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Speaker 1: What if an eggs salad guy came back in your life.

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Speaker 4: I think egg salad guy may have been on drugs

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Speaker 4: when he threw it. I don't know if you remember.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know what the thing is.

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Speaker 2: That's what one of our listeners reached out to us about.

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Speaker 2: His name is Isaac, and he has asked us today

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Wait, Isaac's the bully, A reformed bully.

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Speaker 1: Maybe Isaac, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well, I said it didn't affect me.

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Speaker 3: Listen, I have been thinking about that moment, every detail

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Speaker 3: I was sitting next to the cole.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, we don't need to go back into the

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Speaker 2: story because Isaac isn't your bully.

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Speaker 1: Okay, but it sounds like he may have been somebody

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Speaker 1: else's bully. Is that right? Yeah?

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Speaker 5: I mean I was a different person. I had issues

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Speaker 5: going on, and that's definitely not an excuse for how

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Speaker 5: I acted and what I did. I definitely was a bully.

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Speaker 3: I mean every bully usually has the biggest amount of

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Speaker 3: problem lumps, right, That's why they can't process emotions correctly.

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Speaker 1: Well, when you're a.

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Speaker 3: Kid, you don't know that more mature well, and it

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Speaker 3: doesn't excuse the behavior.

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Speaker 1: No.

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Speaker 2: No, Now suddenly you're bully expert all that she is

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Speaker 2: getting deep doc to her. But Isaac, so you're saying

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Speaker 2: that you were a bully back in your school days.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, and when I feel really bad about it. Some

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Speaker 5: people could like handle that kind of thing, but I

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Speaker 4: Yeah, who was it?

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Speaker 5: Well? Her name's Abby, short for Abigail, and one of

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Speaker 5: the things I made fun of. I don't know why.

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Speaker 5: I thought it was like an old lady named to

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Speaker 1: So you brought that up to her?

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Speaker 3: Not even a very creative bully.

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Speaker 1: Your name doesn't sound your age.

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Speaker 4: She's like, why I go buy Abby? Did that sucks?

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Speaker 5: So?

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Speaker 4: How long did this go on for?

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Speaker 5: All throughout middle school? I mean it wasn't just the name.

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Speaker 5: She had braces, bad skins. Did I made up a

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Speaker 5: rumor that she had toe puppets?

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Speaker 1: To puppets?

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Speaker 4: A toe puppet? Did you crush on her this whole time?

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Speaker 3: Is that why the bully alexis I'm trying to figure

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Speaker 3: out what a toe puppet is about it?

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Speaker 5: Well, it's like a puppet you would put on your

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Speaker 5: toe exactly.

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Speaker 4: Like a finger, like a finger.

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Speaker 6: Okay, and clarified that.

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Speaker 5: I'm not pretending any of this was like clever, but

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Speaker 5: I definitely remember people would like wiggle their toes at her.

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Speaker 4: That sucks.

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Speaker 3: At what point did you start feeling bad and regretful?

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Speaker 5: No? Not during middle school. I was having the time

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Speaker 4: You were popular. Yeah, attention from somebody peaked. Sorry, I

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Speaker 1: Bully.

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Speaker 4: It's it didn't affect me.

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Speaker 2: So's just brought up a good question earlier. Do you

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Speaker 5: No, I think it was rooted in the fact that

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Speaker 2: Okay, easy target, Absolutely, Okay, And so now what made

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Speaker 5: Well, I saw someone online talking about darry old bully

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Speaker 4: What do you want from the apology, Like you want

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Speaker 5: Or I don't know if it'll mean anything to her

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Speaker 5: or not, but I hope she knows I'm sorry. I mean,

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Speaker 5: you know, it was middle school. I was an idiot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah for you, Brook, if exceled sandwich guy came back

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Speaker 2: and apologized, would that mean something to you today?

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Speaker 4: No? Is that bad?

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Speaker 1: Like, no, you don't need that.

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Speaker 4: I I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm torn on that one though, because it like still hurts,

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Speaker 4: I think I would accept his apology, but it wouldn't.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, I shouldn't. I shouldn't have asked the cold, emotionless

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Speaker 2: More traumatizing to have a bully back in their day

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you know you didn't deserve.

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Speaker 3: That, or it would just bring up a lot of

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Speaker 4: I guess she pushed it back down there, keep it

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Speaker 2: That also is a if you want to take the

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Speaker 1: Isaac.

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Speaker 2: You already know that our producer was able to reach

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, are you nervous?

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Speaker 4: How are you feeling right now? Because obviously she responded.

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Speaker 5: Well, I I'm just trying to get closure for myself.

