1 00:00:00,400 --> 00:00:02,160 Speaker 1: Hi, this is Joel and Victoria. 2 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,279 Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to our podcast and thanks for supporting 3 00:00:05,280 --> 00:00:08,240 Speaker 2: the ministry. If you enjoy today's message, why don't you 4 00:00:08,280 --> 00:00:10,400 Speaker 2: be a blessing and share it with a friend. We 5 00:00:10,520 --> 00:00:13,760 Speaker 2: appreciate you and pray for God's very best in your life. 6 00:00:14,040 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: God bless you always, a joy to have you here, 7 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:19,480 Speaker 2: a joy to come into your homes. We are believing 8 00:00:19,520 --> 00:00:22,200 Speaker 2: for God's very best in your life. And if you're 9 00:00:22,239 --> 00:00:24,400 Speaker 2: ever in our area, I hope you'll stop by and 10 00:00:24,520 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 2: be a part of one of our services. I promise 11 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:29,280 Speaker 2: you we'll make you feel right at home. But thanks 12 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:31,560 Speaker 2: so much for tuning in today, and thanks again for 13 00:00:31,600 --> 00:00:34,520 Speaker 2: coming out. I like to start with something funny each week. 14 00:00:34,560 --> 00:00:37,760 Speaker 2: And I heard about this scientist that said to God, 15 00:00:38,240 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 2: we've decided that we no longer need you. We can 16 00:00:41,520 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: clone people, we can transplant hearts, and do all kinds 17 00:00:45,800 --> 00:00:49,360 Speaker 2: of things once considered miraculous. And God said, fine, but 18 00:00:49,760 --> 00:00:52,360 Speaker 2: to see that you really don't need me, let's have 19 00:00:52,479 --> 00:00:56,320 Speaker 2: a man making contest. The only rule is you have 20 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:59,720 Speaker 2: to make a man out of dirt. The scientist a greeding. 21 00:01:00,120 --> 00:01:02,320 Speaker 2: He reached down quickly to get a handful of dirt 22 00:01:02,560 --> 00:01:03,960 Speaker 2: God said, not so fast. 23 00:01:04,160 --> 00:01:08,280 Speaker 1: Go get your own dirt, all right. 24 00:01:09,200 --> 00:01:11,080 Speaker 2: Hold of your bibles. Say it like you mean it. 25 00:01:11,600 --> 00:01:14,520 Speaker 2: This is my Bible. I am what it says I am. 26 00:01:15,080 --> 00:01:17,640 Speaker 2: I have what it says I have. I can do 27 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,480 Speaker 2: what it says I can do. Today I will be 28 00:01:20,560 --> 00:01:24,800 Speaker 2: taught the word of God. I boldly confess. My mind 29 00:01:24,920 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 2: is alert, my heart is receptive. I will never be 30 00:01:28,680 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 2: the same. In Jesus' name, God bless you. I want 31 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:37,000 Speaker 2: to talk to you today about learning to encourage yourself. 32 00:01:37,800 --> 00:01:39,880 Speaker 2: One of the battles that we all have to fight 33 00:01:40,200 --> 00:01:44,039 Speaker 2: is the battle with discouragement. Our dreams don't always happen 34 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:48,800 Speaker 2: on our timetables. We go through disappointments, adversities, and it's 35 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 2: easy to lose our enthusiasm, to lose our zeal for life. 36 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 2: And it's good to have family and friends that encourage us. 37 00:01:56,160 --> 00:01:58,640 Speaker 2: It's good to have a coach, a teacher, a pastor 38 00:01:58,720 --> 00:02:02,080 Speaker 2: to cheer us on. But one thing I've learned is 39 00:02:02,160 --> 00:02:06,680 Speaker 2: other people cannot keep us encouraged. Other people can't keep 40 00:02:06,800 --> 00:02:10,160 Speaker 2: us cheered up. They may give us a boost, they 41 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:12,960 Speaker 2: may help us from time to time, but if you're 42 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:16,640 Speaker 2: really going to live in victory, that encouragement has to 43 00:02:16,680 --> 00:02:19,640 Speaker 2: come from the inside. You've got to learn to encourage 44 00:02:19,639 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 2: yourself when times get tough and things aren't going your 45 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:27,280 Speaker 2: way and you don't feel like pursuing your dreams. Your 46 00:02:27,320 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 2: mind is telling you it's not worth it, it's never 47 00:02:30,080 --> 00:02:31,600 Speaker 2: going to get any better. You might as well just 48 00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:35,520 Speaker 2: settle where you are deep down in your spirit. There 49 00:02:35,560 --> 00:02:38,919 Speaker 2: has to be a resolve, a strength on the inside 50 00:02:38,960 --> 00:02:42,720 Speaker 2: that says, I refuse to settle where I am. I 51 00:02:42,800 --> 00:02:45,440 Speaker 2: know God has a great plan for my life, and 52 00:02:45,480 --> 00:02:48,600 Speaker 2: I'm going to keep pressing forward and become everything that 53 00:02:48,639 --> 00:02:51,839 Speaker 2: He's created me to be. This is what David had 54 00:02:51,840 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 2: to do. He had just suffered a major setback. It's 55 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:58,040 Speaker 2: one of the most difficult times of his life. His 56 00:02:58,120 --> 00:03:02,240 Speaker 2: city had been destroyed, his family was kidnapped, and now 57 00:03:02,280 --> 00:03:05,480 Speaker 2: his own men had turned against him. Looked like an 58 00:03:05,520 --> 00:03:09,720 Speaker 2: impossible situation. He could have easily just given up and 59 00:03:09,800 --> 00:03:13,840 Speaker 2: faded off into the sunset, defeated and depressed. But the 60 00:03:13,840 --> 00:03:19,640 Speaker 2: scripture says here David encouraged himself in the Lord his God. 61 00:03:20,440 --> 00:03:24,800 Speaker 2: David understood this principle. He wasn't depending on his family, 62 00:03:25,120 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 2: his friends, his colleagues. He knew how to draw strength 63 00:03:29,120 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 2: and encouragement from within. And sometimes when you need it 64 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:36,360 Speaker 2: the most, the people you're counting on to cheer you up, 65 00:03:36,840 --> 00:03:40,240 Speaker 2: unfortunately they won't be there for you. That friend that 66 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:44,160 Speaker 2: normally calls is out of town. Your spouse is having 67 00:03:44,200 --> 00:03:48,680 Speaker 2: a tough month, your coworkers, your parents, they're preoccupied with 68 00:03:48,720 --> 00:03:51,960 Speaker 2: their own challenges. But when you learn to dig down 69 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:56,120 Speaker 2: deep and encourage yourself, there's a real freedom. This is 70 00:03:56,120 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: one of the secrets to David's success. He knew how 71 00:03:59,440 --> 00:04:03,800 Speaker 2: to draw encouragement and strength from the inside. How did 72 00:04:03,840 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 2: he do it? He began to replay the victories that 73 00:04:07,280 --> 00:04:10,839 Speaker 2: God had given him in the past. He remembered how 74 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,040 Speaker 2: God chose him from the other brothers when he was 75 00:04:14,080 --> 00:04:17,599 Speaker 2: a shepherd boy. He remembered how he killed the lion 76 00:04:17,760 --> 00:04:21,280 Speaker 2: and the bear with his bare hands. He remembered how 77 00:04:21,320 --> 00:04:24,919 Speaker 2: God helped him to defeat Goliath, and how God protected 78 00:04:25,040 --> 00:04:27,719 Speaker 2: him when King Saul was trying to kill him. 79 00:04:28,240 --> 00:04:30,920 Speaker 1: And as he rehearsed over and over. 80 00:04:30,960 --> 00:04:35,000 Speaker 2: The goodness and faithfulness of God, strength began to fill 81 00:04:35,080 --> 00:04:35,480 Speaker 2: his heart. 82 00:04:36,040 --> 00:04:39,080 Speaker 1: He got a new vision of victory. He began to. 83 00:04:39,040 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: Thank God for what he had done and thanked God 84 00:04:41,640 --> 00:04:44,640 Speaker 2: that he could turn the situation around, and he went 85 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:47,960 Speaker 2: from being depressed and defeated to rising up with that 86 00:04:48,080 --> 00:04:51,920 Speaker 2: warrior of mentality. When you're in difficult times and you're 87 00:04:51,960 --> 00:04:55,599 Speaker 2: tempted to get down, maybe you got a bad medical report, 88 00:04:55,880 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 2: or you're struggling in a relationship, struggling in your finances, 89 00:04:59,680 --> 00:05:03,040 Speaker 2: in stead that of dwelling on the negative and replaying 90 00:05:03,240 --> 00:05:06,760 Speaker 2: over and over all the reasons why it won't work 91 00:05:06,800 --> 00:05:09,920 Speaker 2: out and how impossible it is. No, you need to 92 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,160 Speaker 2: change the channel, get the remote control. That's not the 93 00:05:13,160 --> 00:05:18,000 Speaker 2: only channel. Start replaying, like David, all the times that 94 00:05:18,040 --> 00:05:21,560 Speaker 2: God has helped you, The times God protected you from 95 00:05:21,560 --> 00:05:25,680 Speaker 2: those accidents, The times God gave you a promotion even 96 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:29,839 Speaker 2: though you weren't the most qualified, the times that door closed. 97 00:05:30,240 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 2: You were disappointed then, but looking back now, you know 98 00:05:33,320 --> 00:05:34,520 Speaker 2: it would have been a big mistake. 99 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,840 Speaker 1: Or how about the times you lost that loved one. 100 00:05:38,400 --> 00:05:40,680 Speaker 2: You should have been defeated, you didn't think you could 101 00:05:40,680 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 2: make it through, but you felt a peace and a 102 00:05:43,480 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: strength like you've never felt before. Every one of us 103 00:05:47,279 --> 00:05:50,000 Speaker 2: has seen the hand of God at work in our lives, 104 00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:54,800 Speaker 2: and a key to encouraging ourselves is to replay those victories. 105 00:05:55,360 --> 00:05:58,840 Speaker 2: As you remember the great things God has done, faith 106 00:05:58,960 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 2: will fill your heart. Strength and courage will come from 107 00:06:02,240 --> 00:06:05,960 Speaker 2: the inside. No matter what you're facing, no matter how 108 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,760 Speaker 2: difficult it looks, you'll know deep down, God did not 109 00:06:09,920 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 2: bring me this far. 110 00:06:11,440 --> 00:06:12,479 Speaker 1: To leave me here. 111 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:15,120 Speaker 2: If he did it for me in the past, he'll 112 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:18,240 Speaker 2: do it again for me in the future. Some of 113 00:06:18,279 --> 00:06:20,880 Speaker 2: you today, you'd get your joy back if you just 114 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:25,479 Speaker 2: change the channel. You're always remembering the negative, remembering what 115 00:06:25,640 --> 00:06:28,359 Speaker 2: didn't work out, and who hurts you and how unfair 116 00:06:28,400 --> 00:06:31,560 Speaker 2: it was. No wonder you're down. You're watching the wrong channel. 117 00:06:32,240 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 2: God has done something great for every one of us. 118 00:06:35,680 --> 00:06:39,240 Speaker 2: Maybe God's given you a child. The day that little baby. 119 00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:41,600 Speaker 1: Was born, you were so excited. 120 00:06:41,960 --> 00:06:45,520 Speaker 2: Why don't you replay that miracle in your mind. Maybe 121 00:06:45,560 --> 00:06:48,600 Speaker 2: God's given you a house, He's given you a promotion, 122 00:06:49,120 --> 00:06:51,839 Speaker 2: or maybe you got a good medical report. You were 123 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:55,880 Speaker 2: so thrilled, you were on cloud nine. Learn to replay 124 00:06:56,080 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 2: those victories in your mind. If you're going to keep 125 00:06:59,040 --> 00:07:02,279 Speaker 2: yourself encourage, you've got to make sure you're watching the 126 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:06,719 Speaker 2: right channel. I found you cannot stay down and defeated 127 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:09,880 Speaker 2: as long as you're thinking about the goodness of God. 128 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:13,280 Speaker 2: I know every time I see our new facility here 129 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,280 Speaker 2: at Lakewood, whether I'm driving by on the freeway or 130 00:07:16,600 --> 00:07:20,120 Speaker 2: pulling up to a service, I always say, without fail, 131 00:07:20,600 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 2: thank you Lord for our beautiful new building. I'm still 132 00:07:23,960 --> 00:07:27,080 Speaker 2: amazed at what God has done. And whenever I see it, 133 00:07:27,400 --> 00:07:29,560 Speaker 2: I don't even have to think about it anymore. It 134 00:07:29,680 --> 00:07:32,320 Speaker 2: just comes out of me naturally. I guess I've developed 135 00:07:32,320 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 2: a habit. I've probably said that phrase ten thousand times 136 00:07:36,960 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 2: every time I do. You know what's happening. I'm encouraging myself. 137 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 2: My faith is increasing. 