WEBVTT - 2nd Date Update PODCAST: I Blew You Off First

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<v Speaker 1>second dat up date. Life is full of regret. I

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<v Speaker 1>should have done this, I shouldn't have done that. Wow,

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<v Speaker 1>I definitely shouldn't have done that. That's going to leave

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<v Speaker 1>a mark. You know, we all have them. And Kayla,

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<v Speaker 1>who was on the phone today to do a second

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<v Speaker 1>day update, has a regret. We'll get into that in

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<v Speaker 1>just a second, but first, Kayla, how are you? Hey nice?

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<v Speaker 1>I'm good? How are you good? Thank you for doing

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<v Speaker 1>a second day update with us today. Why don't you

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<v Speaker 1>tell us a little bit about the guy that you

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<v Speaker 1>want to call today. My name's Johnny, and I met

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<v Speaker 1>him online. I don't have a ton of free times.

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<v Speaker 1>I've been trying online dating because that just seems like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the best way to meet people. It's the

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<v Speaker 1>easiest way to meet the creepiest people possible without actually

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<v Speaker 1>having to go talk to him in public place. For sure. Well,

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<v Speaker 1>it's like you can kind of weed out some people,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. And was this one of the first online

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<v Speaker 1>dates you went on? I mean, I've been on like

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<v Speaker 1>two or three over the course of the time I've

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<v Speaker 1>been on this site because I just don't have that

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<v Speaker 1>much free time. So when I met this guy, Johnny,

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, he seemed like a really nice guy,

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<v Speaker 1>and I was excited because it actually had a time

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<v Speaker 1>that could work for both of us. Would you guys

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<v Speaker 1>do when you went out? We just went out for

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<v Speaker 1>drinks after one of my work days. You know, I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like week nights are good because then you don't

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<v Speaker 1>have that much pressure. You know, I had something to

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<v Speaker 1>do the next day, so in case it like can

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<v Speaker 1>doesn't go well, I can get out of there. And

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<v Speaker 1>what was your first impression of him? He was really

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<v Speaker 1>cute and he has this really great smile, and he

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<v Speaker 1>went and talked to the house for us to get

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<v Speaker 1>us some seats. And I noticed that he was working

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<v Speaker 1>on anybody else has a really cute butt. So that yeah, totally,

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<v Speaker 1>And so you liked him. Everything was cool on your date? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he seemed really nice. The conversation was like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like not horrible, you know, but it was

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<v Speaker 1>like a little bit slow. I figured that's a rave review,

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<v Speaker 1>not horrible. Like when I go to the restaurant. I

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<v Speaker 1>love to get not horrible food. I know, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I mean I feel like we just didn't

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<v Speaker 1>have like an instant you know, like click, you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I mean. We were both like nervous, and we'd

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<v Speaker 1>never met each other before, and so it was it

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<v Speaker 1>was fine, you know, he was he was totally nice.

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<v Speaker 1>It just wasn't like instant like spark connection. Okay, and

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<v Speaker 1>that brings us to your regret. Why don't you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us a little bit about what you're regretting. Okay. So

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<v Speaker 1>so we've been talking for like a little bit, probably

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<v Speaker 1>like fifteen minutes, and then he noticed that I had

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<v Speaker 1>a crossword puzzle in my day, because I you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I do cross with puzzles on my commute and it's

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<v Speaker 1>just like, you know, a fun way to sort of

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<v Speaker 1>clear my head. But what was weird about it is

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<v Speaker 1>that he noticed it and he mentioned it, and he

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, huh, you must be really smart because

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<v Speaker 1>you do crossword puzzles. Yeah. I didn't know you had

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<v Speaker 1>to be super intelligent to do crossword pubble could actually

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<v Speaker 1>be an idiot and not get one question right on

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<v Speaker 1>the crossword puzzle. I think he just assumed that who knows,

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<v Speaker 1>and I wasn't like really sure how to take it.

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<v Speaker 1>I thought like, oh, maybe, like maybe he's joking, you know. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>but then he's like, well, I'm not really into like

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<v Speaker 1>reading what I know? I know, I totally kind of

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<v Speaker 1>thought the same thing. He realizes that a crossword puzzle

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<v Speaker 1>isn't a book, right, I would hope so. But then

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, like you know, like to read

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<v Speaker 1>books or anything, and he was like, um no, I

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<v Speaker 1>was just like relax and not challenge my brain and

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<v Speaker 1>my off time. And I was like, I don't like

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<v Speaker 1>to think unless I absolutely have to. Yeah. But then

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<v Speaker 1>this is like the weirdest part. He was like, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't even like to vote, and he said it was

