WEBVTT - Three Dads with Kate Hudson 0:00:00.920 --> 0:00:03.600 Hello, good morning. I don't know why I say that. 0:00:05.200 --> 0:00:06.519 Any time, Chelsea. 0:00:06.600 --> 0:00:07.520 I had. 0:00:07.640 --> 0:00:11.719 I got an epidural last night, last night, last afternoon. 0:00:11.880 --> 0:00:14.080 Oh my goodness, what for my neck? 0:00:14.120 --> 0:00:17.479 I have a dislocated uh or an impingement on my 0:00:17.560 --> 0:00:18.760 spinal cord from an. 0:00:20.280 --> 0:00:21.439 Cheap discs in my neck. 0:00:21.520 --> 0:00:23.800 Possibly I had did a big, pretty big face plant 0:00:23.840 --> 0:00:27.280 this winter, so that could have definitely been it. But anyway, 0:00:27.320 --> 0:00:29.280 I was how experiencing shoulder pain and then I did 0:00:29.280 --> 0:00:31.880 one of those body MRIs and then that told us 0:00:31.880 --> 0:00:34.080 that I had to do a spinal leminari and then 0:00:34.120 --> 0:00:36.640 we found it and then I was like, oh, now. 0:00:36.520 --> 0:00:39.720 I'm really in pain and gosh. So then I got 0:00:39.720 --> 0:00:40.360 my epidural. 0:00:40.400 --> 0:00:43.000 And I was really excited about my epidural because I've 0:00:43.040 --> 0:00:45.960 spoken about this ad nauseum about how much I enjoy 0:00:46.040 --> 0:00:49.400 being put under, and my assistant had emailed me yesterday 0:00:49.479 --> 0:00:51.800 the day before telling me that I couldn't eat all day, 0:00:51.880 --> 0:00:53.440 which it was at like three p thirty. So I 0:00:53.479 --> 0:00:56.600 was like, oh, that's hard, but of course doable. And 0:00:56.640 --> 0:00:59.240 then I was excited about being put under, you know, 0:00:59.320 --> 0:01:02.760 properly put Yeah, but it was just a twilight and 0:01:03.120 --> 0:01:03.800 I don't. 0:01:03.760 --> 0:01:05.280 So you didn't get that like real good. 0:01:05.440 --> 0:01:05.520 Now. 0:01:05.600 --> 0:01:07.040 I felt them poke it in my neck. 0:01:07.080 --> 0:01:10.440 I felt two injections, Like it wasn't the magic carpet, right, 0:01:10.480 --> 0:01:12.200 I was excited about all day. 0:01:12.240 --> 0:01:14.880 That got me through the day. I was excited about. 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:16.399 You know, I love a just like. 0:01:16.360 --> 0:01:17.240 A body buzz. 0:01:17.440 --> 0:01:17.600 Yeah. 0:01:17.640 --> 0:01:19.160 And when they cut me on the table was funny 0:01:19.160 --> 0:01:21.160 because they had to put me down face down, which 0:01:21.200 --> 0:01:24.080 is really where I belong, but because they had to 0:01:24.120 --> 0:01:25.800 have my neck exposed for the injection. 0:01:26.280 --> 0:01:29.000 And I remember thinking like this is this is going to. 0:01:29.040 --> 0:01:31.760 Be funny when I like I'm out of it, No, 0:01:31.920 --> 0:01:34.000 when I like go under, because I'm going to be 0:01:34.240 --> 0:01:37.560 doing a face plant anyway. So I got home at 0:01:37.600 --> 0:01:40.200 like four point thirty and they'd given me some adavan, 0:01:40.880 --> 0:01:43.160 So I took that the night away and had a 0:01:43.240 --> 0:01:44.720 nice little good night party. 0:01:44.920 --> 0:01:46.520 Well, Gop thought it was the morning. 0:01:46.319 --> 0:01:49.960 And it was eleven pm. I got my hyperbaric chamber. 0:01:51.000 --> 0:01:52.400 I slept in there for three. 0:01:52.200 --> 0:01:54.040 Hours after eleven pm. 0:01:54.160 --> 0:01:55.920 After eleven pm you're supposed to do two and a 0:01:55.960 --> 0:01:57.960 half hours. So I don't know, I'll probably have to 0:01:58.000 --> 0:02:00.200 drink some extra water this morning or something. 0:02:00.840 --> 0:02:02.400 My girlfriend the other night was so funny. We were 0:02:02.400 --> 0:02:04.400 at my friend's house. Somebody was like, you have to. 0:02:04.400 --> 0:02:07.720 Drink water, drink more water, And my friend Wendy was like, 0:02:08.400 --> 0:02:11.800 so sick of every She goes, Why is water so trendy? 