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Speaker 5: So I'm hoping that she takes it as a positive

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Speaker 2: So we're going to take a quick break, and when

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Speaker 2: in middle school actually worked.

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Speaker 4: I can't even wait to just hear what you wrote

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Speaker 4: for the apology to be.

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Speaker 2: We're going to find out when we continue your closure

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Speaker 2: We're in the middle of a closure call with Isaac,

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Speaker 2: who describes himself as a reformed middle school bully.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's good. Change is good.

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Speaker 2: He feels bad about his past behaviors, especially towards one

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Speaker 4: He tormented her for years.

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Speaker 2: He really did enjoyed it back then got to adulthood

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Speaker 7: Imagine they get closure, and then we get closure, the listeners,

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Speaker 7: all of us, the world is just healed on the

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Speaker 1: Fall in love.

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Speaker 3: Guys, this is an email we just emailed her four questions.

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Speaker 1: Crazy happen again?

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Speaker 2: The pessimist thing you doesn't want good things to happen,

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Speaker 2: but you never know with these closure calls. For anyone

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Speaker 1: But he's hearing it for the first time too. Isaac

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Speaker 2: But unfortunately in this case, Isaac, I'm sorry to tell

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Speaker 5: I don't understand why do we.

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Speaker 4: Have them on the air.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: In fact, she didn't answer anything and said she wanted

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Speaker 1: She's on the law.

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Speaker 4: Wait, Isaac, are you prepared for that?

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Speaker 3: You're going to talk to her? That's not what we

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Speaker 1: Of course, he's not prepared for it. I just said it.

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Speaker 2: Apparently she didn't feel comfortable typing it out. She wanted

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Speaker 4: And she's already read through these because she got him

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Speaker 1: Yes she has, so all right, she's she's on the line.

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Speaker 1: So Abby, Hi, Hey.

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Speaker 4: God, you're brave. Ibby, I love this.

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Speaker 1: Did you want to say hi to Isaac? Hi?

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Speaker 4: Oh you do?

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Speaker 5: How are you? Hi? How are you awkward? I'm great?

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Speaker 4: That could be read both ways, couldn't it. Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well we're off to a good start here, so

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Speaker 2: let's just dive into question number one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, would we writer?

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Speaker 2: He said, Hey, I know it's been almost twenty years,

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Speaker 5: I remember you and your stupid punchable face. Oh I

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Speaker 6: I mean I also remember the time when you met

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Speaker 5: And I remember that you didn't have a second pair

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Speaker 5: of underwear. Oh no, we're talking about middle school. That

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Speaker 6: Okay, it was still pretty embarrass saying.

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Speaker 3: But to answer your question.

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Speaker 5: I do remember you, Isaac.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she was a lot about you.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so check mark, she remembers you, really remembered good.

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Speaker 4: First question was do you okay?

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Speaker 2: Question number two, she says, Not that we can just

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Speaker 2: stop there, We're gonna keep going. Question two, Isaac wrote,

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Speaker 2: if you do remember me, you probably remember the name

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Speaker 2: Scabby Abby that I gave you, and the toe puppet

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Speaker 2: rumors I started, and just the terrible, awful way that

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Speaker 5: Oh toe puppets.

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Speaker 6: Wow, yeah, I forgot about that one. Well, before we

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Speaker 6: go on, I need to know, did your surpas tell

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Speaker 6: you to do this after they realized your fragile ego

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Speaker 6: never recover from your pea pants excursion? Is that what happened?

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Speaker 5: Okay, so we're ad old. No, I don't know what's happening.

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Speaker 5: Let's be grown up.

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Speaker 4: Okay, well I don't. I haven't heard an apology yet,

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Speaker 4: Isaac Broke.

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Speaker 1: I think that's that one's in question three and I

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Speaker 4: You really should have led with the apology, Isaac.

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Speaker 5: Okay, yeah, I mean, I'm sorry. That's why I called

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Speaker 5: him because I'm sorry. I mean, this is all to

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, that's good, that's good. This is sorry.

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Speaker 1: This is new for all of us. We've never done

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Speaker 6: But what did you not expect me to swim back

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Speaker 5: Take it like the seventh grade whimp that I was.

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Speaker 4: I fully, I fully back you on swinging back.

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Speaker 3: Yeah it's good. Yeah, but this is her healing process, Okay,

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Speaker 3: Like she's been thinking about this moment for so long.

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Speaker 3: It could have changed so much about her life, and

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Speaker 3: it's given her a moment to dish it back.

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Speaker 2: Finally, I know, it just feels a little bit like

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Speaker 2: now she's trying to bully him back, and I don't

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Speaker 2: know if you should condone that.