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<v Speaker 1>because voting is too complicated and he has to like

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<v Speaker 1>read all of the directions, so he just doesn't like

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<v Speaker 1>to use his brain at all. And by the way,

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<v Speaker 1>it's a good thing he doesn't vote. I'm all for

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<v Speaker 1>people who are uninformed not voting. And he's not saying

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<v Speaker 1>like he's not informed on the issues or he doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know much about the candidates. He doesn't vote because he

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<v Speaker 1>can't follow the instructions of it. Is that not just

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<v Speaker 1>so bizarre. It kind of blew my mind. I was

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<v Speaker 1>like totally over him and I left and whatever. So

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<v Speaker 1>why do you want to call this guy back? It

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<v Speaker 1>sounds like an idiot, honestly. I know you guys like

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<v Speaker 1>I've had friends in the past tell me they think like,

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<v Speaker 1>maybe I'm a little too judgmental when I first meet people,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, like three weeks went by and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, well, he was nice and he didn't say

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<v Speaker 1>anything like offensive. He just didn't really say much at all.

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<v Speaker 1>So I was like, well, maybe he was nervous and

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<v Speaker 1>he just made like a mistake, and so I'm kind

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<v Speaker 1>of thinking, like maybe I should do him another chance.

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<v Speaker 1>You actually blew him off, and now you want to

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<v Speaker 1>do a second date, update to call him and ask

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<v Speaker 1>him out again. Yeah, I mean I kind of I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know, like I'm trying to be more open. So

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<v Speaker 1>after your date, did he try to contact you and

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<v Speaker 1>ask you out again and you just ignored him? Or

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<v Speaker 1>have you guys not spoken at all? Well, he actually

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<v Speaker 1>texted me like a couple days later, and I just

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<v Speaker 1>sort of ignored the text. I just didn't really know

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<v Speaker 1>what to say, And so I feel bad about that too.

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<v Speaker 1>Because there's like no reason that I should just like

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<v Speaker 1>pretend he doesn't exist. You know, I'm so confused why

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<v Speaker 1>you feel bad, Like you called the conversation not terrible,

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<v Speaker 1>and then you feel bad that you rejected a guy

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<v Speaker 1>who says that he doesn't vote because he can't follow

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<v Speaker 1>the instructions. Well, yeah, I mean, I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 1>feel like it was kind of a snap judgment on

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<v Speaker 1>my part. I feel bad, and I'm like, a second

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<v Speaker 1>date wouldn't be horrible. I just I've gone out with

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<v Speaker 1>some other like real jerks since him, and like, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>what's the worst thing that could happen. He's a totally

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<v Speaker 1>nice guy, and like maybe maybe he really just has

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<v Speaker 1>a really great sense of humor and he was just

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<v Speaker 1>kind of like testing me, you know. So basically, after

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<v Speaker 1>going out on a few dates, your standards have been lowered,

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<v Speaker 1>and now you want to ask him out again. I

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<v Speaker 1>mean hopefully not, but a second date would help me

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<v Speaker 1>figure that out. Right, So after you blew him off

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<v Speaker 1>when you guys went out and he texted you and

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<v Speaker 1>you just ignored him, have you tried to ask him

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<v Speaker 1>out again since then? Or is this going to be

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<v Speaker 1>the first time that he's hearing your name since you

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<v Speaker 1>guys went out. I did text him like a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of days ago, but now he seems to be ignoring

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<v Speaker 1>my text. Yeah, all right, well we'll play a song,

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<v Speaker 1>come back, call him and get your second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, okay, that's awesome. Thank you so looking jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Second update. My only hope for today's

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<v Speaker 1>second date update is that the guy when we call him,

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<v Speaker 1>he's actually able to figure out how to answer a phone,

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<v Speaker 1>because he sounds like one of the dumbest people on

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<v Speaker 1>the planet. And for some reason, Kayla really wants to

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<v Speaker 1>call this guy to go out on a second date

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<v Speaker 1>with him. If you're just tuning in, Kayla is on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone. She told us about a date that she

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<v Speaker 1>recently went on with a guy named Johnny. They hung

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<v Speaker 1>out for a while. The reason that I'm making fun

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<v Speaker 1>of Johnny is because he saw that she had a

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<v Speaker 1>crossword puzzle on her bag and he's like, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>do crossword puzzles. Those are for smart people. And then

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<v Speaker 1>he also said that he doesn't vote because he can't

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<v Speaker 1>figure out the instructions on how to vote. Not necessarily,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not up on the issues. I just can't figure

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<v Speaker 1>out how it works. And after that date, she blew

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<v Speaker 1>him off because of that. Yeah, that was like three

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<v Speaker 1>or four weeks ago, and because she's gone out on

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<v Speaker 1>a couple of other dates with people who were even

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<v Speaker 1>worse than that. Now she wants to get this guy

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone and ask if he'll go out with

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<v Speaker 1>her again. Kayla, I'm about ready to dial his phone number.

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<v Speaker 1>Any last words. Wow, you really paint a picture of

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<v Speaker 1>me being like the most desperate person and the world.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't really have to do much pain, Kayla. You

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<v Speaker 1>kind of did it for yourself and to make you

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<v Speaker 1>feel better. It's just more of a sad testament to

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<v Speaker 1>the state of online dating, I think than anything else.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I just described it worse than it actually was.

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<v Speaker 1>He was a nice jude, He was cute. Really, I

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<v Speaker 1>want to see me again. Okay, I'm gonna doutle this

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<v Speaker 1>one right now and get him on the phone. Here

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<v Speaker 1>we go. Hello, Can I speak to Johnny please? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>let's just say, hey, Johnny, what's up? How are you?

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<v Speaker 1>This is Jewil from brook and Jewil in the Morning. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>what's up, man? How are you? Really? I'm good? So

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<v Speaker 1>you listen to the show. Yeah, yeah, good, every morning. Sweet,

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<v Speaker 1>thank you man, I appreciate it. Then you've probably heard

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<v Speaker 1>the second date update before. Is that why you're calling me? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>that is exactly what I'm calling you, Johnny. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I like, I know how this works. I know you

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<v Speaker 1>have someone on the other line, and just tell Leslie

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<v Speaker 1>that I never want to see her again and that

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<v Speaker 1>she's all I didn't tell her that, sure, Johnny? Hello,

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<v Speaker 1>Johnny's gone up? Leslie? Girl sounds terrible, Leslie. I don't know, Kayla.

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<v Speaker 1>Is there a Leslie that you didn't tell us about?

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<v Speaker 1>What do you know who Leslie is? I have no

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<v Speaker 1>clue who Leslie is. It has to be some other

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<v Speaker 1>girl that he's doing online dating with or yeah, like

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<v Speaker 1>would even say that. I have no idea. So he

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<v Speaker 1>didn't bring up a Leslie on your date or anything. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, Well I'm gonna I'm gonna see if I'm

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<v Speaker 1>getting back on the phone then and let him know

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<v Speaker 1>that Leslie's not trying to get a hold of him.

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<v Speaker 1>Kayla is all right, Okay, hang on, Look I told

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<v Speaker 1>you before, I don't want to do this, Okay, john Johnny, Johnny,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not calling on behalf of some of he named Leslie.

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<v Speaker 1>No dubble. I know that I know that this is

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<v Speaker 1>what you do. Like I know this is like a

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<v Speaker 1>thing that you guys do, and I just don't want them.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not Johnny, I promise I'm not messing with you.

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<v Speaker 1>There's somebody other than Leslie that wanted to do a

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. We don't know, I don't. We don't

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<v Speaker 1>even know who Leslie is at all. She sounds terrible, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't. I don't believe you guys. Like, Okay, Johnny, Johnny,

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<v Speaker 1>how about this? Okay, Okay, Johnny, hang on, don't hang

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<v Speaker 1>up yet. I'm calling because the girl named Kayla wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to get a hold of you. Nobody named Leslie at all. Kayla. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>do you remember going out on a date with somebody

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<v Speaker 1>named Kayla? Oh my god, Yeah, it was about three

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<v Speaker 1>weeks ago, three or four weeks ago, something like that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's what this is about. That. Yes, this is about

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<v Speaker 1>somebody named Kayla, not somebody named Leslie. Kayla. No, Kayla

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<v Speaker 1>is gone, because dude, I mean, we called for a

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<v Speaker 1>second date. Update. She wanted to go out with you again,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she heard you call somebody like somebody named Leslie.

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<v Speaker 1>And she hung up and isn't interested in doing the

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<v Speaker 1>second day update anymore. But I want to know who

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<v Speaker 1>Leslie is now me too? Is it like some stalker

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<v Speaker 1>you like? For honestly, you really don't. Like it's a

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<v Speaker 1>long story and it is not U not a good time.

