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Speaker 1: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday. It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 1: Welcome back to brook and Jeffrey in the morning. Let's

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Speaker 1: take a quick look at the scoreboard. In the last

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Speaker 1: three years, we've had twenty engaged couples come on our show,

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Speaker 1: and Brooke has miraculously stopped seventeen of those from going

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Speaker 1: through with it because of her advice. Wait what, that's

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Speaker 1: a new record and we are very excited to have

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Speaker 1: another bride to be with us on the phone today?

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Speaker 1: Will Brooks successfully implode her budding relationship?

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Speaker 3: This my RBI or what real?

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Speaker 1: Let's find out? Donna, Welcome to the show.

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Speaker 2: Hi, thanks for taking my call. Day Donna.

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Speaker 4: I swear I don't even know what the issue is yet,

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Speaker 4: but I enjoy still are.

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Speaker 1: Hopefully your bads are pre packed to move out as

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Speaker 1: soon as this conversation is over. But first, tell us

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Speaker 1: about your awesome relationship. How can we ruin that for?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, So I got engaged about a month ago.

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Speaker 5: Oh okayngratulations?

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Speaker 1: What's his names?

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Speaker 2: His name is Neil Okay, So I actually met him

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Speaker 2: last year, so it was kind of a quick engagement.

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Speaker 2: We're both like mid to late thirties. Like I've always

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Speaker 2: wanted to get married, like it's always been a goal.

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Speaker 1: A lot of what you said there made Alexis grimace.

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Speaker 1: Late thirties getting married.

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Speaker 4: I started engagement, so I mean it's finally happening for you.

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Speaker 5: So that's great, Yeah, the person that you love.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, But okay, So after our engagement, I moved into

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Speaker 2: his place. But I came across something just I don't know,

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Speaker 2: weird the other day.

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Speaker 5: Oh okay, what was it?

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Speaker 2: So it was crammed in like a computer duft for

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Speaker 2: so obviously it's something he probably meant to hide or

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Speaker 2: it seems like it.

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Speaker 4: Can I can I ask before you tell us what

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Speaker 4: it is. Were you looking for something or you just

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Speaker 4: camea no.

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Speaker 2: I was just kind of like cleaning out some drawers,

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Speaker 2: like I was trying to organize a little bit. Okay,

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Speaker 2: So I found a piece of paper, and which.

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Speaker 1: Is already sus because who still uses paper nowadays? Already?

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Speaker 5: Is that another from Alexis?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, about like the whole desk and laughter of the situation.

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Speaker 1: That I'm assuming there was something something else about the

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Speaker 1: paper that got you worried.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah. On the piece of paper, there is a

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Speaker 2: list of girls names on it, okay, And next to

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Speaker 2: each name there's check marks, and there's dollar amounts maybe

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Speaker 2: dollar amounts?

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Speaker 5: Is it like five dollars? Like five hundred? Like does

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Speaker 5: it have a mounts on?

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Speaker 1: It's a lot of money? Tell us more?

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Speaker 2: Yes, like not five hundred, but in the hundred. Not

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Speaker 2: a lemonade stand. That's what I was hoping.

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Speaker 5: Why is it just some work thing?

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Speaker 2: Like?

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Speaker 5: Why is everyone assuming that's something weird and odd?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 6: Do I owe you money broke? If I pay you

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Speaker 6: back for lunch? I don't write it down somewhere like

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Speaker 6: I just.

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Speaker 3: Give you back the fifty.

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Speaker 5: You're not an organized person.

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Speaker 2: That's true.

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Speaker 1: Well, I need to know. Have you brought this up

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Speaker 1: the first time?

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Speaker 2: Yes, so I did some digging, and we share a

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Speaker 2: bank account right now. So recently on the paper he

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Speaker 2: had added two hundred and fifty dollars to this girl

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Speaker 2: named Melissa, who I know, like, I know her pretty well,

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Speaker 2: Like I know the girls on the list. The people

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Speaker 2: on the list, Oh yeah, I know a few of them,

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Speaker 2: Like some of them are single, some of them are married.

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Speaker 5: Oh no, does that feel even more innocent?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: It makes me feel kind of gross though, Jeff. Why

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Speaker 1: paying married people to do stuff? They're usually desperate enough

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Speaker 1: to give it away for free. I don't know what's

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Speaker 1: going on, Jef.

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Speaker 5: I think my husband does take the payments.

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Speaker 4: Not me.

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Speaker 1: There's always one money sack.

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Speaker 2: You want the group.

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Speaker 5: But I'm kidding, We're kidding, We're kidding, We're kidding.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he's giving, he's it's some sort of accounting

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Speaker 4: sheet with people and friends of his. Ya, So what

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Speaker 4: else did you find? Did you find any saying sketchy

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 1: I asked, did you bring it up to him or

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Speaker 1: is this totally what?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? So when I saw that he had taken two

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Speaker 2: interviewed from the bank account and send it to this girl, Melissa,

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Speaker 2: I said to him, Hey, just curious, why did you

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Speaker 2: pay Melissa to fifty last week? Yeah? Instantly, to me,

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Speaker 2: he looked super nervous. He kind of looked like he

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Speaker 2: got caught.

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Speaker 4: But he's paying out of a joint account, Like is

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Speaker 4: he that bad at like prime?

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Speaker 2: I mean, he didn't realize it's a new account, so

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Speaker 2: I don't even know that he was like speaking about that,

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Speaker 2: but he just seemed super super nervous and then he

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Speaker 2: was like, I got to leave the room for a second.

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Speaker 1: Did I say when he eventually? I mean, you must

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Speaker 1: have seen him since he left the room.

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Speaker 4: Why did he have to leave the room, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: And then when he came back, he was like, oh,

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Speaker 2: it's a fantasy football thing with her. So I just

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Speaker 2: didn't even bring up the other women or the other

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Speaker 2: dollar amounts because I was just like, all right, some

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Speaker 2: things is not adding up, like and getting married to him.

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Speaker 2: There can't be any secrets, especially like financial weird.

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Speaker 1: Okay, so you brought up the amount of money he

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Speaker 1: paid to one of your friends, but you didn't tell

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Speaker 1: him about the list that you found.

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Speaker 2: Yes, I just confronted him about the amount that I

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Speaker 2: saw take out of the bank account recently.

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Speaker 4: Okay, he doesn't know that you have that shared because

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Speaker 4: like I was totally like, oh, it's innocent, you're assuming

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Speaker 4: things and tell his reaction, like his reaction and like

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Speaker 4: why would he have to leave the room to gather

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Speaker 4: himself to tell you about a fantasy.

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Speaker 1: Melissa, the secret fantasy football league that nobody's allowed to

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Speaker 1: know about it.

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Speaker 5: I knew you were the sketchiest one here.

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Speaker 1: Okay, So we're running out of time on this segment here,

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Speaker 1: So you want to call your I'm assuming your fiance

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Speaker 1: coming up here, and what advice are you looking for

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Speaker 1: from us?

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Speaker 2: I just need to know how to approach this situation

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Speaker 2: or like what to expect.

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Speaker 5: I'm just nervous or even to see if he's lying

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Speaker 5: or not.

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Speaker 2: I mean, I think he was lying about the fantasy

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Speaker 2: football thing, like, I mean, I'm just kind of freaking out.

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Speaker 2: I was just to marry this guy, Like, I don't

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Speaker 2: think he's saying the truth.

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Speaker 1: Yes, we're gonna come back and we're gonna have some

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Speaker 1: advice to you. Let you make this call to your

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Speaker 1: fiance and find out if he committed the most atrocious

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Speaker 1: of acts lying about fantasy football.

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Speaker 5: Take two account for yourself.

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Speaker 1: It's also her, so yeah, she's taken from herself. Lot

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Speaker 1: some advice when we do your awkward Tuesday phone call

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Speaker 1: right after this hold on, it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. If you're just joining us,

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Speaker 1: We've got some mystery fiance drama going on this morning

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Speaker 1: with one of our listeners, Donna, who just moved in

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Speaker 1: with her new fiance Neil after they got engaged. She

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Speaker 1: was recently cleaning out a computer desk drawer at his

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Speaker 1: place when she found a folded up piece of paper

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Speaker 1: filled with women's names and next to their names different payments,

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Speaker 1: which I know is all very normal and that stuff

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Speaker 1: happens all the time for newly engaged guys. But Donna

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Speaker 1: decided to confront him about one of the payments, and

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Speaker 1: he immediately acted nervous, kind of weird, left the room

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Speaker 1: and came back blaming it all on a fantasy football misunderstanding.

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Speaker 5: And Alexis is like, he obviously left the room detects

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Speaker 5: the woman. He probably gave him the fantasy football excuse.

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Speaker 2: I do you guys believe everything I say?

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Speaker 1: I thought that was really smarty. Donna is not buying

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Speaker 1: any of that. She hasn't even told him about the

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Speaker 1: big list of names that she found, but she might

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Speaker 1: have to coming up here depending on the advice that

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Speaker 1: we have. Donna, are you ready to hear what jose

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Speaker 1: and Brooke give you?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm ready.