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Speaker 3: Well, so one bully says I'm sorry, and then you're

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Speaker 3: just supposed to bow down and be like, fine, that's great.

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Speaker 1: Well that's how that's good people. Okay, now go back

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Speaker 1: and forth in.

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Speaker 2: This isn't between us. Remember, this is between Isaac and Abby.

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Speaker 2: We're not okay, are you guys.

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Speaker 7: Doing okay, I'm speaking my truth Okay, Yeah, trupts.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay. I didn't know she'd behaved like this.

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Speaker 4: I guess, well, what did you expect?

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Speaker 1: Just be like I forgive you?

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Speaker 6: Okay, bye, I'm feel like that's what you like, Like

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Speaker 6: you want to silence me. You want to be on

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Speaker 5: Now look everybody, Okay, I feel like I've really changed.

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Speaker 7: Abbie is not buying it, I guess, But I mean

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Speaker 7: help people. I guess realize clearly it's not okay. Bullying

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Speaker 7: clearly have an effect on another people.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I get totally.

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Speaker 3: I totally understand how you would feel like this is performative.

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Speaker 4: But I mean he does sound sincere here.

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Speaker 6: No, I honestly think he's doing this because his life

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Speaker 6: aster now so sad.

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Speaker 5: I actually looked him up.

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Speaker 6: Oh you know where he works? He works in sanitation.

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Speaker 4: Were not gonna do that. That's too far, that's.

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Speaker 5: What's going on.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I was okay with making fun of him from

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Speaker 4: That feels a.

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Speaker 2: Little this is what you wanted in a certain way,

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Speaker 4: Some point you remember, we're gonna rise above Abby.

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Speaker 5: I mean, that's just exactly what it is.

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Speaker 6: I think his life after now so sad. He's very

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Speaker 6: pathetic and that's why he's doing what he's doing right now.

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Speaker 5: Well, you, bitter Wich.

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Speaker 6: There's a real you.

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Speaker 5: There's a way of you.

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Speaker 7: Everyone out there understands.

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Speaker 5: I am making six figures and I'm happy with my life.

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Speaker 1: I want to bring back six ft inanity. I'm I'm

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Speaker 1: a long career.

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Speaker 4: Yeah you did. Are we going to get to the

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Speaker 4: last question, Jeffer.

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Speaker 2: I think it's the apology? Is the next part you

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Speaker 2: guys is do you guys want me.

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Speaker 6: To because it's I think it's just how funny how

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Speaker 6: aggrandizing clearly, egle testical gestures.

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Speaker 7: That's what you think you're doing, thrown around a lot

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Speaker 7: of big words, and you know this is the same

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Speaker 7: crab she pulled in middle school, trying to make me

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Speaker 5: You know what, I don't want to do this anymore.

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Speaker 1: What Yeah, your apology, you can it's in question three.

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Speaker 1: You've already sent it to her.

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Speaker 7: Rip it up. I'm done, okay.

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Speaker 6: Also, wow, you're backing away, so you're bully and a coward.

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Speaker 5: Wow.

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Speaker 4: Okay, our closure.

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Speaker 1: Call turned into a reopened call.

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Speaker 2: Question three says Abby, will you please accept my apology

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Speaker 2: for how horrible I was to you back in the day.

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Speaker 5: I don't think so.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, sure, that's okay. You did what you could. That's it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what was the fourth one? Though?

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Speaker 4: I want to know?

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Speaker 2: I think the fourth one was they wanted to hang

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Speaker 2: out and have coffee and reconnect.

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Speaker 1: Okay, we should.

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Speaker 2: Do less question so, I don't know if that's on

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Speaker 2: the table in his dream?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Okay, is Isaac still there? Did he hang up?

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Speaker 1: He hung up? Oh? Okay, he hung up. He didn't

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Speaker 1: decided not to do it. He doesn't like Well, I.

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Speaker 3: Maybe you weren't wrong about the cowardters.

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Speaker 1: Stop piling on. She literally just bullied him off the radio.

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Speaker 2: In another twenty years, we're going to have to do

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Speaker 2: a closure call for her back to him.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, to be bullied as someone who is bullied, it

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Speaker 4: kind of feels good.

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Speaker 1: Look through the pro bully thing at the end of

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Speaker 1: this segment.

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Speaker 2: Remember text then if you want to get a closure

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Speaker 2: call that would hopefully go better.

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Speaker 1: Than this one, Yeah, you can email

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Speaker 2: The show and we'll call that person you need closure

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Speaker 2: With Rookie Jeffrey in the Morning