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<v Speaker 1>Did Leslie happen before the Kala date or after the

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<v Speaker 1>Kala date? It was after Caleb, Like, honestly, I just

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<v Speaker 1>want to I just want to forget about the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It was, really and like I just want to move

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<v Speaker 1>past it. You know, you don't have to tell me,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe if you do tell me, then I could

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<v Speaker 1>explain to Kayla about the situation with Leslie and help

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<v Speaker 1>her understand that so that maybe she wants to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with you again. Yeah, um, I mean, like I

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<v Speaker 1>can tell you guys that, Like I don't want you

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<v Speaker 1>to go and tell kayleb because it's like it's really

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<v Speaker 1>it's like a really weird story, and like I don't

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<v Speaker 1>want her to know that. I won't I don't know,

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<v Speaker 1>I won't tell her specifics about this Leslie girl. And

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<v Speaker 1>she's got to be understanding. I mean, she said that

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<v Speaker 1>she's gone on some pretty horrible dates from the same

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<v Speaker 1>site you guys met on too. Yeah, okay, we at

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<v Speaker 1>this bar. We drank way too much. We wound up

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<v Speaker 1>hooking up in a Windy's bathroom and and then and

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<v Speaker 1>then she bit me. Okay, you's bathroom? She bit me.

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<v Speaker 1>I got stitches first, and that's I'm just gonna leave

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<v Speaker 1>it there. Where did she bite you? And so she

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<v Speaker 1>beat you so bad that you had to get stitches? Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so you see why I don't want to talk to her, right,

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<v Speaker 1>I guess. Yeah, it's like you could have seen that

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<v Speaker 1>one coming. If you're hooking up with a girl in

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<v Speaker 1>a Windy's bathroom. Yeah, she's crazy. And now she keeps

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<v Speaker 1>calling me and text me. She's like, won't leave me

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<v Speaker 1>alone now, So that's what happened. Does that answer your question? Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>it definitely does. So I won't give Kayla all those details.

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<v Speaker 1>Thank you, you're you're welcome. I won't give them to

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<v Speaker 1>her because you actually just did. Kayla is still on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone listening. Oh my god, oh my god, oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. So awkward. Dude, You told me she was

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone. Did I say that lying? Like? Sorry, Johnny,

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<v Speaker 1>what the hell? Serious? Are you serious the story? Are

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<v Speaker 1>you serious? Are you saying that like actually happened, Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that actually happened, and like it does suck, Like I

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<v Speaker 1>had to get stitches because of this girl. So do

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<v Speaker 1>you like want me to feel sorry for you? I

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<v Speaker 1>thought you were a nice guy. I am a nice guy.

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<v Speaker 1>I didn't bite her. She bit me. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>that's what Kayle means, Johnny. I think Kayla means more

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<v Speaker 1>like hooking up in a fast food restaurant bathroom with

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<v Speaker 1>someone you just met and everything is not my decision.

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<v Speaker 1>If you if you think that I was in charge

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<v Speaker 1>of that choice, then you are sadly mistaken. She forced you.

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<v Speaker 1>What are you talking about, Johnny? Oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 1>think responsibility to Look, I did not want to go

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<v Speaker 1>into it. It was a bad night. Like I would

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<v Speaker 1>love to move past that. It's definitely alcohol's fault. I'm sure.

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<v Speaker 1>How about you move past it by going on a

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<v Speaker 1>second date with Kayla? Johnny? Would you like to go

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<v Speaker 1>out with Kayla again? We'll pay for a second day. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>I would. That would be great. She's like, she's the

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<v Speaker 1>most satan person that I've been out with in a

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<v Speaker 1>long time. And yes, I would I would love to

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<v Speaker 1>second date Kayla. Congratulations a successful second date update for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh no way, I am not going out with this.

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<v Speaker 1>You're changing your story, You're changing your two now. And

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<v Speaker 1>ye before you were saying like you thought he was sweetened,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd want to go out with him again. Seriously, no way,

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<v Speaker 1>No really, now that I know that he got it

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<v Speaker 1>in a fast food bathroom, no way, are you sure?

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<v Speaker 1>I am Listen like I'm not. I'm not saying that

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<v Speaker 1>it's ever happened to you before, but it's probably happened

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<v Speaker 1>to a lot of people like that. That was not

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<v Speaker 1>like you don't know how many other people she's bitten

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<v Speaker 1>in bathrooms, but like, you're the only person I know

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<v Speaker 1>that has that story. Johnny. I mean, I was truly

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<v Speaker 1>the victim there, so not my fault. So Kayla, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no chance on you given Johnny another shot now, No way, Kayla.

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<v Speaker 1>I really like you and you were really cool and

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<v Speaker 1>you were like kind of one in a million, and

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to go on a second day with

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<v Speaker 1>you if you're out for that. That's really that is no,

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<v Speaker 1>definitely not. I didn't go out with guys who get

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<v Speaker 1>fit in Sasterford restroom oh, you do have high standards, Kayla.

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<v Speaker 1>You're never gonna find love this way ever, Broken jubil

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning,