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Speaker 2: Today's guest needs no intro, but she's gonna get one

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Speaker 2: anyway because she deserves one. Actor director producer.

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Speaker 1: Her work has shaped cultures for decades from two to seven,

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Speaker 1: which I just found out she was thirteen, where she

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Speaker 2: Thank you, Yeahina, And I'm finally sitting down with Angie.

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Speaker 2: We have a death crazy right, and it's because if

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Speaker 2: you're not here, I say this, whether you're in the

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Speaker 2: I value your work so much.

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Speaker 1: I think I think there is something about the way

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Speaker 2: What are you most proud of of all your body?

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Speaker 2: How does that work with art? How does that work

439
00:24:16,560 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 2: with how you create? Well, part of the work art now.

440
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:28,359
Speaker 2: It also is it's good for my mind not going

441
00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:38,760
Speaker 2: into dark places and there there's I guess in a

442
00:24:38,760 --> 00:24:45,080
Speaker 2: lot of ways some healing that happens for me, not

443
00:24:45,200 --> 00:24:48,840
Speaker 2: that I'm actually going out seeking it in all of

444
00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:51,960
Speaker 2: the things that I've done over the past.

445
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:53,800
Speaker 3: Four years.

446
00:24:54,680 --> 00:24:55,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, I can.

447
00:24:55,640 --> 00:25:00,359
Speaker 1: Imagine, especially the wine. Yeah, I gotta imagine that's there's

448
00:25:00,359 --> 00:25:01,240
Speaker 1: a lot of healing in that.

449
00:25:01,400 --> 00:25:06,040
Speaker 2: No, it is because it's feel It is something that

450
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:11,160
Speaker 2: Ian and I are creating a memory, a new memory together,

451
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:18,639
Speaker 2: you know that think when you're talking to people and

452
00:25:18,680 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 2: they're talking about oh, their child is doing this or that,

453
00:25:22,359 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 2: you know, and your memories you know kind of stop

454
00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:34,680
Speaker 2: at a certain place, and how do I Because He

455
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:41,560
Speaker 2: in spirit is always with me, so how do I

456
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 2: do that. I mean, the man in my life is

457
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:53,720
Speaker 2: such a wonderful human being, and so his constant reminding me,

458
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:55,520
Speaker 2: you know, when I'm in.

459
00:25:55,520 --> 00:25:56,640
Speaker 3: The really.

460
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:05,919
Speaker 2: You never know when the the real dark moments are

461
00:26:05,960 --> 00:26:10,200
Speaker 2: going to come. They're always and so when I'm in

462
00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 2: that place and he's always, don't wipe the tears, let

463
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:19,840
Speaker 2: them fall into Ian's spirit bull and just taking the

464
00:26:19,960 --> 00:26:26,080
Speaker 2: idea of that and realizing, okay, you can, we're going

465
00:26:26,119 --> 00:26:27,280
Speaker 2: to create new memories.

466
00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:30,119
Speaker 3: Yeah, and we're going to create new memories.

467
00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 2: And so it just kind of was birthed out of that,

468
00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:43,359
Speaker 2: you know, just remembering them remembering something and creating that

469
00:26:43,480 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 2: something and creating a new memory. I've never heard somebody

470
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:54,199
Speaker 2: explain that that way. That's really beautiful. Oh well, I

471
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 2: don't think I've ever explained that that, you know, in depth.

472
00:26:59,520 --> 00:27:01,760
Speaker 2: You know, you'll fine, you know, when I'm talking, I

473
00:27:01,800 --> 00:27:06,680
Speaker 2: take a lot of pauses. I'm really always trying to

474
00:27:06,760 --> 00:27:13,399
Speaker 2: make sure I am saying exactly what I'm feeling. And also,

475
00:27:13,560 --> 00:27:18,240
Speaker 2: you know, we're in the culture that you know, we'll

476
00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:21,040
Speaker 2: do this whole podcast and then someone will take one

477
00:27:21,080 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: little thing, you know, and run with that. No, it's

478
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,840
Speaker 2: my I hate that I try to protect people because

479
00:27:27,840 --> 00:27:30,720
Speaker 2: I do appreciate when people come share their stories. Sometimes

480
00:27:30,720 --> 00:27:34,360
Speaker 2: they're vulnerable, sometimes they're whatever. Just and I know it's

481
00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 2: been good intent, you know. And then we try to

482
00:27:37,440 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 2: pull clips that reflect the truth about costs. Yeah, but

483
00:27:40,760 --> 00:27:45,440
Speaker 2: it's you can't control it anything. The universe andice out

484
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,640
Speaker 2: there for people to do whatever they want, I know

485
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:52,440
Speaker 2: to especially with some dirty ass earth, this dirty as earth.

486
00:27:53,560 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 2: We're just trying to make beautiful that have to do

487
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 2: beautiful things in this dirty as earth.

488
00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:03,879
Speaker 3: I'm taking that with you.

489
00:28:04,000 --> 00:28:05,320
Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, please.

490
00:28:08,240 --> 00:28:11,080
Speaker 3: It all right, let's do we have some in real

491
00:28:11,119 --> 00:28:11,719
Speaker 3: life questions?

492
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:16,240
Speaker 1: If you don't pay, can we bring in the wine?

493
00:28:16,720 --> 00:28:20,760
Speaker 2: Yes? Okay? And by the way, yes, I love that

494
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:23,720
Speaker 2: your show it's called in real life because that's also

495
00:28:24,000 --> 00:28:27,800
Speaker 2: part of me and you because we are so far

496
00:28:27,880 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 2: away from in real lifetime. You know, everything is here,

497
00:28:33,240 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 2: we're living we're literally living here. And so one thing

498
00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:41,959
Speaker 2: that wine does you have to slow down, you have

499
00:28:42,040 --> 00:28:47,120
Speaker 2: to have an actual connective moment. It encourages that, you know,

500
00:28:47,440 --> 00:28:50,080
Speaker 2: can we open the wine? Can we do it?

501
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:53,920
Speaker 3: So I feel like me and you and in real life.

502
00:28:54,080 --> 00:28:59,440
Speaker 2: It all all to its now you opening up my

503
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:01,600
Speaker 2: bottle of me and you. I'm gonna have to have

504
00:29:01,680 --> 00:29:05,360
Speaker 2: a little bit now. Just know I have not eaten,

505
00:29:05,440 --> 00:29:09,680
Speaker 2: so give me just a I love that and it

506
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:11,080
Speaker 2: tastes so good.

507
00:29:11,160 --> 00:29:12,560
Speaker 3: I know it's my one, but.

508
00:29:13,560 --> 00:29:15,000
Speaker 2: I want, I want to share something with you, and

509
00:29:15,200 --> 00:29:15,520
Speaker 2: we don't.

510
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,600
Speaker 1: It's tricky because I'm being so sensitive, but it's also

511
00:29:18,880 --> 00:29:21,080
Speaker 1: it's all my spirit is honest. I have a really

512
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:24,000
Speaker 1: good friend who had a very similar experience to yours,

513
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: and I've watched her very closely through it.

514
00:29:28,360 --> 00:29:29,440
Speaker 2: And how she navigates.

515
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:34,400
Speaker 1: And it's just something about the way that you tell

516
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,280
Speaker 1: this story and the purpose behind it, at least the

517
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,320
Speaker 1: way you shared it today. We were talking earlier about

518
00:29:39,320 --> 00:29:43,360
Speaker 1: how you're not sure if you are for your story

519
00:29:43,480 --> 00:29:48,440
Speaker 1: to help inspire land for other people. I think that's

520
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:49,240
Speaker 1: already happening.

521
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 2: You know.

522
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 3: That's a beautiful thing.

523
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying. I think, uh, because because

524
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:57,840
Speaker 2: you're as you're sharing that, I'm thinking.

525
00:29:57,600 --> 00:29:59,760
Speaker 3: Of her and that's my immediate thought.

526
00:29:59,800 --> 00:30:00,680
Speaker 2: But I'm sure.

527
00:30:02,360 --> 00:30:06,600
Speaker 1: You know wherever it lands for other people, that it's

528
00:30:06,680 --> 00:30:09,080
Speaker 1: just a I just think it's already happening, you.

529
00:30:09,000 --> 00:30:12,080
Speaker 3: Know what I mean, Well, if it is happening, and

530
00:30:12,160 --> 00:30:13,040
Speaker 3: that's a beautiful.

531
00:30:13,080 --> 00:30:14,880
Speaker 2: Why Why am I having such a hard time?

532
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,920
Speaker 3: Why is I think it needs to go in a

533
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:17,840
Speaker 3: little bit more?

534
00:30:18,160 --> 00:30:24,880
Speaker 2: Also, I'm exhausted. All right, we get it done. And

535
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:25,960
Speaker 2: by the way, me and You.

536
00:30:26,080 --> 00:30:27,720
Speaker 3: Is a phenomenal name.

537
00:30:27,960 --> 00:30:30,480
Speaker 2: I know, where did that come from? I mean, when

538
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 2: did you? Was this? Who thought of that? I was

539
00:30:34,360 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 2: having one of my moments of you know, I just

540
00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 2: don't know what to do. I just I'm because I'm

541
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 2: missing in so much, you know, And.

542
00:30:49,600 --> 00:30:53,320
Speaker 3: My man was saying, I said, I said me and you.

543
00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 2: I said something like that, and he said, he's always

544
00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,080
Speaker 2: with you. You just said his name. And I was like,

545
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:02,440
Speaker 2: what he said, every time you say me and you

546
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:06,800
Speaker 2: ends with you. And I was like, did you cry

547
00:31:06,880 --> 00:31:10,240
Speaker 2: like a baby when he said that, because well, the

548
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:17,880
Speaker 2: sad tears turned into I wouldn't even call it happy tears,

549
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:24,160
Speaker 2: but just kind of like yeah, just kind of like

550
00:31:24,200 --> 00:31:28,600
Speaker 2: an kind of like an aha moment type, you know.

551
00:31:29,480 --> 00:31:33,640
Speaker 2: And so he said that, and it wasn't like a

552
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:37,720
Speaker 2: year later that the idea came up for the wine

553
00:31:38,400 --> 00:31:41,680
Speaker 2: and I was like, it's got to be called me

554
00:31:41,720 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 2: and you you know, yeah, it's really because it's it's

555
00:31:46,160 --> 00:31:51,000
Speaker 2: me and my co he's you know, and when that

556
00:31:51,080 --> 00:31:53,360
Speaker 2: was our nickname, always co my coat.

557
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, the co.

558
00:31:56,240 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 2: Creator coll this cod oh, I don't think like a

559
00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:03,360
Speaker 2: cold like no, yeah yeah yeah, same thing. You know.

560
00:32:03,760 --> 00:32:08,960
Speaker 2: When he was doing a report for school and it

561
00:32:09,040 --> 00:32:12,440
Speaker 2: was on Explorers and he wanted to uh do it

562
00:32:12,520 --> 00:32:16,360
Speaker 2: on a black Explore, so he decided made Jamison and

563
00:32:16,440 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 2: so we were reading and they said she went on

564
00:32:18,640 --> 00:32:21,360
Speaker 2: a co mission with I think it was a Russian

565
00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,800
Speaker 2: space team, could be wrong, but he was like, co mission,

566
00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:28,040
Speaker 2: what was cold? And I was like, well, I kind

567
00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,760
Speaker 2: of explained what it meant. He was like kind of

568
00:32:30,800 --> 00:32:34,360
Speaker 2: like me and you, and I was like yeah. So

569
00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:37,360
Speaker 2: from that moment it was we've always been cosed and

570
00:32:37,360 --> 00:32:38,160
Speaker 2: we're still cold.

571
00:32:38,320 --> 00:32:41,240
Speaker 3: You will be forever forever, forever, never forever.

572
00:32:41,480 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 2: Yeah all right, mama, get in your uh can I

573
00:32:45,400 --> 00:32:46,440
Speaker 2: buy you some wine? Yeah?

574
00:32:47,240 --> 00:32:47,520
Speaker 3: Yes?

575
00:32:48,480 --> 00:32:53,120
Speaker 2: What's your go to self care ritual when you you know,

576
00:32:53,320 --> 00:32:57,320
Speaker 2: my glasses in want now when you're burned out?

577
00:32:58,280 --> 00:33:02,440
Speaker 3: Oh wow, my goat. There's a lot of different things.

578
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:08,880
Speaker 2: A facial is something about getting a facial, yes, yes, yes,

579
00:33:10,120 --> 00:33:15,600
Speaker 2: in swimming really swimming. Yeah, yeah, it's good for you

580
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,520
Speaker 2: both for your arms, your arms, shoulder, and then also

581
00:33:18,640 --> 00:33:22,440
Speaker 2: just floating, feeling as close to weightlessness as possible.

582
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:24,440
Speaker 1: These are in real life questions you could pass or

583
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:26,800
Speaker 1: you could tell me whatever you like in real life.

584
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:31,120
Speaker 3: What is one thing you no longer apologize for?

585
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:37,280
Speaker 2: Hmmm? I still that's one place I need to work on.

586
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:40,800
Speaker 2: I still say I'm sorry you do. I do so

587
00:33:40,920 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 2: of character I didn't know I know about that life. Yeah,

588
00:33:48,320 --> 00:33:55,360
Speaker 2: I'm not. I don't as much as I used to,

589
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:57,640
Speaker 2: but I do still.

590
00:33:57,640 --> 00:33:59,840
Speaker 3: In real life, I am at my best when.

591
00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:09,640
Speaker 2: Hmmm, Angie, I'm still trying to figure that out. Really, Yeah, yeah,

592
00:34:10,880 --> 00:34:15,719
Speaker 2: that is a hard one. Would you say, what's mine? Honestly?

593
00:34:15,800 --> 00:34:17,879
Speaker 1: I think it's what we're kind of what we're talking

594
00:34:17,880 --> 00:34:22,120
Speaker 1: about before, Like I'm like you, I talk shit like

595
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:24,400
Speaker 1: I don't care, but yeah we care, Like we say sorry,

596
00:34:24,400 --> 00:34:24,960
Speaker 1: we feel.

597
00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:26,279
Speaker 3: Bad if we heard somebody's feelings.

598
00:34:26,400 --> 00:34:28,560
Speaker 2: But I'm really starting to.

599
00:34:30,000 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 1: Transition into a space where like, I don't feel bad

600
00:34:33,400 --> 00:34:35,800
Speaker 1: because I know I'm a good person person, right, I

601
00:34:36,040 --> 00:34:39,120
Speaker 1: know I'm a nice person. You're so what is best

602
00:34:39,120 --> 00:34:43,120
Speaker 1: for me offends you? I'm okay with that.

603
00:34:43,400 --> 00:34:50,319
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, yeah you know what? No, I love that

604
00:34:50,560 --> 00:34:54,759
Speaker 2: have there's this woman on Instagram because, like I said,

605
00:34:54,800 --> 00:34:57,520
Speaker 2: I'm just getting back on it, and I'm so happy

606
00:34:57,560 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 2: that she popped up on my feet because that how

607
00:34:59,520 --> 00:35:03,560
Speaker 2: I follow her w d C we oh yeah, you

608
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:05,920
Speaker 2: don't do not care? Do not care? And that was

609
00:35:05,960 --> 00:35:09,280
Speaker 2: one of the things she said, we do not Yeah, yeah, yeah,

610
00:35:09,480 --> 00:35:11,680
Speaker 2: well I want to be a mayor member.

611
00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:14,400
Speaker 3: But she says that in one of her things, we no.

612
00:35:14,280 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 2: Longer care about.

613
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:17,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, I no longer care about.

614
00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: Uh.

615
00:35:18,080 --> 00:35:21,400
Speaker 2: If your feelings are hurt, that's that's that's not our problem.

616
00:35:21,520 --> 00:35:26,440
Speaker 2: That's there. Yes, Yeah, it's a good feeling.

617
00:35:26,520 --> 00:35:28,480
Speaker 1: And I think I'm at my best when I'm operating

618
00:35:28,719 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: that day because I do my instincts are good, So

619
00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:33,160
Speaker 1: I am going to do good by right by.

620
00:35:33,120 --> 00:35:34,240
Speaker 3: People just naturally.

621
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,440
Speaker 1: So if I'm always like trying to pivot to make

622
00:35:36,480 --> 00:35:38,640
Speaker 1: people happy as opposed to just doing what I believe

623
00:35:38,760 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: is like the right thing to do, and sometimes it

624
00:35:40,680 --> 00:35:42,759
Speaker 1: sols you down, and I don't know, maybe all the

625
00:35:42,800 --> 00:35:45,160
Speaker 1: times it's a good answer. But that's definitely one thing

626
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: that's like the first thing.

627
00:35:46,040 --> 00:35:49,680
Speaker 2: That came to me. Yeah, that I'm still trying to

628
00:35:49,680 --> 00:35:51,759
Speaker 2: figure out what my answer is really Maybe we maybe

629
00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 2: we'll come back to it.

630
00:35:52,719 --> 00:35:55,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're in a weird season of your life. I

631
00:35:55,440 --> 00:35:57,360
Speaker 1: am you may have had an answer.

632
00:35:57,200 --> 00:35:59,960
Speaker 2: To that before. I'm I'm pretty sure I would have

633
00:36:00,080 --> 00:36:03,759
Speaker 2: that into that before, probably quit. You're trying to get

634
00:36:03,760 --> 00:36:04,240
Speaker 2: through today.

635
00:36:04,400 --> 00:36:07,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I totally get that.

636
00:36:08,680 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 1: Okay, Lately in real life, lately, I've been reminding myself

637
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:14,360
Speaker 1: that is there anything that you have to remind yourself

638
00:36:14,400 --> 00:36:14,920
Speaker 1: of lately?

639
00:36:20,440 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 2: M I love how thoughtful you are. Right there was like, yeah,

640
00:36:27,120 --> 00:36:32,680
Speaker 2: maybe no, not that one, because I was going to say, lately,

641
00:36:33,200 --> 00:36:37,360
Speaker 2: I've been reminding myself that I'm beautiful.

642
00:36:40,280 --> 00:36:41,480
Speaker 3: Because I think I have not.

643
00:36:42,239 --> 00:36:45,920
Speaker 2: I'm just kind of getting back to looking in the

644
00:36:45,960 --> 00:36:49,960
Speaker 2: mirror more and you know, you know what I mean,

645
00:36:50,000 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 2: Like there's one way you know, you're looking and marry

646
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:56,480
Speaker 2: and just doing your hair, you're not really looking at yourself.

647
00:36:59,040 --> 00:36:59,839
Speaker 3: So I think that that.

648
00:36:59,880 --> 00:37:07,200
Speaker 2: Is is that's interesting. Yeah, we're not not reminded that

649
00:37:07,200 --> 00:37:11,400
Speaker 2: that I reminding myself that I think I'm beautiful, not

650
00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:18,560
Speaker 2: the validation from outward, but that I'm beautiful. And I

651
00:37:18,640 --> 00:37:20,720
Speaker 2: know that's the reason why I kind of like was thinking,

652
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 2: like should I say that?

653
00:37:21,760 --> 00:37:34,560
Speaker 3: But yeah, that's okay. Yeah, yeah, it's my ship totally allowed.

654
00:37:37,800 --> 00:37:42,680
Speaker 2: Mm hmm. Not sure about that one. Well, because you know, yeah,

655
00:37:43,080 --> 00:37:48,080
Speaker 2: well then go to the next one. She said, no,

656
00:37:49,600 --> 00:37:51,719
Speaker 2: leave that one alone from Miss Regina over here. But

657
00:37:51,840 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 2: thank you.

658
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:55,760
Speaker 3: I appreciate for looking out for your sister.

659
00:37:55,960 --> 00:38:01,680
Speaker 2: Well listen, we're all we're all just here trying to

660
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:04,000
Speaker 2: figure it out, trying to figure it out.

661
00:38:04,120 --> 00:38:07,040
Speaker 1: Everybody's trying to figure out something. Well, you're figuring out.

662
00:38:07,080 --> 00:38:10,319
Speaker 1: It's probably way heavier than anybody in this room maybe

663
00:38:10,360 --> 00:38:13,200
Speaker 1: can understand, but everybody in the room's trying to figure.

664
00:38:12,960 --> 00:38:15,560
Speaker 2: Out something, right. You know what is interesting that you

665
00:38:15,600 --> 00:38:19,520
Speaker 2: said that. That's something that I've remind myself. I'm glad

666
00:38:19,560 --> 00:38:23,680
Speaker 2: you said that that somebody else they got some shit too,

667
00:38:24,280 --> 00:38:24,879
Speaker 2: you know what I mean.

668
00:38:24,960 --> 00:38:28,359
Speaker 3: Like sometimes we're like, oh, you know, like.

669
00:38:31,040 --> 00:38:36,839
Speaker 2: She said that snappy, or he has a old friend,

670
00:38:36,920 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 2: he wasn't very ring. You don't know what someone's story

671
00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 2: is or what just that day served for them, you

672
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:48,680
Speaker 2: know what I mean. So I remind myself of that often, like,

673
00:38:49,520 --> 00:38:51,120
Speaker 2: you know what, that's not my shit.

674
00:38:51,239 --> 00:38:54,560
Speaker 3: Don't take that on, you know, keep it pushing, you

675
00:38:54,600 --> 00:38:57,560
Speaker 3: know what I mean. So I don't I think I.

676
00:38:57,840 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 2: Used to be more quick to you know, let a

677
00:39:00,360 --> 00:39:05,840
Speaker 2: motherfucker out, you know, about themselves. You know that to

678
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:11,719
Speaker 2: have the sensitivity of everybody's got story. Everybody's dealing with

679
00:39:11,760 --> 00:39:15,560
Speaker 2: some shit. It seems like now more than ever. Honestly, Well,

680
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:19,960
Speaker 2: we're we're in a real interesting time. Yeah, like we're

681
00:39:20,120 --> 00:39:26,040
Speaker 2: just everything feels dystopian, Like what did he say? What

682
00:39:26,080 --> 00:39:29,919
Speaker 2: was the quote? This dirt? Well, yeah, this dirty ass?

683
00:39:30,000 --> 00:39:34,680
Speaker 2: Or what about what about the other side of the

684
00:39:34,680 --> 00:39:39,280
Speaker 2: dirty ass? Like what what do you see?

685
00:39:39,800 --> 00:39:41,720
Speaker 3: What do you have hope? And what do you see beauty?

686
00:39:41,760 --> 00:39:44,640
Speaker 2: And like what is what is the other side of that? Well?

687
00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,560
Speaker 3: I really appreciate my.

688
00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: Relationships, you know. I see the beauty in how we

689
00:39:58,680 --> 00:40:04,000
Speaker 2: care for each other, in all of those relationships, you know,

690
00:40:05,440 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 2: and the beauty in that, you know, I have people

691
00:40:09,239 --> 00:40:11,000
Speaker 2: on my team that have been on my team for

692
00:40:11,080 --> 00:40:12,360
Speaker 2: thirty years. Wow.

693
00:40:12,400 --> 00:40:15,320
Speaker 3: You know a lot of people in this business don't

694
00:40:15,360 --> 00:40:20,560
Speaker 3: have that, you know. You know, my mom's eighty one,

695
00:40:21,440 --> 00:40:21,719
Speaker 3: you know.

696
00:40:21,960 --> 00:40:24,279
Speaker 2: And she you know, she's you know, losing some of

697
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:30,080
Speaker 2: her independence and appreciating that my sister and I are

698
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:37,759
Speaker 2: able to be there. I appreciate my sister, my stepsister,

699
00:40:37,880 --> 00:40:41,799
Speaker 2: but my mom is in Cincinnati, and she looks out,

700
00:40:42,080 --> 00:40:46,279
Speaker 2: you know, for my mom, like she's her mom. She

701
00:40:46,440 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 2: is her mom, and that's our sister. So again appreciating

702
00:40:52,000 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 2: I see. Another question was what do I see hope in?

703
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:02,919
Speaker 2: But I do feel like that that connects some way too. Yeah,

704
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 2: the world is not it's not old dirt. It's not

705
00:41:05,719 --> 00:41:07,879
Speaker 2: all dirt. Yeah, it's not old dirt. Yeah.

706
00:41:08,120 --> 00:41:10,000
Speaker 3: How often do you think about your legacy?

707
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,759
Speaker 2: I don't know that I think about it really at all,

708
00:41:12,840 --> 00:41:17,160
Speaker 2: because if I'm not here, you know, so I don't

709
00:41:17,160 --> 00:41:20,839
Speaker 2: really think about it. You know, people don't say them

710
00:41:21,239 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 2: what they think anyway, you know, what they what this

711
00:41:24,600 --> 00:41:26,640
Speaker 2: person remembers me for him, it's going to be different

712
00:41:26,640 --> 00:41:28,799
Speaker 2: than what this person remembers me from. So no, I

713
00:41:28,800 --> 00:41:32,560
Speaker 2: don't really think about it. I'm really when I tell you,

714
00:41:32,600 --> 00:41:37,440
Speaker 2: I am in the moment. I'm in the moment. I

715
00:41:37,480 --> 00:41:41,040
Speaker 2: never thought i'd be a wine maker. Never yet here

716
00:41:41,080 --> 00:41:43,760
Speaker 2: we are, by the way, we haven't even yeah, cheers.

717
00:41:43,880 --> 00:41:45,239
Speaker 2: What do I need to know about this wine? So

718
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:51,000
Speaker 2: lou Well, smell the nose first, that's pretty. I don't

719
00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:51,200
Speaker 2: know that.

720
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:52,920
Speaker 3: I know the orange wine is a thing I have

721
00:41:53,000 --> 00:41:54,799
Speaker 3: none never Yeah, my first orange one.

722
00:41:54,760 --> 00:42:02,879
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's really good. Oh, that's really good. How much

723
00:42:02,920 --> 00:42:04,799
Speaker 1: of them are you drinking this often? Is this every

724
00:42:04,840 --> 00:42:05,200
Speaker 1: day thing?

725
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:09,080
Speaker 2: Well? She said, well, I'd like for it to be,

726
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:14,520
Speaker 2: but no, you know this right man, I'll get the sweats.

727
00:42:15,680 --> 00:42:20,239
Speaker 2: He's not taking my gosh. I had Adrian, Adrian here

728
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:23,240
Speaker 2: the other day, she had she was having a sweat

729
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,239
Speaker 2: moment here right here in the chair. Yeah, and she

730
00:42:25,320 --> 00:42:29,600
Speaker 2: shared with us in real time. Yes, that sweat was Yeah,

731
00:42:29,640 --> 00:42:31,759
Speaker 2: it was a real I get. It's not I get

732
00:42:31,760 --> 00:42:34,680
Speaker 2: the nice if I drink too much, you get to

733
00:42:34,719 --> 00:42:35,680
Speaker 2: not get the night sweat.

734
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:36,799
Speaker 3: I get the nights.

735
00:42:36,960 --> 00:42:38,920
Speaker 2: How are you managing that season of life and that

736
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 2: all of that?

737
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:44,120
Speaker 3: You know, it's really really really.

738
00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 2: Interesting because I'm grateful that we are. Oh this is

739
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 2: my whole thing. There is hope for me because that

740
00:42:55,239 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 2: women will the next generation of women and when they

741
00:43:01,560 --> 00:43:07,640
Speaker 2: walk into this stage of life, it won't feel so

742
00:43:07,640 --> 00:43:10,799
Speaker 2: so brought the hell like and scary like what is

743
00:43:10,840 --> 00:43:17,839
Speaker 2: my body doing? Because we're talking about it. Yeah, you know,

744
00:43:18,000 --> 00:43:22,160
Speaker 2: thank you just being Melanie, you know, thank you Ali

745
00:43:22,239 --> 00:43:28,440
Speaker 2: Barry for sure, because you know, at first, for me,

746
00:43:28,800 --> 00:43:33,200
Speaker 2: my body really just like shut down, and there's something

747
00:43:33,440 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 2: really to have this loss that I have while.

748
00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:39,640
Speaker 3: I'm going through menopause.

749
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:49,920
Speaker 2: It is you think you're losing your mind, you know,

750
00:43:50,320 --> 00:43:57,799
Speaker 2: and just just talk to other women and you're not

751
00:43:57,960 --> 00:43:59,759
Speaker 2: losing your mind, you know?

752
00:44:00,080 --> 00:44:01,960
Speaker 3: Do you how do you describe it?

753
00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:03,799
Speaker 2: How do you explain it? Or how did was it

754
00:44:03,840 --> 00:44:08,040
Speaker 2: explained to you that maybe helped you deal my gnacologists,

755
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 2: you know, doctor Lantre is just such. She just was

756
00:44:15,360 --> 00:44:21,760
Speaker 2: keen to that I am this age and she's actually

757
00:44:21,800 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 2: the one that said to me, it is cruel that

758
00:44:27,360 --> 00:44:31,880
Speaker 2: this is happening to you right now, and I need

759
00:44:31,880 --> 00:44:39,680
Speaker 2: you to know that whatever comes out of you, you

760
00:44:39,840 --> 00:44:45,319
Speaker 2: are one thousand percent allowed to have that. Yes, you know,

761
00:44:45,760 --> 00:44:51,919
Speaker 2: and it's okay, and it's actually normal, even though none

762
00:44:51,960 --> 00:45:02,000
Speaker 2: of it feels normal. And I think just her identifying

763
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:08,920
Speaker 2: that for me, you know, like just your your emotions

764
00:45:08,960 --> 00:45:15,400
Speaker 2: being just all over the place, and how why can't

765
00:45:15,400 --> 00:45:20,480
Speaker 2: I control, you know, and being a person that needs

766
00:45:20,520 --> 00:45:24,520
Speaker 2: to be in control and not being in control, and

767
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:39,400
Speaker 2: and and having this whole inside it's I'll tell you,

768
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,440
Speaker 2: which would definitely.

769
00:45:42,719 --> 00:45:43,120
Speaker 3: Helped me.

770
00:45:44,280 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 2: I started, just like three months ago, started hormone replacement therapy. Yeah,

771
00:45:53,880 --> 00:45:57,120
Speaker 2: because I don't it wasn't. I was not in a

772
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:01,560
Speaker 2: good place at all. And it was doctors that I had.

773
00:46:01,640 --> 00:46:08,120
Speaker 2: I had actually like two good girlfriends of mine, and

774
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:11,560
Speaker 2: they don't know each other, both saw what I was

775
00:46:11,600 --> 00:46:16,279
Speaker 2: going through physically, and both of them had done it.

776
00:46:16,560 --> 00:46:21,040
Speaker 2: And they're women that you know, like some of your friends,

777
00:46:21,040 --> 00:46:26,840
Speaker 2: they might like, yeah, I trusted them, and both of

778
00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:31,360
Speaker 2: them had suggested that I tried, and I actually saw

779
00:46:31,800 --> 00:46:36,239
Speaker 2: one of them. I saw how she came back, Like

780
00:46:36,680 --> 00:46:42,400
Speaker 2: I saw what Melicent was like, you know, before hitting menopause,

781
00:46:42,840 --> 00:46:45,960
Speaker 2: and then was with her going through it, and then

782
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:51,359
Speaker 2: saw her get her everything kind of back, you know,

783
00:46:51,800 --> 00:46:54,359
Speaker 2: and so I was like, oh, and then I saw

784
00:46:54,400 --> 00:46:58,239
Speaker 2: the same thing with Loretta, and so then I and

785
00:46:58,280 --> 00:47:01,400
Speaker 2: then my trainer he was like, because I'm trying to

786
00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:04,240
Speaker 2: go to the gym and Angie, I can't. I couldn't

787
00:47:04,280 --> 00:47:09,319
Speaker 2: fucking touch my toes and it was so like what

788
00:47:09,440 --> 00:47:12,879
Speaker 2: is going on? You know, and miss in the midst

789
00:47:12,960 --> 00:47:16,120
Speaker 2: of everything else, and so he was like, reaching up,

790
00:47:16,880 --> 00:47:24,200
Speaker 2: I really think you should consider checking out hormone replacement therapy.

791
00:47:24,719 --> 00:47:26,360
Speaker 2: And I was like, you know, you know, two of

792
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:28,960
Speaker 2: my girlfriends said that. I said, Okay, I'm gonna talk

793
00:47:29,000 --> 00:47:32,000
Speaker 2: to my doctor and she was like, apps, absolutely, I

794
00:47:32,040 --> 00:47:37,720
Speaker 2: would suggest it for you. And after like the first

795
00:47:37,760 --> 00:47:43,479
Speaker 2: three weeks, I started I didn't realize that my body

796
00:47:43,480 --> 00:47:47,920
Speaker 2: because I'm such an athletic person, I'm I depend on

797
00:47:48,000 --> 00:47:50,239
Speaker 2: my body for everything. I mean, we all do. But

798
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:52,640
Speaker 2: you know, when you're a really athletic person and you're

799
00:47:52,680 --> 00:47:55,239
Speaker 2: going and all the time, and now your body's like

800
00:47:56,000 --> 00:47:58,080
Speaker 2: you feel like you're eighty years old just getting out

801
00:47:58,080 --> 00:48:01,000
Speaker 2: of fucking bed, you know what I mean. That's not no,

802
00:48:01,080 --> 00:48:01,840
Speaker 2: it's not okay.

803
00:48:02,040 --> 00:48:03,279
Speaker 1: And so.

804
00:48:06,160 --> 00:48:11,200
Speaker 2: In like three weeks, I started feeling, all right, Okay,

805
00:48:11,400 --> 00:48:15,760
Speaker 2: I can touch my toes again. Now I'm looking forward

806
00:48:15,760 --> 00:48:18,840
Speaker 2: to going to the gym. You know, body starts feeling.

807
00:48:18,960 --> 00:48:23,239
Speaker 2: My body started feeling, you know, like every like to

808
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:29,480
Speaker 2: just do simple things like just picking up. So it

809
00:48:29,560 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 2: was just crazy. It was like I was like I

810
00:48:31,960 --> 00:48:37,279
Speaker 2: was in someone else's body. It just was kind of

811
00:48:37,320 --> 00:48:40,120
Speaker 2: mind blowing. And no one prepares you for that. No

812
00:48:40,160 --> 00:48:43,440
Speaker 2: one tells you your body is gonna say fuck you.

813
00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:47,759
Speaker 2: Because maybe the next woman, maybe that's not her experience.

814
00:48:47,800 --> 00:48:50,239
Speaker 3: Her experience might be something else, you know, hers might

815
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:51,320
Speaker 3: be more brain fog.

816
00:48:51,600 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 2: You know, there's probably nobody that definitely prepares you for

817
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:57,200
Speaker 2: the level.

818
00:48:57,840 --> 00:49:01,239
Speaker 1: Just the whole thing at the same time, and the menopause.

819
00:49:02,000 --> 00:49:03,520
Speaker 2: There is no blueprint, is there.

820
00:49:03,400 --> 00:49:06,759
Speaker 3: Like a book, is like a pamphlet, nothing like how

821
00:49:06,920 --> 00:49:07,200
Speaker 3: none of it?

822
00:49:07,280 --> 00:49:10,640
Speaker 2: How do you manage that? But I will say that

823
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:15,359
Speaker 2: the placement definitely, thank God, definitely thank God.

824
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:18,279
Speaker 3: No, really literally, thank god?

825
00:49:18,400 --> 00:49:19,279
Speaker 2: How could you? Yeah?

826
00:49:19,360 --> 00:49:19,799
Speaker 3: How could you?

827
00:49:19,840 --> 00:49:20,320
Speaker 2: Possibly?

828
00:49:21,280 --> 00:49:23,600
Speaker 1: It's like when you're going through anything, it's like sorting.

829
00:49:24,000 --> 00:49:25,759
Speaker 1: For me, whenever I'm like going through anything, it's like

830
00:49:26,239 --> 00:49:28,400
Speaker 1: sorting through it so I can identify it, so I

831
00:49:28,400 --> 00:49:29,200
Speaker 1: could manage it.

832
00:49:29,280 --> 00:49:34,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, because yeah, but when I can't identify something and

833
00:49:34,120 --> 00:49:34,959
Speaker 3: it starts eating at.

834
00:49:34,880 --> 00:49:36,839
Speaker 2: You, and even anxiety is all that.

835
00:49:37,120 --> 00:49:38,960
Speaker 1: I can't imagine being in the world of those two

836
00:49:39,040 --> 00:49:42,520
Speaker 1: things colliding. Yeah, and then you can't even identify what

837
00:49:42,719 --> 00:49:43,480
Speaker 1: is attributed to this?

838
00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:44,520
Speaker 4: Is that?

839
00:49:44,840 --> 00:49:53,160
Speaker 2: Yeah? Girl? Yeah? Girl, you are a superhero in a warrior. No, really,

840
00:49:53,880 --> 00:49:56,160
Speaker 2: you are a warrior for sure. For sure.

841
00:49:56,760 --> 00:49:58,600
Speaker 3: I mean I think you probably always have been a

842
00:49:58,600 --> 00:50:00,160
Speaker 3: warrior to some ext it.

843
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:05,600
Speaker 2: Definitely, if not in this life and other lies, I

844
00:50:05,800 --> 00:50:13,960
Speaker 2: was some fierce something had to be man, Well, we

845
00:50:14,000 --> 00:50:17,759
Speaker 2: love you. You inspire all of us. Yeah, you're just

846
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 2: you are a warrior?

847
00:50:19,160 --> 00:50:21,440
Speaker 3: What is I asked this in real life we can

848
00:50:21,480 --> 00:50:21,880
Speaker 3: go out with this.

849
00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:24,480
Speaker 2: It's like I told you, like the purpose of this podcast,

850
00:50:24,560 --> 00:50:26,200
Speaker 2: I wonder for you, what do you think?

851
00:50:27,239 --> 00:50:29,120
Speaker 1: Maybe you don't think about it now, especially because now

852
00:50:29,160 --> 00:50:30,799
Speaker 1: you're just trying to be in the moment, But like,

853
00:50:31,680 --> 00:50:33,880
Speaker 1: what do you hope people take from you? Like you

854
00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:35,400
Speaker 1: don't know what you're a legacy, But what do you

855
00:50:35,480 --> 00:50:39,000
Speaker 1: hope your life or your story, the work you do,

856
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,120
Speaker 1: how do you hope that lands in the world or

857
00:50:41,800 --> 00:50:42,600
Speaker 1: affects people.

858
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:47,600
Speaker 2: I just hope that it lands Honestly, you know that

859
00:50:50,280 --> 00:50:54,520
Speaker 2: even with the makeup they're you know, mabeling going on here.

860
00:50:54,719 --> 00:50:55,480
Speaker 3: You know what I mean that.

861
00:50:59,040 --> 00:51:04,000
Speaker 2: I'm just hoping lands is truth. You know, that's all

862
00:51:04,040 --> 00:51:05,200
Speaker 2: we got. That's all we got.

863
00:51:05,840 --> 00:51:07,680
Speaker 3: So all we got me and you me.

864
00:51:09,480 --> 00:51:12,719
Speaker 2: Thank you, thank you, thank you we doing it. I

865
00:51:12,760 --> 00:51:16,840
Speaker 2: didn't cry at all, so I am. Yeah, I was.

866
00:51:16,920 --> 00:51:18,920
Speaker 1: I also I didn't. I didn't want it to be

867
00:51:18,960 --> 00:51:20,759
Speaker 1: the I didn't want to be Yeah, no reason for

868
00:51:20,800 --> 00:51:24,960
Speaker 1: you to cry so well, I mean I didn't want

869
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:26,799
Speaker 1: to take you down a road that I cry every

870
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:27,319
Speaker 1: single day?

871
00:51:27,360 --> 00:51:33,040
Speaker 2: You do? Yeah, still, you know every day and sometimes

872
00:51:33,040 --> 00:51:36,000
Speaker 2: it's the you know, the tears literally turned into a

873
00:51:36,239 --> 00:51:39,680
Speaker 2: happy tear, you know what I mean? Like, yeah, happy

874
00:51:39,719 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 2: and sad are always happening. That a little this is

875
00:51:47,480 --> 00:51:51,000
Speaker 2: yemmy though, I'm gonna drink buying, you know. Yeah, I'm

876
00:51:51,040 --> 00:51:56,680
Speaker 2: glad you like it. You know. It's like a sparkling no,

877
00:51:56,760 --> 00:51:59,320
Speaker 2: but a little effervescence in it.

878
00:51:59,400 --> 00:52:01,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, it does a little efforves stuff.

879
00:52:01,160 --> 00:52:04,680
Speaker 2: It's giving like prosecco a little. I love it. I

880
00:52:04,719 --> 00:52:09,040
Speaker 2: was beautiful. I'll just be trying to follow you. I

881
00:52:09,120 --> 00:52:09,759
Speaker 2: appreciate you.

882
00:52:09,960 --> 00:52:13,520
Speaker 3: I'm so excited that she girl, only did you direct?

883
00:52:13,560 --> 00:52:14,160
Speaker 2: You wrote?

884
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:15,360
Speaker 3: I wrote it.

885
00:52:15,360 --> 00:52:16,200
Speaker 2: It's my story.

886
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,839
Speaker 1: But thank God because this is what I learned. First

887
00:52:18,840 --> 00:52:20,919
Speaker 1: of all, it kicked my fucking ass the first day,

888
00:52:21,040 --> 00:52:24,880
Speaker 1: like we started an hour late because I couldn't I

889
00:52:24,880 --> 00:52:26,160
Speaker 1: couldn't get the casts because of war.

890
00:52:26,480 --> 00:52:31,640
Speaker 2: I just I was, oh no, soAnd most of the

891
00:52:31,640 --> 00:52:35,720
Speaker 2: filmmaking is that is that solving me problems? Okay?

892
00:52:35,760 --> 00:52:38,960
Speaker 1: But I thought to myself, God really put me in

893
00:52:39,160 --> 00:52:41,960
Speaker 1: the way I was supposed to because it's my story

894
00:52:42,000 --> 00:52:42,560
Speaker 1: to fuck up.

895
00:52:43,200 --> 00:52:45,960
Speaker 3: But if this was somebody else's baby and it was in.

896
00:52:45,960 --> 00:52:48,439
Speaker 1: My hands, it would have I would have I would

897
00:52:48,440 --> 00:52:51,520
Speaker 1: have folded, or if it was a big budget a

898
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:53,480
Speaker 1: lot of money, I would have wit.

899
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:57,200
Speaker 2: I would have freaked out. I think, so yeah, yeah,

900
00:52:57,320 --> 00:53:00,160
Speaker 2: yeah you don't think now you you would have had

901
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,040
Speaker 2: a little freak out moment on your own.

902
00:53:02,440 --> 00:53:03,760
Speaker 3: You're not a freakout or though.

903
00:53:04,640 --> 00:53:07,320
Speaker 1: No, but like I don't know, just it made whatever

904
00:53:07,440 --> 00:53:10,399
Speaker 1: was already hard. It made a hard, really hard thing

905
00:53:10,480 --> 00:53:10,839
Speaker 1: to do.

906
00:53:11,640 --> 00:53:15,520
Speaker 2: Take away the pressure some of the pressure because it's

907
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 2: mine to fuck up.

908
00:53:16,560 --> 00:53:19,720
Speaker 1: It's my story. So it's funny because the night before

909
00:53:20,760 --> 00:53:22,440
Speaker 1: I went to this event, I saw a Spiked there

910
00:53:23,160 --> 00:53:25,560
Speaker 1: and I said. Spike came over and said, and I

911
00:53:25,600 --> 00:53:27,239
Speaker 1: was like, I'm gonna tell you this on Monday. I'm

912
00:53:27,239 --> 00:53:28,839
Speaker 1: shoot my first SWILM because you just give me two words.

913
00:53:28,880 --> 00:53:30,560
Speaker 1: I just want something, and he goes.

914
00:53:30,800 --> 00:53:34,200
Speaker 2: Tell your story. And that was all I needed.

915
00:53:34,160 --> 00:53:36,880
Speaker 1: Because ultimately I might not know the exact lens I

916
00:53:36,920 --> 00:53:39,440
Speaker 1: need for this right now. I might not know if

917
00:53:39,480 --> 00:53:42,960
Speaker 1: we have the transition all the way, But what I

918
00:53:43,000 --> 00:53:44,200
Speaker 1: know is the story story.

919
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I know the story bete anybody else.

920
00:53:46,920 --> 00:53:50,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, And so that gave me the confidence to be

921
00:53:50,200 --> 00:53:52,120
Speaker 1: able to tell my story even if I didn't have

922
00:53:52,239 --> 00:53:55,799
Speaker 1: all the tools in place to. You know, I think

923
00:53:56,000 --> 00:53:58,200
Speaker 1: sometimes we're afraid to do things because we don't have

924
00:53:58,320 --> 00:54:01,600
Speaker 1: all the tools yet. So we won't jump out the

925
00:54:01,600 --> 00:54:04,480
Speaker 1: window and do something out of our comfort zone if

926
00:54:04,480 --> 00:54:04,880
Speaker 1: we don't.

927
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,279
Speaker 3: Think we're gonna kill it or we're bread. Yeah, it

928
00:54:07,360 --> 00:54:08,600
Speaker 3: has stopped me all the time.

929
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:12,120
Speaker 2: Oh no, that's someone had asked me a question about that,

930
00:54:12,160 --> 00:54:14,880
Speaker 2: and I said, I don't do things that I feel

931
00:54:14,880 --> 00:54:18,320
Speaker 2: like I'm not gonna win, right, I want, I'm.

932
00:54:18,200 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: Not gonna play the game. I don't you kind of

933
00:54:21,280 --> 00:54:25,359
Speaker 1: still feel that, I tell you. We also I wanted something.

934
00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:27,240
Speaker 1: I wanted to do it. I just was never gonna

935
00:54:27,360 --> 00:54:28,880
Speaker 1: I just had to jump in. It's like jumping in

936
00:54:28,880 --> 00:54:30,319
Speaker 1: the pool. You got to jump in the pool at

937
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:31,440
Speaker 1: some point and like it.

938
00:54:31,520 --> 00:54:34,279
Speaker 2: So and yeah, because you know that that lag is

939
00:54:34,320 --> 00:54:37,120
Speaker 2: close enough, I'm not gonna drown because but I can't

940
00:54:37,160 --> 00:54:41,080
Speaker 2: imagine you on set, you're first directing a movie that

941
00:54:41,200 --> 00:54:43,080
Speaker 2: budget network.

942
00:54:43,160 --> 00:54:47,200
Speaker 1: I mean, I still get nervous. Lots of high stakes. Yeah,

943
00:54:47,400 --> 00:54:50,080
Speaker 1: you know, I'm playing a little spades game at the house.

944
00:54:50,480 --> 00:54:54,040
Speaker 2: You're playing like at a casino with millions of dollars

945
00:54:54,080 --> 00:54:57,239
Speaker 2: on the table. It's a different thing. Yeah, but it's

946
00:54:57,360 --> 00:55:00,520
Speaker 2: all high stakes because it's you. You're putting yourself out there.

947
00:55:02,320 --> 00:55:03,400
Speaker 2: It's all steaks.

948
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,360
Speaker 1: What do you say to somebody who is afraid to

949
00:55:06,400 --> 00:55:09,040
Speaker 1: put themselves out there? What do you say to yourself

950
00:55:09,080 --> 00:55:11,239
Speaker 1: or to somebody who needs to hear that right now,

951
00:55:11,320 --> 00:55:12,120
Speaker 1: let's leave them with that.

952
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:25,160
Speaker 2: I would say that you're being your own obstacle because

953
00:55:25,239 --> 00:55:30,120
Speaker 2: you if you don't step out, you're gonna miss all

954
00:55:30,480 --> 00:55:35,520
Speaker 2: that heavenly glory in the great words of Bruce Lee.

955
00:55:35,600 --> 00:55:37,000
Speaker 3: If it's something like that, I'm.

956
00:55:38,040 --> 00:55:43,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah that, and we'll take dirty ass or dirty

957
00:55:43,440 --> 00:55:48,800
Speaker 4: ass Virgina King in real life.

958
00:55:49,560 --> 00:55:52,360
Speaker 3: This is Virgina King in real life.

959
00:55:52,600 --> 00:55:56,120
Speaker 1: For more episodes, you know to dude, subscribe like comments,

960
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,719
Speaker 1: will see you on the next IRL podcast

961
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Speaker 2: And