0:02:12.360 --> 0:02:14.640 She goes, When I grow up, nobody offered me water, 0:02:14.760 --> 0:02:16.720 She goes, I would play all day at school and 0:02:16.760 --> 0:02:18.440 I would come in and have a juice box. 0:02:18.760 --> 0:02:22.760 No one said anything about water. And now everywhere you 0:02:22.800 --> 0:02:25.600 go it's like they're fucking shoving it down your throat. 0:02:25.639 --> 0:02:28.160 I mean, we are made what ninety seven percent of water, 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:30.119 so why do we need so much more of it? 0:02:30.480 --> 0:02:32.720 Because it's there, like it's not going anywhere. 0:02:32.800 --> 0:02:34.880 And I'm always I get an iv every week because 0:02:34.880 --> 0:02:38.000 I'm always dehydrated. I never drink enough water, but I like, 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:41.399 in the last year two years, I've drank much more 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:42.000 than I used to. 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.280 But water is in everything else you're drinking too. 0:02:45.400 --> 0:02:48.280 And then when they tell you that you're so dehydrated 0:02:48.360 --> 0:02:50.160 that not even water will help. 0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.400 You, I'm like, well then what will? 0:02:53.240 --> 0:02:55.080 And they're like, oh, you need an IVY or you 0:02:55.120 --> 0:02:56.920 need electrolytes, and I'm like, all I do is put 0:02:56.960 --> 0:03:00.280 electrolytes in my doctor, doctor. 0:03:00.080 --> 0:03:00.960 Doctors are telling me. 0:03:01.280 --> 0:03:03.520 Every doctor is like, the reason you have this issue 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:06.559 with your neck is because you're too dehydrated. 0:03:06.600 --> 0:03:09.480 But I do see that drinking water, I have a flavor, 0:03:09.520 --> 0:03:11.040 but sure it's still water. 0:03:11.200 --> 0:03:11.680 After that. 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:14.480 Enough, I mean, it's never enough, and it's like it 0:03:14.520 --> 0:03:16.600 is being forced down our throats in a way that 0:03:16.639 --> 0:03:18.880 it wasn't that would offer me water. The reason I 0:03:18.880 --> 0:03:20.640 don't drink waters because no one gave me any when 0:03:20.680 --> 0:03:23.160 I was growing up, either someone's mother gave us the water. 0:03:23.240 --> 0:03:24.760 I was like, don't go back to that house, like, 0:03:24.800 --> 0:03:26.000 where's my glass of milk? 0:03:26.680 --> 0:03:28.720 When I was in high school, I started getting chronic 0:03:28.720 --> 0:03:31.079 headaches and my mom was like, well, how how long 0:03:31.120 --> 0:03:32.760 have you had these? I was like months, like every 0:03:32.800 --> 0:03:33.680 single day a headache. 0:03:34.040 --> 0:03:34.120 Me. 0:03:34.160 --> 0:03:35.720 Guess they told you to drink water. 0:03:35.840 --> 0:03:37.720 She shir did, And I had a little picture that 0:03:37.840 --> 0:03:39.960 had on the counter every day and I would drink 0:03:39.960 --> 0:03:42.440 the whole thing and then my headaches mysteriously disappear. 0:03:42.560 --> 0:03:44.880 Oh well, then there you go. Water's great for you. Everybody, 0:03:44.960 --> 0:03:45.840 we're back on track. 0:03:46.880 --> 0:03:47.560 Drink more water. 0:03:48.120 --> 0:03:50.760 Chelsea, do you have any sort of skills or talents 0:03:50.800 --> 0:03:54.840 in your life that you have chosen not to pursue 0:03:55.200 --> 0:03:57.200 since you had sort of other big talents. 0:03:57.240 --> 0:03:59.920 I mean, I guess acting I never really seriously pursued 0:04:00.160 --> 0:04:02.960 because I don't think I can pretend to be someone 0:04:03.000 --> 0:04:06.640 completely different. Sure I don't have that skill, but like 0:04:06.680 --> 0:04:09.280 I've been in movies, I'm doing a movie. Actually I'm 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:11.920 doing a cute little role in this movie in a 0:04:11.920 --> 0:04:12.400 couple of weeks. 0:04:12.440 --> 0:04:14.119 I'm filming that in Syracuse, New York. 0:04:14.200 --> 0:04:16.040 And that worked out perfectly because when I'm on tour, 0:04:16.040 --> 0:04:18.960 I can never do anything but right. And they were like, oh, 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:20.800 and it's right, I have a date in New York 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:23.400 and so I was like, yes, perfect, Like I would 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:25.760 love to, but you know, people don't think of me 0:04:25.800 --> 0:04:28.520 as anything other than like a funny character or like, 0:04:28.600 --> 0:04:31.320 you know, a big sister best friend type like that. 0:04:32.040 --> 0:04:34.520 So I don't want to play that, you know, I 0:04:34.560 --> 0:04:37.039 don't play j Lo's like sidekick or something. 0:04:37.560 --> 0:04:39.560 But I like to change it up. But I'm not. 0:04:39.920 --> 0:04:41.640 I don't love being in a trailer. 0:04:41.279 --> 0:04:45.640 All day waiting, you know, it's a long process. I 0:04:46.040 --> 0:04:49.719 like to use my own language, and so I like 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:51.680 to improvise on set too. So it's got to be 0:04:51.680 --> 0:04:53.320 a place where I can have fun. Like this movie 0:04:53.360 --> 0:04:54.599 I'm doing, They're like, we want you to come and 0:04:54.640 --> 0:04:56.400 have fun, do your thing. This is the role, but 0:04:56.520 --> 0:04:57.760 like do whatever you want with it. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:04:59.160 So that's fun. So I'll do that. 0:04:59.200 --> 0:05:02.359 But yeah, I've never really pursued acting, just because I 0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:04.320 never was really an actress. 0:05:04.400 --> 0:05:06.479 Yeah, or is it something you're passionate about or like 0:05:06.560 --> 0:05:08.800 not really, it was just a means to an end. 0:05:09.120 --> 0:05:09.400 Yeah. 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:11.960 I feel like being a comedian and like kind of 0:05:12.000 --> 0:05:16.080 creating my own Mariner is what I've done, you know, 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.599 with all my books and my stand up and my 0:05:18.680 --> 0:05:21.520 talk shows and the podcast. Like I get to do 0:05:21.720 --> 0:05:24.680 what I'm doing rather than having being placed in someone 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:27.960 else's project. I feel like I'm very autonomous that way, 0:05:28.000 --> 0:05:31.120 and I don't particularly not that I don't play well 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:32.920 with others, but I like to be in charge of 0:05:32.960 --> 0:05:33.880 my own stuff. 0:05:34.320 --> 0:05:37.599 Yeah, And there is something really wonderful that you get 0:05:37.640 --> 0:05:39.760 to make these sort of creative decisions. You get to 0:05:39.800 --> 0:05:43.280 be in a position of power rather than just sort 0:05:43.320 --> 0:05:45.320 of going out and having to read the lines that 0:05:45.320 --> 0:05:46.320 somebody else has written for you. 0:05:46.560 --> 0:05:46.960 Yeah. 0:05:47.120 --> 0:05:49.840 Yeah, I mean I can't sing or dance, so like 0:05:49.920 --> 0:05:51.279 those are not options for me. 0:05:52.080 --> 0:05:54.920 I can't really play a musical instrument. I don't have. 0:05:55.040 --> 0:05:56.640 I mean, anything that I'm interested in. 0:05:56.680 --> 0:06:00.080 Is athletic, Like, yeah, I love to ski, so that 0:06:00.160 --> 0:06:03.159 I made sure. I said to myself when I was 0:06:03.200 --> 0:06:06.400 like twenty five years old, when I rediscovered skiing, I 0:06:06.480 --> 0:06:10.400 was like, I want to be successful. 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:12.839 Enough to pay someone to make me a great skier. Yeah, 0:06:12.880 --> 0:06:13.720 and I did do that. 0:06:14.000 --> 0:06:16.160 Are you someone when you're learning a new talent that 0:06:16.240 --> 0:06:19.000 you are like, okay, being bad at it for a while, 0:06:19.080 --> 0:06:20.640 or do you want to be great right away? 0:06:20.760 --> 0:06:22.599 I want to be a good student, so I want 0:06:22.640 --> 0:06:24.680 to I don't want you to have to tell me twice. 0:06:24.760 --> 0:06:28.600 I like very specific instruction, like Spanish. I'm very passionate 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:31.360 about learning Spanish, but I'm not as diligent as one 0:06:31.360 --> 0:06:33.080 would be if they really wanted to be able to 0:06:33.080 --> 0:06:35.840 converse in the language. Like I'm always trying my Belle 0:06:35.839 --> 0:06:37.440 and I are always working on my Spanish. 0:06:37.480 --> 0:06:38.560 I'm on Lingo, dear. 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:41.479 I have my classes I take each day, I have 0:06:41.560 --> 0:06:47.240 a tutor, but I'm still not fluent. So clearly something's amiss, 0:06:48.200 --> 0:06:50.760 which it's practice. Yeah, but I've also learned when you're 0:06:50.839 --> 0:06:54.560 learning new things as I've gotten older, stop being so 0:06:54.720 --> 0:06:59.080 anal retentive about getting it right, like it absorbs, learning absorbs. 0:06:59.120 --> 0:07:01.640 It doesn't always hit you in the moment, but once 0:07:01.680 --> 0:07:06.440 you build a strong enough foundation, ye can stuff starts 0:07:06.480 --> 0:07:08.359 to sink in without trying so hard. 0:07:08.480 --> 0:07:08.720 Yeah. 0:07:08.760 --> 0:07:11.600 I'm someone who's very I'm very fine with being bad 0:07:11.640 --> 0:07:14.640 at something until i'm good at it and like sticking 0:07:14.680 --> 0:07:17.000 with something. You know, one of my nieces she gets 0:07:17.040 --> 0:07:20.440 so frustrated and angry when she's not like, just perfect 0:07:20.440 --> 0:07:21.559 at it the first try. 0:07:21.800 --> 0:07:22.880 I'm like, no, it's okay. 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.600 You build skills, you build muscle memory, and then if 0:07:25.640 --> 0:07:28.400 you keep doing it consistently, you'll be great eventually. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:29.080 Yeah. 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:33.600 Yeah, it's consistency and not flogging yourself or not getting 0:07:33.600 --> 0:07:34.440 it exactly right. 0:07:34.520 --> 0:07:36.080 That's a young thing. Uh uh, that's you. 0:07:36.760 --> 0:07:37.840 Yeah, okay. 0:07:37.960 --> 0:07:40.679 So our next guest is a good friend of mine. 0:07:40.760 --> 0:07:43.480 I love her so much. She is a ray of sunshine. 0:07:43.920 --> 0:07:45.640 She has a lot of stuff going on, so let 0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.360 me inform you and all of her stuff and products 0:07:48.360 --> 0:07:51.400 that she is involved in I have tried because she 0:07:51.480 --> 0:07:54.000 is a friend. She is the founder of in Bloom, 0:07:54.240 --> 0:07:57.360 which is a supplement powder, and she has a vodka 0:07:57.360 --> 0:07:58.280 brand called. 0:07:58.120 --> 0:07:59.200 King Street vodka. 0:07:59.280 --> 0:08:03.880 She's the cohos of the Sibling Revelry podcast with another 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:07.760 one of our favorite guests, Oliver Hudson. So please welcome 0:08:07.840 --> 0:08:12.920 actress and entrepreneur Kate Hudson. Yay, Kate, Look who's here, 0:08:13.320 --> 0:08:16.600 My buddy, my sister. Do you know that I grew 0:08:16.680 --> 0:08:20.600 up pretending I in third grade, I lied to all 0:08:20.600 --> 0:08:23.520 my schoolmates so that they would respect me more and 0:08:23.600 --> 0:08:25.239 said that I was going to be in a reboot 0:08:25.240 --> 0:08:29.000 of Private Benjamin and playing Goldie Home's daughter. I just 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:32.520 lied to the whole school and everyone believed me. So 0:08:32.559 --> 0:08:34.800 when I grew up and I became friends and I 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:37.880 met Goldie and Kate for the first time, I was like, you, guys, 0:08:37.880 --> 0:08:40.640 I'm part of this family, whether like you accept me 0:08:40.760 --> 0:08:40.960 or not. 0:08:41.360 --> 0:08:44.000 But it was really a fast acceptance. 0:08:45.640 --> 0:08:48.520 Entry perfect. 0:08:48.600 --> 0:08:51.040 It just felt right. It just felt right. 0:08:51.520 --> 0:08:54.439 Speaking of fast entries, I just saw Kate last night. Actually, 0:08:54.559 --> 0:08:56.960 we were celebrating one of her magazine launches. 0:08:57.200 --> 0:08:57.680 We did. 0:08:58.000 --> 0:09:01.280 She's on the cover of Want magazine and so she 0:09:01.320 --> 0:09:03.679 had a party for that because it's her first magazine 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.200 cover ever, and so that's exciting. 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:10.600 Yeah, it was yeah, number one, number one, although it 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:13.640 was a king Street Vodka party too, so we did 0:09:13.679 --> 0:09:15.960 celebrate with my vodka. 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:19.480 And I am a big ardent supporter of King Street 0:09:19.559 --> 0:09:22.439 Vodka because of Kate's relationship with them. She introduced me 0:09:22.480 --> 0:09:24.480 to King Street Vodka. And you know that I'm very 0:09:24.480 --> 0:09:27.960 particular about my vodkas. It's either Belvidere or King Street 0:09:28.000 --> 0:09:28.240 for me. 0:09:28.400 --> 0:09:32.079 So yeah, exactly, I do get a little jealous when 0:09:32.080 --> 0:09:33.840 I see Belvidere. I'm not gonna mine. 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:34.240 I know. 0:09:34.320 --> 0:09:36.640 Well, that's because I don't have any King Street left 0:09:36.640 --> 0:09:38.280 because I drank it all because it's so delicious, So 0:09:38.320 --> 0:09:39.760 you have to send me another case. 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:41.840 I suppose I could order one myself. 0:09:42.720 --> 0:09:45.800 What it is also like very beautiful, like the battle's gorgeous. 0:09:45.800 --> 0:09:46.959 It's perfect for a gift. 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:50.640 Like, yeah, yeah, you're such a You're such an entrepreneur, Kate. 0:09:50.920 --> 0:09:54.360 I mean, look at you blossoming into womanhood. 0:09:53.880 --> 0:09:54.360 You know what. 0:09:54.559 --> 0:09:56.640 I just have so many things I want to do. 0:09:56.800 --> 0:10:00.520 There's this there's this really funny post online where this 0:10:00.559 --> 0:10:04.040 girl's like fully ADHD, like my ADHD self, and. 0:10:04.000 --> 0:10:06.280 She's like I want to do everything, Like I'm going 0:10:06.360 --> 0:10:08.080 to do this and I'm going to like make wooden 0:10:08.120 --> 0:10:13.160 spoons and then basically, it's like, I think that's who 0:10:13.200 --> 0:10:17.160 I am. I think I'm just massively adhd have to 0:10:17.200 --> 0:10:21.040 do a million different things and somehow I'm able to 0:10:21.120 --> 0:10:22.880 like figure it out do it all. 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:24.800 Are we allowed to talk about what you and I 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:26.400 were talking about last night? Music? 0:10:27.320 --> 0:10:29.840 Yeah, let's talk about that, because I think that's speaking 0:10:29.920 --> 0:10:32.760 of doing a bunch of different things. So Kate is 0:10:32.840 --> 0:10:35.480 musically gifted, and if you didn't know that, she has 0:10:35.600 --> 0:10:38.319 a banging voice on her and she loves to fucking sing. 0:10:38.520 --> 0:10:39.760 I love loves to do everything. 0:10:39.840 --> 0:10:41.559 She loves to dance, she loves to sing, she loves 0:10:41.600 --> 0:10:45.440 to meditate, she likes to have children. 0:10:45.920 --> 0:10:52.280 With multiple men. I love to sing. I mean honestly, 0:10:52.880 --> 0:10:54.920 when I was younger, I thought that's what I was 0:10:54.960 --> 0:10:57.160 going to do, you know, I thought I was gonna 0:10:57.720 --> 0:11:01.760 sing and dance and music theater was always my favorite 0:11:01.840 --> 0:11:05.240 type of acting other than like improv. But really I 0:11:05.280 --> 0:11:07.679 thought I was going to sing. And I never thought like, oh, 0:11:07.720 --> 0:11:12.160 I can't do all of it until I started auditioningly 0:11:12.200 --> 0:11:15.680 really young, got very famous, very fast, and then it 0:11:15.720 --> 0:11:18.120 was like, you don't break what's not broken. You don't 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.080 go from being an actor to like now, I'm, you know, 0:11:21.120 --> 0:11:24.000 a musician, so I just kind of kept it to 0:11:24.040 --> 0:11:27.240 myself forever. I just I just wrote music my whole 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:30.320 life and I have never shared it. And then in 0:11:30.400 --> 0:11:33.280 the lockdown, I was really writing music and then I 0:11:33.320 --> 0:11:36.200 was like, what's I can't keep going and not put 0:11:36.240 --> 0:11:39.560 this out there, I'd really regret it. So I started 0:11:39.559 --> 0:11:42.560 writing and then started writing with Linda Perry. It was 0:11:42.640 --> 0:11:46.920 amazing and we really hit it off, and then it's 0:11:46.960 --> 0:11:50.200 just sort of unfolded from there with no expectation. It 0:11:50.320 --> 0:11:51.800 just sort of was like, I'm just going to make 0:11:51.840 --> 0:11:53.920 a record. I'm going to make a record, and here 0:11:53.960 --> 0:11:57.240 I am, like two years later. It's been a great, 0:11:57.559 --> 0:12:01.880 really great, massive creative experience for me. And I can't 0:12:01.920 --> 0:12:02.960 wait for it to come out. 0:12:03.600 --> 0:12:04.959 And when does it come out? 0:12:05.240 --> 0:12:08.840 I can't say that, yeah, not yet, but it's coming, 0:12:09.000 --> 0:12:09.240 you know. 0:12:09.480 --> 0:12:12.160 And did see it influenced this at all? 0:12:12.240 --> 0:12:15.160 This decision because when you guys work together on your 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:16.240 project you did with her. 0:12:16.520 --> 0:12:18.760 I felt like she had an impact on you musically. 0:12:18.840 --> 0:12:20.120 Do you is that accurate? 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:24.360 You? Like? Sea gave me this like this huge like 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:28.120 hug of confidence. You know, she really was like, you're 0:12:28.240 --> 0:12:32.040 a singer that's what you really are, and kind of 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:34.960 gave me these incredible songs to sing that were really 0:12:35.040 --> 0:12:38.320 powerful and where my voice likes to sit, you know, 0:12:38.400 --> 0:12:43.320 I like powerful songs, and and yeah, she really gave 0:12:43.360 --> 0:12:46.120 me that like kiss of confidence. I had a hard 0:12:46.200 --> 0:12:50.120 time really believing in myself as a singer for a 0:12:50.200 --> 0:12:53.240 number of different reasons. But over the years, as I 0:12:53.280 --> 0:12:56.080 got older, I got more and more kind of closed 0:12:56.120 --> 0:12:59.560 off with my singing, and then Sea really opened it 0:12:59.559 --> 0:13:01.040 back up for me for sure. 0:13:01.400 --> 0:13:03.040 Wow, like feeling. 0:13:02.720 --> 0:13:05.440 Confident actually just being able to share it. 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:05.560 You know. 0:13:05.920 --> 0:13:07.600 Yeah, and you're going to go on tour when your 0:13:07.600 --> 0:13:10.520 album comes out, which is something we were talking about 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:12.720 last we Well, she has experience being on tour because 0:13:12.720 --> 0:13:15.360 she's been married or dated men that have toured the 0:13:15.520 --> 0:13:18.040 whole life, so she knows what that's about. 0:13:18.160 --> 0:13:19.360 Right at the. 0:13:19.240 --> 0:13:20.840 Only way I'm going to get back on tours if 0:13:20.840 --> 0:13:21.560 I do it myself. 0:13:22.200 --> 0:13:23.720 Yeah, I hear the hell her. 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.480 But another thing that I love about Kate, which I 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:28.600 want to talk to you about, Kate, is that you 0:13:28.679 --> 0:13:31.760 do have three different children from three different men. And 0:13:31.920 --> 0:13:33.880 I we were talking about that last night because you 0:13:33.920 --> 0:13:36.280 said it's you, Oh, who else? Has that, Kate Winslet 0:13:36.280 --> 0:13:38.640 has that. And then there was another third person who. 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:40.120 Was the third person Melanie Griffin. 0:13:40.360 --> 0:13:41.880 Yeah, there's a couple of people. 0:13:42.160 --> 0:13:43.959 Were you saying that you thought you'd take a lot 0:13:44.000 --> 0:13:45.760 of shit for that, because I was saying, I don't 0:13:45.800 --> 0:13:47.080 think you take any heat. 0:13:46.840 --> 0:13:50.240 For that, not that you should in any way, I don't. 0:13:50.040 --> 0:13:53.120 Take any kind of I would say respectable heat. 0:13:53.720 --> 0:13:57.240 Right, it's probably the same heat I get for not 0:13:57.360 --> 0:13:58.040 having children. 0:13:58.080 --> 0:13:59.640 It's the kind of heat you're talking about. 0:13:59.800 --> 0:14:02.240 That's right, that's right. But I do get like, I 0:14:02.320 --> 0:14:05.360 do get a lot of you know, the little peanut 0:14:05.400 --> 0:14:07.560 galleries out in the world that like to kind of 0:14:08.160 --> 0:14:10.920 on certain days like Mother's Day. You know, you'll see 0:14:10.920 --> 0:14:13.120 it in the comments, like you must be so proud 0:14:13.400 --> 0:14:15.400 to have three kids with three dads, you know, little 0:14:15.400 --> 0:14:18.840 little things like that, And I'm like, well, yeah, actually 0:14:18.840 --> 0:14:23.240 I am, because it's it's great. But yeah, I don't 0:14:23.320 --> 0:14:26.400 I don't catch like any big people don't shame me. 0:14:26.800 --> 0:14:30.120 I don't feel like I get shamed very often about it. 0:14:30.200 --> 0:14:32.880 Every once in a while, Yeah, well, talk to me 0:14:32.920 --> 0:14:35.480 about a little bit what it's like having these kids 0:14:35.480 --> 0:14:38.640 at such different stages in your life. Because last night 0:14:38.640 --> 0:14:40.360 you were saying that Rider's going to be thirty two 0:14:40.440 --> 0:14:42.920 years old when Ronnie gets her driver's license. 0:14:42.640 --> 0:14:46.440 Right, that's right. I mean, well, honestly, it's like for 0:14:46.600 --> 0:14:49.320 me having Rider. I was so young, but. 0:14:49.280 --> 0:14:52.600 I remember, oh my god, I remember that pregnancy. I 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.440 didn't know you that, but I remember your pregnancy. I 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:58.720 was you, she's like a monster truck. 0:14:59.280 --> 0:15:02.120 I was like, I pregnant, and I was like, I am. 0:15:02.160 --> 0:15:06.800 All I wanted was was burgers, fried food, fried chicken, 0:15:06.920 --> 0:15:09.160 and ice cream. And I would eat a pint of 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:11.720 ice cream my mom. I'd like sit at home, like eating, 0:15:12.280 --> 0:15:13.960 and my mom would like come and I'd see her 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:17.320 hand just like the ice cream, and I kind of 0:15:17.320 --> 0:15:20.960 pull it away. I gained almost eighty pounds. I was 0:15:21.000 --> 0:15:24.440 so happy. I was just big and happy and and 0:15:24.480 --> 0:15:26.720 I thought I knew what I was doing. You know, 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:29.560 I really wanted to have a baby. He's really a 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:31.800 nine to eleven baby, you know, nine to eleven happened. 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:35.320 I was married to Chris. We were so happy, and 0:15:35.400 --> 0:15:39.480 I just wanted a family and I was ready. And 0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:44.840 then and then you know, six years later, getting divorced, 0:15:45.320 --> 0:15:48.920 going like wow, I'm a mom of a toddler. My 0:15:48.960 --> 0:15:52.040 friends are still just like out and about and single, 0:15:52.160 --> 0:15:54.600 and so I had to figure out how to manage 0:15:54.640 --> 0:15:58.160 being a mom and actually enjoying being young and out 0:15:58.240 --> 0:16:01.600 and single and having a good time. And so I 0:16:01.680 --> 0:16:04.600 never knew what life was without having that voice in 0:16:04.600 --> 0:16:06.240 the back of my head going like you need to 0:16:06.280 --> 0:16:09.000 go home and wake up at six in the morning 0:16:09.040 --> 0:16:11.840 and make pancakes. Like you should go home now, you know. 0:16:12.400 --> 0:16:16.760 So my first rider was like all trial and error. 0:16:16.960 --> 0:16:19.480 I wrote a song about it on my album. He 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:22.720 was like my witness, you know, he was there my 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:27.480 whole adult life. And then that relationship didn't work out. 0:16:27.600 --> 0:16:30.160 I'm single and then I met a new guy. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:33.680 Was that a difficult separation or divorce for you? I mean, 0:16:33.680 --> 0:16:34.520 obviously they're. 0:16:34.360 --> 0:16:37.200 All difficult, but oh yeah, oh yeah, on a scale 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:38.120 of one to ten. 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:40.440 Yeah, it's really It was really interest when when you're 0:16:40.520 --> 0:16:44.720 going through relationships, especially when you're young in the public eye. 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:47.480 I don't really get into all that stuff, but that 0:16:47.600 --> 0:16:51.160 was hard for me. Like, I really really really loved Chris. 0:16:51.240 --> 0:16:54.920 We had a great relationship, and the things that got 0:16:54.960 --> 0:16:59.800 in the way for me of sort of growing together. 0:17:00.560 --> 0:17:04.159 I knew we could never grow together for the rest 0:17:04.160 --> 0:17:09.120 of our lives. Like he just fundamentally we saw our 0:17:09.200 --> 0:17:12.080 values were different in certain places that I would never 0:17:12.119 --> 0:17:15.200 have been able to stay on that train with him. 0:17:15.840 --> 0:17:17.960 And he is exactly where he's supposed to be with 0:17:18.000 --> 0:17:20.520 a beautiful wife, and I'm where I'm supposed to be. 0:17:20.600 --> 0:17:23.040 But you know, even now when I look at Chris, 0:17:23.080 --> 0:17:25.240 I have so much deep love for him, Like he 0:17:25.320 --> 0:17:29.520 taught me everything about love. He loved me unconditionally, you know, 0:17:29.760 --> 0:17:33.399