138 00:07:42,560 --> 00:07:43,440 Speaker 1: I can feel. 139 00:07:43,160 --> 00:07:45,960 Speaker 2: Strength on the inside. I know if God gave us 140 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:50,200 Speaker 2: this building, he can do anything. It's funny our son, Jonathan, 141 00:07:50,560 --> 00:07:53,800 Speaker 2: he's thirteen now. The other day he and my friend 142 00:07:53,880 --> 00:07:56,560 Speaker 2: Johnny were coming back from the airport Victoria and I. 143 00:07:56,640 --> 00:07:59,040 Speaker 2: We had gone on to another city and on the 144 00:07:59,120 --> 00:08:02,440 Speaker 2: route home pass our new facility, and as they were 145 00:08:02,520 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 2: driving by, Jonathan said to Johnny, let me say it 146 00:08:05,720 --> 00:08:07,120 Speaker 2: for my dad, thank. 147 00:08:06,880 --> 00:08:08,680 Speaker 1: You Lord for our beautiful new building. 148 00:08:11,080 --> 00:08:13,800 Speaker 2: He's heard me say it so much, now he's saying it. 149 00:08:14,880 --> 00:08:18,640 Speaker 2: The Scripture says we should tell our children and our 150 00:08:18,720 --> 00:08:22,600 Speaker 2: grandchildren the Great things God has done. But I see 151 00:08:22,640 --> 00:08:26,119 Speaker 2: too many people today they've just settled where they are. 152 00:08:26,920 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 2: When we give in to the spirit of discouragement, it 153 00:08:30,280 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 2: steals our dreams. Their attitude is it's not worth it, 154 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:38,120 Speaker 2: my marriage is not worth fighting for, it's never gonna 155 00:08:38,120 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 2: work out. Or I'm tired of dealing with this child. 156 00:08:41,240 --> 00:08:44,520 Speaker 2: It's not worth the struggle. I'm tired of doing what's right. Joel, 157 00:08:44,559 --> 00:08:47,640 Speaker 2: I'm never gonna get ahead. No, don't believe those lies. 158 00:08:48,160 --> 00:08:51,719 Speaker 2: That is the spirit of discouragement, trying to steal your 159 00:08:51,800 --> 00:08:53,720 Speaker 2: dreams and keep you right where you are. 160 00:08:54,440 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that you already know deep 161 00:08:57,080 --> 00:08:58,000 Speaker 1: down in your spirit. 162 00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:02,480 Speaker 2: Every promise that put in your heart, every dream that 163 00:09:02,559 --> 00:09:05,160 Speaker 2: He's planted on the inside, is well. 164 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:05,679 Speaker 1: Worth the fight. 165 00:09:06,360 --> 00:09:09,320 Speaker 2: Your child is worth it, your marriage is worth it, 166 00:09:09,440 --> 00:09:12,319 Speaker 2: your health is worth it, Your dreams are worth it. 167 00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:14,600 Speaker 1: Don't you dare settle where you are. 168 00:09:15,480 --> 00:09:18,880 Speaker 2: You may have suffered a setback, like David, You've been 169 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:22,920 Speaker 2: through a disappointment, maybe your relationship didn't work out, Maybe 170 00:09:22,960 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 2: you're facing a major health issue right now. Remember this, 171 00:09:27,160 --> 00:09:31,439 Speaker 2: every setback is a setup for a comeback. You may 172 00:09:31,440 --> 00:09:33,880 Speaker 2: have gotten knocked down, but you didn't get knocked out. 173 00:09:34,480 --> 00:09:38,000 Speaker 2: You got to get back up, dust yourself off. God 174 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,760 Speaker 2: has you in the palm of his hand. He said, 175 00:09:40,800 --> 00:09:43,600 Speaker 2: if you'd stay in faith, he would not only bring 176 00:09:43,640 --> 00:09:46,320 Speaker 2: you out, but he'd bring you out better off than 177 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:49,120 Speaker 2: you were before. This is what David had to do. 178 00:09:49,440 --> 00:09:52,560 Speaker 2: He was down, but he didn't stay down. He started 179 00:09:52,600 --> 00:09:56,320 Speaker 2: replaying his victories. He started thanking God for what he 180 00:09:56,360 --> 00:09:57,440 Speaker 2: had done in the past. 181 00:09:57,880 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: And as he changed the channel and. 182 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,720 Speaker 2: Got into that attitude of faith and expectancy, that's when 183 00:10:03,760 --> 00:10:06,640 Speaker 2: he went from being a victim to being a victor. 184 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:10,280 Speaker 2: He said to his men, get up, guys, we're going 185 00:10:10,360 --> 00:10:14,240 Speaker 2: to go attack the enemy. The scripture says they not 186 00:10:14,400 --> 00:10:18,320 Speaker 2: only recovered everything that had been stolen, but they came 187 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:22,080 Speaker 2: out with more than they had before. That's what God 188 00:10:22,200 --> 00:10:24,840 Speaker 2: wants to do for every one of us. But it 189 00:10:24,920 --> 00:10:30,920 Speaker 2: all started when David encouraged himself. He recognized the main 190 00:10:31,040 --> 00:10:34,400 Speaker 2: battle wasn't taking place on the outside, it was taking 191 00:10:34,440 --> 00:10:38,000 Speaker 2: place on the inside. When all the odds were against him. 192 00:10:38,280 --> 00:10:41,560 Speaker 2: His family wasn't there, his friends had turned on him, 193 00:10:42,000 --> 00:10:45,240 Speaker 2: the news wasn't good, the economy was low, gas was high. 194 00:10:45,679 --> 00:10:48,680 Speaker 2: His attitude was I'm not worried about any of that. 195 00:10:49,240 --> 00:10:52,080 Speaker 2: I know the God I serve is well able to 196 00:10:52,120 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 2: deliver men. He said, in effect, I've seen God lift 197 00:10:57,400 --> 00:11:00,240 Speaker 2: me out of the pit before he set my fat 198 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 2: on a rock, put a new song in my heart. 199 00:11:02,559 --> 00:11:04,880 Speaker 2: And if he did it for me back then, I 200 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,440 Speaker 2: know he'll do it for me right now. That's the 201 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,200 Speaker 2: kind of attitude that gets God's attention. Now, I know 202 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:14,400 Speaker 2: every one of us can look back in life and say, 203 00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:17,560 Speaker 2: with David, if it had not been for the goodness 204 00:11:17,640 --> 00:11:18,920 Speaker 2: of God, where would I be? 205 00:11:19,720 --> 00:11:21,840 Speaker 1: In other words, I should have had. 206 00:11:21,720 --> 00:11:24,800 Speaker 2: A nervous breakdown when I went through that divorce, but 207 00:11:24,840 --> 00:11:27,959 Speaker 2: God filled me with his strength. I should have given 208 00:11:28,040 --> 00:11:31,280 Speaker 2: up and gotten depressed when my loved one died, but 209 00:11:31,400 --> 00:11:34,559 Speaker 2: God gave me a new beginning. I shouldn't be here 210 00:11:34,600 --> 00:11:37,520 Speaker 2: today according to the medical report, but because of the 211 00:11:37,559 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 2: goodness of God, I'm still alive and well. My business 212 00:11:41,360 --> 00:11:44,320 Speaker 2: should have gone bankrupt a long time ago, but because 213 00:11:44,360 --> 00:11:47,200 Speaker 2: of God's favor he turned it around. Or how about 214 00:11:47,280 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 2: I should be messed up in my mind all the 215 00:11:49,280 --> 00:11:52,480 Speaker 2: addictions I had, But because of the mercy of God, 216 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:55,360 Speaker 2: my chains are broken and I'm totally free today. 217 00:11:56,160 --> 00:11:57,599 Speaker 1: Here's another one. 218 00:11:57,840 --> 00:12:01,400 Speaker 2: My family shouldn't be torn apart, but because of God's goodness, 219 00:12:01,400 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 2: we're still here together. You cannot get down and defeated 220 00:12:05,320 --> 00:12:07,920 Speaker 2: as long as you're meditating on the goodness of God. 221 00:12:08,480 --> 00:12:11,960 Speaker 2: Some of you today you're watching the wrong channel. You 222 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 2: need to switch off the defeat channel. Switch off the 223 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:18,880 Speaker 2: who hurt me channel, the I come from the wrong 224 00:12:19,120 --> 00:12:22,840 Speaker 2: family channel, the gloom and despair channel. Turn that all 225 00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:25,880 Speaker 2: and switch on to the victory channel, to the All 226 00:12:25,960 --> 00:12:29,840 Speaker 2: Things are Possible channels to the God as well able channel, 227 00:12:30,600 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: to the by best. 228 00:12:31,559 --> 00:12:33,160 Speaker 1: Days are ahead of me channel. 229 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:37,440 Speaker 2: As you remember the good things God has done, faith 230 00:12:37,640 --> 00:12:38,959 Speaker 2: is going to fill your heart. 231 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,000 Speaker 1: Another thing that can help us. 232 00:12:41,920 --> 00:12:45,559 Speaker 2: To stay encouraged is we need to create an encouragement 233 00:12:45,679 --> 00:12:49,640 Speaker 2: file at home or the office. Whenever someone sends you 234 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 2: a kind note, someone gives you a compliment, put it 235 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:56,160 Speaker 2: in that file. Then, when you're tempted to be down, 236 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,480 Speaker 2: go get those letters out and reread them again. Let 237 00:12:59,559 --> 00:13:03,600 Speaker 2: those works lift your spirits many times, after just five 238 00:13:03,679 --> 00:13:07,000 Speaker 2: or ten minutes of being reminded of how much people 239 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:09,560 Speaker 2: loved you and reminded of some of the good things 240 00:13:09,640 --> 00:13:13,440 Speaker 2: you've done, that'll totally change your attitude. This is what 241 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:16,160 Speaker 2: I did when I first started ministring a little over 242 00:13:16,440 --> 00:13:20,960 Speaker 2: nine years ago. I started this encouragement file. Whenever someone 243 00:13:21,000 --> 00:13:24,200 Speaker 2: would send me a note, a letter, or even give 244 00:13:24,240 --> 00:13:26,760 Speaker 2: me a compliment, many times I'd just write it down 245 00:13:26,920 --> 00:13:29,760 Speaker 2: and put it in the file. And back in those days, 246 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 2: if someone said something even halfway encouraging, I would put 247 00:13:33,800 --> 00:13:37,280 Speaker 2: it in there. I remember this elderly man that I 248 00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 2: used to see if at the gym. He was always 249 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,840 Speaker 2: kidding me about something, but he wrote me a note. 250 00:13:42,000 --> 00:13:45,800 Speaker 2: It said, Joel, I watched your sermon on television yesterday. 251 00:13:46,040 --> 00:13:50,600 Speaker 1: All I can say is better luck next time listen. 252 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 2: I was so happy that at least he watched. I 253 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:56,280 Speaker 2: put that in my file. Sometimes you can't be picky. 254 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 2: Thank god today that's in file thirteen. 255 00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:00,800 Speaker 1: That anymore. 256 00:14:01,800 --> 00:14:03,920 Speaker 2: One time, this little boy came up to me after 257 00:14:03,960 --> 00:14:06,800 Speaker 2: my sermon, right after I'd started. He probably wasn't five 258 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,160 Speaker 2: or six years old. He said, Jeel, I really loved 259 00:14:10,240 --> 00:14:11,640 Speaker 2: listening to your stories. 260 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:14,160 Speaker 1: I was feeling so good then, he said. 261 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:16,280 Speaker 2: But if I were you, I'd leave out all that 262 00:14:16,360 --> 00:14:20,920 Speaker 2: other boring stuff. But we all need to have an 263 00:14:21,040 --> 00:14:24,560 Speaker 2: encouragement file, and in my file now I have letters 264 00:14:24,600 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 2: and compliments birthday cards. Not long ago, one of my 265 00:14:29,160 --> 00:14:31,920 Speaker 2: third grade teachers wrote my mom a note and told 266 00:14:31,920 --> 00:14:34,840 Speaker 2: what a good student I was, how friendly I was, 267 00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 2: and how I smiled so much. Even back then, that 268 00:14:37,720 --> 00:14:40,520 Speaker 2: encouraged me. I put that in my file, and now, 269 00:14:40,640 --> 00:14:42,960 Speaker 2: probably once a month, at least of a couple of months, 270 00:14:43,080 --> 00:14:45,400 Speaker 2: I'll get that file out and flip through some of 271 00:14:45,440 --> 00:14:46,120 Speaker 2: those letters. 272 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 1: What am I doing. 273 00:14:47,680 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: I'm encouraging myself. It's like being on a good maintenance program. 274 00:14:51,960 --> 00:14:54,400 Speaker 2: You need to do it on a regular basis. Now, 275 00:14:54,520 --> 00:14:56,880 Speaker 2: you said, Jeel, I don't have anything to. 276 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:58,320 Speaker 1: Put in my encouragement file. 277 00:14:58,720 --> 00:15:02,440 Speaker 2: Nobody's sending me nice nos, nobody's complimenting me, nobody's given 278 00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 2: me any credit. 279 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,280 Speaker 1: That's okay. Here's the solution. 280 00:15:05,800 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 2: You need to write yourself some good letters. Write down 281 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: what you like about you, List your streets, list your accomplishments. 282 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,400 Speaker 2: List some of the good things you've done for others. 283 00:15:19,080 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 2: I found when nobody else is celebrating you, you've got 284 00:15:23,080 --> 00:15:27,120 Speaker 2: to learn to celebrate yourself. When nobody else is complimenting you, 285 00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:30,840 Speaker 2: you need to compliment yourself. Nobody's writing you good letters. 286 00:15:31,000 --> 00:15:33,480 Speaker 2: Write yourself some good letters. It's not up to other 287 00:15:33,520 --> 00:15:35,080 Speaker 2: people to keep you encourage. 288 00:15:35,240 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 1: It's up to you. 289 00:15:36,160 --> 00:15:38,920 Speaker 2: It's got to come from the inside. This is what 290 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:43,560 Speaker 2: God did. He praised himself, says in the Book of Genesis. 291 00:15:43,920 --> 00:15:47,680 Speaker 2: God created the waters, and he said that was good. 292 00:15:48,440 --> 00:15:51,560 Speaker 2: He created the sky and he said that was good. 293 00:15:52,160 --> 00:15:54,920 Speaker 2: He created the fish and the animals, and he stepped 294 00:15:54,960 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 2: back and said that was good. He created you and 295 00:15:57,880 --> 00:15:59,640 Speaker 2: me and said that was really good. 296 00:16:00,480 --> 00:16:04,920 Speaker 1: I love the fact that God praised himself. These days. 297 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,880 Speaker 2: Most of the time we are so critical toward ourselves 298 00:16:09,320 --> 00:16:12,240 Speaker 2: and so focused on what we didn't do right. We 299 00:16:12,280 --> 00:16:16,480 Speaker 2: would never even think about complementing ourselves. But Joel, I've 300 00:16:16,520 --> 00:16:19,920 Speaker 2: got these faults. I'm struggling with this addiction, or I'm 301 00:16:19,960 --> 00:16:23,760 Speaker 2: not nearly as talented as my coworkers. No, you need 302 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:26,840 Speaker 2: to find something that you're doing right so you can 303 00:16:26,880 --> 00:16:29,400 Speaker 2: step back and say, you know what, that was good. 304 00:16:30,360 --> 00:16:32,840 Speaker 2: Even when you walk out of this building, you need 305 00:16:32,840 --> 00:16:35,480 Speaker 2: to pat yourself on the back and say I did 306 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:38,920 Speaker 2: something right today. I took time to honor God by 307 00:16:38,960 --> 00:16:42,000 Speaker 2: coming to church, by watching the broadcast. I must say 308 00:16:42,280 --> 00:16:46,560 Speaker 2: I did good when I walk off this platform. Each week, 309 00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:49,360 Speaker 2: I look at myself in the mirror and say, Joel. 310 00:16:49,240 --> 00:16:50,320 Speaker 1: You did good today. 311 00:16:51,520 --> 00:16:53,600 Speaker 2: I may not have done as good as somebody else, 312 00:16:53,760 --> 00:16:55,840 Speaker 2: but I did the best that I can do, and 313 00:16:55,880 --> 00:16:57,120 Speaker 2: that's all that really matters. 314 00:16:57,640 --> 00:16:58,520 Speaker 1: Here's my point. 315 00:16:59,000 --> 00:17:03,120 Speaker 2: If you're not able to compliment yourself, you'll never become 316 00:17:03,360 --> 00:17:06,560 Speaker 2: everything God's created you to be. You've got to feel 317 00:17:06,600 --> 00:17:10,080 Speaker 2: good about who you are. And I'm not talking about 318 00:17:10,160 --> 00:17:13,520 Speaker 2: being arrogant and going around thinking that we're better than somebody. 319 00:17:13,840 --> 00:17:17,960 Speaker 2: I'm talking about learning to accept and approve yourself. 320 00:17:18,680 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 3: Now. 321 00:17:18,840 --> 00:17:21,439 Speaker 2: I want you to get in a habit not of 322 00:17:21,560 --> 00:17:25,840 Speaker 2: catching yourself doing something wrong, but start catching yourself doing 323 00:17:25,840 --> 00:17:29,719 Speaker 2: something right. I hear people that are always condemning themselves. 324 00:17:29,960 --> 00:17:32,760 Speaker 2: There I go again, spent too much money. There I 325 00:17:32,840 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 2: go again, I ate something that I shouldn't have. There 326 00:17:34,720 --> 00:17:39,200 Speaker 2: I go again, lost my temper. They always see the wrong, never. 327 00:17:39,000 --> 00:17:39,640 Speaker 1: See the right. 328 00:17:40,400 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 2: Well, Joel, I'm just kind of down on myself because 329 00:17:43,080 --> 00:17:45,240 Speaker 2: I didn't work out one time last week. 330 00:17:45,640 --> 00:17:48,560 Speaker 1: Maybe not. But you did take the stairs instead of 331 00:17:48,600 --> 00:17:51,240 Speaker 1: the elevator. That was good. Well. 332 00:17:51,280 --> 00:17:53,480 Speaker 2: I didn't clean my house yesterday like I wanted to. 333 00:17:54,200 --> 00:17:57,120 Speaker 2: Maybe not, But you did go to your child's ball game. 334 00:17:57,359 --> 00:17:58,000 Speaker 1: That was good. 335 00:17:58,800 --> 00:18:00,760 Speaker 2: Well, I didn't take my friend out to lunch like 336 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:03,919 Speaker 2: I promised. No, but you sure were kind to that 337 00:18:03,960 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 2: security guard. Quit catching yourself doing something wrong and start 338 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,639 Speaker 2: catching yourself doing something right. You've got to change the channel. 339 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:16,080 Speaker 2: Some of you have never once said to yourself. I'm 340 00:18:16,119 --> 00:18:20,639 Speaker 2: a good mother, I'm a good father. I'm talented and creative. 341 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:25,159 Speaker 2: I'm kind and considerate. I don't say this arrogantly, but 342 00:18:25,280 --> 00:18:27,080 Speaker 2: I like who God made me to be. 343 00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:27,919 Speaker 1: Now. 344 00:18:27,960 --> 00:18:31,240 Speaker 2: I love to compliment other people, but I've learned even 345 00:18:31,359 --> 00:18:35,119 Speaker 2: to compliment myself. I like the gifts God's given me. 346 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 2: I like my personality. I like my height, I like 347 00:18:38,560 --> 00:18:41,400 Speaker 2: my age. I like what I'm able to do. One 348 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:44,320 Speaker 2: of the recordings that's always playing in my mind all 349 00:18:44,400 --> 00:18:46,119 Speaker 2: through the day is Joel. 350 00:18:46,400 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 1: You're a good father, you a good husband. 351 00:18:49,480 --> 00:18:54,480 Speaker 2: You're talented, you're creative, you're kind, You're fun to be around. Listen, 352 00:18:54,560 --> 00:18:57,480 Speaker 2: it's not hard to stay encouraged when you learn to 353 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:02,240 Speaker 2: compliment yourself. Sometimes we think it's humble to compliment somebody 354 00:19:02,280 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 2: else while we kind of put ourselves down. 355 00:19:05,359 --> 00:19:06,600 Speaker 1: Man, you're so good at that. 356 00:19:07,040 --> 00:19:10,600 Speaker 2: I could never do anything like you. No, you can 357 00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:14,240 Speaker 2: do exactly what God's created you to do. I have 358 00:19:14,359 --> 00:19:16,600 Speaker 2: people tell me, Joel, I could never speak in front 359 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:19,600 Speaker 2: of all those people like you do. Maybe not, but 360 00:19:19,640 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 2: I could never fly an airplane like you do. I 361 00:19:22,080 --> 00:19:24,879 Speaker 2: could never design houses like you do so great. I 362 00:19:24,920 --> 00:19:28,160 Speaker 2: could never teach those children like you do each week 363 00:19:28,200 --> 00:19:31,680 Speaker 2: and excel at the fact is every one of us 364 00:19:31,840 --> 00:19:34,920 Speaker 2: is good at something. We shouldn't look at somebody else 365 00:19:34,960 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 2: and think, man, they are so talented, they are so creative, 366 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:41,159 Speaker 2: they are so disciplined, they are so good looking. 367 00:19:41,240 --> 00:19:42,919 Speaker 1: I don't know what in the world happened to me. 368 00:19:43,520 --> 00:19:46,199 Speaker 2: No, you need to start looking at yourself in the 369 00:19:46,200 --> 00:19:49,760 Speaker 2: mirror and saying, you are so talented, you are so creative, 370 00:19:49,840 --> 00:19:55,240 Speaker 2: you are so disciplined, you good looking thing. You got 371 00:19:55,280 --> 00:19:59,000 Speaker 2: to compliment yourself. You need to try it. It may work. 372 00:20:00,440 --> 00:20:02,720 Speaker 2: It didn't for my brother Paul, but you tried anyway. 373 00:20:05,000 --> 00:20:08,320 Speaker 2: I know this young lady in junior high, she didn't 374 00:20:08,320 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 2: have very many friends. They had just moved to this 375 00:20:11,119 --> 00:20:14,080 Speaker 2: new school and most of the students had grown up 376 00:20:14,119 --> 00:20:16,719 Speaker 2: together and been friends for years and years, and she 377 00:20:16,800 --> 00:20:19,280 Speaker 2: was having a tough time breaking in and really connecting 378 00:20:19,400 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 2: with anybody. And the school had a tradition that during 379 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 2: Valentine's Week, you could send another student a carnation. They 380 00:20:27,320 --> 00:20:30,439 Speaker 2: were only twenty five cents, and those carnations would be 381 00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:34,439 Speaker 2: delivered on Valentine's Day during homeroom in front of the 382 00:20:34,480 --> 00:20:35,280 Speaker 2: whole class. 383 00:20:35,560 --> 00:20:38,040 Speaker 1: It was a big deal to see how many carnations 384 00:20:38,040 --> 00:20:38,560 Speaker 1: you would get. 385 00:20:39,080 --> 00:20:41,399 Speaker 2: Well, this young lady knew that she wasn't going to 386 00:20:41,480 --> 00:20:43,560 Speaker 2: receive any She didn't have any friends. 387 00:20:44,080 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: She was sort of dreading that day. 388 00:20:46,080 --> 00:20:47,880 Speaker 2: Thinking about how she is going to be left out 389 00:20:47,960 --> 00:20:50,199 Speaker 2: and probably embarrassed by it all. 390 00:20:50,280 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 1: But then she came up with a great idea. 391 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:56,639 Speaker 2: Instead of just sitting back watching everybody else get flowers, 392 00:20:56,960 --> 00:21:01,400 Speaker 2: she decided to send herself some carnation. She took five 393 00:21:01,520 --> 00:21:04,320 Speaker 2: dollars and went down to the office and she got 394 00:21:04,359 --> 00:21:07,880 Speaker 2: twenty different forms so nobody would know they were from her, 395 00:21:07,960 --> 00:21:11,640 Speaker 2: and she filled them out and on Valentine's Day, most 396 00:21:11,680 --> 00:21:13,000 Speaker 2: of the young ladies got three. 397 00:21:12,840 --> 00:21:13,800 Speaker 1: Or four carnations. 398 00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,720 Speaker 2: The real popular girls may have gotten five or six 399 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:20,640 Speaker 2: or seven. But this young lady, every other carnation came 400 00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:24,000 Speaker 2: to her. The students started looking at her, thinking, who 401 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 2: in the world. 402 00:21:24,760 --> 00:21:25,359 Speaker 1: Is this girl? 403 00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:29,440 Speaker 2: She's got so many friends. Another carnation was delivered to her. 404 00:21:29,760 --> 00:21:32,400 Speaker 2: They asked, who's that from. She looked at the note 405 00:21:32,440 --> 00:21:34,919 Speaker 2: and said, Oh, they are so special. They love me 406 00:21:35,000 --> 00:21:37,440 Speaker 2: so much. I can't wait to tell them thanks. 407 00:21:38,480 --> 00:21:41,480 Speaker 1: They had no idea she was talking about herself. 408 00:21:42,359 --> 00:21:44,639 Speaker 2: You would have thought she was the most popular girl 409 00:21:44,680 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 2: in school. She left that day the envy of the 410 00:21:47,840 --> 00:21:51,679 Speaker 2: whole class. She had more carnations than anybody else. You 411 00:21:51,760 --> 00:21:55,080 Speaker 2: got to have the attitude. If nobody else is celebrating 412 00:21:55,119 --> 00:22:00,120 Speaker 2: me right now, I'm going to celebrate myself if nobody, 413 00:22:00,920 --> 00:22:03,640 Speaker 2: If nobody is asking me out to dinner, I'm gonna 414 00:22:03,720 --> 00:22:07,280 Speaker 2: dress up and take myself out to dinner. Nobody's sending 415 00:22:07,320 --> 00:22:09,760 Speaker 2: me a birthday gift, Watch out, I'm gonna buy myself 416 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:14,240 Speaker 2: a present. Some of you, ladies, you need to do 417 00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,240 Speaker 2: like she did. Just send yourself some flowers. Have them 418 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,760 Speaker 2: delivered to your office, put them on your desk. People 419 00:22:19,800 --> 00:22:21,440 Speaker 2: walk by, All of those are so beautiful. 420 00:22:21,440 --> 00:22:22,160 Speaker 1: Who are they from? 421 00:22:22,600 --> 00:22:25,480 Speaker 2: Just smile and say they're from somebody that thinks I'm 422 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 2: very very special, somebody that loves me very much. If 423 00:22:30,760 --> 00:22:32,880 Speaker 2: you're gonna stay encouraged, you've got. 424 00:22:32,680 --> 00:22:34,440 Speaker 1: To learn to celebrate yourself. 425 00:22:35,359 --> 00:22:38,920 Speaker 2: Some of you today, you've lost your fire, You've lost 426 00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 2: your enthusiasm. Maybe it's because nobody's celebrating you, nobody's cheering 427 00:22:44,160 --> 00:22:47,280 Speaker 2: you on, nobody's encouraging you. You've got to do like 428 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 2: David and start encouraging yourself. Draw that line in the 429 00:22:51,240 --> 00:22:54,160 Speaker 2: sand and say that's it. This is a new day. 430 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:58,800 Speaker 2: I am done living negative discourage, no enthusiasm. I know 431 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:01,920 Speaker 2: this is the day the Lord has made. I'm gonna 432 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,960 Speaker 2: choose to live this day with faith, with expectancy, and 433 00:23:06,080 --> 00:23:09,359 Speaker 2: really the only way that we can keep ourselves encouraged 434 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:13,520 Speaker 2: is by thinking these encouraging thoughts, thoughts of hope, thoughts 435 00:23:13,600 --> 00:23:16,760 Speaker 2: of faith. You've got to tune into that voice of victory. 436 00:23:17,480 --> 00:23:21,000 Speaker 2: There's a scripture I love. It says God will perfect 437 00:23:21,359 --> 00:23:25,560 Speaker 2: that which concerns you. Perfect means God will make it right. 438 00:23:26,359 --> 00:23:29,720 Speaker 2: You may be concerned about a child today, concerned about 439 00:23:29,720 --> 00:23:32,720 Speaker 2: a health issue, or concerned about an addiction you're struggling with. 440 00:23:33,400 --> 00:23:36,080 Speaker 2: The easy thing would be to just accept it and 441 00:23:36,119 --> 00:23:38,439 Speaker 2: settle where you are and think, Joel, this is just 442 00:23:38,480 --> 00:23:39,040 Speaker 2: who I am. 443 00:23:39,119 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: It's never going to change. 444 00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 3: No. 445 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:45,479 Speaker 2: Recognize that's the voice of discouragement trying to talk you 446 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:50,399 Speaker 2: into settling for a life of mediocrity. But understand, you 447 00:23:50,440 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 2: were never created to be average. You were never created 448 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:58,200 Speaker 2: to barely get by. You were created to be above 449 00:23:58,280 --> 00:24:02,199 Speaker 2: only and never beneath. No matter what you may be facing, 450 00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:05,440 Speaker 2: no matter how impossible it looks, you need to keep 451 00:24:05,480 --> 00:24:09,840 Speaker 2: reminding yourself that right now, God is in the process 452 00:24:10,280 --> 00:24:14,760 Speaker 2: of perfecting that which concerns you. Right now, God's working 453 00:24:14,800 --> 00:24:18,959 Speaker 2: behind the scenes in your life, arranging things in your favor, 454 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,960 Speaker 2: getting the right people, the right breaks, the right opportunities 455 00:24:23,000 --> 00:24:26,720 Speaker 2: lined out for you. God said he would finish what 456 00:24:26,880 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: he started. He will complete your incompletions. He wants to 457 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:35,040 Speaker 2: bring to past every dream, every desire, every. 458 00:24:34,800 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 1: Promise that He's put in your heart. 459 00:24:37,160 --> 00:24:40,280 Speaker 2: When you hear those negative voices telling you that it's 460 00:24:40,320 --> 00:24:42,880 Speaker 2: never going to change, You're never gonna get well, you're 461 00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:46,159 Speaker 2: never going to break that addiction, don't stay tuned to 462 00:24:46,200 --> 00:24:50,160 Speaker 2: that channel. That's not the only voice. There's another voice. 463 00:24:50,520 --> 00:24:54,639 Speaker 2: It's called the voice of Victory, and it says, no 464 00:24:54,800 --> 00:24:56,399 Speaker 2: weapon formed against you. 465 00:24:56,400 --> 00:24:57,440 Speaker 1: Is ever going to prosper. 466 00:24:58,040 --> 00:25:01,480 Speaker 2: It says, when you delight yourself the Lord, he'll give 467 00:25:01,520 --> 00:25:05,000 Speaker 2: you the desires of your heart. It says, what was 468 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,320 Speaker 2: meant for your harm. God will turn around and use 469 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 2: it for your advantage. You may have gone through a setback, 470 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:14,840 Speaker 2: but you need to dig your heels in and get 471 00:25:14,880 --> 00:25:18,119 Speaker 2: ready for a comeback. God did not bring you this 472 00:25:18,320 --> 00:25:21,199 Speaker 2: far to leave you where you are. He has you 473 00:25:21,359 --> 00:25:24,680 Speaker 2: in the palm of his hand. He had the solution 474 00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:28,240 Speaker 2: before you ever had that problem. He already has a 475 00:25:28,280 --> 00:25:32,000 Speaker 2: way out. God knows the end from the beginning, and 476 00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:35,800 Speaker 2: everything you're facing right now is subject to change. That 477 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:39,040 Speaker 2: means one touch of God's favor and it can turn 478 00:25:39,080 --> 00:25:42,879 Speaker 2: any situation around. You got to dare to do like David, 479 00:25:43,680 --> 00:25:46,880 Speaker 2: shake off that spirit of discouragement and say I made 480 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,560 Speaker 2: thee knocked down, but I'm not staying down. I'm going 481 00:25:49,600 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 2: to get back up and go again. Tune into the 482 00:25:51,960 --> 00:25:55,600 Speaker 2: voice of victory. You know the negative voices. They'll tell you, Well, 483 00:25:55,640 --> 00:25:57,640 Speaker 2: the economy's kind of bad, aren't you afraid? 484 00:25:58,160 --> 00:26:01,000 Speaker 1: No, I know God is my provider. He supplies all 485 00:26:01,000 --> 00:26:01,719 Speaker 1: of my needs. 486 00:26:02,320 --> 00:26:05,200 Speaker 2: Well, gas is kind of high, yes, but God's well 487 00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 2: able to take care of me. Well, your child's not 488 00:26:08,040 --> 00:26:12,560 Speaker 2: doing right, that's true, but I know he's subject to change. Well, 489 00:26:12,640 --> 00:26:14,560 Speaker 2: you got laid off. I heard you lost your job. 490 00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:17,800 Speaker 2: Aren't you frustrated, not at all. I know God's about 491 00:26:17,800 --> 00:26:20,320 Speaker 2: to open up another door. I know He's got something 492 00:26:20,320 --> 00:26:23,520 Speaker 2: better in store. Well, you look like you're not feeling well. 493 00:26:23,640 --> 00:26:26,160 Speaker 2: Somebody says you got a bad report from the doctor. Yes, 494 00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,480 Speaker 2: I did, But I know God is in complete control. 495 00:26:29,960 --> 00:26:32,840 Speaker 2: He said that nothing would snatch me out of his hand. 496 00:26:33,160 --> 00:26:35,680 Speaker 2: So I believe I'm going to live out every second 497 00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:38,679 Speaker 2: that He's planned out for me. That's what it means 498 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:41,240 Speaker 2: to be tuned into the right voice, the voice of 499 00:26:41,320 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 2: victory in life. Every one of us is going to 500 00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,119 Speaker 2: have opportunities to get down and discouraged. My message to 501 00:26:49,240 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 2: us today is we don't have to give in to 502 00:26:51,359 --> 00:26:55,320 Speaker 2: that temptation. Get up every morning thinking about the goodness 503 00:26:55,320 --> 00:26:58,720 Speaker 2: of God. Replay the victories that He's given you in 504 00:26:58,760 --> 00:27:02,360 Speaker 2: the past. Don't worry remember the negative, change the channel, 505 00:27:02,600 --> 00:27:05,560 Speaker 2: and remember all the times God's brought you through. If 506 00:27:05,560 --> 00:27:09,000 Speaker 2: you don't have an encouragement file, start one. When you 507 00:27:09,040 --> 00:27:11,160 Speaker 2: are tempted to get down, go get those letters out, 508 00:27:11,440 --> 00:27:14,560 Speaker 2: lift them, lift your spirit, and don't wait for others 509 00:27:14,600 --> 00:27:18,960 Speaker 2: to compliment you. Compliment yourself. Learn to celebrate who God 510 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:22,280 Speaker 2: made you to be. Friends, It's up to you to 511 00:27:22,359 --> 00:27:25,480 Speaker 2: keep yourself encouraged. Some of you have been depending on 512 00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:28,480 Speaker 2: your friends your family. Don't put that pressure on them. 513 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:32,080 Speaker 2: You can draw strength from the inside as you learn 514 00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:33,440 Speaker 2: to encourage yourself. 515 00:27:33,920 --> 00:27:35,480 Speaker 1: That's your faith at work. 516 00:27:36,000 --> 00:27:38,200 Speaker 2: Not only are you going to enjoy your life more, 517 00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:41,159 Speaker 2: but you're going to overcome every obstacle. You're going to 518 00:27:41,200 --> 00:27:44,159 Speaker 2: see every dream, every desire, every promise put in you 519 00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:44,959 Speaker 2: come to pass. 520 00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,919 Speaker 1: And not only that, even when you do get knocked 521 00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:48,440 Speaker 1: down and. 522 00:27:48,400 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 2: Suffer a setback, just like David, God will make sure 523 00:27:51,960 --> 00:27:54,680 Speaker 2: you not only come back, but you come back better 524 00:27:54,720 --> 00:27:55,760 Speaker 2: off than you were before. 525 00:27:55,800 --> 00:27:57,480 Speaker 1: Amen. Do you receive it today? 526 00:27:58,200 --> 00:28:02,200 Speaker 3: It's a new year. Time to say the impossible become possible. 527 00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,400 Speaker 1: It's a new year. 528 00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:08,160 Speaker 3: Life setbacks are about to become God's setups for new opportunity. 529 00:28:08,520 --> 00:28:13,080 Speaker 3: It's a new year cherished dreams will become unexpected reality. 530 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:16,040 Speaker 2: The start of the new year is the perfect time 531 00:28:16,119 --> 00:28:19,760 Speaker 2: to reset your focus, release disappointments of the past, and 532 00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:22,359 Speaker 2: get ready for the new things God has in store. 533 00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:26,040 Speaker 2: Every January we create a new three hundred and sixty 534 00:28:26,080 --> 00:28:28,160 Speaker 2: five day devotional calendar. 535 00:28:28,520 --> 00:28:29,600 Speaker 1: I'd love to send it to you. 536 00:28:30,040 --> 00:28:34,400 Speaker 2: Each day is filled with inspiration, scripture and uplifting declarations 537 00:28:34,400 --> 00:28:37,399 Speaker 2: to fuel your faith. When you begin the day thanking 538 00:28:37,440 --> 00:28:40,800 Speaker 2: God for what He's done, speaking victory over your future, 539 00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:45,800 Speaker 2: you're positioning yourself for a blessed, favor filled year. Amazing 540 00:28:45,880 --> 00:28:48,320 Speaker 2: things happen when you keep God first place. 541 00:28:49,120 --> 00:28:51,480 Speaker 3: As our way of saying thank you for your gift 542 00:28:51,520 --> 00:28:54,160 Speaker 3: of any amount this first month of the year, we 543 00:28:54,200 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 3: would like to send you a copy of our brand 544 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:59,640 Speaker 3: new three hundred and sixty five day twenty twenty six 545 00:29:00,000 --> 00:29:03,560 Speaker 3: fotional calendar. Do you want to overcome your most pressing 546 00:29:03,640 --> 00:29:05,320 Speaker 3: challenges in twenty twenty six? 547 00:29:05,680 --> 00:29:06,640 Speaker 1: Do you want to see. 548 00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:10,240 Speaker 3: Your life take off in new directions of influence, favor, 549 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,320 Speaker 3: and provision in the year ahead. With this daily encouragement, 550 00:29:14,640 --> 00:29:17,880 Speaker 3: you'll not only smile at your day, You'll be reminded 551 00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:21,680 Speaker 3: that God is smiling on your entire life. Each day 552 00:29:21,840 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 3: will be a fresh new day. 553 00:29:23,800 --> 00:29:26,760 Speaker 1: Turn discouragement to encouragement. 554 00:29:26,600 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 3: Frustration to fulfillment, anxiety to overcoming. Start each morning knowing 555 00:29:33,240 --> 00:29:36,240 Speaker 3: that it's God's desire to turn what seems like an 556 00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 3: ordinary life into extraordinary favor, strength, and opportunities. Using this 557 00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:47,680 Speaker 3: devotional calendar is as easy as one two three, one 558 00:29:48,160 --> 00:29:52,320 Speaker 3: wake up with an expectancy in your heart. Two reflect 559 00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:56,040 Speaker 3: on the daily scripture, verse and devotional from Joel. Three 560 00:29:56,560 --> 00:30:00,160 Speaker 3: Capture the Lord's promises to you on journaling lines for 561 00:30:00,280 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 3: rating and reflection. 562 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:04,400 Speaker 2: Twenty twenty six is going to be one of your 563 00:30:04,480 --> 00:30:07,080 Speaker 2: best years ever. We're going to help you stay in 564 00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:09,760 Speaker 2: faith so you can see the goodness of God in 565 00:30:09,880 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 2: new ways. Victoria and I pray for you and your 566 00:30:12,600 --> 00:30:14,960 Speaker 2: family every day, and we want to thank you for 567 00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:19,400 Speaker 2: your prayer and support. Your generosity is impacting lives around 568 00:30:19,400 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 2: the world. A special thank you to our Champion of 569 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,200 Speaker 2: Hope partners for your monthly gifts. If you're not a partner, 570 00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:28,520 Speaker 2: I hope you'll consider becoming one. 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