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Speaker 6: First, I gotta charge you a hundred bucks.

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Speaker 3: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: She's shuffling around through more drawers right now, Donna, you're

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Speaker 1: looking to find more pieces of paper. She finds like

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Speaker 1: three scrolls. Okay, Brooke, what advice do you have for Donnie?

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Speaker 5: I just think this sucks right now.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he was obviously shady the first time you

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Speaker 5: He probably will be again in the end.

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Speaker 4: I think you just need to say, listen, I'm trying

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Speaker 4: to build a life with you, and that foundation starts

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Speaker 4: with trust, and if you're not going to be in that,

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Speaker 4: I don't know, Like.

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Speaker 5: How do you have a little threat?

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Speaker 4: I mean, how do you start a marriage without trust,

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Speaker 4: without honesty?

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Speaker 5: You can't.

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Speaker 1: It's just like Brook breaks you up again. But this

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Speaker 1: one is a little bit Saturday done. Are you willing

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Speaker 1: to go that far?

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Speaker 2: I pretty much agree, like I can't start a relationship

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Speaker 2: with lies or feeling like something is not truthful.

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Speaker 1: Like Plus, men love being told that they can't be

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Speaker 1: trusted and you don't feel like you're being honest with them.

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Speaker 1: We love hearing that from the girl.

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Speaker 4: But do you think that guy's being honest about fantasy football,

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Speaker 4: about the list of women that he's playing with?

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Speaker 1: Brooke, I don't know the answers to everything, but one

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Speaker 1: person who does is Hose so advice, Well, can they.

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Speaker 6: Just give him the benefit of the doubt real quick. Okay,

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Speaker 6: don't go into it hot like this. Look, it looks bad.

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Speaker 6: He's paying multiple women to do stuff to him.

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Speaker 2: You get it.

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Speaker 1: Don't say that with him.

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Speaker 6: But no matter how bad it looks, you gotta keep

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Speaker 6: an open mind. He could be embarrassed to tell you

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Speaker 6: for another reason, like you don't know.

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Speaker 1: Just let him say it.

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Speaker 2: That's fair. You're right, Like I do need to keep

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Speaker 2: an open mind, Like I don't want to just attack

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Speaker 2: him him or make him think that I'm just constantly

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Speaker 2: snooping on him and whatever looking for something bad.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but if he turns it around and says, why

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Speaker 4: were you even looking and tries to blame you know something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, we have some good advice for you. You can

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Speaker 1: take a little bit of what you want. But we're

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Speaker 1: gonna dial your fiance Neil here and let you make

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Speaker 1: your awkward Tuesday phone call. You ready, Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think so? All right?

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Speaker 1: You got this, You got this. Every guy deserves ten

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Speaker 1: to twenty mistakes before he so here we go dial

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Speaker 1: his number right now, Yeah, hold on stright again.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 3: Oh Hey, what's up babe?

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Speaker 2: Not much?

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Speaker 3: Everything all right?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean everything's okay.

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Speaker 3: Didn't recognize the number. I was making sure you're you're

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Speaker 2: Yeah, sorry, I just yeah, my phone died, so I

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Speaker 2: Are you doing drugs? Just tell me?

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Speaker 3: Mm hmm what am I? What are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: Am I? Am I doing drugs? Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Are you doing drugs?

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Speaker 3: I mean none that you are already aware of? No?

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Speaker 2: Okay, are you paying for adult experiences?

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Speaker 3: No? Come on, what are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Don't laugh? I'm being This is serious. Please don't laugh

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Speaker 2: at me. This is serious. Like I'm I have no,

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Speaker 3: I mean, I thought you were joking. I don't know

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Speaker 2: Okay, listen. I know there's something going on. I know

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Speaker 2: you're paying money. There's something you're not telling me.

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Speaker 3: Does this have to do with the other day with

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Speaker 3: the two hundred and fifty dollars to Melissa?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and I know about the others.

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Speaker 3: What are you talking about? What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: Found? I found a folded up piechee paper in your desk,

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Speaker 2: and it had women's names, it had dollar amounts next

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Speaker 2: not say fantasy football again, because I know that's a

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Speaker 2: straight up lie.

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Speaker 3: Okay, God, I really didn't want to talk to you

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Speaker 3: about this.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Well we have to. We're getting married. You know

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Speaker 2: I'm going to build this marriage on trust. I cannot

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Speaker 3: Couldn't we just talk about it after we get married?

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, there's not going to be a marriage

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Speaker 2: if you don't tell me what the hell is going on?

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Speaker 2: No secret? Like, you're not making yourself look good right now.

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Speaker 3: I can tell you, but it sounds worse than it is.

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Speaker 2: Oh oh my god, Please, I'm Can you just tell me.

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Speaker 2: I'm ready to please? He just like?

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Speaker 3: Okay, so you know where we're not super young. When

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Speaker 3: I made it a life priority to find somebody that

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Speaker 2: Okay, Okay, So I.

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Speaker 3: Read this thing that if you put a bounty out

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Speaker 3: with your friends and co workers, they'd be more motivated

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Speaker 3: to find a match for you.

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Speaker 2: What what are you talking about?

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Speaker 3: What works? More than once? Over the last few years,

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Speaker 3: I've been set up on successful dates and I paid

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Speaker 3: the person who finds them for me.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, that's desperate.

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Speaker 3: It's not desperate, it's not it's it's normal.

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Speaker 2: It's normal ish, it's not normal, like what the hell like?

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Speaker 3: But I'm not cheating on you or anything?

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Speaker 6: Like?

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Speaker 3: Is this good news? I mean, this is how I

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Speaker 3: found you paid the most money to Melissa, who set

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Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, why Melissa?

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Speaker 3: What's going on?

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Speaker 5: Lot of money? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 3: Who are all these people?

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Speaker 2: Hey?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, sorry to interrupt your riveting conversation with your fiance,

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Speaker 1: but you're on the radio right now.

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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, Well that sucks.

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Speaker 5: No, I think it's sweet what you did. My friend said,

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Speaker 5: each other for free.

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Speaker 1: I'd love to get paid.

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Speaker 5: I mean it shows that you were serious.

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Speaker 1: We're here because Donna needed a little bit of help.

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Speaker 1: After she found that piece of paper with all the

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Speaker 1: women's names on it and all the different dollar amounts,

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Speaker 1: she thought something really shady was going on.

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Speaker 4: Honestly, you could tell by her first question that she

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Speaker 4: jumped to worst case scenario.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, you're claiming that it's a way to have friends

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Speaker 1: set you up with women, Donna, how are you feeling

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Speaker 1: and hearing all that?

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Speaker 2: I almost don't know how to feel. It's so not

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Speaker 2: anything I was expecting.

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Speaker 5: Do you believe them right?

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Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's so specific that like I feel

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Speaker 2: like I do, but it's also just kind of strange.

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Speaker 1: I heard you use the word desperate, I think when

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Speaker 1: you were talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but it's worth it. I pay her two and

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Speaker 3: fifty dollars to find you, and it worked. I thought

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Speaker 3: this would be a funny story I could tell you.

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Speaker 1: Look later, I had to pay somebody else to get you.

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Speaker 4: People pay for matchmaking services all the time, and nobody

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Speaker 5: It is Monny's friends will accept the money though.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean maybe it was like you know it,

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Speaker 4: don't take the money right unless you meet the one.

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Speaker 1: It's a successful match. Is that how it works? We

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Speaker 1: once you say I do?

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Speaker 3: I mean, look, there's different tiers. If it's not a

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Speaker 3: great day and I like Lockham cookies.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I thought, I.

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Speaker 4: Don't understand, Donna. Aren't you like I would be flattered?

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Speaker 2: I mean, okay, on one hand, I'm kind of flattered,

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Speaker 2: But on the other hand, I'm like, too fifty, that's

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Speaker 2: all I'm working.

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Speaker 6: Hey, when you're a grandma one day you're telling your

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Speaker 6: grand kids like you. Trandpa bought me for two.

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Speaker 3: I mean you weren't supposed to know about the price.

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Speaker 3: The price is really beside the point. It's just thank you.

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Speaker 4: It's the fantasy football dating though I play.

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Speaker 2: Fantasy, so I actually don't know.

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Speaker 1: All right, So it sounds like there isn't really a

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Speaker 1: whole lot as shady as we thought going on with

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Speaker 1: this list of women. It's just a matchmaking service. It's

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Speaker 1: not cheating.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, with his good friends because they know you best right,

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Speaker 4: and it works.

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Speaker 5: That's the amazing thing. You two are getting married.

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Speaker 1: Are you still Donna? This doesn't ange anything in your mind,

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Speaker 1: does it?

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Speaker 2: I mean it, no, not at the moment. No, I

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Speaker 2: don't know.

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Speaker 1: Boiled again, couldn't ruin this.

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Speaker 5: Rely Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning.