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Speaker 1: as a woman who's gone viral for what she's calling

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Speaker 1: a cool travel hack. Oh say, you're traveling and you

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Speaker 1: and this is gross And I'm curious though, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: What is something that people don't know that's disgusting about

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Speaker 2: I did not listen to this. Later I'm on off for.

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Speaker 3: Show you guys, one of the coolest tricks ever, one of.

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Speaker 1: The coolest tricks ever. She says, It's not cool, It's

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Speaker 2: And it's gross.

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Speaker 3: Cavln and you didn't pack in the underwear, Like, oh

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Speaker 3: my gosh, what am I gonna wear tomorrow?

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Speaker 2: First of all.

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Speaker 1: I didn't even know there was a woman on earth

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Speaker 1: that didn't pack enough underwear, because, as I've learned from

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: But if you do well, this lady's about to save

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Speaker 3: Every room has like a coffee pot thing in it,

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Speaker 3: You have to push your underwear where you would put

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Speaker 3: the coffee grounds. You close it, you press brew and

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Speaker 3: it puts scorching hot water through it, you guys.

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Speaker 4: Then the hairgar in the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: You blow jar those bad boys, and you got yourself

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Speaker 1: Girl. So her suggestion is to basically brew your underwear

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Speaker 1: in the coffee maker that everyone uses, right exactly, but

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Speaker 1: or whatever it is. How it works, You then put

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Speaker 2: That's not really clean.

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Speaker 1: You've now tarnished the coffee maker for sure, but your

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Speaker 6: The day and age where you can like wherever whatever

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Speaker 6: sure there's a store like that's crazy and she should

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Speaker 1: It makes me wonder what else is going on though,

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Speaker 1: Like I've seen on TikTok or you know, the internet

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Speaker 7: Cool, travel side, you're on vacation.

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Speaker 1: Look, I'm gonna make a grilled cheese in my room

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Speaker 1: using the iron that the last seven hundred people in

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Speaker 1: And then you're it's disgusting, And then why is the

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Speaker 1: Then hang up your stuff if you must, and use

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Speaker 4: She thought, she ate, She did not in fact eat.

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Speaker 5: And this is why you know what I know I

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Speaker 2: Like this, well, lord knows what you would do with

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Speaker 4: To have the exactly you know, this is why I.

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Speaker 1: it doesn't work. It's not hygienic.

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Speaker 1: The second of all, it's not hygienic. I mean, we

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Speaker 8: You use the coffee maker that makes the coffee, and

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Speaker 8: I will never touch that coffee machine a day in

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Speaker 1: Don't do it the hotel issuing that woman? Good get

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Speaker 7: Yeah, we get closer and closer to help by the day.

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Speaker 8: Picture my Punti's going in there, like you guys know,

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Speaker 4: How do I know?

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Speaker 8: You And I don't agree, Kalen, but I feel like

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Speaker 8: I agree with You've made it sound before like it

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Speaker 8: don't have like, we don't have to have a full

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows what you're talking about, so we are really cool.

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Speaker 1: It worked on hard stop here.

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Speaker 4: I was like, hey, give me up here, right, I know.

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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, well, the grown ups in the room

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Speaker 1: explain any further. My dad showed me that with the

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Speaker 6: Fine, I've seen a girl like straighten her hair with

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it's like a nineties thing right back in the

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Speaker 1: But like, yeah, well, Kiki, you only you've said before

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Speaker 1: You have to wrap it around. I don't like my

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Speaker 1: We're had to do pieces of it and tide. I

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Speaker 1: row than do that. Yes, anyway, enjoy your morning coffee.

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Speaker 1: Next time you go to the thing, order a fresh show.

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Speaker 1: It's Kiki's court, right, the Honorable Judge Kiki is presiding five.

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Speaker 2: I'll present the case.

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Speaker 5: You're on it all right, let's get in the court room.

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Speaker 5: The gabble has been hit. It says, hey, Kiki, am

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Speaker 5: I wrong for wanting my money back? My twenty four

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Speaker 5: hosting photos from a water park hotel. That's when I

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Speaker 5: remember that sometimes I stash emergency cash in my old

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Speaker 4: What girl?

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Speaker 2: Damn lot?

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Speaker 4: I called her? I called her.

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Speaker 5: She admitted that she found the cash, but assumed it

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Speaker 5: Now she's telling the family I'm trying to take money

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Speaker 5: have checked the pockets, but how do you spend two

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Speaker 5: I wrong?

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Speaker 1: Well, and you're you're accepting donations because you're not able

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Speaker 2: So what did you spend it on?

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Speaker 4: She went to the water park hotel.

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Speaker 1: Well, that's what I mean, right, but didn't pay any

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Speaker 5: Judge Kiki, Well, my mom taught me at a very

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Speaker 5: young age you don't find money. Like I remember being

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Speaker 4: Is this for me?

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Speaker 5: May I have it was this intended as a gift,

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Speaker 5: I would not just book the.

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Speaker 4: Water your hotel.

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Speaker 2: Charitably. Yeah, like, girl, come on.

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Speaker 5: And then when you're the aunt calls and she's like, hey,

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Speaker 4: I never found any money in that coat.

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Speaker 5: You know, she could have lied, but she told the

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Speaker 1: If I'm donating close to you because you're going through

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Speaker 1: then I find out you're going on a water park vacation,

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sorry, but and you could say, well,

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Speaker 1: I'm giving you money, I get to judge.

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Speaker 2: I get to judge your lifestyle.

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Speaker 1: Or if I'm giving you things to supplement your life,

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Speaker 4: You're giving me hand me downs, you know, that's one thing, right,

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Speaker 2: No I do.

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Speaker 1: If I'm that you feel if I'm helping, If I'm

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Speaker 1: But like if I'm giving you money or giving your resources,

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Speaker 2: And then it's well, I do need your help.

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Speaker 1: And by the way, I found too grand in the

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Speaker 6: True, you're asking for agony if you give someone something

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Speaker 2: I don't loan friends money because there you go.

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Speaker 1: I might give you money, but in this case, I

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Speaker 4: That was wrong.

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Speaker 1: The least you could do is call me but say hey,

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Speaker 9: Correct?

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Speaker 7: That would be good, and say thank you.

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Speaker 8: Literally, But if I'm wearing your Levi jeans that you

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Speaker 8: look at me and say, oh, why does she got,

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Speaker 8: you know, a turkey sandwich for lunch?

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Speaker 4: Can't watch people's movies like that.

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Speaker 1: There's a difference between survival item and a luxury vacation.

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Speaker 1: When you're behind, and you know, when when things aren't

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Speaker 8: It wasn't the best thing. But you also don't know

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Speaker 4: You don't know that part. I don't want to get

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Speaker 4: too deep with it, but you just you don't know

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Speaker 7: Why did you buy that turkey sandwich?

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Speaker 2: I'm always doing that, always.

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Speaker 1: Looking at your turkey sandwich. And I went back, but

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Speaker 1: I gave you my LEVI.

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Speaker 7: And the fact that you two are sharing clothes is just.

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Speaker 1: What I'm looking around at my size fifteen vans.

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Speaker 2: You eat a turkey sandwich? Where did that come from?

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Speaker 4: Looking at me?

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Speaker 7: You're too big?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, you know what? Knock it off?

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Speaker 1: Be careful, Fred saying that being poor means you don't

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Speaker 2: Shut up, he said, shut up, like, stop it right now,

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Speaker 2: I'm not gonna be careful. Well I'm not.

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Speaker 1: I didn't say that. What I'm saying is if you

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Speaker 1: to say I found it, would you like it back?

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Speaker 1: And then the person may say, you know what, no,

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Speaker 1: I actually forgot about that money. Do something fun with that.

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Speaker 1: Maybe that's what they like. My nana used to give

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Speaker 1: But when someone's doing something nice for you, you don't

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Speaker 1: you don't get to do that.

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Speaker 6: There's a difference between like doing the right thing and

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Speaker 1: I'm not suggesting that poor people don't get to go

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Speaker 4: I didn't hear that people.

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Speaker 1: Are so ready to pounce like stop it. I don't

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Speaker 1: think that at all. I just think you essentially stole

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: But but but do you get to just spend with reckless,

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Speaker 2: This is someone who's trying to help.

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Speaker 4: You, right, that's my thing. Like you said, thank you,

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Speaker 4: that's it.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Gina, how you doing?

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Speaker 10: I'm good? How are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm doing great? What do you think Kiki scored?

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Speaker 7: You?

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Speaker 10: Give back that money you get that brings you some

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Speaker 10: bad karma. My husban did that one time when we

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Speaker 10: turned around real slow. I said, what are you doing?

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Speaker 10: He told me be quiet, don't worry about it. I looked,

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Speaker 10: I said, what is in your hand? He found a

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Speaker 10: keep it. I said, you don't keep that, you bring

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Speaker 10: that back. He said, what is wrong with you? You

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Speaker 10: don't do that?

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Speaker 4: You keep it?

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Speaker 10: Someone obviously lost it. Whatever, Well I made him security

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Speaker 10: So it ended up it was his money. They got it,

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Speaker 11: You are shady, yes, together, I think if you if

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Speaker 1: But again, we talk about this every day in some

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Speaker 1: The least you could do is let them know that

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Speaker 1: you spend it after that maybe.

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Speaker 2: Up to you. But but but to.

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Speaker 1: Then just just say, oh, good shoppings, free time on

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Speaker 1: somebody else's dime, that's just not the right thing to

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Speaker 2: Gina, thank you for the story.

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Speaker 10: Have a good day.

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Speaker 2: No, I do that.

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Speaker 1: You do have some responsibility to keep track of your

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Speaker 2: But but and here's the thing.

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Speaker 1: If I put something happens all the time where people

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Speaker 1: and so you know, the person either maybe the person

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Speaker 1: But you tried to find the owner. You tried to

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Speaker 4: And she called you for it back.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, No, Gina's right though, Like when I found I

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Speaker 6: don't know if you guys, remember when I found that

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Speaker 6: I made the right choice.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I think you got it. At least do

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Speaker 1: your due diligence. Yea, then right and who knows it again?

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Speaker 1: Aunt might have said, ah, my gosh that.

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Speaker 7: I or take half our girl.

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Speaker 4: Don't post on Facebook?

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Speaker 2: Would besma, how you doing good? How are you moning

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Speaker 2: doing great? So Kiki's Court.

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Speaker 1: Basically, there's an aunt who has been giving hand me

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Speaker 2: And the niece, who has been.

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Speaker 1: extra help nothing wrong with that, didn't say anything about it.

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Speaker 1: Spend the money on a vacation, and now the answer

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Speaker 1: is going, hey, do you find my two g's? She's like, yeah,

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Speaker 1: I found it and I went to water park.

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Speaker 2: What do you think.

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Speaker 7: I don't blame her.

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Speaker 8: Maybe she took it as a sign.

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Speaker 2: Like, you know, my kids have been wanting to go

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Speaker 8: I would probably do the same thing. I have four

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Speaker 8: kids and they ask all.

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Speaker 7: The time about going on a vacation.

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Speaker 1: So I would take this chance.

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Speaker 4: And be like, maybe they'll leave me alone for a

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Speaker 4: little bit.

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Speaker 11: If I take them somewhere.

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Speaker 1: So you don't have any issue with the fact that

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Speaker 1: someone was doing something nice for you and probably didn't

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Speaker 1: intend for you to have that, because I would think

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Speaker 1: if somebody were giving you two grand, they'd say, and

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Speaker 1: by the way, there's a little something extra for you

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Speaker 1: in there, you know, of course, the.

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Speaker 8: Moral and you would be like, you know.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I should returned it.

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Speaker 8: But at the same time, these kids are annoying and

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Speaker 8: they'll leave me alone for a weekend if I take

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Speaker 8: them out somewhere, maybe I'll.

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Speaker 1: Take it, all right, I mean, hey, that's that's honest.

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Speaker 1: I just I don't Yeah, I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 1: want that on my conscience.

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Speaker 4: But watch around you.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, these kids will test your conscious and everywhere.

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Speaker 9: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Maybe, so thank you the day, thank you?

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Speaker 1: Yeah. Oh no, the person on the text backtracking, Look

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Speaker 1: because I didn't say that, You're crazy. I'm just getting

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Speaker 1: so tired of people listen to what we say and

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Speaker 1: in these days, in these texts, and it's like.

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Speaker 11: No one said that, Yeah, there's no way to have

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Speaker 11: from my hands, Like, yeah, you can.

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Speaker 6: You can say, hey, what did you mean when you

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Speaker 6: said that? Instead of you said poor people don't deserve.

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Speaker 5: Anything, it's crazy matter if you said poor kids don't

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Speaker 5: deserve to eat, that's what I heard.

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Speaker 1: Wow, you know what I said was that Paulina needs

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Speaker 1: to get that turkey sandwich out of.

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Speaker 2: Her mouth right now, Get out of her mouth, get

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Speaker 2: out of my hands.

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Speaker 1: I just I do I understand that if you give money,

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Speaker 1: if you loan money to someone consciously, in my opinion,

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Speaker 1: if you care about that person, you have to assume

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Speaker 1: the risk that you'll never get it back, and you

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Speaker 1: have to assess in your mind and can I live

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Speaker 1: with that?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 1: I do think that family friends, if you're loaning money

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Speaker 1: to someone, I do think you have to say, well,

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Speaker 1: I still be friends with this person if I never

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Speaker 1: see it again. Will I still be friends with this

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Speaker 1: person if they misappropriate the money We've talked about.

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Speaker 2: There's one hundred times on the show, I think you've

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Speaker 2: got it.

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Speaker 1: You've got to grab your brain around that, because there's

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Speaker 1: a very good chance when you give someone money you're

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Speaker 1: never going to see it again, absolutely, bud. If I

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Speaker 1: and if I loan you money and you tell me

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Speaker 1: you're going to pay it back and you roll up

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Speaker 1: in a Lamborghini, then I think I have a right

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Speaker 1: to be like, well then can I have my money back?

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Speaker 2: Yes? And it's like, well, no, I can't pay you.

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Speaker 1: Remember I don't have any money, but you obviously do

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Speaker 1: because you just bought a Lamborghini. So I don't think

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Speaker 1: that's wrong either.

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Speaker 5: No, but she didn't loan her money. Let's just be clear.

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Speaker 5: She didn't own her money. She didn't even intend to

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Speaker 5: give her money. It was an accident and yeah, exactly.

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Speaker 5: She just took it upon herself to live her best life.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, hey Josie, okay, hey how you doing. What do

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Speaker 2: you think?

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Speaker 10: Okay?

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Speaker 9: So I agree with you because growing up, my dad

516
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Speaker 9: was like, if you loan so many money, you have

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Speaker 9: to expect to never get it back. But five years ago,

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Speaker 9: I loaned a friend two thousand dollars because I really

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Speaker 9: wanted her to go on a trip with me, and

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Speaker 9: she I wanted the memories more than I really wanted, like,

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Speaker 9: cared about the money, and I loaned her two thousand

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Speaker 9: dollars And she said that she would pay me back

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Speaker 9: over time, but I've never seen any of that back.

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Speaker 9: And now she has like three French bulldogs, which, if

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Speaker 9: you know, those are like really expensive.

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Speaker 7: Dogs, paid for those.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, So I'm.

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Speaker 9: Just I mean, we're not like really close friends, but

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Speaker 9: I would still say, like, we're okay. But if you

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Speaker 9: do the math, that's kind of over the two thousand

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Speaker 9: dollars I loaned you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. Well that's the thing. Maybe you're right.

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Speaker 1: Maybe I don't get the opportunity Kate to maybe I

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Speaker 1: don't judge the purchase, or maybe I don't say that

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Speaker 1: I'm judging the purchase, but I at least have an

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Speaker 1: opportunity to say, great, I guess you're caught up.

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Speaker 2: Where's my money?

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Speaker 4: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Yes, And then if they say, oh, I don't have it, Well,

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Speaker 2: what do you mean you don't have it?

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Speaker 1: I mean you just you just you know, went on

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Speaker 1: this water park vacation, Like how did you pay for that?

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Speaker 1: It's well, I used your money. Oh well that's not

545
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Speaker 1: what I loaned it to you for. I loaned to

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Speaker 1: you to like survive and help you.

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Speaker 2: You know what I mean?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that would be a right.

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Speaker 11: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So at which point I think I do have a

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Speaker 1: right to say something. But but I guess again that's

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Speaker 1: why to your point too, Josie, don't give anybody money

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Speaker 1: who you're not willing to just sort of accept what

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Speaker 1: happens with it next, which is why I think the

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Speaker 1: only way I'm giving someone money is if I can

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Speaker 1: afford to gift it to you, and if you pay

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Speaker 1: me back, great, and if you don't, I'm okay with

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Speaker 1: it because those are the terms.

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Josie, have a good day.

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Speaker 9: Thank you too.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. I saw you. I saw you pulling up in

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Speaker 2: that lambo. You saw it pull up.

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Speaker 1: I gave you my old Vans and my old Levies,

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Speaker 1: yes you know, and then here you come in with

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Speaker 1: your fancy turkey sandwich in lamb getting out of your

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Speaker 1: range rover. Last it's the last time. What were you

567
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Speaker 1: going to say?

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Speaker 6: I don't remember, but I'm just trying to figure out

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Speaker 6: how she can drive and hit the pedals with those

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Speaker 6: big size what are you fifteen?

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Speaker 4: Sisive?

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Speaker 9: Teen?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah, never again again, I needed it.

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Speaker 4: You gave it to me.

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Speaker 2: Turkey sandwich over here, sans, Yes, Turkey sandwich